WEBVTT - Daniel: Fixer Looking for a Screw or Two

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<v Speaker 1>Oh baby, I'm here to send you on a day

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<v Speaker 1>with a Willita. How do you think? How do you

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<v Speaker 1>think our R and B album is going up?

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<v Speaker 2>What can I tell you?

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<v Speaker 3>Ohico, Maybe we should stick.

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<v Speaker 1>To what we know.

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<v Speaker 2>Look, I really think we have something. What we have

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<v Speaker 2>I have no idea, but we have something.

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<v Speaker 1>If we have something and we're not getting we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>keep working on it. But in the meantime, shall we

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<v Speaker 1>get down to it.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's get down to business.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yes, yes, yes, So as we wait for our

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<v Speaker 1>album to drop, Welcome listeners, This is date my aw Alita. First,

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<v Speaker 1>I am your host Vigo or This joined by the

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<v Speaker 1>captivating an incredible songstress will Leana, and soon I'll introduce

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<v Speaker 1>our main dater, and once we have met them, Lilliana

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<v Speaker 1>will sort through three promising contestants before choosing who will

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<v Speaker 1>go on a one on one date with our main

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<v Speaker 1>data and who will head back to the apps.

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<v Speaker 3>You know that those apps are just not an easy

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<v Speaker 3>place to be, so I'm glad we're here to zoop in.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not an easy word for a Latina.

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<v Speaker 1>It's true, It's true, though, I've heard some good times

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<v Speaker 1>in the apps. Back in them days, I might hop

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<v Speaker 1>back in. I'm not sure it seems like work now,

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<v Speaker 1>but we'll see.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I'm still blocked from all apps, so nothing I

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<v Speaker 3>can do about it, but listen, I want to hear

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<v Speaker 3>all about all of your experiences on the apps.

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<v Speaker 2>Down let's helped someone find love?

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<v Speaker 1>Huh oh absolutely yeah, Arming data this week is an

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<v Speaker 1>old friend, a contestant now turned main dater, Daniel Daniel

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<v Speaker 1>Mission Secuity, No, what a sweetie pie? Well, for those

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<v Speaker 1>of us who don't remember, Daniel is a community advocate

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<v Speaker 1>leading groups focused on homelessness and LGBTQ plus policy, while

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<v Speaker 1>also spending time developing an R and B and rap album.

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<v Speaker 1>Daniel had to spend many years healing from his trauma

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<v Speaker 1>and learning to trust people after being incarcerated as a child,

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<v Speaker 1>but he is confident that he's now in a good

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<v Speaker 1>place to give and receive love. His natural instinct is

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<v Speaker 1>to be a fixer. I feel that my soul, which

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<v Speaker 1>can sometimes lead to his being in relationships with toxic guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you into fixers, Alita? Or are you the FIXI? Donita?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you hear me?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you into fixers?

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<v Speaker 4>What?

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<v Speaker 2>What are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 3>Viga was daydreaming about carpenter's hot, sweaty, overall weary carpet.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, wait to bring in Daniel, because you're gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>lost in that day dream real quick.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, please bring in the daydream, I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>The con.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, let's welcome Daniel. Welcome Daniel.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, Hi handsome, how are you. I'm good, Daniel.

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<v Speaker 1>We had such a fun time with you as a contestant,

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<v Speaker 1>so we had to bring you back as a main

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<v Speaker 1>dator and learn more about you. So tell us what

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<v Speaker 1>you're looking for now that you're the main star.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I guess for me, communication is key.

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<v Speaker 7>So anybody that could communicate how they feel their emotions

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<v Speaker 7>if they're angry, like just kind of staying that because

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<v Speaker 7>I noticed a lot of people that do know how

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<v Speaker 7>to communicate, you know, they kind of just run away

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<v Speaker 7>or they get in their shells and stuff like that

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<v Speaker 7>for whatever reason. So just somebody that could communicate, I

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<v Speaker 7>guess somebody who kind of resembles my culture, my background,

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<v Speaker 7>and so street smarter and books smart.

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<v Speaker 1>Street smart and BookSmart.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a quick follow up question on sharing feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>You said that you want someone that is good at

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<v Speaker 1>communicating that I want to know how do you communicate

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<v Speaker 1>when you're also experiencing big, reactive, intense feelings, and how

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to be held in that space.

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<v Speaker 6>I guess it just depends, you know, like on the situation.

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<v Speaker 7>But sometimes I'll just feel like I need a moment,

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<v Speaker 7>or sometimes I'll be like, fuck off and I want

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<v Speaker 7>to talk to you today, you know. But really, in

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<v Speaker 7>moments of like anger frustration, I like to understand people

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<v Speaker 7>and why they might fill the way they do or

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<v Speaker 7>what I did to make them feel that way or

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<v Speaker 7>vice versus. So like just kind of giving me understanding

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<v Speaker 7>of the situation because I'm not going to like read

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<v Speaker 7>your mind or know what I did wrong, because in

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<v Speaker 7>my eyes it wasn't wrong, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Now there's one thing that I need to ask you,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's very very important.

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<v Speaker 2>You are a very busy young man.

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<v Speaker 3>You do advocacy work, you go to acting school, you're

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<v Speaker 3>working on an R and B rap album, and you're

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<v Speaker 3>also a model. How is it that you date? Does

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<v Speaker 3>your assistant do it and then let you know how

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<v Speaker 3>it went?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 7>The thing about me, and you know, some people agree

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<v Speaker 7>and some people don't.

