1 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:10,799 Speaker 1: Hey guys, Sunday Sampler Time. 2 00:00:11,320 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 2: Maybe you hear something and you want to go subscribe 3 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:16,239 Speaker 2: to the episode. On The Bobbycast, I sat down with 4 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:20,800 Speaker 2: Drew Parker, singer songwriter. He had some huge success writing 5 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:22,639 Speaker 2: number one songs with Luke Combs, but now he's an 6 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:26,119 Speaker 2: artist himself, and he talks about how you know, he 7 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:27,639 Speaker 2: has a song and he was like, I'll give it 8 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 2: to Morgan Wallen or Luke Combs or Nate Smith because 9 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 2: they all want it. And then he's like, no, I 10 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 2: want it, big risk, but he decided to keep it. 11 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:36,239 Speaker 3: He talks about that. 12 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 2: On this week's episode of I Think What could be 13 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:42,880 Speaker 2: our newest podcast, Take This Personally, Morgan brought on holistic 14 00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:47,160 Speaker 2: nutritionist Grace Terrell to help us understand the health industry better, 15 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:51,279 Speaker 2: which I obviously need to do, and to share what 16 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 2: we should be doing to help our bodies heal and 17 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 2: so check it out. We got four things with Amy 18 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 2: Brown coming up, Sore Losers Movie, Mike's Podcast, but we'll 19 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:02,520 Speaker 2: start here. The clip from our newest Take This Personally 20 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 2: with Morgan Hulsman. 21 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 4: Personally with Morgan Heelsman. 22 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:26,040 Speaker 5: Grace, how are you doing today? 23 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 6: I'm great? 24 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 7: How are you. 25 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:28,360 Speaker 3: I'm good. 26 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 5: I'm super excited to talk to you. 27 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 8: I've been on my own holistic health journey for a 28 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 8: little bit now and it's been a huge help in 29 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 8: my life across the board. So I'm excited to have 30 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 8: you on here and talk and hopefully help some other 31 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 8: people get to that place in their life. Why is 32 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 8: it more beneficial for us to focus on the overall 33 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 8: health and wellness of our bodies rather than just I'm 34 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 8: gonna go to the doctor, let me grab some medicine 35 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 8: real quick, and I'll be better tomorrow. Why is this 36 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 8: a better option for you long term? 37 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 7: Yeah, I think it's the whole shift of preventative care 38 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 7: versus a key care. Obviously, medicine is incredible and there 39 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 7: are so many times that we need it, but we 40 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 7: want to prevent needing medication as much as we possibly can, 41 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 7: and so taking care of our bodies before they get 42 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:16,800 Speaker 7: to a point where we need that acute medical care 43 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 7: is I think really really important. 44 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:22,520 Speaker 8: Is there any supplements or anything that you use that 45 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:25,240 Speaker 8: you encourage people to take. Yes, you can fix your 46 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 8: diet and stuff, but are supplements another part of that 47 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 8: journey along the line. 48 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 7: It depends my whole approach is being as minimal as 49 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:36,800 Speaker 7: I can with supplementation and really focusing on the dietary component. 50 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 7: But of course there are times when supplements are really 51 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 7: really beneficial, like if you're trying to heal your gut 52 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:46,079 Speaker 7: at certain points, like a probiotic can be really beneficial, 53 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:48,920 Speaker 7: or all gluetamine to help seal the gut lining. But 54 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 7: I think people overdo it with the supplements and they 55 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 7: kind of go that route instead of making the maybe 56 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:57,920 Speaker 7: necessary shifts in their diet. They kind of bandid it 57 00:02:57,960 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 7: with supplements. So I kind of try and dear people 58 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:03,079 Speaker 7: away from that. But supplements, yeah, they can be really 59 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 7: really beneficial, but I think it depends on the individual. 60 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 7: I mean there's certain things like I think most people 61 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 7: could benefit from a little bit of magnesium because our 62 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 7: soil is so depleted of it and so our produce 63 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 7: doesn't get as much as it used to. In general, 64 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:18,960 Speaker 7: I think supplements are very very individual. 65 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 9: I agree with that. 66 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:21,799 Speaker 6: I was just curious that was kind of part of 67 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 6: the process too. 68 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 8: And it's really easy to find things at the store 69 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 8: and buy them because you heard or saw something online 70 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:28,679 Speaker 8: and you're. 71 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 5: Let me put that in my body real quick. 72 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:34,560 Speaker 8: It may help if someone isn't focused on the overall 73 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 8: health and the foods that they're putting into their bodies. 74 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 8: What are some symptoms that they're probably dealing with and 75 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:43,240 Speaker 8: they just don't know what's related to that. 76 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 7: Yeah, Well, I think a lot of people nowadays feel 77 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 7: tired all the time. Maybe they're not managing their stress 78 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 7: as best as they should. Bloating, digestive pains, maybe your 79 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 7: hair is falling out. Maybe as a female, you have 80 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 7: like really bad PMS. I would say like symptoms are 81 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 7: the way they your body communicates to you. And I 82 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 7: think nowadays we just move at such a fast pace 83 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 7: just our lifestyles that we don't really pay attention to 84 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 7: the things that our bodies are telling us, and we 85 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 7: kind of just push them off as normal. Oh everyone 86 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 7: just feels like they could sleep for fourteen hours a 87 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 7: day and not have enough energy, you know. But really, 88 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:20,599 Speaker 7: like tuning in and paying attention to how our body 89 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:23,040 Speaker 7: might feel off is really really important because I think 90 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 7: most people nowadays are kind of on autopilot and they 91 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 7: don't realize how good they can actually feel. And it's 92 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:31,479 Speaker 7: all about like optimizing the way that you feel every day. 93 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:34,040 Speaker 7: When people start eating better and taking care of themselves 94 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 7: and really like tuning into how their bodies feel. They 95 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 7: notice a huge, huge difference with that. 96 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 8: In talking about foods, you mentioned how to avoid process foods, 97 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 8: paying attention to the outer rim when you go to 98 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:47,520 Speaker 8: grocery stores. Is there specific ingredients that we need to 99 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:49,600 Speaker 8: be looking for. I know a hot one that is 100 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:52,559 Speaker 8: talked about often is red dye. Is there others along 101 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 8: that line? And what are some of those specific ingredients 102 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 8: we should probably be paying attention to. 103 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 7: Man, there's so many for what I deal with digestive issues, 104 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 7: mostly the artificial sweeteners aerythritol, xylatol, superlose, those are huge ones. 105 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 7: You'll find those in all the products that are like 106 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:10,679 Speaker 7: sugar free or keto, all the products that are marketed 107 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:14,159 Speaker 7: as being a healthier alternative have some of those artificial 108 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 7: sweeteners that can cause a lot of digestive issues, loading, 109 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 7: stomach cramps. And then canola oil the seed oils. Now 110 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 7: I think is like a trend of people trying to 111 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 7: avoid those which are in a lot of health foods 112 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 7: as well. So yeah, I would say artificial sweeteners, seed oils, 113 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 7: and then you want to look out for gums, but 114 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 7: of course it depends on the severity of the issues. 