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Speaker 1: guest today. We're do want to introduce our guests. Tim
Speaker 1: He's an actor, he's an fluencer. He's in a while
Speaker 1: and out veteran Timothy deg Ghetto. That was a horrible intro.
Speaker 1: I know, all right, let me tea this. I guess.
Speaker 1: I mean, we have a guest here, and it's like
Speaker 1: our close frighten, our close buddy. I used to like
Speaker 1: steal off of him and pick up and kill it.
Speaker 1: I didn't know what I was saying, and I used
Speaker 1: to always say he was the only person I wanted
Speaker 1: to be your partner, the only person you know, because
Speaker 1: I'm about to do it. I would look at being
Speaker 1: and be like, look, if you're not gonna focus and
Speaker 1: get their minds right, I'm not. I'm gonna go with this. Tina,
Speaker 1: You're so crazy. Justina is very patient with me, okay,
Speaker 1: d see your side is very it's very patient with
Speaker 1: me and Timothy. Joe, get anybody else I'm saying his name. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Chico was like, I'm not going to Carlo won't even
Speaker 1: talk to me. Carlos won't even talk baby girl. Then
Speaker 1: you are oh hell no, oh hell you I'm scared
Speaker 1: to go to rookies. I'm like, I don't want to
Speaker 1: messe your time. Don't dare ask me to go nowhere.
Speaker 1: I ain't going save job. I'm gonna mess shop every
Speaker 1: times me and look better than me as a rookie.
Speaker 1: Do you know each time a guest would come, they
Speaker 1: would choose you, just steal or do they try? Never
Speaker 1: look at me to go against don't guests, And I
Speaker 1: don't know why they take you. Rat told me up.
Speaker 1: I'm still mad at her about man the rat win
Speaker 1: on me and I said, I complimented, you know, it's
Speaker 1: I'm just And they called me a veteran yesterday. I'm
Speaker 1: a vet I thought I yesterday here you a you
Speaker 1: a rookie, a rookie? Veit call me that this season? Rookie?
Speaker 1: All right, y'all. So we aren't here with our guests
Speaker 1: of the hourds Timothy they like ghetto but he changed
Speaker 1: his name, hates him. He's up, Yes, I changed it
Speaker 1: all up. It's it's good to it's can you say
Speaker 1: my name though? Tim? No? No, I just sounded out.
Speaker 1: It's just like Tim. It's Tim Chanta wrang suit, Tim
Speaker 1: Chanta suit. So so what what name changed him? Man?
Speaker 1: You know what, well, first of all, it's good to
Speaker 1: see your faces, you know. I mean, I know they
Speaker 1: can't they can't see us, but it's good to see you.
Speaker 1: And it looks so beautiful right now, y'all looks so good.
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm on a double zoom date and
Speaker 1: I'm hyped, you know, like the middle two they told
Speaker 1: us we couldn't they couldn't see us, But I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get dressed with these girls. I took a shower,
Speaker 1: I brushed my teeth, I scraped my tongue finally. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, I haven't been brushing it through the whole pandemic,
Speaker 1: but I was like, I'm brushing for the girls. How
Speaker 1: do you find time to do all that stuff with
Speaker 1: being a new father? Wait, I'll answer the first question.
Speaker 1: First I changed Okay, So it was it was it
Speaker 1: was a bunch of things, right. It was like I
Speaker 1: had been thinking about just going by my real name
Speaker 1: for like a couple of years, right, But then I
Speaker 1: was like, you know, what's my brand? Is this and that? Um?
Speaker 1: And then I was thinking like maybe I'll do the
Speaker 1: like Curtis fifty cent Jackson, you know, tim Day La
Speaker 1: Ghetto chant ron su. But then I was like chilling
Speaker 1: at the house quarantine had just started, and I started
Speaker 1: thinking about like life and my legacy and who I
Speaker 1: am as a person. I was like, if I died,
Speaker 1: let's say I caught COVID and died right now, right,
Speaker 1: And I was like, do I want to be remembered
Speaker 1: by this like silly YouTube name I made up? You know,
Speaker 1: I got it from The Fresh Prince if people don't know,
Speaker 1: like daylight Ghetto comes from an old episode of The
Speaker 1: Fresh Prince where he like joins yeah, yeah, so he
Speaker 1: you know, he joins it for those you don't know,
Speaker 1: for the young uns out there, Will Smith joins a
Speaker 1: poetry club to meet girls and he and he makes
Speaker 1: up a poet named Raphael Day like ghetto, right, and
Speaker 1: uh Fresh Prince was like such a huge inspiration from
Speaker 1: me growing up. I was just trying to be like
Speaker 1: the Asian Will Smith. Right, So one day when I
Speaker 1: was freestyle and I was like yeah, blah blah blah
Speaker 1: Timothy Day like ghetto and it just stuck. And so anyways, pandemic,
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about life, I'm like, do I want to
Speaker 1: be uh Day like Ghetto as my legacy, and I
Speaker 1: was like, no, you know, I really you know, if
Speaker 1: I died today, I kind of want people to really
Speaker 1: remember like me. And I was like if and also
Speaker 1: if I want to accomplish everything I want to accomplish,
Speaker 1: like you know, like movies and awards and all that,
Speaker 1: I don't want to be up on stage excepting as
Speaker 1: Timothy Day like ghetto. You know what I'm saying. I'm like,
Speaker 1: let me have them know my real last name. And plus,
Speaker 1: like my whole m O was like, let me make
Speaker 1: these little young Asian kids be proud of who they are,
Speaker 1: proud of where they come from, and like, let me
Speaker 1: embrace my Yeah. You know what I'm saying, because part
Speaker 1: of the reason why you feel like a name exactly
Speaker 1: because I felt like, you know, when I was younger.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I need a stage name because the Hollywood
Speaker 1: is not gonna want want like of this long ass
Speaker 1: high name. You know what I'm saying. I like, I
Speaker 1: need I need to switch up for for the industry. Right.
