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Speaker 1: second date update. You know when we get emails to

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Speaker 1: that came in from Mackenzie. McKenzie, how are you? I'm good?

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Speaker 1: How are you good? So you work out a kiosk

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Speaker 1: Oh Godzie, he was just scared. Mackenzie is speechless right now. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna say, what do I always meet the wrong guy?

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Speaker 1: I want you to replay what is happening right here

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Speaker 1: in your head and realize why. Okay, don't listen to

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Speaker 1: that in the morning. When I was in the third grade,

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Speaker 1: I thought that I was gay because I could drop

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Speaker 1: my uncle was and I kept my room straight. I

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Speaker 1: told my mom, tears rushing down my face. She's like, Ben,

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Speaker 1: You've loved girls since before pre k Sure,