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Speaker 1: One on three five, Good Morning, Jason Brown, Owner Bonner

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Speaker 1: at the home. Yeah, is it? Is it a point

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Speaker 1: of contention? I mean, is it like an argument or

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Speaker 1: people upset about this what's happening in the house right now.

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Speaker 1: It's like a continuing sort of issue that's going on.

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Speaker 1: So I've been working from home a lot, like in

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Speaker 1: the afternoons now after the show, but then also before that,

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Speaker 1: I was at home most of the time. And so

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Speaker 1: I get off at five thirty and kind of do

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Speaker 1: my thing and like, you know whatever. Well, my boyfriend,

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Speaker 1: he owns his own business, so he gets home at

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Speaker 1: all different times during the day, and so I'm i

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Speaker 1: get hungry, you know, like it's dinner time, like I'm

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Speaker 1: ready to eat. Sometimes he may not get home, so

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Speaker 1: like eight nine o'clock, so not o'clock. Yeah, okay, So

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Speaker 1: the other day I made dinner whatever and I never

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Speaker 1: know when he's coming home, so I made dinner whatever,

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Speaker 1: and then he got mad at me that I ate

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Speaker 1: it before he got home. He wanted to be first

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Speaker 1: of all, you made the dinner. Yeah, and there was

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Speaker 1: some left for him. Yes, I made some baked pasta,

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Speaker 1: so you list you made for him that he got

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Speaker 1: to eat at nine o'clock at night when he came home.

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Speaker 1: And he was mad at you because you ate the

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Speaker 1: dinner after you made it at a reasonable dinner time

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Speaker 1: and no, right, like you should be free will what

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Speaker 1: I want should be you cooked it then? Yes, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I I believe that like Jess works late, she doesn't

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Speaker 1: get home till we don't eat dinner till ten o'clock

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Speaker 1: at night. Oh okay, but is that consistent? Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: don't eat well, we don't eat dinner till asked doesn't

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Speaker 1: go to bed till eight o'clock and then Jess makes

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Speaker 1: dinner so we don't eat. Test the reason earlier because

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Speaker 1: you're waiting around for somebody to make it for you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: lets on, That's what I'm saying. Like, if if I

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Speaker 1: were to make it, then I'd be like, yo, I

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Speaker 1: think this right now. I was about to say, well,

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Speaker 1: that's very nice of you that you adjust your schedule,

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Speaker 1: but really that's not it. There's just no food there,

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Speaker 1: you know, like I can eat like there's always leftovers.

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Speaker 1: That could be like yo, I'm just gonna eat dinner now,

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Speaker 1: but no, I wait for I wait even if even

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Speaker 1: if we're eating leftovers, I wait for her to get home,

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Speaker 1: because that's like the first time I get to spend

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Speaker 1: each other all day. I'm sorry, I'm about to getting

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Speaker 1: up on your boyfriend. UM. I've heard that a similar

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Speaker 1: argument as it pertains to watching television shows in relationships,

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Speaker 1: like that you don't skip ahead, like if you're watching

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Speaker 1: a series together that you don't skip ahead, that's person cheating. Um.

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Speaker 1: And I've heard that people will even go as far

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Speaker 1: as to reset the account to reset the little count,

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Speaker 1: you know how like on some of the some of

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Speaker 1: the services, it will show like a little progress bar.

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Speaker 1: Then you're watching like, oh, I'm shocked by that. I've

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Speaker 1: never seen that before. And I've heard of this. But

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Speaker 1: as it pertains to eating a meal, if he works

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Speaker 1: late and and he's the time and he comes home

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Speaker 1: is inconsistent, then you should be able to eat dinner

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Speaker 1: whenever you want. I think it'd be different if I

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Speaker 1: was like, Okay, I'm gonna go out and get something

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Speaker 1: and then not get you anything and I'm just gonna

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Speaker 1: eat and like sort of bad, but like there's a

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Speaker 1: plate for you. I like put a little foil over raised.

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Speaker 1: Any kind of communication is it a communication thing to like, hey,

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Speaker 1: do you think he should be? Like him won't be

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Speaker 1: home late? Like do you think he should be? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I wish he did, but I think that's the problem. Right,

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Speaker 1: all of his business comes to his cell phones, like

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Speaker 1: all day long, he's conscious, customers are calling him like so,

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Speaker 1: I honestly I tried not to bother him when he's

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Speaker 1: a win because I don't want to be a bother so.

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Speaker 1: And I also don't want to be every night like

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Speaker 1: not in like a shady way, but sometimes couples though,

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Speaker 1: if they have this issue, they don't know when the

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Speaker 1: person's coming home when they make the dinner. A lot

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Speaker 1: of people use like life three six or whatever to

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Speaker 1: just physically see, yeah, you know when you live a

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Speaker 1: normal like a semi normal schedule, yes, and he lives

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Speaker 1: in abnormal schedule, right, so I don't even know that

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Speaker 1: I care when he's coming home. You get hungry at

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Speaker 1: like six or seven o'clock. You should be able to

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Speaker 1: eat unless he's coming home at six or seven o'clock.

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Speaker 1: It's a human need in side of you. It's your

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Speaker 1: body saying I got to eat. If I snack, then

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Speaker 1: I'm not hungry home. You know, like when he gets

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Speaker 1: home and it's time for him to eat, is he

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Speaker 1: by himself? Like do you sit with him at the

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Speaker 1: table or oh yeah, okay right now, yeah, like you

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Speaker 1: talking about your day still, right, exactly, Well, I don't

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Speaker 1: understand what the issue here is, right, Yeah, your dinner

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Speaker 1: and then save the half for when he gets home. Hey, Lucy,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Lucy. How are you hey? You look at

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Speaker 1: this now? I think that Jason should be able to

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Speaker 1: eat when he needs when when he needs nourishment in

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Speaker 1: his life. And if his boyfriend comes home late every day,

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Speaker 1: well then they can eat later. Right. I mean, this

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Speaker 1: shouldn't be an argument. I am with you on that.

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Speaker 1: I live with my mom and my little sister at

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Speaker 1: I took dinner every day and she gets home like

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Speaker 1: at eight nine o'clock at night. So it's like, you know,

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Speaker 1: if I'm hungry, if my little is hungry, we're they

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Speaker 1: eat at a reasonable time. We do not need to

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Speaker 1: wait her. My mom and then she comes home and

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Speaker 1: she's like, what you mean you already eate dinner, like

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Speaker 1: because it's eleven o'clock at night. Yeah, somethings. She's like,

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Speaker 1: you guys say it without me. But it's like, you know,

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Speaker 1: we're not gonna wait for you. But she's been waiting

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Speaker 1: all the day for this meal as though. But you

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Speaker 1: save something for her, right, so it's not like it's

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Speaker 1: all gone, Oh no, yeah, of course she definitely gets something,

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Speaker 1: but we always leave her a plate, like yes city

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Speaker 1: for example, we had mini pizza, so we left her

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Speaker 1: in the oven. You know, if they wouldn't get cold,

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you'll get that. It would be one thing.

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Speaker 1: I think if you were like, no dinners at six

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Speaker 1: thirty and that's that you're here and if you're not here,

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Speaker 1: I'm eating at all, like that would be one thing.

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Speaker 1: But it's like I'm hungry, I gotta eat sets. Yeah no, no,

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Speaker 1: this is silly. Okay, Lucy, thank you, have a good day.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like you're doing everything right, sweetie. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you make the dinner, you save the dinner, you eat

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Speaker 1: the dinner with him when he comes home. Yeah, you're

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Speaker 1: a lot nicer than I would be. Yeah, I don't

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Speaker 1: and like when how would we do it? You know,

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Speaker 1: and I don't know how you do it because we

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Speaker 1: get up earlier, so our eating schedules are different. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I know you guys are probably tired of hearing about

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Speaker 1: the fact that we get up earlier because everybody else does.

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Speaker 1: Who's listening now it gets up early too. But then

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Speaker 1: you probably know what I'm talking about. Like if you

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Speaker 1: I eat like a lunch meal, my biggest meal the day,

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Speaker 1: is it like eleven o'clock? Right, yeah? And then then

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Speaker 1: I get hungry. You get it like five or six,

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Speaker 1: and most you know, most people are not home at

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Speaker 1: they eat late lunch at like one or something. So

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Speaker 1: you deal with it, right, Yeah, Well, you know it's

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Speaker 1: hard to divorce him. It's over divorce your boyfriend. No, No,

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Speaker 1: you know what you should do. You should try just

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Speaker 1: just like not making him food for a few times

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Speaker 1: and then be like, no, she wasn't at least better

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Speaker 1: when I made you food. So you got two choices.

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Speaker 1: You can either stop complaining about what I eat, right,

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Speaker 1: you just need to have second dinner, man, that's what

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Speaker 1: night with acid reflex. He had two dinners. Trust me,

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Speaker 1: I know all about it. That because of you, I'm

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Speaker 1: up in the middle of the night. And by the way,

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Speaker 1: I am another opportunity for me to eat. You know

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Speaker 1: I made me as we'll have some of that leftover

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Speaker 1: fun there You didn't mean nine one, three five yesterday

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Speaker 1: waiting by the phone. The woman was turned off by

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Speaker 1: the fact that dude had a goop um Gwyneth Paltrow

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Speaker 1: the JJ candle in his home, Yes, which is understandable.

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Speaker 1: proclaimed Gwyneth Paltrow's for JJ sense I realized it was

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Speaker 1: over price. And I don't know why you would want

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Speaker 1: to smell that, But have you It doesn't have to

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Speaker 1: be a romantic partner. Maybe it's a romantic partner. Maybe

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Speaker 1: it's just a friend or someone you thought you knew.

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Speaker 1: But have you ever gone into someone's home and discovered

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Speaker 1: something that made you feel differently about that person? Not again,

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Speaker 1: not like I don't like them or whatever, but like,

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Speaker 1: Have you ever gone into someone's home and discovered something

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Speaker 1: that made you think differently? Eight five, five, nine one

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Speaker 1: and I asked them sometimes, I'm like, do you ever

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Speaker 1: what kind of stuff do you see? You know, because

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Speaker 1: you're in and out of people's homes all day long,

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Speaker 1: and sometimes you know, they'll they'll say, hey, we're coming

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Speaker 1: with a client. You don't have a lot of time.

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Speaker 1: You got to get out, and maybe stuff gets left out,

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Speaker 1: and I guess, you know, people that have, you know,

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Speaker 1: and have these family photos, you know, of this very pristine,

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Speaker 1: or something. You're like, not that you can't be into

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Speaker 1: go I don't put those two things together. Wow, someone's

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Speaker 1: a little freaky kind of thing. I've been to people's

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Speaker 1: a person if their bathroom was disgusting or something, which,

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Speaker 1: by the way, i've seen that, like a very well

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Speaker 1: and the restroom is disgusting, and you go like what

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Speaker 1: are you what's underneath? Like what's going on? I've seen

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Speaker 1: like nudy magazines in the bathroom before. I'm like going,

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Speaker 1: like they're reading material, Like, HI don't ever don't need

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Speaker 1: I'm not talking about like the offensive ones, but if

422
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Speaker 1: there is, like, let's not go there, please, I'm down

423
00:20:59,880 --> 00:21:03,639
Speaker 1: to Is there a slang word that you can't stand?

424
00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:06,320
Speaker 1: There's a lot of them. I can't stand M eight

425
00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:08,160
Speaker 1: five five five nine one one h three five. I'd

426
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Speaker 1: bring this up because I would love to know what

427
00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:14,840
Speaker 1: comes to mind from any generation, what word, what slang

428
00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:16,440
Speaker 1: word people use it? And it could be like a

429
00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:19,480
Speaker 1: new trendy one that you're just you just can't stand. Um.

430
00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:21,960
Speaker 1: I would love to know the one that drives you nuts, though,

431
00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:25,760
Speaker 1: because Yahoo is taking it upon himself to compile the

432
00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:28,720
Speaker 1: most popular slang word the year that you were born.

433
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Speaker 1: So we were both eighty, weren't we. Yeah, you're eighty one,

434
00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:38,679
Speaker 1: all right, I got another year before I die, so yeah, no,

435
00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:44,879
Speaker 1: enjoy it. Um and chill out was nineteen eighties, so

436
00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:48,600
Speaker 1: that was the slang word um, And then kred was

437
00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:52,119
Speaker 1: yours eighty one kred Yeah, were you? What were you?

438
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:54,600
Speaker 1: Were you? Shelley Shelly just walked in, You're eighty four?

439
00:21:54,960 --> 00:22:02,920
Speaker 1: Um geeked? What were you? Kline one ninety one Bestie.

440
00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:05,720
Speaker 1: That's an old best dash from ninety one. I can

441
00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:08,280
Speaker 1: still kind of use that. Yeah, I feel like I

442
00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:11,720
Speaker 1: hear that all the time now, Paula two ninety two.

443
00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:17,200
Speaker 1: Buzz kill. That was the most popular slang, right, Oh,

444
00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:22,800
Speaker 1: I'm a buzz kill. Nineteen sixty doufusfus I love that.

445
00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:29,320
Speaker 1: I'm still um catch twenty two is from nineteen sixty three. Whoa.

446
00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:31,720
Speaker 1: We still use that a lot of these, like some

447
00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:35,840
Speaker 1: of these are they've they've they've come full circle. Hit mia, hey, hey,

448
00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:38,880
Speaker 1: good morning. What's the slang term? You can't stand when

449
00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:41,080
Speaker 1: someone's explaining something to you and they're talking to you

450
00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:44,960
Speaker 1: and they use right a right, right, right, and they

451
00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:47,520
Speaker 1: And I was in a presentation the other day and

452
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:50,160
Speaker 1: the woman kept saying it. That was like, I can't

453
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:52,200
Speaker 1: even cresent try on what you're saying because you keep

454
00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:56,040
Speaker 1: saying right, and I don't really agree with you. I'm right,

455
00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:57,800
Speaker 1: I'm guilty, But you know what I do when I

456
00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:00,560
Speaker 1: get excited because someone seeing my point of viewer because

457
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:02,520
Speaker 1: I agree with him, I do that. I'll be right.

458
00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 1: It could be a question or an answer. Yeah, no,

459
00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 1: I'm day You know that when I every time I

460
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:11,080
Speaker 1: try to explain something, you know, you know, yeah, you know, yeah,

461
00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:14,120
Speaker 1: right right right. I find myself doing my friend, our

462
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:16,800
Speaker 1: friend Mojo and Detroit. Let me ask you something. Oh

463
00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 1: my god, I find myself doing that, which isn't a

464
00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:20,480
Speaker 1: slang term, but I find myself doing that. Let me

465
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:22,800
Speaker 1: ask you a question. It's like just asking what I'm saying.

466
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:25,080
Speaker 1: I find myself doing that now, it's like just asked

467
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Speaker 1: the damn question. Say I got a questions? Or can

468
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:31,880
Speaker 1: I ask you? Say? Can I ask you a question?

469
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:36,480
Speaker 1: She asked a question to ask her questions. Question, what

470
00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 1: do you really have? What are you just saying it? No?

471
00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:43,159
Speaker 1: I really can? I put out my Instagram? Why? Why?

472
00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:47,040
Speaker 1: Why are we plugging our Instagram? Why? My daughter Fiona

473
00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:49,320
Speaker 1: is just literally the cutest and I wanted her to

474
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Speaker 1: have more followers. Are you sure that you want people

475
00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:54,640
Speaker 1: to follow your kid? Though, well, it's not my kid,

476
00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:57,280
Speaker 1: it's actually my account. But she's just so cute and

477
00:23:57,320 --> 00:23:59,119
Speaker 1: I just want people to see all right, if if

478
00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:01,200
Speaker 1: you want that, if you hey, if you want that?

479
00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:05,320
Speaker 1: Your daughter? How old is she? She's eight months? Oh okay,

480
00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 1: none of us are responsible for what happens next week.

481
00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:11,600
Speaker 1: You go ahead, go ahead and blug it. Okay, there

482
00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:14,679
Speaker 1: ain't going mia. All right, thank you anything, all right?

483
00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:19,760
Speaker 1: Right bye? You know, Hey, Jeff, Hey, this is this

484
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:21,720
Speaker 1: sounds like just a word you can't stand, or the

485
00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 1: pronunciation of the word you can't stand. The word is

486
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:28,680
Speaker 1: a well, you're having a conversation and working. Somebody says,

487
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:34,119
Speaker 1: let me ask you something. Oh ask you ask me,

488
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:37,320
Speaker 1: I'm gonna bleed all over the place. Yeah, yeah, you

489
00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:40,280
Speaker 1: don't ask me. Yeah, no, A good, good point. Thank you, Jeff,

490
00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:43,199
Speaker 1: have a good day. Appreciate you man, Thanks for listening. Um.

491
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:44,960
Speaker 1: By the way, like a lot of these are, I've

492
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:47,000
Speaker 1: come full circle. For example, in nineteen seventy two, the

493
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:49,640
Speaker 1: most popular slang word was woke, and now we're gonna

494
00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:51,600
Speaker 1: saying woke again. Yeah. I think it's kind of like

495
00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:54,440
Speaker 1: it's kind of like fashion just comes back again, cyclic,

496
00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:59,240
Speaker 1: chill out. I said that already. Um, I'm gonna you

497
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Speaker 1: know a disc or whatever. Eighty seven eighty five was

498
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 1: cool beans, cool, hate that yeah, Oh my god, I

499
00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 1: hate that so much, or when people say like cheese

500
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:11,160
Speaker 1: and rice, like when they're trying to like swearing. Oh yeah,

501
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:22,119
Speaker 1: season Rice ninety ninety three brought us booty call. Hell yeah,

502
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:28,000
Speaker 1: Hey Joeanne, good morning, Good jo Hey. We love you too,

503
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Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. What's the slang word? Let me ask

504
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:33,200
Speaker 1: you something. What's the slang word that you can't stand

505
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 1: when you're talking to someone and they say whatever, whatever,

506
00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:44,920
Speaker 1: I just slanted cling? Oh my god, yeah what you

507
00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:52,160
Speaker 1: don't like that one? Okay, whatever, I say it. Yeah,

508
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:53,719
Speaker 1: I got another I could do. I say it all

509
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:55,919
Speaker 1: the time. Thank you so much. Have a good day,

510
00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:58,520
Speaker 1: you too. I love you guys. I love you too.

