1 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 1: Mother Knows Dad starring Nicole and Jemmy and Maria qk. 2 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 2: Hi. 3 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:23,760 Speaker 1: Everyone welcome The Mother Knows Death. On today's episode, we're 4 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 1: going to talk about parasite cleanses. Heidi Klum is the 5 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 1: latest celebrity to jump on this cruize and I'm not 6 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 1: can you tell by my tone of voice, I'm not 7 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:38,280 Speaker 1: into it. An unusual, trying true crime story involving a 8 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:42,080 Speaker 1: man who was giving out machetes to homeless people, a 9 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: pregnant woman who has been missing and her photo has 10 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:47,840 Speaker 1: been shared all over social media. Well, they just found 11 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:50,600 Speaker 1: her dead body and guess what the baby isn't with 12 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 1: her body. And we'll get into a person who was 13 00:00:53,800 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 1: born in an intersex body and had some of the 14 00:00:57,480 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 1: challenges that they face growing up. And we'll finish off 15 00:00:59,880 --> 00:01:03,960 Speaker 1: the episode with a light hearted but secretly terrible story 16 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,039 Speaker 1: of a mom who really did not get what she 17 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:09,120 Speaker 1: wanted when she was pregnant. All that and moral. On 18 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 1: today's episode Parasite Cleanses. 19 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:15,680 Speaker 2: Over the summer, Heidi Klum revealed that she was going 20 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:17,960 Speaker 2: to be doing a worm and parasite cleanse with her 21 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 2: husband because she had seen a lot online about it 22 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 2: and learned you should be doing it once a year. 23 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:26,039 Speaker 2: So now her results are in and she said she 24 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:28,679 Speaker 2: basically doesn't know if anything happened and she hopes they 25 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:29,199 Speaker 2: come out. 26 00:01:29,040 --> 00:01:31,760 Speaker 1: Of her body. This is the dumbest shit that goes 27 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:32,760 Speaker 1: around the internet. 28 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:35,039 Speaker 2: I swear I was talking about this before. It was 29 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:37,480 Speaker 2: like really big with influencers a couple months ago, and 30 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 2: I'm just like, are you guys doing any research or 31 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:41,319 Speaker 2: you're just doing it because somebody else said to do 32 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 2: it online? 33 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:46,680 Speaker 1: She said. This is what she said, Heidi Klum, Like, 34 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 1: you know what's crazy? These people are multi millionaire celebrities 35 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 1: and they're just like, quote, everything I'm getting on my 36 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 1: Instagram feed at the moment is about worms and parasites. 37 00:01:58,080 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: Why do you think that is? You know what? Everything 38 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 1: that's on my Instagram feed right now is stranger things 39 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 1: because I keep looking at videos like that's how the 40 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:11,280 Speaker 1: algorithm works. So that's why everything in your algorithm is that, Like, Hi, 41 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 1: do you know how this works? By now? Anyway, all 42 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:20,399 Speaker 1: of these parasite cleanses, like obviously the people are trying 43 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 1: to sell them, so they're just trying to tell you 44 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 1: that you're fill of parasites and you're gonna take this 45 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 1: thing and it's gonna get rid of them, and it's 46 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 1: not true. Like, listen, if you have a parasite, you 47 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:31,919 Speaker 1: will know it, trust me, you'll know. You'll be peeing 48 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:33,920 Speaker 1: out of your butt, you'll know. And then you'll go 49 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:36,240 Speaker 1: to the doctor and they'll give you medicine to make 50 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:38,919 Speaker 1: the parasite go away. And the chance of you getting 51 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 1: a parasite is pretty low, especially if you live in 52 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 1: this country or the UK or any kind of population 53 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:50,680 Speaker 1: that has good sanitation and you're not, you know, eating 54 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 1: food that's next to pig shit and all this kind 55 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:57,800 Speaker 1: of stuff, like you'll be fine, trust me, you'll be fine. 56 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 1: You don't have a parasite. Not to say that you 57 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:04,519 Speaker 1: can't get them in this country, because you can. There's 58 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 1: certain ones that you could get for sure, but it's 59 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: so rare. We don't stumble across them accidentally at autopsy. 60 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 1: Like when you have one, you know you have one. 61 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:17,119 Speaker 1: It's not like everyone just has them living in there. 62 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 1: There was there was another thing going around when when 63 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:23,359 Speaker 1: I was younger, about these cleanses, and they would show 64 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:26,960 Speaker 1: these videos of what your colon looks like, and they 65 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:29,560 Speaker 1: would show it to look like a pipe with with 66 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 1: hair stuck to the side and like food clogged, and 67 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:36,200 Speaker 1: it's just like, your colon is not a pipe. There's 68 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 1: not things that are just sitting up on the sides 69 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 1: of the walls of the colon while everything else passes through, 70 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 1: and you're gonna take this miracle drug that's going to 71 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:49,119 Speaker 1: cleanse it out. It's just it just doesn't work like that. 72 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 2: It's kind of kudos to whoever came up with these 73 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:56,000 Speaker 2: supplements that all these rich people are taking believing this 74 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 2: so good. Good for that. 75 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 1: Person for making people literally have for a long time, 76 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 1: they've been sending me pictures of their poop and saying, well, 77 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 1: what's this, And I'm like, it's part of your mucosa 78 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 1: that shut off. It's like little tiny pieces of food 79 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 1: particles and pieces of the lining of the intestine. It's 80 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 1: not parasites, because I'm like, okay, well, then tell me 81 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:22,280 Speaker 1: what parasite that is, because no parasites look like that. 82 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 1: Parasites that are worms look like worms. They look like white, 83 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 1: big worms, like an earthworm that's white and smooth. It's 84 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 1: very noticeable that it's a worm. It's not a squiggly 85 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 1: thing in your poop. You could get pinworms around your butt. 86 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 1: If you get pinworms, you'll know it because your butthole 87 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: will it's so bad that you will want to like 88 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:46,279 Speaker 1: rub it against a carpet or scratch it with your fingernut. 