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Speaker 1: Where is Ricky? Hello, Ricky, good morning, Good morning Ricky,

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Speaker 1: Stay or go. Tuesday mornings, we do this a lot

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Speaker 1: of a lot of messages from folks. They're like, hey,

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Speaker 1: you know, I got this going on, that going on.

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Speaker 1: They want us to throw it out to the audience

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Speaker 1: of thirteen or thirteen listeners to see what people have

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Speaker 1: to say. So, what's going on with you? Rick You

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Speaker 1: have the email, but it's better if you explain it please. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I've been married for about five years. My wife Meredith, Um,

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Speaker 1: he actually got a bonus at work and was super

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Speaker 1: excited and naturally stilled. It was ten thousand dollars. WHOA, yeah, right,

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Speaker 1: what's up man? You Captain Manding? And so I'm like,

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Speaker 1: this is awesome, man. I mean we could take a

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Speaker 1: in saved and you know, just going into that whole

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Speaker 1: train of thought, just like you know we would do.

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Speaker 1: So check this out. She's like, she's who's gonna put

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Speaker 1: half into savings and then spend the other half on herself? Okay.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, I don't get it, you know, because obviously,

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Speaker 1: Like I get it, she earned it at work. But

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Speaker 1: this is where I need your help because it's she's

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Speaker 1: just not getting it. She thinks that this is her money.

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Speaker 1: She ain't gonna share it, like go ahead, no, no no,

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Speaker 1: no, no no. We would be like what yeah, like if

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Speaker 1: donated the rest to like, you know, an organization and

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Speaker 1: she had zero, saying it's like no, sorry, baby, I

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Speaker 1: got a new ride. Yeah, that would that would be

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Speaker 1: a divorce in lawsuit. I think of that happened. But

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Speaker 1: um so what do you guys normally call mingle all

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Speaker 1: your funds like this, everything that comes in go into

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Speaker 1: one account. Typically, Yeah, typically we do. Uh. I mean,

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Speaker 1: we have a joint account. If it's going into savings,

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Speaker 1: then isn't it yours as well? So you consider that

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Speaker 1: like yours too then or is it her savings account? Exactly? No, No,

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Speaker 1: it's it's a joint account. And I think her whole

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Speaker 1: thought process and she earned it at work. It's her money,

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Speaker 1: she's putting halfs into savings. So does that mean that

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Speaker 1: I can draw half of EFTs and savings. She's just

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Speaker 1: She's just I feel it's tough because, well, let me

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Speaker 1: ask you this, and honestly, if you were if the

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Speaker 1: extra money? Oh? Absolutely, I wouldn't even get home yet,

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Speaker 1: what I mean. Like, but for some reason, because she

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Speaker 1: what should we do with this money? Exactly? Yeah, And

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Speaker 1: And if you guys had separate accounts and kept everything

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Speaker 1: their relationship. But thank you, Ricky, have a good day.

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Speaker 1: Eight five, five, nine, one, one or three five chanis

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Speaker 1: I'm naturally the ones who came to see you. Guys

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Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, so what do you do? So if

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Speaker 1: she nis have a great day, you call said everybody

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Speaker 1: for us. The other thing is if she were to say, look,

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Speaker 1: Gets to recap here if people are just tuning in,

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Speaker 1: um Ricky's wife got a ten thousand dollar bonus at work.

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Speaker 1: They commingle all their funds, they share everything only one account.

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Speaker 1: saying what happens? You also got no money? So what

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Speaker 1: You earned that idea. Yeah, and you said, there's the

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Speaker 1: So I don't think that happened in this case. But

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Speaker 1: on the bluetooth or whatever and you double check to

420
00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:18,879
Speaker 1: make sure that there's no way that's actually coming out

421
00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:23,760
Speaker 1: of the speaker. There's a lot, I mean I have,

422
00:21:24,119 --> 00:21:27,200
Speaker 1: Like there's some like old rock music that I actually

423
00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:30,920
Speaker 1: really like, like uh, like Journey or like Motley Crue

424
00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:33,639
Speaker 1: or something. And then there's like some George Michael songs

425
00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:36,680
Speaker 1: that I really get down with. We don't have the

426
00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:39,760
Speaker 1: one that number one was. These weren't in any particular order,

427
00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:46,040
Speaker 1: but Men in Black Will Smith. What's the original that song? Oh?

428
00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:49,400
Speaker 1: Forget that Russian? Yes, that's a good song, is good,

429
00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:57,320
Speaker 1: but black. This is the episode of people are embarrassed

430
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Speaker 1: to love? I'm not embarrassed. Yeah, come on, guys, sweat

431
00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:10,760
Speaker 1: with me now. Yeah, I don't her. We had a

432
00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:12,920
Speaker 1: Twitter fight one time. It could be a lot worse

433
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:15,679
Speaker 1: than this. I'm not embarrassed. It could be Blue from

434
00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:19,399
Speaker 1: LeAnn Rhymes. That's horrible. Here's what I'm not embarrassed to love.

