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Speaker 1: addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or

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Speaker 1: scripted as well. Maria Dustin doctor Wendy posted on Instagram

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Speaker 1: last night right before another episode of Potomac premiered, and

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Speaker 1: I want to read to you guys what she said,

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Speaker 1: ed what her husband Eddie said now rain drops. Doctor

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Speaker 1: Wendy and her husband Eddie has been accused of insurance fraud.

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Speaker 1: They were arrested, bailed out on fifty thousand dollars each

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Speaker 2: That, Eddie is facing I believe a counts.

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Speaker 1: Doctor Wendy is facing seven accounts and they have their

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Speaker 1: representative release a statement the day and the day the

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Speaker 1: news broke out. It has been I feel like it's

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Speaker 1: been forever, but I want to say Dustin, well, two.

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Speaker 3: Weeks one right, one a week. It's been one week.

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Speaker 1: M It's been one week since we were informed about

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Speaker 1: their rent. Doctor Wendy has to said anything. Eddie has

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Speaker 1: not said anything until now. So doctor Wendy posted this

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Speaker 1: gorgeous picture of herself.

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Speaker 3: Cool.

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Speaker 1: If you watched last night's episode of Potomac, I know

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Speaker 1: Rain Josh looks amazed, you will know that this is

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Speaker 1: the office she wore in the episode. So the caption

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Speaker 1: read and through it all, God remains faithful.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for the outpouring.

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Speaker 1: Of love, support and prayers for myself and most importantly,

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Speaker 1: my family during this time.

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Speaker 2: We are forever grateful.

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Speaker 1: Tune intom Bravo tonight for all new episodes of The

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Speaker 1: Real Housewife of Potomac. Now, before I get your thoughts

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Speaker 1: on that, I want to read to you guys what

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Speaker 1: her husband Eddie has said as well.

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Speaker 2: Eddie still has aspire and fire. For post who wanted

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Speaker 2: to know, Eddie posted a picture of himself in the family. Beautiful,

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Speaker 1: Eddie said, trust in the Lord with all your heart,

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Speaker 1: and lean not on your own understanding in all your.

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Speaker 2: Ways, and not in all your ways.

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Speaker 1: Acknowledge him, and he would make your path straight Proverbs

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Speaker 1: three five six. Whoever exhale like Whitney Houston on the soundtrack,

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Speaker 1: Please go first.

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Speaker 2: As I was reading.

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Speaker 3: Five six, this working real quick?

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Speaker 4: Is this working?

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Speaker 2: Yes's working?

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Speaker 4: Who's gonna go first? You want to go?

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Speaker 5: You want you want to listen. I'm gonna say what

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Speaker 5: I gotta say. You know what I mean, because my

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Speaker 5: thought is locked in.

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Speaker 3: So if you would like to go first, you know,

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Speaker 3: is yours?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm not locked in because I'm sick. I'm taking mess.

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Speaker 7: I don't feel good whenever they use the the God

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Speaker 6: I just feel like it's overkilled and it's a distraction.

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Speaker 7: When I lived in Atlanta, the biggest horse were always

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Speaker 7: quote in the Bible talking about Jesus fix and stuff

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Speaker 7: and and and and then just like God the Lord

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Speaker 7: has my back.

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Speaker 6: I'm like you just because you like you, you only

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Speaker 6: have been a mess.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 7: And then you think, because you can accurately quote the

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Speaker 7: Bible here and there, that like takes away it like

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Speaker 7: neutralizes all the bad days. Now this is not an

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Speaker 7: indictment on them, we don't know, but from what it's

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Speaker 7: some little birdies. Now this is speculation it's a theory

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Speaker 7: that it's not just them. I would not be surprised

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Speaker 4: Here is what I think.

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Speaker 7: What with the streets Waite streets, Wait.

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Speaker 6: Hold on streets? You said, Well, now, maybe others involved. Okay,

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Speaker 7: I'm not going to confirm anything that I can't give

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Speaker 7: a I hope we're wrong for doctor Wendy's sake, and

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Speaker 6: We don't if you did.

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Speaker 7: It's the stupidest thing ever with the high profile you

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Speaker 6: But when folks.

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Speaker 7: Lean into the Lord and God and all this kind

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Speaker 7: of stuff and take your head on, no it's not true.

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Speaker 7: Oh yes we made a mistake. But I feel like

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Speaker 7: it's to throw people off. It's manipulative when you overly

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Speaker 7: use the Lord after a huge felony is committed, and

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Speaker 6: A little bit. I'd almost like I'm more straightforward.

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Speaker 7: Listen, you know, our lawyers would get to the bottom

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Speaker 6: I would like that, you know, But I.

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Speaker 7: Feel like when you do that, you almost make it

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Speaker 7: where like believers in Christ or religious folks almost feel

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Speaker 7: guilty to question you because now we're going up against

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Speaker 7: the Lord, perhaps in a way. And I think church

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Speaker 7: folks are very some some are very good at doing that,

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Speaker 7: and that is a distraction technique.

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Speaker 6: It really is, in my opinion. I know I'm gonna

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Speaker 6: but I see it all the time.

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Speaker 7: And if you really think about it, being honest people

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Speaker 7: in the chat right now, think about people in your

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Speaker 7: life that have done this to you, it almost it

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Speaker 7: shuts you up right, Like look at the Republican Party

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Speaker 6: They don't god it. You can't, you can't, you can't,

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Speaker 7: I just think it's that we're checking for more of

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it felt tone deaf.

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Speaker 5: I think it landed completely wrong with the intended audience.

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Speaker 5: You post a Glamour shot of you in full glam

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Speaker 5: done up. You know what I'm saying, Eddie, you post

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Speaker 5: a picture of your family, you, your wife, and your

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Speaker 5: small children, your minor children, y'all both quote some God

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Speaker 5: shit at the beginning of your post because we all

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Speaker 5: know that, you know, anything faith based is an impenetrable

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Speaker 5: it's a silencer and it is something that everybody agrees

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Speaker 3: I ain't saying.

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Speaker 5: Wendy gotta live under a rock, Eddie gotta live under

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Speaker 5: a rod. They can continue to live their lives. They

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Speaker 3: It's part of her responsibility to get eyes on the show.

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Speaker 5: She's still on that show and this is a legal

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Speaker 5: their lives, you know, you can post on your Instagram,

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Speaker 5: But when you post that instead of saying, hey, we're

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Speaker 3: It's tough right now.

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Speaker 5: But thank you for all your thoughts and prayers. Thank

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Speaker 5: you for being concerned for us. If you want to

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Speaker 5: put the religion in and say please continue to pray

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Speaker 5: for me and my family, but not that through it

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Speaker 5: all God and all capital letters.

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Speaker 3: It's faithful.

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Speaker 5: What does that even fucking mean connected to this case

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Speaker 5: that you got going on and these charges that you

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Speaker 3: What's the court help me understand the correlation.

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Speaker 7: Away with God when you want to file for three

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Speaker 7: insurance policies on one item?

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Speaker 3: Right, you didn't hear the boys then, dude only.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what I'm saying, Like so so miss me

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Speaker 5: with the fake shit, And that's why I be sleeping

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Speaker 5: in on Sundays. You know what I'm saying. I love

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Speaker 5: God as much as the next person. I know the Bible.

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Speaker 5: deal with this people using I'm so glad you used

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Speaker 5: because it does feel manipulative for people to bring up God.

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Speaker 3: I don't like that.

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Speaker 5: I don't think it's fair, and I think that it

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Speaker 5: But I'm not finna get up here and just tear

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Speaker 7: So but don't make it worse with the OVERLYA yeah, yeah, like,

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Speaker 7: And I know I know we're gonna get I know

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Speaker 7: the comments because you might not.

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Speaker 6: Be hearing what we're saying. It's not a bashing of work.

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Speaker 7: It's not a bashing of religion or people who believe

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Speaker 8: But I I if anything, we're motivated for our commentary

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Speaker 5: So when it's weaponized and used in this way, it's

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Speaker 5: anybody that will have a complain about anything that we said.

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Speaker 5: I literally said, I love the Lord. Yeah, I as

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Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. I don't care.

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Speaker 6: I've said it before.

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Speaker 7: Where a lot of times people that are not going

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Speaker 7: And when you like overly trying to shove it down

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Speaker 6: And you know, we had a.

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Speaker 7: from when the religion from to manipulate and to control

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Speaker 7: But you know, yeah, if it only comes into play

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Speaker 3: So you can't really get me. Let's continue.

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Speaker 7: Let the church say amen, how about that?

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Speaker 7: I was like, hey, we be stressing Colors out. You

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Speaker 5: After my two records. He is the head the crown,

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Speaker 6: Don't give a rent.

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Speaker 2: So That's why I love you, guys. Listen. I love

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Speaker 1: The beauty of the show is the fact that we

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Speaker 2: What I will say is.

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Speaker 9: This, I was happy to see that they said something

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: Granted, when it comes to the post about God, the

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Speaker 2: You at the hands of your repentance.

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Speaker 7: Yeah he did so the Lord stopped him.

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Speaker 10: Rely happened, right. The Lord will stop y'all, but he

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Speaker 6: The Lord shut it down. He said, Nain.

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Speaker 11: On this one.

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Speaker 6: That the devil working right there.

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Speaker 3: That's the devil.

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Speaker 6: What I was going to say is you were saying.

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Speaker 7: You were saying, in terms of the religion stuff, that

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Speaker 6: And if you feel like even.

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Speaker 7: Targeted, well, I was paying attention, even target that's a

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Speaker 4: Brain lunch.

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Speaker 7: I think you're about to make a point about redemption

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Speaker 3: Liftic.

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Speaker 1: The things that we are finding also far is look,

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry because I know you dead as serious. Come on,

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Speaker 5: and this is why I love you, bro, This is

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Speaker 3: Carlos.

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Speaker 7: I mean, people believe in the best, and people here like,

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Speaker 6: Maybe you know, the divorce was about to go find on.

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Speaker 7: The last bit of paperwork was Carlos will make find

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Speaker 6: Oh, you are so sleep and we'd be like they lied, and.

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Speaker 12: He's like, I like to give an alternative view, alternative back,

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Speaker 6: Yo, I like that all.

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Speaker 7: Remember when Gilbert Arenas was married to Laura Govan from

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Speaker 4: I think that I'm sorry.

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Speaker 6: She had a million dollar ring and it was oh

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Speaker 7: The Lord wants us to talk about this us and

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Speaker 5: I wonder how she found out, but I hope she

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Speaker 6: That happened to me one time with a bracelet.

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Speaker 2: Mm hm, did you drive a praise? And it wasn't

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Speaker 7: The gold is real, not the diamonds.

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Speaker 3: Wasn't from a former love, but face from imagine.

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Speaker 7: I was in college. I was like twenty three stockbroke.

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Speaker 6: When it was one of the boxes was a cotton

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Speaker 2: Yeah it was, and.

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Speaker 4: I was like, well maybe I went.

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Speaker 7: I was like, fuck him, I'm gonna South East breaklet

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Speaker 4: They was like.

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Speaker 6: It was dumb. It was it was just good.

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Speaker 2: Make sure you get the praise before the breakups. Top

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Speaker 2: there you are dealing with.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's a lesson all this, But listen, I'll think this.

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Speaker 2: Go out to this Sephal family.

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Speaker 6: That's the one time I did a white boy too.

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Speaker 7: By the way, I'm traumatized.

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Speaker 6: All right, I'm sorry, I know.

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Speaker 1: We'll get into the recap of Potomac, but first we

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Speaker 1: So before I bring on the guest Selena Dustin, let

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Speaker 1: talk about her and Mike Claudia. Are you caught up

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Speaker 1: on what happened with Latitia? Who told you til we

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Speaker 1: they saw all the trees and Tamboura react to it.

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Speaker 2: The trees had a party at her house. Amanda was there.

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Speaker 1: They're playing a game about were you ever attracted to

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Speaker 7: The group, which was very bold, Like I was like,

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Speaker 7: Smoke was wanting to be had that day like this,

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Speaker 7: It was like it felt a little coordinated. It felt

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Speaker 4: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 6: Like Glenn should have got up and went to the

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Speaker 5: If I was Glenn, I would have got up and

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Speaker 3: To that wall, like what do you mean, just just.

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Speaker 5: To defend myself because I would have already known what

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Speaker 3: You need to have your defenses up.

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Speaker 5: Man, Glenn should have, like you said, went to the bathroom,

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Speaker 5: went to the side. Look, my mama just called me.

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Speaker 5: She is having a baby. I don't care how old

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. I got to go that.

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Speaker 5: That should have been the vibes when you saw this

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Speaker 6: There was some communication, there was some kind there was something.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and my thing is I'm sorry, go ahead and

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Speaker 5: do your thing.

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Speaker 7: No, I'm just I'm you. We have a conversation about it.

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Speaker 7: It was like what you waiting on? Like I would

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Speaker 7: have probably if if well, well hold on, you know,

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Speaker 7: that's a lot just something. But he just sat there.

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Speaker 4: But maybe he thought.

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Speaker 7: You know, a lot of times when men do that,

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Speaker 7: They just assume that you're gonna go along with it.

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Speaker 1: This is reality with the King, and I'm Carlos King.

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Speaker 1: Let's get back into the show.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So a couple of things here, right.

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Speaker 5: Number one, I hate the fact that LaTrece did not

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Speaker 3: They made it very clear in the scene that a man.

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Speaker 4: Well.

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Speaker 5: Amanda made it very clear in the scene in her

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Speaker 3: She said, very plainly.

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Speaker 5: I did not tell you this, LaTrece, because I did

448
00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:56,720
Speaker 5: not want you to be in a comfortable, uncomfortable position,

449
00:22:56,880 --> 00:23:00,639
Speaker 5: right You telling her on camera puts her in an

450
00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:04,560
Speaker 5: uncomfortable position. So now that we're in this position, LaTrece,

451
00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 5: who is one of my favorite bills on the show

452
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:11,080
Speaker 5: and who had some really tough conversations last season with

453
00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:13,399
Speaker 5: Letitia to get to the bottom of things in their

454
00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:17,560
Speaker 5: friendship and kind of reboot and reset their connection, for

455
00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:23,760
Speaker 5: her to now be doing what appears conspiratorial behavior with

456
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:28,360
Speaker 5: Amanda about something as serious as her husband's fidelity, it's

457
00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:30,920
Speaker 5: just not a good look on Latrese, and I hate

458
00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:34,600
Speaker 5: that she is essentially handing over this free pass to

459
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:39,200
Speaker 5: kind of get at her by being complicent in that way.

460
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:42,000
Speaker 5: I don't think she necessarily wanted to appear that way,

461
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:44,840
Speaker 5: I believe Amanda when she said on camera that she

462
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:49,080
Speaker 5: hadn't said anything to Latrice about it. However, when LaTrece

463
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:52,760
Speaker 5: has now laughed and joked in this conversation.

464
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:56,040
Speaker 3: Not told the truth.

465
00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:58,959
Speaker 5: Even in that moment when whoever, I don't remember forgiving

466
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:00,840
Speaker 5: me who was it that asked a question? Who was

467
00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:02,960
Speaker 5: it that said have you been attracted to anybody in

468
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:03,360
Speaker 5: this room?

469
00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:07,160
Speaker 3: A party? Yeah, one that I recognize when the question

470
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 3: was asked.

471
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:11,400
Speaker 5: That was another You have opportunities before something comes out,

472
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:13,800
Speaker 5: you have opportunities to tell the truth about it.

473
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:15,520
Speaker 3: LaTrece could have been.

474
00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:18,000
Speaker 5: Like, you know, Letitia come here and pulled her out

475
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:20,480
Speaker 5: the room right then and been like, yo, it seemed

476
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:22,159
Speaker 5: like this shit is about to hit the fan. I

477
00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:24,800
Speaker 5: want you to know this. This is my friend of

478
00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:28,239
Speaker 5: over twenty years. Obviously there's loyalty there. I don't want

479
00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:30,119
Speaker 5: to betray her. But at the same time, I'm not

480
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:32,880
Speaker 5: going to betray you about something as serious as your

481
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:36,560
Speaker 5: husband possibly cheating on you. There were moments there where

482
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:40,920
Speaker 5: people could have showed themselves formidable, you know what I'm saying,

483
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:45,879
Speaker 5: showed themselves as having integrity, and this makes for a

484
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:46,920
Speaker 5: great TV show.

485
00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:47,080
Speaker 4: Is.

486
00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:49,960
Speaker 3: It is polarizing. It is.

487
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:52,679
Speaker 5: It is so interesting to watch, but we're talking about

488
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:53,520
Speaker 5: something serious.

489
00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 3: We're talking about whether.

490
00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:57,880
Speaker 5: Or not Latsa's husband, Glenn, who we've grown a love

491
00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:00,280
Speaker 5: over watching them on these seasons of the show, is

492
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:04,119
Speaker 5: doing something as stupid as having in appropriate conversations with

493
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:05,600
Speaker 5: Amanda via DM.

494
00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:08,720
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, That shit had really hurt Latissa's.

495
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:11,280
Speaker 5: Feelings and it's just a way to handle that, and

496
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:13,240
Speaker 5: I wish it had been handled differently.

497
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:15,720
Speaker 3: I don't know. That's just where I'm I have.

498
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 6: A question to y'all.

499
00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:19,240
Speaker 7: Do y'all think the party goer right that that was

500
00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 7: Mike that felt up?

501
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:25,120
Speaker 4: They were, Oh, I can't ask you, pal.

502
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 3: Was a set up. It was a setup to get

503
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:28,000
Speaker 3: the conversation to that point.

504
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:32,520
Speaker 6: Yeah, because like, is anyone to hear about attracting anybody?

505
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:33,919
Speaker 1: Who are you?

506
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:34,240
Speaker 4: Like?

507
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:37,080
Speaker 5: Well, you asking who got you feeling the kind of way?

508
00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:39,119
Speaker 5: And yo, you know who got you feeling like that?

509
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:41,240
Speaker 3: Up in here? I to put it right on her and.

510
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:42,040
Speaker 6: It's good producing.

511
00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:44,680
Speaker 7: But like I was like, okay, that was she was

512
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 7: there to drop the bomb and get it, get it,

513
00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:51,680
Speaker 7: get it popping right, because you know, Mike extras.

