1 00:00:01,840 --> 00:00:05,080 Speaker 1: Find down with Janey Cramer and Michael Coffin, and I'm 2 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:09,280 Speaker 1: her radio podcast. It's Monday, Monday. 3 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:14,200 Speaker 2: And and I just feel like I'm already assumed the role, 4 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:19,680 Speaker 2: so let's just keep going. I know, she, I know it, 5 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 2: said Sarah grets And you're like not the only person 6 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:24,239 Speaker 2: to do that. So that's why it's so funny that. 7 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:26,440 Speaker 3: I just, oh, God, thank you for the vibes. Thank 8 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 3: you for putting on in the universe. Anyone who's ever 9 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 3: met me that put me in their phone is Sarah Gretzky. 10 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 2: It's done. Almost almost girl, almost. 11 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:35,559 Speaker 1: Hi. 12 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:37,600 Speaker 2: We're in La. This is fun. I'm so happy you 13 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:40,159 Speaker 2: guys are here. It is And by the way, we're 14 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:42,519 Speaker 2: working out the technical issues about the microphones in Nashville. 15 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:44,239 Speaker 2: We know that it's been a little challenging, but we 16 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:44,880 Speaker 2: are working on it. 17 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:46,599 Speaker 1: We're figuring it out. 18 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:48,199 Speaker 2: I know, I'm happy that we're all sitting here. But 19 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 2: this is so fun to be back in La. I know, 20 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:52,720 Speaker 2: although I'm a little sad to be away from the babies, 21 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 2: of course, but you're not. 22 00:00:57,400 --> 00:01:04,959 Speaker 1: I'm kid. No which has changed the plans before. No, no, okay, 23 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 1: it was like nine o'clock at night, We're finishing up, 24 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 1: getting ready to go to bed with early flight, and 25 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 1: she was like, you know what can we bring Joe 26 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 1: Link She has some music gigs this weekend too. She's like, yeah, 27 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 1: because she can come with me. But I'm like no, no, 28 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 1: she says no. I'm like, who's gonna watch her? Sai Michelle, 29 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 1: our old nanny. Yeah, here in a I'm like no. 30 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 1: I'm like, let's go and be kidless. 31 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 2: This is good for you, guys. 32 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 1: Honestly it is. 33 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:27,320 Speaker 2: I don't think so, because after this we have therapy 34 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:31,400 Speaker 2: and we're not great right now. Oh god, It's. 35 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:37,320 Speaker 1: Like really, as a producer, me fooled. 36 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:40,680 Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, the Nashville water is just 37 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 2: running through their systems. They're like amazing. 38 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:44,759 Speaker 1: Dana's not the only one that connect. Oh. 39 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 2: I was kind of kidding, But. 40 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 3: Then I guess this is not a good time to 41 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 3: ask you on wedding advice. So let's just get into that. 42 00:01:57,280 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 2: I will say I have something I want to talk 43 00:01:59,320 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 2: to you about. 44 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 1: I'm scared, let's hear it. 45 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 2: Let's hear it, because my feelings kind of got hurt. 46 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 3: Oh, I know where we're going, and I was waiting, 47 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 3: but okay, no, but because you said you didn't have 48 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 3: many friends and I never expected to be a bridesmaid ever. 49 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 3: Oh like ever in a million years, yeah, ever, ever, ever, 50 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 3: Like I really truly want you to know that, Like 51 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:19,959 Speaker 3: I never actually like thought I was going to be. 52 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 3: But when you said we don't have any friends, I 53 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 3: was like, I'm your friend, I thought, and that like 54 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 3: hurt my feelings. 55 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 2: I just want to say, but you don't live here 56 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 2: in La. I met, like, we don't have friends in 57 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 2: La Like still the same thing. No, no, no no, 58 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:35,359 Speaker 2: but I mean, like on a Friday night, Tyane, I 59 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:38,120 Speaker 2: aren't like you were talking about your like party and 60 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 2: you're like, we don't have any friends. Yeah, like you 61 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:40,920 Speaker 2: are my friend. 62 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:44,239 Speaker 3: So I guess I'll do this over the air, which 63 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 3: I was going to ask you, But have you ever 64 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 3: heard of house parties? It's a Southern thing, Okay, So 65 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 3: I'm having a house party and I want you to 66 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 3: be in my house party. I had a whole little 67 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 3: package and like a letter and a little thing I 68 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 3: was sending to your house. 69 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:57,760 Speaker 2: But I'll just ask you now and then you can 70 00:02:57,880 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 2: get it at your house. 71 00:02:58,760 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 1: What do you mean? 72 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 2: So do you want to be my house party? It's like, 73 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:08,520 Speaker 2: don't understand. Okay, it's very honestly, it depends. 74 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 3: So like a house party is most people prefer a 75 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 3: house party because you don't have to do the dumb 76 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 3: bridesmaid Okay. 77 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:17,639 Speaker 2: So like house party will like get ready to no 78 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 2: because I mean for me, like I hate being a bridesmaid. 79 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:23,120 Speaker 2: Like sorry to people whose weddings I've been in. 80 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:26,919 Speaker 3: Second no, I mean, don't have you been in a 81 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 3: you had a like a very interesting experience, like you 82 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:32,359 Speaker 3: had to travel far for that one, weren't you? 83 00:03:32,440 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 2: Ad was? I was? 84 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 1: No, that was amazing? 85 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah yeah, I like I don't know what 86 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 2: it is is I and then I got I was 87 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 2: another maid of honor for my friend Lisa. But besides that, 88 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:42,800 Speaker 2: that's it. 89 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 3: So I've been a bridesmaid quite a few times, and 90 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 3: it's just like kind of like I felt bad when 91 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:50,120 Speaker 3: I asked my bridesmaids to be I felt bad, which 92 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 3: is we because I just know that it's like they're 93 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 3: paying for a lot. They're paying for well, uh, they're. 94 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 2: Paying for a lot, and I don't care whatever is. 95 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 1: I'd love to be a part. 96 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 3: Okay, so you are going to be a part of it. 97 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 3: So like you're gonna get ready with me. Sorry, so 98 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 3: you're like you are, so a house party is going 99 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 3: to be like you and like three of my other girlfriends. 100 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 1: Yay. 101 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I kind of you when the day of yes, 102 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:17,160 Speaker 3: and like you do all the other So like if 103 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:19,200 Speaker 3: you there's showers, I mean you don't live here, but 104 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:20,600 Speaker 3: like if you want to fly in for showers, like 105 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:22,840 Speaker 3: you're a part of everything, except for you don't have 106 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 3: to wear the ugly dress, which like we know my 107 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 3: dress won't be ugly, and you don't have to walk 108 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 3: down the aisle. 109 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 2: I mean, I just I love you either way. I 110 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 2: wasn't like trying to know you know what I mean. 111 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 2: But it was just like the FRA. I was just 112 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 2: like I thought we were friends, not because I know 113 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:36,599 Speaker 2: you're coming on like you're involved in. 114 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 3: Every way, Okay, except for Jill called me the night 115 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 3: before and be like I don't want to leave Julie. 116 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 2: I know, I totally got out of my last one 117 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 2: and I didn't mean to. I just was like I 118 00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 2: missed my kids and so I left. It was just 119 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 2: the Vegas, I know. No, I was just like I mean, 120 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 2: granted I had like a twelve week old Yeah, that's different, 121 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 2: and I feel like it's different. I don't maybe even 122 00:04:57,920 --> 00:04:59,239 Speaker 2: younger than that. I think he was younger. 123 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 1: I think he was like eight werette. 124 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's like I love it. 125 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:12,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think Cabo because Ty wants to go like skiing, Yeah, 126 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 3: the month everything, just like he wants to go skied. 127 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 2: Well, what can I help plan since I'm I mean, 128 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:20,120 Speaker 2: you've actually already done like a lot things like you 129 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 2: really have. I had like all these questions last night. 130 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 2: I was like so stressed. 131 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 3: It's like up all night trying to find a freaking videographer. 132 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:27,799 Speaker 3: A videographer. It's very important. 133 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 2: I know. 134 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:30,840 Speaker 3: That's what everyone says. That's why I'm really stressed, almost 135 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 3: better than the pictures. No, you guys are like the 136 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:36,160 Speaker 3: fifth couple to tell me that. So it's putting a 137 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:36,840 Speaker 3: lot of pressure. 138 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:42,160 Speaker 2: Were you really involved in wedding planning ours? Yeah? Like 139 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 2: did you not like in a meet like some guys 140 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 2: just like don't care, Like did you care about. 141 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:50,600 Speaker 1: Because Janet wanted to Elope? You did? Wait? 142 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 2: What I did not want a wedding? That's shocking because 143 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:56,280 Speaker 2: of how much you love planning. I love. I think 144 00:05:56,320 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 2: in my next life, I want to be a wedding plan, 145 00:05:58,279 --> 00:06:00,640 Speaker 2: No one, Mike and I have already like created your 146 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:04,720 Speaker 2: company for you. Absolutely, Wait you want why did you 147 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 2: want to Elope? 148 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 1: Because it was the third Okay, No, I didn't mean 149 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 1: it that way. That was part of it. 150 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:23,599 Speaker 2: Not really what I said was that. Okay, For those 151 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:25,480 Speaker 2: that don't know my history, the first one I went 152 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:28,359 Speaker 2: through a drive through in Vegas' count doesn't count at all. 153 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 2: It wasn't a wedding second one. Yes, it was a 154 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 2: beautiful day, Jonathan, lovely, beautiful day. But I just I 155 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 2: realized how expensive weddings are, how stressful they can be, 156 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 2: and how it can tear families. 157 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 1: Apart, check check, check. 