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Speaker 1: What's up with y'all? Everything are great?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I love y'all talk about anything.

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Speaker 5: Oh, that's what we're doing today, though. This is gonna

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Speaker 5: be one of them conversations.

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Speaker 1: We just let you know. So we hope you brought

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Speaker 1: your Your energy is on me. Yeah, I want to them.

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Speaker 5: I want to start like shout k K was asking like,

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Speaker 5: what's the problem with niggas, right, and he kind of

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Speaker 5: attributed to niggas and fatherhood and not having fathers and

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Speaker 5: all that type of ship. So I think you're the person,

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Speaker 5: perfect person to ask, like, what do you think is

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Speaker 5: the problem with African American women?

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Speaker 1: He jumping right ahead. We got to get to it.

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Speaker 3: If you don't know, I'm the one that I keep

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Speaker 3: pushing on our people for us to accept the logic

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Speaker 3: the facts that single mother households produce the worst fucking product.

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Speaker 3: Now you can say it like that, or I could

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Speaker 3: dress it up where females won't get offended, and I

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Speaker 3: can say fatherlessness is the biggest issue in our community

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Speaker 3: with women and raising children and then expews into the

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Speaker 3: dating pool. So for me, when you ask what's up

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Speaker 3: with us nowadays? Fatherlessness coming from these single mother households,

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Speaker 3: and even if you didn't directly come from one, they

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Speaker 3: leave when we talk about low income. They lead the

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Speaker 3: opinion leaders in our community.

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Speaker 1: They are you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: They the voice in the hood, the mamos that's raising

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Speaker 3: the babies by theyself with no daddy's around. Like, that's

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Speaker 3: who's leading right now in regards to you know what

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Speaker 3: the children are taught. So now you're looking at an

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Speaker 3: adult generation that came from a lot of fatherlessness, a

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Speaker 3: lot of women, female headed households.

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Speaker 1: Let me ask you, it's a problem.

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Speaker 6: I have a question.

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Speaker 7: I'm gonna let you finish, But once you get done

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Speaker 7: with that, I want you to touch on whether or

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Speaker 7: not you think that single mothers get offended about their

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Speaker 7: lack of ability because they are female, and because they

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Speaker 7: are emotional.

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Speaker 3: I feel like so I feel like they get offended

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Speaker 3: because they triggered and can't manage their emotions. The offense

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Speaker 3: comes from and let me take a step back, right,

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Speaker 3: you can't receive information if you're in your feelings and

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Speaker 3: how you hear shit depends on your temperament and your energy.

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Speaker 3: So off top, if you defensive, if you feel some

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Speaker 3: type of way, if you got these traumas on you

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Speaker 3: that you haven't seen about with yourself, you're not the

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Speaker 3: right and you're gonna come at the conversation or you're

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Speaker 3: gonna come at the information listening with your inner child,

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Speaker 3: your insecurities, the stuff that you know you dead wrong for,

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Speaker 3: that shame, the guilt you know won't let you stand

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Speaker 3: on you know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: So when it comes to us, it's a struggle to just.

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Speaker 3: Receive the information. And then outside of that, we struggle

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Speaker 3: with accountability. Like I'll be the first female to say, like,

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Speaker 3: when you put women alongside men, women have a real

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Speaker 3: fucking problem with being accountable.

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Speaker 1: Hey no, but but how did you tap into this

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Speaker 1: because you want to always this mindset right, how did

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Speaker 1: you tap into your right mindset.

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Speaker 3: So okay, so let me say this, Like growing up,

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Speaker 3: I was a nerd in school, right, and then when

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Speaker 3: So I went from being in the books to now

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Speaker 6: By personal choice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, basic environment.

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Speaker 3: When I'm big on the way your life looking, the

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Speaker 3: ship you go through is based on your choices, So

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Speaker 3: I won't put shit on anything else. But environment plays

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Speaker 3: a big role in the choices that we are. You

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Speaker 3: know able to choose from exactly, so environment play the

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Speaker 3: then you know, from being intelligent in the books but

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Speaker 3: there was a lot of ship said and done in

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Speaker 3: You see a lot of ship sitting in the track

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Speaker 3: with niggas that they ain't trying to fuck.

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Speaker 1: On you you like, bro, but to help you get it,

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Speaker 1: that these niggas wild want to be a good nigga.

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Speaker 1: But I can't do to the fact that the ship

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Speaker 1: you done showed me. Yep, that's it is.

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Speaker 3: And the thing about it is my platform, Like I

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Speaker 3: give so much game that helped females, but the whole

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Speaker 3: emotional side they can't see through, you know, feeling some

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Speaker 3: So it just turns into a fence. You you know,

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Speaker 3: your type of paragraphs and your feelings. But it ain't

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Speaker 3: hard to look around. I mean, you know a lot

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Speaker 3: of what men struggle with nowadays as a grown man,

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Speaker 3: being able to try to manage your emotions, and you

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Speaker 3: know a lot of what women struggle with in relationships

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Speaker 3: where you want a nigga to be, you know, head

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Speaker 3: a household, but you can't. You know, it's a power struggle.

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Speaker 3: You don't know how to be feminine. You don't know

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Speaker 7: And you also and it's another thing too, I think

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Speaker 7: with that house situation, with like being the head of

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Speaker 7: lack the proper skills to be the foundation for that

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Speaker 7: man to be that head.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I'm gonna kick it to y'all blood row.

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Speaker 3: Like in a lot of other cultures, they're raising their

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Speaker 3: girls to be women, feminine nurturers, to embody everything about us,

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Speaker 3: even that emotional side, to learn how to use that

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Speaker 4: Be valuable to a family unit.

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Speaker 3: Right, right, We in our community, we're mothering one another

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Speaker 3: from a space of like, I'm gonna raise my daughter

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Speaker 3: everything for herself, not need a nigga for nothing.

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Speaker 4: But you know, our biology as human beings, especially as.

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Speaker 3: Women, we're wired for companionship, Like it's our DNA in

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Speaker 3: our biology. So when I see people that be talking

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Speaker 3: about you know, I'm independent, I'm gonna be by myself

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Speaker 4: They ain't shit.

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Speaker 3: You going against your nature, Like, regardless of what you

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Speaker 3: want to say online, of what you want to say

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Speaker 3: to us, there is something in you that's.

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Speaker 4: Gonna pull you towards companionship.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And then when you're being raised with the program and

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Speaker 3: in an opposite direction, this is when you become psychologically fucked.

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Speaker 1: Up a lot of issues.

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Speaker 3: Like you know, we talk a lot about you know,

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Speaker 3: the males. Yeah, women, To be honest, we struggling right,

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Speaker 3: not psychologically. We are they showing us how to take

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Speaker 4: Be boss bitches, start businesses, earn all this money.

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Speaker 3: But then you don't know anything about being submissive in

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Speaker 3: your household. Like you know, men won't respect over love

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Speaker 3: any day. So it's like, in order for you to

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Speaker 3: be able to take that hat off at the door

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Speaker 3: from that business. You might be the top realatory, you

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Speaker 3: might have three folk salons that got that online hair brand,

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Speaker 3: but can you turn that shit off and be a

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Speaker 3: woman at home Because a nigga don't give a fuck

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Speaker 3: about you being a boss in the house. Right, this

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Speaker 3: nigga gonna put his mic down, like you ain't gonna talk.

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Speaker 5: What do you think where you think our culture when

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Speaker 5: that changed though, Like when you thinking black coature, that

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Speaker 5: all changed.

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Speaker 3: So for me, I mean I could go, I could

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Speaker 3: go way back, but I like to just kind of

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Speaker 3: bring it to a you know, we're both okay, So

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Speaker 3: so on the surface level.

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Speaker 4: Late nineteen sixties early nineteen.

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Speaker 6: When took them out of the house.

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Speaker 4: Yes, them fucking welfare programs.

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Speaker 3: And I see so many people trying to rebuttle the

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Speaker 3: fuck out of this online. It is a fact that

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Speaker 3: those programs were set up a certain way to continue

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Speaker 3: with the economically castrating black males, but then also putting

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Speaker 3: our mindset in the space where psychologically we raise our

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Speaker 3: when you go all the way back to slavery life,

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Speaker 3: you know the number one thing a way to control

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Speaker 3: a nigga, take the mind, keep the body strong, but

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Speaker 3: take the fucking mind. They'll work hard towards your agenda

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Speaker 3: without thinking twice about what the hell they're doing. And

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Speaker 3: you know, really, even when you go back to slavery,

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Speaker 3: it's started with females. Just while they took the biggest,

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Speaker 3: women and kids, beat the fuck out of them.

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Similar to what we seeing today when you see niggas

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Speaker 3: being murdered over and over again, they publicizing that it's everywhere,

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Speaker 3: police killing niggas. Niggas killing niggas is constantly being put

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Speaker 3: in front of our faces. So you show that this

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Speaker 3: nigga looks strong, but he ain't really strong compared to

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Speaker 3: the system or the white man, so to speak, just

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Speaker 3: giving you the imagery. Right, So then you got mothers

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Speaker 3: raising children based on you know, let me, let me

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Speaker 3: train my children up, my boys, I'm a baby them,

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Speaker 3: I'm you know, raise them a certain way.

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Speaker 7: To basically desensitizing our people to the black male masculinity.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and so now we're.

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Speaker 3: Used to seeing niggas get fucked up to the point

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Speaker 3: where we okay with fucking niggas.

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Speaker 1: But used to seeing niggas not being solid in no capacity. Shit.

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Speaker 1: Niggas get locked up, they tell, yep, you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, Niggas bitching up in all types of ways.

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Speaker 1: So it's like it's just like, yep, this ship, it's

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Speaker 1: really okay now because this is there's no consequences to

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Speaker 1: this ship.

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Speaker 3: And if you understand psychology and condition, and you show

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Speaker 3: a bit something over and over again enough times, I

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Speaker 3: don't give a fuck who you are is gonna affect

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Speaker 3: your mind. Me y'all included, show a motherfucker with an

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Speaker 3: agenda over.

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Speaker 1: And over the same type of shit.

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Speaker 3: We don't even realize we programmed to believe black men

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Speaker 3: ain't shit before you even interact with a black man

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Speaker 3: that ain't shit.

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Speaker 4: It's it's in your mind, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: So you you got it?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, So look, I'm mean to cut you out, but

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Speaker 7: this is okay speaking on that about believing that a

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Speaker 7: nigga ain't shit before you even for real see the niggain' shit.

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Speaker 7: There was There was this thing on Instagram the other day.

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Speaker 3: So it is relevant what a person has been through

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Speaker 3: You know, what are you doing with those experiences? And

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Speaker 3: You got to tell the human and program the mind

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Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, bringing life.

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Speaker 1: But basically all the ship boil down to man mental illness, bro. Everything,

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Speaker 8: It ain't gonna work out, trauma.

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Speaker 4: But so for me, the root is in our upbringing.

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Speaker 3: Right exactly you and you can you can overcome, you know,

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Speaker 3: But the other part of it is we don't want

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Speaker 1: But I don't know.

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Speaker 3: In our community, all folks don't want you to tell

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Speaker 3: But if I go to, yes, if I go to

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Speaker 1: I got the damn fight with Mama.

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Speaker 3: She gonna damn don' want to knock me out, you know,

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Speaker 1: I asked me some therapy too.

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Speaker 7: And then that all goes back to accountability too, because

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it because that's the excuse it does.

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Speaker 3: And I'm gonna tell y'all, like when I was growing up,

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Speaker 4: You're gonna get popped in your motherfucking mouth if you

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Speaker 3: So it's like from young age we was trained to

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Speaker 1: From.

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Speaker 3: What I'm saying is they okay, they never gonna call

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Speaker 4: But we've seen a lot of fla ships.

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Speaker 3: How older people like Aunty, I know you lying, But

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Speaker 3: if I say, Auntie, you lie, now, I finna get

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to get my ask saying what's real?

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Speaker 3: And you can't even if you didn't say the word lying,

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Speaker 3: If you just tried to say Auntie Fibby, you in

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Speaker 1: You know, what's the sigma?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 1: Like I told, I told her one time before I

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Speaker 1: told him my grandma like, it's just like you inherit

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Speaker 1: being a hater too. I used to see my grandma

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Speaker 1: like I'm telling you. As I get old, I realized

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Speaker 4: The grown faul business. The kitchen is grown.

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Speaker 1: Y'all talking about By the time she got a new store,

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Speaker 1: that ragging motherfuckers she got she need to be cooking outside.

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Speaker 1: He's eating on the lady store. But you couldn't.

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Speaker 3: You could never say that. You could never come out

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Speaker 1: Growing up? You you you can.

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Speaker 3: Tell your parents is at odds they separated or whatever?

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Speaker 3: You know, you can see from the energy. My mama

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Speaker 3: don't really fuck with my daddy. No, mama, Dad don't

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Speaker 3: you gotta be faith. When I go with Daddy, I

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Speaker 4: I can't act excided about certain ship when I'm with Mama.

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Speaker 3: I can't excited up, you know, like I'm too in

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Speaker 4: Gonna give me the energy like I'm aggravating her.

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Speaker 7: You should be fucked up, especially like on kids because.

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Speaker 3: Already, yeah, you you know you want to say, mom,

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Speaker 3: I want to go with my daddy, but she gonna

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Speaker 3: with some of these new age mama your dad about

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Speaker 3: mom my daddy said he gonna take me here.

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Speaker 1: Fuck your dad. I don't want to of that ship now,

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Speaker 1: lying when.

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Speaker 6: Was the last time he took you anywhere?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: So now I'm around my mama acting like I'm onna

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Speaker 3: fuck with my daddy like that, Go with my daddy.

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Speaker 4: Don't say too much about my mama.

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Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying. Like him.

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Speaker 7: By the time you get along away from both of them,

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Speaker 7: you crazy as head, flaw.

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Speaker 1: In the bitch, we'd be six seven flaweding the bit

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Speaker 8: She'll tell them.

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Speaker 1: Kids he left us. Yep. Yeah, So nigga be like, well,

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Speaker 1: why my daddy leave me? No, bro, I left this

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Speaker 1: bitch because she was crazy and I know I won't

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Speaker 1: end up doing the wrong shit right now, you know.

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Speaker 3: But but you know you can't say that. You know,

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Speaker 3: oh he left them with.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm so over that shit.

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Speaker 3: I see that should not be like these bitches got

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Speaker 3: to think we retarded to keep believing this narrative like

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Speaker 3: we we seeing holes outright trap niggas. We seeing bitches

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Speaker 3: outright crazy as fucking niggas is walking away from them

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Speaker 3: and them bitches making it Well, you're gonna walk away

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Speaker 3: from the child too, if you leave me alone. We're

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Speaker 7: Like And another thing too is a lot of these

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Speaker 2: Don't have rights and mix of that. I ain't gonna

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Speaker 8: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: You find the way, you find a way that God

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Speaker 3: Listen, I'm gonna tell you on that one point though,

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Speaker 3: for a lot of men, because I'm in the trenches

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Speaker 3: with they ask I disagree. It's a lot on what

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Speaker 3: I'm saying is it's a lot of niggas that you know,

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Speaker 3: they got the same you know narrative that I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: If as a woman and me and you had a baby,

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Speaker 3: I could keep you from that baby if I wanted to.

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Speaker 4: But if you want it's a way though, listen, especially if.

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Speaker 3: You're in the streets and you you still currently in

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Speaker 3: keep a baby from a nigga. Like we gotta stop

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Speaker 3: with ending like we don't know this ship. We have

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Speaker 3: a baby right now, you do me wrong. I can't

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Speaker 4: And I know holes right now they gonna tell you ass,

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00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:13,600
Speaker 4: that's what they do.

443
00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:14,520
Speaker 1: They don't give a funck. Nigga.

444
00:19:14,560 --> 00:19:16,160
Speaker 3: Don't want to be with me, nigga, you ain't finna

445
00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:18,520
Speaker 3: be around my baby. It's gonna be my baby. And

446
00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:20,720
Speaker 3: anytime somebody bringing you up, I'm gonna pay your ass

447
00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:22,520
Speaker 3: to be a deadbe even though you're willing to pull

448
00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:24,440
Speaker 3: up and give money by shoot. Like you said, I

449
00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:26,199
Speaker 3: ain't willing to get in front of the crackers and

450
00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:28,399
Speaker 3: put myself out there because I'm knowing my baby mama

451
00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:31,360
Speaker 3: get too upset, she'll tell him I see still sell dope.

452
00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:33,200
Speaker 3: But bro, come on now, we got to start being

453
00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:35,320
Speaker 3: honest about this shiit same way we willing to be

454
00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:38,280
Speaker 3: real that it's some dead beat ass niggas, it's some

455
00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:40,480
Speaker 3: holes by the masses on this bullshit.

456
00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:43,720
Speaker 4: I'll really, I don't really what you.

457
00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:46,919
Speaker 8: Think calls that, like what you think calls be like that?

458
00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:49,320
Speaker 3: It go back to programming from let me let me

459
00:19:49,440 --> 00:19:53,399
Speaker 3: put it like this, right when you raised in the household, yes.

460
00:19:53,040 --> 00:19:54,800
Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you.

461
00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:58,240
Speaker 3: Single mother headed households produce the worst product. And I'm

462
00:19:58,240 --> 00:19:59,800
Speaker 3: gonna tell y'all like when you okay, so as a

463
00:19:59,800 --> 00:20:02,439
Speaker 3: young girl, you being raised as no daddy around, you

464
00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:06,040
Speaker 3: don't know what it feels like to get correction or

465
00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:07,800
Speaker 3: you know, be in the presence of a man as

466
00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:10,080
Speaker 3: an authority figure. When yo, you can have a man

467
00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:11,840
Speaker 3: or like your mama could have a man around, or

468
00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:13,679
Speaker 3: your daddy could have been around, but if he's not

469
00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:16,760
Speaker 3: allowed to have influence, like make decisions without your mama

470
00:20:16,840 --> 00:20:20,600
Speaker 3: because that yeah, and put without your mama put your

471
00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:21,320
Speaker 3: two cents.

472
00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:24,200
Speaker 4: When a man make decisions, you ain't got no daddy around.

473
00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:27,000
Speaker 3: If he ain't have influence, right, So that's what I

474
00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:30,080
Speaker 3: mean by fatherlessness. A nigga might be round, like your

475
00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:32,280
Speaker 3: mama might have had a boyfriend or a stepdaddy, but

476
00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:34,840
Speaker 3: that nigga couldn't tell y'all shit without her pointing her

477
00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:37,600
Speaker 3: two cents, or your daddy really couldn't make no decisions

478
00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:39,800
Speaker 3: for y'all without your mama speaking on it.

479
00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:42,440
Speaker 4: Fatherlessness. All that shit is fatherlessness.

480
00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:43,959
Speaker 3: So if you're a young girl and you raise your

481
00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:47,639
Speaker 3: whole your whole upbringing seventeen eighteen years, you don't know

482
00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:49,440
Speaker 3: what it feel like to be in the presence of

483
00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:52,080
Speaker 3: a man that has some authority. How you gonna feel

484
00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:54,320
Speaker 3: comfortable with this shit out in the world. This while

485
00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:58,000
Speaker 3: we end up struggling as young ladies trying to process

486
00:20:58,040 --> 00:21:00,000
Speaker 3: and like feel comfortable around y'all feel like a nigga

487
00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:01,760
Speaker 3: trying to control you for like you're trying to tell

488
00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:03,400
Speaker 3: me what to do, for like you're trying to use

489
00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:05,240
Speaker 3: your money to do. It's a lot of shit we

490
00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:08,400
Speaker 3: misperceived or you know, we take it the wrong way

491
00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:10,240
Speaker 3: because we don't know what it feel like. They have

492
00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:12,560
Speaker 3: a daddy that say this is the decision as a man.

493
00:21:12,600 --> 00:21:14,480
Speaker 3: That ain't no woman coming and put her two cents

494
00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:17,800
Speaker 3: on it. Right then, you always seeing how a woman

495
00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:21,080
Speaker 3: solves and processes and run the household. This is your programming,

496
00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:24,120
Speaker 3: it's conditioning. Now flip the same shit to a young boy.

497
00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:28,480
Speaker 3: You sixteen seventeen, fully grown in your bills, but you

498
00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:30,320
Speaker 3: only ever saw a woman run shit.

499
00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:32,359
Speaker 4: You only ever saw your mama, you.

500
00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:34,760
Speaker 3: Know, decide how stuff gonna go in the household, and

501
00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:36,840
Speaker 3: we nurture her. So a lot of times women don't

502
00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:40,160
Speaker 3: even realize all that fussing the way you handling your son.

503
00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:43,640
Speaker 3: You fucking them up, and we think because they a bitch,

504
00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:45,959
Speaker 3: get grown, get a job, and they're paying their bills,

505
00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:48,400
Speaker 3: that we did a good job. Meanwhile, like you said,

506
00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:51,280
Speaker 3: a bitch working a job, psychologically fucked up, mental health

507
00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:52,480
Speaker 3: issues like a motherfucker.

508
00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:53,600
Speaker 1: But you get your check, you.

509
00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:56,000
Speaker 3: Go home, you pay your bills like the average American

510
00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:59,000
Speaker 3: living paycheck to paycheck up maybe a little bit above that,

511
00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:01,439
Speaker 3: but you got issh shoes. When it comes down the character,

512
00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:04,240
Speaker 3: when it comes down the conflict resolution skills when it

513
00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:09,879
Speaker 3: comes down to talk, and it's a lot of niggas

514
00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:14,960
Speaker 3: that they're not gay. They heterosexual males. They are attracted

515
00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:17,080
Speaker 3: to women, but they can't stand a fucking woman.

516
00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:18,600
Speaker 1: Hold up.

517
00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:22,159
Speaker 3: It's a lot of niggas that come from this fatherlessness

518
00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:24,679
Speaker 3: that on the surface like I ain't gay, I'm not

519
00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:25,359
Speaker 3: attracted to men.