514
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:58,120
Speaker 4: Right, colors, listen, I all all.

515
00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,640
Speaker 2: The only thing I will say.

516
00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:03,960
Speaker 1: Is all of be revealed as she continue watching and

517
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:08,480
Speaker 1: the reunion, So now listen, this is your opportunity to

518
00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:12,560
Speaker 1: talk about it. So I one thing that I did

519
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:14,200
Speaker 1: want to talk to you guys about is this, and

520
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:15,600
Speaker 1: Dustin did bring it up.

521
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:19,400
Speaker 2: Do y'all think LaTrece.

522
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:24,200
Speaker 1: Was in a rock and a hard place because LaTrece

523
00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:28,760
Speaker 1: is saying, Amanda is my best friend that I've known

524
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:33,800
Speaker 1: since I believe middle school, high school, and that Latitia

525
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 1: is somebody who she does consider her big sister.

526
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:38,240
Speaker 2: And yes they've had their ups and.

527
00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 1: Downs, but as of right now, during you know, during

528
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 1: the filming of the show, they were at they were there,

529
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:49,479
Speaker 1: they were back being friends. If Claudia you being a

530
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:56,320
Speaker 1: girl's girl. If if Annie told you, let's say, somebody

531
00:26:56,440 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 1: knows symhe Bailey. If Annie told you, girl, Cynthia Belly's

532
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:05,159
Speaker 1: man is in my DMS. Annie is your best best

533
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:08,960
Speaker 1: best friend. But you and Cynthia are cool, have no issue,

534
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:14,679
Speaker 1: and you're around Cynthia. Would you tell Cynthia something about

535
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:17,920
Speaker 1: her man that her best friend Annie told you?

536
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:19,359
Speaker 3: Yep, sure would.

537
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 7: And I've actually had a situation like that, similar, Uh, yes,

538
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:29,679
Speaker 7: because as far as as long as my friend wasn't like, Okay,

539
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:31,399
Speaker 7: you're with your best friend no matter what, you're right

540
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:33,359
Speaker 7: or die right, and you would hope that you're not

541
00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:35,119
Speaker 7: best friends with someone that would take that bait and

542
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 7: go with that.

543
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 4: Obviously, if he's.

544
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 7: In your DMS and you're not fucking with him, you're

545
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:44,119
Speaker 7: not in the wrong, right, So it's okay, Like, okay,

546
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:48,479
Speaker 7: if would you say who's in who's what scenario do

547
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 7: you use?

548
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:52,720
Speaker 1: Okay, So, so Cynthia's man is in Annie's DMS?

549
00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:53,880
Speaker 6: Yeah, and he.

550
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:57,120
Speaker 1: Told you, would you then tell Cynthia, look, my best

551
00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 1: friend Annie told me your man is in her DMS.

552
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:01,840
Speaker 6: Yeah, because I have to look out.

553
00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 7: That's being a girl's girl sometimes saying hey, man, now,

554
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 7: if my friend went along with it and she was

555
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 7: considering messing with him, I'd have to have a talk

556
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:12,000
Speaker 7: with her too, because my friends know about me. I

557
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 7: am not with that mistress.

558
00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 4: Bullshit.

559
00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:17,919
Speaker 7: I'm not with that other woman bullshit, even if you

560
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:20,359
Speaker 7: are my friend and my friends it's very clear, to

561
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:22,399
Speaker 7: the point that some of my friends won't tell me

562
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 7: their situations now because they know they're gonna hear it

563
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:28,240
Speaker 7: from me. So yeah, I mean the two girls ain't

564
00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:30,880
Speaker 7: the problem. It's it's the married man that's the problem.

565
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:33,840
Speaker 7: So yes, I'm telling I have to tell, and I

566
00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 7: would tell my friend. Hey, I'm gonna let her know

567
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 7: that he's hollowing us. She might feel uncomfortable with. She

568
00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:41,120
Speaker 7: told me listen, I would do it for you as well.

569
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 7: I make it very clear you would want to know.

570
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 7: So I can't sit on that information and have one

571
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 7: of them look as stupid. So absolutely, I'm telling. I'm

572
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 7: telling you have nothing to worry about. If your girl

573
00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:53,760
Speaker 7: ain't considering fucking with them, now, if she's considered messing

574
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 7: with them, then you have a different kind of situation

575
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 7: on your hand. Then you're showing your friend disloyalty. But

576
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 7: if the man is just in your and you're not

577
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 7: entertaining it, what did you really do wrong?

578
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:04,080
Speaker 6: Yes, I'm telling you.

579
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 1: Well, let's not forget Amana did say right justin know

580
00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 1: I like him. He's attractive, he ugly, he black, he's

581
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:11,320
Speaker 1: my time.

582
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:13,640
Speaker 6: Well, okay, I forgot that part.

583
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:16,800
Speaker 3: I'm sorry. And she said that they have been like engaging.

584
00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:20,160
Speaker 5: They have been sitting in a car having private conversations

585
00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:23,720
Speaker 5: they have been discussing, and she was very elusive and

586
00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:26,719
Speaker 5: vague when they When Tambor flat out asked her at

587
00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 5: the salon if her and Glenn had been engaging, you

588
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. She was vague and elusive in

589
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 5: her response, which alluded to the fact that they had

590
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 5: hung out privately. Right, So that's a different perspective. Shout

591
00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:44,240
Speaker 5: out to Amanda for being honest. Some can say to

592
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 5: a fault, but she's being honest and she brought that

593
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 5: to the show.

594
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 3: This is making for a hell of a season.

595
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 5: I'm pissed because I've been watching this show since fucking

596
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:55,240
Speaker 5: season one, episode one. We didn't seen Letitia and Glenn

597
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 5: go through so much shit, right, the whole situation with

598
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 5: the possible ability of him having a child outside of

599
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:03,120
Speaker 5: their marriage.

600
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:06,120
Speaker 3: We went through all of that, got the clarity we needed.

601
00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 5: Watch them start working on their problems, go through all

602
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:11,720
Speaker 5: of these things. Watch them at the same time, they'll

603
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 5: be great parents to their son, right, see their son thriving. Finally,

604
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:19,600
Speaker 5: see them finally see Latitia and Glenn on the same page,

605
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 5: to the point where she's setting up massage tables and

606
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 5: wearing silk Robes on the show and catering to him.

607
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 3: Baby, this is your day.

608
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:31,640
Speaker 5: Okay, now that she's doing that, we get this information,

609
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:35,160
Speaker 5: I'm fucking pissed. I really have been rooting for them

610
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:39,240
Speaker 5: for six seasons and for this to happen now, it's

611
00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 5: so disappointing. I actually really like Glenn's personality. I like

612
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 5: him and Latitia together. I think they make a physically

613
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 5: attractive couple. I wish that they could have success in

614
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 5: their marriage. And I hate that Glenn is going out

615
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 5: like this.

616
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 3: I hate that shit. I hate it.

617
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:55,720
Speaker 7: And soon as you know better of being on a

618
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 7: reality show, this loan and having private issues like I

619
00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 7: remember when Mike cal and Cynthia got together. I remember

620
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 7: having a talk with Mike was like my big brother

621
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 7: at the time. We did a podcast. I said, look,

622
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:08,800
Speaker 7: you better be on your p's and q's because this

623
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 7: type of audience is way different than what you've ever experienced.

624
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 7: He's like, no, No, I know, I've been on TV

625
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:18,800
Speaker 7: for years. I said yes, as a sportscaster, the sportscaster world,

626
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:21,480
Speaker 7: the sports fan is I don't care about your personal life.

627
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 6: That's celebrity.

628
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:25,680
Speaker 7: Real celebrity is when people care about your personal life.

629
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 7: And I told him, and he'll tell you the stories.

630
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 7: I'm not spilling tee. He was like, when it should

631
00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:35,200
Speaker 7: hit the fan, he didn't realize how on it reality

632
00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:38,600
Speaker 7: fans are. They will conduct their own investigations. They will

633
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:41,360
Speaker 7: look into things. They will they will see who's following who,

634
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:44,960
Speaker 7: and who's on who's liking comments, who's They will see

635
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:47,680
Speaker 7: you at restaurants, they will sneak pictures. It's a different level.

636
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:50,240
Speaker 7: So when you go into reality show, you better everything

637
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 7: better be tight. And with him, with Glenn and having

638
00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 7: passed you know, fuck ups okay, and and and being

639
00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:58,200
Speaker 7: caught up and stuff.

640
00:31:58,680 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 6: I mean, it's just the air.

641
00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:03,320
Speaker 7: It's it's so it's so arrogant, and it's so kind

642
00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 7: of cruel to your wife when you know the situation

643
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 7: that you're in, Like it's like almost like, well, I

644
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:11,120
Speaker 7: don't care if I get caught, maybe because I keep

645
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 7: getting away with it or or I don't know, but

646
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 7: the arrogance level of keep doing it. When you're on

647
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:19,240
Speaker 7: a TV show, it's one thing when you cheat. It's

648
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:21,480
Speaker 7: another thing when you cheat or try to how someone.

649
00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 7: When you're on television, you embarrass the hell you humiliate

650
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:25,880
Speaker 7: your partner.

651
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:27,200
Speaker 6: It's humiliation.

652
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's and that's what latis. She wrote on

653
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 1: her Instagram over the weekend. I'm not gonna read everything

654
00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:41,960
Speaker 1: she wrote, well feel free Raindrops to look at it,

655
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:45,760
Speaker 1: but pretty much she's echoing what Claudia saying. You know,

656
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:51,440
Speaker 1: the humiliation, how she feels about what Glenn did, well

657
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:56,120
Speaker 1: LaTrece did. She she blames all parties involved for what

658
00:32:56,200 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 1: she's going through. And look, we'll see what happens now

659
00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 1: next week when it comes to when it comes to

660
00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:08,240
Speaker 1: light exactly what the conversations are, because you will see

661
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:10,240
Speaker 1: Glenn and may have to talk about it. You will

662
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:15,440
Speaker 1: see Latrees and I'm may have to talk about it.

663
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 1: You'll see how La Ticia felt with it, and you'll

664
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 1: see how La Ticia and Glenn deal with it.

665
00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:21,600
Speaker 2: So all of that is happening next week.

666
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 1: I want to bring in Selena because i want to

667
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 1: get her point of view because she was there and

668
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 1: I'm curious to know how she felt when.

669
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:32,240
Speaker 13: All with doubt.

670
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:36,880
Speaker 1: So rain Drops get a warm welcome for Bell Collective

671
00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:38,720
Speaker 1: Star Selena.

672
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 11: Yeah, hello, Selena, are you wearing Are you wearing the

673
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:55,280
Speaker 11: ear rings that you're making now that those are custom.

674
00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:58,800
Speaker 13: And they are custom made. I'm wearing my ear rings

675
00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:02,840
Speaker 13: from Selena. Just come very very cute.

676
00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:06,960
Speaker 1: Yes, Alena, let's just jump right into it before we

677
00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 1: get to your business, child.

678
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:12,280
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna have Dust and Claude ask you questions.

679
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:15,960
Speaker 2: But look, you were there Lateresa's party.

680
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:20,920
Speaker 1: Without giving too much away because obviously we're continuing this

681
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:25,360
Speaker 1: this Friday, what was going through your mind when, to

682
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 1: Claude's point, the question was asked whether or not anybody

683
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:31,719
Speaker 1: in the group have been attracted to each other.

684
00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 14: Well, to be honest, when that question was asked, I

685
00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 14: thought it was directed towards me.

686
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:41,960
Speaker 13: You know, ask well, That's how I thought. I'm like,

687
00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:43,839
Speaker 13: they trying to be funny because you.

688
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 14: Know, Cliff and I over two decades ago. So this

689
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 14: was the first thing that popped in my mind because

690
00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 14: I knew nothing about Glenn and the d MS or

691
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:57,360
Speaker 14: anything like that. So, you know, I don't have my

692
00:34:57,440 --> 00:34:59,440
Speaker 14: drinks and I'm like, shit, might here, what the hell?

693
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:02,799
Speaker 14: Even though he already know about this, let me say this.

694
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:05,920
Speaker 14: It was not two weeks after my after I got married, okay,

695
00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:07,600
Speaker 14: and some things had went you know.

696
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:10,359
Speaker 2: The rain drop.

697
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 1: So Selena half admitted that her and Laterrecea's husband Cliff,

698
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 1: that they dated.

699
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:21,440
Speaker 2: But this was before Cliff and LaTrece were even.

700
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 14: Married, way before, and it was after I had my

701
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:28,520
Speaker 14: after I had son Jay, so it was years within

702
00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:30,439
Speaker 14: that doesn't count.

703
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 5: Then everybody has moved on. So yeah, yeah.

704
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:39,839
Speaker 7: So when when you heard okay, so when that questions asked,

705
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:42,320
Speaker 7: you're thinking it's you. How relieve were you that it

706
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:44,640
Speaker 7: was someone else? And were you like, were like.

707
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:49,400
Speaker 13: Who I was like? But then I was like, what

708
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 13: the hell are you talking about with Glenn?

709
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 14: Now, Glen, don't be entertaining nobody, especially when you're on

710
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:58,640
Speaker 14: the platform like this and nobody inside the circle.

711
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 3: That's so no, No, did you know Amanda? Selena? Had you?

712
00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:04,320
Speaker 3: Were you familiar with Amanda?

713
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:08,920
Speaker 15: Yes, I've been knowing Amanda for years and she like, okay,

714
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:11,680
Speaker 15: we all have the friend that we wouldn't leave around

715
00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:15,160
Speaker 15: our man right where We're like, she cool, but I'm

716
00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:15,879
Speaker 15: not leaving the room.

717
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:17,280
Speaker 6: Is she that girl?

718
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 13: See?

719
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:21,920
Speaker 14: I don't know, because Amanda was into women, so now

720
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 14: it's like it's men and women, you know.

721
00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:30,960
Speaker 5: But but her personality though, right, Selena? First like her

722
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:34,080
Speaker 5: personality and what you've known of her character? Like, up

723
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 5: until now, were you surprised to hear that she had

724
00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:39,239
Speaker 5: been engaging in conversation with Glenn like that.

725
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:41,799
Speaker 13: I was definitely surprised, you was.

726
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:44,279
Speaker 4: I was, so did she seem like a girl?

727
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:46,279
Speaker 6: Is she a girl's girl? I'm like, she is a

728
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:46,759
Speaker 6: girl's girl.

729
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 7: Well, she was a girls girl, but like a girl's

730
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:50,760
Speaker 7: girl that other way?

731
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 4: You know?

732
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:56,359
Speaker 6: You know what I mean, y'all? Hey man, I didn't

733
00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:57,319
Speaker 6: take my brain pills today.

734
00:36:57,480 --> 00:36:58,200
Speaker 4: You know what I mean.

735
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:01,080
Speaker 6: I'm saying like girl girl code.

736
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:05,560
Speaker 14: See, I can't girl that d because I only be

737
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 14: around Amanda with Latrees. But I actually I think I

738
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:12,840
Speaker 14: knew Amanda before I knew Latrees. But it was like

739
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:17,440
Speaker 14: on some business height stuff like hair, the hair of stylist.

740
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 7: But how would you fail up when you found out

741
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 7: someone that you're you know, in the group or proximity,

742
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:28,000
Speaker 7: uh knows your relationship you know, with your man and

743
00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:31,279
Speaker 7: he slid into the DMS And she wasn't offended like

744
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:33,600
Speaker 7: when someone with a boyfriend, I'm sorry, with a girlfriend,

745
00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:37,440
Speaker 7: well and a boyfriend a wife hits me up. I'm like,

746
00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 7: why did you even think that I was with it?

747
00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:42,120
Speaker 13: Right?

748
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 3: You muted Claudia.

749
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 13: Looks with Mike.

750
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:52,280
Speaker 1: You muted, Mike went down, Claudia, that's okay, Yeah, I'm

751
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:54,200
Speaker 1: looking back in now you muted it, I'm I'm mute.

752
00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:56,880
Speaker 5: Well, while we'll get waiting on Claudia to get that together.

753
00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:00,240
Speaker 5: I would like to know because you are friends with

754
00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:02,719
Speaker 5: with Latrese. We saw you all have a great and

755
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:04,880
Speaker 5: shout out to you and LaTrece for having that conversation

756
00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:07,759
Speaker 5: on camera about the gap in your communication. That was

757
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:10,320
Speaker 5: really mature and I think it was a great example

758
00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:13,240
Speaker 5: for people to see of how you can resolve.

759
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:15,959
Speaker 3: Simple issues with communication. Right.

760
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 5: But after watching that, we were just speaking previously before

761
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 5: you came on, and I was telling them how I

762
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 5: felt like Latrese was in a pretty tough spot because

763
00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:27,879
Speaker 5: she's been friends with Amanda for over two decades, right,

764
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 5: she was working on her relationship with Leticia. We saw

765
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:35,160
Speaker 5: that on camera last year, and so now she's in

766
00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 5: this position where she knows this information that could possibly

767
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:42,880
Speaker 5: be hurtful to Laticia, but she also has loyalty to Amanda.

768
00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:45,400
Speaker 5: What do you think you would have done if you

769
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 5: were in Lateresa's shoes with a decision like that on

770
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:50,759
Speaker 5: the table, and how do you think Latrese could have

771
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:51,359
Speaker 5: handled it.

772
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:53,840
Speaker 3: How do you feel about the way it was handled?

773
00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 14: Okay, Well, if I was in that position, in that's

774
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:00,560
Speaker 14: qua I.

775
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:01,960
Speaker 13: Would be torn.

776
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:05,680
Speaker 14: I would probably, to be honest, I would be upset

777
00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 14: with Latrese. I'll be upset with my husband. I would

778
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:10,959
Speaker 14: be upset with Amanda. You know, y'all got me sitting

779
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:14,239
Speaker 14: here looking the food in front of you know, my counterparts,

780
00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:19,279
Speaker 14: all my friends, and that's just that's not right. But

781
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:24,799
Speaker 14: I know LaTrece was, you know, stuck in a hard place. Yeah,

782
00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 14: because she is friends with Amanda and then she's rekindling

783
00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:32,759
Speaker 14: her relationship with Latitia.

784
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 13: I probably would have just stayed out of it.