158 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:54,720 Speaker 2: Wedding, and so I just was like, let's I found 159 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 2: the one I want to be with. It's not about 160 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 2: the wedding and the dress. I just want to go 161 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:01,840 Speaker 2: with you. But he wanted the wedding, so you wanted 162 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 2: the wedding he did did, No, it's just totally I mean, 163 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 2: Ty is like ready to party, So I get that. 164 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 1: Right, I did, And that's and that's the thing. But again, 165 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 1: from what I was saying, it was your third time, 166 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 1: But I wasn't saying that from a bad place. 167 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 2: It was but I didn't have a third wedding though 168 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 2: I'm not saying that. 169 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:18,560 Speaker 1: I'm saying you've experienced. 170 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 3: Like you didn't think she would be What can happen 171 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:23,360 Speaker 3: with the first one? No one knew I was married, 172 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:26,280 Speaker 3: so that doesn't count regardless. 173 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 1: You had gone down that path in some way. It's 174 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. If you had never never been married, 175 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 1: never been any any of that you're telling me when 176 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 1: we got together and we decided to get married, you'd 177 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 1: be like, no, I still want to lope. 178 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 2: No, But if I'm not, I'm not that kind of 179 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 2: like what the wedding wasn't my thing? 180 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 1: It was never really regardless, this was I I really 181 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:47,160 Speaker 1: you wanted the wedding. 182 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 2: I guess what did family issues? That happened? 183 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:53,840 Speaker 1: You know we had to pay for ourselves. 184 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 2: Yep, well, I mean obviously because I think in this 185 00:07:57,120 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 2: dand age like my family. 186 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 1: Like you know, I'm not saying talking about your points 187 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 1: of it's expensive. 188 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, so all the things that you are afraid 189 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 3: of having like actually absolutely happened. 190 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 2: Having said that, it was the most beautiful day ever. 191 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 2: I know your picture is a flawless but our video 192 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:15,040 Speaker 2: is the most stunning thing. Ever, I want to see it. 193 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 2: So that's it on the web. No, probably, oh it is, 194 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 2: I think I think it is. Oh yeah it is. 195 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 2: I mean it's it's it's beautiful. It makes me sad, 196 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 2: but it's beautiful. Yeah. But for your wedding, it's going 197 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 2: to be absolutely stunning. I cannot wait. I'm just privileged 198 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 2: to be invited. Oh shut up, No, I really am. 199 00:08:34,920 --> 00:08:37,319 Speaker 2: Like you're like a really good friend, like this is 200 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 2: not you're like still still. It's kind of like hurts 201 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:41,080 Speaker 2: love it when you say really good. Oh my god, 202 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 2: oh my god, I can't win. It's funny when I 203 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 2: now I know how Mike, I know. No, I mean 204 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 2: it's funny. 205 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:52,439 Speaker 1: Because no matter what you say now it's what you 206 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 1: said first, doesn't don't hear anything. 207 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 2: But what is crazy that you say that is it's 208 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 2: so funny because Ty and I were talking and okay, 209 00:08:57,920 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 2: it's been seven years. There were so many people who 210 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:02,559 Speaker 2: were like very much involved. You're one, two, and three 211 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:04,680 Speaker 2: that are like there's not a chance that they're there, 212 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:05,959 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, So like you came in 213 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:06,839 Speaker 2: at a really great time. 214 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, but it is crazy here because like we were 215 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:12,240 Speaker 3: talking about that and I was like, oh, that sucks 216 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:13,920 Speaker 3: for a lot of people who like were really in 217 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:15,439 Speaker 3: it with us in the beginning, and then you know, 218 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:17,679 Speaker 3: like times change, things change, and I just haven't kept 219 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 3: in touch. 220 00:09:18,160 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 2: And yeah, what's your biggest fear with the wedding? 221 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 3: My biggest fear, Well, I can't really say it without 222 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 3: giving away something. I'll say, weather, Okay, yeah, I mean 223 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 3: there's going to be weather everywhere, but I'm like especially 224 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:43,319 Speaker 3: stressed on people maybe getting stre things. Yes, because the 225 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:45,439 Speaker 3: weather could be really bad there. It could, Yeah, it 226 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:47,920 Speaker 3: could at that time. I will walk there if I have. 227 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 3: And the guy was like telling me and I was like, listen, 228 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:53,960 Speaker 3: I don't even care, like because he was like. 229 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:55,040 Speaker 2: You know the what and I'm like, I don't care. 230 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:59,040 Speaker 2: It'll be great. Here's my passage. Yeah, but that's which 231 00:09:59,120 --> 00:10:00,760 Speaker 2: is something I don't know that's normal or not to 232 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:02,200 Speaker 2: care about the weather, but. 233 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:05,600 Speaker 1: It's probably the most Yeah, it's literally the most normal. 234 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:07,599 Speaker 3: Because I'm a control freak and I feel like I 235 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:09,559 Speaker 3: can control. I obviously want everyone to have fun. I 236 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:12,680 Speaker 3: want it to be like an experience, but I feel 237 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 3: like I'll be able to handle that. 238 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 2: But like, that's something I just. 239 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 1: Have no control over. You can't. That's why you just 240 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 1: you know, if you just don't try to control it, 241 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 1: it'll be great. 242 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:21,319 Speaker 2: I've already just kind of like put that out there. 243 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 2: I'm curious how many dads still pay for weddings, Mark, 244 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 2: because you have two daughters. You've got two daughters. Is 245 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:29,839 Speaker 2: that something that you think about. 246 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 4: Yes, that's something I've thought about. College is more in 247 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:32,760 Speaker 4: the forefront. 248 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 2: But yeah, Thomas Rhett just like she was so funny. 249 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:39,839 Speaker 3: He was like, well, I'm going to be paying for 250 00:10:39,920 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 3: three weddings now or something because that was so cute. 251 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. 252 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 1: I don't know you would. 253 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:46,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. I mean, is it is that 254 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 2: still a thing? 255 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:50,480 Speaker 4: Well, we got married, the family split it all up 256 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:55,200 Speaker 4: kind of her parents, my parents, her grandparents, wow, all 257 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:57,560 Speaker 4: kind and then us we kind of split everything four ways. 258 00:10:57,960 --> 00:11:01,480 Speaker 2: I don't know, Like the rule is rehearsal dinner. Rehearsal 259 00:11:01,559 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 2: dinner is usually the husbands. 260 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 1: Family, and then the day is supposed to be the brides. 261 00:11:08,559 --> 00:11:12,000 Speaker 2: Fan bride family. But I mean, my you know, my 262 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 2: I could never ask I could never ask my dad 263 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:17,959 Speaker 2: for yeah, you know, because I'm like I've been on 264 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:20,200 Speaker 2: my own now, working for a while I'm older, and yeah, 265 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 2: you know not, I don't know. I think it's all 266 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:27,079 Speaker 2: about But again I would I mean, what do you 267 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 2: think for for Jolie, I mean just me. 268 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:34,439 Speaker 1: And my old school. I feel like I plan on 269 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:37,560 Speaker 1: that we will pay for Joey's wedding, especially. 270 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 2: Because you have one. I mean maybe if you like 271 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 2: that's the thing that you have my daughters. Yeah, my 272 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:45,800 Speaker 2: dad had five daughters, and that's just something where you 273 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:47,199 Speaker 2: just kind of put it away and it's like you 274 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:51,240 Speaker 2: just kind of bit it and I'm like I'm the 275 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:57,839 Speaker 2: last one. I'm like, oh no, but yeah, yeah, yeah no. 276 00:11:57,960 --> 00:12:02,679 Speaker 2: But there are things that I was like, special things, special. 277 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:08,280 Speaker 3: Extras that I'm like, ill, I'm gonna do myself, like 278 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:11,640 Speaker 3: what mm things for maybe like I don't know what 279 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 3: I'm wearing or I don't know, but yeah, so excited. 280 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:17,000 Speaker 1: So I am. 281 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:19,319 Speaker 2: So excited. 282 00:12:19,440 --> 00:12:21,480 Speaker 1: See, I was gonna have like the diamond from Titanic 283 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:22,840 Speaker 1: around her neck. 284 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:26,160 Speaker 2: Like a Princess Diana crown. No, I won't be wearing 285 00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:27,680 Speaker 2: a crown. I won't. 286 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 3: I'm not wearing a crown for anyone, wear up or down? Undecided, nided, 287 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:39,040 Speaker 3: I can't. Probably I'm a dancer. Okay, I'm gonna need 288 00:12:39,080 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 3: like a pony tail down for down. Yeah, I'm sure, 289 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:42,680 Speaker 3: I'm sure both. 290 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 2: I think most brides like do the half up like 291 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 2: towards them after the ceremony. Maybe I'm gonna need just 292 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 2: like full bun. I'm gonna need like a sweaty headband 293 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 2: working on it. Oh yeah, that's so weird. 294 00:12:56,840 --> 00:12:57,040 Speaker 4: I know. 295 00:12:57,240 --> 00:13:02,959 Speaker 2: I'm so irritated inside inside knowledge. 296 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:04,559 Speaker 1: That I highly recommend it. 297 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 3: I think you should, yeah, because I feel like, because 298 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:08,440 Speaker 3: I'm such a dancer, I definitely have to change. 299 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 2: I can't be like lugging around like a situation all night. 300 00:13:11,400 --> 00:13:13,000 Speaker 2: I went to the hospital the day of my wedding. 301 00:13:13,040 --> 00:13:14,880 Speaker 2: I'm sorry that for. 302 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 1: I was sick. My dad took her to the hospital. 303 00:13:19,480 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 2: I couldn't breathe. I had you had like I need 304 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:24,160 Speaker 2: to have a breathing treatment. Was it like an anxiety 305 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:26,920 Speaker 2: attacker had brochitis? Oh? I had to get a breathing 306 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 2: treatment because I woke up and I got to change 307 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:29,719 Speaker 2: my mind. That's my biggest fear. Oh my god, I 308 00:13:29,760 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 2: cannot be sick. Oh my god. I need to call 309 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 2: like Oprah's doctors and I need to get like the 310 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:37,280 Speaker 2: whole works. Yeah, oh no, that would be horrible. 311 00:13:38,040 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 1: A picture of her and my dad. I got the 312 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:41,360 Speaker 1: hospital that was so nice. 313 00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 2: I was like, I can't breathe. That's wild. By the way, 314 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:50,720 Speaker 2: and I was pregnant, so I was like hopped up 315 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 2: on all his medicine. Yeah, I had no idea. 316 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 1: We found out a month later. 317 00:13:55,520 --> 00:14:00,679 Speaker 3: Yea, like technically, oh wow, pregnant, you will be getting 318 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:02,640 Speaker 3: drunk at my wedding. By the way, now not happening, 319 00:14:02,720 --> 00:14:03,400 Speaker 3: cruise happening. 320 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:08,760 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get hammered. No, like it's Halloween story from great. 321 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 2: I already had this conversation with. 322 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 1: Myself get hammered, So don't book. 323 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:16,040 Speaker 2: I don't like daddy hammered because Daddy hammered, Like in 324 00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:18,320 Speaker 2: a cab, then mommy get hammered. Remember with the cab 325 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:21,000 Speaker 2: in New York. Then the cab in New York. You 326 00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 2: were like, and he's falling in the I'm like, this 327 00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:30,560 Speaker 2: is my night. This We were at a club and drunk. 328 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:35,040 Speaker 2: It was in Nashville. Let's cal mm down, like it 329 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 2: was a good sees or something. And we got in 330 00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 2: the cab and you were so drunk you were falling, 331 00:14:40,360 --> 00:14:42,480 Speaker 2: and you're like, can you tell the cab driver stop stopping. 332 00:14:42,560 --> 00:14:44,880 Speaker 2: I'm like, well, honey, if you stop stopping, we are 333 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 2: going to die. No, it's happening. And and no, he's 334 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 2: gonna have good time and so are you. Can you 335 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:56,120 Speaker 2: be happy drunk? Happy drunk? He does this dance? You know. No, 336 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:57,120 Speaker 2: I already was like. 337 00:14:57,200 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 3: Thinking about it myself. I was like, Okay, this is 338 00:14:59,280 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 3: going to be night. Like I'm gonna literally get her drunk. 339 00:15:03,560 --> 00:15:05,040 Speaker 3: You don't have to be throwing up and on the 340 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:07,400 Speaker 3: spins and all that, but like, I feel like, how 341 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:07,840 Speaker 3: can you not? 342 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 2: I just want to enjoy it, Like I want to 343 00:15:10,680 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 2: be able to remember my conversation with Wayne. I want 344 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:15,040 Speaker 2: to be remember like the day, you know, I want 345 00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:17,040 Speaker 2: to remember you well and seeing how beautiful you look 346 00:15:17,240 --> 00:15:20,920 Speaker 2: and there were photos. I just I feel like it 347 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:22,920 Speaker 2: will be my mission to get her drunk, you. 348 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:24,000 Speaker 1: And me both, we'll team up. 349 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:27,200 Speaker 2: Your mission is combined the most amazing day. No, it 350 00:15:27,240 --> 00:15:29,760 Speaker 2: will be excited about it. I'm excited. We're going to 351 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 2: talk more, but first let's take a quick break. 352 00:15:40,440 --> 00:15:42,600 Speaker 1: Interesting topic, okay, and you and I kind of have 353 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:46,680 Speaker 1: different points of view on this. We're flying this morning, 354 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:51,600 Speaker 1: and what's your take on reclining your seat etiquette. Oh 355 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:55,200 Speaker 1: I actually love this topic. I've been meaning to talk 356 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:57,960 Speaker 1: about this and it's something that I feel very passionate. 357 00:15:58,080 --> 00:16:03,080 Speaker 3: Oh my god, no, I'm so excited. So it literally 358 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:06,720 Speaker 3: makes my skin and crawl when ty leans all the way. 359 00:16:06,560 --> 00:16:11,800 Speaker 2: Back, it makes my wait, you lean back? Time tired, 360 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:21,960 Speaker 2: time out. Let's let's just talk about this. A lean backer. 361 00:16:22,120 --> 00:16:26,400 Speaker 2: It's one inch that it leans back. Okay, so I'm 362 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 2: not friking, Okay. 363 00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:30,800 Speaker 1: One in is about the leg room that we had. 364 00:16:32,880 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 3: I just don't understand how it's that much more comfortable. 365 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:40,680 Speaker 3: I guess because it's an it's to me, I'm like, like, 366 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:44,640 Speaker 3: it doesn't do anything. But one time, this lady was 367 00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:47,400 Speaker 3: hitting TI and so I'm kind of traumatized because she 368 00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 3: was an older lady and she was really upset that 369 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:50,800 Speaker 3: he had a seat back, and she kept kicking it 370 00:16:51,120 --> 00:16:53,000 Speaker 3: and kicking it, and finally she stands up and looks 371 00:16:53,000 --> 00:16:54,080 Speaker 3: at him and was like, put. 372 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:59,600 Speaker 2: Your seat up. Why though, why put your seat up? You? You? 373 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:02,800 Speaker 2: I agree with you on that, but that just scared 374 00:17:02,840 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 2: me from then on. So I'm like, no, but I 375 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:07,040 Speaker 2: don't know, you're not allowed to recline your seat then 376 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:08,160 Speaker 2: I guess I'm confirmed. 377 00:17:07,960 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 1: Must I'm not saying. I'm not saying. I'm not saying 378 00:17:10,080 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 1: you're not allowed to. I'm just saying me personally, I 379 00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:14,920 Speaker 1: feel bad for the person to tell me. Someone in 380 00:17:14,960 --> 00:17:16,680 Speaker 1: front of me, you know how I act. Sometimes I'm 381 00:17:16,720 --> 00:17:18,840 Speaker 1: like stiff arming there started to go back on. 382 00:17:19,320 --> 00:17:21,800 Speaker 2: The only thing I hate is when you have and 383 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:24,080 Speaker 2: then you're tall. Oh yeah, you're tall. 384 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:28,080 Speaker 1: I'm sorry that you're small in every no matter what airline, 385 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:30,440 Speaker 1: no matter what seat we're in, everything is first class. 386 00:17:30,440 --> 00:17:32,200 Speaker 2: You're discriminating my smallness. 387 00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:34,640 Speaker 1: Everything's first class for you. You're discriminate my height. Well, 388 00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 1: I'm saying it's etiquette. It's like, you know, we're all 389 00:17:37,680 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 1: cramped in they were trying to get from point A 390 00:17:39,080 --> 00:17:41,119 Speaker 1: to point B. Let's just get there as comfortably as 391 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:42,480 Speaker 1: we can. And the best way to do that is 392 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:43,920 Speaker 1: I want to just keep your seat up, respect the 393 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:44,600 Speaker 1: people around you. 394 00:17:45,760 --> 00:17:47,200 Speaker 2: That's like taking shoes class. 395 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:50,200 Speaker 1: I just told you about when I was fine first class. 396 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:52,919 Speaker 1: Like we a week or so ago coming back from somewhere, 397 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 1: and as soon as we got on the plane, I'm 398 00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:57,640 Speaker 1: talking sat down, not even in the air Both people 399 00:17:57,640 --> 00:18:00,440 Speaker 1: in front of me were that's straight back, and the 400 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:03,399 Speaker 1: flight attendant even time to put it up. I was 401 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:07,760 Speaker 1: always that person. Yeah, so which there's a there's a 402 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:09,119 Speaker 1: whole nother story. 403 00:18:11,680 --> 00:18:14,679 Speaker 2: I can't with this in studio side off right now. 404 00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 1: So I'm just I'm saying, it's just like first class 405 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:20,919 Speaker 1: is a little different cause you have more room. Okay, whatever, 406 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:24,399 Speaker 1: even I'll do it then with this fume far between 407 00:18:24,720 --> 00:18:28,200 Speaker 1: who we are? So am I the only one that 408 00:18:29,440 --> 00:18:29,959 Speaker 1: mark let's hear. 409 00:18:30,680 --> 00:18:32,359 Speaker 4: Unless it's a red eye, I'll lean back on a 410 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:35,560 Speaker 4: red Otherwise, never lean my step back because I find 411 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:37,240 Speaker 4: it rude to the people behind me, and I feel 412 00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:38,800 Speaker 4: like it's rude to me when the person in front 413 00:18:38,840 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 4: of me does it. 414 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:42,800 Speaker 1: Yes, but you bought that seat, yeah right, so I 415 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:44,480 Speaker 1: don't want someone leaning back in my lap. 416 00:18:44,560 --> 00:18:46,159 Speaker 2: To lean back and be a little bit more. 417 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:49,360 Speaker 3: The only time it really matters is like Southwest, when 418 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 3: it's when there's like there's no other where to go, 419 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 3: Like you can't pay for extual leg room there you 420 00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:56,760 Speaker 3: can't pay for So that's when I'm like, I feel bad, 421 00:18:56,840 --> 00:18:57,240 Speaker 3: and I'm just. 422 00:18:57,280 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 4: Like, it is my choice if want to be rude 423 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:01,200 Speaker 4: to the person behind me. 424 00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:06,080 Speaker 2: Rude though that's the thing I do. But you know 425 00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:10,040 Speaker 2: what we're for flying, we're all uncomfortable. Is it? 426 00:19:10,119 --> 00:19:10,600 Speaker 1: Four to one? 427 00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:13,040 Speaker 5: I've never ever leaned my seat. 428 00:19:15,160 --> 00:19:15,560 Speaker 1: This, get this. 429 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:17,800 Speaker 5: I don't think there's a problem with it. Like people 430 00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:19,680 Speaker 5: in front of me doing it doesn't bother me. But 431 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:21,960 Speaker 5: I've always been too nervous. And then one time I 432 00:19:22,080 --> 00:19:23,760 Speaker 5: was like, I'm doing this, I'm doing it, and it 433 00:19:23,840 --> 00:19:24,280 Speaker 5: didn't work. 434 00:19:25,880 --> 00:19:26,840 Speaker 1: It was broken. 435 00:19:26,880 --> 00:19:28,359 Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm just never going to do this that 436 00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:31,400 Speaker 2: I just don't do it. But then when someone does 437 00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:33,240 Speaker 2: it to me, then I'm irritated. But I just kind 438 00:19:33,280 --> 00:19:35,160 Speaker 2: of I just don't know how. It's not much more comfortable. 439 00:19:36,080 --> 00:19:38,920 Speaker 2: I mean it is a little bit more, you know, 440 00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:43,159 Speaker 2: because you're not sitting straight up. And I usually have 441 00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:46,640 Speaker 2: worked out, but you know, I haven't done it. One 442 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:51,840 Speaker 2: time because there was this really tall country guy behind me, 443 00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:55,240 Speaker 2: very tall, and him and his wife were fighting and 444 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:57,560 Speaker 2: he kept hitting my seat and I was so terrified 445 00:19:57,600 --> 00:19:59,879 Speaker 2: to lean back that I stayed up the entire flight, honestly. 446 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:01,119 Speaker 3: And you don't know how people are going to be 447 00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:03,399 Speaker 3: on flights like I get like, you know, sometimes it's 448 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:05,119 Speaker 3: a bad day and relationships. 449 00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:07,240 Speaker 1: Videos on the news of people getting kicked off the plane. 450 00:20:07,359 --> 00:20:09,960 Speaker 2: So am I supposed to not put my seat back anymore, 451 00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:11,240 Speaker 2: even though I paid for my seat and it's my 452 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:15,000 Speaker 2: seat and I can do it. You want about that talks, 453 00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:16,600 Speaker 2: because that's there's the thing. I don't talk on the 454 00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:17,560 Speaker 2: plane unless's Sarah. 455 00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:19,280 Speaker 1: What about that the loud talker. 456 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:21,240 Speaker 2: Okay, let's talk about that person that's rude to me, 457 00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 2: the loud talker, especially the person the loud guy. Then 458 00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:25,399 Speaker 2: I was flying a red Eye the other night, and 459 00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:27,639 Speaker 2: I'm like, if you're talking to sleep, it is a 460 00:20:27,800 --> 00:20:31,120 Speaker 2: red Eye. I wanted to say that so inappropriate. There's 461 00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:33,600 Speaker 2: just like social cues. So I'm like, how does that like? 462 00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:36,000 Speaker 2: So I'm not the loud talker. I'm the lean backer. Okay, 463 00:20:36,480 --> 00:20:38,240 Speaker 2: loud talker. Since we're on it, let's just keep going. 