Speaker 1: I definitely pay attention to because, like I feel like,
Speaker 1: if the if the guy I'm having sex with you
Speaker 1: need to go to the bathroom and wipe that dick off,
Speaker 1: get off warm rag and wipe that dick off.
Speaker 2: You know, I prefer you know, I like a little
Speaker 2: concierge service. Yeah, yeah, bring it to the beg.
Speaker 3: I like that.
Speaker 2: It is. Hey, sometimes I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: Like sometimes we be in the bathroom together, we take
Speaker 1: the trip together, so I'm in their pin and he's
Speaker 1: wiping off.
Speaker 2: We like that is good.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but then see, sometimes you just gotta go geteach
Speaker 4: yourself too, because niggas be taking too long.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's that's true. Take it too long and
Speaker 2: the need to start melting melting whoop, be melting.
Speaker 3: Wood, be melting.
Speaker 2: No, we want to know.
Speaker 3: We're not done.
Speaker 2: We're not finna glaze. No fun intended with the glaze.
Speaker 2: What's up, y'all? It's your girl lex p and it's
Speaker 2: your girl dry and.
Speaker 1: The cold, and you are tuned in to another episode
Speaker 1: of Poor Mine.
Speaker 2: We're a drunk mind speaks sob thowt.
Speaker 1: We ain't got no gifts today, we ain't got no guests.
Speaker 2: Today, Oh, I feel like, when was the last time
Speaker 2: we sat on this couch, just me and you.
Speaker 4: I don't know, it's been a mining. We's in hot demand.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, bostin busy.
Speaker 1: Okay, so let me say this first of all, Today,
Speaker 1: the day that we're recording. Obviously, when we all see
Speaker 1: this is gonna be past it. But today is February
Speaker 1: twenty six. Today literally makes four years since I quit
Speaker 1: my job, okay.
Speaker 2: To become a full time entrepreneur.
Speaker 1: Yes, And I just want to say, like I said,
Speaker 1: every morning I wake up and I just show gratitude
Speaker 1: to my life anyways, because I feel so blessed to
Speaker 1: be able to do this and do this with my
Speaker 1: best friend, but also.
Speaker 2: To that really touched me.
Speaker 1: But today, like I said, every time I get on
Speaker 1: Instagram or facebooking that shows you what you posted four
Speaker 1: years ago, three years ago, and I see this post,
Speaker 1: it just really warns my heart because like, I'm really
Speaker 1: out here doing it.
Speaker 2: And I thought, you a boss, Beach.
Speaker 1: I'm not being funny. I never thought I could. I
Speaker 1: always knew I was special, right like I always knew
Speaker 1: I was different, but I never knew what my life
Speaker 1: would look like not having a job. Like I said,
Speaker 1: I've been working since I was fifteen years old and
Speaker 1: growing up.
Speaker 2: You know, my mom had a good job. My sister
Speaker 2: been working since she was fifteen.
Speaker 1: Everybody in my family just you go to college and
Speaker 1: you get a job. I don't have any entrepreneurs in
Speaker 1: my family. I never knew what that looked like. So
Speaker 1: when I see people who are business owners, or when
Speaker 1: I saw people who were creating content and they were
Speaker 1: doing it full time, I'm like, what does that look
Speaker 1: like for me?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: So the fact that I've done it for this long
Speaker 1: four years is a long time to keep yourself afloat,
Speaker 1: and not only keep myself afloat amen helujah.
Speaker 2: Myself afloat, stress free.
Speaker 1: It's not that I'm like, I pay my bills and
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, okay, I pay my bills.
Speaker 2: I made it another month.
Speaker 1: I pay my bills, and I'm still able to do
Speaker 1: for the people that I need to do for and
Speaker 1: do the things I need to do. I'm able to
Speaker 1: invest in my future, invest in other businesses like love
Speaker 1: leg speed, I'm able to do things, and.
Speaker 2: I am just.
Speaker 1: I just cannot say enough, like I really like, thank
Speaker 1: you God, like, I'm so I'm so blessed, and no
Speaker 1: matter how bad.
Speaker 2: It gets, I'm just dramatic.
Speaker 1: And yes, I really, I truly am like and I'm
Speaker 1: glad that we're actually talking about this because obviously that's
Speaker 1: gonna get into the first tip, because I do want
Speaker 1: to do a catch up, but I'm just like, man,
Speaker 1: we did this, and I and I will never stop
Speaker 1: clapping for us. I will never stop tooting my own
Speaker 1: horn because a lot of y'all are have just started watching,
Speaker 1: and y'all are just now tuning in. And I know
Speaker 1: we talk about this a lot, but when I tell you,
Speaker 1: blood sweat and tears for real, and we are just
Speaker 1: now getting started because when y'all see this episode, we
Speaker 1: still got.
Speaker 2: A big announcement to make.
Speaker 1: Two big announcements, huge announcements like God is real, y'all.
Speaker 2: I'm telling you, you.
Speaker 1: Gotta put your head out what Kim say, get your work, man,
Speaker 1: y'all ain't got that hustling you. I'm telling you, I
Speaker 1: put this on everything people can look out on the inside.
Speaker 1: I'm built different, baby. I do what I does and
Speaker 1: I gets it done. Don't care what people say about me,
Speaker 1: but I get it the fuck.
Speaker 2: Done six years and not a week missed period. Poot
Speaker 2: the hard grade. I'm just k like, you know, you
Speaker 2: gotta tout.
Speaker 4: I've been tooty yo, and I'm gonna keep too do that,
Speaker 4: Cause at the end of the day, if you don't
Speaker 4: give yourself a pat on the bag and be proud
Speaker 4: of yourself.
Speaker 2: Who is gonna be proud of you? Who will?
Speaker 4: I mean, and people will be, But nobody is going
Speaker 4: to root for you more than you root for you.
Speaker 4: And I feel like one thing about us, We're gonna
Speaker 4: we just rooting for ourselves before anybody was. Because at
Speaker 4: one point we had we was getting like sixty listeners.
Speaker 5: And I said, and it has sixty y'all had.
Speaker 2: But we was happy with the sixty.
Speaker 4: But see that's what I always say. I say this
Speaker 4: all the time. God is not gonna bless you with
Speaker 4: more until you happy for what you got. And I
Speaker 4: feel like one thing about us, we was happy with
Speaker 4: them little sixty listeners, Like we definitely always wanted more,
Speaker 4: but we still just couldn't even be believe that many
Speaker 4: people was listening to us every week.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not gonna lie even with my new channel,
Speaker 1: like I probably I'm averaging like fifteen kvus per video. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I mean, obviously that's different from poor mind because
Speaker 1: we get one hundred thousand, sometimes half a million.
Speaker 2: I'm happy with that.
Speaker 1: I cannot believe fifteen thousand of y'all want to hear
Speaker 1: me talk.
Speaker 4: That's how I feel about my YouTube channel because I
Speaker 4: average about the same. I'm getting about fifteen thousands like
Speaker 4: views a week or whatever. And yeah, it's like to
Speaker 4: start something new, like fresh from the ground up and
Speaker 4: to already be getting those kind of views.
Speaker 2: That's alive. Yeah, I mean, I'm grateful for it all.
Speaker 2: I'm grateful for real to shout out skin treat I
Speaker 2: deserve it.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, but anyways, let's do a catch up. Obviously
Speaker 1: we haven't had a solo in a while, so what
Speaker 1: you went up to was going on house life treating you.
Speaker 2: Life has been great.
Speaker 4: I had a really really good Valentine's Day. Seal for
Speaker 4: music did really amazing.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, how was it? Because you had a I
Speaker 2: just want to say, this beautiful model. Oh gorgeous. It's
Speaker 2: just gorgeous. Jesus.
Speaker 4: Oh yes, it's it really well. So the Valentine's Day
Speaker 4: celd really really well. I'm excited because it's about to
Speaker 4: be spring timing. I cannot say on camera, but I'll
Speaker 4: let you know off camera. But yeah, the cel did
Speaker 4: really really good, and now I'm like gearing up for
Speaker 4: my I'm gonna do like a big like spring campaign,
Speaker 4: like promo campaign, because I have a lot of new
Speaker 4: products coming out and you know spring baby, my birthday's
Speaker 4: coming up.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do a birthday self.
Speaker 1: Can I get like something? Can I get like a collaboration? Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like I want to do a lip we can.
Speaker 4: But I feel like I've been said that to you years.
Speaker 1: Ago, Like I feel like my sigma when.
Speaker 2: You Yeah, I want to do like a Lippi. Yeah
Speaker 2: you want to do like a lip kid. Yes, I
Speaker 2: want to have like a LEXP lip kick.
Speaker 1: Okay, Like I want it to be like, you know,
Speaker 1: something cute and fabulous.
Speaker 2: I feel like we could do that.
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, to do it for your birthday, that's
Speaker 1: enough time for me, Darling.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like because then we could do like
Speaker 4: a proper rollout and really like make sure it's like
Speaker 4: real cute puts together. Yeah, get like cute packaging. It's
Speaker 4: oh yeah, let's do that. Yeah, that's gonna be fun.
Speaker 2: But yeah, so the cell did really well.
Speaker 4: Like I said, I'm gearing up for the new products
Speaker 4: that's coming out my spring campaign because it's gonna be big.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna have like models and stuff, and then just
Speaker 4: still doing It's god damn challenge. But I am thirty
Speaker 4: four days and you look amazing. You literally have a
Speaker 4: six pack now, I do. That's crazy crazy. I'll be like,
Speaker 4: god damn, thanks frying. Yeah, I do, I really do.
Speaker 4: I have a little six pack now. And I feel
Speaker 4: like my legs I was just telling time when we
Speaker 4: was in the kitchen. I feel like my legs are
Speaker 4: getting big, like bigger, Yeah, like they're getting like tone.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean you look the body always been teen. But
Speaker 1: you if it gives, like workout girl now, like your
Speaker 1: body gives that you go to the gym and see.
Speaker 4: I can't till I really start having like muscle definition, no,
Speaker 4: like in my legs and in my arms.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I'm thirty four days. I haven't missed today
Speaker 2: working out.
Speaker 4: In thirty four days, I've been doing ten thousand steps
Speaker 4: today and I haven't been drinking. So I'm just still
Speaker 4: doing my challenge. So I still have what forty one
Speaker 4: four days.
Speaker 2: You're gonna push through. You're gonna get there.
Speaker 4: Yah, I'm gonna get there, and I'm gonna be done
Speaker 4: writing time for my birthday like I'm gonna be I
Speaker 4: think April eighth is my last Ooh, we're gonna.
Speaker 2: Have so much fun for your birthday.
Speaker 4: We are because we have something so big and so
Speaker 4: huge coming up this.
Speaker 2: So I'll say this.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm not gonna say anything, but April twenty second
Speaker 1: is Drea's birthday. If you are a poor mind staying fan,
Speaker 1: whatever you are, you need to be in Atlanta April
Speaker 1: twenty second. Y.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say that because we're gonna do something really
Speaker 2: like yeah, you.
Speaker 1: Y'all are invited, and y'all are gonna be invited. So
Speaker 1: April twenty second, bags for y'all in Atlanta.
Speaker 4: So yeah, So that's really it for me, Like girl,
Speaker 4: just boring, working, working out, real prepping. I feel like
Speaker 4: when you were doing a detox and you're doing a challenge.
Speaker 2: Life is never that exciting.
Speaker 4: But that's why I was saying, I want to go
Speaker 4: somewhere like this weekend or next weekend, like I just
Speaker 4: feel like I need to get out of there, Limma,
Speaker 4: and go do something because I feel like my life's
Speaker 4: just been so rapiditive, because I don't be really wanting
Speaker 4: to go nowhere, because I don't want to be tempty
Speaker 4: to drink. So what you been up to?
Speaker 1: I'm going seventy five days hard, drunk as fuck.
Speaker 2: I'm just going honestly okay, Like I.
Speaker 1: Didn't give up liquor, but I don't drink anyways, Like
Speaker 1: I'm not a heavy drinker like I drink the days
Speaker 1: we record. I lost recently, I lost fifteen pounds, but
Speaker 1: half of that because I got really fucking sick, Like
Speaker 1: I'm still kind of getting over it. Yeah you look good,
Speaker 1: but yeah, I've lost fifteen pounds. I want to lose
Speaker 1: like ten more. Before I almost said what it was
Speaker 1: before your birthday. I want to lose like ten more pounds.
Speaker 1: But honestly, like I said, you know, I've still been
Speaker 1: on my church journey, my therapy journey. I'm still doing
Speaker 1: very very well. I'm getting better mentally, Like I said,
Speaker 1: I be catching myself kind of slipping down that slow,
Speaker 1: but I can catch myself better now and quicker.
Speaker 2: Now.
Speaker 1: I'm just doing I've been doing a lot of work internally,
Speaker 1: And one thing that I'm working on this year too
Speaker 1: is I'm really trying to pour into my community, like
Speaker 1: especially black women, black creators, anybody. Like I'm trying to
Speaker 1: make sure whatever knowledge I have to give to them,
Speaker 1: that I'm helping people build their platform. I'm not even
Speaker 1: being like, oh, break me off and give me a percentage. No, Like,
Speaker 1: I really want to see more Black women doing this.
Speaker 1: I want to see more Black women on tour. I
Speaker 1: want to see more Black women just creating content. I
Speaker 1: want to see us in these spaces. So that's something
Speaker 1: that I've been doing to like really pouring into people
Speaker 1: that are close to me, people that me and me
Speaker 1: ask me for advice, and like sharing my platform and
Speaker 1: doing what I'm supposed to do.
Speaker 2: So that's something I really really want.
Speaker 1: To do this year, is like uplifting us as black
Speaker 1: female creators, Like I really, y'all is.
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Speaker 1: I want to shout out to Kevi on stage real
Speaker 1: quick because y'all do this every three months. To my dog,
Speaker 1: y'all think Kevin is funny.
Speaker 2: Yet he's funny, and not only is he funny, he
Speaker 2: puts people in position to win during the pandemic. This
Speaker 2: man had a whole comedy series where he.
Speaker 1: Was putting comedians on y'all literally sit on Twitter. And
Speaker 1: this is no offense because I be on Twitter a lot,
Speaker 1: but y'all sit on Twitter, and y'all sweet all day.
Speaker 1: You think you so funny, and y'all be networking with
Speaker 1: the wrong people instead of bashing is man.
Speaker 2: He can get you a job. I just don't see the.
Speaker 1: Benefit of bashing people for who are doing good for
Speaker 1: and putting.
Speaker 2: People in position.
Speaker 1: And somebody said to me, Tyler Perry puts people in position,
Speaker 1: but he's not above criticism. Asking if Kevi on stage
Speaker 1: is funny is not criticism. That's not a critique.
Speaker 4: And taller Perry may not be above criticism, but he
Speaker 4: also not on Twitter. He not responding to y'all needs,
Speaker 4: So y'all don't know what.
Speaker 2: He will do. Y'all are doing that because y'all think
Speaker 2: it's funny. Y'all think it's cute.
Speaker 1: I just think it's so crazy that if I can
Speaker 1: look at your timeline and I can name ten things
Speaker 1: you hate, but I can't name two things you like,
Speaker 1: you might need to take some.
Speaker 2: Those negative Nancy. Yes, and this is coming from the
Speaker 2: number one hater in the whichever you know. You know
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So I just feel like that I see the things
Speaker 1: that Kevin number one.
Speaker 2: I am a hater. I love to hate down I do.
Speaker 2: I don't know if I will call you a hater
Speaker 2: per se. I don't give a fuck what people call me.
Speaker 2: Bleep that up, but.
Speaker 4: I think it's been five minutes, okay, but I do.
Speaker 4: I will say, like I said, seeing people like Kevi
Speaker 4: on stage share his platform and give people, you know,
Speaker 4: a space to be introduced to other people that are
Speaker 4: funny and in that space and do what they do,
Speaker 4: it's like it's amazing, and I'm like, okay, you know.
Speaker 2: What, I want to do the same thing.
Speaker 1: I can't do it on his level yet, but you know, eventually,
Speaker 1: I do want to have my own I've always said this.
Speaker 1: I want to have my own production company and I
Speaker 1: want to be able to produce other things. But I
Speaker 1: feel like I can start right here with my platform
Speaker 1: and making sure I just do what I can to share,
Speaker 1: share the knowledge and share the well.
Speaker 2: So shout out to keV on stage. Shout out to keV. Yes, yeah,
Speaker 2: and you're trying to prak the my spine.
Speaker 4: Hey, I don't know what the hell you saying, but
Speaker 4: you do love, That's what I said. Okay, So somebody
Speaker 4: had told me because now I'm watching shows in Spanish,
Speaker 4: Like I watch all my shows in Spanish and I
Speaker 4: use the English subtitles.
Speaker 2: You're logged in on my shit, No I'm not. It's
Speaker 2: one nother. I'm no, it's not.
Speaker 5: It's not Netflix, it's something you have my own Amazon.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I'm not saying Hulu.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is it might have been an accident
Speaker 1: or something because I promised to God I logged in
Speaker 1: on one of my it was a Hulu or one
Speaker 1: of them things, and I said, who the fuck got
Speaker 1: the caption in Spanish?
Speaker 4: That wasn't me our promise, because I got all of
Speaker 4: those that you just named I have.
Speaker 1: I'm not I can't remember what it was. I'm not
Speaker 1: saying that you did it on.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So I've been watching all my shows and I've been
Speaker 4: like put in the English, but I'm watching them in Spanish,
Speaker 4: so that's how I know that wasn't me. No, I'm
Speaker 4: saying I watched them in Spanish and sub title not
Speaker 4: Spanish subtitles.
Speaker 2: But no.
Speaker 4: So somebody had left the comment on Twitter the other
Speaker 4: day and they was like, oh, you need to do
Speaker 4: the poor Mindes intro in Spanish.
Speaker 2: I'm working on it. I got y'all in the money,
Speaker 2: give me a money they need to do like that.
Speaker 2: So Y'all'm on like weak. I forgot to say that.
Speaker 2: I'm on week three.
Speaker 1: Good job Spanish class. Now you know, I'm deep, deep,
Speaker 1: deep in like TikTok world. You need to look up
Speaker 1: as Travigno, who is a mess, and I want you
Speaker 1: to speak Spanish before her.
Speaker 2: It's the TikTokers. They don't know who I'm talking. What
Speaker 2: did she do? She just she's a Hispanic lady.
Speaker 1: But she's just always in drama and tea and she's
Speaker 1: a real dirty, dirty and mephor really and she be
Speaker 1: acting like she can speak Spanish and it'd be so fun.
Speaker 2: She can't. She can't, and that's why I want you to.
Speaker 2: How do you act like you can speak like y'all?
Speaker 1: I promise. I'm not making this stuff. The people don't
Speaker 1: know if y'all know what I'm talking about, they don't know.
Speaker 1: It's I'm so deep in tickto that right though. That's
Speaker 1: like making fun of a no, but she's Hispanic though,
Speaker 1: she's like a you know how Jlo can't speak Spanish
Speaker 1: for real, that's what she was doing.
Speaker 2: Okay, but Jaylo love you down. Stick to the rom coms.
Speaker 2: That is so fucking fuddy because talking about it.
Speaker 1: I will play with Jlo all day, but when it
Speaker 1: comes to them rom coms eats down.
Speaker 2: She do eat them eats every time.
Speaker 1: Stop playing with her. But yeah, that's all I really
Speaker 1: been up to, So shut out. Shout out to everybody.
Speaker 1: Every We're keeping it going time, what you been up to?
Speaker 2: Everything? Y'all got our calendars.
Speaker 4: The sales are going crazy, so thank y'all for the support.
Speaker 4: He's booked the busy, got different activations with Crown. I'm
Speaker 4: just really just blessed.
Speaker 2: Yes, you know I love this.
Speaker 1: I love that for you because, like I said, I
Speaker 1: just want to create something that everybody can come here
Speaker 1: and grow. Whether this is your last stop and you
Speaker 1: growing with us, are you moving to do something great?
Speaker 2: We were getting were shaking it up up here.
Speaker 4: Now we gonna shake the room to pop smoke.
Speaker 2: All right, all right, all right, okay, how are we doing.
Speaker 2: We're about to get into the first topic.
Speaker 4: So for the first topic I really wanted to talk about,
Speaker 4: which I feel like this kind of flows back into
Speaker 4: what you were just talking about at the beginning of
Speaker 4: the episode, having big dreams but not having the work
Speaker 4: ethic to match, because I feel like it's a lot
Speaker 4: of people who want to, you know, I be success
Speaker 4: full in life. They have things that they want to do,
Speaker 4: They have goals. They say, oh, I want to be
Speaker 4: here in four years. Oh I want to be here
Speaker 4: in five years. But the work ethic ain't mentioning what
Speaker 4: you're saying you want. And at the end of the day,
Speaker 4: I always say, you cannot pray for something and not
Speaker 4: do the work. People be thinking, oh just because I
Speaker 4: just because I'm praying. Just because I'm praying, God gonna
Speaker 4: bless me. You still got to put that work in,
Speaker 4: And unfortunately, a lot of people just do not have
Speaker 4: the get up and go their drive, that ambition to
Speaker 4: accomplish their dreams.
