1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 1: Hi everyone, I'm Katie Curic and this is a bonus 2 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:11,680 Speaker 1: episode of Next Question Dadada. Today I'm sharing another stop 3 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 1: on my book tour, and this time it's Atlanta. Everyone said, 4 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 1: please don't say Hotlanta. Don't worry Atlanta. I'm not going 5 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:21,439 Speaker 1: to where I got to talk to one of my 6 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 1: favorite people. And yes, I'll be saying that a lot, 7 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 1: but it's true. The Barefoot Contessa herself in a garden. 8 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 1: So bonapatite. You guys are in for such a treat 9 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 1: because my next guest is one of my favorite people 10 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:41,560 Speaker 1: on the planet, probably one of yours too. Iin a 11 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 1: garden seems to iin a garden, to me, seems to 12 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 1: signify everything that is good in the world. Her very 13 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 1: name just makes you feel better, doesn't it. Her cookbooks 14 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 1: are my go to for everything from pants and ella 15 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 1: to pasta pesta with peas and pine nuts, which is 16 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 1: very alliterative. From her famous coconut cupcakes to her delicious 17 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 1: roast chicken, which we'll talk about. She's got her show 18 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:17,480 Speaker 1: on the Food Network. Of course, she's developing another show 19 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:20,960 Speaker 1: with guests. Maybe she'll invite me. A Muhlner fingers cross 20 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 1: and she's currently working on her cookbook. So please welcome 21 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:36,560 Speaker 1: Iina Gardens here. Oh my gosh, I know everyone's so 22 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 1: excited you're here. Um. I shouldn't say this, but you're 23 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 1: my favorite guests in all the cities, so don't tell 24 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 1: anyone secret. So so let's talk about because I think 25 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 1: during the pandemic, Iina, you were such a comforting presence 26 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 1: for so many people. Before that you were comforting presence, 27 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 1: but you spread such joy. And one of my favorite 28 00:01:56,360 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 1: moments was when you poured a giant cost abow that 29 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 1: was what he saw that it was more than the 30 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 1: size of our heads. Um, I think we actually have 31 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 1: a video you there we go what I would say 32 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 1: you no, stay safe, have a very good time, and 33 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 1: don't forget the cocktails. Did you drink that whole thing? 34 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 1: There's a bottle of vodka in there. Where did that 35 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 1: idea come from? Because it cracked me up. It actually 36 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 1: started out as an April Fools thing. And um, when 37 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 1: when the pandemic hit in the beginning of March, I 38 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 1: said to my assistance, let's go downstairs in the base 39 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 1: and clean it out and then we'll have room to store, 40 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:43,519 Speaker 1: you know, shelf goods and things like that for the year, 41 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 1: because I thought we were going to be in this 42 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 1: for a year or two. And there were these huge 43 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:51,280 Speaker 1: cocktail glasses martini glasses somebody gave us as a joke, 44 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 1: and I said, oh, let's throw these out. And my 45 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 1: assistant said, you never know when you're gonna need them. 46 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:58,839 Speaker 1: And I thought, I needs a cocktail glass like this, 47 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 1: and you needed that, then you thought so, Then I thought. 48 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 1: A month later, it was April one, and I thought, 49 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:06,959 Speaker 1: I'll do a little April Fool's joke. But as as 50 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:09,359 Speaker 1: you know, as it kind of evolved in my thinking, 51 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 1: I thought, nobody needs a joke the second week of 52 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:17,080 Speaker 1: the pandemic, so but everybody needs a cocktail. So I 53 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:18,920 Speaker 1: just decided I'm just going to do it straight. And 54 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 1: I had enough ingredients to make one of those. That 55 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:24,840 Speaker 1: was it. If I'm if I messed up the video, 56 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 1: I was in trouble, I had to make a totally 57 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 1: different cocktail. Well, it made everybody laugh, and I you know, 58 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 1: I love following you on Instagram because you have so 59 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:36,119 Speaker 1: much fun, and you know, I think it's given you. 60 00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:39,840 Speaker 1: I mean, you were already huge and so popular, but 61 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 1: it's kind of giving you this whole new presence and 62 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 1: such as a place where your fans can see you 63 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:50,119 Speaker 1: on a regular basis. It's amazing what it's done right. 64 00:03:50,360 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 1: It's funny when when the pandemic hit and my friend 65 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 1: of mine, who's the head of publicity and um at 66 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 1: my publisher, said, you know, you should be the person 67 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 1: that people go to if they don't know what to 68 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 1: do with the white beans in there in their pantry. 69 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 1: And I was like, I can't tell them that. I mean, 70 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 1: I don't know that. And I thought about it for 71 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 1: a day and I thought, well, let me see if 72 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:11,880 Speaker 1: I can. So I sort of posted a picture of 73 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 1: my pantry, which was funny because they were Ramen noodles 74 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 1: in there, and everybody went, she has Ramen noodles? Why 75 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 1: does she at college? I had bought them. I had 76 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 1: no idea what to do with them, but I ended 77 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 1: up making raman chicken noodle soup, which was actually great. Wow. 78 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 1: So you know, I think we both have because I 79 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 1: I love Instagram too, and I and I actually don't 80 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:37,679 Speaker 1: live too far away from each other in East Hampton. 