435
00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:23,680
Speaker 1: I love the list party in the USA, Not at

436
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:26,040
Speaker 1: all embarrassed to like this song. I don't care what

437
00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:29,800
Speaker 1: you say. I hopped up the plane at Las with

438
00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:33,679
Speaker 1: a dream and a card again to the land of

439
00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:40,720
Speaker 1: Famous and I've never noticed that really really either? Um,

440
00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:44,119
Speaker 1: this is on the list Bonnie Tyler totally Eclipse of

441
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:53,720
Speaker 1: the Heart. No God said, now then this is pretty bad.

442
00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:59,440
Speaker 1: That's bad. Mandy by Barry Manilow basically any Venga Boys song,

443
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:07,199
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, the party bang up? But this it

444
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:14,359
Speaker 1: just reminds me of the six love this great song.

445
00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:17,119
Speaker 1: Do you ever see the video of the guy calling

446
00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:22,680
Speaker 1: you the Yeah? No, what is he doing? Oh my god?

447
00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:24,879
Speaker 1: He calls the requested song and he's just like if

448
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,000
Speaker 1: the Spanish radio station. He's calling that he wants to

449
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,000
Speaker 1: hear this song, and he's like, is how does it go?

450
00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:34,560
Speaker 1: So Nike? Yeah, and I got it. This is never

451
00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:41,879
Speaker 1: heard that It's great. Classic, classic, classic, video made the list.

452
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:47,240
Speaker 1: Oh I love this st I just played the song

453
00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:51,320
Speaker 1: for my daughter the other day because my mom and

454
00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:54,159
Speaker 1: I used to love us some rag. It was a

455
00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:59,400
Speaker 1: terrible I'll roll with the change Ario Speedwagon and this

456
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 1: made the list. Okay, this song is fire. This is

457
00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:06,200
Speaker 1: a classic. There's nothing embarrassing about Lendy MARII Carry Always

458
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:11,720
Speaker 1: be my baby, nothing at all. Songs that you that

459
00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:15,640
Speaker 1: you love that you're embarrassed to love. Hey Michael, Hey,

460
00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:20,440
Speaker 1: good morning, ay man. What's yours? Number five? By love Aga? Dude,

461
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:28,639
Speaker 1: girlfriends aren't the song probably not the best, but he

462
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:37,639
Speaker 1: could be worse. I think to everybody, thank you, Michael,

463
00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:41,680
Speaker 1: have a good days. Uncles dancing at a wedding to this, yeah,

464
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:46,440
Speaker 1: this would be a bad wedding. Yeah, but hey, Anthony,

465
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:50,120
Speaker 1: I don't know anything. I would go to the gym

466
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:53,160
Speaker 1: and I had Pandora on and uh I remember Katie

467
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:55,119
Speaker 1: Perry song came on and I was so embarrassed for

468
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:58,919
Speaker 1: love it. Listen California Girls Firework teenage Dream. No, it

469
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:03,520
Speaker 1: was Fireworks. I'm okay with Katie Perry, like twenty eleven

470
00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:08,400
Speaker 1: and before it was weird. I really hated her music

471
00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:09,720
Speaker 1: for like a long time. And I was in the

472
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 1: dream with Pandoran and that song came on and I

473
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 1: didn't know it was by her, and then I was

474
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 1: just I just went harder in the gym. This is

475
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 1: an inspirational SI. Guy keeps The guy keeps just blatantly

476
00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:23,480
Speaker 1: cussing on our radio station, saying the P word like

477
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 1: it's nothing. You know, It's just i'd keep listening to

478
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 1: if you like, please please come on, man, I'm out

479
00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:34,800
Speaker 1: of delay radio. Oh yeah, I'm a company guy. You

480
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:36,400
Speaker 1: know what I mean. You just keep you just keep

481
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:38,840
Speaker 1: blurring it out like it's nothing. You get a better

482
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:44,800
Speaker 1: playlist yet easy to use store today. Thank you, Anthony,

483
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:47,000
Speaker 1: have a good day. I look at this guy, just

484
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:53,040
Speaker 1: just just pe this and shut up. Hey Sergio, Hey,

485
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:56,160
Speaker 1: get out of here. You're you're you're messing with us. Nope,

486
00:25:56,520 --> 00:26:00,560
Speaker 1: not at all. You're embarrassed to love Mary had a

487
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 1: little lamb. What yeah, I mean, it's sound like a song,

488
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:11,119
Speaker 1: who who who does your best rendition of it? I

489
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:14,440
Speaker 1: mean pretty much really any version of it. It's turned

490
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:17,480
Speaker 1: off at the joke. Um many years ago. So I

491
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:20,159
Speaker 1: used to One thing about me is I love I

492
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 1: love to argue with people and usually could prove a point. Um.

