WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Adventure Envelope Excursion

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of date.

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<v Speaker 2>So I never do this, but in the interest of

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<v Speaker 2>saving time here, because this is a more involved date

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<v Speaker 2>than we normally get, I need to read a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit from Josh's email before we bring him on the phone.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh I love this, Okay, Josh, is.

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<v Speaker 2>That cool with you?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, of course okay, Because he basically transcripted out his

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<v Speaker 2>entire online conversation with this girl, Hayley, Oh, he did

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<v Speaker 2>and said she's very good looking. So he went above

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<v Speaker 2>and beyond for her because they matched on Hinge and

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<v Speaker 2>one of her dating prompts said dating me is like

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<v Speaker 2>an adventure. I'm spicy, spontaneous and sweet. And Josh replied

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<v Speaker 2>to that saying, well, if we ever went out, we'd

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<v Speaker 2>meet somewhere and I'd give you the option of choosing

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<v Speaker 2>one of three adventure envelopes. Whatever one you pick will do.

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<v Speaker 2>And I promise none of them say go back to

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<v Speaker 2>my place inside.

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<v Speaker 4>Hah.

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<v Speaker 3>That'd be quite the trick if the all three of

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<v Speaker 3>them said that.

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<v Speaker 4>Ye.

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<v Speaker 2>And two weeks later, she finally responds to.

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<v Speaker 3>That, saying, oh two weeks wow.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm intrigued. Wow, And so he wrote back intrigued, just

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<v Speaker 2>wait til you see what's behind envelope number three?

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<v Speaker 3>What is it? I want to know?

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<v Speaker 2>It's kind of teasing her.

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<v Speaker 3>Here, Dude, that's really good, And she.

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<v Speaker 2>Asked him, do I get an idea of the types

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<v Speaker 2>of things in each envelope? And he told her, sure,

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<v Speaker 2>exactly from your bio envelope number one, spicy, envelope number

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<v Speaker 2>two sweet, and envelope number three spontaneous, all three like food.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I did also draw the analogy to that

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<v Speaker 4>competitions for all.

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<v Speaker 2>But look how interested you all are in finding out what.

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<v Speaker 4>Is brilliant and better have done the envelope date because

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<v Speaker 4>I Am going to be horribly disappointed if I don't

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<v Speaker 4>find out what's in these things after all this.

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<v Speaker 2>That is how Josh locked down a date here with Haley. So, Josh,

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<v Speaker 2>this is really elaborate.

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<v Speaker 1>Man. Thanks. I guess I don't know. I guess I

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted to put an effort. Dude.

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<v Speaker 2>It's awesome, But you are building yourself up pretty big here,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I would think the dates have to be really

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<v Speaker 2>really special because if she picked spicy date and then

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<v Speaker 2>you just ended up going to like McDonald's and trying

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<v Speaker 2>the Mick Chipotle milkshake, that would be kind of a

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<v Speaker 2>letdown after all this build up.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the worst case scenario. But at the same time,

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<v Speaker 1>you've got to realize the bar has kind of been

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<v Speaker 1>set pretty low these days from what I hear. So

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<v Speaker 1>at the same time, too liked be a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>classer than.

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<v Speaker 3>That, like a taco, like a taco truck special.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's such a big build up to end up

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<v Speaker 2>just going to a taco truck. Why not just go

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<v Speaker 2>to a taco truck.

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<v Speaker 4>He's not putting on the Bachelor right now, Jeffrey. He's

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<v Speaker 4>just trying to make like the intro to something a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit more enticing.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>What envelope did she pick.

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<v Speaker 1>She went with spontaneousous.

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<v Speaker 2>So she opened the spontaneous envelope and what was inside, well.

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<v Speaker 1>So we made up at the spot that I told

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<v Speaker 1>her to public area, don't worry about it, Oh god.

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<v Speaker 1>And inside there was a piece of paper.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh how wild scotcha?

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<v Speaker 3>What was on the paper?

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<v Speaker 1>On the paper it said follow.

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<v Speaker 3>The arrows, Follow the arrows.

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<v Speaker 2>What does that mean? There's an arrow on your chest

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<v Speaker 2>pointing down?

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<v Speaker 3>That would have been terrible. I'm sorry, Go ahead, bro, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>where are the arrows.

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<v Speaker 1>So there is an arrow like she finally finds one

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<v Speaker 1>on the craft and it led to the corner and

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<v Speaker 1>there was another arrow there.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, it's it's like your date is following a GPS

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<v Speaker 2>system like turn left here, turn right in ninety feet walking.

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<v Speaker 1>Date, No, no, no, no, I wasn't trying to get my

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<v Speaker 1>steps in or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, where did they end up?

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<v Speaker 1>They're in a circle right right. And meanwhile, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>she's loving this. I'm laughing. She's like looking at me like.

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<v Speaker 3>Where they go?

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<v Speaker 1>Josh, So finally there is, you know, one of those

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<v Speaker 1>like merge arrow signs.

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<v Speaker 2>I want less details on the arrows. I just want

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<v Speaker 2>to know where you were, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>I had taped an envelope on the back of the on.

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<v Speaker 4>The merge sign of the highway, just about to get

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<v Speaker 4>the street.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't put her in their life.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so that we have another envelope. What's in the

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<v Speaker 4>second envelope?

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<v Speaker 1>So we were right by the train station. It was

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<v Speaker 1>basically a made up coupon and said, hey, we can

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<v Speaker 1>stop at any of the stops and stop at a

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant at any of these places in town.

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<v Speaker 4>You're not talking amtrak or something. We're talking just like

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<v Speaker 4>the local. Yeah, yeah, you tricked her onto Mass Transit

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<v Speaker 4>after walking through a bunchetus.

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of take back what I said earlier. You

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<v Speaker 2>should have just done the taco truck.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, who would say there wasn't a taco truck where

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<v Speaker 1>we were going?

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<v Speaker 2>Was there a taco truck?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? All right? We go end up going to

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<v Speaker 1>this small little restaurant in this terminal town. We have

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<v Speaker 1>a wonderful dinner. We got to know each other along

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<v Speaker 1>the way on the train, which is awesome. And at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the meal, reach it in my jacket

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<v Speaker 1>and I pull out of flour and a note and

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<v Speaker 1>it says I had a great time.

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<v Speaker 2>So and it says follow the arrows home.

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<v Speaker 1>Yea.

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<v Speaker 2>So at the end of the night, looking back on it,

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<v Speaker 2>were you thankful that she chose the spontaneous date as

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<v Speaker 2>opposed to one of the others Spici or Sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean it was kind of a wild card

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<v Speaker 1>either way. I mean I thought all of them were

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<v Speaker 1>pretty awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, did you get a vibe on what she thought

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<v Speaker 2>of the spontaneous date?

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<v Speaker 1>I thought she really enjoyed it, you know, I was

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<v Speaker 1>using her smiling and laughing and what I thought was

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<v Speaker 1>good rapport, as is the judgment for.

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<v Speaker 3>This, It actually sounds pretty cute and romantic. How did

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<v Speaker 3>you guys end it?

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<v Speaker 1>So we took an uber back and I dropped her

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<v Speaker 1>out at her place and just you know, made sure

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<v Speaker 1>she got in Okay, small kiss and that was it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I texted basically, hey, I had a nice time,

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<v Speaker 1>and she responded like so did I And that's basically

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<v Speaker 1>been it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I mean she did take two weeks to even

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<v Speaker 4>respond to your initial direct message, so maybe she's just slowmover.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she's busy.

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<v Speaker 2>She dates at a turtle's pace. Yeah, or maybe she

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<v Speaker 2>even went back to the arrows looking for alternative routes

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<v Speaker 2>anything that she missed.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, she merged correctly.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, we'll find out what the real answer is when

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<v Speaker 2>we call her and finish your second date update right

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<v Speaker 2>after this.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, thank you, I appreciate it. Hold on.

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<v Speaker 2>Date probably the most elaborate first date that we've ever

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<v Speaker 2>heard on the show before. Yeah, because to recap, Josh

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<v Speaker 2>met a really attractive girl online and got her to

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<v Speaker 2>talk to him by setting up a big adventure date

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<v Speaker 2>with three mystery envelopes all based on how she described

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<v Speaker 2>her self in her profile spicy, sweet, and spontaneous. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>she chose the spontaneous adventure, which led to basically a

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<v Speaker 2>scavenger hunt for their dinner with a bunch of arrows,

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<v Speaker 2>leading around the city to a busy highway, onto a

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<v Speaker 2>commuter train, over to a nearby town, down to a

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<v Speaker 2>hole in the wall restaurant.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean he got her on public transit and took

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<v Speaker 4>her to a hole in the wall I.

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<v Speaker 2>Mean station, all right, if I'm reading the room right now,

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<v Speaker 2>effort was obviously an a But it sounds like you

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<v Speaker 2>guys aren't all that impressed with how the date turned out.

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<v Speaker 1>Been a little more crazy, like oh, we're swimming with dolphins.

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<v Speaker 3>A fancy car.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys are all hating on him. But he put

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<v Speaker 2>in some real effort to he did, and it's more

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<v Speaker 2>than any any of you jocals have ever had in

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<v Speaker 2>recent years. But Josh, I mean, what do you think

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<v Speaker 2>may have gone wrong? Do you have any regrets about

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<v Speaker 2>how the night panned out?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>No, not really. I mean, like, look, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>be completely real with you. I kind of out kicked

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<v Speaker 1>my coverage with her.