785
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:40,840
Speaker 14: Yeah, but I knew something was gonna probably potentially go down.

786
00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:43,680
Speaker 13: I probably would have went to Latitia and been like, girl.

787
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:47,640
Speaker 4: Yes, because your friend to prepare her.

788
00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:49,880
Speaker 14: You know what I'm saying. Because I'm friend. I'm friends

789
00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:51,720
Speaker 14: with both of them, even though I'm more a lawyer

790
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:56,239
Speaker 14: too that I've been with for like over two decades.

791
00:39:57,000 --> 00:40:00,120
Speaker 7: But I would be mad at my friend that that

792
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:03,800
Speaker 7: knows I'm in this group, knows I have to manage scenes.

793
00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:06,960
Speaker 7: I got to manage relationships in this and you overhere

794
00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:09,719
Speaker 7: doing this because you're putting in a position. Now, yes,

795
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:13,120
Speaker 7: it's not about me, but like, can you pick somebody

796
00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 7: else's husband please? Like I would be mad about that

797
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:18,280
Speaker 7: because now, if have you ever been in a position

798
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:21,040
Speaker 7: where you've seen, like maybe your friend's man out there

799
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 7: doing something and you're like, should I? And if you

800
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:25,560
Speaker 7: don't tell, your friend's gonna be mad at you that

801
00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:28,480
Speaker 7: you knew information and you did not tell. And if

802
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:30,719
Speaker 7: you do tell, sometimes you lose a friend because they

803
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 7: don't want to hear nothing about their man.

804
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:36,480
Speaker 4: Their man, their man. But like that's true. It is topic.

805
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:39,440
Speaker 14: I have been in a situation like that before, and

806
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:42,279
Speaker 14: I'm like not but I don't want to be the

807
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:44,480
Speaker 14: cause of somebody's getting a divorce.

808
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:45,440
Speaker 3: I don't want that.

809
00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:50,120
Speaker 14: And everything reveals themselves at the end of the day,

810
00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:53,120
Speaker 14: everything's gonna come to the light. So sometimes I would

811
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:55,960
Speaker 14: just be like, I'm just gonna step back. It's gonna

812
00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:57,080
Speaker 14: come out sooner or later.

813
00:40:57,760 --> 00:40:59,920
Speaker 7: How would you feel, though, if if it was you

814
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:02,319
Speaker 7: like say, yeah, you know what I mean, Like, how

815
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:05,120
Speaker 7: would you feel if your own girl didn't tell you

816
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:08,439
Speaker 7: that her friend was getting damned by your man?

817
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 1: So so so if Latreth. If if Latreth heard that

818
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 1: Mike was doing something similarly right DMS with with let's

819
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 1: say Amanda just to say her name. Yeah, yeah, you

820
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:30,200
Speaker 1: if you take out Glenn and you put Mike, how

821
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 1: would you feel on some real ship?

822
00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:36,320
Speaker 14: I would be upset, I'll be pissed. I'll feel betrayed.

823
00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:39,120
Speaker 14: I'd be like you should have came to me.

824
00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:40,279
Speaker 2: Uh.

825
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:43,080
Speaker 14: If you knew this information and see I'm the type

826
00:41:43,080 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 14: of person I can hold onto information for a long time,

827
00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:48,640
Speaker 14: you would never know that I know that you done

828
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:51,239
Speaker 14: did this, You're gonna say something about me. I'm not

829
00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 14: the type that it's gonna just blow up like that.

830
00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:57,759
Speaker 14: So I'm gonna do my research. I'm gonna be a

831
00:41:57,840 --> 00:42:02,719
Speaker 14: detective behind the scenes and get our you know, just

832
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:05,640
Speaker 14: all the facts and then bring it to the person.

833
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 4: Would if they.

834
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:09,120
Speaker 7: Didn't tell you, how would you look at that front

835
00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:11,680
Speaker 7: afterwards that you were just trying to rebuild your relationship

836
00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:15,280
Speaker 7: with which it would would like reconciliation be off the table.

837
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:17,439
Speaker 7: Would you be like, now I can't trust it because

838
00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:18,879
Speaker 7: you knew this and you sat on it. I get

839
00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 7: that's your friend, but let me don't have me out

840
00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 7: here with the how would you feel like would you?

841
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:28,040
Speaker 14: Yeah, in the beginning, I would feel like my friend

842
00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:31,719
Speaker 14: betrayed me, But then I feel like we should be

843
00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:34,319
Speaker 14: able to work it out, to talk it out, like

844
00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 14: then you tell me why in this set, and if

845
00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:40,839
Speaker 14: you knew she could possibly bring that.

846
00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:44,520
Speaker 13: Up, I would be I would just be upset.

847
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 14: And it would take a minute for us to build

848
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:47,600
Speaker 14: our relationship back up.

849
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 4: That tru it is tough. I do get it, and.

850
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:53,759
Speaker 14: Then call LaTrece like I said, I wouldn't want to

851
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 14: be involved anybody's marriage, you know, you know, in a

852
00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:02,919
Speaker 14: tough position because she has two friends right here, one

853
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:05,719
Speaker 14: on this side or Lowyer two, and then it's like

854
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:08,839
Speaker 14: I don't want to get in that relationship. And then

855
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 14: also with LaTrece, she's probably thinking if I tell Latitia

856
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:17,680
Speaker 14: she's not gonna leave Glenn, they're gonna probably still be together.

857
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:20,320
Speaker 14: Then Glenn will be mad at me, then Latitia'll be

858
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:23,040
Speaker 14: mad at me. So it's just like I don't really

859
00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:25,360
Speaker 14: have no relationship with either one.

860
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 13: It's just it's over.

861
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:30,840
Speaker 7: If you see couples go through it before and they

862
00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:32,719
Speaker 7: didn't break up all the way, you're like, man, they

863
00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:34,520
Speaker 7: ain't gonna separate anyways, I get that.

864
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:45,480
Speaker 1: Spotty whitey look rain drops.

865
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:46,719
Speaker 2: Let us know the comments.

866
00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 1: Let us know on Twitter hashtag Reality of the King

867
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:56,120
Speaker 1: if you were in Lateresa's shoes, would you tell your

868
00:43:56,239 --> 00:44:00,479
Speaker 1: married friend that her man is a DMS or would

869
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:02,960
Speaker 1: you keep it to yourself because you do not want

870
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:05,080
Speaker 1: to be caught in the middle. Let us know in

871
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 1: the comments now and we'll read it after the show. So, Selena,

872
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 1: speaking of your mans, one thing that we are diving

873
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:15,799
Speaker 1: into this season is your relationship with your fiancee Mike

874
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:21,240
Speaker 1: and his lack of communication. What we did see this

875
00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 1: episode was the fact that Glenna Letitia took effort into

876
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:30,640
Speaker 1: really being there for the two of you in regards

877
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 1: to how you feel like your fiance does not know

878
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:39,200
Speaker 1: how to communicate and how it is impacting you. Can

879
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 1: you shed some light on what was going on with

880
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 1: you and him at that time that you felt the

881
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:45,399
Speaker 1: need to address something that.

882
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:46,120
Speaker 2: Was bothering you.

883
00:44:47,560 --> 00:44:51,360
Speaker 14: Yeah, so I want Mike to understand where I'm coming from.

884
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:54,160
Speaker 14: Like I let mat Mike go out and hang out

885
00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:56,839
Speaker 14: with his voice and everything, but he had to realize

886
00:44:57,760 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 14: my past and when we first met, I have just

887
00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:05,520
Speaker 14: lost my son. So if Mike don't communicate with me,

888
00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:08,520
Speaker 14: if Mike don't answer their phone, it triggers me, and

889
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 14: it triggers me bad. And it's because, you know, because

890
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:13,719
Speaker 14: I did lose my son, and it puts me back

891
00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 14: into the space where I.

892
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:17,719
Speaker 13: Was trying to call my son. My daughters were trying

893
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:19,400
Speaker 13: to call my son. There was no answer.

894
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:23,440
Speaker 14: So I automatically think the worst and I can't help that.

895
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 14: And so when he don't answer the phone, you know,

896
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 14: it's just triggering and I don't like that feeling at all.

897
00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:33,160
Speaker 14: And so Mike, he will say a couple of words,

898
00:45:33,600 --> 00:45:38,319
Speaker 14: you know, and expect me to understand it. And communication

899
00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:42,120
Speaker 14: is just key in any relationship. It can be with

900
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:45,879
Speaker 14: friendship relationships, mother and daughter, you have to communicate.

901
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:49,920
Speaker 7: That seems like a very reasonable thing to ask for

902
00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:52,239
Speaker 7: considering what you have been through. And he's aware of

903
00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:56,040
Speaker 7: your trauma, right, so it seems like a very very

904
00:45:56,080 --> 00:46:00,399
Speaker 7: small thing to ask when you've experienced such laws and

905
00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:02,120
Speaker 7: that doesn't just go away overnight.

906
00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:04,360
Speaker 13: It doesn't.

907
00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 14: And going to Letitia, I know a lot of people's like,

908
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 14: why are y'all why did you go to the Pearisons,

909
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:15,239
Speaker 14: because I know they don't been through so much together. Right, Oh,

910
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:18,759
Speaker 14: I'm automatically going to go to some somebody who has

911
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 14: been through what I'm going through presently. So I'm not

912
00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:25,600
Speaker 14: going to ask somebody who's never been through anything or

913
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:28,400
Speaker 14: air life their relationship is perfect. I want to go

914
00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:31,720
Speaker 14: to a person that I know has been there. So

915
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:35,640
Speaker 14: that's why Letitia and Glenn were the perfect couple to

916
00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:36,719
Speaker 14: you know, go to.

917
00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:40,359
Speaker 5: That made perfect sense to me because we have seen

918
00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:43,440
Speaker 5: them on their journey and so seeing you use them

919
00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:45,720
Speaker 5: as a resource in that way, I thought was great

920
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:49,799
Speaker 5: something people can learn from. I also think that you

921
00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:53,200
Speaker 5: have done an incredible job communicating your needs to like,

922
00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 5: at least in the conversations that we've been privy to

923
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:59,319
Speaker 5: on camera. You know, you weren't be rating him or

924
00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:02,480
Speaker 5: attacking him, were confronting him in that way. You just

925
00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 5: simply laid out very plainly and very explicitly, these are

926
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:08,640
Speaker 5: the needs you told them why, just like you just

927
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:12,160
Speaker 5: shared with us. Obviously that sensitive information for you. It's

928
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:14,080
Speaker 5: a sensitive topic. So I just want to give you

929
00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:17,320
Speaker 5: kudos for that because people can learn. Again, these reality

930
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:21,440
Speaker 5: shows sometimes serves as almost like research for people right

931
00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:24,440
Speaker 5: on how to behave sometimes in different situations that can

932
00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:26,920
Speaker 5: be awkward or uncomfortable. So I just wanted to give

933
00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:28,400
Speaker 5: you your props because I felt like you did a

934
00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:32,239
Speaker 5: really good job communicating to Mike, like hey, in order

935
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:34,840
Speaker 5: for us to succeed on in our relationship. This is

936
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:37,560
Speaker 5: what I need. Even seeing you talk to your daughters.

937
00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:40,440
Speaker 5: When you went to visit your daughters prior to your

938
00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:43,319
Speaker 5: daughter having her baby, you were talking to them about

939
00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:47,239
Speaker 5: your relationship with Mike. I thought they were so well adjusted,

940
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:50,759
Speaker 5: and so they were expressing their feelings to you their

941
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:53,759
Speaker 5: mother in just a way that I thought was really

942
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:55,759
Speaker 5: dope to see. So I think that even though you're

943
00:47:55,760 --> 00:47:58,359
Speaker 5: having communication issues with Mike, I want you to know

944
00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:01,799
Speaker 5: you're doing a good job facilitating the communication that you

945
00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:03,880
Speaker 5: are responsible for Selena.

946
00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:05,839
Speaker 13: Thank you.

947
00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:11,359
Speaker 14: Yeah, I mean that's that's all I want, is understanding.

948
00:48:11,480 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 14: I just want him to receive you know where I'm

949
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:19,040
Speaker 14: coming from.

950
00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:22,000
Speaker 4: Do you think now? Do you feel a different? Valdosa

951
00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:22,879
Speaker 4: made that clear.

952
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:28,720
Speaker 13: He's doing a lot better, He's putting forth the effort.

953
00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 3: That's good.

954
00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:42,720
Speaker 5: Yes, No more eighteen purchases.

955
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:42,919
Speaker 4: Because how do you yes? A lot?

956
00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:44,279
Speaker 13: That is?

957
00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:48,080
Speaker 14: Yet it is it is, And we're talking about getting

958
00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:51,880
Speaker 14: married and moving in together and you know, purchasing a

959
00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:56,160
Speaker 14: new home and everything. Somebody just talk to me, that's

960
00:48:56,440 --> 00:48:58,160
Speaker 14: all I He just.

961
00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:01,279
Speaker 7: Used to moving on his own without someone to hold

962
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:03,799
Speaker 7: him accountable, check in, like, not used to check in.

963
00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:09,440
Speaker 13: That's what it seems like to me. I'm a different breed.

964
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:12,920
Speaker 14: I have been through a lot of things, and so

965
00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:14,719
Speaker 14: I don't want to go through it again.

966
00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 7: Because sometimes it's not like they're just being disrespectful to you.

967
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:20,799
Speaker 7: It's just they're used to just moving on there, like

968
00:49:20,840 --> 00:49:25,400
Speaker 7: if they're moving around without checking in, like before you,

969
00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:28,360
Speaker 7: was there at the space between the relationship we have

970
00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:28,799
Speaker 7: before you?

971
00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:29,760
Speaker 4: Was it a long space?

972
00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:35,239
Speaker 14: So like when I said it was, we met a

973
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:39,439
Speaker 14: little before my son passed, and so I just let

974
00:49:39,520 --> 00:49:43,840
Speaker 14: my just do him. But after my son passed, things changed.

975
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:45,799
Speaker 14: I still let him go out with his friends. I

976
00:49:45,840 --> 00:49:49,200
Speaker 14: still let my you know, enjoy his life. But when

977
00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:50,360
Speaker 14: I call.

978
00:49:50,239 --> 00:49:53,000
Speaker 13: You, you need to answer the phone for sure.

979
00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:57,040
Speaker 14: That's how I because it was a situation, a situation

980
00:49:57,440 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 14: a couple of weeks ago where my daughter son Jay,

981
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:04,400
Speaker 14: and it was something out of the norm. She was

982
00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 14: not answering her phone. Me and my other two daughters

983
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:12,000
Speaker 14: between us, we're freaking out. We're going crazy, like texting.

984
00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:15,319
Speaker 14: Then we take a boyfriend, we's like, just what's going on,

985
00:50:16,080 --> 00:50:20,680
Speaker 14: and it just puts us back in their space with

986
00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:22,960
Speaker 14: my son. And so that's how I feel with Mike,

987
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:25,560
Speaker 14: like if you don't answer the phone, I'm gonna automatically

988
00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:28,239
Speaker 14: think the worst. But Sunday was like, y'all, don't blew

989
00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:30,520
Speaker 14: me up. I was just sleep trying to get some risk.

990
00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:32,600
Speaker 14: But we was like, don't do this to us.

991
00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:34,879
Speaker 7: I don't know if men and I know I'm gonna

992
00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:36,279
Speaker 7: stop talking so much about it.

993
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:39,279
Speaker 4: I don't know if men realize how much patterns mean

994
00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:40,279
Speaker 4: to women.

995
00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:43,359
Speaker 7: Like that is everything to us, especially if you had

996
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:46,520
Speaker 7: some abandonment in your life, death, tragedy.

997
00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:49,560
Speaker 4: A lot of us are you have our issues with daddy's.

998
00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:51,960
Speaker 7: Not being around or what have you, But patterns like

999
00:50:52,040 --> 00:50:54,480
Speaker 7: that's usually how we can tell something's wrong with you.

1000
00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:56,719
Speaker 7: If you're not doing what you used to do, that's

1001
00:50:56,760 --> 00:51:00,120
Speaker 7: gonna throw our nervous system into like a tailspin. I

1002
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:02,920
Speaker 7: tell the men that I'm like patterns, like when you

1003
00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:05,399
Speaker 7: switch off what you usually do, and you know that's

1004
00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:08,440
Speaker 7: a trigger for me. Of course, it's gonna be chaos

1005
00:51:08,480 --> 00:51:10,919
Speaker 7: for you like it's they're like living their best life,

1006
00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:11,839
Speaker 7: drinking a drink not.

1007
00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 4: Even thinking about like what it's doing to you.

1008
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:15,360
Speaker 7: And I don't even know if it's on purpose, but

1009
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:17,080
Speaker 7: I just want men that are watching this right now

1010
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:19,640
Speaker 7: to know that when y'all get off your patterns and

1011
00:51:19,800 --> 00:51:21,160
Speaker 7: you know that's something that's important to.

1012
00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:23,040
Speaker 4: Us, it really does a number on us.

1013
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:26,480
Speaker 7: And we're not nagging you, but it's probably kicking up

1014
00:51:26,480 --> 00:51:30,279
Speaker 7: a lot of old feelings exactly.

1015
00:51:31,400 --> 00:51:34,160
Speaker 5: One of the things that has been really great about

1016
00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:37,279
Speaker 5: getting to know you on Bail Collective, Selena right, has

1017
00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:40,360
Speaker 5: been like your your willingness to be so forthcoming with

1018
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:44,120
Speaker 5: your personal story right your family. This is your second

1019
00:51:44,200 --> 00:51:47,560
Speaker 5: season as a full time Bail and we're seeing a

1020
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:50,799
Speaker 5: different side of your personal story this season right, much

1021
00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:53,640
Speaker 5: more focused on like your relationship and what's going on

1022
00:51:53,680 --> 00:51:57,360
Speaker 5: in your home. Previously we saw like your relationship with

1023
00:51:57,400 --> 00:52:00,000
Speaker 5: your children's father and what that looked like for you.

1024
00:52:00,800 --> 00:52:03,480
Speaker 5: What has you the difference been like in your experience

1025
00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:07,960
Speaker 5: filming this current season season six versus the previous season

1026
00:52:08,719 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 5: when it comes to like sharing your personal story, how

1027
00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:15,240
Speaker 5: have you felt any difference like filming this season versus

1028
00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:17,560
Speaker 5: filming last season and if so, how.

