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Speaker 1: What you don't kick?

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Speaker 2: You brought up something interesting that you would like to

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Speaker 2: take a stand on this morning. Yes, so maybe you

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Speaker 2: know I took my stand on driving in the left lane.

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Speaker 1: What'd I look for?

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Speaker 3: No, just just wondering what I'm standing on today. You

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Speaker 3: know i'd be I'd just be saying I don't know

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Speaker 3: what I mean.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you wrote it about ten minutes ago. Okay,

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Speaker 2: drive through etiquin.

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Speaker 4: Oh yes, I got a lot to say, like we got.

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Speaker 1: The thing here.

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Speaker 2: Everybody shares their ideas and then it doesn't like inevitably

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Speaker 2: when I bring up the idea and I say, hey,

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Speaker 2: so tell me about your idea on the airwhere it

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Speaker 2: looks at me like I tell you so much, I

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Speaker 2: will you do? There lots of ideas on here, but

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Speaker 2: so I stood on business and I said to the

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Speaker 2: left lane, you can't be just hanging out left lane

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Speaker 2: going slowly. You can't do them. You have something you'd

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Speaker 2: like to say about driving through? So I just think

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Speaker 2: let's just take the opportunity now on the fly. Eight

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Speaker 2: five five five nine one one oh three five. If

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Speaker 2: there's anything that you'd like to say, if there's any

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Speaker 2: sort of position you have about the world right now, yes,

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Speaker 2: non political, please, non religious, but like if there's.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my platform right now is the left lane.

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Speaker 5: Today.

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Speaker 2: I'm very focused because last night I'm just like, repeatedly

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to get home and I'm like, why are

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Speaker 2: you going so slow in the left lane? Did no

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Speaker 2: one teach you anything about living in a society? And

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Speaker 2: so is there something that you just want to get

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Speaker 2: off your chest that you's bothering you, that people aren't

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Speaker 2: doing correctly? You'd like to make a statement, then you know,

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Speaker 2: let's use our platform with thirteen people listen to us.

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Speaker 2: Let's get out there. Eight five five five nine one

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Speaker 2: one oh three five. We got time, Kiki, Yes, what's yours?

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Speaker 6: Okay?

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Speaker 3: Drive through etiquette. Let's all get this in order to

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Speaker 3: get this together. This morning, I'm running okay, I'm in

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Speaker 3: the dunkin drive through.

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Speaker 4: The lady in.

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Speaker 3: Front of me, she is too much dialogue going on,

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Speaker 3: you know, like this is Duncan you know what you

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Speaker 3: want in the morning?

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Speaker 4: You know what you need?

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Speaker 1: Hull up?

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Speaker 6: You should have already ordered on the app. Hello, you

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Speaker 6: got that?

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Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you, And if you don't like me,

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Speaker 3: you should at least have your little barco ready to

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Speaker 3: get your points. Why are we sitting here lady? To

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Speaker 3: the point, it was like seven minutes. So then the

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Speaker 3: person behind me started hunking their horn and I'm like,

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Speaker 3: right on, sister.

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Speaker 6: My dream.

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Speaker 3: Yes, but they're not scared because I'm like, Gary's just

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Speaker 3: gonna think it's me, Like maybe she's gonna think that

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Speaker 3: I'm the one hunting the horn. But still, let's all

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Speaker 3: stand together, because why are you in the in the

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Speaker 3: drive through line at four in the morning.

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Speaker 7: Bro.

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Speaker 3: Anybody that is up at four in the morning getting

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Speaker 3: ready for work, they're.

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Speaker 4: On business like they're handling some s.

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Speaker 2: So it could be a doctor behind you on his

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Speaker 2: way to save a child's life and perform life altering

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Speaker 2: life saving heart surgery. But he's a little caffeine on

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Speaker 2: the way in, and here you are trying to decide

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Speaker 2: between the wake up rap come on, and some munchkins. Okay,

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Speaker 2: but you knew what you wanted when you pull into drive,

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Speaker 2: so you knew this wasn't like an exploratory process.

