WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Carjitsu Crazy 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:02.680 Welcome to the Second Date Podcast. It's Brooke and Jeffrey 0:00:02.759 --> 0:00:05.000 of course, the home of the Second Date. And we 0:00:05.160 --> 0:00:07.400 love when we get a special update update. 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:09.480 Yes, and if you know, if. 0:00:09.360 --> 0:00:11.559 You're an OG listener, you know what that is already, 0:00:11.600 --> 0:00:13.920 But if you're new to the show, that's where when 0:00:13.960 --> 0:00:16.280 we have a successful couple from one of our second. 0:00:16.120 --> 0:00:20.840 Dates come back and how the relationship is going us. 0:00:20.840 --> 0:00:23.560 Just a little tidbit information. They'll go what these couple, 0:00:23.680 --> 0:00:26.079 we don't know until they hit us up. Yeah, like 0:00:26.120 --> 0:00:27.320 by the way update. 0:00:27.040 --> 0:00:28.120 Guys, Yes, totally. 0:00:28.160 --> 0:00:30.120 And one of the most memorable from last year was 0:00:30.120 --> 0:00:35.479 with a professional athlete. He was in a crazy sport 0:00:35.720 --> 0:00:39.360 only I think jose had heard of before and he 0:00:39.479 --> 0:00:41.600 has a big announcement he wants to make on the show. 0:00:41.640 --> 0:00:43.280 So we're gonna let him do that. But how these 0:00:43.320 --> 0:00:45.360 work is We're going to play you the original when 0:00:45.360 --> 0:00:47.199 they were first on the show so that you're up 0:00:47.240 --> 0:00:50.159 to speed, and then we get the update from them 0:00:50.159 --> 0:00:50.599 at the end. 0:00:50.720 --> 0:00:52.279 Yes, so this is not a replay. 0:00:52.440 --> 0:00:56.360 Yeah you think so? Yeah, Sit back and joy and 0:00:56.440 --> 0:00:58.400 stay till the end. It starts right now. 0:00:59.160 --> 0:01:04.240 The second If you put something on your dating profile 0:01:04.480 --> 0:01:07.720 or your dating app, and everybody thinks it's a joke, 0:01:08.400 --> 0:01:11.760 but it's one hundred percent serious. What are you supposed 0:01:11.760 --> 0:01:15.199 to do? 0:01:16.520 --> 0:01:17.640 Laugh at yourself a little bit? 0:01:17.680 --> 0:01:20.880 For example, on my JAD date profile, I wrote, my 0:01:21.080 --> 0:01:24.840 mom made this dating account without my permission because she 0:01:25.000 --> 0:01:26.880 is that desperate for me to find love. 0:01:27.280 --> 0:01:30.640 After you made the profile, you didn't take that part. 0:01:31.000 --> 0:01:32.120 I thought she did make it for it. 0:01:32.240 --> 0:01:34.120 She did, and then I took it over and I 0:01:34.200 --> 0:01:39.160 was like, I didn't make this my mom did. The 0:01:39.240 --> 0:01:41.200 women did not think it was funny. 0:01:41.480 --> 0:01:42.919 I think it's funny. 0:01:43.040 --> 0:01:47.840 Yeah, And one of our listeners, one of our listeners 0:01:47.880 --> 0:01:51.160 knows exactly what it's like to be misunderstood on the 0:01:51.240 --> 0:01:51.880 dating apps. 0:01:52.120 --> 0:01:55.000 His name is Mike. So, Mike, welcome to the show man. 0:01:55.640 --> 0:01:57.640 Hey, it did say in. 0:01:57.600 --> 0:02:00.840 Your email that women do not believe what's written on 0:02:00.880 --> 0:02:03.200 your bio is actually real what's on there? 0:02:03.600 --> 0:02:03.680 So? 0:02:03.840 --> 0:02:06.240 Yeah, I put on my profile that I'm a car 0:02:06.360 --> 0:02:09.280 jitsu expert. What car jitsu. 