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Speaker 1: The second data date.

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Speaker 2: If you ask me and Brook, you'll probably agree with this.

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Speaker 2: The dating world needs more ultimatums.

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Speaker 3: No job, yes are not ever good.

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Speaker 2: Ever, I think maybe we need them because the more

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Speaker 2: listeners we talk to, everybody seems so indecisive, so wishy washy, like, oh,

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Speaker 2: maybe I'll date her, or maybe that other hot girl,

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Speaker 2: or maybe I'll just stick with my wife.

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Speaker 1: I don't really know the fence here. Ultimatum suddenly sounding good?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they stick to your wife?

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Speaker 1: Like, what is happening the ultimatum?

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Speaker 2: That's why I appreciate somebody who's actually willing to lay

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Speaker 2: all their cards down on the table and say this

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Speaker 2: is it.

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Speaker 1: Take it or leave it.

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Speaker 2: And apparently that's how our listener, Dustin rolls ultimatum style.

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Speaker 1: Well that's the vibe I got from his email, Dustin,

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Hey, how's it going, guys?

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Speaker 5: You sound like such a nice guy for being such

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Speaker 5: a bad assholes made a maker?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, tell me if I was wrong.

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Speaker 2: But it sounds like you like to play the dating

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Speaker 2: game a little bit more straightforward.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, totally let's go, man. I mean I don't have

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Speaker 4: that much time left. I'm not going to sit down

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Speaker 4: and text all day.

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Speaker 1: Oh I want to do you do this?

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Speaker 4: Here's my new rule. Now when I talk to people,

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Speaker 4: it's like, if I don't meet up with them right away,

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Speaker 4: it pretty much just kind of sizzles out.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I mean I can see how that could happen.

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Speaker 2: If you don't do that, you'll get strung along for

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Speaker 2: weeks and months and maybe never even dating that person.

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Speaker 3: What is right away to you? What does that mean?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I think like forty eight to seventy two hours,

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Speaker 4: we should at least have like some kind of plan

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Speaker 4: to hang out. But like if that plan's not established,

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's actually kind of a rule.

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Speaker 5: I kind of like that rule, Like it's respecting everybody's time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dating runs on deadlines, and so that's good. Jess

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Speaker 2: you gave Jessica the dating deadline.

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Speaker 4: Well, I don't know. She I ended up just getting

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Speaker 4: her number and then I pretty much like kind of

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Speaker 3: I feel like that's an important step. So there is

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Speaker 3: the app. You don't open it, you know, you don't reply. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I don't check this.

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Speaker 2: So once it got off of the apps, how did

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Speaker 2: you and Jessica vibe?

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Speaker 4: She's really really funny. So she pretty much was just

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Speaker 4: saying like, hey, one time, no chat.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay. Did you turn it into an in person

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Speaker 3: date pretty quickly?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we went out for pizza. I love pizza. Oh

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Speaker 4: you want to know the crazy part about that?

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Speaker 3: Yes, that's the only part I want to know.

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Speaker 1: Let's start with the crazy part first. Start there.

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Speaker 4: She looked really different from the photo is that one

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Speaker 4: Not like a cat fish. I mean she was still

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Speaker 4: like super cute, like for sure, but like different different,

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Speaker 5: Okay again, no, do you mean like she colored her

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Speaker 1: Maybe a full face tattoo that wasn't there before.

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Speaker 4: No, nothing like that, but that would have been like

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Speaker 2: Overall though you liked what you saw in person.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she was cute. It was just different than what

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Speaker 4: I expected. But could this be my perspective? A lot

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Speaker 4: of the photos she had she was wearing sunglasses, so

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, sunglasses now cover like seventy percent of the

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Speaker 3: Crazy eyes, yeah, that was a crazy part.

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Speaker 2: Now that we've covered all the crazy parts of the date,

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Speaker 2: bring us to the boring, you know, mushy stuff.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, that's my favorite. Jose wants to know

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Speaker 1: how the rest of the date went.

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Speaker 4: Everything was normal about the date, but then there was

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, going back to crazy again.

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Speaker 4: It wasn't like super crazy, but it was just like

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Speaker 3: Okay, what happened?

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Speaker 4: Well, on her profile, like she talks about like pilates,

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Speaker 4: and a bunch of like pilates stuff is on her profile,

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Speaker 4: all right, Yeah, so I was kind of I thought

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Speaker 3: Huh.

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Speaker 5: So it's either, like, you know, it feels like she

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Speaker 3: That's what I think. But I mean, are you confusing girls.

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Speaker 2: About Alexis you put stuff in your profile that you

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Speaker 2: don't actually care much about. It's more of like a

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Speaker 2: I love sports.

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Speaker 5: I do like a collegiate athletes more athletic than you, Jack.

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Speaker 2: But she also says that she enjoys baseball even though

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Speaker 4: Enjoyed the half times in the game, not halftime after

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying maybe she isn't fully into pilates as

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Speaker 3: Easier to put on there yea, And I will.

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Speaker 5: Say there is there is a phenomenon right now that

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Speaker 5: if you aren't a die hard fan of something, you're

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Speaker 1: You know, how long has it been since you last

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Speaker 4: It's been like six days.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, which is a long time.

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Speaker 5: When you were moving so quick, you know, you had

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Speaker 4: I don't understand because we both had such a great time.

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Speaker 4: She said she had a great time. I had a

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Speaker 1: You know, let's try and keep the great times going.

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Speaker 2: And we come back and we give this girl another ultimatum, saying,

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Speaker 2: I am it's either go out with Dustin now or

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Speaker 3: Well, that's always the Yeah, that's just like or not.

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Speaker 2: It just sounds more scary if you say ultimatum, We're

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Speaker 1: With your second date right after this hold on.

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Speaker 2: Today's second date update begs the question can you fully

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Speaker 2: trust what you see in someone's dating profile, because our

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Speaker 2: listener Dustin met up with a woman from Bumble who

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Speaker 3: Not bad though, just different.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like a good, good different.

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Speaker 2: And even though her bio talked about pilates a lot,

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Speaker 1: Kind of strange.

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Speaker 2: But to be fair, my old dating profile said I'm Jewish,

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Speaker 2: I'm not kosher and not good with money, so probably

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Speaker 3: That's a really good point, Jeff.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you can't trust it fully from the

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Speaker 2: dating profile. The good news is Dustin, despite the differences,

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Speaker 2: really had a good time with her. He felt like

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Speaker 2: they vibed in ways he hasn't in the two years

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Speaker 2: that he has spent on this happ before.

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Speaker 5: God, I really want this to work out for you,

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Speaker 5: justin just because you have put in the time and

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Thanks, a lot, Brooke, I really do appreciate that about Youah.

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Speaker 2: Oh, you appreciate that she compliments you well her her

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Speaker 2: fingers are crossed right now when she said that.

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Speaker 3: So, yes, you wanted to tell everybody everything.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I feel like there is some part of Brook

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Speaker 2: that really is rooting for you today, jess Yeah, I am.

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Speaker 5: I think this is going to be a simple like

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Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, possibly, I mean, I don't know, as

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, all right, Well, let's style Jessica right now.

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Speaker 2: We'll see if she picks up and hopefully has a

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Speaker 2: simple explanation for why she hasn't hit you back.

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Speaker 1: Callin her right now. Here we go, huo, hey is

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Speaker 1: this Jessica?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, huh hey, Jill.

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Speaker 3: She's so cute.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 2: It's so nice to talk to someone who's like positive

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Speaker 2: and perky. When we're talk to them. Because we're doing

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Speaker 2: a second date update, most of our listeners are like,

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Speaker 2: who is this?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm sorry?

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Speaker 4: What? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Sorr threw a lot at you. We're a radio show

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Speaker 2: called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, which you're on

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Speaker 2: right now. Congratulations, Hi, Okay, Hi, and this segment is

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Speaker 2: called second date Update. I don't know if you've heard

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Speaker 2: it before, but it's a thing where if somebody blows

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Speaker 2: if there's a reason for it.

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Speaker 6: Okay, I didn't blow anyone off.