520
00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:28,280
Speaker 4: I'm a heterosexual male, but I can't stand.

521
00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:33,800
Speaker 3: Bitches like I pursue them to fucking engage with your

522
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:35,480
Speaker 3: physical but talking.

523
00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:40,240
Speaker 1: To you all sick, Yes, you make me sick, like up.

524
00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:43,960
Speaker 3: Yep, because his ship you got.

525
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:45,240
Speaker 1: Shut the fuck up?

526
00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:52,159
Speaker 9: Man, talk to like I can't even talk to you

527
00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:55,920
Speaker 9: and you can't attract one hundred Yeah, no, he ain't.

528
00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:00,280
Speaker 1: They try to. Well, we're gonna talk to her about

529
00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:03,719
Speaker 1: like that's why you see mostly women like men. I

530
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:06,119
Speaker 1: can't like I don't. I don't want to show this

531
00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:10,680
Speaker 1: side because you can get really frustrated the ceiling life.

532
00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 3: You actually think like this, bro, you can't father, you can't,

533
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:20,880
Speaker 3: you can't penetrate. You chin gonna let you influencer when

534
00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:22,600
Speaker 3: you look at the family unit that she go get

535
00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:24,760
Speaker 3: advice from. When y'all talk and how y'all problems is

536
00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:27,000
Speaker 3: all women. None of them ain't got no man. Nobody

537
00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:29,960
Speaker 3: ain't got no successful marriage. Every bit of what's driving

538
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:32,359
Speaker 3: her has to do with being independent. Why she's saying

539
00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:34,040
Speaker 3: she wants to be in a relationship with you. So

540
00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:36,320
Speaker 3: then what you do is I start watching you more

541
00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:38,480
Speaker 3: than I pay attention to myself. So I'm watching all

542
00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:41,080
Speaker 3: your moves, how you is with your phone, your schedule,

543
00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:43,639
Speaker 3: just looking for ship because I can't sit with my

544
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:44,640
Speaker 3: own thoughts.

545
00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:46,720
Speaker 8: It's cold, cold.

546
00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:48,600
Speaker 3: And then when you I'm telling you when you're when

547
00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:51,439
Speaker 3: you're a lot of these grown men coming from single

548
00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:54,760
Speaker 3: mother headed household, they don't have no father during their upbringing,

549
00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:57,200
Speaker 3: no actual male influence. You get to the point where

550
00:23:57,240 --> 00:23:59,440
Speaker 3: you realize, like I be wanting to slap the shit

551
00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:02,359
Speaker 3: out of a bitch, like because from my perspective, like

552
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:05,440
Speaker 3: I don't know how to really process as a man,

553
00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:09,320
Speaker 3: and she acted like a man. Niggas and men, notice

554
00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:11,800
Speaker 3: y'all run out of words out to a certain extent,

555
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 3: like in an argument, a nigga gonna reach that cap.

556
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:18,160
Speaker 1: Because you you're gonna touch me like your words, don't

557
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:21,280
Speaker 1: touch me like a lick. See some niggas be fucked

558
00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:22,440
Speaker 1: up to the point where they don't know how to

559
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:24,920
Speaker 1: control themselves either. The best thing to do what camera

560
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:29,400
Speaker 1: with a camera. The best thing to do is eject

561
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:32,400
Speaker 1: yourself from that. Yes, because you're not gonna be able

562
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:34,879
Speaker 1: to if you know you can't control certain emotions, you

563
00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:35,800
Speaker 1: gotta re move yourself.

564
00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:38,960
Speaker 7: And then and then because the back and forth is

565
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:42,119
Speaker 7: only going to escalate because every I'm gonna tell you, women,

566
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 7: we could go for days in arguments.

567
00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:46,520
Speaker 3: We come up with clever ship, make up ship, take

568
00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:47,719
Speaker 3: shit out of our imagination.

569
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:48,160
Speaker 1: What else?

570
00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:51,440
Speaker 4: Nigga ain't processing ship that fast.

571
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:55,000
Speaker 3: They run out of words, so not like like you said.

572
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,439
Speaker 4: If you don't leave, and and the way these women are.

573
00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:59,919
Speaker 7: Nowadays, so bitch, I'm gonna make you shut up.

574
00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:02,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then you got a lot of women they

575
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:04,480
Speaker 3: don't realize this nigga out of words, so you ain't

576
00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:04,960
Speaker 3: saying nothing.

577
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:05,720
Speaker 1: You're trying to leave.

578
00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 3: Now she challenging you even more because a bitch thinking

579
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:11,880
Speaker 3: she a nigga. The independent boss ship got you believing

580
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:14,639
Speaker 3: to a grown ass man. Damn, there are two times

581
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:17,080
Speaker 3: your side you're finna make him do something. This is

582
00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:19,240
Speaker 3: when you see niggas walking away in a bitch, following

583
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 3: by at him, poking him in.

584
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,199
Speaker 1: The back of the head. Put that as nigga, you're

585
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:22,879
Speaker 1: gonna do that?

586
00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:25,840
Speaker 3: Come on?

587
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:37,440
Speaker 1: What protect that all? God bless her soul. Somebody needs

588
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:37,919
Speaker 1: to fix her.

589
00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:38,119
Speaker 5: You.

590
00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:41,120
Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell y'all, sh I had a femily member

591
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 3: one time, right, Liz. I had a family member.

592
00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 4: She arguing with her dude. So, and I was real young.

593
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:47,960
Speaker 4: So I'm just watching him argue. So I get to

594
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 4: the point where I can see he ran out of words.

595
00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:52,480
Speaker 3: I ain't know that's what this was back then. But

596
00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:55,400
Speaker 3: he went walking down down the sidewalk. He like this ship,

597
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:58,320
Speaker 3: I'm finna leave. She followed him, She pushing him. She's

598
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,080
Speaker 3: selling out, She yelling real. It was like you've seen

599
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:03,600
Speaker 3: something click and that nigga turned around and he just

600
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:05,960
Speaker 3: started chasing it. He never could get to it, like

601
00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:08,159
Speaker 3: she running. He never could get to it. When I

602
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:11,040
Speaker 3: tell you, he beat the car up. He beat the car.

603
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:12,640
Speaker 1: He was punching.

604
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 3: It was like, but I watched to push him to

605
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 3: that point, like, and I'm like, bro, and I'm knowing

606
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:19,840
Speaker 3: like this family, so I'm knowing this nigga don't got

607
00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 3: no real father. Figures in his life. Men teach men

608
00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 3: how to process anger. Women don't teach men this because

609
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 3: we don't know. Yeah, you gotta get that ship from

610
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 3: a man. And when you're a black man in America,

611
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 3: you have to have a mature, positive black male role model,

612
00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 3: like help you process and understand what you are because

613
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:43,720
Speaker 3: anger looks different on y'all. A Black man mad don't

614
00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:45,960
Speaker 3: look like a white man mad, or an Asian man mad,

615
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:47,920
Speaker 3: or it don't look the same.

616
00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:50,959
Speaker 4: Bro, Do you realize you black? I told you, bro,

617
00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 4: what you look like anger? No other shit. It just

618
00:26:56,160 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 4: looks scary. They'll shoot your ass and lock you based

619
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:00,880
Speaker 4: so hot.

620
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:03,200
Speaker 6: You see how that just did Kroy beer Man, This

621
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:05,159
Speaker 6: nigga say, I ain't even remember his kids. He was

622
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:07,160
Speaker 6: yelling and screaming at the police. They didn't do ship.

623
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:10,400
Speaker 1: You can't be afraid to be wrong with your boy.

624
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 1: That's why my boys I make sure I stayed around

625
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:14,440
Speaker 1: them forever, no matter what I went through my relationship

626
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:16,920
Speaker 1: with the fuck that ain't. I can't do that, you

627
00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:18,399
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. The niggas grown up, but they

628
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:21,440
Speaker 1: processing ship differently. But all the time you were calling

629
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 1: me a bitch, I was being a bitch. You gotta

630
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:26,600
Speaker 1: let niggas know, bro, that's I'm not saying you're a bitch,

631
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 1: but you're acting like a bitch for me. So you're

632
00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:31,360
Speaker 1: not a bitch. Yeah, but you're acting like a bitch.

633
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:33,159
Speaker 1: You doing your face and ship. Just say what you

634
00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 1: want to say, nig you're making your face and fresh,

635
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:36,399
Speaker 1: and that's what your mama do.

636
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:39,119
Speaker 3: You might bitch you a nigga, but you have to

637
00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:42,080
Speaker 3: teach boys boys up. Yeah, that you you saying some

638
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:44,880
Speaker 3: real ship. Boys have to be taught to process what's

639
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:48,240
Speaker 3: happening with them and articulated or walk the fuck away

640
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:49,720
Speaker 3: and go see by theyself.

641
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:51,879
Speaker 1: Yeah. And when you when you ain't been raised to

642
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 1: do this, like, we will eat you up. Emotions relationship, Like,

643
00:27:57,680 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 1: your emotions and feelings are the same. But you gotta

644
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:01,520
Speaker 1: be able to child on yours because you're a man. Women,

645
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:05,119
Speaker 1: we can get away with a lot more you got Yeah, yeah, okay,

646
00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 1: but that's acting like a bitch. Okay. If she said,

647
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:09,919
Speaker 1: if she said somebody of her mouth that she can

648
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:11,200
Speaker 1: control cuz was a mouth.

649
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:11,879
Speaker 8: That's what bitches do.

650
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:14,960
Speaker 1: How you doing this right? So we gotta make that

651
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:17,359
Speaker 1: shit look like some bit shit the nigga like broy

652
00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 1: argue with the bitch.

653
00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 3: We don't do so, bro, when you ain't throughout your

654
00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:23,360
Speaker 3: whole upbringing, if you never had no men to show

655
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:24,920
Speaker 3: you that this is woman behavior.

656
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 4: This all you've seen. It's a fact.

657
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:30,000
Speaker 3: Children model what they see facts. So you get to

658
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:31,720
Speaker 3: a point where you know you a boy, but I

659
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:33,800
Speaker 3: got so many of my mama ways because it ain't

660
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:36,119
Speaker 3: never been no men, because you've never seen anything to

661
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:37,439
Speaker 3: the contrast, and.

662
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:37,960
Speaker 1: You can't that.

663
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 3: The thing is, how can you argue with this ship

664
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:43,120
Speaker 3: like your son that you raise, it only has ever

665
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:46,640
Speaker 3: seen you problem solved you and how you are with emotions,

666
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 3: running the household, with just certain shit, with family, your

667
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 3: decision making.

668
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 4: He gonna grow up and make decisions like a bitch

669
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 4: and women.

670
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:55,160
Speaker 6: We be knowing this, we just.

671
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 3: Don't want to admit our accountability in it. So we

672
00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 3: will say it's a lot of bitch as niggas in

673
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:01,440
Speaker 3: the day and pool. It's pissed in the dating pool.

674
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,240
Speaker 3: These niggas be acting like holes. What's wrong with these niggas?

675
00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:05,960
Speaker 3: But then, like when I want to talk about where

676
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 3: they got it from, why these niggas got these problems?

677
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:08,960
Speaker 6: They're not already.

678
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:10,240
Speaker 3: We don't want to talk about that. No, No, you

679
00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:12,880
Speaker 3: can't talk about single mamas. No, don't talk about some

680
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 3: of the mamas.

681
00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 1: Be trying to be real though, because I'm gonna keep

682
00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 1: it one hundred like I told, because my wife she

683
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 1: gets to my boy the rock like but now I

684
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 1: had to break it down and flip it on it,

685
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:24,360
Speaker 1: and I feel like this when she finally got the ship.

686
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:26,520
Speaker 1: You teach your boys not to go for you want

687
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 1: me to go for. Women know the difference because you're

688
00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 1: gonna tell your son like, nah, if she acting like that,

689
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 1: she mean this. But so when you I was taught

690
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 1: this too, mm, so don't you You're gonna run some

691
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:42,480
Speaker 1: shit on meet it. You don't want to be bringing

692
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:44,680
Speaker 1: on your son, right, So you know the difference, right,

693
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 1: I can't argue with that, that's say. But but you

694
00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:49,280
Speaker 1: can't argue with that cause you just tell her like, hey,

695
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 1: you should never go for this. If she say this,

696
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 1: you should never this. You will tell these boys that,

697
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 1: But you'll turn around and say this shit to me

698
00:29:57,360 --> 00:30:00,760
Speaker 1: and be mad at me because I'm I'm not accepting that.

699
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:03,080
Speaker 1: You were just owning your feelings because I heard you say,

700
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 1: if a motherfucker say that, THEYMN fuck with you like that, or.

701
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:09,440
Speaker 8: If motherfucker do that, you get what I'm saying. So

702
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:10,600
Speaker 8: he'd be double standing too.

703
00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:12,680
Speaker 1: They know they know right from wrong, but I'd be

704
00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 1: so far in my feelings. Fuck it, I teach negativity

705
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:18,800
Speaker 1: just because I'm in my feeling that I know I'm

706
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 1: leaving you the wrong way.

707
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 3: Yeah they say anything else, Yeah, but a lot of

708
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:31,440
Speaker 3: it have to do with like the relationships in which

709
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:34,160
Speaker 3: these kids was born from the situations like we don't

710
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 3: talk about that enough, right, please, they're not Like there's

711
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:43,920
Speaker 3: a good part of of this new generation that was not.

712
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:47,640
Speaker 1: Relationship because a lot of.

713
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 3: That's why they was born because it puts it feel

714
00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 3: good without a rubble. That's why they Yeah, that's why

715
00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 3: she got pregnant, and it's why for me, Like when

716
00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 3: I'm talking to young girls and I'm raising girls, like,

717
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 3: do not believe that just because a man want to

718
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 3: fuck you wrong, he want to have a baby with you.

719
00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 1: Because that's not the case anymore.

720
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 3: And we're not going back to that until women change

721
00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:14,720
Speaker 3: their standards, Like niggas is fucking wrong for the feeling.

722
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:15,960
Speaker 1: And you got all these young.

723
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:18,600
Speaker 3: Girls screaming, well, he slept with me raw and he

724
00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 3: nutted in me.

725
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 4: He knew what was gonna happen.

726
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 3: And now you're a single mother and the nigga is

727
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 3: not stunning you. He don't give a fuck by you

728
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 3: saying that dad beat baby daddy. Shit, gonna get on

729
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:30,040
Speaker 3: welfare and struggle and say you did the best you can. Yeah, like,

730
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 3: just like you gonna just keep repeating the same for

731
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:36,960
Speaker 3: as shit and don't get you better now, no facts,

732
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 3: you know better, not saying you know better, you know better.

733
00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:43,480
Speaker 1: You know this nigga ain't even being baby dadd of

734
00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 1: material or how he pull up on him.

735
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 3: But when you can't attract no difference from when you

736
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 3: can't attract no different you be like fuck it because

737
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:53,720
Speaker 3: your inner is saying I need a man. I don't

738
00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 3: go fuck with a bitch, say out they mouth. Our

739
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 3: biology is wired for a companionship. Like there are species

740
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 3: of animals and organisms that do not run in groups.

741
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:06,800
Speaker 3: But then there are the animals in species and humans

742
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 3: that we are wired in our biology to collectively group together,

743
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 3: to socialize. That's why if you isolate a nigga, your

744
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 3: mind will organically fuck up, fuck up, like when you

745
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 3: put a nigga in solitary confinement long enough, he go

746
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:24,479
Speaker 3: crazy because we're not wired for like being it along.

747
00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 4: Yes, we're not built for that.

748
00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 5: So what about the women who complain since there's more

749
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:33,040
Speaker 5: women than men? What's your philosophy on that there's more

750
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 5: women than wen So if it's supposed to be one

751
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 5: one to one, that ain't numerically possible.

752
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:40,440
Speaker 1: So what's your thought? Those are facts?

753
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 3: But you got to look at history, right, So when

754
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:46,520
Speaker 3: we talk about historically the whole agenda that economically castorate

755
00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:50,320
Speaker 3: black males, when you look at mass incarceration, who's mass

756
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 3: incarcerated the black males. So the idea is if you

757
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:57,160
Speaker 3: look at what's going on with black males getting killed,

758
00:32:57,360 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 3: and you look at what's going on with black males

759
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:02,480
Speaker 3: being incarcerated, this is why it is a fact that

760
00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:05,680
Speaker 3: the ratio is off. There are more women in regards

761
00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 3: to like dating and relationships than there are men, and

762
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 3: this is why a lot of women do end up

763
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 3: sharing and you know, the shit end up crossing over

764
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:15,320
Speaker 3: with you know, you fuck with him and then I

765
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:15,959
Speaker 3: fuck with him.

766
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:17,600
Speaker 1: That type of shit. We got to be honest.

767
00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 3: So now it still goes back to what I said

768
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 3: about fatherlesseness, like it is a statistical fact that single

769
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 3: mother headed households produce the worst product. And if you

770
00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 3: just want to talk about the imprisonment statistic, when they

771
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:33,520
Speaker 3: do polls in prisons or they go through and you

772
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 3: grew up with both parents, you grew up with both majorities,

773
00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:38,720
Speaker 3: seventy five to.

774
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 4: Ninety percent of men black men locked up.

775
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 3: I can even say in general the population locked up,

776
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:46,880
Speaker 3: they came from single mother headed households.

777
00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 4: So here we go.

778
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 3: You want to complain about the dating pool and how

779
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 3: there are not enough black men, you know, in ratio

780
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 3: to women, but then you don't want to do anything

781
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:57,360
Speaker 3: about the problem or the root of what's helping route them.

782
00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:58,520
Speaker 4: To be locked the fuck up.

783
00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:02,760
Speaker 3: They need male influence, they need fathers, they need men.

784
00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 3: Nobody give a fuck if you like your baby daddy

785
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 3: or not.

786
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 4: Your child will.

787
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:11,440
Speaker 3: Turn out better mentally, physically, emotionally, psychologically if there are

788
00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 3: men and women.

789
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:15,240
Speaker 1: A part of his or her upbringing, fear and styles.

790
00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:19,560
Speaker 1: Even if you get it, even if you still getting

791
00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 1: it in a negative way, you getting how to be

792
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:23,800
Speaker 1: a man, matter what, even if you're getting it in

793
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:27,879
Speaker 1: ways that that may not be you're conventional. You're still

794
00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:29,720
Speaker 1: gonna get some type of something.

795
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:32,920
Speaker 3: But you know how you uh, you know how you

796
00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:35,839
Speaker 3: said earlier, like a nigga will conform to what you're

797
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 3: accusing him of. Right, we gotta change our verbage if

798
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:42,920
Speaker 3: we start genuinely saying to men in general, I need

799
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,200
Speaker 3: help raising the boys. Hey, I need help, Like, I

800
00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:46,560
Speaker 3: don't fuck with you the more you're still a bitch

801
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:49,400
Speaker 3: ass nigga, but I need your presence for my children.

802
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:52,600
Speaker 3: Like if we change the narrative as mothers and as

803
00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:55,279
Speaker 3: women in regards to letting men know that there's a

804
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 3: certain standard we need y'all. Fuck, men want to be respected,

805
00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 3: They want I feel needed. Right, All that lovey w

806
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:04,319
Speaker 3: shit that ain't what push a man to be a man.

807
00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:07,200
Speaker 3: It's him knowing that shit counting on me is stuff

808
00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:09,680
Speaker 3: that is is you know, a necessity that I show

809
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:10,000
Speaker 3: up for.

810
00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:12,120
Speaker 1: If we change that, you will see.

811
00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:15,800
Speaker 3: The mindset of Nigga's shift and the boys that were raising,

812
00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 3: we will push them towards understanding men that are stepping up.

813
00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:22,040
Speaker 3: Those are the men to be praised, not the ones

814
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:24,520
Speaker 3: just walking around with wads of cash and design on.

815
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:27,359
Speaker 3: You see, what I'm saying, like, we gotta start changing

816
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:29,480
Speaker 3: the narrative because for us as females, you gotta think

817
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:29,759
Speaker 3: about it.

818
00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:31,799
Speaker 4: We keep screaming we don't need a nigga for nothing.

819
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:34,279
Speaker 3: We're where I be fine, had a baby still in

820
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:36,760
Speaker 3: their stomach, Tomo, I'm gonna raise mind by myself.

821
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 1: Nigga.

822
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 4: Ain't shit like he said.

823
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:39,360
Speaker 1: Nigga.

824
00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 3: Damn there conformed to your narrative because you saying it

825
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:43,000
Speaker 3: out loud so much.

826
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:46,799
Speaker 1: Okay, you want to raise baby? Bye? Sorry bitch. John

827
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:47,440
Speaker 1: yone is.

828
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:50,320
Speaker 6: Just like y'all didn't see the y'all didn't see the

829
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:52,560
Speaker 6: shit today. Well, my boy, I ain't gonna call his name,

830
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:55,080
Speaker 6: but he had a situation. I guess.

831
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:57,359
Speaker 7: I don't know if he actually dealt with the girl

832
00:35:57,440 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 7: or whatever, because I didn't read the whole thing, but

833
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:02,920
Speaker 7: she was trying to expose him through text messages, and

834
00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:04,600
Speaker 7: basically he was saying.

835
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:06,800
Speaker 6: Like, Bro, I don't want to kid.

836
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:09,200
Speaker 1: Sunday.

837
00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 8: He don't want to be bro.

838
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:12,759
Speaker 6: I don't want a kid like. I don't want a

839
00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 6: kid like. And then she was like, so what do

840
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:15,200
Speaker 6: you expake me to do?

841
00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 1: And he was like hey, she but that goes into

842
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:22,640
Speaker 1: something else, Like these days they feel like, Okay, you

843
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 1: knew what you were doing, but that's not true. That's

844
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 1: what I'm trying to say, Like this, this is my thing. Right.

845
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:29,680
Speaker 4: If this didn't know what they was doing, there was

846
00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:32,840
Speaker 4: fucking wrong. I was trying to get some raw pussy.

