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Speaker 2: Golden Hour. We have some great questions today at we're

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Speaker 1: But first, but first, we have to introduce our very

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Speaker 1: very special guests.

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Speaker 3: We love her.

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Speaker 1: Bachelor Nations fan favorite and sweetheart Daisy.

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Speaker 2: Kent is here.

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Speaker 3: Daisy, thanks so much for coming.

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Speaker 4: Thank you having me. I'm so excited to be here.

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Speaker 2: How are you.

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Speaker 4: I am doing so good.

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Speaker 3: You look beautiful.

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Speaker 2: I'll tell you that your smile is radiant.

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Speaker 4: Ah, thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: So I just have to jump right in because I

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Speaker 1: heard that you rekindled with someone.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, how did it happen?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 3: Did you call him? Did he call you? Did you

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Speaker 3: bump into him at Whole Foods?

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Speaker 4: I mean I ran into each other. We had always

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Speaker 4: been like, we've always been good friends. And then after

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Speaker 4: the show reached back out to me and I we

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Speaker 4: just decided to kind of give it another shot. And

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Speaker 4: it's going really good. Yeah. I think everything happened for

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Speaker 4: a reason, and I'm just this season of my life.

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Speaker 4: I'm really happy and I'm really enjoying it all, and

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Speaker 4: so much has changed, but it's all really exciting and

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Speaker 4: really good thing. So it's all very positive right now,

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Speaker 4: and I haven't had that in a really long time.

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Speaker 4: So I'm just feeling really thankful and blessed.

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Speaker 3: I love that.

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Speaker 2: So Daisy, tell me what makes this like you haven't

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Speaker 2: posted a lot about him. I know his name is Thor,

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Speaker 2: but you haven't posted a lot about him. And Susan

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Speaker 2: and I were wondering, are you when do you bring

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Speaker 2: a relationship out in the public. How are you handling that,

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Speaker 2: especially coming off of a very public dating show.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, definitely. I think coming off the show, I mean

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Speaker 4: and Aaron for everyone to see, and it is like

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Speaker 4: a dating show, so I feel like a lot of

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Speaker 4: people are going to be more invested in my dating

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Speaker 4: life versus if I hadn't done like a reality dating show,

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Speaker 4: if it would have been something else, which I think

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Speaker 4: is a really unique and cool thing. But I think

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Speaker 4: it also can be a little bit stressful at times,

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Speaker 4: and I think just kind of, you know, I wanted

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Speaker 4: to kind of feel it out, and you know, like

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Speaker 4: we're like me and him are still like growing, like

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Speaker 4: figuring out our relationship and everything too. So I feel

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Speaker 4: like it's kind of a thing that I've been kind

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Speaker 4: of slowly like integrating. But we spend a lot of

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Speaker 4: time together and.

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Speaker 2: You live in the same town, No, we.

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Speaker 4: Don't, but we meet each other pretty often, which is nice.

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Speaker 4: And we're not that far He's in Vegass and I'm

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Speaker 4: in La right now.

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Speaker 1: So that's family.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, we're making it work. So yeah, but I think, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I think like coming up, I'll be like postmore and stuff,

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Speaker 4: which I'm excited about.

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Speaker 1: You you know what, it's nobody's business, but yours. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so when you want to share it, share it, and

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Speaker 1: if you don't, it's all about you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's something I've been trying to navigate too,

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Speaker 4: And a thing two on like my social media. Like

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Speaker 4: a lot of people I think were so drawn to

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Speaker 4: that stuff too. So I think on my social media too,

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Speaker 4: like that's a huge, like important thing for me to

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Speaker 4: mean it is my social media, making it right.

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Speaker 2: So that that actually, Daisy, is our topic of the

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Speaker 2: day is you know, how do you decide how much

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Speaker 2: of your relationship your personal life that you want to

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Speaker 2: share online versus you know, keeping a private So it

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Speaker 2: sounds like you're trying to navigate that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm definitely, And like this is all so new

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Speaker 4: to me, Like I feel like I'm kind of in

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Speaker 4: this whole like new world and like I mean I'm

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Speaker 4: still me and like my life is still a lot

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Speaker 4: the same, but it's also really different. So I think

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Speaker 4: kind of learning and how to navigate not just even

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Speaker 4: posting and talking about my new relationship, but also talking

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Speaker 4: about like my family and talking about stuff like that.

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Speaker 4: And I I am a very like open and vulnerable person.

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Speaker 4: It kind of it took me a while to be

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Speaker 4: like that, but I am. And I think I want

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Speaker 4: to keep doing that and sharing that. But I also

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Speaker 4: like I want to respect like my family and my

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Speaker 4: friends and the people and like my boyfriend. You know

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Speaker 4: about like sharing.

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Speaker 2: Boyfriend. I want to say that, you know, I was

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Speaker 2: just going to say, Susan and I don't really well, Susan,

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Speaker 2: I don't get to say that. We don't get to

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Speaker 2: say that because we don't worry about our private and

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Speaker 2: public life because we're not dating anyone. So it's really

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Speaker 2: simple to find you guys. Bit your lips, your lips

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Speaker 2: to God's ears. Days a place.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna I'm going to start looking.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, keep us in mind, keep us in mind.

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Speaker 3: We need a whole new show.

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Speaker 4: The luckiest people in the whole world.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, she's beautiful and sweet and kind. It's so

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Speaker 2: not fair. I got that. So we wanted to touch on.

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Speaker 2: You talked on the on The Bachelor about you know,

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Speaker 2: how dating was difficult, uh with a cochlear implant. You know,

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Speaker 2: can you expound on that just a little bit, and

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Speaker 2: you know, why was it or has it been so

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Speaker 2: difficult for you? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I think the difficult part was I was sick for

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Speaker 4: such a long time, so it was kind of dating people.

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Speaker 4: I always thought, who would want to be with me

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Speaker 4: when I come with all this extra stuff. I'm not

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Speaker 4: just like a normal girl in my life at that time.

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Speaker 4: My life will always be a little bit different, but

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Speaker 4: at that time, my life was a lot different, and

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Speaker 4: so it was kind of I never wanted to feel

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Speaker 4: like a burden on someone, which I think, like me

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Speaker 4: looking at somebody who has the health issues that I

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Speaker 4: have or went through what I went through, I would

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Speaker 4: never think that when I'm looking at them, but when

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Speaker 4: you look at yourself. For me, I think it was

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Speaker 4: hard to kind of realize that and accept myself when

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Speaker 4: I was going through all of that, so I didn't

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Speaker 4: want to I felt like I didn't want to put

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Speaker 4: that on anybody else. And then when I started getting healthy,

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Speaker 4: it was kind of, how do I explain all of

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Speaker 4: And I think it was my aunt or my sister

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Speaker 4: I was telling them that one time, and they told me,

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Speaker 4: they said, you know, Daisy, nobody's ever going to understand,

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Speaker 4: even us, your family, the people closest to you, They're

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Speaker 4: never going to understand exactly what you went through. But

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Speaker 4: the most somebody can do is try to understand. And

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Speaker 4: I kind of flipped the perspective for me. And then

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Speaker 4: I got my cochlear implant a little over a year ago,

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Speaker 4: and my life honestly just started changing and I was

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Speaker 4: so much happier and I felt like I was just

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Speaker 4: living life again. I mean, I could hear, I could

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Speaker 4: communicate with people, and it was difficult.

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Speaker 2: So I'm curious. It's getting easier and easier to understand

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Speaker 2: the longer you have the cochlear implant.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it gets better and better every time. It was actually,

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Speaker 4: I think like a week ago, I was playing a

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Speaker 4: song and I was like, oh my gosh, this sound

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Speaker 4: like how the singer used to say me before I

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Speaker 4: started losing. So it's a little moments like that that

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Speaker 4: and better.

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Speaker 3: I have a question for you.

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Speaker 1: Do you feel as if if you weren't as hard

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Speaker 1: little easier.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it like to date, Yes, yeah, I

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Speaker 4: think it would have been definitely easier today. But I

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Speaker 4: think I was going through so much much like emotionally

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Speaker 4: that I focused on myself and you know, like focused

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Speaker 4: I think it was on like a podcast right after

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Speaker 4: I got after the show, and I was like, if

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Speaker 4: I would have gone on the show even like five

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Speaker 4: months earlier, six months earlier, I don't think I would

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Speaker 4: I definitely feel like God had a plan with everything

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Speaker 4: because just how it's all like when and it's all

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Speaker 4: been such a beautiful thing for me. It's been hard

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Speaker 4: at times, but definitely like the good has overpowered like everything.

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Speaker 3: Are you so proud of yourself?

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Speaker 2: You should be?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 2: How old are you, Daisy?

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Speaker 4: I am twenty five.

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Speaker 2: So while you're talking, first of all, you speak so eloquently.

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Speaker 2: But you know, Susan and I talk a lot about

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Speaker 2: at our age. You know, we've learned so much and

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Speaker 2: our stories are very different when we're at this stage

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Speaker 2: in our life. But do you think part of your dating. Yes,

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Speaker 2: a cochlear implant is a huge thing and it's dramatically

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Speaker 2: changed your life. But don't you think that I'm asking

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Speaker 2: your age, like you're changing so much when you're in

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Speaker 2: I just feel like you've handled this masterfully.

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Speaker 4: Thank you. I definitely I don't think I would have

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Speaker 4: handled it like I have if it wasn't for my

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Speaker 4: family and my parents that I have. They really kind

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Speaker 4: of picked me up and helped me navigate everything and

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Speaker 4: figure everything out when I was really struggling. And even

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Speaker 4: still they're like always people that I go to and

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Speaker 4: my friends I have such like an amazing friend group

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Speaker 4: from high school and college that I'm just I'm very

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Speaker 4: very blessed in that whole aspect, and I think, like

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Speaker 4: going through like that age you are, I remember like

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Speaker 4: when I graduated college, it was like everyone was getting

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Speaker 4: these cool jobs and doing all these things, and I

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Speaker 4: was sick and doing treatments and I had to go

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Speaker 4: I think it definitely I had a different life experience

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Speaker 2: Amazing it is. It's technology right. Just hearing how it

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Speaker 1: And her ear candy as she calls it because she

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Speaker 3: I'm so happy for you. I loved you. I love

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Speaker 1: And humble and beautiful inside and out and we're so

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Speaker 4: Thank you. It means a lot coming from you too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you are truly I wish everyone could just see

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Speaker 1: So Thor if you're going to listen to this, you're

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Speaker 3: If ever doesn't have a smile on her face.

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Speaker 2: Or any other guy, she decides today, let's up just

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I would love to.

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Speaker 1: This is from Ava and she's twenty eight from Seattle. Hello, ladies,

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Speaker 1: I'm reaching out about my relationship with my partner. We

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Speaker 1: But we were really young and I have moved on

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Speaker 1: What should I do, exo Ema, They grew up.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like if you're close, like with your family,

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Speaker 4: with all of them or some of them.

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Speaker 3: They've obviously grown up. She's mature. They both matured, she's apologized.

445
00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 1: And they want a fresh start. I mean, you have

446
00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 1: to take chances in life, correct.

447
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Speaker 2: I think the I think the family. Sometimes families just

448
00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:51,520
Speaker 2: need time to see. You know. I don't know about you, Susan,

449
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:56,320
Speaker 2: but I we are mama bears and we our children.

450
00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:57,800
Speaker 2: We take care of them, and we don't like to

451
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Speaker 2: see our children hurt. I'm sure, Daisy, You're parents don't

452
00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:05,399
Speaker 2: like to see you get hurt, so so I just think, eva,

453
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Speaker 2: it's going to take a little bit of time.

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Speaker 4: Uh.

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Speaker 2: And and when they see how happy you are, you

456
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:16,199
Speaker 2: know what, the past, the past will go into the

457
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:19,080
Speaker 2: past and the future will be bright. That's why I

458
00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:20,800
Speaker 2: just enjoy your partner.

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Speaker 1: It's sometimes not about what our parents think. It's about

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Speaker 1: how you're feeling with your partner. You know, like like

461
00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:32,919
Speaker 1: my children if their spouse, if they do something, I

462
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:35,440
Speaker 1: don't want to know all the bad things when if

463
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 1: they argue or fight or something, because then you develop

464
00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 1: a thing in your head, you know what I mean,

465
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Speaker 1: Like you're not going to like them or accept them

466
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Speaker 1: or whatever.

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Speaker 2: But do you talk to your parents a lot, Daisy

468
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:50,240
Speaker 2: about your relationship with just in general, do you talk

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Speaker 2: to your parents about dating?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm very open with them, I would say, Like

471
00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:58,560
Speaker 4: throughout high school, maybe I didn't as much, but I

472
00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 4: feel like you're kind of going to like that ord

473
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:04,119
Speaker 4: kind of life. But when I went away to college,

474
00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:07,719
Speaker 4: then everything I started talking with them about, and I

475
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:09,880
Speaker 4: talked to them about everything pretty much.

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Speaker 2: So so based on this question, I got to ask you, Daisy,

477
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Speaker 2: what did they say when you got back with Thor?

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Speaker 4: They love him, they like, always really loved him. But

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Speaker 4: my parents they're very they're very loving people.

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Speaker 2: And well, it's obvious listening to you that you got

481
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:31,240
Speaker 2: it got it from somewhere did But you guys didn't part.

482
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Speaker 2: I mean you and Thor did not part in a

483
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Speaker 2: bad way back in the day.

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Speaker 4: No, it was we dated for a little bit and

485
00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:42,720
Speaker 4: didn't work out, so we stopped dating, and it was

486
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Speaker 4: like we were always friends in the in between time there. Yes,

487
00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:48,480
Speaker 4: it wasn't like anything bad. It wasn't like.

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Speaker 2: So how excited? How excited are your parents now? Did

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Speaker 2: they say, oh, we always liked him? You know are they?

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Speaker 2: Are they on that train?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: He watched, he watched you grow up and bloom and

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Speaker 1: become this magnificent sexy woman.

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Speaker 3: He was like, what did I do? I need to

495
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Speaker 3: know that.

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Speaker 2: You know what he did? He just waited around. He

497
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 2: waited around for her to go live her life and

498
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Speaker 2: get straight with who she is. And then he's he's

499
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Speaker 2: sore because remember he reached out to you, Is that right, daisy?

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Speaker 3: And if he proposes, you know who to call, right?

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00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:23,639
Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I dass showers works that in always all right. Well,

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Speaker 2: let's move on to our second question here. This is

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Speaker 2: from Carl. He is fifty eight and he's from Minneapolis,

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Speaker 2: Hi Golden Hour podcast. My name is Carl. I listened

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Speaker 2: to your episode with Nancy where she talked about the

507
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Speaker 2: gentleman who didn't want to date her because she has diabetes.

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Speaker 2: I am also struggling with dating now as someone with

509
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Speaker 2: an autoimmune disease called as and I'm going to try

510
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Speaker 2: to say it anklos seems spondylitis.

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Speaker 3: Very good, Kathy, You're welcome.

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Speaker 2: I felt to reach out for advice after hearing Nancy,

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00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:06,639
Speaker 2: so thank you to her. I feel like no women

514
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:11,200
Speaker 2: my age are open to helping taking to help take

515
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 2: care of me when I need it, though I mostly

516
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:17,119
Speaker 2: care for myself and feel good. A lot of the time,

517
00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 2: I go back and forth on if I should even

518
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 2: share about my condition because of how my dates have responded.

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00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 2: Thank you both for any words of wisdom you may have.

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00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:30,399
Speaker 2: Best regards.

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Speaker 1: It's a perfect scenario of what we just asked her.

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00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:37,720
Speaker 1: When do you share? When's a good time to share

523
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:38,920
Speaker 1: your disability?

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00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I think that's the first question here. I

525
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:48,199
Speaker 2: think Carl, also, you know he's fifty eight. He's not

526
00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 2: starting out his life like Daisy, and so at fifty eight,

527
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:56,240
Speaker 2: he said, no, women my age are open to helping

528
00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:59,440
Speaker 2: taking care of me when I need it. So clearly

529
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:02,359
Speaker 2: this is a that's going to need some care. But

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00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 2: I think Daisy hit on it earlier. You know, if

531
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 2: you forge a relationship with someone and you see they

532
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:12,439
Speaker 2: have a caring heart, that's not going to be as

533
00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:13,879
Speaker 2: big an issue. I don't think.

534
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 3: What do you think, Daisy?

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00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:18,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't think so at all. Yeah, if you

536
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:22,199
Speaker 4: meet somebody that I truly love you and care for you.

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00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:26,520
Speaker 2: Daisy, are you familiar with the story that Nancy told

538
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:28,679
Speaker 2: about this guy. You may not be familiar with that

539
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:34,440
Speaker 2: she dated a guy. Yeah, thumbs down. She dated a guy,

540
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 2: and I think on the second date he said to her, churt.

541
00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 2: I guess she told him that she was a diabetic,

542
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:46,280
Speaker 2: and he told her he didn't want to see her

543
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:49,480
Speaker 2: anymore because he really didn't want to date a woman

544
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 2: with any health issues. Subsequently, so that was it. Subsequently,

545
00:28:55,680 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 2: he married a woman who now has a life threatening issue,

546
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:03,880
Speaker 2: so you know, that's just just bizarre. But Nancy, she

547
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 2: was broken hearted that she really liked this guy.

548
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 3: Did you ever get rejected because of your condition?

549
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:12,240
Speaker 1: Me?

550
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:18,200
Speaker 4: Yes, I not that like I know of him, but

551
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 4: I also wasn't really like you know.

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00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, But what advice do we have for Carl?

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00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 2: Well, my advice is, don't open up about your your

554
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 2: your diagnosis until you really feel comfortable with that person.

555
00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:41,200
Speaker 2: And if you don't feel that she has a heart

556
00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 2: as warm as daisies, probably not the woman for you.

557
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 2: So I think it's timing. It's all timy.

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00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 3: Yeah.

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00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:51,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a tough one though, isn't it. He's fifty

560
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:54,480
Speaker 1: eight years old and it's a muscle thing.

561
00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:58,480
Speaker 2: Right, It's it's an inflammation of joints. It can be

562
00:29:58,600 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 2: very painful.

563
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 3: You can't move.

564
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's can be very painful, you can't move.

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00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 3: Well, I wonder how long each episode lasts.

566
00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:10,000
Speaker 2: I don't know. I have to get on web MDA

567
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 2: figure it out. But I can tell you it's it's

568
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:17,200
Speaker 2: a tough diagnosis. I actually know someone who was diagnosed

569
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 2: with it, and it's it's not it's not an easy thing.

570
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:23,960
Speaker 2: But again, Susan, we talk about as as we get older,

571
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Speaker 2: we you know, we have issues, health issues, and anyone

572
00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 2: that we decide to date. It's it's it's it can

573
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 2: be an issue. I mean a guy that I dated

574
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 2: for a little while and we're just friends, he just

575
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 2: got a cancer diagnosis. I mean, we're getting to that

576
00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:49,040
Speaker 2: age where, unfortunately, health issues become a concern.

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Speaker 1: Which is why I started four weeks ago. Wait to

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00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:54,960
Speaker 1: hear this, daisy. Now, I'm a person that never worked out. Okay,

579
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Speaker 1: I saw something on TikTok, and I do. I started

580
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Speaker 1: with fifty pushups off the kitchen counter, not on the floor,

581
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 1: and fifty squads and some tummy work and backwork on

582
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 1: the floor. I'm up to seventy a day and it's

583
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:13,120
Speaker 1: week four. So I was on television for something and

584
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 1: somebody wrote in and said, Susan, your.

585
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 3: Arms and your shoulders. I was like, oh my god,

586
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 3: it shows.

587
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:20,040
Speaker 2: So that just.

588
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 3: Goes to show you you gotta work out.

589
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:25,760
Speaker 1: You gotta take care of your body because anything can happen,

590
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:26,479
Speaker 1: just like Carl.

591
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 2: Hey, Susan, who got you working out?

592
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 4: Oh?

593
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 3: You had me walking? I know, Kathy in ninety five degrees.

594
00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 2: Susan came to visit me in Austin. I said, let's go,

595
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 2: we're walking. I bet you work out, don't you?

596
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 4: Daisy, Yes, I do. I've been like traveling so much.

597
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 4: I actually said that I need to figure out a

598
00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 4: way to, like, do.

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00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:47,120
Speaker 3: You push ups off the bureau.

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00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:49,360
Speaker 4: I'll send you a video of me doing it.

601
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:51,000
Speaker 3: O guy, I like it.

602
00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:51,720
Speaker 2: I like it.

603
00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, Daisy, you are a doll.

604
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 2: Baby.

605
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:57,479
Speaker 3: I just hope we get to be in each other's

606
00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 3: company again.

607
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 4: Yes, I would love to see you guys in person.

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00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 2: We would love it. We loved getting to chat with you,

609
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 2: and unfortunately that's going to do it for this episode

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00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:12,880
Speaker 2: of Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thank you all so

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Speaker 2: much for joining us, and be sure to follow Bachelor

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Speaker 2: Happy Hour as we have new episodes coming out every

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Speaker 2: week that you won't want to miss.

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Speaker 1: And make sure to submit your questions to us. You

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Speaker 1: can go to bachelornation dot com, slash Golden Hour, or

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Speaker 1: hit us up on social media at Bachelor Happy Hour.

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Speaker 2: app or wherever you listen to podcasts. Have a great week.

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Speaker 2: We'll see you next time, and thank you, Daisy.

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Speaker 3: You were the best.

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Speaker 2: You are the best. Keep that smile, Thord, be good

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Speaker 2: to her.

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Speaker 4: Tell