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Speaker 1: With Alexi Napola and Marisa Patton an iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Okay, my friend, Well, how are you feeling today? I'm

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Speaker 2: much better.

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Speaker 1: I did my hair, put a little bit of makeup

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Speaker 1: for you, and I'm feeling a lot better. Wow. I

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Speaker 1: didn't do any of that for you. Oh, I kind

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Speaker 1: of did it for myself. I'm not gonna lie. It

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Speaker 1: always makes me feel better. This is what makes me

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Speaker 1: feel better. Yeah. Yeah, if I look good, I feel good. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and vice versa. If I feel good, then I feel

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Speaker 1: like I look good. But in this case, I wasn't

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Speaker 1: feeling good and I wasn't looking good, so I had

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Speaker 1: to do my hair.

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Speaker 2: In a little bit of makeup. All right, Well, I'm

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Speaker 2: representing all the ugliness today. Guy and my cold.

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Speaker 1: We have a lot of things to chat about, Yes,

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Speaker 1: we do. But I guess one of the first hat

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Speaker 1: gimbi question is people want to know how we keep

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Speaker 1: our friendship so strong considering that there's so much drama

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Speaker 1: in our friend group. I love how you're saying that

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Speaker 1: with like a giggle a wink when you look at me.

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Speaker 1: I think you and I have found the recipe of

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Speaker 1: survival in this page.

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Speaker 2: Right, should we not share it or should we share it?

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean, we can share it, it's very difficult

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Speaker 1: to emulate it because you have to be very honest

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Speaker 1: and very truthful and very open, which we are, and

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Speaker 1: we talk all the time and we're clear with each other.

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Speaker 1: I think that's I mean, even when we say things

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Speaker 1: to each other, you know that aren't things we really

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Speaker 1: want to hear.

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Speaker 2: But at least we're being honest and truthful, right.

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Speaker 1: And then that keeps the lines of communication open and

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Speaker 1: and I don't know, I feel like you can't disappoint

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Speaker 1: if we're always communicating and open and honest with each other,

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Speaker 1: that is true.

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Speaker 3: I think that we have really proven to each other

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Speaker 3: like a laty and we really don't let the rest

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Speaker 3: of the girls. I think that they know no matter

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Speaker 3: what they say or what they say.

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Speaker 2: You know, we're not going to let it affect us

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Speaker 2: and our friendship.

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Speaker 3: That our friendship is stronger then whatever you know, rumor

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Speaker 3: or anything that can insinuate about us.

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Speaker 1: We have the foundation, you know. I think we've proven

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Speaker 1: it to each other throughout the years, and I think

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Speaker 1: that now they get it right, like.

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Speaker 2: After one of the years, if.

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Speaker 1: They try to do it, you and I are like,

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Speaker 1: I both follward and then we laugh on the side, like,

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Speaker 1: what were they thinking They're gonna break us up?

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Speaker 2: I think we're gonna get mad at each other.

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Speaker 1: They're crazy.

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Speaker 2: That's never gonna happen.

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Speaker 3: No, And I think it's kind of like, if you

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Speaker 3: can't beat them, join them. And now it's you know,

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Speaker 3: I'm happy to that we're all, you know, kind of

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Speaker 3: enjoying each other. And yeah, and it's becoming a really

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Speaker 3: fun friend group. I love friends. Yeah, I mean, as

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Speaker 3: you like to have friends, Marisol.

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Speaker 1: I've always had a lot of girlfriends. They weren't always

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Speaker 1: good friends, but I've had a lot of them. I

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Speaker 1: can vouch for that, you know, I seen I've seen

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Speaker 1: a few of your disappointments throughout my friendship history with you.

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Speaker 1: I want to say that I have a better eye,

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Speaker 1: you know, have better judgment with girlfriends. I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: talk about guy friends, but with girlfriends, I definitely have

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Speaker 1: a better judgment. Yeah, I would walk right into a

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Speaker 1: booby trap every time. I'm like, oh, there's so people

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Speaker 1: get me if they're fun. If they're fun, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, they're so fun. And then I want

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Speaker 2: So that's all. That's all you need to be fun

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Speaker 2: to be a friend.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how you got to be my friend. You're

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Speaker 1: a little bit more than that. I guess that I

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Speaker 1: stayed because I'm a little bit more than just fun. Right, absolutely, Well,

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Speaker 2: Yes, I guess we're going.

