WEBVTT - Cry in the Sky 0:00:01.840 --> 0:00:05.080 Find down with Janey Cramer and Michael Coffin, and I'm 0:00:05.080 --> 0:00:09.280 her radio podcast. It's Monday, Monday. 0:00:09.400 --> 0:00:14.200 And and I just feel like I'm already assumed the role, 0:00:14.280 --> 0:00:19.680 so let's just keep going. I know, she, I know it, 0:00:19.800 --> 0:00:22.680 said Sarah grets And you're like not the only person 0:00:22.680 --> 0:00:24.239 to do that. So that's why it's so funny that. 0:00:24.440 --> 0:00:26.440 I just, oh, God, thank you for the vibes. Thank 0:00:26.440 --> 0:00:28.040 you for putting on in the universe. Anyone who's ever 0:00:28.080 --> 0:00:30.320 met me that put me in their phone is Sarah Gretzky. 0:00:30.440 --> 0:00:34.800 It's done. Almost almost girl, almost. 0:00:35.400 --> 0:00:35.559 Hi. 0:00:35.600 --> 0:00:37.600 We're in La. This is fun. I'm so happy you 0:00:37.600 --> 0:00:40.159 guys are here. It is And by the way, we're 0:00:40.200 --> 0:00:42.519 working out the technical issues about the microphones in Nashville. 0:00:42.600 --> 0:00:44.239 We know that it's been a little challenging, but we 0:00:44.280 --> 0:00:44.880 are working on it. 0:00:45.800 --> 0:00:46.599 We're figuring it out. 0:00:46.680 --> 0:00:48.199 I know, I'm happy that we're all sitting here. But 0:00:48.240 --> 0:00:50.440 this is so fun to be back in La. I know, 0:00:50.479 --> 0:00:52.720 although I'm a little sad to be away from the babies, 0:00:52.760 --> 0:00:54.360 of course, but you're not. 0:00:57.400 --> 0:01:04.959 I'm kid. No which has changed the plans before. No, no, okay, 0:01:05.120 --> 0:01:07.200 it was like nine o'clock at night, We're finishing up, 0:01:07.240 --> 0:01:09.000 getting ready to go to bed with early flight, and 0:01:09.040 --> 0:01:11.080 she was like, you know what can we bring Joe 0:01:11.120 --> 0:01:13.920 Link She has some music gigs this weekend too. She's like, yeah, 0:01:14.000 --> 0:01:17.000 because she can come with me. But I'm like no, no, 0:01:17.160 --> 0:01:19.360 she says no. I'm like, who's gonna watch her? Sai Michelle, 0:01:20.000 --> 0:01:22.080 our old nanny. Yeah, here in a I'm like no. 0:01:22.360 --> 0:01:23.800 I'm like, let's go and be kidless. 0:01:23.840 --> 0:01:24.720 This is good for you, guys. 0:01:24.720 --> 0:01:25.360 Honestly it is. 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:27.320 I don't think so, because after this we have therapy 0:01:27.360 --> 0:01:31.400 and we're not great right now. Oh god, It's. 0:01:31.240 --> 0:01:37.320 Like really, as a producer, me fooled. 0:01:37.480 --> 0:01:40.680 I'm like, oh my god, the Nashville water is just 0:01:40.800 --> 0:01:43.000 running through their systems. They're like amazing. 0:01:43.080 --> 0:01:44.759 Dana's not the only one that connect. Oh. 0:01:47.920 --> 0:01:49.160 I was kind of kidding, But. 0:01:52.360 --> 0:01:53.840 Then I guess this is not a good time to 0:01:53.920 --> 0:01:56.840 ask you on wedding advice. So let's just get into that. 0:01:57.280 --> 0:01:59.280 I will say I have something I want to talk 0:01:59.320 --> 0:01:59.720 to you about. 0:02:00.120 --> 0:02:01.280 I'm scared, let's hear it. 0:02:01.440 --> 0:02:04.000 Let's hear it, because my feelings kind of got hurt. 0:02:04.160 --> 0:02:05.600 Oh, I know where we're going, and I was waiting, 0:02:05.680 --> 0:02:07.720 but okay, no, but because you said you didn't have 0:02:07.840 --> 0:02:10.880 many friends and I never expected to be a bridesmaid ever. 0:02:11.120 --> 0:02:15.840 Oh like ever in a million years, yeah, ever, ever, ever, 0:02:16.040 --> 0:02:17.480 Like I really truly want you to know that, Like 0:02:17.560 --> 0:02:19.959 I never actually like thought I was going to be. 0:02:20.320 --> 0:02:22.560 But when you said we don't have any friends, I 0:02:22.720 --> 0:02:24.880 was like, I'm your friend, I thought, and that like 0:02:24.960 --> 0:02:25.480 hurt my feelings. 