89 00:04:46,320 --> 00:04:48,920 Speaker 1: You're gonna know something's wrong if you have it. 90 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:52,719 Speaker 2: So you would think people sending you pictures of poop 91 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 2: was a problem, but it's actually not the worst pictures 92 00:04:55,440 --> 00:05:00,040 Speaker 2: you get froma. 93 00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 1: I it had. I get the craziest pictures sometimes and 94 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 1: I love it, So just keep sending them, please, Okay. 95 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 1: I want to be influencer went viral after he posted 96 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:12,799 Speaker 1: videos handing out eighteen inch machetes and alcohol to homeless 97 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 1: people in Austin, New Orleans, and Little Rock, and now 98 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 1: he says he plans to go to Vegas, LA and 99 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 1: New York. So he's saying that he asked the police 100 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 1: if this was okay, and they said it was not illegal, 101 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 1: and that is why he continues to do it. 102 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 2: Okay. So friend of the pod Joe Jack Loane, was 103 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:35,719 Speaker 2: interviewed for this article, and he had said that owning 104 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 2: a machete is not illegal, so maybe I would assume 105 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 2: it was like some type of weapon, right, But I 106 00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 2: guess owning a knife isn't illegal, and especially in certain states, 107 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:50,159 Speaker 2: the length of the knife doesn't matter at all, So 108 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 2: I thought that was weird. Also that he asked the 109 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:56,039 Speaker 2: police and they said it wasn't illegal. I think the 110 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 2: problem people are mostly facing here is that he's giving 111 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,840 Speaker 2: it to them with alcohol, and he's trying to say 112 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:05,279 Speaker 2: he's trying to protect them, but he's making fun of them. 113 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:12,840 Speaker 1: Machetes are totally necessary tools for people to have, like 114 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 1: if you're walking in the woods and you want to 115 00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 1: cut branches that are in a way or something like that. Like, 116 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:19,839 Speaker 1: there's no reason that a homeless person living in a 117 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:22,719 Speaker 1: city needs a machete. There's I can't see with it 118 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 1: what the purpose would be. 119 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:27,520 Speaker 2: Well, if they're saying it's not illegal to hand them out, 120 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 2: is he not going to get in trouble if one 121 00:06:29,640 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 2: of these people end up using. 122 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:34,839 Speaker 1: It in a crime, I don't know. And Annie's handing 123 00:06:34,880 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 1: out alcohol at the same time. And also, Okay, aside 124 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 1: from like maybe he's just trying to find some loophole 125 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:46,840 Speaker 1: to go viral, because it certainly is working, right, but 126 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 1: but like, what about the moral issues here that there's 127 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:53,360 Speaker 1: already people that I mean, you would you would say 128 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:55,840 Speaker 1: that people that are homeless are at a low point 129 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:58,039 Speaker 1: in their life, right, They're not doing great. They don't 130 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:00,360 Speaker 1: have anywhere to live, they don't know where they're next 131 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 1: meal is coming from, they don't have money, and they 132 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:04,839 Speaker 1: have to live with the embarrassment of living on the 133 00:07:04,839 --> 00:07:09,039 Speaker 1: street in front of people, right, And there's usually some 134 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 1: kind of substance involved with with those types of situations. 135 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 1: It's totally cool for someone to go like mess with 136 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: these people and like and exploit them like that. I 137 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 1: don't know, Like, I just think it's I think it's wrong. 138 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 1: I think it's so wrong to do to a person 139 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 1: like they're human beings. They're not like, they have feelings, 140 00:07:31,960 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 1: they have lives, They they deserve some kind of dignity 141 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 1: and respect, and that is just like, well, it. 142 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 2: Is disrespectful because I think a lot of people that 143 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 2: are homeless are dealing with severe mental health issues or 144 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 2: addiction issues. So then you're going to said people and 145 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 2: handing them tools to make bad decisions. And this guy's like, oh, 146 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:55,480 Speaker 2: I'm just trying to give them things to be safe. Well, 147 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:57,840 Speaker 2: like alcohol isn't safe in any context, so like what's 148 00:07:57,840 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 2: the alcohol for and like why did they need a machete? 149 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:03,520 Speaker 2: It like doesn't make any sense and I could only 150 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 2: see this going wrong, like one of these people us. 151 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 1: What did the article say? Like why why? Like why 152 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:16,800 Speaker 1: is he I know he's saying that to be safe, 153 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 1: but why is is he allowed to do this? Like 154 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 1: because he's finding loopholes? 