847
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:33,839
Speaker 4: That's what I was doing.

848
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:35,399
Speaker 1: That's what I knew that I was doing.

849
00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 3: You also know the same way you you can say

850
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 3: a nigga know that fucking you all gonna get you pregnant.

851
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:42,759
Speaker 3: You know that fucking a nigga row that is not

852
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:45,560
Speaker 3: your man, or you're not in some sort of serious

853
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:48,440
Speaker 3: commitment where the man shows behavior that he's gonna step up,

854
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:48,920
Speaker 3: or you're not.

855
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:52,359
Speaker 1: You knew that was a risk too.

856
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:55,399
Speaker 3: So it's like we just gotta start being real. Men

857
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 3: need to start being more honest upfront. Baby, I want

858
00:36:58,120 --> 00:36:59,239
Speaker 3: that pussy wrong, but not.

859
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:02,960
Speaker 4: For no kid, and females need to start.

860
00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 1: Being honest that.

861
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:07,160
Speaker 6: But but I mean, just I know this probably sounds

862
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:07,760
Speaker 6: like you ain't.

863
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 4: Got to want to hear but it's bad, but you

864
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:15,279
Speaker 4: but I mean, how could you?

865
00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 6: How could how could you not know that a nigga

866
00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 6: don't want a kid? If y'all don't have no type

867
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:21,440
Speaker 6: of nothing in common.

868
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:22,960
Speaker 4: We know they just don't give a fuck.

869
00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:24,600
Speaker 1: Y'all understand, we don't give a fuck.

870
00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:26,880
Speaker 4: The cycle we don't get, we're gonna repeat and this

871
00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:30,400
Speaker 4: is the thing. We're repeating it because the women before

872
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:31,360
Speaker 4: us showed us that.

873
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 1: It's all right.

874
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:34,960
Speaker 7: But that's like but and I hate to sound like

875
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:38,359
Speaker 7: one of those what they be calling those people, one

876
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 7: of those pigmy people or whatever.

877
00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 6: But like, wouldn't that be common sense?

878
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:46,280
Speaker 4: It is, it's very much common sense. It's for women.

879
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:47,200
Speaker 1: We deal more.

880
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:52,359
Speaker 3: We deal more in emotions and you know, just going

881
00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 3: off of what we came up with in our mind,

882
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:56,279
Speaker 3: our imagination than actual fact.

883
00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:57,360
Speaker 1: Because I'm gonna tell you some shit.

884
00:37:57,239 --> 00:37:58,640
Speaker 7: But I mean, who wants to go through that and

885
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 7: emotional turmoil having to fucking try to deal with a

886
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:07,160
Speaker 7: nigger or try to capture a nigga with a baby that.

887
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 4: You don't that you don't but something that you feel

888
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:10,520
Speaker 4: like there ain't nothing.

889
00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:13,840
Speaker 1: So if I attach myself to something that's halfway something,

890
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:17,240
Speaker 1: I'm still being a murdering on this nigga life because

891
00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 1: I got this. That guy got a bargaining chip. No

892
00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 1: matter what, I can make you a fuck, nigga, I

893
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:23,439
Speaker 1: can make you a real nigga. You gonna take it whatever.

894
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 1: I got somebody that I can, you know, because everybody

895
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:28,799
Speaker 1: looking for somebody to blame while they not who they're

896
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 1: supposed to be victim. I got this.

897
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:32,880
Speaker 4: We want to be a victim.

898
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:35,799
Speaker 1: I got this person, this baby, I would be out

899
00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:37,320
Speaker 1: doing my things. I ain't have this baby.

900
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:38,200
Speaker 8: I did my baby.

901
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 3: My baby, yep is my fault cause you a piece

902
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 3: of shit, But it gives them an excuse to be

903
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 3: a low life exactly like, and this is that whole

904
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:48,440
Speaker 3: best you can I'm gonna tell you all this right.

905
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:50,800
Speaker 3: So I did a live and I was explaining to

906
00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 3: young women because like I said, I'm raising daughters, so

907
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:55,920
Speaker 3: I want the generations under me to get the real

908
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 3: I don't give a fun make us a look. I'm

909
00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:00,440
Speaker 3: one of those people that baby. If I'm older than you,

910
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:01,680
Speaker 3: I wanna give a fuck.

911
00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:02,359
Speaker 1: How make me look?

912
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:03,359
Speaker 4: I want you to know the truth.

913
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:07,840
Speaker 3: Everybody you see before you what's dumbling a motherfucker keeping

914
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:10,120
Speaker 3: a baby from a nigga or allowing a nigga the

915
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:13,279
Speaker 3: fuck because I go before the whole pregnancy, allowing a

916
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:15,200
Speaker 3: nigga to fuck them wrong without getting to know that

917
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:17,960
Speaker 3: man's character first and get an understanding for if he's

918
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 3: a family man and wants children. We was dumbed at

919
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:23,520
Speaker 3: the bitch in this community digging has a disease, right,

920
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:27,279
Speaker 3: But even just character like it comes down to it,

921
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:32,040
Speaker 3: if you could co parent, you could equally together, you know,

922
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:36,040
Speaker 3: produce a successful product. Here's what I'm saying, though, as women,

923
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:40,520
Speaker 3: we keep screaming niggas bear the responsibility for getting us pregnant,

924
00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:45,960
Speaker 3: but scientifically we already one hundred thousand in in regard

925
00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:49,239
Speaker 3: suggests the blood, sweat and tears wants a baby gives.

926
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:50,120
Speaker 1: So let's let's put it.

927
00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:51,240
Speaker 6: How does a nigga?

928
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:54,600
Speaker 7: How does a nigga bear the responsibility for getting a

929
00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:56,640
Speaker 7: bit pregnant if he purchased the pussy.

930
00:39:58,080 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 4: That's it's it's I thought.

931
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:00,279
Speaker 1: I thought the.

932
00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:05,279
Speaker 10: Exchange financial because we hold all liability and responsibility.

933
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:15,440
Speaker 4: Baby, Well, we were in the day, right, she right?

934
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 3: Because even outside of just the tricking, we're in the

935
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 3: day and age of transactional relationship.

936
00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 4: You is you buying the ship.

937
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:24,400
Speaker 1: Basically, what I'm saying is, Okay, I get.

938
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 6: It's like once I pay for this, once.

939
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:27,920
Speaker 10: To hear nothing else.

940
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:29,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, because that's what I pay for.

941
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:35,760
Speaker 6: Yeah, baby cares and scream has a heart. That's why he's.

942
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:42,799
Speaker 1: A baby. But okay, so what I'm saying, it's like accountability.

943
00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 10: I'm just playing Devil's advocate.

944
00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:46,920
Speaker 3: So so but let me okay, so let me say

945
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:49,759
Speaker 3: this scream from a from a keeping it real and

946
00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 3: just being accountable. Right as as women, we're saying it's

947
00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:56,080
Speaker 3: the responsibility like is on you as a nigga.

948
00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:57,839
Speaker 1: You is your sperm? You can't.

949
00:40:57,880 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 10: Responsibility is supposed to be on the John from a pro.

950
00:41:01,680 --> 00:41:05,799
Speaker 1: He's speaking from he's speaking from that's logic. But he's

951
00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 1: speaking though, because it is. It really is on you.

952
00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:15,759
Speaker 1: It's on you. You you you, that you, that you

953
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:17,880
Speaker 1: that week, that you'll get a bit pregnant, that you

954
00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 1: no hold on, hold on, hold on, because go both ways.

955
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:27,400
Speaker 10: But I'm a I'm a pig pick up person or

956
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:28,880
Speaker 10: whatever you call that ship whatever.

957
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:31,880
Speaker 6: Oh I'm sorry, I'm a I'm a yeah whatever.

958
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:37,759
Speaker 7: But my thing is is okay, true enough, part of

959
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:42,000
Speaker 7: partial responsibility relies on the nigga because it's his firm

960
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:44,640
Speaker 7: and all that ship whatever whatever. But at the end

961
00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 7: of the day, if you as a female, know that

962
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:50,360
Speaker 7: you're in a situation where.

963
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:53,680
Speaker 1: I get what you're saying. Nah, it's on the nigga

964
00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:56,839
Speaker 1: bro that should be talking. Listen, you gonna listen one

965
00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:58,400
Speaker 1: thing about it. You see what your mama went through,

966
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 1: You see what everybody go through. You said that this

967
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:02,360
Speaker 1: is the type of bitch that may have you in

968
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:04,920
Speaker 1: a situation that you might not like this bitch in

969
00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:07,200
Speaker 1: nine months, So how are you gonna play with yourself

970
00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 1: like that?

971
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:09,719
Speaker 7: No, but what I'm saying, But what I'm saying is

972
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 7: if there if there's if there's an agree, if there's

973
00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:15,359
Speaker 7: an I feel like, if there's an agreement or if

974
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:21,239
Speaker 7: there's a mutual understanding, that whatever happens after this, like this.

975
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,640
Speaker 6: Is, this is what this is, and it's not supposed

976
00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:25,759
Speaker 6: to be anything else after that.

977
00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:31,400
Speaker 4: Cause let me ki.

978
00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:34,720
Speaker 1: No, what I'm saying this is advocate, you know what I'm.

979
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:38,759
Speaker 6: But it's like, but it's like if if if you

980
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 6: know for a fact that Okay, again, this is a transaction.

981
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:45,920
Speaker 7: This is not a relationship. This is not a love

982
00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:48,799
Speaker 7: making session. This is not like none of that ship.

983
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 7: This is I'm about to fuck you, I'm about to

984
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:53,360
Speaker 7: pay you to let let you let me fuck you,

985
00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:56,319
Speaker 7: and then after that, like call it quinch. You might

986
00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:57,719
Speaker 7: be able to hit me up every now and then

987
00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:00,280
Speaker 7: so we can pay the fuck again or whatever.

988
00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:01,799
Speaker 6: But other than that, like I.

989
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 1: Got motives, You just gotta look at most women like

990
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 1: they all got terior motive until this. Okay, so listen,

991
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:13,880
Speaker 1: and so does the same thing go.

992
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:16,919
Speaker 7: That's what I'm asking you, so basically is the same

993
00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:19,799
Speaker 7: Does the same thing go for a prostitute that's walking

994
00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:20,279
Speaker 7: the street, but.

995
00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:26,439
Speaker 1: A prostitute me let me, let me kill this whole ship.

996
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 1: You're you're correct about? Is your sperm and where you

997
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:31,600
Speaker 1: leave it at?

998
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 9: Right?

999
00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:36,680
Speaker 1: There are in any other animal in the world, Yes, behaving,

1000
00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:39,160
Speaker 1: that's my kid, right, But I'm just trying to say, is.

1001
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:43,400
Speaker 4: Right, it's your you. You not in a prostitute or not.

1002
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:47,239
Speaker 4: It's right, but you okay, you not in a prostitute

1003
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:48,880
Speaker 4: or not. That's your Your.

1004
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:50,359
Speaker 1: Child is growing your your sperm.

1005
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:54,200
Speaker 3: Right. What I'm putting into perspective is and I won't

1006
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:58,759
Speaker 3: your yes or no answer, who is carrying the majority

1007
00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:01,400
Speaker 3: of the weight the wind is?

1008
00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:03,080
Speaker 1: Okay?

1009
00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:04,920
Speaker 3: So here's what I'm saying, right, and I'm gonna put

1010
00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:07,640
Speaker 3: it in street terminology right, We're finna go in on

1011
00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 3: the reel.

1012
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:10,400
Speaker 6: You gonna put in a hundred thousand.

1013
00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:12,960
Speaker 3: Hold on, you're gonna put in a hundred thousand, right,

1014
00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:17,280
Speaker 3: and then I'm gonna put in ten thousand. Who should

1015
00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:19,959
Speaker 3: be worried more about if the peck knows what I'm saying?

1016
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 4: Who should be No?

1017
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:24,359
Speaker 3: Come on, bro, no, but let me finish my point though,

1018
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:26,400
Speaker 3: who should be worried more about if the peck make

1019
00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:32,120
Speaker 3: it back? So in baby making, the female is the

1020
00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:34,400
Speaker 3: one putting in a hundred thousand by the time the

1021
00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 3: baby born.

1022
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 4: Hold On, let me finished, though. By the time the

1023
00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 4: baby born, you still intact physically.

1024
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:42,160
Speaker 3: You ain't gain no weight, Your hormones ain't changed, Your

1025
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:44,600
Speaker 3: nose ain't spread, your hip the same spread. Your shit

1026
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:47,319
Speaker 3: ain't but stopen. You ain't got no stretch marks. Your

1027
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:49,920
Speaker 3: tea is ain't sagging, You ain't got certain stuff. You

1028
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:51,799
Speaker 3: ain't got to take off from work. You ain't gotta

1029
00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:55,480
Speaker 3: miss no bread. I'm one hundred thousand in over your teen.

1030
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:56,440
Speaker 1: When the baby born.

1031
00:44:56,680 --> 00:44:59,319
Speaker 3: So if you ask me when we talk about raw sex,

1032
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:01,759
Speaker 3: who you need to pay attention to the column be.

1033
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:03,120
Speaker 6: And put on us.

1034
00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:08,040
Speaker 4: You ain't right.

1035
00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:15,560
Speaker 1: Walk away? About it. Listen, this is what they missing,

1036
00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:18,640
Speaker 1: what we're missing Black. As a man, you should already know,

1037
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:20,560
Speaker 1: especially if you was a nigga the hell of your

1038
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:23,279
Speaker 1: business period, you should already know that you was a

1039
00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 1: great candidate for a baby daddy, So you can't buy

1040
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:29,319
Speaker 1: her character. Baby nine months may be the best nine

1041
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:31,520
Speaker 1: monthslf like, because I just attached myself.

1042
00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:34,719
Speaker 4: To this nigga who taking the risk. But what I'm saying,

1043
00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:36,480
Speaker 4: this is what I'm saying, what risks.

1044
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 1: Listen to what I'm saying.

1045
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:40,760
Speaker 4: Nowadays, we're not dating really.

1046
00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:42,480
Speaker 3: Getting to know a nigga character, so half the time

1047
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:44,440
Speaker 3: holds don't even be knowing the character of the man

1048
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:45,120
Speaker 3: they're pregnant from.

1049
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 4: Now, you could be every bit of a good nigga, right, But.

1050
00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:50,440
Speaker 3: I'm taking a chance on if you gonna make this

1051
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:53,560
Speaker 3: nine months light on me, I'm the one risking one

1052
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 3: hundred thousand.

1053
00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:55,839
Speaker 1: You just risk your tea he holder. But I ain't

1054
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:57,120
Speaker 1: got to make the nine months light on you.

1055
00:45:57,200 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 8: You already know what kind of nigga you normally held on.

1056
00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:02,080
Speaker 1: My business, You normously nigga regardless of this, whatever it takes,

1057
00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:04,000
Speaker 1: because this is my sea, I'm gonna hell of my business.

1058
00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:04,800
Speaker 6: How do I know?

1059
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:07,440
Speaker 3: It's plenty of bit that, right, But it's plenty of

1060
00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 3: holes that thought that bout that baby daddy.

1061
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:12,560
Speaker 1: And that's when they turned because you get what I'm saying.

1062
00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 1: They think either way, I'm in your business. Bench of

1063
00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:19,920
Speaker 1: a risk. Bring a whole child here to be in

1064
00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:20,640
Speaker 1: your business.

1065
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:21,759
Speaker 4: Right.

1066
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:24,560
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying, right, because I didn't have

1067
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:25,280
Speaker 1: no business.

1068
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:26,239
Speaker 4: Right.

1069
00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:27,479
Speaker 8: But bro, this is what I'm saying.

1070
00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 3: I'm saying you this good nigga, Right, I fuck around

1071
00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:33,360
Speaker 3: and get pregnant from you. I don't know for certain

1072
00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:35,040
Speaker 3: that you're going to show up like you.

1073
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:37,400
Speaker 1: Saying you is the other side of the law.

1074
00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:40,439
Speaker 3: The other side of it is the law don't even

1075
00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:42,919
Speaker 3: make you show up as much as I gotta show

1076
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 3: up a worst case scenario. The law make it where

1077
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:48,480
Speaker 3: you drop a child support check once a month and

1078
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:50,440
Speaker 3: I gotta do the other ninety percent of the work.

1079
00:46:50,719 --> 00:46:54,200
Speaker 1: It's never gonna be equal unless you want to be around.

1080
00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:58,200
Speaker 4: And you is a good nigga, So we we we're risking.

1081
00:46:58,320 --> 00:46:59,640
Speaker 4: More So, what I'm proposing to.

1082
00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 3: Women is why are we viewing it like y'all need

1083
00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:05,120
Speaker 3: to be the responsible parties to show up with the

1084
00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:07,560
Speaker 3: I'm coming with a purse full econdomies.

1085
00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:09,480
Speaker 4: I'm putting in a hundred thousands.

1086
00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:11,320
Speaker 5: So what do we do so that that kids or

1087
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:13,760
Speaker 5: kids ain't fatherless? Because we're saying that that's the problem.

1088
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:14,440
Speaker 4: So what do we do?

1089
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:19,440
Speaker 3: I'm I'm saying women, because we're the ones taking the

1090
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:20,040
Speaker 3: bigger risks.

1091
00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:22,200
Speaker 4: It's just like the scenario I gave bro.

1092
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:25,440
Speaker 3: You gonna care more about that pack making it cross

1093
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:28,080
Speaker 3: state where it need to get from Cali back to Florida.

1094
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:30,120
Speaker 3: You gonna be worried more than me because the loss

1095
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:32,719
Speaker 3: is so much bigger in regards to your money that

1096
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:35,200
Speaker 3: you put in. So for us, because the loss is

1097
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:38,000
Speaker 3: so much bigger, it's damaging the fuck out of us.

1098
00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:40,759
Speaker 3: We need to be the one setting the standard that

1099
00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:42,719
Speaker 3: you can't get no pussy if you ain't gonna wrap

1100
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:44,640
Speaker 3: it up. You can't get no pussy if you're not

1101
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:46,920
Speaker 3: coming in here showing me certain things. We need to

1102
00:47:47,040 --> 00:47:49,400
Speaker 3: go back to dating and requiring men. I don't give

1103
00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:52,560
Speaker 3: a fuck, young, old, fat, skinny paid pole nigga. You

1104
00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:54,959
Speaker 3: got to show me that you got some real nigga

1105
00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:56,040
Speaker 3: ways about yourself.

1106
00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:58,360
Speaker 4: For I let you hit this wrong the minute we

1107
00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:00,120
Speaker 4: start doing that, the minute you.

1108
00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:02,759
Speaker 3: Will see the dynamic of the situations of babies being

1109
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 3: born changed.

1110
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:08,359
Speaker 1: It's just that simple and more than you that's taking

1111
00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:11,320
Speaker 1: agree with that. But still we can't let these niggas

1112
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:13,479
Speaker 1: out of the hook because nigga, if you want piece

1113
00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:15,239
Speaker 1: in your life, bro, and you see what people go

1114
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:17,160
Speaker 1: through it that baby dadd the baby mama ship like

1115
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:19,759
Speaker 1: all the niggas do see like man, any crazy baby.

1116
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:23,279
Speaker 1: It's just something happens. After you don't want the bitch

1117
00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:24,560
Speaker 1: no more, something happens.

1118
00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 4: Why so answer me this.

1119
00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:28,799
Speaker 1: So what I'm saying, if you want piece in your

1120
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:31,000
Speaker 1: life and you know you you you're trying to do

1121
00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:33,840
Speaker 1: some ship, why is you even doing yourself like that?

1122
00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:36,839
Speaker 1: Because put yourself in there, That's what I'm saying.

1123
00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 3: Why why you think Why do you think if all

1124
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:42,319
Speaker 3: women right now decided that niggas ain't getting no more

1125
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:44,919
Speaker 3: pussy to they show character, why do you think that's

1126
00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:48,320
Speaker 3: letting them off the hook. Because niggas love pussy. Everything

1127
00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:51,080
Speaker 3: is sexualized nowadays. So for me, I don't see it

1128
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:53,200
Speaker 3: that as letting nigga off the hook. If women raise

1129
00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:55,120
Speaker 3: their standards, how the fuck you off the hook? If

1130
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:58,239
Speaker 3: you got to step up the standards. That's not letting

1131
00:48:58,239 --> 00:49:00,680
Speaker 3: the nigga off the hook. That is making it work.

1132
00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:03,480
Speaker 3: I set some new rules and in order to get

1133
00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:05,239
Speaker 3: any cat my nigga, you got to step up to

1134
00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:05,919
Speaker 3: these new rules.

1135
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:09,000
Speaker 4: So it's every bit of making you be responsible.

1136
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:09,160
Speaker 1: Now.

1137
00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:11,360
Speaker 4: I said that a long time, not trying to control you.

1138
00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 1: That's now. That's what sucked it up. When the bitches,

1139
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:17,480
Speaker 1: when the don't know, I'm just bitching the worst lay

1140
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 1: on them with y'all. When the women thought fucking any

1141
00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 1: kind of niggas, that's what there you're going because certain

1142
00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:26,560
Speaker 1: of nigga cadn't get puts it from a certain condition.

1143
00:49:27,120 --> 00:49:29,120
Speaker 1: Just what it was. Not that just what it was.

1144
00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 3: Not Going back to what she said, the nigga got

1145
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:33,719
Speaker 3: a little bit of money or a little image or

1146
00:49:33,760 --> 00:49:36,320
Speaker 3: a little status or some cloud online, they're doing the

1147
00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:39,799
Speaker 3: transactional sex. Like Baby said, like, that's when this ship

1148
00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:41,960
Speaker 3: got out of here with anybody, that's when it went wrong.

