Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio.
Speaker 1: Good Morning, This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast.
Speaker 1: Today's tip is that if there is something you would
Speaker 1: like to be able to do, you can probably learn
Speaker 1: how to do it. It might take a little time,
Speaker 1: but probably not all the time in the world. The
Speaker 1: sooner you start, the sooner you will figure it out.
Speaker 1: So if you have been to a bookstore lately, you
Speaker 1: may have seen kids books with titles like how to
Speaker 1: Draw Birds, or how to Draw Flowers, or how to
Speaker 1: Draw Robots. As you might imagine, they contain step by
Speaker 1: step instructions and illustrations indicating how to draw some particular bird,
Speaker 1: or flower or robot. Sometimes there are options for customizing,
Speaker 1: like how to make your dog have shaggy hair. The
Speaker 1: plethora of these books is a testament to how much
Speaker 1: kids love them because they work. Follow the described steps.
Speaker 1: Try it a few more times, and you can eventually
Speaker 1: draw a dog, a bird, a flower, or robot that
Speaker 1: looks pretty good. Drawing a robot is not brain surgery.
Speaker 1: A few hours of practice will deliver pretty good results.
Speaker 1: Kids know that they are learning about the world. They
Speaker 1: are quite willing to believe that something they can't do
Speaker 1: today might be something they can do tomorrow. Many skills
Speaker 1: are learnable. Adults, on the other hand, are not always
Speaker 1: so convinced of this fact. Many grown ups make sweeping
Speaker 1: pronouncements like I can't draw or all sorts of other things.
Speaker 1: I can't sing, I have a terrible voice, I couldn't
Speaker 1: carry tune in a bucket, I can't dance. I'm just
Speaker 1: a klutz. I can't cook. Every house plant I bring
Speaker 1: home dies when it sees me. Now, I will admit
Speaker 1: that sometimes these statements arise from the fact that the
Speaker 1: adult doesn't want to do whatever skill it is that
Speaker 1: she claims not to have. She doesn't want to sing,
Speaker 1: she doesn't want to draw with her nephews. She would
Speaker 1: prefer not to clutter up the house with more plants,
Speaker 1: so better to make Turning down a plant seem like
Speaker 1: an act of charity that is in the plants best interest,
Speaker 1: and that is fine. But other times people claim they
Speaker 1: could never learn a skill that they actually would like
Speaker 1: to acquire. Rather than try to get better and accept
Speaker 1: the reality of being bad at first, people just wear
Speaker 1: their lack of skills as a badge of honor. It
Speaker 1: seems psychologically say for but so what if you are
Speaker 1: bad for a bit, you will rapidly get better. I
Speaker 1: am here to tell you that if there is something
Speaker 1: you would like to be able to do, you can
Speaker 1: probably learn how to do it. And for many things
Speaker 1: you can probably learn in less time than you might imagine.
Speaker 1: For instance, you can buy yourself that exact same how
Speaker 1: to draw Flowers book that your seven year old neighbor
Speaker 1: is obsessed with. You can watch how to draw videos
Speaker 1: on YouTube, or enroll in an art class. Spend a
Speaker 1: few hours a week working on your skills, and I
Speaker 1: promise you that long before the year is out, you
Speaker 1: will be drawing very recognizable objects that look better than
Speaker 1: what the population thinks they can do. As for singing,
Speaker 1: you may not be the next Pavaratti, but you can
Speaker 1: learn to sing certainly well enough that you will be
Speaker 1: confident starting the crowd off on Happy Birthday at the
Speaker 1: next office party, We're singing along with your favorite hymns.
Speaker 1: At church, Almost no one is actually tone deaf. Whoever
Speaker 1: told you that in the past was being mean not insightful.
Speaker 1: You just need a little coaching and help to get started.
Speaker 1: Sign up for some voice lessons, then join a community
Speaker 1: choir to make singing fun. You'll get more and more practice,
Speaker 1: and as you practice, you will sound better and better.
Speaker 1: Even most sports are reasonably doable. You may think that
Speaker 1: you can't play tennis or golf, and it is true
Speaker 1: that you probably won't be going pro at this point
Speaker 1: in your life, but you can certainly learn to play recreationally.
Speaker 1: If you have always thought that tennis looks like fun,
Speaker 1: and one of your friends plays and you'd love to
Speaker 1: play with him, well what are you waiting for? Six
Speaker 1: months of lessons twice a week will bring your fills
Speaker 1: up to an acceptable level. You will be able to
Speaker 1: hold your own now. I know that sometimes not being
Speaker 1: able to do something can become part of one's identity.
Speaker 1: You can laugh about your singing in any occasion when
Speaker 1: singing is required, and if you are happy with that,
Speaker 1: that is fine. But if there's something you want to do,
Speaker 1: my guess is that you can learn. You are a
Speaker 1: smart person, and even if you weren't, you could still practice,
Speaker 1: and that is usually all it takes. In the meantime,
Speaker 1: this is Laura, Thanks for listening, and here's to making
Speaker 1: the most of our time. Hey, everybody, I'd love to
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