Speaker 2: It's not that you.
Speaker 4: Don't have the talent sometimes you just ain't got the ambition.
Speaker 2: So how do you feel about that? Or how do
Speaker 2: y'all both to feel about that? So I'll say this,
Speaker 2: I get it. It's first of all, it's hard to
Speaker 2: find good help. If you do have the money to
Speaker 2: hire people, it's very hard. It's a trial and error
Speaker 2: hit and miss. But I say this, even if you
Speaker 2: can't afford to hire help, you gotta do it yourself.
Speaker 2: That's what I Let me tell you something.
Speaker 1: When me and Drea first started out, Dreda was like,
Speaker 1: let's hire somebody to edit. I said, boy, I got
Speaker 1: two sixty nine on my account, So I.
Speaker 2: Was like, well, I get you're finna edit me me.
Speaker 1: I used to edit the episodes. I used to set
Speaker 1: the camera up. I used to do all of it.
Speaker 1: But because I wanted it. And I hate to say this,
Speaker 1: y'all not hungry enough, and I'm not even I feel
Speaker 1: like I'm at a place where I can preach to people,
Speaker 1: but I'm also still not nowhere near where I want
Speaker 1: to be. But I'm still out here working. Now I
Speaker 1: can afford to put people in a position. Baby, I
Speaker 1: can't make no damn drink. We need a bartender. So
Speaker 1: guess what, I'm finna get somebody here to do that.
Speaker 1: I can't work these cameras. I don't even know how
Speaker 1: to turn these motherfuckers on, So I'm finna hire somebody.
Speaker 2: I can't take no pictures. You.
Speaker 1: If you want your business to expand and grow, you
Speaker 1: either gonna figure out how to do yourself, do it yourself,
Speaker 1: or you gotta make some money to hire some people
Speaker 1: in those positions. We are past the days of getting discovered.
Speaker 1: You're not finna be at a Walmart singing or doing
Speaker 1: some content and somebody just gonna discover you and be like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, let me put you in a movie.
Speaker 1: Everybody that gets discovered now is because they're putting content
Speaker 1: out every day and then it comes across a like
Speaker 1: a Kevin Hart's desk or you know, somebody important.
Speaker 2: Desk that can put you in position.
Speaker 1: So I just feel like y'all are not hustling enough.
Speaker 1: Y'all see somebody like, for example, I think his name
Speaker 1: is Lauren. He's a skater, he's a talk Oh he's
Speaker 1: so handsome, he skates.
Speaker 2: Really really well. I think he's out in Atlanta.
Speaker 1: So he did the D squared Fashion show, right and
Speaker 1: he's like skating around doing this Lauren, Right, he's skating
Speaker 1: around and I mean, he's so graceful, and this is
Speaker 1: probably the first time people are seeing him, so they're like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, if he can do what I can.
Speaker 1: But yeah, but Lauren has been and I hope that's
Speaker 1: his name. He has been creating content for years of
Speaker 1: him skating. He didn't just pop up at the D
Speaker 1: Squared Fashion show. Y'all be seeing like y'all saw us
Speaker 1: maybe for the first time and we had maybe tea
Speaker 1: pain on or whenever we had t s Madison on.
Speaker 1: You didn't realize, Oh, we been working since twenty nineteen.
Speaker 1: Y'all be seeing people for the first time and think
Speaker 1: they just popped up, And that's not nobody's story. That's
Speaker 1: not nobody's story. So I just think the laziness talent
Speaker 1: is not enough. Y'all be thinking, y'all are so fucking funny,
Speaker 1: or y'all are so fucked y'all can sing so good,
Speaker 1: you can rap so good, and you could just wake
Speaker 1: up and just sit on your ass.
Speaker 2: I don't care what nobody says. I always use like
Speaker 2: Britney Spears for an example. Britney spears. Y'all can say
Speaker 2: what y'all want about them dance moves about her voice
Speaker 2: them ENnies. I don't give a damn. I'm talking about
Speaker 2: old Britney spears. Oh oh, keep.
Speaker 3: Thinking, leave Britney aloud.
Speaker 2: I just need to want to how to lift them
Speaker 2: up for a little bit. They just be so low.
Speaker 4: I be scared of her KOUCHI gonna pop out and say, hey, yeah,
Speaker 4: like they be so low, I.
Speaker 2: Be thinking they're gonna fall down. But I would say this.
Speaker 1: As a at a young age, Brittany learned that work ethic.
Speaker 1: Beyonce has that work ethic. That's who I look at
Speaker 1: if I can't do it myself. There are things that
Speaker 1: Shae gets done that I could never even think twice
Speaker 1: about doing. I don't even know how some of the
Speaker 1: stuff that Shaye does. I'd be like, what, thanks girl exactly.
Speaker 1: But you know what I'm saying, that's what you're supposed
Speaker 1: to do. If you can't figure it out, get somebody
Speaker 1: who can figure it out.
Speaker 4: But realistically, most people are in those beginning stages of
Speaker 4: their business, so they can't get people.
Speaker 2: To you know him.
Speaker 4: But that's what I was about to say, Like most
Speaker 4: people can't hire somebody, They can't hire a team of
Speaker 4: people right now, So it's like you gotta do this
Speaker 4: shit yourself.
Speaker 2: And people just don't be wanting to do shit like
Speaker 2: we wanted everything to just come to them.
Speaker 4: They be feeling like, oh, it's just supposed to fall
Speaker 4: in my lab because I'm so amazing and I'm so special. No,
Speaker 4: it's a lot of special people out here. But even
Speaker 4: the people who you look at who you feel like, oh,
Speaker 4: they're so special, they put the.
Speaker 2: Work end the time.
Speaker 4: You know, it take work, and you take grind and
Speaker 4: hustle to get to where you're trying to get to
Speaker 4: in life. What you think, ty, I'm a winner and
Speaker 4: anything I do I worked when I worked in insurance,
Speaker 4: I was a winner. I started bartending five years ago,
Speaker 4: twenty nineteen January.
Speaker 2: When I go.
Speaker 4: Before, I don't think so. I left Corporate America and
Speaker 4: moved to Spain. But in the interim, I.
Speaker 2: Was like, Yo, this is fun. I could just do it.
Speaker 2: Help me party with my friends.
Speaker 4: Never thought that I would make a career, switch careers
Speaker 4: completely have a whole business. Like but anything that I
Speaker 4: put my mind to, I'm going to achieve. And I
Speaker 4: think that's what it takes to be a CEO, to
Speaker 4: run a business, to be able to hire employees.
Speaker 2: That first couple of years, I couldn't hire nobody.
Speaker 4: I was grinding, and I still to this day do
Speaker 4: a lot of things behind the scene.
Speaker 2: But now I can.
Speaker 4: I'm not operating out of a space of survival. I
Speaker 4: can be strategic, and now I can hire a team
Speaker 4: of people to come on so that way I can
Speaker 4: multitask do the show, do the job, do this, do that.
Speaker 4: So but again, you have to have that within you.
Speaker 4: And I'm gonna winner everything I do. Yeah, same, no matter.
Speaker 1: And that's what I like that you said that, like
Speaker 1: I'm a winner. That's the difference between a winner and
Speaker 1: a loser. I'm gonna outwork you every time because if
Speaker 1: I can't do it, I'm gonna hire somebody who can.
Speaker 1: And it don't matter what it looks like to the
Speaker 1: public is getting done.
Speaker 2: No, it's just if I can't do it, I'm gonna
Speaker 2: find a way. I'm gonna find a way. That's what
Speaker 2: I'm gonna find a way. So whether the.
Speaker 1: Way is me doing it myself or hiring somebody is
Speaker 1: getting done. You're not finna outwork me, you're not feel really,
Speaker 1: we have released Poor Mind's episodes for six years without
Speaker 1: missing a beat.
Speaker 2: That's crazy.
Speaker 4: Who always Yeah, people always say that, and I guess
Speaker 4: when you really see it and think about it, and
Speaker 4: it is a little crazy.
Speaker 2: That's a lot of.
Speaker 4: Episodes, even with US City two weeks, six years, but
Speaker 4: even with US now US launching.
Speaker 2: We both have been talking about.
Speaker 1: Our personal YouTube channels for a long time, but we
Speaker 1: released it when we knew. It's gotta be consistent. It's
Speaker 1: got I can I'm never gonna miss a Monday. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm never gonna miss a Monday.
Speaker 2: Yeah I can't.
Speaker 4: I mean I feel like with anything that you want
Speaker 4: to be successful at, I always say, consistency is key.
Speaker 4: And I feel like that's like the most mundane advice
Speaker 4: that you could give people, cliche advice, you know, it's
Speaker 4: to just tell people be consistent, but it's so fucking true.
Speaker 4: You have to be consistent at whatever you want to
Speaker 4: excel at.
Speaker 2: It's no other way around you.
Speaker 4: Like, I mean, of course you have to be actually
Speaker 4: good at it, yeah, but being consistent.
Speaker 2: A lot of the time get you further than being good.
Speaker 1: And I feel like this, even if you spend an
Speaker 1: hour a day. I make sure I spend an hour
Speaker 1: every day doing something like now for lovelex Pe, since
Speaker 1: it's so new, I spend an hour a day on
Speaker 1: lovelex p doing something, whether it's planning out my episode
Speaker 1: for the next week, getting something together, something just one hour,
Speaker 1: it's not that long. So when I see people, they
Speaker 1: be on social media all day, But you ain't promoting
Speaker 1: nothing about your podcast, nothing about your makeup line, nothing
Speaker 1: about nothing you got going on.
Speaker 2: You just tweeting you don't want it, Yeah, you don't
Speaker 2: want it.
Speaker 4: Do you feel like it's more of a thing with
Speaker 4: like our generation in the younger generations, because I feel
Speaker 4: like all the people had work.
Speaker 2: Its Oh they ain't have no tweet They had work.
Speaker 1: They had to go to ask the work. But I
Speaker 1: think that's why we are like that, because we are
Speaker 1: a product of our parents. Like our parents instilled in us,
Speaker 1: like you gotta go and get it, that hustle mentality.
Speaker 1: A lot of people don't have that hustler's mentality. And
Speaker 1: I'm not saying you gotta necessarily clock in, because well,
Speaker 1: think about you, you gonna quit a job, But you are
Speaker 1: a hustler and you're gonna figure some shit out, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I think people just people are
Speaker 1: so comfortable too. It'd be some people who are so
Speaker 1: like to me when I was really really broken when
Speaker 1: I moved out here, and I was just never comfortable
Speaker 1: and I don't like that feeling.