Speaker 1: But then but then I thought about him, like, Okay,
Speaker 1: if they can pronounce Arnold Schwartzenegger and the Cole Switchinger,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying they can learn. Yeah, And
Speaker 1: so I was like, let me just go ahead and
Speaker 1: fully like embrace, embrace that part that name, so these
Speaker 1: little kids can be like, Okay, yeah, people think my
Speaker 1: name sounds funny. But if like Tim can be like
Speaker 1: fully embrace that ship, that I can embrace it. And
Speaker 1: also like you know, my dad, I'm like one of
Speaker 1: the last Chanta wrong su was out here in the world.
Speaker 1: I was like, let me, let me go ahead and
Speaker 1: hold it down for my family. We um and all
Speaker 1: thank you. And also, you know, like these young uns
Speaker 1: that don't know it comes from the Fresh Prince. The
Speaker 1: young the young uns are like why did that man
Speaker 1: call himself ghetto? You know what I'm saying, like yeah,
Speaker 1: like so and I realized, you know, I was explaining
Speaker 1: a lot. I'm like, yeah, it's from the Fresh Prince,
Speaker 1: blah blah blah. But then I was like, the older
Speaker 1: I get, the younger they're gonna get, they're not gonna
Speaker 1: know where it's from. And so I was like, let
Speaker 1: me just go ahead and like I've been meaning to
Speaker 1: do this, and let me just take this time while
Speaker 1: the world is is kind of quiet to like reset
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying yeah, So that's that's that's
Speaker 1: when we start doing that. When you start having babies,
Speaker 1: they start maturing, like yeah, I'm sitting by myself. No,
Speaker 1: you were sitting with that baby. And that's her last name.
Speaker 1: This was pre baby. It is her last name. She
Speaker 1: was like. My wife was like, you don't want to
Speaker 1: just give her my last name so she don't have
Speaker 1: to go through learning to spell it like you did.
Speaker 1: I was like, no, no, no, no, Now this baby
Speaker 1: is gonna learn this long ass name. Yeah, other's last
Speaker 1: name exactly. Yes, man, the name change the name. You
Speaker 1: don't got a baby on us, you didn't got married
Speaker 1: on us. So like b x before this is your
Speaker 1: second question. Um, so how's the daddy life? Man? Let
Speaker 1: me tell you pretty, because I know how Peanut treat me.
Speaker 1: He's a handful of the house and he's visiting, so
Speaker 1: your town is much more of a handful. Man. Um
Speaker 1: let me tell you daddy life is lit. I love it.
Speaker 1: Uh you know what I mean. The baby and all
Speaker 1: your youtubes and all your here's the thing, right, my
Speaker 1: I needed my lights and engagement to go up. So
Speaker 1: I was like, let me just have this baby, get
Speaker 1: these Instagram lights up. You know what I'm saying, But
Speaker 1: you baby, it's cute, because some babies may be showing
Speaker 1: them too soon. It's like, get a minute growing to features.
Speaker 1: Man facts, let's let's let the let the moush it's
Speaker 1: unmushified before you put it out there, like come out.
Speaker 1: But yeah, man, she's she's cute. It's lit Um, it's
Speaker 1: so fun. Um. You know, I see where Nick is
Speaker 1: coming from. I might just work around and have like
Speaker 1: eight kids like Nick. You know what I'm saying, because
Speaker 1: it's I'm having I'm having a good time, you know. Um,
Speaker 1: It's it really is, you know, like not to be
Speaker 1: on some cliche what everybody says, but it really is,
Speaker 1: like you know what I'm saying, You look into the
Speaker 1: eyes of your child and it kind of gives you, um,
Speaker 1: a new motivation in life, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like a new purpose. Yeah, yeah, a new purpose. While
Speaker 1: I was feeling kind of um comfortable and unmotivated, you know,
Speaker 1: I feel like she kind of gives me a reason
Speaker 1: to go back to grinding again, you know, to really
Speaker 1: get back to work. Yeah. You know, because it's like
Speaker 1: you make a little money, you get a little comfortable
Speaker 1: you get a little like you don't really feel like
Speaker 1: putting in work like you used to when you were
Speaker 1: like broke, you know what I'm saying. But now it's like, okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: another reason to really get on my my ship again.
Speaker 1: You know, I have to check her out. She is
Speaker 1: so beautiful and she's beautiful. She looks like me when
Speaker 1: I was tim Like, you're you're so like for the culture.
Speaker 1: You know, I've seen like your YouTube and like you're
Speaker 1: wrapping and just everybody, And I just want to know, like, like, no, seriously,
Speaker 1: like you you're so like well rounded and like for
Speaker 1: African Americans. You know you've been around it. You probably
Speaker 1: you know, you lived it, you know, so I want
Speaker 1: to know, like where did you grow up? And like
Speaker 1: how did you get your start? Like you know, how
Speaker 1: did you make you know, funny or full time job
Speaker 1: like you know you came from. Wasn't rat battling? And sure,
Speaker 1: let's let's talk about it pretty um not when up?