464 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:40,000 Speaker 2: And then I got trouble one time for playing cards 465 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:42,399 Speaker 2: on a plane that my girlfriends got in trouble for 466 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:45,680 Speaker 2: playing cards. Okay, that's we were shuffling too. Do you 467 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:47,040 Speaker 2: take your shoes off? 468 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:53,920 Speaker 1: Yes, it depends if it's if it's a long like yeah, 469 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 1: if I have socks on shore. If it's a red eye, 470 00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:59,720 Speaker 1: that's that's actually yeah, that's the only time, I will 471 00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 1: if it's a red Eye, and usually it's. 472 00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:04,159 Speaker 2: If we're fortunate, Michael, I'll take my shoes off. If 473 00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:05,680 Speaker 2: I'm next to a stranger, I will not take my 474 00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:06,160 Speaker 2: shoes off. 475 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:08,679 Speaker 1: If if you want red Eye and we're fortunate enough 476 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:10,560 Speaker 1: to have, like you know, we're going over a season, 477 00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:12,720 Speaker 1: we were in a pot or something like that. Yes, okay, 478 00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:14,320 Speaker 1: well when it's like my ow little world. 479 00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:17,760 Speaker 2: If you're flying Southwest LA to Nashville. And no, having 480 00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:19,440 Speaker 2: said that, though I do put my feet up on 481 00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:22,719 Speaker 2: the thing I do to the bulkhead, I do too, 482 00:21:22,760 --> 00:21:23,919 Speaker 2: but I on. 483 00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:26,920 Speaker 1: So you scroll through the movies with your bare feet. 484 00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:33,600 Speaker 1: Oh no, it's a video. But I wipe down like 485 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:35,560 Speaker 1: a wiper down. 486 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 2: And people are always like, oh my god, can I 487 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 2: have one. 488 00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:42,560 Speaker 1: I'm like you, I'm like, fine, let me let me 489 00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:45,280 Speaker 1: stand off of that real quick. So I don't know 490 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:49,240 Speaker 1: what it is, right, but when I when I travel, 491 00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:51,080 Speaker 1: I have I have my my stuff, right, I know 492 00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:53,840 Speaker 1: what I'm bringing. I packed for my occasions. I'm prepared. 493 00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:58,440 Speaker 1: I know every time, like clockwork, Jane's like, can you 494 00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:00,920 Speaker 1: throw this in there? Can't throw that in there? And 495 00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:04,040 Speaker 1: I'm just like throw it and where you give me 496 00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:05,679 Speaker 1: something of yours to throw in my. 497 00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:08,760 Speaker 2: Bag, well, because my bag is there's just smaller and I. 498 00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:10,600 Speaker 1: Don't know what. I don't know. I don't know what 499 00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:17,119 Speaker 1: it is. But it's like you I know what I 500 00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:19,040 Speaker 1: have in here. It's like, hey, can you put this 501 00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:19,280 Speaker 1: in there? 502 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:21,399 Speaker 2: And that I don't know what I don't and you 503 00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:23,480 Speaker 2: offer like you're like, hey, I'll put that in my backpack. 504 00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:24,520 Speaker 2: And I was like, I can throw it my. 505 00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:27,960 Speaker 1: Purse because I know, because I know, I know it's coming. 506 00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:30,639 Speaker 1: I'm on the forefront, I think, girl. 507 00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:32,080 Speaker 2: Though, because I do that to time, like can you 508 00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:33,280 Speaker 2: put my shoes in your back He's. 509 00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:34,720 Speaker 1: Like what, I don't know. But it's just one of 510 00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:36,639 Speaker 1: those things. Just like to your wipes, just like I 511 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:39,639 Speaker 1: brought these. I'm prepared. Yeah, So it's like this is 512 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:41,480 Speaker 1: my space, this is my stuff, Like I'm prepared. 513 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:43,600 Speaker 3: But it's always just mind blown that I'm wiping down. 514 00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:45,800 Speaker 3: I'm like, did you not see that sixteen minutes? Like 515 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:48,200 Speaker 3: it's twenty nineteen, wiped on the plane? Bring your own wipes. 516 00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:50,080 Speaker 3: If you have a baby, you already have wipes, right, 517 00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:51,639 Speaker 3: stop using my lavender set wipes. 518 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:55,040 Speaker 1: There you go. There's a video people have seen it. 519 00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:58,320 Speaker 2: Oh my my, I mean it's disgusting. 520 00:22:58,880 --> 00:22:59,560 Speaker 1: It's kind of clever. 521 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:01,120 Speaker 2: YouTube this who ever. 522 00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:06,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's up on YouTube, it's on Instagram. It's where 523 00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:07,560 Speaker 1: you have to lean all the way across. 524 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:09,520 Speaker 2: No, I would never do that. 525 00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:10,840 Speaker 1: That's kind of funny. 526 00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:13,080 Speaker 2: I even use my knuckle when I signed things like 527 00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:17,400 Speaker 2: CVS like, I don't use my be like this to sign. 528 00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:22,080 Speaker 2: I've never done that. No, like the pens you're holding 529 00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:24,000 Speaker 2: onto it so people are sick at, like those pharmacy 530 00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:26,480 Speaker 2: things or anything you sign. I know, it's just why 531 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:27,000 Speaker 2: I think a. 532 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,280 Speaker 1: Lot discounter, did we wipe it down? 533 00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 2: I'm not like this public Wow, disgusting. Wow, what a topic. 534 00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:34,800 Speaker 1: I know. 535 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:36,640 Speaker 2: Right. So now I know I'm never going to ask 536 00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:37,840 Speaker 2: to ever put anything in your bag. 537 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:41,879 Speaker 1: But that's the thing I always do, and I'm willing to. 538 00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:44,240 Speaker 1: It's just I don't know why. It's just something I've 539 00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:46,520 Speaker 1: been introspective. I've realized that it just. 540 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:48,520 Speaker 2: Well I want to. I don't even bother you, so 541 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:50,720 Speaker 2: I won't. No, I mean I mean it from a 542 00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:52,719 Speaker 2: good place, like I'm saying like, I won't because if 543 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:54,560 Speaker 2: it's something that annoys you, I will. I won't do 544 00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:57,680 Speaker 2: that I try to like annoy you the least about 545 00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:01,600 Speaker 2: I feel like I do want now to anyways point 546 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:01,920 Speaker 2: in times. 547 00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 1: But it's it's it's not it's not a personal thing. 548 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:07,440 Speaker 1: It's just I don't I don't know what it is. 549 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:08,639 Speaker 2: I just it's like your O. C. 550 00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:12,600 Speaker 1: D issue. Yeah, yeah, it kind of is. Where I'm prepared. 551 00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:13,560 Speaker 1: I've planned this stuff. 552 00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:15,480 Speaker 2: I have this thing too, like traveling. It's like he 553 00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:18,760 Speaker 2: downloads his movies and saying and I'm like, hey, so 554 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:20,560 Speaker 2: what about this and then this date because I'm like 555 00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:22,280 Speaker 2: I like to plan work on the plane. He's like, 556 00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:25,040 Speaker 2: I'm trying to watch comedians and cars leave me alone, 557 00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:26,040 Speaker 2: or I'm trying to. 558 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:27,280 Speaker 1: Play my planes. 559 00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:29,919 Speaker 2: And I'm like, I'm asking you a question about travel 560 00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,399 Speaker 2: for like our kids and this. I'm like, it's a. 561 00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:34,960 Speaker 3: Very therapeutic time to be in the air and know 562 00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:37,520 Speaker 3: that like no one can get a hold now that. 563 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:39,359 Speaker 3: I like now that with all this, I do a 564 00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:41,760 Speaker 3: lot of planning. Like of the wedding planning on the planes. 565 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:43,359 Speaker 2: I mean, how much would we get down on that? 566 00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:47,040 Speaker 2: That was like insane. Yeah, I've never seen. 567 00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:49,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, you put her on a plane, she gets everything done. 568 00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:51,720 Speaker 2: It's so It's the greatest thing though, because there's no 569 00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:54,480 Speaker 2: distractions to be able to get everything down playing, and for. 570 00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:57,440 Speaker 1: Me it's I have no distractions of Janna asking me 571 00:24:57,480 --> 00:24:59,760 Speaker 1: to go do something, you know, so I'm like, I 572 00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:03,200 Speaker 1: can watch these movies uninterrupted. And then but here's Jana. 573 00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:05,160 Speaker 1: I wish you guys could see me that are listening. 574 00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:06,359 Speaker 1: She's over there in the seat next to me, like 575 00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:08,960 Speaker 1: in the corner of my eye, being like because she 576 00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:13,240 Speaker 1: knows I hate me and bothered. So she's like, Mike, 577 00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:19,480 Speaker 1: can you have question? It's unreal and I'm just like this. 578 00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:21,240 Speaker 1: I'm like, yes, he. 579 00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:23,879 Speaker 2: Does, and it's just I'm sorry to interrupt, but this 580 00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:26,879 Speaker 2: is for our kids something. I mean, it's so angry 581 00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:27,080 Speaker 2: at me. 582 00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:29,080 Speaker 1: I was like, go back to your soccer right today. 583 00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:31,600 Speaker 1: She was like, what do you think the measurement on 584 00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:35,000 Speaker 1: the oh the bench for the backyard is what size 585 00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:36,960 Speaker 1: pillow should I get? And in my head, I'm like, 586 00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:39,720 Speaker 1: do you just have to be decided right now in 587 00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:42,840 Speaker 1: this moment on the airplane LA right now? 588 00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:45,240 Speaker 2: That's actually really funny. It did because I wanted to 589 00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:46,840 Speaker 2: order it because then I would forget about because I 590 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:49,080 Speaker 2: have souls on your mind on my plate. Yeah that 591 00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:50,680 Speaker 2: I'm going to forget about the cushion if I don't 592 00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:52,240 Speaker 2: order it right now. Because I had a checklist for 593 00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:54,080 Speaker 2: my plane, Like, I love this was my checklist. I 594 00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:57,600 Speaker 2: loved the whole list. I was like, contact restoration, hardware, 595 00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:00,800 Speaker 2: get the cushions, finish the EV for the peanut event 596 00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:01,920 Speaker 2: like and I mean. 597 00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:03,680 Speaker 1: Like, I got the same thing. I got bars and 598 00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:05,560 Speaker 1: coffee to watch. I got stranger things to watch. I 599 00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:07,440 Speaker 1: got strange bunch of things to watch. 600 00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:11,760 Speaker 4: Mark Hot ever sent that's my time to watch stuff 601 00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:12,880 Speaker 4: that I want to watch. 602 00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:13,520 Speaker 2: It's a mad thing. 603 00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:15,560 Speaker 1: We don't have time at home. And what she had 604 00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:16,120 Speaker 1: love of the weekend. 605 00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:17,680 Speaker 4: I did Captain Marvel on the way up and I 606 00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:20,359 Speaker 4: did The Green Book on the way back, and both phenomenal. 607 00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:22,399 Speaker 2: I do love watching movies. If I can catch up 608 00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:23,680 Speaker 2: on a movie, I watch it. 609 00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:24,560 Speaker 1: That's the time to do it. 610 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,000 Speaker 2: Exactly, mind you, I saw five feet away? Have you 611 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:30,320 Speaker 2: ever seen it get apart? Five feet apart? Oh? Bald 612 00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:32,040 Speaker 2: like a baby. Had to turn it off, like had 613 00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:34,600 Speaker 2: to walk away. Oh, I was going it was real. 614 00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:36,880 Speaker 2: It was about cistic fibrosis, and I had no idea 615 00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:39,359 Speaker 2: about the stick fibrosis. That they have to be like 616 00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:41,560 Speaker 2: two s efforts have to be like five feet apart 617 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:43,680 Speaker 2: from each other. Oh no, no, no, they can never 618 00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:45,840 Speaker 2: touch or they can. I mean, it's just it's so sad. 619 00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:50,520 Speaker 2: It's a very I can't. I don't cry, so public 620 00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:52,600 Speaker 2: crying is not. Do you think you'll cry on your 621 00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:55,040 Speaker 2: wedding day? Oh for sure? Really, Oh my god, it's 622 00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:56,480 Speaker 2: gonna be the first time I see you crying, because 623 00:26:57,600 --> 00:26:59,919 Speaker 2: because I cry when I think about it. I'll have a. 624 00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:06,840 Speaker 3: Because I cry when I like think about tears. I know, no, 625 00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:09,320 Speaker 3: like literally, and so I feel like I for sure 626 00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:15,920 Speaker 3: I feel like when I see him for the first 627 00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:19,160 Speaker 3: time and my dad, I feel like my Dad's gonna 628 00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:20,920 Speaker 3: make me cry. My dad is for sure going to 629 00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:21,360 Speaker 3: make me cry. 630 00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:22,840 Speaker 2: And I know when I see Time, I'm gonna cry 631 00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:24,840 Speaker 2: because he's gonna cry when he sees me. 632 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:27,359 Speaker 3: And that you guys like have to understand. I never 633 00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:31,439 Speaker 3: really thought this would happen, Like I really didn't, like honestly, like, I. 634 00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:33,240 Speaker 2: Think Ty will cry. Oh, I know he's gonna cry. 635 00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:36,639 Speaker 2: He cried the hole Engate, the whole proposal. I know 636 00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 2: he's a baby. 637 00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:40,320 Speaker 3: No, no, I know he'll cry when he sees me, 638 00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:42,719 Speaker 3: because it's just like he didn't think he was going 639 00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:44,040 Speaker 3: to see me in a wedding dress. You know, I 640 00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:46,680 Speaker 3: don't know, there's that whole aspect of it, so I 641 00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:48,000 Speaker 3: know that's going to make me cry. 642 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:51,080 Speaker 4: I cried so hard when I was proposing to my wife. 643 00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:53,000 Speaker 4: She thought I was telling her that I was dying, 644 00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:55,359 Speaker 4: are you. 645 00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:57,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. 646 00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:59,840 Speaker 4: We were on the beach in San Simon, across from 647 00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:03,119 Speaker 4: her castle, and I clearly had something important to tell her, 648 00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:07,040 Speaker 4: but I can't even get the words out, and she's like, Oh, no, he's. 649 00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:13,119 Speaker 1: What I've chosen the spot on the beach to tell you. 650 00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:16,400 Speaker 2: I'm Oh my god, did you cry at your wedding? 651 00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:18,720 Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah? When I saw her in the dress. 652 00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:21,560 Speaker 4: My dad was my best man, and he was next 653 00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:25,040 Speaker 4: to me, and he was trying to distract me and 654 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:27,240 Speaker 4: have me think he's telling me funny things. He's like 655 00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:29,440 Speaker 4: telling me to picture my great grandmother naked and stuff, 656 00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:33,200 Speaker 4: just to try to not be in the moment so much. 657 00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:34,840 Speaker 4: And then up pasted the shush desk and we had 658 00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:36,040 Speaker 4: to stop. But yeah, I was a mess. 659 00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:40,120 Speaker 1: Oh that's so cute. Did you mess? Yeah? I cried. 660 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:40,440 Speaker 1: We did. 661 00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:42,440 Speaker 5: We did a first look because I was worried about 662 00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:44,520 Speaker 5: the crying, and I cried during that, and then I 663 00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:45,360 Speaker 5: cried when we were up there. 664 00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:47,720 Speaker 3: See I think Ty will cry both times. Are you 665 00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:50,080 Speaker 3: doing it first look? I think so, no, no, don't. 666 00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:52,120 Speaker 2: I don't think you should. But then how do we 667 00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:54,840 Speaker 2: shoot pictures before? Oh you know, you do pictures of 668 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:59,120 Speaker 2: your party. I cannot do that to Tie. 669 00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:00,680 Speaker 3: I cannot have him see me for the first time 670 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:01,320 Speaker 3: with all those people. 671 00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:01,720 Speaker 1: He will be. 672 00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:04,120 Speaker 2: Just for me. 673 00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:06,640 Speaker 1: It's that feeling like when I saw Jane turn in 674 00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:07,000 Speaker 1: the corner. 675 00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:08,960 Speaker 3: I know, and oh my god, it's so dramatic the 676 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:11,000 Speaker 3: way i'll because I can't and I did. 677 00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:12,960 Speaker 1: I never saw her dress, you know, neither is and 678 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:15,680 Speaker 1: she had this beautiful dress basically flown in like the 679 00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:21,000 Speaker 1: day of the day. It was very it was so beautiful, 680 00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:23,640 Speaker 1: and I mean I can remember it like it was 681 00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:25,680 Speaker 1: like this morning, like it was so in that just 682 00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:28,040 Speaker 1: that feeling like seeing her for the first time, it 683 00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:29,440 Speaker 1: was just like maybe I won't. 684 00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:32,400 Speaker 2: I just I get what people do and no knock 685 00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:35,000 Speaker 2: to first looks. I just think there's something I know, 686 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:38,440 Speaker 2: But he's going to be a true But that's like 687 00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:39,600 Speaker 2: the part of the wedding. 688 00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:40,320 Speaker 1: That's the part. 689 00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:43,080 Speaker 2: You know, you're not supposed to be super composed and 690 00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:46,280 Speaker 2: presently that's what that's what that's what I'm looking for. 691 00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:48,600 Speaker 2: I want the energy as a person sitting there watching 692 00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:51,680 Speaker 2: this wedding that I'm there for both of you. Like 693 00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:55,000 Speaker 2: I'm holding y'all's emotions, like and it's like I'm gonna 694 00:29:55,000 --> 00:30:00,800 Speaker 2: be bawling too, but I want to cry, but I 695 00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:04,120 Speaker 2: just think that he'll be okay, fine, okay, fine, No. 696 00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:06,800 Speaker 3: I also grandparents are going to make me cry for sure, 697 00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:09,120 Speaker 3: because I don't have my grandparents, but he has one 698 00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:13,440 Speaker 3: on each side, and that that was super important to 699 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:17,320 Speaker 3: us when we were doing our planning because we really 700 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:19,560 Speaker 3: want them there. And his grandma's ninety eight and this 701 00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:22,520 Speaker 3: she wore this ring, so we facetimed her when like 702 00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:25,000 Speaker 3: in his grandpa and his dad's side. It's just like 703 00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:29,160 Speaker 3: we really really that's why we're kind of also like 704 00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:32,160 Speaker 3: let's go. But I know and oh, they're going to 705 00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:33,240 Speaker 3: be so excited. 706 00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:36,320 Speaker 1: Even when you talked about like your dad and stuff, 707 00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:38,880 Speaker 1: crying Dad got me tears just thinking about Jolie. I 708 00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:42,560 Speaker 1: can't I'm going to literally melt into the floor in tears. 709 00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:46,480 Speaker 3: When Ty called my dad to ask him, my mom 710 00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:48,800 Speaker 3: was with him, and my mom was like, Sarah, I 711 00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:51,120 Speaker 3: didn't if he wasn't on speaker, and she was like, 712 00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:52,720 Speaker 3: I didn't know what Ty was saying. Dad was crying 713 00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,320 Speaker 3: so hard, and I was like what and she was 714 00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:58,920 Speaker 3: like I had not, Like, your dad was crying so hard. 715 00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:01,720 Speaker 3: My dad was crying when I asks him from permission 716 00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:03,840 Speaker 3: and told him that he's gonna she was like it 717 00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:05,600 Speaker 3: was crazy, and I'm like that made me cry. 718 00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:08,200 Speaker 2: Your dad is just like, oh, it's just like walking 719 00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:08,960 Speaker 2: Joey down the aisle. 720 00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,680 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna slowly just melt into the forth. 721 00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:16,520 Speaker 2: Crazy Jolie's gonna get married one day, one day. 722 00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:20,880 Speaker 1: Right now, God blessed the man whoever that's like monster. 723 00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:25,600 Speaker 1: That's how you know what movie actually gets me? Radio? 724 00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:30,520 Speaker 1: What with Cuba good engr? Is it the acting that 725 00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:36,520 Speaker 1: how dare you? But that's that's just one of the 726 00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:39,280 Speaker 1: examples that came to my mind first, Like there's plenty 727 00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:41,280 Speaker 1: of other movies that get me, even some Disney movies 728 00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:44,840 Speaker 1: have probably got me. But Radio, for whatever reason, just 729 00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:49,400 Speaker 1: remember it just because true story and just there their 730 00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:53,200 Speaker 1: relationship and then this poor kid and just picking on 731 00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:56,120 Speaker 1: someone who's who you know has mental issues and stuff 732 00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:56,840 Speaker 1: like that. I need to. 733 00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:58,720 Speaker 2: I don't care, like even just now, it. 734 00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:01,680 Speaker 1: Just gives me like chill like it. Oh, it bends 735 00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:04,000 Speaker 1: me over, man, it just gives me just thinking about 736 00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:06,160 Speaker 1: just talking about it. It gets me. Wow. 737 00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:07,440 Speaker 2: I need I don't think I've ever seen it. 738 00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,240 Speaker 1: I don't think I have either Ed Harris and and 739 00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:14,760 Speaker 1: Cuba getting Cuba getting Junior. I think the acting is fantastic. 740 00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:17,920 Speaker 2: I've never seen it movie. Yes, I'm just kinda well 741 00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:18,840 Speaker 2: he's struggling right now. 742 00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:24,680 Speaker 1: But even honestly, even Cuba Cuba in Men of Honor, 743 00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:26,800 Speaker 1: that's one of my favorite movie movies of all time. 744 00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:31,280 Speaker 1: Hero Navy, Sa Diver. That movie gets me too. From 745 00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:33,440 Speaker 1: like a motiv happy, it's more of a happy like 746 00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:34,280 Speaker 1: motivational cry. 747 00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:36,120 Speaker 2: Did you cry in Pearl Harbor to when Cuba got 748 00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:43,640 Speaker 2: the medal? I don't know what he takes Sarah, what 749 00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:46,320 Speaker 2: about you? I don't This is gonna be one of 750 00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:47,680 Speaker 2: those things where like right now I can't think, but 751 00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:48,600 Speaker 2: I know, like when I leave. 