WEBVTT - From A Superhero To A Hurt Villain 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:03.320 Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeartRadio and 0:00:03.360 --> 0:00:18.000 The Black Effects. And just like that, y'all, we are 0:00:18.079 --> 0:00:20.600 back with yet another Carefully Reckless episode with your girl, 0:00:20.680 --> 0:00:21.279 Jess Hilarious. 0:00:21.280 --> 0:00:23.320 So listen. What I do is I be. 0:00:23.280 --> 0:00:25.720 Fixing people's mess, y'all, and y'all know I love it. 0:00:25.760 --> 0:00:28.360 I have a different intro every single time. Tell me 0:00:28.400 --> 0:00:30.080 if y'all think I should get an intro for Just 0:00:30.160 --> 0:00:32.840 Fix My Mess, because I have one on Breakfast Club 0:00:33.200 --> 0:00:35.280 for Jess with the Mess. I got one on Breakfast 0:00:35.320 --> 0:00:37.560 Club for Just with the Mess. I don't have an 0:00:37.600 --> 0:00:40.120 intro for Just Fix My Mess for my podcast for 0:00:40.159 --> 0:00:41.839 Carefully Reckless under the Black Effects. 0:00:42.120 --> 0:00:44.839 You know what I'm saying. So I made it. You 0:00:44.880 --> 0:00:46.680 know that's something that I should voice. 0:00:46.720 --> 0:00:50.360 Y'all should go spam Charlemagne's comments the Black Effect and 0:00:50.560 --> 0:00:54.600 iHeart and Breakfast Club fucking plow them in there too, Spam. 0:00:54.880 --> 0:00:58.160 Just Hilarious needs her own intro for Jess Fix My 0:00:58.240 --> 0:01:00.400 Mess on her podcast that we listen and too, we 0:01:00.440 --> 0:01:03.920 tune into each and every Wednesday, and so we can't 0:01:04.000 --> 0:01:06.560 have her fixing people's mess if she's not gonna intro it, right, 0:01:07.240 --> 0:01:10.120 so I need an intro. So we're gonna definitely we 0:01:10.200 --> 0:01:12.920 are what was this called boycotton? We are boycotting and 0:01:13.000 --> 0:01:14.440 rioting for Jessic's intro. 0:01:14.640 --> 0:01:16.920 All right, that's what we're gonna do, all right, but 0:01:16.920 --> 0:01:18.280 we're gonna jump right into it now. 0:01:18.319 --> 0:01:20.840 We don't have voice memos this episode because people don't 0:01:20.880 --> 0:01:23.600 want their voices to be known. And that was explained 0:01:23.640 --> 0:01:26.120 and I do understand you, mate, go and know your voice. 0:01:26.520 --> 0:01:29.160 You calling in about your boyfriend, that nigga if you 0:01:29.240 --> 0:01:30.720 listened to carefully reckless, he going to. 0:01:30.720 --> 0:01:31.040 Know it's you. 0:01:31.560 --> 0:01:36.800 So please tread lightly, y'all. Tread lightly, y'all, I'll be reading. 0:01:36.880 --> 0:01:39.640 This is from a woman. Hey, jess I need help. 0:01:39.720 --> 0:01:42.120 So I've been with my fiance for a year and 0:01:42.160 --> 0:01:45.680 a half and it's been pure hell down. When we 0:01:45.720 --> 0:01:49.559 first got together, I was in a good place mentally, emotionally, financially, 0:01:49.680 --> 0:01:50.160 et cetera. 0:01:50.680 --> 0:01:52.320 Okay, so you was good all the way around. 0:01:52.680 --> 0:01:55.320 So he was living with his brother, but things happened 0:01:55.360 --> 0:01:58.560 to where he had to move. Me, being Captain saber Hole, 0:01:58.680 --> 0:02:00.559 told him he can stay with me until he found 0:02:00.600 --> 0:02:04.080 another place. Mistake number one, Yes it was girl not 0:02:04.280 --> 0:02:06.040 he can move with you until he found another place. 