0:02:25.520 --> 0:02:26.800 I just want to say, but you don't live here 0:02:27.000 --> 0:02:28.720 in La. I met, like, we don't have friends in 0:02:28.880 --> 0:02:32.720 La Like still the same thing. No, no, no no, 0:02:32.840 --> 0:02:35.359 but I mean, like on a Friday night, Tyane, I 0:02:35.400 --> 0:02:38.120 aren't like you were talking about your like party and 0:02:38.200 --> 0:02:40.200 you're like, we don't have any friends. Yeah, like you 0:02:40.320 --> 0:02:40.920 are my friend. 0:02:41.520 --> 0:02:44.239 So I guess I'll do this over the air, which 0:02:44.280 --> 0:02:46.840 I was going to ask you, But have you ever 0:02:46.880 --> 0:02:49.440 heard of house parties? It's a Southern thing, Okay, So 0:02:49.480 --> 0:02:51.120 I'm having a house party and I want you to 0:02:51.160 --> 0:02:52.800 be in my house party. I had a whole little 0:02:52.880 --> 0:02:55.840 package and like a letter and a little thing I 0:02:55.919 --> 0:02:56.600 was sending to your house. 0:02:56.639 --> 0:02:57.760 But I'll just ask you now and then you can 0:02:57.880 --> 0:02:58.560 get it at your house. 0:02:58.760 --> 0:02:59.200 What do you mean? 0:02:59.400 --> 0:03:01.200 So do you want to be my house party? It's like, 0:03:01.400 --> 0:03:08.520 don't understand. Okay, it's very honestly, it depends. 0:03:08.800 --> 0:03:11.880 So like a house party is most people prefer a 0:03:11.960 --> 0:03:13.600 house party because you don't have to do the dumb 0:03:13.680 --> 0:03:15.440 bridesmaid Okay. 0:03:15.360 --> 0:03:17.639 So like house party will like get ready to no 0:03:17.720 --> 0:03:20.560 because I mean for me, like I hate being a bridesmaid. 0:03:20.840 --> 0:03:23.120 Like sorry to people whose weddings I've been in. 0:03:24.880 --> 0:03:26.919 Second no, I mean, don't have you been in a 0:03:28.320 --> 0:03:30.600 you had a like a very interesting experience, like you 0:03:30.680 --> 0:03:32.359 had to travel far for that one, weren't you? 0:03:32.440 --> 0:03:33.400 Ad was? I was? 0:03:33.600 --> 0:03:34.520 No, that was amazing? 0:03:34.800 --> 0:03:37.920 Yeah, oh yeah yeah, I like I don't know what 0:03:38.040 --> 0:03:39.560 it is is I and then I got I was 0:03:39.600 --> 0:03:42.400 another maid of honor for my friend Lisa. But besides that, 0:03:42.560 --> 0:03:42.800 that's it. 0:03:43.520 --> 0:03:45.640 So I've been a bridesmaid quite a few times, and 0:03:45.720 --> 0:03:47.680 it's just like kind of like I felt bad when 0:03:47.720 --> 0:03:50.120 I asked my bridesmaids to be I felt bad, which 0:03:50.160 --> 0:03:53.440 is we because I just know that it's like they're 0:03:53.480 --> 0:03:58.640 paying for a lot. They're paying for well, uh, they're. 0:03:58.480 --> 0:04:01.960 Paying for a lot, and I don't care whatever is. 0:04:02.040 --> 0:04:02.680 I'd love to be a part. 0:04:02.680 --> 0:04:04.240 Okay, so you are going to be a part of it. 0:04:04.280 --> 0:04:06.400 So like you're gonna get ready with me. Sorry, so 0:04:06.560 --> 0:04:08.280 you're like you are, so a house party is going 0:04:08.320 --> 0:04:10.960 to be like you and like three of my other girlfriends. 