Speaker 2: That's why I was like, I have to make something shake.
Speaker 2: I can't live like this. Yeah, and I'm not. I
Speaker 2: just think people who are just comfortable with where they are.
Speaker 2: And you think you're always supposed to clap for yourself,
Speaker 2: but if.
Speaker 1: You are not making a living doing the shit that
Speaker 1: you love, you're not going hard enough.
Speaker 2: I agree.
Speaker 4: I think it's so crazy and so wild how people
Speaker 4: can have nine to five jobs and work forty hours
Speaker 4: a week, but then they have their own personal endeavors
Speaker 4: that they want to work on or business that they
Speaker 4: want to become successful. But you won't even take thirty
Speaker 4: minutes out of your day every day when you get
Speaker 4: off work to work on your business that you want
Speaker 4: to lunch, but you're wanting to work every week working
Speaker 4: forty hours for somebody else, making them reacher.
Speaker 2: I just think that's crazy.
Speaker 1: And like I said, people, I'm making it from somebody
Speaker 1: who used to be at my job working on poor minds.
Speaker 2: Friend, they're not probably not trying to get fired. I
Speaker 2: don't give a damn about it. You don't mean I
Speaker 2: don't think that's good in fight. They don't need to be.
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that that's good advice.
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is I wanted it that bad though.
Speaker 1: I was ready to risk it all because I know
Speaker 1: I'm fucking good, and I know what I wanted out
Speaker 1: of life, and I know this is leading to a
Speaker 1: dead end.
Speaker 2: Poor minds was not. So I say all that to
Speaker 2: say I was able.
Speaker 1: To maneuver it around so I could work at poor
Speaker 1: to do poor minds at my job. But once it
Speaker 1: got to the point where I couldn't, I would get
Speaker 1: off work and I'm working on poor months.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was working on it. You gotta find the time.
Speaker 2: I made the time. You gotta find the time.
Speaker 4: And I think a lot of people make so many
Speaker 4: excuses like, oh I I'm tired from work. Oh I'm
Speaker 4: tired from this, and I'm tired from that. I just
Speaker 4: don't have it in need to put an extra thirty minutes.
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, you don't want to want and entrepreneurship is hard.
Speaker 4: It's not a walk in the park like you really
Speaker 4: like they say, you have to put so much of
Speaker 4: yourself into it, Like it's just so much that people
Speaker 4: don't see behind the scenes. But I also feel like
Speaker 4: people get discouraged when it's not instant gratification.
Speaker 2: So like if they're doing it for a.
Speaker 4: Few months, they feel like, Oh, that's I should have
Speaker 4: I should be here already, Versus no, you have to
Speaker 4: really get that ship out the mud. You really have
Speaker 4: to put your best effort in everything that you have
Speaker 4: into it and give it time to grow, give it
Speaker 4: some space for that fire to catch on right, and
Speaker 4: for people to really grow your following and to really
Speaker 4: fuck with you and your brand. That's really what it is.
Speaker 4: I agree people do get discouraged by their first feel year.
Speaker 4: They'd be like, oh, but then you don't see how
Speaker 4: many times people they successful. Tell just because you don't
Speaker 4: see it don't mean we wasn't feeling.
Speaker 2: Before. So mixy girl, I had like three before.
Speaker 1: Do you remember that first ad company we work with
Speaker 1: that they was like, oh, we're not working with y'all.
Speaker 2: Yes, we couldn't get our ads right. Were so sad.
Speaker 4: We were so because we were finally getting ad chicks,
Speaker 4: Like we finally we wasn't making that much, but we
Speaker 4: was finally just getting something.
Speaker 1: Right and we were like, oh my god. And then
Speaker 1: when they let us go, I just thought it was
Speaker 1: the end of the world. But I was like, you
Speaker 1: know what, that's all right, somebody else gonna come along.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it definitely did. So.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just feel like your work ethic has to
Speaker 1: match your dream. The bigger your dream is, the bigger
Speaker 1: your work ethic gotta be. It's no in between. And
Speaker 1: like I said, I really don't have sympathy for that
Speaker 1: because I will say, coming from somebody.
Speaker 2: Who did it, I did it if I can.
Speaker 1: Do it, Like you know how you always see those
Speaker 1: people that give their Oscar speeches and they can do it.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you do y'all realize, like Doci, she was
Speaker 1: like a YouTuber like five years ago, like doing.
Speaker 2: All that stuff.
Speaker 1: It can't get award, a Grammy award. That's why I know, Baby,
Speaker 1: I'm getting that daytime.
Speaker 2: Emmy. It's only a matter of time. I just gotta
Speaker 2: keep doing it.
Speaker 1: You just have to keep going and you gotta put
Speaker 1: that work in. Like so that's why I say. One
Speaker 1: thing I do believe is like it's hard when you're
Speaker 1: in certain positions. It's gonna be harder for other people.
Speaker 1: But it's just all about how bad you want it.
Speaker 2: Y'all.
Speaker 1: Gotta get y'all gotta get a little hungry. For me,
Speaker 1: my stomach be growouting.
Speaker 4: Yeah, they don't be hungry. So will we drinking today? Okay,
Speaker 4: So since we're talking about getting it out the mud
Speaker 4: and all of that, I'm gonna call this one some
Speaker 4: pressure because that's what we're putting on them. We're putting
Speaker 4: on the pressure. So this one's cute, y'all. This can
Speaker 4: be You can add it as a mytail, you can
Speaker 4: have it as a cocktail. We have some strawberry, we
Speaker 4: have some mango, we have some lemon juice in there.
Speaker 2: We also have a.
Speaker 4: Little bit of ginger beer, so it's kind of like
Speaker 4: a mule but also like a Martinis kind of giving.
Speaker 2: And then I did like a cute little garnish.
Speaker 4: I took some strawberry leaves and just kind of garnish
Speaker 4: the top of the drink with that.
Speaker 2: So I thought that was based.
Speaker 4: It is a strawberry, A little strawberry, right, is something different.
Speaker 2: It is good. I taste that gin. I love a ginger.
Speaker 2: It's probably even better with a little tequila. Yes, yea,
Speaker 2: well mine is good.
Speaker 4: I got you gonna have to make you gonna have
Speaker 4: to make this again. Once I start making drink, we
Speaker 4: can run.
Speaker 2: You're gonna take one shot and be gone. That's my hole.
Speaker 2: That is what I'm hoping for.
Speaker 4: I'm hoping that that is the way that it goes
Speaker 4: because that was my That's really my goal with like
Speaker 4: doing this challenge.
Speaker 2: I wanted it.
Speaker 4: I wanted to build back up my tolerance because I
Speaker 4: feel like my liquor tolerance was just so high, Like
Speaker 4: it would take a lot for me to get drunk,
Speaker 4: like I missed when I would get drunk off of
Speaker 4: like two shots in a little cocktail.
Speaker 2: I'll be like, my tolerance ain't low, but it's not high, y'all.
Speaker 2: Tolerance is high. That's the lot. No, I'm talking.
Speaker 1: About now, Like if I take two or three shots,
Speaker 1: I don't be drunk, but I'll.
Speaker 2: Be good like I took. Like I took two shots today,
Speaker 2: I'm like I feel a little one too, Like I'm
Speaker 2: feeling a little.
Speaker 4: I am not about to play with you because y'all.
Speaker 4: Don't be letting licks fool y'all. She be taking like Steven.
Speaker 1: Sunk I used to, But now I'll be like last week,
Speaker 1: I got a little tips of it.
Speaker 2: I took like three four shots. Last week I was.
Speaker 4: And you had like two dreams two three No, because
Speaker 4: my drinks were mocktails, because I have been for some reason,
Speaker 4: when I have a drink mixed with the sugar, I'll
Speaker 4: be getting a little sick for real.
Speaker 1: So I've been doing like the mocktails. But I'll take
Speaker 1: a shot. So yeah, two three shots. I'm feeling.
Speaker 2: Not your lips are moving, you know what I'm saying. Okay, right,
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Speaker 4: But I told you all this, well, this is hard.
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie. This is really really hard for me.
Speaker 2: Oh oh no, I don't know.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna pick Pony. I'm gonna pick Tony because it's
Speaker 4: the intro. Oh ye, I know, it's the beat from
Speaker 4: me with Pony and it's the way he sliding.
Speaker 2: I'm just a bacheler. I'm gonna have to.
Speaker 5: I was looking forward pond and I remember and then
Speaker 5: and then growing up in the nineties, like I see
Speaker 5: he was so fine with the baby hairs, and I
Speaker 5: remember yes, and I remember the.
Speaker 2: Video he was fine as telling their video on their them.
Speaker 2: That was the first time I Coochie jumped. I told
Speaker 2: that story before.
Speaker 4: But also I think the first time mine jumped was
Speaker 4: when I seen a the Angelo video, which I never
Speaker 4: really thought the Angelo.
Speaker 2: Was like fine, I just looked nice, but his body
Speaker 2: was teeth and then it went like down.
Speaker 4: And then it was the first time I ever was like,
Speaker 4: I want to see that dish. I wonder what's down here.
Speaker 4: I wonder what they look like because I hadn't never
Speaker 4: seen one yet. I wanted to see that, but I
Speaker 4: wanted to know what it looked like with the.
Speaker 1: Topic too, finding true love on dating apps? Is it
Speaker 1: possible to meet your husband, wife, friend, or life partner
Speaker 1: online today?
Speaker 4: I think it is for some people. I don't think
Speaker 4: it is for me, but I think it is for
Speaker 4: some people. I was talking to my my injector shout.
Speaker 2: Out to Helen Hayk love you girls. But yeah, I
Speaker 2: was talking to Helen.
Speaker 4: She was doing she was doing my boatox like a
Speaker 4: few weeks ago, and she was just basically telling me
Speaker 4: how she met her husband on Oh, well she met
Speaker 4: him on here. She said she met him on hinge,
Speaker 4: but then she ended up getting off of hinge for
Speaker 4: a little mini and or something happened when she couldn't
Speaker 4: be on app no more. But then she had already
Speaker 4: got his information, so they were like communicating. But yeah,
Speaker 4: she made her husband and she said he's like the
Speaker 4: best person she's ever met in her life.
Speaker 3: Oh.
Speaker 2: Their wedding pictures were so cute.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I do so like having that conversation with her.
Speaker 4: I definitely feel like it's possible. And she said that
Speaker 4: happened I think maybe two four.
Speaker 2: Or three years ago. I can't remember, but.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's possible for some people. I just
Speaker 4: think I'm at a point I think both of these.
