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Speaker 1: It's time for Ryan's roses right now. Dear Ryan and

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Speaker 1: Sisney from Brenda in Culvery City. I recently noticed small

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Speaker 1: changes in my husband's behavior. He seems way less stressed,

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Speaker 1: he seems happy. All sounds good, yeah, like that's what

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Speaker 1: you want in a relationship, but it's the why Why

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Speaker 1: does he feel better? Why is he happier? What's her concern?

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Speaker 1: Let's grab Brendan out. Brendan, thanks for coming on. So,

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Speaker 1: I mean, on the surface, this all sounds great. You

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Speaker 1: got a spouse, it's happy. Why are you concerned?

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Speaker 2: Well, just because like he's been just this ball of stress,

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Speaker 2: that's who he is, and then all of a sudden

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Speaker 2: that's gone. So to me, it just feels like something's

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Speaker 2: going on. He's much more laid back and relaxed, when

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Speaker 2: before he was always hustling, like this promotion, that promotion,

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Speaker 2: this job, earning money? Here is that? It's just always But.

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Speaker 1: What do you think going on? Just talk about them? Okay,

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Speaker 1: you think he's having an affair. Why do you think

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Speaker 1: he's having an affair?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. He's just like we used to have.

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Speaker 2: We used to be more intimate, like every week like clockwork.

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Speaker 2: Now we're not so intimate, but he's really chill and relaxed.

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Speaker 2: It just doesn't add up to me.

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Speaker 1: Do you have a hunch Do you have any idea

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Speaker 1: who he might be having an affair with?

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Speaker 2: I really don't. I mean anyone he's he could be

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Speaker 2: working with.

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Speaker 1: So there's no real evidence of the affair other than

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Speaker 1: his happiness.

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, and he's relaxed.

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Speaker 1: And here's the thing, like, clearly there's more that's not

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Speaker 1: there if you think that because his happiness, it means

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Speaker 1: he's having an affair, like something else is going on

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Speaker 1: there or you're not feeling something in that relationship, Like

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Speaker 1: what's at the root.

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Speaker 2: Exactly? Now?

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Speaker 1: What is at the roots? What's the issue at the

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Speaker 1: root with you guys?

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Speaker 2: I mean, it just seems like his attitude has changed.

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Speaker 2: You know, everything was just more you know, urgent, urgent,

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Speaker 2: and now it's like sometimes I can go to work

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Speaker 2: and things are more flexible. Sometimes it's like it's an emergency.

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Speaker 2: It just doesn't seem it's just a change of attitude

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Speaker 2: almost entirely, and it's all around work.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So the gist is Brenda's husband's happy, and she

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Speaker 1: thinks there's a problem.

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Speaker 3: Do you have any kids, no kids.

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Speaker 1: He's happy and she thinks he's having an affair. We

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Speaker 1: try to get to the bottom of it, but that's

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Speaker 1: kind of where we are. Yeah, okay, so, Brenda, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna call him. I need you to say, Ryan, you

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Speaker 1: my permission to call him. Then his name on Kiss FM.

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Speaker 2: Go ahead, Okay, Ryan, you have my permission to call

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Speaker 2: my husband on Kiss FM.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna do that right now. Be very quiet until

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Speaker 1: we tell him he's on the air, and good luck

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Speaker 1: to you, Brend.

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Speaker 2: Okay, thank you so much.

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Speaker 4: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Adam? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Who's this?

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Speaker 1: Hi?

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Speaker 3: My name is Kendall. I'm calling from Butterfly Blooms in

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Speaker 3: Culver City. How are you doing this morning?

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Speaker 4: Okay? You know what's this in regard to well.

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Speaker 3: Since you're a resident in the area, we are offering

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Speaker 3: a promotion for you today. It is a free dozen

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Speaker 3: red roses that you can send to anybody that you'd like.

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Speaker 3: They're absolutely free. We're just trying to promote our business

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Speaker 3: and if you like them, then we hopefully you know

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Speaker 3: you refer us to friends and family. But for now

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Speaker 3: they are free. So we can just start with the

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Speaker 3: name of the person you want to send them to

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Speaker 3: and they'll re see them by lunchtime today.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so it's free. This isn't some sort of scam.

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Speaker 3: They are free.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 3: I don't need I don't need cash, I don't need

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Speaker 3: credit card info from you. I don't need anything like that.

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Speaker 3: You can start with the name of the person you

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Speaker 3: want to send them to.

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Speaker 4: Oh well, okay, uh, you send them to my wife, Brenda. Okay,

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Speaker 4: and you're not gathering any other information for anything else, identity, theft.

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Speaker 3: No, what would you like to put on the note

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Speaker 3: for Brenda?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 4: Okay, right, Sorry, let's just say have a beautiful day

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Speaker 4: if it beautiful in capitals.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Adam, your voice is being broadcast in the radio.

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Speaker 1: My name is Ryan. I have your wife Brenda on

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Speaker 1: the phone. Thank you for staying on with us here

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Speaker 1: for a second. Sorry, Yes, my name is Ryan. Brenda's

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Speaker 1: on the line here, and she's asked.

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Speaker 4: Us to Cary Brenda, what's going on?

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Speaker 1: So the thing is, Adam, that are you happy? Adam?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: And why are you tell me? Just forgive the intrusion,

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Speaker 1: but why are you happy?

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Speaker 2: Brenda?

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Speaker 4: What the hell is going on here?

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Speaker 1: This is right? I asked why are you happy?

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Speaker 4: Well, right, well, I don't know, just my things have

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Speaker 4: gotten better recently.

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Speaker 1: And how have they gotten better? What was wrong and

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Speaker 1: what changed?

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Speaker 4: Well, tell you the truth. I was really concerned about work.

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Speaker 4: I was stressed out like crazy all the time, and

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Speaker 4: that situation has changed a little bit. I'm learning a

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Speaker 4: little bit more money, the stress level is way down,

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Speaker 4: and it's just like.

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Speaker 1: You have a breakthrough at work.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, breakthrough, I guess. Yeah, sure, I just feel

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Speaker 4: a lot better. A lot of the stress is gone.

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Speaker 4: So it's like I'm feeling a lot more secure.

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Speaker 1: And is there any other outlet you're relieving your stress

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Speaker 1: with you from?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 4: What are you asking exactly?

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Speaker 2: I feel like you're having an affair.

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Speaker 4: What you think I'm cheating?

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Speaker 2: I mean yeah, I mean I know it sound silly,

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Speaker 2: but really this whole thing with work, you were you

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Speaker 2: were like stress all the time and now you're not,

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Speaker 2: and I don't really know why. And sometimes you're running

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Speaker 2: into work and sometimes you're not. You're very like flexible

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Speaker 2: with the hours and we're not really like, well.

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Speaker 4: There, I'm not cheating. Okay, exactly what does that mean?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 4: Listen? I did I got a promotion of sorts at work?

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Speaker 2: All right, of sorts?

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Speaker 4: What is of sort of hear me out, hear me out,

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Speaker 4: hear me out. Okay, I am working less logistically and

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Speaker 4: more as a personal assistant.

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Speaker 2: Okay, how are you making more money as a personal

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Speaker 2: assistant that doesn't captain.

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 4: Because okay, you know and I can't say her name

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Speaker 4: in the radio. Okay, that the woman I will work for?

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Speaker 4: Her name sirs, Jay? You know her?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Well, she lost her personal assistant and she offered me

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Speaker 4: so much more money to be hers.

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Speaker 2: But what does that entailed? Because it sounds like super shady.

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Speaker 4: I just need to be there when she needs me.

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Speaker 1: So, Adam, are you having an affair with her? Is

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Speaker 1: there a romantic involvement like let's just get to it.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, We we do work stuff.

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Speaker 1: What's work stuff?

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Speaker 4: Work stuff like ADMNT stuff, get what works stuff and

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Speaker 4: mostly works? Like it's mostly work stuff all the time.

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Speaker 1: What's not work? What's the not mostly?

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Speaker 4: But I'm on call like twenty four hours a day,

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Speaker 4: so I help her out with whatever she's going through.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So, Adam, are you are you or any sort

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Speaker 1: of emotional relationship type support, any sort of physical support, like,

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Speaker 1: just let's go.

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Speaker 4: Man, Okay, there's there's nothing physical going on. Yes, we're

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Speaker 4: becoming friends as I'm getting to know her.

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Speaker 2: She has a lot of Do you have feelings for her?

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Speaker 1: Do you have feelings for Jack?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 4: I don't listen. Listen, Uh, this is good. I doubled

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Speaker 4: my salary, right, and.

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Speaker 1: You and you're doing an honest job, right.

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Speaker 4: I'm just doing an honest job.

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Speaker 1: And did you accept Adam? Why but you accept Adam's response?

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Speaker 1: And why did you keep it from Brenda?

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Speaker 4: You know, maybe this isn't the place to even talk

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Speaker 4: about it. You know what I mean? This is getting

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Speaker 4: really personal now, right.

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Speaker 1: It's absolutely the worst place to talk about it. I

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Speaker 1: acknowledged that. But why did you keep it from Brenda?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 4: I didn't, you know. I guess I wasn't quite sure

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Speaker 4: how she would react, and I just thought that, you know, again, financially,

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Speaker 4: everything else is so much bet other is right and

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Speaker 4: everything that's better at home, and you know, it's a

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Speaker 4: good thing.

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Speaker 2: You don't really understand why you didn't talk about this

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Speaker 2: with me, But I think that we should table this

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Speaker 2: on the radio and discuss this when we are home.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, guys. So much.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, absolutely good luck, thank you, Adam, appreciate it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: bye guys, So is it got cheated with Jay?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: That was a rollercoaster