0:04:11.080 --> 0:04:11.240 Yay. 0:04:11.560 --> 0:04:14.760 Yeah, I kind of you when the day of yes, 0:04:14.960 --> 0:04:17.160 and like you do all the other So like if 0:04:17.160 --> 0:04:19.200 you there's showers, I mean you don't live here, but 0:04:19.279 --> 0:04:20.600 like if you want to fly in for showers, like 0:04:20.839 --> 0:04:22.840 you're a part of everything, except for you don't have 0:04:22.839 --> 0:04:24.320 to wear the ugly dress, which like we know my 0:04:24.400 --> 0:04:25.960 dress won't be ugly, and you don't have to walk 0:04:25.960 --> 0:04:26.440 down the aisle. 0:04:27.080 --> 0:04:29.440 I mean, I just I love you either way. I 0:04:29.560 --> 0:04:31.360 wasn't like trying to know you know what I mean. 0:04:31.440 --> 0:04:32.680 But it was just like the FRA. I was just 0:04:32.720 --> 0:04:34.400 like I thought we were friends, not because I know 0:04:34.600 --> 0:04:36.599 you're coming on like you're involved in. 0:04:36.600 --> 0:04:40.440 Every way, Okay, except for Jill called me the night 0:04:40.440 --> 0:04:42.080 before and be like I don't want to leave Julie. 0:04:43.600 --> 0:04:46.520 I know, I totally got out of my last one 0:04:46.760 --> 0:04:48.440 and I didn't mean to. I just was like I 0:04:48.520 --> 0:04:50.440 missed my kids and so I left. It was just 0:04:50.520 --> 0:04:53.080 the Vegas, I know. No, I was just like I mean, 0:04:53.320 --> 0:04:55.760 granted I had like a twelve week old Yeah, that's different, 0:04:56.240 --> 0:04:57.880 and I feel like it's different. I don't maybe even 0:04:57.920 --> 0:04:59.239 younger than that. I think he was younger. 0:04:59.400 --> 0:05:02.880 I think he was like eight werette. 0:05:04.960 --> 0:05:06.320 Yeah, she's like I love it. 0:05:06.760 --> 0:05:12.360 Yeah, I think Cabo because Ty wants to go like skiing, Yeah, 0:05:12.720 --> 0:05:15.360 the month everything, just like he wants to go skied. 0:05:15.400 --> 0:05:17.240 Well, what can I help plan since I'm I mean, 0:05:17.240 --> 0:05:20.120 you've actually already done like a lot things like you 0:05:20.200 --> 0:05:21.960 really have. I had like all these questions last night. 0:05:21.960 --> 0:05:22.760 I was like so stressed. 0:05:22.839 --> 0:05:25.200 It's like up all night trying to find a freaking videographer. 0:05:26.200 --> 0:05:27.799 A videographer. It's very important. 0:05:27.880 --> 0:05:28.080 I know. 0:05:28.680 --> 0:05:30.840 That's what everyone says. That's why I'm really stressed, almost 0:05:30.839 --> 0:05:33.400 better than the pictures. No, you guys are like the 0:05:33.520 --> 0:05:36.160 fifth couple to tell me that. So it's putting a 0:05:36.240 --> 0:05:36.840 lot of pressure. 0:05:38.440 --> 0:05:42.160 Were you really involved in wedding planning ours? Yeah? Like 0:05:42.240 --> 0:05:44.160 did you not like in a meet like some guys 0:05:44.200 --> 0:05:46.440 just like don't care, Like did you care about. 0:05:46.480 --> 0:05:50.600 Because Janet wanted to Elope? You did? Wait? 0:05:50.880 --> 0:05:53.400 What I did not want a wedding? That's shocking because 0:05:53.400 --> 0:05:56.280 of how much you love planning. I love. I think 0:05:56.320 --> 0:05:58.120 in my next life, I want to be a wedding plan, 0:05:58.279 --> 0:06:00.640 No one, Mike and I have already like created your 0:06:00.680 --> 0:06:04.720 company for you. Absolutely, Wait you want why did you 0:06:04.760 --> 0:06:05.320 want to Elope? 0:06:05.400 --> 0:06:14.200 Because it was the third Okay, No, I didn't mean 0:06:14.240 --> 0:06:16.400 it that way. That was part of it. 0:06:16.960 --> 0:06:23.599 Not really what I said was that. Okay, For those 0:06:23.640 --> 0:06:25.480 that don't know my history, the first one I went 0:06:25.520 --> 0:06:28.359 through a drive through in Vegas' count doesn't count at all. 0:06:28.400 --> 0:06:30.120 It wasn't a wedding second one. Yes, it was a 0:06:30.120 --> 0:06:36.680 beautiful day, Jonathan, lovely, beautiful day. But I just I 0:06:36.960 --> 0:06:42.080 realized how expensive weddings are, how stressful they can be, 0:06:43.279 --> 0:06:45.680 and how it can tear families. 0:06:45.279 --> 0:06:47.880 Apart, check check, check. 0:06:49.600 --> 0:06:54.720 Wedding, and so I just was like, let's I found 0:06:54.760 --> 0:06:56.640 the one I want to be with. It's not about 0:06:56.760 --> 0:06:59.520 the wedding and the dress. I just want to go 0:06:59.680 --> 0:07:01.840 with you. But he wanted the wedding, so you wanted 0:07:01.880 --> 0:07:04.320 the wedding he did did, No, it's just totally I mean, 0:07:04.440 --> 0:07:06.320 Ty is like ready to party, So I get that. 0:07:06.600 --> 0:07:08.880 Right, I did, And that's and that's the thing. But again, 0:07:09.120 --> 0:07:10.960 from what I was saying, it was your third time, 0:07:11.040 --> 0:07:13.120 But I wasn't saying that from a bad place. 0:07:13.160 --> 0:07:14.920 It was but I didn't have a third wedding though 0:07:15.400 --> 0:07:16.120 I'm not saying that. 0:07:16.200 --> 0:07:18.560 I'm saying you've experienced. 0:07:18.520 --> 0:07:20.480 Like you didn't think she would be What can happen 0:07:20.760 --> 0:07:23.360 with the first one? No one knew I was married, 0:07:23.520 --> 0:07:26.280 so that doesn't count regardless. 0:07:26.120 --> 0:07:28.480 You had gone down that path in some way. It's 0:07:28.520 --> 0:07:30.960 what I'm saying. If you had never never been married, 0:07:31.000 --> 0:07:33.600 never been any any of that you're telling me when 0:07:33.640 --> 0:07:35.200 we got together and we decided to get married, you'd 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:36.280 be like, no, I still want to lope. 0:07:36.840 --> 0:07:40.240 No, But if I'm not, I'm not that kind of 0:07:40.320 --> 0:07:41.920 like what the wedding wasn't my thing? 0:07:43.200 --> 0:07:46.400 It was never really regardless, this was I I really 0:07:46.560 --> 0:07:47.160 you wanted the wedding. 0:07:47.160 --> 0:07:50.200 I guess what did family issues? That happened? 0:07:51.720 --> 0:07:53.840 You know we had to pay for ourselves. 0:07:53.920 --> 0:07:57.000 Yep, well, I mean obviously because I think in this 0:07:57.120 --> 0:07:58.320 dand age like my family. 0:07:58.160 --> 0:08:02.360 Like you know, I'm not saying talking about your points 0:08:02.400 --> 0:08:03.200 of it's expensive. 0:08:03.480 --> 0:08:05.440 Yes, yeah, so all the things that you are afraid 0:08:05.480 --> 0:08:07.400 of having like actually absolutely happened. 0:08:07.880 --> 0:08:09.480 Having said that, it was the most beautiful day ever. 0:08:09.560 --> 0:08:12.600 I know your picture is a flawless but our video 0:08:12.880 --> 0:08:15.040 is the most stunning thing. Ever, I want to see it. 0:08:15.200 --> 0:08:17.880 So that's it on the web. No, probably, oh it is, 0:08:18.040 --> 0:08:20.040 I think I think it is. Oh yeah it is. 0:08:20.160 --> 0:08:22.280 I mean it's it's it's beautiful. It makes me sad, 0:08:22.360 --> 0:08:27.120 but it's beautiful. Yeah. But for your wedding, it's going 0:08:27.200 --> 0:08:32.240 to be absolutely stunning. I cannot wait. I'm just privileged 0:08:32.320 --> 0:08:34.760 to be invited. Oh shut up, No, I really am. 0:08:34.920 --> 0:08:37.319 Like you're like a really good friend, like this is 0:08:37.360 --> 0:08:39.520 not you're like still still. It's kind of like hurts 0:08:39.559 --> 0:08:41.080 love it when you say really good. Oh my god, 0:08:41.240 --> 0:08:44.120 oh my god, I can't win. It's funny when I 0:08:44.280 --> 0:08:49.800 now I know how Mike, I know. No, I mean 0:08:50.160 --> 0:08:50.880 it's funny. 