Speaker 1: Welcome to the Second Date Podcast. It's Brooke and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: of course, the home of the Second Date. And we
Speaker 1: love when we get a special update update.
Speaker 2: Yes, and if you know, if.
Speaker 1: You're an OG listener, you know what that is already,
Speaker 1: But if you're new to the show, that's where when
Speaker 1: we have a successful couple from one of our second.
Speaker 2: Dates come back and how the relationship is going us.
Speaker 3: Just a little tidbit information. They'll go what these couple,
Speaker 3: we don't know until they hit us up. Yeah, like
Speaker 3: by the way update.
Speaker 2: Guys, Yes, totally.
Speaker 1: And one of the most memorable from last year was
Speaker 1: with a professional athlete. He was in a crazy sport
Speaker 1: only I think jose had heard of before and he
Speaker 1: has a big announcement he wants to make on the show.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna let him do that. But how these
Speaker 1: work is We're going to play you the original when
Speaker 1: they were first on the show so that you're up
Speaker 1: to speed, and then we get the update from them
Speaker 1: at the end.
Speaker 3: Yes, so this is not a replay.
Speaker 2: Yeah you think so? Yeah, Sit back and joy and
Speaker 2: stay till the end. It starts right now.
Speaker 4: The second If you put something on your dating profile
Speaker 4: or your dating app, and everybody thinks it's a joke,
Speaker 4: but it's one hundred percent serious. What are you supposed
Speaker 4: to do?
Speaker 2: Laugh at yourself a little bit?
Speaker 4: For example, on my JAD date profile, I wrote, my
Speaker 4: mom made this dating account without my permission because she
Speaker 4: is that desperate for me to find love.
Speaker 1: After you made the profile, you didn't take that part.
Speaker 2: I thought she did make it for it.
Speaker 4: She did, and then I took it over and I
Speaker 4: was like, I didn't make this my mom did. The
Speaker 4: women did not think it was funny.
Speaker 3: I think it's funny.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And one of our listeners, one of our listeners
Speaker 4: knows exactly what it's like to be misunderstood on the
Speaker 4: dating apps.
Speaker 3: His name is Mike. So, Mike, welcome to the show man.
Speaker 5: Hey, it did say in.
Speaker 4: Your email that women do not believe what's written on
Speaker 4: your bio is actually real what's on there?
Speaker 6: So?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I put on my profile that I'm a car
Speaker 5: jitsu expert. What car jitsu.
Speaker 3: Cargitsu not jujitsu?
Speaker 5: You know?
Speaker 4: See Brook, This is why people get confused. Even just
Speaker 4: the word doesn't make it.
Speaker 2: What does it mean? You like grapple with automobiles?
Speaker 5: Well, everyone thinks it's a made up term, right, but
Speaker 5: I do it. It's a real sport. And I think
Speaker 5: you guys a video clip in my email.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I do have the video clip that you said.
Speaker 4: Look, let me take a second to show my co
Speaker 4: host because they have not seen this yet.
Speaker 3: Are you ready to look?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, okay, Oh I've seen.
Speaker 2: Oh they're doing jiu jitsu inside a car.
Speaker 3: You're fighting in a car, doors closed. Oh my god,
Speaker 3: we're in the backseat.
Speaker 5: Now, this is how it works, right at the start
Speaker 5: of the match. Yeah, two people stood in the driver's
Speaker 5: seat and one in the passengers Okay, okay, So now
Speaker 5: once a match start, both fighters we just unbuffle ourselves immediately.
Speaker 5: We just attempt to like get at the other person.
Speaker 5: We tend to like subdue them in the vehicle.
Speaker 4: Oh, this is like brooking her husband at makeout point?
Speaker 3: Who the other?
Speaker 2: I mean, spoiler? But I always win? Okay, I mean.
Speaker 1: Is it frustrating that people don't know what this is
Speaker 1: or are you okay with it?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 5: All the girls asking me about it and they get
Speaker 5: really confused.
Speaker 1: Isn't that why you put it on your profile so
Speaker 1: you could send them videos of your sexily grappling with men.