493
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:27,920
Speaker 1: I would always say, Okay, well what's your point? Mary

494
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 1: had a little lamb and nobody really cared. And this

495
00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 1: is work. I'd work on the fire comebacks, buddy, this

496
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:43,399
Speaker 1: little piggy went to market though, take that, Sergio, this

497
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:46,840
Speaker 1: is what we asked about bro bro your boot. So

498
00:26:47,080 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 1: that is truly embarrassing. Susy my Sharon Rising song. One

499
00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:08,240
Speaker 1: of my favorite songs is Barbie garrol By Opa do

500
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 1: it do it? Hi? Barbie? Hi? Kid for a shot

501
00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 1: so much it makes me smile and yeah, I'd rather

502
00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:30,760
Speaker 1: get water boarded. Thank you do it? Here comes come on, Barbie,

503
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 1: let's go party. It's fantastics or it didn't happen? Am

504
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 1: I right? Wow? Hey Susie, Yeah, Hi, Susie, how are you? Hey? Guys?

505
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:50,640
Speaker 1: I love you so much. I listen to you you every morning,

506
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 1: not just time. My wing don't work though, like I

507
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 1: put you on my phone on the internet. Oh, right,

508
00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:03,040
Speaker 1: I'm iHeart radio. Yeah, I love that. I love that

509
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 1: You're not just like that. You're not just that average

510
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:08,160
Speaker 1: listener who listens in the car. Oh no, you take

511
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 1: it to another level. Okay, yeah, I love it. So

512
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,919
Speaker 1: what's the song that you're embarrassed to love? So? I

513
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 1: really love the song by Nickelback? How You Remind Me?

514
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:29,440
Speaker 1: I love nickel Back, Man, I know those bad I'll

515
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:33,080
Speaker 1: tell you one. This one. I can't do this. I'm

516
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 1: not embarrassed about this one. I can do this one

517
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 1: makes me and what the hill Zone? Thank you, Susie. Thanks. Yes,

518
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:54,959
Speaker 1: this song goes hard at one boy, and I'm jay

519
00:28:55,040 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 1: with it. But I'm trying to to that part photo.

520
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:25,640
Speaker 1: I was here we come on guys. Oh god, hard time. Yeah,

521
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 1: I had a photo. I was the deep vo I

522
00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:37,440
Speaker 1: don't know, trying to figure it out for he gets

523
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 1: so rid. Wow, the one you just did, like you

524
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 1: went so hard on that you almost petered out, like

525
00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 1: like you ran out. My voicecame you try to ran

526
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 1: out there? Hey, good morning, Jerry, Jerry is a Jerry

527
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:04,640
Speaker 1: j Are you in an airplane turning? Yeah? Hers was

528
00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:09,320
Speaker 1: hands and wombob el see you hate her? Yeah? El

529
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:11,640
Speaker 1: see what was it for you? The embarrassing song that

530
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 1: you love to love? Oh? First of all, I thought

531
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 1: I was one of them, so super identity king. This

532
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:25,960
Speaker 1: is amazing to be embarrassed about this, No, hard Only

533
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:28,920
Speaker 1: embarrassing when you walk on the treadmill and you act

534
00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 1: like you're one of literally sign the car. I used

535
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:35,600
Speaker 1: to do that with the songs too. Yeah, this isn't

536
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 1: too bad, Elsie. We've heard way worse. Have a good day, Okay,

537
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:43,480
Speaker 1: all right, thank you, love you too, Hey, Jamie, Jamie,

538
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:45,600
Speaker 1: you're embarrassed to love this song and you shouldn't be.

539
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just feel like it's a very

540
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:52,280
Speaker 1: cliche bar song. But I've loved it ever since I

541
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:57,239
Speaker 1: was a tiny little rible girls can't man, it's a

542
00:30:57,240 --> 00:31:02,000
Speaker 1: great song. Unpopular opinion. I can stand by Joel me neither.

543
00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 1: By God, he's so good when it comes on. I

544
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 1: just I think he's so good. He wrote all his songs.

545
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:18,600
Speaker 1: He didn't stop the fire. Yeah, just like that. Thank you,

546
00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:28,080
Speaker 1: have a good day, Jamie. So it's fine on a

547
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 1: Saturday regular Come on on, hey, Dave higher by Creed, Yeah,

548
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 1: not have that? Didn't you take me? Yes? You just

549
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:52,760
Speaker 1: do that same boy. We do have this one though

550
00:31:53,040 --> 00:32:01,680
Speaker 1: with those music heard, Yeah, exactly, thank you man, have

551
00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:06,240
Speaker 1: a good day. The song about Jesus. Yeah, yeah, Kanye.