155 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 2: Well, he's saying he asked the police and he's not 156 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 2: doing anything illegal, and he's going viral online, which is 157 00:08:28,400 --> 00:08:32,360 Speaker 2: what he wanted. He got the machetes in bulk for 158 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 2: under five dollars. 159 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:35,960 Speaker 1: I know that it's but I know that there that 160 00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 1: Joe's saying that a machete is not illegal. So but 161 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 1: like are you allowed to carry it? Because I feel 162 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:49,200 Speaker 1: like there's certain I thought you weren't allowed to carry 163 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:50,720 Speaker 1: knives that were certain lengths and stuff. 164 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:53,840 Speaker 2: Well that's just that's state by state because in Florida 165 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 2: you could carry a really big knife, but in New 166 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 2: Jersey you cannot, and in Philadelphia you cannot. So it 167 00:08:59,000 --> 00:08:59,680 Speaker 2: that depends. 168 00:08:59,800 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 1: So like if he went to Philadelphia he could get 169 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 1: in trouble for it. 170 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 2: Maybe, Well I experience yes he would because I had 171 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 2: a knife and in my backpack at school and we 172 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 2: went on a field trip to go to the Liberty 173 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 2: bell or something. 174 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 1: But that's different because like, why is a pocket knife 175 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 1: different than no, I'm saying going to the Liberty bells different. 176 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 1: They're like, you can't, but they you can't go into 177 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 1: the Phillies game with with a Cannesota or they act. 178 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 2: I didn't finish what I was saying. When it scanned 179 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 2: my backpack and found it, the cops there said, you know, 180 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 2: this is illegal the size knife I had, so they 181 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:39,000 Speaker 2: took it from me. So like, no, you can't have 182 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 2: ones of certain length there. It doesn't matter if you're 183 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 2: going in the public space or not. Like that knife 184 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:46,040 Speaker 2: I brought in, ye, but they weren't going to let 185 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:49,040 Speaker 2: you bring it in anyway. But they said this size 186 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 2: knife is illegal to have in Pennsylvania. 187 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 1: Maybe so it I mean, I know Texas could be different, 188 00:09:56,960 --> 00:09:59,080 Speaker 1: but he said he's planning on going to LA I 189 00:09:59,120 --> 00:10:02,520 Speaker 1: can't imagine that have lax rules about knives. 190 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 2: Well, who knows what goes on there, but New York 191 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 2: I can't see this being okay so far he's gone. 192 00:10:08,360 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 1: I guess if they're not technically carrying like, it's weird 193 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 1: because he's I guess, if you want to think about it, 194 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:17,880 Speaker 1: he's giving it as a gift. I don't know. I 195 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:21,080 Speaker 1: know that there's definitely rules about knives though, so I 196 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:26,600 Speaker 1: don't and maybe that's considered more of a tool because 197 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 1: like you could buy an obviously we talked about this 198 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 1: that someone bought knives at Marshals a few months ago 199 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:34,640 Speaker 1: and tried to stab or did stab someone in the 200 00:10:34,679 --> 00:10:38,240 Speaker 1: parking lot with them. So it's like kitchen knife, Like 201 00:10:38,280 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 1: you could buy a huge kitchen knife, right, like. 202 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 2: Well, like he's not giving them to them saying you 203 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:44,199 Speaker 2: have to carry this. 204 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:46,960 Speaker 1: On your person. Yes they don't. They don't. 205 00:10:47,240 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 2: They don't have a place to live. But if it's 206 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:53,680 Speaker 2: like with their other belongings, not on their physical body, 207 00:10:55,720 --> 00:10:58,080 Speaker 2: then it's weird. It could be seen as being different. 208 00:10:58,160 --> 00:10:59,520 Speaker 2: I mean, it's a weird situation. 209 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 1: I don't want to get anybody to get hurt, but 210 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 1: I also kind of want like someone to do something 211 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:07,680 Speaker 1: with this and him get in trouble because because he's 212 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 1: just a moron. 213 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:11,080 Speaker 2: It's just an idiotic thing to do. I just and 214 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:13,319 Speaker 2: especially when you combine it with the alcohol. 215 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 1: What is he thinking? 216 00:11:14,920 --> 00:11:16,680 Speaker 2: And it's and he straight up like, well I'm getting 217 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:18,920 Speaker 2: a lot of views. Oh, so it's okay to just 218 00:11:18,920 --> 00:11:21,600 Speaker 2: be morally corrupt. Well, I guess it is okay to 219 00:11:21,640 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 2: be morally corrupt if you're getting a lot of views. 220 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:25,320 Speaker 2: Think of the Kardashians. 221 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 1: Okay. 222 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:29,200 Speaker 2: A listener sent this next story in a woman who 223 00:11:29,320 --> 00:11:31,560 Speaker 2: was thirty eight weeks pregnant went missing and now her 224 00:11:31,559 --> 00:11:33,840 Speaker 2: body's been found, but without the baby. 225 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. Do you know that the number one cause of 226 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:41,880 Speaker 1: death in pregnant women is homicide? That's number one mannered death? 227 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 1: I should say current pregnant, it's manner of death. I 228 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 1: should say, yeah. I mean it sounds it sounds outrageous, right, 229 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:56,120 Speaker 1: but it is. And I mean, you don't have to well, 230 00:11:56,679 --> 00:12:00,679 Speaker 1: you don't have to worry about that because you're you know, 231 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:04,599 Speaker 1: it's obviously it's more likely to happen in domestic violence situations. 232 00:12:04,640 --> 00:12:09,680 Speaker 1: But it's really it's really unfortunate because this doesn't even 233 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:15,840 Speaker 1: appear to be a domestic violence situation. Again, her sister 234 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 1: was just arrested, right, and her fiance or. 235 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:23,920 Speaker 2: I mean, this has domestic violence is not just between couples. 