Speaker 5: Well, first of all, I put it on my profile
Speaker 5: because they ask you what your job.
Speaker 3: Is, right, and that's my job, jitsu expert.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I travel around internationally for this.
Speaker 7: Cool.
Speaker 4: You know, slat boxing is huge in all these other
Speaker 4: countries right now and people in America, but it's like.
Speaker 3: Literally generating millions of dollars.
Speaker 4: There's lots of strange, unusual sports that people don't know about,
Speaker 4: and it's good that we have a backup plane for
Speaker 4: when our careers go down the drains.
Speaker 5: I'm going to do that.
Speaker 2: Pony prancing one where you act like.
Speaker 4: A yeah like that. But how does this get into
Speaker 4: you and your date that you went on?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 5: So pretty much all the girls asked me about it
Speaker 5: and they get really confused. Yeah, but Catherine, she said
Speaker 5: she's actually seen it online before.
Speaker 4: Okay, and Catherine is the woman that we're going to
Speaker 4: be calling today.
Speaker 2: You found the one person.
Speaker 6: That's cool.
Speaker 2: So did she like take a huge interest on your date?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 5: That really helped me break the actual with it.
Speaker 3: Okay, where'd you go?
Speaker 5: We went to a bar and it was going all right,
Speaker 5: but things started getting a little out of hands when
Speaker 5: we started drinking.
Speaker 2: In a fun way or a bad way.
Speaker 5: Well, uh, she basically stood up and said, my boyfriend
Speaker 5: will take anyone on.
Speaker 3: And oh oh, but.
Speaker 2: She called you her boyfriend, So that's cute. Do you
Speaker 2: like that or do you not like that?
Speaker 5: I loved it?
Speaker 3: Okay, Wow.
Speaker 5: She actually pulled out her phone and showed the videos
Speaker 5: to a few.
Speaker 3: Table Okay, yeah, that's not horrible.
Speaker 5: But everyone was laughing.
Speaker 3: It's funny.
Speaker 2: The move from the front seat to the back seat.
Speaker 3: Was funny with another girl.
Speaker 2: You don't know jiu jitsu. You don't know what's happening
Speaker 2: rolling around.
Speaker 3: Fighting in a car. They were you offended that there
Speaker 3: was laughter?
Speaker 5: Well, I get it's kind of different when it looks
Speaker 5: unusual and a little funny. But I've been training for
Speaker 5: this for years and I do make a decent amount
Speaker 5: of money from this, you know, like I'm living from
Speaker 5: this as well.
Speaker 3: Does it make sense to you?
Speaker 5: That's all that matters.
Speaker 1: So, but I mean, did that ruin your date because
Speaker 1: it sounds so good, like she called your boyfriend?
Speaker 5: She yeah, but afterwards she realized that maybe she was
Speaker 5: getting a little bit out of control.
Speaker 2: Maybe she's embarrassed.
Speaker 5: No, well, she kept saying you're mad, and and like, really,
Speaker 5: I wasn't mad, but I was kind of getting annoying
Speaker 5: annoyed that she telling me that I was.
Speaker 6: Been there.
Speaker 3: I know, I'm really not. I'm going to be if
Speaker 3: you keep saying that.
Speaker 2: It really does sound like they're in a relationship.
Speaker 4: And the fact that she was like, look at my man,
Speaker 4: that's why you don't want to let her go. I
Speaker 4: understand why you reached out to us. What's happened since
Speaker 4: that night?
Speaker 5: Pretty much?
Speaker 2: Bro okay, all right? And do you have any idea why.
Speaker 5: She might be embarrassed because she was a bit drunk.
Speaker 5: But you know, I don't take anything about it, Like
Speaker 5: I still think she's an amazing girl.
Speaker 2: All right, all right, Well maybe you just need a
Speaker 2: chance to tell her that.
Speaker 5: Well that's why I called. I hope you guys can
Speaker 5: get her on the line.
Speaker 3: Oh all right? That is that a threat? Because I
Speaker 3: don't want to make you mad or anything?
