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Speaker 1: All right, guys, it is time now for today's Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're gonna read this

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Speaker 1: one right here, right now. You hear that, Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: hear it. Buckle up and hold on type We got it.

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Speaker 1: Fire you Strawberry Letter, Thank you, Tommy. Subject. I need

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Speaker 1: my wife to reinstate my hall pass. Dear Stephen Shirley,

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Speaker 1: I'm a twenty eight year old married man. I've been

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Speaker 1: married for two years and it's been a rocky two

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Speaker 1: years so far. Right after I married my wife, she

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Speaker 1: cheated on me with her ex boyfriend. I suspected something

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Speaker 1: was going on all along, and she finally did admit

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Speaker 1: it to me, but she said she was drunk and

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Speaker 1: it only happened once. I forgave her eventually, and we're

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Speaker 1: still together. After it happened, my wife said she felt terrible,

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Speaker 1: and she told me there was only one way to

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Speaker 1: make things even. So she offered me a quote Hall Pass,

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Speaker 1: which allowed me to have sex with one person outside

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Speaker 1: of our marriage. I didn't have to tell her who

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Speaker 1: it was or when it happened, just let her know

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Speaker 1: after I'd used my Hall pass. Once I forgave her,

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Speaker 1: I had no intentions of cheating on her, and I

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Speaker 1: let her know the proposal. The proposal was crazy. Now,

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Speaker 1: as time has gone by, I regret that I turned

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Speaker 1: down my Hall pass because I ran into an old

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Speaker 1: friend from high school and she looked better than she's

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Speaker 1: ever looked. She works out now, and everything was right

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Speaker 1: into my old classmate, my wife and I had been

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Speaker 1: arguing a lot and it was stressful at home, so

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Speaker 1: I considered going to my wife to see if I

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Speaker 1: could possibly get my Hall pass reinstated. I told my

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Speaker 1: classmate everything that was going on in my head, and

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Speaker 1: she told me to think long and heart about it.

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Speaker 1: Before I asked my wife, I just want one time

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Speaker 1: with my classmate, just to see what I've been missing

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Speaker 1: all of these years. So my question to you is,

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Speaker 1: should I do it and hope it never comes between

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Speaker 1: let my wife no? I want to get a little

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Speaker 1: side action like she did. Okay, no and no, and

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Speaker 1: that should conclude my answer. But anyway, okay, you're you're

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Speaker 1: just begging, begging for trouble and asking for more problems

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Speaker 1: in your already troubled marriage. You said, you guys have

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Speaker 1: been arguing of late. The way I see it, you

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Speaker 1: have you don't really have any options here not to

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Speaker 1: and not to tell her everything. No, don't do that,

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Speaker 1: all right, don't do that. You said that you forgave her.

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Speaker 1: You guys had a clean slate and everything. You just

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Speaker 1: happened to run into this temptation called your old high

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Speaker 1: Try to fix your marriage, okay, try to fix it

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Speaker 1: even though you guys have been even though it's been

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Speaker 1: what would you say, Steve, I'm sorry, what'd you say?

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Speaker 1: Go ahead? Oh? Okay, okay, but anyway, where was it?

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Speaker 1: But anyway, yeah, you know that, don't don't take that

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Speaker 1: hall pass. I mean, you really think after all this time,

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Speaker 1: don't I mean she might. I don't know. That's maybe

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Speaker 1: the kind of marriage you guys have at twenty eight.

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Speaker 1: But don't do that. Okay, stay and try to fix

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Speaker 1: what's wrong with your marriage right now. Uh, your your

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Speaker 1: wife cheated on you with her ex boyfriend. She said

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Speaker 1: she was drunk. You forgave her. Please try to fix

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Speaker 1: that and move on. Get this girl out of your

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Speaker 1: mind if you can. Don't keep trying thinking about her,

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Speaker 1: trying to go back doing all of that. Please don't

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Speaker 1: and it's just not worth it. It's just not worth it. Now.

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Speaker 1: If you and your wife end up getting a divorce,

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Speaker 1: then you know, maybe you want to look up your

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Speaker 1: old high school friend. But right now, I say let

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Speaker 1: it go. Steve, just a good letter. This is a

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Speaker 1: I read this letter and dissect it. Oh, I'm a

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Speaker 1: it's just a damn letter. He'd been married for two years,

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Speaker 1: no need for no letter because you ain't playing on

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Speaker 1: quick drinking? Are you so all this got? It could

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Speaker 1: happen again? Written her? Well, you know she says she

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Speaker 1: was sorry, it only happened once she was drunk. Well,

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Speaker 1: she ain't went to alcoholics, anonymous or nothing. So if

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Speaker 1: it could happen all over again. Now I'm not mad

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Speaker 1: nobody because they get drunk, they go have sex with somebody.

