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Speaker 1: Good Steve listening to going together for STU. Please, I

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Speaker 1: God has been good to me. Man, I can't really

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Speaker 1: It's unbelievable the things He's done for us. How many

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Speaker 1: the fact that you know may be struggling out here,

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Speaker 1: but guess what, you still going to work. You you know,

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Speaker 1: We talked about this oftentimes, but I don't want to

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's no external force that's at fault, like you

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Speaker 1: The Steve Harvey Morning Show back full foce m D's

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Speaker 1: Ladies and Gentlemen, The Steve Harvey Morning Show. Shirley Strawberry,

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Steve, Welcome back. Colin Farrell, she's here. I

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Speaker 1: know I saw Junior Morning Off Morning everybody. J Anthony Brown,

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Speaker 1: What up, mister Harvey, what's going on with you? Man?

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Speaker 1: Nephew Tommy. Yea, yeah, I'm in the building, Uncle Steve.

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Speaker 1: I think she's here now. Colin Farrell, I am here.

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Speaker 1: Good morning. What's up are you? I said at the morning,

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Speaker 1: how was your Vaca, Steve? I wasn't on Vaca, y'all

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Speaker 1: They had a good time at family feud. That's grateful

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Speaker 1: And now we're back at work. That's another blessing. I

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Speaker 1: to work, that's right, that's all right, amen. It changes

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Speaker 1: your whole perspective, folks, if you stop saying I have

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Speaker 1: it's good, Tommy show Big Kid. Heard y'all talking about

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Speaker 1: the finale and stuff too. Oh my god, see ready

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you. Fire it really I've been getting

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Speaker 1: I've been getting messages out the weekend, people loving it.

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm suited. I've started on the next season. I mean,

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Speaker 1: Trust me. He should be fun. Tommy. Ye got some

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Speaker 1: good contestants, y'all. Y'all in for a treatment. Okay, let

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Speaker 1: me ask you this. Let me ask you this. Do

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Speaker 1: there's there's a couple on there, Steve, Yeah, that are

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Speaker 1: And that's what it's all about ready to love, ready

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Speaker 1: to be Jason has Why didn't you Carla? Everybody really?

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Speaker 1: Everybody ready? Wait? What stake? Great name for everybody? Ready?

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Speaker 1: All right? Congratulations Tommy. Coming up at thirty two minutes

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Speaker 1: after the hour, we're gonna talk to the CLO. It's

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Speaker 1: been a minute. We're gonna ask the cello Chief Love

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Speaker 1: Officer Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening to all right, guys,

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Speaker 1: it's time for ask the CLO. Ready, Chief Love Officer

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Yes, all right, fresh back from vacation, here

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Speaker 1: we go, Jeanette and Tucker. Georgia says, I'm a thirty

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Speaker 1: I was so mad and hurt. Do I let him know?

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Speaker 1: you know? He back out? What's your trip in foe?

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Speaker 1: I haven't where they did sing on? Don't worry about

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Speaker 1: the major Have you heard, precious lord right? Have you

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Speaker 1: grandmother her granddaughter overheard her say, I've always wanted to

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Speaker 1: try on a wedding dress. See. Miss Tucker got married

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Speaker 1: back in nineteen fifty two, and back then it was

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Speaker 1: a time when black women were not allowed in bridal shops.

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Speaker 1: So she never got to experience the thrill of trying

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Speaker 1: and she was a beautiful bride, Erica wrote, along with

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Speaker 1: video footage of her grandmother trying on dresses. Now, since

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Speaker 1: becoming a viral sensation, Missus Tucker is loving all of

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Speaker 1: the attention and if you've seen her, she's just as

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Speaker 1: cute as pie, I mean, just a beautiful in this

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Speaker 1: wedding dress. And now, Erica says, all Missus Tucker is

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Speaker 1: waiting for now is for Steve Harvey or Tyler Perry

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Speaker 1: I want to say, from the bottom of my heart, congratulations.

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Speaker 1: This is a shout out from your boy old family.

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Speaker 1: Few keys and commented to botch it through it. I

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Speaker 1: want to say big shout out to you. Look absolutely wonderful.

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Speaker 1: I did see the picture. You look stunning. Congratulations. Waiting

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Speaker 1: all them years for them no good people that wouldn't

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Speaker 1: let you in that bridle boutique to try to dress.

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Speaker 1: Now we got money for all kind of dressing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's ma'am, pretty, so beautiful. To fly her down to

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Speaker 1: whatever bridle boutique she ever want to go in. I

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Speaker 1: don't even dressing it. Every dress keep bring. Yeah, so Steve,

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Speaker 1: you made her day. Yeah, well well let's just hope

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Speaker 1: shout out get to her. Oh well, you know it's gone.

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Speaker 1: She put it out there, It's gonna come back, you

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Speaker 1: know that. All right? Well, congratulations again missus Tucker ninety

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Speaker 1: four years old and still just beautiful as ever. All right.

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Speaker 1: In other entertainment news, que couple alert, guys, check this out.

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Speaker 1: Martin Lawrence's daughter, Jasmine Lawrence is dating Eddie Murphy's son

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Speaker 1: Eric Murphy. Talk about Hamedy Royalty right there. That's so

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Speaker 1: cute that I want to be at a family gathering. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: that's funny. Yeah, that's a good one. That's a real

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Speaker 1: good one right there. So congratulations to the new couple.

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Speaker 1: Cute couple and uh wow, celebrity birthdays. He just got

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Speaker 1: out last week. Bill Cosby is eighty four years old

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Speaker 1: today and going back on tour or something. What I mean,

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Speaker 1: he's out. Did judicial system freed him? Yeah, I'm accepting

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Speaker 1: of that. I'm perfectly fine. It's our judicial system and

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Speaker 1: that's the way it operates. And so he's out, he's free.

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Speaker 1: Uh don't know if I'd go on tour. I'm well,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna just go home watching joke. What would he open? Win?

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Speaker 1: That's what the hell I wanted. All Right, we're moving on, Steve.

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Speaker 1: It's time for today's headlines, Ladies and gentlemen. Miss Anne True,

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Speaker 1: thank you, and good morning everybody. Here we go with

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Speaker 1: another week at last count recovery teams in Serfside, Florida

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Speaker 1: have now dug ninety victims out of the rubble that

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Speaker 1: collapse that high rise condo building, so that leaves thirty

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Speaker 1: one people unaccounted for. Mayor Daniella Levine Cava says the

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Speaker 1: searches continue working day and night. This recovery is moving

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Speaker 1: forward with great urgency as we work twenty four hours

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Speaker 1: a day on the pile to recover victims and bring

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Speaker 1: closure to all of the families still waiting. I'd already

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Speaker 1: say that over fourteen million pounds of concrete and debris

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Speaker 1: have so far been moved from that site as they

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Speaker 1: search for victims. Investigators looking into the brutal assassination of

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Speaker 1: Hades President have reportedly led to a Haitian Florida doctor

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Speaker 1: under arrest a thirty three year old doctor named Christian Snome.

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Speaker 1: Hades Police chief says Snome high Colombian gunman through a

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Speaker 1: US based Venezuelan security company, and that the mission changed

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Speaker 1: from just arresting President Jovan Almy's to killing him, and

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Speaker 1: that Snome apparently wanted to be president himself. A total

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Speaker 1: of twenty six Colombians are accused, most under arrest I'm

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Speaker 1: dead still others on the run. FBI and Home Security

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Speaker 1: agents meanwhile helping the investigation, But the Biden administration at

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Speaker 1: this point anyway, not in favor of sending down any troops.

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Speaker 1: Republicans in Texas making another try at limiting access to

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Speaker 1: voting by holding a thirty day special session to get

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Speaker 1: the measure passed. Back in May, you may remember Democratic

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Speaker 1: lawmakers blocked the GOP's effort to pass new voting bills

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Speaker 1: by just walking out. Staging a walkout, say they didn't

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Speaker 1: have the numbers. Republicans want twenty four hour voting band,

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Speaker 1: they want driving dive through voting ban and the States

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Speaker 1: Republican Governor Greg Abbot defend end of those ideas on

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Speaker 1: Fox News Sunday, even comparing his state to President Biden's

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Speaker 1: home state. If you're doing drive through voting, there's going

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Speaker 1: to be electioneering. It could be on the bumper sticker

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Speaker 1: in the car right in front of you. It's far

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Speaker 1: easier to vote in the stead of Texas than it

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Speaker 1: is in Delaware. And yet nobody is claiming that there's

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Speaker 1: some type of voter suppression taking place in Delaware. Well,

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Speaker 1: the fact is that in the twenty twenty election, voter

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Speaker 1: turnout in Texas was sixty percent. In Delaware it was

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Speaker 1: seventy percent. If you haven't heard about it, here you go.

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Speaker 1: An African American teenager from Louisiana, the first black jaw

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Speaker 1: to win the National Spelling Being. Unlike the last competition

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Speaker 1: where the last eight youngsters were all declared co winners.

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Speaker 1: Fortune Year, Ozela vant Guard spell the winning word and

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Speaker 1: you are an that is I don't know what that is.

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Speaker 1: Young Dale is also a talented basketball player. She's the

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Speaker 1: hold of three Guinness World Records for driveling. Louisiana State

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Speaker 1: University has offered her a full scholarship. I love it.

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Speaker 1: Now back to Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening show,

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Speaker 1: all right, Steve, please introduce your man Jay Anthony Brown. Yes,

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Speaker 1: thank you, Thank you Baltimore for coming out my voice,

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Speaker 1: his horse, sorry running wrong. Thank you for you know,

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Speaker 1: selling out to Jay spot and July of eighteenth, blowout

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Speaker 1: comedy show an art show column in South Carolina over

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Speaker 1: the weekend, well forth of July weekend. We know there's

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Speaker 1: a lot of people that called for nine one one.

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Speaker 1: I have a list of some of the calls that

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Speaker 1: were made for fourth of July nine one one. Here

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Speaker 1: we go. We have a family. We have a family

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Speaker 1: involved in a mustard fight. Could you send someone over

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Speaker 1: to the house. I'll just straight up must mustard. That's

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Speaker 1: it mustec We have a white girl holding her own

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Speaker 1: and a Black Lives Matter rally. Could you send an

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Speaker 1: officer over to one Adam twelve, One at them twelve.

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Speaker 1: We have a fat kid stuck in a dry Could

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Speaker 1: you send someone over to what's going on? One Adam twelve.

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Speaker 1: Any officers out there? We have sparklers stuck in somebody's butt.

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Speaker 1: Center officers, sparklers one atam twelve, one atam twelve calling

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Speaker 1: all officers. We have a fight that broke out for

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Speaker 1: somebody made banana putting with breast milk. Could you go

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Speaker 1: over to the house one month for nothing? Who told?

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Speaker 1: One Adam twelve, whoever's out there. We have two Christians

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Speaker 1: in a head lock. They're about to kill each other.

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Speaker 1: Could you send someone over to the house, please too,

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Speaker 1: one Adam twelve. Any officers by any officers. We have

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Speaker 1: someone with a head wound from a turkey leg. Please

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Speaker 1: send someone for right away. Serious food, Yeah, a lot

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Speaker 1: of fights. One atam twelve, One atam twelve in any

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Speaker 1: officers out in the area. We have an elderly woman

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Speaker 1: stuck in a leather cat suit. Send someone over to

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Speaker 1: the houses. Got the vigil on still got a deal?

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Speaker 1: Got it? One atam twelve calling all officers. We have

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Speaker 1: a dog that swallowed a deal dope. Please get someone

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Speaker 1: who the house. He's a calls that went out over

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Speaker 1: the fourth of July. See y'all eighteenth in Columbia, South Carolina.

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Speaker 1: Baby Dade, you say you had an art show. I

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Speaker 1: have an art show coming out. It's called a Blowout

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Speaker 1: Comedy and art shows gonna be in Columbia, South Carolina

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Speaker 1: on July the eighteen. You're I'm a great artist. You are?

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Speaker 1: You are with Miss jess Amy and some other artists

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Speaker 1: from Colombiac. Oh wow, that's nice, Jack, very nice, nice, nice,

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you. All right, Jay, you're crazy, Marie,

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Speaker 1: all right, thank you, coming up with thirty four minutes

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Speaker 1: after the hour, tell me something good, black girl magic

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Speaker 1: good news coming up right after this you're listening to

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Speaker 1: all right, as promised, it is time now for tell

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Speaker 1: me something good, black girl magic news. Well, we have

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Speaker 1: to say congratulations again to the twenty twenty one National

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Speaker 1: Spelling Bee champ. Her name is Zaila Garde. She made

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Speaker 1: history becoming the first black American champion. She is fourteen

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Speaker 1: years old. She's from Harvey, Louisiana. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: Zaila won the ninety third Spelling Bee by spelling the

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Speaker 1: word Maria. Zaila has now been offered a full scholarship

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Speaker 1: to Louisi Louisiana State University. Congratulations, that's right, yes, son, yeah, yes,

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Speaker 1: she came. But she's only fourteen. All she got to

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Speaker 1: do is weight does she got plenty of the scholarships coming,

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Speaker 1: you know, that's an all Yeah, So, Steve, you know

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Speaker 1: how we do it. Whenever we talk about the Spelling Bee,

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Speaker 1: we have our very own spelling Bee here on the

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning show. So I'm just you know, wanting

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Speaker 1: to ask you are you ready? You're ready to go?

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Speaker 1: I have all ready for you. Okay. The first word

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Speaker 1: is a French word meaning appetizers. The word is orders,

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Speaker 1: spell that please orders. Yeah, that's what she says. Yes,

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Speaker 1: apathize in your chair foot it's a French word meaning ampathizers.

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Speaker 1: I know you've had a few and served a viewing

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Speaker 1: the advertisers. Or dirt, yes, come on? Oh? Or dirt

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Speaker 1: huh or dirt? You didn't use it in the sentence. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: surely you lose it and use it in a sentence.

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Speaker 1: We went to a party at Steve's house and his

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Speaker 1: wife Marjorie served the most delicious or dirt now what

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Speaker 1: h h oh h are yeah as y d with

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Speaker 1: that thing that thing in the air. Huh oh e

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Speaker 1: no oh yeah you here's such a bad actor. You yeah,

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Speaker 1: the last three of them. I want to say thank

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Speaker 1: you today. I'm pulling r E okay, okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: very good, very good, I got it. Yes, h R

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Speaker 1: as apostrophe d O E U v R E s

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Speaker 1: very good state. He started out with an apostrophe actually

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Speaker 1: is after the d yeah oh is it okay? All right? Here,

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Speaker 1: here we go. Um, here's an easy one. Eventually, okay,

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Speaker 1: go ahead. Uh broccoli b r O uh huh c

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Speaker 1: man Win. Would you like me to use it in

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Speaker 1: elice b r O b r O c huh Colli

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Speaker 1: elie el no colle c h chi b r o

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Speaker 1: c k k. Right coming up next to nephew with

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Speaker 1: today's Frank Bad Steve. We'll be back. You're listening. Coming

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Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, right about four

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Speaker 1: minutes after. It's today's Strawberry Letter. The subject is why

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Speaker 1: won't his wife leave him? We'll get into that in

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Speaker 1: just a bit, but right now the nephew is here

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Speaker 1: with today's spring phone call. I just wanted to say

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Speaker 1: thanks to my nephew. He came through the golf tournament.

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Speaker 1: Surprised me. Yeah, came through the golf tournament little flyass

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Speaker 1: outfit on and bought the long dry female champion with him,

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Speaker 1: Troy mullenh nephew, trust me, they was not using my

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Speaker 1: balls early. They were using her ball every single time.

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Speaker 1: Good time, my ball one time. That's because everybody else's

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Speaker 1: balls was in the bushes, birdie one hole by myself.

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Speaker 1: That's it. It was good. Still got an incredible tournament.

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Speaker 1: It was good. It was good to see how how big,

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Speaker 1: how big I want my tournament to be. I'm living

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Speaker 1: around like, oh my god, I was in a tournament.

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Speaker 1: Heaven looking at it. He was like, got all this

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Speaker 1: good God, But the love that, the love and the

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Speaker 1: support I was so I was so tired of. You know, man,

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Speaker 1: it's hard to have your own tournament because you gotta

630
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:48,560
Speaker 1: every hole is sponsored. And so many great sponsors were there, man,

631
00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:51,399
Speaker 1: with so many great products, but you got to try

632
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:57,839
Speaker 1: all the cupcakes, all the pass all the drinks. Man,

633
00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:03,719
Speaker 1: they need a bathroom every hole. But they sponsor you

634
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 1: because you're doing good work. So that's yes. It was yeah,

635
00:46:08,680 --> 00:46:12,879
Speaker 1: and a nice surprise in that you cool all right? Well,

636
00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:16,000
Speaker 1: I like I said, yeah, what you got now? You

637
00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:25,360
Speaker 1: ain't no sigma, You ain't no signa cool, You ain't

638
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 1: no sigma. Let's go catch up. Hello, Oh I'm trying

639
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:32,920
Speaker 1: to reach a Greg please. Yeah, this is he How

640
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:35,680
Speaker 1: you doing? My name is Bernard five beta sigma. I'm

641
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:39,319
Speaker 1: over pledged relationships? Uh huh uh? Giving you a call

642
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:43,720
Speaker 1: to Dame man um you attended priv a m university?

643
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:48,520
Speaker 1: Am I correct? Yeah? You am? I right? You attended, right, okay,

644
00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:52,520
Speaker 1: and for my understanding, you pledge five Beta Sigma and

645
00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:55,880
Speaker 1: fall of ninety one. That's correct, all right, that's the

646
00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:59,799
Speaker 1: that's the Theta chapter, correct, Yes, all right. Here's where

647
00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:03,400
Speaker 1: we're we're having some problems here going through the records, records,

648
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 1: actually looking at the records that we have here headquarters.

649
00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:10,240
Speaker 1: You're not actually an official member of five Beta Sigma.

650
00:47:11,080 --> 00:47:14,239
Speaker 1: I don't know what has taken place. But wait a minute,

651
00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:16,319
Speaker 1: what what do you mean or not a member? Looking

652
00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 1: at our records here at national headquarters, it's indicating that

653
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:22,719
Speaker 1: you're not an official member of five Beta Sigma. I

654
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:25,640
Speaker 1: don't know what could have gone wrong with this? Now,

655
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:28,319
Speaker 1: Now that ain't right, man, That ain't right, because see

656
00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:31,520
Speaker 1: depth of data is recognized nationally, so why wouldn't I

657
00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:34,839
Speaker 1: be nationally recognized. I'm not certain, sir. Maybe it's something

658
00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:37,879
Speaker 1: that took place on that that actual line of Fall

659
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:40,160
Speaker 1: ninety one. We're actually going to have to do some

660
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:42,920
Speaker 1: research on everything that's going on with your line as

661
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:45,400
Speaker 1: well as the chapter. But how is that possible? If

662
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:47,239
Speaker 1: they gave if they gave me a certificate in the

663
00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 1: in the plaque and I got my pen and I

664
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:53,480
Speaker 1: mean I'm a sigma. What you mean? Okay, sir, I

665
00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:57,040
Speaker 1: don't know what I'm looking at here, And and please understand,

666
00:47:57,160 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 1: I want to try to clear this matter up. Yeah, yeah,

667
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:02,120
Speaker 1: we need to this matter. Who else is there somebody

668
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:06,680
Speaker 1: there like a oversee uh maybe the head president or

669
00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:08,759
Speaker 1: your branch or something that I can talk to or something. Well,

670
00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 1: I'm actually I am actually over pledged relations and I

671
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 1: wanted to give you a call personally so we can

672
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:16,840
Speaker 1: try to rectify the matter. And it's gonna take us

673
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:19,160
Speaker 1: some time to hiring this thing out. But what I

674
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:21,759
Speaker 1: need you to do as at this point. Yeah, And

675
00:48:21,920 --> 00:48:24,000
Speaker 1: you know what the problem is that I'm noticing is

676
00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 1: that all of the people that were on your line

677
00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:30,880
Speaker 1: they are official for some reason. Mister greg is an official,

678
00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:33,320
Speaker 1: so I want to I don't understand that because I

679
00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:37,640
Speaker 1: was the line president. So how how is everybody else

680
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 1: able to be a signa and not me when I

681
00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 1: did all the paperwork that it takes to for the

682
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 1: process to be right. I don't understand it. So you

683
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:49,320
Speaker 1: know what, brother, I can't call you brother for the

684
00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:51,879
Speaker 1: fact that you right now try me brother, because I'm

685
00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:54,600
Speaker 1: a signa. So here's what we're gonna have to do. Greg.

