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Speaker 1: Shante code. Everybody's here for Big Facts Fridays. What's up? Gang?

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Speaker 1: What's up? What's up? Everybody is happening? Everybody good? What

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Speaker 1: we're talking about today? I feel like it's a lot

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Speaker 1: going on and some ship. We need to talk about

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Speaker 1: what we're discussing. Okay, so we're talking about the first

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Speaker 1: thing that we're actually going to talk about today is

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Speaker 1: a topic that's been going around on social media. UM

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Speaker 1: called that black made a quote or a statement basically

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Speaker 1: pretty much saying that if your bitch pays all of

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Speaker 1: can cheat whenever the fun she wants to do whatever

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Speaker 1: So my question to you guys is do you agree

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Speaker 1: or disagree with that statement? I mean, I funk call

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Speaker 1: that black music and all that ship, but that statement

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Speaker 1: because it's saying that, and why do you disagree with that? Well,

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Speaker 1: it's saying that if you if you are the provider,

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Speaker 1: and it's very important to be the provider, for sure,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But in a in a relationship,

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Speaker 1: you can do what the funk you want. So I

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Speaker 1: think that trickles down to everything. I think that trickles

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Speaker 1: down the friendships and everything. It's like, if you're the

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Speaker 1: person with the money, you can treat everybody else like ship.

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Speaker 1: I don't agree with that, And yeah, but go deeper

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Speaker 1: into why you disagree with that, and then I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: tell you why why I agree with your disagreement. It

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Speaker 1: ain't that much deeper. I think that that just sets

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Speaker 1: up Okay, first off, President, it's a bad precedents like

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Speaker 1: call that Black is basically saying that since uh, in

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Speaker 1: his relationship, maybe because he's the bread winner, he can

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Speaker 1: some sluck buckets that they're plenty of with some wet

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Speaker 1: Jada been with Will for how long? She's just not

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Speaker 1: ready to telling you should the cheat? No? No, I

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Speaker 1: I can still be like, Jake, you're not doing this

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Speaker 1: That's not cheating. The truth. Cheating is with a lie

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Speaker 1: the ship elsewhere. You told them. You're telling them. If

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Speaker 1: you tell them you ain't me, don't take the food.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to this bitch house against a food.

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Speaker 1: That's still cheating. Okay, well I would try to learn

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get popping up from whatever whatever to run

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Speaker 1: if you got to the other men's house to get food,

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Speaker 1: are you going to bring me a plate back? That's

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Speaker 1: a whole different conversation. That's a whole different conversations, be

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Speaker 1: Cheating is in the same same spectrum with this lying

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Speaker 1: and dishonesty and all exactly, it's behind the back ship

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Speaker 1: oaking do It has two definitions. The first definition is

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Speaker 1: okay um. The second definition is to avoid something undesirable

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Speaker 1: I think I think we're looking at uh not adults,

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Speaker 1: because that's that's cheating in a relationship, hard cheating in

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Speaker 1: Let us know how you're feeling on that Instagram while

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Speaker 1: J pulls up the actual definition of okay, so let

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Speaker 1: me just let me just rate this off real quick.

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Speaker 1: They're okay. For as long as there have been relationships,

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Speaker 1: there has been infidelity, And for as long as there

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Speaker 1: has been infidelity, romantic partners have squabbled over what exactly

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Speaker 1: counts is cheating? Is watching porn cheating? What about flirting

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Speaker 1: with a coworker even though you know nothing is coming

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Speaker 1: is in the eye of the beholder. If you happen

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Speaker 1: That's a good question and reship. There's no one correct

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Speaker 1: Hold check this upright. Generally, infidelity is considered to be

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Speaker 1: an act involving a third party that violates the standards

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Speaker 1: more specifically, I would define it as an infidelity as

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Speaker 1: a unilateral decision by one of the romantic partners to

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Speaker 1: it perceived or real limitation in the romantic partnership with

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Speaker 1: their other partner. If you've got some money right and

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Speaker 1: bank has a stack of money right there, and as

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Speaker 1: y'all understanding that, you can scam off and get a

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Speaker 1: little bit of it, it's not stealing, correct If y'all

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Speaker 1: understanding if you need something I got, you scam something.

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Speaker 1: But if y'all don't have that understanding, then you just

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Speaker 1: assume or you just taking it and then he ain't

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, that's stealing. It's the same ship.

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Speaker 1: If you don't understanding analogy, it's a mutually understanding that

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Speaker 1: other ship. I know that I'm at home and I

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Speaker 1: get it and this is the reason why. But if

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Speaker 1: you just go do it and they don't know, and

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Speaker 1: they at home waiting on your ass thinking everything all good.

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Speaker 1: But cheating doesn't always mean sex, right, we're not talking

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Speaker 1: about that. We're talking about the understanding. Anything that you

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Speaker 1: for that that person, you are cheating whatever, whatever the

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Speaker 1: rule you said your relationship, that's what cheating is. But

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Speaker 1: she never said no, that's what I said. Some extra

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Speaker 1: And then I always saying I'm gonna sut the funk

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Speaker 1: up a lot of times. If you bring that ship up,

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Speaker 1: you'll be surprised. That's how you know your girl with

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Speaker 1: you'd be surprised. Don't get fit, you'll be surprised. Hey,

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Speaker 1: this is how I feeling. I've been feeling that way too,

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Speaker 1: Damn for real, I already got some like you'll be surprised.

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Speaker 1: But all that sneaking and hid that ship is gonna

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Speaker 1: make it worse, and it just get worse. That's all right.

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Speaker 1: So back to the question. If the woman is the

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Speaker 1: bread winner, she should be able to do what she

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Speaker 1: But man, that's the winners normally do what they wanted.

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Speaker 1: They still gotta buy by rules, what rules, whatever, the

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Speaker 1: do it because he's the bread winner. He could, he

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Speaker 1: could do that if he were a woman that allows

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Speaker 1: it's never gonna work. Get with somebody that that's okay

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Speaker 1: with you not having no rules. I can do what

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Speaker 1: the funk I want because I'm the bread winner. I

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Speaker 1: ain't saying that you don't have to here to certain

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Speaker 1: but whatever, but like no, like that's not cool. I

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Speaker 1: don't agree. I wouldn't dare be with somebody just because

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Speaker 1: a leader of the households. No different day, no straight

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Speaker 1: leader of the household, lead your family. No, okay, so

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Speaker 1: let me let me just say this. No no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: he stills. Yeah, that's the same that's the same amount. Likely,

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Speaker 1: I mean six. You can still pay all the bill.

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Speaker 1: You can still pay all my bills. And I'm thinking,

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking you're saying, just like the nigga woman. No, no,

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Speaker 1: definitely a part of it. But it's still like, you

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Speaker 1: supposed to just say a man was making more money. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: where you're gonna be the bread woman because I managed

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Speaker 1: the whole situation. A lot of a lot of women

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Speaker 1: like your white go scratch off a lot of tea

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Speaker 1: five million all, I just stretched it we want because

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Speaker 1: the day, like when our parents come. But you can't

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Speaker 1: blame the female. No, no no, no, I'm not blame supposed

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Speaker 1: to do what they're doing. The whole situation like a bit.