Speaker 1: So I mean, let's talk about it. What is you?
Speaker 1: What is what is your want? What is you? Huh No, No,
Speaker 1: I was gonna say what wasn't you want to six
Speaker 1: some part? But then maybe that was a different guy.
Speaker 1: He was the one of six in part. No, that
Speaker 1: was that was you you getting your Asians pretty v
Speaker 1: you keep you keep sucking up your Asian talk. Sorry,
Speaker 1: what's funny? What's actually what's funny about that is Um,
Speaker 1: me and Jin, we we did a song together years
Speaker 1: ago about how people get us confused. So like his
Speaker 1: whole his whole verses like people being like, ain't you
Speaker 1: not do for a while now? And my whole verses
Speaker 1: about like people coming up to me like ain't you
Speaker 1: not do for one or six? In part and people
Speaker 1: always getting this mixed stuff. Um. I actually used Jen's
Speaker 1: name to try and get girls back when Jin was
Speaker 1: on one or six and Park, like, because because me
Speaker 1: and Jim high key like not even on some all
Speaker 1: Asians look alike ship, but like back in the day,
Speaker 1: you know, we like we really looked alike. Like, um,
Speaker 1: I remember when Jim was first popping on one of
Speaker 1: six and Park. My boy called me and he was like, Yo,
Speaker 1: it's a dude, Asian dude on wan us to this park.
Speaker 1: He's rapping. He looks like you. And I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: whatever are you just saying that because he's Asian? Blah blah, blah,
Speaker 1: and I turned on BT and I was like, Yo,
Speaker 1: what the this fool looks like me? And I was
Speaker 1: kind of upset. Um. But then I was probably you know,
Speaker 1: in high school, and I was going around. I mean,
Speaker 1: these girls were following me around, Um, not Scary Farm,
Speaker 1: which is like a thing they do out here. Uh,
Speaker 1: it's not to Bury Farm. It's a theme park and
Speaker 1: every Halloween they do not Scary Farm. Anyways, these girls
Speaker 1: were follow me around because they thought I was Jin
Speaker 1: and everybody was like, hate you that I asked that
Speaker 1: boy from one or six and part blah blah blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. And so he was like him, are you saying?
Speaker 1: And I was well no, And then they were like
Speaker 1: are you that boy for one of six in park?
Speaker 1: And I was like, yeah, that's me. And then there
Speaker 1: was like if you gen wrapped in so I spent
Speaker 1: some of my bars and it was like that was cute,
Speaker 1: You're not Gen, and I was like, no, I'm not Jin.
Speaker 1: And I also tried to get Kyla Pratt's number by
Speaker 1: telling her I was Jin. Um Oh, I love kind
Speaker 1: of Pratt. You man me too. And this was like
Speaker 1: way back at the So it was at the South
Speaker 1: Bay Galleria Mall in Torrance, and I saw Kyler practice
Speaker 1: and I was like, yo, that's kind of pratt and
Speaker 1: she was getting like some little stir fry situation. And
Speaker 1: I was like, all right, I'm gonna go. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: go try and get her number. And I was like,
Speaker 1: aren't you that girl from that show? She was like yeah,
Speaker 1: And I was like, all right, well, I don't know
Speaker 1: if you watched one or six in part, but you know, um,
Speaker 1: my name's Jen. I've been doing the freestyle fridays on there.
Speaker 1: And she was like okay, and I was like, well,
Speaker 1: look if you tell the truth. So she gave you
Speaker 1: the number. You weren't that mate his thing. It didn't
Speaker 1: even work because I was like, all right, well, let
Speaker 1: me know if you need, like, you know, a little
Speaker 1: guests guests me want me to do guest apparents on
Speaker 1: on your show, blah blah blah. She was like okay,
Speaker 1: and then turned around and didn't say shoot up. So
Speaker 1: I was like, all right, all right, Oh, she wasn't
Speaker 1: worried about She was not worried about Timothy. Didn't know
Speaker 1: what I was talking about. So this is crazy, yo,
Speaker 1: tip An, We'll be right back this break y'all. You
Speaker 1: know what time it is. Gon'll be some moone Tim
Speaker 1: and the building. We'll be right back, y'all gonna be amount.
Speaker 1: We are back with more women. A while. In our podcast,
Speaker 1: we have our guests on the show today, Tim and
Speaker 1: my girl Pretty V. Tim talked to us, So, Tim, um, um,
Speaker 1: what is what is hard? Being um the only Asian
Speaker 1: America on the show on while? Um, what was it hard? Well?
Speaker 1: You know what, No, I'll tell you. I'll tell you. Um.
Speaker 1: I mean like I was telling be Simone like when um,
Speaker 1: like when I was going to school and Paramount rap
Speaker 1: battling and stuff. Um, you know, I was used to
Speaker 1: being the only Asian in the crowd just roasting each other.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I feel like that's kind
Speaker 1: of how I learned how to come back. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because you know the thing about it is stereotypical jokes. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because it's the same old we're going to come at you. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I've I've had the clap backs for that since I
Speaker 1: was like fourteen, you know I'm saying. So when I
Speaker 1: came onto the show, I knew what it was gonna be.
Speaker 1: So as soon as they started hitting me with the
Speaker 1: like I think con was the first. Connor dough Boy
Speaker 1: was the first person to really hit me with the
Speaker 1: you know, eat the eat the dog a joke, and
Speaker 1: I already had the Oh but nah, but I eat
Speaker 1: your mom's pussy like locked and loading, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. But I would say, yeah, you know, but
Speaker 1: I would say the The difficult part for that is, like,
Speaker 1: you know, when I roast back, when I'm in the
Speaker 1: wild style, I'm not. I can't hit him with the
Speaker 1: black Joe, black joe, black joke, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But when they come at like if I'm talking to Loas,
Speaker 1: I gotta hit Loas with a low specific joke talking
Speaker 1: about his beard, talking about this. When they're coming at me,
Speaker 1: it's it's only Asian jokes. No one's coming at me
Speaker 1: with tim jokes, you know what I'm saying. So it's
Speaker 1: low key, like I feel like I'm fighting for my
Speaker 1: whole race of people's hit the whole community, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, because like you know, out my physical apearance,
Speaker 1: they're not Yeah, it might hit me with a short joke.
Speaker 1: Community los might hit me with an acne joke, but
Speaker 1: for the most part is Asian jokes. Right, So I
Speaker 1: gotta like, I can't I can't come at like Chico
Speaker 1: with a black joke, lose with a black joke. I
Speaker 1: mean yeah, like I've had a couple in the past
Speaker 1: and like I feel like, um, since I grew up
Speaker 1: in a very diverse school, like, um, I knew how
Speaker 1: to do the jokes right, you feel me? Um, But
Speaker 1: I think for me that was a struggle where it's like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I know they're gonna come at with with Asian jokes,
Speaker 1: but I got clip backs for these ready to go,
Speaker 1: but I also have to be um creative with mine.
Speaker 1: You feel me? So what is fun? So Tim, Yeah,
Speaker 1: the word influencer, how do you feel about it? Do
Speaker 1: you feel like you like what? I mean? Do you
Speaker 1: like determine influencer? I mean, do you consider yourself? I mean,
Speaker 1: like you know what I'm actually I don't know. I
Speaker 1: definitely yeah, I look, I feel like I definitely do
Speaker 1: influenza things. Um, it's not my favorite term. I like
Speaker 1: that people kind of moved to like, I like creator.
Speaker 1: I like that over influencer because I feel like, you know,
Speaker 1: they want to call everybody, um, you know that has
Speaker 1: a social media following an influencer. But I feel like
Speaker 1: not everybody should have influence, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like especially a lot of people. Everybody should, but a
Speaker 1: lot of people. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. So I
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, when you got people just doing
Speaker 1: silly ship just for like like just stupid silly ship,
Speaker 1: and like now you want to call this person, Oh,
Speaker 1: they're an influencer. I just don't like influence in the
Speaker 1: culture to be yeah you know, yeah, you're letting somebody
Speaker 1: carry and carry that weight like they got they got influence,
Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, that sounds not everybody should have that.
Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, okay, yeah we need some creators,
Speaker 1: Like yeah, okay, you might create like dumbass content, but
Speaker 1: you're still creating it, you know. And I'm not mad
Speaker 1: at that. Um. And you know, you know I do
Speaker 1: fault you know, I know I do influencer creator things,
Speaker 1: but also you know, I like I like that. Um.
Speaker 1: People also can look at my resume and though I
Speaker 1: do other things as well, you know what I'm saying, Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I'm not I'm not mad. Yeah, Like, yes, I
Speaker 1: definitely will you know, I'll push some uh some some
Speaker 1: flat tummy t for a check if that's when it
Speaker 1: comes down to, because you know, we are you know,
Speaker 1: or promoting something or brand or doing influencers ship. But
Speaker 1: I like, I like now, I'm like my bioa said,
Speaker 1: you know how you can put like podcasts or business
Speaker 1: or whatever. Mind says entrepreneur. I'm a standing the comedian.
Speaker 1: I have my own business. Like, at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, I'm an entrepreneur. I'm a serial entrepreneur. Every
Speaker 1: single outlet for us is a different source of income.
Speaker 1: So we're just entrepreneurs and influencer or creator falls under
Speaker 1: that whatever. Yeah, well we're trying to get like that's
Speaker 1: what I just said. I'm trying to get like you.
Speaker 1: But I said that to say we're single and you
Speaker 1: know we're dating, we're doing whatever, but you're married, you
Speaker 1: have a baby, Like, how do you keep us aren't?
Speaker 1: Because I need some I need some tips with that
Speaker 1: because I'm being quick. I'm like, it's been all right,
Speaker 1: it's being a It's like, Okay, here's the thing I think, um,
Speaker 1: you know the beautiful thing about like love and marriage
Speaker 1: and all that, uh is it's not even necessarily about
Speaker 1: like a spark anymore, you know, because I've you know,
Speaker 1: me and Chia Uh. I think the beauty of it
Speaker 1: is we like being bored together, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Like it's never like yeah like we were were really
Speaker 1: we like hanging out. It's it's weird saying like yeah,
Speaker 1: like hey, we're best friends, but like that's what it is,
Speaker 1: you know, and like for us, you know, we're not
Speaker 1: so much worried about the spark like we like just
Speaker 1: you know, like, man, this is great, this is you,
Speaker 1: this is me. We're chilling like with Like it's when
Speaker 1: you find somebody that you are comfortable with being bored with.
Speaker 1: I think that's like that's when you know, yeah all
Speaker 1: the time, that's when you you know, this is really
Speaker 1: you know, like I definitely, you know, I have my time.
Speaker 1: I definitely got bored with people with with with women
Speaker 1: when I was dating and doing my thing like a lot,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Um and um. I think
Speaker 1: with her, from early on, I just knew it was different.
Speaker 1: I'll tell you when one reason why I knew she
Speaker 1: was different from the jump, all right, and it was
Speaker 1: just okay, so you know I was you know I was.
Speaker 1: I was still talking like in like single or I
Speaker 1: don't know if you're gonna want to do this, but
Speaker 1: I'll tell you will work for me. Um early early on, Uh, well,
Speaker 1: I was just kind of like doing my thing right
Speaker 1: and we we we hung out and then uh the
Speaker 1: first night like we spent together, I was like, all right, well,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take a ship and and and shower and
Speaker 1: she was like okay. And the fact that she didn't
Speaker 1: say oh my god, too much information or like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, did you have to tell me that, or
Speaker 1: oh my god, you're so gross, I was like, she's different.
Speaker 1: She's and I was like, yo, she's different. Where because me,
Speaker 1: I know, I like to talk about poop a lot.
Speaker 1: I like to joke about pooping, and I like to
Speaker 1: you know, um, I just like I like talking about poop.
Speaker 1: As to the fact that she was like unfazed, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just like she and the fact that she was
Speaker 1: unfazed by me being like, all right, I'm gonna take
Speaker 1: a ship. I was like, she's she's special. She's different
Speaker 1: because she adores my ship. Yes, she's different, but what
Speaker 1: do you mean like, no spark, No, I mean look,
Speaker 1: because like you know I think. I mean, obviously you're
Speaker 1: not like having butterflies every day and every day is
Speaker 1: in romance. But I'm saying it has to be some
Speaker 1: type of feeling. I mean definitely, but like, here's the thing.
Speaker 1: A spark is is like you know, you feel chemistry, right,
Speaker 1: chemistry and like, oh, fireworks, spark, this is spark. But
Speaker 1: we've been together. I mean, we've been together for ten years.
Speaker 1: So it's like, you know, almost you have to put
Speaker 1: effort into sparking ship at this point because I was
Speaker 1: just telling her yes, and I was talking like low
Speaker 1: key and I'll tell you like um, because you know,
Speaker 1: she was walking up the stairs with the baby the
Speaker 1: other day and like she had like a big gass
Speaker 1: shirt on her assholes out, she's just in some panties,
Speaker 1: and like when you're with somebody for ten years, you
Speaker 1: know you kind of get you kind of just walked
Speaker 1: by your wife with her ass out, and you know
Speaker 1: you sometimes you might not like realize like, oh this
Speaker 1: is some sexy ship's sexy. Yeah. Yeah, so I really
Speaker 1: have to be like I have to stop and be like,
Speaker 1: wait her asses out, this is a good ass. I
Speaker 1: have to stop and look and be like this is hot,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, I really I feel
Speaker 1: like it's more like an effort. You have to put
Speaker 1: it in and be like, this is some sexy ship
Speaker 1: and it you know every day you have to be
Speaker 1: intentional with it, right, um. And also like I feel
Speaker 1: like it's important to um prioritize your wife the way
Speaker 1: you would um prioritize like things that you kind of
Speaker 1: have on your list, Like I feel like it's easy
Speaker 1: to be like, yo, I gotta get this money, I
Speaker 1: gotta get this work, and then you kinda it's easy
Speaker 1: too for people who have our mindset of like work
Speaker 1: and grinding and hustling. She was like to have to
Speaker 1: accidentally put things on the back burner, you feel me,
Speaker 1: and so I for for her, I try to make
Speaker 1: sure that like I will um show up the same
Speaker 1: way I would for like a shoot for a meeting,
Speaker 1: Like if we have something scheduled like a date or
Speaker 1: like something we're doing that I make sure, like you know,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna take no like business calls, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna be on my phone, like I'm like committing my
Speaker 1: time to this the way I would commit my time
Speaker 1: to my workship. You know you hear that. That's called
Speaker 1: intent intentions. What are your intentions? Intent? I'm walking around
Speaker 1: no no intent? What is your intent from the day right?
Speaker 1: What you're gonna do? What you're gonna do intention and
Speaker 1: have to be intentional, You have to. And you know,
Speaker 1: like and for people who I feel like are in
Speaker 1: long long time relationships and you or long term relationships
Speaker 1: and you feel like, uh, like you know, I know
Speaker 1: somebody who's like, man, you don't want to be with
Speaker 1: my girl for so long? And and I don't, you know,
Speaker 1: kind of like I don't really see her like the
Speaker 1: same way because you know, she's too comfy and like
Speaker 1: she's just like walking around uh in big gass shirts
Speaker 1: all the time, and like it's not like he's like,
Speaker 1: you know, he doesn't really see her the same way.