Speaker 2: Dude, Do you want to know?
Speaker 3: I hope you I'm mad. He drives to the station.
Speaker 4: He's like, get in, Okay, we're gonna do whatever you
Speaker 4: say here, Mike.
Speaker 3: We're just gonna come back.
Speaker 4: We'll call Catherine for you and we'll make sure that
Speaker 4: you get your second date update right after this.
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, don't hurt me. Second date update.
Speaker 1: You're in the middle of a second date update update,
Speaker 1: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing
Speaker 1: right after you here Part two.
Speaker 4: We've heard a lot of people's stories on this show,
Speaker 4: their professions, their interests, and hobbies.
Speaker 3: This might be one of the strangest.
Speaker 4: Though, because one of our listeners, Mike is a professional
Speaker 4: car jitsu fighter, Yeah, or a car jitsu wrestler.
Speaker 3: I said, don't know what the exact terminology is. It's
Speaker 3: like a car artist, yeah, artists whatever. He is. He's
Speaker 3: a pro at it.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: But somebody who.
Speaker 4: Was familiar with it and was proud of him was
Speaker 4: his date, Catherine.
Speaker 3: A little too proud.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: She was so proud that at the bar she drunkenly
Speaker 4: stood up and challenged any man there to fight.
Speaker 3: Her boyfriend in car jitsu.
Speaker 4: And that's where the fun kind of ended, because she
Speaker 4: began to sober up afterwards and started saying, are you
Speaker 4: mad at me?
Speaker 6: That?
Speaker 3: I told everybody about that and showed them the videos.
Speaker 3: Are you mad?
Speaker 4: And he kept saying no, and she kept saying yeah,
Speaker 4: I can tell you're mad at me.
Speaker 3: You're mad and that didn't go well.
Speaker 4: So now here we are days later, she might be
Speaker 4: too embarrassed to talk to him again.
Speaker 3: At least that's what Mike thinks. Mike, are you mad
Speaker 3: at us?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 2: If we don't get him to.
Speaker 4: Day so, do you have any any final thoughts before
Speaker 4: we call Catherine?
Speaker 3: Anything else that we should know?
Speaker 5: Look, I really want to see her again. I mean,
Speaker 5: it's just really rare to find a girl who actually
Speaker 5: knows about this and who's probably going to be willing
Speaker 5: to support me through it. You know, she literally with
Speaker 5: my biggest cheerleader that night.
Speaker 4: I can totally imagine her when you're in the middle
Speaker 4: of a match or whatever it is, her banging on
Speaker 4: the window cheering for you of the cardio. Maybe she
Speaker 4: can get into the profession a little bit too. If
Speaker 4: this works out, I'm going to dial her right now.
Speaker 4: Let's see if she picks up.
Speaker 3: Here we go, Hell, Elhi, is this Catherine?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Is this hey Catherine. We're a radio show.
Speaker 4: We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we're
Speaker 4: hoping to borrow just a few minutes of your time.
Speaker 3: If that's okay.
Speaker 2: Uh no, did you say no? Yeah, we don't. We
Speaker 2: don't get no very often, Catherine, Can I ask, Can
Speaker 2: we ask?
Speaker 4: Why the thing is? We're not calling on behalf of us.
Speaker 4: We're actually calling on behalf of somebody. You know, a
Speaker 4: guy named Mike that you went on a date with recently.
Speaker 7: Oh okay, Oh wait does that change things?
Speaker 2: Do you want to talk to us now?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Okay, because we don't just call random people for no reason.
Speaker 4: But this is part of a segment we do called
Speaker 4: Second Date Update.
Speaker 8: Okay, so we're.
Speaker 3: On a mission. We want to hook you back up
Speaker 3: with Mike because he told us the story of what
Speaker 3: happened that night, and.
Speaker 7: God, it sounds like a fun night.
Speaker 1: It was a fun night.
Speaker 8: I have been barren to drug.
Speaker 5: There.
Speaker 4: He mentioned that you stood up at one point and
Speaker 4: challenged everybody in the bar to fight him in card jitsu.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 8: I did do that.
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, it sounds like maybe that wasn't the problem.
Speaker 4: Then with the night, we're trying to help Mike figure
Speaker 4: out if there was a specific reason that you've been
Speaker 4: avoiding him or not wanting to see him again.
Speaker 8: Yeah, So here's what happened.
Speaker 7: I was embarrassed, and I told my roommate about the situation,
Speaker 7: but she didn't know what cargeates to us, so I
Speaker 7: showed her a few videos. Yeah that I absolutely cannot
Speaker 7: date this.
Speaker 4: Guy whommates has she battled him and lost in a fight.
Speaker 4: You can't date my mortal enemy.
Speaker 8: No, I mean she made some valid points.
Speaker 7: You know, he's a professional fighter, and so he's going
Speaker 7: to get hurt and if this turns into something more serious,
Speaker 7: I'm gonna have to take care of him while he's charged.
Speaker 4: Well, isn't that every woman's dream to take care of
Speaker 4: a man like a baby child, especially.
Speaker 3: When they're retired at their peak.
Speaker 2: Right, it's so fun to be around, don't you think
Speaker 2: you're like way jumping the gun?
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, I mean you are thinking about, yeah, five
Speaker 1: steps down the.
Speaker 7: Line here jumping the gun. But I'm looking for something
Speaker 7: more long term, and so I pulling it a bit.
Speaker 7: I'm like, all right, if we have kids, like I
Speaker 7: did that whole bit, if we have kids, how long
Speaker 7: is he going to be doing Carget two?
Speaker 8: For Like, he can't possibly stand.
Speaker 4: The kids in They could start in those little driver cars. No,
Speaker 4: I could see why you would have some concerns about
Speaker 4: the future of your guys' relationship. But we're not the
Speaker 4: people to defend that. The only person that can is
Speaker 4: Mike himself, and he just happens to be on the
Speaker 4: other line right now waiting to talk to you.
Speaker 1: He says, No, that's how this works, Mike.
Speaker 5: Yeah, well you should you not calling me because your
Speaker 5: roommate thinks is too dangerous. Come on, look, look, I've
Speaker 5: trained so hard for this. This is literally what I
Speaker 5: do every single day. I trained hard not to get hurt.
Speaker 5: That is literally my main job is not to get hurt.
Speaker 2: Are you hearing that?
Speaker 7: I understand that you're doing fine right now, but maybe
Speaker 7: in the future. I don't know. If someone wraps the
Speaker 7: seatbelt around your neck and pull too hard, I don't
Speaker 7: know what's gonna happen.
Speaker 5: I would never let that happen. Come on, I got
Speaker 5: this little counter thing that I do with my two thumbs.
Speaker 5: It works every single time.
Speaker 7: Whoa happen?
Speaker 4: Don't give away your secrets to all the card jitsu listeners.
Speaker 3: Who might be fighting you in the future. You don't
Speaker 3: want to give it away.
Speaker 1: Yeah a minute, this is like way more violent than
Speaker 1: I expected it to be.
Speaker 7: Maybe she's say, that's what I'm saying. This is something
Speaker 7: I have to think about.
Speaker 2: Oh my god.
Speaker 4: Okay, well I never realized she's concerned about your future there, Mike.
Speaker 4: Is this something that you see doing for like the
Speaker 4: rest of your life as a way to earn income?
Speaker 3: You say, you make money.
Speaker 5: No, No, that's what she doesn't understand. I do have
Speaker 5: a backup plan.
Speaker 1: Okay, what's your backup plan?
Speaker 5: Boat?
Speaker 2: Would you say?
Speaker 7: Sorry?
Speaker 5: What boat jitsu?
Speaker 3: Boats? Boat jitsu? You going from car jetsu to boat?
Speaker 5: No, it's it's it's definitely more safe because if you fall,
Speaker 5: you fall in.
Speaker 3: The water a D.
Speaker 5: Plus on top of that you have to wear like that.
Speaker 2: You know what't boat jujitsu first thing? Safety?
