1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: Ran in the morning show. Yeah, you always read the 2 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:09,039 Speaker 1: number one reason couples fight is over what money? 3 00:00:09,119 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 2: Money? 4 00:00:09,560 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: It's usually money. So we were having this conversation earlier, 5 00:00:13,560 --> 00:00:16,479 Speaker 1: GANI was talking about this list of reasons why couples 6 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:18,760 Speaker 1: fight written by who wrote this list? 7 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 3: Let me look, this was done by Visual Capitalist. 8 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 1: Is it from a couple's therapist or something like that? Okay, 9 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 1: so an interesting list of reasons couples fight. Is money 10 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:32,240 Speaker 1: on the list? 11 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 3: Money is on the list? 12 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 1: Yes, okay, So okay, ready tell me why I'm fighting 13 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 1: all the time, because you're probably gonna get it right. 14 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 4: Right. 15 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 3: So they say that it's kind of different depending on 16 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 3: the age group that you're in. So eighteen to forty four, 17 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:46,400 Speaker 3: most people are fighting about money and communications style, while 18 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 3: couples over the age of forty five are arguing more 19 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 3: about relationships with extended family and life decisions. But the 20 00:00:54,840 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 3: biggest reasons people are fighting, there were like ten of them. 21 00:00:57,440 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 3: You want all of them? Yeah, okay, I'm gonna start 22 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 3: with ten and then go to number one. 23 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 1: Tell us, I want to know are. 24 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 3: You and your significant other arguing about sex? That is 25 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 3: a big one. Apparently, number ten, number nine, how each 26 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 3: person argues. So arguing is okay, but sometimes one person 27 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:15,800 Speaker 3: is more of a jackass to the other. 28 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, how you handle it? That's a major issue. 29 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 2: That's a communication thing. 30 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 3: So yeah, I was actually talking to one of my 31 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 3: friends the other day about how I think the most 32 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 3: important thing that you don't find out about a relationship 33 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:30,200 Speaker 3: until it's too late is how the other person suffers. Like, 34 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:32,479 Speaker 3: when somebody is going through something, how do they deal 35 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 3: with that thing? That's bad because it's such a big 36 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 3: deal in a relationship, and some people are terrible, some 37 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 3: people are great. Number eight health or lifestyle decisions. People 38 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 3: are arguing about that. 39 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:46,039 Speaker 2: Yeah, like go to the doctor if something is wrong. 40 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 3: You stop smoking all day every day. That's not good 41 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 3: for you. 42 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:56,120 Speaker 5: Froggy, I could there's a list whatever. 43 00:01:57,360 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 3: Number seven life decisions. I guess that's a pretty big one. 44 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 3: Number six amount of quality time spent together. 45 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 1: So we argue about the amount of So if I 46 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 1: am with you and I'm having an opportunity to have 47 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 1: quality time, why should I spend it arguing with you? 48 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 3: Exactly? 49 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 1: Well, you need to get you need to get these 50 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 1: things out of the way. I get it. 51 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 3: That is a good point. Number five relationships with family, 52 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 3: for sure. 53 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 1: I can't see that. 54 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 3: Number four household chores. Number three communications styles, which I 55 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 3: think kind of goes along with how they argue. Number 56 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 3: two was money. And number one tone of voice or attitude. 57 00:02:40,639 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 5: Oh boy, I'm getting I get in told them for 58 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 5: that all the time. 59 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 3: Oh my god. The amount of times that I've been 60 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 3: in an argument and I'm like, whoa, hey, start over, 61 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 3: I don't like that tone. You need to back that up. 62 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 1: Wow. Okay, So we're most of us, so some of 63 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 1: us are in relationships. Do any of these things apply 64 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:57,680 Speaker 1: to us? 65 00:02:57,840 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 3: Yes, so many, of course. Oh my god. Number one 66 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:01,800 Speaker 3: to heratitude, sure. 67 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 5: That I always get in trouble. If you get in trouble, 68 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 5: I get to jump with my tone gratitude. And then 69 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:07,840 Speaker 5: I always tell my husband I'm like, I don't think 70 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 5: you hear how you're talking right now, And he's like, 71 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 5: oh no, I know. 72 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't think. 73 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 3: So I always be like, why are you yelling? I 74 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 3: don't understand this? What's the volume about? 75 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 5: I just said that the Spencer yesterday, Spencer, why are 76 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 5: you what? 77 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:21,799 Speaker 2: Talk to me? Yeah? 78 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 3: And then you know, Brandon on the other side of 79 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 3: I'm not yelling. Well, now you're not yelling, but you 80 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 3: were yelling a second ago. 81 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 1: So Nate out there in the dating room, you really 82 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 1: want to do that. 83 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 6: Much? 84 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 7: Yeah? 85 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 1: Scary? What's up? 86 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 8: I get dinged on the quality time thing because after 87 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 8: a long day and night and we go out and 88 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 8: we party or do whatever, I come home and I 89 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 8: just fall asleep. 90 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 1: And she goes, you can fall asleep on me. This 91 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:48,360 Speaker 1: is my time. 92 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 2: Now she doesn't spend enough time with you. 93 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 8: The time we spend is supposed to all be quality, 94 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:56,120 Speaker 8: but I still need my sleep. So sometimes all this 95 00:03:56,280 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 8: does off and she'll be like, and she'll go into 96 00:03:58,080 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 8: the bathroom and then come back out and I'm all 97 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 8: ready you like. 98 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 1: Snoring, and she goes, what are you doing? 99 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 8: So? 100 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, so that that's a point of contention. Well I know, 101 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 1: but you know what, she's mad that you're falling asleep 102 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 1: on her. You should look at her and say, well, 103 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 1: at least I'm on you. This is my material baby. Look, 104 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 1: you know, relationships are hard. They just are. You know, 105 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 1: there's payoff, you know when they work, but they don't 106 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 1: always work. 107 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 5: You know, everybody's got something that they If someone says, oh, 108 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:29,880 Speaker 5: our relationship. 109 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 2: Is perfect, you are full life? 110 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:34,360 Speaker 3: Are you lying about something? 111 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 1: The brown word? Texting? 112 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:36,680 Speaker 6: Uh? 113 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 1: What about kids on that list? Parenting styles and arguing 114 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 1: over you know, raising your kids? 115 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 3: Of course, I mean I think that would be family members. 116 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:48,039 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you're right, you're right, you're right. And I 117 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: think Nate is queuing something up over there, and he's busy. 118 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:52,720 Speaker 2: He's talking to someone, Nate, you are you done? 119 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 1: He's flirting with people? Why he's always flirting anyway? What 120 00:04:59,040 --> 00:04:59,599 Speaker 1: do you got, Nate? 121 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 4: Oh? 122 00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 1: Evan, okay, give me Evan here? Hello, Evan, what's going on? 123 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:04,600 Speaker 4: Evan? 124 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:06,280 Speaker 9: Hi? 125 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:09,479 Speaker 7: I would just lap into that list as I'm driving 126 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 7: at work. 127 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 1: Well, what's so funny about the reasons we fight? Talk 128 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 1: about it? 129 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:21,160 Speaker 4: Well, my partner and I just have kind of complicated families, 130 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 4: and it's always interesting dealing with that. 131 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 7: It's just I don't know, I need to I need 132 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 7: to see the list of the ten things because I'm 133 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 7: driving at. 134 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:33,640 Speaker 6: Work, and so I've texted in for you guys to 135 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 6: post it. 136 00:05:34,400 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 1: Okay, let's do that. Can you post that and give 137 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:38,800 Speaker 1: We'll give full credit where you got it from. Yes, okay. 138 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 1: Arguing about family, though, Evan, Arguing about family is an 139 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:47,160 Speaker 1: interesting thing, because you're stuck in the middle between your 140 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:50,839 Speaker 1: family and your partner, you know, and sometimes you have 141 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 1: to take your family's side because they're your family, and 142 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 1: sometimes you take your partner's side because they're your partner. 143 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 1: And I can see how that can get really tricky. 144 00:05:58,120 --> 00:05:58,279 Speaker 9: Is that? 145 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:00,720 Speaker 1: Is that the issue with you guys? 146 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 4: Sometimes? Yeah, but we're I mean, we've got the best. 147 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 4: This is the best healthiest relationship I've ever had. We're 148 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 4: about to have three years. And so just navigating through 149 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 4: all ten of those types of things for relationships has 150 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 4: been really great. 151 00:06:16,839 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 1: You know. 152 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 4: Definitely tone and like when to call the doctor, when 153 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:21,840 Speaker 4: to do all that. 154 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 1: Wow, So a lot of these things on this list 155 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:26,080 Speaker 1: apply to you, Is that what you're saying? 