552
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, it is he made it cool.

553
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:18,760
Speaker 1: He did scot yeah almost has got Storch. Different different guys, Storge,

554
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 1: totally different guy. Hey, Michelle, Michelle, I'm here, Hey, the

555
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:28,920
Speaker 1: song that you're embarrassed to love? Okay, I blast the

556
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 1: song every time it comes on the radio. My kids

557
00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 1: think I'm crazy, but I love pump up the damn.

558
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:36,680
Speaker 1: I like it so my damn. This is not so bad.

559
00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 1: John Jam circa nineteen nineties too, like the tech chronic right, yeah,

560
00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 1: techno chronic damminds me his face him the champ why

561
00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:54,200
Speaker 1: you're beat stop and the champ pumpy look ahead the

562
00:32:55,000 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 1: jo Michelle a little more. That's the parties, and you

563
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 1: find that you do that make my day? All right?

564
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:16,480
Speaker 1: Let me see here Sid young cheezy, lost my mind, Ricky,

565
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:20,480
Speaker 1: let it go frozen t I'm the two sexy. I'm

566
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 1: two sexy, right, said Fred Steve. Wait a minute, I

567
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 1: want a second, Steve, Steve, Steve, this is not embarrassing

568
00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:33,560
Speaker 1: at all. It is a little bit when you're singing

569
00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:38,000
Speaker 1: it out loud. No, there's nothing wrong with real McCoy

570
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 1: and other nights. Come on, man, don't be embarrassed. Oh

571
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:57,000
Speaker 1: I'm embarrassing right there? Yaoice change? Is it the same

572
00:33:57,080 --> 00:34:01,200
Speaker 1: guy at all? The Barbie girl. He's a factory guy,

573
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 1: just all the same. Thank you, Steve, have a good day.

574
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 1: I'd see a man. Oh wait a minute. Owner Boner

575
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:12,359
Speaker 1: takes personal offense to this one. Hey Chuck, Yeah, hey man,

576
00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:14,919
Speaker 1: you are embarrassed to admit that you love this song?

577
00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:17,760
Speaker 1: Are you still listen to it a lot? The whole

578
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:21,200
Speaker 1: album I'm Gonna have to Go Lucky by Britney Spears.

579
00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:25,160
Speaker 1: That's just under her shaming. No shame enough a moaning.

580
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:28,200
Speaker 1: Let me pull that out for you, guy. That's that's

581
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:36,320
Speaker 1: an underrating. Smack knock on the wait mid This man's

582
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:41,879
Speaker 1: singing she love me. I don't even need to play

583
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 1: that guy, And they say she's so lucky. Oh god, yeah, shot,

584
00:34:52,880 --> 00:35:02,160
Speaker 1: Cristen Broking, Yeah, shot a cry of have a good day, man,

585
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:25,440
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna pluck. This isn't that bad. She's so lucky.

586
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:40,239
Speaker 1: Jesus like justin Timberlake was stuffed at her back in

587
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:42,480
Speaker 1: these days. That's all I can think of what I

588
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:44,839
Speaker 1: look at her and what Justin Timberlake was doing. I'm

589
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 1: a bearress about this one. I love this song, Joe

590
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:49,839
Speaker 1: Joe and the Promise of my own home. I'll melt

591
00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:52,359
Speaker 1: this sound. It's a great song. It's a great song.

592
00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 1: I should be singing at the top of my lungs.

593
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:59,920
Speaker 1: It's like, how can you not scream? Fast forward? It's

594
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 1: here we go? You know, yes, a little to alright things?

595
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 1: Just say no, it's just a little did you but

596
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:26,759
Speaker 1: you don't like me? You just like that? Yes? No?

597
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:31,040
Speaker 1: What else do I have on this list? Here? Wham?

598
00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:35,480
Speaker 1: Waked me up? Before you go? God? No, no, no, no,

599
00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 1: oh my God, like Captain hats and I hate that

600
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 1: the whole calender, yes, you know, the little pretty gas

601
00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:57,200
Speaker 1: each other. So Ra just turned his radio up to

602
00:36:57,320 --> 00:37:27,640
Speaker 1: twenty five. Remember did heah? Something? Holy four? People still

603
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:39,480
Speaker 1: listening wafore you go, wake me before you go, miss yeah,

604
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 1: whip me up? Oh you go peaceable? Don't even know

605
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:52,800
Speaker 1: what they're saying. And then wow, holy ho are you

606
00:37:54,080 --> 00:38:01,319
Speaker 1: you guys are white Sto'm screaming, my god, jenner Bug.

607
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:08,560
Speaker 1: They're passing this music video the way they're dancing around. Yeah.

608
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 1: Oh boy weirdo. Uh oh the darkness, yes, off nookie?

609
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:25,680
Speaker 1: Oh like nookie, well nookie bang. Good kiss,