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Speaker 1: My ex has a restraining order against me, and watch

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Speaker 1: to a vict me from my home. I don't care

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Speaker 1: about the law. I'm not leaving. Am I the a hole? Dang?

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Speaker 1: When you've got a whole ass restraining order against somebody,

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Speaker 1: I don't. Don't restrain yourself. Don't stop, keep going, keep on,

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Speaker 1: keep on going. Did Michael Jordan stop when they fouled him? Wow?

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Speaker 1: He didn't. Did Michael Phelps stop because the water restrained

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Speaker 1: him from moving faster? I guess not. Did the Fosberry

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Speaker 1: flop guy, mister Fosbury stopped because the pole was restraining

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Speaker 1: him from jumping over it? The fos kept fazzen foz

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Speaker 1: kept fasen. And you shouldn't restrain yourself. Wow, there you go.

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Speaker 1: Inspirational words from Samuel Donner. You know I do what

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Speaker 1: I do. Dms are open, decently single. My ex wife

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Speaker 1: and I had a rocky marriage and my alcoholism didn't help.

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Speaker 1: There we go, all right, Oh pee, Well, at least

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Speaker 1: you could admit to stuff. Yeah, she pushed for a divorce.

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Speaker 1: We lived together during the divorce, and one day I

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Speaker 1: found out she was dating another man. I snapped and

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Speaker 1: hit her. Oh jeez, pretty hard. I was charged with assault,

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Speaker 1: spent three months in jail, went to anger management, and

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Speaker 1: I was also issued a three year restraining order, which

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Speaker 1: probably honestly good. Yeah, this was two years ago. I've

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Speaker 1: since sobered up, met a wonderful woman, and moved to

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Speaker 1: a completely different apartment complex in a completely different part

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Speaker 1: of the city, and have never had any further contact

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Speaker 1: with my ex wife. I admit what I did was wrong.

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Speaker 1: I paid the price. I've since re established myself. My

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Speaker 1: current woman, who have been in relationship for two years,

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Speaker 1: is aware of this background story, which makes things slightly easier. Well.

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Speaker 1: Unknown to being, my ex moved into my apartment complex

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Speaker 1: about five months ago with her now new husband, who

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Speaker 1: had always lived here. I just didn't know this. Wow.

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Speaker 1: I saw her in the lobby just before New Year's

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Speaker 1: She greeted me. I turned shocked and said hello. She

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Speaker 1: told me the restraining order is still in effect and

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Speaker 1: that I need to move out. Wow. Like, is that

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Speaker 1: even if you live there already? Is that true?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, I this is purely me guessing,

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Speaker 2: but I would guess if you have a restraining order

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Speaker 2: and it's interpreted literally, it's like you cannot be slash,

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Speaker 2: especially live within X.

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Speaker 1: Like yeah, but then couldn't like the person who puts

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Speaker 1: the restraining order against you, like just follow you around

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Speaker 1: and get you fucked up.

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Speaker 2: They probably could your I guess I doesn't make any sense.

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Speaker 1: I guess, yeah, that doesn't make any sense. I think

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Speaker 1: it like, I can't imagine that is legal. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Let me Yeah. Plus maybe that's where you go to

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Speaker 1: court and figure it out or whatever. I tried to

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Speaker 1: steer clear of her. I know we don't live on

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Speaker 1: if I saw her in an elevator, I wouldn't get

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Speaker 1: me she was going to enforce the restraining order against me.

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Speaker 1: My partner and I literally signed a brand new two

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Speaker 1: year lease six months ago. Wow. We love the place

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Speaker 1: we live in and wouldn't want to move, and it

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Speaker 1: feels unjust having to move. Slashing curve financial hardship because

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Speaker 1: the person I had a restraining order against moved into

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Speaker 1: my apartment complex. The reason why I'm bringing this up

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Speaker 1: this out. So the question is, would she really be

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Speaker 1: perfectly fine doing, shouldn't that be sufficient. I work a

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Speaker 1: We just recently have crossed paths. She's been living here

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Speaker 1: I mean, John, what do you think? Man?