0:02:09.480 --> 0:02:11.200 Cargitsu not jujitsu? 0:02:11.680 --> 0:02:11.840 You know? 0:02:12.240 --> 0:02:15.040 See Brook, This is why people get confused. Even just 0:02:15.080 --> 0:02:16.720 the word doesn't make it. 0:02:17.600 --> 0:02:20.079 What does it mean? You like grapple with automobiles? 0:02:21.200 --> 0:02:23.480 Well, everyone thinks it's a made up term, right, but 0:02:23.520 --> 0:02:25.280 I do it. It's a real sport. And I think 0:02:25.320 --> 0:02:26.840 you guys a video clip in my email. 0:02:27.080 --> 0:02:29.600 Yeah, I do have the video clip that you said. 0:02:29.639 --> 0:02:31.480 Look, let me take a second to show my co 0:02:31.520 --> 0:02:33.119 host because they have not seen this yet. 0:02:33.160 --> 0:02:33.919 Are you ready to look? 0:02:34.200 --> 0:02:34.359 Yeah? 0:02:34.400 --> 0:02:37.040 Yeah, yeah, okay, Oh I've seen. 0:02:37.480 --> 0:02:39.600 Oh they're doing jiu jitsu inside a car. 0:02:40.080 --> 0:02:42.400 You're fighting in a car, doors closed. Oh my god, 0:02:42.400 --> 0:02:43.080 we're in the backseat. 0:02:43.120 --> 0:02:45.919 Now, this is how it works, right at the start 0:02:45.960 --> 0:02:48.160 of the match. Yeah, two people stood in the driver's 0:02:48.160 --> 0:02:50.880 seat and one in the passengers Okay, okay, So now 0:02:50.960 --> 0:02:55.240 once a match start, both fighters we just unbuffle ourselves immediately. 0:02:55.440 --> 0:02:57.239 We just attempt to like get at the other person. 0:02:57.320 --> 0:02:59.480 We tend to like subdue them in the vehicle. 0:02:59.520 --> 0:03:04.760 Oh, this is like brooking her husband at makeout point? 0:03:05.320 --> 0:03:06.399 Who the other? 0:03:06.600 --> 0:03:11.840 I mean, spoiler? But I always win? Okay, I mean. 0:03:13.200 --> 0:03:15.400 Is it frustrating that people don't know what this is 0:03:15.639 --> 0:03:17.160 or are you okay with it? 0:03:17.720 --> 0:03:18.040 Yeah? 0:03:18.080 --> 0:03:20.359 All the girls asking me about it and they get 0:03:20.400 --> 0:03:21.200 really confused. 0:03:21.520 --> 0:03:23.240 Isn't that why you put it on your profile so 0:03:23.400 --> 0:03:27.280 you could send them videos of your sexily grappling with men. 0:03:27.800 --> 0:03:29.680 Well, first of all, I put it on my profile 0:03:29.760 --> 0:03:31.760 because they ask you what your job. 0:03:31.639 --> 0:03:36.600 Is, right, and that's my job, jitsu expert. 0:03:36.960 --> 0:03:40.000 Yeah, so I travel around internationally for this. 0:03:40.280 --> 0:03:40.600 Cool. 0:03:40.680 --> 0:03:43.640 You know, slat boxing is huge in all these other 0:03:43.640 --> 0:03:46.920 countries right now and people in America, but it's like. 0:03:47.000 --> 0:03:48.720 Literally generating millions of dollars. 0:03:48.800 --> 0:03:52.120 There's lots of strange, unusual sports that people don't know about, 0:03:52.120 --> 0:03:53.840 and it's good that we have a backup plane for 0:03:53.880 --> 0:03:55.280 when our careers go down the drains. 0:03:55.520 --> 0:03:56.200 I'm going to do that. 0:03:56.160 --> 0:03:58.000 Pony prancing one where you act like. 0:03:58.000 --> 0:04:03.960 A yeah like that. But how does this get into 0:04:04.240 --> 0:04:05.840 you and your date that you went on? 0:04:06.040 --> 0:04:06.240 Yeah? 0:04:06.320 --> 0:04:08.480 So pretty much all the girls asked me about it 0:04:08.560 --> 0:04:12.040 and they get really confused. Yeah, but Catherine, she said 0:04:12.080 --> 0:04:13.640 she's actually seen it online before. 0:04:13.720 --> 0:04:16.440 Okay, and Catherine is the woman that we're going to 0:04:16.480 --> 0:04:17.200 be calling today. 0:04:17.200 --> 0:04:18.800 You found the one person. 0:04:21.080 --> 0:04:21.600 That's cool. 0:04:22.000 --> 0:04:24.599 So did she like take a huge interest on your date? 0:04:24.920 --> 0:04:25.160 Yeah? 0:04:25.360 --> 0:04:26.880 That really helped me break the actual with it. 0:04:27.080 --> 0:04:28.680 Okay, where'd you go? 0:04:29.279 --> 0:04:32.000 We went to a bar and it was going all right, 0:04:32.200 --> 0:04:34.800 but things started getting a little out of hands when 0:04:34.839 --> 0:04:36.080 we started drinking. 0:04:36.760 --> 0:04:38.719 In a fun way or a bad way. 0:04:39.160 --> 0:04:43.760 Well, uh, she basically stood up and said, my boyfriend 0:04:43.800 --> 0:04:44.760 will take anyone on. 0:04:44.839 --> 0:04:47.640 And oh oh, but. 0:04:47.720 --> 0:04:50.320 She called you her boyfriend, So that's cute. Do you 0:04:50.400 --> 0:04:51.800 like that or do you not like that? 0:04:53.040 --> 0:04:53.680 I loved it? 0:04:53.800 --> 0:04:55.279 Okay, Wow. 0:04:55.400 --> 0:04:58.080 She actually pulled out her phone and showed the videos 0:04:58.120 --> 0:04:58.719 to a few. 0:04:58.520 --> 0:05:03.279 Table Okay, yeah, that's not horrible. 0:05:03.680 --> 0:05:04.800 But everyone was laughing. 0:05:05.080 --> 0:05:06.520 It's funny. 0:05:06.800 --> 0:05:08.679 The move from the front seat to the back seat. 0:05:08.600 --> 0:05:11.440 Was funny with another girl. 0:05:11.760 --> 0:05:13.240 You don't know jiu jitsu. You don't know what's happening 0:05:14.200 --> 0:05:15.120 rolling around. 0:05:14.800 --> 0:05:16.720 Fighting in a car. They were you offended that there 0:05:16.760 --> 0:05:17.240 was laughter? 0:05:18.080 --> 0:05:20.559 Well, I get it's kind of different when it looks 0:05:20.640 --> 0:05:23.720 unusual and a little funny. But I've been training for 0:05:23.760 --> 0:05:26.640 this for years and I do make a decent amount 0:05:26.680 --> 0:05:28.640 of money from this, you know, like I'm living from 0:05:28.680 --> 0:05:29.200 this as well. 0:05:29.360 --> 0:05:30.680 Does it make sense to you? 0:05:30.760 --> 0:05:31.640 That's all that matters. 0:05:31.760 --> 0:05:33.840 So, but I mean, did that ruin your date because 0:05:33.880 --> 0:05:36.640 it sounds so good, like she called your boyfriend? 0:05:36.839 --> 0:05:40.479 She yeah, but afterwards she realized that maybe she was 0:05:40.480 --> 0:05:41.719 getting a little bit out of control. 0:05:43.480 --> 0:05:44.520 Maybe she's embarrassed. 0:05:45.200 --> 0:05:48.839 No, well, she kept saying you're mad, and and like, really, 0:05:48.880 --> 0:05:51.240 I wasn't mad, but I was kind of getting annoying 0:05:51.600 --> 0:05:53.960 annoyed that she telling me that I was. 0:05:55.920 --> 0:05:56.280 Been there. 0:05:57.880 --> 0:06:01.080 I know, I'm really not. I'm going to be if 0:06:01.080 --> 0:06:01.960 you keep saying that. 0:06:02.040 --> 0:06:03.760 It really does sound like they're in a relationship. 0:06:05.240 --> 0:06:07.320 And the fact that she was like, look at my man, 0:06:07.480 --> 0:06:09.640 that's why you don't want to let her go. I 0:06:09.720 --> 0:06:12.440 understand why you reached out to us. What's happened since 0:06:12.480 --> 0:06:12.920 that night? 0:06:13.320 --> 0:06:13.840 Pretty much? 0:06:13.839 --> 0:06:18.240 Bro okay, all right? And do you have any idea why. 0:06:18.080 --> 0:06:20.480 She might be embarrassed because she was a bit drunk. 0:06:20.560 --> 0:06:22.880 But you know, I don't take anything about it, Like 0:06:22.920 --> 0:06:24.679 I still think she's an amazing girl. 0:06:25.000 --> 0:06:26.880 All right, all right, Well maybe you just need a 0:06:26.960 --> 0:06:27.720 chance to tell her that. 0:06:28.279 --> 0:06:30.440 Well that's why I called. I hope you guys can 0:06:30.440 --> 0:06:31.160 get her on the line. 0:06:31.320 --> 0:06:33.760 Oh all right? That is that a threat? Because I 0:06:33.760 --> 0:06:34.880 don't want to make you mad or anything? 0:06:34.920 --> 0:06:36.760 Dude, Do you want to know? 0:06:37.040 --> 0:06:38.960 I hope you I'm mad. He drives to the station. 0:06:39.080 --> 0:06:42.600 He's like, get in, Okay, we're gonna do whatever you 0:06:42.640 --> 0:06:43.400 say here, Mike. 0:06:43.440 --> 0:06:44.280 We're just gonna come back. 0:06:44.320 --> 0:06:46.160 We'll call Catherine for you and we'll make sure that 0:06:46.240 --> 0:06:47.960 you get your second date update right after this. 0:06:48.040 --> 0:06:54.120 Okay, all right, don't hurt me. Second date update. 0:06:54.320 --> 0:06:56.159 You're in the middle of a second date update update, 0:06:56.160 --> 0:06:58.159 and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing 0:06:58.440 --> 0:06:59.880 right after you here Part two. 0:07:01.920 --> 0:07:05.520 We've heard a lot of people's stories on this show, 0:07:05.880 --> 0:07:08.520 their professions, their interests, and hobbies. 0:07:09.000 --> 0:07:11.280 This might be one of the strangest. 0:07:10.760 --> 0:07:14.600 Though, because one of our listeners, Mike is a professional 0:07:15.040 --> 0:07:18.880 car jitsu fighter, Yeah, or a car jitsu wrestler. 0:07:19.240 --> 0:07:23.240 I said, don't know what the exact terminology is. It's 0:07:23.280 --> 0:07:26.640 like a car artist, yeah, artists whatever. He is. He's 0:07:26.760 --> 0:07:27.400 a pro at it. 0:07:27.600 --> 0:07:28.200 Yeah. 0:07:28.200 --> 0:07:29.520 But somebody who. 0:07:29.440 --> 0:07:32.160 Was familiar with it and was proud of him was 0:07:32.200 --> 0:07:33.360 his date, Catherine. 0:07:33.440 --> 0:07:34.280 A little too proud. 0:07:34.360 --> 0:07:34.560 Yeah. 0:07:34.640 --> 0:07:34.800 Yeah. 0:07:34.840 --> 0:07:37.360 She was so proud that at the bar she drunkenly 0:07:37.360 --> 0:07:40.000 stood up and challenged any man there to fight. 0:07:39.880 --> 0:07:43.080 Her boyfriend in car jitsu. 0:07:43.800 --> 0:07:47.560 And that's where the fun kind of ended, because she 0:07:47.760 --> 0:07:50.880 began to sober up afterwards and started saying, are you 0:07:50.960 --> 0:07:51.400 mad at me? 0:07:51.680 --> 0:07:51.760 That? 0:07:51.840 --> 0:07:54.080 I told everybody about that and showed them the videos. 0:07:54.120 --> 0:07:54.600 Are you mad? 0:07:54.840 --> 0:07:57.520 And he kept saying no, and she kept saying yeah, 0:07:57.560 --> 0:07:58.880 I can tell you're mad at me. 0:07:58.960 --> 0:08:01.480 You're mad and that didn't go well. 0:08:01.560 --> 0:08:04.360 So now here we are days later, she might be 0:08:04.440 --> 0:08:06.320 too embarrassed to talk to him again. 