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Speaker 1: To be talking about the latest in the Shakira Pek drama. Sakira,

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Speaker 1: I know, well, you know, I guess so she she's

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Speaker 2: You know, it's probably healing for her.

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Speaker 3: And I feel like, you know, after a year that

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. Yeah, it's always like that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So Shakira quoted he me and her dad went

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Speaker 3: to Barcelona to console me after I was consumed with

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Speaker 3: sadness because of my separation. Well, he was at Milon's

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Speaker 3: first communion, he was gravely injured in an accident. Everything

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Speaker 1: It's so tough for super forwid Yeah, Shakira was facing

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Speaker 3: Was there any time in your life that everything happened

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Speaker 3: to you at once?

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Speaker 2: My god, you know that story?

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Speaker 1: I do. Yeah, yeah, this happened to me. And worse,

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Speaker 1: maybe there was no cheating, but I lost my parent,

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Speaker 1: and preceding that, my house was a horrible hurricane, all flooded.

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Speaker 2: I was trapped in there with water.

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Speaker 1: My cat died, My man I was living with moved out,

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Speaker 1: I just want to die, you know, heartbroken. The person

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Speaker 1: talk to about your partner leaving. It was like there

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Speaker 1: her feeling like it was the hardest time in her life. Absolutely,

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Speaker 1: have you had an experience, well, I know you've had

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Speaker 1: The first thing that comes to my mind was Frankie's accident,

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Speaker 1: where you think, why is this happening to me? It

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Speaker 1: wasn't even like why is this everything happening to me

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Speaker 1: So for me, that was the most difficult time because

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Speaker 1: So that was for sure the worst situation and the

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Speaker 1: most difficult that I've been in my life that like

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Speaker 1: I said that, it was like why is everything happened

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Speaker 3: Wasn't even the question. It was like why is this

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Speaker 3: situation again that said why is everything happening to me?

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Speaker 3: At once was recently, like two years ago, when I

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Speaker 3: So it was the same thing, that situation like why

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Speaker 3: and even like with Frankie's accident, the same thing. When

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Speaker 1: It was the day before school started on a Sunday.

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Speaker 1: So it's kind of like we feel like, you know,

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Speaker 3: Afraid to be super happy because I feel like it's

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Speaker 1: What I think since your mom is now taking care

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Speaker 3: Well, my father's always been taking care of me, which

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Speaker 3: is also like another question here that says like, you know,

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Speaker 3: how did you get through like this terrible time in

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And like I said, for me, it's always been

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Speaker 3: about faith and prayer and thank God, you know that

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Speaker 1: So I had a great support system.

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Speaker 3: And I also kept the journal by the way I'm

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Speaker 3: I'm still very emotional like even though I spend eleven years,

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Speaker 3: you read that and you're like, wow, like were you

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Speaker 2: I obviously had to put it away because I couldn't.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I.

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Speaker 2: Take your priorities, right, It's like a tough moment.

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Speaker 3: You're so desperate you take anything, but you know what

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Speaker 2: That's everything you just said.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I like to be private about my things.

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Speaker 2: No, I think it was just really like like who

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Speaker 3: I guess that made her feel good, Like you said,

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Speaker 2: She says that she used music.

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Speaker 2: Music changes people's lives.

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Speaker 3: It's therapeutic, and it helps everyone, you know, get through

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and she's putting good energy out there. So she's

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Speaker 2: Yes, So.

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Speaker 1: In other music news, what are you thinking about this

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's now it's getting more attention, but this

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Speaker 3: The crowd to the artists or the artists, to the

439
00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:23,040
Speaker 3: to the to the crowd should be No.

440
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Speaker 1: It's gotten really dangerous because back in the day, women

441
00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:28,879
Speaker 1: would throw their underwear at Tom Jones and that was

442
00:20:28,920 --> 00:20:32,119
Speaker 1: just like soft, silky underwear, so there's no heart. That

443
00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:34,679
Speaker 1: was fun and you had a brazier and it was

444
00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:37,560
Speaker 1: just like, oh, you know, you're sexy and I'm sharing

445
00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:40,040
Speaker 1: my lingerie with you. That was a little more fun.

446
00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:42,760
Speaker 1: But now it's getting dangerous. For God's sakes, did you

447
00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:48,400
Speaker 1: see that somebody throw their mother's ashes at Pink on stage?

448
00:20:48,440 --> 00:20:50,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, what are you not scary? The care?

449
00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:51,480
Speaker 2: Like, why would you do that?

450
00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:54,000
Speaker 1: Like, I just don't get first of all, I mean

451
00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:56,119
Speaker 1: I think it has to do again with mental health,

452
00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:59,960
Speaker 1: because I mean you cannot, you know, you know, show

453
00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:05,280
Speaker 1: with your mom's ashes and you know, unless like the past,

454
00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:10,040
Speaker 1: I think, right, But even so, like I just don't

455
00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:10,399
Speaker 1: get it.

456
00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:12,480
Speaker 3: I think just taking your mom's ashes, our mom would

457
00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:14,800
Speaker 3: have taken it all in. But like throwing them at

458
00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:17,680
Speaker 3: the artists, you know, it's dangerous and you know they're

459
00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:20,280
Speaker 3: lucky that you know, nothing happened, you know for that

460
00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:21,440
Speaker 3: matter in that instance.

461
00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:23,520
Speaker 1: But I mean it's something.

462
00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:26,480
Speaker 3: That now you know, we we have to be aware

463
00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:28,080
Speaker 3: of and actually be scared.

464
00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:30,159
Speaker 2: You know, if you're an artist, they.

465
00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:33,960
Speaker 1: Need to like check people's phones and any extra accouture

466
00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:35,320
Speaker 1: moments they're bringing into a concert.

467
00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:37,479
Speaker 2: How are they going to do it care thousands of people.

468
00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:39,800
Speaker 1: Well, they have to figure it out or leave your phone,

469
00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:42,160
Speaker 1: you know, like they're doing the airport. You just can't

470
00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:44,439
Speaker 1: bring anything in except your wallet and your cash, and

471
00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:45,280
Speaker 1: you're in and you're out.

472
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Speaker 3: It's probably going to end up like that because the

473
00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:50,120
Speaker 3: artists aren't going to want to perform. I mean, they're

474
00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:51,240
Speaker 3: going to be scared or they're going to have to

475
00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:54,719
Speaker 3: do like some type of barricade where they can't even reads. Yeah,

476
00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:57,000
Speaker 3: you know, the artists, because they're not going to put

477
00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:58,679
Speaker 3: their lives, you know, on the line for that. And

478
00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:01,640
Speaker 3: lately there's been so many instances like this and even

479
00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:04,200
Speaker 3: at different concerts, you know, people getting hurt.

480
00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:06,240
Speaker 1: So, I mean, so it takes away the joy. It

481
00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:09,320
Speaker 1: takes away the joy of like even going to a concert. No,

482
00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:12,200
Speaker 1: but I think also I think this whole concert thing

483
00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:15,480
Speaker 1: has really changed now obviously because of the phone as well,

484
00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:23,760
Speaker 1: and like social media and like TikTok by the way, No, no,

485
00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:26,640
Speaker 1: it's a super me too.

486
00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:29,240
Speaker 2: I think it's like not for me at all.

487
00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:34,479
Speaker 3: I find it super juvenile and stupid, and I'm sorry.

488
00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:37,760
Speaker 2: It's good to be have a brand, but for just

489
00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:39,200
Speaker 2: to just go on there and talk.

490
00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:40,960
Speaker 1: I don't even know it's a brand. It's all fraud.

491
00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:45,240
Speaker 1: I think everything is a fraud regardless. Talking about TikTok

492
00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:50,919
Speaker 1: on our next our next podcast, next segment trashing TikTok.

493
00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:54,919
Speaker 3: But no, I find no joy in it, truthfully, And

494
00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:56,880
Speaker 3: I think that a lot of these kids are doing

495
00:22:56,920 --> 00:23:00,000
Speaker 3: that just to get like that media attention, because you know,

496
00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:01,280
Speaker 3: the youth.

497
00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:03,879
Speaker 2: Is is obsessed with.

498
00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:06,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, with media, with attention.

499
00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:09,679
Speaker 3: So I think it's like a try anything that becomes

500
00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:11,600
Speaker 3: viral or trend whatever on TikTok.

501
00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:13,320
Speaker 2: You know, these kids want to do and repeat.

502
00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:15,679
Speaker 3: And you see, that's where I have a problem with

503
00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:18,159
Speaker 3: social media because if it was something good that they

504
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:21,240
Speaker 3: want to repeat, you know, and and emulate, fine, but

505
00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:23,480
Speaker 3: like something like that. So apparently there was like a

506
00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:27,680
Speaker 3: viral it's going in TikTok, viral of you know, kids

507
00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:30,560
Speaker 3: going to concerts and then throwing the phone at the

508
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:33,240
Speaker 3: stage or the artists and then the artist picks up

509
00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:35,639
Speaker 3: the phone and records, you know, and just like a

510
00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 3: selfie on their phone and records something. So of course

511
00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:42,240
Speaker 3: the child, the youth, the kid, you know, gets immediate

512
00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:44,680
Speaker 3: fame all of a sudden just because the artists did

513
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:45,800
Speaker 3: that and they have that on the phone.

514
00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 2: Follow interesting said, oh, it's funny.

515
00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:52,760
Speaker 3: If I throw it, maybe she'll catch it and do

516
00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:54,879
Speaker 3: me a little thing and throw it back. These are

517
00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:57,160
Speaker 3: kids and they're just watching these things all day long

518
00:23:57,720 --> 00:23:58,920
Speaker 3: and there doing my.

519
00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:01,840
Speaker 1: Phone is going to crack and it's another thousand dollars.

520
00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 1: These kids must be rich. See you dating a pappyomami

521
00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:09,200
Speaker 1: or they're not even thinking the consequences, right, because how

522
00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 1: does he even though it's gonna land and you know

523
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,399
Speaker 1: it's not gonna hurt somebody. It's just like really really

524
00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:14,120
Speaker 1: poor judgment.

525
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:17,359
Speaker 3: And again, I just think it's because they're they're watching

526
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 3: these things on social media and they think it's funny

527
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:21,960
Speaker 3: and it's not.

528
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:23,080
Speaker 2: It is not.

529
00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:24,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like you say, I mean, it used to

530
00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:26,280
Speaker 1: be back in the day that the girls want to,

531
00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:29,119
Speaker 1: you know, to throw the bra or a panty or

532
00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:30,040
Speaker 1: they would throw like.

533
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:33,439
Speaker 3: I don't know, you want to give them kisses. You

534
00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:35,160
Speaker 3: wanted to go up there to like, you know, give

535
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 3: them a hug or a kiss, for them to sing

536
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:40,960
Speaker 3: you a song. But like this to me is aggression,

537
00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:42,800
Speaker 3: you know, and I feel like we're just living in

538
00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 3: a way danger already.

539
00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 2: That's too aggressive.

540
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:49,200
Speaker 3: I think people are too aggressive and there's no need

541
00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 3: to throw anybody anything.

542
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:56,119
Speaker 1: I agree with you, my friend. There's this is a

543
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 1: pretty cut and dry topic here.

544
00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:00,760
Speaker 3: I mean, if they go to me, nobody's going to

545
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:03,000
Speaker 3: do that, you know, I think it might do it

546
00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 3: might be like the artist too, I mean, for example,

547
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:07,840
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know, have we seen maybe we

548
00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:10,440
Speaker 3: should do a little bit of researchency. Do these things

549
00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:13,080
Speaker 3: occur with Hispanic artists?

550
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:17,919
Speaker 1: I'm sure, I don't know. I'm gonna. I'm gonna I'm

551
00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:19,639
Speaker 1: gonna look that up after we hang up, because I

552
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:23,560
Speaker 1: want to see. You could always say, miel oh they

553
00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 1: Mark Antonio Solis or Mark Anthony, They've ever thrown anything

554
00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:27,640
Speaker 1: at them.

555
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 2: I have no idea. That's our homework, that's my homework.

556
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:31,440
Speaker 1: I'm going to do that for myself.

557
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:34,440
Speaker 3: We need to think that we need to fix that

558
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:37,120
Speaker 3: because that doesn't make me very happy, you know, thank God,

559
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 3: my you know, my kids, you know, don't go to concerts.

560
00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:43,359
Speaker 3: But if I had, you know, young kids, you know,

561
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:45,920
Speaker 3: the would be going to concerts. I would be scared

562
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,160
Speaker 3: because I feel like I've been listening and reading about

563
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:48,920
Speaker 3: this all the time.

564
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:50,760
Speaker 2: People shouldn't be out in with phones.

565
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 1: By the way. I look at the one of the

566
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:58,520
Speaker 1: last concerts I think it was Beyonces one of her

567
00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:00,920
Speaker 1: first concerts. Someone recorded the whole thing on their phone

568
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:02,719
Speaker 1: and put it out on the internet, and everyone's like, well,

569
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:04,119
Speaker 1: I don't need to go now, I just saw the

570
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:07,840
Speaker 1: whole concert. Oh well, that's so stupid. I can't with

571
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:10,119
Speaker 1: that with the people to go to a concert instead

572
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 1: of enjoying and taking in the moment and listening and

573
00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 1: singing along and looking at the artists so the entire

574
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:18,159
Speaker 1: time with their phone recording, I'm like, dude, for that,

575
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:20,800
Speaker 1: why did you come? This is about the experience. Like,

576
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:22,359
Speaker 1: if you just want to see the video, you can

577
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:24,919
Speaker 1: get that from anybody. That's another stupidity. But you know what,

578
00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 1: there's a lot of stupid people. What can I tell

579
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:28,880
Speaker 1: you that now people are just going to go crazy

580
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:32,200
Speaker 1: your concert and do one thing, next level worst, worse

581
00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 1: than the last person, until somebody dies because it's dangerous.

582
00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 2: Well, that's another thing. Is this only going on in

583
00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:39,720
Speaker 2: this country?

584
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:42,920
Speaker 3: Do these artists have these same situations when they perform

585
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 3: in other countries.

586
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:49,159
Speaker 2: That's a good question. It's a good question. Let us know, listeners.

587
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:52,080
Speaker 3: Yes, well, I think I'm also going to do my

588
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:54,200
Speaker 3: homework and look at that because I feel like it's

589
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 3: something that's going on in the US. You know, I

590
00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 3: feel like in other countries, these things aren't. These things aren't.

591
00:26:59,840 --> 00:27:02,439
Speaker 1: How so you know what, we're just going to have

592
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 1: to perform in a different Countryya, I'm gonna our next

593
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:23,879
Speaker 1: topic is one of our favorites. Yes, the one that

594
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 1: we do all the time. And that's why our podcast

595
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 1: is because this is what we do here in Miami.

596
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 1: It's called Miami English.

597
00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's unique.

598
00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 1: It's only in days. It's a dialect emerging in South Florida.

599
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 1: You and I brought that to the to the limelight.

600
00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:43,080
Speaker 1: People all over the world listen to us speak Miami

601
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:45,120
Speaker 1: English or saying you know, I.

602
00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 2: Love I love that.

603
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 3: We're finally getting some attention and they're considering it a dialect.

604
00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 2: So I think it's so funny.

605
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:53,640
Speaker 1: So I moved to Spain when I was seventeen years old,

606
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:56,879
Speaker 1: my last year of high school, and and I thought

607
00:27:57,000 --> 00:28:01,760
Speaker 1: I spoke Spanish and my parents in school, right, and

608
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 1: my parents thought we spoke Spanish as well. So my

609
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 1: parents are like, okay, you're going to go to a

610
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:12,080
Speaker 1: private Catholic Spanish school. So as I'm there and I

611
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:15,239
Speaker 1: start school and I start speaking in Spanish, thought they

612
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 1: would ask me gay the alecto, like what dialect are

613
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:24,440
Speaker 1: you speaking act? And I'm like, yall, look, they they

614
00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:26,880
Speaker 1: thought back then I spoke a dialect and guess what

615
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 1: they were right, and it's a Miami dialect. And I

616
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:31,280
Speaker 1: was like, okay, now I get it because there is

617
00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:35,200
Speaker 1: a difference between like the proper Spanish, the Castilian Spanish,

618
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:38,800
Speaker 1: and like our Spanish, you know, mixed with English.

619
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 2: I like ours better.

620
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 1: By the way, it's so so much funer, it's so

621
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:45,320
Speaker 1: much easier and yer. Yeah, I must say no, even

622
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 1: though the Castilian Spanish is sexy.

623
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 3: They're finally recognizing our dialect, our language here in Miami.

624
00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:56,719
Speaker 1: It's an actual study at Florida International University. They've been

625
00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 1: doing it for a decade and I'm like, it's only

626
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 1: been ten years been studying. We've been doing this for

627
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 1: fifty sixty years now, translating English to Spanish, modeling our words,

628
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 1: saying everything grammatically incorrect, but it's super funny. You know.

629
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:13,600
Speaker 1: Cubans are so funny. They love they're they're the funnest people.

630
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:14,400
Speaker 2: Did you know?

631
00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:18,600
Speaker 1: This new dialect is called only Indeed, And according to FIU,

632
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 1: the dialect incorporates what linguist is called kylkes, which are

633
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 1: borrower translations from the speaker's native language, and in this

634
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 1: case it's Spanish. Most of the time, it is a

635
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 1: literal translation, which is what we do, like phrases like

636
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 1: get down from the car right, like baja caro, so

637
00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 1: get down from the car right, or like I'm super hungry,

638
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:45,120
Speaker 1: or I'll have the meat and banada, you know, because

639
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:48,320
Speaker 1: we were saying like banala goden instead of beef and banada.

640
00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 1: What do you say? Do you say beef and banada

641
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 1: or meat and banada? I say beef, beef and banada.

642
00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:59,240
Speaker 3: Of course, because you're tore macrina, I say meat and panada.

643
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 2: You know that, Okay.

644
00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 3: So these were commonly used among the second generation Cuban Americans,

645
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 3: so that would be us obviously, So like that's what

646
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:09,480
Speaker 3: that's what I say.

647
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, or like they say, turn on the candle,

648
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 1: and it's just grammatically incorrect. But I mean, I don't

649
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 1: speak like that. I prefer Spanglish for me. Spanglish is

650
00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:24,440
Speaker 1: so much more fun, don't you think?

651
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:25,360
Speaker 2: Yeah?

652
00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:27,960
Speaker 3: Because it is different, right, So, because the study out

653
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:30,000
Speaker 3: of the FIU explains that the way people in South

654
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 3: Floria speak can be considered a new dialect and it's

655
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 3: not Spanglish because everybody who is going to think of

656
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Speaker 3: a Spanglish right right, and in this case it's a translation.

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Speaker 3: And I feel that other cultures do it too. I mean,

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Speaker 3: I know we're getting all the attention, the Cubans because

659
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Speaker 3: you know we're we do. We deserve it in Miami, right,

660
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Speaker 3: it's like our own little country.

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Speaker 1: It's like our own little city, our own language and

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Speaker 1: our little language, and we look and we talk a

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Speaker 1: certain way, but in reality it's it's not Spanglish, like

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Speaker 1: we said. But you know, we could do both. We

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Speaker 1: can do both. I don't really do not only in

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Speaker 1: day chap, but I do love the Spanish. I love

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Speaker 1: trans like mixing a word from Spanish to English, and

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Speaker 1: bastardizing is just like my favorite thing in the world.

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Speaker 1: It's just so funny. It's funny. And give me an example, like.

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Speaker 2: Embarkation or trigation or tragation.

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Speaker 1: Tragation, Yeah, so a drink tragash when you're being in

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Speaker 1: when you're embarking on something, or somebody leaves you waiting

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Speaker 1: or hanging, you say embarkation. It's funny. It's just it's

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Speaker 1: there's so many. I couldn't even begin to remember them all.

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Speaker 1: What's one of your favorites.

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Speaker 2: We do it all the time. Let me see. I

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Speaker 2: mean I do a lot of like the Spanish to English.

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Speaker 1: Like if I think of the word in Spanish better

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00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 1: than in English, I say it in Spanish, so I'll

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Speaker 1: throw it in there. It's lazy, We're lazy. Whatever comes

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Speaker 1: to our mind first, we just repeat it.

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Speaker 3: I don't I don't even think that it's lazy. I

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Speaker 3: just think like it either sounds better or you learned it.

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Speaker 1: It must be like I learned it in Spanish, so

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Speaker 1: like I was saying in Spanish better. But yeah, I

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Speaker 1: just think it's really cool. And you have to like

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Speaker 1: kind of like.

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Speaker 3: Live here to know, because like I said, I've been

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Speaker 3: even in different parts of the country, or I've done this,

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Speaker 3: I've gone back and forth, like with my mom and

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Speaker 3: my sisters. I think I've said this before, and like

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00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:24,640
Speaker 3: the people will stop us and say, Senora, like get

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00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 3: kang a Lando, like what language are you speaking?

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Speaker 2: Because are Americans?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: Hekay?

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Speaker 1: You?

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Speaker 3: I mean I've been in Spain and we've been lucky

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Speaker 3: between the English and Spanish. I've been in other parts

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Speaker 3: of the country, and or the people I've been trying

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00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:40,320
Speaker 3: to see, they'll be like, Okay, I speak English and

702
00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 3: I speak Spanish, but what the hell are you speaking?

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00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:45,280
Speaker 2: Because like I know those two languages, what do you guys.

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00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 1: Speak saying any of them? Right?

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Speaker 3: So like it's you know, it's like you have to

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00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:52,040
Speaker 3: have the ear for it, and I feel like being

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00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 3: here from Miami, we kind of like get it and

708
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 3: we have the ear for that and we have that

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00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:59,080
Speaker 3: ability where we can go from English and Spanish or

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Speaker 3: even do that lee and day thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I just remembered one chan chanks.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's cute. That's a good one too. There's so many,

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Speaker 3: we have so many. We're always teaching these girls.

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00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're always teaching the girls in our friend group

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Speaker 1: these words. But chances are if you're Cuban American or

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00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:23,120
Speaker 1: you have any Cuban in your family, you've helped create

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00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:28,680
Speaker 1: that dialect. Yes, yes, I like to personally take credit

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Speaker 1: for dragation. I just want to say we were.

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Speaker 2: The visky a London.

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Speaker 1: Dragation.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, it's so.

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Speaker 1: Funny though, I don't think there's a funnier Hispanic group

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Speaker 1: of people. In Cubans, they're just so funny. They love

725
00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 1: they love to talk, they love to have fun. They're

726
00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 1: so expressive, so passionate. That's the other things to right,

727
00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 1: get like the way we talk is that we're not

728
00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 1: even fighting, and they're like I remember my grandma always saying,

729
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:09,080
Speaker 1: but we're like, Ailita, like that's not how like fighting,

730
00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:13,880
Speaker 1: We're just excited, right, We're just talking Because my grandmother

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00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 1: was like, you know, really like self spoken and coret down.

732
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:19,080
Speaker 1: But how do you feel people outside Miami are going

733
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:25,120
Speaker 1: to react to this dialect? You know? I feel like

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00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:27,920
Speaker 1: when we're talking and people around us don't know what

735
00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:31,759
Speaker 1: we're talking about, they look seem so confused, and it's

736
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 1: just so hard to explain because we speak so quickly, right,

737
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:37,319
Speaker 1: don't Cubans speak very quickly? And then you're like in

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00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:40,880
Speaker 1: this accelerated ad D speaking moment that you're in to

739
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:43,640
Speaker 1: stop and explain everything. Then we end up being real

740
00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:45,040
Speaker 1: because you're like, oh my god, forget it. You're never

741
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:46,880
Speaker 1: going to get it. To go back and stop what

742
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:49,839
Speaker 1: you're saying and explain it. It's just impossible. So I

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00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:51,880
Speaker 1: feel like people are going to think we're obnoxious and

744
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:54,160
Speaker 1: we're weird. That's what I think they're gonna say.

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00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:56,880
Speaker 3: Well, I'm going to think that when we're very proud,

746
00:34:57,840 --> 00:34:59,879
Speaker 3: you know, I mean, not that that's you know, I mean,

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Speaker 3: I think it's pretty cool that finally somebody recognized that, because,

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00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:05,360
Speaker 3: like I said, I feel like in other parts of

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00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:08,080
Speaker 3: the country, they've heard me do this or you speak this.

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00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:10,720
Speaker 1: Way, and they actually think it's a dialect.

751
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:12,239
Speaker 2: So I kind of get it.

752
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:16,279
Speaker 1: So finally it's been recognized as a dialect, and I'm

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00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:16,799
Speaker 1: proud of it.

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Speaker 2: M Mayami y Yeah, chat, it was good to see you.

755
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:23,879
Speaker 1: I'm seeing you since I you know, we landed here

756
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:27,759
Speaker 1: from Mexico and you look great.

757
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:29,680
Speaker 2: I look like shit. I'm sorry I didn't turn out.

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00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:32,799
Speaker 1: No, you don't, they said. I've been beginning like shit

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00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:35,279
Speaker 1: for like four days. Does the audience know we have

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00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 1: rona now? They do now they do. Alexi and I

761
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:41,560
Speaker 1: got Rona. It's still a thing, guys, So yes, it's

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00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:43,920
Speaker 1: still it still exists, and we both have browna That's

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00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:47,120
Speaker 1: why I keep coughing and we're I'm a little lethargic today.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I'm not.

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00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 1: I'm a wig game. But I'm a little bit more

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00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:53,719
Speaker 1: excited now now that I saw you. I'm a little

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00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 1: bit more excited.

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Speaker 2: I need to see you and talk to you.

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00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:58,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, because when I see you like an

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00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:02,879
Speaker 1: animated yes, we get like it makes it more fun. Yeah,

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00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:06,560
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I also have a black eye. Everyone listening,

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00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:09,399
Speaker 1: I have a dreadful black eye from a sty from

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Speaker 1: a stye.

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00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:11,960
Speaker 3: Can you please, can you please say why you have

775
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:14,040
Speaker 3: the black eye? It wasn't any of the friends that

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00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:14,840
Speaker 3: did it too.

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00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 1: I have a sty.

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00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:15,919
Speaker 2: Well.

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00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:17,719
Speaker 1: The doctor even said to me, you know, I've only

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00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:20,800
Speaker 1: seen this a few times, that someone gets an entire

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00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:24,320
Speaker 1: black eye from a sty. My eyes like purple and brown.

782
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:27,880
Speaker 1: So there's no visual of me today. And I'm also

783
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:32,080
Speaker 1: dying over here from the Rhona. So apologize for all

784
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:34,759
Speaker 1: my coughing and that you can't see me. Despite all

785
00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 1: that you look good. I'm looking at you.

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Speaker 3: I said, thank you for coming on screen because I

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00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:42,279
Speaker 3: needed to see your face so I could do this.

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Speaker 2: I know it makes a different skin looks beautiful.

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00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:53,239
Speaker 1: Oh, thank you. I tried on my wedding dress. I

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00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:59,800
Speaker 1: want to see it. It's cute. I love you listen

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Speaker 1: as said place it.

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