Speaker 8: Okay, kind of like it whipping boat jitsu versus car
Speaker 8: gets two. I don't think how that's better.
Speaker 4: I do think that we're trying. We're all thinking way
Speaker 4: too long term here. The whole goal of this call
Speaker 4: is to just set you guys up on one more date.
Speaker 4: What do you think, Catherine? It's a date that will
Speaker 4: pay for if you're up for it.
Speaker 1: I mean, if anything, he really likes you, and I
Speaker 1: think that's really sweet.
Speaker 4: We might even do like a little day cruise, just
Speaker 4: so that you can give a preview of boat jitsu
Speaker 4: a boat.
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna fight you. The captain.
Speaker 2: Put him on two paddle boards. See what happens.
Speaker 3: So sorry, Cathern're running out of time. We need an answer.
Speaker 3: What do you think about one more date with Mike?
Speaker 8: Fine, I'll do one more date.
Speaker 3: There we go, Mike, there you go.
Speaker 4: You have exactly three days to change careers and figure
Speaker 4: out how to support yourself financially.
Speaker 7: Good luck, all right, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: I know I'm not the only one who's been wanting
Speaker 4: to hear from these two again.
Speaker 3: And for sure, finally we've.
Speaker 4: Got Mike and Catherine back on the phone for an update.
Speaker 3: Update.
Speaker 2: We don't even know if they're still thinking.
Speaker 3: Yeah, sorry, let's talk to him. Hey, guys, how's it going?
Speaker 3: And it sounds like you are still together and unconcussed.
Speaker 8: We are together, but so good.
Speaker 2: What's been crazy?
Speaker 3: Just the fighting you mean, the car jitsu.
Speaker 2: Just fixing his broken nose over yeah.
Speaker 6: Each other. Now, it's kind of crazy because you know,
Speaker 6: Catherine's been my biggest fan and supporters.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, that's awesome.
Speaker 2: So do you go to like a lot of car
Speaker 2: jujitsu matches.
Speaker 8: Catherine, I have, I really have.
Speaker 3: She makes the signs and everything. You're like the one
Speaker 3: in the crowd. Yeah for your man.
Speaker 6: Yeah, you know. The more we went out, I just
Speaker 6: found out there's more to life than just tying seatbelts
Speaker 6: around people's necks so they can't dream.
Speaker 1: There is such deep moments, all right, actually really sweet.
Speaker 2: So you found other interests or what?
Speaker 6: Yeah, and that's exactly why this Friday is actually.
Speaker 5: Gonna be my final card jets too much? Wait?
Speaker 3: Wait, retired, you're giving it up?
Speaker 6: Well, I just I just think our relationship is just
Speaker 6: too important to risk it anymore.
Speaker 2: Wait, you can't have both.
Speaker 8: I keep crying if it's not getting any younger.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you don't want to be choking people out in
Speaker 4: a subaru and you're like seventies and eighties.
Speaker 2: That makes it better, old, Okay, go at it.
Speaker 3: My grip is weird.
Speaker 4: Well I don't know if they have it, but hopefully, Mike,
Speaker 4: someday you'll end up in the car Jitsu Hall of
Speaker 4: Fame and you guys can take your kids to see
Speaker 4: Daddy's golden seat belt trophy up on the wall and
Speaker 4: be like, oh, those were the days.
Speaker 1: Do I picture just a Honda Cord parked outside of
Speaker 1: a Mini.
Speaker 2: Moll the sign propped up next to it.
Speaker 3: That's Hall of Fame on the windshield.
Speaker 6: Wow.
Speaker 3: Well, hey, congratulations.
Speaker 4: We're glad to hear that you two are still together
Speaker 4: and that you're moving forward with your relationships.
Speaker 3: So cool.
Speaker 8: No, we're really happy.
Speaker 3: Yay our car fighting.
Speaker 4: Well, keep us updated on how your relationship continues to
Speaker 4: change and what your next endeavor is going to be.
Speaker 5: Mike, awesome, Thank you guys for your hope.
Speaker 3: Yes, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 7: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.