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Speaker 3: Oh I love this, Okay, Josh, is.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, of course okay, Because he basically transcripted out his

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Speaker 2: one of her dating prompts said dating me is like

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Speaker 2: one of three adventure envelopes. Whatever one you pick will do.

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Speaker 2: And I promise none of them say go back to

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Speaker 3: That'd be quite the trick if the all three of

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Speaker 4: Ye.

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Speaker 2: I'm intrigued. Wow, And so he wrote back intrigued, just

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Speaker 3: What is it? I want to know?

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Speaker 2: exactly from your bio envelope number one, spicy, envelope number

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Speaker 1: Man. Thanks. I guess I don't know. I guess I

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Speaker 3: That, like a taco, like a taco truck special.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, who would say there wasn't a taco truck where

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Speaker 1: All right, thank you, I appreciate it. Hold on.

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Speaker 2: Date probably the most elaborate first date that we've ever

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Speaker 2: Mean station, all right, if I'm reading the room right now,

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Speaker 2: Right that means she's out of this league. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Let's do it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Okay, yeah, I need you guys.

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is also kind of spontaneous.

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Speaker 3: This is actually very spantigo.

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Speaker 3: Brook, It wasn't a very good one.

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Speaker 1: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hey, is this Haley?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, piss is Hey.

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Speaker 2: We're a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 3: Haley.

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Speaker 2: Whole show's on the phone right now, dying to talk

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Speaker 2: to you.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, that's true. We're really excited to hear from you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what's this about?

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Speaker 4: I don't know what he's really told you.

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Speaker 3: Oh so nice. I bet that made you feel really special.

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Speaker 1: No? I mean, I think everything happens for a reason.

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Speaker 3: Okay, what does that mean? Yeah, I mean I wouldn't

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Speaker 2: That's nice.

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Speaker 3: What yeah?

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Speaker 3: What you asked the waiter out.

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Speaker 4: You're dating the waiter.

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Speaker 4: I just really, I'm sorry, but I'm so happy that

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, it's thrilling, absolutely thrilling. You could have

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a hard thing to tell somebody. I met

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Speaker 4: Josh, what are the chances like you get on the train,

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Speaker 2: You put her on a train to her next boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: Again, I'm absolutely thrilled about that, John Brideside.

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Speaker 2: And the silver lining here could be that she didn't

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Speaker 2: This is the fourth good read the signs, Haley, Josh,

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Speaker 1: Look, Haley, I put in a lot of effort, and

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Speaker 1: I mean, I really appreciate the effort, Dush and all

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Speaker 3: It's right off.

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Speaker 1: That definitely seems apparent. Yeah, I mean try, all right,

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Speaker 2: I'm just curious, like, if you had chosen one of

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Speaker 3: You know, everything happens a little.

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Speaker 4: Bit there, freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, lesson learned. If you're a guy and

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Speaker 2: She's probably going to fall in love and lead.

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Speaker 3: Oh man, I don't know where you're going to go

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Speaker 2: To go someplace where men are rare, like a nail

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Speaker 2: salon O often. Yeah, a Bravo convention of Jose's comedy shows.

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Speaker 2: It's all ladies at those. Actually, we have a very

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Speaker 4: I'm just going to say, I think he lucked out

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Speaker 3: I just couldn't take him any.

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Speaker 2: Yes, we can officially add everything Happens for a reason

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Speaker 2: with You'll find love when you least expect it. It

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Speaker 2: doesn't count if you're more than second cousins. I heard

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Speaker 2: that people say, trust me, but remember, if you ever

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Speaker 2: want help getting another date. You can always email the show.

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Speaker 2: We'll call that person who isn't calling you back. And

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Speaker 2: you can find all our second date podcasts up on

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Speaker 2: the Brook and Jeffrey website or wherever you get your podcasts.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning