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Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show.

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Speaker 3: Justine is on the phone today for to Catch a

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Speaker 3: Cheater and she's been with her husband Paul for four years,

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Speaker 3: but now she thinks that something might be going on,

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Speaker 3: So we'll see if we can help her out. Justine,

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Speaker 3: sorry you have to come on the show this way,

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Speaker 3: But what's up? Why do you think Paul's cheating?

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Speaker 4: I mean, he's just kind of acting really strange. She's been,

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Speaker 4: you know, outly kind of cold to me, not very affectionate.

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Speaker 4: Anytime that I try to be intimate with him, he's

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Speaker 4: like pushing me away, and that's really not normal. And

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Speaker 4: it was just so sudden that I just there wasn't

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Speaker 4: anything that happened that would warrant that type of behavior.

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Speaker 4: So I'm just a little bit thrown off, and I

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Speaker 4: just feel like this could be the most likely situation

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Speaker 4: because it just doesn't feel like him anymore.

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Speaker 5: Have you tried to, like, I don't know, sneak in

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Speaker 5: there a little bit, try to lighten him up and

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Speaker 5: like you know, try to initiate things and see if he, like,

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Speaker 5: is he receptive? Have you talked him like anything to

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Speaker 5: try to help it I've tried.

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Speaker 4: I've tried talking to him, I've tried being affectionate with him,

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Speaker 4: I've tried, you know, just asking for communication, and he's

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Speaker 4: just been very like stone.

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Speaker 2: Well.

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Speaker 4: So even the other night I bought some in sense

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Speaker 4: be aware when he came home from work, and he

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Speaker 4: literally barely even looked at me and walked right past

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Speaker 4: me and said he was tired.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I'm so sorry that one hurts.

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Speaker 3: And that just happened all of a sudden. Has he

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Speaker 3: ever been that way?

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Speaker 4: Never?

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Speaker 1: Wow?

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Speaker 5: So outside of just kind of acting different towards you, like,

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Speaker 5: do you feel like he's talking to different people, like

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Speaker 5: anything else weird that's happening, that kind of gives you

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Speaker 5: an idea of like who it could be.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I've seen him a little bit more secretive

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Speaker 4: with his phone, and you know, I've just I think

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Speaker 4: I maybe saw like something in his testimosice. He pulled

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Speaker 4: So I have some suspicions, but hi, you know, I

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Speaker 4: mean just at this point, like I just have this

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Speaker 4: sure what's going on. Also the other day he was

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Speaker 4: in the bathroom and I could tell he was watching

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Speaker 4: something and when I asked him of audio, it's super defensive,

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Speaker 4: almost like really angry at me, and he told me

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Speaker 4: don't worry about it, it's not my business. And I'm like, wait,

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Speaker 4: whoa like.

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Speaker 1: A social video media video or like a video?

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Speaker 4: I mean, it sounded like a little intimate for something online.

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Speaker 4: It was not super loud, so I couldn't really live

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Speaker 4: too clearly, but I don't know. It's just his reaction.

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Speaker 3: Oh or maybe video chatting with somebody that would.

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Speaker 4: Be that would be bold, but I guess that's possible too.

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry this doesn't sound very good if.

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Speaker 3: You're just joining us for Today's to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 3: Justine is on the phone and she thinks that her husband,

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Speaker 3: Paul of four years, might be messing around. So we're

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Speaker 3: about to call him and pretend to be from the

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Speaker 3: grocery store that he's a rewards card member at and

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Speaker 3: say that he's this month's lucky winner of free flowers

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Speaker 3: delivered from our floral department, and we'll see if he

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Speaker 3: sends those flowers to his wife, Justine or to somebody else.

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Speaker 3: But before do that, Justine, why don't you tell us

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Speaker 3: about your situation again real quick?

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Speaker 4: So, I mean right now, I'm just really unsure as

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Speaker 4: far as his behaviors. He's been acting very cold, very distant,

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Speaker 4: not receptive to like intimacy, and I have just seen

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Speaker 4: his behavior shift, like with his phone. I just keep

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Speaker 4: seeing him being more secretive, just a lot of things

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Speaker 4: that just don't really feel feel right. So whenever I

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Speaker 4: try to be intimate with him, he just pushes me away.

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Speaker 4: He like completely stonewalls me and just asks me he's

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Speaker 4: He doesn't seem like him.

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Speaker 3: All right, you ready for us to call him and

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Speaker 3: see as.

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Speaker 4: Ready as we'll be.

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Speaker 3: All right? Hello, Hey, this is horrible calling for I

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Speaker 3: was looking for our rewards car. Remember named Paul.

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Speaker 2: This is Jim.

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Speaker 3: Hey Paul, please don't hang up. This is not a

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Speaker 3: marketing phone call. I'm actually calling with it. Big congratulations,

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Speaker 3: you're this month's winner.

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Speaker 6: Oh okay, okay, yeah, I do shop with you guys

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Speaker 6: pretty often.

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Speaker 3: Well we know and we've noticed, and thank you sweet.

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Speaker 2: I'm a winner.

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Speaker 3: What I win well every single month. I don't know

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Speaker 3: if you know this or not. We choose one Rewards

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Speaker 3: Card member who gets a free gift from us, and

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Speaker 3: this month it's free flowers delivered from our Florida department.

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Speaker 3: You've won thirty six long stem red roses, a box

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Speaker 3: of candy or chocolate, and a card to be delivered

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Speaker 3: to anybody that you want, absolutely free. It's a three

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Speaker 3: hundred and sixteen dollars value. Congratulations.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, that's that's all pretty cool.

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Speaker 3: Well, thank you very much for shopping with us. And

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Speaker 3: it's very simple. First thing I would need to be

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Speaker 3: the first and last name of the person you want

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Speaker 3: to send them to, and then anything you want to

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Speaker 3: put on a card, and then the address and that's it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well I want to send them to my wife Justine.

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Speaker 3: Is there anything you want to put on a card

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Speaker 3: to Justine?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Okay, well then uh definitely put this I know what

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Speaker 6: you've been doing, and then you can three dot it

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Speaker 6: if you want to lipsies or whatever.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, just keep it at that.

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Speaker 3: I know what you Okay, great, oh man. In my job,

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Speaker 3: sometimes you want to ask questions, but you just don't.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. We we have a we have a couple of conversations.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, none of my business. Yeah, Hey, Paul, I do

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Speaker 3: have to let you know that this is actually a

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Speaker 3: radio show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Hi, I'm Nina.

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Speaker 3: Hi, I'm Victoria, and my name is Jebel. How are

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Speaker 3: you called the Jebel Show? And we do a segment

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Speaker 3: that's called to Catch a Cheeta where if you think

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Speaker 3: your significant other might be messing around, you see who

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Speaker 3: they send flowers to. And that's what this is. Your wife,

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Speaker 3: Justine is actually on the phone.

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Speaker 2: What Yeah, I'm on I'm on this what I don't

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Speaker 4: I'm here?

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Speaker 2: Why am I on here?

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Speaker 4: I mean, you've been acting super strange lately. I've just

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Speaker 4: had a really weird feeling that you were just you know,

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Speaker 4: I've seen somebody else. I mean, it's pretty normal on

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Speaker 4: the behaviors that you're showing. You've basically not given me

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Speaker 4: any attention. You've not spoken to me. You've been ignoring me,

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Speaker 4: pushing me away, Like what am I supposed to think?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I have been a little distant or whatever, because I'm.

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Speaker 2: This, I'm curious.

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Speaker 6: Actually, I'm definitely not cheating on you. I'm just very angry.

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Speaker 2: This upset. I don't know, keep adding different words, but

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Speaker 2: it's just the same meeting.

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Speaker 6: I am curious right now, I honestly can't even believe

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Speaker 6: when you've been doing exactly what you've been doing.

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Speaker 1: What have you been doing?

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Speaker 4: What are you talking about exactly?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, well, one of my friends just sent me a

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Speaker 2: You want to explain that.

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Speaker 3: Whoa what is that, Justine?

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Speaker 1: What are you doing?

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Speaker 6: Of course, she's going to say, because she's been recording

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Speaker 6: us being intimate or whatever and then selling it.

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Speaker 2: To online content.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, well, Ed, uh sent me a link a

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Speaker 6: couple of weeks ago. I was surprised to see my

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Speaker 2: Uh so, yeah, I'm.

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Speaker 4: Wasn't sure at all you knew on our Sperner's videos.

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Speaker 6: Okay, I'm aware that I was filming them, you know, uh,

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Speaker 2: Know, everyone's a lot of flex for the camera.

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Speaker 6: But I didn't I'm not aware of the fact that

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Speaker 6: you were, uh, you know, sell them without my permission.

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Speaker 2: That was for us, Paul.

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Speaker 1: Why didn't you say anything sooner?

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Speaker 2: I didn't. I honestly didn't know how to bring this up.

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Speaker 2: I was honestly shocked. I mean, I didn't expect my

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Speaker 2: friend to send me a link with me. How do

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Speaker 2: you explain this to someone? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: How did my get on this website? Where's the money?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Big?

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Speaker 2: Like, uh, I don't know. Why have you been saying

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Speaker 4: I mean it looked good. I mean, why not make

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Speaker 4: money all his own? It looks great? Are you mad?

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Speaker 2: And what about this.

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Speaker 6: Has not been clear that I'm I'm very upset about this.

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Speaker 4: I mean, you like creating confident in the video.

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Speaker 5: Are you more mad that she didn't ask your permission

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that she didn't ask my permission, because, like you got,

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Speaker 6: everything's the slip of a script.

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Speaker 2: If I did the same.

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Speaker 6: Thing to her, that I would be villainized and everything

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Speaker 6: like that. It's all about boundaries, man, and and just communication.

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Speaker 6: She's mad that I'm not communicating, but she already did

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Speaker 2: This is ridiculous. I mean, also, you're my wife. We

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Speaker 2: share finances, like, you know.

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Speaker 6: I mean, at one point you would think that you

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Speaker 6: would come to me like, hey, babe, I want to

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Speaker 6: start telling poor videos of us.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I mean I guess that's a good point. I

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Speaker 4: mean I was just trying to get sashion for your birthday, Paul.

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Speaker 3: Do you see that's kind of sweet, trying to get

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's putting on the charm right now. I'm mad, Mabe.

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Speaker 2: I mean, come on, you can When when were you

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Speaker 2: going to tell me? Were you not ever going to

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Speaker 4: I'm going to tell you asked her your birthday.

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Speaker 2: Trip after I asked where you got the money for

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Speaker 2: this trip?

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Speaker 4: It was gonna come up when I came up.

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Speaker 3: You were going to tell him?

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Speaker 2: What were you?

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Speaker 3: Justine?

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Speaker 4: No, I probably wasn't. I'm sorry. I want you can

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Speaker 4: three of me.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I love you.

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Speaker 6: I mean I'm glad that just came to air that

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Speaker 6: you you know that I'm not cheating on.

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Speaker 2: You, and I know what's going on here. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I guess the only thing we could do now is

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Speaker 2: just maybe make more content.

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Speaker 5: So you're in now, in that lighting the Jewels shows

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Speaker 5: to catch a cheeter