1029
00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:25,000
Speaker 14: Last season the previous seasons, I was strictly focused on

1030
00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:29,439
Speaker 14: mending my family. I don't like to see my girls hurt,

1031
00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:35,400
Speaker 14: like I carried their pain. They loved their father, and

1032
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:38,480
Speaker 14: I just wanted them to me and that relationship. I

1033
00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:42,600
Speaker 14: always wanted to be cordial with their step mother. That's

1034
00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:46,440
Speaker 14: all I ever wanted. But even before the show, so,

1035
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:48,920
Speaker 14: I just wanted us to be able to be in

1036
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:53,400
Speaker 14: each other's space and get alone, and we still continue

1037
00:52:53,440 --> 00:52:55,640
Speaker 14: to co parent. Be there because we're going to be

1038
00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:58,840
Speaker 14: in the same setting. We just said a couple of

1039
00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 14: weeks ago, my grandson like christening, So we're.

1040
00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:04,680
Speaker 13: Gonna be there. I know a lot of people are

1041
00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:05,840
Speaker 13: like where they're older.

1042
00:53:05,880 --> 00:53:09,759
Speaker 14: Now, we still got birthdays, we got still going to

1043
00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:12,080
Speaker 14: be able to We're still gonna be in the same setting.

1044
00:53:12,320 --> 00:53:13,280
Speaker 13: Regardless.

1045
00:53:13,880 --> 00:53:20,080
Speaker 1: I love your ex husband and his wife.

1046
00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:21,680
Speaker 2: Since the show.

1047
00:53:23,040 --> 00:53:26,280
Speaker 1: Has wrapped, and the last time he y'all were together,

1048
00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:29,800
Speaker 1: it was very contentious, So what is the status of

1049
00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:30,960
Speaker 1: your relationship together.

1050
00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:35,319
Speaker 14: Look, I was raised by old woman. My grandma raised me.

1051
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:40,200
Speaker 14: She's like, you know, just continue to still be nice.

1052
00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:43,279
Speaker 14: I always be treat people the way you want to

1053
00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:46,239
Speaker 14: be treated regardless of what they're gonna do it to you.

1054
00:53:46,800 --> 00:53:50,400
Speaker 14: Their karma is going, it has no expiration. So it

1055
00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:54,040
Speaker 14: doesn't bother me at all being around them, because that's

1056
00:53:54,080 --> 00:53:56,680
Speaker 14: all I wanted, was just for us to just be

1057
00:53:56,960 --> 00:54:01,480
Speaker 14: a family that can coexist. And so when I see them,

1058
00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:04,520
Speaker 14: I embrace them, you know, I hug them or whatever,

1059
00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:08,480
Speaker 14: you know, because we have children together, grandkids, and the

1060
00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:12,400
Speaker 14: family is steady growing. So you don't make it feel

1061
00:54:12,400 --> 00:54:13,400
Speaker 14: any type of way.

1062
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:17,960
Speaker 7: That has been our Reality television made it better for

1063
00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:20,919
Speaker 7: you to communicate or worse, because I do think that

1064
00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:24,359
Speaker 7: it forces you to have a conversation because you got

1065
00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:29,720
Speaker 7: to put a button on situation for work, right, right, So.

1066
00:54:29,719 --> 00:54:31,719
Speaker 4: Maybe you'll talk to us on that in real life.

1067
00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:32,359
Speaker 4: Make me f them.

1068
00:54:32,360 --> 00:54:34,040
Speaker 7: I'm done with them, I'm off them, But you have

1069
00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:38,200
Speaker 7: to finish, you gotta, you gotta like button up storylines.

1070
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:41,120
Speaker 7: Has it been helpful for you like being on reality

1071
00:54:41,120 --> 00:54:42,880
Speaker 7: television with their family in real life? For you?

1072
00:54:43,280 --> 00:54:44,359
Speaker 4: Has it helped you in real life?

1073
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:44,720
Speaker 1: Well?

1074
00:54:45,120 --> 00:54:46,240
Speaker 13: Yes, in real life.

1075
00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:49,080
Speaker 14: I am so thankful for this show because I feel

1076
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:53,160
Speaker 14: like everything happens for a reason, and in the direct

1077
00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:57,160
Speaker 14: order it's happening, So I feel like if they were

1078
00:54:57,280 --> 00:55:01,879
Speaker 14: never on this show, we probably still wouldn't be where

1079
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:02,880
Speaker 14: we are today.

1080
00:55:03,080 --> 00:55:07,840
Speaker 13: So we're in a better space. So thank you so much, Carlos.

1081
00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:17,359
Speaker 13: I appreciate it. Thank you. That's a positive thing.

1082
00:55:17,560 --> 00:55:26,359
Speaker 14: So all I want thank you, well, well.

1083
00:55:25,560 --> 00:55:27,319
Speaker 2: Thank you Selena. It's what Claudie said.

1084
00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:30,279
Speaker 1: Look, reality TV is tough, but one thing it does

1085
00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:34,040
Speaker 1: do it forces you to have these conversations that you

1086
00:55:34,200 --> 00:55:37,640
Speaker 1: sometimes avoid, and look, at the end of the day,

1087
00:55:38,239 --> 00:55:41,439
Speaker 1: what we always wanted was for you guys to be

1088
00:55:41,520 --> 00:55:44,719
Speaker 1: a united front as a family, and I'm happy that

1089
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:47,200
Speaker 1: you guys are able to do that.

1090
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:49,520
Speaker 2: As Selena, and I'm so happy that.

1091
00:55:49,400 --> 00:55:52,920
Speaker 1: You are about Thank you so much for everything you're

1092
00:55:52,960 --> 00:55:55,640
Speaker 1: bringing the season. Shout out to you for being so

1093
00:55:55,760 --> 00:56:00,440
Speaker 1: open about your personal life, Mike, your son, the passing Man.

1094
00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:03,040
Speaker 1: There's more episodes to go to where you get to

1095
00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:07,600
Speaker 1: see Selena on this journey of trying to heal from

1096
00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:11,040
Speaker 1: her son's passing, but you also get to see Selena

1097
00:56:11,080 --> 00:56:14,080
Speaker 1: in a place with the Bells where she's also trying

1098
00:56:14,080 --> 00:56:17,239
Speaker 1: to get the girls back together. So rain Drops, make

1099
00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:20,640
Speaker 1: sure y'all stay tuned to Bell Collective every Friday eight

1100
00:56:20,640 --> 00:56:23,960
Speaker 1: o'clock seven Central on the open within your network, Selena,

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Speaker 1: where can the rain drops find you?

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Speaker 2: Follow you?

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00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:30,560
Speaker 1: Support you on social media in addition to purchasing your

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Speaker 1: ear rings and jewelry.

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Speaker 14: Well, look Collins, I've been doing some women's events, a

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Speaker 14: lot of pop ups, and I'll be selling out. They

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Speaker 14: like rings, farrito, So I'm getting my website together.

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Speaker 13: I've been doing a lot of.

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Speaker 14: Like in person, right, but my website is it is up,

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Speaker 14: but you can't purchase nothing on it yet.

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Speaker 13: But by the end of the week.

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Speaker 1: If I go with Selena, you know whattok.

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Speaker 4: You have a TikTok is a great place TikTok shopping.

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Speaker 13: I need there.

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Speaker 14: You have nantcy than my website. But like I said,

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Speaker 14: because I do like this my hands like this's not

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Speaker 14: have a whole crew behind me or anything. I make

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Speaker 14: each one with love and I love them are different,

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Speaker 14: so I don't really make two pair alike and may

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Speaker 14: have a different ball or different lens or it's something

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Speaker 14: different about it.

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Speaker 5: So go get your ear rings, get your earrings, and

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Speaker 5: stake Selena's comments so she could get that website up

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Speaker 5: to rolling y'all can purchase some earrings, That's right.

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Speaker 4: You have a very nice demeanor about you.

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Speaker 7: Very It's like feels good talking to you, like you

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00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:55,160
Speaker 7: seem like a very soothing, peaceful human being. I just

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Speaker 7: want to say, your energy is very very nice.

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Speaker 4: It's like you have good aura, you know, so.

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Speaker 13: I appreciate that.

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Speaker 4: Of course.

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Speaker 2: No, and we thank you Selena.

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Speaker 1: Thanks about hopping on month in a live My love

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Speaker 1: and I'll see you soon.

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Speaker 3: Boo by take care Selena.

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Speaker 4: Oh she's so nice. Carlos's hard.

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Speaker 2: No, she's sweet.

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Speaker 4: She's very sweet, Like I can't be for her, she's

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Speaker 4: too nice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, No, she's she's she's a sweetheart.

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Speaker 1: And I love the fact that the audience is getting

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Speaker 1: a chance to like really see her outside of what

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00:58:31,920 --> 00:58:34,280
Speaker 1: she was going through last season that Dusta mentioned with

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Speaker 1: her ex husband and his wife and and how that

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Speaker 1: affected the family and the kids. So we get to

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Speaker 1: open up selena story this season. So guys be collective.

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Speaker 1: Every Friday, eight o'clock seve is Central Own, and this

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Speaker 1: Friday you get to see the continuation of what happens

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Speaker 1: at La Teresa's party when it comes to Amanda and Latitia.

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Speaker 1: You do not want to miss that.

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Speaker 5: My nerves so bad, man, My nerves had to see

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Speaker 5: hens and needles.

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Speaker 3: I'm telling you, man.

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Speaker 1: I can tell you like what is happening, but you

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Speaker 1: know what else is going on? That's pins a needle

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Speaker 1: ish the latest episode of the Reyal House Washing of Potomac,

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Speaker 1: that what's happening?

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Speaker 3: Frozen Dustin?

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Speaker 4: Is he far far away? If he a land far far.

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Speaker 3: Away, far away? You frozen boy.

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Speaker 4: Dustin? On the scale of one of ten.

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Speaker 7: How much you think we'd be stressing colors out when

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Speaker 7: we're be going on our.

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Speaker 3: Little rants twenty three?

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Speaker 4: Isn't it fun?

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Speaker 9: Though?

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Speaker 7: I think it makes it more fun to watch the

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Speaker 7: space like when we be going like we're we're almost

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Speaker 7: at legal note time.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, you can see it, and you can see

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Speaker 5: the meter rising every time, right, you can see it

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Speaker 5: turning from rid to orange.

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Speaker 3: So you can see it, man, Yeah yeah, raindrops.

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Speaker 6: Can y'all see are y'all here for?

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Speaker 7: When colors like he sees this two aries rams is

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Speaker 7: getting hello, reckless and just popping off.

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Speaker 5: We can't help ourselves, man, It's something to be said.

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Speaker 5: We're gonna say it. God damn it, We're gonna say it. Claudia.

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Speaker 3: You know, I think we've.

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Speaker 5: Been doing a good job though. This ain't no messy show.

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Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. We just have a little fun.

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Speaker 5: But like we I think we keep things at a

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Speaker 5: certain place. And I'm proud of that because you know

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Speaker 5: what I'm saying, we.

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Speaker 7: Give them the tip and not necessarily shafts. Right, we

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Speaker 7: put the tip in or we like insinuate other then

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Speaker 7: back up off it.

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Speaker 4: Your method, you back.

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Speaker 6: Up off it.

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Speaker 5: That's right, that's right. There's a way. You know what

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Speaker 5: I'm saying is there's a way to do this. So

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Speaker 5: we just need y'all into it. Yeah, e skill, you

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Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. You gotta be steady, patience and

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Speaker 5: he's back.

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Speaker 4: Yes, Calos, you are messed well.

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Speaker 2: Listen, I heard everything you guys said. Man, listen, it's

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Speaker 2: the stresses you guys do, not just out. I love it.

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Speaker 2: I love it, my bad y'all. Sorry, I'm gonna do

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Speaker 2: the location.

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Speaker 13: Where are you?

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Speaker 2: I don't know?

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Speaker 4: Is there any different?

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Speaker 6: There is a hint.

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Speaker 4: I'm not going to say thing, but there's a huge.

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Speaker 3: Hint, huge like right, like huge like come on.

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Speaker 4: You It was premeditated too, right, and he's trying.

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Speaker 3: I believe so because I know how he travels. You

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Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, how he plans.

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Speaker 2: About certain things.

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Speaker 3: That was for that, You know what I mean?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I know there's even more to the story.

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Speaker 5: Part of the story, there's more to more elements that

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Speaker 5: make it total.

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Speaker 3: But yes, who so why do.

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Speaker 2: We get into? Okay?

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Speaker 1: Now, the episode opened up, we saw within they A

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Speaker 1: K K have a out. Wendy showed up in her

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Speaker 1: purple rain honey by the way, great outfit of the

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Speaker 1: glasses and the hot pans shorts and the blazer. They're

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Speaker 1: sitting on a bench. They're conversing and in this scene,

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Speaker 1: KK is pretty much telling Wendy that you are a

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Speaker 1: different person on camera that you are off camera.

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Speaker 2: That's the argument, in.

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Speaker 1: Case you guys want to know, the argument is on camera,

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Speaker 1: you act like we're friends, but off camera you treat

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Speaker 1: me very differently. KK is coming in hot the fact

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Speaker 1: that Wendy Listen, I know that you guys have a

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Speaker 1: strong feeling about not YouTube. I know a lot of

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Speaker 1: people have strong feelings about Wendy based on what's going

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Speaker 1: on in her life right now.

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Speaker 2: But what I will say is based on.

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Speaker 1: The scene, Wendy is keeping it cool, calm, collected, and

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Speaker 1: KK is the one who I feel.

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Speaker 2: Like it's a baiting switch to me.

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Speaker 1: I think Wendy is being calm so that KK can

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Speaker 1: be seen as the aggressor when is doing a great

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Speaker 1: job being the person that seems to be unhinged, not

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Speaker 1: saying that's a personality. I've never seen KK act that

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Speaker 1: way until now. But Wendy was very smart to make

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Speaker 1: sure that she spoke calmly. I'll have Dustin mock Wendy.

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Speaker 1: He does a better job than me. But I thought

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Speaker 1: it was smart that she remained calm in order for Wendy,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, in order for KK to act unhinged that

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Speaker 1: when she laughed at her, I was like, whoa, this

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Speaker 1: is everything.

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Speaker 2: I thought I was gonna be.

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Speaker 7: Anyone that's ever not saying Whndy's a narcissist, but anyone

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Speaker 7: who's ever dated a narcissists have experienced this level of

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Speaker 7: frustration when you have a legitimate, reasonable, you know, concern,

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Speaker 7: like hey, I feel that you do this, and they're like, oh.

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Speaker 4: Exactly what mean?

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Speaker 6: You're overreacting?

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Speaker 4: And explain to me how.

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Speaker 7: A feeling is a feeling? If someone's feelings can't really

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Speaker 7: be wrong because it's how they feel. And if someone's feeling,

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Speaker 7: you should probably open up and listen to what they

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Speaker 7: have to say. And this is where KK loses the

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Speaker 7: argument because when he's able to control her emotions and

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Speaker 7: who I've said it before, whoever controls her emotions and

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Speaker 7: a scene wins. But until Wendy showed herself when she

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Speaker 7: laughed like that, when she gave that laugh, it gave

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Speaker 7: me wicked. It gave me I know exactly what I'm doing.

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Speaker 7: I'm playing the ship out of you in the scene.

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Speaker 7: I'm owning you in the scene. I'm doing it on purpose.

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Speaker 7: And if you look at the footage the scene, a

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Speaker 7: seal even jumped out of the water at one point.

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Speaker 4: I thought.

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Speaker 7: She's getting you and KK didn't catch it, but it

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Speaker 7: was right behind kj's right shoulder. I saw the seal

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Speaker 7: in the bay and it got up in the water

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Speaker 7: and it was because it saw that Wendy. No matter

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Speaker 7: what I do, think that KK probably has I don't

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Speaker 7: know that these people business like that, but I think

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Speaker 7: KK had a legitimate concern. Hey, I feel like it's different. Okay,

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Speaker 7: that's her feeling, and Wendy wouldn't even entertain it. Wendy

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Speaker 7: and when she gave that laugh, Wendy told you everything he.

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Speaker 2: Needs to know.

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Speaker 4: She was enjoying the crash out.

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Speaker 7: It looked to me, in my opinion, she was like, oh,

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Speaker 7: I don't want the scene, because there's people that go

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Speaker 7: into the scene to actually do a scene and get

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Speaker 7: a resolved and there's people that go into a scene

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Speaker 7: going in there to control a scene and to make

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Speaker 7: you look stupid and to flip.

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Speaker 6: It on you.

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Speaker 7: And I think that's what happened here in KK. You

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Speaker 7: lost it because you you well, you were being I

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Speaker 7: think she was being authentic in her emotions. But Wendy

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Speaker 7: kept cool and she was she knew what she was doing.

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Speaker 4: And then it gave a middle finger like all that.

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Speaker 7: Yo, Wendy, when that's an experienced reality storry right there,

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Speaker 7: that that was an experienced reality starry move.

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Speaker 5: In my opinion, well, yes, also right, I think that

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Speaker 5: Wendy didn't like being challenged. Yes, Out on camera, Wendy

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Speaker 5: appeared to be assuming this position of a tenured housewife.

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Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, who is entertaining the small

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Speaker 5: concerns of someone who you know, one of her subordinates.

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Speaker 5: That was very much the energy when they sat down

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Speaker 5: on that bench. But Wendy can't hold her poker face

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Speaker 5: too long when it comes to confrontations and situations like that,

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Speaker 5: because as they continue to talk, you could tell Wendy's

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Speaker 5: responses when she started going off script. I'll just put

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Speaker 5: it like that, when Wendy started going.

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Speaker 2: Off script, are you rehearsed?

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Speaker 5: So when Wendy started going off script after she recited

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Speaker 5: the story that she chose to best represent her being

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Speaker 5: a good friend to Keana, and she recited the story

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Speaker 5: about Keana being accused of using drug dealer money by Ashley,

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Speaker 5: and she so conveniently highlighted that one scene where the

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Speaker 5: camera was focused on her coming to the defense of

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Speaker 5: or personal aid of her friend. After she finish that,

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Speaker 5: and Keanna was just appearing to get frustrated but move on,

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Speaker 5: Wendy's true colors came out, especially when the middle finger

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Speaker 5: was exchanged. That's because Wendy really was upset in that scene. Okay,

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Speaker 5: she did not like being chin checked by Keana.

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Speaker 3: In any way.

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Speaker 5: She don't want to be questioned. She don't want to

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01:07:20,080 --> 01:07:23,000
Speaker 5: be questioned. She don't want Keana. How I think that

1319
01:07:23,160 --> 01:07:25,720
Speaker 5: she it feels to me when I watch the show

1320
01:07:25,760 --> 01:07:28,840
Speaker 5: that Wendy's rationale is kind of how dare you, bitch,

1321
01:07:28,880 --> 01:07:30,760
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying, how dare you ask me

1322
01:07:30,840 --> 01:07:33,560
Speaker 5: about this? Or how dare you decide to make an

1323
01:07:33,600 --> 01:07:36,800
Speaker 5: issue with me? And now this season we're gonna go

1324
01:07:36,880 --> 01:07:39,080
Speaker 5: at it. You don't deserve that. And I think a

1325
01:07:39,080 --> 01:07:41,080
Speaker 5: lot of the housewives on the cast kind of view

1326
01:07:41,160 --> 01:07:43,880
Speaker 5: Keana through that lens of her being a subordinate, a

1327
01:07:43,920 --> 01:07:48,320
Speaker 5: pity housewife, only being granted her position because of the

1328
01:07:48,320 --> 01:07:53,080
Speaker 5: physical When Ashley's friend came to the show across all

1329
01:07:53,080 --> 01:07:55,640
Speaker 5: that drama and mess and they got in that physical fight,

1330
01:07:56,360 --> 01:07:58,400
Speaker 5: the ladies on the show have decided that that's a

1331
01:07:58,440 --> 01:08:01,680
Speaker 5: good way to insult Keiana by insinuating that her position

1332
01:08:01,760 --> 01:08:03,760
Speaker 5: on the show as a housewife is due to that

1333
01:08:04,360 --> 01:08:07,960
Speaker 5: or some sort of you know, consolation of sorts, right,

1334
01:08:08,080 --> 01:08:09,640
Speaker 5: consolation prize of sorts.

1335
01:08:09,960 --> 01:08:11,120
Speaker 3: And I think that's getting old.

1336
01:08:11,160 --> 01:08:13,440
Speaker 5: And that's why we're seeing Keanu get closer and closer

1337
01:08:13,440 --> 01:08:16,200
Speaker 5: to just snapping off. And I think that's why she's

1338
01:08:16,240 --> 01:08:19,479
Speaker 5: being way more honest this season. I think it's her

1339
01:08:19,520 --> 01:08:22,599
Speaker 5: second season and so she understands that, hey, I need

1340
01:08:22,640 --> 01:08:24,639
Speaker 5: to kind of take up the space that I occupy

1341
01:08:24,720 --> 01:08:27,479
Speaker 5: on this cast, and so she's being more vocal. It's

1342
01:08:27,520 --> 01:08:29,880
Speaker 5: not landing with a lot of the viewers, it may

1343
01:08:29,920 --> 01:08:31,760
Speaker 5: not even be landing with any of her cast mates,

1344
01:08:31,800 --> 01:08:34,240
Speaker 5: but she's there, and so she's going to have something

1345
01:08:34,240 --> 01:08:36,120
Speaker 5: to say. And I think that that notion in and

1346
01:08:36,160 --> 01:08:39,760
Speaker 5: of itself offends Wendy. I think that Wendy did not

1347
01:08:39,840 --> 01:08:42,920
Speaker 5: appreciate it, and she played her game as long as

1348
01:08:42,960 --> 01:08:46,240
Speaker 5: she could, but once emotions started running a little bit high,

1349
01:08:46,400 --> 01:08:49,599
Speaker 5: no pun intended, I think that she, you know, kind

1350
01:08:49,600 --> 01:08:51,759
Speaker 5: of cracked the foundation kind of cracked.

1351
01:08:52,000 --> 01:08:55,519
Speaker 3: And so it just was Wendy being Wendy to me.

1352
01:08:55,840 --> 01:08:59,760
Speaker 5: The nonchalant attitude in the confessionals, that whole tone, and

1353
01:09:00,920 --> 01:09:05,320
Speaker 5: the very stiff posture that won't move, the very like

1354
01:09:05,360 --> 01:09:09,120
Speaker 5: the calculated glances over your shoulder to suggest that something

1355
01:09:09,200 --> 01:09:12,040
Speaker 5: is you know, okay, I guess you know. When she

1356
01:09:12,120 --> 01:09:14,640
Speaker 5: does all of that stuff, it's intentional quadia. You know

1357
01:09:14,680 --> 01:09:17,960
Speaker 5: what those kind of dgs mean. And so I wish

1358
01:09:18,080 --> 01:09:20,400
Speaker 5: Keanna would just go to it, like you know what,

1359
01:09:20,600 --> 01:09:22,599
Speaker 5: I feel like, you're only teaming up with me when

1360
01:09:22,600 --> 01:09:24,920
Speaker 5: it's time to film, to have some sort of camaraderie

1361
01:09:25,240 --> 01:09:28,360
Speaker 5: amongst these women and I don't appreciate that. Stop playing

1362
01:09:28,360 --> 01:09:31,120
Speaker 5: in my face acting like we're friends. That's really the

1363
01:09:31,120 --> 01:09:33,479
Speaker 5: phrase she was looking for the whole time, playing in

1364
01:09:33,479 --> 01:09:36,080
Speaker 5: my face. Stop playing in my face acting like we're

1365
01:09:36,120 --> 01:09:39,679
Speaker 5: friends and we're not. Say that instead of saying, well

1366
01:09:39,680 --> 01:09:41,240
Speaker 5: you asked me did I do my own makeup?

1367
01:09:41,479 --> 01:09:43,840
Speaker 3: Or well you didn't weigh from the stage.

1368
01:09:43,880 --> 01:09:47,519
Speaker 5: Stop signing these examples that are not making progress with

1369
01:09:47,600 --> 01:09:50,040
Speaker 5: getting people to understand what you're trying to say, and

1370
01:09:50,200 --> 01:09:53,240
Speaker 5: just go to the definition of what your feelings are

1371
01:09:53,400 --> 01:09:54,360
Speaker 5: regarding Wendy.

1372
01:09:54,720 --> 01:09:57,560
Speaker 3: That's what Keana needs to do. Wendy looked great in

1373
01:09:57,600 --> 01:09:58,120
Speaker 3: her purple.

1374
01:09:59,160 --> 01:10:00,840
Speaker 2: She looked good at well. And I will say I

1375
01:10:00,880 --> 01:10:01,679
Speaker 2: agree with you, Dustin.

1376
01:10:01,800 --> 01:10:05,400
Speaker 1: And when you say that, it would have been better

1377
01:10:05,960 --> 01:10:09,360
Speaker 1: if Kak would have said, look, I just think off

1378
01:10:09,439 --> 01:10:12,080
Speaker 1: camera you treat me differently on camera.

1379
01:10:12,360 --> 01:10:12,559
Speaker 2: Now.

1380
01:10:12,640 --> 01:10:16,080
Speaker 1: I will say this though in K's defense, and this

1381
01:10:16,200 --> 01:10:20,000
Speaker 1: is me being being a producer to it is it

1382
01:10:20,040 --> 01:10:27,880
Speaker 1: is sometimes requested production to not break the fourth wall

1383
01:10:28,080 --> 01:10:30,040
Speaker 1: so much, right it.

1384
01:10:29,880 --> 01:10:32,120
Speaker 2: Is because it does take you out of it.

1385
01:10:32,560 --> 01:10:36,160
Speaker 1: I grew up in the world where you would never

1386
01:10:36,200 --> 01:10:40,439
Speaker 1: break the fourth wall. Do y'all remember when Nimi and

1387
01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:45,760
Speaker 1: Chariy had that infamous scene at they were sitting there

1388
01:10:46,000 --> 01:10:49,880
Speaker 1: trying to have wine. It was at this this Atlantic station. Yes,

1389
01:10:49,920 --> 01:10:54,519
Speaker 1: season four, a great thank you season four, and it

1390
01:10:54,600 --> 01:10:57,880
Speaker 1: was about it was about Tyrone and how Tomrone was

1391
01:10:57,920 --> 01:11:02,320
Speaker 1: a promoter and he wanted me so long story short,

1392
01:11:02,479 --> 01:11:05,920
Speaker 1: that a tire beef between Nina and Charae had to

1393
01:11:06,000 --> 01:11:13,240
Speaker 1: do with a promoter wanted to book Charay and asked

1394
01:11:13,280 --> 01:11:15,160
Speaker 1: if Charae could also.

1395
01:11:15,000 --> 01:11:18,519
Speaker 2: Add Nimi and or Kim to the building of the book.

1396
01:11:18,600 --> 01:11:21,439
Speaker 1: And because back then, Claudia, right, you would get booked

1397
01:11:21,439 --> 01:11:24,400
Speaker 1: by these nightclubs to show up for an hour and

1398
01:11:24,439 --> 01:11:27,840
Speaker 1: get paid one thousand dollars in cash half of front

1399
01:11:28,120 --> 01:11:29,920
Speaker 1: half when you leave you out in the park a.

1400
01:11:29,840 --> 01:11:33,320
Speaker 2: Lot, right, see three thousand thank you.

1401
01:11:34,600 --> 01:11:39,639
Speaker 1: So look, so that attire beef, that whole like fix

1402
01:11:39,680 --> 01:11:44,040
Speaker 1: your teeth, yeah, whatever, that was about promoting.

1403
01:11:44,920 --> 01:11:46,400
Speaker 2: They called them being celebrities.

1404
01:11:46,960 --> 01:11:48,960
Speaker 1: We could not say to my point in saying that, y'all,

1405
01:11:49,520 --> 01:11:52,479
Speaker 1: we could not say that. We have to say, well,

1406
01:11:52,640 --> 01:11:58,080
Speaker 1: your friend called my phone and whatever. Now KK is

1407
01:11:58,160 --> 01:12:00,320
Speaker 1: starting to bring up more of that, and I see

1408
01:12:00,320 --> 01:12:02,320
Speaker 1: that the music and more. But I think KK had

1409
01:12:02,360 --> 01:12:06,960
Speaker 1: a struggle because Dustin, You're right, the shit is weak

1410
01:12:07,320 --> 01:12:10,840
Speaker 1: that KK is mad with Wendy about and when I

1411
01:12:10,880 --> 01:12:14,040
Speaker 1: say it's weak, it's weak for the audience to understand

1412
01:12:14,080 --> 01:12:18,560
Speaker 1: it and to care. But if KK would have articulated

1413
01:12:18,600 --> 01:12:20,799
Speaker 1: the way it doesn't said, I feel like you're playing

1414
01:12:20,800 --> 01:12:24,960
Speaker 1: in my face. I feel like off camera me and you, baby,

1415
01:12:25,080 --> 01:12:27,400
Speaker 1: you don't you don't see it for me. But on camera,

1416
01:12:27,479 --> 01:12:29,640
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm part of your alliance because you

1417
01:12:29,720 --> 01:12:32,360
Speaker 1: need somebody to be team Wendy and not of mind

1418
01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:33,160
Speaker 1: being team Wendy.

1419
01:12:33,400 --> 01:12:36,240
Speaker 2: But but chick, you gotta be team KK. We will

1420
01:12:36,320 --> 01:12:39,440
Speaker 2: not feel me and that probably would have been more digestible.

1421
01:12:39,640 --> 01:12:43,840
Speaker 7: That's how like when again, being new to reality TV, right,

1422
01:12:44,520 --> 01:12:48,560
Speaker 7: you like you harp on an example, but an established

1423
01:12:48,560 --> 01:12:50,439
Speaker 7: reality star will make you look stupid, like how a

1424
01:12:50,520 --> 01:12:52,280
Speaker 7: lawyer would in court. But what do you mean that's

1425
01:12:52,320 --> 01:12:54,599
Speaker 7: I mean that sounds like that's not a consequence, that's

1426
01:12:54,600 --> 01:12:55,120
Speaker 7: not a big.

1427
01:12:55,000 --> 01:12:56,800
Speaker 4: Deal, and then you over here look like you crashing out.

1428
01:12:57,160 --> 01:12:58,679
Speaker 4: You gotta paint the bigger picture.

1429
01:12:58,840 --> 01:13:00,920
Speaker 7: It's not these little micro aggression because I think I've

1430
01:13:00,960 --> 01:13:04,320
Speaker 7: mentioned before with female relationships a lot of times, it's

1431
01:13:04,439 --> 01:13:07,000
Speaker 7: very subtle and it's very nuanced, like things that Ben

1432
01:13:07,040 --> 01:13:09,160
Speaker 7: would not even notice and would like, you know, roll

1433
01:13:09,160 --> 01:13:12,040
Speaker 7: off your back, like if you know, if if you

1434
01:13:12,320 --> 01:13:14,479
Speaker 7: walk in a room and then you know, Wendy went,

1435
01:13:16,240 --> 01:13:17,280
Speaker 7: that's nothing to y'all, But.

1436
01:13:17,200 --> 01:13:19,000
Speaker 4: We're like, why she look me up and down like that?

1437
01:13:19,200 --> 01:13:19,360
Speaker 3: Right?

1438
01:13:19,479 --> 01:13:21,800
Speaker 7: And we do it on purpose? Like someone does that

1439
01:13:21,840 --> 01:13:24,719
Speaker 7: on purpose and women clock it. But when you explain

1440
01:13:24,760 --> 01:13:27,040
Speaker 7: that to two men or to the world, to you

1441
01:13:27,120 --> 01:13:29,720
Speaker 7: explain it, you sound like you're tripping. You sound like

1442
01:13:29,760 --> 01:13:32,720
Speaker 7: you're crazy, or you're you're bugging you it's not. But

1443
01:13:33,080 --> 01:13:36,519
Speaker 7: you know, you know when someone's playing your face like

1444
01:13:36,600 --> 01:13:39,240
Speaker 7: Dusn't said, and you said, Carlos, it's better to just

1445
01:13:39,479 --> 01:13:40,639
Speaker 7: paint a broader picture.

1446
01:13:41,000 --> 01:13:41,880
Speaker 4: You know what you're doing.

1447
01:13:41,960 --> 01:13:43,560
Speaker 7: I'm not gonna sit there and play the games and

1448
01:13:43,600 --> 01:13:46,320
Speaker 7: give you specific examples. You know it, I know it,

1449
01:13:46,400 --> 01:13:48,639
Speaker 7: we all see it. But when you give a little examples,

1450
01:13:48,680 --> 01:13:51,080
Speaker 7: you actually give them an opportunity to chip away your

1451
01:13:51,200 --> 01:13:53,600
Speaker 7: argument and make you look crazy. And that's exactly what

1452
01:13:53,680 --> 01:13:56,040
Speaker 7: Wendy did. Like you know, you could always be like, well,

1453
01:13:56,040 --> 01:13:57,240
Speaker 7: what do you mean, They'll.

1454
01:13:57,040 --> 01:13:59,479
Speaker 4: Guess like you're right. I mean, I asked you because

1455
01:13:59,479 --> 01:14:00,960
Speaker 4: I just wanted to know it looked.

1456
01:14:00,840 --> 01:14:03,200
Speaker 7: Different than before, but we all know that it was

1457
01:14:03,240 --> 01:14:06,479
Speaker 7: a shady common Okay, better off to not get into

1458
01:14:06,479 --> 01:14:09,880
Speaker 7: the weeds with the exact examples and paint that brought

1459
01:14:09,880 --> 01:14:12,400
Speaker 7: a picture, because then we can rock with you on that.

1460
01:14:15,800 --> 01:14:18,680
Speaker 1: How did y'all feel though, when y'all saw them leave

1461
01:14:18,720 --> 01:14:21,040
Speaker 1: the scene together laughing and.

1462
01:14:22,680 --> 01:14:25,920
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, so I want to get your thoughts.

1463
01:14:25,920 --> 01:14:27,920
Speaker 1: So then when I saw it, I thought as well,

1464
01:14:27,960 --> 01:14:31,160
Speaker 1: all three of us are saying that Wendy is a

1465
01:14:31,160 --> 01:14:36,280
Speaker 1: professional reality star. She stepped on the newbies toes like,

1466
01:14:36,320 --> 01:14:40,599
Speaker 1: what you're not gonna do is use your second season

1467
01:14:42,080 --> 01:14:46,320
Speaker 1: as a champagne flute holder coming for me, And I'm

1468
01:14:46,400 --> 01:14:48,519
Speaker 1: laughing at you because I know that you're doing this

1469
01:14:48,560 --> 01:14:52,519
Speaker 1: for a storyline. I feel like Wendy was patronizing her, like, girl,

1470
01:14:52,760 --> 01:14:56,800
Speaker 1: you're doing the storyline. You're trying to, you know, run

1471
01:14:56,840 --> 01:14:59,960
Speaker 1: this scene and run me. And I felt like, no,

1472
01:15:00,040 --> 01:15:03,320
Speaker 1: Shaye KK also knew, Okay, I'm a little bit more

1473
01:15:03,520 --> 01:15:07,519
Speaker 1: hype then then I normally would be, because this is

1474
01:15:07,560 --> 01:15:10,240
Speaker 1: a scene and I felt like it was two girls

1475
01:15:10,320 --> 01:15:13,360
Speaker 1: or the same show, like we see each other and

1476
01:15:13,360 --> 01:15:15,480
Speaker 1: and and and real life.

1477
01:15:15,560 --> 01:15:16,880
Speaker 2: We're not that mad.

1478
01:15:17,240 --> 01:15:19,720
Speaker 1: I get what you have to do once again, not

1479
01:15:19,840 --> 01:15:22,800
Speaker 1: to break up Season four eleven of Housewives. It's when

1480
01:15:23,200 --> 01:15:29,400
Speaker 1: Dustin and Africa, when Charae and Marlow have their If

1481
01:15:29,479 --> 01:15:34,000
Speaker 1: y'all watched that scene, Charae Claudia is this fight, this

1482
01:15:34,000 --> 01:15:38,240
Speaker 1: this verbal fight between her and Marlow. She goes, and

1483
01:15:38,640 --> 01:15:41,559
Speaker 1: I was there and I knew what Charay meant. She goes, Oh,

1484
01:15:41,640 --> 01:15:46,840
Speaker 1: I see what you're doing. We're good, good, good now

1485
01:15:47,400 --> 01:15:51,120
Speaker 1: saying you are a friend of you want to peach

1486
01:15:52,360 --> 01:15:55,160
Speaker 1: you need an argument with me? I got it and

1487
01:15:55,200 --> 01:15:57,559
Speaker 1: they and they were able to like move past it.

1488
01:15:57,640 --> 01:16:00,320
Speaker 1: I think that's what Wendy and KK doing.

1489
01:16:00,439 --> 01:16:02,639
Speaker 7: It seemed like two girls work like that, just got

1490
01:16:02,640 --> 01:16:05,200
Speaker 7: off work after all that argument.

1491
01:16:06,720 --> 01:16:08,600
Speaker 2: It didn't good.

1492
01:16:09,000 --> 01:16:11,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was too Sorry it wasn't as sharp on

1493
01:16:12,040 --> 01:16:12,639
Speaker 4: Bell today.

1494
01:16:12,840 --> 01:16:17,120
Speaker 6: But I will say that you actually you actually were.

1495
01:16:17,520 --> 01:16:18,040
Speaker 4: I tried.

1496
01:16:18,200 --> 01:16:22,719
Speaker 7: I was like, yeah, okay, it looked like two girls.

1497
01:16:22,760 --> 01:16:25,160
Speaker 7: I got off work because you took us through all that.

1498
01:16:25,280 --> 01:16:27,320
Speaker 7: Even the seal came up out of the water to

1499
01:16:27,400 --> 01:16:29,240
Speaker 7: clap and the like, I'm telling you go back and

1500
01:16:29,240 --> 01:16:31,719
Speaker 7: watch to walk off like that arm in arm Because

1501
01:16:31,760 --> 01:16:32,320
Speaker 7: if I'm.

1502
01:16:32,160 --> 01:16:34,479
Speaker 4: That mad at someone and a girl just laughed in

1503
01:16:34,520 --> 01:16:34,920
Speaker 4: my face.

1504
01:16:34,960 --> 01:16:36,960
Speaker 7: We ain't walking off like it look like two girls

1505
01:16:36,960 --> 01:16:39,519
Speaker 7: that just they got off work that Oh and they might.

1506
01:16:39,520 --> 01:16:40,120
Speaker 6: And then when I.

1507
01:16:40,320 --> 01:16:43,240
Speaker 7: Walked off like that, I was thinking things happens got

1508
01:16:43,320 --> 01:16:43,920
Speaker 7: us all emotional.

1509
01:16:43,960 --> 01:16:45,519
Speaker 4: They might be going to get a drink right now.

1510
01:16:46,520 --> 01:16:50,200
Speaker 4: And Kk's argument.

1511
01:16:51,840 --> 01:16:53,719
Speaker 5: As soon as Wendy sat down on that bench, I'd

1512
01:16:53,760 --> 01:16:55,200
Speaker 5: have been like, did you do your own makeup?

1513
01:16:58,080 --> 01:16:59,400
Speaker 3: She said, down on that bench?

1514
01:16:59,560 --> 01:17:00,000
Speaker 2: That's good?

1515
01:17:01,479 --> 01:17:04,440
Speaker 3: But yes, you know what I'm saying, Like I ultimately,

1516
01:17:04,960 --> 01:17:07,240
Speaker 3: they both pretty, they both dressed cute.

1517
01:17:07,360 --> 01:17:09,800
Speaker 5: I like seeing them on the show in scenes, whether

1518
01:17:09,840 --> 01:17:12,599
Speaker 5: they argueing and getting along. I'm just happy I'm looking

1519
01:17:12,640 --> 01:17:15,639
Speaker 5: at these two beautiful black women on my TV and

1520
01:17:16,040 --> 01:17:19,519
Speaker 5: I think that, you know, unpopular opinion here, but I

1521
01:17:19,560 --> 01:17:22,880
Speaker 5: think that Keana is giving a whole lot of substance

1522
01:17:22,920 --> 01:17:26,080
Speaker 5: to this season of dro Housewives of Potomac. I think

1523
01:17:26,120 --> 01:17:29,160
Speaker 5: that the addition of her friend Angel and everything that's

1524
01:17:29,160 --> 01:17:31,360
Speaker 5: going on with her, which we'll get to that, but

1525
01:17:32,040 --> 01:17:34,160
Speaker 5: I think with the addition of her friend Angel, it

1526
01:17:34,240 --> 01:17:37,280
Speaker 5: just shows like Keana has something to contribute to this

1527
01:17:37,400 --> 01:17:43,160
Speaker 5: French disfranchise, and I'm excited to see her Cherry blossom bloom.

1528
01:17:43,720 --> 01:17:46,800
Speaker 6: So I think you need to kea because.

1529
01:17:47,800 --> 01:17:50,559
Speaker 7: After the years on the reality shows, everyone starts to

1530
01:17:50,600 --> 01:17:52,800
Speaker 7: be like a Wendy, you know what I mean, like

1531
01:17:53,080 --> 01:17:57,280
Speaker 7: meaning and that's not a shade Winny, but more controlled more.

1532
01:17:57,640 --> 01:17:59,760
Speaker 7: I am doing this for the scene like kk's I

1533
01:17:59,800 --> 01:18:06,880
Speaker 7: come off more passionate, had but that's more Actually that's green.

1534
01:18:07,360 --> 01:18:09,960
Speaker 7: But that's actually what real life is. It's not so

1535
01:18:10,920 --> 01:18:13,559
Speaker 7: control like I'm just doing this forst scene laughing. In

1536
01:18:13,600 --> 01:18:15,840
Speaker 7: real life, a bitch laughs in my face like that,

1537
01:18:17,520 --> 01:18:18,200
Speaker 7: what's good?

1538
01:18:18,680 --> 01:18:20,920
Speaker 4: Oh you laugh? What's funny? I'm a comedian. I'm not

1539
01:18:21,000 --> 01:18:22,479
Speaker 4: here to entertain you, you know what I mean?

1540
01:18:25,560 --> 01:18:27,240
Speaker 3: She laughing in your face? Next thing you had her

1541
01:18:27,320 --> 01:18:29,360
Speaker 3: in real life was that splash of her going in

1542
01:18:29,360 --> 01:18:35,639
Speaker 3: that water. That's the difference. That's real life.

1543
01:18:36,680 --> 01:18:41,360
Speaker 7: KK brings us like, gives us like unpolished, raw emotion,

1544
01:18:42,040 --> 01:18:44,280
Speaker 7: but it is what it is and not so in

1545
01:18:44,320 --> 01:18:46,680
Speaker 7: my head and the scene she's more in a hearts

1546
01:18:46,680 --> 01:18:49,200
Speaker 7: more in the scene, KK is more in a heart.

1547
01:18:49,600 --> 01:18:52,880
Speaker 7: So there's a difference, and it looks like outclassed.

1548
01:18:52,960 --> 01:18:53,200
Speaker 4: Huh.

1549
01:18:53,520 --> 01:18:55,840
Speaker 5: Her mama is too. Did you see how her mama

1550
01:18:55,960 --> 01:18:57,120
Speaker 5: was watching that conversation?

1551
01:18:57,240 --> 01:18:57,760
Speaker 3: From the town.

1552
01:18:59,200 --> 01:19:01,080
Speaker 5: Her mama had to get up and go stand up

1553
01:19:01,080 --> 01:19:03,240
Speaker 5: and lean on it. Was it a mantle or something

1554
01:19:03,240 --> 01:19:04,720
Speaker 5: that her mom went and leaned up on it.

1555
01:19:04,800 --> 01:19:10,240
Speaker 7: She looked like, Mama's already like, Okay.

1556
01:19:08,920 --> 01:19:11,639
Speaker 5: That's still my child that y'all are talking to, and

1557
01:19:11,680 --> 01:19:14,680
Speaker 5: I am fin it's taking everything I got not to

1558
01:19:14,760 --> 01:19:16,120
Speaker 5: jump in these ropes right now.

1559
01:19:16,200 --> 01:19:18,320
Speaker 3: That's what you can see in her face, So I

1560
01:19:18,360 --> 01:19:20,760
Speaker 3: know there's more there. Carlos, you're a producer. I know

1561
01:19:20,800 --> 01:19:21,320
Speaker 3: you see this.

1562
01:19:21,880 --> 01:19:27,040
Speaker 4: And though that'll be used against they'll try to demonize

1563
01:19:27,040 --> 01:19:27,320
Speaker 4: that and.

1564
01:19:27,280 --> 01:19:29,880
Speaker 7: Make it like she's ghetto or she's a hot head,

1565
01:19:29,880 --> 01:19:33,360
Speaker 7: but that's actually how they don't react in that circumstance

1566
01:19:33,400 --> 01:19:36,040
Speaker 7: when someone laughs in your face or tries you, and

1567
01:19:36,120 --> 01:19:38,680
Speaker 7: real life people forget, like real life, what would you

1568
01:19:38,720 --> 01:19:40,400
Speaker 7: really do if someone laugh in your face like that

1569
01:19:41,160 --> 01:19:44,400
Speaker 7: full badly laugh like with that mouth, like.

1570
01:19:44,320 --> 01:19:44,960
Speaker 4: When you do that.

1571
01:19:46,320 --> 01:19:47,320
Speaker 3: Now, one thing I do.

1572
01:19:47,439 --> 01:19:51,000
Speaker 5: One point that I do want to make regarding Keana

1573
01:19:51,240 --> 01:19:56,559
Speaker 5: and and her history and stuff like that. I thought

1574
01:19:56,600 --> 01:19:59,240
Speaker 5: it was rich that Ashley and them thought that Stacey

1575
01:19:59,280 --> 01:20:02,960
Speaker 5: went too far are when alluding to a reference in

1576
01:20:03,240 --> 01:20:06,240
Speaker 5: Keana's situation with that girl that was Astley's friend and

1577
01:20:06,320 --> 01:20:09,479
Speaker 5: she had the physical altercation with when Stacey brought that

1578
01:20:09,640 --> 01:20:14,120
Speaker 5: up lightly and then in a verbal art argument right

1579
01:20:14,520 --> 01:20:17,240
Speaker 5: actually in them jumped right to all that you went too.

1580
01:20:17,080 --> 01:20:19,559
Speaker 3: Far and oh my god, like that's too far.

1581
01:20:19,680 --> 01:20:22,760
Speaker 5: But y'all can say her breath sinks, y'all can say

1582
01:20:22,800 --> 01:20:25,840
Speaker 5: she's lying about being divorced, y'all can call her every

1583
01:20:26,000 --> 01:20:29,040
Speaker 5: b word and hole in the world and shit and

1584
01:20:29,200 --> 01:20:33,120
Speaker 5: literally go all over this show saying her breath stinks.

1585
01:20:33,720 --> 01:20:37,160
Speaker 5: But it's too far for her to make a you know,

1586
01:20:37,360 --> 01:20:40,720
Speaker 5: take a slight dig regarding that situation. I just thought

1587
01:20:40,800 --> 01:20:42,320
Speaker 5: that was rich personally.

1588
01:20:42,640 --> 01:20:45,760
Speaker 1: No, And it goes to so you sort of like

1589
01:20:45,840 --> 01:20:49,320
Speaker 1: what we've all seen on these shows, the contradiction in

1590
01:20:49,439 --> 01:20:54,280
Speaker 1: terms of how one woman gets away with something that

1591
01:20:54,320 --> 01:20:56,759
Speaker 1: the other doesn't, and it kind of get her most

1592
01:20:57,000 --> 01:21:00,000
Speaker 1: alliance that they have, Right. So I do agree with

1593
01:21:00,200 --> 01:21:02,920
Speaker 1: you with that, and I agree with you too about KK.

1594
01:21:03,080 --> 01:21:07,360
Speaker 1: I think KK is great. I like her a whole lot.

1595
01:21:08,479 --> 01:21:11,800
Speaker 1: I like Angel, who she on the show. I think

1596
01:21:11,840 --> 01:21:14,800
Speaker 1: Angel is great. I do want to get into now

1597
01:21:14,960 --> 01:21:16,840
Speaker 1: what I love this.

1598
01:21:18,000 --> 01:21:19,760
Speaker 3: Do you trust Angel on this cast? Shit?

1599
01:21:21,520 --> 01:21:23,920
Speaker 2: Do? I? I think it's too for me to call.

1600
01:21:24,040 --> 01:21:27,160
Speaker 1: What I will say is Angel has what Claudia said

1601
01:21:27,240 --> 01:21:31,800
Speaker 1: KK has, which is this naivete of being new to

1602
01:21:31,880 --> 01:21:35,480
Speaker 1: the show. And I think when it comes to Angel,

1603
01:21:35,640 --> 01:21:36,960
Speaker 1: I think Angel.

1604
01:21:36,640 --> 01:21:37,960
Speaker 2: Is trying to find her place.

1605
01:21:38,479 --> 01:21:40,960
Speaker 1: Let me remind that he's trying to find her footing

1606
01:21:41,280 --> 01:21:45,280
Speaker 1: with this cast, because the elephant in the room is.

1607
01:21:45,280 --> 01:21:46,519
Speaker 2: She has watched the show.

1608
01:21:47,479 --> 01:21:47,959
Speaker 3: Duh.

1609
01:21:48,520 --> 01:21:51,519
Speaker 1: She has watched it, in my opinion, since season one,

1610
01:21:52,320 --> 01:21:56,040
Speaker 1: and she she already now.

1611
01:21:55,880 --> 01:21:56,799
Speaker 2: Her now her fault.

1612
01:21:57,280 --> 01:22:01,040
Speaker 1: She's come in with preconceived notions about these girls, and

1613
01:22:01,880 --> 01:22:04,720
Speaker 1: you kind of see that. And I think I think

1614
01:22:04,840 --> 01:22:09,839
Speaker 1: Angel is trying so hard to not be chin checked

1615
01:22:10,640 --> 01:22:15,040
Speaker 1: that when Gizelle did her job at stirring the pot,

1616
01:22:16,120 --> 01:22:21,920
Speaker 1: when Gizelle is making Gagelle is making sure that these

1617
01:22:22,000 --> 01:22:25,040
Speaker 1: ladies get into it, Let's just call it what it is, right,

1618
01:22:25,120 --> 01:22:27,360
Speaker 1: It's obvious, like okay, we all okay.

1619
01:22:27,560 --> 01:22:30,679
Speaker 7: Now, I'm like Gazelle, like she's always like she's ready

1620
01:22:30,680 --> 01:22:32,479
Speaker 7: to get it, pop in at all times and make it.

1621
01:22:32,760 --> 01:22:34,479
Speaker 4: She's not. She's making sure they earn that money.

1622
01:22:34,760 --> 01:22:36,479
Speaker 3: Always stir the pot. She must have that.

1623
01:22:36,680 --> 01:22:39,760
Speaker 5: Now, y'all are a certain a certain time, certain age.

1624
01:22:39,800 --> 01:22:42,280
Speaker 5: We all people of a certain age. Y'all remember them

1625
01:22:42,280 --> 01:22:44,599
Speaker 5: big ass fork and spoons that people used to have

1626
01:22:44,640 --> 01:22:47,559
Speaker 5: on the wall and they kitchen back in the day,

1627
01:22:47,920 --> 01:22:50,920
Speaker 5: a huge like fork and spoon and wool with. That's

1628
01:22:50,960 --> 01:22:53,559
Speaker 5: what Gazelle be stirring at pot with. Okay, I'm surprised

1629
01:22:53,640 --> 01:22:55,280
Speaker 5: we ain't seen that in her on the Wall and

1630
01:22:55,360 --> 01:22:59,280
Speaker 5: Hotel Gazelle, because she is constantly she she flat out

1631
01:22:59,400 --> 01:23:02,600
Speaker 5: told them. I literally busted out laughing when I was

1632
01:23:02,600 --> 01:23:05,400
Speaker 5: watching the show and she said to them, okay, because

1633
01:23:05,400 --> 01:23:07,400
Speaker 5: we're gonna talk about that next time we see each other.

1634
01:23:09,040 --> 01:23:10,320
Speaker 3: I screamed when.

1635
01:23:10,160 --> 01:23:14,000
Speaker 5: She said that, because I'm like, she don't reckon, she

1636
01:23:14,040 --> 01:23:15,240
Speaker 5: don't give a damn no more.

1637
01:23:15,479 --> 01:23:18,040
Speaker 3: This season in Gazel, it's like, I.

1638
01:23:18,000 --> 01:23:20,800
Speaker 5: Know why I'm here and Karen ain't here right now,

1639
01:23:21,080 --> 01:23:23,160
Speaker 5: so let me go on and fully slip into this role.

1640
01:23:23,240 --> 01:23:24,040
Speaker 4: I kind of like it.

1641
01:23:24,080 --> 01:23:26,680
Speaker 3: I like it, loved it. But I busted.

1642
01:23:26,400 --> 01:23:33,280
Speaker 1: Out, I see that being you if if if, if

1643
01:23:33,360 --> 01:23:37,519
Speaker 1: you are on another reality show ensemble, I see you

1644
01:23:37,560 --> 01:23:40,799
Speaker 1: being Giselle. I see you being somebody who's like, no,

1645
01:23:41,280 --> 01:23:43,680
Speaker 1: you said that, Well, like that's it said, Well, the

1646
01:23:43,720 --> 01:23:45,280
Speaker 1: next time we see each other, I'm going to bring

1647
01:23:45,320 --> 01:23:47,880
Speaker 1: it up to me, was what was the indicator of

1648
01:23:48,680 --> 01:23:50,800
Speaker 1: I'm going to bring it up on camera, which is

1649
01:23:50,840 --> 01:23:54,360
Speaker 1: why Angel made sure to have the off camera conversation

1650
01:23:55,040 --> 01:23:59,040
Speaker 1: with KK because she she she let's be clear. Angel

1651
01:23:59,080 --> 01:24:03,000
Speaker 1: told KK after that seeing Gazelle is doubling down on you,

1652
01:24:03,040 --> 01:24:06,200
Speaker 1: saying you chint check me, and Kak was like, I

1653
01:24:06,320 --> 01:24:09,439
Speaker 1: must have said it. I believe this is my opinion.