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Speaker 1: No matter what you got going on, I'm a I'm

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Speaker 1: female know when a nigga bitch before? How at that?

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Speaker 1: They look at a different day different, it's a different

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Speaker 1: day different. It's internet ship. Yeah, you're you're supposed to have,

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Speaker 1: You're supposed you're supposed to hand on and soon your

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Speaker 1: roles as a man. And there's a lot of men

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Speaker 1: just ain't doing this a lot more now than ain't

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Speaker 1: doing this. Yeah, yeah, that's totally, that's totally. Yeah, the

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Speaker 1: different man. But it's just like a lot of get

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Speaker 1: of their ship. Different. It's differ, it's different, but it's different.

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Speaker 1: But at the same time, you still supposed to have

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Speaker 1: you choose to be with this nigga, if you respect

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Speaker 1: they don't respect that, then don't be If you can

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Speaker 1: shoot a gun, if you can do this, and you

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Speaker 1: can do what you're saying. But niggas ain't up into

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Speaker 1: them shoes to be respected, but are stepping into them

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Speaker 1: shoes to be respected. You still had the women's now

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Speaker 1: to me that they don't respect. I ain't trying to

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Speaker 1: take up for him or nothing, but it's just what

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Speaker 1: they don't went through. There was so many suckers this

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Speaker 1: you gotta think it's five one. So I don't deal

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Speaker 1: with five niggers. Oh y'all, y'all need some suckers when

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Speaker 1: I meet you. That's just how they're looking at it.

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Speaker 1: So if I started doing this ship and you're accepting it,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, You ain't. You ain't got

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Speaker 1: that spine. So how can I spade it? If I

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Speaker 1: if I tell you, if I go on your phone

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Speaker 1: or whatever the funk, that's disrespectful to you, and you

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Speaker 1: let me do it. I know I got your car,

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Speaker 1: So how to hell? Im? How to hell? I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: look at you as anything if I'm smaller ship, you

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like it could be anything Like

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Speaker 1: I feel like I can't nobody to tell my wife

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Speaker 1: ship her dad and nobody nigga shut up, and that

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure she feeled it like he gonna nut

423
00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 1: up when it comes to me, the new d female

424
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:10,600
Speaker 1: knowing like you're just gonna let this happen. You're just

425
00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 1: gonna let that happen, So why would they respect it? Yeah?

426
00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:19,440
Speaker 1: So how can I Yeah, so at everything, huh, Yeah,

427
00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:22,600
Speaker 1: I didn't wasting time just trying to figure out. Yeah,

428
00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:24,680
Speaker 1: I think it's just trying to figured out, just trying

429
00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:29,119
Speaker 1: to figure out figuring. We got to get back to

430
00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:31,040
Speaker 1: the basics. With a lot of ships in life and

431
00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:33,200
Speaker 1: in the world, you gotta get back to the basics.

432
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:36,200
Speaker 1: There's a man and there is a woman. Yeah, it's

433
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:41,800
Speaker 1: a lot of men. Get back to it. Ever, Yeah,

434
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 1: if you meet, if you meet, if you meet somebody

435
00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:46,159
Speaker 1: that's you're equal, you know what I'm saying. If you

436
00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:47,960
Speaker 1: meet somebody to be like, Okay, I funt with her,

437
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:50,840
Speaker 1: Yeah I fought with him then yeah, But if you

438
00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:52,879
Speaker 1: meet somebody in the kind of if you're like, she

439
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,160
Speaker 1: probably just sucking me. He just probably with me because

440
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 1: I got my body done it. She just probably because

441
00:23:57,359 --> 00:23:59,560
Speaker 1: I got money. So you ain't never looking at it.

442
00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:02,520
Speaker 1: It's not because you already got a filter on when

443
00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:05,360
Speaker 1: you met the nile. So you don't even know me.

444
00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:08,720
Speaker 1: That's the whole thing is the motherucker don't even know

445
00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:11,520
Speaker 1: each other, Like I don't. I met a nigga popping

446
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:16,359
Speaker 1: in Niclub and the Whips. That's who I know. That

447
00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:20,080
Speaker 1: goes back to trust because if you don't trust the person,

448
00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:22,720
Speaker 1: if you don't trust the person enough from the beginning

449
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 1: to be able to let them see the reil you,

450
00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:28,440
Speaker 1: then it's always going to be a facade the entire

451
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:31,800
Speaker 1: time that you guys are trust your phone, you and

452
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:33,960
Speaker 1: it's hard to get to know. But I brought something

453
00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:36,359
Speaker 1: and it's getting somebody on truck what I brought to

454
00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 1: the game with some fake ship. If I met you

455
00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:41,920
Speaker 1: already hurt up. This ain't me every day all day.

456
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:44,120
Speaker 1: So now I'm trying to live up to this because

457
00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 1: I see what calls you. You get what I'm saying.

458
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:49,439
Speaker 1: This flashes ship will call you. So this is what

459
00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:53,360
Speaker 1: the relationship built, don't and that's the same ship that's

460
00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:55,800
Speaker 1: gonna make it crumble. Yeah, this is what is built.

461
00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 1: So it ain't gonna never be no respect that it

462
00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:00,439
Speaker 1: might grow into some ship depending on go through some

463
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 1: ship and we stay around each other or whatever. But hey, man,

464
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,760
Speaker 1: if it's all good, it's just all good. So how

465
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:08,920
Speaker 1: respect of female is? If I meet a female in

466
00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:10,399
Speaker 1: the club, I'm gonna be mad at her because she

467
00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:12,520
Speaker 1: go to the club there or not right, But I

468
00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:14,760
Speaker 1: can never respect. But I can never respect you as

469
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:18,000
Speaker 1: my wife because you's a club he's a party girl.

470
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:20,160
Speaker 1: You ge't wanna saying, but I funk with you though,

471
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:22,480
Speaker 1: So it's gonna already be a wall up for that.

472
00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:25,639
Speaker 1: For me, it's gonna already be a wall up for that.

473
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:30,160
Speaker 1: Like I can't fully submit to you, You get wanna say,

474
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:32,119
Speaker 1: so they don't real woman gonna better respect a man.

475
00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:35,560
Speaker 1: And when she fully submitted, like whatever he say goes.

476
00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:38,280
Speaker 1: But but but then, but then I think what we're

477
00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:41,080
Speaker 1: all saying is that that man. I don't think submittable

478
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,640
Speaker 1: is the word, but yeah, the man has to make

479
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 1: this to be worth submission, worth submission. Yes, yes, that's

480
00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:49,360
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. That's yeah, like you if you ain't

481
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:54,480
Speaker 1: a man, how you But if you're not the fighting

482
00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:58,320
Speaker 1: nancial bread winner, does that man don't matter? If not

483
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:00,199
Speaker 1: this neigg he'll gonna do it no matter the one

484
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 1: that is, he gonna do it exactly, no matter about

485
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:06,359
Speaker 1: the money. That you're not a real nigga. Everyone, because

486
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:08,680
Speaker 1: you're gonna start the woman you can, you can you

487
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:10,640
Speaker 1: can have a moment that you had all this time

488
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 1: and you've been struggling trying to make it happen. Fun

489
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:15,960
Speaker 1: and she around to come up. Anything happened, long suit, anything,

490
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:18,879
Speaker 1: she gonna she gonna she's gonna feel like when she

491
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 1: gets that money, Damn I finally can help. Yeah, Damn,

492
00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:27,640
Speaker 1: I finally. Can You know what I'm saying? We straight? Yeah, exactly,

493
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,760
Speaker 1: We We. That's that's what it asked. That. That's the difference.

