Speaker 1: Hey guys, Sunday Sampler Time.
Speaker 2: Maybe you hear something and you want to go subscribe
Speaker 2: to the episode. On The Bobbycast, I sat down with
Speaker 2: Drew Parker, singer songwriter. He had some huge success writing
Speaker 2: number one songs with Luke Combs, but now he's an
Speaker 2: artist himself, and he talks about how you know, he
Speaker 2: has a song and he was like, I'll give it
Speaker 2: to Morgan Wallen or Luke Combs or Nate Smith because
Speaker 2: they all want it. And then he's like, no, I
Speaker 2: want it, big risk, but he decided to keep it.
Speaker 3: He talks about that.
Speaker 2: On this week's episode of I Think What could be
Speaker 2: our newest podcast, Take This Personally, Morgan brought on holistic
Speaker 2: nutritionist Grace Terrell to help us understand the health industry better,
Speaker 2: which I obviously need to do, and to share what
Speaker 2: we should be doing to help our bodies heal and
Speaker 2: so check it out. We got four things with Amy
Speaker 2: Brown coming up, Sore Losers Movie, Mike's Podcast, but we'll
Speaker 2: start here. The clip from our newest Take This Personally
Speaker 2: with Morgan Hulsman.
Speaker 4: Personally with Morgan Heelsman.
Speaker 5: Grace, how are you doing today?
Speaker 6: I'm great?
Speaker 7: How are you.
Speaker 3: I'm good.
Speaker 5: I'm super excited to talk to you.
Speaker 8: I've been on my own holistic health journey for a
Speaker 8: little bit now and it's been a huge help in
Speaker 8: my life across the board. So I'm excited to have
Speaker 8: you on here and talk and hopefully help some other
Speaker 8: people get to that place in their life. Why is
Speaker 8: it more beneficial for us to focus on the overall
Speaker 8: health and wellness of our bodies rather than just I'm
Speaker 8: gonna go to the doctor, let me grab some medicine
Speaker 8: real quick, and I'll be better tomorrow. Why is this
Speaker 8: a better option for you long term?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I think it's the whole shift of preventative care
Speaker 7: versus a key care. Obviously, medicine is incredible and there
Speaker 7: are so many times that we need it, but we
Speaker 7: want to prevent needing medication as much as we possibly can,
Speaker 7: and so taking care of our bodies before they get
Speaker 7: to a point where we need that acute medical care
Speaker 7: is I think really really important.
Speaker 8: Is there any supplements or anything that you use that
Speaker 8: you encourage people to take. Yes, you can fix your
Speaker 8: diet and stuff, but are supplements another part of that
Speaker 8: journey along the line.
Speaker 7: It depends my whole approach is being as minimal as
Speaker 7: I can with supplementation and really focusing on the dietary component.
Speaker 7: But of course there are times when supplements are really
Speaker 7: really beneficial, like if you're trying to heal your gut
Speaker 7: at certain points, like a probiotic can be really beneficial,
Speaker 7: or all gluetamine to help seal the gut lining. But
Speaker 7: I think people overdo it with the supplements and they
Speaker 7: kind of go that route instead of making the maybe
Speaker 7: necessary shifts in their diet. They kind of bandid it
Speaker 7: with supplements. So I kind of try and dear people
Speaker 7: away from that. But supplements, yeah, they can be really
Speaker 7: really beneficial, but I think it depends on the individual.
Speaker 7: I mean there's certain things like I think most people
Speaker 7: could benefit from a little bit of magnesium because our
Speaker 7: soil is so depleted of it and so our produce
Speaker 7: doesn't get as much as it used to. In general,
Speaker 7: I think supplements are very very individual.
Speaker 9: I agree with that.
Speaker 6: I was just curious that was kind of part of
Speaker 6: the process too.
Speaker 8: And it's really easy to find things at the store
Speaker 8: and buy them because you heard or saw something online
Speaker 8: and you're.
Speaker 5: Let me put that in my body real quick.
Speaker 8: It may help if someone isn't focused on the overall
Speaker 8: health and the foods that they're putting into their bodies.
Speaker 8: What are some symptoms that they're probably dealing with and
Speaker 8: they just don't know what's related to that.
Speaker 7: Yeah, Well, I think a lot of people nowadays feel
Speaker 7: tired all the time. Maybe they're not managing their stress
Speaker 7: as best as they should. Bloating, digestive pains, maybe your
Speaker 7: hair is falling out. Maybe as a female, you have
Speaker 7: like really bad PMS. I would say like symptoms are
Speaker 7: the way they your body communicates to you. And I
Speaker 7: think nowadays we just move at such a fast pace
Speaker 7: just our lifestyles that we don't really pay attention to
Speaker 7: the things that our bodies are telling us, and we
Speaker 7: kind of just push them off as normal. Oh everyone
Speaker 7: just feels like they could sleep for fourteen hours a
Speaker 7: day and not have enough energy, you know. But really,
Speaker 7: like tuning in and paying attention to how our body
Speaker 7: might feel off is really really important because I think
Speaker 7: most people nowadays are kind of on autopilot and they
Speaker 7: don't realize how good they can actually feel. And it's
Speaker 7: all about like optimizing the way that you feel every day.
Speaker 7: When people start eating better and taking care of themselves
Speaker 7: and really like tuning into how their bodies feel. They
Speaker 7: notice a huge, huge difference with that.
Speaker 8: In talking about foods, you mentioned how to avoid process foods,
Speaker 8: paying attention to the outer rim when you go to
Speaker 8: grocery stores. Is there specific ingredients that we need to
Speaker 8: be looking for. I know a hot one that is
Speaker 8: talked about often is red dye. Is there others along
Speaker 8: that line? And what are some of those specific ingredients
Speaker 8: we should probably be paying attention to.
Speaker 7: Man, there's so many for what I deal with digestive issues,
Speaker 7: mostly the artificial sweeteners aerythritol, xylatol, superlose, those are huge ones.
Speaker 7: You'll find those in all the products that are like
Speaker 7: sugar free or keto, all the products that are marketed
Speaker 7: as being a healthier alternative have some of those artificial
Speaker 7: sweeteners that can cause a lot of digestive issues, loading,
Speaker 7: stomach cramps. And then canola oil the seed oils. Now
Speaker 7: I think is like a trend of people trying to
Speaker 7: avoid those which are in a lot of health foods
Speaker 7: as well. So yeah, I would say artificial sweeteners, seed oils,
Speaker 7: and then you want to look out for gums, but
Speaker 7: of course it depends on the severity of the issues.