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<v Speaker 6>Put as hard as I work, I live life. You know.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm very spontaneous, you know, and I make time for

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<v Speaker 7>the things that I love because at the end of

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<v Speaker 7>the day, like all this work, like if I die tomorrow,

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<v Speaker 7>it will be meaningless.

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<v Speaker 6>And what will have meaning to me is.

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<v Speaker 7>The memories that I create, the emotions that I gave

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<v Speaker 7>to other people, you know. And yeah, I work a lot,

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<v Speaker 7>but my spontaneousness and my happiness is more important than everything.

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<v Speaker 3>But you are looking forward to having a partner and

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<v Speaker 3>having a relationship and someone that you can balance things

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<v Speaker 3>off with.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, yeah, I'm out a moment in my life

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<v Speaker 7>where I'm getting older. You know, I'm twenty eight and

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<v Speaker 7>it doesn't sound that old, but for me it is

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<v Speaker 7>because I always thought that I would now live to

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<v Speaker 7>the age of eighteen based off you know, the way that.

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<v Speaker 6>We grow up.

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<v Speaker 2>Where did you grow up?

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<v Speaker 7>So every day I just live life in the moment,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, And right now I want to have somebody

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<v Speaker 7>that I could share it with and love, you know.

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<v Speaker 7>And I just keep getting into these toxic relationships because

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<v Speaker 7>for one, I track broken people.

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<v Speaker 6>In two, I like beautiful people. You know, who doesn't

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<v Speaker 6>like a pretty person?

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<v Speaker 7>Right, But usually a lot of beautiful people stats say

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<v Speaker 7>they're very insecure or they're very broken because they've been

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<v Speaker 7>used for that beauty a lot. They've been used for

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<v Speaker 7>how they look versus who they are. So the looks matter,

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<v Speaker 7>do you not necessarily your personality matters more to me,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, than anything.

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<v Speaker 6>You can make me happy.

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<v Speaker 7>You know, I used to not like older men, but

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<v Speaker 7>even now I'm starting to be open to that as well,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, because they know how to have a conversation

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<v Speaker 7>and treat you like I'm a princess. Sometimes I need

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<v Speaker 7>to be treated like a princess. Ship bring me flowers,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, open the door for me.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to be romance? Yeah, I want to know

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit more about you said that you have

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<v Speaker 1>a pattern of finding people that are toxic or people

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<v Speaker 1>that are broken and you want to fix.

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<v Speaker 8>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>What are some qualities that are positive that you have

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<v Speaker 1>found in some of these relationships that you definitely would

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<v Speaker 1>like to see in future ones.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, okay, so, like we show love languages differently, and

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<v Speaker 7>for a lot of the partners that I've had, they

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<v Speaker 7>cook for me and I really like that.

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<v Speaker 6>Honestly, because I hate cooking. I don't have a good

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<v Speaker 6>relationship with.

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<v Speaker 1>Food, so cooking someone that knows how to cook, someone

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<v Speaker 1>that knows their way in the kitchen, that like makes

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<v Speaker 1>you a nice meal. What's the love language that you

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<v Speaker 1>like to give and what's the love language that you

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<v Speaker 1>like to receive?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, as you know, I'm very big off communications, so

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<v Speaker 7>words of affirmation would be one of the love languages

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<v Speaker 7>that I give and gifts, you know, I like to

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<v Speaker 7>give gifts, you know. So I make a lot more

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<v Speaker 7>money usually than a lot of people my age and

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<v Speaker 7>a sad say, but from our community, you know, I

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<v Speaker 7>really I'm a hustler, So I like to like use

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<v Speaker 7>that and like take you out like lying and dying,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, whatever it is. And sometimes it feels like

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<v Speaker 7>I'm a sugar daddy. But if you reciprocate the love

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<v Speaker 7>in different ways that I won't feel that way. But

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<v Speaker 7>if I still use and stuff, then then I start

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<v Speaker 7>getting into that. So it's like a very thin line

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<v Speaker 7>between like my love language and like you're using and

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<v Speaker 7>using it, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And then a love language that you like to receive.

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<v Speaker 7>I would say I would love somebody could give me

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<v Speaker 7>words of affirmation because I constantly need to hear like

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<v Speaker 7>you're fine, you love me. We're good, you know, not

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<v Speaker 7>in touch. You know, I like to be touched, so

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<v Speaker 7>like hug me, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, beautiful. Are you also looking for someone that's down

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<v Speaker 1>to like meet family or like very family oriented, someone

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<v Speaker 1>that is close to their own family, or if they're

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<v Speaker 1>not close to their family, they're down to get close

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<v Speaker 1>to yours. What's the vibe?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, all the above, Like I love my family.

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<v Speaker 7>Sometimes I'm just kidding, but yeah, very family kind of person.

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<v Speaker 6>I actually am possibly looking to have a kid soon.

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<v Speaker 1>So very exciting. Is there anything else that would eat

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<v Speaker 1>that that you feel like you might need to know

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<v Speaker 1>before we go ahead and get to know these contestants

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<v Speaker 1>for our lovely mandator.

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<v Speaker 3>Daniel I think, daniel you're an amazing young man. This

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<v Speaker 3>is going to be an easy thing because you are

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<v Speaker 3>such a ray of sunshine and you're such a success

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<v Speaker 3>to life in your community that there's nothing more we

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<v Speaker 3>want than to find you that beautiful partner.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, absolutely, all right, Danielle. Now we're going to bring

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<v Speaker 1>in your contestants, So sit back, relax, and feel what

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<v Speaker 1>it's like to be on the other side. Now, let's

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<v Speaker 1>bring in Zecontosto will be your right back.