494
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:33,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna scaling back a little bit with that WE.

495
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:37,000
Speaker 1: That's why I guess I'm so passionate about the cheat

496
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:39,720
Speaker 1: team ship. And everybody has their ship, and nobody's perfect.

497
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:41,680
Speaker 1: But what I was saying, if if it is we,

498
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:43,920
Speaker 1: not saying that it has to be we, If y'all

499
00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:47,000
Speaker 1: has discussed and came to it's WE ship, then all

500
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:48,560
Speaker 1: that ship goes out there. Now if it's just some

501
00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:51,159
Speaker 1: club ships, some bullshit whatever, who cares. Why would you

502
00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 1: even enter inter into any kind of union relationship or

503
00:26:54,840 --> 00:27:00,240
Speaker 1: anything without it being a WE understanding? Because everybody she's

504
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:05,040
Speaker 1: caught from vulnerability to you know what I'm saying, a

505
00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:07,159
Speaker 1: lot of people just want to what I want. She

506
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 1: were cool, were cool. We can do this together, We travel,

507
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:13,040
Speaker 1: we can do this, we can just do sit together.

508
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:15,679
Speaker 1: Now that we're now that we're talking about this can

509
00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:19,080
Speaker 1: we have a discussion about trauma bonds like the nigga

510
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:20,919
Speaker 1: like the nigga hold on, I don't know what I mean,

511
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:24,159
Speaker 1: but like the niggah who in the car dealer ship? Right,

512
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:28,400
Speaker 1: this man just found out that his girl he listened

513
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 1: to my ship too, so he probably I ain't gonna

514
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:32,200
Speaker 1: call a name, but he just found out the girl

515
00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:35,160
Speaker 1: twent three oh let the jump. They thirty five thirty

516
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:41,119
Speaker 1: sit at his job. Na, he worked one ship, she

517
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:44,439
Speaker 1: working ship. But he like I can see it on him,

518
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 1: like he kind of want to take her back, you

519
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. He said, he she cheated one

520
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:51,000
Speaker 1: time a long time ago when they first got together,

521
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:53,920
Speaker 1: because she was saying he didn't give enough time and

522
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 1: all this or even like she was kind of right,

523
00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:59,240
Speaker 1: so he proposed to him right what he tried to

524
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:02,440
Speaker 1: fix it. He tried to fix it with and stopping

525
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 1: started spending more time with him and said everybody all whatever,

526
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:13,200
Speaker 1: and she he came, She came to him and said, like,

527
00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:16,240
Speaker 1: this is my friend that worked with me, my coworker.

528
00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:18,879
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Yeah, he said, he went

529
00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:22,160
Speaker 1: through a phone call or like what's up going on? Na?

530
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:25,879
Speaker 1: Liket there ship. But we've been fucking four five months

531
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 1: and he likes ship. Just fuck her. But that come

532
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 1: with he's actually busting like shot. I said, he's actually

533
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 1: busting his ass on this job. He said he played

534
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:46,160
Speaker 1: everything at all that Yeah, he said he got a

535
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 1: turt and she just that's different everybody that's doing it

536
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,239
Speaker 1: like that for you. I didn't say he was doing

537
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 1: that type of ship. You're saying he got it he

538
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 1: end up. I said that. I said, So you're saying,

539
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,120
Speaker 1: if for nigga got damn going to get a better

540
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 1: job and he's gonna quite less time to take care

541
00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:03,480
Speaker 1: of you. No, no, no, no. In the beginning of

542
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:05,640
Speaker 1: this man story made sense in the beginning how she

543
00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:08,360
Speaker 1: said he was giving her time and attention, and he said,

544
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 1: like y'all said, I started giving her time and attention

545
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:14,560
Speaker 1: to make the ship right. You understand why she wasn't

546
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:16,720
Speaker 1: getting the time and attention because he's trying to work

547
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 1: to pay all the fucking bills. So you got to

548
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:24,880
Speaker 1: choose one. This ain't no. But at the end of

549
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:28,200
Speaker 1: the day, she just that that's what she is. That's

550
00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:31,880
Speaker 1: what because if this nigga got over that hump made

551
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:34,960
Speaker 1: sure that she was straight proposed, gave her time, and

552
00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 1: this bitch still stepped out. She ain't never stepped Yeah

553
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 1: that's different. She ain't never stepped She ain't never stepping in.

554
00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:52,280
Speaker 1: He committed to that. How that's how the good guys go.

555
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:54,760
Speaker 1: So you know what I'm saying. So when coming up

556
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 1: like you're seeing this like n't factor got them slay?

557
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:01,720
Speaker 1: Been that job. I tried to tell the mother for

558
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 1: the slave, he bout that, and you over here doing dick,

559
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:09,320
Speaker 1: So they make it hard for niggas to even trust this.

560
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 1: Don't even have to be that sexual. It could have

561
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:15,520
Speaker 1: just been what I'm saying. No, we're talking about you're

562
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 1: talking about doing dick. She doing dick. And if even

563
00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 1: if he even if he has working, no right, even

564
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 1: if at the job working, you still ain't to be

565
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 1: cuddled up with no other nigga just cuddled on. That's different.

566
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:33,440
Speaker 1: Come on, I feel like she she she want to

567
00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:36,400
Speaker 1: have a uh see, that's how this ship start. When

568
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 1: you trying to that prince cha how y'all friends, Yeah

569
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:46,200
Speaker 1: that ain't that. Ain't do with your friend, Like I'm

570
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:51,920
Speaker 1: just saying, laid down with you. They got the opportunity,

571
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:56,000
Speaker 1: do I think my hommies the fun Yeah, no good,

572
00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:07,440
Speaker 1: that's crazy like room smoking crap. I don't consider you

573
00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 1: one of my friends. Kodak. No like my homies. I

574
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:18,120
Speaker 1: like the guys that I think are like my like

575
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:20,560
Speaker 1: we do each other like brother sisters and ship like that. Man,

576
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 1: you pull your pan down and grab that man, Dick

577
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:31,720
Speaker 1: start suthing. You think hes gonna say stop that big

578
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:37,760
Speaker 1: cap down the hall? I hope, so like that shot,

579
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 1: let's be, let's let's be yeah, like, come on, man,

580
00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 1: damn shot. You can't do this. We're sisters and brothers. Yes,

581
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:53,720
Speaker 1: that's be like what the fun is going on here?