0:02:06.040 --> 0:02:07.880 If he was your nigga and he moved with you, 0:02:08.480 --> 0:02:11.200 he wasn't moving out. That that's just what it is. 0:02:11.600 --> 0:02:14.200 Within that time, I found out I was pregnant, so 0:02:14.240 --> 0:02:17.520 we agreed to just continue to live together. Okay, right 0:02:17.560 --> 0:02:19.360 before I found out I was pregnant, I let him 0:02:19.440 --> 0:02:21.640 use my car, took her to work one night, and 0:02:21.680 --> 0:02:24.600 he ended up totaling it. Oh man, I made him 0:02:24.639 --> 0:02:27.720 put down the down payment on another car because he 0:02:27.840 --> 0:02:29.400 was somewhere he wasn't supposed to be. 0:02:29.680 --> 0:02:31.840 Oh okay, I know the fuck that's right, But. 0:02:31.840 --> 0:02:33.600 No, you don't make him put a car up a 0:02:33.680 --> 0:02:36.160 down payment on the new car because he was somewhere 0:02:36.160 --> 0:02:37.760 he wasn't supposed to be. You make him put the 0:02:37.800 --> 0:02:40.560 fucking down payment on the new car because he totaled 0:02:40.600 --> 0:02:44.160 your shit and that wasn't his. So I pay the 0:02:44.200 --> 0:02:47.560 car note, the insurance, the rent, electricity, and so on 0:02:47.600 --> 0:02:50.399 and so forth. Now this way the real issues begin. 0:02:50.600 --> 0:02:53.160 Once he found out I was pregnant, he started disappearing 0:02:53.200 --> 0:02:55.600 on me on his payday. He would go lay up 0:02:55.639 --> 0:02:59.160 with whoever and come back home once he's broke. I'm 0:02:59.200 --> 0:03:03.600 pregnant anymore, so I take him back. That was a 0:03:03.639 --> 0:03:07.040 lot to digest in the last little sentence, I'm gonna. 0:03:06.840 --> 0:03:08.320 Rerunt it back for those in the back. 0:03:09.040 --> 0:03:11.400 On his payday, he would go lay up with whoever 0:03:11.680 --> 0:03:15.480 and come back home once he's broke. I'm pregnant and emotional, 0:03:15.600 --> 0:03:19.360 so I take him back. Oh baby, mm hmm. I 0:03:19.400 --> 0:03:21.560 would say mistake number two, but it was so many 0:03:21.639 --> 0:03:24.240 other mistakes leading up to this one. I'm gonna let 0:03:24.280 --> 0:03:27.640 you go in this becomes an ongoing thing. During the 0:03:27.639 --> 0:03:30.560 middle of my pregnancy, I caught COVID really bad, so 0:03:30.639 --> 0:03:31.880 I ended up on bed rests. 0:03:31.919 --> 0:03:32.600 Oh Jesus. 0:03:32.960 --> 0:03:36.480 I started getting unemployment shortly after, and I was still 0:03:36.480 --> 0:03:38.000 paying all the bills myself. 0:03:39.200 --> 0:03:42.240 When I can time what I'm trying to figure out 0:03:42.280 --> 0:03:42.839 what this is saying. 0:03:42.920 --> 0:03:45.120 Y'all hold up, give me a second, y'all gotta you know, 0:03:45.120 --> 0:03:47.960 because when they write, they write a little fast. I 0:03:48.000 --> 0:03:53.000 told y'all to make sure y'all punctuate or punctualize or 0:03:53.040 --> 0:03:55.640 punctualize when y'all writing shit. 0:03:55.680 --> 0:03:57.120 I'm trying to figure it out. So this is. 0:03:57.120 --> 0:03:58.480 See if I'm gonna say if I'm a reading, and 0:03:58.520 --> 0:03:59.800 then I'm gona say if I can make sense of 0:03:59.840 --> 0:04:02.680 it when I can time to renew my lease, my 0:04:02.760 --> 0:04:06.440 unemployment had ran out, and I end up having to 0:04:06.480 --> 0:04:10.000 move with his mom. Okay, so anyway it happened like this, 0:04:10.080 --> 0:04:12.520 I'm gonna just break it down. When it came time 0:04:12.640 --> 0:04:15.400 to renew the lease, my unemployment had ran out and 0:04:15.440 --> 0:04:17.479 I ended up having to move with his mom. 0:04:18.160 --> 0:04:19.159 I thought this move. 0:04:19.040 --> 0:04:21.480 Would help me as far as child care and being 0:04:21.520 --> 0:04:24.679 able to save. Two months after moving in with his mom, 0:04:24.839 --> 0:04:26.040 he quits his job. 0:04:26.680 --> 0:04:28.200 I was pissed, but it. 0:04:28.120 --> 0:04:30.360 Was a nightclub where he did most of his hoeing, 0:04:30.920 --> 0:04:34.200 so I assumed he would just find another job. It's 0:04:34.240 --> 0:04:36.560 been nine months and he still don't have a job. 0:04:37.080 --> 0:04:39.600 His mom became really sick and she put me on 0:04:39.640 --> 0:04:42.360 her medical paperwork because he's unreliable. 