1149
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:47,440
Speaker 1: That's when it went wrong because you renegade the renegade

1150
00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:49,160
Speaker 1: it ship was different back then. Bro, you had to

1151
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:51,840
Speaker 1: have a certain thunderd That's why it's like it's like

1152
00:49:51,920 --> 00:49:54,600
Speaker 1: a mix up. You really don't see older women with

1153
00:49:54,719 --> 00:49:56,600
Speaker 1: young because they mindsetting on be saying you know what,

1154
00:49:56,880 --> 00:49:58,360
Speaker 1: they would, But nigga looking.

1155
00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:00,480
Speaker 3: At it like now you're seeing you know what, bragging

1156
00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:02,239
Speaker 3: the ass niggas fucking with beautiful women.

1157
00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:04,319
Speaker 4: You're like, damn boy, back in the day, your nigg

1158
00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:06,320
Speaker 4: couldn't get a bitch like racking her down and niggas

1159
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 4: even the.

1160
00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:09,719
Speaker 3: Movies you want to see a nigga be like in

1161
00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 3: old school movies. That's just showing the streets and ship. Bro,

1162
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 3: I gotta get my bread up.

1163
00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:13,719
Speaker 4: I want to get them.

1164
00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:15,960
Speaker 1: You know, you gotta get it out together.

1165
00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:17,759
Speaker 4: Bro, I gotta I gotta do that.

1166
00:50:17,960 --> 00:50:21,400
Speaker 3: Now take that page, look like something they sliding that

1167
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:22,600
Speaker 3: DM say the right ship?

1168
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:25,319
Speaker 4: They fucking he wanted to fly my and show him

1169
00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:25,720
Speaker 4: a good.

1170
00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 6: I was breaking the bos down hard you said, So

1171
00:50:32,440 --> 00:50:32,920
Speaker 6: you say.

1172
00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:35,359
Speaker 1: What you said?

1173
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:37,239
Speaker 11: So when you said, would you say that the value

1174
00:50:37,280 --> 00:50:44,040
Speaker 11: of pussy is down? Yeah, That's what I'm saying. Love,

1175
00:50:44,120 --> 00:50:47,520
Speaker 11: Do y'all raise the mother fucking price and come out

1176
00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:49,319
Speaker 11: the money down?

1177
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:52,120
Speaker 1: But but it's so many How do you value pussy?

1178
00:50:55,080 --> 00:51:00,960
Speaker 1: What I was saying before, so much pussy knows so

1179
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:05,960
Speaker 1: much as it is what we y'all gonna go back up,

1180
00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:17,719
Speaker 1: be personally up. We Baby, I'm gonna tell I'm gonna

1181
00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:20,440
Speaker 1: tell you it can it's on.

1182
00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:21,200
Speaker 6: It's on us.

1183
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:27,600
Speaker 3: We have to raise our own barge.

1184
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:28,000
Speaker 1: Bro.

1185
00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:30,839
Speaker 8: Like I said, Bro, most of the niggas our age.

1186
00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 4: Bro.

1187
00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:35,080
Speaker 1: We really have already been through our heartbreak. So if

1188
00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:36,640
Speaker 1: I meet a woman, you know what I'm saying, if

1189
00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:38,640
Speaker 1: I was to get a divorce and meet another woman

1190
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 1: and try to you know what I'm saying, I already

1191
00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:44,360
Speaker 1: love her over here, ain't nothing gonna do that and

1192
00:51:44,440 --> 00:51:47,120
Speaker 1: I'm never gonna It's just okay, let's see we get

1193
00:51:47,160 --> 00:51:50,520
Speaker 1: some money, get let's build whatever this, let's connect and

1194
00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:53,000
Speaker 1: make a business transaction that was a relationship. To the

1195
00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:55,520
Speaker 1: days you gonna be single, you're just gonna be working

1196
00:51:55,520 --> 00:51:55,880
Speaker 1: around it.

1197
00:51:56,040 --> 00:51:58,480
Speaker 3: It's just two many But see not like now you're

1198
00:51:58,640 --> 00:52:01,680
Speaker 3: you're interested in like if you were dating, if you

1199
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:04,239
Speaker 3: weren't in a relationship, you would be interested in seeing

1200
00:52:04,239 --> 00:52:05,759
Speaker 3: where the woman in mind are.

1201
00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:06,680
Speaker 8: None of us.

1202
00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:07,759
Speaker 1: I don't care about all that.

1203
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:10,120
Speaker 8: Listen, we can get some money or we can.

1204
00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:14,279
Speaker 1: I feel intrigued, you know what I'm saying.

1205
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:18,439
Speaker 3: And when you when you procreate with a good woman

1206
00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:21,279
Speaker 3: even if you even if your relationship don't work out,

1207
00:52:21,360 --> 00:52:22,840
Speaker 3: she might have left you because you was a terrible

1208
00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:25,640
Speaker 3: boyfriend her husband. But if you got a baby with

1209
00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:29,040
Speaker 3: another grown person that's mature, y'all could co parent, just fight.

1210
00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:31,719
Speaker 3: It's a lot of niggas got good situations with their

1211
00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:32,360
Speaker 3: baby mamas.

1212
00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:34,120
Speaker 4: They got influence over their children.

1213
00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:38,520
Speaker 3: She ain't no problem. She's more for the family unit,

1214
00:52:38,800 --> 00:52:41,120
Speaker 3: like the kids getting what they need. She not trying

1215
00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:44,160
Speaker 3: to create these scenarios. It's some good women out there,

1216
00:52:44,239 --> 00:52:50,040
Speaker 3: and they own what I'm saying. They more worried about

1217
00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:53,359
Speaker 3: my child getting influenced from both parents, my kids being

1218
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:54,520
Speaker 3: able to say they got a mother.

1219
00:52:54,440 --> 00:52:56,360
Speaker 1: And a father over their feelings.

1220
00:52:57,160 --> 00:52:59,440
Speaker 3: This is just worrying about they feelings nowadays, just how

1221
00:52:59,520 --> 00:53:01,520
Speaker 3: nigga makes the feel or what you're doing with the

1222
00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:04,200
Speaker 3: next bitch after the relationship didn't work out. It's like

1223
00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:06,480
Speaker 3: I'm to the point now where I'm calling holes out,

1224
00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:08,560
Speaker 3: like you don't know your kids like that, because if

1225
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:11,000
Speaker 3: you did, you wouldn't even be doing all that extra ship,

1226
00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:14,560
Speaker 3: Like we're going out of our way for stuff that

1227
00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:16,800
Speaker 3: don't mean ship to the well being of the child

1228
00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:19,279
Speaker 3: or even our lifestyle. He's just to make a nigga

1229
00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:21,160
Speaker 3: man or to show a nigga what he had us

1230
00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:21,759
Speaker 3: fucked up.

1231
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:24,759
Speaker 6: At, or to show a nigga that, hey, I can

1232
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:26,799
Speaker 6: control you because you'll have the.

1233
00:53:26,840 --> 00:53:30,120
Speaker 1: Power over this kid ship too. You know how many

1234
00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:32,360
Speaker 1: how many women I talked to that shot side to

1235
00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:36,319
Speaker 1: the one that he exact it, And I really feel

1236
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:38,279
Speaker 1: kind of sorry for them because niggas looking past them,

1237
00:53:38,360 --> 00:53:39,799
Speaker 1: like bro, time to get to know.

1238
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:44,319
Speaker 4: You try to get everybody else and you're talking about

1239
00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:44,680
Speaker 4: you want to.

1240
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:49,359
Speaker 1: Go in to you court. You pull up this ship

1241
00:53:49,480 --> 00:53:53,480
Speaker 1: fucked up for for the ones that's really would maybe

1242
00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:55,279
Speaker 1: want to be deserve that.

1243
00:53:57,200 --> 00:53:59,839
Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you something else that that that y'all

1244
00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:03,400
Speaker 3: not recognize. But like fatherlessness, it makes a lot of

1245
00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:06,279
Speaker 3: young men know how to manipulate women because they done

1246
00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:07,640
Speaker 3: set up under their mama so much.

1247
00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:10,360
Speaker 4: They see what al's and polks and jugs.

1248
00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:10,560
Speaker 1: At a woman.

1249
00:54:10,640 --> 00:54:13,160
Speaker 3: They see the things that can manipulate the woman. They've

1250
00:54:13,200 --> 00:54:15,920
Speaker 3: watched their mama go through stuff with certain men. And

1251
00:54:16,560 --> 00:54:18,880
Speaker 3: you ain't got no positive male role model around you,

1252
00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:21,680
Speaker 3: Donna turn this ship into manipulation. So they get these

1253
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:23,640
Speaker 3: type of niggas get a lot of pussy because they

1254
00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:26,239
Speaker 3: know how to play up under women and manipulate them,

1255
00:54:26,520 --> 00:54:27,680
Speaker 3: make them feel a certain.

1256
00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:27,960
Speaker 1: Type of way.

1257
00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:29,799
Speaker 4: Go yeah, hear you out.

1258
00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:34,000
Speaker 3: He ain't lie because a nigga that that got they

1259
00:54:34,120 --> 00:54:37,520
Speaker 3: they they own, you know, ship, they building. They ain't

1260
00:54:37,560 --> 00:54:40,200
Speaker 3: necessarily going around trying to heal bitches eye. So it's

1261
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:42,799
Speaker 3: some niggas. He ain't got nothing but dick in an ear.

1262
00:54:43,640 --> 00:54:44,200
Speaker 1: What's what you say?

1263
00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:44,719
Speaker 4: Happened? Baby?

1264
00:54:45,200 --> 00:54:47,839
Speaker 3: That's it? You e f gonna let you vent now

1265
00:54:47,880 --> 00:54:50,359
Speaker 3: you trauma body? You feel connected again?

1266
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:51,280
Speaker 1: All that ass.

1267
00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:56,160
Speaker 3: It's going on down.

1268
00:54:56,719 --> 00:54:59,399
Speaker 1: That's when I'm gonna started taking care of your heart.

1269
00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:01,960
Speaker 1: I feel like part of your purpose and your journey

1270
00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:03,560
Speaker 1: to try to fix what you can. You know what

1271
00:55:03,600 --> 00:55:05,840
Speaker 1: I'm saying. But deep down in your heart, do you

1272
00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:08,200
Speaker 1: also feel like it might be a lost Cause I.

1273
00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:10,239
Speaker 3: Don't, And I'm gonna tell you why. Because I see

1274
00:55:10,280 --> 00:55:14,800
Speaker 3: women by the masses like flocking to my platform, my zooms,

1275
00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:16,839
Speaker 3: the one on one phone calls that you can book

1276
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:18,880
Speaker 3: with me, like women.

1277
00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:19,399
Speaker 1: Want to do better.

1278
00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:22,279
Speaker 3: We're struggling with and this new babies being born every

1279
00:55:22,360 --> 00:55:25,080
Speaker 3: day every day, and we're like I can show y'all

1280
00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:27,920
Speaker 3: like some of my dms where people are genuinely like

1281
00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:31,120
Speaker 3: you help me go apologize to my baby daddy and

1282
00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:33,640
Speaker 3: my son is over there night, people back and back.

1283
00:55:33,719 --> 00:55:35,960
Speaker 3: They don't got nobody to tell them this shit, this

1284
00:55:36,160 --> 00:55:38,440
Speaker 3: raw and is real. And because I'm raising daughters, I

1285
00:55:38,440 --> 00:55:40,279
Speaker 3: ain't gonna stop. You think I'm gonna let you put

1286
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:43,600
Speaker 3: some assholes take over online and influence my daughters to

1287
00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:46,560
Speaker 3: do this bump ass shit, No, sir, Like I'm gonna

1288
00:55:46,560 --> 00:55:48,600
Speaker 3: put my foot down and make my mark every chance

1289
00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:51,279
Speaker 3: I get to help women really see shit different and

1290
00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:54,480
Speaker 3: for me to understand, like the women that are top

1291
00:55:54,600 --> 00:55:56,279
Speaker 3: notch are the ones that have a standard for you.

1292
00:55:56,560 --> 00:55:59,760
Speaker 3: Fact right, all this free ass out here like anything

1293
00:55:59,840 --> 00:56:03,840
Speaker 3: for you ain't worth ship, And we really got to start.

1294
00:56:03,719 --> 00:56:04,880
Speaker 4: Like being honest about that.

1295
00:56:05,600 --> 00:56:08,200
Speaker 3: It's easy and feel good, But like he said, you

1296
00:56:08,239 --> 00:56:09,600
Speaker 3: know what I mean, the niggas having all kinds of

1297
00:56:09,600 --> 00:56:12,760
Speaker 3: problems with their life because they just fucked the wrong bitch.

1298
00:56:13,840 --> 00:56:17,640
Speaker 1: That's all they did. That's what you feel like? That

1299
00:56:17,960 --> 00:56:19,880
Speaker 1: make me feel like it's on a nigga bro. You

1300
00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:23,040
Speaker 1: should see like that's the only thing that men can't

1301
00:56:23,080 --> 00:56:25,319
Speaker 1: control is how you feel about a woman. If you're

1302
00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:28,160
Speaker 1: a man. You can't control that you really love a woman. Bro.

1303
00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:30,520
Speaker 1: She can say that the simplest ship or the worst

1304
00:56:30,520 --> 00:56:32,799
Speaker 1: ship that make you feel the same way. So it's

1305
00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:35,279
Speaker 1: just because you tap into all your emotions trying to

1306
00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:36,880
Speaker 1: feel these feelings way.

1307
00:56:37,680 --> 00:56:40,080
Speaker 5: That sometimes men know that it ain't right. They know

1308
00:56:40,280 --> 00:56:42,560
Speaker 5: like how women got that intuition. That's what I'm saying.

1309
00:56:42,600 --> 00:56:44,000
Speaker 5: They know what they're getting too, that you know this

1310
00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:44,680
Speaker 5: it ain't right.

1311
00:56:46,440 --> 00:56:49,520
Speaker 1: Feel good. Like you said, you don't feel right. Go

1312
00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:53,480
Speaker 1: you gotta get locked into something. You got a kid now,

1313
00:56:54,640 --> 00:56:56,879
Speaker 1: ye nah, But on some real ship, niggas got.

1314
00:56:58,360 --> 00:56:58,959
Speaker 8: Definitely women.

1315
00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:01,400
Speaker 1: But I'm speaking from my point me because I know

1316
00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:03,719
Speaker 1: a lot of shit you have to take accountability for.

1317
00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:06,759
Speaker 1: If you know like this, she's gonna shift my life.

1318
00:57:07,760 --> 00:57:08,480
Speaker 1: It's just what it is.

1319
00:57:08,880 --> 00:57:09,239
Speaker 6: No, it is.

1320
00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:12,719
Speaker 1: You can't make them them short term decisions with your dick,

1321
00:57:12,840 --> 00:57:15,920
Speaker 1: Like Okay, I'm gonna get a bit pregnant, ye, but

1322
00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:17,640
Speaker 1: you gotta done that. Be on the same Hey, you

1323
00:57:17,720 --> 00:57:22,440
Speaker 1: know you know anything hell or plan be take this.

1324
00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:25,200
Speaker 7: It's a lot of it's a lot of niggas too

1325
00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:28,240
Speaker 7: on the flip side of that ship that you trying

1326
00:57:28,280 --> 00:57:29,280
Speaker 7: to get bitch is pregnant.

1327
00:57:30,000 --> 00:57:32,840
Speaker 3: It is, Yeah, it'd be that way in and when

1328
00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:36,200
Speaker 3: you y'all, y'all know it's that that homosexual thing. Well,

1329
00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:38,480
Speaker 3: it's niggas that they homeless and they're looking for a

1330
00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:40,680
Speaker 3: place to stay there and so I call it survival mode.

1331
00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:43,600
Speaker 3: And when a motherfucker survival mode, you can't really come

1332
00:57:43,680 --> 00:57:45,840
Speaker 3: with no ethics. It's like you, we go out here

1333
00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:47,320
Speaker 3: and we see a homeless person and then we see

1334
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:49,200
Speaker 3: them eating out of trash, You're gonna be like, bro,

1335
00:57:49,360 --> 00:57:50,360
Speaker 3: that's not the right thing to do.

1336
00:57:50,600 --> 00:57:51,080
Speaker 4: Motherfucker.

1337
00:57:51,080 --> 00:57:53,240
Speaker 3: I'm trying to survive. So when you meet a nigga

1338
00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:55,560
Speaker 3: frush out of prison, know where to go. Don't got

1339
00:57:55,600 --> 00:57:57,720
Speaker 3: no family or one of them niggas that just can't

1340
00:57:57,720 --> 00:57:59,800
Speaker 3: get right. He's been struggling since the words struggling was

1341
00:57:59,840 --> 00:58:00,320
Speaker 3: made up.

1342
00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:03,200
Speaker 4: Like a nigga is a like a predator and a

1343
00:58:03,280 --> 00:58:05,320
Speaker 4: lot of them have that that ear where.

1344
00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:07,360
Speaker 3: They wouldn't listened to a woman problems get in there

1345
00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:09,600
Speaker 3: and they is trying to get up pregnant shit so

1346
00:58:09,680 --> 00:58:11,760
Speaker 3: they can be attached to some ship because they ain't

1347
00:58:11,800 --> 00:58:12,520
Speaker 3: got shit going on.

1348
00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:14,280
Speaker 7: Because they know if I get this bitch pregnant, and

1349
00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:16,080
Speaker 7: no other nigga gonna fuck with her, so at least

1350
00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:18,280
Speaker 7: for nine months, I'll have a warm place, yep.

1351
00:58:18,800 --> 00:58:20,720
Speaker 1: And he can be like a baby mama because he

1352
00:58:20,800 --> 00:58:22,560
Speaker 1: was raised by a single mother, so he gonna beat

1353
00:58:22,560 --> 00:58:25,280
Speaker 1: her baby straight and play that role.

1354
00:58:25,400 --> 00:58:27,360
Speaker 3: So well yeah now, and did a lot of them

1355
00:58:27,400 --> 00:58:30,120
Speaker 3: niggas have mamas that she know her son and shit,

1356
00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:33,160
Speaker 3: so she gonna, you know, support them in his bullshit

1357
00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:36,080
Speaker 3: with you as the baby mama, like you're trying to

1358
00:58:36,160 --> 00:58:38,320
Speaker 3: go to the mama thinking she gonna help you, like

1359
00:58:38,600 --> 00:58:41,160
Speaker 3: talk some senses to this nigga, so he can act right, step.

1360
00:58:41,000 --> 00:58:44,080
Speaker 1: Up for seed. He's a product of her exactly.

1361
00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:46,560
Speaker 3: And you know how it is in our community with

1362
00:58:46,720 --> 00:58:49,320
Speaker 3: the older mothers and the grandmama's and the big mama's. Boy,

1363
00:58:49,360 --> 00:58:51,200
Speaker 3: you can't bring no shit up that showed it they

1364
00:58:51,240 --> 00:58:53,360
Speaker 3: did something wrong. They ain't trying to hear that ship

1365
00:58:53,800 --> 00:58:55,040
Speaker 3: think you know, I.

1366
00:58:55,080 --> 00:58:57,400
Speaker 1: Said, when I can't talk to a woman like period

1367
00:58:57,480 --> 00:58:59,800
Speaker 1: I have a conversation with I feel like they try

1368
00:58:59,840 --> 00:59:01,800
Speaker 1: to vince everybody to feel how they feel, and they

1369
00:59:01,840 --> 00:59:04,120
Speaker 1: feeling that's what want people to operate inside of their feelings.

1370
00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:05,919
Speaker 1: That's what we think because I feel this way about

1371
00:59:05,960 --> 00:59:08,920
Speaker 1: this person. You should feel this way. It's some relationship

1372
00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:11,520
Speaker 1: ship like this sayings were in a relationship. Now I

1373
00:59:11,600 --> 00:59:13,640
Speaker 1: want scream to feel how I feel about her because

1374
00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:16,160
Speaker 1: she hurt my feelings. Yep. I can't attack your character

1375
00:59:16,280 --> 00:59:20,520
Speaker 1: because of some emotional shit. Bro, that's just hurt my feeling.

1376
00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:22,040
Speaker 1: That's what is good.

1377
00:59:22,200 --> 00:59:24,200
Speaker 8: You could be a good person to him, a good person, yes,

1378
00:59:24,560 --> 00:59:25,560
Speaker 8: I'm just in my feeling.

1379
00:59:25,840 --> 00:59:28,200
Speaker 3: But you could be a terrible boyfriend and be a

1380
00:59:28,240 --> 00:59:31,160
Speaker 3: great father. You could be a fucked up friend and

1381
00:59:31,240 --> 00:59:34,760
Speaker 3: your dealings with him, but be loyalist, fucking straight to me.

1382
00:59:35,000 --> 00:59:35,240
Speaker 1: Fact.

1383
00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:37,840
Speaker 3: And when you see it online, soon as you see

1384
00:59:37,880 --> 00:59:40,680
Speaker 3: one of them celebrities get with it could be male

1385
00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:42,959
Speaker 3: or female. They get into a new relationship, they finna

1386
00:59:43,000 --> 00:59:44,560
Speaker 3: have a kid or something. He'll come to ex.

1387
00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:47,320
Speaker 4: Oh he don't take care his kid over him?

1388
00:59:47,520 --> 00:59:49,760
Speaker 6: He was finding this nigga ten years ago.

1389
00:59:50,080 --> 00:59:51,640
Speaker 4: They talking about some shit from ninety two.

1390
00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:53,400
Speaker 1: Now you know that's the new thing.

1391
00:59:53,560 --> 00:59:56,760
Speaker 10: Like when the like with these niggas and they separate

1392
00:59:56,920 --> 00:59:57,960
Speaker 10: or fall out or break up.

1393
00:59:58,280 --> 01:00:02,439
Speaker 6: Either the nigga is I'm sorry, I'm just saying, either

1394
01:00:02,520 --> 01:00:03,200
Speaker 6: the nigga.