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, brought for me, you know, like you
Speaker 1: ever just pick her up just some sexy ships to
Speaker 1: throw on, like lingerie or like you know, something like
Speaker 1: just so that you know it's hot. I'm sure she
Speaker 1: would be down, like she wants to be hot for you,
Speaker 1: of course, but she might not know how you feel,
Speaker 1: you know, and like especially just like how he's telling
Speaker 1: you he need to tell her have these conversations with
Speaker 1: your significant other. No nobody's saying like you're not hot anymore,
Speaker 1: but have these conversations. If that's your friend, if y'all
Speaker 1: are best friends, if y'all are in a relationship, y'all
Speaker 1: should be able to have these conversations and be honest
Speaker 1: with your partners so you don't have to cheat and
Speaker 1: look for you know, give them a chance to fix it.
Speaker 1: Exactly yeah, man, especially with exactly right, And especially when
Speaker 1: I knew when we were trying to make a baby,
Speaker 1: and I knew were just gonna be getting it in
Speaker 1: like like a lot, like you know, I knew I
Speaker 1: was gonna get a little tired. So I was like, look,
Speaker 1: I just bought like five slutty ass outfits feed the
Speaker 1: thrown just in case I get a little antress something.
Speaker 1: And I remember that week when she was like ovulating.
Speaker 1: When she was ovulating, I was like, all right, look man,
Speaker 1: I'm tired, but you throw on this cheerleader outfit. I
Speaker 1: think we're gonna be good to go. And so it
Speaker 1: was like every night it was like that when she
Speaker 1: got pregnant, in we'll see what I think. It's hard
Speaker 1: to tell because it was getting in that whole week.
Speaker 1: So I like sometimes I joke him like, I wonder
Speaker 1: what did it? Was it? Like the cheerleader outfit was
Speaker 1: at the sea through thing? Was it the uh? Was
Speaker 1: it the While and out girl T shirt? I don't know, man,
Speaker 1: but I love ship like that though him. I love
Speaker 1: I love those type of things. I love to definitely yeah.
Speaker 1: Was it the road the pink roll for God? Yeah? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Would you give your girl? Like would you give your
Speaker 1: girl like a day pass to like freak with her
Speaker 1: fantasy man crush? You know what's funny is we we
Speaker 1: always joke like we got a celebrity pass um and
Speaker 1: uh and I uh, you know, I always joke like, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, would you be you know, like, okay, maybe
Speaker 1: you know if I could hook us up for you,
Speaker 1: I would for her? You know what I'm saying, Because
Speaker 1: for her it was like it was Channing Tatum for
Speaker 1: a minute. Um. And I was like, I was like, look, man,
Speaker 1: if I ever get to a situation where I could
Speaker 1: talk to this dude and make this happen for you,
Speaker 1: I'm I might. I might do that. But She's like no,
Speaker 1: I'm not serious. I'm like, oh, all right, man, because
Speaker 1: because at the same time, if you like to give
Speaker 1: her a pants so yoo asking Yeah exactly. Wait who
Speaker 1: would your crush me outside of your beautiful wife? Man? Um?
Speaker 1: You know, for a long time was Nicole Schortzinger Um,
Speaker 1: And up until I got pregnant, it was Rihanna. I mean,
Speaker 1: who's who's not who's not so fine? Matthew Mkonda hair.
Speaker 1: But I could go for some Doja Cat too. If
Speaker 1: Doja Cat was with it, I put her, Yeah, definitely.
Speaker 1: I also like that she's weird, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But I like, yeah, I just love how she's herself,
Speaker 1: Like she's different, she's herself. She's like goofy and like
Speaker 1: you said, weird, which is it's not the average norm,
Speaker 1: but in a good way herself you don't care about. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I love that. Yeah. Yeah, so Tim, what's up with you?
Speaker 1: A Big Baby? I'll still working, Yeah, I mean big Baby,
Speaker 1: we still got new episodes basically to booge you that
Speaker 1: are gonna drop. I think this is like the fifth
Speaker 1: fifth season the basis booze you've been doing um And yeah,
Speaker 1: I just I was just texting Big Baby too. Uh
Speaker 1: And you know that's my guy. We definitely like bond.
Speaker 1: We bonded from doing Basics to Booze you together something
Speaker 1: like this. Yeah, man, that's my boy. You know, it's
Speaker 1: just a good time. I think when we got put
Speaker 1: together for that show, it was like we knew, we
Speaker 1: knew it would be funny. But then like we really
Speaker 1: kind of built like a bond through that show. And
Speaker 1: that's my guy. Um, you know, um, I think, uh,
Speaker 1: you know, trying to see what's up with doing some
Speaker 1: other stuff with him. Um, I've been telling MTV like, man,
Speaker 1: y'all just stopped working around and give us a give
Speaker 1: us a show. You know what happened? Yeah, that makes sense.
Speaker 1: So then what's coming up next to him? Tell us
Speaker 1: what's coming up next? When we let you go and
Speaker 1: you know, get you back to your daddy duties, what
Speaker 1: is next? Yeah, well what's coming up next? You know what?
Speaker 1: So I haven't so this year will actually be the
Speaker 1: first like the ten year anniversary of the last like
Speaker 1: full ass like album I put out on some rap shit.
Speaker 1: So um, the people that really like f with my
Speaker 1: music have been bugging me, and I kept telling them like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do some new ship. But I really have
Speaker 1: been dropping like maybe like a year a song a
Speaker 1: year for the past a few years. I actually want
Speaker 1: to really commit to trying to crank out like a
Speaker 1: full project this year, a couple like four or five records. No,
Speaker 1: I'm doing twelve tracks someone and then um and um,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm trying to like I'm trying to write,
Speaker 1: just write my own movie. Get it done, sell it,
Speaker 1: get it done. Like, um, you know, I've been auditioning
Speaker 1: of course, Like, but I'm really just trying to write
Speaker 1: my own ship because I feel like it's a good
Speaker 1: time people. You know, Hollywood's really finally UMU. The movie
Speaker 1: is about like I'm writing a couple. I'm trying to
Speaker 1: do like a new age Harold and Kumar for this generation.
