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Speaker 1: second date update. You know when we get emails to
Speaker 1: the show for a second date update, I'm often surprised
Speaker 1: at some of the effort that guys put into these
Speaker 1: first dates. Very strange to me. Or maybe we're impressed
Speaker 1: that guys go the extra mile for a woman's I
Speaker 1: don't know about that. Yeah, there's some that I read
Speaker 1: and I have to keep a trash can near because
Speaker 1: I'm going to vomit while reading it, Like this one
Speaker 1: that came in from Mackenzie. McKenzie, how are you? I'm good?
Speaker 1: How are you good? So you work out a kiosk
Speaker 1: in the mall and the guy that you want us
Speaker 1: to call his name Nick, he met you there. You
Speaker 1: kind of can't up and talk to you. Yes, I
Speaker 1: work at the mall. Um I sell handblown glass jewelry
Speaker 1: and he was buying something for his mom's birthday. I'm
Speaker 1: surprised you and I haven't met yet because I am
Speaker 1: always buying handblown glass jewelry NonStop. But that's adorable. He's
Speaker 1: buying something for his mom, so he's got you already.
Speaker 1: So I set this up talking about your date. Why
Speaker 1: don't you tell everybody what happened on your first date?
Speaker 1: We ended up going to the home depot. It was
Speaker 1: so weird, and while it was going on, I was like,
Speaker 1: what is happening by you wouldn't tell me why? When
Speaker 1: I first read that part of your email, I was like, smart,
Speaker 1: home depot, a couple dollars for a hot dog. But
Speaker 1: then I went on to read exactly what else happened
Speaker 1: on your date? And that's where I became sick. Why
Speaker 1: were you in the home depot? So we get there
Speaker 1: and he takes me to the plant and gardening section okay,
Speaker 1: and we buy like a small tree that you plant
Speaker 1: into the ground and he tells me this is going
Speaker 1: to be our first date tree and we're gonna go
Speaker 1: plant it somewhere, a first date tree. Oh my god.
Speaker 1: That's one of those days. Is that the line between
Speaker 1: creepy and romantic? Is? How hot is he? Really? Yeah? No,
Speaker 1: it surprises me. I figured when she told you guys
Speaker 1: that he got a first date tree, that he wanted
Speaker 1: to plant with her. You guys would be like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, you guys are being cynical now. But if
Speaker 1: if if a guy was to take you out brook
Speaker 1: or Lydia and get a first date tree, I could
Speaker 1: see you guys coming in and work there. Second, Oh
Speaker 1: my god, how hot he is. I'm not cynical yet.
Speaker 1: You've got to hear the rest of the story because
Speaker 1: if what happened next, well, first of all, he's really hot.
Speaker 1: To answer, it's romantic, all right, I mean, yeah, So
Speaker 1: we get in this car, we drive it to this
Speaker 1: wooded area. I don't I don't remember exactly where it was. Yeah,
Speaker 1: are you sure? Are you sure? We didn't pick up
Speaker 1: a shovel and duct table. You're also at the home depot.
Speaker 1: It sounds weird, but it's not. So we go to
Speaker 1: this like wooded area and then we plant this tree together.
Speaker 1: We were like laughing and having fun and it was
Speaker 1: just an awesome time. And after that we went to
Speaker 1: this bar to celebrate, to celebrate our you know, our tree.
Speaker 1: This is pretty cute. How did you say that? That
Speaker 1: isn't cute? That's pretty cute. So you went and planet
Speaker 1: a tree. I thought it was cute. So you went
Speaker 1: and planet a tree together that will hopefully grow to
Speaker 1: be a big tree throughout your relationship. And then you
Speaker 1: had drinks together. What happened after that? Okay? So we
Speaker 1: had drinks and we did an awesome time. We were laughing,
Speaker 1: and so I don't usually do this, but I went
Speaker 1: back to his place and I stayed the night where
Speaker 1: he planted his other first date tree. That was just
Speaker 1: the seed, by the way, that was just the seed.
Speaker 1: That is that? What happened though, did you guys seal
Speaker 1: the deals? Yeah, which is fine. I mean you had
Speaker 1: a connection with somebody that you really liked a lot,
Speaker 1: and it's it is totally okay. So what happened in
Speaker 1: the morning? Did you bail early or did you stick around?