0:08:06.360 --> 0:08:09.680 At least that's what Mike thinks. Mike, are you mad 0:08:09.720 --> 0:08:10.080 at us? 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:11.120 Oh? 0:08:12.240 --> 0:08:12.880 No? 0:08:15.800 --> 0:08:16.680 If we don't get him to. 0:08:16.680 --> 0:08:19.880 Day so, do you have any any final thoughts before 0:08:19.960 --> 0:08:20.760 we call Catherine? 0:08:20.760 --> 0:08:22.080 Anything else that we should know? 0:08:22.680 --> 0:08:25.120 Look, I really want to see her again. I mean, 0:08:25.200 --> 0:08:28.040 it's just really rare to find a girl who actually 0:08:28.080 --> 0:08:30.880 knows about this and who's probably going to be willing 0:08:30.880 --> 0:08:33.520 to support me through it. You know, she literally with 0:08:33.600 --> 0:08:35.080 my biggest cheerleader that night. 0:08:35.360 --> 0:08:36.880 I can totally imagine her when you're in the middle 0:08:36.880 --> 0:08:38.160 of a match or whatever it is, her banging on 0:08:38.160 --> 0:08:40.960 the window cheering for you of the cardio. Maybe she 0:08:40.960 --> 0:08:42.760 can get into the profession a little bit too. If 0:08:42.760 --> 0:08:44.520 this works out, I'm going to dial her right now. 0:08:44.720 --> 0:08:45.680 Let's see if she picks up. 0:08:45.720 --> 0:08:57.760 Here we go, Hell, Elhi, is this Catherine? 0:08:59.080 --> 0:08:59.720 Yeah? 0:09:00.120 --> 0:09:03.040 Is this hey Catherine. We're a radio show. 0:09:03.080 --> 0:09:05.640 We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we're 0:09:05.679 --> 0:09:07.920 hoping to borrow just a few minutes of your time. 0:09:07.960 --> 0:09:08.640 If that's okay. 0:09:10.280 --> 0:09:16.600 Uh no, did you say no? Yeah, we don't. We 0:09:16.640 --> 0:09:19.360 don't get no very often, Catherine, Can I ask, Can 0:09:19.400 --> 0:09:19.600 we ask? 0:09:19.679 --> 0:09:23.000 Why the thing is? We're not calling on behalf of us. 0:09:23.040 --> 0:09:25.320 We're actually calling on behalf of somebody. You know, a 0:09:25.320 --> 0:09:27.720 guy named Mike that you went on a date with recently. 0:09:28.640 --> 0:09:32.120 Oh okay, Oh wait does that change things? 0:09:32.160 --> 0:09:33.240 Do you want to talk to us now? 0:09:33.880 --> 0:09:35.439 Yeah? 0:09:35.480 --> 0:09:38.760 Okay, because we don't just call random people for no reason. 0:09:38.800 --> 0:09:40.480 But this is part of a segment we do called 0:09:40.520 --> 0:09:41.440 Second Date Update. 0:09:42.800 --> 0:09:45.160 Okay, so we're. 0:09:45.000 --> 0:09:47.319 On a mission. We want to hook you back up 0:09:47.640 --> 0:09:49.560 with Mike because he told us the story of what 0:09:49.679 --> 0:09:51.160 happened that night, and. 0:09:51.760 --> 0:09:56.080 God, it sounds like a fun night. 0:09:56.640 --> 0:09:57.559 It was a fun night. 0:09:57.800 --> 0:10:01.439 I have been barren to drug. 0:10:02.679 --> 0:10:02.839 There. 0:10:03.000 --> 0:10:05.640 He mentioned that you stood up at one point and 0:10:05.840 --> 0:10:08.160 challenged everybody in the bar to fight him in card jitsu. 0:10:08.400 --> 0:10:08.600 Yeah. 0:10:10.080 --> 0:10:11.080 I did do that. 0:10:11.800 --> 0:10:15.200 Okay, Well, it sounds like maybe that wasn't the problem. 