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Speaker 1: Like the personal issue. That's like it could get very

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Speaker 2: It does seem from everything he's saying, if that's all true,

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Speaker 2: basically everything you just said, I've been living here for

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Speaker 1: We just ran into each other. I will do my

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Speaker 1: like if I'm thinking about the restraining order, if she's

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Speaker 1: the husband has lived there for a couple of years

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Speaker 1: or like or longer than op, does it look good?

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Speaker 1: Oh that's interesting. I didn't like it. It looks like

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Speaker 1: Ope's intentionally getting this this apartment because the boy the

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Speaker 2: Well, I think technically, did they say that they started

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Speaker 1: In they started living together five months ago? Is uh?

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Speaker 1: He got his apartment six months ago, right, But she

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Speaker 2: So that I didn't even I didn't even like put

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Speaker 1: That is true.

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Speaker 2: And then also I totally see from her perspective if

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Speaker 2: she's just like I don't want like it's it's more

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Speaker 2: into my home every time and possibly see your face, like, especially.

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Speaker 1: If he assaulted her. Yeah, you know that's traumatic. Like

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Speaker 2: It's bad enough if it's someone who's just like annoying

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I feel like she has every right to enforce, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the restraining order, especially with that additional context. But John,

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Speaker 1: there is an update. Okay, Well, let's see, the public

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Speaker 1: defender that represented me was no longer practicing in the

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Speaker 1: I spoke to the judge, told in my story and

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Speaker 1: what I had done to correct my past transgressions. He

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Speaker 1: to not violate my protective order. The parole officer said

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Speaker 1: So the parole officers saying like basically everything that OP

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Speaker 1: said she was shocked by my turnaround. She said that

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Speaker 1: because she moved into my building unknowingly, and that she

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Speaker 1: no longer felt threatened by me. This was a shock

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Speaker 1: The judge said that he wouldn't modify the protective order,

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Speaker 1: He reminded me, because of my past, it wouldn't take

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Speaker 1: So over the course of this weekend, I moved back

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Speaker 2: You know, every once in a blue moon, Sam, we

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Speaker 2: mean it seems like op had a lot of growth

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, it could could be worse. It

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Speaker 1: are some people that you actually saw do a turnaround?

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Speaker 1: You know, like who was someone that you know did

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Speaker 1: Like I there was actually a kid that he should

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Speaker 1: Like I'm glad that he's like a good guy now.

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Speaker 1: Or maybe it's all afront to lower your Yes. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's trying to clout chase on me.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, chasing trying to ride Sam's cote tails of

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Speaker 2: okop as we plack to.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I would love to hear your turnaround stories.

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Speaker 1: Please share in the comments below.

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Speaker 2: But Sam, you know what I love? You know what

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Speaker 2: I love turning around?

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Speaker 1: What do you love turning around?

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Speaker 2: Turning around my phone to read the amazing comments from

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Speaker 1: Oh, we love them. That's right, and I'm going to

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Speaker 1: read a few right now, do it. This comes from

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Speaker 1: the video I got my heartless sister fired then this happened.

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Speaker 1: First comment comes from public subscriber King Chrome. I hope

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Speaker 1: Ope's sister never gets hired at another clinic slash hospital,

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Speaker 1: Like why be a nurse? Fact public subscriber Prism Courts,

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Speaker 1: I can't go into details, but it's nurses like this

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Speaker 1: We just might read it in a future episode. See

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Speaker 1: Talk you get that, correct sir, guilty kids, guilty child.

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Speaker 2: My brother fifteen goes to the same private school that

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Speaker 1: Like I don't know, naked ye, John would have it

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Speaker 2: Hey, y'alls, tomorrow was his first day taking the bus

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Speaker 2: clarify two things. One, I bought my car with my money.

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Speaker 2: My parents didn't. It's not their car, it's mine. Two,

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Speaker 1: That's awesome. Yeah, shout out to it. Not only punished

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Speaker 2: Yes, I can't make any promises on anything happening, since

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Speaker 2: There seems to be some confusion. I said, he goes

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Speaker 2: Why are strangers so bothered? My parents aren't forcing me

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Speaker 2: as I said, I'm no longer taking my brother to school,

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Speaker 2: and my parents couldn't find anyone else to take him,

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Speaker 2: so he did have to take the bust. Someone mentioned

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Speaker 2: why not uber or Lyft, And that's because my parents

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Speaker 1: That means he has to take the bus.