Speaker 7: I think the easiest way to do it is just
Speaker 7: reduce the amount of processed foods that you're having and
Speaker 7: not pay too much attention to the specific ingredients. And
Speaker 7: I think that'll make a huge difference because you don't
Speaker 7: want to stress yourself out so much with having to
Speaker 7: learn about every single ingredient and what it's doing to
Speaker 7: your body.
Speaker 3: Let's talk music, because I got a lot of stuff
Speaker 3: to talk about.
Speaker 2: What do you want to do first? You want to
Speaker 2: do the greatest hits? What are you want to do?
Speaker 3: You? This is the greatest hits.
Speaker 2: Okay, got a Grammy nominee nomination for doing this with
Speaker 2: Luke Combs and you guys met back like Rome.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we met in a bar in Rome, Georgia, Georgia.
Speaker 1: Was he playing the bar?
Speaker 3: He was? I was opening. I got a call, like
Speaker 3: on a Friday afternoon from the promoter. It's like, hey,
Speaker 3: my opener backed out. I'll pay you a hundred bucks
Speaker 3: to come up here. I was like, yeah, who am
Speaker 3: I opening for? He was like, well, it's this new
Speaker 3: guy that just like moved to Nashville. His name's Luke Combs.
Speaker 3: And I was like, okay, cool. I didn't know who
Speaker 3: Luke was at the time, but we opened that show
Speaker 3: that night and we just hit it off, and he
Speaker 3: was like, man, I just moved to Nashville. You should
Speaker 3: come up there and let's write songs. And I had
Speaker 3: never written a song before, and I was but I
Speaker 3: was like, well, this seems like my ticket to Nashville
Speaker 3: because I'd always wanted to go. I was like, this
Speaker 3: seems like my ticket. So I was like absolutely. So
Speaker 3: for the next time months, I drove back and forth
Speaker 3: from Georgia to Nashville and wrote songs.
Speaker 1: What was that drive?
Speaker 3: Three hundred miles? Did you have a normal job? I did?
Speaker 3: I have a degree in radiology.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 3: So that nine months, I like was sending like resumes
Speaker 3: to try to get a job at a hospital up here,
Speaker 3: and it took nine months, but I finally did. And
Speaker 3: then that's when I moved.
Speaker 2: I think, if I'm doing my research here, you have,
Speaker 2: as far as radiologists go, the biggest truck ever, any
Speaker 2: radiologist ever, large radiologist truck.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Why did you go into radiology?
Speaker 3: It was so I did like joint enrollment, like my
Speaker 3: junior senior high school, which was like half college half
Speaker 3: high school credits or whatever was it?
Speaker 9: Because you were still ahead.
Speaker 3: I mean it's okay, I think, well, I really don't remember.
Speaker 1: I think so.
Speaker 3: But it allowed for me to have this opportunity to
Speaker 3: be able to go, you know, take two classes at
Speaker 3: the college, the local community college in Covington. So when
Speaker 3: I got out, I had this plan that I was
Speaker 3: going to go play music. Moved to Nashville one day,
Speaker 3: so I like kind of looked into what are the
Speaker 3: credits that I've earned at this point that I can
Speaker 3: get through something quickly? Right when like radiology was like
Speaker 3: one of the ones that popped up. Were you interested
Speaker 3: in that? Did you know really what it was? I
Speaker 3: liked the medical field. I thought it was like an
Speaker 3: easy place to get a job. I mean, my whole
Speaker 3: plan was to wind up here in the music business.
Speaker 3: What was going to get me their quick, quickest and
Speaker 3: helped me pay my rent.
Speaker 2: Only person that's ever come in too, said the medical
Speaker 2: industry is what was going to get me to Nashville
Speaker 2: to write song. You're the only person that's ever happened
Speaker 2: probably so so.
Speaker 1: And you did that. You did radiology for a little bit.
Speaker 3: I did so I got here in twenty fifteen and
Speaker 3: worked at a hospital in Nashville, and I worked there
Speaker 3: until the week I had my first number one in
Speaker 3: twenty twenty. That's a wild story that's extremely versatile of you. Ye,
Speaker 3: can you look at my ankle? You don't well you
Speaker 3: don't have the equipment. Oh kind of extra your ankle. Yeah, no,
Speaker 3: I don't have the equipment.
Speaker 1: But if you did, Oh I did Christy?
Speaker 2: Did you put the thing on where you have to
Speaker 2: like where the cause you get you have to run
Speaker 2: out of the room right Like they're like, yeah, you're
Speaker 2: supposed to, but really, I mean, here's the thing.
Speaker 3: Man, It's like takes too much. Like really you're supposed
Speaker 3: to go get help, like where the thing? But man,
Speaker 3: when you're like patients are like coming in and out
Speaker 3: like a lot of the fast, you're gonna get backed up.
Speaker 3: You're just kind of like, all right, well this will
Speaker 3: be quicker if I just don't go ask for helping
Speaker 3: take the risk of Yeah, but my kids all you know,
Speaker 3: the two kids I have have all their fingers and toes.
Speaker 3: So I think we made it out alive.
Speaker 10: Good level, Okay, cass up thing little food for yourself
Speaker 10: life ain't.
Speaker 9: Oh it's pretty, but it's pretty beautiful. Thing beautiful.
Speaker 11: That's a little more family's exciting.
Speaker 10: City, you're kicking it with full thing with Amy Brown.
Speaker 12: I think a good place to start for those of
Speaker 12: us that need a refresher, or maybe for anyone that's
Speaker 12: new to attachment theory, let's just start with out of
Speaker 12: the gate, what is it and what are the four types?
Speaker 13: So attachment theory was originally studied by John Bowlby out
Speaker 13: of Cambridge University and it's been like one of the
Speaker 13: most studied bodies of work around. It's essentially the study
Speaker 13: of how your relationships with your parents or caregivers as
Speaker 13: a child affect your adult romantic relationships because we essentially
Speaker 13: in our early relationship lives learn how to bond to people,
Speaker 13: We learn what needs should be met in relationships, what
Speaker 13: to expect, all by the way that we are parented
Speaker 13: and taken care of in the home. And so there
Speaker 13: are four major attachment styles, and one is the securely
Speaker 13: attached style. Then there's the anxious attachment style they dismiss
Speaker 13: of attachment style, and then the fearful avoidant attachment style.