1654
01:24:09,840 --> 01:24:14,080
Speaker 1: I believe Giselle really spoke to the producers and said

1655
01:24:14,720 --> 01:24:18,920
Speaker 1: I'm not tripping. She said chin check right because she

1656
01:24:19,200 --> 01:24:24,160
Speaker 1: is sure she said it, and KK isn't. Angel messed up?

1657
01:24:24,479 --> 01:24:28,960
Speaker 1: And Angel, this is when you are new and you

1658
01:24:29,000 --> 01:24:33,000
Speaker 1: don't realize when you're being sunned. Okay, because Gazelle is mother.

1659
01:24:34,120 --> 01:24:41,040
Speaker 1: When you said to Giselle, tiya and Wendy look, because

1660
01:24:41,120 --> 01:24:44,439
Speaker 1: let's be clear, anybody checking me, especially based on what

1661
01:24:44,560 --> 01:24:45,080
Speaker 1: she went.

1662
01:24:44,960 --> 01:24:50,519
Speaker 2: Through last year, And I was like, if they caught it, Wendy,

1663
01:24:50,680 --> 01:24:54,400
Speaker 2: Wendy smart, are you referring doesn't do her voice? Please?

1664
01:24:57,479 --> 01:25:04,880
Speaker 3: So are you referring to incident that took Oh? Okay?

1665
01:25:04,880 --> 01:25:08,599
Speaker 3: Oh oh what? Oh? So you yeah?

1666
01:25:08,920 --> 01:25:12,200
Speaker 5: It was very much like a siren like on a

1667
01:25:12,280 --> 01:25:15,280
Speaker 5: level that was just just direct enough.

1668
01:25:15,320 --> 01:25:16,160
Speaker 3: So she would hit it.

1669
01:25:16,200 --> 01:25:19,800
Speaker 5: And what Angel did again just like great illustration you

1670
01:25:19,880 --> 01:25:25,559
Speaker 5: made Carlos juvenile novice, move right naivete when you say

1671
01:25:25,600 --> 01:25:27,519
Speaker 5: to them, oh, yeah, cause she ain't gonna do this.

1672
01:25:28,120 --> 01:25:31,040
Speaker 5: Anytime you make a statement like that about somebody that's

1673
01:25:31,080 --> 01:25:33,519
Speaker 5: not in the room, your ass is getting held to that.

1674
01:25:33,560 --> 01:25:36,720
Speaker 4: The next time, y'all are in the flashback scene and

1675
01:25:36,760 --> 01:25:37,439
Speaker 4: make you dumb.

1676
01:25:37,880 --> 01:25:40,439
Speaker 5: Yeah, and we ain't even got to hide it, said

1677
01:25:40,520 --> 01:25:44,639
Speaker 5: fut like, oh yes, they love.

1678
01:25:44,560 --> 01:25:48,800
Speaker 4: A flashback, make you lick dumb, saying exactly thing you said.

1679
01:25:48,840 --> 01:25:51,720
Speaker 7: I ain't never said that.

1680
01:25:52,040 --> 01:25:54,920
Speaker 5: I feel like Angel is calculated. I feel like she's

1681
01:25:55,000 --> 01:25:58,960
Speaker 5: very calculated, very strategic, and I feel like she's playing

1682
01:25:59,000 --> 01:26:02,080
Speaker 5: a game with her friendship with Kana that Keana is

1683
01:26:02,120 --> 01:26:07,680
Speaker 5: not playing with hers. And oh, I don't know how

1684
01:26:07,720 --> 01:26:08,519
Speaker 5: I feel about that.

1685
01:26:09,080 --> 01:26:13,040
Speaker 7: She does watch the show, because she did put some

1686
01:26:13,160 --> 01:26:15,640
Speaker 7: post something about what she does for a living, explained it,

1687
01:26:15,720 --> 01:26:17,799
Speaker 7: and they had something like a clip of us.

1688
01:26:18,120 --> 01:26:20,360
Speaker 3: Oh that's what's up. I'm glad she cleared that up

1689
01:26:20,560 --> 01:26:21,639
Speaker 3: and thank you for watching.

1690
01:26:22,439 --> 01:26:24,360
Speaker 5: But I feel like, you know what I'm saying, I

1691
01:26:24,720 --> 01:26:27,599
Speaker 5: just feel like there's some strategy there, you know what

1692
01:26:27,600 --> 01:26:30,360
Speaker 5: I'm saying, I feel like there's some strategy there, and

1693
01:26:30,400 --> 01:26:35,200
Speaker 5: I feel like I y'all know how I am about

1694
01:26:35,240 --> 01:26:39,960
Speaker 5: friendship and loyalty relationships. I don't like nobody playing with

1695
01:26:40,040 --> 01:26:43,759
Speaker 5: a friendship for the sake of whatever the fuck she's doing.

1696
01:26:44,200 --> 01:26:47,280
Speaker 5: And I know I wouldn't have handled my friend the

1697
01:26:47,320 --> 01:26:50,479
Speaker 5: way that she handled Kana so far on the show,

1698
01:26:50,880 --> 01:26:53,440
Speaker 5: and between the two of them, I've seen Kiana exercise

1699
01:26:53,479 --> 01:26:57,479
Speaker 5: a little bit more care with their relationship, and it

1700
01:26:57,560 --> 01:26:59,840
Speaker 5: seems like Angel has been willing to kind of put

1701
01:26:59,840 --> 01:27:02,080
Speaker 5: it out there and again that it's fair because they're

1702
01:27:02,080 --> 01:27:04,000
Speaker 5: on this cast together. You know, we got to follow

1703
01:27:04,160 --> 01:27:06,400
Speaker 5: the journey, the ups and downs. It's just a way

1704
01:27:06,439 --> 01:27:09,120
Speaker 5: you move. And even though we're only three episodes in

1705
01:27:09,280 --> 01:27:13,840
Speaker 5: or two three, we're three episodes in, right, I it's

1706
01:27:13,880 --> 01:27:16,120
Speaker 5: still early, so I'm not gonna call it just yet,

1707
01:27:16,240 --> 01:27:19,439
Speaker 5: but I'm seeing signs of her being willing to cross

1708
01:27:19,479 --> 01:27:22,840
Speaker 5: a certain line with that friendship that makes me uncomfortable.

1709
01:27:23,120 --> 01:27:23,960
Speaker 3: So we'll see.

1710
01:27:24,160 --> 01:27:27,439
Speaker 7: You know, it seems like when people go on shows,

1711
01:27:27,520 --> 01:27:31,240
Speaker 7: right and they make a pack before like Okay, look,

1712
01:27:31,320 --> 01:27:33,559
Speaker 7: we ain't gonna do that to each other, blah blah,

1713
01:27:33,600 --> 01:27:35,400
Speaker 7: But then you get in the scene and your friends

1714
01:27:35,479 --> 01:27:37,400
Speaker 7: like wild'n out. You're like, hold up, are we still

1715
01:27:37,400 --> 01:27:39,080
Speaker 7: sick about the pack? Or are you just doing this

1716
01:27:39,120 --> 01:27:41,120
Speaker 7: with the camera. I don't really know right now, And

1717
01:27:41,160 --> 01:27:43,839
Speaker 7: it seemed like like one still going by the old rules.

1718
01:27:44,040 --> 01:27:45,280
Speaker 4: That's what happened to me and Almrosa.

1719
01:27:45,360 --> 01:27:47,120
Speaker 7: We were on the show and we made that pack,

1720
01:27:47,240 --> 01:27:51,080
Speaker 7: like Okay, we're gonna not drag each other a celebrity apprentice,

1721
01:27:51,680 --> 01:27:53,760
Speaker 7: gonna we're gonna wait till like that we get each

1722
01:27:53,800 --> 01:27:55,840
Speaker 7: other until like the top five or whatever, and then

1723
01:27:55,960 --> 01:27:58,120
Speaker 7: it's all systems go, but let's not do it in

1724
01:27:58,120 --> 01:28:00,680
Speaker 7: the beginning, and early on her little snake ass of

1725
01:28:00,720 --> 01:28:03,920
Speaker 7: course immediately went to her default settings, which is evil

1726
01:28:04,040 --> 01:28:04,720
Speaker 7: and you.

1727
01:28:04,640 --> 01:28:05,360
Speaker 4: Know, violated.

1728
01:28:05,600 --> 01:28:07,840
Speaker 7: But I'm still thinking, wait, are we still going by

1729
01:28:07,880 --> 01:28:10,080
Speaker 7: the old thing? And you're just like you didn't give

1730
01:28:10,080 --> 01:28:12,800
Speaker 7: me the update, so I don't know. We'll we'll find out,

1731
01:28:12,960 --> 01:28:15,639
Speaker 7: you know. But usually you do that with a friend,

1732
01:28:15,680 --> 01:28:17,280
Speaker 7: if you're both or you know the person like, hey,

1733
01:28:17,360 --> 01:28:19,360
Speaker 7: let's be the newbies. Let's let's not do that to

1734
01:28:19,400 --> 01:28:21,600
Speaker 7: each other, and then one violates and you like, do

1735
01:28:21,640 --> 01:28:22,120
Speaker 7: I go with that?

1736
01:28:22,360 --> 01:28:24,559
Speaker 5: Or if you got to have a conversation like that,

1737
01:28:24,560 --> 01:28:27,559
Speaker 5: that ain't your friend. Sorry, anybody, your friend is not

1738
01:28:27,640 --> 01:28:32,600
Speaker 5: even going to consider putting you in a real, actual, uncomfortable,

1739
01:28:32,800 --> 01:28:34,440
Speaker 5: disrespectful ass situation.

1740
01:28:34,560 --> 01:28:36,559
Speaker 3: A real friend is never going to do that to you.

1741
01:28:36,880 --> 01:28:38,960
Speaker 5: So if you even have to set those kind of

1742
01:28:39,040 --> 01:28:41,680
Speaker 5: terms with the motherfucker, like, oh, well, you know we

1743
01:28:41,720 --> 01:28:45,120
Speaker 5: can't disrespect each other. What that's not your friend? You

1744
01:28:45,160 --> 01:28:48,599
Speaker 5: know you should like that. That's that is not a

1745
01:28:48,600 --> 01:28:51,080
Speaker 5: friend to me. And I would have known off rip

1746
01:28:51,120 --> 01:28:53,160
Speaker 5: when she stepped to me with that as we were

1747
01:28:53,200 --> 01:28:56,400
Speaker 5: approaching that celebrity Apprentice show. The minute she stepped to

1748
01:28:56,400 --> 01:28:58,120
Speaker 5: me with that sort of like okay, let's have a

1749
01:28:58,120 --> 01:29:01,440
Speaker 5: conversation about I'd be like, oh, okay, this ain't my friend.

1750
01:29:01,479 --> 01:29:05,839
Speaker 4: Well she was never like one of my a Hollywood friend.

1751
01:29:05,840 --> 01:29:11,600
Speaker 2: Like yeah, but I do agree that I think.

1752
01:29:13,840 --> 01:29:15,960
Speaker 1: The jury is still out on Angel in terms of

1753
01:29:15,960 --> 01:29:19,240
Speaker 1: her loyalty to KK. But what I will say is

1754
01:29:20,439 --> 01:29:24,519
Speaker 1: I I if I saw my friend who I got

1755
01:29:24,560 --> 01:29:27,760
Speaker 1: on the show, because let's be clear, Angels on the

1756
01:29:27,760 --> 01:29:29,280
Speaker 1: show because KK preferred her.

1757
01:29:29,280 --> 01:29:30,760
Speaker 2: They've been princey years.

1758
01:29:31,120 --> 01:29:33,240
Speaker 1: If I saw my friend who I referred to on

1759
01:29:33,280 --> 01:29:37,280
Speaker 1: the show, have what Dustin said, like this s like

1760
01:29:37,360 --> 01:29:42,439
Speaker 1: bravadoness right like, because let's be clear, I would feel

1761
01:29:42,479 --> 01:29:45,200
Speaker 1: some kind of way. And what was interesting to me

1762
01:29:45,439 --> 01:29:48,759
Speaker 1: is Gizilla and Wendy knew she just gave us something

1763
01:29:48,920 --> 01:29:53,000
Speaker 1: another run with. And that's exactly what happened at kk's

1764
01:29:53,000 --> 01:29:56,120
Speaker 1: house where you know, she's hosting this pre pre game

1765
01:29:56,160 --> 01:30:00,200
Speaker 1: event and they're trying to once again break up this

1766
01:30:00,280 --> 01:30:03,040
Speaker 1: issue with Wendy and KK and Whty's pain get once

1767
01:30:03,120 --> 01:30:06,920
Speaker 1: again and flipped it and was like, but Angel, you're

1768
01:30:06,960 --> 01:30:12,360
Speaker 1: the one who brought up the friend Astley's friend who

1769
01:30:12,400 --> 01:30:17,519
Speaker 1: assaulted her. And Giselle is like, well, KK, you're telling

1770
01:30:17,560 --> 01:30:19,680
Speaker 1: her out in say chin check, so you're pretty much

1771
01:30:19,720 --> 01:30:23,519
Speaker 1: calling me a liar and they're now doing what they did.

1772
01:30:23,680 --> 01:30:28,240
Speaker 1: Giselle's job, which he successfully did, was to bring it

1773
01:30:28,320 --> 01:30:31,879
Speaker 1: back to the two of you, Angel and KK having issues.

1774
01:30:32,479 --> 01:30:35,360
Speaker 1: And it was evident to me when KK apologized again

1775
01:30:36,120 --> 01:30:38,960
Speaker 1: that Angel called her after the scene and told it

1776
01:30:39,000 --> 01:30:42,559
Speaker 1: what happened. I will say that most reality stars doing

1777
01:30:42,600 --> 01:30:45,240
Speaker 1: their new I'm not gonna say who did a child,

1778
01:30:49,280 --> 01:30:57,240
Speaker 1: there are reality stars who after every scene they call

1779
01:30:57,400 --> 01:31:02,240
Speaker 1: somebody and they tell them exactly actly what happened. And

1780
01:31:02,360 --> 01:31:06,240
Speaker 1: there's two reality star friends who aren't friends till this

1781
01:31:06,400 --> 01:31:12,479
Speaker 1: day because one of them felt that you should have

1782
01:31:12,600 --> 01:31:15,599
Speaker 1: called me to tell what was going on, and that

1783
01:31:15,840 --> 01:31:19,479
Speaker 1: woman did it and their friendship was never the same

1784
01:31:19,600 --> 01:31:19,960
Speaker 1: after that.

1785
01:31:20,840 --> 01:31:24,719
Speaker 2: I'm telling you hot work. I have a short memories.

1786
01:31:25,600 --> 01:31:29,040
Speaker 4: Which franchise I'm not gonna tell you. Even if I

1787
01:31:29,080 --> 01:31:32,360
Speaker 4: tell you the franchise Atlanta, I don't know.

1788
01:31:32,439 --> 01:31:34,760
Speaker 2: It could have been Rhode Island, I don't remember.

1789
01:31:35,960 --> 01:31:36,200
Speaker 3: Which.

1790
01:31:36,200 --> 01:31:41,759
Speaker 5: I'm excited about low key me to so Shane and Mocha.

1791
01:31:41,680 --> 01:31:43,840
Speaker 7: Should be on there too. Former Missy would say that

1792
01:31:43,960 --> 01:31:45,000
Speaker 7: was Mary Tras Barker.

1793
01:31:45,040 --> 01:31:47,240
Speaker 3: I love her, by the way.

1794
01:31:47,680 --> 01:31:51,880
Speaker 7: Yeah, she's a badass. You know she punched Paris Hills

1795
01:31:51,880 --> 01:31:56,240
Speaker 7: in the face. You know that, right, mm hmm at

1796
01:31:56,240 --> 01:31:57,080
Speaker 7: the High Nightclub.

1797
01:31:57,800 --> 01:32:03,040
Speaker 3: You were there, Claudia know.

1798
01:32:07,120 --> 01:32:10,160
Speaker 4: She she she's a little SHA's little gangster like. She's

1799
01:32:10,200 --> 01:32:10,759
Speaker 4: not a punk.

1800
01:32:11,400 --> 01:32:14,479
Speaker 2: She looked like I loved her Hollywood excess. Yep, she's

1801
01:32:14,479 --> 01:32:15,960
Speaker 2: not that great.

1802
01:32:16,160 --> 01:32:17,280
Speaker 4: She's not about that bullshit.

1803
01:32:17,280 --> 01:32:18,880
Speaker 7: You will not sleep with a man and smile on

1804
01:32:18,880 --> 01:32:20,240
Speaker 7: her face like they do in Hollywood.

1805
01:32:20,760 --> 01:32:22,599
Speaker 4: Girl. No, it's no, no.

1806
01:32:23,120 --> 01:32:29,759
Speaker 1: No, Well happen up a topic now, But do y'all

1807
01:32:30,080 --> 01:32:37,760
Speaker 1: think that Angel and Kk's friendship will last because just

1808
01:32:37,800 --> 01:32:41,600
Speaker 1: that it's like you said, it's only three episodes, and

1809
01:32:41,840 --> 01:32:42,360
Speaker 1: I don't.

1810
01:32:42,200 --> 01:32:43,479
Speaker 2: See a twit of your friendship.

1811
01:32:43,600 --> 01:32:47,640
Speaker 7: No shade, no, Remember I said before when she corrected her,

1812
01:32:47,680 --> 01:32:49,320
Speaker 7: she said, what have you reached out to her son

1813
01:32:50,560 --> 01:32:51,200
Speaker 7: about the kisses?

1814
01:32:52,000 --> 01:32:52,080
Speaker 1: That?

1815
01:32:52,600 --> 01:32:55,600
Speaker 7: To me, that was a sign of a crack. That

1816
01:32:55,920 --> 01:32:58,160
Speaker 7: was because for you to do that calle frontal like that.

1817
01:32:59,160 --> 01:33:00,760
Speaker 7: At first, I was like, Okay, maybe she because she's

1818
01:33:00,760 --> 01:33:02,320
Speaker 7: coming from a place for mother. But the Marny's aught

1819
01:33:02,360 --> 01:33:05,760
Speaker 7: about it, she's been wanting to get something off her chest.