752 00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:50,240 Speaker 3: I know I. 753 00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:54,840 Speaker 2: I for sure cried in for a while. It was 754 00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:59,960 Speaker 2: always during like wedding sequences and movies. Mm hmm, well yeah, 755 00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,480 Speaker 2: because I just didn't know if it was gonna happen. No, 756 00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:04,760 Speaker 2: like I cried in crazy Rich Asian, I'm not her wedding. 757 00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:09,120 Speaker 2: That was good, I cried, and that I'm trying to think. 758 00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:11,240 Speaker 2: I can't think right now, but I know. 759 00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:13,719 Speaker 1: There are mark field of dreams. 760 00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:14,960 Speaker 2: I never saw it. 761 00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:21,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, oh god, yeah, yeah, the point and I don't 762 00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:24,240 Speaker 4: want to spoil it. Yeah, point towards the end that 763 00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:26,880 Speaker 4: just gets you. But because I know it's coming, I'm 764 00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:30,040 Speaker 4: weeping about twenty yes ahead of you, knowing it's coming, 765 00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:32,480 Speaker 4: and then when it handled just in a puddle. 766 00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:36,200 Speaker 2: Really okay, I need to watch that. I think Miracle 767 00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:37,640 Speaker 2: the hockey movie. 768 00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:40,760 Speaker 1: I think so yeah, that's bad. Stuff gets me. 769 00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:43,280 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that stuff for sure get to you. 770 00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:43,960 Speaker 1: It gets me. 771 00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:49,360 Speaker 2: I am. I was watching Beaches one time. You were 772 00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:53,960 Speaker 2: seeing Beaches, Oh god, and my my band guy came 773 00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:55,680 Speaker 2: to the back to let me know that it was 774 00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:58,360 Speaker 2: time to go on stage, and he thought someone died 775 00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:01,960 Speaker 2: because I was. I could not breathe. I was crying 776 00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:04,280 Speaker 2: so hard, and that's honestly how I felt about the 777 00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:06,840 Speaker 2: five feet apart. Oh my god, hyper ventilating Marley and me, 778 00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:11,239 Speaker 2: duh done, don on dog. I'm looking up sound movies 779 00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:11,759 Speaker 2: that when. 780 00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:13,840 Speaker 4: I held it in until I couldn't and then you 781 00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:15,520 Speaker 4: try to breathe while holding it like a. 782 00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:22,160 Speaker 2: You know, that's the movie theater that that firefighter movie 783 00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:26,560 Speaker 2: I Only the Brave. Oh, I didn't say God in 784 00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:29,080 Speaker 2: the theater. I was like, I did that exactly. I 785 00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:30,759 Speaker 2: was trying to hold it in and it made I mean, 786 00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:32,960 Speaker 2: I was I was hyperventilating in the movie theater. 787 00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:34,400 Speaker 1: It was funny. Jana and I saw that in like 788 00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:37,359 Speaker 1: a Tuesday afternoon. It was me, Jana and one other 789 00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:39,160 Speaker 1: guy in the movie theater when we saw Only the 790 00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:41,200 Speaker 1: Brave and all three of us are crying. Yeah, that. 791 00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:45,719 Speaker 2: Slaughtered me story. 792 00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:47,160 Speaker 1: That would have been sweet if you had him come 793 00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:47,600 Speaker 1: over and all. 794 00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:51,399 Speaker 2: But it's one of those where you leave and you're 795 00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:55,480 Speaker 2: still going, yeah, oh that was just really get you. Oh, 796 00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:57,799 Speaker 2: walk to remember. Oh my god, I think it first 797 00:34:57,800 --> 00:35:00,239 Speaker 2: time in My Girl Welcome to High School off. 798 00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:04,480 Speaker 5: Oh man, Uh, there's a there's a nb U. 799 00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:06,920 Speaker 1: Be a superhero movie. 800 00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:09,160 Speaker 2: He's like when when thor. 801 00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:13,080 Speaker 5: I mean Avengers Endgame. I cried throughout that. That's like 802 00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:13,800 Speaker 5: the best movie. 803 00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:15,440 Speaker 1: I've ever seen. I sort of got it. 804 00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:19,799 Speaker 5: I did happy and sad. But there's a movie called 805 00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:21,719 Speaker 5: Hereditary that came out last year. That one got me 806 00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:22,239 Speaker 5: pretty good. 807 00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:23,200 Speaker 2: That a scary movie. 808 00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:28,719 Speaker 5: It's scary, scary and sad, very very It hit a 809 00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:32,080 Speaker 5: lot of fears I have about, like caring for children 810 00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:35,080 Speaker 5: and things like that. That that's one of the ones 811 00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:37,120 Speaker 5: where I was like, I left afterwards, and hours later 812 00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:39,600 Speaker 5: I was like, my god, Oh my god. 813 00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:42,560 Speaker 3: What was that Gwyneth Paltrow movie. She was like a 814 00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,560 Speaker 3: country singer, country strong. 815 00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:45,359 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 816 00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,800 Speaker 2: Again, let's got out of high school, sir, But listen, no, 817 00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:52,439 Speaker 2: but listen, no, no, no, nook no. But I'm thinking 818 00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:56,279 Speaker 2: about I remember leaving that the that movie and just 819 00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:59,080 Speaker 2: feeling like traumatized. 820 00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:00,440 Speaker 1: Because you're twelve at the time. 821 00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:04,239 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, toris like, I don't remember what went down. 822 00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:09,080 Speaker 2: She killed herself, that's maybe why. Then, Yeah, it was 823 00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:09,560 Speaker 2: very sad. 824 00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:10,480 Speaker 1: Anymore. 825 00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:14,200 Speaker 5: That's Avengersing Game. That's the one I want to I 826 00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:15,319 Speaker 5: want on my tea. 827 00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:17,200 Speaker 2: Ahead. 828 00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:19,640 Speaker 1: When Captain America, I grabbed the hammer I've never seen 829 00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:22,200 Speaker 1: any I have a tear coming down, like and when he. 830 00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:24,160 Speaker 5: Says Avengers assemble, Oh my god, I've been waiting for 831 00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:24,919 Speaker 5: that for ten years. 832 00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:28,759 Speaker 1: So I just went and saw a Spider Man Far 833 00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:31,719 Speaker 1: Far from Home by myself the other night, and. 834 00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:36,120 Speaker 2: Well, mind you, because Michael goes, it was Sunday night 835 00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:41,000 Speaker 2: and he goes, we had full disclosure. We had sex, 836 00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:44,960 Speaker 2: like Sunday afternoon when the kids were napping, we had sex. Oh. 837 00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,880 Speaker 2: And then it was Big Little Eye season finale too, 838 00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:49,759 Speaker 2: and so I was like, hey, babe, so what are 839 00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:51,920 Speaker 2: you doing tonight. He's like, I don't know what are 840 00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:54,080 Speaker 2: you doing. I was like, well, I'm watching Big Little Eyes. 841 00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:55,399 Speaker 2: And he's like and I was like, and we've already 842 00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:56,759 Speaker 2: had sex, so I'm good if you want to go 843 00:36:56,880 --> 00:37:00,480 Speaker 2: do something. He's like, wait for real. I was like, really, 844 00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:01,239 Speaker 2: get a movie? 845 00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:02,279 Speaker 1: You want to see her? Yeah? 846 00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:03,920 Speaker 2: I was like all right, it's like all right. 847 00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:08,600 Speaker 1: Later got on Fandango right there and got my ticket. Yeah. 848 00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:12,040 Speaker 1: But when they started playing Whitney Houston, I'll Always Love 849 00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:16,160 Speaker 1: You come on at the opening Marvel credit, I started 850 00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:19,000 Speaker 1: tearing and then it became like a high school like newscast. 851 00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:21,560 Speaker 1: But I was like, I was like, my eyes were watery. 852 00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:25,360 Speaker 1: I'm a song something about say Goodbye and stan Lee and. 853 00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:27,920 Speaker 2: I was just like, okay, moving on. We're going to 854 00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:30,640 Speaker 2: take a break. But so to end this movie stuff, 855 00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:32,120 Speaker 2: We just saw the best movie. Every one should go 856 00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:33,880 Speaker 2: see The Long Shot. This isn't an ad. That was 857 00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:36,040 Speaker 2: one of my favorite comedies I've seen in a. 858 00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:39,960 Speaker 1: Very long and it just came on. 859 00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:44,719 Speaker 2: Maybe I watched from start to end. I watched again. 860 00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:46,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we'd watch it again. 861 00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:56,680 Speaker 2: All right, quick break? Then emails? Hey, do we have 862 00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:57,160 Speaker 2: any emails? 863 00:37:57,239 --> 00:37:57,759 Speaker 1: Mark? Sure do? 864 00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:01,640 Speaker 4: Marissa says this question from Mike. My fiance is like 865 00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:05,319 Speaker 4: Jana and Love's affection. I, however, do not. I want 866 00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:07,359 Speaker 4: my space and my alone time and my quiet time. 867 00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:09,480 Speaker 4: It really bothers me when he asks for affection and 868 00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:11,799 Speaker 4: I'm busy and wants me to stop what I'm doing 869 00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:14,239 Speaker 4: to give her a himahagara kiss. We've been dating for 870 00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:16,640 Speaker 4: three years, we're recently engaged. We're both twenty two, we 871 00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:18,680 Speaker 4: lived together, we have no kids. How can I get 872 00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:20,760 Speaker 4: him to understand that I don't always want physical affection 873 00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:22,600 Speaker 4: like he does? Jenna, how does it make you feel 874 00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:24,400 Speaker 4: when Mike tells you he can't show affection? 875 00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:27,840 Speaker 2: Mm hmm, Mark, I'm all at Mike's start with us. 876 00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:28,400 Speaker 2: Since it's a. 877 00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:34,719 Speaker 1: Question, it's tough because it's hard for Jana or like 878 00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:38,600 Speaker 1: her fiance to take it not personal because physical affection 879 00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:42,560 Speaker 1: in touch is a personal thing. So how are you 880 00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:44,399 Speaker 1: supposed to tell somebody that you don't want to give 881 00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:47,480 Speaker 1: that to him and them not take it personal? You 882 00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:53,799 Speaker 1: answered them right now, well snorting, Oh my god, we're 883 00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:55,759 Speaker 1: answering this. I have a nice illustration of what we're 884 00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:58,359 Speaker 1: talking about, as Mike's trying to be sensitive and tender, right. 885 00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:00,719 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm showing how does that make you feel? 886 00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:03,080 Speaker 2: When I'm doing something you're trying to be sensitive. I 887 00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:06,879 Speaker 2: don't care about I will say something to this though, 888 00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:11,120 Speaker 2: when I'm not affectionate towards you. This is very interesting. 