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Speaker 1: So I said last year that when a woe, when

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Speaker 1: a man opens up to a woman, a woman takes

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Speaker 1: advantage of that. So I don't think men should trust

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Speaker 1: a lot of women. So it went a little viral

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Speaker 1: bush your thought on that. What did you say, No,

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Speaker 1: don't touch that's a noo stule.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna go home, put my little stick.

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Speaker 1: When a man opens up to a woman, a woman

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Speaker 1: takes advantage of that. So I don't think men should

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Speaker 1: open up to women a lot.

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Speaker 3: And this was like our first podcast, and you said

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Speaker 3: that you have not opened up to a woman.

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Speaker 4: Don't well those emotionally, let me say this, those are

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Speaker 4: you opening up to because a real woman would take

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Speaker 4: you and and she would take whatever you get her

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Speaker 4: and she would continue to mold you in the relationship.

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Speaker 2: So those are those are those of money grabbing.

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Speaker 4: So just because somebody g scranking fit in their properly,

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Speaker 4: don't mean you just could confess. You gotta start like me,

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Speaker 4: who gonna really take care of you? I mean you

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Speaker 4: over that sexy. You've been out there a long time,

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Speaker 4: you're fifty. Now the time for you get cook who

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Speaker 4: just don't who know where to refrigerate at? So and

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Speaker 4: I would take No, I don't want you, but I

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Speaker 4: will take your confession and mold you in the right way.

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Speaker 4: And you be telling me everything, but you can't tell

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Speaker 4: the young dumber and they just want to have done,

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Speaker 4: and they're done and they want something all the way

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Speaker 4: down to the trim, so you cannot confess to them

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Speaker 4: kind of girls.

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Speaker 2: Those ain't women.

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Speaker 5: I was gonna ask, how can you tell if they're not?

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Speaker 5: And you think it's simply because they're skinny?

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Speaker 2: No, okay, how can you.

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Speaker 5: Tell if it's someone you can trust?

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Speaker 2: Because you haven't you had enough women's in your life.

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Speaker 5: I open up emotionally all the time.

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Speaker 2: This was a big But that's why you married.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but you, I mean, you can tell. You can

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Speaker 4: tell when somebody is there for a certain reason, can't you.

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Speaker 4: They ain't hiding it out here, They ain't honting it

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Speaker 4: out here. Look at them.

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Speaker 2: I have a bit way.

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Speaker 4: I say, middle aged women's out here get more surgery

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Speaker 4: than the young girls because they're trying to compete.

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Speaker 2: They you know, they just want the knife. They don't

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Speaker 2: want to relate ship.

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Speaker 4: I was just telling somebody, I said, nobody has time

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Speaker 4: to invest anymore.

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Speaker 2: Everybody wants quick. I want to be married. Well, you

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Speaker 2: ain't marriage material.

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Speaker 4: You're walking out here on the beach with you showing

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Speaker 4: your titty, showing you're laying there with your leg over

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Speaker 4: the camera up you. That's not married material. You are

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Speaker 4: who wants? Who wants something? Everybody gonna have done, had

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Speaker 4: and seen. You know back in the day when I

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Speaker 4: was coming out, if you showed your stomach, you was yes,

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Speaker 4: but it's and I'm not knocking you. If you got

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Speaker 4: a nice body, If I ever get my body nice,

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna take pictures in the mirror my damn self.

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Speaker 2: I'm a little fat and.

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Speaker 5: You're doing You're killing it right now. You look great.

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Speaker 4: I think you don't tell anybody I'm on the weight

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Speaker 4: lost shot because you just do that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I say nothing taking a Gloria and huh yeah.

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Speaker 5: I was actually gonna say that you were working out

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Speaker 5: and diet.

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Speaker 4: And you know you ain't gonna give me the work out.

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Speaker 4: I got a gym, but I ain't going down now.

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Speaker 4: I told him earlier that I'm on it. What's the

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Speaker 4: name of the shot?

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Speaker 2: Because I came from now, I'm like, I didn't say anything.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to get myself straight. I gotta call the doctor.

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Speaker 4: But like I was saying, you know, it takes a

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Speaker 4: lot to invest in a relationship, and that's what people.

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Speaker 2: Don't want to do anymore.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 4: I when I went on a podcast and I said,

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Speaker 4: I retired my husband.

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Speaker 2: Oh how can you retire? Man?

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Speaker 4: My husband took care of me. I'm a convicted felon.

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Speaker 4: I was a hood wreck. I don't even know why

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Speaker 4: he's stuck around. But you and I adopted and I

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Speaker 4: went out and got my sister kid. This man raised

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Speaker 4: four or five cents of kids with me, and people

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Speaker 4: try to get him to leave me, but he did.

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Speaker 2: But look at it. Now, we built things together. They

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Speaker 2: don't want to build. Every woman want. I can't mess

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Speaker 2: with a man. If you're working, man, don I said.

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Speaker 4: Some of you all need to go get any construction

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Speaker 4: workers and start to build, because y'all want to.

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Speaker 2: Just come out straight out the box with an NBA player.

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Speaker 2: They want to fuck out. That's why you got your

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Speaker 2: stomach done.

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Speaker 5: Let's go to a second by reach.

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Speaker 3: What you said there that I think is big too,

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Speaker 3: is you said the word invest Shock's invested. What people

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Speaker 3: don't realize is you need up that you could loose.