0:08:50.600 --> 0:08:52.439 Because no matter what you say now it's what you 0:08:52.440 --> 0:08:54.360 said first, doesn't don't hear anything. 0:08:54.520 --> 0:08:56.120 But what is crazy that you say that is it's 0:08:56.120 --> 0:08:57.880 so funny because Ty and I were talking and okay, 0:08:57.920 --> 0:09:00.240 it's been seven years. There were so many people who 0:09:00.280 --> 0:09:02.559 were like very much involved. You're one, two, and three 0:09:02.679 --> 0:09:04.680 that are like there's not a chance that they're there, 0:09:04.760 --> 0:09:05.959 you know what I mean, So like you came in 0:09:06.000 --> 0:09:06.839 at a really great time. 0:09:07.240 --> 0:09:10.480 Yeah, but it is crazy here because like we were 0:09:10.520 --> 0:09:12.240 talking about that and I was like, oh, that sucks 0:09:12.280 --> 0:09:13.920 for a lot of people who like were really in 0:09:14.000 --> 0:09:15.439 it with us in the beginning, and then you know, 0:09:15.559 --> 0:09:17.679 like times change, things change, and I just haven't kept 0:09:17.720 --> 0:09:18.320 in touch. 0:09:18.160 --> 0:09:20.880 And yeah, what's your biggest fear with the wedding? 0:09:22.960 --> 0:09:28.880 My biggest fear, Well, I can't really say it without 0:09:28.920 --> 0:09:33.240 giving away something. I'll say, weather, Okay, yeah, I mean 0:09:33.280 --> 0:09:36.240 there's going to be weather everywhere, but I'm like especially 0:09:36.559 --> 0:09:43.319 stressed on people maybe getting stre things. Yes, because the 0:09:43.360 --> 0:09:45.439 weather could be really bad there. It could, Yeah, it 0:09:45.480 --> 0:09:47.920 could at that time. I will walk there if I have. 0:09:49.679 --> 0:09:51.480 And the guy was like telling me and I was like, listen, 0:09:51.800 --> 0:09:53.960 I don't even care, like because he was like. 0:09:53.960 --> 0:09:55.040 You know the what and I'm like, I don't care. 0:09:55.600 --> 0:09:59.040 It'll be great. Here's my passage. Yeah, but that's which 0:09:59.120 --> 0:10:00.760 is something I don't know that's normal or not to 0:10:00.840 --> 0:10:02.200 care about the weather, but. 0:10:02.400 --> 0:10:05.600 It's probably the most Yeah, it's literally the most normal. 0:10:06.120 --> 0:10:07.599 Because I'm a control freak and I feel like I 0:10:07.640 --> 0:10:09.559 can control. I obviously want everyone to have fun. I 0:10:09.679 --> 0:10:12.680 want it to be like an experience, but I feel 0:10:12.679 --> 0:10:13.760 like I'll be able to handle that. 0:10:13.840 --> 0:10:14.800 But like, that's something I just. 0:10:14.960 --> 0:10:16.880 Have no control over. You can't. That's why you just 0:10:17.040 --> 0:10:18.880 you know, if you just don't try to control it, 0:10:19.040 --> 0:10:19.520 it'll be great. 0:10:19.679 --> 0:10:21.319 I've already just kind of like put that out there. 0:10:21.760 --> 0:10:25.400 I'm curious how many dads still pay for weddings, Mark, 0:10:25.520 --> 0:10:28.040 because you have two daughters. You've got two daughters. Is 0:10:28.120 --> 0:10:29.839 that something that you think about. 0:10:29.840 --> 0:10:32.160 Yes, that's something I've thought about. College is more in 0:10:32.200 --> 0:10:32.760 the forefront. 0:10:32.840 --> 0:10:37.280 But yeah, Thomas Rhett just like she was so funny. 0:10:37.360 --> 0:10:39.839 He was like, well, I'm going to be paying for 0:10:39.920 --> 0:10:42.120 three weddings now or something because that was so cute. 0:10:42.400 --> 0:10:43.000 Yeah, I don't know. 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:43.880 I don't know you would. 