156 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:29,719 Speaker 4: Yes, I think I think all ten of them. 157 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:33,600 Speaker 1: You know what, relationships are tricky, and it's like walking 158 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 1: through a minefield. Sometimes you got to walk on eggshells 159 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 1: because you know what can trigger some issues, and so 160 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 1: you that's a part of being a partner with someone. 161 00:06:41,720 --> 00:06:45,279 Speaker 1: It's it's the same time thinking you're going to change 162 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:48,839 Speaker 1: someone or they're going to change you know that that's 163 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 1: that's the tricky one that's not gonna happen. 164 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 7: Realistic yeah. Yeah, especially when you're already adults. You've already 165 00:06:56,440 --> 00:07:00,600 Speaker 7: got your you know, communications ways and your love language, 166 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:03,120 Speaker 7: and everything's set in stone so that when you're lucky 167 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 7: enough to find a partner that it just meshes with 168 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 7: it works out. But there's still those challenging days. 169 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: Of course, oh without doubt, and that's normal. 170 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 2: Are your mother's coming and she booked a one way ticket, right, 171 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:15,640 Speaker 2: you know. 172 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 1: It's also important, I think, and I'm just kind of 173 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:21,320 Speaker 1: thinking out loud as I'm coming up with this. It's 174 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 1: important to sift through what's important and what isn't the 175 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 1: things what is worth the fight, like the little petty 176 00:07:27,640 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 1: things like they never you know, put the lid on 177 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 1: the peanut butter and leave it out with it, versus 178 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:36,679 Speaker 1: the deep rooted communication issues and where you're. 179 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 4: Not being later he is the toilet toothpaste out. The 180 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 4: toothpaste is a. 181 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 1: Thing, Yeah, the toothpaste. 182 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 4: Why are we going to argue about toothpaste? You know? 183 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, But those little things add up and after all 184 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:48,560 Speaker 1: you're like, God, you irritate a living crap out of me. 185 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 1: All right, looking, look, Evan, it's great talking to you. 186 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 1: Best of luck, and here's for another three years for 187 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 1: you guys. 188 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 4: Congratulations, Oh absolutely, thank you. Have a great day everyone, 189 00:07:57,960 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 4: you two. 190 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 1: Kelly on line twenty says the list is missing something. 191 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 1: Oh let's see, hey, Kelly, what's missing from this list. 192 00:08:06,760 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 9: I didn't hear anyone mentioned chores. I had a fight 193 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 9: with my husband yesterday about how he doesn't do enough 194 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 9: chores around the house. 195 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 3: I think there was something on the list that was 196 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 3: actually I think like number six or seven. Let me 197 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 3: double check. 198 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:20,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's double checking choice. 199 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 3: That's okay. 200 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:25,400 Speaker 1: So so he has and you have assigned chores things 201 00:08:25,440 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 1: that you are responsible for getting done around the house. 202 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 9: You know, we should have a better system like that. 203 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 9: But you know, we're actually driving to Disney World right now, 204 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:35,440 Speaker 9: and we had to clean the whole house yesterday, and 205 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 9: I felt like I was doing everything. So I pumble 206 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 9: him out to things, you know. 207 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:41,680 Speaker 1: And how does he respond to that? 208 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 2: Pretty well? 209 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:46,600 Speaker 5: But then you know, he gets a little. 210 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:48,679 Speaker 9: Bit defensive sometimes and that's where the argument comes by. 211 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 9: But then once you're done, you come back together and 212 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:54,440 Speaker 9: you're like, sorry, that was so dramatic for no reason. 213 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:56,439 Speaker 1: Kelly. You're on the way to Disney World. Is he 214 00:08:56,480 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 1: in the car with you? 215 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 9: He is he's sitting right next to me as well. 216 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:05,040 Speaker 1: So he is he driving? 217 00:09:06,160 --> 00:09:10,680 Speaker 9: Yeah, he's driving, and yeah, okay, hey, do you argue 218 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 9: about his driving? 219 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:14,080 Speaker 4: What was that? 220 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 2: Do you argue about his driving? 221 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:19,080 Speaker 9: You know, that's also a little things thing that we 222 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 9: argue about sometimes. 223 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 6: The left wing. You can be in the right lane. 224 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 6: Don't get pulled over. 225 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 9: I'm like, please, don't get a ticket while we're driving 226 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:25,720 Speaker 9: twelve hours. 227 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:26,440 Speaker 4: Thank you. 228 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, you're looking at you're looking out for him. Yeah, 229 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:32,840 Speaker 1: I just find this very interesting that you're talking about 230 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 1: in me is right there? 231 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:35,440 Speaker 4: You do? 232 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:36,040 Speaker 1: You know that right? 233 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 6: We're very open about this. 234 00:09:37,640 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 9: He's aware, no secrets. 235 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 1: Okay, but that was your point of view. What would 236 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:45,480 Speaker 1: he say on that list that you feel he feels 237 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 1: you should work on. 238 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 6: Let's see, so the same thing about it, Like about yesterday. 239 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 6: I have a different point of view of like I 240 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 6: look at the bigger picture and Kelly focuses on the details. 241 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:57,320 Speaker 6: I was like, hey, let's make the furniture. Let's like 242 00:09:57,480 --> 00:09:59,680 Speaker 6: get the big things done first and then focus on 243 00:09:59,760 --> 00:10:02,840 Speaker 6: like organizing and stuff. That's why we disagree, and that's 244 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 6: when things getated sometimes. 245 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:05,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, we have different priorities. 246 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:06,319 Speaker 6: That's different. 247 00:10:07,320 --> 00:10:10,160 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, it sounds like you agree on the things 248 00:10:10,160 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 1: that you find about, which is interesting. 249 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:13,640 Speaker 9: That's one thing I guess. 250 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:16,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, to be able to to be able to 251 00:10:17,480 --> 00:10:20,719 Speaker 1: point out and admit your your shortcomings. I mean, that's 252 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 1: a great thing. It's it's it's good. I guess if 253 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 1: you don't have any shortcomings, you you do have shortcomings, Foggy, 254 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:28,960 Speaker 1: and you know you do. 255 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:33,640 Speaker 9: I'm just kidding for eight years, so let's go with it. 256 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 1: You sound overall just you know, speaking with you this 257 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 1: few moments, you sound like it's all, well, what's up? 258 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:41,960 Speaker 3: CONDI Well, I was just wondering in the room. I 259 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 3: know Danielle said, maybe tone for her Elvis. What is 260 00:10:45,320 --> 00:10:47,360 Speaker 3: it that you think causes the most fights between the 261 00:10:47,400 --> 00:10:49,800 Speaker 3: two of you? From Alex's perspective. 262 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:55,680 Speaker 1: Uh, I'd have to look at the list. You know 263 00:10:55,720 --> 00:10:57,720 Speaker 1: what I would like to know? I mean, he's he's 264 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 1: he's not here to answer that I would like to. 265 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:02,439 Speaker 1: I would like for him to tell me he's. I 266 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 1: don't think he's ever told me the things I should 267 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:08,960 Speaker 1: work on to make our relationship better. Okay, really, wow, 268 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:15,079 Speaker 1: I'm damn sure gonna find out. But I can come 269 00:11:15,120 --> 00:11:19,480 Speaker 1: up with a list of his, of course. But if 270 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 1: he doesn't tell me, then maybe there isn't a problem. 271 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:26,160 Speaker 1: Maybe I'm more perfect than I think. Anyway, all right, look, 272 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 1: best of luck for your trip together to Disney World, 273 00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:31,839 Speaker 1: and thanks for listening to us. We appreciate it. 274 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:33,679 Speaker 6: Thank you, Thank you so much. 275 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:35,599 Speaker 1: Oh Disney World. I wish we were with you. 276 00:11:36,240 --> 00:11:36,560 Speaker 6: Thank you. 277 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:40,200 Speaker 1: Have a safe drive. Hey, thank you to Luigi's Italian 278 00:11:40,240 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 1: Ice for dropping by. And what a perfect day. It's 279 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:45,199 Speaker 1: gonna be like ninety something here in the city of 280 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:52,960 Speaker 1: ninety what's your favorite flavor of Italian ice. Mine's red cherry. 281 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 2: I like the red, white and blue. You know they 282 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 2: have the red, white and blue together class. Yeah, I 283 00:11:57,400 --> 00:11:57,960 Speaker 2: love that one. 284 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 1: It's still I'd ask you. The mango is good too. 285 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 2: And lemon and they have a lemon and strawberry together 286 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 2: one too, which is good. 287 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:08,199 Speaker 1: To Luigi's Italian Nice, I mean it's Luigi, so you 288 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:11,200 Speaker 1: know it's very Italian. Let's get into the three things 289 00:12:11,240 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 1: we need to again, Thank you Luigi's. We appreciate it 290 00:12:13,440 --> 00:12:16,120 Speaker 1: very much. We love you. Got the three things? What's 291 00:12:16,160 --> 00:12:16,400 Speaker 1: going on? 292 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:18,360 Speaker 3: I also did post that list if people need to 293 00:12:18,360 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 3: go look at it. 294 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:20,320 Speaker 1: Oh, Okay, where did you post it? 295 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:23,240 Speaker 3: I posted it on my Instagram page at baby Hot 296 00:12:23,280 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 3: Sauce in the stories, but I also tag this show 297 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:26,959 Speaker 3: so whenever they take a look, they'll be able to 298 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 3: repost it. 299 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:29,160 Speaker 1: Okay, perfect, Thank you guys,