WEBVTT - Toot It N Boot It

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely pay attention to because, like I feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>if the if the guy I'm having sex with you

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<v Speaker 1>need to go to the bathroom and wipe that dick off,

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<v Speaker 1>get off warm rag and wipe that dick off.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I prefer you know, I like a little

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<v Speaker 2>concierge service. Yeah, yeah, bring it to the beg.

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<v Speaker 3>I like that.

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<v Speaker 2>It is. Hey, sometimes I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 1>Like sometimes we be in the bathroom together, we take

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<v Speaker 1>the trip together, so I'm in their pin and he's

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<v Speaker 1>wiping off.

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<v Speaker 2>We like that is good.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but then see, sometimes you just gotta go geteach

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<v Speaker 4>yourself too, because niggas be taking too long.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's that's that's true. Take it too long and

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<v Speaker 2>the need to start melting melting whoop, be melting.

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<v Speaker 3>Wood, be melting.

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<v Speaker 2>No, we want to know.

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<v Speaker 3>We're not done.

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<v Speaker 2>We're not finna glaze. No fun intended with the glaze.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up, y'all? It's your girl lex p and it's

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<v Speaker 2>your girl dry and.

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<v Speaker 1>The cold, and you are tuned in to another episode

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<v Speaker 1>of Poor Mine.

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<v Speaker 2>We're a drunk mind speaks sob thowt.

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<v Speaker 1>We ain't got no gifts today, we ain't got no guests.

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<v Speaker 2>Today, Oh, I feel like, when was the last time

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<v Speaker 2>we sat on this couch, just me and you.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, it's been a mining. We's in hot demand.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, bostin busy.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so let me say this first of all, Today,

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<v Speaker 1>the day that we're recording. Obviously, when we all see

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<v Speaker 1>this is gonna be past it. But today is February

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<v Speaker 1>twenty six. Today literally makes four years since I quit

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<v Speaker 1>my job, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>To become a full time entrepreneur.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, And I just want to say, like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>every morning I wake up and I just show gratitude

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<v Speaker 1>to my life anyways, because I feel so blessed to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to do this and do this with my

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<v Speaker 1>best friend, but also.

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<v Speaker 2>To that really touched me.

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<v Speaker 1>But today, like I said, every time I get on

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram or facebooking that shows you what you posted four

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<v Speaker 1>years ago, three years ago, and I see this post,

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<v Speaker 1>it just really warns my heart because like, I'm really

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<v Speaker 1>out here doing it.

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<v Speaker 2>And I thought, you a boss, Beach.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not being funny. I never thought I could. I

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<v Speaker 1>always knew I was special, right like I always knew

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<v Speaker 1>I was different, but I never knew what my life

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<v Speaker 1>would look like not having a job. Like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been working since I was fifteen years old and

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<v Speaker 1>growing up.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, my mom had a good job. My sister

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<v Speaker 2>been working since she was fifteen.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody in my family just you go to college and

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<v Speaker 1>you get a job. I don't have any entrepreneurs in

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<v Speaker 1>my family. I never knew what that looked like. So

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<v Speaker 1>when I see people who are business owners, or when

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<v Speaker 1>I saw people who were creating content and they were

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<v Speaker 1>doing it full time, I'm like, what does that look

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<v Speaker 1>like for me?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>So the fact that I've done it for this long

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<v Speaker 1>four years is a long time to keep yourself afloat,

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<v Speaker 1>and not only keep myself afloat amen helujah.

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<v Speaker 2>Myself afloat, stress free.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not that I'm like, I pay my bills and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh, okay, I pay my bills.

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<v Speaker 2>I made it another month.

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<v Speaker 1>I pay my bills, and I'm still able to do

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<v Speaker 1>for the people that I need to do for and

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<v Speaker 1>do the things I need to do. I'm able to

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<v Speaker 1>invest in my future, invest in other businesses like love

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<v Speaker 1>leg speed, I'm able to do things, and.

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<v Speaker 2>I am just.

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<v Speaker 1>I just cannot say enough, like I really like, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you God, like, I'm so I'm so blessed, and no

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<v Speaker 1>matter how bad.

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<v Speaker 2>It gets, I'm just dramatic.

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<v Speaker 1>And yes, I really, I truly am like and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>glad that we're actually talking about this because obviously that's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get into the first tip, because I do want

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<v Speaker 1>to do a catch up, but I'm just like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>we did this, and I and I will never stop

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<v Speaker 1>clapping for us. I will never stop tooting my own

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<v Speaker 1>horn because a lot of y'all are have just started watching,

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<v Speaker 1>and y'all are just now tuning in. And I know

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<v Speaker 1>we talk about this a lot, but when I tell you,

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<v Speaker 1>blood sweat and tears for real, and we are just

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<v Speaker 1>now getting started because when y'all see this episode, we

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<v Speaker 1>still got.

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<v Speaker 2>A big announcement to make.

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<v Speaker 1>Two big announcements, huge announcements like God is real, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm telling you, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Gotta put your head out what Kim say, get your work, man,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all ain't got that hustling you. I'm telling you, I

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<v Speaker 1>put this on everything people can look out on the inside.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm built different, baby. I do what I does and

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<v Speaker 1>I gets it done. Don't care what people say about me,

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<v Speaker 1>but I get it the fuck.

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<v Speaker 2>Done six years and not a week missed period. Poot

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<v Speaker 2>the hard grade. I'm just k like, you know, you

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<v Speaker 2>gotta tout.

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<v Speaker 4>I've been tooty yo, and I'm gonna keep too do that,

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<v Speaker 4>Cause at the end of the day, if you don't

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<v Speaker 4>give yourself a pat on the bag and be proud

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<v Speaker 4>of yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>Who is gonna be proud of you? Who will?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, and people will be, But nobody is going

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<v Speaker 4>to root for you more than you root for you.

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<v Speaker 4>And I feel like one thing about us, We're gonna

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<v Speaker 4>we just rooting for ourselves before anybody was. Because at

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<v Speaker 4>one point we had we was getting like sixty listeners.

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<v Speaker 5>And I said, and it has sixty y'all had.

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<v Speaker 2>But we was happy with the sixty.

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<v Speaker 4>But see that's what I always say. I say this

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<v Speaker 4>all the time. God is not gonna bless you with

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<v Speaker 4>more until you happy for what you got. And I

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<v Speaker 4>feel like one thing about us, we was happy with

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<v Speaker 4>them little sixty listeners, Like we definitely always wanted more,

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<v Speaker 4>but we still just couldn't even be believe that many

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<v Speaker 4>people was listening to us every week.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm not gonna lie even with my new channel,

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<v Speaker 1>like I probably I'm averaging like fifteen kvus per video. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I mean, obviously that's different from poor mind because

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<v Speaker 1>we get one hundred thousand, sometimes half a million.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm happy with that.

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot believe fifteen thousand of y'all want to hear

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<v Speaker 1>me talk.

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<v Speaker 4>That's how I feel about my YouTube channel because I

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<v Speaker 4>average about the same. I'm getting about fifteen thousands like

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<v Speaker 4>views a week or whatever. And yeah, it's like to

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<v Speaker 4>start something new, like fresh from the ground up and

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<v Speaker 4>to already be getting those kind of views.

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<v Speaker 2>That's alive. Yeah, I mean, I'm grateful for it all.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm grateful for real to shout out skin treat I

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<v Speaker 2>deserve it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, but anyways, let's do a catch up. Obviously

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<v Speaker 1>we haven't had a solo in a while, so what

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<v Speaker 1>you went up to was going on house life treating you.

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<v Speaker 2>Life has been great.

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<v Speaker 4>I had a really really good Valentine's Day. Seal for

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<v Speaker 4>music did really amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, how was it? Because you had a I

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<v Speaker 2>just want to say, this beautiful model. Oh gorgeous. It's

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<v Speaker 2>just gorgeous. Jesus.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yes, it's it really well. So the Valentine's Day

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<v Speaker 4>celd really really well. I'm excited because it's about to

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<v Speaker 4>be spring timing. I cannot say on camera, but I'll

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<v Speaker 4>let you know off camera. But yeah, the cel did

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<v Speaker 4>really really good, and now I'm like gearing up for

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<v Speaker 4>my I'm gonna do like a big like spring campaign,

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<v Speaker 4>like promo campaign, because I have a lot of new

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<v Speaker 4>products coming out and you know spring baby, my birthday's

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<v Speaker 4>coming up.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna do a birthday self.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I get like something? Can I get like a collaboration? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I want to do a lip we can.

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<v Speaker 4>But I feel like I've been said that to you years.

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<v Speaker 1>Ago, Like I feel like my sigma when.

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<v Speaker 2>You Yeah, I want to do like a Lippi. Yeah

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<v Speaker 2>you want to do like a lip kid. Yes, I

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<v Speaker 2>want to have like a LEXP lip kick.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Like I want it to be like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>something cute and fabulous.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like we could do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, to do it for your birthday, that's

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<v Speaker 1>enough time for me, Darling.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I feel like because then we could do like

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<v Speaker 4>a proper rollout and really like make sure it's like

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<v Speaker 4>real cute puts together. Yeah, get like cute packaging. It's

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<v Speaker 4>oh yeah, let's do that. Yeah, that's gonna be fun.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, so the cell did really well.

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<v Speaker 4>Like I said, I'm gearing up for the new products

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<v Speaker 4>that's coming out my spring campaign because it's gonna be big.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna have like models and stuff, and then just

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<v Speaker 4>still doing It's god damn challenge. But I am thirty

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<v Speaker 4>four days and you look amazing. You literally have a

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<v Speaker 4>six pack now, I do. That's crazy crazy. I'll be like,

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<v Speaker 4>god damn, thanks frying. Yeah, I do, I really do.

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<v Speaker 4>I have a little six pack now. And I feel

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<v Speaker 4>like my legs I was just telling time when we

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<v Speaker 4>was in the kitchen. I feel like my legs are

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<v Speaker 4>getting big, like bigger, Yeah, like they're getting like tone.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you look the body always been teen. But

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<v Speaker 1>you if it gives, like workout girl now, like your

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<v Speaker 1>body gives that you go to the gym and see.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't till I really start having like muscle definition, no,

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<v Speaker 4>like in my legs and in my arms.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I'm thirty four days. I haven't missed today

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<v Speaker 2>working out.

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<v Speaker 4>In thirty four days, I've been doing ten thousand steps

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<v Speaker 4>today and I haven't been drinking. So I'm just still

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<v Speaker 4>doing my challenge. So I still have what forty one

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<v Speaker 4>four days.

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<v Speaker 2>You're gonna push through. You're gonna get there.

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<v Speaker 4>Yah, I'm gonna get there, and I'm gonna be done

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<v Speaker 4>writing time for my birthday like I'm gonna be I

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<v Speaker 4>think April eighth is my last Ooh, we're gonna.

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<v Speaker 2>Have so much fun for your birthday.

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<v Speaker 4>We are because we have something so big and so

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<v Speaker 4>huge coming up this.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'll say this.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm not gonna say anything, but April twenty second

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<v Speaker 1>is Drea's birthday. If you are a poor mind staying fan,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever you are, you need to be in Atlanta April

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<v Speaker 1>twenty second. Y.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna say that because we're gonna do something really

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<v Speaker 2>like yeah, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all are invited, and y'all are gonna be invited. So

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<v Speaker 1>April twenty second, bags for y'all in Atlanta.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, So that's really it for me, Like girl,

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<v Speaker 4>just boring, working, working out, real prepping. I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>when you were doing a detox and you're doing a challenge.

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<v Speaker 2>Life is never that exciting.

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<v Speaker 4>But that's why I was saying, I want to go

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<v Speaker 4>somewhere like this weekend or next weekend, like I just

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<v Speaker 4>feel like I need to get out of there, Limma,

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<v Speaker 4>and go do something because I feel like my life's

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<v Speaker 4>just been so rapiditive, because I don't be really wanting

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<v Speaker 4>to go nowhere, because I don't want to be tempty

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<v Speaker 4>to drink. So what you been up to?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going seventy five days hard, drunk as fuck.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just going honestly okay, Like I.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't give up liquor, but I don't drink anyways, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a heavy drinker like I drink the days

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<v Speaker 1>we record. I lost recently, I lost fifteen pounds, but

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<v Speaker 1>half of that because I got really fucking sick, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still kind of getting over it. Yeah you look good,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, I've lost fifteen pounds. I want to lose

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<v Speaker 1>like ten more. Before I almost said what it was

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<v Speaker 1>before your birthday. I want to lose like ten more pounds.

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<v Speaker 1>But honestly, like I said, you know, I've still been

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<v Speaker 1>I be catching myself kind of slipping down that slow,

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<v Speaker 1>but I can catch myself better now and quicker.

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<v Speaker 2>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just doing I've been doing a lot of work internally,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to shout out to Kevi on stage real

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<v Speaker 1>quick because y'all do this every three months. To my dog,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all think Kevin is funny.

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<v Speaker 2>Yet he's funny, and not only is he funny, he

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<v Speaker 2>puts people in position to win during the pandemic. This

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<v Speaker 2>man had a whole comedy series where he.

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<v Speaker 1>Was putting comedians on y'all literally sit on Twitter. And

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<v Speaker 1>this is no offense because I be on Twitter a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>but y'all sit on Twitter, and y'all sweet all day.

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<v Speaker 1>You think you so funny, and y'all be networking with

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<v Speaker 1>the wrong people instead of bashing is man.

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<v Speaker 2>He can get you a job. I just don't see the.

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<v Speaker 1>Benefit of bashing people for who are doing good for

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<v Speaker 1>and putting.

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<v Speaker 2>People in position.

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<v Speaker 1>And somebody said to me, Tyler Perry puts people in position,

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<v Speaker 1>but he's not above criticism. Asking if Kevi on stage

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<v Speaker 1>is funny is not criticism. That's not a critique.

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<v Speaker 4>And taller Perry may not be above criticism, but he

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<v Speaker 4>also not on Twitter. He not responding to y'all needs,

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<v Speaker 4>So y'all don't know what.

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<v Speaker 2>He will do. Y'all are doing that because y'all think

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<v Speaker 2>it's funny. Y'all think it's cute.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think it's so crazy that if I can

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<v Speaker 1>look at your timeline and I can name ten things

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<v Speaker 1>you hate, but I can't name two things you like,

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<v Speaker 1>you might need to take some.

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<v Speaker 2>Those negative Nancy. Yes, and this is coming from the

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<v Speaker 2>number one hater in the whichever you know. You know

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just feel like that I see the things

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<v Speaker 1>that Kevin number one.

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<v Speaker 2>I am a hater. I love to hate down I do.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if I will call you a hater

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<v Speaker 2>per se. I don't give a fuck what people call me.

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<v Speaker 2>Bleep that up, but.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's been five minutes, okay, but I do.

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<v Speaker 4>I will say, like I said, seeing people like Kevi

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<v Speaker 4>on stage share his platform and give people, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>a space to be introduced to other people that are

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<v Speaker 4>funny and in that space and do what they do,

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<v Speaker 4>it's like it's amazing, and I'm like, okay, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>What, I want to do the same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't do it on his level yet, but you know, eventually,

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<v Speaker 1>I do want to have my own I've always said this.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to have my own production company and I

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<v Speaker 1>want to be able to produce other things. But I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I can start right here with my platform

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<v Speaker 1>and making sure I just do what I can to share,

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<v Speaker 1>share the knowledge and share the well.