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<v Speaker 9>Welcome back to day, Maiawani the first. Okay, so let's

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<v Speaker 9>meet all of you. First, up, we have Jake.

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<v Speaker 1>Jake recently played a potato in a Super Bowl ad.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, the thanks we do for work. But

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<v Speaker 2>listen in the super Bowl. I'd be a potat a salary.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever you want to saying anything, whatever you need, I'll do.

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<v Speaker 1>Jake is a warm and optimistic twenty seven year old

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<v Speaker 1>survivor super fan. Oh my gosh. He's a podcast producer

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<v Speaker 1>look at Us Home, chef yummy, and actor with a

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<v Speaker 1>go with the flow kind of vibe. He is currently

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<v Speaker 1>working through an anxious attachment I feel that by spending

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<v Speaker 1>quality time with good friends good for you, and is

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<v Speaker 1>looking for a partner who can take on life with

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<v Speaker 1>him with joy and laughter. Welcome Jay, No love him.

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<v Speaker 4>I've never felt more seen by.

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<v Speaker 1>Next, we have Nunda. Fernando believes in the power of manifesting. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>even if it means accidentally wishing on a plane instead

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<v Speaker 1>of a star.

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<v Speaker 2>They both shine pretty.

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<v Speaker 1>He is busy making his dreams come true as an

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<v Speaker 1>actor and wants to someday open a performing arts academy.

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<v Speaker 1>So cute. Fernando is from a Mexican family who has

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<v Speaker 1>been a incredibly supportive of his journey in the entertainment industry.

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<v Speaker 1>Fadana says, the one place Manifesting has not yet worked

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<v Speaker 1>is his dating life, so hopefully a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>that could change today. Welcome Fernando, hell, thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>having me, And finally we have Jonathan. Jonathan is an

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<v Speaker 1>Aquarius love with a big heart. Jonathan is a big

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<v Speaker 1>cinephile Ooh and so the movie theater is his happy place.

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<v Speaker 1>He cares about social justice yes, and wants to advocate

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<v Speaker 1>for a better world. Double yes, yes, yes. Jonathan loves

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<v Speaker 1>people who are playful and wants a relationship filled with laughter,

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<v Speaker 1>don't we all. He is attracted to people who work

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<v Speaker 1>out and take care of themselves, but this includes dad

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<v Speaker 1>bods yummy. People think his quieter nature translates to shyness

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<v Speaker 1>or timidness in the bedroom, but Jonathan is here to

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<v Speaker 1>remind us that that is not true. Welcome, Hi.

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<v Speaker 8>How about you guys?

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<v Speaker 1>So good?

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<v Speaker 3>This is a beautiful array of young men and eligible Also,

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<v Speaker 3>I want to believe that you guys are telling the

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<v Speaker 3>truth right.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna start with the first game. We want

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<v Speaker 1>to see how well, you all read people. So in

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<v Speaker 1>this game of assumptions, you three will be asked to

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<v Speaker 1>make an assumption about one of your fellow contestants, and

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<v Speaker 1>they will tell you in a nice or spicy way

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<v Speaker 1>if you were right or you were wrong. For example,

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<v Speaker 1>I might say, WILLI that I'm going to assume that

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<v Speaker 1>you meditate in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>You can call it that I actually talk to God?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, that's a form. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that my goodness and my kindness and my

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<v Speaker 3>humility are based on his love, and I just have

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<v Speaker 3>to remind me every morning after I thank him for

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<v Speaker 3>opening my office and making sure I'm still here.

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<v Speaker 1>Here, here, blessed be for another day, alive and this

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<v Speaker 1>interesting earthly dimension. So that's kind of the game. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna prompt you for a few different assumptions. So

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<v Speaker 1>let's get started with Yes, Jake, why don't you start

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<v Speaker 1>us off by making an assumption about Jonathan?

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<v Speaker 10>Okay, Okay, Jonathan, I'm gonna say you're more of a

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<v Speaker 10>tequila girl than a vodka girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Ye, yes, yes, tequila gir is excellent assumption, Jake, Jonathan,

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<v Speaker 1>assume something about Fernando.

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<v Speaker 8>I got a feeling that Fernando is probably very serious

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<v Speaker 8>about work and then loves to have fun and just

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<v Speaker 8>let loose when he's.

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<v Speaker 4>Not busy at work.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, Fernando thoughts, Yeah, I mean, I'm not like super crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>but I do take work very seriously.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, for me, let louse is more like hanging

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<v Speaker 5>out with friends and having like nice conversations about life

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<v Speaker 5>and what going through. I'm not necessarily like a party person.

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<v Speaker 1>I could say like having a deep conversation with your

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<v Speaker 1>friends is definitely letting loose and like exposing yourself in

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<v Speaker 1>a different way.

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<v Speaker 2>For Noanda, what do you think about the assumption about Jake.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know why I'm getting vibes that you love photography.

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<v Speaker 10>Ooh, I'm going to say, like, partially, I honestly, I'm

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<v Speaker 10>much more of like a mood, like I get bored

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<v Speaker 10>really so I do like a moving image. I love

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<v Speaker 10>a TV show, but I recently I've recently been bringing

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<v Speaker 10>like a digital camera around with me and just to

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<v Speaker 10>like capture the little moments here and there, and I'm

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<v Speaker 10>having fun.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm gonna say, yeah, sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Cute, Okay, some really good assumptions overall, well done, well done.