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Speaker 3: I'm not open to woman.

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Speaker 2: When I was talking about what do you mean by

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Speaker 4: I mean, I can understand you keep your bank account

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Speaker 4: to yourself, but you won't need to tell you love it.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'll do that.

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Speaker 3: So what's something you wouldn't say, like if you were

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Speaker 3: having a like a mental thing or a hard day or.

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Speaker 1: So mine is based a little different. So women such

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Speaker 1: as yourself, you work hard and you have to do

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Speaker 1: a little bit more than I do. I don't want

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Speaker 1: to put that pressure on you. As a man, I'm

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Speaker 1: supposed to be able to handle that pressure.

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Speaker 4: That's that old check and that's.

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Speaker 2: How That's what happened in the school. Yeah, but that's

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Speaker 2: what happened to my husband.

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Speaker 4: So let me tell you what happened when when when

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Speaker 4: When my husband made good money at Generals, but when

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Speaker 4: my career took off, I made way more money than him,

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Speaker 4: and it started to make him feel like he was

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Speaker 4: ahead of the household anymore. And I did not know

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Speaker 4: my husband was feeling the way till we went the counselor.

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Speaker 4: I would come home off the road and he would

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Speaker 4: follow asleep at five o'clock.

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Speaker 2: Was in the bad for what's going on.

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Speaker 4: And I realized that he was preparing hisself to leave

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Speaker 4: because he thought I was gonna leave him because my

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Speaker 4: career had taken off.

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Speaker 2: But that's that old. But he never said he never

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Speaker 4: And I told him, I said, why would you help

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Speaker 4: me build this and then let another move in his house?

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Speaker 2: So you do have to talk.

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Speaker 4: Had I not called my husband and said, if you

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Speaker 4: don't go to councilor, I'm gonna ask you for a

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Speaker 4: divorce when we went to counselor, all of the open

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Speaker 4: up and my husband, my husband had said things to me.

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Speaker 4: I had never heard, y'all. I even see he even

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Speaker 4: shared personal information with the counselor. I even seen him cry.

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Speaker 4: I didn't even know he felt like this. But had

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Speaker 4: I not went to counseling and talked to my husband

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Speaker 4: about these things, we would be in divorce cause. And

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Speaker 4: I told my husband, I said, you supported me all

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Speaker 4: those years through when I sold, cracked through, I sold,

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Speaker 4: I forced checks, I went to jail. Are you talking

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Speaker 4: at my sister kid, You took at my niece kids,

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Speaker 4: you took at my other you let me raise all

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Speaker 4: of these kids. Why would I leave you now, he said,

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Speaker 4: I feel like you don't need me anymore.

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Speaker 2: I said, financially, I don't. But this is all.

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Speaker 4: I just happened to have a talent that's gonna make money.

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Speaker 4: So you do need to open up if you got somebody.

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Speaker 5: See that's the part.

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Speaker 1: I just don't want to put.

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Speaker 2: Pressure on Ain't no pressure because I got a lot

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Speaker 2: going on. Can I be honest with you? Yes, you're rich.

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Speaker 2: Ain't no pressure? Somebody dan you?

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Speaker 1: No, I don't want to put more pressure on you.

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Speaker 2: What more pressure?

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Speaker 1: Whatever you got going on?

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Speaker 2: Give me your cready call. My mind is free.

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Speaker 4: You don't know what you mean pressure. Ain't nobody danying

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Speaker 4: you with no goddamn pressure.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'd be saying.

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Speaker 4: Talk about what Jay, What I'm gonna do to them tonight.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna swing out the ceiling, That's what she talking about.

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Speaker 2: What me?

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna try to cook off of TikTok? That's what

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Speaker 4: that I mean. That's what she worried about. She ain't

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Speaker 4: she ain't like me on the Sam app trying to

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Speaker 4: order grocery, trying to pay a bill, trying to do this,

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Speaker 4: get the kids to come on?

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Speaker 2: You man, You what the what kind of.

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Speaker 5: What pressure would be on them at all? Yeah? What

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Speaker 5: pressure would they be feeling at all?

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Speaker 2: Get off with the night? Who played? Who got a

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Speaker 2: Pretty White? Was his name?

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Speaker 1: Which were so many people?

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Speaker 4: Russell Wilson, No, no, not Russell Willison. He's a basketball

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Speaker 4: player who got the cookbook. His wife got the cookbook.

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Speaker 4: He be whooping everybody that he.

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Speaker 2: Beat Lebron Curry, Steph Curry.

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Speaker 4: That lad ain't got no pressure. That why she be

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Speaker 4: in the kitchen player like you cook it. You think

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Speaker 4: Lebron White got some pressure? Pressure that you whole stay

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Speaker 4: at my hummer in box. That's about it. What god

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Speaker 4: damn pressure you got when you can walk in the

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Speaker 4: store and buy anything you want and then your pocketbooks

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Speaker 4: have flown through.

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Speaker 2: The back door to you and you and you say, hey,

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Speaker 2: kids to tutoring. I can't say that.

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Speaker 4: Get in the car. We gotta go down here to

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Speaker 4: coom on. Ain't nobody to day you with no pressure

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Speaker 4: unless you didn't give him no credit card. She on

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Speaker 4: a lot of pressure. She trying to get gas in

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Speaker 4: her car to come to your house. And she don't

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Speaker 4: want to ask you because she don't want be no

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Speaker 4: gold Diggle