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<v Speaker 2>So shout out to keV on stage. Shout out to keV. Yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and you're trying to prak the my spine.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, I don't know what the hell you saying, but

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<v Speaker 4>you do love, That's what I said. Okay, So somebody

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<v Speaker 4>had told me because now I'm watching shows in Spanish,

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<v Speaker 4>Like I watch all my shows in Spanish and I

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<v Speaker 4>use the English subtitles.

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<v Speaker 2>You're logged in on my shit, No I'm not. It's

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<v Speaker 2>one nother. I'm no, it's not.

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<v Speaker 5>It's not Netflix, it's something you have my own Amazon.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, I'm not saying Hulu.

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<v Speaker 1>What I'm saying is it might have been an accident

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<v Speaker 1>or something because I promised to God I logged in

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<v Speaker 1>on one of my it was a Hulu or one

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<v Speaker 1>of them things, and I said, who the fuck got

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<v Speaker 1>the caption in Spanish?

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<v Speaker 4>That wasn't me our promise, because I got all of

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<v Speaker 4>those that you just named I have.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not I can't remember what it was. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>saying that you did it on.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So I've been watching all my shows and I've been

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<v Speaker 4>like put in the English, but I'm watching them in Spanish,

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<v Speaker 4>so that's how I know that wasn't me. No, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>saying I watched them in Spanish and sub title not

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<v Speaker 4>Spanish subtitles.

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<v Speaker 2>But no.

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<v Speaker 4>So somebody had left the comment on Twitter the other

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<v Speaker 4>day and they was like, oh, you need to do

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<v Speaker 4>the poor Mindes intro in Spanish.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm working on it. I got y'all in the money,

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<v Speaker 2>give me a money they need to do like that.

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<v Speaker 2>So Y'all'm on like weak. I forgot to say that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm on week three.

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<v Speaker 1>Good job Spanish class. Now you know, I'm deep, deep,

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<v Speaker 1>deep in like TikTok world. You need to look up

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<v Speaker 1>as Travigno, who is a mess, and I want you

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<v Speaker 1>to speak Spanish before her.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the TikTokers. They don't know who I'm talking. What

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<v Speaker 2>did she do? She just she's a Hispanic lady.

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<v Speaker 1>But she's just always in drama and tea and she's

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<v Speaker 1>a real dirty, dirty and mephor really and she be

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<v Speaker 1>acting like she can speak Spanish and it'd be so fun.

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<v Speaker 2>She can't. She can't, and that's why I want you to.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you act like you can speak like y'all?

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<v Speaker 1>I promise. I'm not making this stuff. The people don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if y'all know what I'm talking about, they don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's I'm so deep in tickto that right though. That's

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<v Speaker 1>like making fun of a no, but she's Hispanic though,

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<v Speaker 1>she's like a you know how Jlo can't speak Spanish

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<v Speaker 1>for real, that's what she was doing.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but Jaylo love you down. Stick to the rom coms.

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<v Speaker 2>That is so fucking fuddy because talking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I will play with Jlo all day, but when it

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<v Speaker 1>comes to them rom coms eats down.

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<v Speaker 2>She do eat them eats every time.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop playing with her. But yeah, that's all I really

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<v Speaker 1>been up to, So shut out. Shout out to everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Every We're keeping it going time, what you been up to?

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<v Speaker 2>Everything? Y'all got our calendars.

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<v Speaker 4>The sales are going crazy, so thank y'all for the support.

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<v Speaker 4>He's booked the busy, got different activations with Crown. I'm

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<v Speaker 4>just really just blessed.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, you know I love this.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that for you because, like I said, I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to create something that everybody can come here

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<v Speaker 1>and grow. Whether this is your last stop and you

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<v Speaker 1>growing with us, are you moving to do something great?

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<v Speaker 2>We were getting were shaking it up up here.

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<v Speaker 4>Now we gonna shake the room to pop smoke.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, all right, all right, okay, how are we doing.

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<v Speaker 2>We're about to get into the first topic.

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<v Speaker 4>So for the first topic I really wanted to talk about,

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<v Speaker 4>which I feel like this kind of flows back into

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<v Speaker 4>what you were just talking about at the beginning of

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<v Speaker 4>the episode, having big dreams but not having the work

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<v Speaker 4>ethic to match, because I feel like it's a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of people who want to, you know, I be success

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<v Speaker 4>full in life. They have things that they want to do,

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<v Speaker 4>They have goals. They say, oh, I want to be

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<v Speaker 4>here in four years. Oh I want to be here

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<v Speaker 4>in five years. But the work ethic ain't mentioning what

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<v Speaker 4>you're saying you want. And at the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 4>I always say, you cannot pray for something and not

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<v Speaker 4>do the work. People be thinking, oh just because I

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<v Speaker 4>just because I'm praying. Just because I'm praying, God gonna

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<v Speaker 4>bless me. You still got to put that work in,

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<v Speaker 4>And unfortunately, a lot of people just do not have

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<v Speaker 4>the get up and go their drive, that ambition to

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<v Speaker 4>accomplish their dreams.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not that you.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't have the talent sometimes you just ain't got the ambition.

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<v Speaker 2>So how do you feel about that? Or how do

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<v Speaker 2>y'all both to feel about that? So I'll say this,

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<v Speaker 2>I get it. It's first of all, it's hard to

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<v Speaker 2>find good help. If you do have the money to

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<v Speaker 2>hire people, it's very hard. It's a trial and error

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<v Speaker 2>hit and miss. But I say this, even if you

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<v Speaker 2>can't afford to hire help, you gotta do it yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I Let me tell you something.

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<v Speaker 1>When me and Drea first started out, Dreda was like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's hire somebody to edit. I said, boy, I got

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<v Speaker 1>two sixty nine on my account, So I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was like, well, I get you're finna edit me me.

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<v Speaker 1>I used to edit the episodes. I used to set

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<v Speaker 1>the camera up. I used to do all of it.

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<v Speaker 1>But because I wanted it. And I hate to say this,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all not hungry enough, and I'm not even I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm at a place where I can preach to people,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm also still not nowhere near where I want

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<v Speaker 1>to be. But I'm still out here working. Now I

0:21:30.880 --> 0:21:33.280
<v Speaker 1>can afford to put people in a position. Baby, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't make no damn drink. We need a bartender. So

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<v Speaker 1>guess what, I'm finna get somebody here to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't work these cameras. I don't even know how

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<v Speaker 1>to turn these motherfuckers on, So I'm finna hire somebody.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't take no pictures. You.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want your business to expand and grow, you

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<v Speaker 1>either gonna figure out how to do yourself, do it yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>or you gotta make some money to hire some people

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<v Speaker 1>in those positions. We are past the days of getting discovered.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not finna be at a Walmart singing or doing

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<v Speaker 1>some content and somebody just gonna discover you and be like,

0:22:03.840 --> 0:22:06.040
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, let me put you in a movie.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody that gets discovered now is because they're putting content

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<v Speaker 1>out every day and then it comes across a like

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<v Speaker 1>a Kevin Hart's desk or you know, somebody important.

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<v Speaker 2>Desk that can put you in position.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just feel like y'all are not hustling enough.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all see somebody like, for example, I think his name

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<v Speaker 1>is Lauren. He's a skater, he's a talk Oh he's

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<v Speaker 1>so handsome, he skates.

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<v Speaker 2>Really really well. I think he's out in Atlanta.

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<v Speaker 1>So he did the D squared Fashion show, right and

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<v Speaker 1>he's like skating around doing this Lauren, Right, he's skating

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<v Speaker 1>around and I mean, he's so graceful, and this is

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<v Speaker 1>probably the first time people are seeing him, so they're like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, if he can do what I can.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, but Lauren has been and I hope that's

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<v Speaker 1>his name. He has been creating content for years of

0:22:53.600 --> 0:22:56.040
<v Speaker 1>him skating. He didn't just pop up at the D

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<v Speaker 1>Squared Fashion show. Y'all be seeing like y'all saw us

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<v Speaker 1>maybe for the first time and we had maybe tea

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<v Speaker 1>pain on or whenever we had t s Madison on.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't realize, Oh, we been working since twenty nineteen.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all be seeing people for the first time and think

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<v Speaker 1>they just popped up, And that's not nobody's story. That's

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<v Speaker 1>not nobody's story. So I just think the laziness talent

0:23:19.720 --> 0:23:24.840
<v Speaker 1>is not enough. Y'all be thinking, y'all are so fucking funny,

0:23:25.119 --> 0:23:28.080
<v Speaker 1>or y'all are so fucked y'all can sing so good,

0:23:28.359 --> 0:23:30.400
<v Speaker 1>you can rap so good, and you could just wake

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<v Speaker 1>up and just sit on your ass.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care what nobody says. I always use like

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<v Speaker 2>Britney Spears for an example. Britney spears. Y'all can say

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<v Speaker 2>what y'all want about them dance moves about her voice

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<v Speaker 2>them ENnies. I don't give a damn. I'm talking about

0:23:42.480 --> 0:23:45.400
<v Speaker 2>old Britney spears. Oh oh, keep.

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<v Speaker 3>Thinking, leave Britney aloud.

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<v Speaker 2>I just need to want to how to lift them

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<v Speaker 2>up for a little bit. They just be so low.

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<v Speaker 4>I be scared of her KOUCHI gonna pop out and say, hey, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>like they be so low, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Be thinking they're gonna fall down. But I would say this.

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<v Speaker 1>As a at a young age, Brittany learned that work ethic.

0:24:05.160 --> 0:24:07.959
<v Speaker 1>Beyonce has that work ethic. That's who I look at

0:24:08.000 --> 0:24:10.960
<v Speaker 1>if I can't do it myself. There are things that

0:24:11.080 --> 0:24:14.159
<v Speaker 1>Shae gets done that I could never even think twice

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<v Speaker 1>about doing. I don't even know how some of the

0:24:16.119 --> 0:24:20.160
<v Speaker 1>stuff that Shaye does. I'd be like, what, thanks girl exactly.

0:24:20.640 --> 0:24:23.160
<v Speaker 1>But you know what I'm saying, that's what you're supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to do. If you can't figure it out, get somebody

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<v Speaker 1>who can figure it out.

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<v Speaker 4>But realistically, most people are in those beginning stages of

0:24:33.440 --> 0:24:35.760
<v Speaker 4>their business, so they can't get people.

0:24:35.560 --> 0:24:37.479
<v Speaker 2>To you know him.

0:24:37.680 --> 0:24:39.280
<v Speaker 4>But that's what I was about to say, Like most

0:24:39.280 --> 0:24:41.679
<v Speaker 4>people can't hire somebody, They can't hire a team of

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<v Speaker 4>people right now, So it's like you gotta do this

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<v Speaker 4>shit yourself.

0:24:44.920 --> 0:24:47.199
<v Speaker 2>And people just don't be wanting to do shit like

0:24:47.320 --> 0:24:49.280
<v Speaker 2>we wanted everything to just come to them.

0:24:49.359 --> 0:24:51.040
<v Speaker 4>They be feeling like, oh, it's just supposed to fall

0:24:51.040 --> 0:24:54.679
<v Speaker 4>in my lab because I'm so amazing and I'm so special. No,

0:24:55.040 --> 0:24:56.880
<v Speaker 4>it's a lot of special people out here. But even

0:24:56.920 --> 0:24:58.760
<v Speaker 4>the people who you look at who you feel like, oh,

0:24:58.760 --> 0:25:00.320
<v Speaker 4>they're so special, they put the.

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<v Speaker 2>Work end the time.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, it take work, and you take grind and

0:25:04.920 --> 0:25:06.679
<v Speaker 4>hustle to get to where you're trying to get to

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<v Speaker 4>in life. What you think, ty, I'm a winner and

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<v Speaker 4>anything I do I worked when I worked in insurance,

0:25:14.160 --> 0:25:17.320
<v Speaker 4>I was a winner. I started bartending five years ago,

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<v Speaker 4>twenty nineteen January.

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<v Speaker 2>When I go.

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<v Speaker 4>Before, I don't think so. I left Corporate America and

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<v Speaker 4>moved to Spain. But in the interim, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was like, Yo, this is fun. I could just do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Help me party with my friends.

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<v Speaker 4>Never thought that I would make a career, switch careers

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<v Speaker 4>completely have a whole business. Like but anything that I

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<v Speaker 4>put my mind to, I'm going to achieve. And I

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<v Speaker 4>think that's what it takes to be a CEO, to

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<v Speaker 4>run a business, to be able to hire employees.

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<v Speaker 2>That first couple of years, I couldn't hire nobody.

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<v Speaker 4>I was grinding, and I still to this day do

0:25:51.400 --> 0:25:52.800
<v Speaker 4>a lot of things behind the scene.

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<v Speaker 2>But now I can.

0:25:54.320 --> 0:25:57.239
<v Speaker 4>I'm not operating out of a space of survival. I

0:25:57.280 --> 0:26:00.520
<v Speaker 4>can be strategic, and now I can hire a team

0:26:00.560 --> 0:26:02.880
<v Speaker 4>of people to come on so that way I can

0:26:03.080 --> 0:26:06.320
<v Speaker 4>multitask do the show, do the job, do this, do that.

0:26:06.400 --> 0:26:09.480
<v Speaker 4>So but again, you have to have that within you.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm gonna winner everything I do. Yeah, same, no matter.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's what I like that you said that, like

0:26:15.720 --> 0:26:17.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm a winner. That's the difference between a winner and

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<v Speaker 1>a loser. I'm gonna outwork you every time because if

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<v Speaker 1>I can't do it, I'm gonna hire somebody who can.

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<v Speaker 1>And it don't matter what it looks like to the

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<v Speaker 1>public is getting done.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's just if I can't do it, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>find a way. I'm gonna find a way. That's what

0:26:30.119 --> 0:26:31.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna find a way. So whether the.

0:26:31.880 --> 0:26:34.320
<v Speaker 1>Way is me doing it myself or hiring somebody is

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<v Speaker 1>getting done. You're not finna outwork me, you're not feel really,

0:26:37.920 --> 0:26:42.000
<v Speaker 1>we have released Poor Mind's episodes for six years without

0:26:42.119 --> 0:26:42.840
<v Speaker 1>missing a beat.

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<v Speaker 2>That's crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>Who always Yeah, people always say that, and I guess

0:26:46.800 --> 0:26:48.639
<v Speaker 4>when you really see it and think about it, and

0:26:48.680 --> 0:26:49.440
<v Speaker 4>it is a little crazy.

0:26:50.080 --> 0:26:51.399
<v Speaker 2>That's a lot of.

0:26:51.359 --> 0:26:56.040
<v Speaker 4>Episodes, even with US City two weeks, six years, but

0:26:56.119 --> 0:26:57.679
<v Speaker 4>even with US now US launching.

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<v Speaker 2>We both have been talking about.

0:26:59.840 --> 0:27:02.720
<v Speaker 1>Our personal YouTube channels for a long time, but we

0:27:02.760 --> 0:27:05.680
<v Speaker 1>released it when we knew. It's gotta be consistent. It's

0:27:05.720 --> 0:27:08.639
<v Speaker 1>got I can I'm never gonna miss a Monday. Yeah,

0:27:08.880 --> 0:27:10.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm never gonna miss a Monday.

0:27:10.600 --> 0:27:11.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah I can't.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I feel like with anything that you want

0:27:13.400 --> 0:27:16.720
<v Speaker 4>to be successful at, I always say, consistency is key.

0:27:17.000 --> 0:27:19.880
<v Speaker 4>And I feel like that's like the most mundane advice

0:27:19.920 --> 0:27:22.280
<v Speaker 4>that you could give people, cliche advice, you know, it's

0:27:22.280 --> 0:27:25.960
<v Speaker 4>to just tell people be consistent, but it's so fucking true.

0:27:26.600 --> 0:27:29.119
<v Speaker 4>You have to be consistent at whatever you want to

0:27:29.240 --> 0:27:29.879
<v Speaker 4>excel at.

0:27:30.080 --> 0:27:31.480
<v Speaker 2>It's no other way around you.

0:27:31.600 --> 0:27:33.360
<v Speaker 4>Like, I mean, of course you have to be actually

0:27:33.400 --> 0:27:36.560
<v Speaker 4>good at it, yeah, but being consistent.

0:27:36.119 --> 0:27:37.960
<v Speaker 2>A lot of the time get you further than being good.

0:27:38.520 --> 0:27:40.840
<v Speaker 1>And I feel like this, even if you spend an

0:27:40.840 --> 0:27:44.160
<v Speaker 1>hour a day. I make sure I spend an hour

0:27:44.320 --> 0:27:47.800
<v Speaker 1>every day doing something like now for lovelex Pe, since

0:27:47.840 --> 0:27:49.439
<v Speaker 1>it's so new, I spend an hour a day on

0:27:49.520 --> 0:27:53.720
<v Speaker 1>lovelex p doing something, whether it's planning out my episode

0:27:53.800 --> 0:27:57.520
<v Speaker 1>for the next week, getting something together, something just one hour,

0:27:57.600 --> 0:28:00.159
<v Speaker 1>it's not that long. So when I see people, they

0:28:00.240 --> 0:28:04.360
<v Speaker 1>be on social media all day, But you ain't promoting

0:28:04.440 --> 0:28:09.080
<v Speaker 1>nothing about your podcast, nothing about your makeup line, nothing

0:28:09.119 --> 0:28:10.320
<v Speaker 1>about nothing you got going on.

0:28:10.400 --> 0:28:15.160
<v Speaker 2>You just tweeting you don't want it, Yeah, you don't

0:28:15.160 --> 0:28:15.640
<v Speaker 2>want it.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you feel like it's more of a thing with

0:28:18.760 --> 0:28:22.240
<v Speaker 4>like our generation in the younger generations, because I feel

0:28:22.280 --> 0:28:23.480
<v Speaker 4>like all the people had work.

0:28:23.480 --> 0:28:26.040
<v Speaker 2>Its Oh they ain't have no tweet They had work.

0:28:26.359 --> 0:28:29.080
<v Speaker 1>They had to go to ask the work. But I

0:28:29.080 --> 0:28:31.320
<v Speaker 1>think that's why we are like that, because we are

0:28:31.359 --> 0:28:34.560
<v Speaker 1>a product of our parents. Like our parents instilled in us,

0:28:34.600 --> 0:28:37.920
<v Speaker 1>like you gotta go and get it, that hustle mentality.

0:28:38.520 --> 0:28:41.520
<v Speaker 1>A lot of people don't have that hustler's mentality. And

0:28:41.560 --> 0:28:43.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying you gotta necessarily clock in, because well,

0:28:43.600 --> 0:28:45.400
<v Speaker 1>think about you, you gonna quit a job, But you are

0:28:45.400 --> 0:28:47.800
<v Speaker 1>a hustler and you're gonna figure some shit out, you

0:28:47.840 --> 0:28:50.520
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. I think people just people are

0:28:50.600 --> 0:28:53.720
<v Speaker 1>so comfortable too. It'd be some people who are so

0:28:54.000 --> 0:28:57.440
<v Speaker 1>like to me when I was really really broken when

0:28:57.480 --> 0:29:00.440
<v Speaker 1>I moved out here, and I was just never comfortable

0:29:00.880 --> 0:29:02.320
<v Speaker 1>and I don't like that feeling.

0:29:02.360 --> 0:29:04.440
<v Speaker 2>That's why I was like, I have to make something shake.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't live like this. Yeah, and I'm not. I

0:29:07.920 --> 0:29:10.560
<v Speaker 2>just think people who are just comfortable with where they are.

0:29:11.080 --> 0:29:14.480
<v Speaker 2>And you think you're always supposed to clap for yourself,

0:29:14.560 --> 0:29:15.080
<v Speaker 2>but if.

0:29:14.960 --> 0:29:19.240
<v Speaker 1>You are not making a living doing the shit that

0:29:19.320 --> 0:29:20.960
<v Speaker 1>you love, you're not going hard enough.

0:29:21.280 --> 0:29:21.880
<v Speaker 2>I agree.

0:29:22.000 --> 0:29:24.800
<v Speaker 4>I think it's so crazy and so wild how people

0:29:24.880 --> 0:29:28.240
<v Speaker 4>can have nine to five jobs and work forty hours

0:29:28.280 --> 0:29:31.040
<v Speaker 4>a week, but then they have their own personal endeavors

0:29:31.040 --> 0:29:32.840
<v Speaker 4>that they want to work on or business that they

0:29:32.840 --> 0:29:35.360
<v Speaker 4>want to become successful. But you won't even take thirty

0:29:35.400 --> 0:29:38.080
<v Speaker 4>minutes out of your day every day when you get

0:29:38.120 --> 0:29:41.120
<v Speaker 4>off work to work on your business that you want

0:29:41.120 --> 0:29:43.440
<v Speaker 4>to lunch, but you're wanting to work every week working

0:29:43.440 --> 0:29:45.480
<v Speaker 4>forty hours for somebody else, making them reacher.

0:29:45.840 --> 0:29:46.920
<v Speaker 2>I just think that's crazy.

0:29:47.440 --> 0:29:49.640
<v Speaker 1>And like I said, people, I'm making it from somebody

0:29:49.640 --> 0:29:52.440
<v Speaker 1>who used to be at my job working on poor minds.

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<v Speaker 2>Friend, they're not probably not trying to get fired. I

0:29:56.360 --> 0:29:59.600
<v Speaker 2>don't give a damn about it. You don't mean I

0:29:59.640 --> 0:30:01.840
<v Speaker 2>don't think that's good in fight. They don't need to be.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not saying that that's good advice.

0:30:03.560 --> 0:30:05.920
<v Speaker 1>But what I'm saying is I wanted it that bad though.

0:30:06.360 --> 0:30:09.680
<v Speaker 1>I was ready to risk it all because I know

0:30:10.000 --> 0:30:12.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm fucking good, and I know what I wanted out

0:30:12.560 --> 0:30:14.600
<v Speaker 1>of life, and I know this is leading to a

0:30:14.680 --> 0:30:15.240
<v Speaker 1>dead end.

0:30:15.640 --> 0:30:18.760
<v Speaker 2>Poor minds was not. So I say all that to

0:30:18.800 --> 0:30:20.440
<v Speaker 2>say I was able.

0:30:20.240 --> 0:30:22.520
<v Speaker 1>To maneuver it around so I could work at poor

0:30:22.800 --> 0:30:24.720
<v Speaker 1>to do poor minds at my job. But once it

0:30:24.760 --> 0:30:26.760
<v Speaker 1>got to the point where I couldn't, I would get

0:30:26.800 --> 0:30:28.600
<v Speaker 1>off work and I'm working on poor months.

0:30:28.640 --> 0:30:31.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was working on it. You gotta find the time.

0:30:31.680 --> 0:30:33.960
<v Speaker 2>I made the time. You gotta find the time.

0:30:33.960 --> 0:30:35.600
<v Speaker 4>And I think a lot of people make so many

0:30:35.680 --> 0:30:40.240
<v Speaker 4>excuses like, oh I I'm tired from work. Oh I'm

0:30:40.280 --> 0:30:42.160
<v Speaker 4>tired from this, and I'm tired from that. I just

0:30:42.200 --> 0:30:44.960
<v Speaker 4>don't have it in need to put an extra thirty minutes.

0:30:45.000 --> 0:30:49.280
<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, you don't want to want and entrepreneurship is hard.

0:30:49.360 --> 0:30:51.360
<v Speaker 4>It's not a walk in the park like you really

0:30:51.560 --> 0:30:53.800
<v Speaker 4>like they say, you have to put so much of

0:30:53.840 --> 0:30:57.520
<v Speaker 4>yourself into it, Like it's just so much that people

0:30:57.560 --> 0:31:00.560
<v Speaker 4>don't see behind the scenes. But I also feel like

0:31:01.360 --> 0:31:04.960
<v Speaker 4>people get discouraged when it's not instant gratification.

0:31:05.440 --> 0:31:06.760
<v Speaker 2>So like if they're doing it for a.

0:31:06.720 --> 0:31:09.400
<v Speaker 4>Few months, they feel like, Oh, that's I should have

0:31:09.440 --> 0:31:12.800
<v Speaker 4>I should be here already, Versus no, you have to

0:31:12.840 --> 0:31:14.600
<v Speaker 4>really get that ship out the mud. You really have

0:31:14.720 --> 0:31:16.680
<v Speaker 4>to put your best effort in everything that you have

0:31:16.920 --> 0:31:19.160
<v Speaker 4>into it and give it time to grow, give it

0:31:19.240 --> 0:31:21.760
<v Speaker 4>some space for that fire to catch on right, and

0:31:21.800 --> 0:31:24.360
<v Speaker 4>for people to really grow your following and to really

0:31:24.360 --> 0:31:26.640
<v Speaker 4>fuck with you and your brand. That's really what it is.

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<v Speaker 4>I agree people do get discouraged by their first feel year.

0:31:29.400 --> 0:31:31.520
<v Speaker 4>They'd be like, oh, but then you don't see how

0:31:31.520 --> 0:31:34.520
<v Speaker 4>many times people they successful. Tell just because you don't

0:31:34.560 --> 0:31:36.280
<v Speaker 4>see it don't mean we wasn't feeling.

0:31:37.800 --> 0:31:41.080
<v Speaker 2>Before. So mixy girl, I had like three before.

0:31:41.520 --> 0:31:43.680
<v Speaker 1>Do you remember that first ad company we work with

0:31:44.400 --> 0:31:46.200
<v Speaker 1>that they was like, oh, we're not working with y'all.

0:31:46.760 --> 0:31:50.480
<v Speaker 2>Yes, we couldn't get our ads right. Were so sad.

0:31:50.560 --> 0:31:53.520
<v Speaker 4>We were so because we were finally getting ad chicks,

0:31:53.560 --> 0:31:55.520
<v Speaker 4>Like we finally we wasn't making that much, but we

0:31:55.520 --> 0:31:57.080
<v Speaker 4>was finally just getting something.

0:31:56.840 --> 0:31:58.840
<v Speaker 1>Right and we were like, oh my god. And then

0:31:58.880 --> 0:32:00.720
<v Speaker 1>when they let us go, I just thought it was

0:32:00.760 --> 0:32:01.720
<v Speaker 1>the end of the world. But I was like, you

0:32:01.760 --> 0:32:04.720
<v Speaker 1>know what, that's all right, somebody else gonna come along.

0:32:04.960 --> 0:32:07.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and it definitely did. So.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I just feel like your work ethic has to

0:32:11.480 --> 0:32:14.400
<v Speaker 1>match your dream. The bigger your dream is, the bigger

0:32:14.440 --> 0:32:16.880
<v Speaker 1>your work ethic gotta be. It's no in between. And

0:32:16.920 --> 0:32:20.480
<v Speaker 1>like I said, I really don't have sympathy for that

0:32:20.920 --> 0:32:23.200
<v Speaker 1>because I will say, coming from somebody.

0:32:22.880 --> 0:32:26.200
<v Speaker 2>Who did it, I did it if I can.

0:32:26.120 --> 0:32:27.680
<v Speaker 1>Do it, Like you know how you always see those

0:32:27.680 --> 0:32:31.280
<v Speaker 1>people that give their Oscar speeches and they can do it.

0:32:30.280 --> 0:32:33.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you do y'all realize, like Doci, she was

0:32:33.960 --> 0:32:37.600
<v Speaker 1>like a YouTuber like five years ago, like doing.

0:32:37.360 --> 0:32:37.880
<v Speaker 2>All that stuff.

0:32:37.960 --> 0:32:41.520
<v Speaker 1>It can't get award, a Grammy award. That's why I know, Baby,

0:32:41.560 --> 0:32:42.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm getting that daytime.

0:32:42.760 --> 0:32:44.760
<v Speaker 2>Emmy. It's only a matter of time. I just gotta

0:32:44.840 --> 0:32:45.480
<v Speaker 2>keep doing it.

0:32:46.120 --> 0:32:48.240
<v Speaker 1>You just have to keep going and you gotta put

0:32:48.240 --> 0:32:51.080
<v Speaker 1>that work in. Like so that's why I say. One

0:32:51.120 --> 0:32:53.280
<v Speaker 1>thing I do believe is like it's hard when you're

0:32:53.320 --> 0:32:55.680
<v Speaker 1>in certain positions. It's gonna be harder for other people.

0:32:56.240 --> 0:32:58.840
<v Speaker 1>But it's just all about how bad you want it.

0:32:59.280 --> 0:32:59.480
<v Speaker 2>Y'all.

0:32:59.520 --> 0:33:01.720
<v Speaker 1>Gotta get y'all gotta get a little hungry. For me,

0:33:01.840 --> 0:33:03.000
<v Speaker 1>my stomach be growouting.

0:33:03.560 --> 0:33:08.600
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, they don't be hungry. So will we drinking today? Okay,

0:33:08.760 --> 0:33:11.520
<v Speaker 4>So since we're talking about getting it out the mud

0:33:11.760 --> 0:33:13.720
<v Speaker 4>and all of that, I'm gonna call this one some

0:33:13.840 --> 0:33:17.080
<v Speaker 4>pressure because that's what we're putting on them. We're putting

0:33:17.080 --> 0:33:20.400
<v Speaker 4>on the pressure. So this one's cute, y'all. This can

0:33:20.440 --> 0:33:22.120
<v Speaker 4>be You can add it as a mytail, you can

0:33:22.160 --> 0:33:25.280
<v Speaker 4>have it as a cocktail. We have some strawberry, we

0:33:25.360 --> 0:33:27.960
<v Speaker 4>have some mango, we have some lemon juice in there.

0:33:28.440 --> 0:33:29.360
<v Speaker 2>We also have a.

0:33:29.280 --> 0:33:30.880
<v Speaker 4>Little bit of ginger beer, so it's kind of like

0:33:30.880 --> 0:33:33.240
<v Speaker 4>a mule but also like a Martinis kind of giving.

0:33:33.640 --> 0:33:35.240
<v Speaker 2>And then I did like a cute little garnish.

0:33:35.280 --> 0:33:37.760
<v Speaker 4>I took some strawberry leaves and just kind of garnish

0:33:37.880 --> 0:33:38.960
<v Speaker 4>the top of the drink with that.

0:33:39.080 --> 0:33:40.200
<v Speaker 2>So I thought that was based.

0:33:40.320 --> 0:33:43.400
<v Speaker 4>It is a strawberry, A little strawberry, right, is something different.

0:33:43.760 --> 0:33:45.920
<v Speaker 2>It is good. I taste that gin. I love a ginger.

