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Speaker 1: When you asked the question, what is the worst advice

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Speaker 3: No, I just wanted to know what what like from

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Speaker 1: Because I'm curious, like where did this come from? Because

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Speaker 2: Oh? I was just literally just curious.

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Speaker 1: Oh you were just curious. Yeah, so someone didn't say, hey,

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Speaker 1: you know you, you know you should do you should?

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Speaker 1: You should go work at the Polkar station. You should

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Speaker 3: People give me wild advice all the time, but I don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't take it serious, you know, Like I don't

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Speaker 3: even take good advice serious. Actually, that's my biggest problem

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Speaker 2: I'll just be doing stuff.

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Speaker 3: You know, Cayla told me a year ago to get

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Speaker 3: great advice. I don't even take that serious. But I

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Speaker 2: And did you try it?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Because I was hoping if somebody had given you advice,

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Speaker 2: No, follow your dreams, that one and your heart. You

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Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, follow.

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Speaker 1: Your heart, your heart, and pay the bills.

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Speaker 2: Unfortunately, neither do your dreams.

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Speaker 1: Because I was hoping that you were going to tell

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Speaker 1: I mean, I just I don't know where that comes on.

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Speaker 2: Man, I just put on that sheet, like come on,

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Speaker 1: Down the road. I'm like, man, I wonder what the

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Speaker 1: worst advice anybody has ever given? Fred is? Man? I wonder, Oh, yes,

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Speaker 1: maybe it was maybe was taking this job. I don't

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Speaker 1: ever given? That's a random thing to think about. If

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Speaker 3: You know, because I'm at this stage in my life

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Speaker 3: go to you, but then I'm looking at some of

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Speaker 3: the decisions you have made.

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Speaker 3: So it just made me start thinking about, like, I know,

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Speaker 2: Have you gotten bad advice?

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Speaker 1: You should probably ask a person for advice who's in

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Speaker 3: But then you sometimes you do that and people they

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Speaker 2: And that's real.

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Speaker 3: And a lot of people don't want to be transparent about.

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Speaker 1: That's messed up, that's just that's bad karma. Yes, I'll

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Speaker 1: tell you what I did, not much. I just showed

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Speaker 1: that's if you're gatekeeping advice on how you got to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, And to be honest, this all came

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Speaker 2: And I don't know if it was some of the best.

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Speaker 3: You know, you also have people who would give advice,

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Speaker 3: but they're speaking from their own experience, which may be

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Speaker 4: So I'm just like, do you think married people should

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Speaker 1: Well I've said this before too, but you also have

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Speaker 1: to remove emotion from advice because you know, if there

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Speaker 1: and that's based on the value that they perceive in me,

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Speaker 1: that's that's that's how much they care about me. But

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Speaker 1: so they don't you know, again, my mom, if you

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Speaker 1: course you want that too. But then if you go

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 3: For instance, the same aunt who I love to death,

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Speaker 2: Yeah for one, so so serious, Like what do you

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Speaker 2: like what? They don't get it? Yeah, they don't.

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Speaker 1: Where are you coming up with that? Because you saw

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Speaker 3: That, right, No, Like you should think of me like

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Speaker 3: that because you love me in your mine, right you know.

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Speaker 1: Well, my best friend says this like oh all the

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Speaker 5: You know, like family, like your foreign family. Who thinks

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Speaker 5: I should have my own radio show all that? I'm like, first,

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Speaker 5: so I don't want that. And number two like I'm

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?

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Speaker 5: They think like I should be some star and lights

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Speaker 1: If you want your own radio show, you should have

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Speaker 5: But it's not what everybody wants, you know either, when

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Speaker 5: it does feel like, okay, well, what's wrong with.

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Speaker 2: Where I'm at? Like why are you offering.

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Speaker 4: Different suggestions of where I should go or what you

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Speaker 2: Isn't that enough? I'm like no, but like I'm happy.

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Speaker 1: I've seen this industry all the time. It's like I'm

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Speaker 1: Right, Like what is that based on? Like if you do,

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 1: I mean, Okay, let's have a plan first, right, That's

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Speaker 1: Some of the worst advice could be from the people

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Speaker 1: just full of it. This morning, I was really hoping

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Speaker 1: it was a trend on tiktoks. Well it maybe depends

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Speaker 1: on the day, but yeah, okay, Well there you go.

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Speaker 1: There's there's your good advice today. Well two blogs next

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Speaker 1: to waiting out the phone is knew. Why did somebody

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Speaker 1: get ghosted? I'm disappointed. I was really hoping for some tea.

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Speaker 1: Somemisode told me that that's what I was hoping for.

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Speaker 1: We didn't get him. A thousand bucks from Showvin Shelley

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Speaker 1: the Entertainment of Ports. It's all next. Now we're commercial free.

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Speaker 1: Sit here more Fredshell Next