Speaker 13: So we'll break down maybe a little bit about how
Speaker 13: each of those form and some symptoms of each one,
Speaker 13: so people can recognize themselves in this if they think
Speaker 13: they may be one of these four. I think it's
Speaker 13: important to note as well, every person has an attachment style,
Speaker 13: so it does affect every single person listening. So the
Speaker 13: first attachment style is the secure and secure attachment styles.
Speaker 13: In their childhood, they get a lot of what we
Speaker 13: call approach oriented behaviors, so they basically get a lot
Speaker 13: of when they're distressed or sad, the parents are attuned
Speaker 13: to them and they recognize their distress and they go
Speaker 13: towards them. They try to check in see what's wrong
Speaker 13: with the child. And what this actually conditions a child
Speaker 13: to feel and believe is that I can rely on people.
Speaker 13: People are safe. I can trust that people will go
Speaker 13: me and take care of me, and I am worthy
Speaker 13: of being loved even if I'm sad or upset, because
Speaker 13: even when I'm sad or upset, I still get that care.
Speaker 13: So secure attachment sales make up roughly fifty percent of
Speaker 13: the population. Some more recent data shows that that's downtrending,
Speaker 13: so it's becoming less and less and they are the
Speaker 13: ones that also report as adults having not just the
Speaker 13: longest lasting relationships, but I feel like they actually thrive
Speaker 13: in their relationships the most, so feeling truly fulfilled when.
Speaker 12: It comes to the downtrending, is there a reason in
Speaker 12: the research why that's happening.
Speaker 13: There are a lot of hypotheses for why. So one
Speaker 13: of the first ones is that technology is playing a role.
Speaker 13: You know, parents are distracted, people are distracted. We're not
Speaker 13: as present, we're not as attuned, and that really is
Speaker 13: providing that foundational component. So if people are constantly with
Speaker 13: their children, but they're on their phone, or they're busy,
Speaker 13: or you know, technology is all around, then there's that
Speaker 13: lack of attunement that is one of the fundamental features
Speaker 13: that builds that secure attachment connection. And then of course,
Speaker 13: you know, there are other hypothesies that are like fineial
Speaker 13: stressors for a lot of people. A couple generations ago,
Speaker 13: usually there was one parent who could often be at
Speaker 13: home with the child and was the primary sharegiver.
Speaker 7: In that way.
Speaker 13: And now we have a lot more stress in the
Speaker 13: world because of the way the world is working, in
Speaker 13: the financial pressures. You know, both parents are often working,
Speaker 13: children are in daycare. So I think there's a lot
Speaker 13: of those sorts of cultural features, and then you could
Speaker 13: make a lot of arguments for the fact that the
Speaker 13: more attachment trauma there is, you know, and the lack
Speaker 13: of resolution that exists there, you know, when there's a
Speaker 13: lot of like single parent households right now and things
Speaker 13: of that nature. Again, all of these things are creating
Speaker 13: this lack of a child being able to have that
Speaker 13: proper atonment, have that those approach oriented behaviors in childhood,
Speaker 13: and so those were probably some of those those threats
Speaker 13: that tie in.
Speaker 6: Okay, yea.
Speaker 12: I'm just very curious about that, especially as being a
Speaker 12: mom up to adopted kids and now as of twenty
Speaker 12: twenty three, a single mom and you know, they're with
Speaker 12: me for a week and then their dad for a week.
Speaker 12: But we're both single and we're both doing the best
Speaker 12: that we can and both working. But you know, with
Speaker 12: them being adopted, they already have their own attachment styles.
Speaker 12: And the good news is though we can all work
Speaker 12: towards secure We'll talk further into the episode about that,
Speaker 12: but there is some light there, right.
Speaker 13: One hundred percent, there is some light. And you know,
Speaker 13: even if you are a single parent, but you have
Speaker 13: the awareness of attachment theory and how it works. That
Speaker 13: has such a huge role. And I really stress on
Speaker 13: the single parent part because back in the day when
Speaker 13: I used to work with clients one to one, obviously
Speaker 13: you're cold parenting, so it's more of a unique situation
Speaker 13: and that's that's usually a little bit easier, but single
Speaker 13: parents have it tough. I mean the amount of like
Speaker 13: pressure to keep track of everything all the time, and
Speaker 13: you know, there's a lot of weight on one person.
Speaker 13: So we'll talk about strategies and all that good stuff,
Speaker 13: but I just also want to acknowledge and like give
Speaker 13: a shout out to people who are single parents for
Speaker 13: cold parenting because it's not easy either. Like there's a
Speaker 13: lot of pressure throughout the week on just one person.
Speaker 3: We're going to do it live.
Speaker 1: We are the one, two, three sore losers everybody. I
Speaker 1: am lunchbox.
Speaker 14: I know the most about sports, so I'll give you
Speaker 14: the sports facts, my sports opinions, because I'm pretty much
Speaker 14: a sports genius, y'all.
Speaker 1: It's Sison. I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male.
Speaker 1: I live on the north side of Nashville with Bayser,
Speaker 1: my wife. We do have a farm. It's beautiful a
Speaker 1: lot of acreage, no animals, a lot of crops, hopefully
Speaker 1: soon corn pumpkins, rye. I believe maybe a little fescue
Speaker 1: to be determined. Over to you, coach.
Speaker 14: And here's a clip from this week's episode of The
Speaker 14: Sore Losers.
Speaker 1: Say you just come to work tomorrow and you mail
Speaker 1: in the bone head? I mean, what if I don't
Speaker 1: mail in this podcast?
Speaker 7: Man?
Speaker 1: No, what I'm saying. What if you mailed in a bonehead?