81 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 1: And you know, there's something great about being able to 82 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:44,599 Speaker 1: talk directly to an audience. I was just completely blown 83 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:46,720 Speaker 1: away when I when I said, okay, I'll just try it, 84 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 1: and I started posting something every day and people were 85 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 1: talking to me, and it was all of a sudden, 86 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 1: I felt like I was connected again. It was really 87 00:04:55,800 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 1: incredibly satisfying. Love. I hear the answers which shocked, you know, 88 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 1: like what should I do with the white beans? I 89 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:05,279 Speaker 1: just I knew what to do. And there is something 90 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 1: really wonderful about the interactivity that you get, you know. 91 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:12,960 Speaker 1: I during the pandemic, Yeah, I did a lot of 92 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 1: videos about frontline healthcare workers, and you know, I try 93 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:22,679 Speaker 1: to post things like when they're these these tragedies and 94 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 1: they're these faceless victims, I try to to show human 95 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 1: that the humanize it and showed that these were people 96 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:37,159 Speaker 1: with with lives and families, and I think that's something 97 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 1: that that people forget when they hear statistics. So I 98 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:44,599 Speaker 1: I really like going direct to consumer, as they say, 99 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 1: and you probably never get trolls, do you, I mean 100 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 1: people who have nasty things to say about me? Yeah? Oh? Never, rarely, 101 00:05:56,440 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 1: I have to say, really I imagine, I mean, who 102 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:03,840 Speaker 1: would say something mean to Ainah? I get plenty of them, 103 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:09,320 Speaker 1: and I just blocked their asses that's a good play. Definitely. 104 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:13,360 Speaker 1: Um So, So I want to talk to Iina because 105 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 1: Iina is also writing a memoir, which is so it's 106 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 1: not gonna be like Katie's. I mean, she's in the 107 00:06:19,600 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 1: very beginning stages. But tell me a little bit about it. Well, 108 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 1: tell me first how you started. So you just decided 109 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 1: to do it. And I have to say, it was 110 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 1: so brave of you to really get you know, just 111 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 1: decide you're gonna put it all out there. You're going there? Yeah, 112 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 1: were there any times when you said to yourself, well, 113 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 1: maybe I shouldn't go there? Well? I did. I did 114 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 1: keep some things out, believe it or not. There's like 115 00:06:41,120 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 1: two things in my life that are still private but 116 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 1: didn't evolve. Or did you know going in that you 117 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 1: were going to do that? Well? I was working on 118 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 1: it for three years and I really wanted to write 119 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:56,280 Speaker 1: a book that felt like I was sitting down with 120 00:06:56,520 --> 00:07:01,280 Speaker 1: friends and sharing what it felt like to be in 121 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:06,040 Speaker 1: my position in all kinds of situations. And and John 122 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:08,839 Speaker 1: said to me, and it's all his fault. If you're 123 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 1: not going to be honest, you shouldn't write a book. 124 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 1: And so I really tried to just share myself with 125 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 1: people because I didn't want it to be like, uh, 126 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 1: you know, I'm great by Katie Curic. I wanted it 127 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 1: to be introspective and reflective. And I also did it 128 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 1: against the backdrop of pretty dramatic social change when it 129 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 1: comes to gender politics, race in this country, you know, 130 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 1: gay rights. I witnessed so much, and I wanted to 131 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 1: kind of talk about being front and center and having that, 132 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:46,640 Speaker 1: you know, front row seat to history. And then, you know, 133 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 1: there are a lot of people who've dealt with loss 134 00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 1: and grief and I never wanted to write about it 135 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 1: right after Jay died, i know, because I felt like 136 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 1: it was private, this was him. But twenty years later, 137 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:01,840 Speaker 1: I felt like I could share what I went through 138 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 1: because you know, I have so many people d M 139 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 1: me me, who have six spouses or who are dealing 140 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 1: with a terminal illness themselves, looking for support and guidance, 141 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 1: and I thought by sharing my story, maybe I could 142 00:08:14,840 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 1: help them, and you doc, I'm trying but wonderful. Well, 143 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 1: it was hard. It was hard to write. And one 144 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:26,120 Speaker 1: of the nice things I was going to say, is 145 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 1: is it kind? You know for my daughters. They were 146 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 1: so little when Jay died and writing about him when 147 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:36,199 Speaker 1: we met and fell in love. Um. You know, it 148 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 1: made their father come alive for them. And they both 149 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:43,560 Speaker 1: called me after reading the chapters and they were just sobbing, 150 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 1: and they said, thank you so much for writing this. 151 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 1: It's such a gift to us, so wonderful. But but 152 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:54,680 Speaker 1: tell me about tell me about your memoir, because you've 153 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:57,440 Speaker 1: actually been traveling to some of the places where you've 154 00:08:57,520 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 1: lived and grown up, etcetera. I'm working with a friend 155 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 1: of mine who's a writer and has written actually two 156 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:08,679 Speaker 1: memoirs with people, with Tina Turner and with Oprah, and 157 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:11,200 Speaker 1: she's just doing a lot of the research, like going 158 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 1: back and finding my high school friends, which has been 159 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 1: so amazing to reconnect with the you know, their women 160 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 1: that have changed their names twice. I don't know how 161 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 1: she found them, but she did, and it's just really wonderful. 