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Speaker 2: We're not finna glaze. No fun intended with the glaze.

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Speaker 2: We're a drunk mind speaks sob thowt.

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Speaker 1: We ain't got no gifts today, we ain't got no guests.

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Speaker 4: I had a really really good Valentine's Day. Seal for

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I'm thirty four days. I haven't missed today

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Speaker 4: In thirty four days, I've been doing ten thousand steps

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm not gonna say anything, but April twenty second

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Speaker 1: Y'all are invited, and y'all are gonna be invited. So

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Speaker 4: So yeah, So that's really it for me, Like girl,

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Speaker 4: full in life. They have things that they want to do,

441
00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:04,520
Speaker 4: They have goals. They say, oh, I want to be

442
00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:06,480
Speaker 4: here in four years. Oh I want to be here

443
00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:09,479
Speaker 4: in five years. But the work ethic ain't mentioning what

444
00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:12,359
Speaker 4: you're saying you want. And at the end of the day,

445
00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:16,480
Speaker 4: I always say, you cannot pray for something and not

446
00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:18,280
Speaker 4: do the work. People be thinking, oh just because I

447
00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:20,560
Speaker 4: just because I'm praying. Just because I'm praying, God gonna

448
00:20:20,600 --> 00:20:23,159
Speaker 4: bless me. You still got to put that work in,

449
00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:26,240
Speaker 4: And unfortunately, a lot of people just do not have

450
00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:29,919
Speaker 4: the get up and go their drive, that ambition to

451
00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:31,360
Speaker 4: accomplish their dreams.

452
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Speaker 2: It's not that you.

453
00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:35,040
Speaker 4: Don't have the talent sometimes you just ain't got the ambition.

454
00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:37,760
Speaker 2: So how do you feel about that? Or how do

455
00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:41,080
Speaker 2: y'all both to feel about that? So I'll say this,

456
00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:45,960
Speaker 2: I get it. It's first of all, it's hard to

457
00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:48,679
Speaker 2: find good help. If you do have the money to

458
00:20:48,760 --> 00:20:51,919
Speaker 2: hire people, it's very hard. It's a trial and error

459
00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:55,879
Speaker 2: hit and miss. But I say this, even if you

460
00:20:55,960 --> 00:20:59,640
Speaker 2: can't afford to hire help, you gotta do it yourself.

461
00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:01,639
Speaker 2: That's what I Let me tell you something.

462
00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:03,520
Speaker 1: When me and Drea first started out, Dreda was like,

463
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Speaker 1: let's hire somebody to edit. I said, boy, I got

464
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Speaker 1: two sixty nine on my account, So I.

465
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Speaker 2: Was like, well, I get you're finna edit me me.

466
00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:14,360
Speaker 1: I used to edit the episodes. I used to set

467
00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:16,840
Speaker 1: the camera up. I used to do all of it.

468
00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:20,720
Speaker 1: But because I wanted it. And I hate to say this,

469
00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:23,880
Speaker 1: y'all not hungry enough, and I'm not even I feel

470
00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:26,200
Speaker 1: like I'm at a place where I can preach to people,

471
00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:28,320
Speaker 1: but I'm also still not nowhere near where I want

472
00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:30,879
Speaker 1: to be. But I'm still out here working. Now I

473
00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:33,280
Speaker 1: can afford to put people in a position. Baby, I

474
00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:35,639
Speaker 1: can't make no damn drink. We need a bartender. So

475
00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:37,880
Speaker 1: guess what, I'm finna get somebody here to do that.

476
00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:40,680
Speaker 1: I can't work these cameras. I don't even know how

477
00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:43,199
Speaker 1: to turn these motherfuckers on, So I'm finna hire somebody.

478
00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:44,960
Speaker 2: I can't take no pictures. You.

479
00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:47,359
Speaker 1: If you want your business to expand and grow, you

480
00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:49,720
Speaker 1: either gonna figure out how to do yourself, do it yourself,

481
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:51,760
Speaker 1: or you gotta make some money to hire some people

482
00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:55,919
Speaker 1: in those positions. We are past the days of getting discovered.

483
00:21:57,160 --> 00:22:01,640
Speaker 1: You're not finna be at a Walmart singing or doing

484
00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:03,800
Speaker 1: some content and somebody just gonna discover you and be like,

485
00:22:03,840 --> 00:22:06,040
Speaker 1: oh my god, let me put you in a movie.

486
00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:09,640
Speaker 1: Everybody that gets discovered now is because they're putting content

487
00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:12,959
Speaker 1: out every day and then it comes across a like

488
00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 1: a Kevin Hart's desk or you know, somebody important.

489
00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:18,200
Speaker 2: Desk that can put you in position.

490
00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:21,560
Speaker 1: So I just feel like y'all are not hustling enough.

491
00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:25,320
Speaker 1: Y'all see somebody like, for example, I think his name

492
00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:28,280
Speaker 1: is Lauren. He's a skater, he's a talk Oh he's

493
00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:30,760
Speaker 1: so handsome, he skates.

494
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Speaker 2: Really really well. I think he's out in Atlanta.

495
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Speaker 1: So he did the D squared Fashion show, right and

496
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Speaker 1: he's like skating around doing this Lauren, Right, he's skating

497
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Speaker 1: around and I mean, he's so graceful, and this is

498
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Speaker 1: probably the first time people are seeing him, so they're like,

499
00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:47,840
Speaker 1: oh my god, if he can do what I can.

500
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Speaker 1: But yeah, but Lauren has been and I hope that's

501
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Speaker 1: his name. He has been creating content for years of

502
00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:56,040
Speaker 1: him skating. He didn't just pop up at the D

503
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Speaker 1: Squared Fashion show. Y'all be seeing like y'all saw us

504
00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:01,840
Speaker 1: maybe for the first time and we had maybe tea

505
00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:04,679
Speaker 1: pain on or whenever we had t s Madison on.

506
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:07,800
Speaker 1: You didn't realize, Oh, we been working since twenty nineteen.

507
00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:10,560
Speaker 1: Y'all be seeing people for the first time and think

508
00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:14,160
Speaker 1: they just popped up, And that's not nobody's story. That's

509
00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:19,240
Speaker 1: not nobody's story. So I just think the laziness talent

510
00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 1: is not enough. Y'all be thinking, y'all are so fucking funny,

511
00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:28,080
Speaker 1: or y'all are so fucked y'all can sing so good,

512
00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:30,400
Speaker 1: you can rap so good, and you could just wake

513
00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:31,880
Speaker 1: up and just sit on your ass.

514
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Speaker 2: I don't care what nobody says. I always use like

515
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Speaker 2: Britney Spears for an example. Britney spears. Y'all can say

516
00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:39,919
Speaker 2: what y'all want about them dance moves about her voice

517
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:42,480
Speaker 2: them ENnies. I don't give a damn. I'm talking about

518
00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:45,400
Speaker 2: old Britney spears. Oh oh, keep.

519
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:47,560
Speaker 3: Thinking, leave Britney aloud.

520
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:49,800
Speaker 2: I just need to want to how to lift them

521
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:52,600
Speaker 2: up for a little bit. They just be so low.

522
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:57,400
Speaker 4: I be scared of her KOUCHI gonna pop out and say, hey, yeah,

523
00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:58,920
Speaker 4: like they be so low, I.

524
00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:01,400
Speaker 2: Be thinking they're gonna fall down. But I would say this.

525
00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:04,480
Speaker 1: As a at a young age, Brittany learned that work ethic.

526
00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:07,959
Speaker 1: Beyonce has that work ethic. That's who I look at

527
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:10,960
Speaker 1: if I can't do it myself. There are things that

528
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:14,159
Speaker 1: Shae gets done that I could never even think twice

529
00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:16,119
Speaker 1: about doing. I don't even know how some of the

530
00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:20,160
Speaker 1: stuff that Shaye does. I'd be like, what, thanks girl exactly.

531
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Speaker 1: But you know what I'm saying, that's what you're supposed

532
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:26,880
Speaker 1: to do. If you can't figure it out, get somebody

533
00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:28,879
Speaker 1: who can figure it out.

534
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:33,399
Speaker 4: But realistically, most people are in those beginning stages of

535
00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:35,760
Speaker 4: their business, so they can't get people.

536
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:37,479
Speaker 2: To you know him.

537
00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 4: But that's what I was about to say, Like most

538
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:41,679
Speaker 4: people can't hire somebody, They can't hire a team of

539
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:43,760
Speaker 4: people right now, So it's like you gotta do this

540
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:44,600
Speaker 4: shit yourself.

541
00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:47,199
Speaker 2: And people just don't be wanting to do shit like

542
00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:49,280
Speaker 2: we wanted everything to just come to them.

543
00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 4: They be feeling like, oh, it's just supposed to fall

544
00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:54,679
Speaker 4: in my lab because I'm so amazing and I'm so special. No,

545
00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:56,880
Speaker 4: it's a lot of special people out here. But even

546
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 4: the people who you look at who you feel like, oh,

547
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 4: they're so special, they put the.

548
00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:02,080
Speaker 2: Work end the time.

549
00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 4: You know, it take work, and you take grind and

550
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:06,679
Speaker 4: hustle to get to where you're trying to get to

551
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:10,440
Speaker 4: in life. What you think, ty, I'm a winner and

552
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:14,120
Speaker 4: anything I do I worked when I worked in insurance,

553
00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 4: I was a winner. I started bartending five years ago,

554
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:18,639
Speaker 4: twenty nineteen January.

555
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 2: When I go.

556
00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 4: Before, I don't think so. I left Corporate America and

557
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:26,680
Speaker 4: moved to Spain. But in the interim, I.

558
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:28,399
Speaker 2: Was like, Yo, this is fun. I could just do it.

559
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:29,560
Speaker 2: Help me party with my friends.

560
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 4: Never thought that I would make a career, switch careers

561
00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:37,359
Speaker 4: completely have a whole business. Like but anything that I

562
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:40,119
Speaker 4: put my mind to, I'm going to achieve. And I

563
00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 4: think that's what it takes to be a CEO, to

564
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:46,720
Speaker 4: run a business, to be able to hire employees.

565
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:48,680
Speaker 2: That first couple of years, I couldn't hire nobody.

566
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:51,199
Speaker 4: I was grinding, and I still to this day do

567
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 4: a lot of things behind the scene.

568
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:54,199
Speaker 2: But now I can.

569
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Speaker 4: I'm not operating out of a space of survival. I

570
00:25:57,280 --> 00:26:00,520
Speaker 4: can be strategic, and now I can hire a team

571
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:02,880
Speaker 4: of people to come on so that way I can

572
00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:06,320
Speaker 4: multitask do the show, do the job, do this, do that.

573
00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:09,480
Speaker 4: So but again, you have to have that within you.

574
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:12,840
Speaker 4: And I'm gonna winner everything I do. Yeah, same, no matter.

575
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:15,639
Speaker 1: And that's what I like that you said that, like

576
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 1: I'm a winner. That's the difference between a winner and

577
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:21,200
Speaker 1: a loser. I'm gonna outwork you every time because if

578
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:23,680
Speaker 1: I can't do it, I'm gonna hire somebody who can.

579
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:25,679
Speaker 1: And it don't matter what it looks like to the

580
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:26,840
Speaker 1: public is getting done.

581
00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:28,640
Speaker 2: No, it's just if I can't do it, I'm gonna

582
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:30,040
Speaker 2: find a way. I'm gonna find a way. That's what

583
00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:31,960
Speaker 2: I'm gonna find a way. So whether the.

584
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:34,320
Speaker 1: Way is me doing it myself or hiring somebody is

585
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:37,440
Speaker 1: getting done. You're not finna outwork me, you're not feel really,

586
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 1: we have released Poor Mind's episodes for six years without

587
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:42,840
Speaker 1: missing a beat.

588
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:43,640
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

589
00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 4: Who always Yeah, people always say that, and I guess

590
00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:48,639
Speaker 4: when you really see it and think about it, and

591
00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:49,440
Speaker 4: it is a little crazy.

592
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:51,399
Speaker 2: That's a lot of.

593
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:56,040
Speaker 4: Episodes, even with US City two weeks, six years, but

594
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:57,679
Speaker 4: even with US now US launching.

595
00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,040
Speaker 2: We both have been talking about.

596
00:26:59,840 --> 00:27:02,720
Speaker 1: Our personal YouTube channels for a long time, but we

597
00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:05,680
Speaker 1: released it when we knew. It's gotta be consistent. It's

598
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:08,639
Speaker 1: got I can I'm never gonna miss a Monday. Yeah,

599
00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:10,360
Speaker 1: I'm never gonna miss a Monday.

600
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 2: Yeah I can't.

601
00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:13,360
Speaker 4: I mean I feel like with anything that you want

602
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 4: to be successful at, I always say, consistency is key.

603
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:19,880
Speaker 4: And I feel like that's like the most mundane advice

604
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,280
Speaker 4: that you could give people, cliche advice, you know, it's

605
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 4: to just tell people be consistent, but it's so fucking true.

606
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:29,119
Speaker 4: You have to be consistent at whatever you want to

607
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:29,879
Speaker 4: excel at.

608
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 2: It's no other way around you.

609
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:33,360
Speaker 4: Like, I mean, of course you have to be actually

610
00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 4: good at it, yeah, but being consistent.

611
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 2: A lot of the time get you further than being good.

