1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:03,960 Speaker 1: All right time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if 2 00:00:03,960 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:12,400 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com 4 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 5 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 1: letter life on the air, just like we're gonna read 6 00:00:21,880 --> 00:00:23,919 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now. That's for you, Jay, 7 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:26,599 Speaker 1: Buggle up and hold on tight. We got it for 8 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 1: you here. It is the Strawberry Letter subject he assumed 9 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 1: I was stupid. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm thirty four years 10 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:39,319 Speaker 1: old and I was dating a guy that's thirty two 11 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 1: years old, and we broke up because he said I 12 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 1: am not a team player. A week ago, he had 13 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:47,520 Speaker 1: to put his car in the shop and he asked 14 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 1: if I could pick him up from the repair shop. 15 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 1: I went by to get him and he said his 16 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 1: car would be ready in a week. I had planned 17 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:56,280 Speaker 1: to drop him off at home and go to dinner 18 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 1: with my coworker. I got to his house and went 19 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 1: in to use a bathroom. I noticed he was in 20 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:05,040 Speaker 1: his closet and he had a suitcase on his bed. 21 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 1: I asked him if he was going somewhere, and he 22 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 1: said he would be staying at my house all week 23 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:13,480 Speaker 1: until his car was fixed. That way, he wouldn't have 24 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 1: to rent a car or have me driving him around. Now, 25 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, I am a hard working, independent woman and 26 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:24,479 Speaker 1: I always have been self sufficient and had my own 27 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: car and place to live. These men I'm meeting nowadays 28 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 1: think it's okay to lean on a woman for support 29 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:33,039 Speaker 1: or have the woman go out of her way for them. 30 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:36,280 Speaker 1: I was disappointed in him for assuming he could stay 31 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 1: at my house and he could use my car without 32 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 1: asking me first. I asked if his insurance policy covered 33 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 1: a rental car, and he said he didn't include it 34 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: in his policy because it would have raised his premium. 35 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:50,600 Speaker 1: Here's the biggest issue I have with all of this. 36 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 1: If the roles were reversed, I could never assume I 37 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 1: am staying at his house and he wouldn't let me 38 00:01:57,680 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 1: drive his BMW for a week. Hell, he wouldn't even 39 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 1: offer to drop me off at work and pick me up. 40 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 1: After a heated discussion, I left him at his house 41 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 1: and went to dinner with my coworker. Later that night, 42 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: he broke up with me, and I was stunned. Am 43 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 1: I wrong to have such high standards. Well, I'll say this, No, 44 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:22,880 Speaker 1: I don't think you're wrong to have standards, high standards, standards, 45 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 1: you know, Steve wrote a whole book about that very thing, 46 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 1: and act like a lady, think like a man. Standards 47 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:32,679 Speaker 1: and requirements is what he called it, and it's where 48 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 1: a woman should you have certain expectations from her man. 49 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 1: Your man or X man is wrong. Yes, he is. 50 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 1: For assuming he could lay up on you without at 51 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:47,639 Speaker 1: least asking you first. Communication is key here. You didn't 52 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:50,959 Speaker 1: say in the letter how long you guys had been dating. 