0:10:15.400 --> 0:10:18.040 Then with the night, we're trying to help Mike figure 0:10:18.040 --> 0:10:21.600 out if there was a specific reason that you've been 0:10:21.640 --> 0:10:23.800 avoiding him or not wanting to see him again. 0:10:24.160 --> 0:10:27.240 Yeah, So here's what happened. 0:10:27.280 --> 0:10:31.840 I was embarrassed, and I told my roommate about the situation, 0:10:32.440 --> 0:10:34.240 but she didn't know what cargeates to us, so I 0:10:34.240 --> 0:10:38.400 showed her a few videos. Yeah that I absolutely cannot 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:38.960 date this. 0:10:38.880 --> 0:10:43.560 Guy whommates has she battled him and lost in a fight. 0:10:44.520 --> 0:10:50.520 You can't date my mortal enemy. 0:10:51.160 --> 0:10:53.559 No, I mean she made some valid points. 0:10:53.920 --> 0:10:57.160 You know, he's a professional fighter, and so he's going 0:10:57.200 --> 0:11:01.680 to get hurt and if this turns into something more serious, 0:11:02.200 --> 0:11:04.360 I'm gonna have to take care of him while he's charged. 0:11:04.600 --> 0:11:06.920 Well, isn't that every woman's dream to take care of 0:11:06.960 --> 0:11:10.080 a man like a baby child, especially. 0:11:09.720 --> 0:11:12.360 When they're retired at their peak. 0:11:12.760 --> 0:11:14.679 Right, it's so fun to be around, don't you think 0:11:14.720 --> 0:11:16.120 you're like way jumping the gun? 0:11:16.559 --> 0:11:20.480 Like, yeah, I mean you are thinking about, yeah, five 0:11:20.600 --> 0:11:21.439 steps down the. 0:11:21.400 --> 0:11:25.160 Line here jumping the gun. But I'm looking for something 0:11:25.240 --> 0:11:28.640 more long term, and so I pulling it a bit. 0:11:28.840 --> 0:11:30.800 I'm like, all right, if we have kids, like I 0:11:30.840 --> 0:11:33.120 did that whole bit, if we have kids, how long 0:11:33.200 --> 0:11:34.800 is he going to be doing Carget two? 0:11:34.800 --> 0:11:37.320 For Like, he can't possibly stand. 0:11:37.000 --> 0:11:44.360 The kids in They could start in those little driver cars. No, 0:11:44.640 --> 0:11:47.560 I could see why you would have some concerns about 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:51.080 the future of your guys' relationship. But we're not the 0:11:51.120 --> 0:11:54.440 people to defend that. The only person that can is 0:11:54.520 --> 0:11:56.440 Mike himself, and he just happens to be on the 0:11:56.480 --> 0:11:58.840 other line right now waiting to talk to you. 0:12:00.400 --> 0:12:08.760 He says, No, that's how this works, Mike. 0:12:09.280 --> 0:12:12.320 Yeah, well you should you not calling me because your 0:12:12.400 --> 0:12:16.160 roommate thinks is too dangerous. Come on, look, look, I've 0:12:16.200 --> 0:12:18.800 trained so hard for this. This is literally what I 0:12:18.840 --> 0:12:21.560 do every single day. I trained hard not to get hurt. 0:12:21.600 --> 0:12:24.240 That is literally my main job is not to get hurt. 0:12:24.559 --> 0:12:25.320 Are you hearing that? 0:12:25.679 --> 0:12:28.000 I understand that you're doing fine right now, but maybe 0:12:28.000 --> 0:12:29.800 in the future. I don't know. If someone wraps the 0:12:29.840 --> 0:12:31.840 seatbelt around your neck and pull too hard, I don't 0:12:31.840 --> 0:12:32.640 know what's gonna happen. 0:12:33.960 --> 0:12:36.320 I would never let that happen. Come on, I got 0:12:36.320 --> 0:12:38.920 this little counter thing that I do with my two thumbs. 