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Speaker 1: We got to get out of this marriage now because

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Speaker 1: last time I checked, they sell alcohol everywhere. So now

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Speaker 1: I'm married to a person that can't passing nothing without

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Speaker 1: passing out something. If you can't pass a bar without

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Speaker 1: passing out something, girl, this marriage can't work. So now

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Speaker 1: me and you threw anyway, I forgave her eventually, and

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Speaker 1: we're still together now. After it happened, my wife says

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Speaker 1: she felt terrible, and she told me that the only

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Speaker 1: which allowed me to have sex for one person outside

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Speaker 1: was or when it happened, just let her know after

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Speaker 1: I had used my Hall pass. Boy, if this wasn't

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Speaker 1: an opportunity for you to capitalize and never mentioned the

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Speaker 1: damn Hall pass, hold on, Steve, we'll have Yeah, we'll

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Speaker 1: have part two of your response coming up. A damn

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Speaker 1: Hall pass. I just got damn Hall I ain't he

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Speaker 1: passed enough? All right? Subject today, I need my wife

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Speaker 1: to reinstate my Hall pass. We'll be back in twenty

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Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour to get back into it

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening show, all right, Steve, come on,

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Speaker 1: let's recap today's Strawberry letter and wrap up part two.

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Speaker 1: Your response was twenty eight year old dude man two

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Speaker 1: years been rocky, found out his wife cheated on him

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Speaker 1: with an ex boyfriend. You know, she said it only

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Speaker 1: happened once she was drunk. I don't like that excuse.

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Speaker 1: I was drunk. That's why it happened. Seeing us how

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Speaker 1: they continued to sell alcohol worldwide. Damn now worldwide. I

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Speaker 1: don't see how this can't happen again. Yeah, I don't

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Speaker 1: know where she can go. Well, I ain't serving no alcohol. Rockingham,

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Speaker 1: North Carolina was a dry county, but even if you

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Speaker 1: drove ten miles, you could get drunk over there and

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Speaker 1: I'm not real secure with her, but you forgave her,

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Speaker 1: and so she decided to make things even to give

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Speaker 1: sex with one person outside their marriage. He didn't, She didn't.

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Speaker 1: He told her, you don't have to tell me who

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Speaker 1: it was in it happened. Just let her know after

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Speaker 1: I had used my Hall pass. Now, he said, once

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Speaker 1: I forgave her, I had no intentions or cheating on her,

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Speaker 1: and I let her know that the proposal was crazy.

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Speaker 1: I ain't gonna judge you. I think that's a noble

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Speaker 1: a committed marriage. Two wrongs don't make a right. That

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Speaker 1: was a wonderfully adult decision that you made far ahead

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Speaker 1: of my years at twenty eight too. I'm just gonna

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Speaker 1: say that I had never heard of a hall pass,

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Speaker 1: nor has any one ever given me a hall pap.

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Speaker 1: I ain't had a girlfriend with a hall pass. Now,

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Speaker 1: not to say I wasn't out in the hall. I've

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Speaker 1: Polarard's everything. But that's you. Now, as time has gone by,

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Speaker 1: I regret that I turned down the hall pass because

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Speaker 1: Around the time I ran into my old classmate, my

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Speaker 1: stressful at home. Well, son, she she gave you what what?

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Speaker 1: What Steve? She gave you? What are you saying she

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Speaker 1: gave your parents? Yeah? Your hair to hands? I didn't anyway. Uh,

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Speaker 1: And so now I've considered going to my wife. Here,

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Speaker 1: what a letter? Get real damned dumb. It's been stupid,

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Speaker 1: but now we're into dumbed him. So I considered going

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Speaker 1: my hall pass reinstated. What what? What did your dumbass

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Speaker 1: just say? What? What did you say you're finding go

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Speaker 1: a female, tell her to her proposal was crazy. Come

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Speaker 1: gonna ask her to reconsider reinstating your hall pass. Let

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Speaker 1: me ask you something, How do you imagine this going down?

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Speaker 1: Tell me how you introduced this concept to your wife. Okay, Now,

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Speaker 1: Uncle Steve told your dumb ass not to say that. Boy,

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Speaker 1: you cannot go in there with your stupid ass and

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Speaker 1: But all being sad, if you was gonna do it,

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Speaker 1: you should have took your hall pass and then just

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Speaker 1: said I just told you it was a crazy ass proposal,

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Speaker 1: But now you're gonna go back and ask to reinstate it. Now,

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Speaker 1: here's what your dumbass did. You went back to your

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Speaker 1: classmate and and told her what was going on in

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Speaker 1: and hard about it before I asked my wife. Hold on, Doc,

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Speaker 1: you went to the woman that you want to cheat

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Speaker 1: with and asked her that you should I ask my wife?