612
00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:40,840
Speaker 1: And I feel like this, even if you spend an

613
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:44,160
Speaker 1: hour a day. I make sure I spend an hour

614
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 1: every day doing something like now for lovelex Pe, since

615
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:49,439
Speaker 1: it's so new, I spend an hour a day on

616
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:53,720
Speaker 1: lovelex p doing something, whether it's planning out my episode

617
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 1: for the next week, getting something together, something just one hour,

618
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:00,159
Speaker 1: it's not that long. So when I see people, they

619
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:04,360
Speaker 1: be on social media all day, But you ain't promoting

620
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 1: nothing about your podcast, nothing about your makeup line, nothing

621
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:10,320
Speaker 1: about nothing you got going on.

622
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:15,160
Speaker 2: You just tweeting you don't want it, Yeah, you don't

623
00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:15,640
Speaker 2: want it.

624
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:17,639
Speaker 4: Do you feel like it's more of a thing with

625
00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:22,240
Speaker 4: like our generation in the younger generations, because I feel

626
00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:23,480
Speaker 4: like all the people had work.

627
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 2: Its Oh they ain't have no tweet They had work.

628
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 1: They had to go to ask the work. But I

629
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:31,320
Speaker 1: think that's why we are like that, because we are

630
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 1: a product of our parents. Like our parents instilled in us,

631
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:37,920
Speaker 1: like you gotta go and get it, that hustle mentality.

632
00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:41,520
Speaker 1: A lot of people don't have that hustler's mentality. And

633
00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 1: I'm not saying you gotta necessarily clock in, because well,

634
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 1: think about you, you gonna quit a job, But you are

635
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 1: a hustler and you're gonna figure some shit out, you

636
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I think people just people are

637
00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:53,720
Speaker 1: so comfortable too. It'd be some people who are so

638
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 1: like to me when I was really really broken when

639
00:28:57,480 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 1: I moved out here, and I was just never comfortable

640
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:02,320
Speaker 1: and I don't like that feeling.

641
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 2: That's why I was like, I have to make something shake.

642
00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 2: I can't live like this. Yeah, and I'm not. I

643
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 2: just think people who are just comfortable with where they are.

644
00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 2: And you think you're always supposed to clap for yourself,

645
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 2: but if.

646
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 1: You are not making a living doing the shit that

647
00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 1: you love, you're not going hard enough.

648
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 2: I agree.

649
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:24,800
Speaker 4: I think it's so crazy and so wild how people

650
00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:28,240
Speaker 4: can have nine to five jobs and work forty hours

651
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 4: a week, but then they have their own personal endeavors

652
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:32,840
Speaker 4: that they want to work on or business that they

653
00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:35,360
Speaker 4: want to become successful. But you won't even take thirty

654
00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:38,080
Speaker 4: minutes out of your day every day when you get

655
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 4: off work to work on your business that you want

656
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:43,440
Speaker 4: to lunch, but you're wanting to work every week working

657
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:45,480
Speaker 4: forty hours for somebody else, making them reacher.

658
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Speaker 2: I just think that's crazy.

659
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Speaker 1: And like I said, people, I'm making it from somebody

660
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Speaker 1: who used to be at my job working on poor minds.

661
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Speaker 2: Friend, they're not probably not trying to get fired. I

662
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 2: don't give a damn about it. You don't mean I

663
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Speaker 2: don't think that's good in fight. They don't need to be.

664
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Speaker 2: I'm not saying that that's good advice.

665
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Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is I wanted it that bad though.

666
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Speaker 1: I was ready to risk it all because I know

667
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Speaker 1: I'm fucking good, and I know what I wanted out

668
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Speaker 1: of life, and I know this is leading to a

669
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Speaker 1: dead end.

670
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Speaker 2: Poor minds was not. So I say all that to

671
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Speaker 2: say I was able.

672
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Speaker 1: To maneuver it around so I could work at poor

673
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Speaker 1: to do poor minds at my job. But once it

674
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Speaker 1: got to the point where I couldn't, I would get

675
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Speaker 1: off work and I'm working on poor months.

676
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was working on it. You gotta find the time.

677
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Speaker 2: I made the time. You gotta find the time.

678
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Speaker 4: And I think a lot of people make so many

679
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Speaker 4: excuses like, oh I I'm tired from work. Oh I'm

680
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Speaker 4: tired from this, and I'm tired from that. I just

681
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Speaker 4: don't have it in need to put an extra thirty minutes.

682
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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, you don't want to want and entrepreneurship is hard.

683
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Speaker 4: It's not a walk in the park like you really

684
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Speaker 4: like they say, you have to put so much of

685
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Speaker 4: yourself into it, Like it's just so much that people

686
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Speaker 4: don't see behind the scenes. But I also feel like

687
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:04,960
Speaker 4: people get discouraged when it's not instant gratification.

688
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Speaker 2: So like if they're doing it for a.

689
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Speaker 4: Few months, they feel like, Oh, that's I should have

690
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Speaker 4: I should be here already, Versus no, you have to

691
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Speaker 4: really get that ship out the mud. You really have

692
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Speaker 4: to put your best effort in everything that you have

693
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Speaker 4: into it and give it time to grow, give it

694
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Speaker 4: some space for that fire to catch on right, and

695
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Speaker 4: for people to really grow your following and to really

696
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Speaker 4: fuck with you and your brand. That's really what it is.

697
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Speaker 4: I agree people do get discouraged by their first feel year.

698
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Speaker 4: They'd be like, oh, but then you don't see how

699
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Speaker 4: many times people they successful. Tell just because you don't

700
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Speaker 4: see it don't mean we wasn't feeling.

701
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Speaker 2: Before. So mixy girl, I had like three before.

702
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Speaker 1: Do you remember that first ad company we work with

703
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Speaker 1: that they was like, oh, we're not working with y'all.

704
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Speaker 2: Yes, we couldn't get our ads right. Were so sad.

705
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Speaker 4: We were so because we were finally getting ad chicks,

706
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Speaker 4: Like we finally we wasn't making that much, but we

707
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Speaker 4: was finally just getting something.

708
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Speaker 1: Right and we were like, oh my god. And then

709
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Speaker 1: when they let us go, I just thought it was

710
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Speaker 1: the end of the world. But I was like, you

711
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Speaker 1: know what, that's all right, somebody else gonna come along.

712
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:07,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it definitely did. So.

713
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I just feel like your work ethic has to

714
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Speaker 1: match your dream. The bigger your dream is, the bigger

715
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Speaker 1: your work ethic gotta be. It's no in between. And

716
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Speaker 1: like I said, I really don't have sympathy for that

717
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Speaker 1: because I will say, coming from somebody.

718
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Speaker 2: Who did it, I did it if I can.

719
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Speaker 1: Do it, Like you know how you always see those

720
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Speaker 1: people that give their Oscar speeches and they can do it.

721
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Speaker 1: I'm telling you do y'all realize, like Doci, she was

722
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Speaker 1: like a YouTuber like five years ago, like doing.

723
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Speaker 2: All that stuff.

724
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Speaker 1: It can't get award, a Grammy award. That's why I know, Baby,

725
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Speaker 1: I'm getting that daytime.

726
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Speaker 2: Emmy. It's only a matter of time. I just gotta

727
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Speaker 2: keep doing it.

728
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Speaker 1: You just have to keep going and you gotta put

729
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Speaker 1: that work in. Like so that's why I say. One

730
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Speaker 1: thing I do believe is like it's hard when you're

731
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Speaker 1: in certain positions. It's gonna be harder for other people.

732
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Speaker 1: But it's just all about how bad you want it.

733
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Speaker 2: Y'all.

734
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Speaker 1: Gotta get y'all gotta get a little hungry. For me,

735
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Speaker 1: my stomach be growouting.

736
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Speaker 4: Yeah, they don't be hungry. So will we drinking today? Okay,

737
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Speaker 4: So since we're talking about getting it out the mud

738
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Speaker 4: and all of that, I'm gonna call this one some

739
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Speaker 4: pressure because that's what we're putting on them. We're putting

740
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Speaker 4: on the pressure. So this one's cute, y'all. This can

741
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Speaker 4: be You can add it as a mytail, you can

742
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Speaker 4: have it as a cocktail. We have some strawberry, we

743
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Speaker 4: have some mango, we have some lemon juice in there.

744
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Speaker 2: We also have a.

745
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Speaker 4: Little bit of ginger beer, so it's kind of like

746
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Speaker 4: a mule but also like a Martinis kind of giving.

747
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Speaker 2: And then I did like a cute little garnish.

748
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Speaker 4: I took some strawberry leaves and just kind of garnish

749
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Speaker 4: the top of the drink with that.

750
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Speaker 2: So I thought that was based.

751
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Speaker 4: It is a strawberry, A little strawberry, right, is something different.

752
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Speaker 2: It is good. I taste that gin. I love a ginger.

753
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Speaker 2: It's probably even better with a little tequila. Yes, yea,

754
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Speaker 2: well mine is good.

755
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Speaker 4: I got you gonna have to make you gonna have

756
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Speaker 4: to make this again. Once I start making drink, we

757
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Speaker 4: can run.

758
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Speaker 2: You're gonna take one shot and be gone. That's my hole.

759
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Speaker 2: That is what I'm hoping for.

760
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Speaker 4: I'm hoping that that is the way that it goes

761
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Speaker 4: because that was my That's really my goal with like

762
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Speaker 4: doing this challenge.

763
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Speaker 2: I wanted it.

764
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Speaker 4: I wanted to build back up my tolerance because I

765
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Speaker 4: feel like my liquor tolerance was just so high, Like

766
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 4: it would take a lot for me to get drunk,

767
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Speaker 4: like I missed when I would get drunk off of

768
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Speaker 4: like two shots in a little cocktail.

769
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Speaker 2: I'll be like, my tolerance ain't low, but it's not high, y'all.

770
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Speaker 2: Tolerance is high. That's the lot. No, I'm talking.

771
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Speaker 1: About now, Like if I take two or three shots,

772
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Speaker 1: I don't be drunk, but I'll.

773
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Speaker 2: Be good like I took. Like I took two shots today,

774
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Speaker 2: I'm like I feel a little one too, Like I'm

775
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Speaker 2: feeling a little.

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Speaker 4: I am not about to play with you because y'all.

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Speaker 4: Don't be letting licks fool y'all. She be taking like Steven.

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Speaker 1: Sunk I used to, But now I'll be like last week,

779
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Speaker 1: I got a little tips of it.

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Speaker 2: I took like three four shots. Last week I was.

781
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Speaker 4: And you had like two dreams two three No, because

782
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783
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Speaker 4: when I have a drink mixed with the sugar, I'll

784
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Speaker 1: So I've been doing like the mocktails. But I'll take

786
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Speaker 1: a shot. So yeah, two three shots. I'm feeling.

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Speaker 4: But I told you all this, well, this is hard.

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Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie. This is really really hard for me.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna pick Pony. I'm gonna pick Tony because it's

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Speaker 5: I was looking forward pond and I remember and then

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Speaker 2: Video he was fine as telling their video on their them.

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Speaker 2: That was the first time I Coochie jumped. I told

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Speaker 2: that story before.

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Speaker 4: But also I think the first time mine jumped was

836
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Speaker 4: when I seen a the Angelo video, which I never

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Speaker 4: really thought the Angelo.

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Speaker 2: Was like fine, I just looked nice, but his body

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Speaker 4: And then it was the first time I ever was like,

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Speaker 4: I want to see that dish. I wonder what's down here.

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Speaker 4: I wonder what they look like because I hadn't never

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Speaker 4: seen one yet. I wanted to see that, but I

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Speaker 4: wanted to know what it looked like with the.

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Speaker 1: Topic too, finding true love on dating apps? Is it

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Speaker 1: possible to meet your husband, wife, friend, or life partner

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Speaker 1: online today?

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Speaker 4: I think it is for some people. I don't think

849
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Speaker 4: it is for me, but I think it is for

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Speaker 4: some people. I was talking to my my injector shout.

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Speaker 2: Out to Helen Hayk love you girls. But yeah, I

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Speaker 2: was talking to Helen.

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Speaker 4: She was doing she was doing my boatox like a

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Speaker 4: few weeks ago, and she was just basically telling me

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Speaker 4: how she met her husband on Oh, well she met

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Speaker 4: him on here. She said she met him on hinge,

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Speaker 4: but then she ended up getting off of hinge for

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Speaker 4: a little mini and or something happened when she couldn't

859
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Speaker 4: be on app no more. But then she had already

860
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Speaker 4: got his information, so they were like communicating. But yeah,

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Speaker 4: she made her husband and she said he's like the

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Speaker 4: best person she's ever met in her life.

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Speaker 3: Oh.

864
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Speaker 2: Their wedding pictures were so cute.

865
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Speaker 4: Yeah, so I do so like having that conversation with her.

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Speaker 4: I definitely feel like it's possible. And she said that

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Speaker 4: happened I think maybe two four.

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Speaker 2: Or three years ago. I can't remember, but.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's possible for some people. I just

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Speaker 4: think I'm at a point I think both of these.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I can't really speak for you, but I

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Speaker 4: can speak for myself. Like I just think I don't

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Speaker 4: know who know me, So I don't know how much

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Speaker 4: I would trust meeting somebody on a dating app, because

875
00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:32,480
Speaker 4: how I know you don't know who I am and

876
00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:36,360
Speaker 4: have like real motives for wanting to date me, Like

877
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:38,480
Speaker 4: do you genuinely want to date me for real? Or

878
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:41,959
Speaker 4: do you want to date men? I mean, yeah, because

879
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:44,920
Speaker 4: do you? Or is it because you know about poor minds?

880
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 4: Like I don't know. So I just feel like for

881
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 4: us it would be kind of hard, No, you don't

882
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:53,120
Speaker 4: think so on that one app?