115 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 7: I think the easiest way to do it is just 116 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:38,280 Speaker 7: reduce the amount of processed foods that you're having and 117 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:41,800 Speaker 7: not pay too much attention to the specific ingredients. And 118 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:43,720 Speaker 7: I think that'll make a huge difference because you don't 119 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:45,720 Speaker 7: want to stress yourself out so much with having to 120 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:48,159 Speaker 7: learn about every single ingredient and what it's doing to 121 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 7: your body. 122 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:57,920 Speaker 3: Let's talk music, because I got a lot of stuff 123 00:05:57,920 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 3: to talk about. 124 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 2: What do you want to do first? You want to 125 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:04,480 Speaker 2: do the greatest hits? What are you want to do? 126 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 3: You? This is the greatest hits. 127 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 2: Okay, got a Grammy nominee nomination for doing this with 128 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:15,119 Speaker 2: Luke Combs and you guys met back like Rome. 129 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, we met in a bar in Rome, Georgia, Georgia. 130 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 1: Was he playing the bar? 131 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:22,040 Speaker 3: He was? I was opening. I got a call, like 132 00:06:22,080 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 3: on a Friday afternoon from the promoter. It's like, hey, 133 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:27,360 Speaker 3: my opener backed out. I'll pay you a hundred bucks 134 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 3: to come up here. I was like, yeah, who am 135 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:32,200 Speaker 3: I opening for? He was like, well, it's this new 136 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 3: guy that just like moved to Nashville. His name's Luke Combs. 137 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:39,720 Speaker 3: And I was like, okay, cool. I didn't know who 138 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:43,920 Speaker 3: Luke was at the time, but we opened that show 139 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 3: that night and we just hit it off, and he 140 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:47,560 Speaker 3: was like, man, I just moved to Nashville. You should 141 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 3: come up there and let's write songs. And I had 142 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 3: never written a song before, and I was but I 143 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:53,600 Speaker 3: was like, well, this seems like my ticket to Nashville 144 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:56,719 Speaker 3: because I'd always wanted to go. I was like, this 145 00:06:56,720 --> 00:06:59,279 Speaker 3: seems like my ticket. So I was like absolutely. So 146 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 3: for the next time months, I drove back and forth 147 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:04,280 Speaker 3: from Georgia to Nashville and wrote songs. 148 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:05,040 Speaker 1: What was that drive? 149 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 3: Three hundred miles? Did you have a normal job? I did? 150 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 3: I have a degree in radiology. 151 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 1: Wow. 152 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 3: So that nine months, I like was sending like resumes 153 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 3: to try to get a job at a hospital up here, 154 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 3: and it took nine months, but I finally did. And 155 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 3: then that's when I moved. 156 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 2: I think, if I'm doing my research here, you have, 157 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 2: as far as radiologists go, the biggest truck ever, any 158 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 2: radiologist ever, large radiologist truck. 159 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. 160 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 2: Why did you go into radiology? 161 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 3: It was so I did like joint enrollment, like my 162 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 3: junior senior high school, which was like half college half 163 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 3: high school credits or whatever was it? 164 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 9: Because you were still ahead. 165 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 3: I mean it's okay, I think, well, I really don't remember. 166 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 1: I think so. 167 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 3: But it allowed for me to have this opportunity to 168 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 3: be able to go, you know, take two classes at 169 00:07:57,880 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 3: the college, the local community college in Covington. So when 170 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:03,280 Speaker 3: I got out, I had this plan that I was 171 00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 3: going to go play music. Moved to Nashville one day, 172 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:08,560 Speaker 3: so I like kind of looked into what are the 173 00:08:08,600 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 3: credits that I've earned at this point that I can 174 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 3: get through something quickly? Right when like radiology was like 175 00:08:18,480 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 3: one of the ones that popped up. Were you interested 176 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:22,600 Speaker 3: in that? Did you know really what it was? I 177 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 3: liked the medical field. I thought it was like an 178 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 3: easy place to get a job. I mean, my whole 179 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 3: plan was to wind up here in the music business. 180 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 3: What was going to get me their quick, quickest and 181 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 3: helped me pay my rent. 182 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 2: Only person that's ever come in too, said the medical 183 00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 2: industry is what was going to get me to Nashville 184 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 2: to write song. You're the only person that's ever happened 185 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 2: probably so so. 186 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 1: And you did that. You did radiology for a little bit. 187 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:46,160 Speaker 3: I did so I got here in twenty fifteen and 188 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 3: worked at a hospital in Nashville, and I worked there 189 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:53,880 Speaker 3: until the week I had my first number one in 190 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 3: twenty twenty. That's a wild story that's extremely versatile of you. Ye, 191 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 3: can you look at my ankle? You don't well you 192 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:05,080 Speaker 3: don't have the equipment. Oh kind of extra your ankle. Yeah, no, 193 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:06,000 Speaker 3: I don't have the equipment. 194 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:08,599 Speaker 1: But if you did, Oh I did Christy? 195 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:09,880 Speaker 2: Did you put the thing on where you have to 196 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 2: like where the cause you get you have to run 197 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:14,920 Speaker 2: out of the room right Like they're like, yeah, you're 198 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:19,320 Speaker 2: supposed to, but really, I mean, here's the thing. 199 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 3: Man, It's like takes too much. Like really you're supposed 200 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 3: to go get help, like where the thing? But man, 201 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:28,200 Speaker 3: when you're like patients are like coming in and out 202 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:30,320 Speaker 3: like a lot of the fast, you're gonna get backed up. 203 00:09:30,960 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 3: You're just kind of like, all right, well this will 204 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:34,280 Speaker 3: be quicker if I just don't go ask for helping 205 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 3: take the risk of Yeah, but my kids all you know, 206 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:41,880 Speaker 3: the two kids I have have all their fingers and toes. 207 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 3: So I think we made it out alive. 208 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 10: Good level, Okay, cass up thing little food for yourself 209 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:14,720 Speaker 10: life ain't. 210 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 9: Oh it's pretty, but it's pretty beautiful. Thing beautiful. 211 00:10:18,679 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 11: That's a little more family's exciting. 212 00:10:23,480 --> 00:10:28,959 Speaker 10: City, you're kicking it with full thing with Amy Brown. 213 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:30,720 Speaker 12: I think a good place to start for those of 214 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:33,680 Speaker 12: us that need a refresher, or maybe for anyone that's 215 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:36,480 Speaker 12: new to attachment theory, let's just start with out of 216 00:10:36,520 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 12: the gate, what is it and what are the four types? 217 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:42,720 Speaker 13: So attachment theory was originally studied by John Bowlby out 218 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 13: of Cambridge University and it's been like one of the 219 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:48,000 Speaker 13: most studied bodies of work around. It's essentially the study 220 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 13: of how your relationships with your parents or caregivers as 221 00:10:51,080 --> 00:10:55,480 Speaker 13: a child affect your adult romantic relationships because we essentially 222 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:59,080 Speaker 13: in our early relationship lives learn how to bond to people, 223 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:01,960 Speaker 13: We learn what needs should be met in relationships, what 224 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:04,320 Speaker 13: to expect, all by the way that we are parented 225 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 13: and taken care of in the home. And so there 226 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 13: are four major attachment styles, and one is the securely 227 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:14,679 Speaker 13: attached style. Then there's the anxious attachment style they dismiss 228 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 13: of attachment style, and then the fearful avoidant attachment style. 229 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:19,600 Speaker 13: So we'll break down maybe a little bit about how 230 00:11:19,640 --> 00:11:22,360 Speaker 13: each of those form and some symptoms of each one, 231 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:24,839 Speaker 13: so people can recognize themselves in this if they think 232 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:26,760 Speaker 13: they may be one of these four. I think it's 233 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:29,720 Speaker 13: important to note as well, every person has an attachment style, 234 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:33,280 Speaker 13: so it does affect every single person listening. So the 235 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:36,800 Speaker 13: first attachment style is the secure and secure attachment styles. 236 00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 13: In their childhood, they get a lot of what we 237 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:42,280 Speaker 13: call approach oriented behaviors, so they basically get a lot 238 00:11:42,280 --> 00:11:45,680 Speaker 13: of when they're distressed or sad, the parents are attuned 239 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:48,480 Speaker 13: to them and they recognize their distress and they go 240 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 13: towards them. They try to check in see what's wrong 241 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 13: with the child. And what this actually conditions a child 242 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 13: to feel and believe is that I can rely on people. 243 00:11:57,760 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 13: People are safe. I can trust that people will go 244 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:02,839 Speaker 13: me and take care of me, and I am worthy 245 00:12:02,840 --> 00:12:05,800 Speaker 13: of being loved even if I'm sad or upset, because 246 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:08,080 Speaker 13: even when I'm sad or upset, I still get that care. 247 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 13: So secure attachment sales make up roughly fifty percent of 248 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:14,839 Speaker 13: the population. Some more recent data shows that that's downtrending, 249 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:18,600 Speaker 13: so it's becoming less and less and they are the 250 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 13: ones that also report as adults having not just the 251 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:24,400 Speaker 13: longest lasting relationships, but I feel like they actually thrive 252 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 13: in their relationships the most, so feeling truly fulfilled when. 253 00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 12: It comes to the downtrending, is there a reason in 254 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:32,679 Speaker 12: the research why that's happening. 255 00:12:32,920 --> 00:12:35,640 Speaker 13: There are a lot of hypotheses for why. So one 256 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 13: of the first ones is that technology is playing a role. 257 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 13: You know, parents are distracted, people are distracted. We're not 258 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 13: as present, we're not as attuned, and that really is 259 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 13: providing that foundational component. So if people are constantly with 260 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:49,720 Speaker 13: their children, but they're on their phone, or they're busy, 261 00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:52,240 Speaker 13: or you know, technology is all around, then there's that 262 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:54,480 Speaker 13: lack of attunement that is one of the fundamental features 263 00:12:54,480 --> 00:12:57,680 Speaker 13: that builds that secure attachment connection. And then of course, 264 00:12:57,880 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 13: you know, there are other hypothesies that are like fineial 265 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 13: stressors for a lot of people. A couple generations ago, 266 00:13:03,400 --> 00:13:05,440 Speaker 13: usually there was one parent who could often be at 267 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:08,920 Speaker 13: home with the child and was the primary sharegiver. 268 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:08,959 Speaker 7: In that way. 269 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:10,520 Speaker 13: And now we have a lot more stress in the 270 00:13:10,559 --> 00:13:13,199 Speaker 13: world because of the way the world is working, in 271 00:13:13,240 --> 00:13:15,560 Speaker 13: the financial pressures. You know, both parents are often working, 272 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:17,800 Speaker 13: children are in daycare. So I think there's a lot 273 00:13:17,840 --> 00:13:20,520 Speaker 13: of those sorts of cultural features, and then you could 274 00:13:20,520 --> 00:13:22,480 Speaker 13: make a lot of arguments for the fact that the 275 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 13: more attachment trauma there is, you know, and the lack 276 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:28,160 Speaker 13: of resolution that exists there, you know, when there's a 277 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:30,840 Speaker 13: lot of like single parent households right now and things 278 00:13:30,840 --> 00:13:33,720 Speaker 13: of that nature. Again, all of these things are creating 279 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 13: this lack of a child being able to have that 280 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:39,359 Speaker 13: proper atonment, have that those approach oriented behaviors in childhood, 281 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:41,600 Speaker 13: and so those were probably some of those those threats 282 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 13: that tie in. 283 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 6: Okay, yea. 284 00:13:42,800 --> 00:13:45,240 Speaker 12: I'm just very curious about that, especially as being a 285 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 12: mom up to adopted kids and now as of twenty 286 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 12: twenty three, a single mom and you know, they're with 287 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:54,200 Speaker 12: me for a week and then their dad for a week. 288 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:56,200 Speaker 12: But we're both single and we're both doing the best 289 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:58,520 Speaker 12: that we can and both working. But you know, with 290 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:01,880 Speaker 12: them being adopted, they already have their own attachment styles. 291 00:14:01,920 --> 00:14:04,600 Speaker 12: And the good news is though we can all work 292 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:08,320 Speaker 12: towards secure We'll talk further into the episode about that, 293 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:09,840 Speaker 12: but there is some light there, right. 294 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:12,840 Speaker 13: One hundred percent, there is some light. And you know, 295 00:14:12,960 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 13: even if you are a single parent, but you have 296 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 13: the awareness of attachment theory and how it works. That 297 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:19,640 Speaker 13: has such a huge role. And I really stress on 298 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:21,880 Speaker 13: the single parent part because back in the day when 299 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:24,440 Speaker 13: I used to work with clients one to one, obviously 300 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 13: you're cold parenting, so it's more of a unique situation 301 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:29,040 Speaker 13: and that's that's usually a little bit easier, but single 302 00:14:29,080 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 13: parents have it tough. I mean the amount of like 303 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:35,800 Speaker 13: pressure to keep track of everything all the time, and 304 00:14:35,960 --> 00:14:38,080 Speaker 13: you know, there's a lot of weight on one person. 305 00:14:38,160 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 13: So we'll talk about strategies and all that good stuff, 306 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 13: but I just also want to acknowledge and like give 307 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:44,680 Speaker 13: a shout out to people who are single parents for 308 00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 13: cold parenting because it's not easy either. Like there's a 309 00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:50,600 Speaker 13: lot of pressure throughout the week on just one person. 310 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 3: We're going to do it live. 311 00:14:54,160 --> 00:15:00,640 Speaker 1: We are the one, two, three sore losers everybody. I 312 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 1: am lunchbox. 313 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:03,080 Speaker 14: I know the most about sports, so I'll give you 314 00:15:03,120 --> 00:15:06,960 Speaker 14: the sports facts, my sports opinions, because I'm pretty much 315 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 14: a sports genius, y'all. 316 00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:11,200 Speaker 1: It's Sison. I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male. 317 00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:13,480 Speaker 1: I live on the north side of Nashville with Bayser, 318 00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 1: my wife. We do have a farm. It's beautiful a 319 00:15:15,480 --> 00:15:19,320 Speaker 1: lot of acreage, no animals, a lot of crops, hopefully 320 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:24,360 Speaker 1: soon corn pumpkins, rye. I believe maybe a little fescue 321 00:15:25,720 --> 00:15:28,480 Speaker 1: to be determined. Over to you, coach. 322 00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 14: And here's a clip from this week's episode of The 323 00:15:31,840 --> 00:15:32,560 Speaker 14: Sore Losers. 324 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:37,240 Speaker 1: Say you just come to work tomorrow and you mail 325 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:40,800 Speaker 1: in the bone head? I mean, what if I don't 326 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:41,800 Speaker 1: mail in this podcast? 327 00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:41,960 Speaker 7: Man? 328 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:44,800 Speaker 1: No, what I'm saying. What if you mailed in a bonehead? 329 00:15:45,040 --> 00:15:49,840 Speaker 1: Would it be evident that you mailed it in? Probably? Okay, 330 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 1: that's the first day. Imagine if you just mailed it 331 00:15:52,480 --> 00:15:55,840 Speaker 1: in for a week. Imagine after a week, two weeks, dude, 332 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:58,160 Speaker 1: then the bonehead just gets dropped from the show because 333 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 1: it's so bad, all because you mailed it in on 334 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 1: that first day. And then it just starts. It's like 335 00:16:02,840 --> 00:16:07,640 Speaker 1: the butterfly effect. It's like Jimmer fer Debt. Dude, couldn't 336 00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:14,280 Speaker 1: be stopped in college, couldn't be stopped Utah b BYU 337 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 1: couldn't sniff the NBA court. Both Mormons right took the cap. 338 00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:22,960 Speaker 14: I don't think Utah youth are Mormons, right, but I 339 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:25,000 Speaker 14: don't think he couldn't sniff the court. 340 00:16:25,280 --> 00:16:26,520 Speaker 1: It's a wild. 341 00:16:26,720 --> 00:16:28,800 Speaker 14: How they do that, Like how they Oh, there's people 342 00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 14: that don't even play in college. They get like three 343 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:34,000 Speaker 14: points a game in their college basketball team, but then 344 00:16:34,040 --> 00:16:35,960 Speaker 14: they making the NBA explained it to me. 345 00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:39,160 Speaker 1: It makes no simp It can't be explained. It's this. 346 00:16:39,520 --> 00:16:41,960 Speaker 1: There's theories on I mean, it's the Johnny Manziel theory, 347 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:44,800 Speaker 1: other things like that. Dude, our best the I think 348 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:48,000 Speaker 1: the guy scored two thousand points Gwen High school. Look 349 00:16:48,040 --> 00:16:51,640 Speaker 1: him up. Jake Sardini. He was the shit. He was 350 00:16:51,680 --> 00:16:54,040 Speaker 1: the best player to do. Never missed every game, put 351 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:57,520 Speaker 1: up twenty five points. They're putting statues up in my hometown. 