WEBVTT - Episode 329: Do the Details Matter? (Feat. Domani) 0:00:02.200 --> 0:00:04.200 Wished up this clip service. I mean just like, yeah, 0:00:04.360 --> 0:00:08.760 I'm G. G. Maguire and I'm stepping in Santiago money. 0:00:11.160 --> 0:00:14.319 Oh my god, you're already dropped the ball. Man was 0:00:14.360 --> 0:00:17.560 waiting on an introduction. Now, everybody introduces and stuff we 0:00:17.640 --> 0:00:20.000 like to we like to hear how you ensure yourself. Yeah, 0:00:20.040 --> 0:00:24.000 I'm just do money. Um, just a kid, just the artists, 0:00:24.000 --> 0:00:30.000 the kid. Yeah, stuff like that. Super humble. Thank you, 0:00:30.000 --> 0:00:31.320 you know, all right, And I see you just went 0:00:31.320 --> 0:00:34.400 to my juice bar, juices for life. You're so smart. 0:00:34.440 --> 0:00:35.920 He came in here with the juice from the juice bar. 0:00:36.080 --> 0:00:39.680 That man. Now, I gotta be nice, gotta be nice. 0:00:40.840 --> 0:00:42.720 But we have you here today because you are an 0:00:42.800 --> 0:00:45.720 artist and people are impressed by your music, and I 0:00:45.800 --> 0:00:48.680 know sometimes that's a lot like just even getting when 0:00:48.720 --> 0:00:51.560 you first got started as an artist. Just being like 0:00:51.720 --> 0:00:55.360 this famous person from TV. People are already going to 0:00:55.480 --> 0:00:57.840 have their reservations and kind of want to be like, oh, 0:00:57.920 --> 0:01:02.040 he's just doing this, but actually it's pretty good. Thank you. 0:01:02.240 --> 0:01:05.200 I really appreciate that. Man. I've been working on this, 0:01:05.400 --> 0:01:07.720 um this this last project for a while, so you 0:01:07.800 --> 0:01:13.520 know that means a lot. Scott Scott Dive just about commitment. 0:01:13.800 --> 0:01:16.760 I make all my music and I don't like to 0:01:16.800 --> 0:01:18.959 come up with no concept and like that. I just 0:01:19.040 --> 0:01:20.840 make all the music. And I was listening to it 0:01:21.360 --> 0:01:23.399 and then um, I just noticed I was talking about 0:01:23.480 --> 0:01:26.800 falling and just falling in love and just just commitment 0:01:26.840 --> 0:01:30.640 in general. So I just went with Scott Diving just 0:01:30.760 --> 0:01:33.039 taking a leap of faith. You ready to have kids 0:01:33.080 --> 0:01:37.600 and get married. I would love to have kids, Yeah, 0:01:38.160 --> 0:01:42.360 get married. Marriage is scary when you don't know abody. 0:01:42.520 --> 0:01:47.400 Having kids are scary. Having kids could be scared. Yeah, 0:01:47.640 --> 0:01:52.000 but marriage that's a that's a that's a business. Kids 0:01:52.040 --> 0:01:55.200 are too, Yes, that's a lot, but that's a whole 0:01:55.280 --> 0:01:59.800 of the person that's never going anywhere. That kid, Yeah, 0:01:59.840 --> 0:02:03.720 you can't get really kid. You gives your kids, But marriage, man, 0:02:03.800 --> 0:02:07.480 you you mess around, they take half. You know. Now 0:02:07.520 --> 0:02:09.520 you can do a prenup and I'm sure you will. 0:02:10.040 --> 0:02:13.119 But that's weird because then that's that's weird energy because 0:02:13.160 --> 0:02:16.480 then your partner gonna be saying, why you just said 0:02:16.480 --> 0:02:20.960 it's a business. Yeah, but you know, mixing business with 0:02:21.160 --> 0:02:24.200 you know, love is kind of weird. I think it's 0:02:24.240 --> 0:02:27.440 kind of ideal me too. I feel like, um, if 0:02:27.480 --> 0:02:30.000 you really love somebody a pretty I'm sure agreement. When 0:02:30.000 --> 0:02:33.920 you're a successful person, I feel like it's just a 0:02:33.960 --> 0:02:37.240 normal thing, you know what I mean. So like I'm 0:02:37.240 --> 0:02:39.960 gonna be successful, You're going to be successful. Let's just 0:02:40.000 --> 0:02:42.680 sign some papers so that way. If things don't work 0:02:42.720 --> 0:02:45.440 out ways, because move on. We're plan to be together forever. 0:02:45.520 --> 0:02:49.400 So this is just paperwork, it doesn't matter. But you 0:02:49.520 --> 0:02:55.280 gotta still sign here. Cheater, Now, I wouldn't call myself 0:02:55.280 --> 0:02:59.200 a cheater. I knew y'all was gonna answer me this. 0:03:01.080 --> 0:03:02.720 I don't want to answer that question. I don't answer 0:03:02.720 --> 0:03:09.520 that question, not because of me that just answered it. Wow. 0:03:11.160 --> 0:03:14.079 I mean, listen, things happen right, and as a man, 0:03:14.680 --> 0:03:18.360 you know, it's kind of in you because you're this situation. 0:03:19.440 --> 0:03:21.600 It's not in him that do not give him a pass. 0:03:22.040 --> 0:03:25.200 I'm not trying to give not in you to be 0:03:25.240 --> 0:03:29.840 a cheater. But you still want to release more in 0:03:29.880 --> 0:03:40.040 your hands in music? Is my release? Um released so much? 0:03:40.360 --> 0:03:44.320 You know? But yeah, that's a that's a great question. 0:03:44.320 --> 0:03:46.080 I knew you guys are gonna ask me that. Well, 0:03:46.680 --> 0:03:49.440 so you are a cheat. You have cheated, not cheater, 0:03:49.840 --> 0:03:52.800 but you have cheated. Yes, I've cheated. I cheated. Just 0:03:52.960 --> 0:03:55.280 cheating is good, like in school, you know you cheat 0:03:55.320 --> 0:03:59.880 on its not good. Cheating in school is the way 0:04:00.760 --> 0:04:04.920 I feel like successful people are cheatings, not like relationship. 0:04:04.920 --> 0:04:08.840 I'm talking about like this to me, I'm talking about 0:04:08.840 --> 0:04:11.760 in school. So in school, I was cheating on tests 0:04:11.760 --> 0:04:16.320 and stuff like that, and I feel like to be 0:04:16.400 --> 0:04:20.600 successful or to get ahead, it's about cheating. Like you 0:04:20.960 --> 0:04:28.120 your money. We're talking about how you cheated on your 0:04:28.400 --> 0:04:33.680 talking about Okay, do not talk about so you know 0:04:33.760 --> 0:04:38.279 it's it's a way of getting you're talking about. I 0:04:38.400 --> 0:04:43.680 was trying to avoid it. There's different levels of like 0:04:43.880 --> 0:04:45.600 here's what I think because somebody was asking me the 0:04:45.640 --> 0:04:49.120 other day. Right, if you cheat in a relationship, can 0:04:49.200 --> 0:04:51.720 you move past it? You can if a guy can 0:04:51.760 --> 0:04:55.800 take accountability for himself right and understand like what the 0:04:55.839 --> 0:04:58.440 problem with it is and make you feel like he 0:04:58.560 --> 0:05:00.720 won't like genuinely say you won't do it again, and 0:05:00.760 --> 0:05:03.160 you feel like he means it. Now, I'm not saying 0:05:03.200 --> 0:05:07.120 that people don't mess up, but it won't happen. But 0:05:07.200 --> 0:05:09.880 you have to take accountability and understand that you know, 0:05:10.920 --> 0:05:18.880 so tell us about your cheating experience. You know, I'm 0:05:18.960 --> 0:05:23.120 young man, young I was even younger at the time. 0:05:23.279 --> 0:05:27.520 So I've been feeling good lately. I've been doing good lately. 0:05:27.680 --> 0:05:31.120 How'd you get caught? I don't lie. I don't I 0:05:31.120 --> 0:05:34.760 don't not a good liar. My face turns read. So 0:05:34.839 --> 0:05:40.080 you were honest? Yeah, you know, I never Wow, you 0:05:40.120 --> 0:05:45.640 guys really got me talking. I never got caught like fully, 0:05:45.760 --> 0:05:49.800 you know, just she asked this question. And then you know, 0:05:51.600 --> 0:05:53.760 women can tell that's why because she probably asked you 0:05:53.760 --> 0:05:56.640 because she knew already. Normally that's the case when when 0:05:56.640 --> 0:05:58.640 it comes to that, women are like cops, like we 0:05:58.720 --> 0:06:00.800 are answer to the question we're asking you. That's why 0:06:00.800 --> 0:06:05.280 we're asking. It's like it's like you suspect, but I 0:06:05.320 --> 0:06:10.320 gave you the confirmation. M m yeah. Sometimes when somebody 0:06:10.320 --> 0:06:12.000 asked you a question out of nowhere to you like, 0:06:12.480 --> 0:06:15.719 I'm already caught, and then you have a choice. Yeah, 0:06:15.720 --> 0:06:18.360 you got a choice. You either lot or you tell 0:06:18.400 --> 0:06:26.320 the truth the questions. Three choices. You're an avoid here 0:06:27.400 --> 0:06:29.800 good at you are being confrontational in a relationship and 0:06:29.839 --> 0:06:32.640 like having those discussions because they always say, guys hate 0:06:32.680 --> 0:06:35.159 when women are like, okay, we need to talk. Yeah, 0:06:35.960 --> 0:06:39.520 I think I like talking. I like talking because you know, 0:06:39.720 --> 0:06:42.000 in a situation, it might not seem like I like talking, 0:06:42.080 --> 0:06:44.600 But at the end of the day, any question that 0:06:44.800 --> 0:06:47.680 people ask me, or any time somebody telling me about myself, 0:06:48.120 --> 0:06:50.800 I'm listening to it like I might not might not 0:06:50.880 --> 0:06:53.359 look like I'm listening, but you know, like on the 0:06:53.440 --> 0:06:57.240 ride back home listening to it, but I'm learning myself. 0:06:57.320 --> 0:07:00.000 So I like talking, and then you get to learn 0:07:00.040 --> 0:07:03.760 who you're dealing with. So it could be uncomfortable at times, 0:07:03.800 --> 0:07:06.880 but I think it's it's worth it. Right, you think 0:07:06.880 --> 0:07:14.840 you've been in love already? I feel I feel loved. 0:07:14.880 --> 0:07:18.920 I feel like I'm giving love. Yeah, I feel yeah love. 0:07:19.320 --> 0:07:20.920 All right, Well, let's talk about some of the music, 0:07:20.960 --> 0:07:24.320 because you did say on talk about it alright. I'm sorry, 0:07:24.360 --> 0:07:26.000 but like, how do you how can you tell? Like 0:07:26.120 --> 0:07:32.120 what love? How can you tell? I want to hear 0:07:32.200 --> 0:07:34.640 Angela's answers to this. I think when you think about 0:07:34.680 --> 0:07:36.560 somebody all the time, and it makes you smile when 0:07:36.600 --> 0:07:39.000 they're not around you, even when they're not there, you're 0:07:39.040 --> 0:07:41.400 thinking of thoughtful things that you could do for that person. 0:07:41.480 --> 0:07:44.040 If that's the first person you call every time something happens, 0:07:44.040 --> 0:07:46.120 if it's good or bad, and you want to share 0:07:46.160 --> 0:07:49.320 it with them, and any free time you have, you're 0:07:49.360 --> 0:07:51.320 like planning your head for the future. You're like, Okay, 0:07:51.320 --> 0:07:53.880 next year, we're gonna do this. I think things like 0:07:53.920 --> 0:07:58.480 that are good indications love. What do you think? I 0:07:58.520 --> 0:08:01.000 feel like it's undeniable feeling that you get in a 0:08:01.000 --> 0:08:03.680 piteous stomach. Yeah, I feel like I'm in love when 0:08:03.680 --> 0:08:05.600 I want to. Like you said, you just can't stop 0:08:05.600 --> 0:08:09.080 thinking about them and it makes you happy. When you're mad, 0:08:09.160 --> 0:08:11.600 you still love them because you know, and every little 0:08:11.640 --> 0:08:13.920 thing about them that could be annoying from somebody else, 0:08:13.960 --> 0:08:17.440 you still like. Yeah, I feel like, Okay, I feel 0:08:17.480 --> 0:08:21.000 like I don't know, man, don't people got different definition 0:08:21.040 --> 0:08:23.640 of love? Like I want to take care of someone 0:08:23.800 --> 0:08:27.200 like me wanted to take care of someone. Yeah, I 0:08:27.200 --> 0:08:30.040 think that. I think that's me showing that I love someone. 0:08:30.680 --> 0:08:33.320 Wanted to take care of someone, wanted to teach somebody, 0:08:33.360 --> 0:08:36.000 want to show someone things that they've never seen before. 0:08:36.640 --> 0:08:42.320 I think that's my definition of love. Love language of language. Yeah. Yeah, 0:08:42.600 --> 0:08:45.400 and you've seen a lot already, so yeah, I might 0:08:45.400 --> 0:08:49.760 have seen too much, man, I feel that Yeah, Yeah, 0:08:49.760 --> 0:08:51.480 because that makes it kind of difficult too, and you 0:08:51.480 --> 0:08:54.160 didn't see too much, because how much can a girl 0:08:54.200 --> 0:08:57.360 teach you a lot? I mean I know about me, 0:08:57.440 --> 0:09:00.640 I know about me, and I know about us. I 0:09:00.640 --> 0:09:02.800 mean I know about what I'm saying. A woman is 0:09:02.840 --> 0:09:06.480 a different world like y'all, a whole another world to learn, 0:09:07.679 --> 0:09:10.720 That's what I'm saying. So so you get to learn 0:09:10.720 --> 0:09:16.360 about that woman. Yeah, I mean y'all similar to some degree, 0:09:16.400 --> 0:09:24.000 with similarities. Y'all digging man? Man, you know like how 0:09:24.080 --> 0:09:26.080 y'all just how women just know each other and y'all 0:09:26.120 --> 0:09:29.280 understand each other. That's because y'all have similarities. I might 0:09:29.320 --> 0:09:33.280 not know that those, but y'all know that y'all are similar. Yeah. 0:09:33.480 --> 0:09:36.160 But yeah, I feel like a woman could teach me, 0:09:36.640 --> 0:09:39.680 teach me how to love, teach me how to comfort, 0:09:39.679 --> 0:09:42.120 teach me how to be patient, stuff like that. I 0:09:42.200 --> 0:09:45.199 feel like, just provide that good that balance in life. 0:09:45.360 --> 0:09:52.839 Are you good at saying I love you now? I'm 0:09:52.880 --> 0:09:55.120 not good at that, man. I'm not good at showing emotions. 0:09:55.280 --> 0:09:58.120 I'm not. I'm good at showing emotions in my music, 0:09:58.600 --> 0:10:00.480 but like in real life, I'm still working on that. 0:10:00.600 --> 0:10:03.920 Why do you think that is. I don't know, man, 0:10:04.240 --> 0:10:06.440 Maybe maybe I didn't grow up seeing it or something 0:10:06.480 --> 0:10:09.760 like that, but I don't know. It's just been difficult. 0:10:10.000 --> 0:10:11.920 Just you know, my parents aren't like that either. They're 0:10:11.920 --> 0:10:14.559 not very like. They never like I love you growing 0:10:14.640 --> 0:10:18.040 up or like and stuff like that. It was like cool, 0:10:18.640 --> 0:10:21.439 but it wasn't they hate each other, but they weren't 0:10:21.480 --> 0:10:24.800 very affectionate, right right. I think it was maybe something 0:10:24.800 --> 0:10:27.920 that but I don't know, man, it's just weird um 0:10:28.040 --> 0:10:30.640 even family. You know, I say I love you with 0:10:30.880 --> 0:10:33.360 like it's just like you gotta think about it. I 0:10:33.360 --> 0:10:35.760 feel like a lot of times you when other people 0:10:35.800 --> 0:10:37.160 tell me, you know, they love me, I feel like 0:10:37.200 --> 0:10:39.240 they don't even think about it. It's just something that 0:10:39.280 --> 0:10:42.080 they just say, right, And so maybe you overthink things. 0:10:42.480 --> 0:10:44.800 Yeah I do. I do. I think a lot of stuff. 0:10:46.080 --> 0:10:47.679 And also I feel like I love you. It's kind 0:10:47.679 --> 0:10:50.000 of like when someone says it's you, the automatic response 0:10:50.080 --> 0:10:54.000 is you just supposed stay back? Yeah, man, I really 0:10:54.040 --> 0:10:59.160 say that first, but I'm working on it. I am that. Yeah. 0:10:59.440 --> 0:11:01.520 I didn't work on that though. Does it make you 0:11:01.520 --> 0:11:06.000 feel good like your girls like I love you Demani? Yeah, definitely. 0:11:06.280 --> 0:11:08.319 I'm trying to make her feel good too. Yeah, that's 0:11:08.360 --> 0:11:11.160 what I'm saying. That's I'm working on it. I'm doing 0:11:12.160 --> 0:11:14.280 that's that's one thing that you're learning from the right woman, 0:11:14.960 --> 0:11:17.400 right from the right one, from the right woman that 0:11:17.440 --> 0:11:20.280 I wanted to teach you how much I think, no 0:11:20.400 --> 0:11:23.840 matter what, no matter what, Asian man is, I think 0:11:23.840 --> 0:11:25.720 that there's so much that he can learn from a 0:11:25.760 --> 0:11:28.920 woman ad vice versa. I think we as women can 0:11:29.040 --> 0:11:31.320 learn a lot from man. I just feel like many 0:11:31.559 --> 0:11:34.640 do need to feel needed. Yeah, I feel like everybody 0:11:34.679 --> 0:11:38.320 liked to feel needed. You know, I think men needed 0:11:38.360 --> 0:11:41.439 more and I think they need it more because they 0:11:41.440 --> 0:11:44.079 don't feel like they should because men are supposed to 0:11:44.120 --> 0:11:47.160 be the protector and the provider, so they don't want 0:11:47.200 --> 0:11:48.400 to feel you know what I'm saying, Like they feel 0:11:48.400 --> 0:11:50.480 like they shouldn't feel that way. But that's what makes 0:11:50.520 --> 0:11:54.040 them because we're already like very nurturing by nature. I 0:11:54.040 --> 0:11:56.880 think as women, as women, you don't think like the 0:11:57.000 --> 0:12:01.760 same way a woman needs attention, Like that's the same 0:12:01.880 --> 0:12:06.520 as a man needing to feel wanted once didn't need 0:12:06.520 --> 0:12:09.720 it is two different things you need, Yeah, because I know, 0:12:09.800 --> 0:12:13.199 like for myself, I don't need anybody. You'll need no 0:12:13.440 --> 0:12:15.760 man's attention. I don't know what I'm saying. I don't 0:12:15.800 --> 0:12:17.800 need like, I don't need somebody to like take care 0:12:17.800 --> 0:12:20.720 of things. I kind of like handle things myself. But 0:12:20.720 --> 0:12:22.800 when you can allow a man or you can ask 0:12:22.840 --> 0:12:25.600 for help and he feels like, oh, she needs me 0:12:25.679 --> 0:12:28.160 for something, and it kind of makes them feel good. 0:12:28.800 --> 0:12:36.559 That's what y'all be doing. Can you openess like that? 0:12:36.679 --> 0:12:39.760 And then you'd be feeling off strong, like yeah, I 0:12:39.800 --> 0:12:46.840 got you baby, Okay, can you pick up your own laundry? 0:12:46.920 --> 0:12:49.800 Thank you. I think it's important for a woman to 0:12:49.840 --> 0:12:52.720 make a man feel needed, because it's insimidating for a 0:12:52.720 --> 0:12:54.880 man when he's with a girl that doesn't need him. 0:12:54.960 --> 0:12:57.360 But you don't never want to feel like, okay, you 0:12:57.400 --> 0:13:00.320 feel needed, but not like I can't survive that, right, 0:13:01.240 --> 0:13:02.960 Because have you ever had a woman that felt like 0:13:03.160 --> 0:13:05.400 you felt like she was so dependent on you? Yeah? 0:13:05.559 --> 0:13:10.680 You had it like a little overbearing. Yeah, and that's yeah, man, 0:13:11.240 --> 0:13:14.320 I'm young man, I'm figuring it out. But yeah, I've 0:13:14.360 --> 0:13:18.840 seen that. I'm seen. But people just might be in 0:13:18.880 --> 0:13:22.079 that stage of life right just then, you know, and 0:13:22.160 --> 0:13:24.320 I gotta ask you this. We're trying to loosen you 0:13:24.400 --> 0:13:26.280 up here, so let's see if you can answer this question. 0:13:27.080 --> 0:13:29.120 So have you ever had a scare thinking you were 0:13:29.120 --> 0:13:32.200 about to be a father? Yeah? Yeah, I overthink. I 0:13:32.240 --> 0:13:35.800 overthink all the time, all the time, all the time, 0:13:38.040 --> 0:13:43.240 all the time. Yeah scared. I mean, you know, of course, 0:13:44.360 --> 0:13:50.440 um twice all the time. Not all the time, you know, 0:13:50.679 --> 0:13:54.040 just a couple of times, a couple of times. You 0:13:54.080 --> 0:13:57.040 know you were you excited or were you like? How 0:13:57.080 --> 0:13:59.960 did you feel? Yeah? Did you feel nervous? I felt 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:04.760 like whatever Finna happened, it's gonna get real. So you 0:14:04.800 --> 0:14:06.760 felt ready for us to come. If that was the case, 0:14:06.800 --> 0:14:10.240 I felt like, yeah, it's real. You know, change and 0:14:10.280 --> 0:14:13.640 growth is near. So that's all. Kids. I feel like 0:14:13.679 --> 0:14:16.280 I don't have any kids. Just I'm telling about what 0:14:16.320 --> 0:14:18.360 I feel and what I think. But I feel like, 0:14:18.400 --> 0:14:20.360 you know, kids, it is just if you're doing what 0:14:20.480 --> 0:14:23.480 you what you what you're supposed to do. Kids are 0:14:24.320 --> 0:14:27.840 just um growth. You know, you can't you can't stay. 0:14:27.920 --> 0:14:31.520 You're saying how you are before you had kids and 0:14:31.880 --> 0:14:34.160 after you had kids. I feel like kids is just 0:14:34.240 --> 0:14:37.600 an opportunity to grow and learn to make it be 0:14:37.640 --> 0:14:41.400 a man. Real quick. I don't know, man, I know 0:14:41.440 --> 0:14:44.440 I want more than one, that's but not a lot, 0:14:44.600 --> 0:14:48.200 not as not as many siblings as I have a house. 0:14:49.400 --> 0:14:51.200 But that's fine. I always wish I had a whole 0:14:51.200 --> 0:14:52.720 bunch of brothers, but I guess I only have one 0:14:52.760 --> 0:14:56.440 older brother. So it's always you want what you don't have. Yeah, 0:14:56.520 --> 0:14:59.440 I mean, it's a lot. Though it's not a lot, 0:14:59.560 --> 0:15:02.920 but it's just a lot of opinions. Man, I'm overthinking 0:15:03.040 --> 0:15:07.120 right now. So I love all my sibblers. Man, we 0:15:07.240 --> 0:15:10.720 learned from that. You think that sometimes you'd be a 0:15:10.760 --> 0:15:12.480 little nervous, like you don't want to say the wrong 0:15:12.520 --> 0:15:16.320 thing because people over analyze what you say. Yeah, man, 0:15:16.440 --> 0:15:19.320 the world is I feel like I live for others, 0:15:19.520 --> 0:15:22.320 you know. I feel like I rarely live for myself. 0:15:22.360 --> 0:15:25.280 That's why when I do live for myself, you know, 0:15:25.280 --> 0:15:28.040 I kind of go a little overboard. And maybe that 0:15:28.120 --> 0:15:32.200 was the cheating, you know, but something like stuff I 0:15:32.280 --> 0:15:34.680 just helped me figure myself out. I can't even picture 0:15:34.680 --> 0:15:37.360 you cheating too. That's what's got it, don't Yeah, the 0:15:37.400 --> 0:15:39.600 money you give us a good guy, I'm a good guy. 0:15:39.720 --> 0:15:42.720 You get be the ones though good you give, you 0:15:42.760 --> 0:15:44.720 give good God, you give whole stuff Like I really 0:15:44.720 --> 0:15:46.280 need to know how I need to switch it up 0:15:46.320 --> 0:15:48.400 though as soon as I mess up, it's gonna be 0:15:48.440 --> 0:15:49.920 over with. So I need to go ahead and just 0:15:50.240 --> 0:15:55.000 to lit negative in there. But there's not a wrong 0:15:55.040 --> 0:15:57.440 with being a good guy. Yeah, I just told you. 0:15:57.600 --> 0:15:59.160 It's just you know, as soon as you make a 0:15:59.240 --> 0:16:02.800 mistake and so words you're human, they tackle you. But 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:05.200 see that that also goes with this day and age 0:16:05.200 --> 0:16:09.520 of the Internet and social media and people, um, celebrities 0:16:09.520 --> 0:16:12.840 and people being in popularity being so accessible and and 0:16:12.880 --> 0:16:16.400 then the population being so able to come at you 0:16:16.480 --> 0:16:18.080 in the comments and then the d M s and 0:16:18.360 --> 0:16:21.640 on Twitter and what forth. Um, you know, that creates 0:16:21.960 --> 0:16:25.880 some chaos. You know. Um, we a little bit, a 0:16:25.960 --> 0:16:28.560 lot of bit older than you and didn't grow up 0:16:28.840 --> 0:16:32.240 in that world where you know, people were so accessible, 0:16:32.280 --> 0:16:35.440 Like we weren't allowed to d M or comment or 0:16:35.600 --> 0:16:38.160 speak to people that we looked up to in entertainment, 0:16:38.600 --> 0:16:41.240 you know. So it's it's a difference and can't get 0:16:41.240 --> 0:16:43.880 away with ship and y'all. It sucks for y'all. It's 0:16:43.920 --> 0:16:46.280 us for y'all having to deal with that. I feel 0:16:46.320 --> 0:16:48.880 like people don't understand that. Man, I understand. I feel 0:16:48.920 --> 0:16:52.440 like I understood this for a while. But you know, 0:16:52.920 --> 0:16:55.680 the more you have, I feel like, the less you 0:16:55.720 --> 0:16:59.960 could do. So the more exposed not exposures, the more 0:17:00.000 --> 0:17:04.160 are famed, the more money, the more eyes you got 0:17:04.160 --> 0:17:07.199 on you unless you yeah, you put your and I 0:17:07.320 --> 0:17:11.119 hate a box man, Yeah, but just the stuff that 0:17:11.160 --> 0:17:13.400 I love to do. Just, I mean, just I'm gonna 0:17:13.400 --> 0:17:14.840 figure out how to get out of this box. But 0:17:15.960 --> 0:17:18.600 as a person, you want to be free to express 0:17:18.640 --> 0:17:21.159 yourself with I deal with people's opinions and how they 0:17:21.200 --> 0:17:22.879 feel and what they think you should be doing and 0:17:22.920 --> 0:17:25.680 saying and writing in your music and so forth right exactly, 0:17:25.680 --> 0:17:27.639 It's like a catch twin two. It's like what I 0:17:27.760 --> 0:17:30.200 love to do, like be extra creative, and if I'm 0:17:30.200 --> 0:17:32.240 too good at it, I'm gonna put myself in the box. 0:17:32.600 --> 0:17:34.080 So if I'm too good at it and i'd be 0:17:34.119 --> 0:17:38.440 too successful, I'm in a box. So it's crazy, but 0:17:38.560 --> 0:17:40.280 you know things are working out, Like you got this 0:17:40.400 --> 0:17:45.400 song Falling, Yeah, yeah, Falling Anthony Hamilton's Rap City. That's 0:17:45.440 --> 0:17:48.920 an amazing combination. By the way, how did that? How 0:17:48.920 --> 0:17:51.840 did that happen? Sound like a lot of instance, burning 0:17:51.840 --> 0:17:57.120 and that's the candles litting light, stage smudging and everything. 0:17:57.240 --> 0:18:01.240 You know. But I know it was already knew. I 0:18:01.320 --> 0:18:03.359 knew rap City. I tooled with rap City. It was 0:18:03.440 --> 0:18:05.760 me big crate, rap City Boom. We grew a relationship. 0:18:06.160 --> 0:18:09.800 She's super dope, and I just knew she would. I 0:18:09.840 --> 0:18:12.280 knew she would just provide. I mean, this track would 0:18:12.400 --> 0:18:15.280 exactly what it needed. And I just gave her a 0:18:15.320 --> 0:18:17.760 little bit of I gave her a little direction, like 0:18:17.760 --> 0:18:19.920 what the concept of the project was, because I wanted 0:18:19.960 --> 0:18:22.280 this to end it, and she just did it. She 0:18:22.359 --> 0:18:24.879 just did it perfectly. I don't know if she did it, 0:18:24.880 --> 0:18:28.239 gave it exactly what he needed. And then Anthony, he 0:18:28.320 --> 0:18:31.359 was I've seen him coming on some of my something 0:18:31.400 --> 0:18:34.439 on my post, like fire emotions, and then I had 0:18:34.480 --> 0:18:37.359 reached out to him and he invited me to a show. 0:18:37.680 --> 0:18:40.399 I've seen the show. Show was dope. That man was 0:18:40.440 --> 0:18:43.760 on stage getting it. And then um, I sent her 0:18:43.840 --> 0:18:46.119 some music and one of those he got on everything 0:18:46.200 --> 0:18:49.199 and one of them was falling. So I don't know, 0:18:49.240 --> 0:18:51.560 it just it just came together like that. Man. I 0:18:51.560 --> 0:18:53.560 know you've seen him in the comments, you saying, right, 0:18:53.680 --> 0:18:59.040 that's not right there. Wait a minute, now, that but 0:18:59.119 --> 0:19:02.520 that was that was reason the whole album came together 0:19:02.600 --> 0:19:05.520 like that for real, just natural organic. That's a good 0:19:05.520 --> 0:19:08.640 feeling that I remember a couple of years ago when 0:19:08.720 --> 0:19:11.640 J Cole and get you up to give you props 0:19:11.640 --> 0:19:15.720 and everything. Yeah, I mean that's J Cole, It's cold 0:19:15.800 --> 0:19:20.760 J man. Yeah. I keep telling to people that's a confirmation. 0:19:20.920 --> 0:19:23.160 Like a lot of times, you know, you're just doing 0:19:23.160 --> 0:19:24.880 what you like to do, and you mean, you don't 0:19:24.880 --> 0:19:27.600 really know if you're headed in the right direction until 0:19:27.640 --> 0:19:31.560 you get those confirmations, like you get those like checkpoints 0:19:31.600 --> 0:19:33.520 like okay, boom, I'm heading in the right direction. I'm 0:19:33.520 --> 0:19:36.800 heading in the right direction. Sometimes those uh spread apart 0:19:36.920 --> 0:19:40.359 like years until you get a confirmation on and you 0:19:40.440 --> 0:19:43.560 just never know. And that's just that's the stressful part. 0:19:44.080 --> 0:19:47.360 But that right there was like one of the biggest, 0:19:47.920 --> 0:19:50.400 not biggest, one of the big confirmations. I mean, that's 0:19:50.400 --> 0:19:53.479 a big one. Yeah, But I'm saying, like my my parents, 0:19:53.640 --> 0:19:55.399 you know what I mean, my dad, Yeah, no, I 0:19:55.440 --> 0:19:58.120 get that too, But I'm saying outside of that, outside 0:19:58.119 --> 0:20:00.840 of that, that's definitely one of the biggest information your 0:20:00.880 --> 0:20:04.000 headed in the right direction. But yeah, man, he I 0:20:04.080 --> 0:20:05.840 was just grateful that he told he didn't have to 0:20:05.880 --> 0:20:08.240 tell me any of it and he could just kept 0:20:08.280 --> 0:20:10.879 it to himself, but he told me that and he 0:20:10.920 --> 0:20:16.160 gave me that confirmation, that motivation that I needed. And um, 0:20:16.200 --> 0:20:18.480 here we are with the next one, Scott Dive. Do 0:20:18.520 --> 0:20:19.960 you think that people look at your life from the 0:20:19.960 --> 0:20:23.119 outside and think it's like amazing from you know, having 0:20:23.119 --> 0:20:25.119 watched you grow up and be like, he's so fortunately, 0:20:25.119 --> 0:20:26.680 he's so lucky. But they don't know the struggles that 0:20:26.720 --> 0:20:29.080 you go through because sometimes people don't have sympathy for 0:20:29.119 --> 0:20:31.840 that either. Right. I ain't gonna sit here and say 0:20:31.880 --> 0:20:35.120 I'm going through too much struggle, man, I just it's 0:20:35.160 --> 0:20:37.440 just when you get a lot of good, you also 0:20:37.560 --> 0:20:39.280 have a lot of bad. But that don't mean that 0:20:39.359 --> 0:20:42.680 this good is not still good. So I'm not gonna 0:20:42.680 --> 0:20:46.119 say that I'm just struggling. You know, everything is, but 0:20:46.160 --> 0:20:47.960 I'm saying in your head a lot though, you know, 0:20:49.240 --> 0:20:52.639 everything is what I'm putting on myself, Like this is 0:20:52.640 --> 0:20:54.639 stuff that I wanted to do. I put this pressure 0:20:54.680 --> 0:20:59.520 on me and yeah, man, but it's, um, it's pros 0:20:59.520 --> 0:21:02.240 and cons with everything in life. It's just too much 0:21:02.280 --> 0:21:06.359 exposure too soon, could go bad. It could go left 0:21:06.720 --> 0:21:11.080 and not enough. I was fortunate, man, I don't I 0:21:11.119 --> 0:21:13.720 don't even look at the negative. It's some negative stuff 0:21:13.720 --> 0:21:16.520 that happened, but it's not negative at all compared to 0:21:16.520 --> 0:21:18.760 what it could have been. Because I remember you was like, 0:21:18.840 --> 0:21:21.280 not about to do the show. He was like, I'm 0:21:21.280 --> 0:21:25.639 stepping away, focus on my music. Yeah, you've seen a 0:21:25.760 --> 0:21:29.040 kid trying to figure it out. I had. It was 0:21:29.119 --> 0:21:32.119 just time. I felt like I just felt something. It's 0:21:32.160 --> 0:21:36.560 just it's just time to focus on myself. And I 0:21:36.600 --> 0:21:41.280 just wanted to me personally see myself differently, and then 0:21:41.359 --> 0:21:44.320 the world to see me who I felt like I 0:21:44.520 --> 0:21:46.560 was instead of you know what I mean, being on 0:21:46.600 --> 0:21:48.000 the show and then at the bottom and say t 0:21:48.119 --> 0:21:52.960 I and tiny son. Yeah you know. So, yeah, it 0:21:53.000 --> 0:21:57.040 was time, all right, So let's talk about Hendy and crystals. 0:21:57.359 --> 0:21:59.760 Yes a little bit. So first of all, you're not 0:22:00.000 --> 0:22:02.960 old enough to drink heney, not old enough to drink heny, 0:22:03.040 --> 0:22:06.320 but she is. She's old enough to drink heney. Okay, 0:22:06.359 --> 0:22:08.639