883
00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to get on a rail, but I

884
00:39:56,760 --> 00:39:59,439
Speaker 2: go bad. That's where I mean.

885
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:02,560
Speaker 1: I'm not talking about like, oh, it'd be no, it'd

886
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:06,719
Speaker 1: be like a Listers Ben Affleck was on rail, like

887
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:08,479
Speaker 1: any people like that on rail.

888
00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:11,520
Speaker 2: I feel like that's the one app I would flourish on.

889
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 4: I mean it is, but it's like I know a

890
00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:16,879
Speaker 4: good amount of people that have rail and they say

891
00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:19,680
Speaker 4: the same thing that they say about hinged and bumble.

892
00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 2: Isn't it another one called bumble? Yeah? Like that huh.

893
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 4: The league, the league, It's kind of I was kind

894
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:31,759
Speaker 4: of like Raya, it's invitation only. Yeah, and like I

895
00:40:31,760 --> 00:40:33,440
Speaker 4: don't know, Like, like I said, I know a few

896
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,080
Speaker 4: people that have rail and they be saying like you'd

897
00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:39,120
Speaker 4: be the same bullshe on it to the niggas just

898
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:41,880
Speaker 4: got more money, like because I mean it's more credentials

899
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 4: to get You need more credentials to get accepted on

900
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 4: the app. So I mean it kind of filter people

901
00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 4: a little bit better. You just gonna have a more richer,

902
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:51,799
Speaker 4: ain't she nigga?

903
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 2: That's what I do anyway. Yeah, so you don't need Raya.

904
00:40:55,320 --> 00:40:57,000
Speaker 2: You doing well? Fuck?

905
00:40:58,080 --> 00:41:00,640
Speaker 1: Okay, So I'm like this, I do you feel like

906
00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:04,319
Speaker 1: with dating apps you can find a friend.

907
00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:05,480
Speaker 2: A husband, a wife.

908
00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:07,400
Speaker 1: I do feel like, but I do kind of agree

909
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:14,520
Speaker 1: with you. I think the kind of woman I am, I.

910
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:14,200
Speaker 2: Don't think that a man.

911
00:41:14,640 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 1: I don't think I would even attract a man who

912
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 1: feels like he has to use dating apps, Like if

913
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:20,960
Speaker 1: you get to the point to where you feel like

914
00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:23,040
Speaker 1: you have to know. And this is no shade because

915
00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:26,240
Speaker 1: I think dating apps are amazing for what they're supposed

916
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:28,719
Speaker 1: to do. But I don't think I'm ever I am

917
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:31,600
Speaker 1: old school. I want to meet you in person first.

918
00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:35,400
Speaker 1: I love meeting somebody and just having a void. I

919
00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:37,880
Speaker 1: like seeing a man for the first time and being like,

920
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:41,399
Speaker 1: damn and seeing the way he walked and seeing the.

921
00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:42,719
Speaker 2: Way he talked. I don't.

922
00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:48,800
Speaker 1: I'm just I feel like the last Like like I said,

923
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:52,640
Speaker 1: of course, you know, conversations start on like a Twitter

924
00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:55,040
Speaker 1: or Instagram or things like that, but it can be like, hey,

925
00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:57,360
Speaker 1: how you doing, Oh, let's link up, but there's nothing

926
00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:59,520
Speaker 1: like I keep it real short and cute. Okay, we

927
00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:01,840
Speaker 1: can go on a little date or something. But I

928
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:04,600
Speaker 1: gotta see you in person. I gotta feel your void.

929
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:07,840
Speaker 1: I gotta know what's in your mooy. I just need

930
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 1: that in person. I gotta It's something about the way

931
00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:13,839
Speaker 1: a nigga walk that I can tell, like, oh yeah,

932
00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:16,960
Speaker 1: you got it. Like it's just something about a walk.

933
00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 1: I can see it in the walk.

934
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 2: You gonna see the walk when you meet him for

935
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:22,680
Speaker 2: the first day. That's y'all. Get off the app.

936
00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:25,319
Speaker 1: No, it's something like I said, And every time if

937
00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:27,239
Speaker 1: I talk to you on a dating app, they never

938
00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:27,960
Speaker 1: got that walk.

939
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:30,080
Speaker 2: I ain't never dated a nigga from the app. They

940
00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:30,959
Speaker 2: never had that walk.

941
00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 1: People men who use dating apps, they don't have that walk.

942
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 1: I just think that you walk in front of me

943
00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:40,520
Speaker 1: right now. Oh you're on hand John, But you don't

944
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:42,840
Speaker 1: think that the niggas they use their walk.

945
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:47,240
Speaker 2: They might because ray a little why because they got money? Yeah,

946
00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 2: grown goodbye. No. But I feel like, uh, like I said,

947
00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 2: I'm not saying Raya is different. That's not what I'm saying.

948
00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 1: But I think that's well is different cause, like I said,

949
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:03,440
Speaker 1: it's a little more exclusive. I'm not on there, but

950
00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:04,960
Speaker 1: I'm saying it's a little more dus.

951
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:08,279
Speaker 2: I didn't make it. Fuck y'all.

952
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:10,520
Speaker 1: I don't need to be on there anyway, cause it'd

953
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 1: be some people that I know that'sting.

954
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, how you getting there before me?

955
00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:15,799
Speaker 1: If I told you the dude that I know that's

956
00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 1: in there, you'll be like, what the fuck? I know

957
00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:19,720
Speaker 1: a lot of people, I'm telling you, Like, I wouldn't

958
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:21,400
Speaker 1: be surprised because I know a lot.

959
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:22,640
Speaker 2: Of people that have rails.

960
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:24,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know a good amount of people, at least

961
00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:25,440
Speaker 4: probably like ten people.

962
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 1: But I guess the people that I know that's on there,

963
00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 1: like the guys they be coming across and I'm like, Okay,

964
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:31,920
Speaker 1: that's a little one, so a little.

965
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:33,719
Speaker 2: Shump something they with them.

966
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:37,640
Speaker 1: No, they ain't got no game like that. My game

967
00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:38,879
Speaker 1: is my pim game.

968
00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:39,360
Speaker 2: Strong.

969
00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 4: I just feel like it doesn't matter whatever you own,

970
00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:46,400
Speaker 4: niggas is gonna be niggas. I don't matter the text breaking,

971
00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:49,600
Speaker 4: it don't matter the race, it don't matter nothing.

972
00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:50,840
Speaker 2: Men are gonna be be in.

973
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 1: I No, I do agree with that. But like, it's

974
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:56,120
Speaker 1: just hard to date out here. It's very hard.

975
00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:57,480
Speaker 2: I see why people.

976
00:43:57,239 --> 00:43:59,799
Speaker 4: Go to dating apps. I, like I said, personally, for me,

977
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:01,879
Speaker 4: I just don't really think that's something that will work

978
00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 4: for me, especially at this point.

979
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:07,200
Speaker 2: Maybe like six years ago or seven years.

980
00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:09,399
Speaker 4: Ago, I could have got on dating apps, but right

981
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:12,439
Speaker 4: now as it currently stands, No, But I get why

982
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:14,840
Speaker 4: people get on there, because I mean, where the hell

983
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:18,120
Speaker 4: do you meet people at, and especially in Atlanta, Like

984
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:24,359
Speaker 4: especially living in cities like Atlanta, Houston, DEALI, Chicago, all

985
00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 4: of these places, everybody know everybody, everybody know everybody. It's

986
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:31,799
Speaker 4: hard to meet niggas that don't nobody know or there

987
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 4: somebody that you know friend or whoever ain't went on

988
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:38,200
Speaker 4: a date with them too. It's just really hard. Men

989
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:40,520
Speaker 4: that are single that are not married, they don't have

990
00:44:40,600 --> 00:44:41,560
Speaker 4: multiple children.

991
00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:44,560
Speaker 2: It's hard out here. I get why people get on

992
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:44,880
Speaker 2: dy not.

993
00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:47,440
Speaker 4: Maybe like shit, maybe it's some niggas on here that

994
00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 4: God ain't released yet.

995
00:44:48,680 --> 00:44:51,160
Speaker 2: I don't know that. We don't know about it. All

996
00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:52,360
Speaker 2: these niggas been released.

997
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 4: I did like them. He ain't got no little stock

998
00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:58,480
Speaker 4: up there that he can just drop real quick.

999
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:00,480
Speaker 2: From out of know.

1000
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:02,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think dating apps are for me. Like

1001
00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:04,719
Speaker 1: I said, I'm just old school. I want to meet

1002
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:09,200
Speaker 1: my man in like whole food. We're not supposed to

1003
00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 1: be shopping in targeting.

1004
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:13,320
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, well wherever. I want to meet him somewhere

1005
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:13,600
Speaker 2: like that.

1006
00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:16,240
Speaker 1: I'm just old school, Like, I don't think dating apps

1007
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:17,960
Speaker 1: are for me. I don't even want to meet people

1008
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:21,680
Speaker 1: on like Instagram, Twitter and stuff anymore. Like sliding my

1009
00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:24,839
Speaker 1: dms nine times out of ten today, it's not gonna work,

1010
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:28,759
Speaker 1: you know. I mean, and you know what's crazy. I

1011
00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:30,480
Speaker 1: don't know if I said this on the show or not.

1012
00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 2: The older I get, the younger, the men getting my dms, yeah,

1013
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:37,279
Speaker 2: I mean I got these young. I mean they be

1014
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:41,960
Speaker 2: so young. What t T gonna do with you? You?

1015
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:45,840
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'd be like it'd be so many dms.

1016
00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 1: I just leave on ignore and it'd be like, oh,

1017
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:49,600
Speaker 1: you are so young.

1018
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:51,600
Speaker 2: I know a nigga too young when he called me

1019
00:45:51,640 --> 00:45:52,480
Speaker 2: some fine sheep.

1020
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:56,879
Speaker 4: Oh some what what you mean?

1021
00:45:57,320 --> 00:46:00,799
Speaker 2: That's exact exactly. That's the thing that they say we're

1022
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:05,759
Speaker 2: too old and mature. But that type of my little

1023
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:11,000
Speaker 2: fine sheet, I mean, gi it do. I am a

1024
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:17,879
Speaker 2: boud woman. Don't call me that. Though there's some young

1025
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:21,239
Speaker 2: nigga shies. It is, yes, it is, it is. I

1026
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 2: don't like that. I'm a beautiful woman, a beautiful boudet woman.

1027
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:30,680
Speaker 2: I got my boot on my spring, you know what

1028
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:33,879
Speaker 2: I'm And we wear spain y'all.

1029
00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:36,280
Speaker 1: Young girls, y'all needs to get into spanks and body

1030
00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:37,839
Speaker 1: shape where it smooths you out.

1031
00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:41,359
Speaker 2: You do it makes you look good, get it together. Yeah,

1032
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:41,920
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1033
00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:44,640
Speaker 4: I definitely think it's hard out here. It's hard to

1034
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:45,799
Speaker 4: find somebody, you know.

1035
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 1: But I think too like dating apps have hurt the

1036
00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 1: dating world as well, because not everybody is replaceable. People

1037
00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:53,960
Speaker 1: be thinking, oh this don't work out, I'm just get

1038
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:56,279
Speaker 1: on hens and find another one. You know what I'm saying,

1039
00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:59,080
Speaker 1: Not everybody is replaceable. I have to have a conversation

1040
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:02,280
Speaker 1: with somebody that the other day and let him know, baby,

1041
00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 1: good luck because this you ain't gonna find this. This

1042
00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:09,799
Speaker 1: ain't on This ain't on inge, baby, this is not

1043
00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 1: on bumblebee.

1044
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:12,839
Speaker 2: You shouldn't have had to tell him Nick though, No, I.

1045
00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 1: Mean I didn't have to tell him that, but I

1046
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:16,560
Speaker 1: like he but it was like, yeah, yeah, I know,

1047
00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:18,799
Speaker 1: I know, because I mean I'm not.

1048
00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:20,879
Speaker 2: Nobody's perfect. People be fucking up.

1049
00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:25,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, and niggas be forgetting God speed, because go out there,

1050
00:47:26,440 --> 00:47:27,239
Speaker 1: go out there.

1051
00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:31,919
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I believe in letting niggas free. Hey,

1052
00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 2: go ahead and go out there. I'm not gonna give

1053
00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:36,600
Speaker 2: you no warning. Yeah, you go see what's out there.

1054
00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:40,239
Speaker 2: Say yeah.

1055
00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:43,280
Speaker 1: So yeah, I feel like for people who have found

1056
00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:45,799
Speaker 1: true love on dating apps, I love that for them,

1057
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:48,239
Speaker 1: but I don't think that's and that's something that's for me.

1058
00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 1: I try the dating app for thirty minutes one time,

1059
00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:53,200
Speaker 1: and it was just horrifying.

1060
00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:55,160
Speaker 2: It was horrifying.

1061
00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:57,880
Speaker 4: So yeah, I've never tried one, Like, I have never

1062
00:47:58,520 --> 00:47:59,840
Speaker 4: had an accounts on it.

1063
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:02,919
Speaker 2: I think mine was loud about it, but I never

1064
00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:03,960
Speaker 2: actually went.

1065
00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:07,040
Speaker 1: This was like twenty twenty it was before Poor Minds

1066
00:48:07,040 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 1: had popped off, So it had to have been twenty

1067
00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:11,439
Speaker 1: nineteen or twenty twenty, because I still I was still

1068
00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:15,439
Speaker 1: working at not European. What was the other regions? Yeah,

1069
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:17,919
Speaker 1: And I remember me and my coworker were sitting there

1070
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:20,520
Speaker 1: shout out to Shamis and she was like, girl, make

1071
00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:23,080
Speaker 1: you a hinge. I think it was hinge girls on

1072
00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:25,440
Speaker 1: that for thirty minutes. I said, no, ma'am, what was.