889 00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:13,239 Speaker 2: But this happened the other day, and when I read 890 00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:15,560 Speaker 2: this email on the plane, I was excited to talk 891 00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:17,520 Speaker 2: about it because I was sitting on our little bench 892 00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:19,200 Speaker 2: in our room and you came in and I really 893 00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:21,040 Speaker 2: hadn't been affection that day, not because I was trying 894 00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:22,600 Speaker 2: to prove a point or do anything. I just was 895 00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:24,279 Speaker 2: kind of doing my own thing. You were doing your 896 00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:25,640 Speaker 2: own thing, and you were like, hey, are you okay? 897 00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:27,880 Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, I'm just in here, like 898 00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:32,239 Speaker 2: on my phone doing my stuff, like I'm good, you know, 899 00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:35,080 Speaker 2: but it was like you then started to kind of 900 00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:38,880 Speaker 2: get like because you weren't getting how I normally, and 901 00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:41,399 Speaker 2: I was just like in my own zone, like doing 902 00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:44,120 Speaker 2: my own thing, like and I was still being nice. 903 00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:50,399 Speaker 1: And like right, but with you, when something is wrong, 904 00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:51,360 Speaker 1: you tend to be passive. 905 00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:52,359 Speaker 2: Oh but I really wasn't. 906 00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:55,680 Speaker 1: Though I know about how but in the series of 907 00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:57,440 Speaker 1: our relationship, how am I supposed to know that? So 908 00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:00,960 Speaker 1: naturally I'm going to think that because historically you're passive. 909 00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:03,920 Speaker 2: I get that. I really wasn't. It's just but it's 910 00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:07,000 Speaker 2: like when we stop doing affection, then that's when you 911 00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:08,600 Speaker 2: think something's wrong. And it's like, well, that's how we 912 00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:10,920 Speaker 2: feel sometimes when you don't have affection and then we 913 00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:14,440 Speaker 2: think something's wrong. Does that make sense in a. 914 00:40:14,440 --> 00:40:18,040 Speaker 1: Way, Yeah, in a way. What I'll say to Marissa, though, 915 00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:22,920 Speaker 1: is have the conversation first of all, not when he 916 00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:25,440 Speaker 1: tries to be affectionate. So if he comes and try 917 00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:27,040 Speaker 1: to be affectionate, it don't be like, hey, you know, 918 00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:30,239 Speaker 1: this is how I feel about affection. Do it when 919 00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:32,880 Speaker 1: neither of you are trying to be affectionate and just 920 00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:36,200 Speaker 1: come to him on your own and say, hey, this 921 00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:37,799 Speaker 1: is how I am. I say exactly what she said 922 00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:39,759 Speaker 1: in the email. I enjoy my space. I like my 923 00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:41,600 Speaker 1: lone time in my quiet time. That's just what I 924 00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:44,160 Speaker 1: need as a person. That's what I've realized, you know, 925 00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:46,320 Speaker 1: makes me happy from time to time to recharge or 926 00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:49,960 Speaker 1: whatever your reason is. That doesn't mean anything against you. 927 00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:51,440 Speaker 1: That doesn't mean I don't want to be with you 928 00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:53,279 Speaker 1: or anything like that. That's just how I process things. 929 00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:57,520 Speaker 2: And also, too, like where you just said tell, I 930 00:40:57,560 --> 00:40:59,200 Speaker 2: think what's helpful too is you'll say, like, hey, I'm 931 00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:00,360 Speaker 2: going to go in the other room and I'm just 932 00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:03,400 Speaker 2: gonna unload for a second. Because we can't read y'all's 933 00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:06,200 Speaker 2: minds right, And that's a huge thing because if I'm 934 00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:09,520 Speaker 2: in a excited mood and I want to be physical 935 00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:11,920 Speaker 2: and touchy with you and affectionate, but you're you're just 936 00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:14,080 Speaker 2: maybe you're just having a hard day, or maybe you're tired, 937 00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:15,360 Speaker 2: maybe you didn't sleep with that night, or maybe you 938 00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:17,520 Speaker 2: just want to be alone. That's okay, but we don't 939 00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:20,040 Speaker 2: know that. So if you're sometimes it's like, hey, I'm 940 00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:21,719 Speaker 2: going to go just chill for a second, so we 941 00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:23,560 Speaker 2: know to kind of like back off a little bit. 942 00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:24,560 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. 943 00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:27,560 Speaker 2: It's a good cue for us so to do it beforehand, 944 00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:29,160 Speaker 2: like you're saying, don't do it in the moment, Like 945 00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:30,279 Speaker 2: when I come up and give you a hug and 946 00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:31,719 Speaker 2: you're like, oh, I don't want to be touched right now. 947 00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:33,680 Speaker 2: It's like that is such a rejection. Is that? Do 948 00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:34,040 Speaker 2: you do that? 949 00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:37,120 Speaker 1: He used to? Yeah, I used to. I don't. But 950 00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:40,319 Speaker 1: that brings up a good point though. If that's happening, say, 951 00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:42,839 Speaker 1: and I haven't had an opportunity. We've just been doing 952 00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:44,279 Speaker 1: stuff and you come up in a couple of times 953 00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:46,319 Speaker 1: you like touch me or something throughout the day. Maybe 954 00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:49,200 Speaker 1: that day, I'm just not feeling all touchy feely. What 955 00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:49,640 Speaker 1: do I do? 956 00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:51,800 Speaker 2: Well, here's the thing is you just did it with 957 00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:53,400 Speaker 2: your body, and it already sending me kind of like 958 00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:56,560 Speaker 2: a chrar like you you it's like it's like my touch, 959 00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:00,640 Speaker 2: it's like my it's like my touch makes skin crawl. 960 00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:02,720 Speaker 2: But then it's just say so, it's just like hey, babe, 961 00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:05,759 Speaker 2: like I just I need a minute, like I love you, honey, 962 00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:07,839 Speaker 2: and like maybe like give a kiss or something, even 963 00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:09,560 Speaker 2: if you don't want to in that moment, Well, you. 964 00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:12,440 Speaker 1: Say in that moment though, it's hard because that's the thing. 965 00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:13,920 Speaker 1: It's not personal, it's not your. 966 00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:17,160 Speaker 2: Touch, it's just but it's hard to distinguish, right, No, 967 00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:17,759 Speaker 2: And I. 968 00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:19,960 Speaker 1: Understand that, and that's this is the the dance here 969 00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:24,040 Speaker 1: is there's some days where that's how touch maybe makes 970 00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:25,840 Speaker 1: me feel in a moment where I'm just like, I 971 00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,480 Speaker 1: just I just need my space right now, or. 972 00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:31,680 Speaker 2: I'm less affectionate with you anyways because of that, and 973 00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:33,160 Speaker 2: not in a bad way where I'm just like, it's 974 00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:35,200 Speaker 2: not as affectionate as it used to be, and it's 975 00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:37,360 Speaker 2: just kind of how I've now have to be. I 976 00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:39,440 Speaker 2: guess I don't know to change though, but I'm not 977 00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:40,920 Speaker 2: saying change, but like I'm not like. 978 00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:41,960 Speaker 1: I a gap to each other. 979 00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:42,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess I do. 980 00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:45,640 Speaker 1: Like me, I'm not just I need my quiet time 981 00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:48,880 Speaker 1: and space every single day. I also want to be affectioned. 982 00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:52,399 Speaker 1: But I also know that Janna, that's her language too. Yeah, 983 00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:55,800 Speaker 1: so I'll make a point to do things not because 984 00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:57,839 Speaker 1: I want to, but also because I want to make 985 00:42:57,920 --> 00:42:59,840 Speaker 1: my make sure my partner feels loved because I. 986 00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:03,239 Speaker 2: Do over Yeah, it's all a learning process. 987 00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:04,359 Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean, just bring it up to him 988 00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:06,839 Speaker 1: when it's you know, it's not happening in that moment, 989 00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:08,800 Speaker 1: tell him how you feel. But also valdat him is 990 00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:11,360 Speaker 1: you know, it's not about you, it's it's just what 991 00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:13,080 Speaker 1: I need and I love you very much and whatever 992 00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:13,320 Speaker 1: it is. 993 00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:15,239 Speaker 2: You know what we didn't talk about that we did. 994 00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:18,239 Speaker 2: We took the any agreem and any Oh my god, 995 00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:18,960 Speaker 2: how dare we? 996 00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:20,879 Speaker 1: How dare we? We did that on the plane? 997 00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:25,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, on the plane is and it's any say edgram, anyagram, anyagram? Anyagraham? 998 00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:26,520 Speaker 2: Have you done it? Mark? No? 999 00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:26,880 Speaker 4: I have not. 1000 00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:29,880 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, Sarah, I was like twelve dollars because I 1001 00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:33,920 Speaker 2: took this I neigh question dollars. Well, well, the one 1002 00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:38,160 Speaker 2: hundred and forty four question we did thirty sixth question. Yeah, man, Sarah, 1003 00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:39,120 Speaker 2: was this twenty four bucks. 1004 00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:44,640 Speaker 3: I took these screens. But I'm remember two two, which 1005 00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:47,919 Speaker 3: like it kind of was shocked. Really well, I don't 1006 00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:50,120 Speaker 3: know all of them. I just I did I need 1007 00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:52,320 Speaker 3: to do more reading. But I found these screenshots. So 1008 00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:55,000 Speaker 3: you were a two, you were an eight the Challenger, 1009 00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:57,759 Speaker 3: and I'm a six and I'm like textbook six. My 1010 00:43:57,840 --> 00:43:59,600 Speaker 3: sister's an eight. Though that's really funny. I was sending 1011 00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:02,440 Speaker 3: her funny memes, but this one okay too. It was 1012 00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:04,800 Speaker 3: just like funny little things. You're a grizzly You're a 1013 00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:07,400 Speaker 3: grizzly bear, doting, helpful, and protective. 1014 00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:11,600 Speaker 2: That's like what describes you. I'm a number six. I'm 1015 00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:15,200 Speaker 2: a wolf, loyal to the pack, team player, watchful eight 1016 00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:20,799 Speaker 2: is a honey badger, brave, combative and fierce. And then 1017 00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:24,160 Speaker 2: this one was funny. It was like type two in 1018 00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:28,920 Speaker 2: like Disney characters, and the tailor swift was hilarious. I 1019 00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:32,080 Speaker 2: was dying on the plane dying. Your two was a 1020 00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:35,200 Speaker 2: snow white. The helper sincere and warm hearted, genuine love 1021 00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:37,440 Speaker 2: and care for others. Are you were surprised about that? No? No, no, 1022 00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:39,640 Speaker 2: because I thought I feel like you're more of like 1023 00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:41,400 Speaker 2: a tough bitch one. But I don't know which one 1024 00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:43,680 Speaker 2: that would be because I don't know enough about all 1025 00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:45,440 Speaker 2: of them. Once I read it, then I was like, okay, yeah, 1026 00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:47,759 Speaker 2: but helper, I guess yeah, how you are because I care. 1027 00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:48,239 Speaker 1: She cares. 1028 00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:53,960 Speaker 2: You're writing like any You're right, You're right. It's I 1029 00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:56,439 Speaker 2: care about whether people think of me. I care about people. 