1395
01:00:03,080 --> 01:00:07,680
Speaker 7: Is gay or the nigga is a deadbeat or it's

1396
01:00:07,800 --> 01:00:10,160
Speaker 7: like one of the three deadly sins, like he's gay's

1397
01:00:10,160 --> 01:00:10,680
Speaker 7: a dead beat?

1398
01:00:11,080 --> 01:00:14,320
Speaker 1: Or is ya like that?

1399
01:00:14,480 --> 01:00:17,600
Speaker 3: And we're gonna try to convince yeah, but we don't

1400
01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:21,480
Speaker 3: try to convince everybody to feel like you said you

1401
01:00:21,680 --> 01:00:24,080
Speaker 3: cheating on me. I want you to be viewed as

1402
01:00:24,120 --> 01:00:26,840
Speaker 3: a fun up ass nigga say anything an I'm finna

1403
01:00:26,880 --> 01:00:28,440
Speaker 3: get on my page, bitch, I'm finna go.

1404
01:00:28,560 --> 01:00:33,200
Speaker 4: Up tell you what did yeah, because I can.

1405
01:00:33,280 --> 01:00:35,600
Speaker 1: I can live with some truth, you know, for some

1406
01:00:35,680 --> 01:00:37,960
Speaker 1: truth with it. You know what I'm saying, and make

1407
01:00:38,040 --> 01:00:41,800
Speaker 1: it believable. Cry. They know how to cry to cry life.

1408
01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:44,240
Speaker 6: So when you make your eyes and the lies, it

1409
01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:44,880
Speaker 6: makes it sweeter.

1410
01:00:45,280 --> 01:00:48,120
Speaker 8: Tell the truth all that one thing women know.

1411
01:00:48,320 --> 01:00:51,480
Speaker 1: The more emotional I seem, the more believable, Like I

1412
01:00:51,480 --> 01:00:53,520
Speaker 1: don't quick to be like bro, you can cry, holler,

1413
01:00:53,600 --> 01:01:00,480
Speaker 1: do out that you're still like which just talk to

1414
01:01:00,560 --> 01:01:04,640
Speaker 1: yourself for a second, and do I seem like the

1415
01:01:04,720 --> 01:01:06,800
Speaker 1: type of nigga that you could tell that type of

1416
01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:11,240
Speaker 1: lie to right? But people go for it them nigga

1417
01:01:11,280 --> 01:01:12,960
Speaker 1: really don't go for a niggas just some niggas just

1418
01:01:13,240 --> 01:01:14,800
Speaker 1: none confrontational and don't want to.

1419
01:01:14,800 --> 01:01:15,439
Speaker 8: Go back and forth.

1420
01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:17,520
Speaker 4: They know if it's lining, they just sit up there.

1421
01:01:18,320 --> 01:01:19,920
Speaker 1: You don't even really care about you. You know what

1422
01:01:19,960 --> 01:01:24,280
Speaker 1: I'm saying something. No, you ain't lie. Yeah, yeah, but

1423
01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:26,240
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take snap out.

1424
01:01:26,160 --> 01:01:31,920
Speaker 3: Of you, gonna kind of yeah, you gotta put the

1425
01:01:32,000 --> 01:01:33,360
Speaker 3: soft voice on basing line.

1426
01:01:33,520 --> 01:01:36,200
Speaker 1: You know that true. We passed that point of just

1427
01:01:36,360 --> 01:01:40,680
Speaker 1: lying to each other. I used to lie. That's how

1428
01:01:40,720 --> 01:01:42,840
Speaker 1: you know, get where you're coming from, get what you're

1429
01:01:42,840 --> 01:01:44,320
Speaker 1: trying to do. But it ain't working no.

1430
01:01:44,400 --> 01:01:48,920
Speaker 3: More, it ain't working. That ship still work though we

1431
01:01:49,080 --> 01:01:51,280
Speaker 3: do it to each other. Why you think like if

1432
01:01:51,320 --> 01:01:53,160
Speaker 3: I'm your ex and I see you with her, that's

1433
01:01:53,160 --> 01:01:53,760
Speaker 3: your new lady.

1434
01:01:54,040 --> 01:01:54,160
Speaker 1: Bro.

1435
01:01:54,320 --> 01:01:55,960
Speaker 3: I just want to get in front of her so bad.

1436
01:01:56,000 --> 01:01:57,680
Speaker 3: I just need you to see me. I need to

1437
01:01:57,760 --> 01:01:59,720
Speaker 3: DM you because I can do that. I can start

1438
01:01:59,760 --> 01:02:00,800
Speaker 3: and I can make it.

1439
01:02:01,040 --> 01:02:03,640
Speaker 4: Bitch. He was in boxing me yesterday, or he was

1440
01:02:03,680 --> 01:02:05,920
Speaker 4: talking to me last week. We just need to get

1441
01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:07,720
Speaker 4: in front of a bitch. We can sell that ship

1442
01:02:08,040 --> 01:02:11,919
Speaker 4: trying to cross pass back. If you're working, and women

1443
01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:13,160
Speaker 4: know what work on other women.

1444
01:02:13,000 --> 01:02:14,840
Speaker 3: Because we go off of what's in our minds. If

1445
01:02:14,840 --> 01:02:17,400
Speaker 3: I could plant that seed like the Bible, say what

1446
01:02:17,600 --> 01:02:18,720
Speaker 3: you take a little mustard seed?

1447
01:02:19,280 --> 01:02:20,280
Speaker 4: Niggas a borship.

1448
01:02:20,600 --> 01:02:22,160
Speaker 3: Now, I got your lady walking through the house looking

1449
01:02:22,160 --> 01:02:24,800
Speaker 3: at your funny He ain't doing nothing but get in

1450
01:02:24,840 --> 01:02:25,200
Speaker 3: front of you.

1451
01:02:26,240 --> 01:02:26,840
Speaker 4: Were doing it.

1452
01:02:27,280 --> 01:02:27,720
Speaker 1: That's just like.

1453
01:02:29,560 --> 01:02:30,400
Speaker 6: Colashes and.

1454
01:02:33,480 --> 01:02:38,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know gonna find you know, oh.

1455
01:02:40,920 --> 01:02:41,200
Speaker 5: What the.

1456
01:02:42,840 --> 01:02:50,320
Speaker 1: Hell? Like hell puting the hair that's leaving it on purpose.

1457
01:02:53,120 --> 01:02:58,120
Speaker 4: Because it worked. I'm telling you yeah, because the thing is,

1458
01:02:58,240 --> 01:03:00,560
Speaker 4: you ain't. I ain't happy you stayed with me. That

1459
01:03:00,600 --> 01:03:01,240
Speaker 4: she ain't work out.

1460
01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:02,720
Speaker 3: I caught you fucking with another. But you think I'm

1461
01:03:02,720 --> 01:03:05,960
Speaker 3: gonna let you walk out in the sunset with her company.

1462
01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:09,240
Speaker 6: It ain't.

1463
01:03:10,360 --> 01:03:12,160
Speaker 1: It's a cycle that The thing is.

1464
01:03:12,280 --> 01:03:13,919
Speaker 3: It makes me feel better in the moment I seen

1465
01:03:13,960 --> 01:03:15,840
Speaker 3: a woman like it was a It was a It

1466
01:03:16,000 --> 01:03:18,040
Speaker 3: ended up on tiptop, but it started on Instagram. So

1467
01:03:18,120 --> 01:03:20,040
Speaker 3: a girl posted a picture and another girl got in

1468
01:03:20,080 --> 01:03:22,960
Speaker 3: the on in the comments and said something negative about

1469
01:03:23,120 --> 01:03:26,360
Speaker 3: how she looked. She went to the girl page, found

1470
01:03:26,520 --> 01:03:28,640
Speaker 3: who her boyfriend was, went to his page.

1471
01:03:28,680 --> 01:03:31,640
Speaker 4: In d M two. She just said hey handsome, He

1472
01:03:31,800 --> 01:03:32,600
Speaker 4: said hey back.

1473
01:03:32,840 --> 01:03:36,080
Speaker 3: She screenshot it Just that made a whole little TikTok

1474
01:03:36,160 --> 01:03:38,640
Speaker 3: thing with the screenshot, and all the women in the

1475
01:03:38,640 --> 01:03:41,480
Speaker 3: comments telling the woman she should leave her man, They

1476
01:03:41,680 --> 01:03:45,040
Speaker 3: all saying he lame, he should never wrote back. All

1477
01:03:45,120 --> 01:03:47,160
Speaker 3: we gotta do is just plant that little see. We'll

1478
01:03:47,240 --> 01:03:51,280
Speaker 3: fuck up everything. Women start wars, We tell out. You

1479
01:03:51,320 --> 01:03:53,760
Speaker 3: know you gotta you look at history, bitch. We will

1480
01:03:53,880 --> 01:03:54,840
Speaker 3: make Babylon fall.

1481
01:03:54,920 --> 01:03:55,400
Speaker 4: Goddamn it.

1482
01:03:55,520 --> 01:04:03,320
Speaker 7: We's every beam, damn near Almost every is a bitch.

1483
01:04:03,440 --> 01:04:07,400
Speaker 7: Everything the underlying issue, no matter what you try to

1484
01:04:07,400 --> 01:04:09,320
Speaker 7: put on top of it, how you try to make

1485
01:04:09,360 --> 01:04:11,640
Speaker 7: it seem like it's about something else, it goes back.

1486
01:04:11,520 --> 01:04:11,960
Speaker 1: To the bitch.

1487
01:04:12,680 --> 01:04:16,680
Speaker 3: Like Park said, bitches, uh nig bitches get horny, niggas

1488
01:04:16,680 --> 01:04:18,840
Speaker 3: start dying ship crazy man.

1489
01:04:21,120 --> 01:04:26,840
Speaker 1: Else when I got big, how do we get the

1490
01:04:26,880 --> 01:04:28,080
Speaker 1: good women to the forefront.

1491
01:04:28,520 --> 01:04:31,720
Speaker 3: Y'all got to prioritize them. Don't give a y'all got

1492
01:04:31,800 --> 01:04:33,400
Speaker 3: a problem. You y'all got men.

1493
01:04:33,800 --> 01:04:37,439
Speaker 1: Y'all have to prioritize them. You got to celebrate them more. Yeah,

1494
01:04:40,160 --> 01:04:45,200
Speaker 1: who you thought like you, but sometimes sometimes quote uncle

1495
01:04:47,160 --> 01:04:55,200
Speaker 1: worse than that, y'all because they be lying and acting

1496
01:04:55,280 --> 01:05:00,040
Speaker 1: there like good good girl too. As a man, you

1497
01:05:00,280 --> 01:05:03,360
Speaker 1: will take certain ship from certain niggas that them good

1498
01:05:03,440 --> 01:05:05,400
Speaker 1: women can't like I bually be all in love you

1499
01:05:05,480 --> 01:05:07,160
Speaker 1: be all in love with one of them women, and

1500
01:05:07,280 --> 01:05:09,560
Speaker 1: she just wanted them one shot to bitch like, but

1501
01:05:09,680 --> 01:05:12,240
Speaker 1: y'all love you either, I can't for one time you

1502
01:05:12,400 --> 01:05:15,320
Speaker 1: go forever one see then you know you can tell

1503
01:05:15,360 --> 01:05:15,880
Speaker 1: the difference.

1504
01:05:16,400 --> 01:05:20,480
Speaker 3: But y'all, y'all ask men, y'all got to start prioritizing

1505
01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:21,800
Speaker 3: those kind of I don't really want.

1506
01:05:31,000 --> 01:05:33,120
Speaker 1: I don't know how to put no value on that though, Bro,

1507
01:05:33,640 --> 01:05:37,040
Speaker 1: how do you? I got friends like my friends, my

1508
01:05:37,160 --> 01:05:39,600
Speaker 1: homegirls and ship. I value them and I pushed them

1509
01:05:39,640 --> 01:05:41,520
Speaker 1: out there like this is a good woman. I try

1510
01:05:41,520 --> 01:05:43,200
Speaker 1: to turn them on. The good men. I ain't trying

1511
01:05:43,240 --> 01:05:45,320
Speaker 1: to introduce you my partners who think how you know

1512
01:05:45,360 --> 01:05:47,640
Speaker 1: what I'm saying typical niggas. I'm trying to interest, but

1513
01:05:47,680 --> 01:05:51,680
Speaker 1: they don't like them. Niggas that too, don't get me start.

1514
01:05:52,160 --> 01:05:55,280
Speaker 1: This is a good woman and this is a great man. Hey,

1515
01:05:55,360 --> 01:05:56,800
Speaker 1: y'all need the link. I didn't want to time they

1516
01:05:56,960 --> 01:06:01,560
Speaker 1: hunk out. They both I know they players. They not square.

1517
01:06:01,680 --> 01:06:05,120
Speaker 8: He's a playoff. He just ain't giving her that he

1518
01:06:05,240 --> 01:06:06,400
Speaker 8: might be doing some energy.

1519
01:06:07,160 --> 01:06:09,280
Speaker 1: Women don't like them. Count of niggas. Man they like

1520
01:06:09,360 --> 01:06:11,960
Speaker 1: the bulls shit what not. I'm not speaking. I'm not

1521
01:06:12,040 --> 01:06:15,600
Speaker 1: generalizing because people be thinking I'm saying women certain type

1522
01:06:15,640 --> 01:06:17,720
Speaker 1: of women like, certain type of niggas, certain type of.

1523
01:06:19,520 --> 01:06:21,600
Speaker 4: Let me say this, we like what we programmed to like.

1524
01:06:21,920 --> 01:06:22,920
Speaker 4: And I'm just keep it real.

1525
01:06:23,200 --> 01:06:25,680
Speaker 3: Your environment and your upbringing, and then what you sit

1526
01:06:25,800 --> 01:06:28,120
Speaker 3: up and watch NonStop as an adult is going to

1527
01:06:28,200 --> 01:06:30,000
Speaker 3: shape and mold what you like. That's why it is

1528
01:06:30,080 --> 01:06:31,919
Speaker 3: niggas laid up with bitches right now that they don't

1529
01:06:31,920 --> 01:06:34,440
Speaker 3: even really fucking like like that. But she fit the

1530
01:06:34,520 --> 01:06:35,800
Speaker 3: image of what I'm supposed to like.

1531
01:06:37,240 --> 01:06:40,120
Speaker 1: Right. But what I'm saying is what you what makes

1532
01:06:40,160 --> 01:06:43,720
Speaker 1: you feel the best, Like you said, every time, everything

1533
01:06:43,800 --> 01:06:46,200
Speaker 1: that feel good probably ain't good. But what makes you

1534
01:06:46,320 --> 01:06:48,120
Speaker 1: feel the best is some ship you'ret supposed to.

1535
01:06:48,120 --> 01:06:51,880
Speaker 6: Fuck with, right, Yeah, it's always always like you.

1536
01:06:51,960 --> 01:06:55,440
Speaker 1: Turn it to, all right, I figured it out. Once

1537
01:06:55,440 --> 01:06:57,080
Speaker 1: you figure some shit out, you tired of. What do

1538
01:06:57,200 --> 01:06:57,760
Speaker 1: you understand?

1539
01:06:57,840 --> 01:06:58,480
Speaker 4: That's a belief?

1540
01:06:58,600 --> 01:07:00,600
Speaker 1: Like what you just said is a it's a it's

1541
01:07:00,640 --> 01:07:02,360
Speaker 1: a But I'm gonna tell you just me.

1542
01:07:02,520 --> 01:07:04,240
Speaker 6: You need a business gonna keep you ducking and keep

1543
01:07:04,240 --> 01:07:04,960
Speaker 6: you on your toes.

1544
01:07:08,120 --> 01:07:11,120
Speaker 4: But that's that's I don't believe you out you you

1545
01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:12,640
Speaker 4: have a belief like like.

1546
01:07:13,080 --> 01:07:15,960
Speaker 3: Okay, everybody be saying, you know, I protect my piece,

1547
01:07:16,080 --> 01:07:18,040
Speaker 3: be a nigga piece, give a man piece.

1548
01:07:18,120 --> 01:07:20,640
Speaker 1: But looking what he's saying, he basically saying, nigga ain't

1549
01:07:20,640 --> 01:07:22,360
Speaker 1: really looking for no people. You're talking about from the

1550
01:07:22,560 --> 01:07:25,160
Speaker 1: from the mindset of what niggas that, what niggas that

1551
01:07:25,240 --> 01:07:27,360
Speaker 1: who listen to us? Like I'm different now now I

1552
01:07:27,440 --> 01:07:29,640
Speaker 1: can't I can't even argue. I can't even have an

1553
01:07:29,720 --> 01:07:33,160
Speaker 1: argument because I'm awaken. I can't have an argument. But

1554
01:07:33,320 --> 01:07:37,360
Speaker 1: but okay, so what you've awakened to, Okay, just just

1555
01:07:38,120 --> 01:07:39,960
Speaker 1: living in the moment. Man, I'm not going with you.

1556
01:07:40,320 --> 01:07:42,200
Speaker 1: If that's where you're at, just tell you, no, you

1557
01:07:42,440 --> 01:07:45,200
Speaker 1: you you're here now you're thinking, you're still thinking that

1558
01:07:45,320 --> 01:07:47,840
Speaker 1: I'm somebody that I'm not. That's it, That's all.

1559
01:07:47,920 --> 01:07:48,840
Speaker 8: That's what I always say.

1560
01:07:49,120 --> 01:07:51,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right, And I understand the way you feel

1561
01:07:51,320 --> 01:07:53,080
Speaker 1: like that because I've been that person that you're thinking of.

1562
01:07:53,320 --> 01:07:55,360
Speaker 1: I'm not that right. I ain't in the all game

1563
01:07:55,440 --> 01:07:57,840
Speaker 1: and go back and forth. I give you a month,

1564
01:07:57,960 --> 01:08:00,600
Speaker 1: six months, three days to think about it. I don't

1565
01:08:00,640 --> 01:08:03,760
Speaker 1: longer take you to think about it ain't.

1566
01:08:03,040 --> 01:08:05,240
Speaker 5: That And that's my thought, Like, before you start trying

1567
01:08:05,240 --> 01:08:09,000
Speaker 5: to all these relationships, this is work on yourself.

1568
01:08:09,080 --> 01:08:14,640
Speaker 3: Them facts niggas you say, But I see what I

1569
01:08:14,680 --> 01:08:17,000
Speaker 3: was going to ask him next, is what changed his taste?

1570
01:08:17,200 --> 01:08:18,720
Speaker 3: What got him to the point where he ain't on

1571
01:08:18,840 --> 01:08:21,080
Speaker 3: all that arguing all of that stuff. If you look

1572
01:08:21,160 --> 01:08:24,679
Speaker 3: at men, you guys, start building and finding a purpose.

1573
01:08:25,200 --> 01:08:27,439
Speaker 1: That's what changes your fact. Women.

1574
01:08:27,840 --> 01:08:30,760
Speaker 3: So if you talking to the younger niggas, idea is, bro,

1575
01:08:30,880 --> 01:08:32,479
Speaker 3: You're gonna like what you like until you get you

1576
01:08:32,520 --> 01:08:32,920
Speaker 3: a purpose.

1577
01:08:33,280 --> 01:08:35,920
Speaker 1: When you get a purpose, just a believer.

1578
01:08:36,439 --> 01:08:38,720
Speaker 3: It's just you believe that because you ain't no real

1579
01:08:38,800 --> 01:08:40,920
Speaker 3: ship going on. Get you some real ship going on.

1580
01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:43,519
Speaker 3: As a man, some you working on buildings, start working

1581
01:08:43,560 --> 01:08:45,479
Speaker 3: on your credits, start looking at to buy property, looking

1582
01:08:45,560 --> 01:08:47,760
Speaker 3: at multiple streams of income, look at too, having some

1583
01:08:47,960 --> 01:08:51,559
Speaker 3: sort of retirement plan for yourself, look into being something

1584
01:08:51,640 --> 01:08:52,439
Speaker 3: to your community.

1585
01:08:52,680 --> 01:08:54,160
Speaker 4: You will start to change your taste.

1586
01:08:56,520 --> 01:08:59,640
Speaker 8: Understand you got That's what I'm saying, Like, I get what.

1587
01:09:01,200 --> 01:09:03,360
Speaker 1: I get there. Man, I don't all that, man, because

1588
01:09:03,640 --> 01:09:05,400
Speaker 1: because you really it's really fear.

1589
01:09:06,200 --> 01:09:06,760
Speaker 8: You know what I'm saying.

1590
01:09:06,760 --> 01:09:10,000
Speaker 1: You really fear territory, not fear of being hurt because

1591
01:09:10,040 --> 01:09:11,360
Speaker 1: you don't been in a relationship. You know how I

1592
01:09:11,479 --> 01:09:14,080
Speaker 1: feel it Like like when the man heart is broke

1593
01:09:14,160 --> 01:09:16,200
Speaker 1: or some ship he feel hurt. You nigga be distraught.

1594
01:09:16,320 --> 01:09:18,920
Speaker 1: I can't do shit fuck with the nigga talking about

1595
01:09:19,040 --> 01:09:20,720
Speaker 1: you be fucked up when you fucked up by the person.

1596
01:09:21,240 --> 01:09:24,200
Speaker 1: So with all that said, nigga, if you niggas feel

1597
01:09:24,280 --> 01:09:26,080
Speaker 1: like bro, I'm just in the move and shape because

1598
01:09:26,080 --> 01:09:26,519
Speaker 1: I don't want to.

1599
01:09:26,560 --> 01:09:27,680
Speaker 8: I'm in fear of being that.

1600
01:09:27,920 --> 01:09:30,040
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, but that can't assume my mind.

1601
01:09:30,120 --> 01:09:31,960
Speaker 8: So I get, like you said to a nigga a purpose.