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Speaker 1: And if it is, then go inside.

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Speaker 3: Go inside. Like you had this whole line wrapped around

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Speaker 3: the building. These poor people are in there trying to

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Speaker 3: make their coffee for their regulars that they know are coming.

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Speaker 3: So my stuff is just sitting there getting cald. My

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Speaker 4: Because you want to have all.

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Speaker 3: This conversation at four in the morning, Like I think,

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Speaker 3: if you are going to get coffee in the morning,

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Speaker 3: we must have our orders together and our ducks in

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Speaker 3: a row.

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Speaker 4: Use an app.

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Speaker 2: I got another food one for you. Yes, And this

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Speaker 2: has happened many times recently. But I'm typically when I

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Speaker 2: go someplace to get somebody to eat, like and you're

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Speaker 2: like a takeout kind of place, or maybe a place

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Speaker 2: where you can dine in, but you order yourself. I'm

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Speaker 2: usually by myself and if I go for lunch, sometimes

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Speaker 2: there'll be someone from the office who was delegated to

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Speaker 2: go get food for eight people. If you're the person

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Speaker 2: who's in line to get food for if you have

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Speaker 2: eight orders and you see someone behind you by themselves,

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Speaker 2: you let at least one of those people go ahead

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Speaker 2: of you, if not three or four. If you got

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Speaker 2: eight orders, you should let eight people go in front

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Speaker 2: of you, because you're gonna take up the next forty

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Speaker 2: five minutes. But if someone behind you could be in

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Speaker 2: and out and already have eaten, and they're already back

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Speaker 2: to work at the plant, but you're still standing there,

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Speaker 2: going this person wanted guacamoli.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, they didn't know. They didn't.

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Speaker 4: Like, why didn't you pre order this anyway?

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Speaker 8: Right?

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Speaker 2: Like in the average exactly, yes, But like if you're

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Speaker 2: only doing one thing and everyone else is doing a lot.

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Speaker 2: If you're only doing if you're doing a lot of

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Speaker 2: things and someone behind you and want to let them

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Speaker 2: do the one thing, thank you anything else.

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Speaker 1: I to be thank you to me? Yes, yeah, I

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Speaker 1: got one. So okay.

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Speaker 9: We have a dog run at our building because I

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Speaker 9: live in an apartment, and you know, sometimes it's called

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Speaker 9: the dog has got to go, and there there's dog

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Speaker 9: run etiquette. Okay, First of all, there are people that

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Speaker 9: just let their dogs take a dump and then I

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Speaker 4: They don't pick up the poop at all.

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Speaker 9: Second of all, so the dude that goes in there,

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Speaker 9: it's like an enclosed area, So like it's one by

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Speaker 9: one to the dude that goes in there. Your dog

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Speaker 9: takes a dump, You're on your phone for twenty minutes

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Speaker 9: standing there, just scrolling when I'm waiting with my dog

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Speaker 9: in there, you can't have that. It's not Why would

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Speaker 9: you want to hang around in there? It smells like crap?

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Speaker 9: And then I watch him leave his poop, his dog's

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Speaker 1: That's wrong. I got it. We got to pick up that.

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Speaker 2: We got to We live in a society, right, Hey, Christina, Hello,

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Speaker 2: how are you hey?

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Speaker 1: Great? Go right ahead?

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Speaker 10: What is it?

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Speaker 1: Did you get it off your chest?

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Speaker 11: One of the biggest pet peeves of Chicago driving is

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Speaker 11: you know where he uses there? Turning a signal.

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Speaker 1: Yes, oh, yes, no, you don't know. We're so much going. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Where it's really annoying is if they're making like a

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Speaker 2: right turn and you're making a right turn. I get

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Speaker 2: So you could have gone but quickly because you didn't

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Speaker 2: know what they were going to do. You didn't want

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Speaker 2: think i'll make a right turn here. Well, there's a

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Speaker 2: there's a thing on your car that would tell the

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Speaker 2: whole world that's what.