352 00:16:58,400 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 1: What school did he go to? I mean you would 353 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:04,080 Speaker 1: think Michigan State, Michigan bro. He went to Northern Michigan 354 00:17:04,160 --> 00:17:10,240 Speaker 1: University and rode the bench. Dude, he was the greatest 355 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:13,240 Speaker 1: player I saw in person. But he was white. He 356 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:15,879 Speaker 1: wasn't as quick. He had a great shot, very smooth. 357 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 1: He was a taller dude, just wasn't as quick. So 358 00:17:18,080 --> 00:17:19,679 Speaker 1: there was a reason for that. Now that you think 359 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:22,359 Speaker 1: about it, it's wow. Yeah, it makes it. It doesn't 360 00:17:22,359 --> 00:17:24,159 Speaker 1: make a lot of sense. It's very confusing to me. 361 00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:28,720 Speaker 1: But the fastest kid in my class, Tyler Norman. I'll 362 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:32,000 Speaker 1: never forget the newspaper article. It said sensational sophomore. We 363 00:17:32,080 --> 00:17:33,840 Speaker 1: never played with him because he kept getting brought up. 364 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:36,200 Speaker 1: He was so fast, best running back I've ever seen 365 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:38,159 Speaker 1: in person, and I would run next to him. I 366 00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:40,960 Speaker 1: was running in water. I wasn't actually blocking for him. 367 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:46,440 Speaker 1: But dude, he cooked. Okay, dude just started drinking lost 368 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:49,399 Speaker 1: the step. Didn't have a great senior year. Works at 369 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:54,800 Speaker 1: the lumber mill. It happened. That got depressing when works 370 00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:57,760 Speaker 1: at the lumber bill. Dude, when you are the best athlete. 371 00:17:57,840 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 1: He was quicker than scat bruh. He would I've never 372 00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:05,280 Speaker 1: seen a kid run eighty miles eighty yards and did like, 373 00:18:05,320 --> 00:18:07,280 Speaker 1: didn't even break a sweat. He would stiff arm ten 374 00:18:07,320 --> 00:18:09,560 Speaker 1: guys and get to the end zone. The greatest running 375 00:18:09,560 --> 00:18:11,680 Speaker 1: back I've seen with my two eyes five feet away 376 00:18:12,160 --> 00:18:14,639 Speaker 1: in the history of my life, except for Derrick Henry 377 00:18:14,640 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 1: when I called he was gonna be great with the Titans. 378 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 1: When I saw him at training camp, over to you, man, 379 00:18:19,320 --> 00:18:19,560 Speaker 1: I mean. 380 00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:21,919 Speaker 14: The best running back I ever saw in person was 381 00:18:21,960 --> 00:18:26,920 Speaker 14: Malcolm Brown. He went to the University of Texas, then 382 00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:28,520 Speaker 14: he went on to the NFL for a few years. 383 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:29,240 Speaker 1: He was a journeyman. 384 00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 14: But I went and saw his high school game because 385 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:35,600 Speaker 14: our buddy shipmate brother, they played high school football together. 386 00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:37,480 Speaker 14: And I saw him the first play. 387 00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 1: San Antonio tip mate. 388 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:43,600 Speaker 14: Sibilo Steele, and I said that dude, he got through 389 00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:47,760 Speaker 14: the line and he turned on a different, different gear 390 00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:50,879 Speaker 14: and pulled away from everybody by ten yards. And I 391 00:18:50,960 --> 00:18:53,359 Speaker 14: looked at shipmate and I said that dude can go 392 00:18:53,400 --> 00:18:54,679 Speaker 14: to the league. 393 00:18:54,920 --> 00:18:56,639 Speaker 1: That was how good he was. And did he he 394 00:18:56,680 --> 00:18:58,280 Speaker 1: went to the league? Was he decent? 395 00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:02,080 Speaker 14: He played five six years in the league, bounced around 396 00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:04,560 Speaker 14: from the Rams to the Dolphins, back to the Rams 397 00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:06,840 Speaker 14: over here over there, scored some touchdowns. 398 00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:08,680 Speaker 1: So you have an eye for guys and goes no, no. 399 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:10,640 Speaker 14: That was You're just saying the best one I'd ever seen. 400 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:12,439 Speaker 14: I didn't know him, but that was the first, like 401 00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:14,560 Speaker 14: best football player i'd seen. I was like, damn, that 402 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:15,560 Speaker 14: dude's really good. 403 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:18,240 Speaker 1: Like dude at the pool when on the West side 404 00:19:18,359 --> 00:19:20,320 Speaker 1: I had an eye for a girl, I would be like, 405 00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 1: that could be a Victoria's secret model. Oh. 406 00:19:24,160 --> 00:19:25,879 Speaker 14: I was at the pool and I was like, that 407 00:19:25,920 --> 00:19:29,359 Speaker 14: person cannot swim in the Olympics. 408 00:19:30,359 --> 00:19:32,919 Speaker 1: I missed the pool man. We get all drunk. Everybody 409 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:35,280 Speaker 1: did end up racing. Never forget when Baser and Eric 410 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:38,560 Speaker 1: Dodd raced each other. Who won? Uh it was one 411 00:19:38,600 --> 00:19:41,960 Speaker 1: of those where we let Eric's a really good swimmer. 412 00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:46,280 Speaker 1: Oh and I guess Eric. Eric was racing somebody else. 413 00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:49,600 Speaker 1: Baser was like floating on her back, kind of tipsy. 414 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:51,920 Speaker 1: She was feeling it a little bit, and she went 415 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:54,919 Speaker 1: into Dodd's path. Oh no, dude, Dodd said, when he 416 00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:58,160 Speaker 1: was coming down Michael phelpstyle with his hand, his hand 417 00:19:58,200 --> 00:19:59,800 Speaker 1: would have hit her right in the face and like 418 00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 1: crushed her. But he at the last second he saw 419 00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:04,760 Speaker 1: her out of the corner of his eye, sipping on 420 00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:07,119 Speaker 1: a Marguerite, a floating on her back. He was racing 421 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:10,240 Speaker 1: somebody else from the apartment complex. Immediately the race stopped 422 00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:12,920 Speaker 1: and one of these gen zers beat Dodd. And to 423 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:14,959 Speaker 1: this day Dodd would have won that race, probably went 424 00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:18,120 Speaker 1: to the Olympics instead. He thought of his friend Bazer, 425 00:20:18,960 --> 00:20:21,520 Speaker 1: hammered in the pool. Dodd saw it corner of his eye, 426 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:25,080 Speaker 1: stopped him from just hitting her in the face. So 427 00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:27,920 Speaker 1: he's basically a hero. Yeah, unbelievable, but yeah, Dodd was 428 00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:30,280 Speaker 1: one of the fastest swimmers in person. Man, I missed 429 00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:30,639 Speaker 1: the pool. 430 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:32,080 Speaker 14: Man, I missed the pool too, and I wish I 431 00:20:32,119 --> 00:20:34,200 Speaker 14: could swim. I'm not a very good swimmer. I'm very 432 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 14: slow at swimming on doggy paddle a lot. And if 433 00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:39,480 Speaker 14: I'm ever gonna be on Survivor, I've got to improve 434 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:42,240 Speaker 14: my swimming because they have all the swimming challenges. 435 00:20:42,040 --> 00:20:43,880 Speaker 1: And I am just not good. They have a ton 436 00:20:43,920 --> 00:20:44,240 Speaker 1: of them. 437 00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:46,240 Speaker 14: Yes, and you gotta dive down. I'm not good at 438 00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:48,240 Speaker 14: diving down to get the rings off the bottom. Your 439 00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:51,240 Speaker 14: ears start popping and you start freaking out underwater. 440 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:53,560 Speaker 1: That would be me on Survivor. So I've got to learn. 441 00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:55,480 Speaker 14: I've got to get a coach, got to figure out 442 00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:57,760 Speaker 14: some way to improve my swimming before. 443 00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:59,639 Speaker 1: I go on there. Wait, are you being serious? So 444 00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:02,440 Speaker 1: you're gonna start to do more water stuff? Yeah, dude, 445 00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:04,640 Speaker 1: I had the exact same epiphany in college, and I'll 446 00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:06,159 Speaker 1: tell you how it ended. I would go, if I'm 447 00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:08,800 Speaker 1: gonna do a iron man, i have to swim. Because 448 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 1: I'd done the mile, the twenty six miles, I hadn't 449 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:13,720 Speaker 1: done the bike. I learned I can do the bike 450 00:21:13,760 --> 00:21:15,840 Speaker 1: pretty easy. Thirty miles not bad. I guess you do 451 00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:17,840 Speaker 1: sixty or some shit, so I can do one hundred. 452 00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:20,919 Speaker 1: It's like one sixty two maybe, so you do thirty 453 00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:23,960 Speaker 1: one hundred, one hundred. Yeah, that's what it is. You 454 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:26,200 Speaker 1: do over one hundred. I did thirty without even trying, 455 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:28,480 Speaker 1: so I was like, I can probably do it. So anyways, 456 00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:30,160 Speaker 1: then I was like, I just have to do the swimming, dude. 457 00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 1: I went to the Texas State Pool. Oh it was miserable. 458 00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:35,720 Speaker 1: It's so hard. I did it for a week straight 459 00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:37,920 Speaker 1: and I was like, swimming is the hardest sport ever. 460 00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:40,760 Speaker 1: The iron Man it was a great thought, but I'm 461 00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:43,480 Speaker 1: gonna hang it up after the marathon. That was fun. Yeah, 462 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:45,520 Speaker 1: swimming is a very You don't realize how hard it 463 00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:48,080 Speaker 1: is to swim. Either you're born with it or you're not. 464 00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:50,760 Speaker 1: Maybe it's Maybolene. I'm not born with it because I 465 00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:52,040 Speaker 1: am not. I'm like a freaking anchor. 466 00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:53,879 Speaker 14: I get in that water and I just sink and 467 00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:55,840 Speaker 14: I try to swim and I don't go anywhere. I 468 00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:58,119 Speaker 14: slap that water and it doesn't move, Like I'm not 469 00:21:58,280 --> 00:21:59,359 Speaker 14: gliding through that water. 470 00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:01,199 Speaker 1: I need help, See, That's what I'm saying. Just like 471 00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:03,840 Speaker 1: bezers floating on their back. Some people are meant to float. 472 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:05,680 Speaker 1: They say a baby can float if you just throw 473 00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:09,240 Speaker 1: it on its ass or something. Yeah, some I feel 474 00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:19,480 Speaker 1: like some people's equilibrium weight distribution is just better than others. 475 00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:26,920 Speaker 15: Hey, it's Mike d and this week All Movie Mike's 476 00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:29,119 Speaker 15: Movie Podcast. I had my wife Kelsey on and we 477 00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:31,280 Speaker 15: did Movies of the Month. It's where we recap all 478 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:33,600 Speaker 15: the movies we've seen in the last sixty days. What 479 00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:35,480 Speaker 15: was the best and that you should spend your time 480 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:37,640 Speaker 15: and money on, and what was the worst of what 481 00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:40,960 Speaker 15: you should avoid or wait until it goes on to streaming. 482 00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:43,520 Speaker 15: I also gave my spoiler free review of The Wild Robot, 483 00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:46,200 Speaker 15: which is right now my favorite animated movie of the year. 484 00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:48,199 Speaker 9: So be sure to go check out this full episode. 485 00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:49,680 Speaker 15: But right now, here's a little bit of Kelsey and 486 00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:53,080 Speaker 15: I talking about our best movies of the month. I 487 00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:55,960 Speaker 15: think I watched more movies in September out of any 488 00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:56,680 Speaker 15: month this year. 489 00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:57,760 Speaker 6: You watched a lot of movies. 490 00:22:57,840 --> 00:22:58,120 Speaker 9: I went. 491 00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:00,879 Speaker 15: You were away for I feel like a week, and 492 00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:01,960 Speaker 15: I went to the movies like. 493 00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:03,199 Speaker 9: Two times during that. 494 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:04,680 Speaker 6: I went to New York. It was great. 495 00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:07,600 Speaker 9: September is also where horror movies start. 496 00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:09,280 Speaker 15: So I went to the movies a lot without you 497 00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:11,760 Speaker 15: because you're like, nah, ain't doing that. But what was 498 00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 15: the best movie in your opinion for September. I'm curious 499 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:18,320 Speaker 15: to see Easy my Old Ass with Aubrey Plaza so 500 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:19,120 Speaker 15: good and. 501 00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:22,760 Speaker 6: Mazie Stella directed by Megan Park who a lot of 502 00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:24,359 Speaker 6: people know where she was on The Secret Life for 503 00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:27,600 Speaker 6: the American Teenager, which was now the campiest shows of 504 00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:30,399 Speaker 6: all time. But yeah, she's written two and directed two 505 00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 6: really great films now on The Fallout, which was on 506 00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:36,879 Speaker 6: HBO Max which in a Orteka, right, yep, great film, 507 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:40,040 Speaker 6: and then this one, which was a completely different direction, 508 00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:42,920 Speaker 6: a lot more lighthearted. She's really good. Like I didn't 509 00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:44,800 Speaker 6: really know what to expect. I was worried that it 510 00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:46,000 Speaker 6: was gonna be one of those where you see all 511 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:48,840 Speaker 6: the funny parts in the trailer, but it was so 512 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:52,960 Speaker 6: heartwarming and heartfelt, and the people behind us after the 513 00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,359 Speaker 6: movie was overclapped to cover the sound of them crying. 514 00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:58,160 Speaker 9: We rarely hear that clapping in movies right. 515 00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:00,000 Speaker 6: Now, Yeah, I can't think of the last one. 516 00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:02,760 Speaker 15: Even in the last superhero movies that we've gone to, 517 00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:05,480 Speaker 15: there hasn't been clapping like Wolverine Deadpole. 518 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:07,920 Speaker 6: Personally, I clapped at the end of Twister, but. 519 00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:10,440 Speaker 15: I feel like that whole clapping has kind of gone away. 520 00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:12,119 Speaker 15: I was kind of surprised to hear that. But that 521 00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:14,680 Speaker 15: movie is emotional. It's a really good coming of age 522 00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:18,240 Speaker 15: story done in a different way. What happens is main 523 00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:22,280 Speaker 15: character takes some mushrooms, causing her to hallucinate, has a 524 00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:25,960 Speaker 15: really bad trip, and Aubrey Plaza comes in as the 525 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:28,480 Speaker 15: older version of herself, the forty year old version of herself, 526 00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:33,080 Speaker 15: to tell her teenage self some advice, and she's able 527 00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:35,719 Speaker 15: to communicate with her from the future. I love that 528 00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:39,119 Speaker 15: the movie existed in reality, but also nobody questioned what 529 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:39,800 Speaker 15: was happening Thereah. 530 00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:42,240 Speaker 6: I never were like, how are you calling yourself in 531 00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:44,639 Speaker 6: the future. It just was like it wasn't a plot line. 532 00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:45,720 Speaker 6: It just was the plot. 533 00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:47,320 Speaker 9: And I like movies that do that. It's like, hey, 534 00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:48,320 Speaker 9: this is the facts. 535 00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,000 Speaker 15: Don't think too much into it, suspend belief and allow 536 00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:53,600 Speaker 15: yourself to enjoy it. And that movie was a lot 537 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 15: more emotional than I was expecting. I feel in the 538 00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:59,080 Speaker 15: last couple of movies we saw in theaters, aside from Joker, 539 00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:03,439 Speaker 15: I had all emotional experiences of almost crying, like getting 540 00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:06,479 Speaker 15: really emotional. There's one specific moment in this movie that 541 00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:09,119 Speaker 15: will just hit you like a ton of bricks. The 542 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:11,440 Speaker 15: only thing I wish it had more was Abrey Plaza. 543 00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:13,800 Speaker 6: I just wish it was longer. Yeah, I wanted more 544 00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 6: of the movie in general. 545 00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:18,200 Speaker 15: And I think it's because Plaza is such a big star. 546 00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:21,720 Speaker 15: I feel like she was probably there for maybe a week. 547 00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:24,280 Speaker 6: Well, she's also in like Everything under the Center. Now 548 00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:27,480 Speaker 6: she's an Agatha along Megalopolis. It's not how he's saying. Yeah, 549 00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:29,679 Speaker 6: that's a lot of words in one. I feel like 550 00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:32,399 Speaker 6: her filming schedule was pretty tight, but this was filmed 551 00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:33,120 Speaker 6: like years ago. 552 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:35,720 Speaker 15: Yeah, I just feel like I wanted more of her 553 00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:37,000 Speaker 15: whole plot. 554 00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:38,919 Speaker 9: Line in that movie. And I feel like that's kind 555 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:39,560 Speaker 9: of how they sold it. 556 00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:41,320 Speaker 15: Even if you watch the trailer, you think it's gonna 557 00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 15: be a lot more of their interactions. But I think 558 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:46,879 Speaker 15: they use her name to get people into it. But 559 00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:49,000 Speaker 15: once you're there, it's a really good story that you 560 00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:51,080 Speaker 15: probably couldn't sell without her attached to it. 561 00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:52,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, it was great for. 562 00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:57,960 Speaker 15: My best of September between two movies. I am between 563 00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:01,080 Speaker 15: the wild Robot and I am between the Substance. 564 00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:03,520 Speaker 6: If you don't go Wilder Robot, I'm shocked you felt 565 00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:04,520 Speaker 6: things in that movie. 