WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Pre-Loaded Spa Bonanza

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<v Speaker 1>Second d. When a guy's nervous for a first date,

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<v Speaker 1>there are certain methods that he can use beforehand to

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<v Speaker 1>help calm his nerves and boost his self confidence. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like you can go hit the gym, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good one. Maybe get a haircut. That's nice too.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, girls are the same, We're on the same

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<v Speaker 1>list right now. You guys take artificial pills too, No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>or you can do what I do and watch replays

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<v Speaker 1>of MTV spring Break two thousand and four on VHS. Oo. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like a fine wine Daytona Beach back then age as well?

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<v Speaker 1>Does it? Oh yeah? But one of our listeners, Nate,

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<v Speaker 1>has a different strategy that he uses to prepare for

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<v Speaker 1>a big date. And I've never heard of this before.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you there's no way it's better than Daytona

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<v Speaker 1>Beach two thousand and four. So telling me skeptical, but Nate,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to the show. Hey guys, Okay, I'm I'm intrigued,

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<v Speaker 1>peaked my interest. What do you do before a date?

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, I need to know. We'll get to the

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<v Speaker 1>pre date strategy in just a second. But first, once

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<v Speaker 1>you tell us about the girl that you went out

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<v Speaker 1>with what's her name? Carolyn? Carol Marlyn. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I really care about, Nate right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Where did you meet Carolyn? Though we met online? What

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<v Speaker 1>struck you about her? Well, we had a lot in common.

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<v Speaker 1>She's pretty, you know, not beautiful, but pretty. What's the difference.

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<v Speaker 1>She's just like one notch under beautiful. That wasn't here

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<v Speaker 1>you're pickup line on Tinder? But yeah, we met. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he could say, yeah, a real catch trick. So why

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<v Speaker 1>were you nervous for the date? I mean, Jeff said

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<v Speaker 1>you did something to like comm your nerves. Why were

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<v Speaker 1>you nervous if she was only pretty? I always get

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<v Speaker 1>nervous for first dates, whether they're beautiful, pretty or cute? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so cute's the lowest level ativeness, you know, I just

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<v Speaker 1>know you pretty beautiful? Okay, I can't Yeah, let's let's

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<v Speaker 1>just let's just assume that this is a very attractive

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<v Speaker 1>woman that you went out with. And so tell us

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<v Speaker 1>we said you were nervous. What is your pre date

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<v Speaker 1>strategy to calm yourself? Oh? I just like to preload myself.

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<v Speaker 1>What does that mean not to night? Uh? I think what? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, how people pre party like, I don't pre party.

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<v Speaker 1>I I got loaded the night before so that I

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<v Speaker 1>could be hung over on the day, so you could

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<v Speaker 1>be hungover. Wait? Is that because like when you're hungover,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't care about anything and you're at your absolute worst. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>what what is the I don't understand the strategy here? Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't get nervous about stuff when I'm hungover. I

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<v Speaker 1>just you know th things. I just feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>performed better. Is it so the night before the date

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<v Speaker 1>you got wasted and then you woke up the next

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<v Speaker 1>day hungover ready to go out? Exactly? I mean, looking

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<v Speaker 1>at it, I'm assuming smelling like hell, well, I put

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<v Speaker 1>on extra deodorant so I wouldn't smell. That's usually not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna work. Well, it's all about how you feel, Brooke.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not about how you look or smell. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>feeling inside. And so did it work? Did she notice

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<v Speaker 1>the smell or notice your booming confidence walking in hungover? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I also put on cologne as well as deodor Okay, alcohol,

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<v Speaker 1>deodorant and cologne all mixed together. Oh, Nate, what was

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<v Speaker 1>the first interaction? Like, let's you walk into the restaurant,

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<v Speaker 1>She's there, how does that go? We just introduced ourselves, hugs,

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<v Speaker 1>I pulled out her chair. Okay, No, we sat down

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<v Speaker 1>and ordered dinner. Okay, okay. Did you get any vibe

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<v Speaker 1>from her during that? Was she noticing your your aroma? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think she noticed anything. It was It was

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<v Speaker 1>actually a flawless dinner, great conversation, good food, tons in common.

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<v Speaker 1>We both loved dogs. You have more drinks to feel better?

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<v Speaker 1>Or did you? Guys? Just were you about the booze? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I kept it clean and you don't. Did you tell her?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, because you know obviously she's not calling you back,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why you're on the phone with us. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>did you tell her like, oh, I'm so hungover? Like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe it was like the party vibe. It was a

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<v Speaker 1>turn off for her. Number one rule of getting preloaded.

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<v Speaker 1>Did never tell anyone you're doing it? Yeah, they just

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<v Speaker 1>have to figure it out from the sights and the smells. Dying.

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<v Speaker 1>But it sounds like the date went really well according

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<v Speaker 1>to you, that's amazing. How did it end? It ended

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<v Speaker 1>with the cancer? It was lovely throw up? Yeah? Anything

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<v Speaker 1>hung on? Don't do that makes you feel so much better.

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<v Speaker 1>So why do you think you're not getting a call

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<v Speaker 1>back after this. Then, Well, she had mentioned that she

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<v Speaker 1>had a birthday coming up, and I wanted to do

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<v Speaker 1>something for her. I didn't want to cross any lines

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<v Speaker 1>or do anything like too crazy since we just met,

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<v Speaker 1>but I shot up around and I got her a

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<v Speaker 1>private SPA package and I just email it to her. Wow. Private,

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<v Speaker 1>it's on the line of over the time, right only

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<v Speaker 1>because you're getting naked and getting rubbed down, like I

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<v Speaker 1>just I know, but it's still like that's the thought

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<v Speaker 1>behind me. For sure. Even if I wasn't going to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with him again, I'd probably take it. So

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<v Speaker 1>we all have our opinions on that gift. What did

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<v Speaker 1>Carolyn think when you sent it to her? I could

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<v Speaker 1>she was excited. That's a very good Okay, so has

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<v Speaker 1>she gone to the spa day yet? She went, But

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't thank me for it, you know, And like

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<v Speaker 1>I was worried that maybe something strange had happened. But

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<v Speaker 1>like the place had really good reviews. It didn't seem

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<v Speaker 1>like one of those places that you hear about on

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<v Speaker 1>the news. That's what I I made an appointment at

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<v Speaker 1>one of those spats once and then I went and

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<v Speaker 1>read the Yelp reviews, and the last one was from

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<v Speaker 1>a granddaughter who sent her eighty five year old grandpa

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<v Speaker 1>there and it was I canceled. So you're saying that

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<v Speaker 1>she never thanked you at all. Yeah, she never officially

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<v Speaker 1>thanked me. We texted back and forth and she said, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was good, but this felt the vibe was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of lost. Sounds like she was just accepting the present

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<v Speaker 1>without any thought of maybe wanting to go out with you,

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<v Speaker 1>or maybe she was hoping it was one of those

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<v Speaker 1>shady massage places and was disappointed. It was so nice. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I really relaxed. That's it. Well, let's find out. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna play a song, we'll come back, we'll call Carolyn

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<v Speaker 1>for you, and we'll try and get your second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Nate, all right, thanks, all right, hold on

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<v Speaker 1>if you're just joining us. One of our listeners at

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<v Speaker 1>Nate went out on a great date with a woman

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<v Speaker 1>named Carolyn the other night, and the reason it went

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<v Speaker 1>so well, according to him, is because he got preloaded,

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<v Speaker 1>which apparently means getting trashed the night before. I've never

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<v Speaker 1>heard of that where you purposefully show up to a

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<v Speaker 1>date hungover to try and ease the nerves because most

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<v Speaker 1>people I know, including myself, are just complete garbage when

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<v Speaker 1>they're hung over. I am worthless. I canceled dates when

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<v Speaker 1>I hung over. Yeah, well, there's a few single people

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<v Speaker 1>on this show who maybe should give it a try.

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<v Speaker 1>You're right, actually should follow through that. I'm usually wasted

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<v Speaker 1>on the date exactly. Just fast forward a little. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta start much sooner. And I know this sounds

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit strange, but it did work for Nate.