582
00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:55,960
Speaker 1: After you had that Niggs dick in your mouth? Okay,

583
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 1: that's how that's crazy. You're saying like all the good

584
00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 1: guy gets shied on for real though, Yeah you really.

585
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 1: I haven't seen two many of trauma stories of the

586
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 1: good guys. Man, you gotta find a balance stories. Yeah, man,

587
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 1: and that ship. That ship does something to a person

588
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 1: mentally bro like just really be scared, walked around real like,

589
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 1: and then they take that ship out on everybody out.

590
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 1: We got a woman out, dick PTSD mother like you shot.

591
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 1: No that don't do that because I don't just be

592
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 1: out here sucking dick, eating dicks and cheating on people.

593
00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 1: What are you spending time? Let's clear that up. Let's

594
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 1: clear that up, Clear that up. She ain't not here.

595
00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:47,959
Speaker 1: I am faithful. Whoa hold on? You're already saying, oh

596
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:52,320
Speaker 1: right now, yeah, today you're in here. If he was,

597
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 1: you do the wrong ship, you'll step up. No, you

598
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 1: just said run the type back, run the type back.

599
00:32:57,720 --> 00:33:03,960
Speaker 1: We can't. Yeh know what? Yea not the big cap

600
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 1: podcast Like I have definitely cheated, but I would last week. No,

601
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 1: I haven't cheated in a long time. To cheating ship women,

602
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 1: certain women, I'm gonna keep you one time. A little

603
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 1: ship can make it want to lose respect for you,

604
00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 1: oh God, for because they know, like what you don't

605
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:27,520
Speaker 1: supposed to go for exactly. I agree with that. A

606
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:29,680
Speaker 1: woman knows what you don't supposed to go for, So

607
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 1: when you go for it and just keep taking a

608
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:35,640
Speaker 1: little notches off your head, I think speaking true like

609
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:38,480
Speaker 1: Jade is saying, it's just get the funk on, don't

610
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 1: stick around and keep letting it get the fun, because

611
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:44,760
Speaker 1: she might actually love you, Thank you, she might actually

612
00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:49,680
Speaker 1: she's not not doing nothing. I'm not I'm saying saying cheating.

613
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 1: I'm saying respect, like just say okay, I got you. Oh,

614
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:56,800
Speaker 1: but you know it ultimately leads to devalue yourself. But

615
00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:59,240
Speaker 1: you're doing it to yourself because you're thinking you trying

616
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 1: to be a nice guy, right, I bit you talk

617
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 1: about you call if you text me and say I'm drunk,

618
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:08,640
Speaker 1: I'm about to pass out, I'm gonna stay in shot

619
00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 1: house tonight. What if your nigga don't get up and

620
00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:14,120
Speaker 1: be like bay, I'm on my way to come get

621
00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 1: you know you ain't men. You don't even answer no

622
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:18,239
Speaker 1: more like soon I take that ship. Maybe I feel

623
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 1: right ashleep, So now I gotta see when I see

624
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:23,719
Speaker 1: you in the morning. You damn but you were tied

625
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:28,960
Speaker 1: his head black? The fuck No, I'm screaming like like

626
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 1: like you should know, like like you should know better

627
00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:36,759
Speaker 1: than even send that to try that. Yes, like you

628
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 1: should know, like this niggat you don't know you got

629
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 1: till you try, you know, But even by that means

630
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 1: that this nigga or no, not even ticks, not even

631
00:34:57,360 --> 00:35:01,360
Speaker 1: just fall asleep. Yeah, look, don't sleep. You said that

632
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:06,799
Speaker 1: women be lying about that ship bad. I'm just seeing

633
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:11,400
Speaker 1: this I felt a niggas ain't going for that, going

634
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:17,319
Speaker 1: for you know that ship to a nigga, he let

635
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:20,439
Speaker 1: you do it. It's over that one. Shi. You're gonna

636
00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:22,960
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying now, you're just gonna start

637
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:33,080
Speaker 1: just try and ship. Last night it said if you

638
00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 1: let a nigga think ship is sweet, he's gonna open

639
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:38,640
Speaker 1: up a bakery. Same thing goes for a bit, absolutely

640
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:43,160
Speaker 1: straight up gonna catch us in our ship. What nine

641
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:44,800
Speaker 1: times out of tender nigga, I gonna catch us in

642
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:47,120
Speaker 1: our ship. I'm just being honest. You speak us from

643
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:50,120
Speaker 1: experience too. Huh No, I'm not a fucking sing about me. Bro.

644
00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 1: My wife could have a whole another husband because I

645
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 1: don't check ship. Where I'm going to work. I don't

646
00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:59,319
Speaker 1: know where you're work. I don't know nothing. I'm gonna

647
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:03,880
Speaker 1: leaing to yo, stretching right a wrong. You can have

648
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:08,480
Speaker 1: a whole another familyst somewhere. Oh God, don't house everything.

649
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:13,360
Speaker 1: That's called being secure. Man. Yeah, you've just been not

650
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:16,480
Speaker 1: Never admit that ship. You know you have them talk

651
00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:19,440
Speaker 1: like websh baby, Yeah, I don't want to know nothing

652
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:32,040
Speaker 1: killed your whole everything you know? Say then I ain't

653
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:33,680
Speaker 1: gonna be to be the negle to see and say

654
00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 1: I know what the motherfucker ain't going I ain't No,

655
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:41,279
Speaker 1: but never So to final question for the whole ship.

656
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 1: Though it's fine, it's finding out worse than being told yeah, yeah, right,

657
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:54,279
Speaker 1: we won't be out of respect. Man, No, don't tell me.

658
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:56,920
Speaker 1: Let me find that so beach we all man, you

659
00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 1: just don't yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you just find out.

660
00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 1: I can say, bitch, you trying to tell me that

661
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:05,719
Speaker 1: makes you feel like you think I'm a real Yeah,

662
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:09,560
Speaker 1: you're gonna tell me and leave my mind the one

663
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 1: of what y'all were doing God, rather than tell me

664
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 1: by the streets. But damn okay, at least a bit's

665
00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:19,839
Speaker 1: trapped to be sneaking. Don't feel like you could tell

666
00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:24,600
Speaker 1: me no bullshit, Broye. That's worse than anything. Yeah, tell

667
00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 1: me that's the female though, I'm saying, man, if you

668
00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 1: tell me that, what are you expecting to work that out?

669
00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:40,920
Speaker 1: You don't introduce some bullshit to the relationship, doesn't work

670
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:50,279
Speaker 1: it out because the woman reason the woman, don't call

671
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:54,120
Speaker 1: the reasoning behind the ship. If that's your way out,

672
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:55,719
Speaker 1: and if you want to get out, I'm gonna just

673
00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:58,880
Speaker 1: tell you what I've been doing. Cool, tell me like that,

674
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:02,320
Speaker 1: but don't hear me. And it's like you crying telling me,

675
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:07,799
Speaker 1: I'm just so who should before you did? What the fun?

676
00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:10,520
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying, don't do that. I'd rather

677
00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:12,640
Speaker 1: you got damn. Oh, where did she come to tell you?