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Speaker 1: God, could you imagine having it as a child? What

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Speaker 2: The thing is, he was off the hook the first

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Speaker 1: My mom let him stay home the first day. Oh

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Speaker 2: Then one of his friends was taking him, which stopped

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Speaker 1: I love how it took him four days to actually

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Speaker 1: just like slipping, slipping out of every possible crass. Too

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Speaker 1: him laxative. So he shits his pants at school. No

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Speaker 1: one's going to be friends now that is the punishment.

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Speaker 1: Maybe go on Monday.

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Speaker 2: He still took me as a joke, woke me up

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Speaker 2: Anyways, YadA, YadA, YadA. He missed the bus and was

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Speaker 1: Oh, it would be so great if his friends turned

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Speaker 1: that's a major eck wow. Well the major e major

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Speaker 1: again because you guessed it. He didn't want to take

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Speaker 1: don't know where OPI's sourcing all of these like terrible comments,

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Speaker 1: reading the negative comments. It'd be like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: And I actually think, like we read another story about

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Speaker 1: they're making fun of. You know. It's like, oh, you're

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Speaker 1: making fun of the band nerds. You're signing up for

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Speaker 1: tuba lessons right now? Yeah, you're you're you're making fun

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Speaker 1: You know that, Like there's like this like cancer stuff

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Speaker 1: just put like a fat pack on him for a day. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: exactly like the suit. Yeah, I kind of like the

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Speaker 1: weight gainer one a little bit. Actually, a fat two

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Speaker 1: would be pretty funny because it's immedia, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean, and low key less you will become chubby,

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Speaker 1: no if sands or butts. But I think the like

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Speaker 1: I think when people bully other people, it's because they

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Speaker 1: don't have empathy for the position of the bullied kid exactly.

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Speaker 1: So your job as a parent is to instill empathy

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Speaker 1: in that kid for those people.

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Speaker 2: And maybe except for the uh, except for the eating scenario.

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Speaker 1: Most of the time, like putting him on the bus.

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Speaker 1: He said, he doesn't harm them. He doesn't harm him

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Speaker 1: at all. You know what I mean. But Sam, you

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Speaker 1: know it is absolutely never harmful. What reading the stories

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Speaker 1: from our incredible subscribers. Okay, So, speaking of bullies, Buzzy

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Speaker 1: Meadows says, it wasn't a high school bully, but she

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Speaker 1: was a bully when I was a student worker from

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Speaker 1: my dream job. When I got highed, she started being

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Speaker 1: really mean to rude to me, always giving me stuff

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Speaker 1: to do that seemed like punishment, organizing the car and

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Speaker 1: the heat, leaving me in the back to organize the

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Speaker 1: she was also a student worker. One day she responded

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Speaker 1: rudely to me in front of our supervisor, and the

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Speaker 1: supervisor noticed this and confronted me about it while we

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Speaker 1: walked to get Starbucks. She said, she's sorry. I was

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Speaker 1: dealing with this bullying, but this girl was never reprimanded.

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Speaker 1: Mind you. I worked my ass off and got a

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Speaker 1: She decided to interview and apply for a position similar

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Speaker 1: to mine, but karma kicked in. One senior of mine,

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Speaker 1: who knew of this toxic person, asked me about my

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Speaker 1: experience with this chick, and she basically made it so

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Speaker 1: the girl wouldn't get hired. She ended up having to

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Speaker 1: find a position somewhere I wasn't. If you're a bully,

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Speaker 1: your rep will stay with you. Ooh, I love that one,

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Speaker 1: Sweet Justice, Sweet Jess. So when it comes around, and

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Speaker 1: we love when you comment. So if you have any

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Speaker 1: stories about good punishments that you got that actually changed

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Speaker 1: how you acted, I would love to hear those. Or

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Speaker 1: if you have any bullying stories about a bully that

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Speaker 1: just john what's coming to them, put those in the

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Speaker 1: comments below. We love to hear it and we'll see

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Speaker 1: you soon.