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Speaker 1: You're going to do, and you're choosing to use the car.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, brand new car you're driving. Yeah, Christina, this is

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Speaker 2: a good one. Thank you, have a good day. You too,

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Speaker 2: Very grateful that you shared that with us. Hey, Cindy, Yes, Cindy,

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Speaker 1: What is it? Whatever it is, get it off your chest.

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Speaker 7: Oh for me, it is the toss or the flick

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Speaker 7: of the cigarette. But going down the road out of

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Speaker 7: that cars start stopped putting ashtrays in vehicles, so I

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Speaker 7: slightly blame it on the car manufacturers, but I just

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Speaker 7: want to scoop them all up and find out where

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Speaker 7: that person lizards just go dump a pile of them

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Speaker 7: on their front porch. That's so rude.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Cindy doesn't like it, Thank you, Cindy. Hey, do

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Speaker 1: Oh? She hung up. I'm assuming yes. Hey, Andra.

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Speaker 2: And everybody, Hey, good morning. You got a problem with

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Speaker 2: the left lane as well?

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Speaker 1: Yes, sir, I call them left lane commandos. They love

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Speaker 1: that left lane. I'm sure all of you have heard,

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Speaker 10: Drive right past left right, yeah, which means the left

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you better be going.

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Speaker 2: If you're hanging out in the left lane, you better

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Speaker 12: But the issue is you shouldn't be in the left

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Speaker 12: lane all yeah, Well that's unless you are actively passing

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Speaker 2: You know, a lot of people feel A lot of

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Speaker 2: people feel that way. Now Kaitlyn does it, but a

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Speaker 2: lot of people and in some states apparently that's the law.

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Speaker 2: But but yeah, that would be a nice thing. If

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Speaker 2: there are three lanes, then the left lanes only for

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Speaker 2: leave the leave that one from passing.

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Speaker 1: I agree, Andre, Thank you, have a good day. Hey,

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Speaker 1: you guys, take care of Caitly. You're wrong Caitlin that she's.

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Speaker 2: Wrong, because Kaitlyn shouldn't be coming in here talking like that.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Ryan, Hey Ryan, good morning man. Welcome.

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Speaker 2: So I guess we're just getting grievances off of our

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Speaker 2: chest this morning.

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Speaker 1: Off our chest, squirrel, go ahead please. Yeah.

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Speaker 12: So, my my biggest grievance is I'm a creature of habit.

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Speaker 12: I know what I need at a grocery store. I

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Speaker 12: have it all planned out. When I go there and

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Speaker 12: people are just standing in the aisle looking at all

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Speaker 12: different products. You're an adult. You know what you want.

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Speaker 12: You know what you need to buy. Get your thing

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Speaker 12: and move out of the way.

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Speaker 6: Stop hoogging up the space.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Ryan, I don't go to the grocery store very

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Speaker 2: often because I'm lazy, and I order it because I'm lazy.

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Speaker 2: But I can't remember the last time I went to

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Speaker 2: the grocery store. I was like, you know, I'm just

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Speaker 2: gonna browse today, Like I'm just gonna do this.

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Speaker 1: I think that's for me.

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Speaker 13: I was like, I cannot be behind you.

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Speaker 2: I'm going through these texts here quickly before we got

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Speaker 2: But when you went to pick it up, like, did

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Speaker 1: If I'm ordering the exact same amount of food.

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Speaker 9: Same weight, same process to get it, why is my driver's.

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Speaker 9: I'm ordering from like a steakhouse and it's more expensive

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Speaker 2: Well, because no, I think they're trying to I think

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Speaker 2: but you gotta tip well if you expect the full service,

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Speaker 2: You pay more if you sit down than you do

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Speaker 4: That I never thought of that with that and.

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Speaker 2: You're doing God's work out there bringing me all my meals,

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Speaker 2: It's like, look, you consist I would think consistently as

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Speaker 2: I don't want to tip ahead of time, but if

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Speaker 2: getting tipped, right Jason, because you used to do it.