162 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 1: So so they remember stories that I don't remember, and 163 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 1: they kind of trigger, you know, a memory for me. 164 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:33,960 Speaker 1: Um or Um. We went back to my my life 165 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 1: in Washington, which was in the seventies, late seventies, and Um, 166 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 1: I used to buy old houses and renovate them. So 167 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:43,319 Speaker 1: we went to see each one and the last one Um. 168 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 1: She just said to me, Okay, we're standing standing in 169 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:51,559 Speaker 1: front of the townhouse that I had bought and and 170 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:54,320 Speaker 1: I lived in when I moved to West Hampton, and uh, 171 00:09:54,520 --> 00:09:57,000 Speaker 1: and she said, imagine yourself on the steps. And I 172 00:09:57,160 --> 00:09:59,319 Speaker 1: just lost it. And I realized it was a really 173 00:09:59,400 --> 00:10:04,040 Speaker 1: painful ex parents that had completely forgotten. So actually being 174 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:07,800 Speaker 1: there and seeing it with somebody saying imagine yourself there 175 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 1: was really powerful. Did you find any of those experiences 176 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 1: where you didn't? I mean, how did you? Did you 177 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 1: have journals? Did you how did you remember? I don't 178 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:19,760 Speaker 1: remember anything. Well, I'm just making it up, guys. So 179 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:23,079 Speaker 1: that's why that's why I had to write it. Now. 180 00:10:23,480 --> 00:10:25,559 Speaker 1: You know, I'm sixty four, and I thought about calling 181 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 1: it while I still remember. You know, I'm a pack 182 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:32,960 Speaker 1: rat and so I'm not everything. Hell, you're like John, 183 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 1: he doesn't have a sentimental bone in his body. But 184 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:39,120 Speaker 1: I kept all my speeches, I had diaries, I had 185 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:42,439 Speaker 1: um you know, of course, and and the Internet is 186 00:10:42,559 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 1: really helpful because I could go back and look at 187 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:48,800 Speaker 1: stories I had done in the past, and the archivists 188 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 1: that all the networks were really generous and sending me 189 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:55,120 Speaker 1: material and you know, I kept, like my, my, my 190 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:58,400 Speaker 1: little flash cards from the two thousand and eight election 191 00:10:58,600 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 1: down in my basement, folders from our specials I had 192 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:05,480 Speaker 1: done on the Central Park Jogger. I mean, so I'm 193 00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 1: just happy I can now clean my basement. Honestly, I 194 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:10,640 Speaker 1: can throw those things and what's out. But you know, 195 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:13,480 Speaker 1: I think it is a very emotional experience. I think 196 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:15,959 Speaker 1: looking back on your life, and you know, you talk 197 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:18,560 Speaker 1: about Washington, and one of the one of the really 198 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:21,920 Speaker 1: interesting things of many things that I love about Iina, 199 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 1: is she actually started as a nuclear policy analyst in 200 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:30,440 Speaker 1: the in the Carter White House, right in the form 201 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 1: White House. I mean, I don't know, and I said 202 00:11:34,800 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 1: to Iah, well, what will you tell us what attracted 203 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:44,120 Speaker 1: you to nuclear policy? Doesn't sound attractive, It doesn't It 204 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:47,439 Speaker 1: doesn't sound very interesting to me. You know, I think 205 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 1: when when you know, it was in my twenties, and 206 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 1: I think I was writing policy papers that went to 207 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:54,959 Speaker 1: the president to make decisions. So it felt, you know, 208 00:11:55,040 --> 00:11:57,199 Speaker 1: it felt serious, and you know, I mean part of 209 00:11:57,240 --> 00:11:59,760 Speaker 1: me thought, I can't believe they trust this to year 210 00:11:59,760 --> 00:12:03,599 Speaker 1: old But but that's what I was doing. And I 211 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 1: like science. I find science really interesting, and so all 212 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:10,599 Speaker 1: of the scientific issues were interesting to me. Um. And 213 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 1: and the funny way, I think I find cooking science 214 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 1: as well. Ya, They're really related. So you just except 215 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 1: for one you end up with nuclear energy and the 216 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:21,559 Speaker 1: other one you end up with coconut cupcakes. I'll go 217 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:24,400 Speaker 1: for the coconut cut too. Well. So how did you 218 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 1: make the transition? So you're you're doing this wonky job 219 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:30,840 Speaker 1: in Washington, d c. Thinking there's got to be something 220 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:33,480 Speaker 1: more fun than this, right, and it's just not floating 221 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:37,600 Speaker 1: your boat, and you decide that we'll tell us about 222 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:42,640 Speaker 1: the how you got from nuclear policy to the barefoot contessa. Um. 223 00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:45,760 Speaker 1: I was sitting in my office one day, thinking I've 224 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:48,160 Speaker 1: got to do something else, and I was reading the news, 225 00:12:48,320 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 1: the New York Times, which I should probably should have 226 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:52,680 Speaker 1: been working, but I was reading the Times. And there 227 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:55,280 Speaker 1: used to be this thing called the Business Opportunity section 228 00:12:55,400 --> 00:12:59,120 Speaker 1: in the Times that had like cleaners, dry cleaners, and 229 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 1: like dell ease and head shops for sale. And there 230 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:06,079 Speaker 1: was a little specialty food store in a place I've 231 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:09,679 Speaker 1: never heard, I've really never been in the Hampton's And 232 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 1: I just thought, oh, that sounds interesting, And I went 233 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:13,079 Speaker 1: home that night and I said to Jeffrey, you know, 234 00:13:13,120 --> 00:13:15,400 Speaker 1: I really need to do something else. And he gave 235 00:13:15,480 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 1: me the best advice. He said, do what you love. 236 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:19,760 Speaker 1: If you love it, you really good at it. And 237 00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:21,559 Speaker 1: I said, you know, funny, you should mention it. I've 238 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 1: seen this little it was a tiny little ad and 239 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:28,880 Speaker 1: um and he said, and he said, let's go look 240 