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Speaker 1: Can I have a hall pass to cheat with you? Doc?

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Speaker 1: I'm make this statement right here. You ain't got no daddy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: there's no way you have it that. It's no way

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Speaker 1: he was raised without a father. I'm gonna just say that.

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Speaker 1: So let let Uncle Steve help you out. Hey, dog,

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Speaker 1: quit talking to your new class made potential of mistress

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Speaker 1: Shelley said, get the girl out your mind? That's impossible.

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Speaker 1: How do you get temptation? No, Sully, you can't try

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Speaker 1: to get somebody out your mind. That ain't how it

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Speaker 1: your mind. Here twenty eight years old, here in trouble,

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Speaker 1: he fen asleep with this girl. I didn't slept with

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Speaker 1: part three of the Strawberry Letter today. It's a good one,

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Speaker 1: subject I need my wife to reinstate my hall pass.

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Speaker 1: We'll be back right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve.

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Speaker 1: You had part three of today's Strawberry Letter, the subject

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Speaker 1: I need my wife to reinstate my hall pass. Let's recap.

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Speaker 1: Surely this letter was a twenty eight year old dude

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Speaker 1: that was married. His wife cheated on him. He forgave oh,

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Speaker 1: but she felt bad about it and so said to

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Speaker 1: even it up, she gave a dude the hall pass.

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Speaker 1: He told her he wasn't interested on a hall pass.

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Speaker 1: He thought that proposal was crazy because he didn't want

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Speaker 1: to cheat on his wife. Yeah. So then he regret

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Speaker 1: that he turned it down because he ran up into

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Speaker 1: an old friend from high school and she was looking

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Speaker 1: better than ever. She worked out now everything was right

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Speaker 1: and tight on her body. And around the time that

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Speaker 1: he ran up into him and his girl had been

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Speaker 1: arguing a lodden stressful at home. So here was his dilemma.

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Speaker 1: I considered going to my wife to see if I

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Speaker 1: could possibly get my hall pass reinstated. Boy, and I

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Speaker 1: told him before the break, you cannot do that. You

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Speaker 1: cannot do that. But he then it got dumber, he said,

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Speaker 1: and I told my classmaker the woman that he wanted

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Speaker 1: to sleep with it. He told his classmate the check

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Speaker 1: that he ran up and do with the banging body.

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Speaker 1: That everything that was going on in my head. And

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Speaker 1: she told me to think long and hard about it

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Speaker 1: before I asked my wife. Hay food, hay food. You

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Speaker 1: gonna go to your wife and ask her cause she

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Speaker 1: reinstate the hall pass and you didn't ask the girl,

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Speaker 1: the potential mistress that you're gonna sleep with, what her

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Speaker 1: opinion is. And she tells you the think long and

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Speaker 1: hard about it. So my question to you is should

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Speaker 1: I do it now? You cannot discuss your wife with

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Speaker 1: a chick that you're talking to on the side. That's

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Speaker 1: how all the fast start. You don't ever listen to me,

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Speaker 1: don't ever talk about your wife to another human being.

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Speaker 1: Your wife is off limit to the opinion of other people.

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Speaker 1: Na dog, If you go to your barn, gonna man

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Speaker 1: my girl at the house tripping, that's one thing. You

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Speaker 1: don't go to no woman. Yeah, and talk about your

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Speaker 1: wife to a woman, Are you dog that you're breaking

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Speaker 1: the rules? Son, now you stop this now, Sirley said,

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Speaker 1: get this out your mind. That's not gonna happen. We're

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Speaker 1: gonna have. It's gonna happen. That's gonna have. That's how

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Speaker 1: he got another problem. He's just how he gonna play

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Speaker 1: this because he Finn the hell set with this girl. Shey.

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Speaker 1: They don't matter what the hell we say. He gonna control.

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Speaker 1: Guys self control. We gotta leave your comments on today's

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Speaker 1: letter on Instagram at Steve Harvey FM and check out

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Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter. We have control and he don't have

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Speaker 1: out control. Here twenty eight coming up in ten minutes.

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Speaker 1: We'll um there's two people and I'll talk about we'll

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Speaker 1: talk about trending headlines and guess what, it's still Super Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: We'll be back right after this