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<v Speaker 1>So now we're going to give the assumptions a little twist.

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<v Speaker 1>We want to make assumptions specifically about other contestants dating profiles.

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<v Speaker 1>So I want to know what do you think each

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<v Speaker 1>of you are saying on the apps. Fernando start us off.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you assume Jonathan has on his dating profile?

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<v Speaker 5>It's something very confident, something along them. I was like,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm the best you'll ever have.

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<v Speaker 1>You know something else, Jonathan, what do you what do

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<v Speaker 1>you think about that? Do you have that in your

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<v Speaker 1>dating profile or something that allures to that?

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<v Speaker 6>Definitely not, but thank you for thinking that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's awesome, My goodness. Okay, Jonathan make an assumption on

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<v Speaker 1>Jake's dating profile.

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<v Speaker 8>I think I'm just going to set the says like

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<v Speaker 8>plant daddy looking for my other plant, have to raise

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<v Speaker 8>our plant kids with That's what I'm getting.

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<v Speaker 2>WHOA I do not?

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<v Speaker 4>I do not.

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<v Speaker 10>I do love plants, and maybe I need to put

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<v Speaker 10>in all my dating profile. I do not.

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<v Speaker 1>Jake make an assumption on Fernando's dating profile.

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<v Speaker 4>I think you don't mess around.

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<v Speaker 10>I think you're like I'm looking for love or like

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<v Speaker 10>I'm looking for a long term relationship, not about the bullshit,

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<v Speaker 10>direct with what you want in a partner.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean I do mention that I'm looking for

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<v Speaker 5>long term. I just'm I suck at like the Bay

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<v Speaker 5>of thinkings, so I usually do like a pretty joke,

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<v Speaker 5>but I do mention that I look for long term.

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<v Speaker 1>Hell's yes, Oh my gosh, so sweet. So let's move

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<v Speaker 1>on to our next game, and we're gonna clue you

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<v Speaker 1>in a little secret.

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<v Speaker 2>You know we love secrets, Oh, we sure do.

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<v Speaker 1>Our main dater this week actually was a contestant a

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<v Speaker 1>few weeks ago, and he absolutely wowed us with this game.

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<v Speaker 1>So we want to see if you are a strong

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<v Speaker 1>match for his candid and very surprising answers to this

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<v Speaker 1>game of dick shenery. In this game, we're gonna ask

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<v Speaker 1>you to define a new word. We'll give you a

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<v Speaker 1>sentence with a brand new term in it, completely made

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<v Speaker 1>of and you'll tell us what your definition of that

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<v Speaker 1>new word is going to be. For example, if I

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<v Speaker 1>told the sentence of I am always trying new things

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<v Speaker 1>in the bedroom, I can be a bit of an

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<v Speaker 1>in that way?

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<v Speaker 2>What does mean? That means you can be a wild stallion?

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<v Speaker 1>I I'm clearly not the only gorgo on this podcast. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so the first sentence, I'm gonna give you all. I

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<v Speaker 1>am looking for a man with a nice bascuta. It

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<v Speaker 1>turns me on Jonathan. What does bascuta mean?

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<v Speaker 8>Basuta means the way he carries himself, that energy, like

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<v Speaker 8>when he walks.

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<v Speaker 4>In the room.

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<v Speaker 1>You know about schoolda. Okay, the energy. Oh, I love that, Fernando,

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<v Speaker 1>what does buschuta mean?

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<v Speaker 5>I just think it would be funny if he refers

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<v Speaker 5>to someone who's Adam's apple like really pops out of

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<v Speaker 5>their neck.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, Yeah, Like Jonathan has a really great baschoota.

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<v Speaker 5>That people love that, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So pronounced Adam's apple. Buschood into that, Jake, what does

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<v Speaker 1>buschood that mean?

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<v Speaker 10>I'm gonna say that busuta is a strong fortified bank account.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, yes, yes, I can't stop clapping.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I can definitely see how all these things can be

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<v Speaker 1>very attractive.

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<v Speaker 2>Especially at my age.

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<v Speaker 1>That busuta we're looking for, that thick buscuta. Indeed, I

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<v Speaker 1>have another word. It is a beautiful Saturday morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>Turned to my partner and ask, can you get me

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<v Speaker 1>some Chad bless at the Farmer's market please? Jake water

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<v Speaker 1>Chad to bliss.

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<v Speaker 10>That's like a five course breakfast that you've made for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Fancy.

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<v Speaker 10>Yes, we're getting some real good cheeses. We're getting the

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<v Speaker 10>fresh sour dough bread mimosa.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're going all in absolutely chatta bless. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that sounds fancy. Jonathan, what does chata bless mean?

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<v Speaker 8>I would say it's like super expensive, super fancy goffe okaice,

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<v Speaker 8>like goffe that is just so good it has its

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<v Speaker 8>little name chart.

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<v Speaker 1>Bless Mmm into that that sounds delicious. Fernando, what does

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<v Speaker 1>chad to bless mean to you?

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<v Speaker 5>And he just sounds like a cheese that has dried

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<v Speaker 5>cranberries on it and you usually put it on.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh we're specific with the cheese with dried craberries insigne.

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds delicious, like some of this.

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<v Speaker 5>Something like a cream cheese, something you can spread nicely.