00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:31,400 Speaker 1: at it. And I think, now in retrospect, I think 241 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:33,880 Speaker 1: he was just humoring me. So the next day we 242 00:13:33,960 --> 00:13:36,840 Speaker 1: drove up to West Hampton and I saw this four 243 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:39,840 Speaker 1: square foot store, just like the size of this carpet, 244 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:43,720 Speaker 1: and they were baking chocolate chip cookies. And I thought, 245 00:13:43,760 --> 00:13:45,880 Speaker 1: this is where I want to be. And I just 246 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:48,719 Speaker 1: made her a very low offer, thinking, you know, she'll 247 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 1: come back, will negotiate, of time to think about it. 248 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 1: And we drove back to Washington and the next day 249 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 1: she called me on the phone and said, thank you 250 00:13:55,320 --> 00:13:58,080 Speaker 1: very much. I accept your offer. And I went, oh, Ship, 251 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:03,640 Speaker 1: now I have to do it. It wasn't supposed to 252 00:14:03,679 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 1: work that way. When we come back, the dish that 253 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:25,200 Speaker 1: almost broke Ina and the meal she'll never forget, I mean, 254 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:28,720 Speaker 1: Ainah and Jeffrey, let's let's talk about Ina and Jeffrey Shaoy, 255 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 1: I mean years. I mean it's like such a great 256 00:14:33,120 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 1: love story. And I was so moved when when you 257 00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 1: were talking to me about Jeffrey, because he has given 258 00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:45,760 Speaker 1: you so much, and he really gave you the power 259 00:14:45,840 --> 00:14:48,920 Speaker 1: to believe in yourself. You know your your parents were 260 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:52,960 Speaker 1: not as not supportive. They weren't supportive, and you know, 261 00:14:53,120 --> 00:14:57,240 Speaker 1: writing this book for me, I so was so grateful 262 00:14:57,400 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 1: for my mom and dad because I was always very 263 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 1: very close and they were you know, my friend Wendy 264 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:06,360 Speaker 1: knew my parents well and they just gave me such 265 00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:09,560 Speaker 1: an unconditional love and support. But you came from parents 266 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:12,240 Speaker 1: who were kind of withholding to say the least, there 267 00:15:12,280 --> 00:15:15,400 Speaker 1: were anything but supportive. They really thought I'd never amount 268 00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:18,640 Speaker 1: to anything, which is amazing and um, but you know, 269 00:15:18,760 --> 00:15:21,520 Speaker 1: in the end, you and I've talked about this, we 270 00:15:21,720 --> 00:15:25,360 Speaker 1: only need one person to really believe in us. And 271 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 1: it could be a teacher, it could be a parent, 272 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:30,320 Speaker 1: it could be a spouse, just one person who just 273 00:15:30,520 --> 00:15:32,880 Speaker 1: believes in you. And for me, that was Jeffrey, and 274 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:35,560 Speaker 1: my whole life turned around. And what was it that 275 00:15:35,840 --> 00:15:40,400 Speaker 1: he gave you that that made you could do anything? Anything? 276 00:15:40,440 --> 00:15:42,920 Speaker 1: I wanted to do and he would. He would put, 277 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:45,560 Speaker 1: I mean when I bought the store, it was twenty knowledge, 278 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:48,560 Speaker 1: which was I mean, if we had a thousand dollars 279 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:50,560 Speaker 1: to our name, that was a lot. You know. We 280 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:52,800 Speaker 1: got a loan for the rest of the money, so 281 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 1: we put in more money than we had, and he 282 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 1: was just like, just go do it. And uh, I 283 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:03,640 Speaker 1: think that's that kind of unconditional support is really extraordinary. 284 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 1: You know, he's become sort of a little bit of 285 00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:10,000 Speaker 1: a rock star too. I'm much more popular than I am. 286 00:16:10,840 --> 00:16:13,880 Speaker 1: What does he think when people make such a fuss 287 00:16:13,960 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 1: over him? Look at that? That is the cutest picture. 288 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 1: I think he likes when people make a fuss over 289 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:24,040 Speaker 1: me more than himself. Really does he feel uncomfortable with 290 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:26,200 Speaker 1: all the int Come on, he gets a kick out 291 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:28,480 Speaker 1: of it, doesn't he. He likes when people say, I 292 00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 1: like what your wife does. That's really sweet. That's nice. 293 00:16:31,800 --> 00:16:34,080 Speaker 1: And you know you mentioned one person, and I know 294 00:16:34,200 --> 00:16:36,320 Speaker 1: I mentioned this earlier, but I just have to tell 295 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 1: you all, especially because I'm here in Atlanta. Don Farmer, 296 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 1: who is Justin's dad who passed away this year, was 297 00:16:43,760 --> 00:16:47,240 Speaker 1: so so supportive me. Of course my parents were as well. 298 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 1: My dad was a big supporter, and he was a 299 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:52,480 Speaker 1: journalist and thought I could write. And I was a 300 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:55,400 Speaker 1: big procrastinator, so he thought I'd be good under deadline 301 00:16:55,400 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 1: because I never did my homework until I was waiting 302 00:16:57,680 --> 00:16:59,560 Speaker 1: for the School of Us in the morning. But but 303 00:17:00,000 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 1: on Farmer, you know, he he gave me an opportunity. 304 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 1: He worked with me, he nurtured me. And I tell 305 00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:08,920 Speaker 1: the story in my book. I walked into a meeting 306 00:17:09,040 --> 00:17:12,000 Speaker 1: at CNN. It was full of male executives and one 307 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:15,520 Speaker 1: young woman who was doing the promos. And the number 308 00:17:15,600 --> 00:17:19,359 Speaker 1: two guy at CNN said, well, that's not like Katie. 309 00:17:19,480 --> 00:17:23,399 Speaker 1: She's successful because of her intelligence, hard work and breast size. 310 00:17:24,280 --> 00:17:26,600 Speaker 1: And this was when I was twenty six years old, 311 00:17:26,680 --> 00:17:28,920 Speaker 1: and I was so taken aback and I came back 312 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:32,160 Speaker 1: to Chris and Donn they were a husband wife anchor team, 313 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:35,440 Speaker 1: and I said to them, this just happened to me. 314 00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:38,600 Speaker 1: I don't know what to what to do. And he 315 00:17:39,119 --> 00:17:42,240 Speaker 1: put a piece of typewriter in his IBM S electric 316 00:17:42,359 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 1: Google at you young people, and we wrote a memo 317 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 1: to the guy at the time aid no relation to 318 00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:54,080 Speaker 1: Ted Turner and basically, um, you know said what you 319 00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:57,320 Speaker 1: did was totally inappropriate. I would like you to apologize 320 00:17:57,359 --> 00:18:00,720 Speaker 1: to me immediately. And Ed Turner called and he was just, 321 00:18:01,320 --> 00:18:04,320 Speaker 1: you know, beside himself apologizing, And as I write in 322 00:18:04,359 --> 00:18:07,600 Speaker 1: the book, I loved having his nuts and advice. Um 323 00:18:08,119 --> 00:18:12,320 Speaker 1: is that wrong anyway? But but don really I think 324 00:18:12,359 --> 00:18:14,680 Speaker 1: in a way he slept the tone for me for 325 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 1: the rest of my career that I didn't have to 326 00:18:16,960 --> 00:18:19,840 Speaker 1: put up with that kind of guff. And you're right 327 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:22,720 Speaker 1: about one person kind of just being your champion, just 328 00:18:22,800 --> 00:18:26,120 Speaker 1: being your champion. You can do what you can do anything. Yeah, 329 00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:28,880 Speaker 1: And meanwhile, you've taken so many risks. And I think 330 00:18:28,960 --> 00:18:31,159 Speaker 1: that's something you and I have in common. Because you 331 00:18:31,680 --> 00:18:35,400 Speaker 1: left the White House. You then um, you know, bought 332 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:38,680 Speaker 1: The Barefoot Contessa. Then you sold that to two of 333 00:18:38,760 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 1: your employees. Then you decided I'm going to write start 334 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:44,920 Speaker 1: writing cookbooks. No, I decided I would write a cookbook 335 00:18:44,920 --> 00:18:46,919 Speaker 1: while I figured out what to do with myself. Oh, 336 00:18:47,000 --> 00:18:50,399 Speaker 1: that's just a transitional project. Well it worked out pretty 337 00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 1: worked out, really well. But but I don't know, you 338 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:56,720 Speaker 1: weren't earnous about writing a cookbook. I didn't think I 339 00:18:56,760 --> 00:18:59,600 Speaker 1: knew anything about writing a cookbook. And now you're on 340 00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:03,200 Speaker 1: your team. Yeah, it's great. I mean, I think my 341 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:05,320 Speaker 1: my philosophy of life is that you have to jump 342 00:19:05,359 --> 00:19:07,480 Speaker 1: in the pond. You can stand on the side of 343 00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:10,359 Speaker 1: the pond forever talking about what the pond is going 344 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:12,639 Speaker 1: to feel like, but you have to get in. You 345 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:14,560 Speaker 1: just have to jump in. And when I found out 346 00:19:14,560 --> 00:19:17,320 Speaker 1: when I was writing cookbooks, it was really fun. I 347 00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:20,159 Speaker 1: love the team of people that did the photographs. I 348 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:23,879 Speaker 1: loved um designing the books. I loved testing the recipes 349 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 1: over and over to make sure they're really good. I 350 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:29,000 Speaker 1: loved every part of that process. I love making sure 351 00:19:29,200 --> 00:19:31,960 Speaker 1: the binding was right so that the book stayed flat 352 00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:34,239 Speaker 1: when you um when you opened it, you don't want 353 00:19:34,280 --> 00:19:36,560 Speaker 1: the pages to go up. I mean every detail of 354 00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:39,240 Speaker 1: that book. As an I wanted it to be beautiful 355 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:42,560 Speaker 1: object as a gift, but also really accessible if you 356 00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:44,720 Speaker 1: wanted to use it as a cookbook. And I know 357 00:19:44,840 --> 00:19:47,720 Speaker 1: when you come up with recipes, Aina, you have to 358 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 1: you're very very exacting, aren't you. You have to. Really, 359 00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:55,280 Speaker 1: she's very controlling, actually controlling. That's why we get along 360 00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:58,320 Speaker 1: so well. But you you have to kind of have 361 00:19:58,480 --> 00:20:01,800 Speaker 1: a real plan and play right, take us with you know, 362 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:05,320 Speaker 1: kind of tell us how you develop a recipe, because 363 00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:07,720 Speaker 1: I'm fascinated by that. Well, first I have to have 364 00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:10,320 Speaker 1: an idea of exactly what I want the recipe to be. 365 00:20:10,840 --> 00:20:13,240 Speaker 1: So I'll take an early one like pan fried onion dip. 366 00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:16,520 Speaker 1: I remembered Lipton's onion soup mix, and I thought, I'm 367 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:20,080 Speaker 1: sure I can make something that's better with real ingredients. 368 00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:22,760 Speaker 1: And then I would just start cooking. I would just 369 00:20:22,880 --> 00:20:27,520 Speaker 1: start making sautet onions slowly caramelized and then add ingredients 370 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:30,639 Speaker 1: until I reach exactly what I have in my head 371 00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:34,159 Speaker 1: the flavor, the texture, the heat, the whatever it is 372 00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:37,520 Speaker 1: and um. And then once I've I've done that, I've 373 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:40,440 Speaker 1: written it down, I give it to at least one 374 00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:44,040 Speaker 1: other person, often two or three and watch them make it. 375 00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:47,320 Speaker 1: And I find out what somebody with a printed page 376 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:51,520 Speaker 1: does with that, with that recipe, and I learned so much. 377 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:55,320 Speaker 1: You know, somebody's like chopping onions and they'll go and go, 378 00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:57,399 Speaker 1: just stop. I want to know what your question was, 379 00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:00,600 Speaker 1: so I can answer it in the margin. So somebody 380 00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:04,520 Speaker 1: knowing you know, has the same question you have, they'll um, 381 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:07,159 Speaker 1: They'll just see the answer. There is there anything that 382 00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:09,440 Speaker 1: you just have not been able to master right. I 383 00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:11,760 Speaker 1: think I remember you telling me it wasn't a Boston 384 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:15,000 Speaker 1: Cream Boston Cream Pie. I've probably worked on that for 385 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:18,280 Speaker 1: six years. It's like it was like crazy I would 386 00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:21,879 Speaker 1: make it. It's it's complicated because it's the cake, the 387 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:25,879 Speaker 1: pastry cream and the chocolate glaze have to be perfectly layered, 388 00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:28,119 Speaker 1: and the textures have to work together. So if the 389 00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:30,920 Speaker 1: chocolate is too strong it overpowers the pastry cream, or 390 00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:33,480 Speaker 1: the cake is too boring, it doesn't stand up to it. 391 00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:35,879 Speaker 1: It's there's there's kind of a layering. And I had 392 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:39,600 Speaker 1: it almost right. And I had a um actually an 393 00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:42,520 Speaker 1: interview with Christina Tosie, who's the woman who wants Milk Bar, 394 00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:45,000 Speaker 1: and I said she she asked me the same question. 395 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 1: I said, I'm really close with Boston Cream Pie, but 396 00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:50,160 Speaker 1: the cakes a little dry. And she said, why don't 397 00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:52,920 Speaker 1: you try a soak, which is an orange juice, orange 398 00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:56,320 Speaker 1: zest and sugar syrup that you brush on the cake 399 00:21:56,800 --> 00:21:59,320 Speaker 1: and that kind of trickles down. It just flavors the 400 00:21:59,359 --> 00:22:01,560 Speaker 1: cake and it keep it moist. I went home that 401 00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:04,320 Speaker 1: I hadn't made it, and it was like bingo, that 402 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:09,679 Speaker 1: was exactly what I was looking for, and I think 403 00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:13,320 Speaker 1: it's in. It's in comfort food, modern comfort food. And 404 00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:17,680 Speaker 1: let's talk about your your famous chicken, because your roast chicken. 