0:33:45.920 --> 0:33:49.360
<v Speaker 2>It's probably even better with a little tequila. Yes, yea,

0:33:50.040 --> 0:33:50.719
<v Speaker 2>well mine is good.

0:33:50.760 --> 0:33:52.320
<v Speaker 4>I got you gonna have to make you gonna have

0:33:52.360 --> 0:33:54.360
<v Speaker 4>to make this again. Once I start making drink, we

0:33:54.400 --> 0:33:54.719
<v Speaker 4>can run.

0:33:55.400 --> 0:33:58.280
<v Speaker 2>You're gonna take one shot and be gone. That's my hole.

0:33:59.600 --> 0:34:00.800
<v Speaker 2>That is what I'm hoping for.

0:34:00.960 --> 0:34:03.000
<v Speaker 4>I'm hoping that that is the way that it goes

0:34:03.640 --> 0:34:06.000
<v Speaker 4>because that was my That's really my goal with like

0:34:06.120 --> 0:34:06.920
<v Speaker 4>doing this challenge.

0:34:06.960 --> 0:34:07.480
<v Speaker 2>I wanted it.

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<v Speaker 4>I wanted to build back up my tolerance because I

0:34:11.160 --> 0:34:14.560
<v Speaker 4>feel like my liquor tolerance was just so high, Like

0:34:14.800 --> 0:34:16.520
<v Speaker 4>it would take a lot for me to get drunk,

0:34:16.640 --> 0:34:19.000
<v Speaker 4>like I missed when I would get drunk off of

0:34:19.080 --> 0:34:20.840
<v Speaker 4>like two shots in a little cocktail.

0:34:22.040 --> 0:34:26.399
<v Speaker 2>I'll be like, my tolerance ain't low, but it's not high, y'all.

0:34:26.400 --> 0:34:28.480
<v Speaker 2>Tolerance is high. That's the lot. No, I'm talking.

0:34:28.280 --> 0:34:31.840
<v Speaker 1>About now, Like if I take two or three shots,

0:34:32.040 --> 0:34:33.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't be drunk, but I'll.

0:34:33.120 --> 0:34:36.680
<v Speaker 2>Be good like I took. Like I took two shots today,

0:34:37.160 --> 0:34:39.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm like I feel a little one too, Like I'm

0:34:39.120 --> 0:34:40.160
<v Speaker 2>feeling a little.

0:34:41.920 --> 0:34:44.480
<v Speaker 4>I am not about to play with you because y'all.

0:34:44.480 --> 0:34:47.439
<v Speaker 4>Don't be letting licks fool y'all. She be taking like Steven.

0:34:47.120 --> 0:34:53.359
<v Speaker 1>Sunk I used to, But now I'll be like last week,

0:34:53.360 --> 0:34:54.319
<v Speaker 1>I got a little tips of it.

0:34:54.360 --> 0:34:56.839
<v Speaker 2>I took like three four shots. Last week I was.

0:34:56.880 --> 0:35:00.279
<v Speaker 4>And you had like two dreams two three No, because

0:35:00.320 --> 0:35:03.920
<v Speaker 4>my drinks were mocktails, because I have been for some reason,

0:35:03.960 --> 0:35:07.480
<v Speaker 4>when I have a drink mixed with the sugar, I'll

0:35:07.480 --> 0:35:08.839
<v Speaker 4>be getting a little sick for real.

0:35:08.920 --> 0:35:10.640
<v Speaker 1>So I've been doing like the mocktails. But I'll take

0:35:10.680 --> 0:35:14.080
<v Speaker 1>a shot. So yeah, two three shots. I'm feeling.

0:35:15.680 --> 0:35:18.880
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<v Speaker 1>girl of me. I gotta go with differences.

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<v Speaker 4>But I told you all this, well, this is hard.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not gonna lie. This is really really hard for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh oh no, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna pick Pony. I'm gonna pick Tony because it's

0:37:12.000 --> 0:37:18.359
<v Speaker 4>the intro. Oh ye, I know, it's the beat from

0:37:18.400 --> 0:37:20.719
<v Speaker 4>me with Pony and it's the way he sliding.

0:37:21.000 --> 0:37:24.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm just a bacheler. I'm gonna have to.

0:37:24.080 --> 0:37:27.000
<v Speaker 5>I was looking forward pond and I remember and then

0:37:27.040 --> 0:37:29.359
<v Speaker 5>and then growing up in the nineties, like I see

0:37:29.920 --> 0:37:33.160
<v Speaker 5>he was so fine with the baby hairs, and I

0:37:33.280 --> 0:37:36.080
<v Speaker 5>remember yes, and I remember the.

0:37:36.120 --> 0:37:38.560
<v Speaker 2>Video he was fine as telling their video on their them.

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<v Speaker 2>That was the first time I Coochie jumped. I told

0:37:41.000 --> 0:37:41.760
<v Speaker 2>that story before.

0:37:42.320 --> 0:37:44.440
<v Speaker 4>But also I think the first time mine jumped was

0:37:44.440 --> 0:37:48.759
<v Speaker 4>when I seen a the Angelo video, which I never

0:37:48.840 --> 0:37:50.440
<v Speaker 4>really thought the Angelo.

0:37:50.200 --> 0:37:53.920
<v Speaker 2>Was like fine, I just looked nice, but his body

0:37:54.080 --> 0:37:57.800
<v Speaker 2>was teeth and then it went like down.

0:37:58.040 --> 0:38:01.400
<v Speaker 4>And then it was the first time I ever was like,

0:38:01.600 --> 0:38:03.799
<v Speaker 4>I want to see that dish. I wonder what's down here.

0:38:04.560 --> 0:38:06.719
<v Speaker 4>I wonder what they look like because I hadn't never

0:38:06.760 --> 0:38:08.839
<v Speaker 4>seen one yet. I wanted to see that, but I

0:38:08.880 --> 0:38:10.560
<v Speaker 4>wanted to know what it looked like with the.

0:38:10.719 --> 0:38:14.920
<v Speaker 1>Topic too, finding true love on dating apps? Is it

0:38:14.960 --> 0:38:18.680
<v Speaker 1>possible to meet your husband, wife, friend, or life partner

0:38:18.760 --> 0:38:19.760
<v Speaker 1>online today?

0:38:21.360 --> 0:38:23.600
<v Speaker 4>I think it is for some people. I don't think

0:38:23.680 --> 0:38:25.640
<v Speaker 4>it is for me, but I think it is for

0:38:25.719 --> 0:38:30.920
<v Speaker 4>some people. I was talking to my my injector shout.

0:38:30.640 --> 0:38:32.880
<v Speaker 2>Out to Helen Hayk love you girls. But yeah, I

0:38:32.920 --> 0:38:33.960
<v Speaker 2>was talking to Helen.

0:38:34.120 --> 0:38:36.040
<v Speaker 4>She was doing she was doing my boatox like a

0:38:36.080 --> 0:38:39.480
<v Speaker 4>few weeks ago, and she was just basically telling me

0:38:39.520 --> 0:38:42.600
<v Speaker 4>how she met her husband on Oh, well she met

0:38:42.719 --> 0:38:44.360
<v Speaker 4>him on here. She said she met him on hinge,

0:38:44.400 --> 0:38:47.240
<v Speaker 4>but then she ended up getting off of hinge for

0:38:47.400 --> 0:38:50.880
<v Speaker 4>a little mini and or something happened when she couldn't

0:38:50.880 --> 0:38:54.080
<v Speaker 4>be on app no more. But then she had already

0:38:54.080 --> 0:38:57.520
<v Speaker 4>got his information, so they were like communicating. But yeah,

0:38:57.520 --> 0:38:59.480
<v Speaker 4>she made her husband and she said he's like the

0:38:59.560 --> 0:39:01.719
<v Speaker 4>best person she's ever met in her life.

0:39:01.719 --> 0:39:01.879
<v Speaker 3>Oh.

0:39:01.920 --> 0:39:03.720
<v Speaker 2>Their wedding pictures were so cute.

0:39:03.800 --> 0:39:06.680
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so I do so like having that conversation with her.

0:39:07.120 --> 0:39:10.960
<v Speaker 4>I definitely feel like it's possible. And she said that

0:39:11.040 --> 0:39:12.840
<v Speaker 4>happened I think maybe two four.

0:39:12.719 --> 0:39:14.640
<v Speaker 2>Or three years ago. I can't remember, but.

0:39:14.960 --> 0:39:16.840
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think it's possible for some people. I just

0:39:16.880 --> 0:39:19.319
<v Speaker 4>think I'm at a point I think both of these.

0:39:19.840 --> 0:39:21.160
<v Speaker 4>I mean, I can't really speak for you, but I

0:39:21.200 --> 0:39:24.719
<v Speaker 4>can speak for myself. Like I just think I don't

0:39:24.719 --> 0:39:27.799
<v Speaker 4>know who know me, So I don't know how much

0:39:27.840 --> 0:39:30.239
<v Speaker 4>I would trust meeting somebody on a dating app, because

0:39:30.239 --> 0:39:32.480
<v Speaker 4>how I know you don't know who I am and

0:39:32.640 --> 0:39:36.360
<v Speaker 4>have like real motives for wanting to date me, Like

0:39:36.440 --> 0:39:38.480
<v Speaker 4>do you genuinely want to date me for real? Or

0:39:38.480 --> 0:39:41.959
<v Speaker 4>do you want to date men? I mean, yeah, because

0:39:42.040 --> 0:39:44.920
<v Speaker 4>do you? Or is it because you know about poor minds?

0:39:44.920 --> 0:39:47.960
<v Speaker 4>Like I don't know. So I just feel like for

0:39:48.200 --> 0:39:51.520
<v Speaker 4>us it would be kind of hard, No, you don't

0:39:51.520 --> 0:39:53.120
<v Speaker 4>think so on that one app?

0:39:54.440 --> 0:39:56.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I want to get on a rail, but I

0:39:56.760 --> 0:39:59.439
<v Speaker 2>go bad. That's where I mean.

0:39:59.520 --> 0:40:02.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm not talking about like, oh, it'd be no, it'd

0:40:02.560 --> 0:40:06.719
<v Speaker 1>be like a Listers Ben Affleck was on rail, like

0:40:06.760 --> 0:40:08.479
<v Speaker 1>any people like that on rail.

0:40:08.520 --> 0:40:11.520
<v Speaker 2>I feel like that's the one app I would flourish on.

0:40:11.760 --> 0:40:14.520
<v Speaker 4>I mean it is, but it's like I know a

0:40:14.560 --> 0:40:16.879
<v Speaker 4>good amount of people that have rail and they say

0:40:17.000 --> 0:40:19.680
<v Speaker 4>the same thing that they say about hinged and bumble.

0:40:20.040 --> 0:40:23.040
<v Speaker 2>Isn't it another one called bumble? Yeah? Like that huh.

0:40:23.480 --> 0:40:27.560
<v Speaker 4>The league, the league, It's kind of I was kind

0:40:27.560 --> 0:40:31.759
<v Speaker 4>of like Raya, it's invitation only. Yeah, and like I

0:40:31.760 --> 0:40:33.440
<v Speaker 4>don't know, Like, like I said, I know a few

0:40:33.480 --> 0:40:36.080
<v Speaker 4>people that have rail and they be saying like you'd

0:40:36.120 --> 0:40:39.120
<v Speaker 4>be the same bullshe on it to the niggas just

0:40:39.160 --> 0:40:41.880
<v Speaker 4>got more money, like because I mean it's more credentials

0:40:41.920 --> 0:40:44.440
<v Speaker 4>to get You need more credentials to get accepted on

0:40:44.640 --> 0:40:47.200
<v Speaker 4>the app. So I mean it kind of filter people

0:40:47.239 --> 0:40:50.520
<v Speaker 4>a little bit better. You just gonna have a more richer,

0:40:50.600 --> 0:40:51.799
<v Speaker 4>ain't she nigga?

0:40:52.000 --> 0:40:55.080
<v Speaker 2>That's what I do anyway. Yeah, so you don't need Raya.

0:40:55.320 --> 0:40:57.000
<v Speaker 2>You doing well? Fuck?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So I'm like this, I do you feel like

0:41:00.719 --> 0:41:04.319
<v Speaker 1>with dating apps you can find a friend.

0:41:04.239 --> 0:41:05.480
<v Speaker 2>A husband, a wife.

0:41:05.560 --> 0:41:07.400
<v Speaker 1>I do feel like, but I do kind of agree

0:41:07.400 --> 0:41:14.520
<v Speaker 1>with you. I think the kind of woman I am, I.

0:41:12.960 --> 0:41:14.200
<v Speaker 2>Don't think that a man.

0:41:14.640 --> 0:41:16.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't think I would even attract a man who

0:41:16.480 --> 0:41:19.680
<v Speaker 1>feels like he has to use dating apps, Like if

0:41:19.680 --> 0:41:20.960
<v Speaker 1>you get to the point to where you feel like

0:41:20.960 --> 0:41:23.040
<v Speaker 1>you have to know. And this is no shade because

0:41:23.080 --> 0:41:26.240
<v Speaker 1>I think dating apps are amazing for what they're supposed

0:41:26.280 --> 0:41:28.719
<v Speaker 1>to do. But I don't think I'm ever I am

0:41:28.840 --> 0:41:31.600
<v Speaker 1>old school. I want to meet you in person first.

0:41:32.200 --> 0:41:35.400
<v Speaker 1>I love meeting somebody and just having a void. I

0:41:35.560 --> 0:41:37.880
<v Speaker 1>like seeing a man for the first time and being like,

0:41:38.520 --> 0:41:41.399
<v Speaker 1>damn and seeing the way he walked and seeing the.

0:41:41.320 --> 0:41:42.719
<v Speaker 2>Way he talked. I don't.

0:41:42.880 --> 0:41:48.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm just I feel like the last Like like I said,

0:41:48.960 --> 0:41:52.640
<v Speaker 1>of course, you know, conversations start on like a Twitter

0:41:52.960 --> 0:41:55.040
<v Speaker 1>or Instagram or things like that, but it can be like, hey,

0:41:55.040 --> 0:41:57.360
<v Speaker 1>how you doing, Oh, let's link up, but there's nothing

0:41:57.360 --> 0:41:59.520
<v Speaker 1>like I keep it real short and cute. Okay, we

0:41:59.520 --> 0:42:01.840
<v Speaker 1>can go on a little date or something. But I

0:42:01.880 --> 0:42:04.600
<v Speaker 1>gotta see you in person. I gotta feel your void.

0:42:04.880 --> 0:42:07.840
<v Speaker 1>I gotta know what's in your mooy. I just need

0:42:07.880 --> 0:42:11.120
<v Speaker 1>that in person. I gotta It's something about the way

0:42:11.360 --> 0:42:13.839
<v Speaker 1>a nigga walk that I can tell, like, oh yeah,

0:42:13.880 --> 0:42:16.960
<v Speaker 1>you got it. Like it's just something about a walk.

0:42:17.360 --> 0:42:18.480
<v Speaker 1>I can see it in the walk.

0:42:18.719 --> 0:42:20.560
<v Speaker 2>You gonna see the walk when you meet him for

0:42:20.600 --> 0:42:22.680
<v Speaker 2>the first day. That's y'all. Get off the app.

0:42:22.840 --> 0:42:25.319
<v Speaker 1>No, it's something like I said, And every time if

0:42:25.320 --> 0:42:27.239
<v Speaker 1>I talk to you on a dating app, they never

0:42:27.280 --> 0:42:27.960
<v Speaker 1>got that walk.