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<v Speaker 2>Right that means she's out of this league. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's like a football analogy.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that what you're now?

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<v Speaker 2>You want us to break down football for you to

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<v Speaker 2>Let's go back to how many arrows were on the

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<v Speaker 2>ground and what the.

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<v Speaker 3>Dude you had to visualize what he was doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Right?

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<v Speaker 2>I think we just need to call her. Let's just

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<v Speaker 2>call Haley and find out what Haley thought, because that's

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<v Speaker 2>the real issue. You are you ready to do this, Josh,

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<v Speaker 2>Let's do it?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Okay, yeah, I need you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, this is also kind of spontaneous.

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<v Speaker 3>This is actually very spantigo.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's kick off this by calling her. That's a sports reference.

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<v Speaker 3>Brook, It wasn't a very good one.

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<v Speaker 2>It's baseball. But yeah, so here we go the first.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, let's score a home run and call this school.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, boy, let's go.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, is this Haley?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, piss is Hey.

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<v Speaker 2>We're a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Haley.

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<v Speaker 2>Whole show's on the phone right now, dying to talk

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<v Speaker 2>to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, that's true. We're really excited to hear from you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, we.

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<v Speaker 2>Want to ask you about a date that you went

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<v Speaker 2>on recently with one of our listeners named Josh.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what's this about?

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<v Speaker 4>Now?

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<v Speaker 2>It's part of a segment that we do call the

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<v Speaker 2>second Date Update. And so Josh told us about the

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<v Speaker 2>date that he set up for you, which sounded pretty elaborate.

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<v Speaker 4>Did We were all hooked when he I mean, he

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<v Speaker 4>told us about the direct message and about how he

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<v Speaker 4>said he has three different envelopes for you to choose from. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know what he's really told you.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, I know it probably sounds creepy that we already

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<v Speaker 2>know everything about your date and we're really excited about it, but.

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<v Speaker 3>We're loving vicariously, so just let us.

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<v Speaker 2>We really want to help out Josh, because he told

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<v Speaker 2>us the night went pretty well.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean, that was the probably the most elaborate

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<v Speaker 1>and thoughtful date I've been on.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh so nice. I bet that made you feel really special.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I was totally impressed by his effort and like

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<v Speaker 1>all the thought he put into every detail.

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<v Speaker 3>So are you just like busy and that's why you're

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<v Speaker 3>not calling it back?

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<v Speaker 2>Or were there not enough arrows in the scavenger because

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<v Speaker 2>that was a fear?

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<v Speaker 1>No? I mean, I think everything happens for a reason.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, what does that mean? Yeah, I mean I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 3>take that date back for anything.

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<v Speaker 2>That's nice.

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<v Speaker 3>We'd never hear.

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<v Speaker 2>It's nice. But I feel like there's a butt coming.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I wouldn't mean I wouldn't do it again.

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<v Speaker 2>What that's okay? There's other date options, apparently, at least

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<v Speaker 2>two more. Yeah, spicy and sweet?

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<v Speaker 3>Why wouldn't you do it again?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>When we uh got to the restaurant, the waiter was

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<v Speaker 2>was so cute.

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<v Speaker 3>What yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>And uh there was more attraction there.

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<v Speaker 4>At the hole in the wall restaurant you guys went to,

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<v Speaker 4>you found a hot waiter.

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<v Speaker 2>Brook wants to know the name of the restaurant so

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<v Speaker 2>that she could go there and check him out.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, how does that even happen?

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<v Speaker 4>How would a guy even hit on you while you're

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<v Speaker 4>on a date with somebody else? Like, isn't that just

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<v Speaker 4>a red flag right there?

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't hit on me. I could just feel the

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<v Speaker 1>energy between us.

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<v Speaker 4>It was I mean, it was just you know, how

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<v Speaker 4>you know something sort of meant to be.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's just like sometimes the way he says something

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<v Speaker 2>like would you like any pepper on that salad?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it wasn't like that, and so I followed my

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<v Speaker 1>gut and went back to the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait after the date was over, Yeah, the same night.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, I did.

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<v Speaker 3>What you asked the waiter out.

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<v Speaker 4>You're dating the waiter.

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<v Speaker 3>What what is happening?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we've been on three dates and we're not slowing down.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh god, it's kind of cute, friend, though.

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<v Speaker 2>I know the fact that Josh has been hearing all

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<v Speaker 2>of this and it's not said a word. Yeah, because Haley,

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<v Speaker 2>he's on the phone. Yeah, sorry, Josh has been listening

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<v Speaker 2>this whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, now I heard the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 3>She really she really lived up to this spontaneous stable.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Wow, tables really turned on. The whole spontaneous thing.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. Just sucks.