0:04:43.200 --> 0:04:47.839 Damn. So now you got two headaches, him and his mom. 0:04:48.160 --> 0:04:50.080 So when she gets real sick, I'm the one that 0:04:50.160 --> 0:04:52.760 has to take off work and make sure she's taken 0:04:52.800 --> 0:04:55.640 care of. I have fallen completely out of love with him, 0:04:55.760 --> 0:04:57.640 but I have a lot of love for him because 0:04:57.640 --> 0:05:00.120 he's still my child's father, and given the history that 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:02.440 y'all went through, so yeah, I don't know what to do. 0:05:02.520 --> 0:05:05.080 Because I don't have family that can help me, especially 0:05:05.120 --> 0:05:08.520 with childcare, so I feel like I'm obligated to stay 0:05:08.520 --> 0:05:11.080 in a miserable place in order to make sure my 0:05:11.160 --> 0:05:14.159 child is taken care of. I am stressed to the 0:05:14.160 --> 0:05:16.960 point where I've lost almost twenty pounds in a month. 0:05:17.360 --> 0:05:19.440 Please just keep it real with me and help me 0:05:19.480 --> 0:05:20.320 fix my mess. 0:05:20.480 --> 0:05:23.160 Love your bunches, baby, I love you too, and this 0:05:23.240 --> 0:05:25.440 is why I'm about to get in your ass because 0:05:25.560 --> 0:05:26.400 I love you. 0:05:27.279 --> 0:05:28.560 This is gonna be some tough love. 0:05:28.680 --> 0:05:31.520 But baby, if it ain't coming from none of your friends, 0:05:31.560 --> 0:05:33.680 if it ain't coming from your mom, I don't know 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:36.479 the relationship between y'all. Even if it didn't come from 0:05:36.520 --> 0:05:40.760 his motherfucking mom who he couldn't even move with at first. 0:05:41.240 --> 0:05:43.520 You see, you see that that's a red flag. You 0:05:43.600 --> 0:05:46.120 lost your job and had to move in with his mom. 0:05:46.560 --> 0:05:49.400 You know you're pregnant. You were already paying the fucking bills, 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:52.680 every single bill there was to pay, you were paying it, 0:05:52.800 --> 0:05:55.080 so you were already superwoman in your own house. He 0:05:55.200 --> 0:05:57.800 was already doing bad by yourself with a nigga who 0:05:57.839 --> 0:06:01.120 ain't worth two shit. Some sorry, excuse me, but this 0:06:01.279 --> 0:06:04.120 is exactly what you're giving me, So I'm just regurgitating 0:06:04.160 --> 0:06:07.000 it back to you. And sometimes that is the advice 0:06:07.080 --> 0:06:09.520 you hearing your own shit thrown back at you, so 0:06:09.839 --> 0:06:12.000 to make you further realize what you need to do. 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:15.800 All right, now, we can't put the baby back, No, 0:06:15.920 --> 0:06:18.159 we can't. And I know you do not regret your child. 0:06:18.160 --> 0:06:21.599 I would never regret any child that I had that 0:06:21.680 --> 0:06:22.239 I gave. 0:06:22.080 --> 0:06:24.880 Birth to because of the father. So that's one thing. 0:06:24.960 --> 0:06:25.960 So we have a baby. 0:06:26.120 --> 0:06:30.640 We know that, we knew that he was unfucking reliable 0:06:30.839 --> 0:06:33.040 before you found out you were pregnant. You know what 0:06:33.080 --> 0:06:35.800 I'm saying. He had to move in with you, Like 0:06:35.839 --> 0:06:38.520 you said, that was your first mistake. Why couldn't he 0:06:38.600 --> 0:06:40.040 move in with his fucking mother? 0:06:40.600 --> 0:06:41.000 All right? 