686
00:48:54,640 --> 00:48:56,839
Speaker 1: We're gonna have to get you to first of all,

687
00:48:57,120 --> 00:49:00,520
Speaker 1: if you're dealing with anybody alumni wise, asking that you

688
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:03,280
Speaker 1: don't go to any meetings right now. We're also asking

689
00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:06,960
Speaker 1: that you don't wear any five beta sigma pal for Noel.

690
00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:09,600
Speaker 1: At this point, we want to make sure and get

691
00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 1: clarity that you are definitely a brother A man. Man,

692
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:15,120
Speaker 1: I am definitely a brother. Do you know what I

693
00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:17,960
Speaker 1: had to go through to get where I am today?

694
00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:20,439
Speaker 1: To be a signal? All the do y'all, y'all took

695
00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:23,560
Speaker 1: y'all dudes whatever to that. If you're taking my dudes,

696
00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:25,400
Speaker 1: you should be able to tell me yo, man um,

697
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:28,279
Speaker 1: we got this going on, certain things that are going

698
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:29,759
Speaker 1: on with your line. We need to we need to

699
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:32,520
Speaker 1: check you. You took our money. That's the thing. I'm

700
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:34,880
Speaker 1: seeing checks that have gone through for other people that

701
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:37,160
Speaker 1: are on that line. I don't see your man, And

702
00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:39,400
Speaker 1: to this day, I'm like a lifetime member, So what

703
00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:41,680
Speaker 1: the hell are you talking about? I have no records

704
00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:43,960
Speaker 1: indicating that you're a lifetime member. That's what I'm saying, sir,

705
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:48,200
Speaker 1: we got that dog. Somebody needs to tell me something today.

706
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:49,960
Speaker 1: We're gonna try to get to the end of this

707
00:49:50,160 --> 00:49:51,759
Speaker 1: by the end of the week. It's gonna take no. No,

708
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:54,719
Speaker 1: but no, but no, you're not understanding what I'm saying, man,

709
00:49:54,760 --> 00:49:56,960
Speaker 1: because I'm a signal to the heart. Dude. You know

710
00:49:56,960 --> 00:49:59,360
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. Y'all playing with my heart right now? Man,

711
00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:01,560
Speaker 1: ain't nobody to do that and get away with I

712
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:03,560
Speaker 1: don't know what's going on. You know. Here's what we

713
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:06,000
Speaker 1: can do. We can bring you back in and do

714
00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 1: another pledging process. Pledge. Did you understand what you just

715
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 1: said to me? No? Man, that ain't happen. Dog. And

716
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:15,439
Speaker 1: I've been through this already. Man, I'm not pledging. I'm

717
00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:18,960
Speaker 1: not signing my name on nothing else because I have pledged.

718
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:21,520
Speaker 1: I'm not doing it. I need to get somebody on

719
00:50:21,560 --> 00:50:23,320
Speaker 1: the phone that can answer my question. I want to

720
00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:26,160
Speaker 1: know what's going on, okay right now? And I understand

721
00:50:26,320 --> 00:50:28,719
Speaker 1: you know the disbelief of what's going on. I really

722
00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:32,600
Speaker 1: do you obviously, so you are, brother. Brother, We're gonna

723
00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:34,920
Speaker 1: try to what year did you grow across? Did you

724
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:37,640
Speaker 1: walk the fan? I mean, tell me what's going on? Brother?

725
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:40,759
Speaker 1: I'm fall eighty nine, brother, And now what we're gonna

726
00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:44,600
Speaker 1: have to do right now is, first of all, no paraphernalia,

727
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:47,759
Speaker 1: no name. You're trying to tell me that I can't

728
00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:50,480
Speaker 1: well what's nearest and dearest to my heart, next to

729
00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:52,400
Speaker 1: my wife and my child. You're telling me that I

730
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:55,160
Speaker 1: can't grow around and proclaim what I am. That's like

731
00:50:55,320 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 1: telling me I can't be black? What the hell is

732
00:50:57,120 --> 00:50:58,920
Speaker 1: you're saying? And another thing we're going to get you

733
00:50:58,960 --> 00:51:01,920
Speaker 1: to do. Understand, you have a brand, a Sigma brand

734
00:51:02,320 --> 00:51:04,840
Speaker 1: that's going to have to come off until we until

735
00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:07,640
Speaker 1: we get this taken care of? What and then you

736
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:11,440
Speaker 1: talk about them medical procedures? What are you saying? So

737
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:14,960
Speaker 1: we cannot allow you to wear a brand representing five

738
00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:16,960
Speaker 1: Beta Sigma when right now you are not only you

739
00:51:17,040 --> 00:51:19,840
Speaker 1: can't five a lot that that brand to me, was

740
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:22,040
Speaker 1: allowed to put the brand on me. Now I can't

741
00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:24,920
Speaker 1: be allowed to wear something I've been wearing for almost

742
00:51:24,960 --> 00:51:28,400
Speaker 1: fifteen years? Are you crazy? Come on, man, that's some crazy.

743
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:30,880
Speaker 1: So we gotta get you to take your brand of

744
00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:34,200
Speaker 1: me until all of this brand? What the hell a

745
00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:37,680
Speaker 1: out man? This is some look here, brother, But what

746
00:51:37,880 --> 00:51:40,520
Speaker 1: Bernard is that what your name is? You need to

747
00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:43,680
Speaker 1: get somebody on this a minute. That's all right, I

748
00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:47,200
Speaker 1: know the president bill, how about that? I would just

749
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:51,560
Speaker 1: call in and I'll figured out my bill. Right now,

750
00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:54,800
Speaker 1: we need you to take the brand off off you.

751
00:51:54,960 --> 00:51:57,080
Speaker 1: Come take the brand off of me. And if you

752
00:51:57,160 --> 00:51:59,719
Speaker 1: wanted that bad, come get it. That's what you do.

753
00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 1: You are not a member of five Beta sick. I'm

754
00:52:02,600 --> 00:52:06,200
Speaker 1: don't give up you talking about dog. I am a member.

755
00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:08,640
Speaker 1: If you want something over here high land, your boy,

756
00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:11,279
Speaker 1: that's what you do, you bad, come do it. So

757
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:14,080
Speaker 1: I'm telling you for the final time, do not wear

758
00:52:14,120 --> 00:52:16,480
Speaker 1: any paraphern Now you keep couldn't don't want to hear

759
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:19,600
Speaker 1: that talking about no final. Let me tell you what's final.

760
00:52:20,040 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 1: I am a five Beta Sigma to the hard boom boom. Sir.

761
00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:28,279
Speaker 1: All I'm telling you is no more hurt and cover

762
00:52:28,400 --> 00:52:31,440
Speaker 1: that brand up until we here. Man, I'm gonna wear everything.

763
00:52:31,520 --> 00:52:34,080
Speaker 1: I got a hat. I'm annead of a matter of fact,

764
00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:37,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna wearing hey just to get on yong Nurst.

765
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:40,759
Speaker 1: You're gonna keep praying, covering up until we figured out

766
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:42,960
Speaker 1: if you are sing no hand covering up you come

767
00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:45,759
Speaker 1: get it and tell then you better get away from me.

768
00:52:46,320 --> 00:52:49,719
Speaker 1: I'm talking about don't pull that brand up and don't

769
00:52:49,719 --> 00:52:51,959
Speaker 1: you wear no church no more? Me tell you something

770
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:54,640
Speaker 1: I ain't covering. Come get it if you want it.

771
00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:57,839
Speaker 1: I got one man, I hard baby, this is boom fire.

772
00:52:57,880 --> 00:53:01,279
Speaker 1: You don't want none. You don't want none of them? Man,

773
00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:04,080
Speaker 1: I don't know what one more thing I need to

774
00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:05,520
Speaker 1: say to you? Are you really to say what you

775
00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:08,920
Speaker 1: got to say? You ain't getting. This is nephew Tommy

776
00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:12,280
Speaker 1: from the Steve Harby Morning Show. You just got pranked

777
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:19,480
Speaker 1: by your point. Hello boy, y'all had me ready to

778
00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:24,080
Speaker 1: kill my man? Y'all boy, let out one more thing? Man?

779
00:53:24,160 --> 00:53:26,719
Speaker 1: What is the baddest radio show in the land? Greg?

780
00:53:26,840 --> 00:53:31,160
Speaker 1: What is it? Steve Harvey Morning Show? And whoa thank

781
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:37,680
Speaker 1: you nephew. I'm next Today's Strawberry Letters subject why won't

782
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:40,160
Speaker 1: his wife leave him? We'll get into it right after this.

783
00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:47,000
Speaker 1: You're listening to morning show time now for today's Strawberry Letter.

784
00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:51,200
Speaker 1: And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

785
00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:54,839
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786
00:53:54,920 --> 00:53:58,040
Speaker 1: dot com and click Submit Strawberry Letter. We could be

787
00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:00,839
Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

788
00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:04,279
Speaker 1: going to read this one right here, right now. That's

789
00:54:04,320 --> 00:54:06,759
Speaker 1: for you, Jay, it could be your letter. You never know,

790
00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:09,960
Speaker 1: right Bugle up, hold on tight. We got it for

791
00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:13,480
Speaker 1: you here. It is the Strawberry Letter. Thank you if

792
00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:19,600
Speaker 1: you subject. Why won't he leave his wife? Why won't

793
00:54:19,640 --> 00:54:23,759
Speaker 1: his wife leave him? What was I thinking the same

794
00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:29,279
Speaker 1: thing though? Right here? Stephen Shirley, I'm forty four years old, fundamental,

795
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:32,880
Speaker 1: I know what it is. Huh think I'm still in

796
00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:36,040
Speaker 1: vacation mode. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm forty four years old,

797
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:39,480
Speaker 1: divorced and single for ten years. My husband divorced me

798
00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:42,240
Speaker 1: because I cheated on him and the man I cheated

799
00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:45,839
Speaker 1: with was married and he's still married. We met at

800
00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:49,080
Speaker 1: work and the rest is history. We are still in

801
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 1: a relationship and it's been ten years now. Our sex

802
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:56,719
Speaker 1: life is great, but our relationship has a few challenges.

803
00:54:57,160 --> 00:54:59,480
Speaker 1: We have a six year old son and he has

804
00:54:59,560 --> 00:55:02,800
Speaker 1: two children with his wife. His wife is known about

805
00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:05,359
Speaker 1: us from the beginning due to my husband sending her

806
00:55:05,480 --> 00:55:10,080
Speaker 1: explicit text messages, hotel ex seats, and pictures of us together.

807
00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:13,719
Speaker 1: She knew about my pregnancy and is aware that her

808
00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 1: husband spend times with our son, but she will not

809
00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:20,760
Speaker 1: leave him. He said he's staying because of the kids

810
00:55:20,840 --> 00:55:23,480
Speaker 1: and she will drag him through the mud if he leaves.

811
00:55:24,000 --> 00:55:27,640
Speaker 1: I really truly love this man. He met my parents,

812
00:55:27,800 --> 00:55:32,320
Speaker 1: my siblings, and all of my friends. Everyone knows he's married,

813
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:34,440
Speaker 1: but no one makes a big deal out of it.

814
00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:37,000
Speaker 1: I had to threaten him with child support to make

815
00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:39,799
Speaker 1: him step up financially to provide for me and my son.

816
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:42,839
Speaker 1: He has put our son on his insurance at work

817
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:46,239
Speaker 1: as his third child. Nothing I ever do to this

818
00:55:46,400 --> 00:55:49,480
Speaker 1: man has made him angry enough to cut ties with me.

819
00:55:49,960 --> 00:55:53,120
Speaker 1: So I really feel that he loves me. I do

820
00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:55,920
Speaker 1: want more and have expressed that to him, but he

821
00:55:56,000 --> 00:55:58,839
Speaker 1: says he has too many obligations at home. I feel

822
00:55:58,880 --> 00:56:01,560
Speaker 1: like I have a boyfriend and everything is fine until

823
00:56:01,680 --> 00:56:04,480
Speaker 1: reality sets in and he leaves me to go to

824
00:56:04,600 --> 00:56:07,960
Speaker 1: his wife and other life. I'm sure his wife knows

825
00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:10,920
Speaker 1: where I live, but I don't understand why she's never

826
00:56:11,040 --> 00:56:14,239
Speaker 1: acted out over what I've done. He and I will

827
00:56:14,280 --> 00:56:17,440
Speaker 1: be connected forever because of our son, but I want

828
00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:20,719
Speaker 1: him all to myself. I'm getting too old for the

829
00:56:20,800 --> 00:56:23,719
Speaker 1: back and forth and he is too. Do I give

830
00:56:23,800 --> 00:56:26,560
Speaker 1: him an ultimatum? Or would that be selfish of me?

831
00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:32,960
Speaker 1: Would that be selfish of you? What? I think everything

832
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:38,560
Speaker 1: that you're doing is selfish because all you're thinking about

833
00:56:38,719 --> 00:56:42,760
Speaker 1: is getting this woman's husband for yourself. You were selfish

834
00:56:42,840 --> 00:56:45,400
Speaker 1: when you cheated on your husband in the first place.

835
00:56:45,840 --> 00:56:48,000
Speaker 1: And I don't see how you don't see any of

836
00:56:48,080 --> 00:56:51,640
Speaker 1: this as selfish because it's all selfishness. I mean, now

837
00:56:51,760 --> 00:56:55,720
Speaker 1: you want him to leave and be with you, that's selfish, okay,

838
00:56:56,520 --> 00:57:00,920
Speaker 1: And he obviously doesn't want to leave his wife. Obviously doesn't.

839
00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:04,280
Speaker 1: He's giving you every excuse not you, and more importantly,

840
00:57:04,520 --> 00:57:06,960
Speaker 1: he doesn't have to at this point. He gets anything

841
00:57:07,080 --> 00:57:10,880
Speaker 1: he wants from you with the arrangement you already have,

842
00:57:11,680 --> 00:57:14,799
Speaker 1: and everyone is going along with it. You said, he's

843
00:57:14,840 --> 00:57:17,640
Speaker 1: met your family, he's met your friends, and they're cool,

844
00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:21,520
Speaker 1: No big deal. His wife is known about your affairs

845
00:57:21,560 --> 00:57:24,480
Speaker 1: since the beginning. She's still his wife. And no matter

846
00:57:24,560 --> 00:57:26,680
Speaker 1: what you do to him, you say, he won't leave you.

847
00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:29,840
Speaker 1: You two started this, you made a child, and now

848
00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:33,680
Speaker 1: you have a problem with it the way it is now, Well,

849
00:57:34,160 --> 00:57:37,360
Speaker 1: you know, too bad, because this is a mess, and

850
00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:40,320
Speaker 1: this is what messes look like. I mean, trust me, wife,

851
00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:43,960
Speaker 1: he isn't going anywhere. It's called revenge, okay, it's called

852
00:57:44,000 --> 00:57:47,280
Speaker 1: a woman scorned, it's called spite. You think she doesn't

853
00:57:47,600 --> 00:57:50,400
Speaker 1: know you want her to leave. She probably can't stand

854
00:57:50,520 --> 00:57:53,760
Speaker 1: her cheating husband. You know, didn't you say? He's sent

855
00:57:53,840 --> 00:57:57,880
Speaker 1: her explicit pictures, hotel receipts of you guys together. But

856
00:57:58,080 --> 00:58:01,120
Speaker 1: she's still not leaving him. That should tell you something

857
00:58:01,280 --> 00:58:04,560
Speaker 1: right there. So this is what it is and what

858
00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:07,640
Speaker 1: is going to be. Okay, you need to stop wishing,

859
00:58:07,760 --> 00:58:11,000
Speaker 1: stop waiting, stop hoping for him to leave her. It's

860
00:58:11,040 --> 00:58:13,440
Speaker 1: not happening. She's not going to leave him either. The

861
00:58:13,600 --> 00:58:17,120
Speaker 1: wokest moment you had and this whole entire letter was

862
00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:19,320
Speaker 1: at the end when you said you're getting too old

863
00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:22,000
Speaker 1: for this back and forth, and so is he. And

864
00:58:22,280 --> 00:58:25,920
Speaker 1: you're right, you're forty four. I say, girl, get your

865
00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:29,120
Speaker 1: child's support like you're doing. Please don't waste any more

866
00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:31,680
Speaker 1: time on him though. You need to get your self

867
00:58:31,760 --> 00:58:35,120
Speaker 1: respect back. You need to close this chapter of your life.

868
00:58:35,200 --> 00:58:38,720
Speaker 1: You need to walk away. Stop answering his calls. This

869
00:58:39,120 --> 00:58:41,720
Speaker 1: is not love. It's not even close. Of course, he

870
00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:44,400
Speaker 1: needs to pay continue to pay for the child and

871
00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:46,800
Speaker 1: take care of his kid. But other than that, you

872
00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:50,000
Speaker 1: need to move on with your life. Steve. To me,

873
00:58:50,360 --> 00:58:52,280
Speaker 1: this whole letter ain't got nothing to do with to do.

874
00:58:53,640 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 1: The whole thing to me is the woman who wrote

875
00:58:56,280 --> 00:59:01,800
Speaker 1: the letter and what she's settling for and what she's accepted,

876
00:59:02,600 --> 00:59:06,120
Speaker 1: and what she keeps trying to make or wrong or right.

877
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:12,200
Speaker 1: And it can't work this way? Woman, What is wrong

878
00:59:12,320 --> 00:59:17,320
Speaker 1: with you? Your moral compass is so far off. You

879
00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:21,280
Speaker 1: keep trying to get something out of this that don't

880
00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:26,760
Speaker 1: be longed to you. You have nothing here. You're forty

881
00:59:26,840 --> 00:59:31,280
Speaker 1: four year old, divorce and single for ten years. Your

882
00:59:31,360 --> 00:59:35,400
Speaker 1: husband divorced me. My husband divorced me because I cheated

883
00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:39,160
Speaker 1: on him and the man I cheated with was married

884
00:59:39,240 --> 00:59:45,120
Speaker 1: and he's still married. Oh okay, and you're still cheating.

885
00:59:46,240 --> 00:59:50,680
Speaker 1: Do you understand you've never corrected any of your mistakes,

886
00:59:51,000 --> 00:59:54,440
Speaker 1: but you want stuff to right itself for you, but

887
00:59:54,600 --> 00:59:57,680
Speaker 1: you've taken no ownership. Look, everybody make mistakes, so I

888
00:59:57,680 --> 01:00:00,360
Speaker 1: ain't gonna beat you up about the mistakes, but damn,

889
01:00:01,520 --> 01:00:04,240
Speaker 1: you're supposed to grow from your mistakes, learn from him,

890
01:00:04,720 --> 01:00:08,160
Speaker 1: ask for forgiveness, and move on. You've done none of that.

891
01:00:10,200 --> 01:00:14,080
Speaker 1: You just keep repeating the same thing over and over

892
01:00:14,360 --> 01:00:17,720
Speaker 1: expecting a different results. Don't they say that's the definition

893
01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:21,560
Speaker 1: of insanity? Absolutely, Steve. Ain't that what they say? So

894
01:00:21,680 --> 01:00:24,560
Speaker 1: when we come back, we've finished talking to your crazy ass.

895
01:00:24,760 --> 01:00:28,520
Speaker 1: Ye all right, we'll have part two of Steve's response

896
01:00:28,600 --> 01:00:31,120
Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the our subject

897
01:00:31,440 --> 01:00:34,840
Speaker 1: why won't his wife leave him? We'll get back into

898
01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:40,479
Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening show, All right, Come on, Steve,

899
01:00:40,600 --> 01:00:44,600
Speaker 1: let's recap today's Strawberry Letters subject why won't his wife

900
01:00:44,960 --> 01:00:52,600
Speaker 1: leave him? Why won't his wife leave him? What? Forty

901
01:00:52,720 --> 01:00:55,400
Speaker 1: four years old? Divorced? Single for ten years? Your husband

902
01:00:55,480 --> 01:00:58,720
Speaker 1: divorced me because my husband divorced me because I cheated

903
01:00:58,760 --> 01:01:01,480
Speaker 1: on him. And the man cheated on him was married

904
01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:04,520
Speaker 1: and he's still married. We met at work. In the

905
01:01:04,600 --> 01:01:08,440
Speaker 1: rest is history. We are still in a relationship, so

906
01:01:08,680 --> 01:01:13,240
Speaker 1: you're still cheating and it's been ten years now. Our

907
01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:16,760
Speaker 1: sex life is great, but our relationship has a few challenges.

908
01:01:17,080 --> 01:01:21,160
Speaker 1: Oh you mean the fact that he's married, that's the challenge. Okay.

909
01:01:21,640 --> 01:01:23,440
Speaker 1: We have a six year old son and he has

910
01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:28,040
Speaker 1: two children with his wife. Oh you mean his family Okay.

911
01:01:28,840 --> 01:01:31,720
Speaker 1: His wife has known about us from the beginning due

912
01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:40,120
Speaker 1: to my due to my husband sending her explicit text messages, hotels, receipts,

913
01:01:40,160 --> 01:01:43,720
Speaker 1: and receipts of us together your husband. See I didn't

914
01:01:43,720 --> 01:01:49,000
Speaker 1: catch that at first. Your former husband sent all this

915
01:01:49,280 --> 01:01:52,160
Speaker 1: information to your wife when he found out you was

916
01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:58,600
Speaker 1: cheating on him with her husband, He said her all

917
01:01:58,680 --> 01:02:03,160
Speaker 1: the messages to receive and all this stuff. She knew

918
01:02:03,200 --> 01:02:05,960
Speaker 1: about my pregnancy and as aware that her husband spends

919
01:02:06,040 --> 01:02:10,880
Speaker 1: time with our son. But she's not. But she will

920
01:02:10,920 --> 01:02:13,000
Speaker 1: not leave him now. Surely said it best. And I

921
01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:16,840
Speaker 1: hadn't thought of this. This is revenge. Oh no, no, no, no, no,

922
01:02:17,160 --> 01:02:18,960
Speaker 1: I'm in this mass. I'm gonna make you wallow in

923
01:02:19,040 --> 01:02:20,720
Speaker 1: it with me. So I didn't even know that, But

924
01:02:20,840 --> 01:02:25,400
Speaker 1: women are capable of it. I'm leaving, I'm bouncing. We're

925
01:02:25,400 --> 01:02:27,880
Speaker 1: gonna do revenge somewhere else. We're nothing to sit up

926
01:02:27,880 --> 01:02:30,840
Speaker 1: in here. But Shirley made a valid point. He said

927
01:02:30,880 --> 01:02:33,040
Speaker 1: he's staying because of the kids, and she will drag

928
01:02:33,160 --> 01:02:35,360
Speaker 1: him through the mud if he leaves. Wait a minute,

929
01:02:35,440 --> 01:02:38,000
Speaker 1: let me explain something to you. He already in the mud.

930
01:02:40,280 --> 01:02:44,040
Speaker 1: It can't get any muddy earth now she will tell

931
01:02:44,080 --> 01:02:49,040
Speaker 1: his job and all this hell. But now she gonna

932
01:02:49,080 --> 01:02:51,320
Speaker 1: drag him through the mud. She giving this band hell.

933
01:02:51,480 --> 01:02:54,200
Speaker 1: I want you to understand it. I really truly love

934
01:02:54,320 --> 01:02:58,080
Speaker 1: this man. He's met my parents, my siblings, all my friends.

935
01:02:58,400 --> 01:03:00,760
Speaker 1: Everyone knows he's married, but no one makes a big

936
01:03:01,160 --> 01:03:03,080
Speaker 1: deal out of it. You know why they don't make

937
01:03:03,120 --> 01:03:07,320
Speaker 1: a big deal out of it because you don't don't see.

938
01:03:07,400 --> 01:03:09,920
Speaker 1: You cool with stupid and they cool with you. So

939
01:03:10,080 --> 01:03:12,400
Speaker 1: if you cool and stuck on stupid, then we cool

940
01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:16,280
Speaker 1: being stuck on stupid for you whatever, that ain't what

941
01:03:16,560 --> 01:03:19,720
Speaker 1: you like that everybody day. Don't make no big deal

942
01:03:19,800 --> 01:03:24,360
Speaker 1: out of it, Lady. I had to threaten him a

943
01:03:24,440 --> 01:03:27,080
Speaker 1: child support to make him step up financially provide for

944
01:03:27,200 --> 01:03:30,200
Speaker 1: me and my son. He has put our son on

945
01:03:30,320 --> 01:03:34,440
Speaker 1: his insurance at work as his third child. Nothing now here, depart.

946
01:03:34,920 --> 01:03:37,120
Speaker 1: Nothing I ever do to this man has made him

947
01:03:37,160 --> 01:03:39,560
Speaker 1: angry enough to cut ties with me. So I really

948
01:03:39,640 --> 01:03:42,200
Speaker 1: feel he loves me. So I know what you did.

949
01:03:42,400 --> 01:03:45,880
Speaker 1: I'll tell you that in a second. Now he does

950
01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:48,439
Speaker 1: love you. You can be in love with two people,

951
01:03:49,120 --> 01:03:52,360
Speaker 1: but he ain't leaving his wife. Though I do want more,

952
01:03:52,800 --> 01:03:56,720
Speaker 1: and I have expressed that to him, So, and what

953
01:03:56,800 --> 01:04:02,120
Speaker 1: do you do bout it? Not? So I do want

954
01:04:02,200 --> 01:04:07,280
Speaker 1: more to expressed that to him again? So you're through

955
01:04:07,360 --> 01:04:12,160
Speaker 1: express it. I'm fitting to go home, but he says

956
01:04:12,200 --> 01:04:16,760
Speaker 1: he has too many obligations at home. Yeah, a wife

957
01:04:16,920 --> 01:04:21,080
Speaker 1: and two children. I feel like I have a boyfriend

958
01:04:21,120 --> 01:04:23,480
Speaker 1: and everything is fine until the reality sets in and

959
01:04:23,560 --> 01:04:25,240
Speaker 1: he leaves me to go to his wife and his

960
01:04:25,400 --> 01:04:28,880
Speaker 1: other life. I'm sure his wife knows why I live,

961
01:04:28,960 --> 01:04:31,280
Speaker 1: but I don't understand why she's never acted out over

962
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:35,120
Speaker 1: what I've done. Let's go back to this line right here.

963
01:04:36,080 --> 01:04:38,280
Speaker 1: Nothing I ever do to this man has made him

964
01:04:38,320 --> 01:04:40,320
Speaker 1: angry enough to cut ties with me, So I really

965
01:04:40,400 --> 01:04:43,280
Speaker 1: feel like he loves me. I'm sure his wife knows

966
01:04:43,360 --> 01:04:45,360
Speaker 1: why I live, but I don't understand why she's never

967
01:04:45,480 --> 01:04:49,120
Speaker 1: acted out over what I've done. Because you've tried to

968
01:04:49,240 --> 01:04:54,120
Speaker 1: ruin them, and now she ain't gonna let you again,

969
01:04:54,280 --> 01:04:57,360
Speaker 1: going back to what Shirley said, this is revenge. Oh,

970
01:04:57,520 --> 01:04:59,680
Speaker 1: so you're gonna ruin me? You ain't fit to have him.

971
01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:02,120
Speaker 1: I just hold on to this regtive mess. Why I

972
01:05:02,200 --> 01:05:05,880
Speaker 1: give you anything? So now you can't win? He and

973
01:05:05,960 --> 01:05:08,640
Speaker 1: I will be connected forever because of our son. But

974
01:05:08,760 --> 01:05:12,280
Speaker 1: I want him all to myself. Wait a minute. He

975
01:05:12,440 --> 01:05:16,360
Speaker 1: has a wife and a family, and you cheated on

976
01:05:16,680 --> 01:05:21,160
Speaker 1: your family with this man, and you're still cheating with

977
01:05:21,320 --> 01:05:24,760
Speaker 1: the man, this man and his family, and you want

978
01:05:24,880 --> 01:05:28,160
Speaker 1: him all to yourself. How do you keep thinking something right?

979
01:05:28,240 --> 01:05:30,480
Speaker 1: It's fend to come out of all this wrong you've

980
01:05:30,520 --> 01:05:34,080
Speaker 1: been doing for all these years. I'm getting too old

981
01:05:34,160 --> 01:05:36,480
Speaker 1: for this back and forth and he is too He

982
01:05:36,760 --> 01:05:41,440
Speaker 1: too old for this? Do I give him an ultimatum?

983
01:05:42,080 --> 01:05:44,120
Speaker 1: Or would that be selfish of me? Hold on, let

984
01:05:44,200 --> 01:05:46,880
Speaker 1: me ask you something. What ultimatum you talking about? What

985
01:05:47,000 --> 01:05:51,840
Speaker 1: you're finding threatening with? Oh? Oh oh, let me see

986
01:05:51,880 --> 01:05:53,560
Speaker 1: what what're you gonna do? Oh you're gonna tell his

987
01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:58,760
Speaker 1: wife about y'all. Oh, you're gonna call down on the

988
01:05:58,840 --> 01:06:00,720
Speaker 1: job and tell him he got a baby out of where? Like?

989
01:06:00,920 --> 01:06:05,280
Speaker 1: Do you talk about the baby lady put on his insurance? What? What? What? What? What?

990
01:06:05,760 --> 01:06:10,360
Speaker 1: What ultimatum threatened do you have? You ain't got nothing?

991
01:06:11,080 --> 01:06:14,320
Speaker 1: What if she says I'm going to leave you? But

992
01:06:14,480 --> 01:06:18,600
Speaker 1: she ain't going Nowhere's she's really not. She just set

993
01:06:18,680 --> 01:06:25,160
Speaker 1: herself up to state she going where with who? Man?

994
01:06:25,240 --> 01:06:28,440
Speaker 1: This man no, she ain't going nowhere. You have no ultimatum.

995
01:06:28,760 --> 01:06:31,240
Speaker 1: The best thing, and let me tell you something else, lady,

996
01:06:31,560 --> 01:06:34,760
Speaker 1: you will never have a man of your own ever.

997
01:06:35,360 --> 01:06:40,440
Speaker 1: Not doing this, you have doomed yourself to a lonely life, sister,

998
01:06:40,600 --> 01:06:44,680
Speaker 1: unless you change your ways. You gotta just realize it's

999
01:06:44,680 --> 01:06:47,480
Speaker 1: a mistaken ask for forgiveness and get up and try again.

1000
01:06:47,680 --> 01:06:50,400
Speaker 1: That's the only thing I got for you. Leave them alone,

1001
01:06:50,800 --> 01:06:53,120
Speaker 1: all right? Thank you? Steve. Post your comments on today's

1002
01:06:53,120 --> 01:06:56,560
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. It's Steve HARBFM on Instagram and Facebook. Check

1003
01:06:56,600 --> 01:06:59,640
Speaker 1: out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. They're coming up

1004
01:06:59,680 --> 01:07:02,680
Speaker 1: at four six minutes after Junior in Sports Talk right

1005
01:07:02,760 --> 01:07:08,040
Speaker 1: after this you're listening to show. There we go. Time

1006
01:07:08,080 --> 01:07:10,920
Speaker 1: now for Junior and Sports Talk. What you got Junior

1007
01:07:11,360 --> 01:07:15,439
Speaker 1: before we shut it? Now, we're in the NBA Finals. Yes, yeah,

1008
01:07:15,680 --> 01:07:20,200
Speaker 1: last night okay, Phoenix Suns Milwaukee Bucks score one twenty

1009
01:07:20,320 --> 01:07:23,320
Speaker 1: to one hundred Bucks win. Series is tied to two

1010
01:07:23,360 --> 01:07:25,760
Speaker 1: one now Phoenix took the first two games. It's third

1011
01:07:25,800 --> 01:07:28,439
Speaker 1: game at first home game in Milwaukee's eifitted their home court.

1012
01:07:28,760 --> 01:07:30,760
Speaker 1: So up the question we got on the table now

1013
01:07:31,120 --> 01:07:34,960
Speaker 1: we're only rooting for Chris Paul. How many games I'm

1014
01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:39,160
Speaker 1: pulling for Chris Paul. I think Milwaukee is gonna win

1015
01:07:39,320 --> 01:07:44,080
Speaker 1: a minimum of two of them in Milwaukee. If they

1016
01:07:44,200 --> 01:07:47,200
Speaker 1: win three, it'll be three two and they're gonna go

1017
01:07:47,320 --> 01:07:51,960
Speaker 1: to Phoenix. Yeah. Yes, I'm just pulling for Chris Paul. Man,

1018
01:07:52,040 --> 01:07:54,680
Speaker 1: I want Chris Paul to win. I thought it was

1019
01:07:54,760 --> 01:07:59,919
Speaker 1: gonna be a tough series the way they played tonight

1020
01:08:00,280 --> 01:08:03,360
Speaker 1: and the last night, and the Bucks didn't shoot Wale

1021
01:08:03,520 --> 01:08:06,280
Speaker 1: last night and they came out of that. But then

1022
01:08:06,440 --> 01:08:09,520
Speaker 1: Devin didn't play his best game either. He did, he didn't.

1023
01:08:09,760 --> 01:08:11,880
Speaker 1: He didn't play his best game. But I gotta say

1024
01:08:12,280 --> 01:08:15,040
Speaker 1: Yannis is probably the big man in the entire NBA.

1025
01:08:15,280 --> 01:08:18,240
Speaker 1: He had he was thirteen or seventeen from the field.

1026
01:08:18,800 --> 01:08:21,360
Speaker 1: All his points came at the basket. Yeah, you got

1027
01:08:21,439 --> 01:08:23,519
Speaker 1: only seven foots at the three point list. He not

1028
01:08:23,680 --> 01:08:26,840
Speaker 1: out there. He is not out there. He at the rim,

1029
01:08:27,240 --> 01:08:30,879
Speaker 1: dunk every chance he gets. That's what I like about Yannis.

1030
01:08:31,160 --> 01:08:34,160
Speaker 1: I don't want to shoot, I want to dunk. Okay,

1031
01:08:35,439 --> 01:08:38,080
Speaker 1: that's what he did, man. So I'm excited for that series. Uh.

1032
01:08:38,479 --> 01:08:41,080
Speaker 1: And then I don't know if y'all saw this, Jay Tommy.

1033
01:08:41,080 --> 01:08:44,800
Speaker 1: I don't know if y'all saw the fight, but Justina

1034
01:08:45,600 --> 01:08:48,880
Speaker 1: saw that. Did you saw that up? I don't know

1035
01:08:49,439 --> 01:08:51,519
Speaker 1: what in the world I was looking at. When I

1036
01:08:51,600 --> 01:08:54,439
Speaker 1: was looking at Conor McGregor leg, he broke his ankle

1037
01:08:54,640 --> 01:09:00,599
Speaker 1: looked like more like a similar the ain't everything ankle? Yeah,

1038
01:09:01,040 --> 01:09:04,360
Speaker 1: ji jiji? When did you see him standing up on

1039
01:09:04,840 --> 01:09:07,880
Speaker 1: He had to quit that No, no, no, Junior, when

1040
01:09:07,960 --> 01:09:12,040
Speaker 1: he stepped backwards, Yeah, that leg popped. Yeah, he said

1041
01:09:12,120 --> 01:09:16,880
Speaker 1: his ass down. He didn't get no, no, no standing

1042
01:09:16,960 --> 01:09:21,520
Speaker 1: up on that dog that. I've never seen a nartell.

1043
01:09:21,640 --> 01:09:23,479
Speaker 1: You gotta be you gotta be a tough guy to

1044
01:09:23,600 --> 01:09:25,640
Speaker 1: do go go through something like that time. Have you

1045
01:09:25,720 --> 01:09:29,160
Speaker 1: seen his leg? Man to like a twig when he snapped,

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01:09:30,080 --> 01:09:33,920
Speaker 1: I saw it. I didn't like his reaction afterwards, what

1047
01:09:34,120 --> 01:09:36,920
Speaker 1: he was saying the poor about his wife while he

1048
01:09:37,040 --> 01:09:38,800
Speaker 1: was walking out the ring. I went over there and

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01:09:38,880 --> 01:09:43,000
Speaker 1: stomped him in his head with it broke lay. I

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01:09:43,080 --> 01:09:49,519
Speaker 1: couldn't can't say it. Oh, I was like that, Yeah,

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01:09:49,920 --> 01:09:52,720
Speaker 1: it wasn't It was nice. So they probably gonna have

1052
01:09:52,760 --> 01:09:54,519
Speaker 1: another fight, is what they were saying, that they want

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01:09:54,560 --> 01:10:00,800
Speaker 1: to have another fight. This would be number four oh man,

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01:10:00,960 --> 01:10:05,120
Speaker 1: that's all. I don't think Connor McGregor could beat this kid, though,

1055
01:10:05,520 --> 01:10:08,200
Speaker 1: and let it go, Let it go, this Louisia and

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01:10:08,280 --> 01:10:10,679
Speaker 1: a boy. I don't think he can beat this kid.

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01:10:11,800 --> 01:10:14,960
Speaker 1: All right, Junior, thank you? Coming up this j Anthony

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Speaker 1: Brown's comedy Roulette right after this you're listening, all right, guys,

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Speaker 1: here we are. It is time for today's comedy roulette. Jay,

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01:10:27,320 --> 01:10:30,760
Speaker 1: please set it up for us. Here's how we do it,

1061
01:10:30,800 --> 01:10:33,040
Speaker 1: because we know how to do it. Take three subjects.

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01:10:33,080 --> 01:10:36,439
Speaker 1: Put him on a wheel, spun the wheel around, wedge stop,

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01:10:36,880 --> 01:10:40,439
Speaker 1: we'll do the damn thing. Put him up in spinish

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01:10:40,520 --> 01:10:44,599
Speaker 1: let me here, all right. Today's categories are things people

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01:10:44,720 --> 01:10:50,479
Speaker 1: whisper in church. Ways you describe someone for from outer space?

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01:10:53,920 --> 01:10:57,320
Speaker 1: Let me read that one again. Ways you describe someone

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01:10:57,920 --> 01:11:05,000
Speaker 1: from outer space. That's what we doing. Stuff kids say

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01:11:05,240 --> 01:11:09,200
Speaker 1: when they want you to babysit, and then stuff kids

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01:11:09,240 --> 01:11:11,800
Speaker 1: say when they want you to babysit. All right, got

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01:11:11,880 --> 01:11:20,040
Speaker 1: him spend the wheel? Yeah, whis to be interesting? Yeah?

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01:11:20,120 --> 01:11:29,600
Speaker 1: Really out of space aliens? Oh okay, just missed it.

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01:11:30,040 --> 01:11:35,080
Speaker 1: It's things people whisper in church. Let's go there, we

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01:11:35,200 --> 01:11:39,040
Speaker 1: go comedy roulette. Things people whisper in church. Now, she

1074
01:11:39,200 --> 01:11:44,120
Speaker 1: know that hat is just too damn big. Seriously, nobody

1075
01:11:44,200 --> 01:11:50,720
Speaker 1: on this rope can see a damn all right, James,

1076
01:11:50,800 --> 01:11:53,840
Speaker 1: when we're doing things. People whisper in church? Okay, Um,

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01:11:54,240 --> 01:11:55,760
Speaker 1: I don't know why I passed. Act like he only

1078
01:11:55,800 --> 01:11:57,880
Speaker 1: want to hear the word from God. I heard one too,

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01:11:58,120 --> 01:12:05,240
Speaker 1: Sit down, wrap it up, cut your mic on from me.

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01:12:05,880 --> 01:12:11,559
Speaker 1: Oh damn you, I've been talking ten minutes ago. Y'all

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01:12:11,600 --> 01:12:20,120
Speaker 1: don't hear what happened. Things people whispering church. You know,

1082
01:12:20,479 --> 01:12:22,200
Speaker 1: you know why she laid getting to the choients thing,

1083
01:12:22,200 --> 01:12:24,479
Speaker 1: because you're always in the studies with pastor. That's what

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01:12:24,600 --> 01:12:29,360
Speaker 1: they'd be doing. They fast study, That's what they be

1085
01:12:29,479 --> 01:12:45,439
Speaker 1: doing church, big dog, Julia, Julia, what's the school? I

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01:12:45,640 --> 01:12:56,080
Speaker 1: love it? Church? People whispering ship in church. That old

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01:12:56,160 --> 01:12:59,679
Speaker 1: lady hit that tamarine one more damn time, one more

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01:12:59,800 --> 01:13:08,880
Speaker 1: damn yeah, things people say in church. I see they

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01:13:08,960 --> 01:13:18,360
Speaker 1: got Satan attendant service this morning. Right, thanks, people whisper

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01:13:18,520 --> 01:13:21,800
Speaker 1: in church. He gonna be another damn pass me that

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01:13:22,000 --> 01:13:26,040
Speaker 1: plast you got in your prayers? A little knel part

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01:13:26,080 --> 01:13:33,479
Speaker 1: of that. I just need a little kneels. People whisper

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01:13:33,680 --> 01:13:43,400
Speaker 1: in church, Junior, I ain't won't say nothing. He really

1094
01:13:43,520 --> 01:13:55,560
Speaker 1: can't preach a conversation that thinks people whispering church. You know,

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01:13:55,720 --> 01:13:59,280
Speaker 1: praise dancers ain't in the Bible. Nowhere in the Bible,

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01:13:59,600 --> 01:14:08,840
Speaker 1: no praise the Lord in the dance. All right, things

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01:14:08,920 --> 01:14:12,160
Speaker 1: people say at church, whispering church. We all know he

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01:14:12,240 --> 01:14:14,360
Speaker 1: got new danches. He ain't got to smile that damn much.

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01:14:15,760 --> 01:14:21,519
Speaker 1: It's new grill. Is she coming all in? Kid? You

1100
01:14:21,640 --> 01:14:23,800
Speaker 1: know that little one that blowing her brother Edward? You

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01:14:23,960 --> 01:14:34,759
Speaker 1: know that looks just like them things people whisper in church.

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01:14:35,479 --> 01:14:42,599
Speaker 1: Close it up, Julia, what Junior? Yeah, I s want

1103
01:14:42,600 --> 01:14:52,799
Speaker 1: to hit that least single dog. I've heard that one before.

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Speaker 1: All right, thank you, guys. That's comedy re lette, Ladies

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Speaker 1: and gentlemen. More of today's trending stories on the Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show coming up at twenty minutes after. Right

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Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the seven Show. Well, Steve,

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01:15:11,880 --> 01:15:16,160
Speaker 1: seventy year old billionaire Richard Branson has made history. You

1109
01:15:16,240 --> 01:15:21,360
Speaker 1: know it was yesterday when he was in space aboard

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Speaker 1: his very own spacecraft. Okay, yeah, it was a winged

1111
01:15:26,439 --> 01:15:30,920
Speaker 1: aircraft with a single rocket motor, so Branson and his

1112
01:15:31,080 --> 01:15:34,680
Speaker 1: five crew mates took off above New Mexico and experienced

1113
01:15:34,760 --> 01:15:37,120
Speaker 1: three to four minutes in space, and then the crew

1114
01:15:37,240 --> 01:15:40,880
Speaker 1: returned safely to Earth just over an hour after leaving

1115
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Speaker 1: the ground. So now there are more discussions about space tourism.

1116
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Speaker 1: Would you guys, would you guys, would you do with Steve?

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01:15:47,680 --> 01:15:51,760
Speaker 1: Would you go to space? No? No, I just like

1118
01:15:51,960 --> 01:16:01,200
Speaker 1: flying to what I want to fly on Earth. Ask

1119
01:16:01,280 --> 01:16:05,240
Speaker 1: for people that that need to seek challenges and new horizons.

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01:16:05,640 --> 01:16:09,080
Speaker 1: I'm still trying to get treated equally in this country

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01:16:09,120 --> 01:16:12,080
Speaker 1: we got. That's all I'm trying to do. Damn, just

1122
01:16:12,360 --> 01:16:14,720
Speaker 1: treat us the way we're supposed to be treated. I

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Speaker 1: ain't got to go to the Moon and nothing else

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01:16:16,320 --> 01:16:18,320
Speaker 1: because they don't telling how they're gonna treat us up there.

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01:16:19,080 --> 01:16:25,559
Speaker 1: It's better Mike might not. Why would I want up

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01:16:25,600 --> 01:16:35,559
Speaker 1: there too? Right? A great point, Steve, They're gonna stay

1127
01:16:35,600 --> 01:16:37,120
Speaker 1: down here and just we can go up there and

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01:16:37,160 --> 01:16:41,920
Speaker 1: meet the Martians and see how they are. They probably

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01:16:42,000 --> 01:16:44,240
Speaker 1: don't like black people either, though, so I'm not gonna

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01:16:44,280 --> 01:16:48,840
Speaker 1: stay here. They hate It's real, all right. More of

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty three

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Speaker 1: minutes after right after this, you're listening to show well,

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01:16:56,760 --> 01:17:01,080
Speaker 1: the most adorable grandma is going viral for a wedding

1134
01:17:01,200 --> 01:17:05,360
Speaker 1: dress experience. It all started after Erica Tucker shared on

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01:17:05,560 --> 01:17:09,120
Speaker 1: Facebook that her ninety four year old grandmother, Miss Martha

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01:17:09,200 --> 01:17:14,200
Speaker 1: may Orphelia Tucker, from Alabama, didn't have her traditional wedding

1137
01:17:14,680 --> 01:17:16,800
Speaker 1: and that she wanted to try on a wedding dress.

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01:17:17,400 --> 01:17:20,439
Speaker 1: Miss Tucker was watching Coming to America with her grandmother

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01:17:20,520 --> 01:17:23,960
Speaker 1: and during the wedding scene, her grandmother her granddaughter overheard

1140
01:17:24,000 --> 01:17:28,080
Speaker 1: her say, I've always wanted to try on a wedding dress. See.

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01:17:28,160 --> 01:17:31,280
Speaker 1: Miss Tucker got married back in nineteen fifty two, and

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01:17:31,479 --> 01:17:34,200
Speaker 1: back then it was a time when black women were

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01:17:34,320 --> 01:17:38,280
Speaker 1: not allowed in bridal shops, so she never got to

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Speaker 1: experience the thrill of trying on wedding gowns while the

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01:17:42,040 --> 01:17:46,639
Speaker 1: family planned a surprise fitting. And she was a beautiful bride,

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01:17:46,840 --> 01:17:50,240
Speaker 1: Erica wrote, along with video footage of her grandmother trying

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01:17:50,360 --> 01:17:54,519
Speaker 1: on dresses. Now, since becoming a viral sensation, Miss Tucker

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01:17:54,720 --> 01:17:57,720
Speaker 1: is loving all of the attention and if you've seen her,

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01:17:57,880 --> 01:18:01,280
Speaker 1: she's just as cute as pie, just beautiful in this

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01:18:01,439 --> 01:18:05,680
Speaker 1: wedding dress. And now Erica says, all Missus Tucker is

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01:18:05,720 --> 01:18:09,759
Speaker 1: waiting for now is for Steve Harvey or Tyler Perry

1152
01:18:10,040 --> 01:18:15,799
Speaker 1: to give her a shout out. Tata Steve. What's her names?

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01:18:16,400 --> 01:18:20,160
Speaker 1: Missus Martha May or Phelia Tucker. She's ninety four years old.

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01:18:20,960 --> 01:18:27,639
Speaker 1: Missus Martha, Ophelia Tucker, Martha May. I want to say,

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01:18:28,000 --> 01:18:33,320
Speaker 1: from the bottom of my heart, congratulations. This is a

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01:18:33,479 --> 01:18:38,920
Speaker 1: shout out from your boy on family. Few keys a

1157
01:18:39,080 --> 01:18:42,120
Speaker 1: commented and bought it through it. I want to say

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01:18:42,200 --> 01:18:45,080
Speaker 1: big shout out to you. Look absolutely wonderful. I did

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01:18:45,240 --> 01:18:51,240
Speaker 1: see the picture. You look stunning. Congratulations. Waiting all them

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01:18:51,320 --> 01:18:53,560
Speaker 1: years for them no good people that wouldn't let you

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01:18:53,640 --> 01:18:56,880
Speaker 1: in that bridle boutique to try on the dress. Now

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01:18:56,920 --> 01:19:01,120
Speaker 1: we got money for all kind of dress it Yeah

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01:19:01,880 --> 01:19:07,280
Speaker 1: mmmm yes, ma'am so beautiful to fly her down to

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01:19:07,400 --> 01:19:10,760
Speaker 1: whatever browdle boutique she ever want to go in and

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01:19:12,800 --> 01:19:21,240
Speaker 1: every dress keep yeah which champagne? Yeah? So Steve, you

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01:19:21,360 --> 01:19:25,720
Speaker 1: made her day. Yeah. Well, well, let's just hope to

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01:19:25,760 --> 01:19:30,000
Speaker 1: shout out get to her. You know she put it

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01:19:30,080 --> 01:19:34,639
Speaker 1: out there. It's gonna come back, you know that. All right, Well,

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Speaker 1: congratulations again, missus Tucker ninety four years old and still

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01:19:39,400 --> 01:19:42,920
Speaker 1: just beautiful as ever. All right. In other entertainment news,

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Speaker 1: que couple alert, guys, check this out. Martin Lawrence's daughter,

1172
01:19:47,600 --> 01:19:54,479
Speaker 1: Jasmine Lawrence is dating Eddie Murphy's son Eric Murphy. Talk

1173
01:19:54,520 --> 01:20:01,560
Speaker 1: about Hamedy Royalty right there. That's so cute. That is

1174
01:20:01,640 --> 01:20:06,720
Speaker 1: really cute. Coming up, it is our last break of

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01:20:06,880 --> 01:20:09,960
Speaker 1: the day. It is the last break of the day.

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Speaker 1: That's right, Jay, And we'll also have some closing remarks

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01:20:14,720 --> 01:20:17,080
Speaker 1: at forty nine minutes after from the one and only,

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Speaker 1: our fearless leader, Steve Harvey. Right after this you're listening

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01:20:23,200 --> 01:20:27,719
Speaker 1: to all right, guys, here we are our last break

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01:20:27,840 --> 01:20:32,720
Speaker 1: of the day on this Monday. Absolutely. Yeah, it's been

1181
01:20:32,760 --> 01:20:36,160
Speaker 1: a good day. It's been a good day. Started a

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01:20:36,240 --> 01:20:39,519
Speaker 1: brand new week. Yeah. Back from vacation. A lot of

1183
01:20:39,600 --> 01:20:44,400
Speaker 1: things going on, of course, And Steve, what you got

1184
01:20:44,479 --> 01:20:47,320
Speaker 1: for us, I don't know, you know, I was pondering

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01:20:47,400 --> 01:20:49,560
Speaker 1: a couple of things because I was on break and

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01:20:49,640 --> 01:20:53,760
Speaker 1: I've been doing my meditation most mornings. I've missed a

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01:20:53,840 --> 01:20:58,240
Speaker 1: few because you know, had company over and everything, you know,

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01:20:59,560 --> 01:21:04,120
Speaker 1: but I'll i've been I've been paying attention closely about

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01:21:06,439 --> 01:21:10,320
Speaker 1: my spiritual relationship. And you know, I've never really been

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Speaker 1: one to tell a person which faith to choose. That's

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01:21:13,960 --> 01:21:16,000
Speaker 1: that's not my business. I don't you know, it's not

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01:21:16,160 --> 01:21:19,680
Speaker 1: my job. Whatever your faith is, it's fine with me.

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01:21:19,880 --> 01:21:25,160
Speaker 1: You know, Jehovah, witness, you seven day of nas you Catholic, you,

1194
01:21:26,320 --> 01:21:30,680
Speaker 1: you know, whatever, you know, Muslim, all all of it

1195
01:21:30,960 --> 01:21:33,160
Speaker 1: is about faith. You know, the which day you go

1196
01:21:33,280 --> 01:21:38,880
Speaker 1: down there in worship Jewish, which you observed Friday, Saturday, Sunday, whatever,

1197
01:21:39,120 --> 01:21:41,600
Speaker 1: you know, it's the observance that matters to most. To me,

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01:21:43,880 --> 01:21:47,080
Speaker 1: I was talking to a young person about faith and

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Speaker 1: they were explaining to me how mister Harvey, I've heard

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01:21:51,640 --> 01:21:56,559
Speaker 1: you talk about faith, but I was thinking there's more

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01:21:56,680 --> 01:22:02,160
Speaker 1: work related. I said, well, it's definitely work related, young man,

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01:22:02,840 --> 01:22:10,439
Speaker 1: because faith without works is dead. But work without faith,

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01:22:12,600 --> 01:22:16,120
Speaker 1: I don't know how that works either. See, faith without

1204
01:22:16,200 --> 01:22:20,080
Speaker 1: works is dead. So once you do that, you can

1205
01:22:20,160 --> 01:22:23,519
Speaker 1: flip that easily and assume that the one without the

1206
01:22:23,600 --> 01:22:26,760
Speaker 1: other is no good. That's what it actually means to me.

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01:22:26,880 --> 01:22:30,679
Speaker 1: Faith without works is dead. You need them both one.

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01:22:31,080 --> 01:22:33,800
Speaker 1: If any part of that equation is missing, it won't

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01:22:33,840 --> 01:22:37,479
Speaker 1: be successful. A times be equals c Now, if you

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01:22:37,520 --> 01:22:39,320
Speaker 1: don't want to throw the being that you ain't gonna

1211
01:22:39,320 --> 01:22:42,640
Speaker 1: get to see, you know, it's just it's just the equation.

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01:22:43,360 --> 01:22:46,479
Speaker 1: But the young man went on to tell me, he said, well,

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01:22:46,520 --> 01:22:51,639
Speaker 1: I think it's more work than it is faith. I said, well, son,

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01:22:51,760 --> 01:22:55,680
Speaker 1: I don't understand why you're saying that, because you can

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01:22:55,760 --> 01:22:58,880
Speaker 1: work really, really hard. But let's just say you start

1216
01:22:59,000 --> 01:23:06,719
Speaker 1: to lose faith. What is the motivation to work harder

1217
01:23:08,400 --> 01:23:12,879
Speaker 1: if you've lost the faith? Because faith is the belief

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01:23:13,200 --> 01:23:16,320
Speaker 1: in things that you cannot see. And if you do

1219
01:23:16,560 --> 01:23:20,640
Speaker 1: not maintain your faith, that is strictly the belief in

1220
01:23:20,760 --> 01:23:23,960
Speaker 1: things that you cannot see, what are you working for?

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01:23:24,960 --> 01:23:26,760
Speaker 1: And the back and forth with this young man was

1222
01:23:26,800 --> 01:23:30,519
Speaker 1: really interesting because he was trying to make one more

1223
01:23:30,640 --> 01:23:33,639
Speaker 1: significant than the other. And the message that I'm trying

1224
01:23:33,680 --> 01:23:36,839
Speaker 1: to get through to day, to him and to anybody listening,

1225
01:23:37,960 --> 01:23:40,800
Speaker 1: you need them both. You're not going to make it

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01:23:40,920 --> 01:23:45,320
Speaker 1: without either one of them. Don't you understand that faith

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01:23:45,479 --> 01:23:48,400
Speaker 1: is such a key component in your spirituality. Faith that

1228
01:23:48,560 --> 01:23:51,439
Speaker 1: such a key component in your life. It's a very

1229
01:23:51,640 --> 01:23:55,320
Speaker 1: very daunting thing to do is to complete this thing

1230
01:23:55,400 --> 01:24:00,519
Speaker 1: called life successfully, and success has to be determined by you. Look.

1231
01:24:00,920 --> 01:24:04,000
Speaker 1: Success is not money or fame. Let's stop thinking that.

1232
01:24:04,520 --> 01:24:06,439
Speaker 1: I don't want you to think that. I'm preaching that

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01:24:06,640 --> 01:24:11,160
Speaker 1: to you. Success is living in your God given gift

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01:24:11,600 --> 01:24:15,719
Speaker 1: to your fullest. If your gift is teaching, you should

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01:24:15,760 --> 01:24:19,519
Speaker 1: be the best teacher that you can be. If nursing

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01:24:19,680 --> 01:24:22,519
Speaker 1: helping people is your gift, then you should be the

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01:24:22,600 --> 01:24:27,000
Speaker 1: best nurse and help people the best caregiver. If watching

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01:24:27,479 --> 01:24:30,960
Speaker 1: people's children daycare, if that's your gift, you should have

1239
01:24:31,120 --> 01:24:34,639
Speaker 1: the best possible daycare you could possibly have. I don't

1240
01:24:34,680 --> 01:24:37,720
Speaker 1: care what it is you're doing. That's what success is.

1241
01:24:37,800 --> 01:24:39,880
Speaker 1: It's not fame or money. I know a lot of

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01:24:39,960 --> 01:24:44,559
Speaker 1: people who are extremely wealthy and very unhappy people, very

1243
01:24:44,760 --> 01:24:48,800
Speaker 1: very unhappy. I know some people who make average incomes

1244
01:24:48,920 --> 01:24:51,439
Speaker 1: man and just as happy as they can be. Man.

1245
01:24:52,160 --> 01:24:54,519
Speaker 1: And you might not think that because you got more

1246
01:24:54,640 --> 01:24:56,320
Speaker 1: money and you think, man, I want this, this, this,

1247
01:24:56,479 --> 01:25:02,000
Speaker 1: and this. You're not them. You're not them. I had

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01:25:02,040 --> 01:25:05,560
Speaker 1: one of the best times of my adult male existence

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01:25:05,720 --> 01:25:11,080
Speaker 1: as a black man when I had thirteen of my

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Speaker 1: fraternity brothers come and visit me over the break and

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Speaker 1: to sit down with these men that I formed a

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Speaker 1: friendship with forty seven years ago. Forty seven years ago

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Speaker 1: we became friends and to still have that friendship. And

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Speaker 1: one of my friends was here that I've been friends

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Speaker 1: with sixty years. And to sit with them who knew

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Speaker 1: me long before I had become any of this, and

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Speaker 1: to exchange the stories and then remind me of things

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Speaker 1: that they have. They all had a special moment that

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Speaker 1: they remembered with me, and some of them I remember

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Speaker 1: that some of them they refreshed my memory for man.

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Speaker 1: To sit with them, I had the best time. And

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Speaker 1: they were some of the best men I've ever known. Man.

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Speaker 1: They just great dudes. Two of them have become pastors.

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Speaker 1: You know. They in the insurance business, They in the

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Speaker 1: trucking business, They in finance, they own digital companies. Man,

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Speaker 1: these guys man really really solid guys and they become

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Speaker 1: very successful within their gift. Now who's the most famous me?

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Speaker 1: But what they were. They taught me a lot about friendship.

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Speaker 1: They taught me a lot about love, They taught me

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Speaker 1: a lot about family. And I listened to their stories. Man,

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Speaker 1: I was so happy for them. But listen to me,

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Speaker 1: every last one of them. The common thread between all

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Speaker 1: of us was the measure of faith. We all consistently

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Speaker 1: talked about faith and how important faith was in our

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Speaker 1: journey to become who we all were today. Faith without

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Speaker 1: works is dead. Works without faith is dead. They go

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Speaker 1: hand end in hand, one without the other. En y'all

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Speaker 1: have a great thing. We'll see y'all tomorrow. Talk to God.

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