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Speaker 2: I am going to tip, but I've been burned a

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Speaker 2: then you don't, you don't do the whole thing or

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Speaker 2: I already tipped you. I'm not gonna take it back,

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Speaker 2: which I think some people do. That's messed up too.

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Speaker 2: I've heard people will put a good tip and then

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Speaker 2: I don't like that either. Yeah, he's your excellent points.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad that you all brought them up.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: We may have to do this more consistently because I want.

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Speaker 1: would just want to have moved on. Hi, Kelly. Oh

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Speaker 1: How you doing.

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Speaker 15: Hey, I'm okay.

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Speaker 1: I wanted some advice.

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Speaker 2: Oh, she's right into it, man, like she did. This

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Speaker 15: It is Yeah, we've been together for gosh six six

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Speaker 2: Okay, and so yeah, and you you witnessed something rather

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Speaker 2: what what did you see?

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Speaker 15: I had gotten home from work and I walked in

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Speaker 1: Was it phone? The phone?

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Speaker 15: Luckily it wasn't a projector, but it was his iPad,

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Speaker 15: Well, and that's why I was able to see it

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Speaker 15: I watched. There's nothing wrong with it. It was just

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Speaker 4: You can't compete with that, Okay, did you finish?

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Speaker 15: Well, I had said, like, what what is happening? And

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Speaker 14: do you use everything that you watch?

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Speaker 6: Are you actually going to try to do in real life?

444
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Speaker 1: No? No, ye gay?

445
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Speaker 8: You know.

446
00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:56,920
Speaker 15: Will And that's what he has said, like he flipped the.

447
00:18:56,880 --> 00:18:59,359
Speaker 1: Script something like.

448
00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:05,560
Speaker 15: Watch two women, So why like, what's wrong with me?

449
00:19:05,800 --> 00:19:08,239
Speaker 2: It's kind of a double standard, I will, I will say,

450
00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:09,840
Speaker 2: there is a double is it?

451
00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:12,080
Speaker 1: Everybody can be watching two girls and that's.

452
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Speaker 4: Not a lot of three women do say that they

453
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Speaker 4: watch that.

454
00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:17,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's no one's saying anything about that.

455
00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:18,040
Speaker 4: That's true.

456
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Speaker 2: But then you know a couple of dudes and now

457
00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:22,000
Speaker 2: all of a sudden, we you know, now we're questioning

458
00:19:22,040 --> 00:19:23,600
Speaker 2: someone's like true identity.

459
00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:25,800
Speaker 1: That is that is a good point that it is.

460
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Speaker 1: There's a double standard there.

461
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Speaker 4: Yeah it was her. We wouldn't be better. This man

462
00:19:28,800 --> 00:19:30,199
Speaker 4: would not be bating an eye at her, you know

463
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Speaker 4: what I mean.

464
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Speaker 16: They was like, it's another Tuesday at the house, but

465
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Speaker 16: because it's too men exactly bred.

466
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Speaker 8: Yeah right, But but I will say I don't like, yeah,

467
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Speaker 8: well we'll get to that, but like I don't I

468
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Speaker 8: don't mean, yeah, I'm trying to interrupt you, but I

469
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Speaker 8: I wouldn't say.

470
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Speaker 1: I have vast.

471
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Speaker 2: Conversations with my friends about what sort of content they like,

472
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Speaker 2: but none of them have shared with me that they

473
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Speaker 2: like watching two Men.

474
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Speaker 1: So I don't know if that's just like enough level.

475
00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:04,160
Speaker 2: Or if it's simply a double standard and I should

476
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Speaker 2: be able to watch that and no one should say

477
00:20:06,040 --> 00:20:07,760
Speaker 2: two things about it, like I don't know, I don't

478
00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:10,879
Speaker 2: know why that is so so he's just fantasizing you

479
00:20:10,960 --> 00:20:13,359
Speaker 2: have other concerns. Have you ever had any other reason

480
00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:17,320
Speaker 2: to question and try if you can to remove the

481
00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:19,919
Speaker 2: fact that you're now sort of influenced by what you

482
00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:22,760
Speaker 2: saw him watching. Have you ever had any concern otherwise?