678
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 1: That ship on up on the rug and ship we

679
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:17,319
Speaker 1: try to get past? Hopefully we've been on built so long.

680
00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 1: So when if it do come out? That ship happened

681
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:22,839
Speaker 1: teen years ago? With ship that when you ain't well,

682
00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 1: I don't know, but bit you come, you just come

683
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 1: tell me last night? Well what is she telling you?

684
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:36,799
Speaker 1: Because crazy? You had crazy? So she like look bad.

685
00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:38,880
Speaker 1: I gotta let you know this nig is starting to

686
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 1: act crazy. He's starting to find na. Now you you

687
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:50,279
Speaker 1: got bad to you on your own. You don't tell

688
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 1: me ship that kind of nigga, Like even my neigga

689
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 1: know them on even called me and tell me some

690
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:59,120
Speaker 1: ship because he's gonna react different. Yeah, fact, I don't facts.

691
00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:01,000
Speaker 1: Fact you know what I mean, I don't even know

692
00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:03,399
Speaker 1: how to look at that is real? But certain ship,

693
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:05,840
Speaker 1: you know, nigga, No, they can't. I gotta tell you.

694
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:09,759
Speaker 1: But like little bit ship. They normal the same way

695
00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:12,319
Speaker 1: as bit ship on real ship, so they'd be like, man,

696
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:14,879
Speaker 1: just don't even tell that. They don't even don't even

697
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:17,080
Speaker 1: tell them. I don't even want to heal. I don't

698
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:19,239
Speaker 1: need to heal certain ship. That's just how I feel.

699
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 1: So if you, if you're telling me you love me,

700
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 1: you can't come tell me what you did deceitful to

701
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:26,360
Speaker 1: me because I can't do them but walk away from you,

702
00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:28,840
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So you might well just

703
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:30,319
Speaker 1: play your hand all the way out for the rest

704
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:33,040
Speaker 1: of your life if it never come out. Ship you

705
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:35,759
Speaker 1: did it with so a lot of women do they

706
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:38,520
Speaker 1: take it to the ground. They better. I ain't that

707
00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 1: wrong with that because that I ain't finage it volunteer

708
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 1: ship either, not myself, and I don't like this ship

709
00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 1: is gagn begg ship. But please don't do that. Baby

710
00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:57,279
Speaker 1: he lying you better say he lying on before he

711
00:39:57,320 --> 00:40:04,319
Speaker 1: got pictured. That ain't me Kelly. I'm tell you ain't

712
00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:08,799
Speaker 1: gonna work out how you thinking it is? How How

713
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 1: do niggas do that? Can you take your woman? I

714
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:18,080
Speaker 1: could not, but you know take you know what I

715
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:22,040
Speaker 1: know my situation though I don't take that ship happened

716
00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:24,600
Speaker 1: and I ain't understand it, but it's because partner knew

717
00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 1: he was on the way. Worst bullshit. I'm not saying

718
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:31,319
Speaker 1: it right. I'm just saying that's that one situation about

719
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:35,920
Speaker 1: I could be like two tho, Nigga, that's worse. But

720
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:37,959
Speaker 1: that goes back to my whole day that I said,

721
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:43,560
Speaker 1: I guess for different reasons. I guess so. And you

722
00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 1: know that when a woman when the sides of step,

723
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:52,360
Speaker 1: she's technically she's gone. She's gone. And Nigga can do

724
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:56,560
Speaker 1: all this all day, come back and still be like that.

725
00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:59,319
Speaker 1: That's not true. We're talking about what I'm talking about

726
00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:02,360
Speaker 1: that we're talking abou, We're talking about the majority, the majority.

727
00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:05,000
Speaker 1: It is one thing about me. I'm gonna tell you

728
00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:08,480
Speaker 1: one thing about me. And cheaters they subject to chance,

729
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 1: they subject to grow up. I'mnna keeping one hare is

730
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:18,960
Speaker 1: gonna be a horn, it's gonna be a horse. That

731
00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:21,880
Speaker 1: is not true. I'm keeping it red some type of

732
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:26,280
Speaker 1: line bullshit. I know plenty of horns that got married.

733
00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 1: Just men mature slower than women. That's what they always say.

734
00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:38,279
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's what they say that ain't feel

735
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:43,200
Speaker 1: like men. Men fucking just me, like I ain't trying

736
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:44,800
Speaker 1: to be on the bush. I feel like me and

737
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 1: fucking multiple women or trying to deal with multiple women

738
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:50,319
Speaker 1: or cheating. It's not the same thing as a woman.

739
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 1: Chan I just I've been saying that because at the

740
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:56,320
Speaker 1: end of the day, the whole hour that fans shouted,

741
00:41:56,600 --> 00:41:59,040
Speaker 1: if you can you can funk with two niggas, you're different.

742
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:03,560
Speaker 1: I can't do it. You can with different niggas. Ain't

743
00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 1: thinking about Like when a nigga doing something wrong to

744
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:08,240
Speaker 1: a female, if he cheating on the girl, he feels

745
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,840
Speaker 1: like he cheating on this girl. When a woman she

746
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:13,800
Speaker 1: on the nigga, she feels like, I'm replacing this nigga.

747
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 1: That's not true, damn facts, unless she's just a hope.

748
00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:19,880
Speaker 1: When you're in a relationship, a fully committed relationship with

749
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:23,040
Speaker 1: the moment I started trying to deal with another niggas,

750
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:26,440
Speaker 1: she's trying to replace you, Like yeah, like it's all

751
00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:30,080
Speaker 1: the way she trying to replace you, Like take a lot.

752
00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:32,719
Speaker 1: She's just holding on so she has secured this situation

753
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:34,840
Speaker 1: over here once she knows for a fact that this

754
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 1: ship is solid over here. Yes, yes, it takes a

755
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:44,480
Speaker 1: lot for a woman to get that I'm about to

756
00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 1: set this nigga dick, does it? Yes, it take a

757
00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:53,160
Speaker 1: lot for a woman in a relationship to be like,

758
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:54,880
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm gonna go set this other niggack.

759
00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 1: It takes a lot for her to say that ship. Yeah, well,

760
00:42:58,239 --> 00:43:02,279
Speaker 1: don't take ship for that. That's what I'm saying. If

761
00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 1: she's already in the committed relationship and she got at

762
00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:08,160
Speaker 1: least like this nigga, a lot a dude can gonna

763
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 1: get this dick suck about a bit and don't even

764
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:11,719
Speaker 1: give a funk about it. You got you got some

765
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:15,040
Speaker 1: women that despite you like, do this just for my sanity,

766
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:17,360
Speaker 1: That's what I'm talking about. You got some women do that.

767
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:20,239
Speaker 1: He got caught up. Yeah, I do some quick ship

768
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 1: for my son and fun. I don't understand that either.