1073
00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:27,680
Speaker 2: The reason why you just got off? Because the people

1074
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 2: it was, I'm sorry.

1075
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:31,760
Speaker 1: I never I was sitting there swiping for thirty minutes,

1076
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:35,800
Speaker 1: and I was swiping left on everybody, on everybody.

1077
00:48:36,360 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 2: There was no little fine shit on there. It was

1078
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:47,560
Speaker 2: no nowhere me oh there like all you niggas was unhead.

1079
00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:50,799
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. They are though unheard you.

1080
00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:53,279
Speaker 1: I can even see from your picture if you got

1081
00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:53,960
Speaker 1: a little one too.

1082
00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 2: I'm just like, ough mm hmm. So yeah, dating apps

1083
00:48:58,080 --> 00:48:59,960
Speaker 2: for me, huh yeah, I don't know.

1084
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:01,839
Speaker 4: It's not for me either, but I love to hear

1085
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:02,840
Speaker 4: the success stories.

1086
00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:04,120
Speaker 2: I'll do too, I really do.

1087
00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:05,799
Speaker 4: What do you feel about how do you feel about

1088
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:07,040
Speaker 4: ones like Christian Mingle?

1089
00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:09,560
Speaker 2: Do people still use It's Christian mingle. Still you know

1090
00:49:09,600 --> 00:49:14,600
Speaker 2: they got farm what is it? Farmers, sumpers, farmer mark Christian. Well, no,

1091
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:19,320
Speaker 2: it's for farmers. Oh, farmers only. I think only farmers.

1092
00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:20,720
Speaker 2: It's something.

1093
00:49:21,320 --> 00:49:23,160
Speaker 4: Now you're talking about what the niggas with money, and

1094
00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:31,680
Speaker 4: that's what they Yeah, not thinking I'm gonna be having

1095
00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:32,280
Speaker 4: their paper.

1096
00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:38,640
Speaker 2: I'm finna go get that. Don't be long this same texture. Yeah,

1097
00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:41,560
Speaker 2: I'm telling you. Okay, they got one for oil and

1098
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:55,839
Speaker 2: gas musics Chevron only Chevron, big tacoon. But no, that's

1099
00:49:57,040 --> 00:50:02,879
Speaker 2: I think Christian mingle is still a thing. Yeah, only taccoons.

1100
00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:06,839
Speaker 2: I like that. But I do think that Christian mingo

1101
00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:10,080
Speaker 2: is still a thing. But like I said, maybe Christian mingo.

1102
00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:13,120
Speaker 1: But sometimes people that are super religious and men that

1103
00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:16,080
Speaker 1: they don't be the best people are evil.

1104
00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:18,920
Speaker 2: You think, like religious overly religious. No, well, let me

1105
00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:19,239
Speaker 2: say this.

1106
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:22,360
Speaker 1: I think some people probably slide in Christian mingo that

1107
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:26,399
Speaker 1: may not necessarily be really true Christians who are really

1108
00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:27,120
Speaker 1: about the word.

1109
00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:29,759
Speaker 2: That's the scary thing. You never know who you're talking to.

1110
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:32,959
Speaker 1: There was a man on hen who was killing women,

1111
00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:36,600
Speaker 1: So I feel like it's scary because you never know

1112
00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:40,480
Speaker 1: who you're talking to. So I'm always I'm just in person.

1113
00:50:41,120 --> 00:50:43,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, That's what I think for me, has always kind

1114
00:50:43,239 --> 00:50:45,480
Speaker 4: of been the turnoff for me when today in apps,

1115
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:46,640
Speaker 4: it's like, yeah, you just.

1116
00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:48,040
Speaker 2: Never know who you're meeting.

1117
00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:50,799
Speaker 4: And granted, when you go on a first date with

1118
00:50:50,920 --> 00:50:54,600
Speaker 4: somebody you essentially don't know them either, but it's just

1119
00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:59,160
Speaker 4: something about meeting somebody online and you don't know anything

1120
00:50:59,239 --> 00:50:59,839
Speaker 4: about them.

1121
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:02,839
Speaker 2: You probably don't know nobody didn't know that, right.

1122
00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:05,160
Speaker 1: I think I can't remember the last time I dated

1123
00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:07,799
Speaker 1: somebody who we didn't have mutual people that we knew,

1124
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 1: like nobody knows yet. Yeah, liked in the past few years,

1125
00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:14,399
Speaker 1: it's always been Even when I went on that first

1126
00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:16,439
Speaker 1: date to Paris, I knew him through a mutual friend

1127
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:19,279
Speaker 1: who had been knowing you, So it wasn't like a

1128
00:51:19,400 --> 00:51:22,839
Speaker 1: random I knew where he worked, I knew his beg,

1129
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:25,080
Speaker 1: like I knew people who had vetted for him. You

1130
00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:28,160
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like versus somebody on an app

1131
00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:30,879
Speaker 1: you from Taiwan, I.

1132
00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:33,480
Speaker 2: Don't know you. I don't know no niggas in Taiwan. Hey,

1133
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:36,640
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. No Taiwani, guess.

1134
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:41,280
Speaker 1: What I'm saying. So it's a bigger risk. Like on Instagram,

1135
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:43,799
Speaker 1: I can see how many mutual friends we got, so

1136
00:51:43,920 --> 00:51:47,400
Speaker 1: I can ask the last guy I dated before my

1137
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:51,040
Speaker 1: my last relationship. We had a lot of mutual friends,

1138
00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:52,719
Speaker 1: and I said, hey, girl, what you know about him?

1139
00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 4: Oh?

1140
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:55,400
Speaker 2: Girl, that's my Oh I know him, that's my home boy. Like,

1141
00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:58,279
Speaker 2: you know, I could I do that? No, I'm married.

1142
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:01,320
Speaker 4: I mean you got to look, you just gotta be safe.

1143
00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:04,520
Speaker 4: It's so many crazy people in the world, and they

1144
00:52:04,600 --> 00:52:06,360
Speaker 4: be praying, Like I do. Feel like people be on

1145
00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:07,920
Speaker 4: those apps praying on people.

1146
00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:11,560
Speaker 1: Oh absolutely, you know absolutely, especially because you know we've

1147
00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:15,800
Speaker 1: said this before. They will especially prey on lonely women

1148
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:18,520
Speaker 1: and lonely men too. I'm not saying that women don't

1149
00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:21,239
Speaker 1: be out here doing crazy stuff too, because remember.

1150
00:52:20,960 --> 00:52:23,600
Speaker 2: Uh, what was the name of the fucking movie Rain?

1151
00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:27,719
Speaker 2: What was it? Baby Rain? That lady was crazy? He

1152
00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:31,839
Speaker 2: was taking her down. Remember he was having sex with her?

1153
00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:36,439
Speaker 1: He was yes, No, he wasn't. Yes he did they

1154
00:52:36,600 --> 00:52:37,400
Speaker 1: had sex.

1155
00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:38,439
Speaker 2: No, they did it.

1156
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:44,080
Speaker 3: Yes, they did.

1157
00:52:44,160 --> 00:52:45,160
Speaker 2: He had sex with her.

1158
00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:48,359
Speaker 1: Because he admitted maybe that was my mistake that I

1159
00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:51,040
Speaker 1: ended up because he was like, I shouldn't have did it.

1160
00:52:51,080 --> 00:52:54,560
Speaker 2: But he definitely fucked that lady. Yes he did. He

1161
00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:57,400
Speaker 2: did fuck her, Yes, he did very much. I'm not

1162
00:52:57,560 --> 00:53:03,720
Speaker 2: said that he did something about the curtains. Her curtains

1163
00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 2: needed fixing. Her curtains. You you never seen baby reindeer.

1164
00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:12,319
Speaker 1: Yes, her beef curtain. It was good, It was very

1165
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:14,600
Speaker 1: very good. But yeah, he definitely fucked that lady.

1166
00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:18,279
Speaker 2: I mean yeah, but god damn, he couldn't fuck her.

1167
00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:26,919
Speaker 1: And you fucking a crazy bitch when you know she's

1168
00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:29,560
Speaker 1: all I could get. Fucking somebody on the first day

1169
00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:34,200
Speaker 1: found out they're crazy, but knowing somebody crazy and I'm

1170
00:53:34,239 --> 00:53:35,680
Speaker 1: not victim shaming.

1171
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:41,719
Speaker 4: Because she was crazy from day Thank you?

1172
00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:43,520
Speaker 2: She said, can I get a die of the cork?

1173
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Speaker 2: Thanks. Now, it's hard to get into the.

1220
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Speaker 4: Bed bow bow bow. Okay, Okay, So after care one

1221
00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:19,800
Speaker 4: on one the things that people forget to do after six,

1222
00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:23,360
Speaker 4: let's talk about it, okay, because I feel like number

1223
00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:27,160
Speaker 4: one on the least, take your ass to the bathroom.

1224
00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:29,640
Speaker 2: Oh, I'll get I can't feel like these shouldn't even

1225
00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:32,200
Speaker 2: be conversations that we should have to have at this point.

1226
00:56:32,320 --> 00:56:34,560
Speaker 1: But we do have young listeners that probably don't know,

1227
00:56:34,640 --> 00:56:36,320
Speaker 1: so we're gonna take this time to educate.

1228
00:56:36,520 --> 00:56:37,080
Speaker 2: That's fair.

1229
00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:39,320
Speaker 4: But yeah, take your ass to the bathroom and p

1230
00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:44,840
Speaker 4: after you're doing getting that D A word, Yeah, go

1231
00:56:45,000 --> 00:56:48,600
Speaker 4: p after you get that D let it out, rain

1232
00:56:48,760 --> 00:56:49,439
Speaker 4: the main vein.

1233
00:56:49,640 --> 00:56:52,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you have to pee after.

1234
00:56:52,520 --> 00:56:54,520
Speaker 1: I don't feel right not peeing after six I'll be

1235
00:56:54,560 --> 00:56:55,080
Speaker 1: feeling like.

1236
00:56:56,480 --> 00:56:58,680
Speaker 2: I be feeling like I gotta go after. That's because

1237
00:56:58,760 --> 00:57:01,319
Speaker 2: you had an orgasm. I be feeling like I gotta go.

1238
00:57:02,280 --> 00:57:07,799
Speaker 2: Tell me when to go. Okay, number two, wipe down

1239
00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:08,640
Speaker 2: or take a shower.

1240
00:57:08,760 --> 00:57:11,040
Speaker 1: Just don't roll over. Now, I do agree with that.

1241
00:57:11,160 --> 00:57:15,319
Speaker 1: I always like have me a little honey pot wipe

1242
00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:17,320
Speaker 1: or I hop in the shower, I take a full

1243
00:57:17,320 --> 00:57:19,520
Speaker 1: blown shower. You gotta wipe it down a white man

1244
00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:20,360
Speaker 1: eye because.

1245
00:57:20,080 --> 00:57:22,960
Speaker 4: Sleeping in that sticky iky it's crazy.

1246
00:57:23,080 --> 00:57:24,880
Speaker 2: Why would you sleep a little leg.

1247
00:57:25,200 --> 00:57:28,280
Speaker 1: If you wake up in your pussy crunchy or your

1248
00:57:28,320 --> 00:57:31,640
Speaker 1: stomach stuck to the beg o louk to the bed

1249
00:57:31,840 --> 00:57:32,800
Speaker 1: is nuts?

1250
00:57:33,160 --> 00:57:34,240
Speaker 2: No pun intended.

1251
00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:38,400
Speaker 1: Yes to the I'm not gonna lie like, yeah, I

1252
00:57:38,520 --> 00:57:40,520
Speaker 1: definitely pay attention to because like I feel like if

1253
00:57:40,520 --> 00:57:43,160
Speaker 1: the if the guy I'm having sex with you need

1254
00:57:43,200 --> 00:57:44,919
Speaker 1: to go to the bathroom and wipe that dick off.

1255
00:57:45,080 --> 00:57:47,280
Speaker 1: Get off warm rag and wipe that dick off.

1256
00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:49,160
Speaker 2: You know, I prefer you know, I like a little

1257
00:57:49,160 --> 00:57:54,479
Speaker 2: concierge service. Yeah you do. Yeah, bring it to the beg.

1258
00:57:54,640 --> 00:57:58,360
Speaker 2: I like that. It is. Hey, sometimes I'm not gonna lie.

1259
00:57:58,400 --> 00:58:00,400
Speaker 1: Like sometimes we be in the bathroom together, we take

1260
00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:03,240
Speaker 1: the trip together, so I'm in their pin and he's

1261
00:58:03,280 --> 00:58:03,760
Speaker 1: wiping off.

1262
00:58:03,840 --> 00:58:05,880
Speaker 2: We like that is good. Yeah.

1263
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:08,280
Speaker 4: But then see, sometimes you just gotta go get each

1264
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 4: yourself too, because niggas be taking too long.

1265
00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:13,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's that's true.

1266
00:58:13,760 --> 00:58:17,520
Speaker 4: Taking too long, and then you start melting, melting, whood be.

1267
00:58:17,520 --> 00:58:23,600
Speaker 2: Melting, whood be melting. No, we want to know.

1268
00:58:24,560 --> 00:58:25,280
Speaker 3: We're not done.

1269
00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:28,600
Speaker 2: We're not finn non intended with the glaze.