483
00:20:22,880 --> 00:20:26,480
Speaker 2: Like without this never, I feel like sometimes something happens

484
00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:29,000
Speaker 2: and you're like, oh, I've been seeing the signs, but

485
00:20:29,160 --> 00:20:31,640
Speaker 2: maybe you're putting two things together that weren't already there.

486
00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:35,800
Speaker 2: So never, you've never and everything in your life intimately

487
00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:38,240
Speaker 2: has been sound and and.

488
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Speaker 6: All of that.

489
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Speaker 15: Yeah, and we're I mean, you know, again, we've been

490
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Speaker 15: together forever, but it's not like you know that is

491
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Speaker 15: an issue for us.

492
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Speaker 1: We are physical together.

493
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Speaker 15: You know, of course, now I'm over analyzing everything, like, oh, yeah,

494
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Speaker 15: a couple of months ago, when he said, oh my gosh,

495
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Speaker 15: that man is you know that he's like an Adonis,

496
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Speaker 15: and I thought, oh, about.

497
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Speaker 1: To jump him. I'd love to jump him. Intimately, I

498
00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:07,480
Speaker 1: love them up and that you know, now you're concerned about.

499
00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:11,359
Speaker 15: This, thinking yeah, of course, and then like, oh my gosh,

500
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Speaker 15: you know last week when we were intimate, was he

501
00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:16,080
Speaker 15: thinking about that Adonnas of the supermarket?

502
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Speaker 2: Like you know, if he's referring to other men as adonis,

503
00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:23,480
Speaker 2: maybe we yeah, yeah, maybe maybe we have more to

504
00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:26,560
Speaker 2: talk about here. Okay, I want to take some phone

505
00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:27,840
Speaker 2: calls to this. I want to see if other people

506
00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:30,959
Speaker 2: have to say eight five five three five. We'll surveyed

507
00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:33,080
Speaker 2: the room here as well. I appreciate you sharing this.

508
00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:35,000
Speaker 2: Have the radio on and let's see what people say.

509
00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:36,959
Speaker 2: Maybe other people can relate and have been through this.

510
00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:40,359
Speaker 15: Good luck, Kelly, thank you, I really appreciate it.

511
00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:44,920
Speaker 2: Got it so in short, this man that she's been

512
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Speaker 2: with for six and a half years, she walked in

513
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Speaker 2: on him consuming content uh of two gay of two men,

514
00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:58,359
Speaker 2: of two men enjoying one another's company a lot, and

515
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Speaker 2: and it's it's uncharacteristic. It's that what she thought he

516
00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:04,200
Speaker 2: was into. He's never expressed that before, And what I

517
00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:06,359
Speaker 2: was saying to her was I didn't want her to

518
00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:08,600
Speaker 2: jump to conclusions like I didn't want her to say, Well,

519
00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:11,639
Speaker 2: now that he did that, now I can connect the

520
00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:13,320
Speaker 2: dods to a bunch of other stuff. If he's really

521
00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:17,399
Speaker 2: calling other men adonis, then it's interesting. But here's the

522
00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:20,280
Speaker 2: other thing. It doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't value her.

523
00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:23,119
Speaker 2: It doesn't mean that he doesn't value what they do together.

524
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:26,600
Speaker 2: It's possible that the guy is by curious maybe, but

525
00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:29,439
Speaker 2: that doesn't that doesn't if the concern here is that

526
00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:34,199
Speaker 2: it's that his affection for her, or his life for her,

527
00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:37,040
Speaker 2: or their life together is fraudulent, I don't think it

528
00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:40,280
Speaker 2: necessarily says that. It doesn't have to mean that. It

529
00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:42,399
Speaker 2: could mean that he has some kind of fantasy that

530
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Speaker 2: he's not comfortable sharing because of this kind of speculation

531
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Speaker 2: or the double standard that we referred to earlier, or whatever,

532
00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:49,800
Speaker 2: But like I don't.