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Speaker 3: What Yeah, I.

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Speaker 5: Mean, I guess talking she said sick. I mean he

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Speaker 5: said six days. So maybe that's not blowing someone off

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Speaker 5: to you. Maybe that's not enough time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because six days ago you went out with a

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Speaker 2: had a really good connection. Afterwards, he feels like you've

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Speaker 2: been pulling away a little bit. His name is Dustin.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I forgot about that one.

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Speaker 1: Huh gosh.

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Speaker 6: I'm not trying to blow him off. I just don't

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Speaker 3: I think it's pretty simple. You should text him and

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Speaker 6: No. I mean, like, I don't know how much she

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Speaker 6: told you or what you know, but I actually matched

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Speaker 3: A year and a half he said that you guys

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Speaker 6: And that you Yeah, So when I got a text

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Speaker 6: confused because it was like, wait, this is weird, just

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Speaker 6: like whatever, and I was just like, long time no chat.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, he said that you made a joke that

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Speaker 6: It wasn't a joke. It really was a long time.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm confused.

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Speaker 5: So you hadn't talked to Dustin in a year and

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Speaker 5: a half on an app at all, is what you're saying.

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Speaker 6: Right, it was just a year and a half ago.

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Speaker 6: He never replied to one of my texts and then

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Speaker 3: And then you guys went to pizza, right, You didn't

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Speaker 6: We got pizza, And I was kind of like, I

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Speaker 3: Cooma for a year and a half and he doesn't remember.

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Speaker 3: He went from the a yes, he met a year

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Speaker 1: And that seems like a big miscommunication.

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Speaker 7: What about that it has to be the same person,

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Speaker 7: it's the same He kept talking about Pilates and how

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Speaker 7: like he kept asking about it, and I was like plate,

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Speaker 7: He's like, I don't have that in my bioen.

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Speaker 1: That's the other girl. Oh no.

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Speaker 6: But then I was like, oh my gosh, Jessica is

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Speaker 2: You think that he went out with the wrong Jessica

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Speaker 2: or texted the wrong Jessica in his fam.

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Speaker 6: I mean, like it it could have been another Jessica

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Speaker 1: Wait. Wait, then you have him as Dustin Bumble. He

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Speaker 1: probably has multiple Jessica Bumbles. That makes so much sense.

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Speaker 3: Did you have fun with them?

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Speaker 4: I did?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I had a lot of fun with them,

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Speaker 2: even though you had to keep dodging his questions about Pilates.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I mean, honestly, I didn't know what to say. I

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Speaker 2: So this makes sense why Dustin told us that she

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Speaker 1: Couple of weeks.

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Speaker 4: Wait he said that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but he added that you were super cute. Oh,

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Speaker 5: it's not like it was a disappointment. I think that's

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Speaker 2: I also say, you're both in the same spot, because

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Speaker 2: he's like, I don't know where to go from here,

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Speaker 2: and she just said I don't know where to go

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're both in limbo. This is kind of perfect. Well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I guess that's it. Sorry, well, no tell.

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Speaker 3: Her, Jeff tell her. She doesn't know how to tell him,

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Speaker 3: and now she doesn't even have to.

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Speaker 2: I guess the other option is, if you are interested.

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Speaker 2: Dustin has been listening to this call on the other

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Speaker 2: phone line.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he knows everything.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, if he hasn't fainted already, Dustin you there.

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Speaker 4: Holy I can't believe this happened. I'm such an idiot.

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Speaker 3: I'm such an idiot.

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Speaker 4: Wait, you guys were talking about it. I was looking

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Speaker 6: Oh how many Jessica's even talking to?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm embarrassed, though, I mean, I'm I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, when you kept bringing up Pilates, I was like,

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Speaker 6: what why did he bringing this up? Like, did you

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Speaker 6: want to see a move? Like, I wasn't through what

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Speaker 4: But I know, I know now. I just I thought

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Speaker 4: it was very interesting at the time. That's all.

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Speaker 2: He was only asking because he thought that you were

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Speaker 2: super interested in it. But that was a different Jessica Bumble.

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Speaker 5: I mean, now you need to maybe tell him what

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Speaker 6: I actually love soccer and I love hiking, and I

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Speaker 6: speak a little French, and.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I remember that from a year and

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Speaker 4: a half.

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Speaker 2: Ago, or was that the other Jessica Bumble Like Jessica

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Speaker 2: Bumble number four.

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Speaker 1: Well, oh that's right.

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Speaker 5: You could have saved so much time and headache in

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Speaker 5: your life if you would have just gone out a

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Speaker 5: year and a half ago.

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Speaker 4: Brook, You're so right again. I'm just such an idiot.

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Speaker 2: Women do like hearing that, So that's a good thing

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Speaker 2: for you to start saying. So, now that we've cleared

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Speaker 2: up the big misunderstanding and you realize who each other are,

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Speaker 2: you like each other at least it seems that way

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Speaker 2: from our perspective, We'd like to offer to send you

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Speaker 2: out on another date, Jessica, and we would pay for

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Speaker 2: it if you say yes.

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Speaker 4: Maybe this could be like a mistake that was meant

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Speaker 4: to be.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I see that. You need to turn it around.

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Speaker 3: Come on, Dustin.

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Speaker 6: I want to hear something from Dustin, and depending on

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Speaker 6: what he says, maybe.

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Speaker 4: I'll say yes, Oh, what is it.

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Speaker 6: Out of all this? Jessica's which one do you like best?

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Speaker 1: If you tough an answer here, he's like Jessica.

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Speaker 4: Eighteen, Well, to be honest. Look to be honest, Jessica,

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Speaker 4: You're the only Jessica I had a real connection with

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Speaker 4: all the other Jessicas I never even hung out with.

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Speaker 3: Look at that, you're the.

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Speaker 1: You're the only one that would talk to me. He's

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Speaker 1: too honest. Did that answer your question? Jessica?

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Speaker 6: It did. Yeah, I'll go out again.

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Speaker 3: I think they're so cute.

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Speaker 2: Well, congratulations you two. You're going out again, and it's

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Speaker 2: probably a good lesson for you.

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Speaker 1: Dustin. You got to put the year that you matched

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Speaker 1: with the.

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Speaker 2: Person next to their names in your contact I'm always.

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Speaker 3: Like to I'm hoping after this he doesn't have any

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Speaker 3: more matches. This is it.

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Speaker 4: I think after this, I'm not going to use the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, after two years, Bro, you need a break.

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Speaker 3: Yes, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: See that's why we do the second date updates. Jessica

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Speaker 1: said she didn't know what to do.

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Speaker 2: She was caught mid date with a guy who thought

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Speaker 2: that she was somebody else.

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Speaker 3: God that is so it's my worst nightmare.

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Speaker 2: It would be a turnoff obviously, but it was like

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Speaker 2: super awkward, Like, how do you even bring that up?

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Speaker 1: The thing is that she wasn't a total stranger.

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Speaker 2: They'd matched eighteen months before then, and like we heard,

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Speaker 2: they seem to be actually pretty cute together.

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Speaker 3: I mean, sometimes it's all about timing, you know. Maybe

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Speaker 5: The dating apps, it's gonna be awesome, And then now

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Speaker 5: he's two years in, he's like, wait, it's not yah.

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Speaker 2: Is there a part of me that thinks Dustin is

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Speaker 2: texting the other Jessica right now, the one that he

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Speaker 2: ghosted a week ago?

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Speaker 3: How dare you even bring that up?

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Speaker 2: Let's remember he is a guy and we're addicted to

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Speaker 2: the chase. Hey, hopefully he can just focus on the

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Speaker 3: Why would you even put that in his head? If

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Speaker 3: he's listening, if you're.

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Speaker 1: Listening, change the other Jessica's to do, not text.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, or just for now, just delete their number. That's

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Speaker 3: even easier.

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Speaker 2: You never know, never say never yeah, but remember you

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Speaker 2: can listen to all of our Second Date updates on Spotify, Apple,

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Speaker 2: or wherever you get your podcasts at Brook and Jeffrey