0:10:44.320 --> 0:10:46.959 Yeah, I don't know. I mean, is it is that 0:10:47.080 --> 0:10:47.760 still a thing? 0:10:47.880 --> 0:10:50.480 Well, we got married, the family split it all up 0:10:50.559 --> 0:10:55.200 kind of her parents, my parents, her grandparents, wow, all 0:10:55.320 --> 0:10:57.560 kind and then us we kind of split everything four ways. 0:10:57.960 --> 0:11:01.480 I don't know, Like the rule is rehearsal dinner. Rehearsal 0:11:01.559 --> 0:11:03.400 dinner is usually the husbands. 0:11:04.960 --> 0:11:08.760 Family, and then the day is supposed to be the brides. 0:11:08.559 --> 0:11:12.000 Fan bride family. But I mean, my you know, my 0:11:12.640 --> 0:11:15.040 I could never ask I could never ask my dad 0:11:15.240 --> 0:11:17.959 for yeah, you know, because I'm like I've been on 0:11:18.120 --> 0:11:20.200 my own now, working for a while I'm older, and yeah, 0:11:20.400 --> 0:11:24.240 you know not, I don't know. I think it's all 0:11:24.440 --> 0:11:27.079 about But again I would I mean, what do you 0:11:27.160 --> 0:11:31.400 think for for Jolie, I mean just me. 0:11:31.400 --> 0:11:34.439 And my old school. I feel like I plan on 0:11:34.679 --> 0:11:37.560 that we will pay for Joey's wedding, especially. 0:11:37.240 --> 0:11:40.040 Because you have one. I mean maybe if you like 0:11:40.280 --> 0:11:42.800 that's the thing that you have my daughters. Yeah, my 0:11:42.880 --> 0:11:45.800 dad had five daughters, and that's just something where you 0:11:45.840 --> 0:11:47.199 just kind of put it away and it's like you 0:11:47.440 --> 0:11:51.240 just kind of bit it and I'm like I'm the 0:11:51.320 --> 0:11:57.839 last one. I'm like, oh no, but yeah, yeah, yeah no. 0:11:57.960 --> 0:12:02.679 But there are things that I was like, special things, special. 0:12:03.920 --> 0:12:08.280 Extras that I'm like, ill, I'm gonna do myself, like 0:12:08.360 --> 0:12:11.640 what mm things for maybe like I don't know what 0:12:11.760 --> 0:12:16.040 I'm wearing or I don't know, but yeah, so excited. 0:12:16.240 --> 0:12:17.000 So I am. 0:12:18.760 --> 0:12:19.319 So excited. 0:12:19.440 --> 0:12:21.480 See, I was gonna have like the diamond from Titanic 0:12:21.960 --> 0:12:22.840 around her neck. 0:12:23.880 --> 0:12:26.160 Like a Princess Diana crown. No, I won't be wearing 0:12:26.200 --> 0:12:27.680 a crown. I won't. 0:12:27.720 --> 0:12:34.520 I'm not wearing a crown for anyone, wear up or down? Undecided, nided, 0:12:34.520 --> 0:12:39.040 I can't. Probably I'm a dancer. Okay, I'm gonna need 0:12:39.080 --> 0:12:41.880 like a pony tail down for down. Yeah, I'm sure, 0:12:42.000 --> 0:12:42.680 I'm sure both. 0:12:42.920 --> 0:12:44.800 I think most brides like do the half up like 0:12:45.080 --> 0:12:48.280 towards them after the ceremony. Maybe I'm gonna need just 0:12:48.360 --> 0:12:50.280 like full bun. I'm gonna need like a sweaty headband 0:12:53.000 --> 0:12:56.760 working on it. Oh yeah, that's so weird. 0:12:56.840 --> 0:12:57.040 I know. 0:12:57.240 --> 0:13:02.959 I'm so irritated inside inside knowledge. 0:13:02.640 --> 0:13:04.559 That I highly recommend it. 0:13:04.600 --> 0:13:06.600 I think you should, yeah, because I feel like, because 0:13:06.600 --> 0:13:08.440 I'm such a dancer, I definitely have to change. 0:13:08.480 --> 0:13:11.160 I can't be like lugging around like a situation all night. 0:13:11.400 --> 0:13:13.000 I went to the hospital the day of my wedding. 0:13:13.040 --> 0:13:14.880 I'm sorry that for. 0:13:17.160 --> 0:13:19.000 I was sick. My dad took her to the hospital. 0:13:19.480 --> 0:13:21.480 I couldn't breathe. I had you had like I need 0:13:21.520 --> 0:13:24.160 to have a breathing treatment. Was it like an anxiety 0:13:24.200 --> 0:13:26.920 attacker had brochitis? Oh? I had to get a breathing 0:13:26.960 --> 0:13:28.360 treatment because I woke up and I got to change 0:13:28.360 --> 0:13:29.719 my mind. That's my biggest fear. Oh my god, I 0:13:29.760 --> 0:13:31.880 cannot be sick. Oh my god. I need to call 0:13:31.960 --> 0:13:33.640 like Oprah's doctors and I need to get like the 0:13:33.720 --> 0:13:37.280 whole works. Yeah, oh no, that would be horrible. 0:13:38.040 --> 0:13:39.800 A picture of her and my dad. I got the 0:13:39.840 --> 0:13:41.360 hospital that was so nice. 0:13:42.520 --> 0:13:48.880 I was like, I can't breathe. That's wild. By the way, 0:13:49.080 --> 0:13:50.720 and I was pregnant, so I was like hopped up 0:13:50.720 --> 0:13:54.040 on all his medicine. Yeah, I had no idea. 0:13:54.200 --> 0:13:55.240 We found out a month later. 0:13:55.520 --> 0:14:00.679 Yea, like technically, oh wow, pregnant, you will be getting 0:14:00.720 --> 0:14:02.640 drunk at my wedding. By the way, now not happening, 0:14:02.720 --> 0:14:03.400 cruise happening. 0:14:03.920 --> 0:14:08.760 I'm gonna get hammered. No, like it's Halloween story from great. 0:14:09.360 --> 0:14:11.160 I already had this conversation with. 0:14:11.240 --> 0:14:13.400 Myself get hammered, So don't book. 0:14:13.840 --> 0:14:16.040 I don't like daddy hammered because Daddy hammered, Like in 0:14:16.120 --> 0:14:18.320 a cab, then mommy get hammered. Remember with the cab 0:14:18.360 --> 0:14:21.000 in New York. Then the cab in New York. You 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:25.520 were like, and he's falling in the I'm like, this 0:14:25.720 --> 0:14:30.560 is my night. This We were at a club and drunk. 0:14:33.240 --> 0:14:35.040 It was in Nashville. Let's cal mm down, like it 0:14:35.160 --> 0:14:37.600 was a good sees or something. And we got in 0:14:37.760 --> 0:14:40.320 the cab and you were so drunk you were falling, 0:14:40.360 --> 0:14:42.480 and you're like, can you tell the cab driver stop stopping. 0:14:42.560 --> 0:14:44.880 I'm like, well, honey, if you stop stopping, we are 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:49.840 going to die. No, it's happening. And and no, he's 0:14:49.880 --> 0:14:51.160 gonna have good time and so are you. Can you 0:14:51.200 --> 0:14:56.120 be happy drunk? Happy drunk? He does this dance? You know. No, 0:14:56.280 --> 0:14:57.120 I already was like. 0:14:57.200 --> 0:14:59.200 Thinking about it myself. I was like, Okay, this is 0:14:59.280 --> 0:15:03.240 going to be night. Like I'm gonna literally get her drunk. 0:15:03.560 --> 0:15:05.040 You don't have to be throwing up and on the 0:15:05.080 --> 0:15:07.400 spins and all that, but like, I feel like, how 0:15:07.480 --> 0:15:07.840 can you not? 0:15:08.720 --> 0:15:10.640 I just want to enjoy it, Like I want to 0:15:10.680 --> 0:15:12.880 be able to remember my conversation with Wayne. I want 0:15:12.920 --> 0:15:15.040 to be remember like the day, you know, I want 0:15:15.040 --> 0:15:17.040 to remember you well and seeing how beautiful you look 0:15:17.240 --> 0:15:20.920 and there were photos. I just I feel like it 0:15:20.920 --> 0:15:22.920 will be my mission to get her drunk, you. 0:15:22.920 --> 0:15:24.000 And me both, we'll team up. 0:15:24.400 --> 0:15:27.200 Your mission is combined the most amazing day. No, it 0:15:27.240 --> 0:15:29.760 will be excited about it. I'm excited. We're going to 0:15:29.840 --> 0:15:31.560 talk more, but first let's take a quick break. 0:15:40.440 --> 0:15:42.600 Interesting topic, okay, and you and I kind of have 0:15:42.680 --> 0:15:46.680 different points of view on this. We're flying this morning, 0:15:46.880 --> 0:15:51.600 and what's your take on reclining your seat etiquette. Oh 0:15:52.240 --> 0:15:55.200 I actually love this topic. I've been meaning to talk 0:15:55.200 --> 0:15:57.960 about this and it's something that I feel very passionate. 0:15:58.080 --> 0:16:03.080 Oh my god, no, I'm so excited. So it literally 0:16:03.480 --> 0:16:06.720 makes my skin and crawl when ty leans all the way. 0:16:06.560 --> 0:16:11.800 Back, it makes my wait, you lean back? Time tired, 0:16:17.200 --> 0:16:21.960 time out. Let's let's just talk about this. A lean backer. 0:16:22.120 --> 0:16:26.400 It's one inch that it leans back. Okay, so I'm 0:16:26.440 --> 0:16:27.640 not friking, Okay. 0:16:28.280 --> 0:16:30.800 One in is about the leg room that we had. 0:16:32.880 --> 0:16:36.440 I just don't understand how it's that much more comfortable. 0:16:36.920 --> 0:16:40.680 I guess because it's an it's to me, I'm like, like, 0:16:41.360 --> 0:16:44.640 it doesn't do anything. But one time, this lady was 0:16:44.760 --> 0:16:47.400 hitting TI and so I'm kind of traumatized because she 0:16:47.480 --> 0:16:49.240 was an older lady and she was really upset that 0:16:49.280 --> 0:16:50.800 he had a seat back, and she kept kicking it 0:16:51.120 --> 0:16:53.000 and kicking it, and finally she stands up and looks 0:16:53.000 --> 0:16:54.080 at him and was like, put. 0:16:53.880 --> 0:16:59.600 Your seat up. Why though, why put your seat up? You? You? 0:17:00.120 --> 0:17:02.800 I agree with you on that, but that just scared 0:17:02.840 --> 0:17:05.000 me from then on. So I'm like, no, but I 0:17:05.080 --> 0:17:07.040 don't know, you're not allowed to recline your seat then 0:17:07.119 --> 0:17:08.160 I guess I'm confirmed. 0:17:07.960 --> 0:17:10.080 Must I'm not saying. I'm not saying. I'm not saying 0:17:10.080 --> 0:17:12.600 you're not allowed to. I'm just saying me personally, I 0:17:12.720 --> 0:17:14.920 feel bad for the person to tell me. Someone in 0:17:14.960 --> 0:17:16.680 front of me, you know how I act. Sometimes I'm 0:17:16.720 --> 0:17:18.840 like stiff arming there started to go back on. 0:17:19.320 --> 0:17:21.800 The only thing I hate is when you have and 0:17:21.880 --> 0:17:24.080 then you're tall. Oh yeah, you're tall. 0:17:24.160 --> 0:17:28.080 I'm sorry that you're small in every no matter what airline, 0:17:28.119 --> 0:17:30.440 no matter what seat we're in, everything is first class. 0:17:30.440 --> 0:17:32.200 You're discriminating my smallness. 0:17:31.960 --> 0:17:34.640 Everything's first class for you. You're discriminate my height. Well, 0:17:34.880 --> 0:17:37.320 I'm saying it's etiquette. It's like, you know, we're all 0:17:37.680 --> 0:17:39.040 cramped in they were trying to get from point A 0:17:39.080 --> 0:17:41.119 to point B. Let's just get there as comfortably as 0:17:41.200 --> 0:17:42.480 we can. And the best way to do that is 0:17:42.560 --> 0:17:43.920 I want to just keep your seat up, respect the 0:17:43.960 --> 0:17:44.600 people around you. 0:17:45.760 --> 0:17:47.200 That's like taking shoes class. 0:17:48.520 --> 0:17:50.200 I just told you about when I was fine first class. 0:17:50.320 --> 0:17:52.919 Like we a week or so ago coming back from somewhere, 0:17:53.240 --> 0:17:55.080 and as soon as we got on the plane, I'm 0:17:55.160 --> 0:17:57.640 talking sat down, not even in the air Both people 0:17:57.640 --> 0:18:00.440 in front of me were that's straight back, and the 0:18:00.480 --> 0:18:03.399 flight attendant even time to put it up. I was 0:18:03.400 --> 0:18:07.760