405 00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:20,960 Speaker 1: I make that all the time and it's been renamed 406 00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:24,760 Speaker 1: engagement chicken. And the genesis of the engagement chicken is 407 00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:27,240 Speaker 1: funny because I was at a party and is there 408 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:30,280 Speaker 1: a picture of engagement with the chicken? Yeah. I was 409 00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:32,080 Speaker 1: at a party and there were the young women from 410 00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:34,080 Speaker 1: Glamor magazine who came over to me and said, oh, 411 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:36,760 Speaker 1: we love your roast chicken recipe. We actually call it 412 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:39,600 Speaker 1: engagement chicken. And I said why and they said, because 413 00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:41,840 Speaker 1: every time a young woman in the office makes it 414 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 1: for their boyfriend, they're engaged within twenty four hours. That's 415 00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:50,359 Speaker 1: a powerful chicken, right. I was like, what do you 416 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:53,520 Speaker 1: would in that bird? Like love potion number nine? What 417 00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:57,040 Speaker 1: is it? And I think recently Emily Blunt didn't she say? 418 00:22:57,359 --> 00:23:00,480 Speaker 1: She told Ruth Rogers at um at River Cafe on 419 00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:03,119 Speaker 1: a podcast that she made it for John Krasinski and 420 00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:05,840 Speaker 1: he asked her to marry a register after works and wait, 421 00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:09,320 Speaker 1: and there was somebody else reasoning, oh, yeah, Megan Marco, 422 00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:14,720 Speaker 1: there you go. That's incredible, that's magical. What are someone 423 00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:17,359 Speaker 1: like that? Do you think are the most important skills 424 00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:20,960 Speaker 1: that you need to to learn in the kitchen? Um? 425 00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:23,359 Speaker 1: You know, I don't think you need to be a 426 00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:25,800 Speaker 1: restaurant chef. I think you need to know how to 427 00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:29,280 Speaker 1: make four things really well and just make them over 428 00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 1: and over and and really kind of get comfortable and 429 00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:34,919 Speaker 1: they don't have to be complicated. If you can make 430 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:37,640 Speaker 1: a roast chicken, you can make roast turkey, just takes 431 00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:40,320 Speaker 1: a little longer. Um, you can make um, I mean 432 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:43,560 Speaker 1: you can really. If you make roast broccolini, you can 433 00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:47,119 Speaker 1: make roast squash. Roasting vegetables is really easy. And you 434 00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:50,560 Speaker 1: and I were talking about how some tomatoes, yea simple 435 00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:53,040 Speaker 1: food is sort of the best. And I've been cooking. 436 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:55,520 Speaker 1: I cooked a little more during the pandemic. My daughter 437 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:58,960 Speaker 1: carries vegan and she was cooking all sorts of recipes. 438 00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:02,359 Speaker 1: And you know, I have a garden, and in the summer, 439 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:06,080 Speaker 1: if you have farm stands and you have this, there's 440 00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:08,680 Speaker 1: nothing like going out to have this really simple and 441 00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:13,119 Speaker 1: like taking one of those what I think to the 442 00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,280 Speaker 1: yellow ones. I have them do and and they're just 443 00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:18,359 Speaker 1: warm and delicious. They're like candy and that's why I 444 00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:21,360 Speaker 1: love cooking in the summer. Is that your favorite season 445 00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:23,760 Speaker 1: for cooking. I'm like cooking all the time. In the winter, 446 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:26,440 Speaker 1: I like stews and you know, like red one gray 447 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:28,919 Speaker 1: short ribs and things like that. But in the summer, 448 00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:31,480 Speaker 1: you know, when it's the farm stands have corn and 449 00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:34,400 Speaker 1: it's delicious, just cut it off the cob and sauntet 450 00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:37,520 Speaker 1: and butter, it's like you're done. Yeah, it's just really good. 451 00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:40,440 Speaker 1: And now you've got your your show, and I'm excited 452 00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:43,159 Speaker 1: about this new show you're working on. I know for 453 00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:47,040 Speaker 1: Discovery it's called be My Guest and tell everyone about 454 00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:50,080 Speaker 1: it because I know you've shot four episodes four episodes. 455 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:52,200 Speaker 1: Haven't seen it yet, so I'm hoping it's good. I'm 456 00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,680 Speaker 1: sure it'll be good. Um. And each each episode, I 457 00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,200 Speaker 1: invite somebody that I want to talk to, and so 458 00:24:57,320 --> 00:25:02,000 Speaker 1: I invited Willie Guys too is with but Today's show MSNBC, 459 00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:07,199 Speaker 1: and uh Sunday to Sunday Today is Sunday Today. Um. 460 00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:10,040 Speaker 1: So my first guest was like a great interviewer. So 461 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,560 Speaker 1: I was really nervous, like you were doing the interviews, 462 00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:15,879 Speaker 1: doing the interviews, and it would happened over the pandemic 463 00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:18,840 Speaker 1: is usually people were interviewing me, but people started asking 464 00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:21,080 Speaker 1: me to interview them, and I was like, I'm not 465 00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:25,440 Speaker 1: a journalist. I was really surprised, like like m John Grisham, 466 00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:30,800 Speaker 1: I mean people not even in the food field, Stanley Tucci, you, um, 467 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:33,960 Speaker 1: And I just thought this is so interesting. Maybe I'll 468 00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:37,160 Speaker 1: just kind of follow that stream. And really it's really 469 00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:39,919 Speaker 1: the art of conversation and you do it around cooking, 470 00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:42,520 Speaker 1: and this is the best job in the world. You 471 00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:44,600 Speaker 1: can ask somebody that you think is really interesting to 472 00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:46,640 Speaker 1: come over for the day and have a good time 473 00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:49,440 Speaker 1: with them. I mean, that's what you do. It'sous and 474 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:54,760 Speaker 1: you're really good at it. And you had Julians and 475 00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:57,240 Speaker 1: my friends Rob Marshall and John DeLuca, who are the 476 00:25:57,560 --> 00:26:02,880 Speaker 1: producer and director of major movies like Chicago and Mary 477 00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:07,000 Speaker 1: Poppins Returns and just wonderful movies. And then in French 478 00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:08,600 Speaker 1: and there's a woman whose name I don't know how 479 00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:11,200 Speaker 1: many people know her. Her name is Aaron French. She's 480 00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:14,080 Speaker 1: the owner of a restaurant in Main called Lost Lost Kitchen. 