Speaker 4: I mean, I can't really speak for you, but I
Speaker 4: can speak for myself. Like I just think I don't
Speaker 4: know who know me, So I don't know how much
Speaker 4: I would trust meeting somebody on a dating app, because
Speaker 4: how I know you don't know who I am and
Speaker 4: have like real motives for wanting to date me, Like
Speaker 4: do you genuinely want to date me for real? Or
Speaker 4: do you want to date men? I mean, yeah, because
Speaker 4: do you? Or is it because you know about poor minds?
Speaker 4: Like I don't know. So I just feel like for
Speaker 4: us it would be kind of hard, No, you don't
Speaker 4: think so on that one app?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to get on a rail, but I
Speaker 2: go bad. That's where I mean.
Speaker 1: I'm not talking about like, oh, it'd be no, it'd
Speaker 1: be like a Listers Ben Affleck was on rail, like
Speaker 1: any people like that on rail.
Speaker 2: I feel like that's the one app I would flourish on.
Speaker 4: I mean it is, but it's like I know a
Speaker 4: good amount of people that have rail and they say
Speaker 4: the same thing that they say about hinged and bumble.
Speaker 2: Isn't it another one called bumble? Yeah? Like that huh.
Speaker 4: The league, the league, It's kind of I was kind
Speaker 4: of like Raya, it's invitation only. Yeah, and like I
Speaker 4: don't know, Like, like I said, I know a few
Speaker 4: people that have rail and they be saying like you'd
Speaker 4: be the same bullshe on it to the niggas just
Speaker 4: got more money, like because I mean it's more credentials
Speaker 4: to get You need more credentials to get accepted on
Speaker 4: the app. So I mean it kind of filter people
Speaker 4: a little bit better. You just gonna have a more richer,
Speaker 4: ain't she nigga?
Speaker 2: That's what I do anyway. Yeah, so you don't need Raya.
Speaker 2: You doing well? Fuck?
Speaker 1: Okay, So I'm like this, I do you feel like
Speaker 1: with dating apps you can find a friend.
Speaker 2: A husband, a wife.
Speaker 1: I do feel like, but I do kind of agree
Speaker 1: with you. I think the kind of woman I am, I.
Speaker 2: Don't think that a man.
Speaker 1: I don't think I would even attract a man who
Speaker 1: feels like he has to use dating apps, Like if
Speaker 1: you get to the point to where you feel like
Speaker 1: you have to know. And this is no shade because
Speaker 1: I think dating apps are amazing for what they're supposed
Speaker 1: to do. But I don't think I'm ever I am
Speaker 1: old school. I want to meet you in person first.
Speaker 1: I love meeting somebody and just having a void. I
Speaker 1: like seeing a man for the first time and being like,
Speaker 1: damn and seeing the way he walked and seeing the.
Speaker 2: Way he talked. I don't.
Speaker 1: I'm just I feel like the last Like like I said,
Speaker 1: of course, you know, conversations start on like a Twitter
Speaker 1: or Instagram or things like that, but it can be like, hey,
Speaker 1: how you doing, Oh, let's link up, but there's nothing
Speaker 1: like I keep it real short and cute. Okay, we
Speaker 1: can go on a little date or something. But I
Speaker 1: gotta see you in person. I gotta feel your void.
Speaker 1: I gotta know what's in your mooy. I just need
Speaker 1: that in person. I gotta It's something about the way
Speaker 1: a nigga walk that I can tell, like, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: you got it. Like it's just something about a walk.
Speaker 1: I can see it in the walk.
Speaker 2: You gonna see the walk when you meet him for
Speaker 2: the first day. That's y'all. Get off the app.
Speaker 1: No, it's something like I said, And every time if
Speaker 1: I talk to you on a dating app, they never
Speaker 1: got that walk.
Speaker 2: I ain't never dated a nigga from the app. They
Speaker 2: never had that walk.
Speaker 1: People men who use dating apps, they don't have that walk.
Speaker 1: I just think that you walk in front of me
Speaker 1: right now. Oh you're on hand John, But you don't
Speaker 1: think that the niggas they use their walk.
Speaker 2: They might because ray a little why because they got money? Yeah,
Speaker 2: grown goodbye. No. But I feel like, uh, like I said,
Speaker 2: I'm not saying Raya is different. That's not what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But I think that's well is different cause, like I said,
Speaker 1: it's a little more exclusive. I'm not on there, but
Speaker 1: I'm saying it's a little more dus.
Speaker 2: I didn't make it. Fuck y'all.
Speaker 1: I don't need to be on there anyway, cause it'd
Speaker 1: be some people that I know that'sting.
Speaker 2: I'm like, how you getting there before me?
Speaker 1: If I told you the dude that I know that's
Speaker 1: in there, you'll be like, what the fuck? I know
Speaker 1: a lot of people, I'm telling you, Like, I wouldn't
Speaker 1: be surprised because I know a lot.
Speaker 2: Of people that have rails.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know a good amount of people, at least
Speaker 4: probably like ten people.
Speaker 1: But I guess the people that I know that's on there,
Speaker 1: like the guys they be coming across and I'm like, Okay,
Speaker 1: that's a little one, so a little.
Speaker 2: Shump something they with them.
Speaker 1: No, they ain't got no game like that. My game
Speaker 1: is my pim game.
Speaker 2: Strong.
Speaker 4: I just feel like it doesn't matter whatever you own,
Speaker 4: niggas is gonna be niggas. I don't matter the text breaking,
Speaker 4: it don't matter the race, it don't matter nothing.
Speaker 2: Men are gonna be be in.
Speaker 1: I No, I do agree with that. But like, it's
Speaker 1: just hard to date out here. It's very hard.
Speaker 2: I see why people.
Speaker 4: Go to dating apps. I, like I said, personally, for me,
Speaker 4: I just don't really think that's something that will work
Speaker 4: for me, especially at this point.
Speaker 2: Maybe like six years ago or seven years.
Speaker 4: Ago, I could have got on dating apps, but right
Speaker 4: now as it currently stands, No, But I get why
Speaker 4: people get on there, because I mean, where the hell
Speaker 4: do you meet people at, and especially in Atlanta, Like
Speaker 4: especially living in cities like Atlanta, Houston, DEALI, Chicago, all
Speaker 4: of these places, everybody know everybody, everybody know everybody. It's
Speaker 4: hard to meet niggas that don't nobody know or there
Speaker 4: somebody that you know friend or whoever ain't went on
Speaker 4: a date with them too. It's just really hard. Men
Speaker 4: that are single that are not married, they don't have
Speaker 4: multiple children.
Speaker 2: It's hard out here. I get why people get on
Speaker 2: dy not.
Speaker 4: Maybe like shit, maybe it's some niggas on here that
Speaker 4: God ain't released yet.
Speaker 2: I don't know that. We don't know about it. All
Speaker 2: these niggas been released.
Speaker 4: I did like them. He ain't got no little stock
Speaker 4: up there that he can just drop real quick.
Speaker 2: From out of know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think dating apps are for me. Like
Speaker 1: I said, I'm just old school. I want to meet
Speaker 1: my man in like whole food. We're not supposed to
Speaker 1: be shopping in targeting.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, well wherever. I want to meet him somewhere
Speaker 2: like that.
Speaker 1: I'm just old school, Like, I don't think dating apps
Speaker 1: are for me. I don't even want to meet people
Speaker 1: on like Instagram, Twitter and stuff anymore. Like sliding my
Speaker 1: dms nine times out of ten today, it's not gonna work,
Speaker 1: you know. I mean, and you know what's crazy. I
Speaker 1: don't know if I said this on the show or not.
Speaker 2: The older I get, the younger, the men getting my dms, yeah,
Speaker 2: I mean I got these young. I mean they be
Speaker 2: so young. What t T gonna do with you? You?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'd be like it'd be so many dms.
Speaker 1: I just leave on ignore and it'd be like, oh,
Speaker 1: you are so young.
Speaker 2: I know a nigga too young when he called me
Speaker 2: some fine sheep.
Speaker 4: Oh some what what you mean?
Speaker 2: That's exact exactly. That's the thing that they say we're
Speaker 2: too old and mature. But that type of my little
Speaker 2: fine sheet, I mean, gi it do. I am a
Speaker 2: boud woman. Don't call me that. Though there's some young
Speaker 2: nigga shies. It is, yes, it is, it is. I
Speaker 2: don't like that. I'm a beautiful woman, a beautiful boudet woman.
Speaker 2: I got my boot on my spring, you know what
Speaker 2: I'm And we wear spain y'all.
Speaker 1: Young girls, y'all needs to get into spanks and body
Speaker 1: shape where it smooths you out.
Speaker 2: You do it makes you look good, get it together. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 4: I definitely think it's hard out here. It's hard to
Speaker 4: find somebody, you know.
Speaker 1: But I think too like dating apps have hurt the
Speaker 1: dating world as well, because not everybody is replaceable. People
Speaker 1: be thinking, oh this don't work out, I'm just get
Speaker 1: on hens and find another one. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Not everybody is replaceable. I have to have a conversation
Speaker 1: with somebody that the other day and let him know, baby,
Speaker 1: good luck because this you ain't gonna find this. This
Speaker 1: ain't on This ain't on inge, baby, this is not
Speaker 1: on bumblebee.
Speaker 2: You shouldn't have had to tell him Nick though, No, I.
Speaker 1: Mean I didn't have to tell him that, but I
Speaker 1: like he but it was like, yeah, yeah, I know,
Speaker 1: I know, because I mean I'm not.
Speaker 2: Nobody's perfect. People be fucking up.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and niggas be forgetting God speed, because go out there,
Speaker 1: go out there.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I believe in letting niggas free. Hey,
Speaker 2: go ahead and go out there. I'm not gonna give
Speaker 2: you no warning. Yeah, you go see what's out there.
Speaker 2: Say yeah.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I feel like for people who have found
Speaker 1: true love on dating apps, I love that for them,
Speaker 1: but I don't think that's and that's something that's for me.
Speaker 1: I try the dating app for thirty minutes one time,
Speaker 1: and it was just horrifying.
Speaker 2: It was horrifying.
Speaker 4: So yeah, I've never tried one, Like, I have never
Speaker 4: had an accounts on it.
Speaker 2: I think mine was loud about it, but I never
Speaker 2: actually went.
Speaker 1: This was like twenty twenty it was before Poor Minds
Speaker 1: had popped off, So it had to have been twenty
Speaker 1: nineteen or twenty twenty, because I still I was still
Speaker 1: working at not European. What was the other regions? Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I remember me and my coworker were sitting there
Speaker 1: shout out to Shamis and she was like, girl, make
Speaker 1: you a hinge. I think it was hinge girls on
Speaker 1: that for thirty minutes. I said, no, ma'am, what was.