0:42:28.360 --> 0:42:30.080
<v Speaker 2>I ain't never dated a nigga from the app. They

0:42:30.160 --> 0:42:30.959
<v Speaker 2>never had that walk.

0:42:31.520 --> 0:42:34.120
<v Speaker 1>People men who use dating apps, they don't have that walk.

0:42:35.200 --> 0:42:37.560
<v Speaker 1>I just think that you walk in front of me

0:42:37.640 --> 0:42:40.520
<v Speaker 1>right now. Oh you're on hand John, But you don't

0:42:40.520 --> 0:42:42.840
<v Speaker 1>think that the niggas they use their walk.

0:42:43.560 --> 0:42:47.240
<v Speaker 2>They might because ray a little why because they got money? Yeah,

0:42:47.560 --> 0:42:52.440
<v Speaker 2>grown goodbye. No. But I feel like, uh, like I said,

0:42:55.560 --> 0:42:58.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm not saying Raya is different. That's not what I'm saying.

0:42:58.200 --> 0:43:01.160
<v Speaker 1>But I think that's well is different cause, like I said,

0:43:01.200 --> 0:43:03.440
<v Speaker 1>it's a little more exclusive. I'm not on there, but

0:43:03.480 --> 0:43:04.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying it's a little more dus.

0:43:05.520 --> 0:43:08.279
<v Speaker 2>I didn't make it. Fuck y'all.

0:43:08.320 --> 0:43:10.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't need to be on there anyway, cause it'd

0:43:10.520 --> 0:43:11.680
<v Speaker 1>be some people that I know that'sting.

0:43:11.760 --> 0:43:13.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, how you getting there before me?

0:43:13.680 --> 0:43:15.799
<v Speaker 1>If I told you the dude that I know that's

0:43:15.840 --> 0:43:17.560
<v Speaker 1>in there, you'll be like, what the fuck? I know

0:43:17.640 --> 0:43:19.720
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people, I'm telling you, Like, I wouldn't

0:43:19.760 --> 0:43:21.400
<v Speaker 1>be surprised because I know a lot.

0:43:21.280 --> 0:43:22.640
<v Speaker 2>Of people that have rails.

0:43:22.800 --> 0:43:24.399
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I know a good amount of people, at least

0:43:24.400 --> 0:43:25.440
<v Speaker 4>probably like ten people.

0:43:25.440 --> 0:43:27.680
<v Speaker 1>But I guess the people that I know that's on there,

0:43:27.719 --> 0:43:30.000
<v Speaker 1>like the guys they be coming across and I'm like, Okay,

0:43:30.200 --> 0:43:31.920
<v Speaker 1>that's a little one, so a little.

0:43:31.920 --> 0:43:33.719
<v Speaker 2>Shump something they with them.

0:43:34.360 --> 0:43:37.640
<v Speaker 1>No, they ain't got no game like that. My game

0:43:37.719 --> 0:43:38.879
<v Speaker 1>is my pim game.

0:43:39.000 --> 0:43:39.360
<v Speaker 2>Strong.

0:43:40.360 --> 0:43:43.080
<v Speaker 4>I just feel like it doesn't matter whatever you own,

0:43:43.200 --> 0:43:46.400
<v Speaker 4>niggas is gonna be niggas. I don't matter the text breaking,

0:43:46.520 --> 0:43:49.600
<v Speaker 4>it don't matter the race, it don't matter nothing.

0:43:49.800 --> 0:43:50.840
<v Speaker 2>Men are gonna be be in.

0:43:51.080 --> 0:43:53.200
<v Speaker 1>I No, I do agree with that. But like, it's

0:43:53.280 --> 0:43:56.120
<v Speaker 1>just hard to date out here. It's very hard.

0:43:56.200 --> 0:43:57.480
<v Speaker 2>I see why people.

0:43:57.239 --> 0:43:59.799
<v Speaker 4>Go to dating apps. I, like I said, personally, for me,

0:44:00.080 --> 0:44:01.879
<v Speaker 4>I just don't really think that's something that will work

0:44:01.920 --> 0:44:03.480
<v Speaker 4>for me, especially at this point.

0:44:03.880 --> 0:44:07.200
<v Speaker 2>Maybe like six years ago or seven years.

0:44:07.040 --> 0:44:09.399
<v Speaker 4>Ago, I could have got on dating apps, but right

0:44:09.440 --> 0:44:12.439
<v Speaker 4>now as it currently stands, No, But I get why

0:44:12.440 --> 0:44:14.840
<v Speaker 4>people get on there, because I mean, where the hell

0:44:14.960 --> 0:44:18.120
<v Speaker 4>do you meet people at, and especially in Atlanta, Like

0:44:18.200 --> 0:44:24.359
<v Speaker 4>especially living in cities like Atlanta, Houston, DEALI, Chicago, all

0:44:24.400 --> 0:44:29.040
<v Speaker 4>of these places, everybody know everybody, everybody know everybody. It's

0:44:29.080 --> 0:44:31.799
<v Speaker 4>hard to meet niggas that don't nobody know or there

0:44:31.920 --> 0:44:34.560
<v Speaker 4>somebody that you know friend or whoever ain't went on

0:44:34.600 --> 0:44:38.200
<v Speaker 4>a date with them too. It's just really hard. Men

0:44:38.280 --> 0:44:40.520
<v Speaker 4>that are single that are not married, they don't have

0:44:40.600 --> 0:44:41.560
<v Speaker 4>multiple children.

0:44:42.719 --> 0:44:44.560
<v Speaker 2>It's hard out here. I get why people get on

0:44:44.640 --> 0:44:44.880
<v Speaker 2>dy not.

0:44:45.120 --> 0:44:47.440
<v Speaker 4>Maybe like shit, maybe it's some niggas on here that

0:44:47.480 --> 0:44:48.600
<v Speaker 4>God ain't released yet.

0:44:48.680 --> 0:44:51.160
<v Speaker 2>I don't know that. We don't know about it. All

0:44:51.200 --> 0:44:52.360
<v Speaker 2>these niggas been released.

0:44:53.760 --> 0:44:56.080
<v Speaker 4>I did like them. He ain't got no little stock

0:44:56.160 --> 0:44:58.480
<v Speaker 4>up there that he can just drop real quick.

0:45:00.040 --> 0:45:00.480
<v Speaker 2>From out of know.

0:45:00.920 --> 0:45:02.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't think dating apps are for me. Like

0:45:02.960 --> 0:45:04.719
<v Speaker 1>I said, I'm just old school. I want to meet

0:45:04.719 --> 0:45:09.200
<v Speaker 1>my man in like whole food. We're not supposed to

0:45:09.200 --> 0:45:10.040
<v Speaker 1>be shopping in targeting.

0:45:10.440 --> 0:45:13.320
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, well wherever. I want to meet him somewhere

0:45:13.360 --> 0:45:13.600
<v Speaker 2>like that.

0:45:13.719 --> 0:45:16.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm just old school, Like, I don't think dating apps

0:45:16.239 --> 0:45:17.960
<v Speaker 1>are for me. I don't even want to meet people

0:45:18.000 --> 0:45:21.680
<v Speaker 1>on like Instagram, Twitter and stuff anymore. Like sliding my

0:45:21.800 --> 0:45:24.839
<v Speaker 1>dms nine times out of ten today, it's not gonna work,

0:45:25.560 --> 0:45:28.759
<v Speaker 1>you know. I mean, and you know what's crazy. I

0:45:29.040 --> 0:45:30.480
<v Speaker 1>don't know if I said this on the show or not.

0:45:31.440 --> 0:45:35.120
<v Speaker 2>The older I get, the younger, the men getting my dms, yeah,

0:45:35.200 --> 0:45:37.279
<v Speaker 2>I mean I got these young. I mean they be

0:45:37.320 --> 0:45:41.960
<v Speaker 2>so young. What t T gonna do with you? You?

0:45:42.360 --> 0:45:45.840
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I'd be like it'd be so many dms.

0:45:45.880 --> 0:45:48.480
<v Speaker 1>I just leave on ignore and it'd be like, oh,

0:45:48.560 --> 0:45:49.600
<v Speaker 1>you are so young.

0:45:49.840 --> 0:45:51.600
<v Speaker 2>I know a nigga too young when he called me

0:45:51.640 --> 0:45:52.480
<v Speaker 2>some fine sheep.

0:45:52.640 --> 0:45:56.879
<v Speaker 4>Oh some what what you mean?

0:45:57.320 --> 0:46:00.799
<v Speaker 2>That's exact exactly. That's the thing that they say we're

0:46:00.840 --> 0:46:05.759
<v Speaker 2>too old and mature. But that type of my little

0:46:05.800 --> 0:46:11.000
<v Speaker 2>fine sheet, I mean, gi it do. I am a

0:46:11.080 --> 0:46:17.879
<v Speaker 2>boud woman. Don't call me that. Though there's some young

0:46:18.000 --> 0:46:21.239
<v Speaker 2>nigga shies. It is, yes, it is, it is. I

0:46:21.239 --> 0:46:27.040
<v Speaker 2>don't like that. I'm a beautiful woman, a beautiful boudet woman.

0:46:28.040 --> 0:46:30.680
<v Speaker 2>I got my boot on my spring, you know what

0:46:30.680 --> 0:46:33.879
<v Speaker 2>I'm And we wear spain y'all.

0:46:34.040 --> 0:46:36.280
<v Speaker 1>Young girls, y'all needs to get into spanks and body

0:46:36.320 --> 0:46:37.839
<v Speaker 1>shape where it smooths you out.

0:46:38.080 --> 0:46:41.359
<v Speaker 2>You do it makes you look good, get it together. Yeah,

0:46:41.440 --> 0:46:41.920
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

0:46:42.040 --> 0:46:44.640
<v Speaker 4>I definitely think it's hard out here. It's hard to

0:46:44.680 --> 0:46:45.799
<v Speaker 4>find somebody, you know.

0:46:45.920 --> 0:46:48.040
<v Speaker 1>But I think too like dating apps have hurt the

0:46:48.120 --> 0:46:52.200
<v Speaker 1>dating world as well, because not everybody is replaceable. People

0:46:52.239 --> 0:46:53.960
<v Speaker 1>be thinking, oh this don't work out, I'm just get

0:46:53.960 --> 0:46:56.279
<v Speaker 1>on hens and find another one. You know what I'm saying,

0:46:56.320 --> 0:46:59.080
<v Speaker 1>Not everybody is replaceable. I have to have a conversation

0:46:59.120 --> 0:47:02.280
<v Speaker 1>with somebody that the other day and let him know, baby,

0:47:02.520 --> 0:47:06.080
<v Speaker 1>good luck because this you ain't gonna find this. This

0:47:06.120 --> 0:47:09.799
<v Speaker 1>ain't on This ain't on inge, baby, this is not

0:47:09.840 --> 0:47:10.560
<v Speaker 1>on bumblebee.

0:47:10.560 --> 0:47:12.839
<v Speaker 2>You shouldn't have had to tell him Nick though, No, I.

0:47:12.760 --> 0:47:14.640
<v Speaker 1>Mean I didn't have to tell him that, but I

0:47:14.719 --> 0:47:16.560
<v Speaker 1>like he but it was like, yeah, yeah, I know,

0:47:16.840 --> 0:47:18.799
<v Speaker 1>I know, because I mean I'm not.

0:47:18.880 --> 0:47:20.879
<v Speaker 2>Nobody's perfect. People be fucking up.

0:47:21.719 --> 0:47:25.879
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and niggas be forgetting God speed, because go out there,

0:47:26.440 --> 0:47:27.239
<v Speaker 1>go out there.

0:47:29.040 --> 0:47:31.919
<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying. I believe in letting niggas free. Hey,

0:47:32.560 --> 0:47:34.160
<v Speaker 2>go ahead and go out there. I'm not gonna give

0:47:34.160 --> 0:47:36.600
<v Speaker 2>you no warning. Yeah, you go see what's out there.

0:47:37.040 --> 0:47:40.239
<v Speaker 2>Say yeah.

0:47:40.440 --> 0:47:43.280
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I feel like for people who have found

0:47:43.320 --> 0:47:45.799
<v Speaker 1>true love on dating apps, I love that for them,

0:47:45.800 --> 0:47:48.239
<v Speaker 1>but I don't think that's and that's something that's for me.

0:47:48.600 --> 0:47:51.040
<v Speaker 1>I try the dating app for thirty minutes one time,

0:47:51.680 --> 0:47:53.200
<v Speaker 1>and it was just horrifying.

0:47:54.160 --> 0:47:55.160
<v Speaker 2>It was horrifying.

0:47:55.320 --> 0:47:57.880
<v Speaker 4>So yeah, I've never tried one, Like, I have never

0:47:58.520 --> 0:47:59.840
<v Speaker 4>had an accounts on it.

0:48:01.000 --> 0:48:02.919
<v Speaker 2>I think mine was loud about it, but I never

0:48:03.360 --> 0:48:03.960
<v Speaker 2>actually went.

0:48:04.040 --> 0:48:07.040
<v Speaker 1>This was like twenty twenty it was before Poor Minds

0:48:07.040 --> 0:48:08.680
<v Speaker 1>had popped off, So it had to have been twenty

0:48:08.719 --> 0:48:11.439
<v Speaker 1>nineteen or twenty twenty, because I still I was still

0:48:11.440 --> 0:48:15.439
<v Speaker 1>working at not European. What was the other regions? Yeah,

0:48:15.800 --> 0:48:17.919
<v Speaker 1>And I remember me and my coworker were sitting there

0:48:18.200 --> 0:48:20.520
<v Speaker 1>shout out to Shamis and she was like, girl, make

0:48:20.560 --> 0:48:23.080
<v Speaker 1>you a hinge. I think it was hinge girls on

0:48:23.120 --> 0:48:25.440
<v Speaker 1>that for thirty minutes. I said, no, ma'am, what was.

0:48:25.400 --> 0:48:27.680
<v Speaker 2>The reason why you just got off? Because the people

0:48:28.040 --> 0:48:29.120
<v Speaker 2>it was, I'm sorry.

0:48:29.160 --> 0:48:31.760
<v Speaker 1>I never I was sitting there swiping for thirty minutes,

0:48:31.800 --> 0:48:35.800
<v Speaker 1>and I was swiping left on everybody, on everybody.

0:48:36.360 --> 0:48:42.239
<v Speaker 2>There was no little fine shit on there. It was

0:48:42.400 --> 0:48:47.560
<v Speaker 2>no nowhere me oh there like all you niggas was unhead.

0:48:47.680 --> 0:48:50.799
<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm saying. They are though unheard you.

0:48:51.520 --> 0:48:53.279
<v Speaker 1>I can even see from your picture if you got

0:48:53.280 --> 0:48:53.960
<v Speaker 1>a little one too.

0:48:54.040 --> 0:48:57.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm just like, ough mm hmm. So yeah, dating apps

0:48:58.080 --> 0:48:59.960
<v Speaker 2>for me, huh yeah, I don't know.

0:49:00.120 --> 0:49:01.839
<v Speaker 4>It's not for me either, but I love to hear

0:49:01.880 --> 0:49:02.840
<v Speaker 4>the success stories.

0:49:02.840 --> 0:49:04.120
<v Speaker 2>I'll do too, I really do.

0:49:04.160 --> 0:49:05.799
<v Speaker 4>What do you feel about how do you feel about

0:49:05.800 --> 0:49:07.040
<v Speaker 4>ones like Christian Mingle?

0:49:07.120 --> 0:49:09.560
<v Speaker 2>Do people still use It's Christian mingle. Still you know

0:49:09.600 --> 0:49:14.600
<v Speaker 2>they got farm what is it? Farmers, sumpers, farmer mark Christian. Well, no,

0:49:14.680 --> 0:49:19.320
<v Speaker 2>it's for farmers. Oh, farmers only. I think only farmers.

0:49:19.640 --> 0:49:20.720
<v Speaker 2>It's something.

0:49:21.320 --> 0:49:23.160
<v Speaker 4>Now you're talking about what the niggas with money, and

0:49:23.360 --> 0:49:31.680
<v Speaker 4>that's what they Yeah, not thinking I'm gonna be having

0:49:31.680 --> 0:49:32.280
<v Speaker 4>their paper.

0:49:32.520 --> 0:49:38.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm finna go get that. Don't be long this same texture. Yeah,

0:49:38.680 --> 0:49:41.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm telling you. Okay, they got one for oil and

0:49:41.640 --> 0:49:55.839
<v Speaker 2>gas musics Chevron only Chevron, big tacoon. But no, that's

0:49:57.040 --> 0:50:02.879
<v Speaker 2>I think Christian mingle is still a thing. Yeah, only taccoons.

0:50:02.960 --> 0:50:06.839
<v Speaker 2>I like that. But I do think that Christian mingo

0:50:06.920 --> 0:50:10.080
<v Speaker 2>is still a thing. But like I said, maybe Christian mingo.

0:50:10.120 --> 0:50:13.120
<v Speaker 1>But sometimes people that are super religious and men that

0:50:13.239 --> 0:50:16.080
<v Speaker 1>they don't be the best people are evil.

0:50:16.480 --> 0:50:18.920
<v Speaker 2>You think, like religious overly religious. No, well, let me

0:50:18.920 --> 0:50:19.239
<v Speaker 2>say this.

0:50:19.400 --> 0:50:22.360
<v Speaker 1>I think some people probably slide in Christian mingo that

0:50:23.080 --> 0:50:26.399
<v Speaker 1>may not necessarily be really true Christians who are really

0:50:26.440 --> 0:50:27.120
<v Speaker 1>about the word.

0:50:27.239 --> 0:50:29.759
<v Speaker 2>That's the scary thing. You never know who you're talking to.

0:50:30.239 --> 0:50:32.959
<v Speaker 1>There was a man on hen who was killing women,

0:50:34.200 --> 0:50:36.600
<v Speaker 1>So I feel like it's scary because you never know

0:50:36.640 --> 0:50:40.480
<v Speaker 1>who you're talking to. So I'm always I'm just in person.

0:50:41.120 --> 0:50:43.239
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, That's what I think for me, has always kind

0:50:43.239 --> 0:50:45.480
<v Speaker 4>of been the turnoff for me when today in apps,

0:50:45.520 --> 0:50:46.640
<v Speaker 4>it's like, yeah, you just.

0:50:46.560 --> 0:50:48.040
<v Speaker 2>Never know who you're meeting.

0:50:48.360 --> 0:50:50.799
<v Speaker 4>And granted, when you go on a first date with

0:50:50.920 --> 0:50:54.600
<v Speaker 4>somebody you essentially don't know them either, but it's just

0:50:54.640 --> 0:50:59.160
<v Speaker 4>something about meeting somebody online and you don't know anything

0:50:59.239 --> 0:50:59.839
<v Speaker 4>about them.

0:51:00.440 --> 0:51:02.839
<v Speaker 2>You probably don't know nobody didn't know that, right.

0:51:02.960 --> 0:51:05.160
<v Speaker 1>I think I can't remember the last time I dated

0:51:05.200 --> 0:51:07.799
<v Speaker 1>somebody who we didn't have mutual people that we knew,

0:51:07.880 --> 0:51:12.040
<v Speaker 1>like nobody knows yet. Yeah, liked in the past few years,

0:51:12.280 --> 0:51:14.399
<v Speaker 1>it's always been Even when I went on that first

0:51:14.480 --> 0:51:16.439
<v Speaker 1>date to Paris, I knew him through a mutual friend

0:51:16.480 --> 0:51:19.279
<v Speaker 1>who had been knowing you, So it wasn't like a

0:51:19.400 --> 0:51:22.839
<v Speaker 1>random I knew where he worked, I knew his beg,

0:51:23.000 --> 0:51:25.080
<v Speaker 1>like I knew people who had vetted for him. You

0:51:25.120 --> 0:51:28.160
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, Like versus somebody on an app

0:51:28.480 --> 0:51:30.879
<v Speaker 1>you from Taiwan, I.

0:51:30.840 --> 0:51:33.480
<v Speaker 2>Don't know you. I don't know no niggas in Taiwan. Hey,

0:51:34.160 --> 0:51:36.640
<v Speaker 2>you know what I'm saying. No Taiwani, guess.

0:51:36.400 --> 0:51:41.280
<v Speaker 1>What I'm saying. So it's a bigger risk. Like on Instagram,

0:51:41.360 --> 0:51:43.799
<v Speaker 1>I can see how many mutual friends we got, so

0:51:43.920 --> 0:51:47.400
<v Speaker 1>I can ask the last guy I dated before my

0:51:47.400 --> 0:51:51.040
<v Speaker 1>my last relationship. We had a lot of mutual friends,

0:51:51.080 --> 0:51:52.719
<v Speaker 1>and I said, hey, girl, what you know about him?

0:51:53.040 --> 0:51:53.200
<v Speaker 4>Oh?

0:51:53.239 --> 0:51:55.400
<v Speaker 2>Girl, that's my Oh I know him, that's my home boy. Like,

0:51:56.080 --> 0:51:58.279
<v Speaker 2>you know, I could I do that? No, I'm married.

0:51:58.320 --> 0:52:01.320
<v Speaker 4>I mean you got to look, you just gotta be safe.

0:52:01.400 --> 0:52:04.520
<v Speaker 4>It's so many crazy people in the world, and they

0:52:04.600 --> 0:52:06.360
<v Speaker 4>be praying, Like I do. Feel like people be on

0:52:06.400 --> 0:52:07.920
<v Speaker 4>those apps praying on people.

0:52:07.960 --> 0:52:11.560
<v Speaker 1>Oh absolutely, you know absolutely, especially because you know we've

0:52:11.600 --> 0:52:15.800
<v Speaker 1>said this before. They will especially prey on lonely women

0:52:16.280 --> 0:52:18.520
<v Speaker 1>and lonely men too. I'm not saying that women don't

0:52:18.520 --> 0:52:21.239
<v Speaker 1>be out here doing crazy stuff too, because remember.

0:52:20.960 --> 0:52:23.600
<v Speaker 2>Uh, what was the name of the fucking movie Rain?

0:52:23.719 --> 0:52:27.719
<v Speaker 2>What was it? Baby Rain? That lady was crazy? He

0:52:27.840 --> 0:52:31.839
<v Speaker 2>was taking her down. Remember he was having sex with her?

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<v Speaker 1>He was yes, No, he wasn't. Yes he did they

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<v Speaker 1>had sex.

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<v Speaker 2>No, they did it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, they did.

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<v Speaker 2>He had sex with her.

0:52:45.239 --> 0:52:48.359
<v Speaker 1>Because he admitted maybe that was my mistake that I

0:52:48.440 --> 0:52:51.040
<v Speaker 1>ended up because he was like, I shouldn't have did it.

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<v Speaker 2>But he definitely fucked that lady. Yes he did. He

0:52:54.640 --> 0:52:57.400
<v Speaker 2>did fuck her, Yes, he did very much. I'm not

0:52:57.560 --> 0:53:03.720
<v Speaker 2>said that he did something about the curtains. Her curtains

0:53:03.760 --> 0:53:09.160
<v Speaker 2>needed fixing. Her curtains. You you never seen baby reindeer.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, her beef curtain. It was good, It was very

0:53:12.440 --> 0:53:14.600
<v Speaker 1>very good. But yeah, he definitely fucked that lady.

0:53:15.600 --> 0:53:18.279
<v Speaker 2>I mean yeah, but god damn, he couldn't fuck her.

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<v Speaker 1>And you fucking a crazy bitch when you know she's

0:53:27.000 --> 0:53:29.560
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<v Speaker 1>not victim shaming.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks. Now, it's hard to get into the.

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<v Speaker 4>Bed bow bow bow. Okay, Okay, So after care one

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<v Speaker 4>on one the things that people forget to do after six,

0:56:21.040 --> 0:56:23.360
<v Speaker 4>let's talk about it, okay, because I feel like number

0:56:23.360 --> 0:56:27.160
<v Speaker 4>one on the least, take your ass to the bathroom.

0:56:27.320 --> 0:56:29.640
<v Speaker 2>Oh, I'll get I can't feel like these shouldn't even

0:56:29.640 --> 0:56:32.200
<v Speaker 2>be conversations that we should have to have at this point.

0:56:32.320 --> 0:56:34.560
<v Speaker 1>But we do have young listeners that probably don't know,

0:56:34.640 --> 0:56:36.320
<v Speaker 1>so we're gonna take this time to educate.

0:56:36.520 --> 0:56:37.080
<v Speaker 2>That's fair.

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<v Speaker 4>But yeah, take your ass to the bathroom and p

0:56:40.520 --> 0:56:44.840
<v Speaker 4>after you're doing getting that D A word, Yeah, go

0:56:45.000 --> 0:56:48.600
<v Speaker 4>p after you get that D let it out, rain

0:56:48.760 --> 0:56:49.439
<v Speaker 4>the main vein.

0:56:49.640 --> 0:56:52.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, you have to pee after.

0:56:52.520 --> 0:56:54.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't feel right not peeing after six I'll be

0:56:54.560 --> 0:56:55.080
<v Speaker 1>feeling like.

0:56:56.480 --> 0:56:58.680
<v Speaker 2>I be feeling like I gotta go after. That's because

0:56:58.760 --> 0:57:01.319
<v Speaker 2>you had an orgasm. I be feeling like I gotta go.

0:57:02.280 --> 0:57:07.799
<v Speaker 2>Tell me when to go. Okay, number two, wipe down

0:57:07.920 --> 0:57:08.640
<v Speaker 2>or take a shower.

0:57:08.760 --> 0:57:11.040
<v Speaker 1>Just don't roll over. Now, I do agree with that.

0:57:11.160 --> 0:57:15.319
<v Speaker 1>I always like have me a little honey pot wipe

0:57:15.400 --> 0:57:17.320
<v Speaker 1>or I hop in the shower, I take a full

0:57:17.320 --> 0:57:19.520
<v Speaker 1>blown shower. You gotta wipe it down a white man

0:57:19.600 --> 0:57:20.360
<v Speaker 1>eye because.

0:57:20.080 --> 0:57:22.960
<v Speaker 4>Sleeping in that sticky iky it's crazy.

0:57:23.080 --> 0:57:24.880
<v Speaker 2>Why would you sleep a little leg.

0:57:25.200 --> 0:57:28.280
<v Speaker 1>If you wake up in your pussy crunchy or your

0:57:28.320 --> 0:57:31.640
<v Speaker 1>stomach stuck to the beg o louk to the bed

0:57:31.840 --> 0:57:32.800
<v Speaker 1>is nuts?

0:57:33.160 --> 0:57:34.240
<v Speaker 2>No pun intended.

0:57:34.560 --> 0:57:38.400
<v Speaker 1>Yes to the I'm not gonna lie like, yeah, I

0:57:38.520 --> 0:57:40.520
<v Speaker 1>definitely pay attention to because like I feel like if

0:57:40.520 --> 0:57:43.160
<v Speaker 1>the if the guy I'm having sex with you need

0:57:43.200 --> 0:57:44.919
<v Speaker 1>to go to the bathroom and wipe that dick off.

0:57:45.080 --> 0:57:47.280
<v Speaker 1>Get off warm rag and wipe that dick off.

0:57:47.480 --> 0:57:49.160
<v Speaker 2>You know, I prefer you know, I like a little

0:57:49.160 --> 0:57:54.479
<v Speaker 2>concierge service. Yeah you do. Yeah, bring it to the beg.

0:57:54.640 --> 0:57:58.360
<v Speaker 2>I like that. It is. Hey, sometimes I'm not gonna lie.

0:57:58.400 --> 0:58:00.400
<v Speaker 1>Like sometimes we be in the bathroom together, we take

0:58:00.440 --> 0:58:03.240
<v Speaker 1>the trip together, so I'm in their pin and he's

0:58:03.280 --> 0:58:03.760
<v Speaker 1>wiping off.

0:58:03.840 --> 0:58:05.880
<v Speaker 2>We like that is good. Yeah.

0:58:05.960 --> 0:58:08.280
<v Speaker 4>But then see, sometimes you just gotta go get each

0:58:08.320 --> 0:58:10.680
<v Speaker 4>yourself too, because niggas be taking too long.

0:58:12.000 --> 0:58:13.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's that's that's true.

0:58:13.760 --> 0:58:17.520
<v Speaker 4>Taking too long, and then you start melting, melting, whood be.

0:58:17.520 --> 0:58:23.600
<v Speaker 2>Melting, whood be melting. No, we want to know.

0:58:24.560 --> 0:58:25.280
<v Speaker 3>We're not done.

0:58:25.360 --> 0:58:28.600
<v Speaker 2>We're not finn non intended with the glaze.

0:58:29.720 --> 0:58:34.760
<v Speaker 4>The glazes be melting like ripping yay. So like you know,

0:58:34.800 --> 0:58:40.200
<v Speaker 4>when he first it's like ya okay. Then because of

0:58:40.240 --> 0:58:41.640
<v Speaker 4>the body, he didn't be making it.

0:58:43.840 --> 0:58:46.160
<v Speaker 2>Laughing because I know what I'm talking about.

0:58:46.520 --> 0:58:48.720
<v Speaker 4>And then he start calling it NI be like hurry up,

0:58:49.760 --> 0:58:52.920
<v Speaker 4>flying over, bring your glass that.

0:58:53.000 --> 0:58:56.080
<v Speaker 2>Could be here. I'll be looking like a dirty slug

0:58:56.280 --> 0:58:56.600
<v Speaker 2>me too.

0:58:56.680 --> 0:58:58.040
<v Speaker 1>Do you know, like you just be laying on a

0:58:58.120 --> 0:59:01.480
<v Speaker 1>bed with nuts all on your booty, just a whore.

0:59:01.600 --> 0:59:04.040
<v Speaker 4>The booty ain't that bad? Here your stummy because then

0:59:04.040 --> 0:59:04.760
<v Speaker 4>you following your.

0:59:06.000 --> 0:59:09.120
<v Speaker 2>Well, I got it. Oh no, I haven't anyhow what

0:59:09.320 --> 0:59:10.800
<v Speaker 2>you say I having.

0:59:15.760 --> 0:59:18.760
<v Speaker 1>I just can swimming in you Can you imagine, like

0:59:18.760 --> 0:59:21.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, when you play in the bed, will you

0:59:21.480 --> 0:59:23.520
<v Speaker 1>be laying in the bed with nothing? Yes, And they'd

0:59:23.520 --> 0:59:25.320
<v Speaker 1>be taking a long time. You just be sitting there

0:59:25.360 --> 0:59:26.200
<v Speaker 1>looking horrible.