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<v Speaker 4>I just really, I'm sorry, but I'm so happy that

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<v Speaker 4>we out and we got to know each other.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, yeah, it's thrilling, absolutely thrilling. You could have

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<v Speaker 1>just told me, you know, don't leave me like hanging

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<v Speaker 1>on the line.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's a hard thing to tell somebody. I met

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<v Speaker 2>somebody else on the date I was out with you,

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<v Speaker 2>But I.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean, like, make something up, don't you, like ghost like, like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just not feeling it or whatever, like, come on, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean maybe, Haley, were you like kind of keeping

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<v Speaker 4>him in your back pocket as a backup plan in

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<v Speaker 4>cases didn't work out.

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<v Speaker 2>Or was there an arrow on the table pointing at

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<v Speaker 2>the waiter and she was just following the arrows?

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<v Speaker 1>Again, I just went where my heart was pointing. Oh man,

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<v Speaker 1>oh god. Seriously, just like.

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<v Speaker 4>Josh, what are the chances like you get on the train,

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<v Speaker 4>you pick a random restaurant and there's.

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<v Speaker 3>An attractive waiter, So yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>You put her on a train to her next boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>Your date did work in helping find love, just not

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<v Speaker 2>for your self, yeah, for other people.

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<v Speaker 1>Again, I'm absolutely thrilled about that, John Brideside.

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<v Speaker 2>You have two other dates pre planned and envelopes for

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<v Speaker 2>some other lucky girl out there.

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<v Speaker 1>Silver linings, I guess. Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And the silver lining here could be that she didn't

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<v Speaker 2>know you were on the phone listening. So you two

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<v Speaker 2>are together right now, and I'm going to give you

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<v Speaker 2>a chance to win her back right over the phone,

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<v Speaker 2>live on the radio. That must have happened for a reason.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the fourth good read the signs, Haley, Josh,

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<v Speaker 2>the floor is yours.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, Haley, I put in a lot of effort, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think that says a lot about me and the

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<v Speaker 1>kind of person that I am, and definitely way more

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<v Speaker 1>effort than the waiter did. Uh. So you know what

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<v Speaker 1>does he have that I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Basically an employee discount at that restaurant, for.

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<v Speaker 3>One, but yeah, and also whatever tip money that Josh.

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<v Speaker 2>Left, that's true, But besides that, what else? Harry?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I really appreciate the effort, Dush and all

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<v Speaker 1>your thoughts. You're a really special person. But I feel

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<v Speaker 1>that things, again, it will happen for a reason.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like she's like reading a sign on her

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<v Speaker 4>wall right now.

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<v Speaker 3>It's right off.

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<v Speaker 2>Her family lived with an arrow all over the side,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, So it sounds like we're not going to

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<v Speaker 2>be able to get you another date here, Josh.

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<v Speaker 1>That definitely seems apparent. Yeah, I mean try, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys did try, and I do appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 3>Alright, Yeah, sorry, buddy.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just curious, like, if you had chosen one of

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<v Speaker 2>the other two envelopes, the spicy or the sweet possibility,

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<v Speaker 2>do you think maybe things could have turned out differently

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<v Speaker 2>and you'd be with Josh.

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<v Speaker 1>Hmm, that's a good question. I think that's the way

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<v Speaker 1>things have just turned out, were the way they were

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to turn out.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, everything happens a little.

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<v Speaker 4>Bit there, freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Well, lesson learned. If you're a guy and

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<v Speaker 2>you go out with an attractive lady, do not go

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<v Speaker 2>within one hundred yards of any other male. Too risky.

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<v Speaker 2>She's probably going to fall in love and lead.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh man, I don't know where you're going to go

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<v Speaker 3>without men.

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<v Speaker 2>To go someplace where men are rare, like a nail

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<v Speaker 2>salon O often. Yeah, a Bravo convention of Jose's comedy shows.

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<v Speaker 2>It's all ladies at those. Actually, we have a very

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<v Speaker 2>high ratio of ladies dues at my show. I think

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<v Speaker 2>that's our show.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just going to say, I think he lucked out

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<v Speaker 4>that woman in her motivational quotes.

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<v Speaker 3>I just couldn't take him any.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, we can officially add everything Happens for a reason

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<v Speaker 2>to the list of most hated single dating quotes, along

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<v Speaker 2>with You'll find love when you least expect it. It

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't count if you're more than second cousins. I heard

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<v Speaker 2>that people say, trust me, but remember, if you ever

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<v Speaker 2>want help getting another date. You can always email the show.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll call that person who isn't calling you back. And

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<v Speaker 2>you can find all our second date podcasts up on

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<v Speaker 2>the Brook and Jeffrey website or wherever you get your podcasts.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning