WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Hot Date Hack

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of day. On a scale of one to ten,

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<v Speaker 1>how attractive would you say I am. That's the question

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want any in this room to answer, because

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<v Speaker 1>I already know.

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<v Speaker 2>I was going to ask if you were talking when

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<v Speaker 2>we had to rate you, I already.

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<v Speaker 1>Know that I am an eight point three five two.

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<v Speaker 3>That is your average, very weird number.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the number that my mom rated me at our

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<v Speaker 1>last Thanksgiving Day. Well, she's honest, then I like that

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<v Speaker 1>she said she didn't like that my teeth weren't straight enough.

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<v Speaker 3>You didn't follow up with a retailer.

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<v Speaker 1>It's something about me isn't straight enough and she doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>like I can't remember anyway. It's always interesting, though, to

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<v Speaker 1>rate yourself, because personally, I'd rate me a soft seven,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's moving extra generous to myself.

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<v Speaker 3>That's on a good day.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so numbers are going to fluctuate based on the

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<v Speaker 1>eye of the beholder. But what if you had a

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<v Speaker 1>hack that could guarantee the next person you go out

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<v Speaker 1>with is definitely up to your attraction standards?

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<v Speaker 3>Really amazing there's a hack.

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<v Speaker 1>For that, apparently, because one of our listeners, Blaine, says

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<v Speaker 1>he figured out that hack and we all need to

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<v Speaker 1>learn it today. So Blaine, welcome to the seven and underclub.

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<v Speaker 1>Happy to have a bunch of sevens over here.

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<v Speaker 4>How you doing, man, I'm good, happy to be here.

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<v Speaker 2>Well.

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<v Speaker 4>Also, I can't say that I I didn't come up

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<v Speaker 4>with this scary myself, you know, like it was definitely

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of social media helped with it.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh had credit.

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<v Speaker 2>Well that's what do you write yourself, Blaine before we

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<v Speaker 2>go into your hack, so we know what your level is.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm anywhere between like a zero to like a ten,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, so somewhere in there.

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<v Speaker 1>The whole scale. What would your mom rate you? That's

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<v Speaker 1>a better question than my mom.

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<v Speaker 4>She didn't like you very much. Maybe like a three?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so it must not be hard to find level

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<v Speaker 2>blame if you you don't really have a level.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess I'm a little bit. Uh, I like just

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<v Speaker 4>shoot out of my league a little bit. It's got

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<v Speaker 4>to be seven and uh.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, good for you, man, high game high? Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>super high and that's why I've been single for what

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<v Speaker 1>ten years?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, eventually one of these is going to stick. So

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<v Speaker 1>tell us though about this theory that you found online?

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<v Speaker 4>This thing said, all the most attractive people in the

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<v Speaker 4>world are born on the fifth, fourteenth, or twenty third

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<v Speaker 4>of the month.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I missed it by a date. Was anybody here?

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<v Speaker 2>I was supposed to be born on the fourteenth?

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<v Speaker 3>Does that count?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 1>You baked for too long. I'm the twenty fourth. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>over cooked as well.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So you're just looking at people's birthdays.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so I started typing in the dates, and uh,

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<v Speaker 4>I would kind of look and see the pictures that

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<v Speaker 4>came up on my suggested page. And if any of

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<v Speaker 4>them more obvious, like birthday.

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<v Speaker 1>Posts, where were you typing these in on what suggested page?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Any social media? Tried to on a few different ones,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, Instagram.

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<v Speaker 2>And paper Okay, okay, see you just type in like,

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<v Speaker 2>let's say October twenty third, right, yeah, or September fourteenth, right.

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<v Speaker 4>The falls in that, and then you can click on photos.

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<v Speaker 4>And if I saw somebody with a party hat or

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<v Speaker 4>like something on, then I would look at it and

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<v Speaker 4>be like happy birthday.

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<v Speaker 3>Hashtag birthday.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah you know, yeah exactly. And how was the talent

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<v Speaker 1>on those dates?

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<v Speaker 4>Look, the scale was pretty right on, like it was

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<v Speaker 4>it was eights and tins all the way through.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, Yeah, were able to use that to your advantage

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<v Speaker 1>in some way?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. So I would just kind of

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<v Speaker 4>compile a list and then I just copy and pasted

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<v Speaker 4>like a generic DM that was like, hey, your profile

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<v Speaker 4>popped up for me and you have the same birthday

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<v Speaker 4>as my sister. It's the numbers game. So I sent

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<v Speaker 4>like two hundred of these.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa, oh yeah, I'm busy.

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<v Speaker 3>That is a big net, sir.

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<v Speaker 4>Look I've been striking out for a while time. It

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<v Speaker 4>was like, it's true, man, you got a castle wat.

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<v Speaker 3>I like your honesty. I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, how did you do with your two hundred messages

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<v Speaker 1>to beautiful women?

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<v Speaker 2>So didn't say anything, Oh yeah, I actually thought that'd

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<v Speaker 2>be higher.

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<v Speaker 4>But I would say, like ten or fifteen of them

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<v Speaker 4>message back and said OMG, no way, small world like

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<v Speaker 4>type of thing. And then I kind of looked in

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<v Speaker 4>the ones that were really close to me and one yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>and I did get a date out of it, actually,

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<v Speaker 4>with one that I really really thought was cute the

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<v Speaker 4>whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, wow, wow, hundred the widest net I've ever heard cast,

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<v Speaker 1>and you narrowed it down to one girl in one date.

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<v Speaker 3>This is awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like this is like sales cold Calleen.

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<v Speaker 4>Is what it?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm so sorry. I know you mentioned what was

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<v Speaker 1>her name, Delilah? Delilah? Okay, and what did you and

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<v Speaker 1>Delilah do for your meetup?

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<v Speaker 4>So, I mean we dms for a little while, and

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<v Speaker 4>then I finally asked her out to meet up for

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<v Speaker 4>a happy hour at a bar. And she was really

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<v Speaker 4>cute and she came in and she brought a Starbucks

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<v Speaker 4>gift card and it was like, Hey, give this to

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<v Speaker 4>your sister because she's my birthday twin.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you feel guilty because he lied at that point?

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<v Speaker 4>I still feel real guilty. She still doesn't know that

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<v Speaker 4>my sister's birthday is not the same as that. But

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I looked at it. It was cute. It was

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<v Speaker 4>only for like ten dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, so it wasn't even really a very good

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<v Speaker 1>birthday gift anyway.

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<v Speaker 4>I tell you, I'm she doesn't even know my sister.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I guess you have one.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess, yeah, I don't know her.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good start to the day. How did it go?

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<v Speaker 4>I thought it went really well, but there, I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>there was a few things that I kind of have

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<v Speaker 4>honed in one that, uh, like my anxiety brain won't

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<v Speaker 4>really let go.

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<v Speaker 1>You're thinking something like you did was wrong.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I won't say wrong, but I think maybe

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<v Speaker 4>it probably took her aback a little bit. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 4>it maybe came one too strong because I compliment her

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<v Speaker 4>maybe too many times about how pretty she was, like

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<v Speaker 4>six or seven times. I don't know, I haven't been

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<v Speaker 4>on a date with somebody that's attractive. And then I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know, I was a little drunk and feeling myself,

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<v Speaker 4>so I was just kind of trying to be completely

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<v Speaker 4>honest face friends.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, as long as you left it at like

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<v Speaker 1>you're so pretty and didn't elaborate all the details about why,

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<v Speaker 1>then nothing might be safe.

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<v Speaker 2>People love compliments, but there is a point where it's like.

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<v Speaker 3>Why are you so shocked?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, so how did that date end?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh? Just a little kiss?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's good?

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<v Speaker 4>Something she went inside, and I haven't heard from room.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, if you reached out at all, yeah, i'd

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<v Speaker 2>sure tech mesage.

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<v Speaker 4>She hasn't responded yet.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, maybe she found out your mom rated you a

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<v Speaker 1>three and certain she lost interest. But we're gonna come back.

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<v Speaker 1>We called Delilah for you and try and get you

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<v Speaker 1>your second date. Update. Right after this second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>we just learned about a brand new hot dating hack

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<v Speaker 1>from one of our listeners, Blaine, that made us all

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<v Speaker 1>turn our heads and say, wow, this is ground breaking.

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<v Speaker 1>All the ground is literally cracking.

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<v Speaker 6>I am never gonna look at the world the same

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<v Speaker 6>ever again after this, because Blaine was not having success

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<v Speaker 6>on the dating apps, and he saw a social media

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<v Speaker 6>post saying all the most attractive people in the world

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<v Speaker 6>were born on either the fifth, fourteenth, or twenty third

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<v Speaker 6>of the month, whatever month that is.

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<v Speaker 1>So he went online, put those dates into Facebook and Instagram,

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<v Speaker 1>and if a photo of an attractive woman blowing out

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<v Speaker 1>birthday candles came up, he made sure to reach out

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<v Speaker 1>to her sex.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, honestly, every single woman he saw.

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<v Speaker 1>Two hundred hundred messages were sent, and out of all those,

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<v Speaker 1>a handful of conversations happened, and he ended up going

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date with a woman named Delilah. And

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<v Speaker 1>as far as we know, she has no clue, but

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<v Speaker 1>maybe just knowing all of the lengths that you went

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<v Speaker 1>to in order to find her would actually impress her. Blaine, No,

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<v Speaker 1>when does that story come out?