236 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 1: Her mother and. 237 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 2: Her mother's husband, and her sister and her fiance were 238 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:30,360 Speaker 2: all arrested, So the domestic violence could have been within 239 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:31,200 Speaker 2: her immediate family. 240 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just I'm saying it wasn't like a relationship one, but. 241 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:37,320 Speaker 2: So not that we know of yet. 242 00:12:37,760 --> 00:12:41,960 Speaker 1: So so basically like they killed her to take the baby. 243 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:45,160 Speaker 2: We don't know where the baby is. We don't know 244 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:46,960 Speaker 2: where the baby is, We don't know what happened, and 245 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:48,600 Speaker 2: we don't know where the baby is. All we know 246 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:50,320 Speaker 2: right now is that it took a couple of days 247 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:53,600 Speaker 2: to identify her body. She was last seen on November three. 248 00:12:53,640 --> 00:12:57,840 Speaker 2: Her body was discovered on November twenty fifth, so her sister, 249 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:00,720 Speaker 2: her mom, the mom's husband, and the fiance. They were arrested, 250 00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:03,680 Speaker 2: but I think the fiance was arrested on unrelated drug charges. 251 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 2: So they're all being held in jail right now. And 252 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 2: they're saying she went to the hospital the day before 253 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:11,280 Speaker 2: she went missing, thinking she was in labor. They ended 254 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:13,319 Speaker 2: up sending her home. She was due on the eighteenth, 255 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:18,200 Speaker 2: and they found her body. The baby is nowhere to 256 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:19,720 Speaker 2: be found. They have no idea where the kid is 257 00:13:19,720 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 2: at all, and the family is claiming she was picked 258 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:24,679 Speaker 2: up by a car with tinted windows and conveniently the 259 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:28,440 Speaker 2: day she went missing. She received two thousand dollars inheritance 260 00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:29,880 Speaker 2: from another family member. 261 00:13:30,640 --> 00:13:33,400 Speaker 1: So we don't know anything right now as far as 262 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 1: how she was found and how she was killed. So 263 00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:39,720 Speaker 1: at the autopsy, for example, they're going to look for 264 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:43,800 Speaker 1: different things, like because the baby's not in her anymore, 265 00:13:44,559 --> 00:13:47,720 Speaker 1: and she was due to have a baby, so they're 266 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 1: going to see how this baby got out of her body. 267 00:13:50,360 --> 00:13:55,320 Speaker 1: Did she give birth vaginally? Is the placentistole up in there? 268 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:59,000 Speaker 1: Did someone cut the baby out of her belly? Like 269 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:03,080 Speaker 1: did that kill her? Was she alive when that happened? 270 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:05,320 Speaker 1: Was she dead when that happened. They'll be able to 271 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:07,679 Speaker 1: tell all of that at autopsy and get back to us, 272 00:14:08,240 --> 00:14:11,560 Speaker 1: But for now, while we're waiting for those results, the 273 00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:15,720 Speaker 1: scariest part is like where's the baby? Is the baby alive? 274 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:18,040 Speaker 1: Did they steal the baby to sell the baby? Because 275 00:14:18,040 --> 00:14:18,959 Speaker 1: that's happened before. 276 00:14:19,800 --> 00:14:22,760 Speaker 2: Were We just got a story this week where a 277 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 2: guy was planning or trying to buy baby in Louisiana. 278 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:31,240 Speaker 1: Like if you think about it, like why would why 279 00:14:31,280 --> 00:14:35,920 Speaker 1: else would the sister? Why would they take the baby? 280 00:14:35,960 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Like they're doing it, they're 281 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 1: doing it for some reason if they were doing it 282 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 1: for themselves. Don't you think that when the police arrested 283 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:46,600 Speaker 1: them they found the baby. There's like, you don't just 284 00:14:46,600 --> 00:14:50,240 Speaker 1: get arrested unless there's a reason to arrest you. They 285 00:14:50,280 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 1: have some kind of evidence that links them to this crime. 286 00:14:53,160 --> 00:14:55,680 Speaker 2: Well, and the sister's been charged with filing a false 287 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:58,200 Speaker 2: report and tampering with evidence, so they clearly know she 288 00:14:58,280 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 2: is involved. The mom was just rested because the mom 289 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 2: was the last person that saw or alive, and the details. 290 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 1: Just aren't adding up. 291 00:15:05,160 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 2: I don't know why the mom's husband was also arrested. 292 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:10,440 Speaker 1: They're not arresting. You can't arrest people for no reason, 293 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 1: so like there's some reason, right, And it's it's just 294 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:17,240 Speaker 1: like such a shame when you hear stuff like this, 295 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:19,600 Speaker 1: because that's just that that must just be the most 296 00:15:19,640 --> 00:15:25,040 Speaker 1: awful feeling to I mean, I imagine just when you 297 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:27,680 Speaker 1: know that you're probably going to die because someone's going 298 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:30,680 Speaker 1: to kill you. It's scary, but imagine being ready, like 299 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:33,640 Speaker 1: you're giving birth in a day, and worrying about what's 300 00:15:33,680 --> 00:15:37,280 Speaker 1: going to happen with that, and like someone stealing your 301 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:40,240 Speaker 1: baby and like them being raised by someone else. It's 302 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:47,720 Speaker 1: so freaking scary. 303 00:15:49,680 --> 00:15:52,720 Speaker 2: This episode is brought to you by the grocery guys. 304 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:55,280 Speaker 1: So the next story we are going to talk about 305 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 1: is about a person that was born intersex, and we're 306 00:15:59,760 --> 00:16:04,240 Speaker 1: going to talk all about what potentially they were born 307 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:07,280 Speaker 1: with and what they were dealing with as a child. 