Speaker 2: The reason why you just got off? Because the people
Speaker 2: it was, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I never I was sitting there swiping for thirty minutes,
Speaker 1: and I was swiping left on everybody, on everybody.
Speaker 2: There was no little fine shit on there. It was
Speaker 2: no nowhere me oh there like all you niggas was unhead.
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. They are though unheard you.
Speaker 1: I can even see from your picture if you got
Speaker 1: a little one too.
Speaker 2: I'm just like, ough mm hmm. So yeah, dating apps
Speaker 2: for me, huh yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 4: It's not for me either, but I love to hear
Speaker 4: the success stories.
Speaker 2: I'll do too, I really do.
Speaker 4: What do you feel about how do you feel about
Speaker 4: ones like Christian Mingle?
Speaker 2: Do people still use It's Christian mingle. Still you know
Speaker 2: they got farm what is it? Farmers, sumpers, farmer mark Christian. Well, no,
Speaker 2: it's for farmers. Oh, farmers only. I think only farmers.
Speaker 2: It's something.
Speaker 4: Now you're talking about what the niggas with money, and
Speaker 4: that's what they Yeah, not thinking I'm gonna be having
Speaker 4: their paper.
Speaker 2: I'm finna go get that. Don't be long this same texture. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm telling you. Okay, they got one for oil and
Speaker 2: gas musics Chevron only Chevron, big tacoon. But no, that's
Speaker 2: I think Christian mingle is still a thing. Yeah, only taccoons.
Speaker 2: I like that. But I do think that Christian mingo
Speaker 2: is still a thing. But like I said, maybe Christian mingo.
Speaker 1: But sometimes people that are super religious and men that
Speaker 1: they don't be the best people are evil.
Speaker 2: You think, like religious overly religious. No, well, let me
Speaker 2: say this.
Speaker 1: I think some people probably slide in Christian mingo that
Speaker 1: may not necessarily be really true Christians who are really
Speaker 1: about the word.
Speaker 2: That's the scary thing. You never know who you're talking to.
Speaker 1: There was a man on hen who was killing women,
Speaker 1: So I feel like it's scary because you never know
Speaker 1: who you're talking to. So I'm always I'm just in person.
Speaker 4: Yeah, That's what I think for me, has always kind
Speaker 4: of been the turnoff for me when today in apps,
Speaker 4: it's like, yeah, you just.
Speaker 2: Never know who you're meeting.
Speaker 4: And granted, when you go on a first date with
Speaker 4: somebody you essentially don't know them either, but it's just
Speaker 4: something about meeting somebody online and you don't know anything
Speaker 4: about them.
Speaker 2: You probably don't know nobody didn't know that, right.
Speaker 1: I think I can't remember the last time I dated
Speaker 1: somebody who we didn't have mutual people that we knew,
Speaker 1: like nobody knows yet. Yeah, liked in the past few years,
Speaker 1: it's always been Even when I went on that first
Speaker 1: date to Paris, I knew him through a mutual friend
Speaker 1: who had been knowing you, So it wasn't like a
Speaker 1: random I knew where he worked, I knew his beg,
Speaker 1: like I knew people who had vetted for him. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like versus somebody on an app
Speaker 1: you from Taiwan, I.
Speaker 2: Don't know you. I don't know no niggas in Taiwan. Hey,
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. No Taiwani, guess.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying. So it's a bigger risk. Like on Instagram,
Speaker 1: I can see how many mutual friends we got, so
Speaker 1: I can ask the last guy I dated before my
Speaker 1: my last relationship. We had a lot of mutual friends,
Speaker 1: and I said, hey, girl, what you know about him?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 2: Girl, that's my Oh I know him, that's my home boy. Like,
Speaker 2: you know, I could I do that? No, I'm married.
Speaker 4: I mean you got to look, you just gotta be safe.
Speaker 4: It's so many crazy people in the world, and they
Speaker 4: be praying, Like I do. Feel like people be on
Speaker 4: those apps praying on people.
Speaker 1: Oh absolutely, you know absolutely, especially because you know we've
Speaker 1: said this before. They will especially prey on lonely women
Speaker 1: and lonely men too. I'm not saying that women don't
Speaker 1: be out here doing crazy stuff too, because remember.
Speaker 2: Uh, what was the name of the fucking movie Rain?
Speaker 2: What was it? Baby Rain? That lady was crazy? He
Speaker 2: was taking her down. Remember he was having sex with her?
Speaker 1: He was yes, No, he wasn't. Yes he did they
Speaker 1: had sex.
Speaker 2: No, they did it.
Speaker 3: Yes, they did.
Speaker 2: He had sex with her.
Speaker 1: Because he admitted maybe that was my mistake that I
Speaker 1: ended up because he was like, I shouldn't have did it.
Speaker 2: But he definitely fucked that lady. Yes he did. He
Speaker 2: did fuck her, Yes, he did very much. I'm not
Speaker 2: said that he did something about the curtains. Her curtains
Speaker 2: needed fixing. Her curtains. You you never seen baby reindeer.
Speaker 1: Yes, her beef curtain. It was good, It was very
Speaker 1: very good. But yeah, he definitely fucked that lady.
Speaker 2: I mean yeah, but god damn, he couldn't fuck her.
Speaker 1: And you fucking a crazy bitch when you know she's
Speaker 1: all I could get. Fucking somebody on the first day
Speaker 1: found out they're crazy, but knowing somebody crazy and I'm
Speaker 1: not victim shaming.
Speaker 4: Because she was crazy from day Thank you?
Speaker 2: She said, can I get a die of the cork?
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Speaker 2: Thanks. Now, it's hard to get into the.
Speaker 4: Bed bow bow bow. Okay, Okay, So after care one
Speaker 4: on one the things that people forget to do after six,
Speaker 4: let's talk about it, okay, because I feel like number
Speaker 4: one on the least, take your ass to the bathroom.
Speaker 2: Oh, I'll get I can't feel like these shouldn't even
Speaker 2: be conversations that we should have to have at this point.
Speaker 1: But we do have young listeners that probably don't know,
Speaker 1: so we're gonna take this time to educate.
Speaker 2: That's fair.
Speaker 4: But yeah, take your ass to the bathroom and p
Speaker 4: after you're doing getting that D A word, Yeah, go
Speaker 4: p after you get that D let it out, rain
Speaker 4: the main vein.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you have to pee after.
Speaker 1: I don't feel right not peeing after six I'll be
Speaker 1: feeling like.
Speaker 2: I be feeling like I gotta go after. That's because
Speaker 2: you had an orgasm. I be feeling like I gotta go.
Speaker 2: Tell me when to go. Okay, number two, wipe down
Speaker 2: or take a shower.
Speaker 1: Just don't roll over. Now, I do agree with that.
Speaker 1: I always like have me a little honey pot wipe
Speaker 1: or I hop in the shower, I take a full
Speaker 1: blown shower. You gotta wipe it down a white man
Speaker 1: eye because.
Speaker 4: Sleeping in that sticky iky it's crazy.
Speaker 2: Why would you sleep a little leg.
Speaker 1: If you wake up in your pussy crunchy or your
Speaker 1: stomach stuck to the beg o louk to the bed
Speaker 1: is nuts?
Speaker 2: No pun intended.
Speaker 1: Yes to the I'm not gonna lie like, yeah, I
Speaker 1: definitely pay attention to because like I feel like if
Speaker 1: the if the guy I'm having sex with you need
Speaker 1: to go to the bathroom and wipe that dick off.
Speaker 1: Get off warm rag and wipe that dick off.
Speaker 2: You know, I prefer you know, I like a little
Speaker 2: concierge service. Yeah you do. Yeah, bring it to the beg.
Speaker 2: I like that. It is. Hey, sometimes I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: Like sometimes we be in the bathroom together, we take
Speaker 1: the trip together, so I'm in their pin and he's
Speaker 1: wiping off.
Speaker 2: We like that is good. Yeah.
Speaker 4: But then see, sometimes you just gotta go get each
Speaker 4: yourself too, because niggas be taking too long.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's that's true.
Speaker 4: Taking too long, and then you start melting, melting, whood be.
Speaker 2: Melting, whood be melting. No, we want to know.
Speaker 3: We're not done.
Speaker 2: We're not finn non intended with the glaze.
Speaker 4: The glazes be melting like ripping yay. So like you know,
Speaker 4: when he first it's like ya okay. Then because of
Speaker 4: the body, he didn't be making it.
Speaker 2: Laughing because I know what I'm talking about.
Speaker 4: And then he start calling it NI be like hurry up,
Speaker 4: flying over, bring your glass that.
Speaker 2: Could be here. I'll be looking like a dirty slug
Speaker 2: me too.
Speaker 1: Do you know, like you just be laying on a
Speaker 1: bed with nuts all on your booty, just a whore.
Speaker 4: The booty ain't that bad? Here your stummy because then
Speaker 4: you following your.
Speaker 2: Well, I got it. Oh no, I haven't anyhow what
Speaker 2: you say I having.
Speaker 1: I just can swimming in you Can you imagine, like
Speaker 1: you know, when you play in the bed, will you
Speaker 1: be laying in the bed with nothing? Yes, And they'd
Speaker 1: be taking a long time. You just be sitting there
Speaker 1: looking horrible.
Speaker 4: That's what I was saying. It'd be like you then
Speaker 4: you gotta get up. But then it be melty, it be.
Speaker 2: Like why are you taking so long?
Speaker 1: That's why I say a lot of times, we gotta
Speaker 1: we gonna go to the bathroom together.
Speaker 2: You know what? That's sweet? Yeah? I love well, I
Speaker 2: love a group. Look like I put that thing.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, okay, clean six toys immediately after you?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah? Absolutely? Does it get crusty? Can't get crusty.
Speaker 2: But I feel like everybody does not cleaned it. Right now,
Speaker 2: I'm talking to me. You wake up and you'd be like,
Speaker 2: oh you gotta peel it off too far?
Speaker 4: Peeling it off eas because you could just go.
Speaker 2: I'll be kind of making sure I get in there
Speaker 2: you gotta rinse it. And then I'd be like, oh
Speaker 2: I left the little spot. I'll be that's the spray
Speaker 2: of the little phone. Yeah, yeah, you gotta get that phone. Wise,
Speaker 2: what I talked when Glemozon, you gotta boil that dick up.
Speaker 2: You do gott to boil brawil it up. So yeah,
Speaker 2: keep it sentence here.
Speaker 1: Yes, I definitely think you should clean your sex toys
Speaker 1: after every you absolutely absolutely like, please do not be
Speaker 1: rubbing it out with that old crust from the last session.
Speaker 1: But honestly, y'all don't be having crusts because that that
Speaker 1: COUCHI be dry. That's why y'all don't be cleaning it now.
Speaker 1: Don't be no juice residue. That don't be no juice residue.
Speaker 1: Straight sahara, okay, and not see all right, all right,
Speaker 1: change the sheets regularly, especially after a sneaky link.
Speaker 2: So first of all, I'll say this, after any league,
Speaker 2: you're supposed to wash your after no leans, wash your
Speaker 2: sheets once a week.
Speaker 1: If you don't have more, I feel like this. I'm
Speaker 1: not the clean police either. I wash my sheets every Sunday, Yeah,
Speaker 1: every Sunday. And then I also have two two three
Speaker 1: pairs of sheets that I can rotate. So one Sunday
Speaker 1: I may not feel like washing my sheets, So guess what.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna just change about. I agree weekly.
Speaker 1: If you're not washing your sheets weekly, it's time to
Speaker 1: get yourself together.
Speaker 2: So yes, having them bunies in the dole.
Speaker 3: Oh oh.
Speaker 2: That's would she? When? Then wash them after the sneaky
Speaker 2: lean and then.
Speaker 1: You know how somebody said, day wake up with well's
Speaker 1: bitch you got dorito chips in your bed?
Speaker 2: Yes, you need to wash your sheets every week. I
Speaker 2: ain't gonna lie.
Speaker 4: I do agree with it every week, no ease you
Speaker 4: see juices, y'all do know our skin sheds every day
Speaker 4: every day, but you should always be washing your sheets
Speaker 4: every week.
Speaker 2: Care all that stuff.
Speaker 4: Okay, Hydrate six is a workout. Absolutely, keep you a
Speaker 4: little glass of water.
Speaker 1: And I think that if you drink a lot like
Speaker 1: I always do this, like I drink a lot of
Speaker 1: water anyway. But the day you know you're about to
Speaker 1: get some that kuchi be leaky soaking with If y'all
Speaker 1: cooshie is dry, I promise you're not drinking enough water.
Speaker 1: If you drink water that kushi bee oh oh that
Speaker 1: splash waterfall.
Speaker 4: Okay, and I see, I do feel like you should
Speaker 4: be hydrating on a normal basis. In general, you should
Speaker 4: be drinking at least half of your body weight and
Speaker 4: water every day. But you know, keep you a little
Speaker 4: water out of beg because it gets a little sweaty.
Speaker 2: Yes, a little two turned up.
Speaker 1: Okay, So we talked about that air out the room.
Speaker 1: Nobody wants it's still sex smell.
Speaker 4: I just, you know, I feel I be feeling some
Speaker 4: type of way about ear in the room out because
Speaker 4: why do we thinking them?
Speaker 3: I just feel like, why.
Speaker 2: Do the room need to be aired out? What is called?
Speaker 3: Why do it smell like that? Why do we stink?
Speaker 2: I just I don't know. I don't know about that.
Speaker 2: I like the smell of sex. Yeah, me too, if
Speaker 2: it smell good. Yeah, Like I like the smell of like,
Speaker 2: but it smells good.
Speaker 1: Like if you are clean the smell of sex, you
Speaker 1: don't need to air it out.
Speaker 2: I'll be like, mmm, it's still their mom. But you
Speaker 2: know what, what's that saying that people say to the
Speaker 2: room stink?
Speaker 4: Yeah, people do be staying to the rooms think and
Speaker 4: like I never want to do it to the room,
Speaker 4: but I think the stink is like figurative, Like, no,
Speaker 4: I think he probably do be stinking because I remember
Speaker 4: we had you remember that conversation we had with Skeet
Speaker 4: this time, right, and he was like that in the
Speaker 4: day people who used to oh yeah, no, because he
Speaker 4: was back in the day.
Speaker 3: He should have get on your ass.
Speaker 2: He was back in the day with the pilgrims. He
Speaker 2: was fucking pilgrims.
Speaker 4: No for real though, Like I feel like feminine hygiene
Speaker 4: has come along.
Speaker 2: Way's what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: So he shouldn't staink ever no more unless something is wrong.
Speaker 2: If he's stink, go to the doctor.
Speaker 4: Called nine one one one, no one, please call nine
Speaker 4: one one because something ain't right. It's a little bacterial
Speaker 4: badgers going on.
Speaker 2: Maybe some other things yea, but yeah it's not It
Speaker 2: shouldn't stink. But I don't mind the smell of six
Speaker 2: because you don't stay stop doing that. That's how I
Speaker 2: be doing. You gotta put that dick all up.
Speaker 4: Hey, So yeah, brush your teas, brush your teeth. Are
Speaker 4: you are used mouthwash before kissing it?
Speaker 2: Now, it's not about after.
Speaker 1: No, I'm sorry, You're gonna eat this coochie and kiss
Speaker 1: me all up in my mouth.
Speaker 2: No mouthwash needed, correct I like that. Yeah, yeah, I
Speaker 2: like like I would literally like it's it.
Speaker 1: I could be riding the pin I'm gonna hop off
Speaker 1: and put it in my mouth.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I feel like that's normal stuff when you having
Speaker 2: said yeah, but yeah, I mean mouthwash, I'm not doing No,
Speaker 2: we're finna getting real before kissing again, Like I feel like,
Speaker 2: yeah when you done.
Speaker 4: But you know, they say you're not supposed to brush
Speaker 4: your teeth until the next day after. Yeah, but I
Speaker 4: don't fucking believe in this shit. But I remember I
Speaker 4: read this shit in the six Egg Book when I
Speaker 4: was in high school. Wow, because if you brush your teeth,
Speaker 4: you could create little stores, little sores in your mouth,
Speaker 4: little scratches in your mouth. And if the person got
Speaker 4: an s TV, he can get in the sword any booms.
Speaker 2: Now you gotch media all up in your mouth. I
Speaker 2: don't see that video on Twitter. I was going viral
Speaker 2: this guy. He was he so fun. It's not fun,
Speaker 2: but he was wrapping in the girl. It was a
Speaker 2: girl and a guy behind him.
Speaker 1: Fucking in the U haul and everybody was like they
Speaker 1: fucking but they using the conna.
Speaker 2: But she was giving him head with no condom. Yeah,
Speaker 2: but it was like, what's the point.
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I mean, I feel like I'm not fucking
Speaker 4: on nigga. Who I feel like I can't brush my
Speaker 4: teeth right right before, right before you, because I'm like
Speaker 4: get a little sores or clothes. Like that's wildest fuck
Speaker 4: when you really think about it, Like that's literal insanity.
Speaker 2: That is kind of crazy.
Speaker 4: It's insanity, Like I'm not gonna bush my teeth before
Speaker 4: I go fuck this nigga because I don't know if
Speaker 4: he got Chalamedia's like, what, you shouldn't be sucking him
Speaker 4: if that is crazy when you put it that way.
Speaker 2: So yeah, let us know.
Speaker 1: What are some aftercare things that y'all do after sex?
Speaker 1: And I'm sorry, I feel like we're on an emotional level.
Speaker 1: I do like to cuddle after six too.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I want to lay on your chest and
Speaker 2: I like to see the soft meat out play with
Speaker 2: them little hair, yes on the cheese night. Oh, I'll
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Speaker 2: So bapa the week, So I'm gonna switch it up.
Speaker 1: Y'all know I usually do indie artists and I'm always
Speaker 1: shouting them out, but I do want to do a
Speaker 1: mainstream artist this week. So y'all know I am on
Speaker 1: the Tate McCrae train. I love when the girlies are
Speaker 1: in their lane, in the pop lane. We haven't had
Speaker 1: a pop superstar in a long time, and I feel
Speaker 1: like the girls are doing a good job. Sabrina A
Speaker 1: Carpenter is amazing, and Tate McCray is so good.
Speaker 2: She is got it.
Speaker 1: She's not trying to be nothing else. She is a
Speaker 1: pop star. So she dropped her album she has a
Speaker 1: song called Blood on My Hands feature.
Speaker 2: And Flow Millie and I don't know Tate. McCray just
Speaker 2: has a little swag about her.
Speaker 1: It doesn't give, try hard, it doesn't give like she's
Speaker 1: just doing too much.
Speaker 2: She is just a cutie girl.
Speaker 1: She can dance her ass off, and that's what the
Speaker 1: pop girls are missing, y'all not dancing no more.
Speaker 2: We need a hot boom, a high a count, break
Speaker 2: it down. Okay, that's what the world. The world is
Speaker 2: missing the boom Cats. Shout out to Lari and Gibson.
Speaker 2: Shout out to our girl.
Speaker 1: So yeah, take McCray. I think it's an amazing album.
Speaker 1: I think the rollout was good. I think that she
Speaker 1: understands herself as an artist. It was kind of shaky
Speaker 1: for a little bit for me at first, but I
Speaker 1: think her team they're figuring out.
Speaker 2: And they're getting it together. So I'm rooting for the girl.
Speaker 1: Okay, you know what I'm saying. Shout out to Take
Speaker 1: McCray and Flow Milly. Now that's a good placement. Flow Millie,
Speaker 1: keep doing your thing now.
Speaker 2: I know this word period.
Speaker 4: So I don't have a new bop this week, but
Speaker 4: you feel like it's my duty to please as an elder.
Speaker 2: We are elders.
Speaker 4: It is my duty as an elder to put y'all
Speaker 4: on the old school music because y'all don't be knowing
Speaker 4: about it.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 4: I just being in a little era of listening to
Speaker 4: the Eyes Brothers a lot. I don't know if it
Speaker 4: was because he had popped up on my timeline talking
Speaker 4: about what he listened to during six. Ronald Eisley shot
Speaker 4: out to him, but I was like, you know, i'd
Speaker 4: be actually.
Speaker 2: Listening to you during six. Okay, So I don't know.
Speaker 2: I just been listening to to so many songs.
Speaker 4: I got a nice little play least between the sheets
Speaker 4: for the love of You, Groove with You, sho was
Speaker 4: the lover.
Speaker 2: I can keep going and go voyage to Atlantis. That's
Speaker 2: me a song. Oh yeah, that's a good one. Oh yeah.
Speaker 2: So I've just been in like my old school bag.
Speaker 2: I mean, feeling it, feeling the love.
Speaker 1: I think the longevity of the Isley Brothers hasn't talked
Speaker 1: about enough too. These men have been making music since
Speaker 1: what the sixties?
Speaker 2: They was making music since my mama was three.
Speaker 3: Who who died?
Speaker 2: Holt? It ain't that many left hold on, y'all, sh just.
Speaker 1: What's his name? Chris Jasper All? We rest in peace
Speaker 1: to him. That's really sad. The keyboard player, so and
Speaker 1: I would say this, we don't give them their flowers
Speaker 1: up because, like I said, they've been making music since
Speaker 1: what the fifties.
Speaker 2: The sixties and no, I'm serious. I was not playing
Speaker 2: when I said my mama was three. Yeah, yeah, so
Speaker 2: I think that to be relevant for this long, like
Speaker 2: you still making jams still. I have something devastating because
Speaker 2: he had a song like with Beyonce, right yeah, a
Speaker 2: year or two ago, and that song was good.
Speaker 1: I have some devastating news I found out the other
Speaker 1: day that I had no idea.
Speaker 2: I just don't really feel like is that.
Speaker 1: And I want to apologize to everybody out there because
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to you. I'm not gonna stop listening.
Speaker 2: To this song.
Speaker 1: So everybody knows my favorite song and the whole wide
Speaker 1: world is Life by Casey and Jojo.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I did not know that R Kelly wrote that song.
Speaker 2: I just found this out.
Speaker 1: I just found this out like forty eight hours ago,
Speaker 1: just like I'm listening to Silence in a minute, people
Speaker 1: getting canceled I mean, I was actually mad when the
Speaker 1: person told me, because they know how I am about
Speaker 1: stuff like that, and I don't take it as a
Speaker 1: joke and I don't take it lightly.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, there's some things you can just keep
Speaker 2: to yourself. You didn't have to tell me that. It's
Speaker 2: good that you know now though it's not going to
Speaker 2: change a thing. It's not gonna change a thing.
Speaker 4: But I feel like now you can expand your catalog again.
Speaker 4: I mean, technically you're still supporting him.
Speaker 1: Well, y'all just gonna have to cancel me behind that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it's not happening.
Speaker 4: You know what's really crazy though, that out of his
Speaker 4: whole catalog, that.
Speaker 2: The one y'all want to give us, that's.
Speaker 1: The one I'm giving it up. You're gonna have to
Speaker 1: pry it out of my cold dead hand.
Speaker 2: That's crazy. I'm not doing it, Okay. Sorry, he is
Speaker 2: about to slip away from you. Do you know you
Speaker 2: got thirty min? Do you know you got girl?
Speaker 1: Anyways, we get into our favorite segment of the show.
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Speaker 2: Gripping it for why say, Oh my goodness, that was
Speaker 2: so nasty, but it definitely grit. Oh. Okay, I got
Speaker 2: a question number one today. All Right.
Speaker 1: I'm thirty one and I got engaged last year in
Speaker 1: Aruba after being with my man for five years. When
Speaker 1: I got back to the States, I was beyond excited
Speaker 1: to ask my closest friends to be my bridesmaids. But
Speaker 1: when I asked my best friend, the one I really
Speaker 1: wanted by my side, she told me no. I was
Speaker 1: completely thrown off by her response, so I brought it
Speaker 1: up later to get some clarity. She still said no,
Speaker 1: explain that she felt left out of my private proposal.
Speaker 2: I eventually accepted her decision, but it made me feel
Speaker 2: some type of way about our friendship. Her reasoning just
Speaker 2: didn't make sense to me.
Speaker 1: Fast forward, and now she's coming back saying she does
Speaker 1: want to be my bridesmaid after all.
Speaker 2: At this point, I'm super conflicted.
Speaker 1: My gut is telling me to say no because honestly,
Speaker 1: it's giving weird vibes.
Speaker 2: So, ladies, how would you handle this? Would you let
Speaker 2: her back in? Or is it too late?
Speaker 4: Maybe you had a chance and he came and you
Speaker 4: motherfucking went. If I asked you to be at my
Speaker 4: wedding and you tell me no, any you think you
Speaker 4: can come back and change your mind, absolutely not, especially
Speaker 4: if you're reasoning for saying no. Did not make any
Speaker 4: sense to me because my proposal it's not about you,
Speaker 4: It's about my wedding. It's my wedding.
Speaker 2: It's my wedding, and I'm asking you to be a
Speaker 2: part of mine. You know what this is giving?
Speaker 1: Do you remember on Girlfriends when Joan was being so
Speaker 1: mean because she was getting married and.
Speaker 2: Then gets what Tony did? She so has bitch, Well,
Speaker 2: you ain't gotta come come, So I think that you
Speaker 2: should let her stand on it. But no, but then
Speaker 2: Tony didn't stand on it, though she did it.
Speaker 4: But I just think she let her be in the
Speaker 4: wedding with their ugly ash dress song, because remember, she
Speaker 4: could have but.
Speaker 2: It's just like people be doing too much.
Speaker 1: If you try to make your best friends wedding about
Speaker 1: you starting from the proposal, it's not gonna get better.
Speaker 2: She's gonna be around and being a Debbie downer.
Speaker 1: If my friend got proposed to, even if I was
Speaker 1: there or not, it could have been a public proposal.
Speaker 1: If something happened where I wasn't there, I'm still not
Speaker 1: finna be upset. I'd been like, dag, why you ain't
Speaker 1: make sure I was there talking to the man. But
Speaker 1: other than that, this is not about me. My friend
Speaker 1: is finna get married ya. So I don't think you
Speaker 1: should allow her in the moody because she's already.
Speaker 2: Showing you how she feels. This is not about you.
Speaker 2: So no, okay, stan on a period? All right? Okay?
Speaker 4: Question number two, Hey ladies, beefan, y'all are Hilarry's I
Speaker 4: had a best for instance twenty seventeen, more like a sister.
Speaker 4: Last year I noticed she was m I A for everything,
Speaker 4: my birthday, my engagement, all of it. We talked, she apologized,
Speaker 4: and I thought we were good. Then I broke up
Speaker 4: with my girl. But double back for some kouchie tickling. Okay,
Speaker 4: my best found out. She said she didn't support it
Speaker 4: and wouldn't be around. I told her I respect her feelings,
Speaker 4: but expect them, but expect respects in return.
Speaker 2: She left me on red.
Speaker 4: A month later, she says she washed her hands with
Speaker 4: me and confirmed we're no longer friends, no explanation, eight
Speaker 4: years gone.
Speaker 2: Am I tripping? What would y'all do? Bitch? Let the
Speaker 2: door hit you with a good lord's leech you. Once
Speaker 2: you walk goodbye, don't come back.
Speaker 4: No good fucking bye. Like, I just feel like y'all
Speaker 4: gotta be okay with people. If somebody is okay with
Speaker 4: walking out of your life, you gotta be okay with
Speaker 4: letting them walk.
Speaker 2: Yug.
Speaker 4: Maybe you tripping on it a little bit because y'all
Speaker 4: being friends for so long, which is understandable. That's a
Speaker 4: human response to have when somebody hurt your feelings. But
Speaker 4: I would be cool with letting that beach go because
Speaker 4: you just walked out of my life, no explanation, And
Speaker 4: you're gonna tell me that you've washed your hands with me,
Speaker 4: bit y'all washed my hands first.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I think if somebody doesn't want to be in your life,
Speaker 1: just let them. I believe in the let them theory.
Speaker 1: No matter what is going on, let people do it.
Speaker 2: You can't.
Speaker 1: You can't cry, nag, complain, pray nobody in your life.
Speaker 2: If they want to be there, they will be there.
Speaker 2: Let them. Let people do what they want to do. Yeah,
Speaker 2: like the fuck goodbye? Let that he go?
Speaker 1: All right?
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Speaker 6: I ain't ever had nobody show me all the things
Speaker 6: that you just show me in the special way you
Speaker 6: feel when you hope me. We don't always be together, baby,
Speaker 6: that's what you told me. You're not believe it because
Speaker 6: I ain't never had nobody that you like you.
Speaker 4: I don't been with different kind of girl, like I
Speaker 4: don't seen them all, but ain't none of them mad
Speaker 4: all like you, and I haven't seen the best of
Speaker 4: the best, baby still lying in press because.
Speaker 2: I ain't none of them med all. You know how
Speaker 2: I feel when I with a girl that she gotta
Speaker 2: be just thank you.
Speaker 4: Maybe that's the way I feel, And I got no
Speaker 4: choice but for me to keep it real, because when
Speaker 4: we first got together, started hanging out, you were skeptical
Speaker 4: at first, had to figure out if I was the
Speaker 4: kind of guy that trying to dog you out.
Speaker 2: But I ain't that trying to guy. You try to
Speaker 2: make me out.
Speaker 4: You found out when you turned to my baby. I
Speaker 4: showed them other brothers how to treat a lady. I'll
Speaker 4: let you drive when I ride that Mercedes, and I
Speaker 4: ain't tripping or acting shady because baby, you know.
Speaker 6: I ain't never had nobody show me the other things
Speaker 6: that you just show me in this special way I
Speaker 6: feel when you hold me. We gonna always be together,
Speaker 6: a baby, That's what you told me. Get I believe
Speaker 6: it because I am I had.
Speaker 2: Nobody do me like you.
Speaker 3: Oh, oh, your alma raw.
Speaker 2: To me. I can't wait to see you. I want
Speaker 2: to be with you again. And every time you are
Speaker 2: out on the road and whenever I'm doing a show.
Speaker 2: Don't you forget I'm your main cheek who got that game?
Speaker 2: Chick one in the same chick one.
Speaker 6: You can't hang me. I ain't never had nobody show
Speaker 6: me all the things that you just show me in
Speaker 6: a special way. I feel you gonna, we gonna always
Speaker 6: be together.
Speaker 2: What you told me your number, because I ain't nobody
Speaker 2: give me like you nothing when sam more, I'll give
Speaker 2: you this, give you that what you need. You know
Speaker 2: I got it.
Speaker 4: Holler at me if you need in a fiction, because
Speaker 4: I'll be your protection. Kind of hard job, but I
Speaker 4: do it to perfection. And you can tell that I
Speaker 4: ain't trying to let you go you with you when
Speaker 4: I can, So that's how I let you know, because
Speaker 4: sometimes I gotta go with you. The first one I
Speaker 4: holler to right after my show, and I was tripping
Speaker 4: in a sense. I was tensed from my body.
Speaker 2: Loose around you. What I'm gonna do without you?
Speaker 4: I gotta get it together to say whatever.
Speaker 2: But since I met you, my life seems so better.
Speaker 6: I ain't never had nobody show me all the things
Speaker 6: that you just show me in this special way.
Speaker 2: I feel when you hope we gonna always see together.
Speaker 3: I ain't.
Speaker 2: Lod he lie bye, y'all.
Speaker 3: It is there, It is there, It is there.
Speaker 6: It is