511
00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:07,160
Speaker 1: Thank you for listening. Hey Sherry, good morning, Cherry, Cherry, Cherry, Hey, Hi, Hi,

512
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:10,680
Speaker 1: what's going on? No, I think that I can't I

513
00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 1: thought it was I can't stand it? Well, what can't

514
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:17,760
Speaker 1: you stand? Go ahead? But people use same and exact

515
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 1: in the same sentence. It's redundant. Same and exact means

516
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:24,480
Speaker 1: the same thing. So I have the same exact thing.

517
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:29,399
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, gramatically right, I have the same thing I have.

518
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 1: I had thee You could say, I have the exact same?

519
00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:36,440
Speaker 1: Couldn't you exact? And same is the same thing? You think,

520
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:38,880
Speaker 1: I'm a little little if you're like using the same

521
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 1: word twice, it's like using the same word twice, so

522
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 1: don't you yeah, well, but it exact? Which one is?

523
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:47,680
Speaker 1: It isn't exact? A more precise way like wouldn't you

524
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:49,600
Speaker 1: say if if I tell you I had the exact

525
00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 1: same one, does that mean I have the not one

526
00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:54,919
Speaker 1: that's similar or not one? Like it's I don't know.

527
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna argue this. I don't redundant. I

528
00:26:57,119 --> 00:27:00,720
Speaker 1: have studied grammar so much that I and that's why

529
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:05,199
Speaker 1: I set peace. I am. I gonna try and defend it.

530
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:08,240
Speaker 1: Thank you, Sherry, have a great day too, glad you

531
00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:12,640
Speaker 1: call what is this one? Brandy? What word? Can't you stand?

532
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:21,280
Speaker 1: The slaying word? People say it's happy happy, I have

533
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 1: a ten year olds fun and like its every other

534
00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:30,720
Speaker 1: word no camp mom, no cap And looking it up

535
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:33,879
Speaker 1: and turned where this came from? And apparently it's like

536
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:37,120
Speaker 1: older is again and I still had no idea where

537
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:46,399
Speaker 1: this even came from us? It does? He say period

538
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 1: to everything? Because I'll be like to my sister, like bell,

539
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 1: are you hungry. She'll be like, period like that, yes,

540
00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:57,160
Speaker 1: she agrees. She I'll be like, oh, like I love

541
00:27:57,200 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 1: you period like it's everything. Don't get that one does

542
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 1: he say? He does? He say heat and and it's heat. Oh, well,

543
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:06,920
Speaker 1: I don't know. He used to. He tries to keep

544
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 1: up at the time. He tries to keep up at

545
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:12,920
Speaker 1: the time. Brandy, I don't know. Like, I'm sure cat

546
00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 1: my parents had to deal with some of that too,

547
00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 1: but I don't know, Like, at what point do you

548
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:19,520
Speaker 1: just say like speaking of right away and then I

549
00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:21,159
Speaker 1: don't know why. I don't know. Yeah, because when they

550
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 1: go to school, they talked to their friends and then

551
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 1: it's like, you know, it goes right back to the

552
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 1: other way. Thank you, Brandy, have a good day. Um

553
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:31,720
Speaker 1: so thirsty twenty twenty. This is the most popular slang

554
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:36,760
Speaker 1: word Bay twenty nineteen, Hungary twenty eighteen, slay twenty seventeen,

555
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 1: Fomo twenty sixteen, jeggings twenty fifteen. Fourteen was man spreading

556
00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:48,800
Speaker 1: binge a bowl thirteen, Inspo was twelve wow, helicopter parent eleven,

557
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 1: Catfish was twenty ten. Yeah. That with catfish was like everything.

558
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 1: It's not a it's not a slang, but I can't

559
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 1: stand when people just put V instead of very when

560
00:28:57,200 --> 00:29:03,480
Speaker 1: they they write ye, I'm like what, I'm angry and

561
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:06,560
Speaker 1: then we can do it very. A whole different conversation

562
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:10,640
Speaker 1: about how I insist on using proper punctuation, capitalization, grammar

563
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 1: when texting, and it triggers Kalen, It triggers Jason and

564
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:17,400
Speaker 1: me too. I think you're like angry or I'm angry

565
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:20,880
Speaker 1: because I'm used to sentence writing properly. Yes, like your

566
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 1: parents when they're mad at you. That's how I would

567
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 1: expect them. A period is a hard stop, and you

568
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:28,240
Speaker 1: just better know. It's a way of differentiating thought of

569
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 1: another sentence. I write seven text messages to sus exclamation

570
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:38,080
Speaker 1: smiling that makes you seem like you're excited whatever. I

571
00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:43,440
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm the exact, same, exact same, you know, yes, period, Yeah,

572
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 1: I knew you know what? No cat myself right, I

573
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:58,560
Speaker 1: hate myself saying life from America's Greatest City, Chicago, Kiss

574
00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 1: FM and I Heart Radios. It's Fred Show. Give it

575
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 1: away a trip to Vegas so you can see the

576
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:08,080
Speaker 1: Chain Smokers or Katie Terry or the Jonas Brothers or Usher.

577
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:10,600
Speaker 1: It's your choice gets signed up at eight thirty on

578
00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 1: The Fred Show one h three five, Wait Up trying

579
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Speaker 1: to wake up hit on The Fred Show on one

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Speaker 1: h three five, eight five nine, one h three five.

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Speaker 1: Hey Stacy, how you doing, Good morning, Welcome to the program, Stacy.

582
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:32,240
Speaker 1: We call this stay or Go. We get a lot

583
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 1: of emails about it. Of course the dating stuff. People

584
00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:35,880
Speaker 1: want to know why they got ghosted for waiting by

585
00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 1: the phone. Then people also want our advice on stuff.

586
00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 1: So we decided we would do a little segment called

587
00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 1: stay or Go and we would decide for you whether

588
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:45,640
Speaker 1: you should stay in your relationship or whether you should go. UM.

589
00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 1: And so you have to part of agreeing to be

590
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:49,240
Speaker 1: on the program is you have to do exactly what

591
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:51,840
Speaker 1: we say at the end. So we are changing. You're

592
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 1: altering the course of your life right now as we speak.

593
00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:56,040
Speaker 1: So what's going on with you? And this guy? Tell

594
00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 1: us all about it. So I've been dating this kind

595
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:02,800
Speaker 1: nique for nine months and things are doing really great,

596
00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:06,840
Speaker 1: Like he's amazing. UM. My only issue is that his

597
00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:12,120
Speaker 1: roommate UM is like this girl that is like super

598
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:15,960
Speaker 1: gorgeous and she's like one of those Instagram fitness models

599
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 1: like she's like she's nice, but she's like always you know,

600
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:22,360
Speaker 1: walking around the apartment in like you know, super short

601
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 1: shorts and like crop top, no bra, like and she's gorgeous.

602
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 1: And then on top of all that, like Nick told

603
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:32,479
Speaker 1: me that, you know, they used to hook up like

604
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 1: before we started dating. So I just don't know, like,

605
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:41,640
Speaker 1: you know, if I should say or Instagram for purposes

606
00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:45,239
Speaker 1: And it was a handle off the air. He used

607
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 1: to say he look for research purposes and we're the

608
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 1: only ones there. Okay, So everything is fine in this

609
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 1: relationship except that your your boyfriend lives with this really

610
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:57,680
Speaker 1: attractive woman. And I realized that he says he used

611
00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 1: to hook up with her. But like, so, I mean,

612
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 1: if everything is fine and you have no reason to

613
00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:09,000
Speaker 1: distrust him, then what's the problem. Like, so he lives

614
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 1: with the hot girl, so be it he decided to

615
00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 1: be with you. I wouldn't love it. They used to

616
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:19,240
Speaker 1: hook up, right, roommates. Let me ask her about it.

617
00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 1: Let me ask a couple of things though, Like did

618
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Speaker 1: you know about this early on? Or is this something

619
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 1: you only learned about after you've been with him for

620
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 1: nine months? Um? No, I knew about it early on. Okay,

621
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:32,720
Speaker 1: so you knew about it. You know her, he's telling

622
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 1: you he's not hooking up with her, he's choosing to

623
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 1: be with you. I mean, and so we're okay, So

624
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:40,360
Speaker 1: what so you're gonna ask him he has to he

625
00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 1: has to move his house in order to be with you. Yeah,

626
00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:44,200
Speaker 1: I mean I don't. I don't think you have any

627
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 1: reason to be in secure. He chose you. Maybe he

628
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:51,200
Speaker 1: has both. Yeah, why would he do that so blatantly?

629
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:54,720
Speaker 1: Like that's too obvious? Then maybe she never figure it out? Well,

630
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:56,479
Speaker 1: why be with her? Then? If he's got the hot

631
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:58,640
Speaker 1: girl right there, then just be with the hot girl. No,

632
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 1: it doesn't make sense. He may he doesn't want to

633
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:03,400
Speaker 1: be in a relationship with the roommate. You guys all

634
00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:06,239
Speaker 1: think she should be worried about this? Yes, a little bit? Yes, No,

635
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:10,239
Speaker 1: not great? What what what would it take for you

636
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 1: to be comfortable? You know? What do you want him?

637
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 1: What do you want him to do? Yeah, I mean

638
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:22,719
Speaker 1: I don't know, like moving with me maybe, or or

639
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:25,720
Speaker 1: literally anyone else. Okay, So, and you think if they're

640
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:28,120
Speaker 1: doing it, that that's gonna stop him from doing it. No,

641
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 1: he's just gonna go over to his own place and

642
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 1: do it like. I mean again, you guys have been

643
00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 1: together for nine months, and aside from the fact that

644
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:39,400
Speaker 1: he lives with an attractive woman, you're saying that this

645
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 1: relationship is amazing, it's great in your words, So aside

646
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 1: from the fact that he lives they're a hot women everywhere.

647
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 1: If he's going to be tempted by hot women, then

648
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 1: I suppose he can't leave the house. Okay, Well he's

649
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 1: done with that, is he He's been there and done that.

650
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:57,720
Speaker 1: He's How about you, guys, Maybe maybe it's an insecurity

651
00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 1: for her too, to see her around you know, maybe

652
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 1: she Yeah, I don't know what her physical fitness regime is,

653
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 1: or her body type or you know what I'm saying.

654
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:09,000
Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe she's a little insecure of the girls. Okay,

655
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:10,400
Speaker 1: but this isn't like they've been to get of a

656
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 1: nine months. He goes, Oh, by the way, this one

657
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:15,440
Speaker 1: over here that I live with used to hit that. No, like,

658
00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:17,680
Speaker 1: she's known for a long time and she's still satisfied

659
00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:20,880
Speaker 1: in the relationship. I mean, I don't. I don't. I

660
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:22,840
Speaker 1: don't think that this is a reason to leave someone.

661
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:28,160
Speaker 1: It's hard to say. I only feel you guys, are

662
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:31,880
Speaker 1: you guys are thinking based on insecurity, not based on logic.

663
00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 1: I'd be cool with this bros to have sex with

664
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:38,360
Speaker 1: I don't love it, but I also don't know that

665
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:40,759
Speaker 1: if if it's worked for nine months, I don't know

666
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:42,960
Speaker 1: that now I'm going to dump them because I think

667
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:47,360
Speaker 1: my insecurity in this case would be outweighing the status

668
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:49,799
Speaker 1: of the relationship. But maybe she just realized that it

669
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,160
Speaker 1: bothers her. You know, people are allowed to change and evolve,

670
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:54,640
Speaker 1: and they are when you get more serious. Maybe she realized, oh,

671
00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 1: I want to be with this man forever and this

672
00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 1: makes me uncomfortable, so she should dump him. No, I

673
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:00,880
Speaker 1: don't think she should dump I think she should make

674
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 1: him move. I don't know if you could make him.

675
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:04,319
Speaker 1: I think she should go to him and say, this

676
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 1: is this is driving me nuts, I'm moving, I'm losing sleep.

677
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,840
Speaker 1: What can you do? Can we figure this out together? Please?

678
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 1: Because I'm not okay. So what's the solution for you? Then, Stacy,

679
00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 1: he moves in with you? Yeah, you suggested that to him.

680
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 1: I actually haven't. I just thought of it when I

681
00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:27,759
Speaker 1: was talking too very right. I don't know. I mean,

682
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:31,520
Speaker 1: I understand, I'm not saying that your concerns are invalid.

683
00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:35,000
Speaker 1: I am saying that. Actually, I'm saying your concerns because

684
00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:37,279
Speaker 1: because everything's fine, and I think you're getting in your

685
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:39,879
Speaker 1: head about the fact that he lives with an attractive woman,

686
00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 1: and I just I think if that were an issue,

687
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:44,800
Speaker 1: you'd see it in other ways. I feel like you

688
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:48,400
Speaker 1: an attractive woman, it's a woman that they have chemistry

689
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:50,839
Speaker 1: and they used to have sex. Yes, it's not just

690
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:53,040
Speaker 1: a hot woman. Can it be honest? Though, even if

691
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 1: they didn't have sex, even if she wasn't quote attractive,

692
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:57,760
Speaker 1: I still would feel some type of way. I really would,

693
00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:00,239
Speaker 1: and only because like I have my past experience. I

694
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:02,759
Speaker 1: don't know Stacy, what you do as far as your

695
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,239
Speaker 1: past experiences, and if you're insecure about it, like we

696
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:06,719
Speaker 1: we're not gonna shame you for it, because hey, we

697
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 1: all got things we're healing from you. And if you're

698
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:11,919
Speaker 1: in a happy relationship and he's that blatantly cheating with

699
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:15,440
Speaker 1: his roommate, I mean that's I don't think they're cheating.

700
00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 1: It's just like I need to say it, but like

701
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 1: you know, it just takes one drunken night, It just

702
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 1: takes that one maybe idea. I know. I hate I'm

703
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 1: challenging you, guys, because that's not how, that's not how.

704
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:26,040
Speaker 1: I don't think any I don't think any of you

705
00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:29,480
Speaker 1: go about your lives living that way. Could happen, It

706
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:32,160
Speaker 1: could happen, It could happen. No, you can't live like that.

707
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 1: If they didn't used to hook up, I'd be totally

708
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 1: cool with it. I used to live with guys and

709
00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:37,920
Speaker 1: I was in a relationship and it caused zero issues.

710
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:39,879
Speaker 1: But we also never used to it. It's the fact

711
00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 1: that they hooked. They've hooked up, and that could happen again.

712
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 1: They don't might know, it might not be happening now.

713
00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:48,560
Speaker 1: But you know, we've heard all these stories of COVID

714
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:53,359
Speaker 1: being people being locked together, you know, roommates, what about quarantine,

715
00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:55,120
Speaker 1: and then they you know, they gotta get it, they

716
00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 1: gotta get it up right. I don't love it, but

717
00:36:57,719 --> 00:36:59,840
Speaker 1: I'm not breaking up with somebody and I can't demand

718
00:36:59,880 --> 00:37:02,400
Speaker 1: the to get out of their lease because of my insecurity.

719
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:04,279
Speaker 1: I think I need to maybe discuss it with that

720
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:06,239
Speaker 1: person and make sure that they know that I don't

721
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 1: love it. But then that's the end of that, Like

722
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:10,399
Speaker 1: they're not I don't I don't know that he's doing

723
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:14,319
Speaker 1: anything wrong, but stay stay Stacy, right. Yeah? Would you

724
00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 1: be comfortable moving in with him and her together? Oh? Boy? Um,

725
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 1: I mean didn't Yeah, I mean I didn't ask about it,

726
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:27,319
Speaker 1: but yeah, I mean I think maybe I would be

727
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:29,399
Speaker 1: okay with it. I think maybe then maybe I would

728
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:32,920
Speaker 1: have more of like an eye on him. That's what

729
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 1: I'm saying. That's what I'm saying. So it sounds like

730
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:37,480
Speaker 1: he needs to be under your nose now for you

731
00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:41,440
Speaker 1: to feel more confident. And again, I'm not criticizing your insecurity,

732
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:44,360
Speaker 1: but I I am acknowledging that you probably should consider

733
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:47,920
Speaker 1: that this could just be an insecurity and not actually

734
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:49,879
Speaker 1: based on the fact that he's doing anything wrong. Why

735
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 1: would he want her to be insecure? Though? You know,

736
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:53,200
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know that he wants her to

737
00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 1: be that. It's where he lives and she's known that

738
00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:57,319
Speaker 1: all along from the beginning. Can't they work through a

739
00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:01,080
Speaker 1: solution together? No? Oh, I just I don't know what.

740
00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:02,759
Speaker 1: I don't know what she expects him to do, Like

741
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:04,279
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess that's what I'm saying. And we're

742
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:06,399
Speaker 1: talking about where he lives and it's not like they

743
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:09,000
Speaker 1: started dating, and then he goes, I'm gonna move in

744
00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:13,040
Speaker 1: with this girl I used to bang people. Yeah, I

745
00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:15,720
Speaker 1: just I think what I'm encouraging her to do is

746
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 1: be fair to him because I don't necessarily know that

747
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:22,960
Speaker 1: that there is fire here, or even smoke for that matter.

748
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:24,840
Speaker 1: Let's take some phone goes, Let's see what's going on.

749
00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:27,160
Speaker 1: Stacy listened to and have the radio one and will

750
00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:29,560
Speaker 1: lots of feedback on this, so let's see what people

751
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:33,440
Speaker 1: have to say. Good luck, all right? Eight five nine

752
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:35,040
Speaker 1: one one on three five. Let me play this song.

753
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:36,440
Speaker 1: I'll come back and I want to hear people have

754
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:39,280
Speaker 1: to say about this. I get it. It's not ideal,

755
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:44,400
Speaker 1: but it's she if there's nothing going to break up

756
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:47,080
Speaker 1: with him, I really expect him to move because I

757
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:50,400
Speaker 1: just she's known this from the beginning. Yeah they did.

758
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 1: They definitely have to have that talk. They can talk

759
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 1: about it, but I don't know what the end result is.

760
00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:56,520
Speaker 1: It's gonna make her happy, as what I'm saying, because

761
00:38:56,520 --> 00:39:00,279
Speaker 1: it's it's all in her mind for sure. It's not love.

762
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:03,799
Speaker 1: What do you mean? It doesn't mean they still are,

763
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 1: it doesn't, but it makes her uncomfortable, and you want

764
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:12,240
Speaker 1: everyone to be comfortable. If he loves he can work. Yeah,

765
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:14,000
Speaker 1: she doesn't say anything. He's just gonna eat at her.