1030 00:44:56,520 --> 00:44:58,640 Speaker 2: I care about helping others, like I'll put I'll put 1031 00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:01,839 Speaker 2: aside your for someone else to like to help someone else. 1032 00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:03,960 Speaker 2: But then on the other flip side is where I'm like, 1033 00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:08,480 Speaker 2: I am bossy, lastic and I am a goal oriented. Yeah, 1034 00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:12,680 Speaker 2: so it's that's so funny. Yeah, my Disney character. 1035 00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:15,239 Speaker 3: They didn't they posted it this morning, so they didn't 1036 00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:17,960 Speaker 3: have hours up yet. But I'm gonna go look right now. Yeah, 1037 00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:18,960 Speaker 3: I'm gonna go look right now. 1038 00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:19,480 Speaker 2: Probably. 1039 00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:22,480 Speaker 3: It's actually really interesting when you, like, did any of 1040 00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:24,800 Speaker 3: the questions kind of make you be like, well some 1041 00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:27,000 Speaker 3: some of them, I was like, I gotta be honest. 1042 00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:30,319 Speaker 2: Well, and here's here's the interesting thing. So I screenshotted 1043 00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:33,080 Speaker 2: this one because Michael was taking the test and I 1044 00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:35,080 Speaker 2: was overlooking his shoulder and I was like, you're not 1045 00:45:35,239 --> 00:45:38,000 Speaker 2: being honest. I had to catch myself a couple of times, 1046 00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:39,440 Speaker 2: a couple of moments too, where I was like, oh, no, 1047 00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:42,480 Speaker 2: I do kind of I envy people sometime successes and 1048 00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:43,640 Speaker 2: that was one of the questions. 1049 00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:47,359 Speaker 1: But it's mostly yeah, but there were a few when 1050 00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:49,440 Speaker 1: I was doing the long one lean over to Jane 1051 00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:50,439 Speaker 1: and be like, hey, which one. 1052 00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:55,520 Speaker 2: Was I, No, Michael goes one of them was? I 1053 00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:58,000 Speaker 2: often the choices were get lost in my feelings or 1054 00:45:58,120 --> 00:46:01,400 Speaker 2: disconnect from my feelings so I can focus. And Michael 1055 00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:05,360 Speaker 2: put he gets lost in my feelings, and I was like, honey, 1056 00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:07,640 Speaker 2: I mean because I took. 1057 00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:09,120 Speaker 1: That as like I get lost to him, so I 1058 00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:10,040 Speaker 1: don't know how to deal with them. 1059 00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:12,680 Speaker 3: A couple of the questions kind of threw me off, 1060 00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:13,920 Speaker 3: and I was just taking it by myself, and I 1061 00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:16,799 Speaker 3: was like one of them was like, I'm something about 1062 00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:18,279 Speaker 3: being selfish, and I was like, I'm like, you know what, 1063 00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:21,120 Speaker 3: I'm gonna say it, I could be selfish. And I 1064 00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:22,680 Speaker 3: was like really proud of myself in that moment, for 1065 00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:24,120 Speaker 3: in that moment, for owning it. 1066 00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:26,719 Speaker 2: What number were you? I'm a six Okay, oh that 1067 00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:29,320 Speaker 2: is my last one on mine. That's so funny. We 1068 00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:31,440 Speaker 2: don't know it. I was a sixth and then one 1069 00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:33,080 Speaker 2: six is my fourth. 1070 00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:35,120 Speaker 1: You all take the test. It's actually really interesting. 1071 00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:37,279 Speaker 2: It was like, really, yeah, there's a couple of free 1072 00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:39,600 Speaker 2: ones in the Enneagram Institute. Is the one that we took? 1073 00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:40,080 Speaker 1: Yes, it is. 1074 00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:40,799 Speaker 2: It is twelve dollars. 1075 00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:43,040 Speaker 3: Because I've taken a couple before and every time it 1076 00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:45,720 Speaker 3: would be something like different, and then I kind. 1077 00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:48,560 Speaker 2: Of it is interesting though, but it is very It 1078 00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:51,440 Speaker 2: talks about how to deal with it explained well, and 1079 00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:54,160 Speaker 2: it explains like how they are and operate, but it 1080 00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:56,200 Speaker 2: is it's interesting if if I was to take the 1081 00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:58,239 Speaker 2: test for Michael and he was to take it for me, 1082 00:46:58,520 --> 00:46:59,840 Speaker 2: if we would get the same number. 1083 00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:01,960 Speaker 3: Last night, I wanted to take it for Tie and 1084 00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:03,800 Speaker 3: I was like it was giving me a headache, and 1085 00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:05,120 Speaker 3: I was like I just need him to do it, 1086 00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:07,440 Speaker 3: but I don't know what he would be. 1087 00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:09,680 Speaker 2: You know these Taylor Swift ones? Okay, what your type two? 1088 00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:13,080 Speaker 2: It says, where did it go? Mar? Do you know 1089 00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:14,920 Speaker 2: your number? I have no idea you guys, if you 1090 00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:17,000 Speaker 2: should do it? Take the free languages? 1091 00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:18,080 Speaker 1: How many of these do have to take? 1092 00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:21,480 Speaker 2: I know there's a lot with another test. This is 1093 00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:23,319 Speaker 2: gonna be my thing though, Like I was like, what's 1094 00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:25,080 Speaker 2: your what's your sign? Now I'm gonna be like, what 1095 00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:27,800 Speaker 2: what number are you? How can I connect with you? 1096 00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:32,120 Speaker 2: Because it really did? It says a lot? It does? 1097 00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:34,360 Speaker 2: Did you read like all of it? 1098 00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:34,759 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1099 00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:35,239 Speaker 2: It's good. 1100 00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:35,960 Speaker 1: It's good. 1101 00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:38,360 Speaker 2: I like it a lot And it's crazy how it 1102 00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:40,800 Speaker 2: goes along with like the astrological signs and just like 1103 00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:43,000 Speaker 2: I think it helps. I mean, it helps me look 1104 00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:45,680 Speaker 2: at myself. And because it said like pros about how 1105 00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:47,200 Speaker 2: you are, then I was like, but the cons and 1106 00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:51,759 Speaker 2: it was like, yeah, it's a little dark. There's there's 1107 00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:53,120 Speaker 2: always ways we can work on ourselves. 1108 00:47:53,160 --> 00:47:55,680 Speaker 1: Know what I'm got me and not to turn this, 1109 00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:59,719 Speaker 1: uh this little dark. But there's one section that talks 1110 00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:02,200 Speaker 1: about out Basically it gives you like one word. It's 1111 00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:05,520 Speaker 1: something about like what you seek or something in relationship 1112 00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:08,080 Speaker 1: or I don't know what it is, but basically the 1113 00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:12,960 Speaker 1: trigger word for an eight was lust in like relationship 1114 00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:15,160 Speaker 1: and stuff like that. And I was like, that's like 1115 00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:17,160 Speaker 1: that like hit me deep because like the whole addiction 1116 00:48:17,239 --> 00:48:19,320 Speaker 1: aspect and everything like that and how I don't personalize 1117 00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:22,680 Speaker 1: my relationships and everything was just so that was that. 1118 00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:25,520 Speaker 1: Seeing that definitely kind of made me a believer. 1119 00:48:25,560 --> 00:48:27,200 Speaker 2: I was like, holy, that's wild. 1120 00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:29,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm looking at Did you notice that? 1121 00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:30,759 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1122 00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:35,120 Speaker 1: Yeah you saw that? Yeah, yeah, it was really interesting. 1123 00:48:35,960 --> 00:48:42,080 Speaker 2: I describe the lust good question, lust of the mind. 1124 00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:45,560 Speaker 1: Lust is uh, I don't know a textbook definition. 1125 00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:52,080 Speaker 5: Very strong sexual desire is what Marion Webster says. 1126 00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:55,919 Speaker 1: Marion Webster Webster always there to have a back. Yeah, 1127 00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:59,400 Speaker 1: So it's it's but lust is more of you know, 1128 00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:02,000 Speaker 1: when you talking about a relationshial standpoint, it's there's there's 1129 00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:05,960 Speaker 1: not connection there. It's just you're you're lusting the concept 1130 00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:09,840 Speaker 1: or you're lusting you mean, yeah, an idea of or whatever. 1131 00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:15,120 Speaker 1: It's kind of like a fantasy driven sexual desire. So 1132 00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:17,719 Speaker 1: there's no other interpersonal connection around lust. 1133 00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:21,440 Speaker 3: Interesting, okay. Type two this is just like the generic 1134 00:49:21,840 --> 00:49:25,520 Speaker 3: Type two. The helper the functions of empathy and altruism, 1135 00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:31,000 Speaker 3: the potential for other directedness, thoughtfulness for others, genuine self sacrifice, generosity, 1136 00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:39,200 Speaker 3: and then your negative situation. Here we go are intrusiveness, possessiveness, manipulation. 1137 00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:41,120 Speaker 2: And self perception. Don't laugh. 1138 00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:43,200 Speaker 3: Oh, but your your title is in the field, so 1139 00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:46,440 Speaker 3: you're like a feeling one. So then in mine is 1140 00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:48,759 Speaker 3: I'm a sick so mine is in the thinking one. 1141 00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:53,160 Speaker 3: The loyalists the functions of trust and perseverance, the potential 1142 00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:58,640 Speaker 3: for emotional bonding with others, group identification, sociability, industriousness, loyalty 1143 00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:05,840 Speaker 3: to others. Negatively yeah, yeah, here we go, potential for dependency, rebelliousness, anxiety, 1144 00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:11,680 Speaker 3: and very already feelings. Okay, and then eight Type eight 1145 00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:16,120 Speaker 3: the challenger, the functions of self assertion and leadership, the 1146 00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:19,600 Speaker 3: potential for self confidence, self determination, self. 1147 00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:23,759 Speaker 2: Oh you're very like self, good for you, Mike's world, and. 1148 00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:30,399 Speaker 3: Then negatively potential for domination of others, crude and sensitivity, 1149 00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:34,600 Speaker 3: combativeness and ruthlessness, diabolical. 1150 00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:37,800 Speaker 2: Did you guys read them before you took the test? Like, 1151 00:50:37,880 --> 00:50:38,840 Speaker 2: did you have an idea? 1152 00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:39,720 Speaker 1: But I had no idea? 1153 00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:41,600 Speaker 3: Who I didn't even know what it was? So someone 1154 00:50:41,640 --> 00:50:43,480 Speaker 3: asked me, and I didn't know, so I googled. I googled, 1155 00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:44,880 Speaker 3: like what are the nine ones? And I looked him 1156 00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:46,440 Speaker 3: up and I was like, oh, okay, I feel like 1157 00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:47,600 Speaker 3: I'm going there this or this, And then I took 1158 00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:49,080 Speaker 3: it and I was like tech, it was like, you 1159 00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:51,239 Speaker 3: answered forty seven questions. 1160 00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:54,000 Speaker 1: Right for this one? Were you? Were you spot on 1161 00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:54,920 Speaker 1: with what you thought you'd be? 1162 00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:56,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, textbook? 1163 00:50:56,680 --> 00:50:58,960 Speaker 1: All right, Ennea Graham, go take the test. There's a 1164 00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:01,120 Speaker 1: free one that's thirty sixquestions to pay twelve dollars to 1165 00:51:01,160 --> 00:51:02,359 Speaker 1: do the one hundred and forty four question. 1166 00:51:03,239 --> 00:51:05,520 Speaker 2: It's interesting and I'm excited to wind down next week too. 1167 00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:07,560 Speaker 2: We got Sarah back next week with us, and we 1168 00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:10,759 Speaker 2: have a really awesome guest coming on Great Guess. Yeah, 1169 00:51:10,840 --> 00:51:13,160 Speaker 2: great guest. So thanks for winding down. This is fun.