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<v Speaker 2>Creamy and sweet. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>The final word that will literally Leana deserves a juicy

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<v Speaker 1>he be scoob sometime soon, So Nonando, what does he

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<v Speaker 1>be scoob mean? And why does Liliana deserve it?

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<v Speaker 5>You guys from her?

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<v Speaker 1>With the term bullies, I don't know the term bullies.

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<v Speaker 5>So in Mexico, bullies is like ice cream by this

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<v Speaker 5>is like mad with sorbet and eyes. It's like shaved

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<v Speaker 5>eyes but in a bag so they free set that way.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh gorgeous like a fruit bullyes.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, the fruit.

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<v Speaker 1>Bully is very juicy and yummy and refreshing.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely, I deserve something juicy and refreshing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes you do, yes, yes, yes, Jonathan, what does he

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<v Speaker 1>be scoob mean?

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<v Speaker 8>When you're cuddled up with someone and you're just kind

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<v Speaker 8>of touched underneath them and the little he scoop like

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<v Speaker 8>it's little better than a cuddle, but not to suffocating

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<v Speaker 8>and just fit right in the space where you fit

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<v Speaker 8>right in.

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<v Speaker 6>Is that?

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<v Speaker 4>Keep it screwed?

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<v Speaker 2>That's when is that happening? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>Hopefully soon No, yeah, we'll find out. Jake, what does

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<v Speaker 1>he be scooped mean?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, let me set this scene.

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<v Speaker 10>You're on a dance floor with your partner, right and

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<v Speaker 10>you're making eyes at each other. You're having an You're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 10>let me go, I'll go get us a drink, and

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<v Speaker 10>when you turn around, they give you a nice little

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<v Speaker 10>tender little like butt slap, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Like a little pinch.

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<v Speaker 4>But just to let you know a little.

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<v Speaker 1>He was scooped a little juicy got you, dad?

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<v Speaker 2>I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I love these. I love all of these. There's

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<v Speaker 1>like refresherating, there's juicy, there's like tenderness and sexy.

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<v Speaker 2>I want them all and I want them soon.

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<v Speaker 1>But me too, honestly, me too.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe these contestants will also get a he be scoop

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<v Speaker 3>pretty soon.

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<v Speaker 1>We can absolutely hope. Unfortunately, contestants, we won't be able

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<v Speaker 1>to move forward with all three of you.

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<v Speaker 2>Now when it comes to our main dater.

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<v Speaker 3>It's important for us to make sure that the people

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<v Speaker 3>that we hold on to until the very end have

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<v Speaker 3>some compatibility with the main dat.

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<v Speaker 2>And I can't just do this because it hurts.

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<v Speaker 3>I know we are gonna have to let go of

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<v Speaker 3>one of you wonderful individuals.

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<v Speaker 2>And today the person leaving us is Jonathan.

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<v Speaker 1>Jonathan, thank you so so much. You are so sweet

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<v Speaker 1>and your hair is fucking fabulous.

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<v Speaker 2>We talked about it.

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<v Speaker 1>We've been talking about your hair and your smile this

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<v Speaker 1>whole time. Thank you so much for being with us

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<v Speaker 1>and playing and playing along.

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<v Speaker 6>Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll see you will be your right back. Welcome back today.

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<v Speaker 1>Maya Wani the first Okay, well, and now there are

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<v Speaker 1>two congratulations to our final two contestants. Now here's the

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<v Speaker 1>moment where we would like to know a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>more about you and to give you an opportunity to

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<v Speaker 1>dig deeper with a little cafecito. Go a wilita. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>start sipping alita. It's your time to have a little cafescito.

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<v Speaker 3>Gone Vernando, Fernando, you have a wilitas not anymore.

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<v Speaker 5>I actually I never got to meet my mother's mom

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<v Speaker 5>because she passed way before I was even conceived, and

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<v Speaker 5>my dad's mom a little bit growing up. At the

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<v Speaker 5>last four or five years of her life, I didn't

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<v Speaker 5>get to see her anymore, and she has passed as well.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I'm so sorry. Well, you have an a wilita.

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<v Speaker 2>That's me. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>You can call me twenty four to seven. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>mind nobody calls me for I'll tell you it's so funny.

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<v Speaker 3>But let's talk about your love life and what it

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<v Speaker 3>was like in the past and what do you want now.

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<v Speaker 5>To be completely honest with you, I've had the worst

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<v Speaker 5>luck when it comes to dating. I'm a giver for sure,

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<v Speaker 5>and I feel like, unfortunately I've come across a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of people that like to take advantage of that. In

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<v Speaker 5>all honesty, I dated women in my past and that

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<v Speaker 5>went a bit better. I feel like we were able

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<v Speaker 5>to make a better connection. Really, yes, oh totally.

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<v Speaker 2>But you want to date men, I do. This is

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<v Speaker 2>who you are.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, tell me when was your last relationship and how

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<v Speaker 3>long was it?

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<v Speaker 5>About six or seven years ago? I can't quite remember it,

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<v Speaker 5>to be honest with you, and it.

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<v Speaker 2>Was four months, so not memorable at all.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I think it was memorable because I learned a

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<v Speaker 5>lot from it, and I learned a lot about myself

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<v Speaker 5>about all the things that I needed to change, because

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like sometimes I tend to be like a

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<v Speaker 5>people pleaser and I tend to stop listening to my

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<v Speaker 5>needs and what I need to do for myself, and

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<v Speaker 5>to also stand up for things that I don't always

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<v Speaker 5>agree with.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so you have a new data and a new

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<v Speaker 3>opportunity and a new partner in your life. What do

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<v Speaker 3>you do on a daily basis to make sure that

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<v Speaker 3>that relationship flourishes?