769
00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:25,439
Speaker 1: So it's like out here, what's like, you're like, you're

770
00:43:25,840 --> 00:43:34,480
Speaker 1: you're you're you're ruining your value evendictive I know, And

771
00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:36,520
Speaker 1: the nigga me and the nigga no like, I know,

772
00:43:36,840 --> 00:43:39,000
Speaker 1: that's that's gonna what's gonna weigh on me the fact

773
00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:42,640
Speaker 1: that I know for myself, Like, I mean, you've got

774
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:44,799
Speaker 1: some women out here have sex just like niggas has

775
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 1: sex just to have good sex. Sex and sex. Come on,

776
00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:55,680
Speaker 1: you know, if a motherfucker go out here and do

777
00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:58,440
Speaker 1: whatever they do, they don't give a funk when they

778
00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:00,480
Speaker 1: do it. They don't give a funk to they get caught.

779
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 1: That's anybody message. That's not saying you were with. Our

780
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 1: conversation is not just about us. We speaking in general.

781
00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:12,040
Speaker 1: We're not you're going all day, you don't give a

782
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:15,040
Speaker 1: about that ship. The problem is on the man cup

783
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:19,480
Speaker 1: on the man's side. On the man's side, we don't

784
00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:22,759
Speaker 1: see some ship and you'll be surprised. You'll be looking

785
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 1: like but but I'm just gonna stay up. But see

786
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:27,960
Speaker 1: that goes back to like again. And I hate to

787
00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:29,720
Speaker 1: keep talking about this is what he was saying about

788
00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 1: the men maturing like differently in the women being in

789
00:44:34,120 --> 00:44:36,799
Speaker 1: a woman being a hole forever. I know too many

790
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:39,359
Speaker 1: hoes or hordes or whatever you want to call them

791
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 1: that tried to change, try to get married, try to

792
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:46,399
Speaker 1: be committed, and they still calling me like, girl, wait,

793
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:48,120
Speaker 1: what you're doing tonight? And what the nigga is that?

794
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:50,240
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? Like they're still they're still hordes.

795
00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:52,120
Speaker 1: It's in their heart, and then their brain, and then

796
00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:56,400
Speaker 1: their skin and then their fingers, like there's nothing that

797
00:44:56,480 --> 00:45:00,840
Speaker 1: they can do about. They try the word statement, I

798
00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 1: don't think that, and that now that they're married and

799
00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:05,399
Speaker 1: all that ship and then committed relationships and blah blah blah,

800
00:45:05,520 --> 00:45:07,879
Speaker 1: they feel trapped because they can't beat themselves. I don't

801
00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:09,960
Speaker 1: think you could turn a hole into a housewife. That's

802
00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:13,719
Speaker 1: my opinion. I always say that you can't. If you

803
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:17,959
Speaker 1: like hold though, yeah, and you know how you can't

804
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 1: like those like I don't give a funk what this

805
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:25,680
Speaker 1: whole though? Yeah, but this is my house, that's ther whole.

806
00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 1: But it ain't the housewife. But you got some nigger

807
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:30,439
Speaker 1: that feel like that because I ain't gonna never be ship.

808
00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:36,560
Speaker 1: You got some nigga feel like that, like I run

809
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:38,160
Speaker 1: ahead and have one of these litt good at two

810
00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:42,880
Speaker 1: shoe old doing this. Ain't I don't heard that too? Here?

811
00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:44,879
Speaker 1: What the world? I said, What the world? I don't

812
00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:47,440
Speaker 1: heard that. That's why it is. That's why we put

813
00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:50,800
Speaker 1: That's why when I feel like, you're never supposed to

814
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:55,239
Speaker 1: let your mate figure you out? What that's that's not

815
00:45:55,800 --> 00:46:01,520
Speaker 1: you out that GM once they figure you out it's over.

816
00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:03,640
Speaker 1: Gm'm not gonna change the ship just to change it

817
00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:07,560
Speaker 1: just so you can. That's the gym, the geminia, just

818
00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:10,360
Speaker 1: how I feel because then could get what it keeps

819
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 1: the keep you on your toes. He keeps the momentum

820
00:46:13,200 --> 00:46:16,520
Speaker 1: to the relationship like, Okay, relationship to me is a

821
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:19,920
Speaker 1: postle like once I, once I put the lads piece in,

822
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 1: what's left to do? What's she left to do? Okay?

823
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:30,920
Speaker 1: If I'm a relationships, say my relationship grown up? Who

824
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:34,600
Speaker 1: got them fighting? The a in all time? Stop that? Okay,

825
00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:38,480
Speaker 1: nigga was cheating ship like I'm gonna stop that now.

826
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:41,280
Speaker 1: I'm staying out having another spots stop that. So okay,

827
00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:43,480
Speaker 1: But it's more ship than I'm doing too than she

828
00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 1: don't like you get what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, but

829
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:48,520
Speaker 1: why can't Okay, I can't just stop and go go

830
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:52,439
Speaker 1: told cold Turkey and Bert nigger. Yeah, I might call

831
00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:57,440
Speaker 1: you a bit still bitch her face and you might

832
00:46:57,520 --> 00:47:00,080
Speaker 1: be hate that ship. But if I just turning to

833
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:11,560
Speaker 1: goddamn overnight turned into nigger, true, I'm keeping it one corrected.

834
00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:14,040
Speaker 1: Been the same way with her, you know what I'm saying,

835
00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:16,000
Speaker 1: the same way with her is certain ship she's to

836
00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:18,400
Speaker 1: say out of the mouth she do. She's saying, you

837
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:20,040
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, I have to look over. But

838
00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:23,080
Speaker 1: we've grown past. But it's still ship that I don't

839
00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:25,759
Speaker 1: like that we were trying to repair. Relationship is a

840
00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:29,279
Speaker 1: is about repair, working progress. You get what it's about

841
00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:32,080
Speaker 1: repairing each other. So just man, you just fix up.

842
00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:36,359
Speaker 1: You being fake? They're gonna sin that too. And when

843
00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:42,560
Speaker 1: there you got no flaw. Yeah, I ain't trying to

844
00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:44,880
Speaker 1: like tell me, bro, I'll be not know, I'd be

845
00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:47,120
Speaker 1: tripping something. No, that makes sense, I think. But but

846
00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:49,440
Speaker 1: you you don't have to. You don't have like my

847
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:53,080
Speaker 1: buddy he did that. Jake came on from jail. He

848
00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:56,080
Speaker 1: just came on from jail. He was a dog when

849
00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:58,120
Speaker 1: he was out on these streets. Here he got his

850
00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:01,640
Speaker 1: female with a nice lady that he was messed with

851
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:04,359
Speaker 1: before he went to jail. Now he now they back,

852
00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:07,279
Speaker 1: they back. They went into a serious relationship when he

853
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:10,759
Speaker 1: got out. But it's kind of rocky because y'all took

854
00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:13,440
Speaker 1: the fun out trying to be serious and dedicated and

855
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:20,719
Speaker 1: both signed up for something. She won't what she had.

856
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:23,839
Speaker 1: She don't want, no, no, no, not na, na, Na,

857
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:25,799
Speaker 1: I don't want what she had because what they had

858
00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 1: one ship at first relationship, they're just friends, you know

859
00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:30,880
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. She was in the relationship, he was

860
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:34,200
Speaker 1: in the relationship. But now they got out. Okay, my relationship,

861
00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:37,319
Speaker 1: you out yours, let's figure it out together. But now

862
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:39,279
Speaker 1: we're taking the friendship ship because we're trying to be

863
00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:42,160
Speaker 1: so serious on this relationship ship, but you're doing what

864
00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:43,560
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, we're gonna eat with your

865
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:46,400
Speaker 1: routine ship. Basically they're wanta saying like figured out me

866
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:49,400
Speaker 1: and routine like we could got Damn, she don't know

867
00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:52,319
Speaker 1: what we were. You don't know. We're gonna ask her

868
00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:54,560
Speaker 1: to cook, she don't know, we're gonna go to a restaurant.

869
00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:56,920
Speaker 1: She don't know what. She don't know what her day

870
00:48:56,960 --> 00:49:00,080
Speaker 1: consists of when she's with me. Yeah, you keep it,

871
00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 1: You keep it, and and that break in the monotony

872
00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:06,560
Speaker 1: is what keeps the spark and the fire and the

873
00:49:06,600 --> 00:49:09,359
Speaker 1: ship going. That's what I mean, because you're always wonder

874
00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:13,800
Speaker 1: it's a routine, and even I don't like that anyway, No,

875
00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:19,360
Speaker 1: still but hearing the same way, like show them. But

876
00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:21,040
Speaker 1: then they say, but they say, if you break the

877
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:23,920
Speaker 1: rout we're gonna do. If you break replect, you out forever.

878
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:25,960
Speaker 1: If you break routine, you're cheating. That's what they always

879
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:27,920
Speaker 1: say in blows and ship. If you break routine. If

880
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 1: you break routine, you're cheating. If you don't be at

881
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:36,040
Speaker 1: home around the same ship, stay, they say, if you

882
00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:37,919
Speaker 1: break too many routines, the women're gonna tak you cheating.

883
00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:41,360
Speaker 1: But if you're doing if your relationship consists of that,

884
00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:44,200
Speaker 1: if you've been together for what, let's say ten years,

885
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:46,560
Speaker 1: if you're doing the same thing year ten that you

886
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:49,480
Speaker 1: were doing your fire, something's definitely wrong. The same thing,

887
00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:52,719
Speaker 1: like the same routine. You get up every day. You

888
00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:55,080
Speaker 1: know what you're gonna eat on Fridays, you know how

889
00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:58,959
Speaker 1: you're gonna have sex. You know, go get her hair done.

890
00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:01,799
Speaker 1: You know time we got to go to her parents house,

891
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 1: she got to pick up the kids. You gotta go

892
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:06,160
Speaker 1: pick up this in the same ship. Eventually, somebody's gonna

893
00:50:06,160 --> 00:50:08,600
Speaker 1: be like, Okay, I all grew this ship, but I

894
00:50:08,719 --> 00:50:10,520
Speaker 1: love the funk out of you, But I allgrew this ship.

895
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:13,480
Speaker 1: We gotta switch some ship up, or that's what I'm

896
00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:16,239
Speaker 1: going to like. You get caught up like butted, my man,

897
00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 1: they got damn dealership, the same old ship. You're going

898
00:50:19,840 --> 00:50:22,799
Speaker 1: busting your ass for this bitch coming back late at night. Tie,

899
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:25,759
Speaker 1: ain't him whatever? She don't want to got a young

900
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:28,320
Speaker 1: nick showing picture of your neck with some dread smashing

901
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:34,520
Speaker 1: playing meet me, and but just said yeah. He was like,

902
00:50:34,560 --> 00:50:36,319
Speaker 1: win the lad time, you're the lad night in my car.

903
00:50:37,880 --> 00:50:41,280
Speaker 1: She won't that. We're going to put on spreadway and folded,

904
00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:43,400
Speaker 1: folded three and fought to four years old. Ley' get

905
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:46,160
Speaker 1: to it now. So bitch, whatever you think you're looking for,

906
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:51,520
Speaker 1: I'm doing this ship now, parks daytime, whatever it is,

907
00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:54,680
Speaker 1: this fun round my way, I'm still this same nigger.

908
00:50:55,520 --> 00:51:00,759
Speaker 1: We're crazy. You try to do anything, ain't else. I'm

909
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:03,400
Speaker 1: telling you, bro, Like they listened to their fun and

910
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:06,239
Speaker 1: telling them like yeah girl, and we was bet over

911
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 1: the balcony end would do like, oh God, I'm telling you, bro,

912
00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:17,320
Speaker 1: putting you down. I'm gonna bring that back that somebody

913
00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:21,320
Speaker 1: that's doing it. Yeah, he got a better who do

914
00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:27,560
Speaker 1: the same ship, he got a better who do. Yeah,

915
00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:31,759
Speaker 1: I'll get what I'm saying, relationship genius in them. But

916
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:36,520
Speaker 1: I ain't going that, bro, what you you're trying to

917
00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:38,680
Speaker 1: all the things like like, bro, I can't do that

918
00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:44,080
Speaker 1: with my girl. She wants to do it. Bro every world,

919
00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:50,080
Speaker 1: every girl like, don't get it, somebody's gonna do it.

920
00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:54,520
Speaker 1: Fool you now, Yeah, every girl wants her nigger to

921
00:51:54,560 --> 00:51:56,800
Speaker 1: go crazy about her like they want. Like, if you

922
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 1: tell my nick some crazy ship, he probably killed you.

923
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:01,520
Speaker 1: He probably on some other ship, he'll go crazy about you.

924
00:52:01,719 --> 00:52:04,080
Speaker 1: And when he seen me, he gonna go crazy about me.

925
00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:06,200
Speaker 1: Like every girl wants to feel that from the person

926
00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:08,160
Speaker 1: that they're with. Like when he seen me, he don't

927
00:52:08,160 --> 00:52:10,640
Speaker 1: see nobody else. Like, if you try to tell him

928
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:12,879
Speaker 1: some bullshit, he probably gonna beat your grass. Like every

929
00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:14,520
Speaker 1: girl want to feel that way. And if you make

930
00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:16,480
Speaker 1: her feel like that nine times out of here, she's

931
00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 1: not gonna go fuck off. I just feel like, man,

932
00:52:18,760 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 1: you leave room. The room it's open. You're gonna leave

933
00:52:21,719 --> 00:52:26,759
Speaker 1: room for another motherfucker to make your happy. Yeah that's

934
00:52:27,000 --> 00:52:31,759
Speaker 1: your your female or your I mean you're gonna leave.

935
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:34,680
Speaker 1: I was like, my final words is gonna be it's

936
00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:39,720
Speaker 1: some women and people whatever that just ain't gonna be happy. Facts.

937
00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 1: I'm saying you bread win and you win and everything

938
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:45,680
Speaker 1: you got to burke in the person to this and that.

939
00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:49,800
Speaker 1: But you're exhausted doing this ship and they're not happy

940
00:52:50,680 --> 00:52:53,160
Speaker 1: sexually because you gotta get quickies in because you're trying

941
00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:56,640
Speaker 1: to god damn bread win. What the fuck? Man? The

942
00:52:56,800 --> 00:52:59,080
Speaker 1: quickest could be on some freaking dieky ship to where

943
00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:01,560
Speaker 1: you ain't you can be satisfied. I'm talking about the

944
00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:04,360
Speaker 1: premise of some people is just never fucking happy in

945
00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:06,879
Speaker 1: life because they're not happy with themselves. I don't see

946
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:09,000
Speaker 1: how you he can't make time for your bitch though

947
00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:14,200
Speaker 1: I don't know who that time carline? Bitch, pull up

948
00:53:14,239 --> 00:53:17,399
Speaker 1: it on my lunch break. What are you talking about

949
00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:23,200
Speaker 1: this nigga tripping? You say he tripping? Tripping? She tripping

950
00:53:23,200 --> 00:53:25,719
Speaker 1: because she's a hout. Okay, I'm saying he tripping too.

951
00:53:26,160 --> 00:53:27,840
Speaker 1: If a man don't have time to have sex with

952
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:32,520
Speaker 1: his wife, yeah, complaining about now if I ain't, I

953
00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:34,120
Speaker 1: just ain't funk with you, ain't sunk with you, like

954
00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:36,560
Speaker 1: I don't you turn me on Bitta talk to you?

955
00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:40,840
Speaker 1: You know why? But we're cool. But I ain't hearing you.

956
00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:45,680
Speaker 1: That don't make sense. This ship really forfeit. The relationship

957
00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:48,040
Speaker 1: really look forfeited. I think I think that going back

958
00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:53,799
Speaker 1: to another big that big fact that the Big Fast

959
00:53:53,840 --> 00:53:56,560
Speaker 1: Friday were talking about the person letting themselves go and

960
00:53:56,640 --> 00:53:59,439
Speaker 1: all that too, that's a big part of it. Yeah,

961
00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:02,120
Speaker 1: you know, I'm saying maybe the nigg is more infatuated

962
00:54:02,200 --> 00:54:04,480
Speaker 1: with just working, getting it and bread winning and feeding

963
00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:07,440
Speaker 1: the cats and just ain't into cause that's where you

964
00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:09,840
Speaker 1: just wrap her hair up in the hair wrapper and

965
00:54:09,880 --> 00:54:11,880
Speaker 1: then you're gonna take the hair wrap off of her

966
00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:13,920
Speaker 1: head and tell her you want her and you love

967
00:54:14,000 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 1: her and you want to suck her. Not something that's

968
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:19,799
Speaker 1: gonna and we're there. One thing about it, bro, If

969
00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:21,760
Speaker 1: you ain't gotta like you just said, you gotta repair

970
00:54:21,840 --> 00:54:23,960
Speaker 1: each other, you ain't got a woman that you don't

971
00:54:24,000 --> 00:54:26,080
Speaker 1: give a funk what she looked like, how she looked,

972
00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:30,239
Speaker 1: how she taste whatever. That ain't your bitch. I feel

973
00:54:30,320 --> 00:54:34,719
Speaker 1: you a million percent straight up. That ain't your Like

974
00:54:34,880 --> 00:54:40,040
Speaker 1: you are right, that's that's a solid but but but

975
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:48,600
Speaker 1: but but there's some people that's just never fucking happy regards.

976
00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:51,000
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. You can do, You can do

977
00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:54,239
Speaker 1: all that ship you find something else because it's like

978
00:54:55,040 --> 00:54:57,080
Speaker 1: me and you're the bread whatever, but you haven't taken

979
00:54:57,160 --> 00:54:59,880
Speaker 1: me to Venice, Italy, or you haven't taken me to

980
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:05,279
Speaker 1: sensor any green ship. I'm not talking about people because

981
00:55:05,680 --> 00:55:08,759
Speaker 1: because shanty saying kind of ship ain't every time I

982
00:55:09,080 --> 00:55:10,960
Speaker 1: wanted to go out of town. You you told me

983
00:55:11,000 --> 00:55:13,320
Speaker 1: to believe, and I wanted to go to Hawaii, like

984
00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:16,160
Speaker 1: so you got to be more attentivel No, but I'm

985
00:55:16,160 --> 00:55:20,200
Speaker 1: saying that No, he knew that I wanted to state beliefs. Alright, cool,

986
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:22,440
Speaker 1: all this what I'm saying. She didn't want to fly

987
00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:25,200
Speaker 1: that long and it was my forty so that's why

988
00:55:25,239 --> 00:55:27,320
Speaker 1: I was at my feelings about it. So you but

989
00:55:27,560 --> 00:55:30,880
Speaker 1: if she act, don't go to believes go to Hawaii

990
00:55:30,920 --> 00:55:34,680
Speaker 1: with another nigga, that turns us to something different. You

991
00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:38,759
Speaker 1: get what I'm saying. I'm saying, Listen, if I if I,

992
00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:41,480
Speaker 1: if you told me, if you complain, you complain about

993
00:55:41,520 --> 00:55:43,440
Speaker 1: you want to go to what's name? After I took you,

994
00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:46,840
Speaker 1: I felt like it was my ungrateful ship. But you

995
00:55:46,960 --> 00:55:49,280
Speaker 1: didn't turn around and go to Hawaii with a nigger.

996
00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:52,960
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. So it's just like just

997
00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:55,839
Speaker 1: a complaint, like she still happen about he Believe trip.

998
00:55:56,040 --> 00:55:59,000
Speaker 1: She just wanted to say it ain't even it ain't

999
00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:01,719
Speaker 1: even that she was happy about the Beliefe trip. It's

1000
00:56:01,760 --> 00:56:06,840
Speaker 1: about she loves you to the point where even something

1001
00:56:06,960 --> 00:56:10,880
Speaker 1: like that that she felt was a situation where you

1002
00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:13,520
Speaker 1: totally did the opposite of what she wanted to do.

1003
00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:17,920
Speaker 1: It's still not gonna affect y'all's relationship or y'all situation. No,

1004
00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:20,560
Speaker 1: I said that what screen says, just don't be happy.

1005
00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:24,600
Speaker 1: Yeah that's the that's like, that's how much she loved you.

1006
00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:27,320
Speaker 1: Oh this nigga just said, funk what I said. But

1007
00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:30,320
Speaker 1: fuck it, we like together still like some ship like that.

1008
00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:33,920
Speaker 1: I gotta respect that. So not not the creatives now,

1009
00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:42,440
Speaker 1: but that just me next time right right? How her birthday,

1010
00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:48,400
Speaker 1: I'm just said, that's self. It's somebody else's birthday. And

1011
00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:51,880
Speaker 1: but what I also told you, baby, you can go

1012
00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:54,480
Speaker 1: to the waia I paid for you. Just not. But

1013
00:56:54,560 --> 00:56:58,600
Speaker 1: she wants she don't nowhere without I would take whoever

1014
00:56:58,719 --> 00:57:01,840
Speaker 1: you take, care, you take, whoever the rolling go, not

1015
00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:19,600
Speaker 1: the bag, motherfucker selfish, selfish. See yeah, see we got

1016
00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:22,720
Speaker 1: to make it back to the next birthday. We're going

1017
00:57:24,440 --> 00:57:33,320
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