0:59:26.240 --> 0:59:27.880
<v Speaker 4>That's what I was saying. It'd be like you then

0:59:27.960 --> 0:59:34.040
<v Speaker 4>you gotta get up. But then it be melty, it be.

0:59:34.040 --> 0:59:35.520
<v Speaker 2>Like why are you taking so long?

0:59:35.760 --> 0:59:37.439
<v Speaker 1>That's why I say a lot of times, we gotta

0:59:37.440 --> 0:59:38.880
<v Speaker 1>we gonna go to the bathroom together.

0:59:39.400 --> 0:59:42.240
<v Speaker 2>You know what? That's sweet? Yeah? I love well, I

0:59:42.280 --> 0:59:44.280
<v Speaker 2>love a group. Look like I put that thing.

0:59:44.360 --> 0:59:51.560
<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, yeah, okay, clean six toys immediately after you?

0:59:51.640 --> 0:59:55.440
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah? Absolutely? Does it get crusty? Can't get crusty.

0:59:55.520 --> 0:59:57.920
<v Speaker 2>But I feel like everybody does not cleaned it. Right now,

0:59:57.960 --> 1:00:01.320
<v Speaker 2>I'm talking to me. You wake up and you'd be like,

1:00:01.320 --> 1:00:05.520
<v Speaker 2>oh you gotta peel it off too far?

1:00:06.200 --> 1:00:10.800
<v Speaker 4>Peeling it off eas because you could just go.

1:00:11.760 --> 1:00:13.760
<v Speaker 2>I'll be kind of making sure I get in there

1:00:13.800 --> 1:00:15.640
<v Speaker 2>you gotta rinse it. And then I'd be like, oh

1:00:15.640 --> 1:00:19.760
<v Speaker 2>I left the little spot. I'll be that's the spray

1:00:19.800 --> 1:00:22.320
<v Speaker 2>of the little phone. Yeah, yeah, you gotta get that phone. Wise,

1:00:22.880 --> 1:00:25.080
<v Speaker 2>what I talked when Glemozon, you gotta boil that dick up.

1:00:25.200 --> 1:00:27.880
<v Speaker 2>You do gott to boil brawil it up. So yeah,

1:00:28.120 --> 1:00:28.920
<v Speaker 2>keep it sentence here.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I definitely think you should clean your sex toys

1:00:32.240 --> 1:00:37.400
<v Speaker 1>after every you absolutely absolutely like, please do not be

1:00:37.520 --> 1:00:40.360
<v Speaker 1>rubbing it out with that old crust from the last session.

1:00:41.080 --> 1:00:43.400
<v Speaker 1>But honestly, y'all don't be having crusts because that that

1:00:43.480 --> 1:00:47.640
<v Speaker 1>COUCHI be dry. That's why y'all don't be cleaning it now.

1:00:47.800 --> 1:00:51.280
<v Speaker 1>Don't be no juice residue. That don't be no juice residue.

1:00:51.640 --> 1:00:55.080
<v Speaker 1>Straight sahara, okay, and not see all right, all right,

1:00:55.360 --> 1:00:58.960
<v Speaker 1>change the sheets regularly, especially after a sneaky link.

1:00:59.040 --> 1:01:01.960
<v Speaker 2>So first of all, I'll say this, after any league,

1:01:02.520 --> 1:01:05.640
<v Speaker 2>you're supposed to wash your after no leans, wash your

1:01:05.680 --> 1:01:06.880
<v Speaker 2>sheets once a week.

1:01:07.400 --> 1:01:09.439
<v Speaker 1>If you don't have more, I feel like this. I'm

1:01:09.480 --> 1:01:13.360
<v Speaker 1>not the clean police either. I wash my sheets every Sunday, Yeah,

1:01:13.840 --> 1:01:16.640
<v Speaker 1>every Sunday. And then I also have two two three

1:01:16.720 --> 1:01:19.400
<v Speaker 1>pairs of sheets that I can rotate. So one Sunday

1:01:19.440 --> 1:01:21.560
<v Speaker 1>I may not feel like washing my sheets, So guess what.

1:01:21.480 --> 1:01:24.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna just change about. I agree weekly.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're not washing your sheets weekly, it's time to

1:01:28.480 --> 1:01:29.560
<v Speaker 1>get yourself together.

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<v Speaker 2>So yes, having them bunies in the dole.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh oh.

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<v Speaker 2>That's would she? When? Then wash them after the sneaky

1:01:49.320 --> 1:01:50.080
<v Speaker 2>lean and then.

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<v Speaker 1>You know how somebody said, day wake up with well's

1:01:52.160 --> 1:01:54.120
<v Speaker 1>bitch you got dorito chips in your bed?

1:01:54.200 --> 1:01:56.440
<v Speaker 2>Yes, you need to wash your sheets every week. I

1:01:56.440 --> 1:01:57.040
<v Speaker 2>ain't gonna lie.

1:01:57.040 --> 1:02:00.200
<v Speaker 4>I do agree with it every week, no ease you

1:02:00.320 --> 1:02:04.200
<v Speaker 4>see juices, y'all do know our skin sheds every day

1:02:04.360 --> 1:02:06.680
<v Speaker 4>every day, but you should always be washing your sheets

1:02:06.680 --> 1:02:07.120
<v Speaker 4>every week.

1:02:07.360 --> 1:02:08.800
<v Speaker 2>Care all that stuff.

1:02:10.160 --> 1:02:15.200
<v Speaker 4>Okay, Hydrate six is a workout. Absolutely, keep you a

1:02:15.240 --> 1:02:16.400
<v Speaker 4>little glass of water.

1:02:16.680 --> 1:02:18.720
<v Speaker 1>And I think that if you drink a lot like

1:02:18.840 --> 1:02:21.040
<v Speaker 1>I always do this, like I drink a lot of

1:02:21.080 --> 1:02:23.840
<v Speaker 1>water anyway. But the day you know you're about to

1:02:23.880 --> 1:02:29.080
<v Speaker 1>get some that kuchi be leaky soaking with If y'all

1:02:29.160 --> 1:02:31.760
<v Speaker 1>cooshie is dry, I promise you're not drinking enough water.

1:02:32.080 --> 1:02:37.280
<v Speaker 1>If you drink water that kushi bee oh oh that

1:02:37.440 --> 1:02:38.560
<v Speaker 1>splash waterfall.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, and I see, I do feel like you should

1:02:41.840 --> 1:02:44.960
<v Speaker 4>be hydrating on a normal basis. In general, you should

1:02:44.960 --> 1:02:47.040
<v Speaker 4>be drinking at least half of your body weight and

1:02:47.120 --> 1:02:49.919
<v Speaker 4>water every day. But you know, keep you a little

1:02:49.920 --> 1:02:52.160
<v Speaker 4>water out of beg because it gets a little sweaty.

1:02:53.080 --> 1:02:54.880
<v Speaker 2>Yes, a little two turned up.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So we talked about that air out the room.

1:02:59.320 --> 1:03:01.760
<v Speaker 1>Nobody wants it's still sex smell.

1:03:02.400 --> 1:03:05.480
<v Speaker 4>I just, you know, I feel I be feeling some

1:03:05.520 --> 1:03:07.280
<v Speaker 4>type of way about ear in the room out because

1:03:07.280 --> 1:03:09.000
<v Speaker 4>why do we thinking them?

1:03:11.440 --> 1:03:13.160
<v Speaker 3>I just feel like, why.

1:03:13.040 --> 1:03:16.240
<v Speaker 2>Do the room need to be aired out? What is called?

1:03:17.320 --> 1:03:20.920
<v Speaker 3>Why do it smell like that? Why do we stink?

1:03:21.600 --> 1:03:24.400
<v Speaker 2>I just I don't know. I don't know about that.

1:03:24.840 --> 1:03:27.560
<v Speaker 2>I like the smell of sex. Yeah, me too, if

1:03:27.560 --> 1:03:30.280
<v Speaker 2>it smell good. Yeah, Like I like the smell of like,

1:03:30.920 --> 1:03:34.960
<v Speaker 2>but it smells good.

1:03:35.080 --> 1:03:37.760
<v Speaker 1>Like if you are clean the smell of sex, you

1:03:37.800 --> 1:03:39.080
<v Speaker 1>don't need to air it out.

1:03:39.440 --> 1:03:42.800
<v Speaker 2>I'll be like, mmm, it's still their mom. But you

1:03:42.840 --> 1:03:44.680
<v Speaker 2>know what, what's that saying that people say to the

1:03:44.760 --> 1:03:45.600
<v Speaker 2>room stink?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, people do be staying to the rooms think and

1:03:48.200 --> 1:03:49.880
<v Speaker 4>like I never want to do it to the room,

1:03:49.960 --> 1:03:52.760
<v Speaker 4>but I think the stink is like figurative, Like, no,

1:03:52.880 --> 1:03:55.120
<v Speaker 4>I think he probably do be stinking because I remember

1:03:55.160 --> 1:03:57.640
<v Speaker 4>we had you remember that conversation we had with Skeet

1:03:57.680 --> 1:04:00.200
<v Speaker 4>this time, right, and he was like that in the

1:04:00.240 --> 1:04:04.080
<v Speaker 4>day people who used to oh yeah, no, because he

1:04:04.280 --> 1:04:08.400
<v Speaker 4>was back in the day.

1:04:06.080 --> 1:04:10.200
<v Speaker 3>He should have get on your ass.

1:04:11.000 --> 1:04:14.520
<v Speaker 2>He was back in the day with the pilgrims. He

1:04:14.800 --> 1:04:15.960
<v Speaker 2>was fucking pilgrims.

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<v Speaker 4>No for real though, Like I feel like feminine hygiene

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<v Speaker 4>has come along.

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<v Speaker 2>Way's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 4>So he shouldn't staink ever no more unless something is wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>If he's stink, go to the doctor.

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<v Speaker 4>Called nine one one one, no one, please call nine

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<v Speaker 4>one one because something ain't right. It's a little bacterial

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<v Speaker 4>badgers going on.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe some other things yea, but yeah it's not It

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<v Speaker 2>shouldn't stink. But I don't mind the smell of six

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<v Speaker 2>because you don't stay stop doing that. That's how I

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<v Speaker 2>be doing. You gotta put that dick all up.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, So yeah, brush your teas, brush your teeth. Are

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<v Speaker 4>you are used mouthwash before kissing it?

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<v Speaker 2>Now, it's not about after.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'm sorry, You're gonna eat this coochie and kiss

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<v Speaker 1>me all up in my mouth.

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<v Speaker 2>No mouthwash needed, correct I like that. Yeah, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>like like I would literally like it's it.

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<v Speaker 1>I could be riding the pin I'm gonna hop off

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<v Speaker 1>and put it in my mouth.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I feel like that's normal stuff when you having

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<v Speaker 2>said yeah, but yeah, I mean mouthwash, I'm not doing No,

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<v Speaker 2>we're finna getting real before kissing again, Like I feel like,

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<v Speaker 2>yeah when you done.

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<v Speaker 4>But you know, they say you're not supposed to brush

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<v Speaker 4>your teeth until the next day after. Yeah, but I

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<v Speaker 4>don't fucking believe in this shit. But I remember I

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<v Speaker 4>read this shit in the six Egg Book when I

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<v Speaker 4>was in high school. Wow, because if you brush your teeth,

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<v Speaker 4>you could create little stores, little sores in your mouth,

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<v Speaker 4>little scratches in your mouth. And if the person got

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<v Speaker 4>an s TV, he can get in the sword any booms.

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<v Speaker 2>Now you gotch media all up in your mouth. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't see that video on Twitter. I was going viral

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<v Speaker 2>this guy. He was he so fun. It's not fun,

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<v Speaker 2>but he was wrapping in the girl. It was a

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<v Speaker 2>girl and a guy behind him.

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<v Speaker 1>Fucking in the U haul and everybody was like they

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<v Speaker 1>fucking but they using the conna.

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<v Speaker 2>But she was giving him head with no condom. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but it was like, what's the point.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because I mean, I feel like I'm not fucking

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<v Speaker 4>on nigga. Who I feel like I can't brush my

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<v Speaker 4>teeth right right before, right before you, because I'm like

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<v Speaker 4>get a little sores or clothes. Like that's wildest fuck

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<v Speaker 4>when you really think about it, Like that's literal insanity.

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<v Speaker 2>That is kind of crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>It's insanity, Like I'm not gonna bush my teeth before

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<v Speaker 4>I go fuck this nigga because I don't know if

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<v Speaker 4>he got Chalamedia's like, what, you shouldn't be sucking him

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<v Speaker 4>if that is crazy when you put it that way.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, let us know.

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<v Speaker 1>What are some aftercare things that y'all do after sex?

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm sorry, I feel like we're on an emotional level.

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<v Speaker 1>I do like to cuddle after six too.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like I want to lay on your chest and

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<v Speaker 2>I like to see the soft meat out play with

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<v Speaker 2>them little hair, yes on the cheese night. Oh, I'll

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<v Speaker 2>be like that's gross, talk about a little thing. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>mean anybody as well. Don't discriminade any business is welcome.

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<v Speaker 2>You believable. Did you do limits me?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

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<v Speaker 2>No, just taking neighborhood on me for sure. And now

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<v Speaker 2>it's time to get into the bow bow bow. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So bapa the week, So I'm gonna switch it up.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all know I usually do indie artists and I'm always

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<v Speaker 1>shouting them out, but I do want to do a

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<v Speaker 1>mainstream artist this week. So y'all know I am on

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<v Speaker 1>the Tate McCrae train. I love when the girlies are

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<v Speaker 1>in their lane, in the pop lane. We haven't had

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<v Speaker 1>a pop superstar in a long time, and I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like the girls are doing a good job. Sabrina A

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<v Speaker 1>Carpenter is amazing, and Tate McCray is so good.

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<v Speaker 2>She is got it.

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<v Speaker 1>She's not trying to be nothing else. She is a

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<v Speaker 1>pop star. So she dropped her album she has a

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<v Speaker 1>song called Blood on My Hands feature.

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<v Speaker 2>And Flow Millie and I don't know Tate. McCray just

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<v Speaker 2>has a little swag about her.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't give, try hard, it doesn't give like she's

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<v Speaker 1>just doing too much.

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<v Speaker 2>She is just a cutie girl.

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<v Speaker 1>She can dance her ass off, and that's what the

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<v Speaker 1>pop girls are missing, y'all not dancing no more.

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<v Speaker 2>We need a hot boom, a high a count, break

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<v Speaker 2>it down. Okay, that's what the world. The world is

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<v Speaker 2>missing the boom Cats. Shout out to Lari and Gibson.

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<v Speaker 2>Shout out to our girl.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, take McCray. I think it's an amazing album.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the rollout was good. I think that she

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<v Speaker 1>understands herself as an artist. It was kind of shaky

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<v Speaker 1>for a little bit for me at first, but I

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<v Speaker 1>think her team they're figuring out.

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<v Speaker 2>And they're getting it together. So I'm rooting for the girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you know what I'm saying. Shout out to Take

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<v Speaker 1>McCray and Flow Milly. Now that's a good placement. Flow Millie,

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<v Speaker 1>keep doing your thing now.

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<v Speaker 2>I know this word period.

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<v Speaker 4>So I don't have a new bop this week, but

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<v Speaker 4>you feel like it's my duty to please as an elder.

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<v Speaker 2>We are elders.