481 00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:18,639 Speaker 1: Does anybody know her? Yeah, she just wrote in the 482 00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:24,640 Speaker 1: last year about really her harrowing uh, sort of brings straordinary, 483 00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:29,640 Speaker 1: extraordinary journey to the hardest restaurant in America to get into. 484 00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:31,639 Speaker 1: In order to get into this restaurant in Maine, it's 485 00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:35,280 Speaker 1: in the middle of nowhere town of seven hundred nineteen people, 486 00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:38,680 Speaker 1: they count exactly how many people aren't down. Um, you 487 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:41,440 Speaker 1: have to send in a postcard by April one, and 488 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:45,119 Speaker 1: by lottery they pick out every single reservation for the 489 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:49,440 Speaker 1: entire season on April one. And people try for years 490 00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:52,440 Speaker 1: to get into this restaurant. I actually haven't gotten in yet. Yeah, 491 00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,840 Speaker 1: I think somehow something tells me. But she's really able 492 00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:58,680 Speaker 1: to get extraordinary, extraordinary woman. Yeah, and there's a she 493 00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:02,360 Speaker 1: has a areas I'm discovery now, which is wonderful called 494 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:05,720 Speaker 1: Moss Kitchen. Someone's in the kitchen with Dina, and I 495 00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:09,560 Speaker 1: guess that's me get it. Only people of a certain age, 496 00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:20,520 Speaker 1: probably anyway more with einor Garten. Right after this, I 497 00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:24,240 Speaker 1: was interested in your views on aging because I'll be 498 00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:33,040 Speaker 1: jam child and and you know, I think, especially women, 499 00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:36,680 Speaker 1: we still have so much to offer and still have 500 00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:40,280 Speaker 1: so much energy. And how are you feeling about getting 501 00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:45,240 Speaker 1: a little the maturing process a little creekier, but the 502 00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:48,600 Speaker 1: brain is still working just fine. Um, you know, I 503 00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:50,520 Speaker 1: think you can spend a lot of time worrying about it. 504 00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:53,040 Speaker 1: It's just not worth it because it's gonna happen anyway, 505 00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:55,399 Speaker 1: I think, Um, I mean, I think the key is 506 00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:58,840 Speaker 1: really staying engaged and doing things that you love doing 507 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:03,000 Speaker 1: and just um, I mean, I just I hope they 508 00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:07,160 Speaker 1: drag me up by my feet. I'm getting curious and interested. 509 00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:09,560 Speaker 1: And you know what's great about you and I hope 510 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:11,880 Speaker 1: that I have some of this too, is that we're 511 00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:15,320 Speaker 1: always looking for new challenges at the same time really 512 00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:19,520 Speaker 1: kind of appreciating staying in the moment and being present 513 00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:22,400 Speaker 1: or whatever. And I'm worry about the future. Just doing 514 00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:24,600 Speaker 1: just so we do. You and I do the same 515 00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:27,320 Speaker 1: thing we do, we do really well, and the next 516 00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:31,320 Speaker 1: thing just it shows up. You describe something about like 517 00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:35,840 Speaker 1: being on a in a stream. A friend of mine 518 00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:38,880 Speaker 1: who's a therapist, said that, Um, we're all in a stream, 519 00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:41,440 Speaker 1: and we're swimming in a stream. And if you keep 520 00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:44,320 Speaker 1: hitting against the river banks, you're in the wrong stream. 521 00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:47,000 Speaker 1: But if the stream is carrying you along, then you're 522 00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:49,400 Speaker 1: in the right stream. But you also have to relax 523 00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:51,880 Speaker 1: enough to let the stream get in the pond in 524 00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:54,400 Speaker 1: order to get in the stream. You can't. You can't 525 00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:57,320 Speaker 1: do it from the river bank in the stream. Lots 526 00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:00,360 Speaker 1: of water analogies here. Okay, so I have a couple 527 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:03,400 Speaker 1: of questions. Um, oh, what was your biggest cooking disaster? 528 00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:09,600 Speaker 1: Me cooking disaster? I think once, when Jeffrey and I 529 00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:11,600 Speaker 1: were first married, I made something with ground beef and 530 00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:15,920 Speaker 1: corn that was awful. Really, that sounds it was awful 531 00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:19,600 Speaker 1: like Hamburger helpers. I think it probably tasted like Hamburger helper. 532 00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:24,200 Speaker 1: What was What's Jeffrey's favorite dish? Probably roast chicken. Really, 533 00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:27,240 Speaker 1: I would say that the last thing that I made, 534 00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 1: whatever I've made for him. He goes, it's the best 535 00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:32,080 Speaker 1: thing you've ever made. I mean, is that a good 536 00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:36,480 Speaker 1: husband or one? We all need a Jeffrey in our lives. Okay, 537 00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:40,400 Speaker 1: so here's some rapid fire questions for me as well. 538 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:45,120 Speaker 1: All right, Aina, what's your favorite junk food? Come on, 539 00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:51,720 Speaker 1: favorite chunk food? I don't know as ice cream junk food? No? No, 540 00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:55,240 Speaker 1: do you like any kind of like? I don't? Don't 541 00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:58,200 Speaker 1: you don't? Really? Right? Well, I'm sorry, that's all right. 