0:06:41.640 --> 0:06:44.360 Because he likes to be taken care of. You moved 0:06:44.440 --> 0:06:47.080 him in and you enabled him. Yep, you played a 0:06:47.120 --> 0:06:49.640 part in him being lazy. You played a part in 0:06:49.760 --> 0:06:53.359 him not being able to handle his responsibilities. You allowed it, 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:57.280 and then you expected for him to change. That's not 0:06:57.360 --> 0:07:00.640 even what's supposed to have been happening. Don't even take care 0:07:00.640 --> 0:07:02.640 of herself. He damn sure would not be able to 0:07:02.680 --> 0:07:04.800 take care of a baby. And he and you started 0:07:04.800 --> 0:07:07.880 taking care of him. So he was okay, resting ashore, 0:07:08.600 --> 0:07:10.560 knowing that if she take care of me, she definitely 0:07:10.600 --> 0:07:12.640 can be a good mother to this baby. So as 0:07:12.640 --> 0:07:14.720 long as I got her, I'm good. You know what 0:07:14.800 --> 0:07:18.520 I'm saying. So you enabled him. Then you lost the job, 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:21.080 y'all had to move in with his mom. He got 0:07:21.080 --> 0:07:25.200 a job. After two months, he quit. Hold on, wait, 0:07:25.240 --> 0:07:27.920 let me go back. I don't want tom misquote you. 0:07:29.200 --> 0:07:32.160 After two months, Yeah, he quit. He didn't even get 0:07:32.200 --> 0:07:36.560 fucking fired. He quit his job after moving in with 0:07:36.720 --> 0:07:40.800 his mom. Why because his mom ain't gonna put him out. 0:07:41.280 --> 0:07:43.800 That's one thing. His mom ain't gonna put you out. 0:07:44.040 --> 0:07:45.680 And if she ain't gonna put you out, she ain't 0:07:45.680 --> 0:07:46.840 gonna put him out. 0:07:47.080 --> 0:07:49.000 There we go right there, she not. 0:07:49.200 --> 0:07:51.560 Obviously, you two have built the bond because you over 0:07:51.640 --> 0:07:54.680 here taken care of her. Now like you not pregnant 0:07:54.680 --> 0:07:57.640 in bedridden, you're supposed to have been put on bed rest 0:07:57.640 --> 0:08:02.360 because you caught COVID. Shit happens, So now you're even 0:08:02.400 --> 0:08:06.120 more in shambles, you know what I'm saying. Do you 0:08:06.160 --> 0:08:10.880 see this pattern? Nine months later, fast forward, the baby's here. 0:08:11.240 --> 0:08:14.600 He still ain't got no fucking job, and you're taking 0:08:14.640 --> 0:08:18.080 care of not only him, but his mother and your baby. 0:08:18.240 --> 0:08:22.120 So you got three people to take care of, two 0:08:22.240 --> 0:08:24.960 kids and a mom. Because I'm sorry, your baby daddy 0:08:25.000 --> 0:08:27.600 is your kid. That's exactly what you need to be claiming. 0:08:27.680 --> 0:08:31.680 Is ass on tasas or something, writing that motherfucker off. 0:08:31.680 --> 0:08:34.080 I wish you could write off somebody. I really wish 0:08:34.160 --> 0:08:38.160 you could a grown ass people. But it sounds as 0:08:38.240 --> 0:08:40.200 if you know exactly what the hell you need to do. 0:08:40.240 --> 0:08:44.040 You said you're fallen out of love with him already, 0:08:44.440 --> 0:08:48.040 You're in a miserable place. You're just trying to make 0:08:48.080 --> 0:08:50.199 it work to take care of your child. You lost 0:08:50.240 --> 0:08:52.800 twenty pounds in a month being stressed trying to figure 0:08:52.800 --> 0:08:55.320 out where your next check won't come from. Then also, 0:08:55.400 --> 0:08:57.360 you got this man that you're taking care of and 0:08:57.400 --> 0:08:59.600 now his mother. You don't want to leave his mother 0:08:59.679 --> 0:09:02.800 high in dry. Does he have any siblings? Does it? 0:09:02.880 --> 0:09:05.160 Is there any way that if you don't do it, 0:09:05.800 --> 0:09:07.360 he'll step up and fucking do it. 0:09:08.000 --> 0:09:08.720 You know what I'm saying. 0:09:09.240 --> 0:09:11.400 That's a big responsibility. You let her put your name 0:09:11.480 --> 0:09:14.440 down as emergency contact. You got your own shit going on, baby, 0:09:15.040 --> 0:09:17.640 you know what I'm saying, where's your mom, where's your family? 0:09:17.880 --> 0:09:19.760 You know what I'm saying. What I'm saying, this is 0:09:19.840 --> 0:09:20.280 not good. 0:09:20.800 --> 0:09:23.920 And then the first thing that you said, So, I've 0:09:23.920 --> 0:09:26.000 been with my fiance for a year and a half 0:09:26.080 --> 0:09:29.000 and it's been pure hell. He proposed to you with 0:09:29.040 --> 0:09:31.000 no intention on giving you a fucking wedding. 0:09:31.600 --> 0:09:32.360 You know what I'm saying. 0:09:32.800 --> 0:09:34.920 And I'm saying that because look at the place you're 0:09:34.960 --> 0:09:38.160 in right now. If he can't even pay bills, how 0:09:38.160 --> 0:09:41.240 the fuck he gonna pay for a fucking wedding. How 0:09:42.040 --> 0:09:44.840 it needs you to understand that? Hold up, Hold up, 0:09:44.880 --> 0:09:46.840 I know this shit getting good, but listen to just 0:09:46.880 --> 0:09:48.320 a couple seconds of a commercial. 0:09:48.360 --> 0:09:49.520 If you love me, you'll listen. 0:09:51.240 --> 0:09:55.120 Your fiance for a year and a half. That shit 0:09:55.160 --> 0:09:59.560 ain't supposed to be going bed that soon. But it's 0:09:59.600 --> 0:10:06.319 still situations that could be worse, that are worse than yours. 0:10:06.600 --> 0:10:10.200 So you're not completely in the goddamn dumps. No you're not. 0:10:10.480 --> 0:10:12.880 If you still got good credit, you still got breath 0:10:12.920 --> 0:10:15.000 to breathe every time you wake up, you have a 0:10:15.160 --> 0:10:17.040 chance to change your situation. 0:10:18.080 --> 0:10:18.760 There you go. 0:10:19.160 --> 0:10:20.840 And the reason why I say credit is because you 0:10:20.880 --> 0:10:22.040 need to get the hell out of there and get 0:10:22.080 --> 0:10:24.680 into your own shit. Still, you need to get another car, 0:10:25.160 --> 0:10:28.319 all right. You don'na let Jody crash and goddamn car up. 0:10:29.040 --> 0:10:32.560 Yes I called him Jody, Yes I did. Event I 0:10:32.679 --> 0:10:35.920 called him Jody. And you don't let this nigga joey you. 0:10:36.480 --> 0:10:38.600 That's what it is. I ain't mad at him. I'm 0:10:38.600 --> 0:10:42.880 mad at jo ass, yes i am. But unlike my 0:10:42.920 --> 0:10:45.920 brother Charlemagne, I'm not gonna give you dunky other day 0:10:46.559 --> 0:10:49.800 because we live and we fucking learn. We live and 0:10:49.840 --> 0:10:52.439 we fucking learned, and you got a great blessing out 0:10:52.480 --> 0:10:53.720 the deal when that is your baby. 0:10:54.320 --> 0:10:56.560 So we will always move forward with grace. 0:10:57.280 --> 0:11:00.600 But listen, it ain't like he gonna be fighting for 0:11:00.679 --> 0:11:03.440 custody and taking you downtown for child support, baby, and 0:11:03.440 --> 0:11:05.360 he ain't even got a leg to stand on, you know, 0:11:05.480 --> 0:11:08.680 So we just pray for him, and you keep it moving, 0:11:09.480 --> 0:11:12.760 You keep it the fuck moving, and you don't look back. 0:11:13.320 --> 0:11:16.200 Don't look back in that way. I don't mean you 0:11:16.240 --> 0:11:18.080 gotta cut all ties with him, because he's still your 0:11:18.120 --> 0:11:20.160 child's father and you still have a great amount of 0:11:20.240 --> 0:11:23.040 love for him. But have enough love for him to 0:11:23.120 --> 0:11:25.120 leave his ants all the way alone and let him 0:11:25.120 --> 0:11:27.720 get hisself together, because you can't make him get itself together. 0:11:27.840 --> 0:11:30.280 You gotta let him get itself together, and you can't 0:11:30.280 --> 0:11:33.920 make your child a part of that, that toxicity, that 0:11:33.920 --> 0:11:38.439 that whole little situation going on, okay, because you gotta 0:11:38.520 --> 0:11:40.280 do it all for your baby. You gotta be mentally 0:11:40.320 --> 0:11:45.199 prepared for motherhood. You know, you got a child to raise. 0:11:45.360 --> 0:11:48.640 So shit is real, all right, Shit is real. Shit 0:11:48.760 --> 0:11:51.520 is real for you every day, all right. So I 0:11:51.559 --> 0:11:54.320 need you to check in with me. Well, the advice 0:11:54.400 --> 0:11:57.199 is straight up to fucking leave, I'm sorry, make him 0:11:57.200 --> 0:11:58.840 take care of his mother. Will let him take care 0:11:58.840 --> 0:12:00.800 of his mother. He ain't gonna let her get so 0:12:00.840 --> 0:12:04.480 sick where she just you know, you know, she just 0:12:04.559 --> 0:12:08.640 fucking croak. You know, if it's if it's you know where, 0:12:08.640 --> 0:12:11.400 if that's in his control, you know, he can take 0:12:11.440 --> 0:12:12.120 care of his mother. 0:12:12.200 --> 0:12:13.959 You need You are a mother, You need to take 0:12:13.960 --> 0:12:16.720 care of your child because he can't do that with you. 0:12:16.840 --> 0:12:19.160 Right now, check back in with me. 0:12:19.200 --> 0:12:22.120 I'm gonna need to know because I'm I'm I need 0:12:22.160 --> 0:12:23.720 you to get the fuck up out of their baby. 0:12:24.440 --> 0:12:28.880 And we're moving on. This is from another woman and 0:12:28.920 --> 0:12:31.679 there is no voice memo. She oh god, she got emoji. 0:12:31.760 --> 0:12:35.120 She really about the main this shit. Okay, hey, jas, 0:12:35.160 --> 0:12:36.840 I just wanted to say that I'm proud of you girl, 0:12:36.920 --> 0:12:39.400 keep doing your thing, but I need help with my mets. 0:12:39.640 --> 0:12:42.280 So I was dating this guy for about three weeks. Okay, 0:12:42.480 --> 0:12:45.600 the vibes was there, he cooked for me, we had drinks. 0:12:45.800 --> 0:12:48.720 I really like him. This nigga dropped the love bomb 0:12:48.760 --> 0:12:51.719 on me after the first week. But the nigga threw 0:12:51.800 --> 0:12:54.800 up a red flag two of them shits. I have 0:12:54.920 --> 0:12:57.280 two jobs, two kids, in a house that I'm putting 0:12:57.320 --> 0:13:00.079 back together. The nigga asked me to help him pay 0:13:00.120 --> 0:13:03.640 his rent that he's behind on eighteen hundred dollars. The 0:13:03.679 --> 0:13:06.320 fuck is he on? Then asked me could I apply 0:13:06.440 --> 0:13:09.200 for a loan to help him. I immediately fell some 0:13:09.280 --> 0:13:12.120 type of way because the fuck he kept saying, Bay, 0:13:12.320 --> 0:13:14.400 I just want you to have my back and love 0:13:14.440 --> 0:13:16.000 on me and do what I say. 0:13:16.400 --> 0:13:18.839 He and me fucked up, Jess, I'm too independent for 0:13:18.880 --> 0:13:19.360 this nigga. 0:13:19.679 --> 0:13:22.160 So he snapped on me because I said I'm not 0:13:22.200 --> 0:13:24.920 helping him out, like it's only been three weeks and 0:13:25.000 --> 0:13:26.439 I honestly feel disrespected. 0:13:26.520 --> 0:13:27.760 It's the audacity for me. 0:13:28.040 --> 0:13:30.600 Then what makes it so bad is I caught feelings 0:13:30.600 --> 0:13:33.600 for his dinosaur dick ass, Jess, I listened to your 0:13:33.600 --> 0:13:35.439 show every time you drop episode. 0:13:37.040 --> 0:13:41.800 Does it the okay? Well, thank you? You ain't just 0:13:41.800 --> 0:13:42.840 going hold up? 0:13:42.880 --> 0:13:46.400 Wait a minute, time out, flag on the play? Can 0:13:46.440 --> 0:13:49.240 we just go back to our corners real quick? How 0:13:49.320 --> 0:13:52.760 the fuck are you gonna go from? She said, it's 0:13:52.760 --> 0:13:54.840 the audacity for me. Then what makes it so bad 0:13:54.960 --> 0:13:55.720 is I fell. 0:13:55.559 --> 0:13:56.960 For his y. 0:13:58.640 --> 0:14:02.200 I caught feelings for his dick ass, Jess. I listen 0:14:02.240 --> 0:14:05.920 to your show every time you drop episode. That's just 0:14:05.920 --> 0:14:10.959 how we're gonna end it, baby, all. 0:14:11.000 --> 0:14:12.360 Right, so she listening right now. 0:14:12.400 --> 0:14:14.320 So I gotta help you. I gotta help you. Boy, 0:14:14.320 --> 0:14:16.360 I get it. And you're so pretty. I'm looking at 0:14:16.360 --> 0:14:17.319 your page, your profile. 0:14:17.400 --> 0:14:20.720 You so pretty? All right, girl, here we go here, 0:14:21.640 --> 0:14:22.200 it's all right. 0:14:22.240 --> 0:14:24.280 I'm just gonna tell you, don't don't beat yourself up 0:14:24.320 --> 0:14:26.800 for falling for the dinosaur dick girl, Please don't. 0:14:26.960 --> 0:14:28.480 I don't. It's alright. 0:14:28.600 --> 0:14:31.000 Sometimes we get a little weakened knees for a little 0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:34.360 dinosaur Dane LINGI it's all right, sorry, I'm glad you 0:14:34.440 --> 0:14:38.760 listened to my episode. My episodes every time I drop one, 0:14:39.200 --> 0:14:42.000 and this one is for you baby. Now we got 0:14:42.000 --> 0:14:44.120 a commercial, and if you click off of this podcast, 0:14:44.120 --> 0:14:48.600 I swear I'm gonna beat your ass. Listen, all right, 0:14:49.200 --> 0:14:51.560 So you seem to be very smart, all right, and 0:14:51.640 --> 0:14:53.640 look at the three weeks girl. 0:14:53.760 --> 0:14:55.480 Look that's a flex. She had a nigga time about 0:14:55.480 --> 0:14:56.360 he love you, all right. 0:14:56.960 --> 0:15:01.000 What's not a flex is him saying he loves and 0:15:01.040 --> 0:15:04.520 then following up what all this extra bills and expenses 0:15:04.600 --> 0:15:07.360 bullshit that he got going on, Like he just reade 0:15:08.280 --> 0:15:11.080 drop all of that shit in your lab after three weeks? 0:15:11.320 --> 0:15:14.520 So this was either his plan because this is what 0:15:14.600 --> 0:15:15.240 he does. 0:15:16.080 --> 0:15:18.760 He saw you, he know, he know the power of 0:15:18.880 --> 0:15:22.640 his Dino dick, and he just was able to win 0:15:22.720 --> 0:15:25.160 you over. You know, we got guys like that, guys 0:15:25.200 --> 0:15:29.880 that prey on successful women with good hearts who like 0:15:29.960 --> 0:15:33.480 to save people. This is the same girl from the 0:15:33.560 --> 0:15:37.000 last story put on her save a whole cake, and 0:15:37.080 --> 0:15:39.640 now she and the gutter right next to the nigga 0:15:39.720 --> 0:15:42.680 damn men in a goddamn gutter with a baby taking 0:15:42.720 --> 0:15:45.400 care of his mother and him and he'd Havene fucked 0:15:45.480 --> 0:15:49.000 up her credit, her life is and shambles and all 0:15:49.040 --> 0:15:51.560 this shit. That's what happens when you go from being 0:15:51.600 --> 0:15:55.280 a superhero and now you are a hurt villain. That's 0:15:55.320 --> 0:15:58.120 some bullshit, ain't it. That's like the story of the Joker. 0:15:58.160 --> 0:16:01.600 Everybody got a story, right, Every villain has a story 0:16:01.640 --> 0:16:05.440 because every villain wasn't born bad. They were born great 0:16:05.480 --> 0:16:08.000 and they were actually saving people at first, and then 0:16:08.000 --> 0:16:10.880 it got fucked over, and then that that that hurt people, 0:16:10.960 --> 0:16:13.840 hurt people, shit them kicked in and now you're a villain. 0:16:14.400 --> 0:16:16.800 Well, I don't want you to be a villain, young lady. 0:16:16.920 --> 0:16:17.360 I don't. 0:16:17.600 --> 0:16:18.640 I don't want you to hurt. 0:16:18.480 --> 0:16:21.720 The next nigga, because this nigga was a trash ball, 0:16:21.800 --> 0:16:24.160 because that's exactly what it is. First of all, I 0:16:24.200 --> 0:16:26.040 don't doubt that he loved you. After three weeks. You 0:16:26.080 --> 0:16:30.000 probably got good conversation. You probably different, you know, with 0:16:30.200 --> 0:16:32.120 all the shit that he told you, Yet you different. 0:16:32.440 --> 0:16:35.920 I ain't never hurting nobody like you, like you really 0:16:36.000 --> 0:16:38.680 got good pussy pussy, like you know he probably could have, 0:16:38.720 --> 0:16:40.760 you know, the Master Donald Dick. I know you got 0:16:40.760 --> 0:16:45.000 some nice spicy pussy. So y'all sex life was already booming, 0:16:45.480 --> 0:16:49.080 all right, the red flag you seem to know. 0:16:49.120 --> 0:16:49.480 I see. 0:16:49.520 --> 0:16:51.960 I hate giving advice to people who already know what 0:16:52.000 --> 0:16:54.360 the fuck going on, because you are, like I said, 0:16:55.120 --> 0:16:57.200 like I said in the last story, maybe you just 0:16:57.240 --> 0:16:59.960 need your bullshit regurgitated back to you so you know 0:17:00.520 --> 0:17:03.000 what you need to do. You just need to move 0:17:03.000 --> 0:17:05.600 the fuck on. You said he cooked for you, y'all 0:17:05.600 --> 0:17:08.160 had drinks and you really liked them. That's good. That's 0:17:08.480 --> 0:17:10.640 a part of his plan. That's the part of his plan. 0:17:10.720 --> 0:17:12.520 The only thing he didn't give you was no money. 0:17:12.520 --> 0:17:15.040 That's because he had nail money to give you. You 0:17:15.119 --> 0:17:17.800 had all the money to get back. He ended up 0:17:18.160 --> 0:17:21.440 billing you for that dinner that he cooked for all 0:17:21.520 --> 0:17:25.200 that donal dingling he'd been dropping off, and them good drinks. 0:17:24.960 --> 0:17:28.160 That's your bill. Now you got a goddamn bill, eighteen 0:17:28.240 --> 0:17:30.200 hundred dollars. You need to help them pay his rent. 0:17:30.960 --> 0:17:33.800 And this is how niggas think. You have two jobs, 0:17:33.840 --> 0:17:37.200 two kids, and a house that you're putting back together. 0:17:37.440 --> 0:17:39.480 So that shit must have got blown down by the 0:17:39.560 --> 0:17:40.120 last nigga. 0:17:40.160 --> 0:17:42.720 Here come another nigga trying to blow down his house. 0:17:43.480 --> 0:17:46.080 You're gonna let them or what you're gonna do. You're 0:17:46.080 --> 0:17:48.920 gonna dust off your cape and save your goddamn self. 0:17:48.920 --> 0:17:53.600 Don't keep saving these niggas, bitch, not saying you. I'm 0:17:53.640 --> 0:17:55.240 just speaking into the universe. 0:17:55.920 --> 0:17:57.800 Stop saving these niggas bitches. 0:17:58.359 --> 0:18:00.439 That's what I need for y'all to, you know, and 0:18:00.440 --> 0:18:02.120 that can be all nice and wholesome with you. 0:18:02.200 --> 0:18:04.200 Stop saving these guys ladies. 0:18:04.480 --> 0:18:07.359 But y'all don't understand when somebody talked to y'all like that, 0:18:07.800 --> 0:18:10.399 because that's side you fucking almost ended up paying an 0:18:10.400 --> 0:18:13.440 eighteen hundred dollars rent that wasn't mean yours while try 0:18:13.520 --> 0:18:16.240 to put your house back together. So yeah, I'm yelling 0:18:16.240 --> 0:18:18.080 at you because I ain't mad at this nigga. I'm 0:18:18.119 --> 0:18:21.359 mad at you because something tells me that if you 0:18:21.480 --> 0:18:24.560 still asking for advice, that you're still fucking. 0:18:24.280 --> 0:18:25.040 With this nigga here. 0:18:25.080 --> 0:18:28.879 And then after that little three weeks and you probably 0:18:28.880 --> 0:18:31.840 didn't pay eighteen hundred, but you probably gave him eight hundred. 0:18:31.600 --> 0:18:33.640 Toward the eighteen. I don't know. 0:18:33.680 --> 0:18:36.080