Speaker 1: Would it be evident that you mailed it in? Probably? Okay,
Speaker 1: that's the first day. Imagine if you just mailed it
Speaker 1: in for a week. Imagine after a week, two weeks, dude,
Speaker 1: then the bonehead just gets dropped from the show because
Speaker 1: it's so bad, all because you mailed it in on
Speaker 1: that first day. And then it just starts. It's like
Speaker 1: the butterfly effect. It's like Jimmer fer Debt. Dude, couldn't
Speaker 1: be stopped in college, couldn't be stopped Utah b BYU
Speaker 1: couldn't sniff the NBA court. Both Mormons right took the cap.
Speaker 14: I don't think Utah youth are Mormons, right, but I
Speaker 14: don't think he couldn't sniff the court.
Speaker 1: It's a wild.
Speaker 14: How they do that, Like how they Oh, there's people
Speaker 14: that don't even play in college. They get like three
Speaker 14: points a game in their college basketball team, but then
Speaker 14: they making the NBA explained it to me.
Speaker 1: It makes no simp It can't be explained. It's this.
Speaker 1: There's theories on I mean, it's the Johnny Manziel theory,
Speaker 1: other things like that. Dude, our best the I think
Speaker 1: the guy scored two thousand points Gwen High school. Look
Speaker 1: him up. Jake Sardini. He was the shit. He was
Speaker 1: the best player to do. Never missed every game, put
Speaker 1: up twenty five points. They're putting statues up in my hometown.
Speaker 1: What school did he go to? I mean you would
Speaker 1: think Michigan State, Michigan bro. He went to Northern Michigan
Speaker 1: University and rode the bench. Dude, he was the greatest
Speaker 1: player I saw in person. But he was white. He
Speaker 1: wasn't as quick. He had a great shot, very smooth.
Speaker 1: He was a taller dude, just wasn't as quick. So
Speaker 1: there was a reason for that. Now that you think
Speaker 1: about it, it's wow. Yeah, it makes it. It doesn't
Speaker 1: make a lot of sense. It's very confusing to me.
Speaker 1: But the fastest kid in my class, Tyler Norman. I'll
Speaker 1: never forget the newspaper article. It said sensational sophomore. We
Speaker 1: never played with him because he kept getting brought up.
Speaker 1: He was so fast, best running back I've ever seen
Speaker 1: in person, and I would run next to him. I
Speaker 1: was running in water. I wasn't actually blocking for him.
Speaker 1: But dude, he cooked. Okay, dude just started drinking lost
Speaker 1: the step. Didn't have a great senior year. Works at
Speaker 1: the lumber mill. It happened. That got depressing when works
Speaker 1: at the lumber bill. Dude, when you are the best athlete.
Speaker 1: He was quicker than scat bruh. He would I've never
Speaker 1: seen a kid run eighty miles eighty yards and did like,
Speaker 1: didn't even break a sweat. He would stiff arm ten
Speaker 1: guys and get to the end zone. The greatest running
Speaker 1: back I've seen with my two eyes five feet away
Speaker 1: in the history of my life, except for Derrick Henry
Speaker 1: when I called he was gonna be great with the Titans.
Speaker 1: When I saw him at training camp, over to you, man,
Speaker 1: I mean.
Speaker 14: The best running back I ever saw in person was
Speaker 14: Malcolm Brown. He went to the University of Texas, then
Speaker 14: he went on to the NFL for a few years.
Speaker 1: He was a journeyman.
Speaker 14: But I went and saw his high school game because
Speaker 14: our buddy shipmate brother, they played high school football together.
Speaker 14: And I saw him the first play.
Speaker 1: San Antonio tip mate.
Speaker 14: Sibilo Steele, and I said that dude, he got through
Speaker 14: the line and he turned on a different, different gear
Speaker 14: and pulled away from everybody by ten yards. And I
Speaker 14: looked at shipmate and I said that dude can go
Speaker 14: to the league.
Speaker 1: That was how good he was. And did he he
Speaker 1: went to the league? Was he decent?
Speaker 14: He played five six years in the league, bounced around
Speaker 14: from the Rams to the Dolphins, back to the Rams
Speaker 14: over here over there, scored some touchdowns.
Speaker 1: So you have an eye for guys and goes no, no.
Speaker 14: That was You're just saying the best one I'd ever seen.
Speaker 14: I didn't know him, but that was the first, like
Speaker 14: best football player i'd seen. I was like, damn, that
Speaker 14: dude's really good.
Speaker 1: Like dude at the pool when on the West side
Speaker 1: I had an eye for a girl, I would be like,
Speaker 1: that could be a Victoria's secret model. Oh.
Speaker 14: I was at the pool and I was like, that
Speaker 14: person cannot swim in the Olympics.
Speaker 1: I missed the pool man. We get all drunk. Everybody
Speaker 1: did end up racing. Never forget when Baser and Eric
Speaker 1: Dodd raced each other. Who won? Uh it was one
Speaker 1: of those where we let Eric's a really good swimmer.
Speaker 1: Oh and I guess Eric. Eric was racing somebody else.
Speaker 1: Baser was like floating on her back, kind of tipsy.
Speaker 1: She was feeling it a little bit, and she went
Speaker 1: into Dodd's path. Oh no, dude, Dodd said, when he
Speaker 1: was coming down Michael phelpstyle with his hand, his hand
Speaker 1: would have hit her right in the face and like
Speaker 1: crushed her. But he at the last second he saw
Speaker 1: her out of the corner of his eye, sipping on
Speaker 1: a Marguerite, a floating on her back. He was racing
Speaker 1: somebody else from the apartment complex. Immediately the race stopped
Speaker 1: and one of these gen zers beat Dodd. And to
Speaker 1: this day Dodd would have won that race, probably went
Speaker 1: to the Olympics instead. He thought of his friend Bazer,
Speaker 1: hammered in the pool. Dodd saw it corner of his eye,
Speaker 1: stopped him from just hitting her in the face. So
Speaker 1: he's basically a hero. Yeah, unbelievable, but yeah, Dodd was
Speaker 1: one of the fastest swimmers in person. Man, I missed
Speaker 1: the pool.
Speaker 14: Man, I missed the pool too, and I wish I
Speaker 14: could swim. I'm not a very good swimmer. I'm very
Speaker 14: slow at swimming on doggy paddle a lot. And if
Speaker 14: I'm ever gonna be on Survivor, I've got to improve
Speaker 14: my swimming because they have all the swimming challenges.
Speaker 1: And I am just not good. They have a ton
Speaker 1: of them.