542 00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:01,600 Speaker 1: I like that. Oh ships in that category? I like 543 00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:05,480 Speaker 1: what foods do you absolutely hate? Oh? I know the 544 00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:12,680 Speaker 1: answer to this, Cilantro. No. I love Cilantro. Okay, what 545 00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:15,400 Speaker 1: would be your last meal if you had to pick it? 546 00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:18,800 Speaker 1: You know? I had somebody made a meal for me 547 00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:22,160 Speaker 1: in Paris that was incredible. My favorite thing in the 548 00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:25,280 Speaker 1: world is Chateo we Kim so turn, which is like 549 00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:28,440 Speaker 1: a sweet dessert wine. And she served every single course 550 00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:31,000 Speaker 1: with Chateo we Kim, which sounds crazy like you wouldn't 551 00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:34,320 Speaker 1: drink a sweet dessert wine for a main course. But 552 00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:37,520 Speaker 1: she served fog raw with Chateo we Kim, which goes 553 00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:40,800 Speaker 1: together really well. And then she made lobster with grapefruit 554 00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:43,960 Speaker 1: with a little cheto we kim with sturn, which just delicious, 555 00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:47,200 Speaker 1: and an apple tart. That was my favorite meal ever. Really, 556 00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:50,000 Speaker 1: it was just the simplicity of it, and that every 557 00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:52,440 Speaker 1: course was served with sweet dessert one was just in 558 00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:57,280 Speaker 1: so luxurious. Okay, that's a good one. Um. I was 559 00:30:57,320 --> 00:31:00,120 Speaker 1: going to say what food I hated is is that 560 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:04,400 Speaker 1: I would never eats just what shad row? Oh God, 561 00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:07,320 Speaker 1: do you like that? Don't? I don't like odd things. 562 00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:09,880 Speaker 1: Mike Typeles used to love shad row and it is 563 00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:15,640 Speaker 1: so nasty. Okay? What sweetbreads is mine? Yeah? What what 564 00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:21,800 Speaker 1: is your favorite spice or ingredient? My favorite vanilla vanilla andanilla. 565 00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:23,840 Speaker 1: And make my own vanilla by putting vanilla beans in 566 00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:27,080 Speaker 1: vodka and let them sit for like six months. I 567 00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:29,960 Speaker 1: have a jar that's been going for like thirty five years. Yeah, 568 00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:32,640 Speaker 1: actually maybe forty. Now do you take a little nip 569 00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:37,680 Speaker 1: every No, then don't drink it? Okay, I know you're swifty. 570 00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:42,600 Speaker 1: What's your favorite Taylor Swift song? Shake it off? Okay? 571 00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:48,719 Speaker 1: What's your go to cocktail other than a giant Cosmo? Um? 572 00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:54,760 Speaker 1: Whiskey sour whiskey? Okay and um. I already asked what 573 00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:57,800 Speaker 1: Jeffrey's favorite dish was, So now you've got some questions. 574 00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:00,200 Speaker 1: On the way down, Katie and I realized we'd both 575 00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:02,880 Speaker 1: had pop quizzes, So she's now on the hot seat. 576 00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:08,200 Speaker 1: What's the movie you've seen the most? Um? Love? Actually, 577 00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:12,160 Speaker 1: that's great that I watched it every Christmas. That's a 578 00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:17,400 Speaker 1: good one. What food makes you happy? Cupcakes? Cupcakes? Oh good, 579 00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:20,120 Speaker 1: I know what to make you. What's the best job 580 00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:25,920 Speaker 1: you've ever had? Probably the Today Show? And I think 581 00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:28,920 Speaker 1: I know what the worst job you've ever had is Yeah, 582 00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 1: the best president you ever got, the best president I 583 00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:39,640 Speaker 1: ever got. Oh gosh, I thought, I don't know, Wendy, 584 00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:41,600 Speaker 1: do you have any ideas at a lot of people 585 00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:44,760 Speaker 1: chose to something that's from their childhood. Oh, I know. 586 00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:49,520 Speaker 1: My grandmother, my nana, who she was from Omaha but 587 00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:54,280 Speaker 1: originally from alex City, Alabama, married an architect. My grandfather 588 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:58,400 Speaker 1: lived in Omaha with Buddy, my uncle um My. My 589 00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:02,560 Speaker 1: grandmother um has the most had the most beautiful collection 590 00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:07,760 Speaker 1: of purses that she bought in Paris, and my mom 591 00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:10,680 Speaker 1: had them all wrapped in tissue paper in a drawer 592 00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:13,440 Speaker 1: in my sister Emily's room, and my mom gave me 593 00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:16,960 Speaker 1: one of those purses. And then when my mom passed away, 594 00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:20,360 Speaker 1: my sister Kiki and I divided up the purses. So 595 00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:25,920 Speaker 1: I have these just beautiful vintage bags from Paris that 596 00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:30,680 Speaker 1: my daughters cannot wait to get their hands on. That's right. 597 00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:34,160 Speaker 1: I think that's my favorite gift. And my last question 598 00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:37,480 Speaker 1: is from a very famous interviewer, James Lifton, if heaven, 599 00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:40,240 Speaker 1: If heaven exists, what would you like to hear God 600 00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:47,440 Speaker 1: say when you arrive welcome. I just want to know 601 00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:51,080 Speaker 1: what your room looks like as long as he says 602 00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:54,000 Speaker 1: there's no room, as long as he doesn't say there's more, 603 00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:58,920 Speaker 1: she doesn't say there's no room, I'll be happy. I mean, 604 00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:04,520 Speaker 1: this was so thanks so much for doing so wonderful. 605 00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:08,799 Speaker 1: Thank you so hard, Thanks so much to the one 606 00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:11,919 Speaker 1: and only Ina Garten. Her upcoming news show is called 607 00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:15,960 Speaker 1: Be My Guest. It will air sometime in two and 608 00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:18,360 Speaker 1: you'll be able to find it on Discovery Plus and 609 00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:21,440 Speaker 1: the Food Network channel. Word on the Street is there 610 00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:25,160 Speaker 1: might also be a companion podcast, so keep an ear 611 00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:31,520 Speaker 1: out for that. Next Question with Katie Kurik is a 612 00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:34,640 Speaker 1: production of I Heart Media and Katie Kurk Media. The 613 00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:39,520 Speaker 1: executive producers Army Katie Kuric, and Courtney Litz. The supervising 614 00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:44,920 Speaker 1: producer is Lauren Hansen. Associate producers Derek Clemens and Adriana Fasio. 615 00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:48,640 Speaker 1: The show is edited and mixed by Derrick Clements. 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