566 00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:05,240 Speaker 9: I did. 567 00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:07,880 Speaker 15: And I'm going to get into my full review here 568 00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:10,040 Speaker 15: in a minute, but I think I'm going to go 569 00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:13,800 Speaker 15: with the Substance, just because I went into that movie 570 00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:16,960 Speaker 15: not knowing anything about it. If you didn't listen to 571 00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,399 Speaker 15: that review, it's essentially about Debbie Morre's character. 572 00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:21,160 Speaker 9: She turns fifty years old. 573 00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:25,600 Speaker 15: She has like this morning fitness workout show, and Dennis 574 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:28,159 Speaker 15: Quait is her boss, and on her fiftieth birthday he 575 00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:32,280 Speaker 15: fires her because thinks her star is passed. They need 576 00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:34,360 Speaker 15: to move on to something new and fresh. And then 577 00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:37,720 Speaker 15: Demi Moore's character gets into a car accident. While she's 578 00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:41,520 Speaker 15: at the doctor, there's this weird medical dude who works 579 00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:43,600 Speaker 15: as an assistant and tells her about this black market 580 00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:46,399 Speaker 15: drug called the Substance that you take it and it 581 00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:50,160 Speaker 15: creates a better version of yourself. It essentially goes into 582 00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:53,280 Speaker 15: your DNA and spawns out another human, and that other 583 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:56,400 Speaker 15: human in the movie happens to be Margaret Quayley. And 584 00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:59,159 Speaker 15: then the catch is that every seven days they have 585 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:02,160 Speaker 15: to switch back, so for a week she's living as 586 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:04,520 Speaker 15: Demi Moore, and then for the next week she's living 587 00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:07,400 Speaker 15: as Margaret Quayley, and then you find out all about 588 00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:09,080 Speaker 15: the struggle of going back and forth. 589 00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:10,680 Speaker 9: Big feminism movie. 590 00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:15,400 Speaker 15: It's a big commentary on how Hollywood treats women who 591 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:17,000 Speaker 15: age in the industry. 592 00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:19,600 Speaker 6: Which like Demi Moore has aged so beautifully. 593 00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:22,560 Speaker 15: She has this is her best role, and I feel 594 00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:24,560 Speaker 15: like she took it for a very specific reason, maybe 595 00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:26,639 Speaker 15: because she's felt some of these things in her career, 596 00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:30,760 Speaker 15: and I can only imagine how awful people in power 597 00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:34,399 Speaker 15: in Hollywood are towards women casting women that I feel 598 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:38,520 Speaker 15: like roles for women at her point in her career 599 00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:42,040 Speaker 15: are probably harder to come by than roles for men. 600 00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:43,960 Speaker 15: I mean, even looking at this movie, Dennis quitated like 601 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:47,080 Speaker 15: seventy something, Yeah, and he's still getting a lot of work. 602 00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:49,520 Speaker 15: And I feel like she probably took this to have 603 00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:52,160 Speaker 15: that commentary of like, this is something that's actually happening, 604 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:55,440 Speaker 15: and yes, this is a really bizarre way to make 605 00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:57,640 Speaker 15: this point, but it's a point we want to make. 606 00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:00,320 Speaker 15: And it was a movie that I felt, for the 607 00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:02,000 Speaker 15: first time in a while, had like a lot to 608 00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,760 Speaker 15: say and did it in a really unique way, and 609 00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:07,600 Speaker 15: it really committed to its craziness because it's not for everybody. 610 00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:09,600 Speaker 15: I think you would go watch it and think the 611 00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:12,280 Speaker 15: heck is going on here? You have people turning into 612 00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:15,880 Speaker 15: weird monsters, you have all these supernatural events. The end 613 00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:19,600 Speaker 15: of the movie is like completely throwing everything against the wall. 614 00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:22,199 Speaker 15: So it does all those things to kind of appease 615 00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:24,840 Speaker 15: to like the horror fan. But I felt like the 616 00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:27,520 Speaker 15: message of it was something that I walked away with thinking, oh, 617 00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:30,960 Speaker 15: that's actually a really cool and interesting way to say that. 618 00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:33,520 Speaker 15: And I had no idea the movie is gonna affect 619 00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:33,840 Speaker 15: me as. 620 00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:34,360 Speaker 9: Much as it did. 621 00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:37,200 Speaker 6: Two quick notes that don't necessarily have to the movie, 622 00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:40,120 Speaker 6: but it's cast. I watched a clip on TikTok of 623 00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:43,320 Speaker 6: Demi Moore's interview with I think it's like CBS Sunday 624 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:46,480 Speaker 6: Mornings talking about life with like Bruce willis now and 625 00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:50,360 Speaker 6: it just was so beautiful of like where they're meeting him, 626 00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:52,680 Speaker 6: where he's at and like with his journey with dementia, 627 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:55,280 Speaker 6: and she talked about she was like, I'm trying not 628 00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:57,400 Speaker 6: to dwell on like the Bruce I used to know 629 00:28:57,520 --> 00:28:59,560 Speaker 6: and like finding the joy of where he is and 630 00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:01,760 Speaker 6: it was so And then there's a really funny clip 631 00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:06,040 Speaker 6: of Margaret Queeley on Fallon talking about how, like all 632 00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:08,520 Speaker 6: of her movies this year, Driveway Dolls, kinds of kindness 633 00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:10,640 Speaker 6: and the substance, and she's like, none of my family 634 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:13,440 Speaker 6: can see any of these. She's like, I'm probably naked 635 00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:15,480 Speaker 6: in most of them. She's like, can't take anyone to 636 00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:15,840 Speaker 6: see them. 637 00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:19,520 Speaker 15: Yeah, her whole introduction in this movie, her first scene, 638 00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:22,000 Speaker 15: she's almost naked for Oh, it's say a good four 639 00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:22,760 Speaker 15: or five minutes. 640 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:26,200 Speaker 6: So it was just that's a funny clip. Yeah, I 641 00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:27,880 Speaker 6: don't think I have any interest in seeing the movie. 642 00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:29,160 Speaker 6: Love both of them don't want to see it. 643 00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:29,400 Speaker 9: Yeah. 644 00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,440 Speaker 15: I think that's another reason is like some people have 645 00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:33,800 Speaker 15: a feeling about nudity in movies. 646 00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:35,240 Speaker 9: I feel like in this movie. 647 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:36,320 Speaker 6: That's not why I don't see it. 648 00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:39,120 Speaker 15: No, But I'm just saying first, I'm just adding all 649 00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,760 Speaker 15: the reasons that, like all the strikes that this movie 650 00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:44,640 Speaker 15: has against itself. Oh yeah, there's the horror element, which 651 00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:46,560 Speaker 15: there's some things in this movie that were a little 652 00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:48,280 Speaker 15: unsettling to me. But I like the fact that they 653 00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:50,120 Speaker 15: made me feel certain ways. You know, I have a 654 00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:53,080 Speaker 15: weird thing about bones breaking. Anytime there's any kind of 655 00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:54,920 Speaker 15: video where I know somebody's bone is gonna break, I 656 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:57,040 Speaker 15: won't watch it. Is there just something about that feeling 657 00:29:57,120 --> 00:29:58,160 Speaker 15: and about that anticipation. 658 00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:00,000 Speaker 6: Is that why you wouldn't look at foot last year 659 00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:01,360 Speaker 6: when I broke broke it. 660 00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:04,520 Speaker 15: That's different because that's not it snapping, but like something 661 00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:07,200 Speaker 15: like somebody's skateboarding. I don't want to see that. I 662 00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:10,360 Speaker 15: don't want to hear it. That just strikes a nerve 663 00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:12,320 Speaker 15: with me. And there's some of that in this movie. 664 00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:16,440 Speaker 15: So there's those horror elements, but also the nudity, which 665 00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:19,000 Speaker 15: would keep some people away from watching it. But I 666 00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:22,920 Speaker 15: think it's used in a way to show vulnerability in 667 00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:23,880 Speaker 15: this movie. 668 00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:25,880 Speaker 9: Like the fact. I think they used prosthetics too, so 669 00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:27,120 Speaker 9: I don't know if that was actually yea. 670 00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:32,080 Speaker 6: Margaret Quaily said that her chest was enhanced. 671 00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:33,960 Speaker 15: But it seems like it's just them putting themselves out there. 672 00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:36,520 Speaker 15: Even though if you don't know going into it that 673 00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:38,600 Speaker 15: it's probably all prosthetics, you think, man. 674 00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:42,240 Speaker 9: Really that's a lot. That's a big commitment. 