308 00:16:07,920 --> 00:16:11,200 Speaker 1: And I did write two articles in the Gross Room 309 00:16:11,320 --> 00:16:13,600 Speaker 1: about this at some point that I want you guys 310 00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:15,840 Speaker 1: to check out after you're done hearing the story if 311 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 1: you want to learn more about it. One is called 312 00:16:19,040 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 1: only two Sexes, and then the other one is called 313 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:25,120 Speaker 1: gender and Sex, and that Gender and Sex one is 314 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:31,200 Speaker 1: a real high profile dissection one of the longer articles 315 00:16:31,240 --> 00:16:36,480 Speaker 1: that we write about all about being born intersex, but 316 00:16:36,560 --> 00:16:40,320 Speaker 1: also about transgender and all the different surgeries that are 317 00:16:40,360 --> 00:16:43,080 Speaker 1: available and things like that. If you have any interest 318 00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:47,200 Speaker 1: in seeing how those surgeries are performed or anything, check 319 00:16:47,240 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 1: out that post in the Grossroom. 320 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:51,760 Speaker 2: Head over to the grossroom dot com now to sign up. 321 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 2: All Right, a man who was born intersex, meaning he 322 00:16:56,440 --> 00:16:59,840 Speaker 2: had both male and female genitalia, sharing his experience and 323 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:02,760 Speaker 2: creepy questions he's been asked throughout his life. So can 324 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:03,840 Speaker 2: you explain what that is? 325 00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:08,120 Speaker 1: All right? So he said this is from the article. 326 00:17:08,600 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 1: I was born with inverted testicles, and I had a 327 00:17:12,600 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 1: micro penis and also a vagina hole from birth. I've 328 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:20,040 Speaker 1: always compared myself to a Domino's pizza half and half. 329 00:17:20,080 --> 00:17:23,639 Speaker 1: That's basically how I felt when I had both a 330 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:29,160 Speaker 1: penis and a vagina. So based upon that, I think 331 00:17:29,200 --> 00:17:33,600 Speaker 1: that he likely had something called five alpha reductaste efficiency, 332 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:38,000 Speaker 1: which is when that enzyme is missing and the body 333 00:17:38,080 --> 00:17:43,919 Speaker 1: can't convert testosterone to DHT and DHT is the hormone 334 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:51,000 Speaker 1: that is required to develop mal external genitalia. So when 335 00:17:51,600 --> 00:17:58,080 Speaker 1: when he was born, he was genetically male but didn't 336 00:17:58,359 --> 00:18:04,800 Speaker 1: form a full male genitalia. So imagine when he was 337 00:18:04,880 --> 00:18:08,560 Speaker 1: born he looked like a girl, and he was raised 338 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:11,399 Speaker 1: as a girl for a portion of his life until 339 00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:15,560 Speaker 1: he was about eleven years old. Once someone that has 340 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:21,400 Speaker 1: this enzyme deficiency starts going through puberty, all of a sudden, 341 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:27,360 Speaker 1: it's quite obvious that they are in fact male. Their 342 00:18:27,480 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 1: voice deepens, they have increased muscle mass. Sometimes their penis 343 00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:34,840 Speaker 1: or the micro penis starts to grow and it starts 344 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:38,800 Speaker 1: looking a little bit less female and a little bit 345 00:18:38,840 --> 00:18:43,359 Speaker 1: more male when puberty kicks in, So then all of 346 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:46,840 Speaker 1: a sudden, things started making a lot more sense to 347 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:50,879 Speaker 1: him because he always felt like he was male because 348 00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 1: technically he is because of his genetics, but externally didn't 349 00:18:54,840 --> 00:19:00,640 Speaker 1: look that way. And unfortunately this happens. Intersex happens a lot. 350 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 1: It's not talked about. It's definitely talked about more now. 351 00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:06,720 Speaker 1: It happens a lot. Like there's as many intersex people 352 00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:09,680 Speaker 1: in the world as there are redheads, So just think 353 00:19:09,720 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 1: about that. So and there's different There's lots of different 354 00:19:13,080 --> 00:19:17,000 Speaker 1: things that could go that could happen during development that 355 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:20,200 Speaker 1: can make a person be like a Domino's pizza half 356 00:19:20,200 --> 00:19:21,879 Speaker 1: and half. They're kind of half this and half that. 357 00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:26,000 Speaker 1: They're not really they're not really one or the other. 358 00:19:26,560 --> 00:19:31,320 Speaker 1: So he has since said that he's had surgery to 359 00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:35,240 Speaker 1: do a folloplasty, which is to create a penis, because 360 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:39,359 Speaker 1: he's never developed. But he feels like a man, so 361 00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 1: he wants he wants to be a man. He doesn't 362 00:19:41,040 --> 00:19:43,440 Speaker 1: want to be a girl just because his generals look 363 00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:49,439 Speaker 1: like a girl. So it is interesting. I don't know 364 00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:56,040 Speaker 1: how old he is, but in the article he talks 365 00:19:56,080 --> 00:20:00,040 Speaker 1: about different things that his friend's parents would say. And 366 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:03,080 Speaker 1: I suppose that this had to come up because until 367 00:20:03,119 --> 00:20:05,320 Speaker 1: he was about my daughter's age now, so about in 368 00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:08,320 Speaker 1: fifth grade, he was presenting as a girl and then 369 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:12,879 Speaker 1: changed over to being a boy. And you know, people 370 00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:15,120 Speaker 1: ask questions, and I guess his parents and him were 371 00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:18,359 Speaker 1: very honest about like what happened and what he was 372 00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:24,800 Speaker 1: diagnosed with. Here, So his external genitals looked female, but 373 00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:28,560 Speaker 1: his testicles were still undescended. They were like up inside 374 00:20:28,560 --> 00:20:31,480 Speaker 1: of his body still they never came down into the 375 00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:36,119 Speaker 1: sack and this, you know, it just looked like he 376 00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:39,440 Speaker 1: had labia, like there was no ball in the sack, 377 00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:42,400 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So he always had testicles 378 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 1: and he has his testosterone and everything now going through 379 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:49,960 Speaker 1: puberty like he's a guy. So he wanted to look 380 00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 1: more like that. So these are some of the different 381 00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:57,359 Speaker 1: questions that his friend's parents would ask him, which is 382 00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:02,320 Speaker 1: which is actually kind of weird to think about, like 383 00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:07,440 Speaker 1: adults talking to children about this. I do like, this 384 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:09,760 Speaker 1: is why it's good for us to like I did 385 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:11,400 Speaker 1: a couple of stories of this in the gross room, 386 00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:13,399 Speaker 1: and I also like for us to talk about this 387 00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:17,840 Speaker 1: because people are curious and people want to know, and 388 00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:20,240 Speaker 1: it is weird to ask a kid this though, because 389 00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:23,640 Speaker 1: people don't understand because nobody talks about it, so people 390 00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:25,800 Speaker 1: think they don't know anybody that's gone through this, when 391 00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:30,879 Speaker 1: actually they probably do. So the friend's parents would say 392 00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:33,000 Speaker 1: do you sit down or you stand up when you 393 00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:35,760 Speaker 1: go to the toilet, And then he would say listen, 394 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:38,040 Speaker 1: like I'm a kid, just like you're you're asking me 395 00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:40,000 Speaker 1: like these weird questions. 396 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:43,240 Speaker 2: That one I will admit is a rude question to ask, 397 00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:49,879 Speaker 2: but the following are massively inappropriate and borderline sexual, which. 398 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:54,000 Speaker 1: Said, wait, what did it say? I didn't feel comfortable. 399 00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:57,960 Speaker 2: It was the asking about how he was going to 400 00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 2: the bathroom. And then because for a long time he 401 00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:03,600 Speaker 2: thought he was female, he was using a female locker 402 00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:06,040 Speaker 2: room at school. Oh yeah, and then they were like, 403 00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:09,080 Speaker 2: prove it, lift your shirt up, which I just thought 404 00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:11,080 Speaker 2: was so inappropriate. You're talking to a child. 405 00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:14,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, and then he was saying that I guess once 406 00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:19,199 Speaker 1: he started going through puberty, they wouldn't allow him to 407 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:24,119 Speaker 1: be in the girls room anymore because they said that 408 00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:27,600 Speaker 1: his clitorist got so big, like it looked like a penis, 409 00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:30,359 Speaker 1: Like it was like a little penis. But like that 410 00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:34,640 Speaker 1: day know that, well, I was thinking that too, because 411 00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:40,000 Speaker 1: like I mean, like I'm a different kind of person. 412 00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:42,239 Speaker 1: Like when I was having to get changed in the 413 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:45,359 Speaker 1: locker room at school, Like the last thing I'm doing 414 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:48,879 Speaker 1: is exposing my boobs or my badge to anybody. Like 415 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:53,160 Speaker 1: I was covered all the time, but kids take showers 416 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:56,639 Speaker 1: and stuff, and like you could see people. I know 417 00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:58,840 Speaker 1: that the guys do see each other naked, Like you 418 00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:00,840 Speaker 1: could see each other naked. It's it's weird to me, 419 00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:03,399 Speaker 1: Like I know, I always thought that it was weird. 420 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:05,160 Speaker 1: I never wanted to get changed in front of people 421 00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:06,760 Speaker 1: at school because I'm like, I don't want people to 422 00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:10,440 Speaker 1: see me naked at school. It's weird, but it happens, 423 00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:13,239 Speaker 1: especially if you play sports and stuff and kids, you know, 424 00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:16,280 Speaker 1: I recalled my locker rooms at school, like there's just 425 00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:18,360 Speaker 1: a bunch of showers, like people were naked in front 426 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:22,760 Speaker 1: of each other. So this kid is born thinking that 427 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,119 Speaker 1: he's a girl and then all of a sudden starts 428 00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:29,080 Speaker 1: like getting a deep voice and kind of just looking 429 00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:31,600 Speaker 1: more like a man, but like physically, like the genitals 430 00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 1: stole female. So it just was like a lot to 431 00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:36,880 Speaker 1: go through as as an eleven year old. 432 00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:40,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, don't I don't think the parents were knowing what 433 00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:42,679 Speaker 2: his genitals look like and asking him to prove it. 434 00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:45,800 Speaker 2: I think his facial appearance started looking more masculine. 435 00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:49,040 Speaker 1: No, but he said in the article, he said about 436 00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:51,480 Speaker 1: the locker room with the clitorists getting so big that 437 00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:53,119 Speaker 1: it looked like a penis, that they were like, you 438 00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:56,040 Speaker 1: can't get changed in front of the girls anymore. Now 439 00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:59,600 Speaker 1: he's had the surgery done and looks more how he feels. 440 00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:02,600 Speaker 1: So I think it's cool and it's I think it's 441 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:05,320 Speaker 1: really cool that he's like openly talking about it because 442 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:11,640 Speaker 1: it'll like make adults less weird and ask kids questions 443 00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:12,040 Speaker 1: like that. 444 00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:14,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean all the questions he was asked are 445 00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:17,560 Speaker 2: completely inappropriate, and I do think it plays a lot 446 00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:20,880 Speaker 2: to that of just people being so uncomfortable about it, 447 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,800 Speaker 2: and like the fact that you're saying it's as common 448 00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:27,480 Speaker 2: as redheads. Like, I don't think redheads are as rare 449 00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:29,959 Speaker 2: as they say they are, because I feel like I 450 00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:32,920 Speaker 2: see people with red hair. Maybe I'm more exposed because 451 00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,600 Speaker 2: I am married to a ginger sized family has gingers. 452 00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:38,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it is, It's rarely. It's like two to 453 00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:40,159 Speaker 1: three percent of the population. 454 00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:43,760 Speaker 2: I just don't believe that at all. I just feel 455 00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:45,119 Speaker 2: like there's so many of them. 456 00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:47,480 Speaker 1: You're with a person that's like a redhead. I don't 457 00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 1: ever see redheads like you do. I mean because you're 458 00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:52,760 Speaker 1: around his family and stuff. It's not just his family though, 459 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:56,760 Speaker 1: I see them everywhere you're looking. I guess. 