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<v Speaker 5>I think for me, communication is very important and honesty,

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<v Speaker 5>what I've learned that has kind of like messed me

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<v Speaker 5>up personally in the past is that I don't communicate

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<v Speaker 5>how I'm feeling to try to please the other person

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<v Speaker 5>or like keep them content most of the time, and

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<v Speaker 5>not only just in relationships, like also people that I've

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<v Speaker 5>dated and stuff like that. The biggest issue is that

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<v Speaker 5>I don't share if something is bothering me or it's

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<v Speaker 5>something like I'm not agreeing with. So I feel like

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<v Speaker 5>for me, communication and honesty and I mean, we're dating,

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<v Speaker 5>we should have that trust, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, But you know at this point that you are

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<v Speaker 3>ready to have a fifty to fifty relationship with someone

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<v Speaker 3>who can communicate with you, who is honest, and who

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<v Speaker 3>is going to enjoy this relationship as much as you do.

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<v Speaker 2>Correct.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, and I've been trying to exercise it, and so

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<v Speaker 5>far we still haven't had any luck with it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why you're on date.

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<v Speaker 3>Maya Wili the first yes, and now we're here, Oh

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<v Speaker 3>my god, the pressure's on. Thank you so much, Pan,

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<v Speaker 3>I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, thank you, Fernando for this little intimate cafa or right,

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<v Speaker 1>there's another piping hot cafecito for Auilita with another contestant, Jake.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back. I'm gonna hand you over to Alda Aulita.

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<v Speaker 1>Have your cafecido.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, grass as vehicle. How are you, Jake, I'm great.

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<v Speaker 4>How are you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>I am doing pretty well.

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<v Speaker 3>I have a couple of little questions for you, and

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<v Speaker 3>it's regarding your love life, So tell me a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit about it. What has happened up until now? Have

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<v Speaker 3>you had a relationship lately?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 10>Yeah, I've had two serious relationships. My most recent relationship

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<v Speaker 10>was two and a half years ago. I would say

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<v Speaker 10>I put myself out there a lot, and I'm like

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<v Speaker 10>really open to dating, but I'm pretty choosy about who

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<v Speaker 10>I like will really let into my life in that way.

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<v Speaker 3>What are the qualities you want in this partner because

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<v Speaker 3>you are looking for a partner correct.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I amiling for a partner more than anything.

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<v Speaker 10>I want someone who's really fun and who will make

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<v Speaker 10>me laugh, Like God, we need to laugh together. Life

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<v Speaker 10>can be so boring and it can also be so

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<v Speaker 10>fun if you surround yourself with the right people. So

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<v Speaker 10>I would love someone who is willing to like put

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<v Speaker 10>in the energy to like, you know, crack a joke

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<v Speaker 10>and like make the most out of a day and

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<v Speaker 10>really like make sure it's an adventure rather than get

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<v Speaker 10>stuck into many routines or take things too.

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<v Speaker 2>Seriously, what are the red flags?

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<v Speaker 10>I feel like I've run into a lot of men

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<v Speaker 10>who are so afraid of any sort of like commitment

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<v Speaker 10>or there's like an emotional unavailability, which it's just like.

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<v Speaker 4>Come on, you gotta do it if you want to

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<v Speaker 4>make this work.

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<v Speaker 10>So I think this kind of need to be like

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<v Speaker 10>so untethered from a relationship is a red flag. If

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<v Speaker 10>you don't have your own group of friends, that's another

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<v Speaker 10>huge red flag.

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<v Speaker 4>I have the best friend in the world.

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<v Speaker 10>I want you to have the best friends in the

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<v Speaker 10>world too, And yes we should all hang out together,

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<v Speaker 10>but like have your people, I'll have mine, and we

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<v Speaker 10>can you know, find new ones together.

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<v Speaker 4>Another red flag. Oh, they can't handle like freaking chili flake.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what I mean. If they're eating bland food,

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<v Speaker 4>I will lose my mind.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're doing spicy food?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 10>My grandpa was like literally force feeding me chili peppers

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<v Speaker 10>when I was like a baby, So I'm well trained.

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<v Speaker 2>Where was your grandpa from?

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<v Speaker 4>My grandfather is from Kolkata in India.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, how amazing is that?

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<v Speaker 3>How beautiful? So it's a Saturday morning. You've been living

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<v Speaker 3>with your partner for just a little while, What do

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<v Speaker 3>you do that morning when you both wake up and

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<v Speaker 3>you have a free day.

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<v Speaker 10>I think the first thing I do is I go,

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<v Speaker 10>what do you feel like doing? And let's like come

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<v Speaker 10>up with it together. I feel like it can look

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<v Speaker 10>like anything. But I would say on a Saturday morning

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<v Speaker 10>when I don't have like work, I want to get outside.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to.

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<v Speaker 10>Probably either make or eat an incredible brunch and just

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<v Speaker 10>like take it from there.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was gonna ask you if you're a foodie.

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<v Speaker 10>I'm a huge I started cooking during COVID genuinely because

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<v Speaker 10>I wanted people to think I was hot. And I

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<v Speaker 10>was like watching all of these other people do like

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<v Speaker 10>home videos, and I was like, that's not me yet,

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<v Speaker 10>so videos and I started doing that and then I

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<v Speaker 10>fell in love with cooking and it's kind of like

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<v Speaker 10>become this like really incredible.

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<v Speaker 4>Passion of mine. So now I run a supper club.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's You're an amazing young man. Thank you for

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<v Speaker 3>your time. I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my goodness, Kiliana, two dates in one day. You're

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<v Speaker 1>a busy woman. Does feel what?

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<v Speaker 2>I could go on? Seven more?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I think I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe I'm underestimating the polyamory has taught me a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you feel like you understand more about our handsome contestants?

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<v Speaker 2>Now?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I like them both a lot there, individually talented, creative, smart,

0:30:03.920 --> 0:30:05.600
<v Speaker 3>you know where you're at, you know what you want.

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<v Speaker 2>You're just adorable. Okay, I'm going home now.

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<v Speaker 1>Well before you do that, Awalita, should we tell them

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<v Speaker 1>LUs secret?

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<v Speaker 2>It's time?

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<v Speaker 1>So our main data has actually been undercover this whole time,

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<v Speaker 1>listening in since the very beginning. Indeed, and Awa might

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<v Speaker 1>have an idea of who she likes for our main data,

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<v Speaker 1>but we're gonna have you step out for a second

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<v Speaker 1>to see we have a unanimous decision. In the meantime,

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<v Speaker 1>Muchisima's grassias to the both of you, besos aurasos. Truly,

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<v Speaker 1>it's been so much fun. Thank you so much for playing.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll deliberate and then we'll bring you back in and

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<v Speaker 1>the damn thing. All right, Awlita, this was hard. I

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<v Speaker 1>think they both have fantastic answers.

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<v Speaker 2>They both fit the profile.

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<v Speaker 1>We got foodie, we got food.

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<v Speaker 3>They're both into honesty, they're both into communication, they're both

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<v Speaker 3>into laughter. They're both pretty nice, decent people. They both

0:31:09.280 --> 0:31:12.280
<v Speaker 3>smile all the time, they don't seem to be carrying

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<v Speaker 3>any major baggage that would be, you know, an intrusion

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<v Speaker 3>into their relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>I have no.

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<v Speaker 1>Idea, Daniel, tell us what you think, You're right.

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<v Speaker 7>The answers were both on point. I like Fernando's answer

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<v Speaker 7>a lot. I just feel like he's too sweet for

0:31:29.120 --> 0:31:31.000
<v Speaker 7>me and I need a little spicy, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, mm hmmm.

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<v Speaker 6>And Jake, I feel like might be too spicy.

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<v Speaker 1>For me noted. Yeah, I feel like I'm like leaning

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<v Speaker 1>on team Jake.

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<v Speaker 3>And it might be a little challenge to Daniel, but

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<v Speaker 3>Daniel can take that challenge.

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<v Speaker 2>Right now, we are.

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<v Speaker 6>Colors.

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<v Speaker 2>You are very extremely pretty.

0:31:54.200 --> 0:31:59.000
<v Speaker 3>You are pretty in physically, you are pretty within, and

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<v Speaker 3>that's what I'd love about you, damn you, I do. So.

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<v Speaker 3>I just want to make sure that that person that

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<v Speaker 3>we put with you can see that, because that's who

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<v Speaker 3>you are. Besides all the joking and all the oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>this red flag or this green one, it's about where

0:32:14.520 --> 0:32:17.320
<v Speaker 3>you go forward from here and how open you're gonna be.

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<v Speaker 2>So thank you for that.

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<v Speaker 1>Alrighty, so thank you. We're going to bring in our

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<v Speaker 1>contestants and share the verdict.

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<v Speaker 2>I am so.

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<v Speaker 1>Ready okay, welcome back. Are handsome, gorgeous, hilarious contestants. Smart smart, definitely,

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<v Speaker 1>we have reached a verdict and I will eat that well.

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<v Speaker 1>Now take it away.

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<v Speaker 3>Listen the two of you, amazing human beings. Thank you

0:32:47.040 --> 0:32:48.880
<v Speaker 3>for being part of day may I will eit the first.

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<v Speaker 2>We'd love it. We love it.

0:32:50.440 --> 0:32:54.240
<v Speaker 3>And even though we make, especially me, I make a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of jokes and a little words that come here

0:32:57.240 --> 0:33:00.440
<v Speaker 3>and there, at the end of the show, it is

0:33:00.520 --> 0:33:03.040
<v Speaker 3>my heart that is going to decide who is going

0:33:03.160 --> 0:33:07.760
<v Speaker 3>to join the main dater, who has those qualities, those

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<v Speaker 3>green flags, that will take that relationship further into being

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<v Speaker 3>a partnership and without further ado. The person meeting our

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<v Speaker 3>main dater today it's Jake.

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<v Speaker 1>Congratulations, Jake Fermando, Thank you so so very much. You

0:33:29.440 --> 0:33:31.000
<v Speaker 1>are an absolute delight.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, okay, how do you feel?

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<v Speaker 1>Jake feels great?

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<v Speaker 5>Not gonna.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Jake, it's time to introduce you to Daniel.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm sorry it nice to meet you too. I was

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<v Speaker 6>watching you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, Yeah, Daniel, any first impressions on Jake.

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<v Speaker 6>I was a contestant to side.

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<v Speaker 7>I know how you feel, you know, but for me,

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<v Speaker 7>like I'm spicy, you know, as you can see despite

0:34:08.040 --> 0:34:11.480
<v Speaker 7>but I'm also like very loving and sweet, so like

0:34:11.719 --> 0:34:13.680
<v Speaker 7>that's what made me gravitate towards you.