Speaker 1: But like me and my other comedian homie, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: have him played my brother and we're trying to like
Speaker 1: save the family's restaurant. But like I'm trying to yeah yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: so it should be funny. Um and uh, you know,
Speaker 1: I feel like it's a good time because Hollywood's finally
Speaker 1: really beginning to put Asian dudes and stuff, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, for the for the first time. So
Speaker 1: it's like, you know, she's getting she's getting wet right now.
Speaker 1: So I'm really trying to ride, like get in there
Speaker 1: and uh and and and just get my own ship going.
Speaker 1: You know, write me in a row period. Okay, I
Speaker 1: just gonna be nasty. Okay, Well, all I gotta do
Speaker 1: is that all I want to do is just be
Speaker 1: the cash were just a lady. Let's see. You know,
Speaker 1: I always some people that I always tell people that
Speaker 1: when they're doing something. I'm doing a movie, I always like,
Speaker 1: just put me in the girl that's walking through the
Speaker 1: corner stone. I just want to wink at the camera
Speaker 1: and they're gonna know it's me, or like they had
Speaker 1: to rewind it be like like that's all I wanted.
Speaker 1: Just give me that time. And I've had two many
Speaker 1: of those wrong, I'm tim Okay, So give us a quote.
Speaker 1: It's so quote when we literally leave, you know, the podcast,
Speaker 1: we always tell our guests to give us a quote,
Speaker 1: something inspiring and affirmation, whatever quote you may live by,
Speaker 1: something positive and don't say nothing about like my dick
Speaker 1: is too short and I live good, Like I don't
Speaker 1: want to hear that. I give you. I give you
Speaker 1: two quotes. One has to do with my dick and
Speaker 1: another one that has his life right. So the Dick
Speaker 1: quote is, um, it's something my dad hasn't telling me
Speaker 1: since I was a little kid, right, And he's like, yes, yes,
Speaker 1: I'll tell you right now. And he's like, he's like,
Speaker 1: you know what they say. He's like because Thai chili's.
Speaker 1: He's like, Thai penises are like Thai chili's. They're not
Speaker 1: the biggest ones, but they're the most powerful. And so
Speaker 1: you know, because because when you cook with Thi chili's,
Speaker 1: they're like the most like spiciest chilis you can use.
Speaker 1: So he's like, Thai chilies are like Thai penises, and
Speaker 1: I might be big, but they are the strongest ones.
Speaker 1: So I let him tell, you know, I let the
Speaker 1: world know because he's trying to he's trying to pass
Speaker 1: this knowledge onto me and give me this game. You
Speaker 1: don't tell you that. As soon as I came out
Speaker 1: the womb, that was my first word he was. He
Speaker 1: was like, this is how you got here, the Thai
Speaker 1: chili potency, right. And second all right, so um, I
Speaker 1: always tell people, um that I don't to Uh what's
Speaker 1: the quote? It's a don't look at your goals as dreams.
Speaker 1: Look at them as destinations. All right, now, let me explain, okay,
Speaker 1: because I always tell kids, like, when you think of
Speaker 1: a dream, you know what I'm saying, it's like it
Speaker 1: feels like something that's kind of like far away and
Speaker 1: and and like when you think of dream, you think
Speaker 1: of like flying on unicorns. Uh, and like and your
Speaker 1: and your legs turn to spaghetti or something like that.
Speaker 1: You know I'm saying. I say, look at your goals
Speaker 1: and destinations. Yeah, like a fair tale, Because I say,
Speaker 1: if you look at it like a destination, then it's
Speaker 1: something that you know that's there, and if you keep
Speaker 1: working towards it, you're gonna get there. You feel needle,
Speaker 1: because like you're gonna get there as long as you
Speaker 1: keep moving forward, you'll get there eventually, you know. So
Speaker 1: it's like a real tangible thing that you can have
Speaker 1: um in your vision. You feel me it exists. So
Speaker 1: I always tell people like, like when they asked me, like, yo,
Speaker 1: how does it feel to be living your dream? I'm like,
Speaker 1: I never looked at like having a career in entertainment
Speaker 1: as a dream. I looked at it as something that
Speaker 1: if I put in the work and I kept making
Speaker 1: the rightness is gonna happen. It would just happen, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Like the same way where if
Speaker 1: you want to be a doctor, you know you gotta
Speaker 1: go to you know, biology pre med med school and
Speaker 1: it's gonna be a long time, but you eventually get
Speaker 1: your doctorate. That's how I looked at everything I'm doing now, Like,
Speaker 1: as long as I put in the right work and
Speaker 1: keep making these moves and keep making like steps, even
Speaker 1: if they're baby steps, I knew I was gonna get
Speaker 1: here eventually as long as I stayed consistent. And that's
Speaker 1: why I tell people, don't look at your goals as dreams.