1270
00:58:29,720 --> 00:58:34,760
Speaker 4: The glazes be melting like ripping yay. So like you know,

1271
00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:40,200
Speaker 4: when he first it's like ya okay. Then because of

1272
00:58:40,240 --> 00:58:41,640
Speaker 4: the body, he didn't be making it.

1273
00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:46,160
Speaker 2: Laughing because I know what I'm talking about.

1274
00:58:46,520 --> 00:58:48,720
Speaker 4: And then he start calling it NI be like hurry up,

1275
00:58:49,760 --> 00:58:52,920
Speaker 4: flying over, bring your glass that.

1276
00:58:53,000 --> 00:58:56,080
Speaker 2: Could be here. I'll be looking like a dirty slug

1277
00:58:56,280 --> 00:58:56,600
Speaker 2: me too.

1278
00:58:56,680 --> 00:58:58,040
Speaker 1: Do you know, like you just be laying on a

1279
00:58:58,120 --> 00:59:01,480
Speaker 1: bed with nuts all on your booty, just a whore.

1280
00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:04,040
Speaker 4: The booty ain't that bad? Here your stummy because then

1281
00:59:04,040 --> 00:59:04,760
Speaker 4: you following your.

1282
00:59:06,000 --> 00:59:09,120
Speaker 2: Well, I got it. Oh no, I haven't anyhow what

1283
00:59:09,320 --> 00:59:10,800
Speaker 2: you say I having.

1284
00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:18,760
Speaker 1: I just can swimming in you Can you imagine, like

1285
00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:21,440
Speaker 1: you know, when you play in the bed, will you

1286
00:59:21,480 --> 00:59:23,520
Speaker 1: be laying in the bed with nothing? Yes, And they'd

1287
00:59:23,520 --> 00:59:25,320
Speaker 1: be taking a long time. You just be sitting there

1288
00:59:25,360 --> 00:59:26,200
Speaker 1: looking horrible.

1289
00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:27,880
Speaker 4: That's what I was saying. It'd be like you then

1290
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:34,040
Speaker 4: you gotta get up. But then it be melty, it be.

1291
00:59:34,040 --> 00:59:35,520
Speaker 2: Like why are you taking so long?

1292
00:59:35,760 --> 00:59:37,439
Speaker 1: That's why I say a lot of times, we gotta

1293
00:59:37,440 --> 00:59:38,880
Speaker 1: we gonna go to the bathroom together.

1294
00:59:39,400 --> 00:59:42,240
Speaker 2: You know what? That's sweet? Yeah? I love well, I

1295
00:59:42,280 --> 00:59:44,280
Speaker 2: love a group. Look like I put that thing.

1296
00:59:44,360 --> 00:59:51,560
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, okay, clean six toys immediately after you?

1297
00:59:51,640 --> 00:59:55,440
Speaker 2: Oh yeah? Absolutely? Does it get crusty? Can't get crusty.

1298
00:59:55,520 --> 00:59:57,920
Speaker 2: But I feel like everybody does not cleaned it. Right now,

1299
00:59:57,960 --> 01:00:01,320
Speaker 2: I'm talking to me. You wake up and you'd be like,

1300
01:00:01,320 --> 01:00:05,520
Speaker 2: oh you gotta peel it off too far?

1301
01:00:06,200 --> 01:00:10,800
Speaker 4: Peeling it off eas because you could just go.

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Speaker 2: I'll be kind of making sure I get in there

1303
01:00:13,800 --> 01:00:15,640
Speaker 2: you gotta rinse it. And then I'd be like, oh

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01:00:15,640 --> 01:00:19,760
Speaker 2: I left the little spot. I'll be that's the spray

1305
01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:22,320
Speaker 2: of the little phone. Yeah, yeah, you gotta get that phone. Wise,

1306
01:00:22,880 --> 01:00:25,080
Speaker 2: what I talked when Glemozon, you gotta boil that dick up.

1307
01:00:25,200 --> 01:00:27,880
Speaker 2: You do gott to boil brawil it up. So yeah,

1308
01:00:28,120 --> 01:00:28,920
Speaker 2: keep it sentence here.

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01:00:29,040 --> 01:00:32,000
Speaker 1: Yes, I definitely think you should clean your sex toys

1310
01:00:32,240 --> 01:00:37,400
Speaker 1: after every you absolutely absolutely like, please do not be

1311
01:00:37,520 --> 01:00:40,360
Speaker 1: rubbing it out with that old crust from the last session.

1312
01:00:41,080 --> 01:00:43,400
Speaker 1: But honestly, y'all don't be having crusts because that that

1313
01:00:43,480 --> 01:00:47,640
Speaker 1: COUCHI be dry. That's why y'all don't be cleaning it now.

1314
01:00:47,800 --> 01:00:51,280
Speaker 1: Don't be no juice residue. That don't be no juice residue.

1315
01:00:51,640 --> 01:00:55,080
Speaker 1: Straight sahara, okay, and not see all right, all right,

1316
01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:58,960
Speaker 1: change the sheets regularly, especially after a sneaky link.

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Speaker 2: So first of all, I'll say this, after any league,

1318
01:01:02,520 --> 01:01:05,640
Speaker 2: you're supposed to wash your after no leans, wash your

1319
01:01:05,680 --> 01:01:06,880
Speaker 2: sheets once a week.

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Speaker 1: If you don't have more, I feel like this. I'm

1321
01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:13,360
Speaker 1: not the clean police either. I wash my sheets every Sunday, Yeah,

1322
01:01:13,840 --> 01:01:16,640
Speaker 1: every Sunday. And then I also have two two three

1323
01:01:16,720 --> 01:01:19,400
Speaker 1: pairs of sheets that I can rotate. So one Sunday

1324
01:01:19,440 --> 01:01:21,560
Speaker 1: I may not feel like washing my sheets, So guess what.

1325
01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:24,160
Speaker 2: I'm gonna just change about. I agree weekly.

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01:01:24,280 --> 01:01:27,880
Speaker 1: If you're not washing your sheets weekly, it's time to

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01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:29,560
Speaker 1: get yourself together.

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01:01:30,160 --> 01:01:33,960
Speaker 2: So yes, having them bunies in the dole.

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Speaker 3: Oh oh.

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Speaker 2: That's would she? When? Then wash them after the sneaky

1331
01:01:49,320 --> 01:01:50,080
Speaker 2: lean and then.

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Speaker 1: You know how somebody said, day wake up with well's

1333
01:01:52,160 --> 01:01:54,120
Speaker 1: bitch you got dorito chips in your bed?

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01:01:54,200 --> 01:01:56,440
Speaker 2: Yes, you need to wash your sheets every week. I

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01:01:56,440 --> 01:01:57,040
Speaker 2: ain't gonna lie.

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Speaker 4: I do agree with it every week, no ease you

1337
01:02:00,320 --> 01:02:04,200
Speaker 4: see juices, y'all do know our skin sheds every day

1338
01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:06,680
Speaker 4: every day, but you should always be washing your sheets

1339
01:02:06,680 --> 01:02:07,120
Speaker 4: every week.

1340
01:02:07,360 --> 01:02:08,800
Speaker 2: Care all that stuff.

1341
01:02:10,160 --> 01:02:15,200
Speaker 4: Okay, Hydrate six is a workout. Absolutely, keep you a

1342
01:02:15,240 --> 01:02:16,400
Speaker 4: little glass of water.

1343
01:02:16,680 --> 01:02:18,720
Speaker 1: And I think that if you drink a lot like

1344
01:02:18,840 --> 01:02:21,040
Speaker 1: I always do this, like I drink a lot of

1345
01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:23,840
Speaker 1: water anyway. But the day you know you're about to

1346
01:02:23,880 --> 01:02:29,080
Speaker 1: get some that kuchi be leaky soaking with If y'all

1347
01:02:29,160 --> 01:02:31,760
Speaker 1: cooshie is dry, I promise you're not drinking enough water.

1348
01:02:32,080 --> 01:02:37,280
Speaker 1: If you drink water that kushi bee oh oh that

1349
01:02:37,440 --> 01:02:38,560
Speaker 1: splash waterfall.

1350
01:02:38,920 --> 01:02:41,800
Speaker 4: Okay, and I see, I do feel like you should

1351
01:02:41,840 --> 01:02:44,960
Speaker 4: be hydrating on a normal basis. In general, you should

1352
01:02:44,960 --> 01:02:47,040
Speaker 4: be drinking at least half of your body weight and

1353
01:02:47,120 --> 01:02:49,919
Speaker 4: water every day. But you know, keep you a little

1354
01:02:49,920 --> 01:02:52,160
Speaker 4: water out of beg because it gets a little sweaty.

1355
01:02:53,080 --> 01:02:54,880
Speaker 2: Yes, a little two turned up.

1356
01:02:55,600 --> 01:02:59,200
Speaker 1: Okay, So we talked about that air out the room.

1357
01:02:59,320 --> 01:03:01,760
Speaker 1: Nobody wants it's still sex smell.

1358
01:03:02,400 --> 01:03:05,480
Speaker 4: I just, you know, I feel I be feeling some

1359
01:03:05,520 --> 01:03:07,280
Speaker 4: type of way about ear in the room out because

1360
01:03:07,280 --> 01:03:09,000
Speaker 4: why do we thinking them?

1361
01:03:11,440 --> 01:03:13,160
Speaker 3: I just feel like, why.

1362
01:03:13,040 --> 01:03:16,240
Speaker 2: Do the room need to be aired out? What is called?

1363
01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:20,920
Speaker 3: Why do it smell like that? Why do we stink?

1364
01:03:21,600 --> 01:03:24,400
Speaker 2: I just I don't know. I don't know about that.

1365
01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:27,560
Speaker 2: I like the smell of sex. Yeah, me too, if

1366
01:03:27,560 --> 01:03:30,280
Speaker 2: it smell good. Yeah, Like I like the smell of like,

1367
01:03:30,920 --> 01:03:34,960
Speaker 2: but it smells good.

1368
01:03:35,080 --> 01:03:37,760
Speaker 1: Like if you are clean the smell of sex, you

1369
01:03:37,800 --> 01:03:39,080
Speaker 1: don't need to air it out.

1370
01:03:39,440 --> 01:03:42,800
Speaker 2: I'll be like, mmm, it's still their mom. But you

1371
01:03:42,840 --> 01:03:44,680
Speaker 2: know what, what's that saying that people say to the

1372
01:03:44,760 --> 01:03:45,600
Speaker 2: room stink?

1373
01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:48,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, people do be staying to the rooms think and

1374
01:03:48,200 --> 01:03:49,880
Speaker 4: like I never want to do it to the room,

1375
01:03:49,960 --> 01:03:52,760
Speaker 4: but I think the stink is like figurative, Like, no,

1376
01:03:52,880 --> 01:03:55,120
Speaker 4: I think he probably do be stinking because I remember

1377
01:03:55,160 --> 01:03:57,640
Speaker 4: we had you remember that conversation we had with Skeet

1378
01:03:57,680 --> 01:04:00,200
Speaker 4: this time, right, and he was like that in the

1379
01:04:00,240 --> 01:04:04,080
Speaker 4: day people who used to oh yeah, no, because he

1380
01:04:04,280 --> 01:04:08,400
Speaker 4: was back in the day.

1381
01:04:06,080 --> 01:04:10,200
Speaker 3: He should have get on your ass.

1382
01:04:11,000 --> 01:04:14,520
Speaker 2: He was back in the day with the pilgrims. He

1383
01:04:14,800 --> 01:04:15,960
Speaker 2: was fucking pilgrims.

1384
01:04:16,760 --> 01:04:21,880
Speaker 4: No for real though, Like I feel like feminine hygiene

1385
01:04:21,920 --> 01:04:22,520
Speaker 4: has come along.

1386
01:04:22,600 --> 01:04:23,800
Speaker 2: Way's what I'm saying.

1387
01:04:24,440 --> 01:04:29,560
Speaker 4: So he shouldn't staink ever no more unless something is wrong.

1388
01:04:29,960 --> 01:04:32,000
Speaker 2: If he's stink, go to the doctor.

1389
01:04:32,040 --> 01:04:36,800
Speaker 4: Called nine one one one, no one, please call nine

1390
01:04:36,840 --> 01:04:39,640
Speaker 4: one one because something ain't right. It's a little bacterial

1391
01:04:39,680 --> 01:04:41,640
Speaker 4: badgers going on.

1392
01:04:42,160 --> 01:04:46,960
Speaker 2: Maybe some other things yea, but yeah it's not It

1393
01:04:46,960 --> 01:04:49,160
Speaker 2: shouldn't stink. But I don't mind the smell of six

1394
01:04:49,560 --> 01:04:53,760
Speaker 2: because you don't stay stop doing that. That's how I

1395
01:04:53,800 --> 01:04:58,040
Speaker 2: be doing. You gotta put that dick all up.

1396
01:05:00,320 --> 01:05:05,880
Speaker 4: Hey, So yeah, brush your teas, brush your teeth. Are

1397
01:05:05,840 --> 01:05:07,880
Speaker 4: you are used mouthwash before kissing it?

1398
01:05:08,040 --> 01:05:09,240
Speaker 2: Now, it's not about after.

1399
01:05:09,840 --> 01:05:13,000
Speaker 1: No, I'm sorry, You're gonna eat this coochie and kiss

1400
01:05:13,040 --> 01:05:14,120
Speaker 1: me all up in my mouth.

1401
01:05:14,480 --> 01:05:19,280
Speaker 2: No mouthwash needed, correct I like that. Yeah, yeah, I

1402
01:05:19,560 --> 01:05:21,240
Speaker 2: like like I would literally like it's it.