Speaker 14: Yes, and you gotta dive down. I'm not good at
Speaker 14: diving down to get the rings off the bottom. Your
Speaker 14: ears start popping and you start freaking out underwater.
Speaker 1: That would be me on Survivor. So I've got to learn.
Speaker 14: I've got to get a coach, got to figure out
Speaker 14: some way to improve my swimming before.
Speaker 1: I go on there. Wait, are you being serious? So
Speaker 1: you're gonna start to do more water stuff? Yeah, dude,
Speaker 1: I had the exact same epiphany in college, and I'll
Speaker 1: tell you how it ended. I would go, if I'm
Speaker 1: gonna do a iron man, i have to swim. Because
Speaker 1: I'd done the mile, the twenty six miles, I hadn't
Speaker 1: done the bike. I learned I can do the bike
Speaker 1: pretty easy. Thirty miles not bad. I guess you do
Speaker 1: sixty or some shit, so I can do one hundred.
Speaker 1: It's like one sixty two maybe, so you do thirty
Speaker 1: one hundred, one hundred. Yeah, that's what it is. You
Speaker 1: do over one hundred. I did thirty without even trying,
Speaker 1: so I was like, I can probably do it. So anyways,
Speaker 1: then I was like, I just have to do the swimming, dude.
Speaker 1: I went to the Texas State Pool. Oh it was miserable.
Speaker 1: It's so hard. I did it for a week straight
Speaker 1: and I was like, swimming is the hardest sport ever.
Speaker 1: The iron Man it was a great thought, but I'm
Speaker 1: gonna hang it up after the marathon. That was fun. Yeah,
Speaker 1: swimming is a very You don't realize how hard it
Speaker 1: is to swim. Either you're born with it or you're not.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's Maybolene. I'm not born with it because I
Speaker 1: am not. I'm like a freaking anchor.
Speaker 14: I get in that water and I just sink and
Speaker 14: I try to swim and I don't go anywhere. I
Speaker 14: slap that water and it doesn't move, Like I'm not
Speaker 14: gliding through that water.
Speaker 1: I need help, See, That's what I'm saying. Just like
Speaker 1: bezers floating on their back. Some people are meant to float.
Speaker 1: They say a baby can float if you just throw
Speaker 1: it on its ass or something. Yeah, some I feel
Speaker 1: like some people's equilibrium weight distribution is just better than others.
Speaker 15: Hey, it's Mike d and this week All Movie Mike's
Speaker 15: Movie Podcast. I had my wife Kelsey on and we
Speaker 15: did Movies of the Month. It's where we recap all
Speaker 15: the movies we've seen in the last sixty days. What
Speaker 15: was the best and that you should spend your time
Speaker 15: and money on, and what was the worst of what
Speaker 15: you should avoid or wait until it goes on to streaming.
Speaker 15: I also gave my spoiler free review of The Wild Robot,
Speaker 15: which is right now my favorite animated movie of the year.
Speaker 9: So be sure to go check out this full episode.
Speaker 15: But right now, here's a little bit of Kelsey and
Speaker 15: I talking about our best movies of the month. I
Speaker 15: think I watched more movies in September out of any
Speaker 15: month this year.
Speaker 6: You watched a lot of movies.
Speaker 9: I went.
Speaker 15: You were away for I feel like a week, and
Speaker 15: I went to the movies like.
Speaker 9: Two times during that.
Speaker 6: I went to New York. It was great.
Speaker 9: September is also where horror movies start.
Speaker 15: So I went to the movies a lot without you
Speaker 15: because you're like, nah, ain't doing that. But what was
Speaker 15: the best movie in your opinion for September. I'm curious
Speaker 15: to see Easy my Old Ass with Aubrey Plaza so
Speaker 15: good and.
Speaker 6: Mazie Stella directed by Megan Park who a lot of
Speaker 6: people know where she was on The Secret Life for
Speaker 6: the American Teenager, which was now the campiest shows of
Speaker 6: all time. But yeah, she's written two and directed two
Speaker 6: really great films now on The Fallout, which was on
Speaker 6: HBO Max which in a Orteka, right, yep, great film,
Speaker 6: and then this one, which was a completely different direction,
Speaker 6: a lot more lighthearted. She's really good. Like I didn't
Speaker 6: really know what to expect. I was worried that it
Speaker 6: was gonna be one of those where you see all
Speaker 6: the funny parts in the trailer, but it was so
Speaker 6: heartwarming and heartfelt, and the people behind us after the
Speaker 6: movie was overclapped to cover the sound of them crying.
Speaker 9: We rarely hear that clapping in movies right.
Speaker 6: Now, Yeah, I can't think of the last one.
Speaker 15: Even in the last superhero movies that we've gone to,
Speaker 15: there hasn't been clapping like Wolverine Deadpole.
Speaker 6: Personally, I clapped at the end of Twister, but.
Speaker 15: I feel like that whole clapping has kind of gone away.
Speaker 15: I was kind of surprised to hear that. But that
Speaker 15: movie is emotional. It's a really good coming of age
Speaker 15: story done in a different way. What happens is main
Speaker 15: character takes some mushrooms, causing her to hallucinate, has a
Speaker 15: really bad trip, and Aubrey Plaza comes in as the
Speaker 15: older version of herself, the forty year old version of herself,
Speaker 15: to tell her teenage self some advice, and she's able
Speaker 15: to communicate with her from the future. I love that
Speaker 15: the movie existed in reality, but also nobody questioned what
Speaker 15: was happening Thereah.
Speaker 6: I never were like, how are you calling yourself in
Speaker 6: the future. It just was like it wasn't a plot line.
Speaker 6: It just was the plot.
Speaker 9: And I like movies that do that. It's like, hey,
Speaker 9: this is the facts.
Speaker 15: Don't think too much into it, suspend belief and allow
Speaker 15: yourself to enjoy it. And that movie was a lot
Speaker 15: more emotional than I was expecting. I feel in the
Speaker 15: last couple of movies we saw in theaters, aside from Joker,
Speaker 15: I had all emotional experiences of almost crying, like getting
Speaker 15: really emotional. There's one specific moment in this movie that
Speaker 15: will just hit you like a ton of bricks. The
Speaker 15: only thing I wish it had more was Abrey Plaza.
Speaker 6: I just wish it was longer. Yeah, I wanted more
Speaker 6: of the movie in general.
Speaker 15: And I think it's because Plaza is such a big star.
Speaker 15: I feel like she was probably there for maybe a week.
Speaker 6: Well, she's also in like Everything under the Center. Now
Speaker 6: she's an Agatha along Megalopolis. It's not how he's saying. Yeah,
Speaker 6: that's a lot of words in one. I feel like
Speaker 6: her filming schedule was pretty tight, but this was filmed
Speaker 6: like years ago.
Speaker 15: Yeah, I just feel like I wanted more of her
Speaker 15: whole plot.
Speaker 9: Line in that movie. And I feel like that's kind
Speaker 9: of how they sold it.
Speaker 15: Even if you watch the trailer, you think it's gonna
Speaker 15: be a lot more of their interactions. But I think
Speaker 15: they use her name to get people into it. But
Speaker 15: once you're there, it's a really good story that you
Speaker 15: probably couldn't sell without her attached to it.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it was great for.
Speaker 15: My best of September between two movies. I am between
Speaker 15: the wild Robot and I am between the Substance.
Speaker 6: If you don't go Wilder Robot, I'm shocked you felt
Speaker 6: things in that movie.
Speaker 9: I did.
Speaker 15: And I'm going to get into my full review here
Speaker 15: in a minute, but I think I'm going to go
Speaker 15: with the Substance, just because I went into that movie
Speaker 15: not knowing anything about it. If you didn't listen to
Speaker 15: that review, it's essentially about Debbie Morre's character.
Speaker 9: She turns fifty years old.
Speaker 15: She has like this morning fitness workout show, and Dennis
Speaker 15: Quait is her boss, and on her fiftieth birthday he
Speaker 15: fires her because thinks her star is passed. They need
Speaker 15: to move on to something new and fresh. And then
Speaker 15: Demi Moore's character gets into a car accident. While she's
Speaker 15: at the doctor, there's this weird medical dude who works
Speaker 15: as an assistant and tells her about this black market
Speaker 15: drug called the Substance that you take it and it
Speaker 15: creates a better version of yourself. It essentially goes into
Speaker 15: your DNA and spawns out another human, and that other
Speaker 15: human in the movie happens to be Margaret Quayley. And
Speaker 15: then the catch is that every seven days they have
Speaker 15: to switch back, so for a week she's living as
Speaker 15: Demi Moore, and then for the next week she's living
Speaker 15: as Margaret Quayley, and then you find out all about
Speaker 15: the struggle of going back and forth.
Speaker 9: Big feminism movie.
Speaker 15: It's a big commentary on how Hollywood treats women who
Speaker 15: age in the industry.
Speaker 6: Which like Demi Moore has aged so beautifully.
Speaker 15: She has this is her best role, and I feel
Speaker 15: like she took it for a very specific reason, maybe
Speaker 15: because she's felt some of these things in her career,
Speaker 15: and I can only imagine how awful people in power
Speaker 15: in Hollywood are towards women casting women that I feel
Speaker 15: like roles for women at her point in her career
Speaker 15: are probably harder to come by than roles for men.
Speaker 15: I mean, even looking at this movie, Dennis quitated like
Speaker 15: seventy something, Yeah, and he's still getting a lot of work.
Speaker 15: And I feel like she probably took this to have
Speaker 15: that commentary of like, this is something that's actually happening,
Speaker 15: and yes, this is a really bizarre way to make
Speaker 15: this point, but it's a point we want to make.
Speaker 15: And it was a movie that I felt, for the
Speaker 15: first time in a while, had like a lot to
Speaker 15: say and did it in a really unique way, and
Speaker 15: it really committed to its craziness because it's not for everybody.
Speaker 15: I think you would go watch it and think the
Speaker 15: heck is going on here? You have people turning into
Speaker 15: weird monsters, you have all these supernatural events. The end
Speaker 15: of the movie is like completely throwing everything against the wall.
Speaker 15: So it does all those things to kind of appease
Speaker 15: to like the horror fan. But I felt like the
Speaker 15: message of it was something that I walked away with thinking, oh,
Speaker 15: that's actually a really cool and interesting way to say that.
Speaker 15: And I had no idea the movie is gonna affect
Speaker 15: me as.
Speaker 9: Much as it did.
Speaker 6: Two quick notes that don't necessarily have to the movie,
Speaker 6: but it's cast. I watched a clip on TikTok of
Speaker 6: Demi Moore's interview with I think it's like CBS Sunday
Speaker 6: Mornings talking about life with like Bruce willis now and
Speaker 6: it just was so beautiful of like where they're meeting him,
Speaker 6: where he's at and like with his journey with dementia,
Speaker 6: and she talked about she was like, I'm trying not
Speaker 6: to dwell on like the Bruce I used to know
Speaker 6: and like finding the joy of where he is and
Speaker 6: it was so And then there's a really funny clip
Speaker 6: of Margaret Queeley on Fallon talking about how, like all
Speaker 6: of her movies this year, Driveway Dolls, kinds of kindness
Speaker 6: and the substance, and she's like, none of my family
Speaker 6: can see any of these. She's like, I'm probably naked
Speaker 6: in most of them. She's like, can't take anyone to
Speaker 6: see them.
Speaker 15: Yeah, her whole introduction in this movie, her first scene,
Speaker 15: she's almost naked for Oh, it's say a good four
Speaker 15: or five minutes.
Speaker 6: So it was just that's a funny clip. Yeah, I
Speaker 6: don't think I have any interest in seeing the movie.
Speaker 6: Love both of them don't want to see it.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 15: I think that's another reason is like some people have
Speaker 15: a feeling about nudity in movies.
Speaker 9: I feel like in this movie.
Speaker 6: That's not why I don't see it.
Speaker 15: No, But I'm just saying first, I'm just adding all
Speaker 15: the reasons that, like all the strikes that this movie
Speaker 15: has against itself. Oh yeah, there's the horror element, which
Speaker 15: there's some things in this movie that were a little
Speaker 15: unsettling to me. But I like the fact that they
Speaker 15: made me feel certain ways. You know, I have a
Speaker 15: weird thing about bones breaking. Anytime there's any kind of
Speaker 15: video where I know somebody's bone is gonna break, I
Speaker 15: won't watch it. Is there just something about that feeling
Speaker 15: and about that anticipation.
Speaker 6: Is that why you wouldn't look at foot last year
Speaker 6: when I broke broke it.
Speaker 15: That's different because that's not it snapping, but like something
Speaker 15: like somebody's skateboarding. I don't want to see that. I
Speaker 15: don't want to hear it. That just strikes a nerve
Speaker 15: with me. And there's some of that in this movie.
Speaker 15: So there's those horror elements, but also the nudity, which
Speaker 15: would keep some people away from watching it. But I
Speaker 15: think it's used in a way to show vulnerability in
Speaker 15: this movie.
Speaker 9: Like the fact. I think they used prosthetics too, so
Speaker 9: I don't know if that was actually yea.
Speaker 6: Margaret Quaily said that her chest was enhanced.
Speaker 15: But it seems like it's just them putting themselves out there.
Speaker 15: Even though if you don't know going into it that
Speaker 15: it's probably all prosthetics, you think, man.
Speaker 9: Really that's a lot. That's a big commitment.
Speaker 15: I just imagine, like as an actor being in those
Speaker 15: situations you think you're just watching it as the viewer,
Speaker 15: there's nobody there, but if you look behind the camera,
Speaker 15: there's all.
Speaker 6: These seven thousand people there. It's like when people have
Speaker 6: to film like intimate scenes and I'm just like that
Speaker 6: that sounds awful.
Speaker 15: Everybody seeing your kibbles and Bits is like like what
Speaker 15: is like, how do you even call it?
Speaker 6: Ever again and Bits?
Speaker 15: I don't think you realize how hard it is to
Speaker 15: have chemistry come across on screen because you're interacting with
Speaker 15: this person across from you, trying to have this connection
Speaker 15: and have that come across on screen. Meanwhile, there are
Speaker 15: lights on you, there are people running around, and.
Speaker 6: You're also faking a connection. Yes, that's the thing too,
Speaker 6: is it's like you're That's where people say acting is
Speaker 6: so weird because you like have to emotionally get into
Speaker 6: the part, but you're like not trying to fall in
Speaker 6: love with this person, but you have to portray that you.
Speaker 1: Are in love.
Speaker 9: I think, yeah, I think that's the hardest thing to do.
Speaker 15: That's why a lot of rom comms fail is because
Speaker 15: people are unable to have that chemistry, which it's so
Speaker 15: relyingt on.
Speaker 1: Car Queen talking if you so, she's getting really not
Speaker 1: afraid to fail EISO, so just let it float.
Speaker 15: No one can do quiet like carylne is sound a carelun.
Speaker 6: It is what it is.
Speaker 4: And even though it was like the high status of
Speaker 4: people that y'all deal with, like I feel like as
Speaker 4: me as a people pleaser, now I've like healed a
Speaker 4: lot of that, but I would have had a nervous
Speaker 4: reaction every time I was like in a situation with
Speaker 4: the people that you are with, because I feel so
Speaker 4: much pressure to make sure they like me?
Speaker 5: What if they don't like your hair makeup?
Speaker 4: What if they don't like Do you ever feel that, like,
Speaker 4: what if they're not happy with like what you did?
Speaker 5: Or you feel like you're wondering how about it?
Speaker 16: How are you supposed to either I mean somebody says, hey,
Speaker 16: can you change this? Or they don't communicate and they
Speaker 16: don't like it or whatever. But I mean, when you
Speaker 16: like go to do somebody's glam and they don't let
Speaker 16: you know if to change it, how are you supposed to?
Speaker 16: What am I magine? I can't read your mind?
Speaker 11: So true?
Speaker 4: It all comes back to being able to communicate, speak
Speaker 4: your truth and express yourself Yeah, it's okay.
Speaker 17: You're not an asshole for saying what you like and
Speaker 17: what you don't like, not at all, as long as
Speaker 17: you say in a kind way. Yeah I'm not great.
Speaker 11: That's what we're here for.
Speaker 5: A process.
Speaker 11: Oh good news, it's not tattooed on your face. I
Speaker 11: can change the light.
Speaker 17: We actually want you to tell us. We want you
Speaker 17: to tell yes.
Speaker 16: Oh my god. I feel like that's the biggest like misconception.
Speaker 11: Tell your glam people if you don't like something.
Speaker 16: God, very very it's not a big deal. Nobody cares.
Speaker 16: Just let's fix it so you feel good. Jeez, jeez,
Speaker 16: we'll just try.
Speaker 11: You know, we're tiny little.
Speaker 17: Blips and just a universe of just grandness that what
Speaker 17: what are we really?
Speaker 9: What are we doing?
Speaker 5: Can I okay?
Speaker 11: Okay?
Speaker 4: I have a few questions and they kind of do
Speaker 4: a few rapid fire with you all because I feel
Speaker 4: like this will be fun. First, Uh, biggest beauty regret
Speaker 4: mine is my rope attaching eyebrows. That was a massive mistake.
Speaker 4: Now they're blue. I have like eyeliner on them, and
Speaker 4: that's another thing. I don't know how to do my eyebrows, Like,
Speaker 4: how are you supposed to do eye ross, but like I
Speaker 4: regret them.
Speaker 11: My eyeliner, I did brown eyeliner.
Speaker 5: That's what I'm using, So I need to make up
Speaker 5: refresh right now.
Speaker 11: You think, yeah, they do that's eyeliner.
Speaker 5: I think it's a I think it's just regular eyeliner.
Speaker 6: That's browne Okay.
Speaker 1: A right, good nice.
Speaker 5: But you guys said it didn't look bad.
Speaker 11: We know it doesn't. It doesn't look bad. Do you
Speaker 11: do a tinted gel?
Speaker 9: No?
Speaker 5: I do nothing.
Speaker 4: I literally do a little eyeliner on my eyebrows, a tiny, tiny.
Speaker 11: Sheer of liquid eyeliner.
Speaker 5: What would you correct?
Speaker 11: Just be brutal, okay, be brutal.
Speaker 16: I would do a tinted gel instead of your liner pencil.
Speaker 16: I would do a pot, like a paint pot on
Speaker 16: your eye instead of this.
Speaker 5: It's a paint pot.
Speaker 16: It's gonna just make your lid like all one color
Speaker 16: and stay all day and it's so eat.
Speaker 11: It's like very user friendly.
Speaker 5: Okay, blush and blush in this.
Speaker 11: I would I would pop on like, uh, what are you?
Speaker 11: What foundation are you using?
Speaker 6: You have nothing nothing?
Speaker 11: You're scared the French girl, you're so beautiful.
Speaker 4: Wow, thank you.
Speaker 5: But because I don't know I need. Honestly we should.
Speaker 5: If y'all could do.
Speaker 4: Every day makeup tutorial for like the people who are
Speaker 4: idiots with may, that would be so helpful.
Speaker 16: We will, that would be very very I would love
Speaker 16: for you to have more can your guinea pig?
Speaker 11: Yes, okay, I wouldn't. That says like my every day.
Speaker 11: But it's probably heavier than most people.
Speaker 5: Maybe it's a little put on foundation every day.
Speaker 11: But it's illia though.
Speaker 16: Yeah, it's like nothing. Oh I wear foundations every day
Speaker 16: like nothing. Okay, it's tinted, it's got SPF one hundred
Speaker 16: and ninety.
Speaker 11: Or the color science.
Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with the colors.
Speaker 5: Are we supposed to do cheeks up high or down low?
Speaker 6: Now?
Speaker 5: Because I've been seeing this on Instagram that.
Speaker 11: No one ever said down low?
Speaker 5: I don't tell me now you're supposed to do it
Speaker 5: here and not here? No, that's such a weird thing,
Speaker 5: No Instagram.
Speaker 17: Well, trends are always, they're changing for always, forever changing.
Speaker 11: You still want to lift everything left?
Speaker 5: The toner here, the bronze are here? You do the
Speaker 5: bronze are here?
Speaker 4: Can we have a.
Speaker 11: Conversation about her? You want to be here?
Speaker 6: I'm just kidding.
Speaker 5: I'm so bad at makeup. It's so funny, it's embarrassing.
Speaker 9: I know, the hell is she talking about?
Speaker 11: Welcome back to myt I liquid.
Speaker 4: Seriously, people are dying out here and need your help
Speaker 4: every day, every day, just an every day bronzer.
Speaker 11: Yeah, bronze are.
Speaker 5: Just where to apply it? How to apply it? And
Speaker 5: what's a.
Speaker 11: Nice little trick?
Speaker 1: Three?
Speaker 17: Oh, take your little bronzer and make a little three
Speaker 17: and just go like the contour of your face so
Speaker 17: you see where like your cheap bone is just like
Speaker 17: here and then here.
Speaker 11: And then just this is the perfect time to zoom
Speaker 11: in on her face. Yeah, you're like, do you understand
Speaker 11: what I'm playing her now?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Yeah, But then I'm gonna be walking around and people
Speaker 4: are gonna see a three on my.
Speaker 11: Face, So Carol can't just like three?
Speaker 9: And then you're like, I did it.
Speaker 6: I just try.
Speaker 5: I want to know people who are not good at makeup.
Speaker 4: It is overwhelming, Like makeup is a scary thing because
Speaker 4: there's so many things to do, like a language.
Speaker 5: I'm not good at.
Speaker 11: It at all.
Speaker 5: I'm not good at hair and I'm not gonna make it.
Speaker 11: Okay, And well, what are you gonna start doing your
Speaker 11: hair though. From now on.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna put sea salt spray in.
Speaker 11: It, and you're gonna braid it, and I'm gonna braid it, and.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna sleep in it.
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, And I'm gonna get two braids in a
Speaker 4: big phone roller.
Speaker 11: And a big phone roller. I'm gonna send you a
Speaker 11: little bit vidia. I'm not it's probably gonna be uncomfortable
Speaker 11: when you sleep though. Oh do you know I have one?
Speaker 5: Do you guys have any beauty regrets? Because I have
Speaker 5: lots obviously, but jah, you did it?
Speaker 11: Oh you know that.
Speaker 16: And I didn't wear sunscreen for a really long time
Speaker 16: and I've got some sun spots.
Speaker 11: But that, I mean, it is what it is. Was
Speaker 11: there a dog here?
Speaker 4: There is a podcast with a dog a dog. It's
Speaker 4: called in the Bets Office and the Dog Jos with
Speaker 4: the Dogs Jos.
Speaker 11: She's crost anymore, she's not.
Speaker 5: She's the best, saving the dogs, saving the dog.
Speaker 17: I did get a cheek filler once you and I
Speaker 17: hated it.
Speaker 9: That is what hated it.
Speaker 11: I just get botox, just photo, just like a little feather,
Speaker 11: nothing like.
Speaker 9: That's it.
Speaker 11: I've done filler.
Speaker 17: I don't like it. It made me chip like a chipmunk.
Speaker 17: I didn't know whose face I was looking at.
Speaker 4: It's a little much. I got there one time, like
Speaker 4: six years ago and dissolved it.
Speaker 11: That's what it was, is this.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, so you'll keep it simple?
Speaker 17: Yeah, no lips I did years ago and then it stayed.
Speaker 5: It looks great, and now I just do a lip flip,
Speaker 5: a liip flip.
Speaker 1: But I already had like.
Speaker 9: Fuller lips too.
Speaker 11: You did too, Yeah, okay?
Speaker 4: And then one last thought thoughts on underline. I want
Speaker 4: her under under I want I haven't under my eyes
Speaker 4: a little bit.
Speaker 9: I'm sorry, can't go back.
Speaker 11: I'm not sure.
Speaker 1: Question.
Speaker 11: What's the question?
Speaker 1: Can't we wear eyelind or under eyes?
Speaker 3: Are you?
Speaker 11: Are you asking? What do we think about it?
Speaker 5: Is it allowed?
Speaker 1: It on right now?
Speaker 11: Of course that's allowed.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 5: I didn't know. I just have a little under their back.
Speaker 5: Some people say, like never on the waterline.
Speaker 11: I have to be on it in your water It
Speaker 11: was where you can do anything you want. You know,
Speaker 11: what would might be like a little help.
Speaker 5: I don't see anything I need I need help.
Speaker 2: Okay, there you go. The Sunday Sampler. Thank you for
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Speaker 1: Hope you have a great week.
Speaker 9: We'll see you later.
Speaker 3: Everybody,