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Speaker 1: you know, like you can go hit the gym, all right,

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Speaker 1: that's a good one. Maybe get a haircut. That's nice too.

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Speaker 1: I mean, girls are the same, We're on the same

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Speaker 1: or you can do what I do and watch replays

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Speaker 1: of MTV spring Break two thousand and four on VHS. Oo. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like a fine wine Daytona Beach back then age as well?

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Speaker 1: Does it? Oh yeah? But one of our listeners, Nate,

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Speaker 1: has a different strategy that he uses to prepare for

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Speaker 1: a big date. And I've never heard of this before.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you there's no way it's better than Daytona

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Speaker 1: Beach two thousand and four. So telling me skeptical, but Nate,

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show. Hey guys, Okay, I'm I'm intrigued,

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Speaker 1: peaked my interest. What do you do before a date?

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Speaker 1: Hold on, I need to know. We'll get to the

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Speaker 1: pre date strategy in just a second. But first, once

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Speaker 1: with what's her name? Carolyn? Carol Marlyn. I want to

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Speaker 1: you know what I really care about, Nate right now?

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Speaker 1: Where did you meet Carolyn? Though we met online? What

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Speaker 1: struck you about her? Well, we had a lot in common.

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Speaker 1: She's pretty, you know, not beautiful, but pretty. What's the difference.

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Speaker 1: She's just like one notch under beautiful. That wasn't here

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Speaker 1: you're pickup line on Tinder? But yeah, we met. Maybe

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Speaker 1: he could say, yeah, a real catch trick. So why

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Speaker 1: nervous for first dates, whether they're beautiful, pretty or cute? Okay,

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Speaker 1: so cute's the lowest level ativeness, you know, I just

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Speaker 1: strategy to calm yourself? Oh? I just like to preload myself.

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Speaker 1: What does that mean not to night? Uh? I think what? Like,

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Speaker 1: you know, how people pre party like, I don't pre party.

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Speaker 1: what what is the I don't understand the strategy here? Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: I don't get nervous about stuff when I'm hungover. I

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Speaker 1: It's not about how you look or smell. It's a

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Speaker 1: Nate went out on a great date with a woman

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Speaker 1: You're right, actually should follow through that. I'm usually wasted

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Speaker 1: I don't know, kid. Yeah, I'll take any kiss personally. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I guess I would do. But since then, Carolyn's been

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Speaker 1: Did you get preloaded yesterday in preparation for this phone call?

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Speaker 1: Number one rule of preloading never tell anyone you're doing it. Sorry,

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Speaker 1: I just think that her not thinking me might be

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Speaker 1: most be static. Yeah, it's possible that she's preloading though,

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Speaker 1: Now that's There's only one way to find out, and

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Speaker 1: that's by calling her number. You're ready to do this? Yes,

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Speaker 1: Here we go, Hello, No, no, no, Yeah, Hey, is

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Speaker 1: this is this Carolin? Who is this? My name's jeff

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Speaker 1: from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: We're doing something called a second date update. What's this about?

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Speaker 1: This is about somebody that you went on a date

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Speaker 1: with recently. He's a friend of our show, and afterwards

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Speaker 1: he's been having a hard time getting ahold of you.

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Speaker 1: His name's Nate. Ah me, that was weird. No, now

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Speaker 1: I want to hear what happened from your perspective? What

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Speaker 1: Was that like over the top for you? No? Actually

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Speaker 1: you pay? And I was like, what do you mean?

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Speaker 1: This is a gift And they handed me a bill

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Speaker 1: did he only make you an appointment? He didn't buy

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Speaker 1: the package? They said it was booked, but he didn't pay.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's amazing, happy birthday? Yeah? What the was that? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Did you have a nice time? Though? It's nice he

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Speaker 1: are you saying you think that he didn't pay on purpose?

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Speaker 1: I don't know what it was. But on top of that,

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Speaker 1: I had to tips I wanted to spending three hundred

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Speaker 1: he usually is. Well, there's a chance that Nate doesn't

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Speaker 1: even know that he didn't pay, right, did you tell him?

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Speaker 1: I just left it alone at that point. It was

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Speaker 1: you forgot to pay this. No. No, I would have said, hey,

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Speaker 1: other line listening and he wants to talk to you, Carolyn.

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Speaker 1: He is just sounding pretty stressed. You might need another

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Speaker 1: massage soon, But no, I'm serious. Didn't you there? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm here? Oh God, did you Carol? Carolyn? I am

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Speaker 1: so sorry? Oh so you you heard what she said

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Speaker 1: about the SPA. Yeah. I thought that I had paid

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Speaker 1: it clearly. Did you put your credit card information in? Yeah? No,

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Speaker 1: I thought it was just automatic. It's automatic. You just

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Speaker 1: think it and then you get and then it's paid for.

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Speaker 1: I mean that'd be nice to think that way, But

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Speaker 1: how could you not think of something like that? Nay,

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Speaker 1: are you lying? Are you lying because you got caught

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Speaker 1: or have you never before? Honestly I have not. But

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Speaker 1: I just messed up, Like I really did mean to

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Speaker 1: pay for it. I mean the thought was nice. Just

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Speaker 1: I don't understand how you mess that one up. I mean,

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Speaker 1: do you want to pay for it now? Oh? I

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Speaker 1: mean yeah, like it sound like it. Did you know

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Speaker 1: it was going to be like three hundred bucks? Nate? No?

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Speaker 1: I mean do you want to split it? Oh? You

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Speaker 1: want to sign up for a financial packet. Were you

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Speaker 1: preloading when you booked this? That's a good question. That

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Speaker 1: is a good question. I probably should have been what

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Speaker 1: is preloading? Oh? Yeah, yeah, you want to take this

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Speaker 1: preludings when you get real hammered the night before an

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Speaker 1: that sound lovely? Who needs a spa when you can preload?

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Speaker 1: Why would you want to do that? No? The point

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Speaker 1: is because if you're nervous, it helps ease your nerves

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Speaker 1: when you're hungover, according to him, According to call, having

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Speaker 1: a glass of wine? Maybe yeah, well yeah, six classes

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Speaker 1: of wine? Yeah? Exactly where are we? Are we worried

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Speaker 1: about preloading? Now? Are you getting your money back? I

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Speaker 1: don't know, boy, I feel like I want to preload though, Well,

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Speaker 1: do you want to hang out again? Do you want

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Speaker 1: to go on another date? You just asked me if

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Speaker 1: I want to pay for half of my spot pocket

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Speaker 1: that was supposed to be a birthday gift? Yes, well,

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Speaker 1: techn me a half off a birthday page. Yeah, if

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Speaker 1: you guys go out again, then Nate can actually show

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Speaker 1: you how to properly preload turn it into a date. No,

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Speaker 1: you don't get someone a birthday gift and then ask

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Speaker 1: if you want to cover half. That's tacky you asked before, say, hey,

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Speaker 1: I would love to buy you a spot package if

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Speaker 1: you'd like to go halves on it. That's different than

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Speaker 1: after great and Nate. If you couldn't afford the three

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Speaker 1: hundred dollars, man, that's fine. She wasn't asking for it, Like,

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Speaker 1: why didn't you get her something else? Then? Just don't

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Speaker 1: get it at all? Right, like a nice bouquet of flowers.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure would have been super appreciated. Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 1: know about who's going to pay for that massage? But

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Speaker 1: the way that these second date updates work is that

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Speaker 1: we offer to pay for the next date. Yeah. So, Carolyn,

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Speaker 1: with that being said, would you like to go out

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Speaker 1: with Nate one more time? The bill will be on us.

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Speaker 1: From the way he answered about splitting the spot package,

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Speaker 1: I just that rubs me the wrong way. But that's

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Speaker 1: sober Nate talking. You need to go out with pretty low.

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Speaker 1: He's the charmer, and you still want one hundred and

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Speaker 1: fifty bucks, don't you? I mean no, I don't even

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Speaker 1: want his money at this point, like, I'm fine, don't

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Speaker 1: on top of that too, if you well, are you

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Speaker 1: already are you cheap? I mean either, it's fine. We

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Speaker 1: just need to know. There's a lot going on right now.

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Speaker 1: I just don't feel great because the last night, Hey,

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Speaker 1: what are you doing? Rule number one of preloaded. We

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Speaker 1: don't talk about what happened when you preloaded. I didn't preload.

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Speaker 1: I just got baked much better. Better. It's broken Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: in the morning.