766
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:17,319
Speaker 1: Say something, say something, say something, and get it off

767
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:20,000
Speaker 1: your chest. But if you expect him to, I don't know,

768
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 1: if you expect some huge change, I don't know that

769
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:25,920
Speaker 1: it's going to have him because he's probably not doing anything.

770
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:29,919
Speaker 1: Um and you know, I don't know. I mean, if

771
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:31,880
Speaker 1: she says something about it and he gives her an

772
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:35,439
Speaker 1: explanation and he's being honest and fair and and that's

773
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:37,440
Speaker 1: not the end of it, then that might be the

774
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:39,600
Speaker 1: end of the relationship because now he's having to deal

775
00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:46,960
Speaker 1: with he's in securities. Five one three five FM, Chicago

776
00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:49,520
Speaker 1: Number one in music. Stays a Fred show is on

777
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 1: Good Morning, Stay or go? So Stacy has been with

778
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:55,600
Speaker 1: this guy for nine months. Everything is great in the relationship,

779
00:39:55,640 --> 00:40:00,120
Speaker 1: but he lives with his roommate, is a beautiful woman

780
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 1: that he used to get with. She's known this from

781
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:06,200
Speaker 1: day one. Now she has a problem with it. Should

782
00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 1: she stay? Here? Go? Karmen, Good morning, welcome, How are

783
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 1: you Hi'm doing great? How are you very well? What

784
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 1: do you think Karmen? What is what is the thing

785
00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:21,040
Speaker 1: to do here? He has to go. Why Why here

786
00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:27,080
Speaker 1: she's sabotizing and perfect the relationship. Okay, well no, this

787
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:33,920
Speaker 1: thread she had, you're gonna do it. There is no

788
00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:38,440
Speaker 1: problems in their relationship. Is not that she's getting signaled

789
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:41,920
Speaker 1: from him in the roommate. This is the kure because

790
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:45,799
Speaker 1: the girl is gorgeous. That's the only problem. So you're

791
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:48,279
Speaker 1: saying she should go because you say she should go

792
00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:52,840
Speaker 1: because there's a hot woman remotely involved in their relationship,

793
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:55,800
Speaker 1: but not even really because they're a hot women everywhere. Karmen,

794
00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 1: you're probably a hot woman. You might be a threat exactly.

795
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 1: So hand this get out, Well, then she can't be.

796
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 1: If that's your logic, then I don't think this woman

797
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:07,800
Speaker 1: can be in any relationship because she's gonna have to

798
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:10,879
Speaker 1: find a guy who has zero attachment of any kind

799
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:15,239
Speaker 1: to any woman. Ever, No, that's not a lot of

800
00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 1: people are not living with that one. Okay. But if

801
00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:19,759
Speaker 1: it's not that, then it will be that he still

802
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:21,680
Speaker 1: talks to an X, or that there's still one at

803
00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:25,680
Speaker 1: work that he still go Here's a scenario, same people

804
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:28,239
Speaker 1: were more adults, say they get into a fight, right,

805
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:30,200
Speaker 1: he goes home, who's gonna talk to you about it.

806
00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:36,440
Speaker 1: He's gonna talk just like the next thing. You know.

807
00:41:38,200 --> 00:41:40,400
Speaker 1: Shame on all of you. Shame on you guys, because

808
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:43,359
Speaker 1: all of you, because you're assuming, because she's a hot

809
00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:46,319
Speaker 1: fitness model, that she's some sort of harlot, some sort

810
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:49,000
Speaker 1: of slut, and then she'll just make herself available to

811
00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 1: him at any moment. Maybe she wants nothing to do

812
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:54,880
Speaker 1: with him. Maybe, but maybe she does. Yeah, oh my gosh, Carmen,

813
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:57,160
Speaker 1: thank you so much, have a great we go ahead, No, no, no,

814
00:41:57,200 --> 00:41:58,439
Speaker 1: what did you want to say something else? Go ahead

815
00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 1: if you do. I want need to say that this

816
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:04,160
Speaker 1: problem with the girlfriend, it's gonna be forever because she's

817
00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:06,400
Speaker 1: not secure it of herself. So it doesn't matter of

818
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:09,279
Speaker 1: fact it is this chick or another shape. Whenever this

819
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 1: guy have the friend that has good looks, it's gonna

820
00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:15,120
Speaker 1: be a problem. So she's got a bail and find

821
00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 1: a guy who lives in a monastery or whatever. On

822
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:23,480
Speaker 1: sday here and she's already complaining about the friend. Yeah,

823
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:25,640
Speaker 1: she has. My problem here is I'm encouraging her not

824
00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:28,040
Speaker 1: to do that because there's probably nothing wrong here. But

825
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:30,600
Speaker 1: thank you, Carmen, have a great day. Thanks for listening. Well.

826
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:35,719
Speaker 1: Hey Marissa, good morning morning you guys. Marissa, what do

827
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:39,440
Speaker 1: you what should happen here? Strego? I stay. And the

828
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 1: reason I say that is one of my best friends,

829
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:44,560
Speaker 1: like kicking out, was in the exact same situation, except

830
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:49,839
Speaker 1: the girl isn't gorgeous, she's actually kind of googly. Oh well,

831
00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:52,600
Speaker 1: in that case, it's fine because she's so there's no

832
00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:54,960
Speaker 1: way that I need stick and move. So how do

833
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 1: they banged? And they still have a problem, right, And

834
00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:00,040
Speaker 1: that was the biggest problem is that there is a

835
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 1: history there, and really my best friend, it really comes

836
00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 1: down to communication. Like you kind of said earlier, you

837
00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:07,359
Speaker 1: have to get it off your chest and say, look,

838
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:10,879
Speaker 1: that really bothered me because there's a past history there.

839
00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:13,520
Speaker 1: And what ended up happening is the roommate had to

840
00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:15,440
Speaker 1: move out and then they had to move forward with

841
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:18,359
Speaker 1: their relationship because it was more of a priority. And

842
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 1: you know, it's not that you want to break the

843
00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:22,800
Speaker 1: friendship there, but you have to decide what's more important

844
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:25,440
Speaker 1: my friendship or my relationship. Because it's a chemistry and

845
00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 1: there's a history. It's just not appropriate hearing and killing

846
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:30,440
Speaker 1: me at that point. And I don't disagree with the communication,

847
00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:32,399
Speaker 1: but I mean, if you expect this guy to kick

848
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:35,480
Speaker 1: his roommate out or move, I don't know what the

849
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:38,560
Speaker 1: scenario is that there is a least involved or financial

850
00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:40,840
Speaker 1: issue if that's what you're asking him to do. Because

851
00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:44,439
Speaker 1: because you don't like something that maybe there's nothing going

852
00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 1: on that I mean, that's unfair to him. That's true.

853
00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:51,200
Speaker 1: That where it gets into a stinky situation. And I'll

854
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:54,319
Speaker 1: really put safety in this hard situation. Yeah, because it

855
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:57,480
Speaker 1: is uncomfortable. I mean, I think whether the girl's gorgeous

856
00:43:57,560 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 1: or like I said, if she was googlie boy, it

857
00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:07,719
Speaker 1: doesn't matter. I mean, yeah, I wouldn't love it either.

858
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 1: But I think if you would freak out. But if

859
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:13,239
Speaker 1: I knew from day one, if I knew from day one,

860
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:17,239
Speaker 1: nine months, day one, it would never happend. No. But

861
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 1: the different with the guy that she used to hook

862
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:23,640
Speaker 1: up with. No, you're missing the big difference. If I

863
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:26,480
Speaker 1: knew from day one, I wouldn't proceed. If I if

864
00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:28,080
Speaker 1: it was the love of your life, you wouldn't for

865
00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:29,960
Speaker 1: nine months. You would have been like, you're moving out

866
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:31,879
Speaker 1: of there, You're moving with me? On day one, Yeah,

867
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:37,680
Speaker 1: listen to me. But whoa nine months later though, and

868
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:42,680
Speaker 1: everything's going great. I don't think I any longer have

869
00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:44,440
Speaker 1: a chance to say that to it to that person,

870
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:46,080
Speaker 1: because then that person's gonna go, wait a minute. But

871
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:47,839
Speaker 1: we've been happy, and I've been good and I've been

872
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:50,920
Speaker 1: loyal to you, and you knew on day one. Well there,

873
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 1: Lisa's almost up. If it's been nine months, then well

874
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:55,640
Speaker 1: we don't know that. Thank you, Marissa, have a good day.

875
00:44:55,920 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 1: Thank you, guys. Um Kayla, good morning, How are you good?

876
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:04,080
Speaker 1: How are you friend? Thanks? What do you think? I

877
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 1: think she gotta go? She gotta she gonda never put

878
00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:10,600
Speaker 1: herself in that situation to begin with, because if she

879
00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 1: knew that, like at the beginning, that they were hooking up, like,

880
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 1: why did you wait nine months to have an issue

881
00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:19,800
Speaker 1: with it? You can't expect this man to hurt his

882
00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:22,320
Speaker 1: entire life for somebody he's been dating for nine months,

883
00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:25,920
Speaker 1: Like I would not do that one again. Well, and

884
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:28,480
Speaker 1: we asked her, We're like, hey, I mean you know,

885
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:31,480
Speaker 1: is he being shady? Now? Do you have any evidence?

886
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:33,880
Speaker 1: Is there anything different? No, the relationship is great. I

887
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 1: just don't like that she's hot and they used to

888
00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:38,960
Speaker 1: hook up, Like that's unfair to him. No, And That's

889
00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 1: why I say she's got to go, because it seemed

890
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:44,759
Speaker 1: like it's something that like she can't get over um.

891
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:47,560
Speaker 1: And then if she brings it up, it's gonna create

892
00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:51,320
Speaker 1: a weird tension between them and the roommate anyways, you know.

893
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:53,399
Speaker 1: So I feel like she went into this situation knowing

894
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:55,560
Speaker 1: that further down the line, she would have to change

895
00:45:55,560 --> 00:46:01,239
Speaker 1: something about him. And that's that difference nine months, big

896
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 1: difference now again. And by the way, shame on me,

897
00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:06,239
Speaker 1: maybe because if if I meet someone like this and

898
00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 1: on day one, I don't give them a chance because

899
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:11,880
Speaker 1: there's a possibility that something could happen down the road,

900
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:14,000
Speaker 1: Shame on me because I may have missed out on

901
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:17,160
Speaker 1: a great opportunity because I'm insecure about something that might

902
00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:19,600
Speaker 1: happen that may never happen, but you can get into

903
00:46:19,640 --> 00:46:21,360
Speaker 1: it in the beginning, so you would miss out. And

904
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:23,479
Speaker 1: I'm sure that's exactly what I just said. I said,

905
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:25,719
Speaker 1: Shame on me for that. That's on me at that

906
00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:28,440
Speaker 1: point that I would be missing out. So I should.

907
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:31,359
Speaker 1: I should trust the person I'm with if I choose

908
00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:33,239
Speaker 1: to be with them, especially after nine months, if I

909
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:40,799
Speaker 1: have no evidence. Thank you, Kaylamine months like what they

910
00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:43,839
Speaker 1: were gaining through COVID like quarantine. So maybe she didn't

911
00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:46,640
Speaker 1: see him for two months because he was a hand

912
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:49,000
Speaker 1: stay at home and then that's when he saw the build,

913
00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:51,640
Speaker 1: Like he must have put it in there. There's no way,

914
00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:53,959
Speaker 1: come on, you shouldn't know he was the one until

915
00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:58,080
Speaker 1: nine months, you know, I mean, people change their mind, Katrina, Hey,

916
00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:03,640
Speaker 1: good morning. Hey. I totally agree with the trusting communication.

917
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 1: I think she should stay just until she talks to him,

918
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:10,280
Speaker 1: and you know, she still needs to tell her feeling

919
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:12,840
Speaker 1: and even if it doesn't work out of them, at

920
00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:16,360
Speaker 1: least she tried, right because her feelings are still valid.

921
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:19,560
Speaker 1: So I mean, I you know, I had really bad

922
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 1: issues in my previous relationships and my first three or

923
00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:27,760
Speaker 1: like my I'm engaged now, but my fiance in the beginning,

924
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:30,560
Speaker 1: and like I had issues, but I communicated with him

925
00:47:30,920 --> 00:47:33,600
Speaker 1: and you know, he was frustrated sometimes, but he loved

926
00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 1: me and he wanted to work through it with me,

927
00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:39,480
Speaker 1: and we're better off now six years later. See and

928
00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 1: and Katrina, I come. The reason I think I'm coming

929
00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:45,400
Speaker 1: from this place is because I have weird jealousies, Like

930
00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know if I'm doing someone and

931
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:50,520
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't like to know who they were with.

932
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:52,400
Speaker 1: I don't like to see him, I don't like if

933
00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:54,879
Speaker 1: they talk. I don't like these things. But I gotta

934
00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:57,719
Speaker 1: get over that because that doesn't mean anything. And it's

935
00:47:57,719 --> 00:47:59,640
Speaker 1: not for me to control someone and tell them who

936
00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:01,719
Speaker 1: they can I can't talk to. If I'm in a

937
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:04,320
Speaker 1: relationship with you, that I either have to trust you

938
00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:06,839
Speaker 1: and trust that you're into the right thing or not.

939
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:11,080
Speaker 1: And if your behavior, if your behavior demonstrates otherwise, For example,

940
00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:13,440
Speaker 1: if you say, oh, I blocked this person and yet

941
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:15,520
Speaker 1: they still can call you. Now you're lying to me,

942
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:19,080
Speaker 1: and now you're hiding something, but you're bumping into someone

943
00:48:19,120 --> 00:48:20,960
Speaker 1: and asks to who you used to sleep with? Living

944
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:23,040
Speaker 1: with that. But those were terms that she was aware

945
00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:25,239
Speaker 1: of from the beginning. But she changed her mind. Yeah,

946
00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:28,720
Speaker 1: you know, because she's insecure and I don't want her insecurity.

947
00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:31,239
Speaker 1: And what I'm saying is my insecurities have gotten the

948
00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:33,359
Speaker 1: best of me. And I'm saying in this case, I'm

949
00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:37,200
Speaker 1: I'm encouraging her not to let her insecurities ruey. And

950
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:39,640
Speaker 1: I'm saying in this case, I'm I'm encouraging her not

951
00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:43,440
Speaker 1: to let her insecurities, ruin what could be what appears

952
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:46,240
Speaker 1: to be it's her gun in a successful relationship. Well

953
00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:51,560
Speaker 1: maybe maybe maybe agree with that. We all we all

954
00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:55,400
Speaker 1: agree about that retweet. We all agree about that, all right,

955
00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:57,520
Speaker 1: Thank you, Katrina. I have a good day. Thank you,

956
00:48:57,680 --> 00:49:00,520
Speaker 1: Thanks Hey, love you too, Thanks for listening. I just like,

957
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:02,440
Speaker 1: I just hate it when I hear about people because

958
00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:05,399
Speaker 1: I myself of self sabotage and people have also lied

959
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:07,960
Speaker 1: to me. And when I catch him lying different story,

960
00:49:08,680 --> 00:49:10,839
Speaker 1: you know, if he's like, oh, we there's nothing going on,

961
00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:12,520
Speaker 1: and then she comes to the house one day, walks

962
00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:14,360
Speaker 1: in and there on the couch all cuddled up. Okay,

963
00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:19,280
Speaker 1: well then she gotta go. She got it just staying

964
00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 1: on the heat. I mean that's very that's very responsible.

965
00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 1: It's tough times right now economically our environment. Have you

966
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:30,440
Speaker 1: heard a global warming? I mean this is you know,

967
00:49:30,680 --> 00:49:38,520
Speaker 1: come on baby, good morning, hey, good morning night. What

968
00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:41,760
Speaker 1: did you want to say? Go ahead? So I definitely

969
00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:44,160
Speaker 1: think that after she has a conversation with him, if

970
00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:46,600
Speaker 1: it doesn't change, or if he doesn't move out, and

971
00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 1: it's still gonna eat at herd, and she needs to

972
00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:52,399
Speaker 1: leave because that's gonna give her so much the road.

973
00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:56,440
Speaker 1: And also, friend, have you heard of a sublum Are

974
00:49:56,440 --> 00:49:59,839
Speaker 1: you familiar? I'm familiar with the term. I am. Yeah.

975
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 1: So he can desolutely find a sub leaser and make

976
00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:07,400
Speaker 1: it if he moves out. And this is an Instagram model,

977
00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:09,719
Speaker 1: she ain't gonna have no problem finding another roommate. Let

978
00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:18,000
Speaker 1: me ask, Bianca. Let me I'm gonna give you a hypothetical, Bianca.

979
00:50:18,080 --> 00:50:20,600
Speaker 1: Here we go. So you meet a guy and he's great,

980
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 1: and you meet him on day one or early on.

981
00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 1: He says, hey, just a heads up, I live with

982
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:27,520
Speaker 1: this woman. She's attractive and we used to hook up,

983
00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:29,839
Speaker 1: but we don't anymore. And you're like, okay, I can

984
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:32,440
Speaker 1: deal with that. And then you have this great relationship

985
00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:34,880
Speaker 1: for nine months, right, or let's say let's flip it

986
00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:37,200
Speaker 1: around and say you're the one. You're the one who

987
00:50:37,239 --> 00:50:39,080
Speaker 1: lives with the person who used to hook up with

988
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:41,799
Speaker 1: and everything's going great and everyone understands the terms, and

989
00:50:41,800 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 1: then this guy that you're dating comes to you and says, hey, Bianca,

990
00:50:44,239 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 1: I know I spend nine months. I know I understood

991
00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:47,520
Speaker 1: the terms. I know you have a lease and it's

992
00:50:47,560 --> 00:50:49,360
Speaker 1: a couple of years and whatever else I need you

993
00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:51,759
Speaker 1: to break that and move out because I don't like

994
00:50:51,840 --> 00:50:54,839
Speaker 1: it anymore. Aren't you gonna aren't you gonna step back?