1602
01:09:32,080 --> 01:09:34,720
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, but that's why the blast man need a

1603
01:09:35,360 --> 01:09:38,640
Speaker 3: like a resource pool. Niggas need and I call this

1604
01:09:39,120 --> 01:09:41,720
Speaker 3: the well rounded set up. As a grown black man,

1605
01:09:41,840 --> 01:09:44,240
Speaker 3: you need o Jesus that's older than you that you

1606
01:09:44,320 --> 01:09:47,000
Speaker 3: can tap in with, peers that's your age, that you

1607
01:09:47,080 --> 01:09:49,200
Speaker 3: can tap in with and bounce ideas off of and

1608
01:09:49,280 --> 01:09:51,320
Speaker 3: go through ship with and talk about ship. And then

1609
01:09:51,360 --> 01:09:53,599
Speaker 3: you need some niggas younger than you that can keep

1610
01:09:53,600 --> 01:09:56,400
Speaker 3: you up at speed on what's coming. This will will

1611
01:09:56,720 --> 01:09:59,400
Speaker 3: help you be a well rounded man. From there, you

1612
01:09:59,439 --> 01:10:01,720
Speaker 3: will figure out your purpose and you will start to

1613
01:10:01,760 --> 01:10:05,200
Speaker 3: care more about real life ship other than just pussy,

1614
01:10:05,960 --> 01:10:08,320
Speaker 3: and it will change your taste organically. Like you're not

1615
01:10:08,400 --> 01:10:10,759
Speaker 3: gonna get these young niggas to change, like you said,

1616
01:10:11,200 --> 01:10:12,760
Speaker 3: just off of saying what they should be on.

1617
01:10:13,720 --> 01:10:17,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, and we gotta change what's a flex because see, like.

1618
01:10:17,400 --> 01:10:18,720
Speaker 3: A lot of time ago, it used to be a

1619
01:10:18,800 --> 01:10:21,680
Speaker 3: flex to have a family, purchase a home, show up

1620
01:10:21,920 --> 01:10:22,400
Speaker 3: as a man.

1621
01:10:22,520 --> 01:10:24,880
Speaker 1: That used to be a flex. The things that are

1622
01:10:24,920 --> 01:10:26,479
Speaker 1: a flex right now. That's why I say.

1623
01:10:26,520 --> 01:10:29,320
Speaker 3: Shit is just a belief at times. The ship that's

1624
01:10:29,360 --> 01:10:31,400
Speaker 3: a flex is this new age ship that we're saying

1625
01:10:31,520 --> 01:10:34,599
Speaker 3: is a problem. Nigga thinking just getting the bag, no bitch,

1626
01:10:34,720 --> 01:10:36,920
Speaker 3: no foundation, no real you know.

1627
01:10:37,280 --> 01:10:38,920
Speaker 1: Stability to theyself is a flex.

1628
01:10:39,000 --> 01:10:40,679
Speaker 3: And then you got a bunch of other niggas online,

1629
01:10:40,920 --> 01:10:42,679
Speaker 3: you know, Big up in him and a nigga called

1630
01:10:42,680 --> 01:10:45,000
Speaker 3: another nigga Big Bro, just because he got more money

1631
01:10:45,040 --> 01:10:48,240
Speaker 3: than him, the bitch Big Broy. Big Bro put me

1632
01:10:48,280 --> 01:10:50,439
Speaker 3: on Big Bro and Big Bron come over there with y'all,

1633
01:10:50,479 --> 01:10:53,360
Speaker 3: Bro just cause that nigga came across a bag at

1634
01:10:53,400 --> 01:10:57,439
Speaker 3: this particular season, nigga flooding the bitch paper up.

1635
01:10:58,800 --> 01:11:01,280
Speaker 1: I told her, you know how you like grew up

1636
01:11:01,360 --> 01:11:03,560
Speaker 1: around certain nigga. This nigga ain't never been right, like

1637
01:11:03,680 --> 01:11:06,800
Speaker 1: nobody's never listened to his story. He's always been push

1638
01:11:06,880 --> 01:11:09,519
Speaker 1: it boy puts it by jump. That's who he be.

1639
01:11:09,600 --> 01:11:10,400
Speaker 8: And now he got money.

1640
01:11:10,479 --> 01:11:13,920
Speaker 4: That here here like bro saying, ain't nobody never said

1641
01:11:13,920 --> 01:11:15,639
Speaker 4: it like what he was saying in life.

1642
01:11:15,840 --> 01:11:16,760
Speaker 1: You just got some money.

1643
01:11:16,880 --> 01:11:19,320
Speaker 4: Yep, he got him some money and now he right.

1644
01:11:19,960 --> 01:11:21,479
Speaker 1: That gotta change.

1645
01:11:21,520 --> 01:11:23,840
Speaker 3: This the ship that niggas got the old niggas accountable for.

1646
01:11:24,520 --> 01:11:27,519
Speaker 3: Then them niggas that niggas is putting on pedestals. Then

1647
01:11:27,600 --> 01:11:29,960
Speaker 3: women are chasing behind them niggas Like you said, a

1648
01:11:30,000 --> 01:11:32,439
Speaker 3: nigga that never knew ship just came across a credit

1649
01:11:32,479 --> 01:11:34,320
Speaker 3: bag or some ship. You ran across one of them

1650
01:11:34,360 --> 01:11:37,080
Speaker 3: niggas in Atlanta somewhere that helped you, you know, get

1651
01:11:37,120 --> 01:11:39,479
Speaker 3: some funding and ship. Now you got all all this

1652
01:11:39,640 --> 01:11:42,200
Speaker 3: design and show this money and they quoting you, y'all.

1653
01:11:42,240 --> 01:11:43,479
Speaker 1: Don't take that ship down.

1654
01:11:44,720 --> 01:11:48,040
Speaker 4: Ship though, hard Right.

1655
01:11:47,960 --> 01:11:51,559
Speaker 1: Here about your platform where they could check you out.

1656
01:11:52,040 --> 01:11:54,600
Speaker 3: Look on so on Instagram everything love door set on

1657
01:11:54,640 --> 01:11:57,560
Speaker 3: everything Instagram, love love underscore doors. You could google me

1658
01:11:57,640 --> 01:12:01,679
Speaker 3: all this ship to come up the i'mna pick me, Like, yeah,

1659
01:12:01,920 --> 01:12:03,519
Speaker 3: I'm the one they call it. Pick me until you

1660
01:12:03,560 --> 01:12:05,240
Speaker 3: really over your mind and sit down and listen, you'll

1661
01:12:05,280 --> 01:12:06,840
Speaker 3: realize and really fun of people.

1662
01:12:07,120 --> 01:12:08,040
Speaker 1: And I do zooms.

1663
01:12:08,080 --> 01:12:10,920
Speaker 3: I got e guys, just really helping you reprogram your

1664
01:12:10,960 --> 01:12:13,280
Speaker 3: mind because our people we need to do better. We

1665
01:12:13,400 --> 01:12:15,320
Speaker 3: just and we need to do better because we say

1666
01:12:15,400 --> 01:12:17,760
Speaker 3: we need to do better, not because outside source telling

1667
01:12:17,880 --> 01:12:18,040
Speaker 3: us this.

1668
01:12:18,160 --> 01:12:21,000
Speaker 4: So this one of your own from the trenches, been

1669
01:12:21,080 --> 01:12:22,960
Speaker 4: there through the ends and eyes. I can meet you

1670
01:12:22,960 --> 01:12:23,559
Speaker 4: where you're at and.

1671
01:12:23,600 --> 01:12:31,920
Speaker 1: Help you understand. We just need to do better both sides. Okay,

1672
01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:33,240
Speaker 1: it's all on the crew.

1673
01:12:33,360 --> 01:12:35,439
Speaker 5: And I was gonna ask you to what's what's what's

1674
01:12:35,479 --> 01:12:38,000
Speaker 5: the mistake? Like you would say that like young black women,

1675
01:12:38,080 --> 01:12:40,200
Speaker 5: like that one mistake along your journey, like this is

1676
01:12:40,280 --> 01:12:43,800
Speaker 5: the biggest mistake I made, Like this is the biggest one,

1677
01:12:43,960 --> 01:12:46,519
Speaker 5: Like please stay away from making that same mistake where.

1678
01:12:46,320 --> 01:12:51,439
Speaker 3: I prioritizing your feelings over reality. And I got a

1679
01:12:51,479 --> 01:12:53,920
Speaker 3: little singing. I say, they fucked us up in like

1680
01:12:54,080 --> 01:12:57,479
Speaker 3: kindergarten when they taught us about imagination early on, because

1681
01:12:57,560 --> 01:12:59,720
Speaker 3: it's a lot of us as adults we living in

1682
01:12:59,840 --> 01:13:04,040
Speaker 3: our head like it's just whatever we come up with, whatever.

1683
01:13:04,160 --> 01:13:05,360
Speaker 4: We can't manage our thoughts.

1684
01:13:05,479 --> 01:13:08,240
Speaker 3: Right, it starts with that, because when you're not healthy

1685
01:13:08,280 --> 01:13:11,839
Speaker 3: and you didn't have a clear understanding of your upbringing,

1686
01:13:12,000 --> 01:13:14,280
Speaker 3: you end up as an adult that your thoughts run

1687
01:13:14,360 --> 01:13:16,360
Speaker 3: you and the bitches is coming from the beliefs program

1688
01:13:16,479 --> 01:13:20,280
Speaker 3: in your subconscious mind. So in a nutshell, you imagining

1689
01:13:20,439 --> 01:13:24,240
Speaker 3: or picturing shit, or your anxiety got you playing scenarios

1690
01:13:24,280 --> 01:13:26,519
Speaker 3: out that ain't even happen, and you can't hear the facts,

1691
01:13:26,560 --> 01:13:27,360
Speaker 3: you can't go off of.

1692
01:13:27,560 --> 01:13:28,320
Speaker 1: What's really happened.

1693
01:13:28,360 --> 01:13:30,920
Speaker 3: This is where you see people acting crazy, especially us

1694
01:13:30,960 --> 01:13:32,960
Speaker 3: as women, and when you look at the extent in

1695
01:13:33,040 --> 01:13:35,040
Speaker 3: the reality, it's like, bitch, why are you doing all that?

1696
01:13:35,400 --> 01:13:37,640
Speaker 3: Like it ain't even that bad, but you perceived it

1697
01:13:37,720 --> 01:13:39,920
Speaker 3: to be that bad because you done played out five

1698
01:13:40,040 --> 01:13:43,040
Speaker 3: or six different scenarios. So really, just as a woman,

1699
01:13:43,400 --> 01:13:46,519
Speaker 3: you know, if you a young girl, prioritize staying out

1700
01:13:46,560 --> 01:13:50,360
Speaker 3: your feelings and being able to manage genuinely what you feel.

1701
01:13:50,439 --> 01:13:52,639
Speaker 4: Versus reality versus fact versus.

1702
01:13:52,439 --> 01:13:54,160
Speaker 3: What is really going on Because it's a lot of

1703
01:13:54,280 --> 01:13:58,719
Speaker 3: us we have no real hard up relationships. We perceive

1704
01:13:58,800 --> 01:14:01,439
Speaker 3: shiting to be bad because we play scenarios out like

1705
01:14:01,520 --> 01:14:03,360
Speaker 3: you was going to know you probably was with that bitch.

1706
01:14:03,680 --> 01:14:08,040
Speaker 4: And I told myself in my mind after the nine times, believe, yeah,

1707
01:14:08,280 --> 01:14:10,080
Speaker 4: I believe that, Like I done did it.

1708
01:14:10,439 --> 01:14:12,320
Speaker 3: I just sat there and I fuck with this nigga

1709
01:14:12,360 --> 01:14:14,639
Speaker 3: so hard he ain't answered the phone for an hour.

1710
01:14:14,680 --> 01:14:16,599
Speaker 4: I don't play that a whole scenario of what he's

1711
01:14:16,600 --> 01:14:17,160
Speaker 4: probably doing.

1712
01:14:17,360 --> 01:14:18,880
Speaker 1: And then he did that.

1713
01:14:19,040 --> 01:14:21,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, when he got there, I reacted like he did

1714
01:14:22,000 --> 01:14:23,120
Speaker 3: what I made up in my mind.

1715
01:14:23,200 --> 01:14:25,800
Speaker 1: Nigga, Like, bitch, what the fuck you're talking about? No,

1716
01:14:25,880 --> 01:14:26,840
Speaker 1: I know you was with that bitch.

1717
01:14:26,840 --> 01:14:28,559
Speaker 3: And y'all went to the store, and I'm I'm pretty

1718
01:14:28,560 --> 01:14:31,240
Speaker 3: sure you was with Roy, your homeboy, because that nigga

1719
01:14:31,280 --> 01:14:33,880
Speaker 3: always lied for you. How to put everybody in your mama,

1720
01:14:34,120 --> 01:14:35,840
Speaker 3: I'm put some ask everybody fuck up?

1721
01:14:36,400 --> 01:14:37,280
Speaker 1: Fun wrong with y'all.

1722
01:14:37,720 --> 01:14:40,000
Speaker 4: Later on, I realized, like, noamn, what if he didn't

1723
01:14:40,040 --> 01:14:41,040
Speaker 4: do it, But I ain't gonna be.

1724
01:14:41,040 --> 01:14:47,720
Speaker 1: Account was getting something for you? Bring it up? Wanting

1725
01:14:47,760 --> 01:14:48,880
Speaker 1: the old ship that's.

1726
01:14:48,760 --> 01:14:49,559
Speaker 8: A new one of mine?

1727
01:14:49,760 --> 01:14:51,439
Speaker 1: Like was that what if I ain't doing what you

1728
01:14:51,560 --> 01:14:54,800
Speaker 1: thinking that you gotta just usually gotta gd folks key

1729
01:14:54,840 --> 01:14:57,720
Speaker 1: words to younger that fuck you up, that statement fuck

1730
01:14:57,800 --> 01:14:58,000
Speaker 1: you up.

1731
01:14:58,880 --> 01:15:02,680
Speaker 7: But that's our to tell the untriggered. Somebody that's all

1732
01:15:02,880 --> 01:15:05,120
Speaker 7: a triggered person. It's hard to tell the un triggered.

1733
01:15:05,240 --> 01:15:09,400
Speaker 7: They have to bring themselves down. That's like that, like,

1734
01:15:09,800 --> 01:15:12,120
Speaker 7: but it's the responsibility. I'm not saying it's never too late,

1735
01:15:12,160 --> 01:15:13,800
Speaker 7: but that's damn there, Like putting together one of them

1736
01:15:14,240 --> 01:15:15,639
Speaker 7: fifteen thousand piece puzzles.

1737
01:15:16,040 --> 01:15:18,600
Speaker 1: You you ain't gonna do it. They got to, they

1738
01:15:18,680 --> 01:15:20,080
Speaker 1: have to do. They gotta want to do it too.

1739
01:15:20,520 --> 01:15:20,720
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1740
01:15:21,280 --> 01:15:23,160
Speaker 1: So some people, like I said earlier, you know when

1741
01:15:23,200 --> 01:15:26,000
Speaker 1: you're doing some shit like you just said, that's it.

1742
01:15:26,120 --> 01:15:27,479
Speaker 1: You knew you up in your mind.

1743
01:15:27,880 --> 01:15:31,640
Speaker 3: I ain't told you, but it felt it felt it

1744
01:15:31,840 --> 01:15:34,080
Speaker 3: matched what I was feeling. Like you you ain't answer

1745
01:15:34,120 --> 01:15:36,840
Speaker 3: the phone. I called you five or six times. My

1746
01:15:37,040 --> 01:15:40,040
Speaker 3: insecurities is not coming into play. I'm sitting in my thoughts.

1747
01:15:40,280 --> 01:15:42,400
Speaker 3: I'm thinking back that ship I seen in my upbringing

1748
01:15:42,439 --> 01:15:43,120
Speaker 3: and certain stuff.

1749
01:15:44,840 --> 01:15:48,720
Speaker 1: The intuition sometimes okay, it is lying, you just lying.

1750
01:15:49,120 --> 01:15:50,000
Speaker 1: Let me let me be Really.

1751
01:15:51,080 --> 01:15:53,400
Speaker 3: Our intuition as a woman does not work if you're

1752
01:15:53,439 --> 01:15:54,599
Speaker 3: not in a healthy mental space.

1753
01:15:55,360 --> 01:16:02,280
Speaker 1: It don't work. It's it's not cold does intuition? Your

1754
01:16:02,360 --> 01:16:05,200
Speaker 1: intuition is created by your reality, and some of you

1755
01:16:05,360 --> 01:16:09,680
Speaker 1: people reality is folly. Your intuition is all type of

1756
01:16:11,400 --> 01:16:13,640
Speaker 1: thinking about number. That's what your beliefs fucked up.

1757
01:16:13,800 --> 01:16:18,240
Speaker 3: Like, yes, it is like a woman that is genuinely intuitive.

1758
01:16:18,560 --> 01:16:23,040
Speaker 3: She has a feminine calm demeanor. When we hostile and

1759
01:16:23,160 --> 01:16:25,920
Speaker 3: worked up, and even when we overly stressed with parenting.

1760
01:16:25,960 --> 01:16:29,720
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you a point too, right, we're overly.

1761
01:16:29,439 --> 01:16:30,240
Speaker 4: Stressed with parenting.

1762
01:16:30,320 --> 01:16:32,240
Speaker 3: This is why I keep pushing against that narrative of

1763
01:16:32,320 --> 01:16:34,679
Speaker 3: being a single mama. You will stress yourself the fuck

1764
01:16:34,720 --> 01:16:37,439
Speaker 3: out and lose what makes you a woman. You will

1765
01:16:37,560 --> 01:16:40,120
Speaker 3: lose it because you you annoy it twenty four seven.

1766
01:16:40,439 --> 01:16:41,400
Speaker 4: The kids, ain't you rut?

1767
01:16:41,439 --> 01:16:43,479
Speaker 3: You get up in the morning, kids moving slow, You

1768
01:16:43,560 --> 01:16:46,000
Speaker 3: start cussing them out and rushing them, fussing you late,

1769
01:16:46,080 --> 01:16:47,240
Speaker 3: the word you get, the people.

1770
01:16:47,040 --> 01:16:47,920
Speaker 1: On the job annoying you.

1771
01:16:48,280 --> 01:16:51,920
Speaker 3: Your whole demeanor becomes an energy. That's an attitude twenty

1772
01:16:51,960 --> 01:16:54,840
Speaker 3: four seven. That's why we're normalizing resting bitch faces and

1773
01:16:54,920 --> 01:16:57,240
Speaker 3: niggas is calling it cute for bitches to be her mean,

1774
01:16:57,320 --> 01:17:00,519
Speaker 3: her fine, mean ass y'all even willing to accept the

1775
01:17:00,560 --> 01:17:03,800
Speaker 3: shit now because we're doing it so much, And it's

1776
01:17:04,000 --> 01:17:07,439
Speaker 3: that's not what a woman is. Intuition comes from a

1777
01:17:07,640 --> 01:17:09,920
Speaker 3: place of peace. It's a much mother nature thing.

1778
01:17:11,080 --> 01:17:11,680
Speaker 1: Appreciation.

1779
01:17:11,880 --> 01:17:14,000
Speaker 3: It's just it's a fact, you know what I mean,

1780
01:17:14,080 --> 01:17:15,720
Speaker 3: Like you can spend it how you want to spend it.

1781
01:17:15,760 --> 01:17:18,000
Speaker 1: This is just truth as a woman. Do you think

1782
01:17:18,320 --> 01:17:20,679
Speaker 1: do you think women are just making like a false

1783
01:17:20,760 --> 01:17:22,599
Speaker 1: wall like you said earlier, like they know they want

1784
01:17:22,640 --> 01:17:24,320
Speaker 1: a man, they know they want to be a woman,

1785
01:17:24,439 --> 01:17:26,760
Speaker 1: but they just got this false wall reality. Yeah.

1786
01:17:26,800 --> 01:17:28,680
Speaker 3: And I'm gonna tell you something because I struggled with

1787
01:17:28,760 --> 01:17:31,760
Speaker 3: this when I stepped out here, like after coming out

1788
01:17:31,800 --> 01:17:34,680
Speaker 3: the streets and realizing like, like bro, I can I

1789
01:17:34,760 --> 01:17:36,840
Speaker 3: can be something on both ends of the spectrum. Right,

1790
01:17:36,960 --> 01:17:39,759
Speaker 3: So now I'm a boss bitch, like I'm stepping into business.

1791
01:17:39,840 --> 01:17:42,600
Speaker 3: I'm understanding how to touch real money and shit like that.

1792
01:17:43,080 --> 01:17:46,360
Speaker 3: You realize, like, Okay, I pop my shit in rooms

1793
01:17:46,439 --> 01:17:48,840
Speaker 3: like a nigga a lot of times. Right when I

1794
01:17:48,920 --> 01:17:52,120
Speaker 3: get home. No man wants that in his household. We

1795
01:17:52,200 --> 01:17:55,599
Speaker 3: don't have enough conversations about how to manage that ship.

1796
01:17:56,920 --> 01:17:59,240
Speaker 3: So get to the point where it's like I'm feeling

1797
01:17:59,320 --> 01:18:02,080
Speaker 3: like I got a compromise my being a boss bitch

1798
01:18:02,600 --> 01:18:03,400
Speaker 3: for having a man.

1799
01:18:03,880 --> 01:18:06,000
Speaker 4: It's like I can't have both. But we we're not.

1800
01:18:06,560 --> 01:18:10,160
Speaker 3: We're not nurturing the conversation that like boss women got

1801
01:18:10,200 --> 01:18:11,400
Speaker 3: the talk and bitch, how you turn that.

1802
01:18:11,400 --> 01:18:13,640
Speaker 1: Shit off when you go home? Because you're running the

1803
01:18:13,680 --> 01:18:14,960
Speaker 1: company in the world.

1804
01:18:15,479 --> 01:18:18,080
Speaker 4: You gotta be that. Anybody know, you're running a team

1805
01:18:18,120 --> 01:18:18,720
Speaker 4: of people are.

