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Welcome to the New Corner Office. 20 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 1: The podcast where we share strategies for thriving in the 21 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:33,400 Speaker 1: new world of worth, where location and hours are more 22 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:37,559 Speaker 1: flexible than in the past. Today's tip is to recognize 23 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 1: the value of small talk, because small talk makes a 24 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:46,040 Speaker 1: big impact. If you're a task oriented person like me, 25 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 1: you may be inclined to minimize chit chat while you're working. 26 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 1: You want to be productive and get your job done. 27 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 1: Productivity is definitely a good thing, but as I've often said, 28 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 1: people are a good use of time. Don't underestimate the 29 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 1: value of seemingly unproductive interactions at work. Relationships with people 30 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:13,400 Speaker 1: in and beyond our organizations are vital to our professional success, 31 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 1: and small talk smooth the way for deeper connection. Being 32 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 1: good at small talk means being ready to talk about 33 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 1: something besides the coronavirus, working from home, or the weather. 34 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 1: Please no more with the weather. You want to aim 35 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 1: for topics that, while light, are interesting and can help 36 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 1: you and your conversation partner find common ground. For starters, 37 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 1: stay on top of pop culture and sports, at least 38 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 1: to the extent that you can be an engaged listener. 39 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 1: No name that's on the cover of People magazine should 40 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 1: be entirely unfamiliar as for sports. Yes, it's hard to 41 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 1: follow much right now, but in the future you should 42 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 1: know whether the college and proteins in your area are 43 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 1: having a good, it or disappointing season. It helps to 44 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 1: scan the sports headlines of your local paper and look 45 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 1: at the covers of magazines. Maybe while you're waiting in 46 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 1: line at the grocery store, when someone brings up a 47 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 1: pop culture topic that you're unfamiliar with, see it as 48 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:18,359 Speaker 1: a chance to learn. No, I haven't watched Tiger King, 49 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 1: but I keep hearing about it. What do you think 50 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:23,920 Speaker 1: makes it so compelling? Or it sounds like you're an 51 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 1: Eagles fan? When did you first start following them? Questions 52 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:32,240 Speaker 1: like these keep the conversation flowing and the relationship growing, 53 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 1: and who knows, you might get some ideas about ways 54 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 1: you'd like to spend some of your free time in 55 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 1: the process. Also, be ready to share what you're interested 56 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 1: in outside of work. This means that, yep, you need 57 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:48,160 Speaker 1: some interest outside of work. It doesn't have to be 58 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 1: training for a marathon, though it could be. You can 59 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:54,120 Speaker 1: also talk about a project in your yard, your sour 60 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 1: dough starter, the book you just read for a book club, 61 00:03:57,080 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 1: whatever ideally you have a few things, So if one 62 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 1: line of conversation doesn't pan out, you've got another to 63 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 1: try with the person who asked so nicely, what's keeping 64 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 1: you busy? It can also be helpful to collect good news. 65 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 1: Maybe it's the valedictorian in your city who used to 66 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 1: be homeless and is now headed to Stanford, or your 67 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 1: son learning to ride his bike last weekend. Maybe it's 68 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 1: the new restaurant in your neighborhood that opened during the 69 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:25,479 Speaker 1: pandemic and yet still has a line around the block 70 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 1: for takeout orders every evening. Prepare yourself to share stories 71 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:33,040 Speaker 1: that will lift people's spirits. You might start taking notes 72 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 1: of these while perusing headlines. Small talk helps us connect 73 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 1: with each other and enjoy our common life together. 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