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<v Speaker 4>It is my duty as an elder to put y'all

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<v Speaker 4>on the old school music because y'all don't be knowing

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<v Speaker 4>about it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I just being in a little era of listening to

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<v Speaker 4>the Eyes Brothers a lot. I don't know if it

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<v Speaker 4>was because he had popped up on my timeline talking

1:12:03.680 --> 1:12:07.920
<v Speaker 4>about what he listened to during six. Ronald Eisley shot

1:12:07.960 --> 1:12:09.960
<v Speaker 4>out to him, but I was like, you know, i'd

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<v Speaker 4>be actually.

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<v Speaker 2>Listening to you during six. Okay, So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I just been listening to to so many songs.

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<v Speaker 4>I got a nice little play least between the sheets

1:12:19.880 --> 1:12:23.040
<v Speaker 4>for the love of You, Groove with You, sho was

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<v Speaker 4>the lover.

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<v Speaker 2>I can keep going and go voyage to Atlantis. That's

1:12:27.240 --> 1:12:34.840
<v Speaker 2>me a song. Oh yeah, that's a good one. Oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So I've just been in like my old school bag.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, feeling it, feeling the love.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the longevity of the Isley Brothers hasn't talked

1:12:42.520 --> 1:12:45.320
<v Speaker 1>about enough too. These men have been making music since

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<v Speaker 1>what the sixties?

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<v Speaker 2>They was making music since my mama was three.

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<v Speaker 3>Who who died?

1:12:53.960 --> 1:13:01.000
<v Speaker 2>Holt? It ain't that many left hold on, y'all, sh just.

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<v Speaker 1>What's his name? Chris Jasper All? We rest in peace

1:13:09.200 --> 1:13:14.560
<v Speaker 1>to him. That's really sad. The keyboard player, so and

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<v Speaker 1>I would say this, we don't give them their flowers

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<v Speaker 1>up because, like I said, they've been making music since

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<v Speaker 1>what the fifties.

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<v Speaker 2>The sixties and no, I'm serious. I was not playing

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<v Speaker 2>when I said my mama was three. Yeah, yeah, so

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<v Speaker 2>I think that to be relevant for this long, like

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<v Speaker 2>you still making jams still. I have something devastating because

1:13:35.400 --> 1:13:39.240
<v Speaker 2>he had a song like with Beyonce, right yeah, a

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<v Speaker 2>year or two ago, and that song was good.

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<v Speaker 1>I have some devastating news I found out the other

1:13:44.080 --> 1:13:45.479
<v Speaker 1>day that I had no idea.

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<v Speaker 2>I just don't really feel like is that.

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<v Speaker 1>And I want to apologize to everybody out there because

1:13:52.840 --> 1:13:55.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie to you. I'm not gonna stop listening.

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<v Speaker 2>To this song.

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<v Speaker 1>So everybody knows my favorite song and the whole wide

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<v Speaker 1>world is Life by Casey and Jojo.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I did not know that R Kelly wrote that song.

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<v Speaker 2>I just found this out.

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<v Speaker 1>I just found this out like forty eight hours ago,

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<v Speaker 1>just like I'm listening to Silence in a minute, people

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<v Speaker 1>getting canceled I mean, I was actually mad when the

1:14:25.760 --> 1:14:27.759
<v Speaker 1>person told me, because they know how I am about

1:14:27.760 --> 1:14:29.439
<v Speaker 1>stuff like that, and I don't take it as a

1:14:29.520 --> 1:14:30.800
<v Speaker 1>joke and I don't take it lightly.

1:14:31.720 --> 1:14:33.400
<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, there's some things you can just keep

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<v Speaker 2>to yourself. You didn't have to tell me that. It's

1:14:36.880 --> 1:14:39.600
<v Speaker 2>good that you know now though it's not going to

1:14:39.720 --> 1:14:42.960
<v Speaker 2>change a thing. It's not gonna change a thing.

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<v Speaker 4>But I feel like now you can expand your catalog again.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, technically you're still supporting him.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, y'all just gonna have to cancel me behind that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, it's not happening.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what's really crazy though, that out of his

1:14:58.280 --> 1:14:59.840
<v Speaker 4>whole catalog, that.

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<v Speaker 2>The one y'all want to give us, that's.

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<v Speaker 1>The one I'm giving it up. You're gonna have to

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<v Speaker 1>pry it out of my cold dead hand.

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<v Speaker 2>That's crazy. I'm not doing it, Okay. Sorry, he is

1:15:12.680 --> 1:15:17.160
<v Speaker 2>about to slip away from you. Do you know you

1:15:17.200 --> 1:15:20.719
<v Speaker 2>got thirty min? Do you know you got girl?

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<v Speaker 1>Anyways, we get into our favorite segment of the show.

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<v Speaker 2>When is he gonna come? I don't know. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know if it was a birth of sneeze or thought gripping.

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<v Speaker 2>Gripping it for why say, Oh my goodness, that was

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<v Speaker 2>so nasty, but it definitely grit. Oh. Okay, I got

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<v Speaker 2>a question number one today. All Right.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thirty one and I got engaged last year in

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<v Speaker 1>Aruba after being with my man for five years. When

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<v Speaker 1>I got back to the States, I was beyond excited

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<v Speaker 1>to ask my closest friends to be my bridesmaids. But

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<v Speaker 1>when I asked my best friend, the one I really

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<v Speaker 1>wanted by my side, she told me no. I was

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<v Speaker 1>completely thrown off by her response, so I brought it

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<v Speaker 1>up later to get some clarity. She still said no,

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<v Speaker 1>explain that she felt left out of my private proposal.

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<v Speaker 2>I eventually accepted her decision, but it made me feel

1:16:41.200 --> 1:16:44.160
<v Speaker 2>some type of way about our friendship. Her reasoning just

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<v Speaker 2>didn't make sense to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Fast forward, and now she's coming back saying she does

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<v Speaker 1>want to be my bridesmaid after all.

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<v Speaker 2>At this point, I'm super conflicted.

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<v Speaker 1>My gut is telling me to say no because honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>it's giving weird vibes.

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<v Speaker 2>So, ladies, how would you handle this? Would you let

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<v Speaker 2>her back in? Or is it too late?

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe you had a chance and he came and you

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<v Speaker 4>motherfucking went. If I asked you to be at my

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<v Speaker 4>wedding and you tell me no, any you think you

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<v Speaker 4>can come back and change your mind, absolutely not, especially

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<v Speaker 4>if you're reasoning for saying no. Did not make any

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<v Speaker 4>sense to me because my proposal it's not about you,

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<v Speaker 4>It's about my wedding. It's my wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>It's my wedding, and I'm asking you to be a

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<v Speaker 2>part of mine. You know what this is giving?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you remember on Girlfriends when Joan was being so

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<v Speaker 1>mean because she was getting married and.

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<v Speaker 2>Then gets what Tony did? She so has bitch, Well,

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<v Speaker 2>you ain't gotta come come, So I think that you

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<v Speaker 2>should let her stand on it. But no, but then

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<v Speaker 2>Tony didn't stand on it, though she did it.

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<v Speaker 4>But I just think she let her be in the

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<v Speaker 4>wedding with their ugly ash dress song, because remember, she

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<v Speaker 4>could have but.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just like people be doing too much.

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<v Speaker 1>If you try to make your best friends wedding about

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<v Speaker 1>you starting from the proposal, it's not gonna get better.

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<v Speaker 2>She's gonna be around and being a Debbie downer.

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<v Speaker 1>If my friend got proposed to, even if I was

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<v Speaker 1>there or not, it could have been a public proposal.

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<v Speaker 1>If something happened where I wasn't there, I'm still not

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<v Speaker 1>finna be upset. I'd been like, dag, why you ain't

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<v Speaker 1>make sure I was there talking to the man. But

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<v Speaker 1>other than that, this is not about me. My friend

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<v Speaker 1>is finna get married ya. So I don't think you

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<v Speaker 1>should allow her in the moody because she's already.

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<v Speaker 2>Showing you how she feels. This is not about you.

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<v Speaker 2>So no, okay, stan on a period? All right? Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>Question number two, Hey ladies, beefan, y'all are Hilarry's I

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<v Speaker 4>had a best for instance twenty seventeen, more like a sister.

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<v Speaker 4>Last year I noticed she was m I A for everything,

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<v Speaker 4>my birthday, my engagement, all of it. We talked, she apologized,

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<v Speaker 4>and I thought we were good. Then I broke up

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<v Speaker 4>with my girl. But double back for some kouchie tickling. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>my best found out. She said she didn't support it

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<v Speaker 4>and wouldn't be around. I told her I respect her feelings,

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<v Speaker 4>but expect them, but expect respects in return.

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<v Speaker 2>She left me on red.

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<v Speaker 4>A month later, she says she washed her hands with

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<v Speaker 4>me and confirmed we're no longer friends, no explanation, eight

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<v Speaker 4>years gone.

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<v Speaker 2>Am I tripping? What would y'all do? Bitch? Let the

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<v Speaker 2>door hit you with a good lord's leech you. Once

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<v Speaker 2>you walk goodbye, don't come back.

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<v Speaker 4>No good fucking bye. Like, I just feel like y'all

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<v Speaker 4>gotta be okay with people. If somebody is okay with

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<v Speaker 4>walking out of your life, you gotta be okay with

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<v Speaker 4>letting them walk.

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<v Speaker 2>Yug.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe you tripping on it a little bit because y'all

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<v Speaker 4>being friends for so long, which is understandable. That's a

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<v Speaker 4>human response to have when somebody hurt your feelings. But

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<v Speaker 4>I would be cool with letting that beach go because

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<v Speaker 4>you just walked out of my life, no explanation, And

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<v Speaker 4>you're gonna tell me that you've washed your hands with me,

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<v Speaker 4>bit y'all washed my hands first.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I think if somebody doesn't want to be in your life,

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<v Speaker 1>just let them. I believe in the let them theory.

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<v Speaker 1>No matter what is going on, let people do it.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't cry, nag, complain, pray nobody in your life.

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<v Speaker 2>If they want to be there, they will be there.

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<v Speaker 2>Let them. Let people do what they want to do. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>like the fuck goodbye? Let that he go?

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<v Speaker 1>All right?

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<v Speaker 2>All right? So, uh make sure y'all tune in Poor

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<v Speaker 2>Minds every Friday, love lexp every Monday ten am. Uh

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<v Speaker 2>Dre and the Call with three E's on YouTube every Sunday.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, let's see y'all say, Oh soomix dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you get your calendars y'all period. You know what

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<v Speaker 2>I'm saying. And uh, we'll see y'all next week.

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<v Speaker 1>Bye, y'all, y'all, make sure y'all share the content, like subscribe,

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<v Speaker 1>follow all that good stuff. And let me say this

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<v Speaker 1>before we close off, y'all. There is one Twitter account

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<v Speaker 1>that is connected to pour Minds. It's p O. You

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<v Speaker 1>are underscore in my nds. Y'all are tagging the wrong

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<v Speaker 1>pour Minds page. If you see at poor Minds with

1:20:54.000 --> 1:20:55.800
<v Speaker 1>no underscore, that is at fake page, do.

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<v Speaker 2>Not follow that page.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, they block me Andrea and the poor Minds page

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<v Speaker 1>on both, so we only have one Instagram, one Twitter, one.

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<v Speaker 2>TikTok it is p o. You are underscore in my nds,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, and we gotta hell a fake Facebook page.

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<v Speaker 2>The Facebook pages it's our face.

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<v Speaker 4>The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the

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<v Speaker 4>least amount of follow So if you're.

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<v Speaker 1>On face, the one that's ours got the least amount

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<v Speaker 1>of file.

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<v Speaker 2>But one that's not us got like two hundred and fifty.

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<v Speaker 1>Make if you actually look at the content, because the

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<v Speaker 1>caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English?

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<v Speaker 2>Because their captains are like bumba claude, should men? Should

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<v Speaker 2>men pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Check answer below block block pull pull pull.

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<v Speaker 2>Like that's literally what the captions. I'm like you, what

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<v Speaker 2>that DG is bumba claude, Bamba claud.

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<v Speaker 6>I ain't ever had nobody show me all the things

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<v Speaker 6>that you just show me in the special way you

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<v Speaker 6>feel when you hope me. We don't always be together, baby,

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<v Speaker 6>that's what you told me. You're not believe it because

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<v Speaker 6>I ain't never had nobody that you like you.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't been with different kind of girl, like I

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<v Speaker 4>don't seen them all, but ain't none of them mad

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<v Speaker 4>all like you, and I haven't seen the best of

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<v Speaker 4>the best, baby still lying in press because.

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<v Speaker 2>I ain't none of them med all. You know how

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<v Speaker 2>I feel when I with a girl that she gotta

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<v Speaker 2>be just thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe that's the way I feel, And I got no

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<v Speaker 4>choice but for me to keep it real, because when

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<v Speaker 4>we first got together, started hanging out, you were skeptical

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<v Speaker 4>at first, had to figure out if I was the

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<v Speaker 4>kind of guy that trying to dog you out.

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<v Speaker 2>But I ain't that trying to guy. You try to

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<v Speaker 2>make me out.

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<v Speaker 4>You found out when you turned to my baby. I

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<v Speaker 4>showed them other brothers how to treat a lady. I'll

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<v Speaker 4>let you drive when I ride that Mercedes, and I

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<v Speaker 4>ain't tripping or acting shady because baby, you know.

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<v Speaker 6>I ain't never had nobody show me the other things

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<v Speaker 6>that you just show me in this special way I

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<v Speaker 6>feel when you hold me. We gonna always be together,

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<v Speaker 6>a baby, That's what you told me. Get I believe

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<v Speaker 6>it because I am I had.

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody do me like you.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, oh, your alma raw.

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<v Speaker 2>To me. I can't wait to see you. I want

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<v Speaker 2>to be with you again. And every time you are

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<v Speaker 2>out on the road and whenever I'm doing a show.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't you forget I'm your main cheek who got that game?

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<v Speaker 2>Chick one in the same chick one.

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<v Speaker 6>You can't hang me. I ain't never had nobody show

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<v Speaker 6>me all the things that you just show me in

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<v Speaker 6>a special way. I feel you gonna, we gonna always

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<v Speaker 6>be together.

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<v Speaker 2>What you told me your number, because I ain't nobody

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<v Speaker 2>give me like you nothing when sam more, I'll give

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<v Speaker 2>you this, give you that what you need. You know

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<v Speaker 2>I got it.

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<v Speaker 4>Holler at me if you need in a fiction, because

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<v Speaker 4>I'll be your protection. Kind of hard job, but I

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<v Speaker 4>do it to perfection. And you can tell that I

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<v Speaker 4>ain't trying to let you go you with you when

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<v Speaker 4>I can, So that's how I let you know, because

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<v Speaker 4>sometimes I gotta go with you. The first one I

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<v Speaker 4>holler to right after my show, and I was tripping

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<v Speaker 4>in a sense. I was tensed from my body.

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<v Speaker 2>Loose around you. What I'm gonna do without you?

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<v Speaker 4>I gotta get it together to say whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>But since I met you, my life seems so better.

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<v Speaker 6>I ain't never had nobody show me all the things

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<v Speaker 6>that you just show me in this special way.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel when you hope we gonna always see together.

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<v Speaker 3>I ain't.

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<v Speaker 2>Lod he lie bye, y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>It is there, It is there, It is there.

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<v Speaker 6>It is