460 00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:00,960 Speaker 2: Hopefully my little baby will be a g How cute. 461 00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:03,919 Speaker 2: All right, let's wrap up with a later story. So 462 00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:07,400 Speaker 2: a mom of three boys was hoping that she would 463 00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:09,040 Speaker 2: be having a girl when she found out she was 464 00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:15,240 Speaker 2: pregnant again, but then found out she was having triplet boys, Like, 465 00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:20,560 Speaker 2: oh my god, having six kids in general is insane, 466 00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:24,520 Speaker 2: but six boys. Yeah, I really believe that there's people 467 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:27,199 Speaker 2: in this world that are just made to be. Like 468 00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:30,879 Speaker 2: Gabe is a girl dad, Like that's what he was 469 00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:31,439 Speaker 2: made to be. 470 00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:35,720 Speaker 1: Like it's just I can't even picture him. Like if 471 00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:38,000 Speaker 1: I got pregnant, he knew this too, Like if I 472 00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:40,040 Speaker 1: got pregnant five more times, I would have had five 473 00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:43,399 Speaker 1: more girls. Like it's just that's his destiny. Kind of 474 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:46,879 Speaker 1: this mom's destiny is to be a boy mom. Like 475 00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:50,720 Speaker 1: it's just the way that it is. I can't even imagine, 476 00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:55,280 Speaker 1: because like I I think that everybody and and people 477 00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:57,360 Speaker 1: are getting more open to say that. Like when you're 478 00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:00,439 Speaker 1: pregnant and you find out the sex you're having, Like 479 00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 1: sometimes people get disappointed, especially when you have a certain 480 00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:09,840 Speaker 1: sex that you want another one. Sometimes sometimes people don't care. 481 00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:14,040 Speaker 1: Other times people are like, oh okay, you know and 482 00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:18,320 Speaker 1: other whatever, because I mean because for some reason, like 483 00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:23,199 Speaker 1: there's this unseid thing that like the only way that 484 00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:24,960 Speaker 1: you could be happy is if you have one of 485 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:26,600 Speaker 1: each at least or something. I don't know, you know, 486 00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:27,119 Speaker 1: it's weird. 487 00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,960 Speaker 2: Well that's ridiculous, and I mean, also I don't believe 488 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:33,240 Speaker 2: people are I think it's ridiculous when people judge others 489 00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:36,040 Speaker 2: for having like gender disappointment, right, because like you have 490 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:38,960 Speaker 2: in your mind you want a certain like I wanted 491 00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:41,239 Speaker 2: a boy first, and that's what I'm having luckily, right, 492 00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:43,480 Speaker 2: But if I had a girl, I mean, I would 493 00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:45,679 Speaker 2: have been just as excited. And maybe it's because I 494 00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:48,320 Speaker 2: had to struggle so much to get pregnant in general, 495 00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:50,480 Speaker 2: but like I wouldn't have cared either way. You're getting 496 00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:53,280 Speaker 2: a healthy baby. But like to know that this mom 497 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:55,199 Speaker 2: has three boys already and she was open to have 498 00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:57,280 Speaker 2: a girl, and now I was having three more boys 499 00:26:57,359 --> 00:27:01,000 Speaker 2: is insane. Like the fact that she's having at all 500 00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:03,800 Speaker 2: after having three kids, it's insane. And it wasn't she 501 00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:06,120 Speaker 2: didn't use any fertility treatment or I VA if there's 502 00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:10,600 Speaker 2: natural triplet pregnancy. It's just kind of like I'm gonna 503 00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:11,120 Speaker 2: say this and. 504 00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:14,000 Speaker 1: People might judge me for this, which is whatever. Like 505 00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:18,840 Speaker 1: I would really really be like depressed and like really 506 00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:21,480 Speaker 1: not happy if I found out I was having triplets. 507 00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:25,240 Speaker 2: See you're different that, Like I I wanted to have 508 00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:26,359 Speaker 2: twins really like. 509 00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:28,600 Speaker 1: I would even if I had twins, Like I I 510 00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:31,960 Speaker 1: seriously would cry. I mean like it would work out, 511 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,439 Speaker 1: like obviously I would figure it out and deal with it, 512 00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:38,960 Speaker 1: but just like the thought of how overwhelming that would 513 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:42,639 Speaker 1: be to me and just how much it would cost 514 00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:46,879 Speaker 1: three times everything like in a row, because at least 515 00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:50,000 Speaker 1: sometimes you have stagger so like this year, your kid's 516 00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:52,199 Speaker 1: got an expensive trip or has it it needs an 517 00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:54,560 Speaker 1: expensive gift or this or that, and it's like staggered 518 00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:56,840 Speaker 1: a little. When they're all in the same as that 519 00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:59,119 Speaker 1: grade and the same needs, in the same clothes, Like 520 00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:03,320 Speaker 1: it's just and that's same attention and everything. One could 521 00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:05,600 Speaker 1: say that it might be easier to just like whip 522 00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:08,719 Speaker 1: them all out at one time, Like doctor Drew had 523 00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:12,320 Speaker 1: three kids, right, they're fine now the kids are your age, right, 524 00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:18,080 Speaker 1: they survived it somehow. But I don't know. I just 525 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:20,680 Speaker 1: I just think that that would be like my worst nightmare. 526 00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:23,399 Speaker 2: You're the type of person that you're now. Like I 527 00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:25,800 Speaker 2: still every time I go, I'm like, are you sure 528 00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:26,840 Speaker 2: there's not two in there? 