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Speaker 1: Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning show.

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Speaker 2: Uh, and what else do we want to talk about?

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Speaker 3: Oh, someone gave me some advice the other day. It

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Speaker 3: was never give up, and I'm thinking, yeah, sometimes you should.

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Speaker 4: You definitely give up.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes sometimes if something isn't working, you need to let

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Speaker 3: it go and move on.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, never give up. How about don't go to bed angry?

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Speaker 5: Why not?

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Speaker 2: What's wrong with going to be angry?

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Speaker 1: I wish I could live by that, but that's that

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Speaker 1: doesn't happen.

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Speaker 5: Sometimes I'd cause you to stay up all night.

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Speaker 3: Well I know, but also sometimes it gives you an

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Speaker 3: entire night of sleep to rethink things.

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Speaker 2: So in the morning maybe you can add a little

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Speaker 2: little better. I don't know. Maybe.

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Speaker 3: Also, so I'm looking at this list I found. I

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Speaker 3: found this on BuzzFeed somewhere. Another another piece of advice.

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Speaker 3: When there's a bully, just ignore them. Well wait, no, bullies,

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Speaker 3: they're not going to stop bullying just gives you ignore them.

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Speaker 3: They're bullies.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Sometimes then they need it.

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Speaker 3: Back right and it needs to be addressed or it's

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Speaker 3: very least okay, more advice that maybe we should we

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Speaker 3: should stop following. Don't be afraid to do what you love.

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Speaker 3: The money will follow as long as you're doing what

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Speaker 3: you love.

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Speaker 2: No, No, that's tough.

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Speaker 4: That's like a tough one because I really so. When

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Speaker 4: I started out in radio, I made less than nothing,

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Speaker 4: I mean nothing at all to me too, right, my

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Speaker 4: first paycheck, I think it was like twelve dollars. It

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Speaker 4: was embarrassing and I took a picture of it because

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Speaker 4: I was so happy to be doing what I loved.

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Speaker 4: And after some time, and thank god my sister was around.

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Speaker 4: I mean, you do end up turning it into a

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Speaker 4: passion and a career and something that fulfills you.

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Speaker 2: I cannot agree more.

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Speaker 1: Unless you really have to pay the bills, because yeah,

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Speaker 1: then I think you have to.

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Speaker 4: Be kids different stories.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes you gotta pay.

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Speaker 3: You gotta pay the bills while you're pursuing that thing

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Speaker 3: you're passionate about. But also so you gotta you gotta

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Speaker 3: work your ass off and multitask more advice that maybe

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Speaker 3: it's not that easy to follow.

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Speaker 2: Tough it out. That was, you know what, just tough

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Speaker 2: it out.

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Speaker 3: Well, not always, I mean, sometimes you're gonna take a break,

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Speaker 3: think it over, take a moment. My dad used to say,

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Speaker 3: Elvis take a moment, think this through, take care of yourself,

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Speaker 3: and then keep going or you'll run yourself nuts.

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Speaker 2: Oh how about forgive and forget? How about that advice?

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Speaker 5: I'll not dam it, but I'll never forget.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, don't ever forget it. Always remember.

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Speaker 3: Yep, Yeah, I guess it should be forgive, but don't

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Speaker 3: ever forget. As you're saying, there's nine times out of

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Speaker 3: ten people's poor behavior, it's part of a pattern. Usually

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Speaker 3: for we want shame on you, for me twice, shame

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Speaker 3: on me. Right advice? Treat people how you want to

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Speaker 3: be treated.

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Speaker 1: No, that's good, Yeah, that's good.

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Speaker 4: That's no. So okay. My dad taught me this one.

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Speaker 4: He said, the Golden rule is bunk because you treat

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Speaker 4: people how you want to be treated. But you should

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Speaker 4: treat people how they want to be treated. So I

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Speaker 4: love when people make fun of me. I think it's hilarious.

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Speaker 4: In turn, I will make fun of other people. Maybe

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Speaker 4: they hate that. So I shouldn't treat them how I

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Speaker 4: want to be treated. I should treat them how they

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Speaker 4: want to be treated.

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Speaker 3: Well, also, you could be taken advantage of instead treat

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Speaker 3: people the way they treat you. It's a better way

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Speaker 3: of looking at Maybe you know, you treat me like crap.

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Speaker 5: Okay at the beginning, you treat people the way you

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Speaker 5: want to be treating in the beginning. But if that

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Speaker 5: person mistreats you, then you could treat them the way

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Speaker 5: that they've treated you, just to be like, okay, that's

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Speaker 5: how you treat people. Then we can equal that.

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Speaker 1: You put that into a saying, though I.

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Speaker 2: Don't know it pretty much.

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Speaker 3: And finally, we use this all the time and as

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Speaker 3: a matter of fact, we used it today. Trust your gut,

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Speaker 3: I mean the spirit of trust your gut is it's big,

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Speaker 3: it's empowering, right, but people with anxiety and other issues,

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Speaker 3: their gut may be working against them. Sometimes sometimes your

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Speaker 3: gut may work against you. So I guess one person said,

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Speaker 3: if it were up to my gut, I'd never do anything.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I tend to trust my mom's gut more than anything. Like,

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Speaker 1: she's a good person when it comes to that stuff.

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Speaker 1: And I go, Mom, what do you think about it?

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Speaker 1: And she, you know, go ahead.

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Speaker 4: If everything was up to Scotty's gut, he will just

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Speaker 4: puke all day, yeah, eat, crack his pants, throw up

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Speaker 4: and poop yep there, so yeah.

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Speaker 3: There are some cases where these words of advice are good,

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Speaker 3: but not every single time.

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Speaker 1: And I think sometimes it works in certain cases and

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Speaker 1: not in all cases, you know, So.

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Speaker 3: Answer this question. I'll go to you Daniel first, trust

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Speaker 3: your brain or trust your heart?

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Speaker 2: Which one?

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Speaker 1: Oh gosh, it's that's so tough because I think it

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Speaker 1: depends on the situation. I don't think it's cut and dry.

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Speaker 1: Just think it depends.

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Speaker 3: Gandhi, trust your your gut first or no, no, trust

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Speaker 3: your brain first?

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Speaker 2: Or trust your heart first?

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Speaker 4: My heart or my brain? I'm sorry, definitely brain. My

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Speaker 4: heart is an idiot.

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Speaker 2: Wow, it's true. And one more, you know, I'll go

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Speaker 2: to Froggy. Froggy, trust your brain or trust your heart.

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Speaker 5: That's hard. H your brain?

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Speaker 3: There you go, you know, Uh, I must say trust

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Speaker 3: my heart first.

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Speaker 2: It get me into trouble. It gets me into trouble

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Speaker 2: almost every time. Yep.

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Speaker 3: But I know that my heart is fueled by passion

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Speaker 3: and it's fueled by desire. It's fueled by these things

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Speaker 3: that can work against one set oneself. Right, But passion

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Speaker 3: and desire, I don't know. It's the fiery part of me.

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Speaker 3: I just I. I usually go with my heart and

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Speaker 3: a lot of times, I you know, I get it broken.