53 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:53,680 Speaker 1: You just said you're thirty four and he's thirty two. 54 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 1: But obviously it wasn't long enough for you for him 55 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 1: to be asking you this. I don't think he was 56 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:00,679 Speaker 1: right for you anyway, because, as you said, if the 57 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:03,680 Speaker 1: roles were reversed, he wouldn't do the same for you, 58 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:06,399 Speaker 1: and it sounded like you were pretty clear about that. 59 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 1: So why were you even stunned that he broke it 60 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 1: off with you when you said, no, I think he's 61 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:14,959 Speaker 1: moved on, and I think you should move on as well. Steve, 62 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 1: this is an interesting letter because I find us some 63 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 1: problems in both of these the letter writer and the 64 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 1: guy and I'll share it with you. He assumed I 65 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 1: was stupid, Well that top topic of the letter. I'm 66 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:36,839 Speaker 1: not sure that he assumed you was stupid. I think 67 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 1: he assumed a bit much. And I'll show you what 68 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 1: I mean. Thirty four years old, you're dating a guy 69 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 1: is thirty two. We broke up because he said I'm 70 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 1: not a team player. Now, based on this letter, I 71 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 1: think he's right in saying you're not a team player. 72 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 1: But I also think he went about this the wrong way. 73 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 1: So I think there's wrong on both sides in this letter. 74 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 1: A week ago, he put his car in the shop 75 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 1: and he asked you if you could pick him up 76 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 1: from the repair shop. I went by to getting He 77 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 1: said his car would be ready in a week. I 78 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 1: planned to drop him off at home and go to 79 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 1: dinner with my coworkers. Okay, that's fair. I got to 80 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 1: his house and went to use the bathroom. I noticed 81 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:20,160 Speaker 1: he was in his closet and they had a suitcase 82 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:22,360 Speaker 1: on his bed. I asked him if he was going somewhere, 83 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:24,800 Speaker 1: and he said he was gonna stay at my house 84 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 1: all week until the car was fixed. That way he 85 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:30,279 Speaker 1: wouldn't have to rent a car or have me drive 86 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 1: him around. Now he's wrong right here because he assumed this. 87 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 1: He didn't have the courtesy or the decency to ask 88 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:45,679 Speaker 1: this woman. So he was wrong, like two left shoes 89 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:49,480 Speaker 1: for this now, Stephen Sherlo, I'm a hard working, independent woman. 90 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:51,839 Speaker 1: I've always been self sufficient to have my own car 91 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:55,159 Speaker 1: in the place to live. These men I'm meeting nowadays 92 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:57,479 Speaker 1: think it's okay to lean on a woman's for my support. 93 00:04:57,520 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 1: I have a woman go out of her way for them. 94 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 1: Now we are dealing with the woman who has some 95 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 1: preconceived notions about men. She has put all men in 96 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 1: the same category, or at least all the men she's meeting. 97 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 1: So obviously she's been meeting a lot of men that 98 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 1: Monteline old women, and I understand her feeling that way, 99 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:23,840 Speaker 1: but he was wrong for assuming this. But she just went, Okay, 100 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 1: here we go again, same old, same, Oh these dudes 101 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 1: I'm dating nine days, I all think this way. Then 102 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:32,479 Speaker 1: she said, I was disappointed in him for assuming he 103 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:34,599 Speaker 1: could stay at my house and he could use my 104 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 1: car without asking me first. He had absolutely no right 105 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:45,600 Speaker 1: to assume. That's the problem in this letter. He assumed 106 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 1: something that obviously shouldn't have been taken for granted, so 107 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 1: he was wrong for that. Then she asked if his 108 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:59,839 Speaker 1: insurance policy covered Wintram car, and then he said he 109 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 1: didn't include that in his policy because he would have 110 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 1: raised his premium. I don't know how much extra that is, 111 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 1: the rental car clause, and I don't know how much 112 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:13,479 Speaker 1: that raises the premium. But I was always taught that 113 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:15,840 Speaker 1: an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure, 114 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:21,599 Speaker 1: and right now, a rental car is the pound of cure. 115 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:25,720 Speaker 1: He would have saved himself some problems with that little 116 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 1: bit of money to just pay for that clause in 117 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:32,039 Speaker 1: his insurance policy. Now, when I come back, I will 118 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 1: show you what's really wrong here, because she has some 119 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 1: notions about him not being able to do the same 120 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:42,600 Speaker 1: thing my ship. When you come back. All right, thank you, Steve. 121 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at 122 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Subject for today's Strawberry Letter, 123 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 1: he assumed I was stupid. We'll get back into it 124 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening, all right, Come on, Steve, 125 00:06:56,960 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 1: let's recap today's Strawberry Letters. Subject he assumed I was stupid. Well, 126 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 1: I don't know if he assumed he was stupid, but 127 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:08,480 Speaker 1: he was stupid for assuming in this latter he got 128 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 1: his car fixed. The woman she asked him to come 129 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 1: pick him up. Riding home, tolder that his car is 130 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:16,400 Speaker 1: gonna be in the shop for a week. She had 131 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 1: plans of dropping the man off at home and going 132 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 1: to dinner with some co workers. She got to the 133 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 1: man's house and went to the bathroom. She came out 134 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 1: he had a suitcase house. She asked him man if 135 00:07:25,560 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 1: he was going somewhere. He said, I'm gonna come over 136 00:07:27,200 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 1: here and stay at your house for a week, so 137 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:31,920 Speaker 1: I ain't got to rent no car and you ain't 138 00:07:31,960 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 1: got to run around picking me up. She was offended 139 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:39,880 Speaker 1: because he assumed that he could come and stay at 140 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 1: her house, and she's absolutely correct. He should not have assumed. 141 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 1: He should have asked this woman, Hey, I was just thinking, 142 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 1: do you think it would be okay if I stayed 143 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 1: at your house? Because I don't have a car and 144 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 1: Mike needs something to look I hate to be a bother, 145 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 1: but you know, blah blah blah blah, it would have 146 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 1: sounded better, but you assumed. Then the woman turned around 147 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 1: and ask Kemp does his insurance policy covered at him. 148 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 1: He said he didn't put it in his policy because 149 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:09,280 Speaker 1: he wanted to boost up the premiums. Well, now we 150 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 1: got a little bit of thing go on right here, 151 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 1: because the guy is dead wrong for assuming this. But 152 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 1: now she was disappointed in him for assuming he could 153 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 1: stay at his house and he could use my car 154 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 1: without asking me first. She's absolutely correct in this, But 155 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:29,000 Speaker 1: now the dude, there was another part of Now I 156 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 1: wanted to show him, ask him if he goes anyway. 157 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:37,040 Speaker 1: I might have missed that point, but anyway, she's a 158 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 1: hard working, independent woman. Here we go. This is the 159 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 1: part these men I'm meeting nowadays thinks okay to lean 160 00:08:42,240 --> 00:08:44,080 Speaker 1: on a woman for the support or have the woman 161 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:47,199 Speaker 1: go out of her way for them. Um Man, that's 162 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 1: a bad look, fellas. And for her to be feeling 163 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 1: that way, obviously she's been dealing with just that in 164 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 1: her relationship and she probably thought to herself, okay, here 165 00:08:55,960 --> 00:08:58,760 Speaker 1: we go again. Dude was wrong and for assuming that 166 00:08:59,360 --> 00:09:02,320 Speaker 1: he doesn't on him Gulf insurance policy prements go up, 167 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:04,440 Speaker 1: so he left that out. Then she says, here's the 168 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 1: biggest show I had with all this. If the roles 169 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 1: were reversed, I could never assume I'm staying at his house. 170 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:16,079 Speaker 1: So oh whoa, yeah, so now you're dating a guy 171 00:09:17,200 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 1: and you said if the roles were reversed, I could 172 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 1: never assume I'm staying at his house. My question is, 173 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 1: and you know this, and you know this, and then 174 00:09:28,760 --> 00:09:31,439 Speaker 1: he wouldn't let me drive his BMW for a week. 175 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:38,160 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, and you know this, and he wouldn't 176 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 1: even offer to drop me at work and pick me up. 177 00:09:41,640 --> 00:09:46,960 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, and you know this? What the hell 178 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:51,079 Speaker 1: you dating this dude for? You're dating a dude who 179 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 1: won't get go out of his way for you at all, 180 00:09:54,760 --> 00:10:00,160 Speaker 1: and you know this. So after heated discussion, I left 181 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 1: him at the house and he went to dinner with 182 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:05,360 Speaker 1: my co worker. Later that night, he broke up with me, 183 00:10:05,400 --> 00:10:09,560 Speaker 1: and I was stunned. Am I wrong for having such 184 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:15,000 Speaker 1: high standards? Wait a minute, when I'm sorry, your standards 185 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:21,120 Speaker 1: aren't high enough? Excuse me? Why are you stunned. Here's 186 00:10:21,160 --> 00:10:24,200 Speaker 1: a dude that would not offer to let you stay 187 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:26,959 Speaker 1: at his house if your car broke down. Here's a 188 00:10:27,080 --> 00:10:30,320 Speaker 1: dude who would not let you drive his car if 189 00:10:30,360 --> 00:10:33,360 Speaker 1: your car broke down. And here's a dude who won't 190 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:35,199 Speaker 1: pick you up and drop you off at work if 191 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 1: your car broke down. Now you stunned because you broke up? 192 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 1: What I was stunned that she was stunned? Right, I'm 193 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 1: stunned that this is who you're dating. YEA. Knowing all 194 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:53,440 Speaker 1: that you know about this young man, you're still in it. 195 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 1: Here's y'all's problem. This must not be a serious relationship. 196 00:10:59,800 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 1: It can't be. And the two of you don't have 197 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:06,640 Speaker 1: a clear definition of what you are. Because if this 198 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 1: is your man and you are his woman, all these 199 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:14,280 Speaker 1: stuff y'all having problem within this letter seemed to me 200 00:11:14,280 --> 00:11:18,560 Speaker 1: would be automatic. If this is my woman, why would 201 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:20,160 Speaker 1: I have a problem with her staying in my house 202 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:23,439 Speaker 1: for me? If this is your man, why would you 203 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:25,440 Speaker 1: have a problem with him staying at your house? This one? 204 00:11:26,400 --> 00:11:30,600 Speaker 1: But the real problem is he assumes some things about you, 205 00:11:31,520 --> 00:11:36,000 Speaker 1: and you know some things about him. He assumes he 206 00:11:36,040 --> 00:11:37,800 Speaker 1: should stay with you, drive your car, and you pick 207 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:41,920 Speaker 1: him up and taking work. You know you couldn't stay 208 00:11:41,960 --> 00:11:44,680 Speaker 1: with him. You can't drive his car, and he've hit 209 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 1: to pick you. I'm dropping off. We don't have a 210 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:53,600 Speaker 1: match here, yeah, because we don't have a relationship. So 211 00:11:53,720 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 1: you went out to dinner with your girlfriend. You came 212 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:57,960 Speaker 1: back and your friend. Now he tell you he breaking 213 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:01,319 Speaker 1: up with me because you're not a team layer. Well, 214 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:06,400 Speaker 1: the problem is, ain't either one of y'all team players. 215 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:11,160 Speaker 1: So what we're talking about him? You're not a team player. 216 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:14,480 Speaker 1: He's not a team player. Don't neither one of y'all. 217 00:12:14,800 --> 00:12:17,880 Speaker 1: This ain't a team y'all got, y'all, they didn't got 218 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:22,040 Speaker 1: a team team, So I don't know what to tell you. No, 219 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:25,640 Speaker 1: you ain't got nothing here. Keep it moving, hell, y'all 220 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 1: while y'all seeing each other's rage, rage as relationship y'all got. 221 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:35,400 Speaker 1: And you stunned because he broke up. Hell not he 222 00:12:35,520 --> 00:12:38,719 Speaker 1: stunned because you won't let him stay with him. But 223 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 1: he was wrong for assuming it's at least ask a 224 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:45,839 Speaker 1: woman give her the courtesy. Yeah, but then the reason 225 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:47,560 Speaker 1: you really ain't got no in the cause you didn't 226 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 1: want your premiums up flat flat. That's smart of life, lady, 227 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:57,599 Speaker 1: y'all needed you need to say good riddence to this 228 00:12:57,720 --> 00:13:01,080 Speaker 1: and calling about your business. All right, you're right, Steve, 229 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:03,679 Speaker 1: Thank you post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter. It's 230 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook. Check out the 231 00:13:06,320 --> 00:13:09,920 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter podcast on demand, coming up at forty six 232 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:12,880 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour of Sports Talk with Junior. Right 233 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:16,760 Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show