0:12:39.280 --> 0:12:40.360 It works every single time. 0:12:40.400 --> 0:12:42.280 Whoa happen? 0:12:42.400 --> 0:12:45.600 Don't give away your secrets to all the card jitsu listeners. 0:12:45.160 --> 0:12:46.800 Who might be fighting you in the future. You don't 0:12:46.800 --> 0:12:47.480 want to give it away. 0:12:47.760 --> 0:12:50.560 Yeah a minute, this is like way more violent than 0:12:50.600 --> 0:12:51.680 I expected it to be. 0:12:51.720 --> 0:12:54.320 Maybe she's say, that's what I'm saying. This is something 0:12:54.360 --> 0:12:55.320 I have to think about. 0:12:55.440 --> 0:12:55.959 Oh my god. 0:12:56.000 --> 0:13:00.400 Okay, well I never realized she's concerned about your future there, Mike. 0:13:00.480 --> 0:13:02.960 Is this something that you see doing for like the 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:05.080 rest of your life as a way to earn income? 0:13:05.160 --> 0:13:06.120 You say, you make money. 0:13:06.320 --> 0:13:09.920 No, No, that's what she doesn't understand. I do have 0:13:09.960 --> 0:13:10.640 a backup plan. 0:13:10.800 --> 0:13:12.720 Okay, what's your backup plan? 0:13:14.200 --> 0:13:14.440 Boat? 0:13:15.600 --> 0:13:16.319 Would you say? 0:13:16.840 --> 0:13:17.120 Sorry? 0:13:17.160 --> 0:13:18.760 What boat jitsu? 0:13:19.240 --> 0:13:23.240 Boats? Boat jitsu? You going from car jetsu to boat? 0:13:25.280 --> 0:13:27.960 No, it's it's it's definitely more safe because if you fall, 0:13:28.240 --> 0:13:28.800 you fall in. 0:13:28.760 --> 0:13:30.680 The water a D. 0:13:33.559 --> 0:13:35.520 Plus on top of that you have to wear like that. 0:13:37.960 --> 0:13:42.200 You know what't boat jujitsu first thing? Safety? 0:13:43.400 --> 0:13:47.760 Okay, kind of like it whipping boat jitsu versus car 0:13:47.840 --> 0:13:50.120 gets two. I don't think how that's better. 0:13:50.480 --> 0:13:52.679 I do think that we're trying. We're all thinking way 0:13:52.720 --> 0:13:55.120 too long term here. The whole goal of this call 0:13:55.480 --> 0:13:58.120 is to just set you guys up on one more date. 0:13:58.480 --> 0:14:01.840 What do you think, Catherine? It's a date that will 0:14:01.880 --> 0:14:03.240 pay for if you're up for it. 0:14:03.320 --> 0:14:05.800 I mean, if anything, he really likes you, and I 0:14:05.800 --> 0:14:06.840 think that's really sweet. 0:14:06.920 --> 0:14:08.880 We might even do like a little day cruise, just 0:14:08.880 --> 0:14:10.600 so that you can give a preview of boat jitsu 0:14:12.040 --> 0:14:12.360 a boat. 0:14:14.080 --> 0:14:16.560 I'm not gonna fight you. The captain. 0:14:17.840 --> 0:14:19.960 Put him on two paddle boards. See what happens. 0:14:21.400 --> 0:14:23.440 So sorry, Cathern're running out of time. We need an answer. 0:14:23.480 --> 0:14:25.240 What do you think about one more date with Mike? 0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:27.440 Fine, I'll do one more date. 0:14:30.600 --> 0:14:32.400 There we go, Mike, there you go. 0:14:32.440 --> 0:14:35.480 You have exactly three days to change careers and figure 0:14:35.480 --> 0:14:37.160 out how to support yourself financially. 0:14:37.640 --> 0:14:42.760 Good luck, all right, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:14:42.920 --> 0:14:44.960 I know I'm not the only one who's been wanting 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:46.200 to hear from these two again. 