1806
01:18:18,680 --> 01:18:22,800
Speaker 1: Youssive to the right situation, So so yes and no.

1807
01:18:23,120 --> 01:18:25,759
Speaker 4: Right, obviously the man has to come with that energy.

1808
01:18:25,840 --> 01:18:28,040
Speaker 3: So yes, But the no part is, I don't give

1809
01:18:28,040 --> 01:18:30,879
Speaker 3: a damn how much of a excuse me a provider

1810
01:18:31,000 --> 01:18:33,160
Speaker 3: or alpha male you are if you're dealing with one

1811
01:18:33,200 --> 01:18:35,000
Speaker 3: of the women that it is embedded for her to

1812
01:18:35,120 --> 01:18:38,120
Speaker 3: be independent and there's a flex she ain't gonna do nothing,

1813
01:18:38,160 --> 01:18:39,360
Speaker 3: but it'll be a power struggle.

1814
01:18:39,880 --> 01:18:42,639
Speaker 6: She gonna she's supposed to be the leader.

1815
01:18:43,560 --> 01:18:46,639
Speaker 1: Can't turn it off. It's listen.

1816
01:18:46,920 --> 01:18:48,360
Speaker 3: It's a lot of men that I do one on

1817
01:18:48,439 --> 01:18:50,880
Speaker 3: one phone calls with that are successful men and they

1818
01:18:50,960 --> 01:18:52,400
Speaker 3: have boss females.

1819
01:18:52,560 --> 01:18:52,720
Speaker 1: You know.

1820
01:18:52,800 --> 01:18:55,000
Speaker 3: They woman got her own business, She top of the

1821
01:18:55,080 --> 01:18:57,599
Speaker 3: food chain in her career field. And when they come

1822
01:18:57,680 --> 01:18:59,960
Speaker 3: home a lot of times like it's a power strung

1823
01:19:00,479 --> 01:19:02,000
Speaker 3: and it's like, I love my woman, I don't want

1824
01:19:02,040 --> 01:19:04,600
Speaker 3: to leave it, but it's like a battle. More successful

1825
01:19:04,680 --> 01:19:06,920
Speaker 3: she is, the more I feel like I'm with a nigga.

1826
01:19:09,880 --> 01:19:12,639
Speaker 3: You see, I'm telling you, as a woman that's really

1827
01:19:12,680 --> 01:19:15,599
Speaker 3: getting to it out here, you have to intentionally tackle

1828
01:19:15,680 --> 01:19:17,040
Speaker 3: this shit. They gotta be something on the front of

1829
01:19:17,080 --> 01:19:20,280
Speaker 3: your brain that you're nurturing as a woman, Like I'm

1830
01:19:20,360 --> 01:19:23,320
Speaker 3: not trying to be this with my man. When when

1831
01:19:23,360 --> 01:19:26,280
Speaker 3: we started getting more rights as women coming from history,

1832
01:19:26,640 --> 01:19:27,679
Speaker 3: you know, we getting jobs.

1833
01:19:27,760 --> 01:19:30,920
Speaker 4: We we aiming to earn what y'all earn.

1834
01:19:31,520 --> 01:19:33,960
Speaker 3: The first thing a bitch flex on a nigga when

1835
01:19:34,000 --> 01:19:37,000
Speaker 3: she paying for shit is the money we start.

1836
01:19:36,840 --> 01:19:38,519
Speaker 1: Doing what we said we ain't like niggas doing.

1837
01:19:39,000 --> 01:19:42,560
Speaker 3: This is why them dudes that be homosexuals living with

1838
01:19:42,640 --> 01:19:45,280
Speaker 3: a bitch makeup, man suit and she that's I bought

1839
01:19:45,320 --> 01:19:48,280
Speaker 3: everything you got on fuck nigga, Like we're finna fuck.

1840
01:19:48,360 --> 01:19:49,960
Speaker 3: I paid the bit, get your ship and get out.

1841
01:19:50,200 --> 01:19:51,639
Speaker 3: This is what the fuck you got to get out

1842
01:19:53,000 --> 01:19:54,720
Speaker 3: and then then we get back together. How fuck this

1843
01:19:54,840 --> 01:19:55,759
Speaker 3: nigga gonna be your nigga?

1844
01:19:55,760 --> 01:19:58,599
Speaker 4: You just Sunday here in front.

1845
01:19:58,400 --> 01:20:00,960
Speaker 1: Of the kids, always said, wants to respect on this

1846
01:20:03,080 --> 01:20:05,120
Speaker 1: man like, but then, but a nigga, you know what

1847
01:20:05,160 --> 01:20:08,880
Speaker 1: I'm saying, a hobo sexual nigga stay around still. I

1848
01:20:08,960 --> 01:20:12,120
Speaker 1: hate this bitch brother, this bitch my wife, get on

1849
01:20:12,160 --> 01:20:14,760
Speaker 1: my ship and I would deb when you fuck all

1850
01:20:14,880 --> 01:20:16,320
Speaker 1: that that's what they're going over.

1851
01:20:16,360 --> 01:20:18,320
Speaker 7: But then that's what that's same, that same ship that

1852
01:20:18,360 --> 01:20:22,840
Speaker 7: you're talking about though, like with the hobot sexual, that

1853
01:20:22,960 --> 01:20:27,160
Speaker 7: ship that's that ship will go back to like you said,

1854
01:20:27,920 --> 01:20:30,519
Speaker 7: when a nigga doesn't have any other alternatives or any

1855
01:20:30,600 --> 01:20:32,560
Speaker 7: other auto box and he has to do with that,

1856
01:20:33,240 --> 01:20:36,400
Speaker 7: that ship will push a nigga over the edge because

1857
01:20:36,640 --> 01:20:37,080
Speaker 7: you got it.

1858
01:20:37,160 --> 01:20:39,599
Speaker 1: Like niggas just can't live in like city like Atlanta

1859
01:20:39,760 --> 01:20:42,200
Speaker 1: trying to be you know, like it ship fucked up.

1860
01:20:42,479 --> 01:20:44,519
Speaker 1: It's two too many to one.

1861
01:20:45,320 --> 01:20:46,280
Speaker 8: It's two many.

1862
01:20:47,560 --> 01:20:47,800
Speaker 1: Women.

1863
01:20:47,880 --> 01:20:49,880
Speaker 8: Like I said, they just saying what it is like.

1864
01:20:49,960 --> 01:20:51,000
Speaker 8: But I ain't trying to do all that.

1865
01:20:51,040 --> 01:20:53,680
Speaker 1: I'm trying to do that, right, They saying what it

1866
01:20:53,800 --> 01:20:56,479
Speaker 1: is like a nigga like, hey, fuck out it.

1867
01:20:56,800 --> 01:20:58,400
Speaker 8: I ain't trying to I ain't trying to nothing.

1868
01:20:59,040 --> 01:21:01,080
Speaker 1: Even the women women not doing that nothing like you

1869
01:21:01,120 --> 01:21:03,080
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, I ain't Finna keep sitting in

1870
01:21:03,160 --> 01:21:07,800
Speaker 1: the cut man waiting ROVERO. Hey, it's fucked up, man,

1871
01:21:08,560 --> 01:21:11,200
Speaker 1: it is. It's fucked up. They just I don't know

1872
01:21:11,280 --> 01:21:14,439
Speaker 1: how to explain, because how you're gonna not be seen

1873
01:21:14,520 --> 01:21:16,320
Speaker 1: if you're not seen, that's how they're looking at us.

1874
01:21:16,479 --> 01:21:19,439
Speaker 1: They just coming to women are getting more bold, like hey,

1875
01:21:19,920 --> 01:21:20,759
Speaker 1: approach your niggas.

1876
01:21:20,840 --> 01:21:24,240
Speaker 6: Yeah, but we this was getting on the knees and

1877
01:21:24,280 --> 01:21:24,720
Speaker 6: ship this.

1878
01:21:25,280 --> 01:21:28,920
Speaker 4: We gotta stop this masculine overlea.

1879
01:21:30,720 --> 01:21:32,920
Speaker 3: The more we're going into that road, the more it's

1880
01:21:32,960 --> 01:21:34,840
Speaker 3: pushing niggas into whole ass rolls.

1881
01:21:35,160 --> 01:21:35,880
Speaker 1: That's why I'm.

1882
01:21:35,760 --> 01:21:38,320
Speaker 3: Saying that, like the balance need to lean back the

1883
01:21:38,400 --> 01:21:41,240
Speaker 3: other way because we moving niggas in with us. We

1884
01:21:41,640 --> 01:21:44,599
Speaker 3: paying for everything we and then we're doing it because

1885
01:21:44,640 --> 01:21:46,360
Speaker 3: by nature there's that urge to have a man.

1886
01:21:46,439 --> 01:21:46,960
Speaker 1: That's why we.

1887
01:21:47,080 --> 01:21:49,120
Speaker 3: Laid up with fuck niggas and niggas that he ain't

1888
01:21:49,120 --> 01:21:50,320
Speaker 3: gonna get it ship together no time.

1889
01:21:50,400 --> 01:21:51,960
Speaker 4: So and we know that like if you ask a.

1890
01:21:52,000 --> 01:21:53,560
Speaker 1: Bitch and you aren't gonna tell the nigga, but she

1891
01:21:53,640 --> 01:21:54,799
Speaker 1: said she gonna.

1892
01:21:54,600 --> 01:21:56,160
Speaker 3: Tell you, Like I know he ain't ship but I

1893
01:21:56,240 --> 01:21:59,559
Speaker 3: love him though, just being able to say that they

1894
01:21:59,640 --> 01:22:03,519
Speaker 3: got companionship, cause that shit lonely, especially when you start

1895
01:22:03,600 --> 01:22:05,880
Speaker 3: to become successful and you realize like, I'm in this

1896
01:22:05,920 --> 01:22:10,040
Speaker 3: bitch by myself, and you could see it when women

1897
01:22:10,120 --> 01:22:12,080
Speaker 3: be for other women. First thing we throw out there,

1898
01:22:12,120 --> 01:22:14,519
Speaker 3: well help men that this without a man being a

1899
01:22:14,560 --> 01:22:16,640
Speaker 3: part of the conversation. Bitch go to bringing up how

1900
01:22:16,720 --> 01:22:18,920
Speaker 3: fuck your nigga or you ain't got no nigga? Like,

1901
01:22:19,040 --> 01:22:22,880
Speaker 3: we really got to start embodying just being feminine, being

1902
01:22:22,920 --> 01:22:25,200
Speaker 3: in a space where you could be as boss as

1903
01:22:25,240 --> 01:22:26,280
Speaker 3: you want with your business.

1904
01:22:26,360 --> 01:22:29,280
Speaker 4: But in regards to men, require.

1905
01:22:28,800 --> 01:22:31,960
Speaker 3: Them to step up and flex what they have naturally,

1906
01:22:32,240 --> 01:22:36,200
Speaker 3: which is masculinity. It comes out when the environment demands

1907
01:22:36,400 --> 01:22:38,200
Speaker 3: that it does, otherwise it won't.

1908
01:22:38,680 --> 01:22:40,439
Speaker 4: That's what turned boys into men. They got to be

1909
01:22:40,479 --> 01:22:42,320
Speaker 4: a part of something. There has to be a purpose.

1910
01:22:42,479 --> 01:22:45,240
Speaker 3: There has to be some sort of rules or wants

1911
01:22:45,520 --> 01:22:48,679
Speaker 3: that the man chooses to discipline himself to have or follow,

1912
01:22:49,080 --> 01:22:51,640
Speaker 3: and it has to come organically.

1913
01:22:51,200 --> 01:22:53,599
Speaker 4: From that dude or in our community.

1914
01:22:53,760 --> 01:22:54,479
Speaker 1: They gonna get.

1915
01:22:54,320 --> 01:22:56,160
Speaker 3: Pushed towards the system where you're gonna conform to that

1916
01:22:56,200 --> 01:22:59,000
Speaker 3: shit in prison, or you're gonna be another nigga, bitch

1917
01:22:59,080 --> 01:22:59,719
Speaker 3: ass homeboy.

1918
01:23:00,560 --> 01:23:00,800
Speaker 1: Y'all.

1919
01:23:00,880 --> 01:23:04,120
Speaker 3: See, there's plenty of artists in the niggas and they entorage. Hey,

1920
01:23:04,160 --> 01:23:06,800
Speaker 3: go get this ya as crossing the bridge and get

1921
01:23:06,840 --> 01:23:09,920
Speaker 3: cheesecake for another nigga trying to get on like until

1922
01:23:10,000 --> 01:23:11,400
Speaker 3: you figure out your own purpose.

1923
01:23:12,320 --> 01:23:13,960
Speaker 1: It just is what it is for men.

1924
01:23:14,200 --> 01:23:16,439
Speaker 4: And this is the this is the reality that we

1925
01:23:16,640 --> 01:23:18,040
Speaker 4: need the state to black boys.

1926
01:23:18,120 --> 01:23:20,840
Speaker 3: Like, bro, if you don't see about you, your mental health,

1927
01:23:21,080 --> 01:23:23,960
Speaker 3: what you want for yourself, like some women gonna come

1928
01:23:24,120 --> 01:23:26,880
Speaker 3: and run you and conform you to her idea because,

1929
01:23:26,960 --> 01:23:29,639
Speaker 3: like you say, bitches is stepping up, just setting households

1930
01:23:29,720 --> 01:23:31,640
Speaker 3: up how they want it like a nigga, or you

1931
01:23:31,760 --> 01:23:33,960
Speaker 3: gonna end up out here like lost, the world gonna

1932
01:23:34,040 --> 01:23:34,280
Speaker 3: run you.

1933
01:23:35,080 --> 01:23:35,240
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1934
01:23:35,280 --> 01:23:37,920
Speaker 7: But it's a lot of niggas too though, that are

1935
01:23:38,040 --> 01:23:42,080
Speaker 7: not bread winners and that are not the quote unquote

1936
01:23:42,240 --> 01:23:45,920
Speaker 7: leader in certain aspects of their household. But it's still

1937
01:23:46,320 --> 01:23:49,320
Speaker 7: like a glass clayer understanding in their household that they

1938
01:23:49,360 --> 01:23:50,000
Speaker 7: wear the pants.

1939
01:23:50,320 --> 01:23:50,439
Speaker 6: Right.

1940
01:23:51,040 --> 01:23:53,600
Speaker 3: I come from a time where and I you know

1941
01:23:53,680 --> 01:23:55,360
Speaker 3: I've said this before. This is one of the videos

1942
01:23:55,400 --> 01:23:58,840
Speaker 3: that first went viral when I started making Lives and

1943
01:23:58,840 --> 01:24:01,840
Speaker 3: Shit online but I explained, like a lot of niggas

1944
01:24:01,880 --> 01:24:04,439
Speaker 3: don't realize if you because in this country, you're only

1945
01:24:04,560 --> 01:24:07,280
Speaker 3: valuable in like three or four ways as a man,

1946
01:24:07,439 --> 01:24:11,080
Speaker 3: right if you have to be intellectually successful men, and

1947
01:24:11,120 --> 01:24:14,920
Speaker 3: you're smart enough to touch success. A skilled labor where

1948
01:24:14,960 --> 01:24:16,200
Speaker 3: you actually can work with your.

1949
01:24:16,160 --> 01:24:17,120
Speaker 4: Hands and build things.

1950
01:24:17,240 --> 01:24:20,439
Speaker 3: Infrastructure is every bit of what represents men, the worlds,

1951
01:24:20,520 --> 01:24:23,320
Speaker 3: the buildings, the fucking you know, every job that a

1952
01:24:23,400 --> 01:24:26,120
Speaker 3: woman would never want to do, you got men handling that.

1953
01:24:26,240 --> 01:24:29,439
Speaker 3: And those jobs are the basis of how society functions.

1954
01:24:29,479 --> 01:24:31,920
Speaker 3: The garbage truck drivers, the truckers, the people that do

1955
01:24:32,240 --> 01:24:36,200
Speaker 3: construction work, plumbing, Sue's roofing, all the real shit that

1956
01:24:36,600 --> 01:24:40,000
Speaker 3: allows us to exist, right right, It's exactly, it's only

1957
01:24:40,400 --> 01:24:44,600
Speaker 3: certain areas, of certain pockets that society deems a nigga successful.

1958
01:24:45,000 --> 01:24:47,320
Speaker 3: When when you when you look at yourself as a man,

1959
01:24:47,960 --> 01:24:51,280
Speaker 3: if you realize that I have, for example, those skilled

1960
01:24:51,400 --> 01:24:54,920
Speaker 3: labor abilities, I take a trade. You got to be

1961
01:24:55,000 --> 01:24:56,880
Speaker 3: able to walk in a room full of women even

1962
01:24:56,920 --> 01:24:58,840
Speaker 3: though you ain't got the biggest bag or the most

1963
01:24:58,920 --> 01:25:01,479
Speaker 3: expensive designer or the nicest car, and say, bitch.

1964
01:25:01,240 --> 01:25:01,720
Speaker 4: I'm rich.

1965
01:25:02,439 --> 01:25:04,920
Speaker 3: I'm like you marry a nigga like me. You can

1966
01:25:04,960 --> 01:25:05,679
Speaker 3: build us a house.

1967
01:25:06,200 --> 01:25:06,439
Speaker 1: Bitch.

1968
01:25:06,800 --> 01:25:08,840
Speaker 3: I can like your cop break down. I can take

1969
01:25:08,880 --> 01:25:11,240
Speaker 3: the motor apart, put that bitch back together your breaks.

1970
01:25:11,280 --> 01:25:13,840
Speaker 3: We ain't got to pay nobody all changes. And this

1971
01:25:14,040 --> 01:25:16,320
Speaker 3: is money without being direct money.

1972
01:25:16,439 --> 01:25:19,760
Speaker 4: It's currency. Niggas that work with their hands, that is money.

1973
01:25:20,040 --> 01:25:20,720
Speaker 4: Like I grew up.

1974
01:25:20,680 --> 01:25:21,200
Speaker 1: Watching my dad.

1975
01:25:21,240 --> 01:25:23,360
Speaker 3: That nigga could build a house, do roofing, take a

1976
01:25:23,439 --> 01:25:25,639
Speaker 3: part of the car landscape. He digging up the yard,

1977
01:25:25,680 --> 01:25:28,519
Speaker 3: putting down sprinkling systems. He ended up doing electrical work.

1978
01:25:28,680 --> 01:25:30,639
Speaker 3: Hold this right here for me, baby, do this, get

1979
01:25:30,680 --> 01:25:32,439
Speaker 3: in there. Pumped them breaks me ja Mama, don't let

1980
01:25:32,439 --> 01:25:34,519
Speaker 3: too much aye in this bitch bleed the line. I

1981
01:25:34,600 --> 01:25:35,400
Speaker 3: stop now pumping.

1982
01:25:35,439 --> 01:25:38,400
Speaker 4: When I take like these this niggas that like they're

1983
01:25:38,479 --> 01:25:39,760
Speaker 4: aware of what they are.

1984
01:25:40,040 --> 01:25:42,560
Speaker 3: Everybody looking for a nigga to have a bag or

1985
01:25:42,640 --> 01:25:45,400
Speaker 3: some flashy fancy shit and were getting away from what

1986
01:25:45,560 --> 01:25:48,560
Speaker 3: makes a man a man. This is the real responsibilities,

1987
01:25:48,600 --> 01:25:51,160
Speaker 3: the stuff that like when you look around, women should

1988
01:25:51,200 --> 01:25:54,720
Speaker 3: be valuing that in men. This is where y'all can

1989
01:25:54,760 --> 01:25:56,559
Speaker 3: get together and you could build and you could grow.

1990
01:25:57,520 --> 01:25:59,080
Speaker 3: You can start worrying about the real shit.

1991
01:26:00,680 --> 01:26:02,439
Speaker 6: So let me ask you this then. Okay, so.

1992
01:26:04,040 --> 01:26:06,040
Speaker 7: When it comes to the niggas that have the trades,

1993
01:26:06,280 --> 01:26:09,600
Speaker 7: that have the mental capability, that are able to do

1994
01:26:09,720 --> 01:26:12,439
Speaker 7: the financials and all that stuff, what do you suggest

1995
01:26:12,520 --> 01:26:13,599
Speaker 7: to the little dick niggas.

1996
01:26:14,560 --> 01:26:18,240
Speaker 3: They're gonna have to work even ha you got You're

1997
01:26:18,280 --> 01:26:19,519
Speaker 3: gonna have to have some bread and.

1998
01:26:21,200 --> 01:26:23,360
Speaker 4: It can't be smart. You gonna have to come with it.

1999
01:26:24,040 --> 01:26:27,200
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to come with and the head got

2000
01:26:27,560 --> 01:26:30,800
Speaker 1: on your feet and the hair got to be exceptional.

2001
01:26:30,840 --> 01:26:33,840
Speaker 4: You got to go work on that. Yeah, you got.

2002
01:26:34,200 --> 01:26:38,519
Speaker 1: Guess what our bullshes side. They'll try to see these days.

2003
01:26:38,640 --> 01:26:41,280
Speaker 1: Women will try to get a nigga that's good with

2004
01:26:41,360 --> 01:26:44,360
Speaker 1: his hand and feel like, Okay, I make the more money.

2005
01:26:44,360 --> 01:26:46,200
Speaker 1: But like you said, this money, this ship. I'm doing

2006
01:26:46,280 --> 01:26:48,519
Speaker 1: the money because we got to pay for this ship. Right.

2007
01:26:48,680 --> 01:26:50,559
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I got whatever little company

2008
01:26:50,600 --> 01:26:51,080
Speaker 1: or whatever.

2009
01:26:51,240 --> 01:26:53,880
Speaker 8: But she runs whatever. Yeah, she running ship.

2010
01:26:54,400 --> 01:26:56,720
Speaker 1: Now I got to be masculated by her because what

2011
01:26:56,840 --> 01:26:58,040
Speaker 1: she said she got with them. Man.

2012
01:26:58,520 --> 01:27:01,080
Speaker 4: But that so I put that on y'all like as.

2013
01:27:02,760 --> 01:27:05,840
Speaker 3: But but I'm gonna say this though, Hose is doing

2014
01:27:05,960 --> 01:27:10,360
Speaker 3: that because even amongst men. I I don't see y'all

2015
01:27:10,439 --> 01:27:13,320
Speaker 3: out in the open like on the internet and where

2016
01:27:13,400 --> 01:27:16,080
Speaker 3: it could be seen by the masses. Given props to

2017
01:27:16,280 --> 01:27:20,599
Speaker 3: men that are skilled laborers and everybody praising the flashy niggas.

2018
01:27:20,960 --> 01:27:23,720
Speaker 3: What about like y'all garbage got to be carried off

2019
01:27:23,800 --> 01:27:26,680
Speaker 3: y'all street, But it's gonna be staying, like somebody got

2020
01:27:26,760 --> 01:27:27,920
Speaker 3: to come fix the plumbing.

2021
01:27:27,680 --> 01:27:30,400
Speaker 1: When the toilet clog up breaks.

2022
01:27:30,560 --> 01:27:34,800
Speaker 3: Yes, like what we need to start really advertising that

2023
01:27:35,040 --> 01:27:36,559
Speaker 3: these men are.

2024
01:27:36,520 --> 01:27:39,280
Speaker 1: Men, that we need some of the new kids in

2025
01:27:39,320 --> 01:27:43,040
Speaker 1: the new generation to be something else gonna have to be.

2026
01:27:45,120 --> 01:27:47,519
Speaker 8: Come on, not even entertainers. Niggas gonna have to do

2027
01:27:47,680 --> 01:27:47,880
Speaker 8: like you.

2028
01:27:47,840 --> 01:27:51,760
Speaker 1: Said, you gotta lights, building, building type of ship money.

2029
01:27:52,360 --> 01:27:55,160
Speaker 4: But I feel like, for for men, y'all got to

2030
01:27:55,160 --> 01:27:56,120
Speaker 4: say that more to men.

2031
01:27:57,920 --> 01:28:01,040
Speaker 11: Y'all gotta we were saying episode won't get a job,

2032
01:28:01,160 --> 01:28:03,120
Speaker 11: Yeah yeah, job, yeah it.

2033
01:28:04,080 --> 01:28:07,560
Speaker 1: You gotta learn some niggatta, learn some niggatta unlearn some

2034
01:28:07,640 --> 01:28:09,080
Speaker 1: of the bullshit and learn a lot of the more

2035
01:28:09,240 --> 01:28:10,040
Speaker 1: this other ship man.

2036
01:28:10,240 --> 01:28:12,920
Speaker 3: But and the job ain't gotta be flashy, like it

2037
01:28:13,000 --> 01:28:14,840
Speaker 3: ain't gotta be one of them, because I ain't gonna lie.

2038
01:28:15,000 --> 01:28:17,000
Speaker 3: I go in places and the vibe is different here

2039
01:28:17,280 --> 01:28:19,840
Speaker 3: in Atlanta, but like you know, I'm you know, back

2040
01:28:19,880 --> 01:28:22,200
Speaker 3: in Tampa, Florida. You go in places and you know

2041
01:28:22,280 --> 01:28:25,200
Speaker 3: you see a young black dude in there working. He damn,

2042
01:28:25,240 --> 01:28:26,840
Speaker 3: they're like if you are pretty, bitch like.

2043
01:28:26,840 --> 01:28:28,439
Speaker 8: You walk in you somebody like you, neo.

2044
01:28:28,800 --> 01:28:30,360
Speaker 4: He turned his head like you don't want you to

2045
01:28:30,400 --> 01:28:31,320
Speaker 4: see this.

2046
01:28:31,479 --> 01:28:33,479
Speaker 3: When I go done, andy boy, I see you get

2047
01:28:33,520 --> 01:28:35,840
Speaker 3: that check boy, you in here like if you're working

2048
01:28:35,840 --> 01:28:39,639
Speaker 3: in food service, this nigga, I'm smiling all that because

2049
01:28:39,680 --> 01:28:42,479
Speaker 3: I need the young boys to know, Bru, Everybody don't

2050
01:28:42,479 --> 01:28:44,439
Speaker 3: gotta be no fucking rapper. Everybody don't gotta be no

2051
01:28:44,520 --> 01:28:47,520
Speaker 3: street nigga, and everybody job that's borified.

2052
01:28:47,640 --> 01:28:49,679
Speaker 1: Everybody got. Everybody gotta start at one hundred.

2053
01:28:49,680 --> 01:28:50,360
Speaker 8: You can start at zero.

2054
01:28:51,280 --> 01:28:53,320
Speaker 1: You gotta know that. You know what I'm saying, because

2055
01:28:53,320 --> 01:28:55,160
Speaker 1: you hear so many niggas like I can't do this

2056
01:28:55,200 --> 01:28:56,439
Speaker 1: because I ain't got this man.

2057
01:28:56,479 --> 01:28:59,720
Speaker 8: You gotta start the motherfucker's on later. You know what

2058
01:28:59,760 --> 01:29:00,240
Speaker 8: I'm say saying.

2059
01:29:00,240 --> 01:29:03,439
Speaker 12: You can start at zero, bro, make it to But

2060
01:29:03,720 --> 01:29:06,720
Speaker 12: we need some niggas to go into careers where you

2061
01:29:06,840 --> 01:29:08,600
Speaker 12: ain't trying to ever get off this and go to

2062
01:29:08,680 --> 01:29:10,800
Speaker 12: some flash you're trying to grow this Like, we need

2063
01:29:10,840 --> 01:29:13,200
Speaker 12: to see niggas go into being airline.

2064
01:29:12,800 --> 01:29:16,240
Speaker 3: Pilots and just areas like these bridges we drive across.

2065
01:29:16,320 --> 01:29:19,000
Speaker 3: Somebody got to be an underwater welder. Some niggas got

2066
01:29:19,040 --> 01:29:20,360
Speaker 3: to be willing to go out on that boat and

2067
01:29:20,479 --> 01:29:23,160
Speaker 3: do you know the real work with oil and whales

2068
01:29:23,200 --> 01:29:25,600
Speaker 3: and all kinds of shit just there are we We

2069
01:29:25,760 --> 01:29:29,240
Speaker 3: need to really promote niggas doing the real jobs that

2070
01:29:29,320 --> 01:29:30,840
Speaker 3: make the world go around. We need to be honest

2071
01:29:30,880 --> 01:29:32,639
Speaker 3: at them, the jobs that make the world go around,

2072
01:29:33,640 --> 01:29:37,320
Speaker 3: just keeping it real. For like, every nigga, even the

2073
01:29:37,400 --> 01:29:40,519
Speaker 3: flashy nigga need a nigga like what I'm talking about women,

2074
01:29:40,600 --> 01:29:42,800
Speaker 3: We need them kind of niggas. But you take the

2075
01:29:42,920 --> 01:29:45,400
Speaker 3: richest nigga, he need one of the talking.

2076
01:29:46,800 --> 01:29:47,759
Speaker 4: I was one of them niggas.

2077
01:29:48,000 --> 01:29:49,800
Speaker 3: Man, y'all wouldn't be able to tell me shit, bitch,

2078
01:29:49,800 --> 01:29:51,639
Speaker 3: I'm rich. I wouldn't give a fuck how much money

2079
01:29:51,680 --> 01:29:54,040
Speaker 3: the next nigga got that you fucking on you, and

2080
01:29:54,240 --> 01:29:56,080
Speaker 3: that nigga got to call me when you're caught up.

2081
01:29:56,240 --> 01:29:58,200
Speaker 3: Did I work at the dealership in the back at

2082
01:29:58,240 --> 01:30:00,360
Speaker 3: the beer's dealership. I'm the one fucking with you motive.

2083
01:30:00,600 --> 01:30:02,559
Speaker 4: God damn it, y'all need me straight up.

2084
01:30:04,800 --> 01:30:05,240
Speaker 5: I love it.

2085
01:30:05,840 --> 01:30:06,280
Speaker 1: I love it.

2086
01:30:06,840 --> 01:30:08,800
Speaker 4: We just need this need to be the verbage more often.

2087
01:30:09,080 --> 01:30:10,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, I agree.

2088
01:30:10,640 --> 01:30:12,960
Speaker 3: I feel like we were being programmed and marketed to

2089
01:30:13,160 --> 01:30:16,360
Speaker 3: so much other ship that these ain't even the conversations

2090
01:30:16,400 --> 01:30:19,720
Speaker 3: that's being had we sold, you know, just talking about

2091
01:30:19,720 --> 01:30:21,960
Speaker 3: the celebrities business and making some ship look a certain

2092
01:30:21,960 --> 01:30:24,320
Speaker 3: way online and then y'all know, everybody get online and

2093
01:30:24,360 --> 01:30:27,639
Speaker 3: they're showing or they trying to show the highlights.

2094
01:30:27,880 --> 01:30:28,720
Speaker 1: That's really what it is.

2095
01:30:29,800 --> 01:30:31,320
Speaker 4: Everything gets the highlights after the.

2096
01:30:31,320 --> 01:30:34,400
Speaker 1: Game real ship, you're gonna you're gonna get them small

2097
01:30:34,439 --> 01:30:37,360
Speaker 1: little clips and making it look like a whole like facts,

2098
01:30:37,640 --> 01:30:40,040
Speaker 1: we all do it because I ain't got there waking

2099
01:30:40,120 --> 01:30:41,840
Speaker 1: up in the morning and posting go damn all in

2100
01:30:41,880 --> 01:30:44,360
Speaker 1: my eyes and ship me wake up and go.

2101
01:30:47,000 --> 01:30:49,559
Speaker 3: But I'm gonna tell you the really platforms, platforms like y'all,

2102
01:30:49,640 --> 01:30:51,720
Speaker 3: were you willing to talk about the moments where you're

2103
01:30:51,760 --> 01:30:53,880
Speaker 3: waking up and the ship in your eyes, beefing with

2104
01:30:53,960 --> 01:30:54,960
Speaker 3: your bitch or certain stuff?

2105
01:30:55,000 --> 01:30:55,400
Speaker 1: Ain't right.

2106
01:30:55,479 --> 01:30:57,680
Speaker 3: A nigga took a loss on certain cause people got

2107
01:30:57,760 --> 01:31:00,600
Speaker 3: to know, like, sh it ain't all flashing come with this.

2108
01:31:01,280 --> 01:31:03,960
Speaker 3: That's why the younger generation, they're thirteen, they won't but

2109
01:31:04,040 --> 01:31:06,920
Speaker 3: lissiaga and they want you to like just no no

2110
01:31:07,200 --> 01:31:10,240
Speaker 3: real understanding for what it takes, the earnest kind of money.

2111
01:31:10,280 --> 01:31:12,160
Speaker 3: They just feel like they deserve it because everybody on

2112
01:31:12,240 --> 01:31:15,040
Speaker 3: TikTok got it. And that's how they're coming at their

2113
01:31:15,080 --> 01:31:16,000
Speaker 3: parents and then.

2114
01:31:16,040 --> 01:31:17,960
Speaker 6: TikTok got these kids fucked up.

2115
01:31:18,680 --> 01:31:21,960
Speaker 3: They want everything on the trim it could be, and

2116
01:31:22,120 --> 01:31:23,519
Speaker 3: I mean it could be anything. They feed it to

2117
01:31:23,560 --> 01:31:25,919
Speaker 3: them enough in front of their face, that condition and kicking.

2118
01:31:26,400 --> 01:31:28,920
Speaker 6: Ox tail, French fries, all kind.

2119
01:31:32,920 --> 01:31:35,479
Speaker 3: But this is why we gotta explain more to what

2120
01:31:35,640 --> 01:31:39,280
Speaker 3: the internet is, because it's a tool, Like it's a

2121
01:31:39,400 --> 01:31:40,160
Speaker 3: tool that kept.

2122
01:31:40,040 --> 01:31:42,080
Speaker 7: My guy maybe asked me for I tell omlet the

2123
01:31:42,120 --> 01:31:44,960
Speaker 7: other day. I'm like, you're talking about you six years old,

2124
01:31:45,080 --> 01:31:46,479
Speaker 7: like she's seeing it on TikTok.

2125
01:31:46,640 --> 01:31:50,120
Speaker 8: Yeah, I'm like, bro, we want you to commit to

2126
01:31:50,160 --> 01:31:54,040
Speaker 8: come back two times, y'all.

2127
01:31:53,920 --> 01:31:55,600
Speaker 1: Locking it in now, lock it up.

2128
01:31:56,640 --> 01:31:58,680
Speaker 7: We need like just like I read the forty eight

2129
01:31:58,920 --> 01:32:00,800
Speaker 7: of Power, every six months, need to come back like

2130
01:32:00,960 --> 01:32:03,160
Speaker 7: every what five months?

2131
01:32:03,560 --> 01:32:07,800
Speaker 1: Whatever you feel, whatever, someone hit us. Yeah, we're about

2132
01:32:07,840 --> 01:32:09,280
Speaker 1: to drop more ship like we about to drive.

2133
01:32:09,320 --> 01:32:09,760
Speaker 8: We got next.

2134
01:32:09,840 --> 01:32:11,439
Speaker 1: Ye were driving three times week like you said, we're

2135
01:32:11,479 --> 01:32:14,240
Speaker 1: talking to the regular people the college. I'm talking to

2136
01:32:14,280 --> 01:32:16,320
Speaker 1: everybout it. Like we was dropping once a week. We're

2137
01:32:16,320 --> 01:32:17,880
Speaker 1: wanta start driving two three times a week.

2138
01:32:17,880 --> 01:32:20,880
Speaker 3: And that's what's up I'm looking for because y'all platform though,

2139
01:32:21,120 --> 01:32:23,439
Speaker 3: anywhere I can go and we can really talk about

2140
01:32:23,680 --> 01:32:24,280
Speaker 3: the real ship.

2141
01:32:24,360 --> 01:32:27,200
Speaker 1: I fuck that. Yeah, likewise, too much.

2142
01:32:27,040 --> 01:32:28,760
Speaker 3: Ship water down and I turned down a lot of

2143
01:32:28,800 --> 01:32:31,519
Speaker 3: opportunities to speak with people because I'm knowing you're finna

2144
01:32:31,520 --> 01:32:34,240
Speaker 3: ask me some bullshit stuff that don't got nothing to

2145
01:32:34,320 --> 01:32:36,720
Speaker 3: do with my people really get some game like.

2146
01:32:36,880 --> 01:32:39,280
Speaker 1: We hate it. Ain't no clickbake. We ain't trying to

2147
01:32:39,280 --> 01:32:39,920
Speaker 1: get no clickbak.

2148
01:32:40,880 --> 01:32:42,080
Speaker 6: We're trying to help nas.

2149
01:32:42,160 --> 01:32:43,960
Speaker 1: We're saying this ship in the ways niggas can get it.

2150
01:32:44,040 --> 01:32:46,160
Speaker 1: Like the motherfuckers who don't understand or feel like we

2151
01:32:46,320 --> 01:32:48,960
Speaker 1: talk a little country. I ain't talking y'all anyway, right

2152
01:32:49,680 --> 01:32:51,519
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, y'all don't get what we're saying. I'm

2153
01:32:51,560 --> 01:32:53,840
Speaker 1: telling this ship to while we once was when we

2154
01:32:53,960 --> 01:32:56,680
Speaker 1: see still there's people that are still like every day,

2155
01:32:56,800 --> 01:32:58,280
Speaker 1: Like I do this ship every day.

2156
01:32:58,280 --> 01:33:00,720
Speaker 8: Now, I don't just on it. People call me they

2157
01:33:00,840 --> 01:33:04,240
Speaker 8: real ship and just look at it like our perspective.

2158
01:33:04,920 --> 01:33:07,200
Speaker 1: And people won't help regardless of how we make it

2159
01:33:07,280 --> 01:33:07,879
Speaker 1: look online.

2160
01:33:08,160 --> 01:33:10,320
Speaker 3: Like you said, ain't nobody really on there trying to

2161
01:33:10,360 --> 01:33:12,200
Speaker 3: show their flaws, But people won't help because they reach

2162
01:33:12,240 --> 01:33:12,560
Speaker 3: out to me.

2163
01:33:12,760 --> 01:33:15,240
Speaker 4: All my platform is that it's therapy.

2164
01:33:15,479 --> 01:33:18,320
Speaker 3: I remember it was a time I took my Instagram

2165
01:33:18,479 --> 01:33:20,439
Speaker 3: down for maybe I think I did it for like

2166
01:33:20,479 --> 01:33:20,720
Speaker 3: a week.

2167
01:33:20,800 --> 01:33:20,920
Speaker 4: Man.

2168
01:33:20,920 --> 01:33:22,720
Speaker 3: The people were going crazy. I done did it with

2169
01:33:22,840 --> 01:33:25,799
Speaker 3: Facebook before in the past. They started a damn petition

2170
01:33:25,960 --> 01:33:27,840
Speaker 3: to make me put my page back up because they

2171
01:33:28,400 --> 01:33:30,840
Speaker 3: they saying the videos are therapy. Just need somebody to

2172
01:33:30,880 --> 01:33:33,280
Speaker 3: tell them shit that even their own mama and daddy

2173
01:33:33,400 --> 01:33:35,080
Speaker 3: never kicked it to them straight like that, just to

2174
01:33:35,120 --> 01:33:37,680
Speaker 3: get up off their ass and really be accountable for

2175
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Speaker 3: their own life.

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01:33:39,560 --> 01:33:41,880
Speaker 1: No facts. Everybody got a conversation.

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01:33:43,000 --> 01:33:45,680
Speaker 3: Right, right, and they can relate when you when you're

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01:33:45,760 --> 01:33:47,599
Speaker 3: kicking it to the ground level, like we ain't talking

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01:33:47,680 --> 01:33:49,919
Speaker 3: up with it and we ain't sitting up here discussing

2180
01:33:50,000 --> 01:33:53,360
Speaker 3: celebrity business and you know what I mean, just shooting

2181
01:33:53,400 --> 01:33:56,160
Speaker 3: the ship using the platform to talk about unnecessary shit

2182
01:33:56,280 --> 01:33:57,840
Speaker 3: like everything just need to be relevant. It needs to

2183
01:33:57,880 --> 01:34:00,160
Speaker 3: be brought back there. How can it help somebody? How

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01:34:00,200 --> 01:34:03,160
Speaker 3: can it motivate while entertaining? How can it teach?

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01:34:03,240 --> 01:34:03,680
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

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01:34:03,760 --> 01:34:05,880
Speaker 4: What can it be and learn from watching this ship?

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01:34:05,920 --> 01:34:09,960
Speaker 5: In fact, I agree total mm hmm love Dorsey, salute

2188
01:34:10,040 --> 01:34:11,120
Speaker 5: you appreciate you pull it up.

2189
01:34:11,160 --> 01:34:13,320
Speaker 1: I appreciate y'all follow her.

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01:34:13,640 --> 01:34:14,960
Speaker 8: But she ain't like she ain't.

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01:34:19,880 --> 01:34:20,240
Speaker 4: Already.

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01:34:20,240 --> 01:34:21,880
Speaker 1: As soon as I walked in, you need to move that.

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01:34:23,240 --> 01:34:24,360
Speaker 4: I'm like, damn you do.

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01:34:24,640 --> 01:34:26,200
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, brother, when you come up in and

2195
01:34:26,280 --> 01:34:29,479
Speaker 1: talk this ship, man is the way they can hear

2196
01:34:29,520 --> 01:34:30,360
Speaker 1: it where they can get it.

2197
01:34:30,439 --> 01:34:32,800
Speaker 8: Bro, you know what I'm saying. Even just I don't know,

2198
01:34:33,120 --> 01:34:34,360
Speaker 8: we're gonna do what we gotta do.

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01:34:35,520 --> 01:34:37,599
Speaker 1: You know, when I first got this ship, I came

2200
01:34:37,640 --> 01:34:39,800
Speaker 1: on it, motherfuckers, just to talk. My ship kicks ship,

2201
01:34:40,200 --> 01:34:41,720
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But then I started saying, oh,

2202
01:34:41,800 --> 01:34:43,760
Speaker 1: now people resonating with this ship, because sometimes come on

2203
01:34:43,840 --> 01:34:46,360
Speaker 1: here and say the wrong ship. At first, you know

2204
01:34:46,400 --> 01:34:48,559
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like I'm just being real, But now

2205
01:34:48,600 --> 01:34:51,040
Speaker 1: I know that they tuning in and they texting me

2206
01:34:51,160 --> 01:34:54,519
Speaker 1: bro perspective, Gonna make sure they give him the right one.

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01:34:54,680 --> 01:34:59,960
Speaker 3: Y'all, y'all realize what y'all are, like genuinely just y'all

2208
01:35:00,120 --> 01:35:02,800
Speaker 3: platform like together with y'all. Like it's a lot of

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01:35:02,880 --> 01:35:07,360
Speaker 3: people that this is therapy. This is not just entertainment.

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01:35:07,479 --> 01:35:10,080
Speaker 3: It's something, you know, like back in the day when

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01:35:10,080 --> 01:35:12,000
Speaker 3: we only had a certain amount of channels on the TV.

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01:35:12,120 --> 01:35:13,639
Speaker 4: This is like one of them channels.

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01:35:13,680 --> 01:35:18,040
Speaker 3: Like you know how Channel thirteen was the news your grandma, Like,

2214
01:35:18,120 --> 01:35:19,160
Speaker 3: this is one of them channels.

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01:35:20,040 --> 01:35:26,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, trapping mother. But lords, we love you. I

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01:35:27,040 --> 01:35:31,599
Speaker 1: appreciate your perspectively. Thank you for having me. All right,

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Speaker 1: w w W dot Big Faxpod dot com. Salute Nick.

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Speaker 4: It's a the new website today, Big factspod dot com co.