995
00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:58,160
Speaker 1: And mc now wait a minute here, No, because of

996
00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:01,760
Speaker 1: the relationship evolved than you guys are, and worked truly

997
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:05,680
Speaker 1: on that level, and first as day one, I think

998
00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:07,920
Speaker 1: that that's the adult thing to do, is to figure

999
00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:15,239
Speaker 1: out what's look more important. Look, look, guys, and just

1000
00:51:15,360 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 1: because there's a way, just because it's a one bedroom

1001
00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:21,879
Speaker 1: and they've decided for the last night, so they believe

1002
00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:24,319
Speaker 1: in herd immunity and they're sleeping on top of each

1003
00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 1: other every night because they're going to give each other

1004
00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:28,600
Speaker 1: the rona, they say, and so they can get through

1005
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:31,080
Speaker 1: it and get the antibodies. And just because they think

1006
00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:33,799
Speaker 1: that they can, you know, do that sexually. I think

1007
00:51:33,800 --> 00:51:37,080
Speaker 1: that's responsible. These people are out of here. They are

1008
00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:40,919
Speaker 1: really taking this health crisis by the balls and making

1009
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:44,560
Speaker 1: their lives safer for everybody. And I think that's responsible.

1010
00:51:44,960 --> 00:51:47,839
Speaker 1: Thank you, have a good day. Thank you guys. All right,

1011
00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:51,239
Speaker 1: never mind, forget my attempt at a positive message. Break up.

1012
00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:55,960
Speaker 1: I just don't want people to make decisions based on

1013
00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:58,120
Speaker 1: things that they might need to deal with internally, and

1014
00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:01,719
Speaker 1: then it messes up their life. There's no way I

1015
00:52:01,719 --> 00:52:04,960
Speaker 1: could date somebody who lived with the I don't care

1016
00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:07,520
Speaker 1: if it's the hot or ugly thing, doesn't matter to

1017
00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:09,279
Speaker 1: me either. I don't care about that. I don't care

1018
00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:11,880
Speaker 1: that that was a little salacious detail, that it was unnecessary.

1019
00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:16,000
Speaker 1: But people can lay it down. But I think, you

1020
00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:17,640
Speaker 1: know what, shame on me, But I think I would

1021
00:52:17,680 --> 00:52:19,759
Speaker 1: just stop it from the beginning. I just don't think

1022
00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:21,400
Speaker 1: I would even go down that road because I know

1023
00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 1: I can't live like that, Like it would drive me crazy.

1024
00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 1: I'm way too insecure. I'm saying that. I'm saying that.

1025
00:52:26,680 --> 00:52:29,640
Speaker 1: But after nine months, if everything's dope, you know, yeah,

1026
00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:31,839
Speaker 1: have a conversation. But if this dude's like I got

1027
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:33,680
Speaker 1: another year on this lease, I can't get out or

1028
00:52:33,719 --> 00:52:35,080
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's too much. I don't know if

1029
00:52:35,080 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 1: he's got if he's got a reasonable explanation, and she

1030
00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:39,839
Speaker 1: breaks up with him for that, I mean she might

1031
00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:45,320
Speaker 1: be missing out. Maybe be here at eight thirty sets

1032
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:47,359
Speaker 1: your alarm. You could be going to Vegas. It's either

1033
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:51,520
Speaker 1: chain Smokers, Katie Perry, the Jonas Brothers, or Usher. You're

1034
00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:53,920
Speaker 1: signed up at eight thirty on the friend show one

1035
00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:56,879
Speaker 1: h three five. There's a woman. She's fifty six years

1036
00:52:56,880 --> 00:53:00,879
Speaker 1: old and she's been married ten times. Says she's married

1037
00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:04,000
Speaker 1: all types of men, but always winds up aloge. Her

1038
00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:07,600
Speaker 1: longest marriage eight years, shortest six months. Says she's on

1039
00:53:07,640 --> 00:53:10,319
Speaker 1: the verge of ending her relationship with number ten. I

1040
00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:12,600
Speaker 1: guess he's reading about this in the daily, maybe that

1041
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:15,000
Speaker 1: he's done. The woman said. When I'm in a marriage

1042
00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:16,719
Speaker 1: and I just can't take it anymore, I'm usually the

1043
00:53:16,760 --> 00:53:18,800
Speaker 1: first one to say that's it. We're getting a divorce.

1044
00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:21,240
Speaker 1: And I quipped, I don't care how many marriages it takes.

1045
00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:24,319
Speaker 1: I will keep trying until I find the one that

1046
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:26,480
Speaker 1: can love me. She was, I'm doctor Phil. I guess

1047
00:53:26,760 --> 00:53:29,000
Speaker 1: her kids talked about their mom's behavior and how they

1048
00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:31,640
Speaker 1: say it affects their lives. Doctor Phil even tells the

1049
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:35,640
Speaker 1: woman how she can have a successful relationship. This is

1050
00:53:35,680 --> 00:53:37,719
Speaker 1: why I want to know eight five, nine, one, one

1051
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:41,400
Speaker 1: h three five. How many times you get married before

1052
00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:45,000
Speaker 1: it's like this doesn't mean anything anymore. It seems like

1053
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:47,200
Speaker 1: it's some point you maybe you should take some time

1054
00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:50,520
Speaker 1: to yourself. If it's like that, right, how much is

1055
00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:53,640
Speaker 1: a date like? How many if you think about it

1056
00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:57,080
Speaker 1: isn't marriage, I mean, logan you could argue to spiritually

1057
00:53:57,160 --> 00:53:59,680
Speaker 1: it's sacred right. And I get it. My mom was

1058
00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:03,239
Speaker 1: married twice. My dad, my you know, adopted dad was

1059
00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:05,160
Speaker 1: married three. My mom's just third wife. I get it.

1060
00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:07,560
Speaker 1: You know, you make mistakes whatever. And now they've been

1061
00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:10,640
Speaker 1: married for thirty something years, like they and they're happy

1062
00:54:10,760 --> 00:54:13,239
Speaker 1: and and they're gonna be together forever and whatever else.

1063
00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:15,359
Speaker 1: I understand that, But like, at what point do you

1064
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:19,600
Speaker 1: say when I don't know? And it's not that I

1065
00:54:19,640 --> 00:54:23,759
Speaker 1: wouldn't I've never been married. I would very I would

1066
00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:26,880
Speaker 1: have no issue marrying somebody who's been married before. I

1067
00:54:26,920 --> 00:54:28,840
Speaker 1: think the thing that would be tricky for me is

1068
00:54:28,840 --> 00:54:32,560
Speaker 1: to have another traditional wedding if I'm being really honest

1069
00:54:32,840 --> 00:54:35,560
Speaker 1: with somebody who's been married before, because I feel like

1070
00:54:35,640 --> 00:54:37,399
Speaker 1: that I would be at the end of the aisle.

1071
00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:39,200
Speaker 1: It would be my first time doing that, and she'd

1072
00:54:39,200 --> 00:54:41,439
Speaker 1: be staring at me down the aisle for the second time.

1073
00:54:41,680 --> 00:54:43,239
Speaker 1: And I don't think I want that, So I think

1074
00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:45,040
Speaker 1: I would have to do it differently, Like I would

1075
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 1: still get married and we could have, but I couldn't

1076
00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:48,799
Speaker 1: do like I don't want to think I could do

1077
00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:52,000
Speaker 1: like the if you had a traditional wedding. I don't

1078
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:54,000
Speaker 1: think I could do traditional wedding the second time because

1079
00:54:54,000 --> 00:54:56,319
Speaker 1: I want whatever we're doing to be different than whatever

1080
00:54:56,320 --> 00:54:58,680
Speaker 1: you did the first time. The first time didn't work.

1081
00:54:58,680 --> 00:55:00,000
Speaker 1: What if it was the other way around, though, I'm

1082
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:02,400
Speaker 1: just curious. Again, it was your second wedding and her first,

1083
00:55:02,400 --> 00:55:04,600
Speaker 1: and she wants that white dress, you know, look, and

1084
00:55:04,640 --> 00:55:06,160
Speaker 1: she wants to walk down the aisle thing? Would you

1085
00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:08,680
Speaker 1: do that for her if that's what she wants. It

1086
00:55:08,760 --> 00:55:10,560
Speaker 1: doesn't because she doesn't have an issue with it. But

1087
00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:15,640
Speaker 1: I guess I don't know. For me, I just I

1088
00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:17,239
Speaker 1: don't know. And I have no issue with people who

1089
00:55:17,239 --> 00:55:19,239
Speaker 1: get married a bunch of tennis. I guess I wonder, though, like,

1090
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:23,360
Speaker 1: at what point is it like, okay? Ten though? I mean, Danny,

1091
00:55:23,480 --> 00:55:28,120
Speaker 1: it's like, I don't know, you're not choosing, well, you're not,

1092
00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:30,840
Speaker 1: You're not like maybe some self reflection or something. I

1093
00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:33,840
Speaker 1: don't know. That means ten times you went into something

1094
00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:36,879
Speaker 1: supposedly of the mindset that it was forever right. How

1095
00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:40,640
Speaker 1: could that be? Uh? Is it? Adrille? Hey, how are

1096
00:55:40,640 --> 00:55:42,719
Speaker 1: you doing? You've been married three times? You're thirty five

1097
00:55:42,840 --> 00:55:46,640
Speaker 1: what's the deal with that? Okay? I mean, like you

1098
00:55:46,719 --> 00:55:49,800
Speaker 1: said before, you know, obviously we go in there thinking

1099
00:55:49,840 --> 00:55:54,520
Speaker 1: that you know, it's forever, and you know that's the goal. Unfortunately,

1100
00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:57,680
Speaker 1: sometimes it just doesn't happen that way. UM, I can

1101
00:55:57,760 --> 00:56:00,719
Speaker 1: definitely say that I've learned a lot from each one,

1102
00:56:00,800 --> 00:56:05,920
Speaker 1: and this one, Um, I'm actually my last marriage. I'm

1103
00:56:05,960 --> 00:56:07,839
Speaker 1: hoping because I had said I'm never gonna get married again,

1104
00:56:07,920 --> 00:56:11,040
Speaker 1: and but it happened that I met this woman and

1105
00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 1: it just everything happened where it was supposed to. And

1106
00:56:14,600 --> 00:56:17,480
Speaker 1: I mean we're here now, and I mean I wouldn't

1107
00:56:17,520 --> 00:56:19,879
Speaker 1: change a thing. Well, good for you, and I'm happy

1108
00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:21,319
Speaker 1: by them, But like, at what point is it for

1109
00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:23,440
Speaker 1: some reason, God forbid this one doesn't work out? Like

1110
00:56:23,600 --> 00:56:25,839
Speaker 1: and I guess you said before you wouldn't get married again,

1111
00:56:25,840 --> 00:56:27,440
Speaker 1: and then you did, But like how many times do

1112
00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:29,319
Speaker 1: you At what point do you just say, you know what,

1113
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:32,600
Speaker 1: let's just be happy together and fully committed and we

1114
00:56:32,640 --> 00:56:35,000
Speaker 1: don't have to go through the whole thing. You know,

1115
00:56:35,120 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 1: I thought that too, you know when when I got

1116
00:56:37,719 --> 00:56:40,480
Speaker 1: with my current wife, like I had told her in

1117
00:56:40,480 --> 00:56:43,920
Speaker 1: the beginning, I don't want anything I don't want I

1118
00:56:43,920 --> 00:56:46,719
Speaker 1: don't even want a relationship, and we were kind of

1119
00:56:46,760 --> 00:56:50,440
Speaker 1: seeing each other for a while. Um, I mean you

1120
00:56:50,480 --> 00:56:53,240
Speaker 1: can't really say I'm never going to do this again,

1121
00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:55,840
Speaker 1: you know when it happened, just kind of know and

1122
00:56:56,000 --> 00:56:59,719
Speaker 1: with her, I was able to put myself in that

1123
00:56:59,760 --> 00:57:02,360
Speaker 1: place like you know what this is. This is finallyly

1124
00:57:02,520 --> 00:57:04,839
Speaker 1: that one person that gives me everything that I'm giving them.

1125
00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:08,759
Speaker 1: Everything is reciprocated, and you know, I do feel that

1126
00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:11,479
Speaker 1: this is going to be like forever so many times?

1127
00:57:11,640 --> 00:57:13,719
Speaker 1: Was she married before she met you? Adrian, it's never

1128
00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:16,560
Speaker 1: been married. Stical, have you had to deal with anything

1129
00:57:16,600 --> 00:57:19,160
Speaker 1: like where she says to you, this is your third time?

1130
00:57:19,200 --> 00:57:22,400
Speaker 1: So are you really are you choosing? Well? Well, of course,

1131
00:57:22,480 --> 00:57:24,760
Speaker 1: I mean I think anybody I've always been, you know,

1132
00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:26,280
Speaker 1: honest with the people that I might have like, hey,

1133
00:57:26,320 --> 00:57:27,960
Speaker 1: you know I haven't married, and you know, at first,

1134
00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:30,520
Speaker 1: I think anybody's gonna be skeptical because they're gonna be like, well,

1135
00:57:30,880 --> 00:57:32,920
Speaker 1: you know, hey, you've been married twice before, you know,

1136
00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:36,959
Speaker 1: what's the deal. Um, But you know, I think transparency

1137
00:57:37,080 --> 00:57:40,480
Speaker 1: is like he I've always put everything out there and

1138
00:57:40,720 --> 00:57:42,680
Speaker 1: you know, she was, like I said, skeptical at first,

1139
00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:44,960
Speaker 1: But you know, once we got to know each other well,

1140
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:48,480
Speaker 1: and you know, I guess she chose me as much

1141
00:57:48,480 --> 00:57:51,480
Speaker 1: as I chose her. Yeah, at that point, yeah, you know,

1142
00:57:51,520 --> 00:57:53,920
Speaker 1: it's just like we gotta go with what we feel,

1143
00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:56,520
Speaker 1: and you know it's it's been great so far, so

1144
00:57:56,600 --> 00:57:58,600
Speaker 1: good for you. I appreciate the honesty too, So good

1145
00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:00,760
Speaker 1: luck man. I will say there's something to be said

1146
00:58:00,760 --> 00:58:03,040
Speaker 1: to for not giving up, like being willing to keep

1147
00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:06,200
Speaker 1: trying and not shutting yourself off and saying like, Okay,

1148
00:58:06,400 --> 00:58:07,840
Speaker 1: you know I wasn't going to get married, but I

1149
00:58:07,920 --> 00:58:12,800
Speaker 1: really care about this person. So no times, yea, ten

1150
00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:15,640
Speaker 1: times you committed your life to someone. I mean, no,

1151
00:58:15,680 --> 00:58:17,560
Speaker 1: I agree with you, and I'm not Shelley. I'm not

1152
00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:19,880
Speaker 1: saying that I wouldn't be with the girls. Okay, I

1153
00:58:19,880 --> 00:58:21,560
Speaker 1: wouldn't be with a girl has been married ten times.

1154
00:58:21,560 --> 00:58:23,880
Speaker 1: I wouldn't because I would have to think, like, okay,

1155
00:58:24,120 --> 00:58:27,880
Speaker 1: what really? Like what's going on that every every single

1156
00:58:27,920 --> 00:58:30,120
Speaker 1: time you think this is the one, like you can't.

1157
00:58:30,120 --> 00:58:31,440
Speaker 1: I don't know how you could think it's the one

1158
00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:37,120
Speaker 1: ten times, but I don't know. I I guess at

1159
00:58:37,160 --> 00:58:39,080
Speaker 1: that point though, I just we just wouldn't get married,

1160
00:58:39,240 --> 00:58:40,800
Speaker 1: like if I fall in love with this woman who's

1161
00:58:40,840 --> 00:58:42,600
Speaker 1: been married ten times, I guess I'm just like, let's

1162
00:58:42,640 --> 00:58:47,080
Speaker 1: just not date for a lot. Yeah, let's just date forever. Hey, Paige, Hi, Hi,

1163
00:58:47,240 --> 00:58:49,360
Speaker 1: what do you think this woman has been married ten times?

1164
00:58:49,520 --> 00:58:52,040
Speaker 1: Or she actually was? She's about to divorce the tenth guy.

1165
00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:56,120
Speaker 1: Oh so not crazy, But I mean she is crazy,

1166
00:58:56,320 --> 00:58:59,480
Speaker 1: but that's beside the point. Um, But my mom is

1167
00:58:59,520 --> 00:59:03,440
Speaker 1: actually on her third marriage, and she is married to

1168
00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:07,120
Speaker 1: a female this time. They've been together for about fifteen

1169
00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:10,520
Speaker 1: years now, and they've been together since my early teens.

1170
00:59:11,240 --> 00:59:13,760
Speaker 1: And she was married to my dad for about three

1171
00:59:13,840 --> 00:59:17,200
Speaker 1: years and then they got divorce. She got married, had

1172
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:21,320
Speaker 1: my brother, and then got divorce about three years later.

1173
00:59:21,440 --> 00:59:23,959
Speaker 1: She was single for a while and then she met

1174
00:59:24,000 --> 00:59:26,560
Speaker 1: this girl at work. So I was thirteen years older

1175
00:59:26,560 --> 00:59:31,400
Speaker 1: than her. And we've actually, even myself have received a

1176
00:59:31,400 --> 00:59:35,240
Speaker 1: lot of criticism. People are like, oh, well, your children

1177
00:59:35,280 --> 00:59:37,720
Speaker 1: are kind of grown up with two grandmothers, And I'm like,

1178
00:59:37,880 --> 00:59:39,760
Speaker 1: the only thing my children are going to know if

1179
00:59:39,800 --> 00:59:42,880
Speaker 1: they have two people that love them, that's it. Yeah. Yeah,

1180
00:59:42,960 --> 00:59:45,680
Speaker 1: it sounds like she maybe was I don't know, not

1181
00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:50,520
Speaker 1: not clear or I mean, I don't want to say clear.

1182
00:59:50,600 --> 00:59:52,919
Speaker 1: But if she's with a woman and that's what makes

1183
00:59:52,920 --> 00:59:54,840
Speaker 1: her happy, that I guess the first two marriages were

1184
00:59:54,880 --> 00:59:56,480
Speaker 1: I mean, they were never going to work because that

1185
00:59:56,600 --> 00:59:58,880
Speaker 1: wasn't what really fulfilled her. Right. So maybe she was

1186
00:59:59,080 --> 01:00:01,840
Speaker 1: some kind of society pressure, or she was I don't know,

1187
01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:04,320
Speaker 1: forcing herself to do something that she thought was traditional,

1188
01:00:04,440 --> 01:00:06,320
Speaker 1: or she was afraid of being judged or whatever. But like,

1189
01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:08,640
Speaker 1: it's hard for me to say that she shouldn't be

1190
01:00:08,640 --> 01:00:10,880
Speaker 1: married three times because well, it turns out, you know,

1191
01:00:10,920 --> 01:00:13,680
Speaker 1: what she really wanted to do is be with a woman, right,

1192
01:00:13,880 --> 01:00:17,280
Speaker 1: And you know, I look at it as it's not

1193
01:00:17,360 --> 01:00:19,760
Speaker 1: my life, you know, I have my own life to live.

1194
01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:23,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, because they were a very hot topic of

1195
01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:25,680
Speaker 1: conversation when I was in college, says, I went to

1196
01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:30,520
Speaker 1: a Catholic college in Florida, and it was they were

1197
01:00:30,720 --> 01:00:34,439
Speaker 1: the topic of conversation around, saying text marriages. And they've

1198
01:00:34,480 --> 01:00:37,000
Speaker 1: been married for five and a half years now. They

1199
01:00:37,080 --> 01:00:41,320
Speaker 1: got married in DC in twenty yeah, twenty fourteen, and

1200
01:00:41,840 --> 01:00:43,920
Speaker 1: it was you know, it was legal then, and I

1201
01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:46,480
Speaker 1: was my mom's maid of honor. I walked her dowdy aisle.

1202
01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:49,280
Speaker 1: It was a small little ceremony. It was really pretty.

1203
01:00:49,480 --> 01:00:51,720
Speaker 1: And you know, I just tell people, it's not my life.

1204
01:00:51,960 --> 01:00:54,000
Speaker 1: This is my mom's life as long as she's happy.

1205
01:00:54,040 --> 01:00:55,560
Speaker 1: And yeah, I mean, if you will be married ten

1206
01:00:55,600 --> 01:00:57,080
Speaker 1: times and I guess you're happy, but I guess I

1207
01:00:57,120 --> 01:00:59,240
Speaker 1: want how could I how could you even be happy

1208
01:00:59,240 --> 01:01:01,440
Speaker 1: if you're married ten time? That means ten times you

1209
01:01:01,560 --> 01:01:04,120
Speaker 1: failed at something. I guess at some point that wouldn't

1210
01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:06,240
Speaker 1: make me happy, right, that it would just become this

1211
01:01:06,280 --> 01:01:08,280
Speaker 1: sort of sick pattern. But I'm happy for your mom,

1212
01:01:08,400 --> 01:01:11,160
Speaker 1: and I'm happy for you, and I appreciate the call page.

1213
01:01:11,200 --> 01:01:13,560
Speaker 1: Have a good day you too, Love you guys, Yeah,

1214
01:01:13,600 --> 01:01:17,080
Speaker 1: I love you too. Hey, missy, Hey, what's going on? Missy? Hi?

1215
01:01:17,160 --> 01:01:19,520
Speaker 1: What do you want to say? Good morning? Hey? Good

1216
01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:23,160
Speaker 1: morning guys. Um. So, I feel like at a certain

1217
01:01:23,320 --> 01:01:28,040
Speaker 1: point maybe you have to like reflect on yourself and say, like, okay,

1218
01:01:28,120 --> 01:01:30,240
Speaker 1: what's going on with you me? But like I need

1219
01:01:30,280 --> 01:01:34,560
Speaker 1: to get married comes out that somebody else, you know, Yeah,

1220
01:01:34,680 --> 01:01:36,840
Speaker 1: like what am I really looking for? Because clearly the

1221
01:01:36,880 --> 01:01:39,000
Speaker 1: first five six people didn't have it? So what do

1222
01:01:39,040 --> 01:01:41,040
Speaker 1: I really Which is why I wouldn't marry this one up,

1223
01:01:41,040 --> 01:01:43,640
Speaker 1: because I guess I would think, I don't think you

1224
01:01:43,720 --> 01:01:46,320
Speaker 1: know what you want? So how do you know that

1225
01:01:46,360 --> 01:01:49,080
Speaker 1: I'm at because how could you think that ten times?

1226
01:01:49,080 --> 01:01:50,600
Speaker 1: And I mean, I just don't. I don't think that's

1227
01:01:50,600 --> 01:01:53,720
Speaker 1: something that you think ten times? You know, right exactly?

1228
01:01:54,440 --> 01:01:57,960
Speaker 1: But I agree, like i'd be like, oh, maybe you know,

1229
01:01:58,080 --> 01:02:04,080
Speaker 1: maybe I haven't lot of getting a relationship with Brady, right, yeah, yeah, well,

1230
01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:05,920
Speaker 1: and the odds are pretty good. It's yeah that you're

1231
01:02:05,920 --> 01:02:08,280
Speaker 1: gonna win a Brady about your tenth tenth divorce. And

1232
01:02:09,880 --> 01:02:13,760
Speaker 1: thank you, missing a great day, glad you called. Hey Brandon,

1233
01:02:13,800 --> 01:02:17,480
Speaker 1: good morning, Hey brand you heard about this woman married

1234
01:02:17,480 --> 01:02:19,600
Speaker 1: ten times? Look at she's ending her tenth marriage actually,

1235
01:02:19,600 --> 01:02:21,000
Speaker 1: and she was on Doctor Phil And I'm looking at

1236
01:02:21,040 --> 01:02:23,960
Speaker 1: this woman going, I know I haven't find the audio,

1237
01:02:24,040 --> 01:02:26,440
Speaker 1: but he was giving her advice, probably advices, probably don't ever,

1238
01:02:26,720 --> 01:02:29,960
Speaker 1: don't do it again, like you stop it, you're done?

1239
01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:32,560
Speaker 1: You said, what do you think, Brandon? Well, I just

1240
01:02:32,600 --> 01:02:35,480
Speaker 1: couldn't help think of my parents. My mom's been married

1241
01:02:35,480 --> 01:02:38,920
Speaker 1: three times, my dad's married four times. And when my

1242
01:02:38,960 --> 01:02:41,919
Speaker 1: parents got divorced, they were divorced for about fifteen years,

1243
01:02:42,200 --> 01:02:45,720
Speaker 1: and then they got remarried again. And after fifteen years later, huh,

1244
01:02:45,800 --> 01:02:53,800
Speaker 1: and it's going well now good doesn't stop promising. I

1245
01:02:53,800 --> 01:02:55,240
Speaker 1: don't know. What do you think, though? Mean, how do

1246
01:02:55,280 --> 01:02:57,440
Speaker 1: you say, like, how do you put a number on it?

1247
01:02:57,480 --> 01:02:58,880
Speaker 1: I mean, like I said, my dad, this is my

1248
01:02:58,920 --> 01:03:01,080
Speaker 1: dad's third marriage, and and he finally got it right,

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Speaker 1: you know, in my opinion, while he wound up with me,

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Speaker 1: So he got it right. But um, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, how do you say three, four or five

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Speaker 1: times six? I mean, how do you say when the

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Speaker 1: number is? If you finally get it right eventually? I

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Speaker 1: mean I think you'll know. And I think he got

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Speaker 1: to try regardless, And I I don't think you can really

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Speaker 1: give up on that kind of that kind of thing. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: because I know people who I think have kind of

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Speaker 1: just given up and they just say, you know what,

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Speaker 1: I didn't work out, and so then they just kind

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Speaker 1: of say, you know, it's never going to work again,

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Speaker 1: or I don't want to go through that again, and

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Speaker 1: so then they just end up alone. Yeah, thank you, No,

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Speaker 1: go finish your thoughts. Sorry. I was going to say,

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Speaker 1: I think you were talking about it the other day.

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Speaker 1: I think just the longer you and or lived together

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Speaker 1: might make the marriage more successful. Thank you, Brandon, have

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Speaker 1: a good day. Yeah, well you tell me you've been

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Speaker 1: married ten times. I'm like it' isn't that expensive too?

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Speaker 1: I mean, hi, I've never been married, but to me,

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Speaker 1: that sounds like a lot of money. Yeah, that's going

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Speaker 1: down the other train. Yeah, all the day. Yeah. Lawyers,

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure if she's getting paid in these things

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Speaker 1: or if she's have to pay out. O imagine if

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Speaker 1: she issed Wow, at the first of the months, she

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Speaker 1: goes out to her mailbox and they're ten checks, all

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Speaker 1: the checks in there. She may be onto something. Guys

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Speaker 1: from America's Greatest City, w k Chicago, Kiss FM and

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Speaker 1: iHeart Radio station. It's the Fred Show. You got this

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Speaker 1: trip to Vegas and you get to pick who you see,

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01:04:32,040 --> 01:04:35,680
Speaker 1: The Chainsmokers, Katie Perry, the Jonas Brothers or Usher eight thirty.

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Speaker 1: You get signed up on the Friend Show one h

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Speaker 1: three five, Good morning, It's the Friend Show in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Why were you left waiting by the phone? Hey Jason,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Good morning. Welcome to our show. Waiting by

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Speaker 1: the phone. Of course, this is where we investigate trying

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Speaker 1: to figure out what's going on with a ghosting situation.

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Speaker 1: So you went out with Claire, tell us how you

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Speaker 1: met and where things stand now. So we met on bumble.

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Speaker 1: We were just texting back and forth for a little while.

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Speaker 1: We decided to meet up and we had a great time,

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Speaker 1: and you know, she made it back to my place.

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Speaker 1: We even made out a little bit. So I thought

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Speaker 1: things were great. Um, I thought it was good. But

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Speaker 1: since then she's been ghosting me, so I kind of

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Speaker 1: wanted to just get to the bottom of it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean that's got a good sign. You know, you

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Speaker 1: have a good day, day, one up back at your place,

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Speaker 1: some physical contacts. I mean, these are all good things.

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Speaker 1: And you thought that all went well, and and you

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Speaker 1: fully expected that when you texted her to ask her

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Speaker 1: out again, that she would respond and you'd do it

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Speaker 1: all over again. Yeah, definitely. I mean we were laughing,

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01:05:35,520 --> 01:05:37,800
Speaker 1: we were having a good time through outside. Yeah. I

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Speaker 1: had never reason to believe that she wouldn't be one.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, that could be frustrating, especially if you

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Speaker 1: like somebody, and it's it's kind of hard to connect

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Speaker 1: these days, and it's hard hard enough on the dating

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Speaker 1: apps not to mention, you know, in the midst of

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Speaker 1: all of this. So let's call this woman Claire. We'll

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Speaker 1: see if we can get her on the phone and

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Speaker 1: ask some questions and hopefully we can straighten this out.

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Speaker 1: Maybe there's a good explanation and we'll set you guys

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Speaker 1: up on another date that we pay for. Okay, great,

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Speaker 1: thank you. Can you hang on for a second, absolutely,

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Speaker 1: I say right here, you've got to hear what happens next.

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Speaker 1: We'll do part two of waiting by the phone right

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Speaker 1: after this song on one three five one three five

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Speaker 1: Kiss FM, Chicago's number one hit music stage and good morning.

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Speaker 1: It's the Fred's Show. Hey, Jason, Hey, all right, let's

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01:06:18,000 --> 01:06:20,640
Speaker 1: call Claire. You met on bumble, went out at a

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Speaker 1: great date, wind up back at your place, a little

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Speaker 1: makeout thing going on. Everything went great, except you've reached

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Speaker 1: out for another date. She's not responding and you want

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Speaker 1: to know why. All right, we're gonna call her now.

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Speaker 1: Good luck, thank you? Hello? Hi? Is this Claire? Yea Claire?

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Speaker 1: Good morning? It is Fred and Show but Shelley and

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Speaker 1: the crew for the French Show on one three five

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Speaker 1: Kiss FM and Chicago. And I have to tell you

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Speaker 1: before we go any further with the call. I gotta

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Speaker 1: get this out there that we are on the radio,

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Speaker 1: and I need your consent to continue with this call.

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Speaker 1: Can we talk for a little bit? Yes we can, Okay,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much. Um, well, this is gonna be fun.

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Speaker 1: We're calling on behalf of a guy named Jason. You

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Speaker 1: met him on Bumble and I guess you guys on

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Speaker 1: a date. Yeah, yeah, he did did. Okay, he described

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Speaker 1: to us a minute ago, this really great date. He

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Speaker 1: said everything went well. He did include that you went

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Speaker 1: back to his place. Um, except he says he's reached

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Speaker 1: out to you for another date, fully expecting a response,

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Speaker 1: and that you're ghosting him and he wants to know

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Speaker 1: what's going on. Oh okay, well, um okay, yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: it was a it was a fine date. Um, everything

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01:07:33,360 --> 01:07:37,800
Speaker 1: was great until he started making out. Um, I'm guessing

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Speaker 1: he didn't tell you what he said, right, Oh he didn't, Yeah, okay,

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01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:47,280
Speaker 1: so tell us what he said. Yeah. He was telling

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Speaker 1: me to call him doctor Fauci and to fuck to

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Speaker 1: get the Corona antibodies because he had Corona and he

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Speaker 1: would be saving my life. And I'm not kidding you, guys.

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Speaker 1: I can't shifts up. I cannot make this up. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I think I have the coronavirus. Um, okay, you got

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Speaker 1: you got him back up. So you guys are making

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Speaker 1: out and he he says, you're getting to the point

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01:08:14,600 --> 01:08:16,880
Speaker 1: where like maybe you move on to the next step

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Speaker 1: in the process. And he says to you that he

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Speaker 1: had the coronavirus, so he has the antibodies, and I

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01:08:24,160 --> 01:08:29,439
Speaker 1: want the antibodies that you should give him. You you

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Speaker 1: nailed it. And then he wanted to be called doctor

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Speaker 1: Fauci while doing it. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. He was

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Speaker 1: insistent on that, insistent, and I was like, no, no,

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Speaker 1: thank you, and shut it down real fast. And listen,

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Speaker 1: guess what I am. I am. I have some humility here.

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Speaker 1: I will share with you. I googled it. I was like,

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Speaker 1: is this thing ms? Can I get the antibodies by swallowing? Doctor?

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Speaker 1: I got to bring Jason into this because Jason, I

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Speaker 1: want to scold you, But I mean that that's a

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Speaker 1: level of creativity that I don't think I've ever heard before. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it was first of all, that was totally a joke.

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, yeah, it's not funny to be like

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Speaker 1: I was just I felt like a deer in headlight.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like you were trying to sell this like

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Speaker 1: it was like it was real, Like it doesn't sound

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Speaker 1: like you were kidding, like and you really want to

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Speaker 1: be called doctor Fausci. I mean at the in the

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Speaker 1: moment and the thing, you know, I thought it was

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Speaker 1: kind of funny, kind of hot. I thought, you know,

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Speaker 1: we had this kind of thing and I just thought

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Speaker 1: it felt right, you know, So how did you come

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Speaker 1: up with it? I mean, do you just this came

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Speaker 1: to you on the spot. You're like, I'm going to

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Speaker 1: tell her that I can save her life this way. Well,

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Speaker 1: I did have coronavirus and I do have the antibody,

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01:09:46,920 --> 01:09:49,080
Speaker 1: so it kind of just like, I know, you know,

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01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:54,000
Speaker 1: maybe it just kind of sounds were you afraid this

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01:09:54,040 --> 01:09:56,840
Speaker 1: wouldn't happen unless you said that, like you just you

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01:09:56,840 --> 01:10:00,080
Speaker 1: can let it happen naturally. I just, you know, I

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Speaker 1: thought I was just like, hey, where this is going. Well,

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01:10:02,400 --> 01:10:05,559
Speaker 1: let's move things on a little a little quicker. This

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01:10:05,640 --> 01:10:07,439
Speaker 1: is the same thing, like if you leave me hanging

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01:10:07,479 --> 01:10:10,599
Speaker 1: that I'll look like my explode or something like. This

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Speaker 1: is the same blue exactly, And just a little tip, buddy,

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Speaker 1: I would say drop that that joke or that act, like,

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Speaker 1: don't do that with another girl, because it's not cute

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Speaker 1: or hot, it's really creepy. Have you tried this again?

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01:10:26,120 --> 01:10:34,439
Speaker 1: Has it worked? It hasn't worked yet, No, multiple times. Well,

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Speaker 1: I appreciate, Claire that you looked it up on Google,

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01:10:36,760 --> 01:10:39,000
Speaker 1: so now we can be certain and give proper health

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Speaker 1: advice that that is not a way to ingest the

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Speaker 1: press conference on it and protect yourself from the coronavirus.

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Speaker 1: That's right. Okay, Well, I'm glad we figured that out. Jason.

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Speaker 1: I again, you know, it's hard for me to hate

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Speaker 1: on the creativity. I mean, it really is. I appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: Definitely creative. No second date, I assume then, absolutely not credit. Well,

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Speaker 1: you've provided a tremendous public service, Clearer, and I think

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Speaker 1: many men who had the coronavirus are extremely upset that

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01:11:08,080 --> 01:11:13,000
Speaker 1: this is not a viable option for them. No, I

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01:11:13,040 --> 01:11:14,760
Speaker 1: think he was trying to save your life. But it's

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Speaker 1: you know, you didn't go for it, so I guess you.

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Speaker 1: I guess you don't want to keep living. Good luck

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Speaker 1: to you guys, Thanks for your time. Okay, So do

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Speaker 1: you love your pets? There's much pet owners reveal the

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Speaker 1: legs that they'll go to manage with their pets put

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Speaker 1: in their bodies. Seventy four percent of people so they

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Speaker 1: read the reviews of a product before giving it to

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Speaker 1: their pets. Do you do you do that, owner Bonner?

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Speaker 1: If you read the review? Um? No, I don't read

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Speaker 1: the review. But I've been getting all these targeted ads

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Speaker 1: about like the fresh new like organic food, and I

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01:11:46,320 --> 01:11:48,880
Speaker 1: keep thinking, I'm like, should I do it? Because they

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Speaker 1: eat their kibble, but like the other stuff is supposed

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Speaker 1: to be so much more healthy and like natural, and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, but it's so much more expensive, So maybe

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Speaker 1: I don't love No get somewhere dog know? What about you?

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Speaker 1: For a Benchoel frenchie, do you do you read reviews

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Speaker 1: on the food that you served to him? I think

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Speaker 1: we did at first when we got them, because I'm

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Speaker 1: a first time dog owner, so I didn't really know

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Speaker 1: what to give them or what's the best option. But

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Speaker 1: then when the potty training wasn't going so hot and

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Speaker 1: he was like not pooping solidly that word solidly, we

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Speaker 1: had to switch back to the og And yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna pay more for it because it comes out

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Speaker 1: anyway right one way or another. Yeah, okay, but this

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Speaker 1: is the thing that I wonder. Apparently four and ten

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Speaker 1: people forty percent of people will actually physically test the

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Speaker 1: product on themselves first, and treats being the most common things.

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Speaker 1: So people will eat the food and the treats before

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Speaker 1: they give it to their dogs. I don't know what.

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Speaker 1: If it tastes good to you, then it tastes good

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Speaker 1: to I mean, but they have different taste budge, don't they.

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Speaker 1: I don't know it, trust me, I've never really I

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Speaker 1: can't say that I've intentionally eaten a treat before, but

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Speaker 1: I don't think they taste very good. I've always wondered

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Speaker 1: what it tastes like like it does it taste like?

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Speaker 1: Or does it taste says like, oh, these are turkey flavored?

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Speaker 1: Like does it taste like turkey? I don't know. Well,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess you should become one of

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Speaker 1: the forty percent putting their mouth and finds out said worse.

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Speaker 1: She probably have. I hang on a couple of minutes away,

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Speaker 1: a trip to Vegas, all expenses paid to see the

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Speaker 1: Chase Smokers, Katie Perry, the Jonas Brothers or Usher win

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Speaker 1: it next on the Fred Show one oh three five.

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Speaker 1: I hold myself out as the the animal lover, like

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Speaker 1: you know what, we all love animals on the show.

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01:13:38,360 --> 01:13:40,920
Speaker 1: But I mean, I know, I'm the animal rescue guy.

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01:13:40,960 --> 01:13:42,920
Speaker 1: I'm the guy who's like, you know, has the voices

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01:13:43,000 --> 01:13:45,439
Speaker 1: for my dogs, and I'm I'm crazy. I'm the good

1458
01:13:45,479 --> 01:13:48,040
Speaker 1: dog crazy guy. And I believe that my dog Lily

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01:13:48,160 --> 01:13:51,040
Speaker 1: is my soulmate. I do believe that, um, but yet

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01:13:51,080 --> 01:13:53,240
Speaker 1: I've never tried her food. And I don't feel that

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01:13:53,240 --> 01:13:56,800
Speaker 1: that's necessary to Yeah, one thing I think I will

1462
01:13:56,840 --> 01:14:00,040
Speaker 1: do or that I've done, it's I white pencils. But

1463
01:14:00,040 --> 01:14:02,080
Speaker 1: but that's a whole different like level, not eating his

1464
01:14:02,200 --> 01:14:04,280
Speaker 1: food or his treats, you know what I mean. Plus

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01:14:04,320 --> 01:14:06,120
Speaker 1: I think like his little hungry ass would jump me

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01:14:06,200 --> 01:14:10,280
Speaker 1: or something. He's wild, he would be so upset, like food.

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01:14:11,000 --> 01:14:12,519
Speaker 1: Why do you have to wipe this butt? Because he

1468
01:14:12,560 --> 01:14:15,040
Speaker 1: doesn't like get it all out Sometimes when he gets

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01:14:15,040 --> 01:14:18,240
Speaker 1: startled outside, he doesn't finish. So then this is something

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01:14:18,320 --> 01:14:21,880
Speaker 1: dangling And I'm like, oh, boy, do you use that

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01:14:22,040 --> 01:14:23,880
Speaker 1: or what do you use? I use baby wet wipes

1472
01:14:23,920 --> 01:14:26,920
Speaker 1: actually water wipes, so like there's no fragrance or nothing. Yeah,

1473
01:14:26,920 --> 01:14:28,519
Speaker 1: I just do a quick wipe and getting those for

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01:14:28,640 --> 01:14:33,760
Speaker 1: my baby. You share Shelley Share Exchange highly recommend. Oh

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01:14:33,800 --> 01:14:35,720
Speaker 1: my gosh, well gotta make sure we don't have any

1476
01:14:35,720 --> 01:14:39,320
Speaker 1: ear a taste on little Benzoel French. He's booty, That's

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01:14:39,320 --> 01:14:42,960
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Okay, here here's Crystal Christal works in

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01:14:43,000 --> 01:14:45,800
Speaker 1: an animal hospital. Crystal, good morning, Welcome to the show.

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01:14:45,800 --> 01:14:49,679
Speaker 1: How are you, hey, everybody. I'm doing great. You guys

1480
01:14:49,760 --> 01:14:52,760
Speaker 1: make my ride in to work so funny. Thank you.

1481
01:14:53,520 --> 01:14:55,920
Speaker 1: I'm glad. I'm glad that we are occasionally funny and

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01:14:55,960 --> 01:15:01,320
Speaker 1: that's good. Um. So forty percent of people apparently try

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01:15:01,360 --> 01:15:04,160
Speaker 1: their dogs food before they give it to them. They

1484
01:15:04,400 --> 01:15:07,360
Speaker 1: try the products that they allow their dogs to consume.

1485
01:15:07,520 --> 01:15:11,840
Speaker 1: And you're saying that you do this, Yes, I definitely

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01:15:11,880 --> 01:15:15,000
Speaker 1: do this, and so do my coworkers. I mean anywhere

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01:15:15,040 --> 01:15:19,200
Speaker 1: from treeses to like products that representatives bring in. We're

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01:15:19,320 --> 01:15:23,120
Speaker 1: smelling and tasting and if we can't tolerate it, we're

1489
01:15:23,200 --> 01:15:25,360
Speaker 1: not going to feed it to any of our clients,

1490
01:15:25,400 --> 01:15:27,560
Speaker 1: that's for sure. But it's not I love it. And

1491
01:15:27,640 --> 01:15:29,840
Speaker 1: the dogs you call them clients, they are clients. I

1492
01:15:29,880 --> 01:15:35,120
Speaker 1: suppose little clients. I mean I realized some dog or

1493
01:15:35,200 --> 01:15:37,880
Speaker 1: some dog food or animal food is like you know,

1494
01:15:37,880 --> 01:15:41,479
Speaker 1: it's natural, organic or made from from supposedly like real

1495
01:15:41,520 --> 01:15:43,599
Speaker 1: food that people would eat or human grade or whatever.

1496
01:15:43,640 --> 01:15:45,880
Speaker 1: But it's not made for you though, So like, if

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01:15:45,920 --> 01:15:47,560
Speaker 1: it doesn't taste good to you, who's to say that

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01:15:47,600 --> 01:15:51,639
Speaker 1: it wouldn't taste good to the animal. I mean, if

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01:15:51,680 --> 01:15:55,240
Speaker 1: something doesn't smell right, I'm not eating it. So I'm

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01:15:55,320 --> 01:16:00,320
Speaker 1: not feeding it dog, that's for sure. What is that's

1501
01:16:00,680 --> 01:16:07,280
Speaker 1: taste is really fun? I mean, I mean I don't.

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01:16:07,320 --> 01:16:10,559
Speaker 1: I just feel like, if it's really bad smelling and

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01:16:10,600 --> 01:16:13,720
Speaker 1: it doesn't taste right, I'm not gonna give it to

1504
01:16:13,880 --> 01:16:18,439
Speaker 1: my dog either. It's gotta be a feeling someway, all right, Well,

1505
01:16:18,479 --> 01:16:20,040
Speaker 1: fair enough, And by the way, who are we to

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01:16:20,120 --> 01:16:22,120
Speaker 1: say what tastes good to a dog? I mean I

1507
01:16:22,120 --> 01:16:24,800
Speaker 1: guess that they must do like focus testing or something, right,

1508
01:16:24,880 --> 01:16:28,559
Speaker 1: like the I don't know, Purina or whatever these dog

1509
01:16:28,720 --> 01:16:32,240
Speaker 1: food companies are. They must they must like blind taste tests,

1510
01:16:32,760 --> 01:16:34,680
Speaker 1: because how they how do they know what the dog wants?

1511
01:16:34,720 --> 01:16:36,160
Speaker 1: U let's they put a bunch of food out there

1512
01:16:36,200 --> 01:16:38,400
Speaker 1: and then they sell you the stuff that most dogs

1513
01:16:38,400 --> 01:16:40,840
Speaker 1: want to eat. I guess is that how they do it? Yeah?

1514
01:16:41,680 --> 01:16:44,240
Speaker 1: Most likely, But we have to remember, dogs will eat

1515
01:16:44,280 --> 01:16:48,519
Speaker 1: their own food, so yes, you know there's kind of bad. Yes,

1516
01:16:51,160 --> 01:16:53,280
Speaker 1: well maybe. And I have been asked a question a

1517
01:16:53,280 --> 01:16:55,519
Speaker 1: lot of them. How can I how can my dog

1518
01:16:55,600 --> 01:16:57,559
Speaker 1: make my dog stop eating their food? That is a

1519
01:16:57,680 --> 01:17:01,920
Speaker 1: very difficult one to fix. For you, I don't how

1520
01:17:01,960 --> 01:17:10,679
Speaker 1: do you do it? You literally recycling? Oh all right, well,

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01:17:10,720 --> 01:17:12,800
Speaker 1: thank you, Christal. You I think you're a better dog

1522
01:17:13,200 --> 01:17:15,080
Speaker 1: pet person than I am because I'm just not going

1523
01:17:15,080 --> 01:17:20,479
Speaker 1: that far. I love them, have a good day. I

1524
01:17:20,520 --> 01:17:23,800
Speaker 1: love your lab. I have a good day. Thanks for calling, right.

1525
01:17:24,720 --> 01:17:26,639
Speaker 1: I mean, there is the famous story around my house

1526
01:17:26,680 --> 01:17:31,120
Speaker 1: where my you know, we had a big yard. We

1527
01:17:31,160 --> 01:17:33,080
Speaker 1: had this lab. Her name was Sarah. Because of course

1528
01:17:33,080 --> 01:17:36,040
Speaker 1: we have to name all of our animals like human names.

1529
01:17:36,600 --> 01:17:38,519
Speaker 1: We never had like a Fido or anything. It was

1530
01:17:38,560 --> 01:17:43,599
Speaker 1: like the Katie Sarah. Really, I mean they all all

1531
01:17:43,640 --> 01:17:48,680
Speaker 1: have like people names. Oliver Maxwell anyway. Um, and so,

1532
01:17:48,800 --> 01:17:51,519
Speaker 1: for whatever reason, I can't remember what this was like

1533
01:17:51,560 --> 01:17:56,080
Speaker 1: in the early nineties, I guess maybe and people were

1534
01:17:56,160 --> 01:17:59,200
Speaker 1: using they still use invisible fences that give your dogs

1535
01:17:59,200 --> 01:18:01,479
Speaker 1: a little jolt, I guess, to keep them within a

1536
01:18:01,520 --> 01:18:04,559
Speaker 1: certain space or whatever. Well, we had a college that

1537
01:18:04,640 --> 01:18:07,680
Speaker 1: did that and if and if our dog Sarah on

1538
01:18:07,680 --> 01:18:09,519
Speaker 1: our lab if she got I think it was within

1539
01:18:09,560 --> 01:18:12,400
Speaker 1: a certain distance from a I don't know. We try.

1540
01:18:12,439 --> 01:18:14,599
Speaker 1: We were trying to keep her contained, like in the backyard,

1541
01:18:14,680 --> 01:18:17,439
Speaker 1: so she wouldn't run away, and so it had a

1542
01:18:17,439 --> 01:18:18,920
Speaker 1: little it gave her, like a little it was supposed

1543
01:18:18,960 --> 01:18:21,519
Speaker 1: to be a little humane jolt that it would give her.

1544
01:18:21,560 --> 01:18:23,559
Speaker 1: It sounds terrible now, I don't think people I don't

1545
01:18:23,600 --> 01:18:25,920
Speaker 1: know if people even do this anymore. But nonetheless, it

1546
01:18:25,920 --> 01:18:27,920
Speaker 1: was supposed to be like this little thing that they

1547
01:18:27,920 --> 01:18:29,960
Speaker 1: wouldn't like, so that they would learn not to go

1548
01:18:30,080 --> 01:18:32,519
Speaker 1: beyond a certain point. And my sister, who was eight

1549
01:18:32,600 --> 01:18:34,519
Speaker 1: years seven and a half years younger than me, didn't

1550
01:18:34,560 --> 01:18:37,160
Speaker 1: like this idea. And my dad's like, no, no, it's

1551
01:18:37,200 --> 01:18:39,080
Speaker 1: it won't hurt her. It's just a reminder we don't

1552
01:18:39,080 --> 01:18:40,800
Speaker 1: want to run away. He wanted to even not go

1553
01:18:40,920 --> 01:18:42,200
Speaker 1: too far away from the house and then we can't

1554
01:18:42,240 --> 01:18:45,000
Speaker 1: find her. And my sister's like, she must have been

1555
01:18:45,040 --> 01:18:47,640
Speaker 1: maybe seven, says well, dad, If that's the case, then

1556
01:18:47,640 --> 01:18:50,560
Speaker 1: why don't you show me they put on you and

1557
01:18:50,600 --> 01:18:52,160
Speaker 1: it won't If it doesn't hurt you, then it won't

1558
01:18:52,200 --> 01:18:55,080
Speaker 1: hurt her, and my Dad's like, no problem, absolutely, that's

1559
01:18:55,080 --> 01:18:57,120
Speaker 1: a great idea. So he puts this thing around his

1560
01:18:57,320 --> 01:19:01,639
Speaker 1: neck and he activates it and it like I mean

1561
01:19:01,800 --> 01:19:07,080
Speaker 1: this dude, he leapt like seven feet um and flipping

1562
01:19:07,640 --> 01:19:12,400
Speaker 1: themselves and needless to product, that product was never used

1563
01:19:12,439 --> 01:19:15,680
Speaker 1: on the dog ever, and that was the end of it.

1564
01:19:15,800 --> 01:19:17,360
Speaker 1: But I don't I don't know. I don't know that.

1565
01:19:17,520 --> 01:19:19,920
Speaker 1: I don't know the science behind. I don't know if

1566
01:19:19,960 --> 01:19:23,479
Speaker 1: it hurt the fur on the animal, I don't know. Anyway,

1567
01:19:23,520 --> 01:19:26,040
Speaker 1: we never did that, so it didn't happen, thanks to

1568
01:19:26,080 --> 01:19:29,800
Speaker 1: my sister. But uh, anyways, that that's the kind of

1569
01:19:29,800 --> 01:19:32,320
Speaker 1: stuff that happens in my house is we don't try

1570
01:19:32,360 --> 01:19:35,240
Speaker 1: their food though, we don't. We don't eat the dog food.

1571
01:19:34,800 --> 01:19:37,439
Speaker 1: Also said, your mom gives them like regular human food,

1572
01:19:37,479 --> 01:19:41,160
Speaker 1: so I'd be eating that too. That is true. Um

1573
01:19:41,479 --> 01:19:43,559
Speaker 1: oh no, there there is food in the refrigerator at

1574
01:19:43,560 --> 01:19:46,320
Speaker 1: my mom's house that is not to be consumed by

1575
01:19:46,320 --> 01:19:51,120
Speaker 1: the humans. Because our dogs like turkey burgers and green beans.

1576
01:19:51,160 --> 01:19:54,120
Speaker 1: That's what they get for dinner, and uh apparently they

1577
01:19:54,160 --> 01:19:59,559
Speaker 1: prefer the last nights. I'm not kidding, well, Shelley, that's

1578
01:19:59,600 --> 01:20:02,240
Speaker 1: what our animals get for dinner, and they apparently prefer

1579
01:20:02,320 --> 01:20:06,120
Speaker 1: the the grilled taste. So my mom goes out every

1580
01:20:06,160 --> 01:20:09,599
Speaker 1: month and grills like sixty of these things for each

1581
01:20:09,640 --> 01:20:11,320
Speaker 1: of them, and you know, ahead of time, and then

1582
01:20:11,320 --> 01:20:13,320
Speaker 1: put them in their freezer in the refrigerator. But there

1583
01:20:13,479 --> 01:20:15,400
Speaker 1: you couldn't warm it up in the oven or something.

1584
01:20:15,439 --> 01:20:18,320
Speaker 1: It has to be grilled first because they prefer the

1585
01:20:18,520 --> 01:20:22,080
Speaker 1: grilled taste of the turkey burger. I put mine in

1586
01:20:22,120 --> 01:20:25,719
Speaker 1: the microwave. They're better than that's better than what I get. No, Yeah,

1587
01:20:25,720 --> 01:20:28,160
Speaker 1: our dogs get better food than you do. So but

1588
01:20:28,200 --> 01:20:29,960
Speaker 1: in the morning they you dog food and I've never

1589
01:20:30,640 --> 01:20:33,280
Speaker 1: well with some some nice smoked turkey on top of it,

1590
01:20:33,400 --> 01:20:35,400
Speaker 1: but I've never eaten the dog food. I know what

1591
01:20:35,439 --> 01:20:37,040
Speaker 1: the smoke turkey taste like, but I don't know what

1592
01:20:37,080 --> 01:20:38,640
Speaker 1: the dog food tastes like. I'm not willing to go

1593
01:20:38,720 --> 01:20:47,120
Speaker 1: that far. Um, Jason Brown, you've been with Mechanic Mike

1594
01:20:47,200 --> 01:20:54,000
Speaker 1: for with Mike and the Mechanics for multiple for ten years, yeah,

1595
01:20:54,080 --> 01:20:57,040
Speaker 1: over ten years. Yeah, and now as a result of that,

1596
01:20:57,520 --> 01:21:00,839
Speaker 1: you find yourself drinking straight out of the acet Yeah,

1597
01:21:00,880 --> 01:21:02,960
Speaker 1: which I've just mouth to the end of the thing.

1598
01:21:02,960 --> 01:21:06,880
Speaker 1: You're not worried about bacteria or anything not. I mean

1599
01:21:06,920 --> 01:21:08,960
Speaker 1: I've watched him do it for literally ten years. He's

1600
01:21:09,000 --> 01:21:12,439
Speaker 1: done it since I've known him. But just recently I

1601
01:21:12,600 --> 01:21:14,600
Speaker 1: find myself doing it like I'll be like, oh, I

1602
01:21:14,640 --> 01:21:17,000
Speaker 1: gotta take this EVL real quick. I don't have a cops.

1603
01:21:17,040 --> 01:21:19,920
Speaker 1: Let me just swear. But you know what I mean

1604
01:21:20,040 --> 01:21:22,479
Speaker 1: out of the faucet, which is like, I don't know,

1605
01:21:22,479 --> 01:21:24,640
Speaker 1: it is gross, but I didn't even think about it.

1606
01:21:24,680 --> 01:21:26,840
Speaker 1: Like never in my life, like growing up, have I

1607
01:21:26,960 --> 01:21:29,880
Speaker 1: ever seen anyone do that? Okay, here's my question in

1608
01:21:31,160 --> 01:21:32,760
Speaker 1: nine one one on three five? What do you do

1609
01:21:33,080 --> 01:21:36,400
Speaker 1: now because of your significant other that you never did before?

1610
01:21:36,479 --> 01:21:40,160
Speaker 1: For Owner Boner, it's mouth to the end of the faucet, Yeah,

1611
01:21:40,280 --> 01:21:45,040
Speaker 1: which I I don't know. I don't that's not sanitary.

1612
01:21:45,640 --> 01:21:48,400
Speaker 1: I don't think it's good. I mean, what touches your faucet. Well,

1613
01:21:48,439 --> 01:21:50,800
Speaker 1: there are journeys, like especially even in the shower. That's

1614
01:21:50,800 --> 01:21:52,439
Speaker 1: why they say don't brush your teeth in the shower

1615
01:21:52,479 --> 01:21:54,760
Speaker 1: because they're sure so unless you clean it, we put

1616
01:21:54,800 --> 01:21:59,320
Speaker 1: the CLR up to it. You know, Now you're basically

1617
01:21:59,320 --> 01:22:03,960
Speaker 1: consuming to see R yes, cleaning up. But it's not

1618
01:22:04,080 --> 01:22:07,080
Speaker 1: like you touched under your faucet, like was anything right?

1619
01:22:07,160 --> 01:22:09,600
Speaker 1: I mean, Rufio, you live with with Jess most of

1620
01:22:09,600 --> 01:22:11,080
Speaker 1: the time, and unless she kicks you out, that we're

1621
01:22:11,120 --> 01:22:14,000
Speaker 1: unaware of. But what what do you find yourself doing now?

1622
01:22:14,240 --> 01:22:19,880
Speaker 1: Anything that she did that you now do? Okay? So uh.

1623
01:22:19,920 --> 01:22:23,240
Speaker 1: Obviously growing up in an Asian household, I ate rice

1624
01:22:23,280 --> 01:22:26,920
Speaker 1: a lot, Like every meal was with rice, and we

1625
01:22:27,000 --> 01:22:29,800
Speaker 1: never we had rice and then we had it with

1626
01:22:30,000 --> 01:22:32,559
Speaker 1: whatever a protein or whatever, so and that was it.

1627
01:22:32,920 --> 01:22:35,360
Speaker 1: Like Jess would eat rice with soy sauce. I never

1628
01:22:35,400 --> 01:22:39,160
Speaker 1: had soy sauce with rice before. I actually use ketchup

1629
01:22:39,200 --> 01:22:42,760
Speaker 1: before anything with my rice, and now I use soy

1630
01:22:42,760 --> 01:22:46,120
Speaker 1: sauce sometimes with my rice. I don't know. Wow, So

1631
01:22:46,160 --> 01:22:52,000
Speaker 1: she's the one who So she's Hispanic, right, who? Italian

1632
01:22:52,000 --> 01:22:54,680
Speaker 1: and Polish? Yes, she introduced you. My point is that

1633
01:22:55,000 --> 01:22:58,760
Speaker 1: the non Asian introduce you. It's not like you never

1634
01:22:58,800 --> 01:23:00,519
Speaker 1: knew what soy sauce is. I just never use it

1635
01:23:00,520 --> 01:23:02,880
Speaker 1: on rice. Like just playing. She would just eat plain

1636
01:23:03,000 --> 01:23:05,639
Speaker 1: rice and just you know, put soy sauce in. Well

1637
01:23:05,920 --> 01:23:08,080
Speaker 1: for me, I would just eat plain rice and just

1638
01:23:08,080 --> 01:23:10,080
Speaker 1: just eat plain rice. He's a soy sauce guy now

1639
01:23:10,320 --> 01:23:13,040
Speaker 1: because of because of his wife is Italian wife. And

1640
01:23:13,080 --> 01:23:15,640
Speaker 1: then also when like making ramen as a kid, I

1641
01:23:15,680 --> 01:23:18,120
Speaker 1: would just make the ramen, you know, with the broth

1642
01:23:18,160 --> 01:23:20,400
Speaker 1: and the soup and everything, and they eat it that way.

1643
01:23:20,520 --> 01:23:24,000
Speaker 1: And then Jess's Jess would take the water out after

1644
01:23:24,040 --> 01:23:25,960
Speaker 1: cooking the noodles and put the packet in and never

1645
01:23:26,040 --> 01:23:28,680
Speaker 1: eat the He's just like eating. Oh yeah, I don't

1646
01:23:28,720 --> 01:23:31,439
Speaker 1: eat to I don't. I used to slurp the broth

1647
01:23:31,479 --> 01:23:33,479
Speaker 1: down and everything. No, I don't like the soupy stuff.

1648
01:23:33,479 --> 01:23:35,840
Speaker 1: I pour the soupy stuff out. But then she'll pour

1649
01:23:35,880 --> 01:23:37,880
Speaker 1: the water out and then put the packet in and

1650
01:23:37,960 --> 01:23:40,880
Speaker 1: mix it all together. So she's just eating noodles really

1651
01:23:41,000 --> 01:23:44,120
Speaker 1: no soup. And I do that now too. Yeah. I'm

1652
01:23:44,200 --> 01:23:46,800
Speaker 1: racking my brain to think of something that someone I've

1653
01:23:46,880 --> 01:23:48,880
Speaker 1: dated has caused me to do and that I didn't

1654
01:23:48,880 --> 01:23:53,519
Speaker 1: do it before therapy. No, I did that. I've been

1655
01:23:53,520 --> 01:23:56,559
Speaker 1: trying to get them do the No, I just trust me.

1656
01:23:56,600 --> 01:24:00,080
Speaker 1: I've been doing I've done been doing the therapy. I

1657
01:24:00,120 --> 01:24:02,000
Speaker 1: think they're the ones that you do. Hey, because I'm

1658
01:24:02,000 --> 01:24:03,920
Speaker 1: doing it, you should. I mean, you have like a

1659
01:24:03,920 --> 01:24:06,479
Speaker 1: pandemic boothing like and you guys spent a lot. Yeah,

1660
01:24:07,120 --> 01:24:08,559
Speaker 1: that was a lot of dan. That was a lot.

1661
01:24:10,320 --> 01:24:15,280
Speaker 1: Like you're probably cleaner than any woman you've ever dated, right, Um,

1662
01:24:15,280 --> 01:24:17,840
Speaker 1: maybe was it more at her place or at your place?

1663
01:24:18,000 --> 01:24:20,720
Speaker 1: It was more in her place? Yeah for sure. Maybe

1664
01:24:21,360 --> 01:24:23,559
Speaker 1: I'm really racking my brain to think if anyone's been

1665
01:24:23,600 --> 01:24:26,320
Speaker 1: able to transform me into doing something differently. And I

1666
01:24:26,360 --> 01:24:28,360
Speaker 1: think you're stuck in your way. I think I'm stuck

1667
01:24:28,400 --> 01:24:29,840
Speaker 1: in my way. I think I just do it my way.

1668
01:24:30,080 --> 01:24:31,960
Speaker 1: I think a lot of it is family stuff too,

1669
01:24:32,000 --> 01:24:34,360
Speaker 1: so like growing up, like we never in my house,

1670
01:24:34,439 --> 01:24:35,880
Speaker 1: and my house was always like all my friends will

1671
01:24:35,920 --> 01:24:37,720
Speaker 1: come over whatever. We would never take our shoes off,

1672
01:24:37,880 --> 01:24:40,000
Speaker 1: like we would just like weird around the house. Like,

1673
01:24:40,400 --> 01:24:43,040
Speaker 1: but now Mike's whole family, Like that's now I started

1674
01:24:43,040 --> 01:24:45,000
Speaker 1: doing it. Wouldn't matter where I go because it like

1675
01:24:45,120 --> 01:24:48,680
Speaker 1: influences you to now, like think different shoes. Growing up,

1676
01:24:48,760 --> 01:24:50,240
Speaker 1: we didn't do the shoes off thing, but we do

1677
01:24:50,360 --> 01:24:52,240
Speaker 1: now we have for a long time. But like as

1678
01:24:52,280 --> 01:24:54,240
Speaker 1: a kid, we didn't do the shoes off thing. No,

1679
01:24:54,720 --> 01:24:58,240
Speaker 1: I don't know why, I like discussed me said the

1680
01:24:58,280 --> 01:24:59,720
Speaker 1: first time I do when I walk in my house,

1681
01:24:59,720 --> 01:25:04,680
Speaker 1: take shoes off the very first thing. Yeah, no, I go,

1682
01:25:04,760 --> 01:25:08,360
Speaker 1: I go barefoot. I just just raw, Jamie, Ida, I mean,

1683
01:25:08,400 --> 01:25:14,040
Speaker 1: how you doing? I going nasty, Jamie. People I work

1684
01:25:14,080 --> 01:25:16,320
Speaker 1: with I work with children. You know what I'm saying, Like,

1685
01:25:16,640 --> 01:25:19,720
Speaker 1: I'm so mature and the rest of them just unbelievable.

1686
01:25:20,240 --> 01:25:23,920
Speaker 1: Um Jamie, yeah, I know, right, thank you? What do

1687
01:25:24,000 --> 01:25:27,840
Speaker 1: you do now? Because of your a significant other? Um,

1688
01:25:28,040 --> 01:25:30,960
Speaker 1: he when he would make eggs, he would crack the

1689
01:25:31,000 --> 01:25:34,120
Speaker 1: eggs and put the shells back in the container and

1690
01:25:34,200 --> 01:25:36,400
Speaker 1: leave them in the container. Well, I don't understand that.

1691
01:25:36,439 --> 01:25:40,479
Speaker 1: Why do people do that? I don't know. But because

1692
01:25:40,520 --> 01:25:42,840
Speaker 1: he did it, I do it now and I never

1693
01:25:42,960 --> 01:25:45,960
Speaker 1: did it before that. Why don't we just throw them away?

1694
01:25:46,680 --> 01:25:48,600
Speaker 1: Some people put it? I don't know. He used to.

1695
01:25:49,320 --> 01:25:51,800
Speaker 1: I used to throw them away. But when I seen

1696
01:25:51,920 --> 01:25:54,880
Speaker 1: him doing it one day, one day, I subconsciously did it,

1697
01:25:54,960 --> 01:25:57,439
Speaker 1: and now I do it all the time. Well okay,

1698
01:25:57,439 --> 01:26:00,559
Speaker 1: so you crack the eggs and then you do you

1699
01:26:00,680 --> 01:26:03,439
Speaker 1: put them in the back in the container, Aggy, I

1700
01:26:03,479 --> 01:26:05,000
Speaker 1: just I throw them. Well, actually, you know, I put them.

1701
01:26:05,040 --> 01:26:06,479
Speaker 1: Don't you supposed to do this? I put them in

1702
01:26:06,520 --> 01:26:08,439
Speaker 1: a disposal. That's what I do. I'm not sure if

1703
01:26:08,439 --> 01:26:11,320
Speaker 1: you're supposed to them. Okay, Jamie, Well, thank you. You

1704
01:26:11,320 --> 01:26:16,400
Speaker 1: guys are weird, have a good day. One egg left?

1705
01:26:16,960 --> 01:26:19,400
Speaker 1: You put the one egg in the carton back in

1706
01:26:19,439 --> 01:26:23,400
Speaker 1: the fridge with eleven other cracked eggs. Yeah, it's very strange.

1707
01:26:23,439 --> 01:26:27,800
Speaker 1: I don't know. Hey, JC, Hey, Hey, how are you doing?

1708
01:26:27,840 --> 01:26:31,559
Speaker 1: Good morning, Good morning. I'm finally able to get through

1709
01:26:31,560 --> 01:26:33,200
Speaker 1: to you, guys. I love you, guys, we love you too,

1710
01:26:33,200 --> 01:26:34,600
Speaker 1: And thank you for calling, thank you for listening. What

1711
01:26:34,600 --> 01:26:36,800
Speaker 1: do you do now that you didn't do before you

1712
01:26:36,840 --> 01:26:42,360
Speaker 1: met your significant other? There's two things. One eat meals

1713
01:26:42,479 --> 01:26:44,880
Speaker 1: on the couch. I'm used. I grew up at you

1714
01:26:44,920 --> 01:26:47,519
Speaker 1: sit in at the dining table and we either watched

1715
01:26:47,560 --> 01:26:51,160
Speaker 1: TV or talk to each other. But it's you don't

1716
01:26:51,280 --> 01:26:53,160
Speaker 1: like my wather the half one. And I was just

1717
01:26:53,280 --> 01:26:55,320
Speaker 1: weird that we haven't been on the couch to eat.

1718
01:26:55,920 --> 01:26:59,479
Speaker 1: And I just don't know. I feel very primitive doing that, okay.

1719
01:26:59,560 --> 01:27:03,639
Speaker 1: And the other the other thing is that he's more

1720
01:27:03,640 --> 01:27:06,679
Speaker 1: of a I. He smokes lead a lot. I don't

1721
01:27:06,680 --> 01:27:09,280
Speaker 1: know where I'm more of a social like if I'm

1722
01:27:09,320 --> 01:27:16,280
Speaker 1: just now breaking on the weekend, I don't want usually

1723
01:27:16,320 --> 01:27:18,680
Speaker 1: work on the weekend. So yeah, it's a lot lot

1724
01:27:18,760 --> 01:27:22,240
Speaker 1: more so because of having you're a you're a pod

1725
01:27:22,320 --> 01:27:26,400
Speaker 1: hit now and you sit around listening to three eleven

1726
01:27:26,160 --> 01:27:33,760
Speaker 1: the Yeah, I just can't at least have like see

1727
01:27:33,800 --> 01:27:35,880
Speaker 1: me tray or something to watch on the country. Just

1728
01:27:36,240 --> 01:27:37,880
Speaker 1: it's on your last she's too high to care. It

1729
01:27:37,880 --> 01:27:41,120
Speaker 1: doesn't matter what I call it, Like, can I get

1730
01:27:41,120 --> 01:27:43,000
Speaker 1: like a little Can I get a little trays like

1731
01:27:43,000 --> 01:27:48,400
Speaker 1: the coffee people drink for I'm like, but its like no,

1732
01:27:48,880 --> 01:27:51,400
Speaker 1: I can never. The tray is for the for the weed, honey,

1733
01:27:51,400 --> 01:27:54,720
Speaker 1: it's for the as tray. Sorry, all right, well, I'm

1734
01:27:54,720 --> 01:27:57,280
Speaker 1: glad you were sober enough for whatever to call us

1735
01:27:57,280 --> 01:28:01,519
Speaker 1: this morning. Thanks for not smoking yet, have a good day,

1736
01:28:02,600 --> 01:28:05,160
Speaker 1: I see, Okay, all right, she's not awaken bait kind

1737
01:28:05,160 --> 01:28:08,559
Speaker 1: of girl, so I got it, Thank you, jay By.

1738
01:28:09,840 --> 01:28:13,080
Speaker 1: She's an eight am bam. I will say when I'm

1739
01:28:13,080 --> 01:28:16,840
Speaker 1: in a relationship, I drink more for two reasons. One

1740
01:28:16,840 --> 01:28:20,160
Speaker 1: because I mean you're going out typically, and then the

1741
01:28:20,200 --> 01:28:22,639
Speaker 1: other is I think it's I think opening a bottle

1742
01:28:22,680 --> 01:28:24,479
Speaker 1: of wine and having a glass of wine or something,

1743
01:28:24,720 --> 01:28:29,479
Speaker 1: you know, in the afternoon is more prevalent when there's

1744
01:28:29,520 --> 01:28:31,720
Speaker 1: someone else there like I don't go home, certainly not

1745
01:28:31,800 --> 01:28:34,719
Speaker 1: at eleven am. But um, I don't have at five o'clock,

1746
01:28:34,840 --> 01:28:36,400
Speaker 1: you know, open a bottle of wine, have a glass

1747
01:28:36,439 --> 01:28:39,679
Speaker 1: by myself. I don't know, I don't, um, but I

1748
01:28:39,760 --> 01:28:42,599
Speaker 1: but I was drinking a lot more when I was,

1749
01:28:43,720 --> 01:28:45,559
Speaker 1: you know, because then that person would be like, well,

1750
01:28:45,560 --> 01:28:46,600
Speaker 1: do you want to have a glass of wine? And

1751
01:28:46,640 --> 01:28:48,880
Speaker 1: then to sure, because now it's a social thing, so

1752
01:28:48,920 --> 01:28:51,680
Speaker 1: I drink more. In relationships, you were also taking less

1753
01:28:51,760 --> 01:28:59,280
Speaker 1: naps to shut up. When I look back on that relationship,

1754
01:28:59,360 --> 01:29:02,679
Speaker 1: the last one, I just I wonder how I did, Yeah,

1755
01:29:03,200 --> 01:29:05,000
Speaker 1: said I. You know, we get up early, and I

1756
01:29:05,040 --> 01:29:07,599
Speaker 1: like to take a little nappy nap. And more than once,

1757
01:29:07,640 --> 01:29:09,320
Speaker 1: I was told that I could achieve way more in

1758
01:29:09,360 --> 01:29:11,639
Speaker 1: my life if I didn't take a nap. I wish

1759
01:29:11,760 --> 01:29:15,000
Speaker 1: somebody would say that to me. Truly, I truly said,

1760
01:29:15,040 --> 01:29:17,280
Speaker 1: that's a true statement. I could achieved so much more

1761
01:29:17,320 --> 01:29:19,080
Speaker 1: with my life if I didn't take a nap after

1762
01:29:19,120 --> 01:29:21,280
Speaker 1: getting up at four in the morning every day. And

1763
01:29:21,400 --> 01:29:22,920
Speaker 1: I was like, let me take a look at Joe

1764
01:29:22,960 --> 01:29:28,160
Speaker 1: w G two girl, let's go side by side, baby girl.

1765
01:29:28,600 --> 01:29:34,200
Speaker 1: I'm making hundreds of dollars, dollars. I make more money

1766
01:29:34,200 --> 01:29:38,120
Speaker 1: when I napped. How much did you make it the

1767
01:29:38,160 --> 01:29:43,320
Speaker 1: last two hours? I know what I did. It was

1768
01:29:43,400 --> 01:29:49,720
Speaker 1: like twenty five. Did you do that? Hey, Linda? That

1769
01:29:50,040 --> 01:29:52,280
Speaker 1: you know that's my new comeback. If anyone has a problem,

1770
01:29:52,360 --> 01:29:56,040
Speaker 1: I make more. Well I nap and you do awake?

1771
01:29:56,960 --> 01:30:00,320
Speaker 1: What does that mean, baby girl? Get me last of

1772
01:30:00,320 --> 01:30:06,439
Speaker 1: wine and some weed and drink right out of Linda high. Welcome,

1773
01:30:06,479 --> 01:30:10,439
Speaker 1: good morning, Good morning guys. I love you, love you too,

1774
01:30:10,520 --> 01:30:12,280
Speaker 1: Thank you for listening, Thanks for calling. What do you

1775
01:30:12,320 --> 01:30:15,360
Speaker 1: do now that you didn't do before your relationship or

1776
01:30:15,439 --> 01:30:20,160
Speaker 1: your significant other? Right? So, my husband and I take

1777
01:30:20,200 --> 01:30:23,400
Speaker 1: a shower together. I'm not like in a fancy way.

1778
01:30:23,720 --> 01:30:26,320
Speaker 1: It's just easier. We just like, you know, let's say

1779
01:30:26,360 --> 01:30:28,559
Speaker 1: we went to the gym. We just get in the shower.

1780
01:30:28,960 --> 01:30:33,599
Speaker 1: We switched, we take turns, so get out. I see

1781
01:30:33,640 --> 01:30:38,880
Speaker 1: I never sat before against his style of showering. Well,

1782
01:30:38,920 --> 01:30:41,439
Speaker 1: I mean that's that would be the better way to shower.

1783
01:30:41,640 --> 01:30:44,519
Speaker 1: And I think that's my style of showering. If I

1784
01:30:44,520 --> 01:30:46,760
Speaker 1: can be with someone else every time and it never

1785
01:30:46,800 --> 01:30:51,720
Speaker 1: turned into sassy time. Uh okay, yeah, well there you go,

1786
01:30:52,320 --> 01:30:56,920
Speaker 1: all right, apartment. I'm sorry you guys up with the

1787
01:30:56,960 --> 01:31:01,760
Speaker 1: CLR thing and the fast Yeah, I mean apparently owner motor. Yeah,

1788
01:31:01,880 --> 01:31:04,280
Speaker 1: he likes to find CLR basic. Let's puts it right

1789
01:31:04,320 --> 01:31:06,200
Speaker 1: up against the thing and then put his mouth on there.

1790
01:31:06,880 --> 01:31:11,160
Speaker 1: God of opinions on that subject, I know, yeah, I know.

1791
01:31:11,680 --> 01:31:13,640
Speaker 1: I'm surprised that you have to do your own clring.

1792
01:31:13,680 --> 01:31:16,519
Speaker 1: I would figure out your level. Somebody's doing it for you. Yeah,

1793
01:31:16,520 --> 01:31:24,000
Speaker 1: I'm Jack. Thank you, Linda, have a great day. L Hey, Jessica,

1794
01:31:24,160 --> 01:31:29,120
Speaker 1: good morning, Good morning. Paulina spelled your name j E S.

1795
01:31:29,120 --> 01:31:40,240
Speaker 1: S S I c A jazz jess Yeah, thank you.

1796
01:31:40,520 --> 01:31:43,000
Speaker 1: Pass the phone. It's it's just a wild mystery. We

1797
01:31:43,040 --> 01:31:48,720
Speaker 1: just never really know. Jahica. Actually my name is Pathy're like, oh, okay,

1798
01:31:49,120 --> 01:31:51,520
Speaker 1: we do we do a love Paulina. We adore Paulina.

1799
01:31:51,760 --> 01:31:53,960
Speaker 1: Um okay, so what what is it that you do

1800
01:31:54,000 --> 01:31:58,639
Speaker 1: now that you didn't do before you met your love? Um?

1801
01:31:58,720 --> 01:32:03,000
Speaker 1: I suddenly soak in the sink as he used to

1802
01:32:03,120 --> 01:32:08,200
Speaker 1: do like that was always his excuse for not no

1803
01:32:08,360 --> 01:32:10,559
Speaker 1: matter what it was. It could just see like the salad.

1804
01:32:10,600 --> 01:32:12,920
Speaker 1: But they need to soak interested. That was one thing

1805
01:32:12,920 --> 01:32:15,320
Speaker 1: that the last girl I did it was able to do.

1806
01:32:15,520 --> 01:32:17,120
Speaker 1: Is that she would she cooked, and she was good

1807
01:32:17,160 --> 01:32:19,120
Speaker 1: at it, and she would cook, and then she could

1808
01:32:19,160 --> 01:32:22,840
Speaker 1: just leave everything. She's like, And people tell me this

1809
01:32:22,880 --> 01:32:25,960
Speaker 1: all the time, because I I clean as I cook,

1810
01:32:26,720 --> 01:32:28,840
Speaker 1: and then I can't really enjoy the food I just

1811
01:32:28,880 --> 01:32:31,760
Speaker 1: cooked until everything's put away, which means the food is

1812
01:32:31,800 --> 01:32:33,840
Speaker 1: typically like cold or look warm by the time I

1813
01:32:33,880 --> 01:32:35,920
Speaker 1: get to it, because I can't sit and enjoy my

1814
01:32:36,000 --> 01:32:39,000
Speaker 1: meal knowing that when I'm done, I've got twenty minutes

1815
01:32:39,000 --> 01:32:41,120
Speaker 1: and stuff to clean up. But she had she could

1816
01:32:41,160 --> 01:32:43,320
Speaker 1: just leave everything and go sit and enjoy the meal

1817
01:32:43,360 --> 01:32:44,840
Speaker 1: when it was like the freshest and stuff. And I

1818
01:32:44,920 --> 01:32:47,160
Speaker 1: respected that. But she could also leave it all there

1819
01:32:47,160 --> 01:32:50,280
Speaker 1: and go to bed, which I couldn't. There's just no way, Like,

1820
01:32:50,360 --> 01:32:53,960
Speaker 1: there's no way. Everything has to be in order. Um,

1821
01:32:54,080 --> 01:32:58,480
Speaker 1: all right, so how long to start sit there? Um?

1822
01:32:58,680 --> 01:33:02,200
Speaker 1: Now we try to Okay, maybe, like we'll have dinner.

1823
01:33:02,520 --> 01:33:05,439
Speaker 1: I used to wash the dishes after dinner, but now

1824
01:33:05,479 --> 01:33:08,960
Speaker 1: we'll have dinner, we like watch a show, we'll snuggle

1825
01:33:09,000 --> 01:33:11,280
Speaker 1: a little bit, and then like eight nine o'clock is

1826
01:33:11,280 --> 01:33:13,320
Speaker 1: when I usually get up to do dishes again. So

1827
01:33:13,400 --> 01:33:15,519
Speaker 1: like because then I can't sleep right, the dishes can't

1828
01:33:15,520 --> 01:33:18,160
Speaker 1: sit there. And you were saying something about when you

1829
01:33:18,200 --> 01:33:21,880
Speaker 1: grew up, and I interrupted you. What was that growing up?

1830
01:33:21,920 --> 01:33:25,320
Speaker 1: That was immediately after dinner you wash everything and then

1831
01:33:25,560 --> 01:33:28,160
Speaker 1: week at all ready for the next day. But now

1832
01:33:28,200 --> 01:33:30,680
Speaker 1: it's just getting pushed and pushed, and there's been like

1833
01:33:30,720 --> 01:33:33,040
Speaker 1: maybe one or two days where it's like, I'll get

1834
01:33:33,040 --> 01:33:35,280
Speaker 1: to it tomorrow. Yeah, well before long, you're going to

1835
01:33:35,320 --> 01:33:37,200
Speaker 1: be on Hoarders, so I would get a hold of

1836
01:33:37,200 --> 01:33:40,240
Speaker 1: it if I were you. I don't want to see

1837
01:33:40,240 --> 01:33:44,519
Speaker 1: you on that show, Jessica, but i'll know it's you

1838
01:33:44,560 --> 01:33:46,519
Speaker 1: if there are three yeses and the little things about

1839
01:33:46,960 --> 01:33:49,800
Speaker 1: I don't know. Have a great day, Thank you for calling,

1840
01:33:49,880 --> 01:33:55,760
Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. Show good show on one h three

1841
01:33:55,800 --> 01:33:59,160
Speaker 1: five at eight five five five nine one one h

1842
01:33:59,200 --> 01:34:03,639
Speaker 1: three five. Ladies, I need easy to pay careful attention

1843
01:34:03,640 --> 01:34:08,519
Speaker 1: to this. I want to know if you give you

1844
01:34:08,760 --> 01:34:10,280
Speaker 1: not neither one. You don't have to answer this, but

1845
01:34:12,280 --> 01:34:15,120
Speaker 1: if you're somebody who got pregnant when it was supposedly

1846
01:34:15,120 --> 01:34:18,200
Speaker 1: completely impossible to have done so, or some some freak

1847
01:34:18,280 --> 01:34:21,599
Speaker 1: thing happened, like for example, there's this woman who's making

1848
01:34:21,600 --> 01:34:26,759
Speaker 1: news today. She's from California. She conceived her two daughters

1849
01:34:27,400 --> 01:34:30,479
Speaker 1: five days apart. She got pregnant with baby number two

1850
01:34:30,680 --> 01:34:35,000
Speaker 1: while expecting baby number one. Her daughters were born last August.

1851
01:34:35,320 --> 01:34:38,719
Speaker 1: They look like twins, but they're not. The girl's births

1852
01:34:38,920 --> 01:34:44,320
Speaker 1: were the result of a rare occurrence called superfetation, when

1853
01:34:44,360 --> 01:34:48,960
Speaker 1: a second egg is released and fertilized during the first pregnancy.

1854
01:34:49,080 --> 01:34:53,920
Speaker 1: So two separate fertilized eggs. So she got pregnant two

1855
01:34:54,320 --> 01:34:59,479
Speaker 1: entire times. Oh she carries at the same time though. Yeah,

1856
01:34:59,520 --> 01:35:02,200
Speaker 1: they're born in the same at the same time. But

1857
01:35:02,320 --> 01:35:04,920
Speaker 1: they were not twins. They were not. It wasn't like

1858
01:35:04,960 --> 01:35:08,479
Speaker 1: a split two eggs, right, it was two separate So

1859
01:35:08,560 --> 01:35:10,519
Speaker 1: like she got pregnant and then a few days later

1860
01:35:10,560 --> 01:35:14,000
Speaker 1: they're like bumba guy. Now, that would be something because

1861
01:35:14,000 --> 01:35:15,880
Speaker 1: I've heard I thought, I've heard of twins that were

1862
01:35:15,880 --> 01:35:19,360
Speaker 1: like two different races before, and this has happened. Oh wow,

1863
01:35:19,439 --> 01:35:23,680
Speaker 1: the super super fetation. Yeah, but yeah, I mean that

1864
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Speaker 1: is I mean, at least it sounds like everything is

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Speaker 1: the right, like no infidelity, and they look happy. It

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01:35:30,600 --> 01:35:32,519
Speaker 1: looks like the same dad. They're holding the babies in

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Speaker 1: this picture I'm looking at But yeah, so you think like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I want to get pregnant. Cool, you know we're gonna

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01:35:37,640 --> 01:35:39,599
Speaker 1: try real hard to get pregnant or whatever. And so

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01:35:39,680 --> 01:35:42,640
Speaker 1: you're trying real hard, and what could happen is you

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01:35:42,640 --> 01:35:46,600
Speaker 1: could wind up with two children and pregnant twice. I

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Speaker 1: had a friend who didn't know that she was resistant

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Speaker 1: to birth control and got pregnant, like she had just

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Speaker 1: been taking it and thought that she was covered and

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Speaker 1: she wasn't. People don't believe. In fact, I talked to

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Speaker 1: it urologists once about the story and he didn't. He's like,

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Speaker 1: that's it happens, but it's so rare. A dude, I know,

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Speaker 1: a good buddy of mine got of a sect to me.

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Speaker 1: And when you get of a sect to me, you

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Speaker 1: get snipped. Whatever they tell you to go a few like,

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Speaker 1: I guess this is for a few weeks or months

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Speaker 1: later they tell you to go and like, and I

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Speaker 1: guess you're supposed to like sort of do yourself. You're

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Speaker 1: not supposed to just willie nilly right after you get snipped.

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Speaker 1: You're not. It's not just like done. You can't just

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Speaker 1: go willie nilly because there still could be some stuff

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Speaker 1: left over. I guess right, So so they you go

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Speaker 1: back and they test it. They test the sperm to

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Speaker 1: make sure that there's nothing. You're not packing a punch anymore.

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Speaker 1: It's not uncommon that you're still packing a punch a

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Speaker 1: few weeks later, So he goes back. He's still packing

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Speaker 1: a punch and they're like, all right, well, come back

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Speaker 1: in a couple of weeks and then it will it

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01:36:42,520 --> 01:36:44,720
Speaker 1: should be like good, you should it should be out

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01:36:44,760 --> 01:36:47,160
Speaker 1: of your system then whatever's left over. So he goes

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Speaker 1: in there and months later he's still packing a punch.

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01:36:50,320 --> 01:36:53,479
Speaker 1: Turns out something messed up and it healed itself and

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01:36:53,560 --> 01:36:56,400
Speaker 1: he had to go again. The snipped him a second time.

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Speaker 1: Oh see, I think these things happen like one in

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Speaker 1: a million. I really think a lot of them like

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01:37:01,439 --> 01:37:03,479
Speaker 1: unexplainable because like the ones that I don't get to

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01:37:03,520 --> 01:37:05,320
Speaker 1: this day is I didn't know I was pregnant, like

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01:37:05,360 --> 01:37:07,880
Speaker 1: a whole TV show. How do you not know you're pregnant?

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01:37:08,000 --> 01:37:09,559
Speaker 1: Like people just go to the bathroom and a baby

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01:37:09,600 --> 01:37:12,519
Speaker 1: comes out, Like they say, bizarre. Yeah, some people are

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Speaker 1: super irregular, so they you know, when they if they

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Speaker 1: missed their period, then it's like not that big of

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01:37:17,439 --> 01:37:19,680
Speaker 1: a deal. They don't think much about it exactly, but

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01:37:19,720 --> 01:37:21,479
Speaker 1: I would think that there would be other things like

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Speaker 1: weight gain or other symptoms or something moving in you

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Speaker 1: or I mean, I guess it's yeah, it is hard

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Speaker 1: to believe. Yeah, those stories are wild, but I think

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Speaker 1: a lot of these are like one in a million.

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Speaker 1: So I think that you know, ladies, if you're taking

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Speaker 1: birth contro'll keep taking it. I think you know, your

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01:37:35,840 --> 01:37:38,400
Speaker 1: friend's case is very rare. But oh my god, Like,

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Speaker 1: I would be so upset if I was trying not

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01:37:41,120 --> 01:37:42,680
Speaker 1: to and then I did you know what I mean?

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01:37:42,840 --> 01:37:44,760
Speaker 1: Or if I was this dude and I had to

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01:37:44,920 --> 01:37:48,000
Speaker 1: get snipped twice, well, yeah, yikes. At least, but at

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01:37:48,080 --> 01:37:51,760
Speaker 1: least he did the aftercare right to like, because I

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01:37:51,800 --> 01:37:54,280
Speaker 1: also have heard of people or you read about it

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01:37:54,280 --> 01:37:56,400
Speaker 1: where this just happened, where the dudes like I got symptoms,

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01:37:56,439 --> 01:38:00,599
Speaker 1: I'm solid and then another baby exactly. Well, of course

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01:38:00,600 --> 01:38:02,679
Speaker 1: you got to immediately think, like, well, how you pregnant?

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01:38:02,720 --> 01:38:04,599
Speaker 1: I got sniffed, what have you been doing? But it

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Speaker 1: turns out you know that it didn't I guess it

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Speaker 1: didn't work completely or there was something left over. Hey, Kaylee,

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Speaker 1: good morning, good morning. Hi, what's your story. So, my

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Speaker 1: mom's best friend got an IUD put in because she

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Speaker 1: didn't want to have any more kids she already had one,

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Speaker 1: and she still ended up getting pregnant. And when she

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01:38:24,080 --> 01:38:27,000
Speaker 1: went to get her ultra sound, they told her that

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01:38:27,040 --> 01:38:29,880
Speaker 1: she had two uteruses, but she got pregnant in the

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Speaker 1: second one. Damn, because that's supposed to be like bulletproof, right,

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Speaker 1: I mean typically like nine percent the old IUD. And

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Speaker 1: I don't know how you have a kid and they

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01:38:43,320 --> 01:38:46,320
Speaker 1: don't know that you have two right already. I don't

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01:38:46,320 --> 01:38:48,880
Speaker 1: know how they put the IUD in and didn't like, hey,

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01:38:48,920 --> 01:38:51,519
Speaker 1: what's this over here? Like I mean, I'm not, you know,

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01:38:52,240 --> 01:38:54,720
Speaker 1: a current practicing physician, but I guess I wonder how

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01:38:54,760 --> 01:38:57,000
Speaker 1: that happens. But yeah, so wow, well said they. So

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01:38:57,160 --> 01:38:58,880
Speaker 1: she was all good to go on one side, but

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01:38:58,920 --> 01:39:05,320
Speaker 1: the other side not so wow wow. Um that concerns me. Now,

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01:39:05,400 --> 01:39:08,320
Speaker 1: all right, thank you, Kaylee. I'm gonna starting I'm gonna

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01:39:08,320 --> 01:39:11,840
Speaker 1: start asking people like you, yeah you got more than one?

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Speaker 1: You to ride because I need to understand red show