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Speaker 1: My girlfriend twenty four female, three months and never cuddles

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Speaker 1: with me, twenty seven male. Should I break up with her?

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Speaker 1: That's the question. I'm a cuddler. I would break up immediately.

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Speaker 1: So all right, here it goes. Sorry for the poop title.

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Speaker 2: By the way.

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Speaker 1: My girlfriend, let's call it from Jessica and I have

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Speaker 1: been dating for an amazing three months so far, and

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Speaker 1: she's absolutely amazing and caring and loving to me. She

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Speaker 1: has only ever had one boyfriend before me, and she

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Speaker 1: is my first post high school girlfriend.

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Speaker 3: Ooh seconds, tice scho girl is twenty seven.

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Speaker 2: Great catch, great cat that is. That's a long time.

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Speaker 2: That's a long steny.

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Speaker 3: That's a decade.

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Speaker 2: A decade.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's ten years now, I'm your girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: What's the deal? Dude? He's a senior citizen now, bro

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Speaker 2: and twenty seven years old.

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Speaker 1: He's also like, imagine getting into a relationship after ten

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Speaker 1: years and not getting to cuddle.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh, super super quick conspiracy theory. Oh op is

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Speaker 2: going through his like just starting and dating, like, oh,

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Speaker 2: girls don't to talk to me, da da da da da.

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Speaker 2: He's going through that phase like now much later in life,

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Speaker 2: and he's like, oh, like you know, you know, like

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Speaker 2: whit girls don't want to talk to me. It's like

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Speaker 2: the in cell vibes of like or like like you

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Speaker 2: kind of get closer in cell for wanting to cuddle. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 2: super quicker. Here's the thing. A lot of young guys

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Speaker 2: when they get out there and first start day and

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Speaker 2: be like, oh, these girls I want to talk to me,

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Speaker 2: when it's really just like the nerves of like going

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Speaker 2: up and like talking to a woman and all that,

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Speaker 2: and then you break through and you're like, oh, this

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Speaker 2: is just a scary thing, and like obviously not every

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Speaker 2: single woman is gonna like you. It is what it is.

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Speaker 2: He's kind of going through this thing where maybe she's like, oh,

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Speaker 2: like she won't cuddle with me, she doesn't want to

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Speaker 2: spend time with me. Just kind of like needy clinging,

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Speaker 2: like first puppy love kind of phase right a decade

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Speaker 2: later than he quote unquote should be because he hasn't

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Speaker 2: like he hasn't really cuddled before. He hasn't really like

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Speaker 2: experienced a true relationship. If the last relationship he was

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Speaker 2: in was in high school and it probably wasn't that deep.

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Speaker 2: We were coming from my man fast. That's that's my consperience.

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Speaker 2: There we can get back to reality.

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Speaker 1: All right, we're getting back to reality, but good conspiracy theory.

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Speaker 1: So it's only been a few months and my girlfriend

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Speaker 1: sadly always finds reasons to not cuddle or even lay

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Speaker 1: together for a long period of time when I tried to.

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Speaker 1: This really sucks because I've always been a huge cuddler,

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Speaker 1: and I guess I've tried to overlook it when dating her.

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Speaker 2: Are they boning you think.

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Speaker 3: Hmmm, you cuddle when you bone? So I guessing not.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean you could be like you could bone

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Speaker 2: and then not cuddle after. That's true, like the post

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Speaker 2: is strictly business.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, post bone cuddle is great, but maybe some

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Speaker 1: people don't postpone cuddling.

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Speaker 4: No, no, you cuddle en bone. There's there's no not cuddling

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Speaker 4: when boning.

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Speaker 1: There definitely is. There definitely is no. Do you think

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Speaker 1: doggie is cuddling?

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Speaker 3: What's doggy?

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Speaker 2: Wait? What what do you mean doggy? What's it?

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Speaker 3: No, you're always cuddling. You're always like in the spoon

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Speaker 3: or like the other.

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Speaker 1: You cannot cuddle and have something Yeah.

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Speaker 3: No, yeah, absolutely no.

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Speaker 2: People do the deed with like it is just pure animalistic.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, a gloriole.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's not sex though.

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Speaker 1: You're saying a pen can't go through a hole and

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Speaker 1: there can't be a vagine right there.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, but like you know when you, for example,

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Speaker 3: well you wouldn't do that. I mean, I'm just saying

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Speaker 3: that is people don't cuddle.

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Speaker 2: There Op and his girlfriend could be they could be

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Speaker 2: doing it and not cuddling and not cuddling, and it's

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Speaker 2: not very like lovey. It's not making love. There's effing

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Speaker 2: and making love.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, oh yes, okay, now we're here together boning.

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Speaker 2: What's boning?

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Speaker 3: Is that making love or cuddling?

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Speaker 2: Boning is effing. Boning is efing Riley's world. It's been

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Speaker 2: torn apart. So but it's hard.

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Speaker 1: When I ask if we can cuddle, it's always I

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Speaker 1: really don't like cuddles. They make me feel uncomfortable. When

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Speaker 1: I ask by, she feels this way, she always avoids

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Speaker 1: the question. For my birthday, I asked her if she

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Speaker 1: could try to cuddle with me just once as a

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Speaker 4: Oh, but you have to cuddle bone like you always say.

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Speaker 3: I was just cuddling and then end up boning.

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Speaker 2: I always say that it can be separate.

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Speaker 3: You have toddle to get it warmed up and then

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Speaker 3: you bomb you can.

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Speaker 2: Okay, here we go, Okay.

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Speaker 1: This this this is my lady, right.

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Speaker 2: Have some decency over there. I can't go to dip.

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Speaker 3: Okay, but beforehand you have.

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Speaker 2: No no, no no, ready to go? It just started.

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Speaker 2: I mean you know what? No, all right, look.

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Speaker 3: But like you have to coddle.

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Speaker 2: You don't have to. You don't have to.

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Speaker 3: It could be right now, but like you have to

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Speaker 3: be like lovey dovey and then like it can.

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Speaker 2: All we're saying is it can. I'm not saying this

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Speaker 2: is how I want it. I'm saying is possible.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying, like, once you get cuddling, then it

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Speaker 3: moves into that territory.

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Speaker 2: Are you saying you just that? Is that? That is

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Speaker 2: most people? O p And and his girlfriend could be

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Speaker 2: just going straight into it. And then yes, it is

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Speaker 2: highly possible, especially given what Op's saying. Here we go,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna make a call. What please don't let it

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Speaker 2: be your mom because me and who is this going

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Speaker 2: to be? You're on?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Op, I got a question for you. Get it

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Speaker 1: closer if you can can you bone without cuddling.

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Speaker 5: Without cuddling? Yes, I don't think I can.

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Speaker 1: But but but do you think it is possible to

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Speaker 1: bone without cuddling other people?

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Speaker 2: How?

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Speaker 5: I don't know if you've ever done that before.

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 5: But it's where like you just like don't like the person,

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Speaker 5: but they're still attractive, so you just fuck them without cuddling,

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Speaker 5: if that makes sense. You know, like there's no emotional

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Speaker 5: I mean, there is an emotional connection.

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Speaker 2: But it's bad.

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Speaker 5: So you're like just like pounding into this person or

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Speaker 5: like get that like warm, fuzzy close feeling that like

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Speaker 5: I personally prefer.

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Speaker 1: That is so sad, see, but it's it's possible.

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Speaker 5: It's possible.

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Speaker 1: Okay, thank you, baby cakes, You're welcome. Okay, it's possible.

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Speaker 2: Whatever needs to be edited a little bit, but censored

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Speaker 2: a little bit, but the point has been proven.

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Speaker 1: Anyways, So for my birthday, I asked her you could

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Speaker 1: and she got really emotional and said it would make

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Speaker 1: her again, honestly, if I ask again, it's going to

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Speaker 1: her like that. I talk to my friend about this

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Speaker 1: and again, he is twenty seven. He said that she

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Speaker 1: on in the relationship. Since me and Francesca are both versions,

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Speaker 1: We've decided that we want to wait for the right

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Speaker 1: moment before having sex, which we both agreed should be

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Speaker 1: at least six months in. I'm not sure what to do,

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Speaker 1: and hopefully I'm not overreacting too much, but it bugs

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Speaker 1: me to not be able to cuddle with my favorite girl.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes she rejects holding hands too, which also sucks.

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Speaker 2: Get it out of here, Get it out of my face. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's crazy, that's crazy. It sounds like she has problems

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Speaker 2: with intimacy, which may not change at six months. It

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Speaker 2: feels like there's something below the surfaces, such you have

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Speaker 2: to work out too. She hold my hand for a

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Speaker 2: minute or so and then let go. I've talked about

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Speaker 2: do you guys kiss? How dare you suggest that?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 2: How dare you? What is this relationship? Right now? We

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Speaker 2: simply get together in separate rooms and we enjoy silence together,

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Speaker 2: and that is it.

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Speaker 3: It's like me and Christian.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, me too.

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Speaker 1: All right, since I've time too much already, I'll keep

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Speaker 1: the remainder of this short. Recently, she's been wanting to

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Speaker 1: visit Hawaii quote unquote for a long time, so I

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Speaker 1: three months in. When we got to the hotel, she

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Speaker 1: considering the lack of cuddles. We've never slept with each

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Speaker 1: And again, this is not a sexy time sleeping. This

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Speaker 2: This is vanilla sleep.

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Speaker 1: So again, she's an awesome person who's loving in every

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Speaker 1: time with me otherwise. I never knew someone would hate cuddles,

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Speaker 1: but she's the one, and I'm not sure what to do.

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Speaker 1: Thanks in advance, y'all. Taldy r. Girlfriend never wants to

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Speaker 1: vacation hotel and giggity, guess what, John, there is a thick,

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Speaker 1: juicy up coming directly into your ear holes with the

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Speaker 1: internear you. But John, yes, my man ates some advice.

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Speaker 1: What should he do? He's not getting his cuddles.

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Speaker 2: I think that man, there could be a lot of

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Speaker 2: things happening here. The girlfriend maybe is like maybe not asexual,

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Speaker 2: but maybe just doesn't like enjoy affection in that way.

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Speaker 2: Could be conscious or not of that. But I think

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Speaker 2: that he's just like so new to relationships. And he

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Speaker 2: said like she's loves me in his perfect in other

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Speaker 2: ways other than this in a three month relationship. So

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Speaker 2: I'm just kind of getting he's like kind of new

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Speaker 1: The block, and you know, maybe at six months things

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Speaker 1: will change, you know, yeah, maybe it'll be magic. You're

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Speaker 1: still early on the relationship. It's only three months in.

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Speaker 1: Also three months in getting a vacation hawaiis is a lot.

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Speaker 2: It's a lot. It's a lot. Yeah, it's a lot.

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Speaker 1: Could be kind of overwhelming for the girlfriend. Could And

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Speaker 1: I understand. I once took a girl on a site

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Speaker 1: best second in idea.

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Speaker 2: Pretty cool. Yo, that's crazy. She be sweating put in

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Speaker 4: You're okay with like a good psychopath, but you're like

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Speaker 2: Entire bed wet. You've never met a cereal sweater. Never

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Speaker 3: Your body has seventy percent of water?

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Speaker 4: Dude, there's a basketball player that loses five pounds of

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Speaker 2: That's a lot of rowing buckets and sweat and buddies.

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Speaker 1: I didn't mind getting soap cuddling and said, at least

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Speaker 2: You That is the most poetic way of sweat I've

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Speaker 1: That swear sweat you know is gonna sweat she couldn't

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Speaker 2: That's crazy. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: She said, if you ever need to wash your hands

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Speaker 3: Well, tell me your fit without telling me your fit.

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Speaker 1: It's an amazing day, and I'm really happy things worked out.

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Speaker 3: Which part?

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Speaker 3: I just I just got it. Sorry, I thought you

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's been an amazing day and I'm really happy

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Speaker 1: Which is awesome, Like, it's awesome found someone that enjoys

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Speaker 1: the golden thing. Surprisingly wholesome twist, Surprisingly wholesome twist. She

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Speaker 1: Hopefully all goes well, TILDR. She's an excessive sweater, that's all.

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Speaker 1: But that is super cute. That is super cute. Yes,

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Speaker 2: But it is cute. I have a simple solution, but

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Speaker 2: Get cool. I think he likes the sweat cold. I

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Speaker 2: which is fire the fact that they found Like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: She sweats boom match made in Heaven Riley she attend,

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Speaker 1: but she has sweater.

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Speaker 2: Mm yeah, not wrong, She's not your girl. You feel

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Speaker 2: whoa get wrecked son? Stay on her game?

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Speaker 1: Is always thinking Brosip right now, I'm taking notes from

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Speaker 1: John so relevant comments. Crystal Shipping says, sweet story. But

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Speaker 1: I'm wondering if she's been to a doctor about this order.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, bro, Like, is she doctor hydrated?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Maybe, Like if I sweat five buckets in my sleep,

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Speaker 2: Maybe just checking it, I would presume she already has.

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Speaker 2: But like, hey, have you seen a doctor? Do you

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Speaker 2: want to see a doctor about this? Like? Have you

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Speaker 1: Opie says she has, but she said it's not really

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Speaker 1: something that can be cured. She has dry soul. That

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Speaker 1: it's cool.

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Speaker 2: This thing where people sweat profusely dry sole thing they

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Speaker 3: They're drying their soul. That's why they're sweating such.

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Speaker 1: Which is apparently this prescription deodorant. Oh, she has dry

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Speaker 1: soel as in a prescription deodorant for excessive sweating, but

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Speaker 2: Why not? Who says you can't? Why not? And then

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Speaker 2: Blue tuts.

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Speaker 1: Magoo says, I got botox in my tummy and under

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Speaker 1: medical because botox helps you sweat less. As soon as

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00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:15,280
Speaker 1: I'm no longer pregnant, I'm going back for more. It

442
00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:17,520
Speaker 1: was a life changer. Opie says, I actually didn't know

443
00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:19,399
Speaker 1: that I should really tell her about it, But I

444
00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:21,679
Speaker 1: don't know. Man, I love when she sweats on me.

445
00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:23,639
Speaker 1: I'm sure she'd love to know though.

446
00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:26,160
Speaker 2: Thanks. I think man just is into the sweat, which

447
00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:29,960
Speaker 2: is amazing. This is literally perfect. Nothing should change, nothing

448
00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:31,639
Speaker 2: should change. Nothing. You're not expecting this.

449
00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:35,040
Speaker 1: I was saying, not everyone can handle a sweater, and

450
00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:37,560
Speaker 1: it sounds like Ope, not only can handle it, but

451
00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:40,080
Speaker 1: loves it, And that is a beautiful thing.

452
00:20:40,320 --> 00:20:44,000
Speaker 2: Loves it, love finds a way. Yeah, I just love it.

453
00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:44,560
Speaker 2: I love it.

454
00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:47,159
Speaker 1: It just pours all over you. It just sweats on

455
00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:48,480
Speaker 1: your bodacious bod.

456
00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:50,919
Speaker 2: That's right. But Sam, I have something that I'm going

457
00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:53,200
Speaker 2: to bring out of my orifices for you right now. Ooh,

458
00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:57,240
Speaker 2: your ear canals, your music moodles, my story tunnel to

459
00:20:57,320 --> 00:21:02,000
Speaker 2: tell you this next story. Let's do it? Yeah? Am

460
00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:04,240
Speaker 2: I the ahile for being annoyed that my partner came

461
00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:08,160
Speaker 2: to the opera in Jim attire and ate during the play.

462
00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:10,720
Speaker 1: That is not what you wear the opera to mm hmm,

463
00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:13,000
Speaker 1: or that's how you what you wear to the opera?

464
00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:16,119
Speaker 2: Do the opera to wear to it? Exactly? This comes

465
00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:19,159
Speaker 2: from theater lover apt name, who says, due to a

466
00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:21,679
Speaker 2: project we recently did at work, my colleagues told me

467
00:21:21,760 --> 00:21:24,480
Speaker 2: that we can get free opera tickets with a plus one.

468
00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:27,200
Speaker 2: I was really excited since I love opera and ask

469
00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:29,240
Speaker 2: my partner to join me. He told me he would

470
00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:31,639
Speaker 2: join after the gym and we will meet there at

471
00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:34,919
Speaker 2: the spot. So we meet at the location and I

472
00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:38,159
Speaker 2: see in the comments, do you see what's coming? Jim clothes?

473
00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:41,639
Speaker 2: He is wearing his gym stuff. Who cares?

474
00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:43,720
Speaker 3: Oh?

475
00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:47,399
Speaker 2: Take who freaking cares? Sports shorts? And a sports vest

476
00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:50,920
Speaker 2: fun at the opera? Who cares?

477
00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,280
Speaker 3: Do you not care about tradition? This is a traditionist

478
00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:54,479
Speaker 3: world we live in.

479
00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:57,879
Speaker 4: Probably just got so deep on us right there. Wow,

480
00:21:57,920 --> 00:21:59,840
Speaker 4: how are we supposed to get recipes from our grandmother's?

481
00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:01,000
Speaker 4: Don't care about tradition.

482
00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:03,480
Speaker 1: If you really wanted to stick with tradition, what you

483
00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:05,840
Speaker 1: do is you would invite your parents to the opera

484
00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:10,120
Speaker 1: with you, have them wear pearls, hire someone to come

485
00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:13,040
Speaker 1: in with a gun, kill both of your parents, and

486
00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,160
Speaker 1: then become what you always knew.

487
00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:19,800
Speaker 2: Last time I checked. That's not a tradition.

488
00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:26,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, really, one time thing? Batman begins the dark, Knight rises.

489
00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:28,000
Speaker 2: The same night returns.

490
00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:34,200
Speaker 1: Oh, same series, Gotham, the TV show, different series, happened

491
00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:39,640
Speaker 1: to different universes nineteen sixties, nineteen sixties, ninety sixties Batman, Yeah,

492
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:43,880
Speaker 1: shark Spray, different universes, Oh, little dominations?

493
00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:48,359
Speaker 2: What's it? The Birdman? Birdman? Uh, I'm not helping you.

494
00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:54,440
Speaker 2: Keith Keith? Was his name? Hedger? No? No, George, Cloudy Batman.

495
00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:57,320
Speaker 2: That's great. What's the name of the core protagonist in

496
00:22:57,400 --> 00:22:58,800
Speaker 2: all of those? Bruce? Wayne?

497
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:00,560
Speaker 3: Thank you?

498
00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:03,800
Speaker 2: That's it. One person, one instance, that's it.

499
00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:05,600
Speaker 3: Different universes, divisionmensions.

500
00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:08,320
Speaker 2: But it's a tradition. I'm getting back to the story.

501
00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:13,400
Speaker 1: Bro Okay, no, get it is for sure tradition. Okay,

502
00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:14,399
Speaker 1: let me let me ask you this.

503
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:16,160
Speaker 3: If it's tradition, that means there would be so many

504
00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:17,359
Speaker 3: more orphans in this world.

505
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:19,879
Speaker 2: Yes, they are a lot of orphans in this world,

506
00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:23,160
Speaker 2: but not because of that reason. There's aptetive orphans.

507
00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:25,320
Speaker 3: But not because of that their parents had on pearls

508
00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:26,280
Speaker 3: and went to an opera.

509
00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:29,399
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, there's a non zero about It's not tradition.

510
00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:31,639
Speaker 1: It's saying it is a tradition, you know.

511
00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:36,639
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, is Theano snapping the universe away a tradition?

512
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:39,639
Speaker 2: There we go, That happened once once, But there's so

513
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:44,359
Speaker 2: many multiverses. They went back into a world.

514
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:48,520
Speaker 1: But now our universe Batman has continually popped up.

515
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,199
Speaker 2: But it's multi you're saying multiple universes.

516
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:54,280
Speaker 1: This is there's a bunch of Batman's in our universe.

517
00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:56,360
Speaker 1: There's not a budge of Danos movies in our universe.

518
00:23:56,480 --> 00:24:00,000
Speaker 2: Yes there is. Where where the stories the fucking infinite,

519
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 2: the comics, the comics, the fucking the end, not the end,

520
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 2: the gardens of the galaxy, all this stuff, all these

521
00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:08,639
Speaker 2: different timelines flying now. I don't know.

522
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:12,600
Speaker 4: So you're also saying by tradition that if your parents

523
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:15,400
Speaker 4: die and you're an uncle, take you in and your aunt.

524
00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:17,760
Speaker 3: I mean, your uncle's gonna die and you're gonna web

525
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:19,000
Speaker 3: up New York City.

526
00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 2: It's not a tradition anyways. Let's get back, you know what,

527
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:25,760
Speaker 2: Let's get back to the tradition of this show, which

528
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:29,040
Speaker 2: is reading stories for you guys. We love you so much. Okay.

529
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:31,800
Speaker 2: He joked how it is probably too snobbish of a

530
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:33,800
Speaker 2: place for it, and he took a pair of jeans

531
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:36,120
Speaker 2: with him and a shirt. But he doesn't really want

532
00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:38,240
Speaker 2: to bother. I love how he was like, you know what,

533
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:41,120
Speaker 2: my gym attire isn't fancy enough. Let me bring some

534
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,480
Speaker 2: jeans in a shirt. But you know what, I don't

535
00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:45,240
Speaker 2: really want to bother getting into it right now.

536
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 1: I respect this guy. Yeah, it's pretty fire. Let's go.

537
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:50,760
Speaker 2: Let's go. It is fire. Now. Since I was a

538
00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 2: small kid and we went to the theater with my

539
00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:55,960
Speaker 2: school or parents where I am from, theater opera ballet

540
00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:58,280
Speaker 2: tickets are super cheap for school kids, and it is

541
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,640
Speaker 2: a very common school activity to go through whole class.

542
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:03,399
Speaker 2: I knew that it is a basic common sense to

543
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:05,840
Speaker 2: look decent at such places. I am no fan of

544
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:08,800
Speaker 2: fancy over dressing myself, and my partner knows it. However,

545
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:12,160
Speaker 2: it is not okay to expect at least plain jeans

546
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:16,720
Speaker 2: and not sweatpants, and not to talk loud, eat or

547
00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:21,200
Speaker 2: drink during the live performance on stage. You really shouldn't

548
00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,439
Speaker 2: like talk and eat during a live performance. That is

549
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:26,639
Speaker 2: like literally insane. Imagine you're like giving people of the

550
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:29,040
Speaker 2: performance of a lifetime on the greatest show on.

551
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:35,400
Speaker 1: Earth literally talking drinking. I could never imagine.

552
00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:38,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, honestly, you would have to. I feel like you'd

553
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:41,560
Speaker 4: have to throw someone out if they did that. Actually yeah,

554
00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:42,720
Speaker 4: or do this?

555
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:49,320
Speaker 2: Who can hear them now? But we can't mute Opie's

556
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 2: boyfriend here, Unfortunately.

557
00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 3: We can't. How long are you to before until you're

558
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 3: done doing that?

559
00:25:56,840 --> 00:26:00,320
Speaker 2: So, seeing all the actually nicely dressed people around to

560
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:03,560
Speaker 2: the venue, my partner annoyingly said that I would probably

561
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 2: want him to wear the jeans, and now we have

562
00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:08,159
Speaker 2: to find a place for him to change, even though

563
00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:10,880
Speaker 2: he is not so keen on it. I was relieved

564
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:12,879
Speaker 2: and did not want to argue, so I did not

565
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,359
Speaker 2: say much about it, and we had to go around

566
00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 2: the corner for him to change. The first act was

567
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:19,760
Speaker 2: good and we went to get some snacks in the break,

568
00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:21,880
Speaker 2: but due to the long queue, we did not have

569
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:24,080
Speaker 2: the time to eat them. So we come back to

570
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 2: our places. My partner sits between me and my colleagues,

571
00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:30,280
Speaker 2: and with my side vision, I see him taking out

572
00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:33,919
Speaker 2: the food. Can you not eat in the opera? Apparently not? Ho, bro,

573
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 2: why would you want to go to the opera? That's

574
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:37,879
Speaker 2: a great question. Eat you have to wear clothes that

575
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 2: aren't comfortable? Dude? We should make the opera more lit? Yeah, dude?

576
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:42,840
Speaker 2: What if all right? Here we go? Yep?

577
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:45,720
Speaker 1: Not real people. Yes, you record it all somewhere else,

578
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:49,679
Speaker 1: project it onto a screen, comfy chairs everywhere where? What

579
00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:53,439
Speaker 1: if you want can eat loud foods? Say popcorn? Whoa idea?

580
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:55,480
Speaker 2: That is too wild of a concept for me to

581
00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 2: even comprehend. Yeah, I would have had another universe to

582
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:03,480
Speaker 2: stand this concept. Now, as I mentioned, we are adults

583
00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:05,800
Speaker 2: in our late thirties, and as far as I'm concerned,

584
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:08,240
Speaker 2: I do not have to tell a thirty five year

585
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:11,399
Speaker 2: old adult basic etiquette, but I had a bad feeling

586
00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 2: about it, so I turned to him and whispered, don't dun,

587
00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 2: don't do hat top. He laughed, and I was relieved,

588
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:22,040
Speaker 2: thinking he was doing a weird joke or whatever. Thirty

589
00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 2: seconds with my side vision and I see him eating

590
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:30,119
Speaker 2: the snacks. How dare you protein? Protein? Whatever? He just

591
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:32,920
Speaker 2: needed his protein. He just he needs post workout. Yep,

592
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 2: come on, come on, he's trying to get school. I

593
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:38,919
Speaker 2: was absolutely mortified and speechless. I poked him with my elbow,

594
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:41,560
Speaker 2: but he just kind of laughed and ignored me. I

595
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:45,280
Speaker 2: was ready to melt through the floor from embarrassment. Come on,

596
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:49,960
Speaker 2: over reaction. People eat at the opera. I cannot believe

597
00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:53,960
Speaker 2: I am seeing a grown X person eating during an opera.

598
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:57,760
Speaker 2: And even worse, that's being my partner right next to

599
00:27:57,840 --> 00:28:02,520
Speaker 2: my colleagues who invited me year. Oh the work colleagues.

600
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:04,560
Speaker 2: That changes things, changes things.

601
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:08,400
Speaker 1: That changes things for me, because if your partner is

602
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 1: acting like a slob eating, it's a bad reflection on you.

603
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,000
Speaker 1: I thought it was just them initially, and it was

604
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:16,240
Speaker 1: like they were sitting together and who cares what random

605
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 1: people think, but your coworkers, like, that's different. Yeah, I agree,

606
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:23,160
Speaker 1: that's different. Yeah, I agree. No, I take it back.

607
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 2: A few minutes later, my partner leaned to tell me something,

608
00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:28,960
Speaker 2: but I was still burning from shame and anger and

609
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:31,120
Speaker 2: I did not reply. So he asked, is it about

610
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:33,800
Speaker 2: the food, and then rolled his eyes, sighed loudly, and

611
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 2: then stopped talking to me. I could not enjoy the

612
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 2: rest of the opera at all, and when my colleagues

613
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 2: gathered to discuss it afterwards, I was feeling too embarrassed,

614
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:43,720
Speaker 2: excuse myself and left asap.

615
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 1: I feel like it's not that deep, though OPI was overreacting. Yeah,

616
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 1: it's still a little bit embarrassing, but totally totally but like,

617
00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:51,160
Speaker 1: I don't think it's that deep.

618
00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 2: I could see totally be like hey, like stop eating,

619
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:54,960
Speaker 2: like don't do that. Oh yeah, we got my work,

620
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,640
Speaker 2: my work, ye, but also to be like I am

621
00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 2: burning with shame and anger and recluse to even age

622
00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:04,680
Speaker 2: the bit much. My partner caught up with me outside

623
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 2: and was annoyed at me, quote unquote being so stuck

624
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:09,640
Speaker 2: up about such a petty thing. According to him, it

625
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:12,040
Speaker 2: was dark and he wasn't sitting directly in front of

626
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 2: the stage, so who cares, it's okay. I told him

627
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:17,200
Speaker 2: it's not about how far he sits. It is common

628
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 2: sense not to do such things in a theater. He

629
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 2: rolled his eyes and told me there is no such rule.

630
00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:26,280
Speaker 2: It is not written anywhere. Where is it written. Show

631
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 2: me your rules, where's your scroll? And that I am

632
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 2: making up some imaginary rules just to go at him.

633
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 2: I'm not liking the vibe of their relation, Jeff, I

634
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 2: don't know if this is is it a healthy relationship?

635
00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know. I really cannot wrap

636
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:44,000
Speaker 2: my head around this. So I started question my sanity.

637
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 2: He told me that in his opinion, it was me

638
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:48,840
Speaker 2: who was the problem, and I should discuss it with

639
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 2: my therapist. That I care too much what people think.

640
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:55,360
Speaker 2: My goodness, what do we this is so much some

641
00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:58,360
Speaker 2: post I am in therapy for different reasons. He was

642
00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:00,720
Speaker 2: actually the one who encouraged me just dart therapy in

643
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 2: the first place, since he saw that she needed it.

644
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:06,640
Speaker 2: I mean, it is not just about what people think.

645
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:09,880
Speaker 2: As an artist myself, I find it insanely rude, uncultured,

646
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:12,680
Speaker 2: and disrespectful, both to actors and people next to you

647
00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 2: to bring food to the opera and eat it during

648
00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:17,920
Speaker 2: the live performance. We came here specifically for this event.

649
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 2: Can you really not wait for like an hour? So

650
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:23,480
Speaker 2: am I the a hole for being angry and disappointed

651
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:26,320
Speaker 2: with the whole experience? Sam, talk to me. I think

652
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:28,720
Speaker 2: I think they're both. I think everyone's navele here. Yes.

653
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think the husband's an a hole for totally

654
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:37,240
Speaker 1: like not thinking about the dress code or what her

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Speaker 1: colleagues would think of her, Like there's a certain amount

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Speaker 1: of like, if you get invited something, you try to

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Speaker 1: dress accordingly, And it sounded like he just did not

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Speaker 1: give two buttholes about it. But then on the flip side,

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Speaker 1: I think Opie's a little bit of the A hole

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Speaker 1: for like taking it too far, like like being like,

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Speaker 1: who really cares about someone eating at the opera? Like

662
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Speaker 1: everyone eats at the opera. At every opera that I've

663
00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 1: been at, people have been eaten. Whoa, Yeah, well, hot take,

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Speaker 1: hot take you're not supposed to though you're not supposed.

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Speaker 2: To hot observations. Yeah, I feel like I am just

666
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 2: getting the vibe that they're just generally not they're not aligned. Yeah,

667
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Speaker 2: Like she likes the opera and he likes running and eating. Yeah,

668
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Speaker 2: so so divorce. You know what I'm saying, devorce devorce,

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Speaker 2: But unfortunately we're gonna have to divorce from you. But

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Speaker 2: you and who.

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Speaker 1: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives. Time

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Speaker 1: for okop rework.

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Speaker 2: Are we the a holes for not sharing our inheritance

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Speaker 2: with the family? Mmmm? And John.

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Speaker 1: This is actually a story from one of our listeners, Watchers.

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Speaker 1: They submitted it to our subreddit, our slash okop show.

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Speaker 2: Very nice. Yeah, if you want to share your story,

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Speaker 2: drop it there. We'll put on the show.

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Speaker 1: I eighteen female will preface this by stating that all

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Speaker 1: the names in the story been changed. I will also

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Speaker 1: say a little bit about how family relationships work to

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Speaker 1: hopefully clear up the confusion. There is my great grandma

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Speaker 1: and great grandpa. They had three kids, my nana, my

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Speaker 1: great uncle Joseph, and my great uncle Lucian. My nana

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Speaker 1: had two sons, and my great uncles had three to

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Speaker 1: four kids each. My nana and uncle Joseph and great

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Speaker 1: grandpa James all died when I was little. My great

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Speaker 1: grandma was brutally honest and often gave her opinion when

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Speaker 1: no one asked. Oh much Yo, that's kind of like

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Speaker 1: old people just like just like saying shit out of pocket.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, they're on the other side. Because of this,

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Speaker 2: most of the family had no contact with her grandma's

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Speaker 2: on her own.

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Speaker 1: Great grandma my uncle slash, dad's brother and his husband

696
00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:45,720
Speaker 1: lived with my great grandma, so they obviously took her side,

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Speaker 1: and my dad and I were indifferent. We got along

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Speaker 1: with everyone. In the summer of twenty twenty, my great

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Speaker 1: grandma passed away.

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Speaker 2: She was eighty. Yo, how many you have? Eighties? Like

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Speaker 2: kind of young for a grant gandma if you think

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Speaker 2: about it, like twenty twenty, if you have a kid

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Speaker 2: at twenty twenty twenty, that's true, I think though, is that? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: So well, so great Grandma eighty, great grandma sixty, mom

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Speaker 1: forty forty twenty yeah.

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Speaker 2: I roughly around twenty A little little later, wow.

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Speaker 1: And the summer of twenty twenty, my great grandma passed away.

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Speaker 1: She was eighty and very overweight and unhealthy, so it

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Speaker 1: was a bunch of a shock. My great grandma surprisingly

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Speaker 1: left everything to my dad and uncle.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: She also wrote that her only living child, Lucian, would

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Speaker 1: not be allowed on the property. He would get absolutely

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Speaker 1: none of her belongings, and that if he tried to

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Speaker 1: contest the will he would receive only one dollar.

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Speaker 2: Yo.

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Speaker 1: Great grandma freaking roasted this show. If you couldn't tell

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Speaker 1: my grandma and her son did not get along. Really, Oh,

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Speaker 1: we had no idea. My uncle and his husband went

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Speaker 1: to Lucian's house and gave him a copy of the

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Speaker 1: will with the dollar tape to it. Dude, Rove, that's funny.

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Speaker 1: I do think that this was the wrong thing to do,

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Speaker 1: and there was a much better way to go about

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Speaker 1: breaking the news of him being.

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Speaker 2: Cut on the whill. Oh my god, Oh, here's your will.

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Speaker 2: It was a dollar yea.

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Speaker 1: Even though the will said none of her belongings were

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Speaker 1: to go to Lucian, my uncle still gave him a

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Speaker 1: lot of things that did belong to my great grandpa

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Speaker 1: before he passed. My uncle was furious that he'd get more,

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Speaker 1: and he kept saying that we should spread the money

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Speaker 1: amongst the grandchildren, not just my dad and uncle. Not

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Speaker 1: only did we know he only wanted to do that

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Speaker 1: so he could easily manipulate his kids into giving him

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Speaker 1: the money, but there was also no money.

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Speaker 2: Great Grandma was drowning.

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Speaker 1: In credit card debt, and on top of that, she

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Speaker 1: had a reverse mortgage on the house that was not

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Speaker 1: fully paid off. Oh so, basically the only thing she

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Speaker 1: has to give to her kids debt.

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Speaker 2: Nice.

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Speaker 1: I said before that my great uncle Joseph passed when

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Speaker 1: I was little, but his widow was still in the picture.

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Speaker 1: Deirdre is a terrible person. Even her own children have

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Speaker 1: no contact with her because they cannot stand here. When

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Speaker 1: Joseph was dying, Deirdre was off cheating on him and

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Speaker 1: spending all his money.

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Speaker 2: Nice.

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Speaker 1: Wow, great way to support your dying husband. After he died,

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Speaker 1: she sold the house and all of his things. Joseph

751
00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:12,040
Speaker 1: had plenty of money, so the money from selling his

752
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:14,399
Speaker 1: house plus any inheritance she got would be a lot.

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Speaker 1: Yet she has no house, car, or anything to show

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Speaker 1: for it. She smells and looks dishevelson. Oh my, and

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Speaker 1: she looks like she's aged twenty years when it hasn't

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Speaker 1: even been a decade since Joseph died. So because of

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Speaker 1: all this, we believe that all the money, or at

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Speaker 1: least a lot of it, must have gone to drugs.

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Speaker 1: Oh God, Lucian got d'andre on his side. Unsurprisingly, and

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Speaker 1: they both spread disgusting rumors on Facebook saying that my

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Speaker 1: uncles abused my great grandmother and that they killed her

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Speaker 1: to get her money.

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Speaker 2: Wow, holy shit, Oh my god, Facebook, that's crazy. This

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Speaker 2: is some family drama. This is big family drama.

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Speaker 1: They pretty much left me and my dad out of

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Speaker 1: all posts. I think, thank god. I was still very

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00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 1: upset about all these discussing lives, but about my uncles.

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Speaker 1: After selling a ton of my great grandma's belongings the house,

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Speaker 1: paying back some of her debt, and splitting the profits

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Speaker 1: between my dad and uncle, there was just enough money

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Speaker 1: for each of them to put a decent sized down

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Speaker 1: payment on a house, which they did. If my dad

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Speaker 1: and uncle decided to split the money amongst all the grandkids,

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Speaker 1: there would be barely any money for each person. Maybe

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Speaker 1: some of them have bought a cheap car or put

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Speaker 1: the money towards college. Two of my cousins are in college,

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Speaker 1: but it would have not been a lot. Plus we

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Speaker 1: knew that Lucian Deirdre could have easily manipulated their children

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Speaker 1: into giving them the money. I feel like, basically Opie's

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00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 1: just saying, hey, more money is better if it's on

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Speaker 1: one person unless money is not as good. Oh no,

782
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 1: but apparently all of those the family shouldn't have this

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00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:43,239
Speaker 1: because only a couple thousand my dad and I were

784
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:45,200
Speaker 1: the innocent party in all of this, So my cousins

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00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 1: remained nice and similar towards us, but pretty much the

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Speaker 1: whole family hates my uncles and also just a little

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Speaker 1: my dad for keeping your share in the money to himself.

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Speaker 1: I also wanted to add that out of my great

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Speaker 1: grandma's three kids, the two boys were very successful, while

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00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:01,920
Speaker 1: my nana became drug although she got cleaned before I

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00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:04,319
Speaker 1: was born, and all the grandkids, with the exception of

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Speaker 1: my dad and uncle, were also very successful. My dad

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Speaker 1: had me at only nineteen okay, that makes sense, and

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00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 1: my uncle has bipolar two disorder. This pretty much means

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Speaker 1: that while everyone else has been super successful, my dad

796
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 1: and uncle I have been struggling to get by their

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00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:19,400
Speaker 1: whole lives. So I guess, like the money, you know,

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Speaker 1: it would help them.

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Speaker 2: Mostly right right right?

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Speaker 1: So to some that up, my dad and uncle, the

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00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:26,839
Speaker 1: only grandkids who actually needed the money and the only

802
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:29,240
Speaker 1: ones who had a real relationship with my great grandma,

803
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:31,719
Speaker 1: were the only ones to receive the inheritance.

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Speaker 2: So are we the a holes? Sorry for the long story, man,

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00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:39,239
Speaker 2: I mean a lot of context, a lot of context.

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Speaker 2: I'm crazy, like the murder mystery, the murders is crazy.

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00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:47,120
Speaker 2: I'm trying to like synthesize everything, but I don't think so.

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00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:49,239
Speaker 2: I mean, I mean it was in the will. It

809
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 2: was in the will, and it's like the dad keeping

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00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 2: the money, there's nothing wrong with that. Give him. And

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Speaker 2: also like it's in the will and they need it most.

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Speaker 2: I feel like it's a double whammy. Yeah, I think.

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Speaker 2: I think you're not the a whole open beer chilling boom.

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Speaker 2: You're chilling.

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