1820
01:33:07,080 --> 01:33:09,840
Speaker 7: Right if the passive aggress like she's been having started

1821
01:33:09,840 --> 01:33:11,519
Speaker 7: to having, they I bet you there with some other

1822
01:33:11,520 --> 01:33:14,160
Speaker 7: stuff that happened that wasn't addressed. So when you get

1823
01:33:14,160 --> 01:33:16,160
Speaker 7: a chance to call your friend out you, that's what

1824
01:33:16,200 --> 01:33:18,120
Speaker 7: they that's the people do that are not really quite

1825
01:33:18,200 --> 01:33:20,120
Speaker 7: there to confront you but what the real issue is.

1826
01:33:20,160 --> 01:33:23,000
Speaker 4: But they'll start with little things like hmm, well that's

1827
01:33:23,000 --> 01:33:24,000
Speaker 4: not what you said yesterday.

1828
01:33:24,640 --> 01:33:28,799
Speaker 7: Remember I told you women friendships, female friendships subtle little

1829
01:33:28,840 --> 01:33:32,080
Speaker 7: things mean a lot. They speak volumes. Because your girl

1830
01:33:32,080 --> 01:33:34,280
Speaker 7: would not do that. Your girl would be like you

1831
01:33:34,360 --> 01:33:36,600
Speaker 7: always right, even when you're wrong. But when you do

1832
01:33:36,640 --> 01:33:39,920
Speaker 7: that in front of a group of new people, there's

1833
01:33:40,000 --> 01:33:42,800
Speaker 7: something that she's not telling her. There's unresolved. There's something

1834
01:33:42,840 --> 01:33:44,800
Speaker 7: bigger she's mad at her about or has an issue with.

1835
01:33:45,040 --> 01:33:48,479
Speaker 7: Maybe she's like trust not trust her like she used to.

1836
01:33:48,800 --> 01:33:51,280
Speaker 7: There's something there and it will come out. If we're

1837
01:33:51,320 --> 01:33:54,360
Speaker 7: three episodes in and we're all seeing it. By episode seven,

1838
01:33:54,400 --> 01:33:55,599
Speaker 7: it's gonna be World War three.

1839
01:33:55,760 --> 01:33:59,040
Speaker 5: And y'all can miss me with that conversation of all,

1840
01:33:59,200 --> 01:34:01,120
Speaker 5: don't nobody on this people play along?

1841
01:34:01,200 --> 01:34:03,599
Speaker 3: The show will be boring if they get along. Robin

1842
01:34:03,640 --> 01:34:04,439
Speaker 3: and Gzell was on.

1843
01:34:04,439 --> 01:34:07,120
Speaker 5: That show for eight seasons together and never had not

1844
01:34:07,240 --> 01:34:11,240
Speaker 5: one argument, and nobody ever accused their friendship of being boring.

1845
01:34:11,760 --> 01:34:14,799
Speaker 5: There's a way to really be friends with a person

1846
01:34:14,960 --> 01:34:20,440
Speaker 5: on an ensemble cast reality show without your performance falling flat.

1847
01:34:20,600 --> 01:34:23,599
Speaker 3: And So I just am a person who don't believe

1848
01:34:23,760 --> 01:34:25,960
Speaker 3: in I just don't believe in.

1849
01:34:25,960 --> 01:34:29,080
Speaker 5: Going again, betraying my friends and shit, I just don't know.

1850
01:34:29,840 --> 01:34:30,679
Speaker 3: I'm just that way.

1851
01:34:30,840 --> 01:34:32,840
Speaker 5: Everybody know that, y'all know how I give it up

1852
01:34:32,880 --> 01:34:34,120
Speaker 5: on this shot when it comes.

1853
01:34:34,160 --> 01:34:36,000
Speaker 3: I don't believe in that.

1854
01:34:36,040 --> 01:34:39,559
Speaker 5: So I did not like what I saw from Angel,

1855
01:34:39,720 --> 01:34:43,080
Speaker 5: because that's who it belongs to. I saw Angel exhibiting

1856
01:34:43,200 --> 01:34:47,320
Speaker 5: characteristics that reflected a lack of respect for their friendship.

1857
01:34:47,640 --> 01:34:51,880
Speaker 5: And I just don't like what I'm seeing. I hope

1858
01:34:51,920 --> 01:34:54,839
Speaker 5: she proves me wrong because I love seeing her family.

1859
01:34:55,479 --> 01:34:57,439
Speaker 5: I love the fact that we'll get to see them

1860
01:34:57,439 --> 01:34:59,760
Speaker 5: purchase a home on the show at some point, like

1861
01:35:00,080 --> 01:35:02,960
Speaker 5: all the things that are exciting about watching rich people

1862
01:35:03,000 --> 01:35:05,519
Speaker 5: on TV. And you know what I'm saying. I love

1863
01:35:05,560 --> 01:35:07,920
Speaker 5: the fact that she's got a family that's willing to film,

1864
01:35:07,960 --> 01:35:10,800
Speaker 5: an extended family that's willing to film, a husband that's

1865
01:35:10,800 --> 01:35:11,880
Speaker 5: willing to participate.

1866
01:35:12,360 --> 01:35:13,679
Speaker 3: All the bones are there.

1867
01:35:14,120 --> 01:35:16,400
Speaker 5: I just see red flags when it comes to the

1868
01:35:16,400 --> 01:35:20,200
Speaker 5: way she's handling her twenty year friendship with Kana.

1869
01:35:20,520 --> 01:35:22,400
Speaker 3: I just see red flags. That's just me.

1870
01:35:23,360 --> 01:35:26,280
Speaker 7: Yeah, And don't choose this reality show to finally get

1871
01:35:26,320 --> 01:35:28,280
Speaker 7: you find your voice like we've seen other friendships like

1872
01:35:28,320 --> 01:35:31,280
Speaker 7: I'm Basketball wives, you know, like Jennifer and and Evelyn,

1873
01:35:31,280 --> 01:35:33,479
Speaker 7: where you know, you feel like you getting run over

1874
01:35:33,479 --> 01:35:34,720
Speaker 7: all the time, and you were, but then all of

1875
01:35:34,720 --> 01:35:36,400
Speaker 7: a sudden you want to pop off because now we're

1876
01:35:36,400 --> 01:35:38,880
Speaker 7: like wait, whoa whoa, Like you've been wanting to say

1877
01:35:38,880 --> 01:35:40,800
Speaker 7: this shit, you know, but they and then do it

1878
01:35:40,880 --> 01:35:42,920
Speaker 7: for the cameras. That makes it worse, Like pull me

1879
01:35:42,960 --> 01:35:46,040
Speaker 7: aside and be like, yo, well tomorrow, I'm mad at

1880
01:35:46,080 --> 01:35:47,640
Speaker 7: you about this. I haven't been telling you, but if

1881
01:35:47,640 --> 01:35:49,800
Speaker 7: I don't tell you now, I'm probably gonna be fucking

1882
01:35:49,800 --> 01:35:51,599
Speaker 7: mouthing off to you on the show, and probably I'm

1883
01:35:51,640 --> 01:35:53,920
Speaker 7: gonna be shady to you, and I don't want that,

1884
01:35:54,280 --> 01:35:56,479
Speaker 7: you know. But people don't like to confront each other

1885
01:35:56,560 --> 01:35:58,439
Speaker 7: and role life. They just do it when the cameras

1886
01:35:58,439 --> 01:36:00,360
Speaker 7: are on and doing it for the gram. Do it

1887
01:36:00,400 --> 01:36:02,880
Speaker 7: in real life where you have Sometimes the ship got

1888
01:36:02,960 --> 01:36:04,880
Speaker 7: to be uncomfortable. I had to call someone last week

1889
01:36:05,120 --> 01:36:07,040
Speaker 7: and it broke my heart to do it, but I

1890
01:36:07,120 --> 01:36:09,360
Speaker 7: had to do it because I've not all the stuff

1891
01:36:09,400 --> 01:36:12,160
Speaker 7: I preach about would be bullshit, and it's not fun

1892
01:36:12,240 --> 01:36:15,160
Speaker 7: to have to confront a friend. It is not, it's horrible,

1893
01:36:15,320 --> 01:36:17,040
Speaker 7: but if you truly care about them and you care

1894
01:36:17,080 --> 01:36:21,280
Speaker 7: about salvaging anything growing, you have to do it and

1895
01:36:21,320 --> 01:36:23,720
Speaker 7: not win cameras on because now that the camerason, I'm

1896
01:36:23,720 --> 01:36:25,240
Speaker 7: gonna resent you because I feel like you're trying to

1897
01:36:25,240 --> 01:36:27,120
Speaker 7: play me and embarrass me and you could have done

1898
01:36:27,120 --> 01:36:29,439
Speaker 7: the ship at your house while we're sitting there eating

1899
01:36:29,520 --> 01:36:31,160
Speaker 7: or drinking, and we could have been you know, we

1900
01:36:31,280 --> 01:36:33,000
Speaker 7: needed to be a witness our bullshit.

1901
01:36:33,560 --> 01:36:35,160
Speaker 5: And my thing is, we ain't even got to fuck

1902
01:36:35,200 --> 01:36:37,880
Speaker 5: with each other, So like we get, let's just fall out.

1903
01:36:38,000 --> 01:36:39,920
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. Don't play in my face.

1904
01:36:39,680 --> 01:36:42,120
Speaker 5: Don't pretend like you like me and then take these

1905
01:36:42,120 --> 01:36:45,600
Speaker 5: subtle jabs if anything, Just standing in it doesn't fuck you.

1906
01:36:45,680 --> 01:36:47,680
Speaker 5: I hate your guts, and we can fall out and

1907
01:36:47,720 --> 01:36:49,479
Speaker 5: then at least we know where we stand. You know

1908
01:36:49,479 --> 01:36:50,839
Speaker 5: what I'm saying exactly.

1909
01:36:51,000 --> 01:36:54,240
Speaker 7: Don't putting subliminals on Instagram stories?

1910
01:36:56,680 --> 01:36:57,200
Speaker 4: Is that to me?

1911
01:36:58,880 --> 01:37:01,240
Speaker 5: I love my friends, are expect my friends. I like

1912
01:37:01,320 --> 01:37:03,479
Speaker 5: to be a safe space for my friends. I think

1913
01:37:03,520 --> 01:37:06,799
Speaker 5: that's what it's all about. It's all about finding unique

1914
01:37:06,840 --> 01:37:09,960
Speaker 5: people in life that you can trust, and y'all can

1915
01:37:10,040 --> 01:37:12,519
Speaker 5: lean on each other and be vulnerable and really be yourself.

1916
01:37:12,560 --> 01:37:15,439
Speaker 5: That's the whole point of being friends. Why fake that?

1917
01:37:15,720 --> 01:37:17,960
Speaker 5: If you're not happy and I'm not happy and we

1918
01:37:18,000 --> 01:37:19,840
Speaker 5: don't want to be friends, let's just not fuck with

1919
01:37:19,880 --> 01:37:23,120
Speaker 5: each other. But that's not being each other's space. Harboring resentment,

1920
01:37:23,960 --> 01:37:27,240
Speaker 5: being fake, not being honest, like, that's to me, that's

1921
01:37:27,240 --> 01:37:29,280
Speaker 5: the worst kind of betrayal ever.

1922
01:37:29,840 --> 01:37:34,280
Speaker 7: Like and also just because you are uncomfortable and you're

1923
01:37:34,280 --> 01:37:37,640
Speaker 7: in a season of things feeling off, that doesn't mean

1924
01:37:38,040 --> 01:37:41,040
Speaker 7: throw the whole thing up, because guess what, in real friendships,

1925
01:37:41,080 --> 01:37:44,200
Speaker 7: you may sometimes have a thing where you I wasn't

1926
01:37:44,200 --> 01:37:44,840
Speaker 7: fucking with you.

1927
01:37:44,760 --> 01:37:47,439
Speaker 4: For whatever, so I didn't like with you how you moved.

1928
01:37:47,880 --> 01:37:50,439
Speaker 7: And you should appreciate the people in your life that

1929
01:37:50,479 --> 01:37:52,479
Speaker 7: are willing to confront you and say someuth to you

1930
01:37:52,520 --> 01:37:56,160
Speaker 7: that are that makes that's uncomfortable, because.

1931
01:37:55,880 --> 01:37:57,559
Speaker 4: That's probably who really cares about you the most.

1932
01:37:57,560 --> 01:37:59,080
Speaker 7: The people that are willing to do that, the people

1933
01:37:59,080 --> 01:38:02,000
Speaker 7: that don't say shit to her, Fuck it, it's not

1934
01:38:02,040 --> 01:38:02,519
Speaker 7: that serious.

1935
01:38:02,640 --> 01:38:03,080
Speaker 4: That deep.

1936
01:38:04,479 --> 01:38:06,800
Speaker 7: What it's deep for you and you confront and you

1937
01:38:06,880 --> 01:38:09,559
Speaker 7: tell them about themselves. That may not be your enemy.

1938
01:38:09,600 --> 01:38:12,360
Speaker 7: Sometimes the enemy is the person blown that smoke up

1939
01:38:12,360 --> 01:38:15,639
Speaker 7: your ass, saying all the proper things, the fun things,

1940
01:38:16,400 --> 01:38:19,360
Speaker 7: get building your ego up, telling you you right about everything,

1941
01:38:19,400 --> 01:38:20,160
Speaker 7: you're never wrong.

1942
01:38:20,439 --> 01:38:22,679
Speaker 4: That be your biggest enemy and the biggest lover.

1943
01:38:22,800 --> 01:38:24,960
Speaker 7: Be the one that confronts you about something and calls

1944
01:38:25,000 --> 01:38:27,280
Speaker 7: you out about when you're fucking up lovingly.

1945
01:38:27,400 --> 01:38:30,040
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, you know there's a way to do it.

1946
01:38:30,080 --> 01:38:31,559
Speaker 5: There's a way to do it when you care about

1947
01:38:31,560 --> 01:38:33,719
Speaker 5: a person, because ultimately, you want to see your friends

1948
01:38:33,760 --> 01:38:36,160
Speaker 5: be their best selves, right, You want to see them

1949
01:38:36,200 --> 01:38:40,800
Speaker 5: operating at a high functioning level that really represents who

1950
01:38:40,840 --> 01:38:42,960
Speaker 5: you know them to be. And sometimes they need a

1951
01:38:43,000 --> 01:38:46,400
Speaker 5: reminder that there's nothing wrong with Hey, I feel this way,

1952
01:38:46,439 --> 01:38:48,240
Speaker 5: you feel that way. Let's talk it out and come

1953
01:38:48,479 --> 01:38:51,400
Speaker 5: come back to where we belong in this friendship. It's

1954
01:38:51,400 --> 01:38:55,080
Speaker 5: okay to have disagreements, but that's different than being a

1955
01:38:55,120 --> 01:38:58,280
Speaker 5: dirty fucking snake and trying to do shit behind my

1956
01:38:58,360 --> 01:39:00,920
Speaker 5: back or throw daggers and funky but you know, just

1957
01:39:00,960 --> 01:39:03,759
Speaker 5: being nasty and mean, that's what I'm talking about.

1958
01:39:04,800 --> 01:39:08,559
Speaker 3: Stay away from that real So yeah, no.

1959
01:39:08,720 --> 01:39:10,679
Speaker 2: That's the thing. So, I mean, let'sen confronted.

1960
01:39:10,760 --> 01:39:14,519
Speaker 1: The way that Tia confronted Gazelle about her fashions and said,

1961
01:39:14,560 --> 01:39:16,040
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna take selfies from you.

1962
01:39:16,680 --> 01:39:17,559
Speaker 2: I thought, like.

1963
01:39:22,560 --> 01:39:24,360
Speaker 3: One hundred percent.

1964
01:39:26,240 --> 01:39:26,599
Speaker 6: Trying.

1965
01:39:27,160 --> 01:39:29,559
Speaker 5: And she's smart because that happened in the moment. That

1966
01:39:29,720 --> 01:39:32,240
Speaker 5: was quick, right, there was no delay, there was no

1967
01:39:32,280 --> 01:39:34,880
Speaker 5: words in between. She said, oh well, fashion fresh for

1968
01:39:34,960 --> 01:39:37,559
Speaker 5: you like, she went real quick straight to it, and

1969
01:39:37,600 --> 01:39:42,360
Speaker 5: I was like, okay, then Tia, okay.

1970
01:39:44,240 --> 01:39:46,799
Speaker 2: No, I like Toya a lot like I like Angel.

1971
01:39:47,280 --> 01:39:50,400
Speaker 1: My my spidy sisters does tell me something's gonna happen

1972
01:39:50,439 --> 01:39:53,280
Speaker 1: between Angel and KK two. I agree with you, that's

1973
01:39:53,439 --> 01:39:58,599
Speaker 1: the Claudia. But Tia was great this episode. And it's

1974
01:39:58,640 --> 01:40:01,759
Speaker 1: funny because Tia is like how Stacy was last season.

1975
01:40:01,760 --> 01:40:04,799
Speaker 1: She's a slow burn like Tea is a slow burn.

1976
01:40:05,280 --> 01:40:07,759
Speaker 1: But I think we're all going to be really surprised

1977
01:40:07,760 --> 01:40:10,639
Speaker 1: to her. But look, another great episode of Potomac. Yes,

1978
01:40:11,280 --> 01:40:14,280
Speaker 1: Potomac is really really good this season, and I'm really

1979
01:40:14,800 --> 01:40:17,920
Speaker 1: happy about the direction the show is going in so far.

1980
01:40:18,080 --> 01:40:21,240
Speaker 2: So ray Jof let us know the comments what you think.

1981
01:40:24,320 --> 01:40:28,840
Speaker 1: Reality with the King is executive produced by me Carlos King,

1982
01:40:29,240 --> 01:40:33,200
Speaker 1: produced by Lizzie Nimitz, and a partnership.

1983
01:40:32,600 --> 01:40:34,719
Speaker 2: With The Lack Effect Network.

1984
01:40:35,080 --> 01:40:37,760
Speaker 1: You can also find us on my YouTube channel at

1985
01:40:37,840 --> 01:40:39,640
Speaker 1: the Carlos King Underscore