0:14:46.360 --> 0:14:48.520 And for sure, finally we've. 0:14:48.360 --> 0:14:51.320 Got Mike and Catherine back on the phone for an update. 0:14:51.560 --> 0:14:52.000 Update. 0:14:56.000 --> 0:14:57.160 We don't even know if they're still thinking. 0:14:57.240 --> 0:14:59.960 Yeah, sorry, let's talk to him. Hey, guys, how's it going? 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:03.720 And it sounds like you are still together and unconcussed. 0:15:04.280 --> 0:15:11.200 We are together, but so good. 0:15:11.400 --> 0:15:13.240 What's been crazy? 0:15:13.840 --> 0:15:16.680 Just the fighting you mean, the car jitsu. 0:15:16.920 --> 0:15:19.800 Just fixing his broken nose over yeah. 0:15:19.880 --> 0:15:23.680 Each other. Now, it's kind of crazy because you know, 0:15:24.480 --> 0:15:26.840 Catherine's been my biggest fan and supporters. 0:15:27.160 --> 0:15:31.800 Oh wow, that's awesome. 0:15:32.200 --> 0:15:33.560 So do you go to like a lot of car 0:15:33.680 --> 0:15:34.800 jujitsu matches. 0:15:35.040 --> 0:15:37.320 Catherine, I have, I really have. 0:15:39.080 --> 0:15:41.800 She makes the signs and everything. You're like the one 0:15:41.840 --> 0:15:45.000 in the crowd. Yeah for your man. 0:15:45.800 --> 0:15:48.680 Yeah, you know. The more we went out, I just 0:15:48.720 --> 0:15:52.040 found out there's more to life than just tying seatbelts 0:15:52.080 --> 0:15:54.080 around people's necks so they can't dream. 0:15:53.920 --> 0:16:00.960 There is such deep moments, all right, actually really sweet. 0:16:01.040 --> 0:16:02.600 So you found other interests or what? 0:16:03.480 --> 0:16:08.600 Yeah, and that's exactly why this Friday is actually. 0:16:08.360 --> 0:16:11.440 Gonna be my final card jets too much? Wait? 0:16:11.480 --> 0:16:13.720 Wait, retired, you're giving it up? 0:16:14.160 --> 0:16:17.400 Well, I just I just think our relationship is just 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:19.360 too important to risk it anymore. 0:16:19.560 --> 0:16:20.680 Wait, you can't have both. 0:16:21.480 --> 0:16:23.920 I keep crying if it's not getting any younger. 0:16:24.480 --> 0:16:28.600 Yeah, you don't want to be choking people out in 0:16:28.680 --> 0:16:31.160 a subaru and you're like seventies and eighties. 0:16:31.960 --> 0:16:37.400 That makes it better, old, Okay, go at it. 0:16:37.960 --> 0:16:39.479 My grip is weird. 0:16:40.080 --> 0:16:42.240 Well I don't know if they have it, but hopefully, Mike, 0:16:42.360 --> 0:16:44.520 someday you'll end up in the car Jitsu Hall of 0:16:44.560 --> 0:16:47.400 Fame and you guys can take your kids to see 0:16:47.480 --> 0:16:50.360 Daddy's golden seat belt trophy up on the wall and 0:16:50.400 --> 0:16:52.320 be like, oh, those were the days. 0:16:52.760 --> 0:16:55.680 Do I picture just a Honda Cord parked outside of 0:16:55.680 --> 0:16:56.280 a Mini. 0:16:56.080 --> 0:16:58.880 Moll the sign propped up next to it. 0:16:59.000 --> 0:17:01.840 That's Hall of Fame on the windshield. 0:17:02.080 --> 0:17:02.560 Wow. 0:17:02.720 --> 0:17:04.560 Well, hey, congratulations. 0:17:04.560 --> 0:17:06.439 We're glad to hear that you two are still together 0:17:06.560 --> 0:17:09.280 and that you're moving forward with your relationships. 0:17:09.320 --> 0:17:09.760 So cool. 0:17:10.480 --> 0:17:11.480 No, we're really happy. 0:17:11.920 --> 0:17:13.679 Yay our car fighting. 0:17:14.680 --> 0:17:17.960