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<v Speaker 1>In fact, he got a kiss at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the night, and afterwards he sent Carolyn a private SPA

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<v Speaker 1>package as a birthday present. Does a hangover kiss sound awful?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, kid. Yeah, I'll take any kiss personally. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I would do. But since then, Carolyn's been

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<v Speaker 1>difficult to reach and Nate, I never even asked you.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you get preloaded yesterday in preparation for this phone call?

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<v Speaker 1>Number one rule of preloading never tell anyone you're doing it. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I forgot the rules. I will say, you are pretty

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<v Speaker 1>low energy, Rachel. It doesn't sound nervous at all of those,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's working. So the one thing I didn't get, Nate,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you want to go out with her again,

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<v Speaker 1>or you're mad at her for not thanking you for

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<v Speaker 1>the SPA package. I want to go out with her again.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think that her not thinking me might be

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<v Speaker 1>an indication of her not liking me or something. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>most be static. Yeah, it's possible that she's preloading though,

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<v Speaker 1>to accept your date the second time around. She's maybe nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>Now that's There's only one way to find out, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's by calling her number. You're ready to do this? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope she's slurring when we pick up. We're going

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<v Speaker 1>to give it a shot. I'm dialing it right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go, Hello, No, no, no, Yeah, Hey, is

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<v Speaker 1>this is this Carolin? Who is this? My name's jeff

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<v Speaker 1>from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>We're doing something called a second date update. What's this about?

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<v Speaker 1>This is about somebody that you went on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with recently. He's a friend of our show, and afterwards

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<v Speaker 1>he's been having a hard time getting ahold of you.

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<v Speaker 1>His name's Nate. Ah me, that was weird. No, now

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<v Speaker 1>I want to hear what happened from your perspective? What

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<v Speaker 1>was weird? Yeah, you're saying Nate was weird or the

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<v Speaker 1>date was weird? I mean, I liked him. The date

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<v Speaker 1>was great, We had an awesome time. We had a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of fun. It's just after it got really strange.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it too much? I mean he told us that

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<v Speaker 1>he sent you that birthday gift, like the spa package.

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<v Speaker 1>Was that like over the top for you? No? Actually

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<v Speaker 1>I love that. Like, I thought it was really sweet

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<v Speaker 1>that he remembered my birthday and that means a lot

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<v Speaker 1>to me that he was listening. Oh, what is the

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<v Speaker 1>part that made you say the F word? So I

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<v Speaker 1>went to the spa and I was super excited to

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<v Speaker 1>have this nice, luxurious spa day and everything went amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I come out and they said, so can

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<v Speaker 1>you pay? And I was like, what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 1>This is a gift And they handed me a bill

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<v Speaker 1>of two hundred and fifty dollars. Oh nice? So wait,

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<v Speaker 1>did he only make you an appointment? He didn't buy

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<v Speaker 1>the package? They said it was booked, but he didn't pay.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's amazing, happy birthday? Yeah? What the was that? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you have a nice time? Though? It's nice he

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<v Speaker 1>got you in for a and I'm not sorry. It's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of funny. I'm sure maybe he didn't realize. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>are you saying you think that he didn't pay on purpose?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what it was. But on top of that,

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<v Speaker 1>I had to tips I wanted to spending three hundred

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<v Speaker 1>dollars on myself for my birthday. Oh well, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what they say when it seems too good to be true. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he usually is. Well, there's a chance that Nate doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>even know that he didn't pay, right, did you tell him?

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<v Speaker 1>I just left it alone at that point. It was

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<v Speaker 1>too awkward. Yeah. Yeah, no, I would just be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you forgot to pay this. No. No, I would have said, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you may want to check your bank statement because they

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<v Speaker 1>charged me for the spa day. I just want to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure you didn't get double charged. Oh that's smarty,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. Yeah. That would have been a good idea

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<v Speaker 1>if we had done this for an awkward Tuesday. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>then it would have worked. But we didn't, did we No,

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't. Well here's the thing, Carolyn, I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>know if Nate realizes that he didn't pre pay for

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<v Speaker 1>the massage. I don't know. It just feels to me

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<v Speaker 1>like something you should have handled. Well, maybe we could

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<v Speaker 1>ask him if he knew, because he's actually on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening and he wants to talk to you, Carolyn.

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<v Speaker 1>He is just sounding pretty stressed. You might need another

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<v Speaker 1>massage soon, But no, I'm serious. Didn't you there? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here? Oh God, did you Carol? Carolyn? I am

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<v Speaker 1>so sorry? Oh so you you heard what she said

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<v Speaker 1>about the SPA. Yeah. I thought that I had paid

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<v Speaker 1>for it. I thought it was all taking care of

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<v Speaker 1>it clearly. Did you put your credit card information in? Yeah? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was just automatic. It's automatic. You just

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<v Speaker 1>think it and then you get and then it's paid for.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that'd be nice to think that way, But

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<v Speaker 1>how could you not think of something like that? Nay,

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<v Speaker 1>are you lying? Are you lying because you got caught

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<v Speaker 1>or have you never before? Honestly I have not. But

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<v Speaker 1>I just messed up, Like I really did mean to

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it. I mean the thought was nice. Just

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand how you mess that one up. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to pay for it now? Oh? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean yeah, like it sound like it. Did you know

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<v Speaker 1>it was going to be like three hundred bucks? Nate? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean do you want to split it? Oh? You

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<v Speaker 1>want to sign up for a financial packet. Were you

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<v Speaker 1>preloading when you booked this? That's a good question. That

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<v Speaker 1>is a good question. I probably should have been what

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<v Speaker 1>is preloading? Oh? Yeah, yeah, you want to take this

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<v Speaker 1>preludings when you get real hammered the night before an

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<v Speaker 1>important event, so that you're hungover and just relax. Doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>that sound lovely? Who needs a spa when you can preload?

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<v Speaker 1>Why would you want to do that? No? The point

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<v Speaker 1>is because if you're nervous, it helps ease your nerves

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<v Speaker 1>when you're hungover, according to him, According to call, having

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<v Speaker 1>a glass of wine? Maybe yeah, well yeah, six classes

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<v Speaker 1>of wine? Yeah? Exactly where are we? Are we worried

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<v Speaker 1>about preloading? Now? Are you getting your money back? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, boy, I feel like I want to preload though, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to hang out again? Do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to go on another date? You just asked me if

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<v Speaker 1>I want to pay for half of my spot pocket

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<v Speaker 1>that was supposed to be a birthday gift? Yes, well,

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<v Speaker 1>techn me a half off a birthday page. Yeah, if

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<v Speaker 1>you guys go out again, then Nate can actually show

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<v Speaker 1>you how to properly preload turn it into a date. No,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't get someone a birthday gift and then ask

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to cover half. That's tacky you asked before, say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to buy you a spot package if

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<v Speaker 1>you'd like to go halves on it. That's different than

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<v Speaker 1>after great and Nate. If you couldn't afford the three

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<v Speaker 1>hundred dollars, man, that's fine. She wasn't asking for it, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>why didn't you get her something else? Then? Just don't

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<v Speaker 1>get it at all? Right, like a nice bouquet of flowers.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure would have been super appreciated. Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>next time. You know. Look, here's the thing I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know about who's going to pay for that massage? But

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<v Speaker 1>the way that these second date updates work is that

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<v Speaker 1>we offer to pay for the next date. Yeah. So, Carolyn,

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<v Speaker 1>with that being said, would you like to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with Nate one more time? The bill will be on us.

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<v Speaker 1>From the way he answered about splitting the spot package,

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<v Speaker 1>I just that rubs me the wrong way. But that's

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<v Speaker 1>sober Nate talking. You need to go out with pretty low.

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<v Speaker 1>He's the charmer, and you still want one hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>fifty bucks, don't you? I mean no, I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>want his money at this point, like, I'm fine, don't

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<v Speaker 1>want money. I think we can also split the tip

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<v Speaker 1>on top of that too, if you well, are you

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<v Speaker 1>already are you cheap? I mean either, it's fine. We

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<v Speaker 1>just need to know. There's a lot going on right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't feel great because the last night, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you doing? Rule number one of preloaded. We

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<v Speaker 1>don't talk about what happened when you preloaded. I didn't preload.

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<v Speaker 1>I just got baked much better. Better. It's broken Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning.