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Speaker 1: Second update. Not a lot of people know this about me,
Speaker 1: but when it comes to dating, I really like group dates,
Speaker 1: really love them. Yeah, I think they're awesome. Group dates
Speaker 1: are great because you guys show up to the same
Speaker 1: warehouse at the same time, put your keys in a bowl,
Speaker 1: and then you just enjoy yourself for the evening, no
Speaker 1: strings attached. That's why I think group dates are great.
Speaker 1: That's not really group date. Is that wrong? It's not
Speaker 1: a date called something else? Oh okay, I thought that
Speaker 1: was the normal term for a group date. I guess.
Speaker 1: I'm glad we got that cleared up either way. But oh,
Speaker 1: all right, well I thought that was just dating. Never mind.
Speaker 1: Then Laura, who's on the phone for a second date
Speaker 1: up date right now, went out on sort of a
Speaker 1: double date. Hey Laura, how are you doing? Hey how
Speaker 1: are you guys? Pretty good? Thank you for your email,
Speaker 1: appreciate it. So your email said you showed up to
Speaker 1: this date and there ended up being like a double
Speaker 1: date situation going on. Well, I mean, I knew that
Speaker 1: we were going out with some friends, but I didn't
Speaker 1: realize it was going to be It was just a
Speaker 1: little more pressure than I was anticipating. So okay, I
Speaker 1: was confused. In your email, it sounded like you had
Speaker 1: no idea there we're going to be other people there.
Speaker 1: So how did you meet this guy? First of all,
Speaker 1: I met him at a party as friends how and
Speaker 1: he asked me if I wanted to go out, and
Speaker 1: I was like absolutely, So I was like, yeah, I
Speaker 1: want to meet up with a couple of friends of mine.
Speaker 1: Do you mind? Would you want to join us? And
Speaker 1: I show up and there's this other couple there. So
Speaker 1: what was weird about that? Well, I was expecting like
Speaker 1: a group of friends, and it turned out that like
Speaker 1: the girl Amanda was his sister and her boyfriend. Oh
Speaker 1: that's always a lot of I have actually broken up
Speaker 1: with a guy because I didn't want to meet the
Speaker 1: sister really because I had a sister and I know
Speaker 1: how Judge we can be like for real, Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: I mean, that's what I was thinking. As soon as
Speaker 1: I found out that it was a sister, I was
Speaker 1: like Oh my gosh, that's a lot more than I
Speaker 1: was thinking. That's weird to bring your sister along on
Speaker 1: a first date. Well, maybe they're closed. I mean, did
Speaker 1: they seem to be friends? They did? I mean, I
Speaker 1: will say that, like as the night went on, it
Speaker 1: got better. Like it was awkward at first, but we
Speaker 1: ended up having a really fun time. You know, I
Speaker 1: really enjoyed it. I liked her, and he was, of
Speaker 1: course great. I mean I wanted him to. I definitely
Speaker 1: wanted another date with him. What's his name? His name
Speaker 1: was Brodie? Yeah, and Laura, you want to come on
Speaker 1: a date with me and my sister. So did you
Speaker 1: guys hit it often? Did she seem to like you
Speaker 1: and you like her? Well? I thought we did? You
Speaker 1: thought you did? I mean, did you guys talk and
Speaker 1: have a good conversation? It seemed like she did. We
Speaker 1: hit well. I mean, I don't know. Honestly, I really
Speaker 1: thought things were going well with her. I thought we
Speaker 1: were getting along great. But I texted him the next day,
Speaker 1: you know, just to tell him that I had a
Speaker 1: fun time, and he texted me back saying that he
Speaker 1: had a good time as well. And so I just
Speaker 1: went for it and I was like, so, um, do
Speaker 1: you want to hang out again? And and he told
Speaker 1: me his sister wasn't a fan. So to me, did
Speaker 1: he say he doesn't want to hang out with you
Speaker 1: because his sister's not a fan. Well, I mean that
Speaker 1: was what was being implied. I mean he didn't say like,
Speaker 1: he told me that if I wanted to, I could
Speaker 1: try to convince her. And then he gave me her number.
Speaker 1: What he wants you to call his sister and ask
Speaker 1: for permission to go out with him again. Well, I mean,
Speaker 1: do you know how weird that sounds. That's weird. It's
Speaker 1: got to be a joke. He was joking and you
Speaker 1: just didn't get it because it was on text message
Speaker 1: or something. Well, no, I mean I asked him if
Speaker 1: he was joking. He was like, no, she wasn't a fan.
Speaker 1: I mean what So, yeah, he said, call my sister
Speaker 1: and ask her if I can go out with you again.
Speaker 1: Basically he didn't say it exactly like that, but he
Speaker 1: was like, sure, sounds like he did. If he said, hey,
Speaker 1: here's my sister's phone number. Caller. Well, yeah, I guess.
Speaker 1: I just I just really want to know what happened.
Speaker 1: So are we gonna call him, or do you want
Speaker 1: us to call his sister for your second date? I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure we have to call her, right Really?
Speaker 1: I think so because he sounded like he had a
Speaker 1: good time, and I feel like she's the one who
Speaker 1: has like the answers about like what is wrong? Right?
Speaker 1: Can you really want a second date with this guy?
Speaker 1: Or you just want to find out from the sister
Speaker 1: what you did wrong and why she doesn't like you?
Speaker 1: Because honestly, if I were to go out with a
Speaker 1: girl and she's like, you gotta call my brother for permission,
Speaker 1: I'd be like, all right, then, no, thank you. I
Speaker 1: just feel like there must have been something that was
Speaker 1: like a miscommunication or something like that, because I really
Speaker 1: thought it was going well, and so if something went
Speaker 1: wrong that I don't know about, I just kind of
Speaker 1: want to clear things up, you know, through the air
Speaker 1: about it. So you want to clear the air with
Speaker 1: the sister and then do you still want to date
Speaker 1: her brother? Fun enough for a second date? All right? Okay,
Speaker 1: Well we will play a song, come back, call her weird,
Speaker 1: figure out why she doesn't like you, and then see
Speaker 1: if she'll let you date her brother. Right, Yeah, that
Speaker 1: sounds very Okay, we'll do it right after this brooking
Speaker 1: jubil in the morning. Okay, for the second part of
Speaker 1: today's second day up date, I'm gonna need you to
Speaker 1: pay attention for a second. I need to explain how
Speaker 1: this is going to work. Laura went out on a
Speaker 1: date with a guy named Brodie. She showed up to
Speaker 1: the date. It was like a double date type situation.
Speaker 1: One of those people happened to be brodie sister. She
Speaker 1: thought that they all enjoyed each other's company and the
Speaker 1: sister was cool with her. She texted Brodie the next
Speaker 1: day and he said, Hey, we can't go out again
Speaker 1: because my sister doesn't like you. So we and then
Speaker 1: they were like joking back and forth, and he said,
Speaker 1: here's my sister's phone number if you want to see
Speaker 1: me again, clear it with my sister. So right now,
Speaker 1: we're about to call Brodie's sister, her name is Amanda
Speaker 1: on Laura's behalf to see if she can get a
Speaker 1: second date with her brother, or at least find out
Speaker 1: why the girl doesn't like her. All right, Laura, are
Speaker 1: you ready to go? Yeah? I'm ready. Okay, are you
Speaker 1: thoroughly confused? Myself? Now, But are you more creeped out
Speaker 1: that Brodie wants you to talk to his sister or
Speaker 1: that the sister is that involved with the brother's life.
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess I'm more creeped out, but he
Speaker 1: per permissions. That's a little weirder for me. I see
Speaker 1: sisters being overprotective. I get that. Yeah, Okay, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: doll the phone right now, get her on the phone
Speaker 1: and see if we can figure out why Amanda hates Laura.
Speaker 1: Here we go, Amanda Hayes Laura name a good sitcom.
Speaker 1: By the way, Hello, can I speak to Amanda please speaking?
Speaker 1: We asked you calling. This is Jebil from Brook and
Speaker 1: Jewil in the Morning. How are you like the radio show?
Speaker 1: Exactly like the radio show? Have you ever listened to us?
Speaker 1: I'm just here and there never seriously, I guess, yeah, no,
Speaker 1: you've put it probably never really listened very much at all.
Speaker 1: But that's okay, Amanda, because you're actually about to be
Speaker 1: on the show, which is pretty cool. Okay. One of
Speaker 1: our listeners recently send us an email about you. Oh really,
Speaker 1: what was email about? Well? Her name is Laura, and
Speaker 1: Laura recently went out on a date with your brother,
Speaker 1: oh ring a bell? Okay, Well, she told us about
Speaker 1: the date, and the thing is, she really wants to
Speaker 1: see your brother again. But after the date, she was
Speaker 1: texting with your brother and he said he couldn't go
Speaker 1: out with her because you didn't like her. That's exactly right.
Speaker 1: So you don't so you don't like her. So that's
Speaker 1: why I'm calling you today. I'm calling you to find
Speaker 1: out what you didn't like about Laura on the date.
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, sometimes you meet people and you
Speaker 1: just you just know that they wouldn't be good in
Speaker 1: your group of friends, or in your family or around
Speaker 1: and sometimes you just have to, you know, draw the
Speaker 1: line and speak your mind. Hold on, how can you
Speaker 1: tell from one date whether or not a girl is
Speaker 1: good enough for your brother? Like you spent two hours.
Speaker 1: You just know there are times there are indicators. So
Speaker 1: we talked to her about the date, and she actually
Speaker 1: had nice things to say about you and thought you
Speaker 1: guys were getting along great until she got those texts
Speaker 1: from your brothers saying you didn't like her. Well, first
Speaker 1: of all, of course, she had nice things to say
Speaker 1: about me. Second of all, I mean, it wasn't like
Speaker 1: her actions per se but it was more, you know,
Speaker 1: her choice of dress or the way she cursed, or
Speaker 1: you know, she just seems very's a very trashy air,
Speaker 1: you know, like I could just tell that she was
Speaker 1: a trashy person, and to me, it's okay, Like I
Speaker 1: I understand that people can't choose the circumstance which they're
Speaker 1: more into, right, I understand that, But this is a
Speaker 1: grown woman. I mean, come on, I mean, I don't
Speaker 1: want to hang out with someone when I'm worried about
Speaker 1: her boobs like falling out of her shirt or you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. So you don't like the way
Speaker 1: she dressed, and you thought she was trashy. I didn't
Speaker 1: think she was trashy. I knew she was trashy straight up.
Speaker 1: Like should we talk to her? And she seemed like
Speaker 1: a lovely girl, right, Well, you didn't see her, you
Speaker 1: just talked to her. You'd been there, you would have
Speaker 1: felt the trash you vibe that I would get it.
Speaker 1: Why are you so invested into your brother's love life
Speaker 1: because first dates can turn into marriages. It's the beginning
Speaker 1: of something. And we're a very close knit family. So
Speaker 1: you're close with your brother and you don't want him
Speaker 1: dating gutter trash exactly if you're trying to be funny
Speaker 1: with me right now, but that's exactly how I feel.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. You can't argue with honesty, and I
Speaker 1: appreciate you being honest with us, Amanda. Thank you, You're welcome.
Speaker 1: How do you think Laura would feel if she heard
Speaker 1: you say that about her? Though? I don't think that
Speaker 1: I would care. Good. Maybe she would change her ways,
Speaker 1: maybe she would make some self improvement. It's good that
Speaker 1: you wouldn't care because Laura is actually on the other
Speaker 1: line listening. Yeah, Oh my god, Hi, it's good to
Speaker 1: know how big of a b you are. Serious. You
Speaker 1: were hiding the first time we met. I was trying
Speaker 1: to be polite because I have manner and know how
Speaker 1: to act in public. I'm like you, well, at least
Speaker 1: I don't judge people based from what they're wearing. Honey.
Speaker 1: It was not only what you were wearing, it was
Speaker 1: what you were saying, how you carried yourself and awes
Speaker 1: enough to mention the fact that you don't even have
Speaker 1: a real college degree. You have a trade degree, you
Speaker 1: have a certification, you're a dentalistist, and what are you
Speaker 1: planning to do with that? Are you planning to be
Speaker 1: a dentist? Are you talking about a dentialistist? Is a
Speaker 1: very respectable job, and I'm trying to better myself. How
Speaker 1: are you going to meet? You work at a frisking
Speaker 1: call center? Your your customer service? Your job isn't that great, missy?
Speaker 1: But I have a college degree? Yeah that answering phones
Speaker 1: that education. I feel like me and you walking down
Speaker 1: the street. People would look at us and they would
Speaker 1: know that I am automatically better than you and I
Speaker 1: want family. Do you know what they would know? They
Speaker 1: would know that someone who came from nothing and is
Speaker 1: bettering themselves as doing I hell have a lot better
Speaker 1: than someone who has a four year degree. And to
Speaker 1: a Manda, do you like you honestly think that you're
Speaker 1: a better person. I'm sorry if you called me. I'm
Speaker 1: just telling you what I know. Don't try and act
Speaker 1: like I'm this bad person because I don't want this
Speaker 1: in my life. You know what I feel, Amanda? All right, Amanda?
Speaker 1: I feel you. I have to walk around every day
Speaker 1: knowing that people are lesser than me, and it's frustrating,
Speaker 1: it really is. And I feel you on that. Thank
Speaker 1: you very much for your time. I would like to
Speaker 1: see if actually you two would like to get together
Speaker 1: for a second date, maybe a hangout. I'll pay for it.
Speaker 1: Wherever you guys want to be, the Happy Hour or
Speaker 1: something you can. I want to go and hang out
Speaker 1: out with a dental assistant, trashy. I have better things
Speaker 1: to do with my time. Well, Amanda, the way that
Speaker 1: you just described Laura sounds perfect for me. I mean,
Speaker 1: oh my god. First of all, I'm so glad we
Speaker 1: called her because now I have no reason to ever
Speaker 1: be anywhere near that family again. Kid, and there's a
Speaker 1: good reason why her brother is her only friend, that's
Speaker 1: for sure. No, no, no no, no, lady, I'll be fine.
Speaker 1: Thank you's very much. I kind of wanted to out
Speaker 1: with Amanda. Is that weird? Yes? Yes, broken Jewil in
Speaker 1: the Morning.