Speaker 1: We both kind of like leaguered around in the morning,
Speaker 1: and then I left a little bit, you know. Later
Speaker 1: he gave me kiss and he said, let's see each other.
Speaker 1: And we were texting back and forth the first couple
Speaker 1: of days after that, and now it's been like two
Speaker 1: weeks and he slowly stopped responding to my text messages.
Speaker 1: So now I have no idea what's going on, and
Speaker 1: I need your guys help. Okay, We're gonna play a song.
Speaker 1: Come back, call him and get your second date update.
Speaker 1: All right, great, okay, hang on Brook and Jewels second
Speaker 1: date up date. Remember, if you want a second date update,
Speaker 1: all you have to do is email us Brook and
Speaker 1: Jewel at Movie nine to five dot com. We will
Speaker 1: call the person who didn't call you back. McKenzie is
Speaker 1: on the phone right now. She wants us to call Nick.
Speaker 1: She met Nick while she was working at the mall
Speaker 1: Kiosk selling glass blown jewelry. Very nice. He asked her out.
Speaker 1: They went out on a date. Their date was kind
Speaker 1: of interesting because he took her a home depot, bought
Speaker 1: a tree, then drove her to a wooded area that
Speaker 1: she could never find again no, no, but then drove
Speaker 1: her to the woods. They planted the tree together as
Speaker 1: their little first date tree. They ended up hooking up
Speaker 1: that night. They texted a little bit and they kind
Speaker 1: of faded away. All right, McKinsey, are you ready to call? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I'm ready. That was less than convincing, because do you
Speaker 1: regret stay in the night with him? Um? I kind
Speaker 1: of I just want to understand what's going on with him,
Speaker 1: and I'm hoping it's just like something miscommunication. Maybe he
Speaker 1: just got like super busy with work or something. I
Speaker 1: don't know, but I just kind of want to know
Speaker 1: where I stand. Basically, it depends on what his answer is,
Speaker 1: whether you regret it or not. Yeah, it's a little
Speaker 1: nervous to see what he says. We're gonna call him
Speaker 1: right now. Okay, awesome? Hello? Hey is this Nick? Yeah? Hey?
Speaker 1: What's up? Man? How are you? This is Jewel from
Speaker 1: brook and Jewel in the morning. I'm moving ninety two
Speaker 1: point five. You got a second? Ah, what's going on? Man?
Speaker 1: Not much. You went out with a girl named mackenzie.
Speaker 1: You blew her off and she wants to know why. Um, McKenzie,
Speaker 1: how how long ago was this? Nick? You planted a
Speaker 1: tree with McKenzie. It was your first date tree. How
Speaker 1: could you forget McKenzie? Not like your goa, Um, there's uh,
Speaker 1: there's more than a few first state trees, like when
Speaker 1: you come in there like this guy another one? All right, Nick,
Speaker 1: I guess that answers our question. Then yeah, you you
Speaker 1: you went out with a girl named McKenzie, But I
Speaker 1: don't know three or four weeks ago planning the first
Speaker 1: date tree with ended up up Okay, I get it now.
Speaker 1: I remember, is the tree just She was great, it
Speaker 1: was fun. But you know, things happened very fast with Mackenzie,
Speaker 1: and at the end of the day, that's what I
Speaker 1: was looking for. And Nick, you toyed with her emotions.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's one thing to just tell a girl
Speaker 1: you want to hook up. It's another thing to pretend
Speaker 1: like it's a first state tree when it's really just
Speaker 1: a hook up tree. I mean it works almost every time.
Speaker 1: He's driving up there the whole time with his first
Speaker 1: date tree, Like I can't believe she's buying it. I
Speaker 1: can't believe she's buying it. Nick, I was restored my
Speaker 1: faith and like men going the extra mile and being romantic,
Speaker 1: and come to find out, when I first started, I
Speaker 1: used to dig up the tree and return it. But
Speaker 1: thankfully I have some money better. My god, are you
Speaker 1: kidding me? Nick, Nick, Mackenzie's on the phone and heard
Speaker 1: everything you just said. You have got to be kidding me.
Speaker 1: That was totally out of context. They're looking, they're looking
Speaker 1: for their little story and everything like that. I will
Speaker 1: be my god, you were disgusting. I touched you for
Speaker 1: a long time afterwards, but at the end, I just
Speaker 1: I was afraid I was going to screw it up.