675 00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:45,800 Speaker 15: I just imagine, like as an actor being in those 676 00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:49,000 Speaker 15: situations you think you're just watching it as the viewer, 677 00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:50,840 Speaker 15: there's nobody there, but if you look behind the camera, 678 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:51,360 Speaker 15: there's all. 679 00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:53,640 Speaker 6: These seven thousand people there. It's like when people have 680 00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:56,960 Speaker 6: to film like intimate scenes and I'm just like that 681 00:30:57,400 --> 00:30:58,320 Speaker 6: that sounds awful. 682 00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:01,600 Speaker 15: Everybody seeing your kibbles and Bits is like like what 683 00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:03,080 Speaker 15: is like, how do you even call it? 684 00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:04,520 Speaker 6: Ever again and Bits? 685 00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:08,360 Speaker 15: I don't think you realize how hard it is to 686 00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 15: have chemistry come across on screen because you're interacting with 687 00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:17,280 Speaker 15: this person across from you, trying to have this connection 688 00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:20,440 Speaker 15: and have that come across on screen. Meanwhile, there are 689 00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:23,600 Speaker 15: lights on you, there are people running around, and. 690 00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:27,560 Speaker 6: You're also faking a connection. Yes, that's the thing too, 691 00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:30,320 Speaker 6: is it's like you're That's where people say acting is 692 00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:32,960 Speaker 6: so weird because you like have to emotionally get into 693 00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:35,360 Speaker 6: the part, but you're like not trying to fall in 694 00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:38,000 Speaker 6: love with this person, but you have to portray that you. 695 00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:38,880 Speaker 1: Are in love. 696 00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:41,480 Speaker 9: I think, yeah, I think that's the hardest thing to do. 697 00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:44,320 Speaker 15: That's why a lot of rom comms fail is because 698 00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:47,400 Speaker 15: people are unable to have that chemistry, which it's so 699 00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:48,200 Speaker 15: relyingt on. 700 00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:05,160 Speaker 1: Car Queen talking if you so, she's getting really not 701 00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:08,320 Speaker 1: afraid to fail EISO, so just let it float. 702 00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:15,080 Speaker 15: No one can do quiet like carylne is sound a carelun. 703 00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:17,120 Speaker 6: It is what it is. 704 00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:20,640 Speaker 4: And even though it was like the high status of 705 00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:22,480 Speaker 4: people that y'all deal with, like I feel like as 706 00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:25,600 Speaker 4: me as a people pleaser, now I've like healed a 707 00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,120 Speaker 4: lot of that, but I would have had a nervous 708 00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:31,200 Speaker 4: reaction every time I was like in a situation with 709 00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:33,120 Speaker 4: the people that you are with, because I feel so 710 00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:34,600 Speaker 4: much pressure to make sure they like me? 711 00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:35,840 Speaker 5: What if they don't like your hair makeup? 712 00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:38,000 Speaker 4: What if they don't like Do you ever feel that, like, 713 00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:39,880 Speaker 4: what if they're not happy with like what you did? 714 00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,000 Speaker 5: Or you feel like you're wondering how about it? 715 00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:47,960 Speaker 16: How are you supposed to either I mean somebody says, hey, 716 00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:51,280 Speaker 16: can you change this? Or they don't communicate and they 717 00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:53,920 Speaker 16: don't like it or whatever. But I mean, when you 718 00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:59,080 Speaker 16: like go to do somebody's glam and they don't let 719 00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:02,360 Speaker 16: you know if to change it, how are you supposed to? 720 00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:04,680 Speaker 16: What am I magine? I can't read your mind? 721 00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:05,800 Speaker 11: So true? 722 00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:08,160 Speaker 4: It all comes back to being able to communicate, speak 723 00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:10,240 Speaker 4: your truth and express yourself Yeah, it's okay. 724 00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:12,479 Speaker 17: You're not an asshole for saying what you like and 725 00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:14,200 Speaker 17: what you don't like, not at all, as long as 726 00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:16,800 Speaker 17: you say in a kind way. Yeah I'm not great. 727 00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:17,520 Speaker 11: That's what we're here for. 728 00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:19,400 Speaker 5: A process. 729 00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:21,360 Speaker 11: Oh good news, it's not tattooed on your face. I 730 00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:22,280 Speaker 11: can change the light. 731 00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,400 Speaker 17: We actually want you to tell us. We want you 732 00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:26,080 Speaker 17: to tell yes. 733 00:33:26,160 --> 00:33:29,360 Speaker 16: Oh my god. I feel like that's the biggest like misconception. 734 00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:33,360 Speaker 11: Tell your glam people if you don't like something. 735 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:38,240 Speaker 16: God, very very it's not a big deal. Nobody cares. 736 00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:41,800 Speaker 16: Just let's fix it so you feel good. Jeez, jeez, 737 00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:43,640 Speaker 16: we'll just try. 738 00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:45,040 Speaker 11: You know, we're tiny little. 739 00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:48,840 Speaker 17: Blips and just a universe of just grandness that what 740 00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:49,760 Speaker 17: what are we really? 741 00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:50,960 Speaker 9: What are we doing? 742 00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:51,920 Speaker 5: Can I okay? 743 00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:52,240 Speaker 11: Okay? 744 00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:53,320 Speaker 4: I have a few questions and they kind of do 745 00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:54,680 Speaker 4: a few rapid fire with you all because I feel 746 00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:58,480 Speaker 4: like this will be fun. First, Uh, biggest beauty regret 747 00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:03,200 Speaker 4: mine is my rope attaching eyebrows. That was a massive mistake. 748 00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:06,520 Speaker 4: Now they're blue. I have like eyeliner on them, and 749 00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:07,880 Speaker 4: that's another thing. I don't know how to do my eyebrows, Like, 750 00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:09,239 Speaker 4: how are you supposed to do eye ross, but like I 751 00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:09,839 Speaker 4: regret them. 752 00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:15,040 Speaker 11: My eyeliner, I did brown eyeliner. 753 00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:17,319 Speaker 5: That's what I'm using, So I need to make up 754 00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:19,040 Speaker 5: refresh right now. 755 00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:23,000 Speaker 11: You think, yeah, they do that's eyeliner. 756 00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:25,440 Speaker 5: I think it's a I think it's just regular eyeliner. 757 00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:28,279 Speaker 6: That's browne Okay. 758 00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:29,240 Speaker 1: A right, good nice. 759 00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:31,319 Speaker 5: But you guys said it didn't look bad. 760 00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:34,120 Speaker 11: We know it doesn't. It doesn't look bad. Do you 761 00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:35,080 Speaker 11: do a tinted gel? 762 00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:35,560 Speaker 9: No? 763 00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:36,360 Speaker 5: I do nothing. 764 00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:41,799 Speaker 4: I literally do a little eyeliner on my eyebrows, a tiny, tiny. 765 00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:45,200 Speaker 11: Sheer of liquid eyeliner. 766 00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:46,360 Speaker 5: What would you correct? 767 00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:48,520 Speaker 11: Just be brutal, okay, be brutal. 768 00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:54,160 Speaker 16: I would do a tinted gel instead of your liner pencil. 769 00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:57,080 Speaker 16: I would do a pot, like a paint pot on 770 00:34:57,120 --> 00:34:58,359 Speaker 16: your eye instead of this. 771 00:34:58,840 --> 00:34:59,600 Speaker 5: It's a paint pot. 772 00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:04,160 Speaker 16: It's gonna just make your lid like all one color 773 00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:05,880 Speaker 16: and stay all day and it's so eat. 774 00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:07,120 Speaker 11: It's like very user friendly. 775 00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:12,359 Speaker 5: Okay, blush and blush in this. 776 00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:15,400 Speaker 11: I would I would pop on like, uh, what are you? 777 00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:16,600 Speaker 11: What foundation are you using? 778 00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:19,280 Speaker 6: You have nothing nothing? 779 00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:22,160 Speaker 11: You're scared the French girl, you're so beautiful. 780 00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:23,600 Speaker 4: Wow, thank you. 781 00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:26,440 Speaker 5: But because I don't know I need. Honestly we should. 782 00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:27,600 Speaker 5: If y'all could do. 783 00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:30,239 Speaker 4: Every day makeup tutorial for like the people who are 784 00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:32,240 Speaker 4: idiots with may, that would be so helpful. 785 00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:35,000 Speaker 16: We will, that would be very very I would love 786 00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:38,640 Speaker 16: for you to have more can your guinea pig? 787 00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:41,319 Speaker 11: Yes, okay, I wouldn't. That says like my every day. 788 00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:42,800 Speaker 11: But it's probably heavier than most people. 789 00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:45,680 Speaker 5: Maybe it's a little put on foundation every day. 790 00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:46,879 Speaker 11: But it's illia though. 791 00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:49,839 Speaker 16: Yeah, it's like nothing. Oh I wear foundations every day 792 00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:53,240 Speaker 16: like nothing. Okay, it's tinted, it's got SPF one hundred 793 00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:53,880 Speaker 16: and ninety. 794 00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:54,680 Speaker 11: Or the color science. 795 00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:55,640 Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with the colors. 796 00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:58,160 Speaker 5: Are we supposed to do cheeks up high or down low? 797 00:35:58,200 --> 00:35:58,279 Speaker 6: Now? 798 00:35:58,320 --> 00:35:59,960 Speaker 5: Because I've been seeing this on Instagram that. 799 00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:01,719 Speaker 11: No one ever said down low? 800 00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:04,400 Speaker 5: I don't tell me now you're supposed to do it 801 00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:06,040 Speaker 5: here and not here? No, that's such a weird thing, 802 00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:07,640 Speaker 5: No Instagram. 803 00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:10,840 Speaker 17: Well, trends are always, they're changing for always, forever changing. 804 00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:12,759 Speaker 11: You still want to lift everything left? 805 00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:15,520 Speaker 5: The toner here, the bronze are here? You do the 806 00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:16,120 Speaker 5: bronze are here? 807 00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:16,719 Speaker 4: Can we have a. 808 00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:20,480 Speaker 11: Conversation about her? You want to be here? 809 00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:21,719 Speaker 6: I'm just kidding. 810 00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:25,400 Speaker 5: I'm so bad at makeup. It's so funny, it's embarrassing. 811 00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:29,440 Speaker 9: I know, the hell is she talking about? 812 00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:33,759 Speaker 11: Welcome back to myt I liquid. 813 00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:38,520 Speaker 4: Seriously, people are dying out here and need your help 814 00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:41,320 Speaker 4: every day, every day, just an every day bronzer. 815 00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:42,319 Speaker 11: Yeah, bronze are. 816 00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:45,400 Speaker 5: Just where to apply it? How to apply it? And 817 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:45,960 Speaker 5: what's a. 818 00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:46,680 Speaker 11: Nice little trick? 819 00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:48,120 Speaker 1: Three? 820 00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:51,759 Speaker 17: Oh, take your little bronzer and make a little three 821 00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:54,279 Speaker 17: and just go like the contour of your face so 822 00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:55,960 Speaker 17: you see where like your cheap bone is just like 823 00:36:56,440 --> 00:36:57,640 Speaker 17: here and then here. 824 00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:00,080 Speaker 11: And then just this is the perfect time to zoom 825 00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:01,880 Speaker 11: in on her face. Yeah, you're like, do you understand 826 00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:02,640 Speaker 11: what I'm playing her now? 827 00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:03,200 Speaker 1: Yeah? 828 00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:04,879 Speaker 4: Yeah, But then I'm gonna be walking around and people 829 00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:05,920 Speaker 4: are gonna see a three on my. 830 00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:10,800 Speaker 11: Face, So Carol can't just like three? 831 00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:15,200 Speaker 9: And then you're like, I did it. 832 00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:15,759 Speaker 6: I just try. 833 00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:17,480 Speaker 5: I want to know people who are not good at makeup. 834 00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:19,799 Speaker 4: It is overwhelming, Like makeup is a scary thing because 835 00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:22,200 Speaker 4: there's so many things to do, like a language. 836 00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:23,040 Speaker 5: I'm not good at. 837 00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:23,680 Speaker 11: It at all. 838 00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:25,480 Speaker 5: I'm not good at hair and I'm not gonna make it. 839 00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:27,839 Speaker 11: Okay, And well, what are you gonna start doing your 840 00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:28,600 Speaker 11: hair though. From now on. 841 00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:31,160 Speaker 5: I'm gonna put sea salt spray in. 842 00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:33,799 Speaker 11: It, and you're gonna braid it, and I'm gonna braid it, and. 843 00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:34,520 Speaker 5: I'm gonna sleep in it. 844 00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:37,600 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, And I'm gonna get two braids in a 845 00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:38,560 Speaker 4: big phone roller. 846 00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:40,200 Speaker 11: And a big phone roller. I'm gonna send you a 847 00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:42,719 Speaker 11: little bit vidia. I'm not it's probably gonna be uncomfortable 848 00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:44,960 Speaker 11: when you sleep though. Oh do you know I have one? 849 00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:46,680 Speaker 5: Do you guys have any beauty regrets? Because I have 850 00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:51,200 Speaker 5: lots obviously, but jah, you did it? 851 00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:52,839 Speaker 11: Oh you know that. 852 00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:56,000 Speaker 16: And I didn't wear sunscreen for a really long time 853 00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:57,840 Speaker 16: and I've got some sun spots. 854 00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:01,200 Speaker 11: But that, I mean, it is what it is. Was 855 00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:02,040 Speaker 11: there a dog here? 856 00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:04,399 Speaker 4: There is a podcast with a dog a dog. It's 857 00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:09,000 Speaker 4: called in the Bets Office and the Dog Jos with 858 00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:09,799 Speaker 4: the Dogs Jos. 859 00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:12,719 Speaker 11: She's crost anymore, she's not. 860 00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:16,239 Speaker 5: She's the best, saving the dogs, saving the dog. 861 00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:20,600 Speaker 17: I did get a cheek filler once you and I 862 00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:21,160 Speaker 17: hated it. 863 00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:24,360 Speaker 9: That is what hated it. 864 00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:27,279 Speaker 11: I just get botox, just photo, just like a little feather, 865 00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:27,719 Speaker 11: nothing like. 866 00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:28,560 Speaker 9: That's it. 867 00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:29,640 Speaker 11: I've done filler. 868 00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:32,440 Speaker 17: I don't like it. It made me chip like a chipmunk. 869 00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:34,480 Speaker 17: I didn't know whose face I was looking at. 870 00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:36,840 Speaker 4: It's a little much. I got there one time, like 871 00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:38,120 Speaker 4: six years ago and dissolved it. 872 00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:39,440 Speaker 11: That's what it was, is this. 873 00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:42,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, so you'll keep it simple? 874 00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:47,400 Speaker 17: Yeah, no lips I did years ago and then it stayed. 875 00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:49,600 Speaker 5: It looks great, and now I just do a lip flip, 876 00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:50,319 Speaker 5: a liip flip. 877 00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:51,640 Speaker 1: But I already had like. 878 00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:52,399 Speaker 9: Fuller lips too. 879 00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:54,320 Speaker 11: You did too, Yeah, okay? 880 00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:57,520 Speaker 4: And then one last thought thoughts on underline. I want 881 00:38:57,520 --> 00:39:01,040 Speaker 4: her under under I want I haven't under my eyes 882 00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:02,000 Speaker 4: a little bit. 883 00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:03,560 Speaker 9: I'm sorry, can't go back. 884 00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:05,640 Speaker 11: I'm not sure. 885 00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:07,240 Speaker 1: Question. 886 00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:08,880 Speaker 11: What's the question? 887 00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:11,680 Speaker 1: Can't we wear eyelind or under eyes? 888 00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:15,600 Speaker 3: Are you? 889 00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:18,160 Speaker 11: Are you asking? What do we think about it? 890 00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:18,760 Speaker 5: Is it allowed? 891 00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:19,680 Speaker 1: It on right now? 892 00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:20,640 Speaker 11: Of course that's allowed. 893 00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:21,000 Speaker 1: Okay. 894 00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:23,040 Speaker 5: I didn't know. I just have a little under their back. 895 00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:25,120 Speaker 5: Some people say, like never on the waterline. 896 00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:36,080 Speaker 11: I have to be on it in your water It 897 00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:38,759 Speaker 11: was where you can do anything you want. You know, 898 00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:41,760 Speaker 11: what would might be like a little help. 899 00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:44,560 Speaker 5: I don't see anything I need I need help. 900 00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:55,600 Speaker 2: Okay, there you go. The Sunday Sampler. Thank you for 901 00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:57,960 Speaker 2: listening to it. Maybe this is all you listen to, 902 00:39:58,040 --> 00:40:01,520 Speaker 2: this one episode of all the the different shows. But 903 00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:03,640 Speaker 2: if you like any of the shows, go search for 904 00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:06,600 Speaker 2: them subscribe to them. 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