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<v Speaker 4>I think I'm gonna have to wait till she does.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll date for a while. She doesn't really bad, and

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<v Speaker 4>then I'm like, oh, I forgive you.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, it does something really bad. You're like, I knew it.

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<v Speaker 5>I knew.

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<v Speaker 2>We knew the only one out of two hundred that

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<v Speaker 2>messaged me back something.

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<v Speaker 1>But we really don't know what the issue is, what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on with her, why they're not hanging out. But

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<v Speaker 1>we're about to find out.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the fun part.

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<v Speaker 3>You ready for this plane?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna try our hardest here. Let's not renumber. Here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking for Delilah. Hey Delilah,

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<v Speaker 1>hope you're having a good day. That's about to get

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<v Speaker 1>even better because you're on the radio right now with

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Welcome to the show, Delilah. Oh hey guys, Oh you

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<v Speaker 3>know the show? Sweet?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't, but it's cool to hear from you.

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<v Speaker 1>You're a radio station, are you?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you this nice to like scammers.

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<v Speaker 5>Who call to sometime?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Need a car warranty, but you sure have a great days.

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<v Speaker 1>And family aren't that nice to us a pleasure talking

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<v Speaker 1>to you, But we do have a reason for calling

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<v Speaker 1>because we're doing something called a second date update. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's we're One of our listeners is trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>a hold of you to hang out one more time.

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<v Speaker 1>You've been out with him once. His name is Blaine.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, oh yeah, blame you like blame Blaine. We're

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<v Speaker 5>really cool. We had a great time. We kind of

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<v Speaker 5>met on social media.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm going to stop you real quick because we've

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<v Speaker 1>actually spoken to Blaine before we called you, and we

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<v Speaker 1>kind of heard all the details about how you met

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<v Speaker 1>and how you guys went out to a bar and

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<v Speaker 1>you brought him like a cool Starbucks gift card for

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<v Speaker 1>his sister.

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<v Speaker 3>He thought that was really sweet.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we have the same birthday and his the sister.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes. Yeah. So the question that Blaine has that he's

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<v Speaker 1>going through us hoping to get some answers for is

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<v Speaker 1>why are you not wanting to see him again?

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<v Speaker 5>If that's true, If I'm honest now, because I wasn't

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<v Speaker 5>honest in I stretched the truth about my age on

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<v Speaker 5>my social media and we were having such a great time,

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<v Speaker 5>I felt a little guilty about being dishonest.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, okay. You know, I think a lot of.

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<v Speaker 4>People stretch a little bit, like if you're twenty seven,

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<v Speaker 4>you'll say twenty five.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, how much did you stretch the number by? We

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<v Speaker 1>go in like three years or forty years?

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<v Speaker 5>About four years stretch four.

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<v Speaker 2>Is interesting about that is he didn't notice at all,

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<v Speaker 2>else he would have brought that up to us, like

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<v Speaker 2>you shouldn't. I don't think feel bad. You know, four

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<v Speaker 2>years isn't that big of a difference at all, you know.

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<v Speaker 5>But I just felt really weird about it because he

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<v Speaker 5>bought it up on the and I didn't correct him.

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<v Speaker 2>So like he said, you're I mean, what are you

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<v Speaker 2>saying you are on social media?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, my social media says that I'm thirty two, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>but I'm thirty six, okay, okay, okay, And can I just.

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<v Speaker 3>Ask why why do you lie about it?

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<v Speaker 1>You know?

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<v Speaker 5>It was just something that I didn't I just never

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<v Speaker 5>went back and changed it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she's not putting it onto like a dating

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<v Speaker 1>app trying to like trick guys. It's just something on

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<v Speaker 1>her personal social media page that.

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<v Speaker 2>I think my Facebook says I'm whielder because I wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>allowed to make it at the age when.

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<v Speaker 1>Facebook Yeah stretch Okay, But I mean that doesn't sound

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<v Speaker 1>like he did anything wrong. That sounds like you're just

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<v Speaker 1>feeling guilty that you didn't one hundred percent come clean.

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<v Speaker 5>Right. I'm just a really honest person, and it felt

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<v Speaker 5>really weird to start off this new relationship on a lie, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>And so it was easier to ghost him than to

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<v Speaker 2>come clean and tell him the truth.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. I don't want to look stupid for lying about

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<v Speaker 5>something so small.

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<v Speaker 1>Okays. I know you're an honest person. On this show,

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<v Speaker 1>we tend not to be sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>But if we do have any guilt about it, that is.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why this is so hard for me to be

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<v Speaker 1>honest with you and let you know that Blaine has

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<v Speaker 1>actually been on the other line listening this entire time.

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<v Speaker 5>That's not true.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish I could say that, but it is, Blaine.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you there?

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<v Speaker 4>Man?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey?

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, I don't know what to say right now.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I can, I can start it. Uh, that

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't bother me.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care.

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<v Speaker 4>Like what age is, just the number. You know, you

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<v Speaker 4>look great. I honestly thought you look younger than thirty two.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're saying she doesn't seem like she's a thirty

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<v Speaker 1>six year old.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean you can kind of choose your own age, right,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't care.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that's a good rule to live.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, that is my due.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the government.

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<v Speaker 4>And somebody says, you look at twenty six, you're twenty six.

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<v Speaker 4>I think that's how she thinks that.

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<v Speaker 3>That is so right.

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<v Speaker 5>I hear that. It makes me feel a little bit better.

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<v Speaker 5>But I just I feel really bad when you brought

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<v Speaker 5>it up, blaming on the date, Like my eyes got

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<v Speaker 5>really big, and I didn't know what to say to you.

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<v Speaker 4>So I could I could probably make you feel a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit better. So the whole when we first started talking,

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<v Speaker 4>I kind of lied to you about my sister.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh wait, you don't have a sister.

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<v Speaker 4>No, no, no, no, I do I have a sister. But

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<v Speaker 4>I just I don't know. You were so beautiful and

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<v Speaker 4>I really wanted to talk to you, so I just

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<v Speaker 4>kind of lied about the about her birthday and your

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<v Speaker 4>birthday being the same, just because I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 4>just kind of wanted to start a conversation with you.

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<v Speaker 5>Wait, you lied about her birthday?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean it was just the way. I wanted

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<v Speaker 4>to talk to you. You're so beautiful.

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<v Speaker 5>I want to you said that, So, where's my gift card?

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<v Speaker 5>I want my gift card back?

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<v Speaker 4>I'll bring it, Like, Hey, we can go on a

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<v Speaker 4>second date and I'll pay for Starbucks. How about that?

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<v Speaker 5>That's I don't understand. How did you figure out that

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<v Speaker 5>my birthday? How did you figure out when my birthday was?

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<v Speaker 2>Man?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh god, look if all right? I don't know this

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<v Speaker 4>is too much to say. So somebody said at one

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<v Speaker 4>point that most attractive people's birthdays are the fifth, of

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<v Speaker 4>fourteenth and the twenty third. So I kind of heard

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<v Speaker 4>a Facebook search for people with those birthdays.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, Hey, what a shows you?

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<v Speaker 2>Like? I did?

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<v Speaker 4>I only message you? Bro?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you hear what she just said about that?

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<v Speaker 2>She called you a loser?

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<v Speaker 4>Bro?

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<v Speaker 2>No, maybe she's talking about the guy who came up

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<v Speaker 2>with that theory.

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<v Speaker 5>On TikTok, I mean both of them.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean he was just having a hard time.

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<v Speaker 3>You know how hard dating is.

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<v Speaker 5>It's really hard to find honest people. Also, that's why

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<v Speaker 5>dating is so hard.

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<v Speaker 1>You were just saying how guilty and horrible that you

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<v Speaker 1>felt about yourself, that you weren't completely honest with him,

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<v Speaker 1>and now.

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<v Speaker 5>It was a mistake.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, look, you said that I was a really cool

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<v Speaker 4>person and we would have never met up if I

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<v Speaker 4>hadn't gone through all that and gotten in touch with

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<v Speaker 4>your over social media.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but I didn't know you were an online creep

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<v Speaker 5>such in the dirt web for people's birth.

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<v Speaker 1>It is living in the dark.

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<v Speaker 5>Ages and even light on your sister.

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<v Speaker 1>No successful relationship has ever started with total honesty. So like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is actually not a bad place to jump off from,

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<v Speaker 1>and we'd love to send you out on one more

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<v Speaker 1>date that we would pay for, not you, I not

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<v Speaker 1>with the gift cards or anything on us, one hundred.

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<v Speaker 3>Percent give him a chance.

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<v Speaker 5>I just I really hate dishonesty. So I'm gonna have

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<v Speaker 5>to pass.

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<v Speaker 1>Coming from someone pretending to be a thirty two year

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<v Speaker 1>old online that was an accident.

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<v Speaker 3>It's excuse six.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how this call devolved into what it was,

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<v Speaker 1>but coming from this twenty three year old GQ model,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I think love is possible if you, if

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<v Speaker 1>you just give it a chance.

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<v Speaker 5>YEA.

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<v Speaker 3>Also about your career, Jeff, where's the line?

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<v Speaker 4>You're right? Love is possible. That's why I'm messaging two

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<v Speaker 4>hundred more later Today, successful second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>What's freaking Jeffrey in the morning