Speaker 1: Oh Godzie, he was just scared. Mackenzie is speechless right now. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know what to think. Was there
Speaker 1: no creepy signs on your date that he could be
Speaker 1: this gross? There's no you know, Nick, I don't promote violence,
Speaker 1: but I want to punch you right now. Those things
Speaker 1: I said was ridiculous. But that's you know, that's a
Speaker 1: guy being a guy. At the end of the day, Mackenzie,
Speaker 1: I usually don't even talk to girls afterwards, and there
Speaker 1: was a connection. Maybe that three, you know, is something
Speaker 1: different this time. I mean, I don't, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you're just like saying that now,
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know what to think. So I understand,
Speaker 1: But I mean, at the end of the day, what's
Speaker 1: what's another you know, one other we could try to
Speaker 1: see if it happens. Hey, you know what, Brooke couldn't
Speaker 1: do it, Lydia couldn't do it, So they couldn't do it. Nick,
Speaker 1: you have turned around my views on love. I think
Speaker 1: I think, Mackenzie, you need to give Nick another chance,
Speaker 1: because he sounds like just a sweetheart who is misunderstood. Mackenzie.
Speaker 1: I would love to pay for you guys to go
Speaker 1: out on a second day. We will pay for it
Speaker 1: with Nick. Would you like to go with McKenzie again? Absolutely? Absolutely, McKenzie.
Speaker 1: Hope you give me another chance and at least we
Speaker 1: can you know, I think there's a real spark there
Speaker 1: and give me a chance to prove that it's not
Speaker 1: just in my mind. Mackenzie. Let's plant that second day. No, no, no, no, Mackenzie,
Speaker 1: don't be the dumb dam I know. How do I
Speaker 1: know that you're not gonna just like disappear again if
Speaker 1: I already go out with you again. That's why I
Speaker 1: would throw the first time. I just I want to
Speaker 1: see there's nothing has to happen, you know, but we
Speaker 1: can see, but we enjoy each other's content again. I
Speaker 1: think we really had a good time that day, that night,
Speaker 1: and even the next morning. Enzie, how do you know
Speaker 1: that he is using you? Listen to me, girl, the
Speaker 1: girl say no, Mackenzie. He was scared no, and you
Speaker 1: didn't know how to act, and he thought he was
Speaker 1: going to screw it up with you that go out
Speaker 1: and give him another chance. He said, you don't have
Speaker 1: to do anything this next time. Oh god, I would
Speaker 1: have to take it like very slow. You know, I
Speaker 1: know I can't say, mckenzi, you would you know, at
Speaker 1: the end of the day, whatever you know makes you
Speaker 1: feel comfortable. I understand that this up. Please stage an intervention.
Speaker 1: This is crazy. I've dated the most douchebags on this show,
Speaker 1: and like I feel like I have my radar is
Speaker 1: going on good though is not good. The thing is,
Speaker 1: the first time it's it's his fault. The second time, McKenzie,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be on you. Well, I feel like, you know,
Speaker 1: despite the fact that all these things that he's saying
Speaker 1: were hard to hear, we had we did have such
Speaker 1: a connection. I know it sounds crazy, but we just
Speaker 1: had so much in common. We were laughing and having Dude,
Speaker 1: he's feeding love conquers all, Love conquers all and then
Speaker 1: and we'll find out if that's true by sending you
Speaker 1: guys out on a second day. Right, you guys agree?
Speaker 1: Oh absolutely, I'm excited, man OHENI I mean, if you feel,
Speaker 1: if you feel like it's okay to take it slow,
Speaker 1: and you know, I'm gonna be wary. You know, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be a little bit of gosh, Mackenzie, all, I
Speaker 1: get it, just don't you know. I don't want you
Speaker 1: being so cautious that we can't have fun. So you
Speaker 1: know I'm looking already awesome. Dude, Mackenzie. At some point
Speaker 1: you're gonna say, what do I always meet the wrong guy?
Speaker 1: I want you to replay what is happening right here
Speaker 1: in your head and realize why. Okay, don't listen to
Speaker 1: that in the morning. When I was in the third grade,
Speaker 1: I thought that I was gay because I could drop
Speaker 1: my uncle was and I kept my room straight. I
Speaker 1: told my mom, tears rushing down my face. She's like, Ben,
Speaker 1: You've loved girls since before pre k Sure,