1403
01:05:21,640 --> 01:05:24,600
Speaker 1: I could be riding the pin I'm gonna hop off

1404
01:05:24,640 --> 01:05:25,600
Speaker 1: and put it in my mouth.

1405
01:05:26,320 --> 01:05:28,880
Speaker 2: Yeah. I feel like that's normal stuff when you having

1406
01:05:28,920 --> 01:05:33,200
Speaker 2: said yeah, but yeah, I mean mouthwash, I'm not doing No,

1407
01:05:33,400 --> 01:05:36,480
Speaker 2: we're finna getting real before kissing again, Like I feel like,

1408
01:05:36,560 --> 01:05:37,640
Speaker 2: yeah when you done.

1409
01:05:37,720 --> 01:05:39,240
Speaker 4: But you know, they say you're not supposed to brush

1410
01:05:39,240 --> 01:05:43,200
Speaker 4: your teeth until the next day after. Yeah, but I

1411
01:05:43,200 --> 01:05:45,480
Speaker 4: don't fucking believe in this shit. But I remember I

1412
01:05:45,560 --> 01:05:47,760
Speaker 4: read this shit in the six Egg Book when I

1413
01:05:47,800 --> 01:05:51,600
Speaker 4: was in high school. Wow, because if you brush your teeth,

1414
01:05:52,680 --> 01:05:56,360
Speaker 4: you could create little stores, little sores in your mouth,

1415
01:05:56,360 --> 01:05:58,400
Speaker 4: little scratches in your mouth. And if the person got

1416
01:05:58,440 --> 01:06:01,840
Speaker 4: an s TV, he can get in the sword any booms.

1417
01:06:02,360 --> 01:06:04,760
Speaker 2: Now you gotch media all up in your mouth. I

1418
01:06:04,840 --> 01:06:06,880
Speaker 2: don't see that video on Twitter. I was going viral

1419
01:06:06,960 --> 01:06:10,640
Speaker 2: this guy. He was he so fun. It's not fun,

1420
01:06:10,760 --> 01:06:12,600
Speaker 2: but he was wrapping in the girl. It was a

1421
01:06:12,640 --> 01:06:13,720
Speaker 2: girl and a guy behind him.

1422
01:06:13,600 --> 01:06:17,560
Speaker 1: Fucking in the U haul and everybody was like they

1423
01:06:17,720 --> 01:06:19,000
Speaker 1: fucking but they using the conna.

1424
01:06:19,040 --> 01:06:21,040
Speaker 2: But she was giving him head with no condom. Yeah,

1425
01:06:21,160 --> 01:06:22,360
Speaker 2: but it was like, what's the point.

1426
01:06:22,680 --> 01:06:25,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I mean, I feel like I'm not fucking

1427
01:06:25,640 --> 01:06:27,600
Speaker 4: on nigga. Who I feel like I can't brush my

1428
01:06:27,720 --> 01:06:34,160
Speaker 4: teeth right right before, right before you, because I'm like

1429
01:06:34,240 --> 01:06:38,959
Speaker 4: get a little sores or clothes. Like that's wildest fuck

1430
01:06:39,040 --> 01:06:42,520
Speaker 4: when you really think about it, Like that's literal insanity.

1431
01:06:43,040 --> 01:06:44,040
Speaker 2: That is kind of crazy.

1432
01:06:44,120 --> 01:06:46,360
Speaker 4: It's insanity, Like I'm not gonna bush my teeth before

1433
01:06:46,400 --> 01:06:47,920
Speaker 4: I go fuck this nigga because I don't know if

1434
01:06:47,960 --> 01:06:51,000
Speaker 4: he got Chalamedia's like, what, you shouldn't be sucking him

1435
01:06:52,000 --> 01:06:54,720
Speaker 4: if that is crazy when you put it that way.

1436
01:06:54,840 --> 01:06:56,280
Speaker 2: So yeah, let us know.

1437
01:06:56,360 --> 01:06:59,240
Speaker 1: What are some aftercare things that y'all do after sex?

1438
01:06:59,480 --> 01:07:01,960
Speaker 1: And I'm sorry, I feel like we're on an emotional level.

1439
01:07:02,280 --> 01:07:04,080
Speaker 1: I do like to cuddle after six too.

1440
01:07:04,480 --> 01:07:06,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I want to lay on your chest and

1441
01:07:07,040 --> 01:07:10,440
Speaker 2: I like to see the soft meat out play with

1442
01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:16,520
Speaker 2: them little hair, yes on the cheese night. Oh, I'll

1443
01:07:16,560 --> 01:07:28,040
Speaker 2: be like that's gross, talk about a little thing. Okay,

1444
01:07:28,120 --> 01:07:32,400
Speaker 2: that's wild, all right. I don't oway your hand Item.

1445
01:07:32,200 --> 01:07:34,800
Speaker 4: Of the Week, of course, it is mus Beauty Collection

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Speaker 4: dot Com. Make sure y'all get y'all, lip glosses, lip liners,

1447
01:07:39,080 --> 01:07:42,240
Speaker 4: mad liquid lipsticks, jelly blushies, all of the above.

1448
01:07:42,320 --> 01:07:44,919
Speaker 2: We have some new products coming out soon. Of course.

1449
01:07:45,000 --> 01:07:48,040
Speaker 4: I have on the mascira and the liquid eyeliner that

1450
01:07:48,080 --> 01:07:50,960
Speaker 4: will be dropping really really soon, so stay tuned for that.

1451
01:07:51,560 --> 01:07:53,200
Speaker 2: And as always, you.

1452
01:07:53,240 --> 01:07:58,160
Speaker 4: Know, my lip combo is Muse Chestnut Liner, the plump

1453
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Speaker 4: It Up lip plumper and is giving m hmm.

1454
01:08:00,800 --> 01:08:04,880
Speaker 1: Period And perusual, you know Rich Lowcare always supply me

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Speaker 1: with the hair Rich Lookcare dot com.

1456
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Speaker 2: Shout out to my girl Diddi sof y'all at your

1457
01:08:08,200 --> 01:08:10,760
Speaker 2: girl XP and it's Sugarl Dre and the call.

1458
01:08:11,200 --> 01:08:13,720
Speaker 1: Y'all know, we have a segment on Poor Minds called

1459
01:08:13,800 --> 01:08:15,760
Speaker 1: Item of the Week. But do you have a product

1460
01:08:15,840 --> 01:08:17,280
Speaker 1: or something that you want to promote and you want

1461
01:08:17,320 --> 01:08:18,599
Speaker 1: it featured on Poor Minds.

1462
01:08:18,920 --> 01:08:21,120
Speaker 2: Your opportunity is here period.

1463
01:08:21,600 --> 01:08:23,639
Speaker 4: If you have an item or you have a business

1464
01:08:23,680 --> 01:08:25,559
Speaker 4: and you want to get it promoted, we are now

1465
01:08:25,720 --> 01:08:29,000
Speaker 4: having slots available on the Poor Minds episode. So if

1466
01:08:29,080 --> 01:08:31,400
Speaker 4: you would like to get your product featured for Item

1467
01:08:31,479 --> 01:08:33,720
Speaker 4: of the Week, all you need to do is send

1468
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Speaker 4: an email to Item of the Week PM at gmail

1469
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Speaker 4: dot com.

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Speaker 2: That's I T E M of T H E W

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Speaker 2: E E k PM at gmail dot com. Send us

1472
01:08:46,760 --> 01:08:49,120
Speaker 2: an email and we'll work it out. We gonna figure

1473
01:08:49,120 --> 01:08:49,400
Speaker 2: it out.

1474
01:08:49,840 --> 01:08:53,639
Speaker 4: Get your product, get your business sponsored, and yeah, make.

1475
01:08:53,520 --> 01:08:56,400
Speaker 2: You some money. We love to some more. A small

1476
01:08:56,479 --> 01:08:59,600
Speaker 2: business man and a black business said that, but I

1477
01:08:59,680 --> 01:09:04,839
Speaker 2: mean anybody as well. Don't discriminade any business is welcome.

1478
01:09:41,720 --> 01:09:44,240
Speaker 2: You believable. Did you do limits me?

1479
01:09:44,479 --> 01:09:44,519
Speaker 6: No?

1480
01:09:44,880 --> 01:09:53,040
Speaker 2: No, just taking neighborhood on me for sure. And now

1481
01:09:53,360 --> 01:10:03,439
Speaker 2: it's time to get into the bow bow bow. Okay,

1482
01:10:03,640 --> 01:10:05,479
Speaker 2: So bapa the week, So I'm gonna switch it up.

1483
01:10:05,520 --> 01:10:08,400
Speaker 1: Y'all know I usually do indie artists and I'm always

1484
01:10:08,400 --> 01:10:09,720
Speaker 1: shouting them out, but I do want to do a

1485
01:10:09,800 --> 01:10:14,120
Speaker 1: mainstream artist this week. So y'all know I am on

1486
01:10:14,439 --> 01:10:19,160
Speaker 1: the Tate McCrae train. I love when the girlies are

1487
01:10:19,720 --> 01:10:22,200
Speaker 1: in their lane, in the pop lane. We haven't had

1488
01:10:22,280 --> 01:10:25,479
Speaker 1: a pop superstar in a long time, and I feel

1489
01:10:25,520 --> 01:10:27,800
Speaker 1: like the girls are doing a good job. Sabrina A

1490
01:10:28,680 --> 01:10:33,120
Speaker 1: Carpenter is amazing, and Tate McCray is so good.

1491
01:10:33,960 --> 01:10:34,960
Speaker 2: She is got it.

1492
01:10:35,560 --> 01:10:37,360
Speaker 1: She's not trying to be nothing else. She is a

1493
01:10:37,479 --> 01:10:40,000
Speaker 1: pop star. So she dropped her album she has a

1494
01:10:40,080 --> 01:10:42,120
Speaker 1: song called Blood on My Hands feature.

1495
01:10:41,800 --> 01:10:45,160
Speaker 2: And Flow Millie and I don't know Tate. McCray just

1496
01:10:45,200 --> 01:10:46,599
Speaker 2: has a little swag about her.

1497
01:10:47,000 --> 01:10:50,040
Speaker 1: It doesn't give, try hard, it doesn't give like she's

1498
01:10:50,160 --> 01:10:50,920
Speaker 1: just doing too much.

1499
01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:52,360
Speaker 2: She is just a cutie girl.

1500
01:10:52,680 --> 01:10:55,880
Speaker 1: She can dance her ass off, and that's what the

1501
01:10:55,960 --> 01:10:58,280
Speaker 1: pop girls are missing, y'all not dancing no more.

1502
01:10:58,640 --> 01:11:02,760
Speaker 2: We need a hot boom, a high a count, break

1503
01:11:02,840 --> 01:11:06,519
Speaker 2: it down. Okay, that's what the world. The world is

1504
01:11:06,720 --> 01:11:11,400
Speaker 2: missing the boom Cats. Shout out to Lari and Gibson.

1505
01:11:11,560 --> 01:11:12,559
Speaker 2: Shout out to our girl.

1506
01:11:12,720 --> 01:11:15,840
Speaker 1: So yeah, take McCray. I think it's an amazing album.

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01:11:16,040 --> 01:11:18,880
Speaker 1: I think the rollout was good. I think that she

1508
01:11:19,920 --> 01:11:22,479
Speaker 1: understands herself as an artist. It was kind of shaky

1509
01:11:22,560 --> 01:11:24,680
Speaker 1: for a little bit for me at first, but I

1510
01:11:24,760 --> 01:11:26,320
Speaker 1: think her team they're figuring out.

1511
01:11:26,160 --> 01:11:28,240
Speaker 2: And they're getting it together. So I'm rooting for the girl.

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01:11:28,560 --> 01:11:30,680
Speaker 1: Okay, you know what I'm saying. Shout out to Take

1513
01:11:30,800 --> 01:11:34,439
Speaker 1: McCray and Flow Milly. Now that's a good placement. Flow Millie,

1514
01:11:34,560 --> 01:11:35,639
Speaker 1: keep doing your thing now.

1515
01:11:35,960 --> 01:11:37,519
Speaker 2: I know this word period.

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Speaker 4: So I don't have a new bop this week, but

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01:11:40,560 --> 01:11:43,879
Speaker 4: you feel like it's my duty to please as an elder.

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01:11:47,080 --> 01:11:48,000
Speaker 2: We are elders.

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01:11:48,920 --> 01:11:52,280
Speaker 4: It is my duty as an elder to put y'all

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01:11:52,439 --> 01:11:55,840
Speaker 4: on the old school music because y'all don't be knowing

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01:11:55,880 --> 01:11:56,160
Speaker 4: about it.

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01:11:56,280 --> 01:11:56,600
Speaker 2: I don't know.

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01:11:56,720 --> 01:11:59,519
Speaker 4: I just being in a little era of listening to

1524
01:11:59,560 --> 01:12:01,680
Speaker 4: the Eyes Brothers a lot. I don't know if it

1525
01:12:01,720 --> 01:12:03,679
Speaker 4: was because he had popped up on my timeline talking

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01:12:03,680 --> 01:12:07,920
Speaker 4: about what he listened to during six. Ronald Eisley shot

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01:12:07,960 --> 01:12:09,960
Speaker 4: out to him, but I was like, you know, i'd

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01:12:09,960 --> 01:12:10,760
Speaker 4: be actually.

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01:12:10,520 --> 01:12:15,080
Speaker 2: Listening to you during six. Okay, So I don't know.

1530
01:12:15,200 --> 01:12:16,920
Speaker 2: I just been listening to to so many songs.

1531
01:12:16,960 --> 01:12:19,200
Speaker 4: I got a nice little play least between the sheets

1532
01:12:19,880 --> 01:12:23,040
Speaker 4: for the love of You, Groove with You, sho was

1533
01:12:23,080 --> 01:12:23,479
Speaker 4: the lover.

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01:12:24,920 --> 01:12:27,200
Speaker 2: I can keep going and go voyage to Atlantis. That's

1535
01:12:27,240 --> 01:12:34,840
Speaker 2: me a song. Oh yeah, that's a good one. Oh yeah.

1536
01:12:34,960 --> 01:12:37,360
Speaker 2: So I've just been in like my old school bag.

1537
01:12:37,680 --> 01:12:39,320
Speaker 2: I mean, feeling it, feeling the love.

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01:12:39,600 --> 01:12:42,519
Speaker 1: I think the longevity of the Isley Brothers hasn't talked

1539
01:12:42,520 --> 01:12:45,320
Speaker 1: about enough too. These men have been making music since

1540
01:12:45,360 --> 01:12:46,120
Speaker 1: what the sixties?

1541
01:12:46,240 --> 01:12:48,439
Speaker 2: They was making music since my mama was three.

1542
01:12:48,720 --> 01:12:52,240
Speaker 3: Who who died?

1543
01:12:53,960 --> 01:13:01,000
Speaker 2: Holt? It ain't that many left hold on, y'all, sh just.

1544
01:13:05,320 --> 01:13:09,120
Speaker 1: What's his name? Chris Jasper All? We rest in peace

1545
01:13:09,200 --> 01:13:14,560
Speaker 1: to him. That's really sad. The keyboard player, so and

1546
01:13:14,640 --> 01:13:16,360
Speaker 1: I would say this, we don't give them their flowers

1547
01:13:16,439 --> 01:13:18,000
Speaker 1: up because, like I said, they've been making music since

1548
01:13:18,040 --> 01:13:19,160
Speaker 1: what the fifties.

1549
01:13:18,800 --> 01:13:24,280
Speaker 2: The sixties and no, I'm serious. I was not playing

1550
01:13:24,320 --> 01:13:26,360
Speaker 2: when I said my mama was three. Yeah, yeah, so

1551
01:13:26,520 --> 01:13:29,760
Speaker 2: I think that to be relevant for this long, like

1552
01:13:29,880 --> 01:13:35,360
Speaker 2: you still making jams still. I have something devastating because

1553
01:13:35,400 --> 01:13:39,240
Speaker 2: he had a song like with Beyonce, right yeah, a

1554
01:13:39,360 --> 01:13:41,120
Speaker 2: year or two ago, and that song was good.

1555
01:13:41,720 --> 01:13:44,000
Speaker 1: I have some devastating news I found out the other

1556
01:13:44,080 --> 01:13:45,479
Speaker 1: day that I had no idea.

1557
01:13:46,240 --> 01:13:48,439
Speaker 2: I just don't really feel like is that.

1558
01:13:50,160 --> 01:13:52,840
Speaker 1: And I want to apologize to everybody out there because

1559
01:13:52,840 --> 01:13:55,040
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to you. I'm not gonna stop listening.

1560
01:13:54,800 --> 01:13:55,320
Speaker 2: To this song.

1561
01:13:57,520 --> 01:14:00,600
Speaker 1: So everybody knows my favorite song and the whole wide

1562
01:14:00,680 --> 01:14:02,840
Speaker 1: world is Life by Casey and Jojo.

1563
01:14:03,120 --> 01:14:06,599
Speaker 2: Yeah. I did not know that R Kelly wrote that song.

1564
01:14:07,600 --> 01:14:08,720
Speaker 2: I just found this out.

1565
01:14:10,080 --> 01:14:15,000
Speaker 1: I just found this out like forty eight hours ago,

1566
01:14:15,840 --> 01:14:20,080
Speaker 1: just like I'm listening to Silence in a minute, people

1567
01:14:20,160 --> 01:14:25,680
Speaker 1: getting canceled I mean, I was actually mad when the

1568
01:14:25,760 --> 01:14:27,759
Speaker 1: person told me, because they know how I am about

1569
01:14:27,760 --> 01:14:29,439
Speaker 1: stuff like that, and I don't take it as a

1570
01:14:29,520 --> 01:14:30,800
Speaker 1: joke and I don't take it lightly.

1571
01:14:31,720 --> 01:14:33,400
Speaker 2: And I'm like, there's some things you can just keep

1572
01:14:33,439 --> 01:14:36,800
Speaker 2: to yourself. You didn't have to tell me that. It's

1573
01:14:36,880 --> 01:14:39,600
Speaker 2: good that you know now though it's not going to

1574
01:14:39,720 --> 01:14:42,960
Speaker 2: change a thing. It's not gonna change a thing.

1575
01:14:43,040 --> 01:14:45,400
Speaker 4: But I feel like now you can expand your catalog again.

1576
01:14:46,800 --> 01:14:49,160
Speaker 4: I mean, technically you're still supporting him.

1577
01:14:49,479 --> 01:14:52,760
Speaker 1: Well, y'all just gonna have to cancel me behind that. Yeah,

1578
01:14:53,320 --> 01:14:54,920
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it's not happening.

1579
01:14:55,040 --> 01:14:57,960
Speaker 4: You know what's really crazy though, that out of his

1580
01:14:58,280 --> 01:14:59,840
Speaker 4: whole catalog, that.

1581
01:15:00,120 --> 01:15:02,559
Speaker 2: The one y'all want to give us, that's.

1582
01:15:02,439 --> 01:15:04,880
Speaker 1: The one I'm giving it up. You're gonna have to

1583
01:15:04,960 --> 01:15:07,240
Speaker 1: pry it out of my cold dead hand.

1584
01:15:07,520 --> 01:15:12,680
Speaker 2: That's crazy. I'm not doing it, Okay. Sorry, he is

1585
01:15:12,680 --> 01:15:17,160
Speaker 2: about to slip away from you. Do you know you

1586
01:15:17,200 --> 01:15:20,719
Speaker 2: got thirty min? Do you know you got girl?

1587
01:15:21,240 --> 01:15:24,639
Speaker 1: Anyways, we get into our favorite segment of the show.

1588
01:15:24,680 --> 01:15:26,559
Speaker 1: If you want your question answer on the show, make

1589
01:15:26,600 --> 01:15:27,520
Speaker 1: sure you email.

1590
01:15:27,280 --> 01:15:27,760
Speaker 2: Us at ASK.

1591
01:15:27,840 --> 01:15:30,320
Speaker 1: I got to sneeze ask poor minds at gmail dot com.

1592
01:15:30,760 --> 01:15:32,479
Speaker 1: If you're a Patreon member, make sure you put that

1593
01:15:32,560 --> 01:15:34,880
Speaker 1: in the headline. You get to skip the line, and

1594
01:15:34,960 --> 01:15:37,479
Speaker 1: we're gonna do the best we can to give y'all advice.

1595
01:15:37,880 --> 01:15:40,599
Speaker 2: When is he gonna come? I don't know. I don't

1596
01:15:40,640 --> 01:15:45,400
Speaker 2: know if it was a birth of sneeze or thought gripping.

1597
01:15:50,360 --> 01:15:56,519
Speaker 2: Gripping it for why say, Oh my goodness, that was

1598
01:15:56,680 --> 01:16:07,880
Speaker 2: so nasty, but it definitely grit. Oh. Okay, I got

1599
01:16:07,960 --> 01:16:10,120
Speaker 2: a question number one today. All Right.

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01:16:10,240 --> 01:16:12,479
Speaker 1: I'm thirty one and I got engaged last year in

1601
01:16:12,680 --> 01:16:15,080
Speaker 1: Aruba after being with my man for five years. When

1602
01:16:15,120 --> 01:16:17,639
Speaker 1: I got back to the States, I was beyond excited

1603
01:16:17,680 --> 01:16:20,560
Speaker 1: to ask my closest friends to be my bridesmaids. But

1604
01:16:20,680 --> 01:16:23,040
Speaker 1: when I asked my best friend, the one I really

1605
01:16:23,080 --> 01:16:26,080
Speaker 1: wanted by my side, she told me no. I was

1606
01:16:26,200 --> 01:16:28,840
Speaker 1: completely thrown off by her response, so I brought it

1607
01:16:28,960 --> 01:16:32,200
Speaker 1: up later to get some clarity. She still said no,

1608
01:16:32,640 --> 01:16:36,760
Speaker 1: explain that she felt left out of my private proposal.

1609
01:16:38,040 --> 01:16:41,120
Speaker 2: I eventually accepted her decision, but it made me feel

1610
01:16:41,200 --> 01:16:44,160
Speaker 2: some type of way about our friendship. Her reasoning just

1611
01:16:44,320 --> 01:16:45,320
Speaker 2: didn't make sense to me.

1612
01:16:45,800 --> 01:16:49,439
Speaker 1: Fast forward, and now she's coming back saying she does

1613
01:16:49,600 --> 01:16:51,439
Speaker 1: want to be my bridesmaid after all.

1614
01:16:51,760 --> 01:16:53,719
Speaker 2: At this point, I'm super conflicted.

1615
01:16:54,040 --> 01:16:56,599
Speaker 1: My gut is telling me to say no because honestly,

1616
01:16:56,920 --> 01:16:58,280
Speaker 1: it's giving weird vibes.

1617
01:16:58,479 --> 01:17:01,040
Speaker 2: So, ladies, how would you handle this? Would you let

1618
01:17:01,080 --> 01:17:02,840
Speaker 2: her back in? Or is it too late?

1619
01:17:03,040 --> 01:17:05,000
Speaker 4: Maybe you had a chance and he came and you

1620
01:17:05,120 --> 01:17:07,680
Speaker 4: motherfucking went. If I asked you to be at my

1621
01:17:07,800 --> 01:17:10,160
Speaker 4: wedding and you tell me no, any you think you

1622
01:17:10,240 --> 01:17:14,240
Speaker 4: can come back and change your mind, absolutely not, especially

1623
01:17:14,240 --> 01:17:16,280
Speaker 4: if you're reasoning for saying no. Did not make any

1624
01:17:16,360 --> 01:17:19,040
Speaker 4: sense to me because my proposal it's not about you,

1625
01:17:20,200 --> 01:17:22,280
Speaker 4: It's about my wedding. It's my wedding.

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01:17:23,880 --> 01:17:26,200
Speaker 2: It's my wedding, and I'm asking you to be a

1627
01:17:26,240 --> 01:17:27,800
Speaker 2: part of mine. You know what this is giving?

1628
01:17:28,200 --> 01:17:30,720
Speaker 1: Do you remember on Girlfriends when Joan was being so

1629
01:17:31,000 --> 01:17:33,640
Speaker 1: mean because she was getting married and.

1630
01:17:33,640 --> 01:17:36,000
Speaker 2: Then gets what Tony did? She so has bitch, Well,

1631
01:17:36,040 --> 01:17:38,519
Speaker 2: you ain't gotta come come, So I think that you

1632
01:17:38,600 --> 01:17:41,280
Speaker 2: should let her stand on it. But no, but then

1633
01:17:41,360 --> 01:17:43,280
Speaker 2: Tony didn't stand on it, though she did it.

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01:17:43,360 --> 01:17:44,560
Speaker 4: But I just think she let her be in the

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01:17:44,640 --> 01:17:46,960
Speaker 4: wedding with their ugly ash dress song, because remember, she

1636
01:17:47,000 --> 01:17:48,559
Speaker 4: could have but.

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01:17:48,600 --> 01:17:50,599
Speaker 2: It's just like people be doing too much.

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01:17:50,640 --> 01:17:52,639
Speaker 1: If you try to make your best friends wedding about

1639
01:17:52,680 --> 01:17:55,519
Speaker 1: you starting from the proposal, it's not gonna get better.

1640
01:17:55,680 --> 01:17:57,880
Speaker 2: She's gonna be around and being a Debbie downer.

1641
01:17:58,680 --> 01:18:01,880
Speaker 1: If my friend got proposed to, even if I was

1642
01:18:01,960 --> 01:18:03,959
Speaker 1: there or not, it could have been a public proposal.

1643
01:18:04,040 --> 01:18:06,560
Speaker 1: If something happened where I wasn't there, I'm still not

1644
01:18:06,640 --> 01:18:08,479
Speaker 1: finna be upset. I'd been like, dag, why you ain't

1645
01:18:08,479 --> 01:18:10,360
Speaker 1: make sure I was there talking to the man. But

1646
01:18:10,520 --> 01:18:13,400
Speaker 1: other than that, this is not about me. My friend

1647
01:18:13,479 --> 01:18:16,000
Speaker 1: is finna get married ya. So I don't think you

1648
01:18:16,000 --> 01:18:17,920
Speaker 1: should allow her in the moody because she's already.

1649
01:18:17,640 --> 01:18:19,960
Speaker 2: Showing you how she feels. This is not about you.

1650
01:18:20,880 --> 01:18:25,360
Speaker 2: So no, okay, stan on a period? All right? Okay?

1651
01:18:25,520 --> 01:18:29,240
Speaker 4: Question number two, Hey ladies, beefan, y'all are Hilarry's I

1652
01:18:29,320 --> 01:18:32,000
Speaker 4: had a best for instance twenty seventeen, more like a sister.

1653
01:18:32,600 --> 01:18:35,240
Speaker 4: Last year I noticed she was m I A for everything,

1654
01:18:35,680 --> 01:18:40,160
Speaker 4: my birthday, my engagement, all of it. We talked, she apologized,

1655
01:18:40,160 --> 01:18:42,439
Speaker 4: and I thought we were good. Then I broke up

1656
01:18:42,520 --> 01:18:48,360
Speaker 4: with my girl. But double back for some kouchie tickling. Okay,

1657
01:18:49,120 --> 01:18:51,920
Speaker 4: my best found out. She said she didn't support it

1658
01:18:52,040 --> 01:18:55,240
Speaker 4: and wouldn't be around. I told her I respect her feelings,

1659
01:18:55,600 --> 01:18:58,559
Speaker 4: but expect them, but expect respects in return.

1660
01:18:58,920 --> 01:18:59,920
Speaker 2: She left me on red.

1661
01:19:00,360 --> 01:19:02,760
Speaker 4: A month later, she says she washed her hands with

1662
01:19:02,840 --> 01:19:06,200
Speaker 4: me and confirmed we're no longer friends, no explanation, eight

1663
01:19:06,320 --> 01:19:06,920
Speaker 4: years gone.

1664
01:19:07,240 --> 01:19:11,439
Speaker 2: Am I tripping? What would y'all do? Bitch? Let the

1665
01:19:11,520 --> 01:19:14,280
Speaker 2: door hit you with a good lord's leech you. Once

1666
01:19:14,320 --> 01:19:16,559
Speaker 2: you walk goodbye, don't come back.

1667
01:19:16,560 --> 01:19:19,479
Speaker 4: No good fucking bye. Like, I just feel like y'all

1668
01:19:19,520 --> 01:19:22,439
Speaker 4: gotta be okay with people. If somebody is okay with

1669
01:19:22,600 --> 01:19:25,000
Speaker 4: walking out of your life, you gotta be okay with

1670
01:19:25,120 --> 01:19:25,840
Speaker 4: letting them walk.

1671
01:19:26,960 --> 01:19:27,200
Speaker 2: Yug.

1672
01:19:27,479 --> 01:19:29,519
Speaker 4: Maybe you tripping on it a little bit because y'all

1673
01:19:29,600 --> 01:19:32,439
Speaker 4: being friends for so long, which is understandable. That's a

1674
01:19:32,560 --> 01:19:35,400
Speaker 4: human response to have when somebody hurt your feelings. But

1675
01:19:35,520 --> 01:19:37,920
Speaker 4: I would be cool with letting that beach go because

1676
01:19:38,120 --> 01:19:40,240
Speaker 4: you just walked out of my life, no explanation, And

1677
01:19:40,240 --> 01:19:42,280
Speaker 4: you're gonna tell me that you've washed your hands with me,

1678
01:19:42,360 --> 01:19:44,000
Speaker 4: bit y'all washed my hands first.

1679
01:19:44,400 --> 01:19:44,599
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1680
01:19:44,680 --> 01:19:46,599
Speaker 1: I think if somebody doesn't want to be in your life,

1681
01:19:46,680 --> 01:19:49,200
Speaker 1: just let them. I believe in the let them theory.

1682
01:19:49,439 --> 01:19:51,360
Speaker 1: No matter what is going on, let people do it.

1683
01:19:51,439 --> 01:19:51,800
Speaker 2: You can't.

1684
01:19:52,120 --> 01:19:57,160
Speaker 1: You can't cry, nag, complain, pray nobody in your life.

1685
01:19:57,640 --> 01:19:59,559
Speaker 2: If they want to be there, they will be there.

1686
01:19:59,680 --> 01:20:02,679
Speaker 2: Let them. Let people do what they want to do. Yeah,

1687
01:20:02,880 --> 01:20:07,120
Speaker 2: like the fuck goodbye? Let that he go?

1688
01:20:08,920 --> 01:20:09,360
Speaker 1: All right?

1689
01:20:09,600 --> 01:20:13,519
Speaker 2: All right? So, uh make sure y'all tune in Poor

1690
01:20:13,600 --> 01:20:17,840
Speaker 2: Minds every Friday, love lexp every Monday ten am. Uh

1691
01:20:18,360 --> 01:20:21,799
Speaker 2: Dre and the Call with three E's on YouTube every Sunday.

1692
01:20:22,960 --> 01:20:26,200
Speaker 2: But yeah, let's see y'all say, Oh soomix dot com.

1693
01:20:26,520 --> 01:20:29,800
Speaker 2: Oh you get your calendars y'all period. You know what

1694
01:20:29,840 --> 01:20:31,880
Speaker 2: I'm saying. And uh, we'll see y'all next week.

1695
01:20:32,240 --> 01:20:37,360
Speaker 1: Bye, y'all, y'all, make sure y'all share the content, like subscribe,

1696
01:20:37,600 --> 01:20:39,439
Speaker 1: follow all that good stuff. And let me say this

1697
01:20:39,520 --> 01:20:43,639
Speaker 1: before we close off, y'all. There is one Twitter account

1698
01:20:43,720 --> 01:20:46,000
Speaker 1: that is connected to pour Minds. It's p O. You

1699
01:20:46,240 --> 01:20:50,760
Speaker 1: are underscore in my nds. Y'all are tagging the wrong

1700
01:20:50,880 --> 01:20:53,880
Speaker 1: pour Minds page. If you see at poor Minds with

1701
01:20:54,000 --> 01:20:55,800
Speaker 1: no underscore, that is at fake page, do.

1702
01:20:55,880 --> 01:20:56,840
Speaker 2: Not follow that page.

1703
01:20:56,880 --> 01:21:00,840
Speaker 1: Okay, they block me Andrea and the poor Minds page

1704
01:21:00,880 --> 01:21:06,639
Speaker 1: on both, so we only have one Instagram, one Twitter, one.

1705
01:21:06,600 --> 01:21:10,280
Speaker 2: TikTok it is p o. You are underscore in my nds,

1706
01:21:10,400 --> 01:21:13,519
Speaker 2: all right, and we gotta hell a fake Facebook page.

1707
01:21:13,960 --> 01:21:16,000
Speaker 2: The Facebook pages it's our face.

1708
01:21:16,240 --> 01:21:18,960
Speaker 4: The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the

1709
01:21:19,080 --> 01:21:20,840
Speaker 4: least amount of follow So if you're.

1710
01:21:20,760 --> 01:21:23,639
Speaker 1: On face, the one that's ours got the least amount

1711
01:21:23,640 --> 01:21:24,160
Speaker 1: of file.

1712
01:21:24,080 --> 01:21:26,719
Speaker 2: But one that's not us got like two hundred and fifty.

1713
01:21:27,840 --> 01:21:29,519
Speaker 1: Make if you actually look at the content, because the

1714
01:21:29,600 --> 01:21:32,160
Speaker 1: caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English?

1715
01:21:32,439 --> 01:21:35,639
Speaker 2: Because their captains are like bumba claude, should men? Should

1716
01:21:35,760 --> 01:21:39,000
Speaker 2: men pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes?

1717
01:21:39,120 --> 01:21:39,160
Speaker 6: No?

1718
01:21:40,439 --> 01:21:44,639
Speaker 1: Check answer below block block pull pull pull.

1719
01:21:45,360 --> 01:21:47,640
Speaker 2: Like that's literally what the captions. I'm like you, what

1720
01:21:48,000 --> 01:21:50,479
Speaker 2: that DG is bumba claude, Bamba claud.

1721
01:21:53,479 --> 01:21:55,840
Speaker 6: I ain't ever had nobody show me all the things

1722
01:21:55,880 --> 01:21:57,720
Speaker 6: that you just show me in the special way you

1723
01:21:57,840 --> 01:22:00,639
Speaker 6: feel when you hope me. We don't always be together, baby,

1724
01:22:00,760 --> 01:22:03,000
Speaker 6: that's what you told me. You're not believe it because

1725
01:22:03,000 --> 01:22:05,240
Speaker 6: I ain't never had nobody that you like you.

1726
01:22:05,880 --> 01:22:08,120
Speaker 4: I don't been with different kind of girl, like I

1727
01:22:08,160 --> 01:22:10,280
Speaker 4: don't seen them all, but ain't none of them mad

1728
01:22:10,360 --> 01:22:12,840
Speaker 4: all like you, and I haven't seen the best of

1729
01:22:12,960 --> 01:22:15,400
Speaker 4: the best, baby still lying in press because.

1730
01:22:15,160 --> 01:22:18,080
Speaker 2: I ain't none of them med all. You know how

1731
01:22:18,120 --> 01:22:21,559
Speaker 2: I feel when I with a girl that she gotta

1732
01:22:21,640 --> 01:22:22,800
Speaker 2: be just thank you.

1733
01:22:23,439 --> 01:22:25,680
Speaker 4: Maybe that's the way I feel, And I got no

1734
01:22:25,960 --> 01:22:28,280
Speaker 4: choice but for me to keep it real, because when

1735
01:22:28,320 --> 01:22:32,280
Speaker 4: we first got together, started hanging out, you were skeptical

1736
01:22:32,400 --> 01:22:35,000
Speaker 4: at first, had to figure out if I was the

1737
01:22:35,120 --> 01:22:36,880
Speaker 4: kind of guy that trying to dog you out.

1738
01:22:37,000 --> 01:22:39,120
Speaker 2: But I ain't that trying to guy. You try to

1739
01:22:39,200 --> 01:22:39,880
Speaker 2: make me out.

1740
01:22:40,479 --> 01:22:43,360
Speaker 4: You found out when you turned to my baby. I

1741
01:22:43,439 --> 01:22:46,439
Speaker 4: showed them other brothers how to treat a lady. I'll

1742
01:22:46,479 --> 01:22:49,080
Speaker 4: let you drive when I ride that Mercedes, and I

1743
01:22:49,120 --> 01:22:51,840
Speaker 4: ain't tripping or acting shady because baby, you know.

1744
01:22:52,040 --> 01:22:54,320
Speaker 6: I ain't never had nobody show me the other things

1745
01:22:54,360 --> 01:22:56,280
Speaker 6: that you just show me in this special way I

1746
01:22:56,400 --> 01:22:58,759
Speaker 6: feel when you hold me. We gonna always be together,

1747
01:22:58,800 --> 01:23:01,120
Speaker 6: a baby, That's what you told me. Get I believe

1748
01:23:01,160 --> 01:23:02,519
Speaker 6: it because I am I had.

1749
01:23:02,400 --> 01:23:03,760
Speaker 2: Nobody do me like you.

1750
01:23:05,920 --> 01:23:10,040
Speaker 3: Oh, oh, your alma raw.

1751
01:23:11,360 --> 01:23:14,080
Speaker 2: To me. I can't wait to see you. I want

1752
01:23:14,160 --> 01:23:16,760
Speaker 2: to be with you again. And every time you are

1753
01:23:16,800 --> 01:23:20,439
Speaker 2: out on the road and whenever I'm doing a show.

1754
01:23:20,600 --> 01:23:23,760
Speaker 2: Don't you forget I'm your main cheek who got that game?

1755
01:23:23,880 --> 01:23:25,920
Speaker 2: Chick one in the same chick one.

1756
01:23:25,840 --> 01:23:28,720
Speaker 6: You can't hang me. I ain't never had nobody show

1757
01:23:28,760 --> 01:23:30,479
Speaker 6: me all the things that you just show me in

1758
01:23:30,560 --> 01:23:33,320
Speaker 6: a special way. I feel you gonna, we gonna always

1759
01:23:33,400 --> 01:23:33,920
Speaker 6: be together.

1760
01:23:34,760 --> 01:23:37,880
Speaker 2: What you told me your number, because I ain't nobody

1761
01:23:38,080 --> 01:23:51,000
Speaker 2: give me like you nothing when sam more, I'll give

1762
01:23:51,000 --> 01:23:53,840
Speaker 2: you this, give you that what you need. You know

1763
01:23:54,000 --> 01:23:54,400
Speaker 2: I got it.

1764
01:23:54,520 --> 01:23:57,840
Speaker 4: Holler at me if you need in a fiction, because

1765
01:23:57,840 --> 01:24:00,600
Speaker 4: I'll be your protection. Kind of hard job, but I

1766
01:24:00,760 --> 01:24:03,360
Speaker 4: do it to perfection. And you can tell that I

1767
01:24:03,400 --> 01:24:05,640
Speaker 4: ain't trying to let you go you with you when

1768
01:24:05,720 --> 01:24:09,280
Speaker 4: I can, So that's how I let you know, because

1769
01:24:09,320 --> 01:24:11,560
Speaker 4: sometimes I gotta go with you. The first one I

1770
01:24:11,720 --> 01:24:14,960
Speaker 4: holler to right after my show, and I was tripping

1771
01:24:15,040 --> 01:24:17,400
Speaker 4: in a sense. I was tensed from my body.

1772
01:24:17,240 --> 01:24:19,439
Speaker 2: Loose around you. What I'm gonna do without you?

1773
01:24:19,920 --> 01:24:22,160
Speaker 4: I gotta get it together to say whatever.

1774
01:24:22,280 --> 01:24:25,280
Speaker 2: But since I met you, my life seems so better.

1775
01:24:25,680 --> 01:24:28,040
Speaker 6: I ain't never had nobody show me all the things

1776
01:24:28,080 --> 01:24:29,840
Speaker 6: that you just show me in this special way.

1777
01:24:29,920 --> 01:24:32,439
Speaker 2: I feel when you hope we gonna always see together.

1778
01:24:35,160 --> 01:24:35,719
Speaker 3: I ain't.

1779
01:24:45,640 --> 01:24:58,320
Speaker 2: Lod he lie bye, y'all.

1780
01:25:00,600 --> 01:25:09,360
Speaker 3: It is there, It is there, It is there.

1781
01:25:11,920 --> 01:25:12,439
Speaker 6: It is