529 00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:29,640 Speaker 1: It's like yeah, but it's what I wanted. I don't know, Well, 530 00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:32,560 Speaker 1: my like, it's hard for me to say because obviously, 531 00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,520 Speaker 1: you were my first pregnancy, and I was fifteen years old, 532 00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:37,840 Speaker 1: so like I wasn't really thinking about anything like that. 533 00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:40,040 Speaker 1: But you're on your first pregnancy, like you have no 534 00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:42,840 Speaker 1: idea what's about to happen to you, Like as far 535 00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:46,160 Speaker 1: as taking care of a kid and having to like 536 00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:50,160 Speaker 1: be mid I don't like that. I think it's hard. 537 00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:53,120 Speaker 1: Like this mom knows what she's in for because she 538 00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 1: already has three kids. 539 00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:57,360 Speaker 2: And the other kids are eleven, four and one, so 540 00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:03,719 Speaker 2: she's gonna have like at least one toddler while she has. Listen, 541 00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:08,920 Speaker 2: people people that were much poorer than than we are now, 542 00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:11,680 Speaker 2: like back in the day had way more kids than 543 00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:14,280 Speaker 2: that and figured it out they've had the older kids 544 00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:16,920 Speaker 2: taking care of the younger kids, and everybody figures it out. 545 00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:19,560 Speaker 1: I know everyone figures it out. I just think that 546 00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:21,440 Speaker 1: I don't know. I just think that it would just 547 00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:24,800 Speaker 1: be so awful. No offense to any of you that 548 00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:28,560 Speaker 1: are listening, that have listen, like you're like a stronger 549 00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:31,280 Speaker 1: person than me. Mentally. I just think I just think 550 00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:32,800 Speaker 1: I mentally couldn't deal with it. 551 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:36,800 Speaker 2: I wouldn't personally want six children, but I think, like, 552 00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:40,000 Speaker 2: these big families are nice, right, So it's like I 553 00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,840 Speaker 2: think she was a little shocked. I think in general, 554 00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:44,840 Speaker 2: you'd be shocked if you were learning you were having triplets, 555 00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:47,560 Speaker 2: especially if you have three kids in general, and now 556 00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:49,560 Speaker 2: you're gonna have all boys. It's just kind of crazy 557 00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:52,560 Speaker 2: that that happened. Yeah, I definitely wouldn't say I mean 558 00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:53,720 Speaker 2: trying for the girls. 559 00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 1: Like, think about this, if you have six children, what like, 560 00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:01,080 Speaker 1: what what kind of CARDI even get. 561 00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:01,720 Speaker 2: A mini van? 562 00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:06,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, but then you have six kids, so six kids 563 00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:09,560 Speaker 1: are in the entire back, Like does a minivan seat 564 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:10,320 Speaker 1: eight people? 565 00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:16,920 Speaker 2: A mini van has it? I thought it only had like, no, 566 00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:20,160 Speaker 2: there's ones, there's ones with two seats, and then some 567 00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:22,920 Speaker 2: of them have three seats in both rows in the back, 568 00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:25,640 Speaker 2: so that could be six and the one kid's older, 569 00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:27,560 Speaker 2: don't forget, so he gets it in the front seat. 570 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:30,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, but like what if the mom and dad want 571 00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:33,800 Speaker 1: to go out together with the kids, like do you 572 00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:35,920 Speaker 1: have to might not be able to. Yeah, like I 573 00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:38,800 Speaker 1: that kind of shit, like scared that would just you'd 574 00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:42,440 Speaker 1: have to buy like a short school bus. No, they 575 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:44,320 Speaker 1: I would get it and like paint it out. I 576 00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:46,440 Speaker 1: would like paint it out and get like black rims 577 00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:48,239 Speaker 1: on it and paint it black. At least you can 578 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:48,920 Speaker 1: get like. 579 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:51,640 Speaker 2: An escalat or something that has more seats in it. 580 00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:55,200 Speaker 1: You don't have to have a minivan people have meeting. 581 00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:58,240 Speaker 1: I don't I'm serious. I don't think that I've seen 582 00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:00,920 Speaker 1: because I rent cars sometimes when we go on our 583 00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:02,600 Speaker 1: road trips and stuff. I don't think I've seen a 584 00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:06,160 Speaker 1: car that has eight seat belts. It's just like a 585 00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:09,080 Speaker 1: lot and then you can never have their friends. 586 00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:11,800 Speaker 2: Like not in the back, Like there's eight seats in 587 00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:14,400 Speaker 2: the car. There's two in the front, three in the middle, 588 00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:15,200 Speaker 2: three in the back. 589 00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:17,320 Speaker 1: I don't know. 590 00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:20,800 Speaker 2: It's then and like car we rented to go to 591 00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:22,400 Speaker 2: Sea Hamilton at that setup. 592 00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:24,960 Speaker 1: No, that was only that was only set. They don't 593 00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:27,960 Speaker 1: have that many. I'm telling you, I don't think it's 594 00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:31,960 Speaker 1: And it's like the car seat too, isn't like really 595 00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:35,080 Speaker 1: a seat like it almost spills into the next seat, 596 00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,600 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like three car seats actually 597 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:40,560 Speaker 1: four because she has a one year old. Well, listen, 598 00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:43,960 Speaker 1: plenty of people have six children or more and they 599 00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:46,360 Speaker 1: figure it out just fine. So I'm sure they'll figure 600 00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:48,160 Speaker 1: out the car situation. 601 00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:51,880 Speaker 2: All right. 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