Speaker 1: Look at them as destinations. So you know, it's not
Speaker 1: a matter of if, it's just a matter of when. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's the first like motivational thing I've ever heard you say, yeah,
Speaker 1: because I mean, we never had a real conversation. We
Speaker 1: just be goofing and gaffing. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: you'd be goofing help me, and I'm gonna be and
Speaker 1: I would be very honest. Though there's a lot of
Speaker 1: talented souls on Wilding now, but it's a lot of
Speaker 1: them on their show too. That got a lot of knowledge,
Speaker 1: and you don't get to know them until after we
Speaker 1: leave a break we have one of these podcast episodes.
Speaker 1: You know, Tim, we love you so much, We really do.
Speaker 1: And I pray that God would just continue to order
Speaker 1: your steps and you continue to be the daddy, the
Speaker 1: best daddy that you can be, and your wife continue
Speaker 1: to the best husband, and then you're you know, and
Speaker 1: your wife continued to spark the spark, and yeall continue
Speaker 1: to make magic. Your union is basic coming to town. Hey, ladies,
Speaker 1: thanks for having me. I appreciate you both. Um, I
Speaker 1: love your faces. I missed your faces. I hope that
Speaker 1: tell me your favorite thing about me and then you
Speaker 1: can go um aside from them take all. But now
Speaker 1: I'm just playing, um my favorite I wish I can see.
Speaker 1: My favorite thing about you, be Simone, is you know
Speaker 1: your positive energy. You know what I'm saying. I felt
Speaker 1: your light from the moment I met you, and that's
Speaker 1: why I was always been one of your biggest cheerleaders.
Speaker 1: Right here. Thank you so much, Tim, Love Me, Women
Speaker 1: About Not Podcast signing out with Tim Mathee Say it again,
Speaker 1: Captain Ron, I write y'all stay tunes. Don't leave. You
Speaker 1: gotta take a real quick break. Stay right there, We'll
Speaker 1: be right back. So we are bad with the women
Speaker 1: of Bousing Out has pretty v V Samon. We just
Speaker 1: had our boys, Tim on the show. I still am
Speaker 1: not gonna mess up his last name. I'm you know
Speaker 1: how you're messing up the whole show. I did Tim?
Speaker 1: I think so you don't put my name in it.
Speaker 1: Tim is so sweet, like he's scared. He's so smart,
Speaker 1: he's so passionate about what he does. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: he is just everything. He's just so everything. But do
Speaker 1: you follow him? Have you seen his baby? I mean
Speaker 1: I follow everybody on wild Out app don't do a man?
Speaker 1: Why are you hating on him like that child? Be
Speaker 1: beef over the little thing? Like you wouldn't say the line,
Speaker 1: and it's just like, yo, give me a second. I
Speaker 1: was nervous. I was nervous. Well, you need to get
Speaker 1: them nervous out. It's like I was nervous over there
Speaker 1: eating pineapples. I want some. I mean they kicking my canvy.
Speaker 1: I need a facial. Ain't gonna go to Done. I
Speaker 1: don't know about Annie. Done does a great job. She
Speaker 1: would love to such a scam. Um, you guys, this
Speaker 1: episode was phenomenal because we haven't seen him in a minute. Um,
Speaker 1: you know, so I'm happy that we were to chop
Speaker 1: it up. I haven't him since probably the last time
Speaker 1: I saw him, and so my stuff here and there
Speaker 1: on social media. But I love how he said him
Speaker 1: and his girl are best friends, like best friends, so
Speaker 1: you want to have that friendship first as a foundation.
Speaker 1: So if anything happens, y'all get into what you're gonna
Speaker 1: have your rough patches. The spark is gone, y'all are
Speaker 1: still friends, but I have you shape the love today
Speaker 1: from Tim and you already know what time it is.
Speaker 1: My quote today is just a delay is never denied.
Speaker 1: Are you saying that every delay ever did that? Okay?
Speaker 1: Let the scripture and that's only he said. The only
Speaker 1: thing to do I told you, Oh yeah, a delay
Speaker 1: is never a gal to keep fast and remember sound
Speaker 1: me on the Sabbay? Alright, me, come on, now, what
Speaker 1: is the quote? I did want to last song? The
Speaker 1: lays even to that, Okay, I got a code, a
Speaker 1: goal without a plan. It's just a wish, yeah, just
Speaker 1: I wish you gotta put some work behind that. That's
Speaker 1: just facts. Okay, what are you gonna sur I was
Speaker 1: gonna say, A faith that that works is day here
Speaker 1: the same thing juice is one and one. In the
Speaker 1: beginning God created and then no I had all of
Speaker 1: animals and then John three sixteen, what's n three six TV?
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna leave you alone. We're gonna, we're gonna come.
Speaker 1: If you don't know John three sixteen, if you're not
Speaker 1: really like did you? Every day? You send me your
Speaker 1: mom on live talking about the noise, But you don't
Speaker 1: like songs familiar it does? So what does it be?
Speaker 1: So with John three sixteen, So it's John three sixteen,
Speaker 1: you're a for guy so loved the word world that
Speaker 1: he gives only come on and whoso well what come on?
Speaker 1: Thank you? I don't know. I believe it in him
Speaker 1: shall not perish? Come on. I haven't never lasked sing
Speaker 1: hey more. But you should know that scriptures the only
Speaker 1: one I know that I know that scripture. My mom
Speaker 1: says all the time, Well I love y'all. So y'all
Speaker 1: women A while in that podcast where it's John three
Speaker 1: sixteen and DRN sixteen three, read your work, read your
Speaker 1: word words st