0:34:14.080 --> 0:34:15.680
<v Speaker 6>And then obviously you're pretty.

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<v Speaker 1>Too, So yes, Jake, first impressions on Daniel.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you seem like an absolute sweetheart and I like

0:34:24.280 --> 0:34:25.120
<v Speaker 4>the tattoos.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're doing well.

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<v Speaker 3>Crying, you have to know, I will be just crying

0:34:30.760 --> 0:34:32.480
<v Speaker 3>because I see possibilities.

0:34:34.280 --> 0:34:36.919
<v Speaker 1>I love it amazing. Well, now we're going to send

0:34:36.960 --> 0:34:40.320
<v Speaker 1>our contestants away for a little virtual date.

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<v Speaker 2>How fun cuties? Remember PG or not?

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<v Speaker 3>So?

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<v Speaker 4>Where are you from?

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<v Speaker 6>I live in East La? What about you?

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<v Speaker 4>Same? I mean I'm silverly great now?

0:34:52.600 --> 0:34:55.480
<v Speaker 6>Oh really, I think i've seen you on Grinder before.

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<v Speaker 4>Well there you go, that's yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>What's your zodiac si?

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<v Speaker 10>I'm a Virgo, but I don't know. I don't I

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<v Speaker 10>really don't know much about it. So maybe you can

0:35:09.760 --> 0:35:12.080
<v Speaker 10>virgo nice? Like?

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<v Speaker 4>Is that a good thing? Are we good?

0:35:13.960 --> 0:35:16.279
<v Speaker 7>I don't know, Honestly, I don't know if Virgos are

0:35:16.440 --> 0:35:17.319
<v Speaker 7>like compatible.

0:35:17.560 --> 0:35:20.280
<v Speaker 6>I think yeah, I think we are great?

0:35:20.520 --> 0:35:22.759
<v Speaker 4>Right, Okay, so what how do you like to spend

0:35:22.800 --> 0:35:23.120
<v Speaker 4>your time?

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<v Speaker 7>I just like to be around them. Go to the beach,

0:35:25.680 --> 0:35:32.560
<v Speaker 7>go on a hike, do some rooms, whatever, you go

0:35:32.680 --> 0:35:35.040
<v Speaker 7>to the festival like all that. You know, I'm just

0:35:35.160 --> 0:35:37.440
<v Speaker 7>like I like to live life and be happy.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I love it.

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<v Speaker 5>I love you.

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<v Speaker 4>I really love to cook.

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<v Speaker 10>I love food, and I really like hanging out with

0:35:44.680 --> 0:35:47.360
<v Speaker 10>my friends, whether that's like beach hike, whether it's like

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<v Speaker 10>a bar.

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<v Speaker 4>I love to have myself a weekend and like a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of.

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<v Speaker 6>But you do cook for me anytime?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, what kind of feed do you like?

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<v Speaker 6>Anything? Honestly? Everything?

0:35:57.120 --> 0:35:57.799
<v Speaker 5>Okay, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 4>That's a good answer, because.

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<v Speaker 7>The Mexicans food and like I'll say Italian food.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, awesome. Well, yeah, you can definitely do that.

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<v Speaker 7>So how are you in a relationship? Are you one

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<v Speaker 7>of those like open people or do you like monogamy?

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<v Speaker 7>What is your life?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 10>I think like monogamy is definitely like home base for me.

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<v Speaker 10>When I have been with people, I haven't really felt

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<v Speaker 10>the drive to like open it up.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't like open relationships. Yeah, but I like fucking

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<v Speaker 7>people together.

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<v Speaker 10>Yeah there you go went, and absolutely absolutely you can't

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<v Speaker 10>fuck them without me though, don't. I've always like, when

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<v Speaker 10>I think of an open relationship, my instinct is like no.

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<v Speaker 10>But like the thing that I guess I'd be open

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<v Speaker 10>to considering is if it's like for us, you know,

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<v Speaker 10>it's take a way for us to like practice more

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<v Speaker 10>communication and like get closer as like a couple rather

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<v Speaker 10>than it is like I'm just trying to like functioning

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<v Speaker 10>on each other. Yeah, it's been there, horrible, not fun.

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<v Speaker 10>What kind of relationship you want?

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<v Speaker 6>I won that lasts longer than a couple of months. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 7>Just communication, you know, Like I want somebody to be

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<v Speaker 7>honest and open about how they feel and like also

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<v Speaker 7>be comfortable with setting boundaries and like being fearless and

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<v Speaker 7>like I don't want to read people's minds.

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<v Speaker 6>And I'm very like an ampits.

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<v Speaker 7>So if I'm around people and you're in like a

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<v Speaker 7>bad mood or like something's like wrong, I'm going to know.

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<v Speaker 7>And if you're tire me own nothing's wrong but I

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<v Speaker 7>feel it, then I'm going to pick until you get

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<v Speaker 7>mad and then you're like and you're like, well, yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>This is wrong. We could have told me and I

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<v Speaker 6>would have just left it alone.

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<v Speaker 10>Yeah yeah, so communication necessary?

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<v Speaker 1>Well wow, wow, Well I hope those sweeties hit it off.

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<v Speaker 1>Find us back here next week as Lena and I

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<v Speaker 1>make some more matches.

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<v Speaker 4>Good work today, I wanted that, Oh we did?

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<v Speaker 2>I like what I'm looking at.

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