533
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Speaker 1: I you're right if I walked in on it.

534
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Speaker 2: If I'm dating a woman and I walked in she

535
00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:56,960
Speaker 2: was watching two women, I wouldn't necessarily assume that I'm

536
00:22:57,040 --> 00:23:01,439
Speaker 2: no longer you know, she's not into me, So I

537
00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:02,800
Speaker 2: don't know why it would be fair to do it

538
00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 2: the other way around. We all agree or or or

539
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:09,439
Speaker 2: or no.

540
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Speaker 16: Well, I just think sometimes like what we watch doesn't

541
00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:15,680
Speaker 16: really always equal like real life, especially like the Damsel

542
00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:17,720
Speaker 16: in Distress, Like, no, I will never like, you know,

543
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:19,680
Speaker 16: be like doing things with like the burglar that comes

544
00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:25,920
Speaker 16: in the house, right, Like that's.

545
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:34,200
Speaker 2: Good, sounds like something done many times, tim breaking in

546
00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 2: the house again, climbing through the window again, I'm here to.

547
00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:47,720
Speaker 4: Know, but like in the bedroom, yes, So like I

548
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Speaker 4: don't know.

549
00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:52,080
Speaker 16: I just feel like what I have questions absolutely like yeah,

550
00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:53,760
Speaker 16: why not? But at the same time, it's like I

551
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:55,600
Speaker 16: got to think back to like when you first discover

552
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:58,520
Speaker 16: this stuff and you're like exploring. It's like, did you

553
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Speaker 16: not like look into that, you know, when you first

554
00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:03,200
Speaker 16: discovered it? Do you know what I'm saying, Like maybe

555
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:05,800
Speaker 16: it's new to him or in the situation, new to her.

556
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 2: Boys, I'm just not certain that m hmm if her

557
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:13,560
Speaker 2: concern is that because why would you, Okay, why would

558
00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:16,280
Speaker 2: somebody worry about this? You'd worry because it's like, oh,

559
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:18,480
Speaker 2: he likes men, he doesn't like women. Well, I don't

560
00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:20,640
Speaker 2: think it necessarily means that it could mean he also

561
00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:23,760
Speaker 2: likes men, because apparently he likes her and she was

562
00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 2: none the wiser, and their intimate life has been sound

563
00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 2: until she saw this, and now she's second guessing it.

564
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:31,399
Speaker 2: So if that's her worry, then I don't necessarily think

565
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:36,080
Speaker 2: that she that that one leads to the other. Now, Jason,

566
00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:39,560
Speaker 2: you in a previous time in your life, Yeah, you

567
00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:42,199
Speaker 2: were with women and you did not necessarily like or

568
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 2: care for them, but you also did know, right, And

569
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 2: I don't mean to speak for you, but we've talked

570
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:48,919
Speaker 2: about this at length for a decade or longer. You

571
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 2: did know that that wasn't necessarily what you wanted to

572
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:54,639
Speaker 2: gravitate towards. You were kind of doing it to conform, right.

573
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:56,000
Speaker 6: Yeah, Yeah, I think it was.

574
00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 12: Yeah.

575
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Speaker 14: I think like you sort of set out and think

576
00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:01,080
Speaker 14: what you should do and what you should be in

577
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:03,720
Speaker 14: the world. But I mean, I definitely did care for

578
00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:07,200
Speaker 14: the women that I was with, and so there's a

579
00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:07,880
Speaker 14: world where.

580
00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:11,359
Speaker 2: He could maybe be with her because he's repressing what

581
00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:12,439
Speaker 2: he really wants to do.

582
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 14: People do that every single day. But I think to

583
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 14: jump to that conclusion just from this specific example is

584
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 14: a little much.

585
00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 2: Six and a half years would be with someone while

586
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:23,880
Speaker 2: you really want to do something else is a very

587
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:27,200
Speaker 2: long time. And then for her to not see any

588
00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:30,520
Speaker 2: sign or feel any sort of gap in the connection,

589
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:31,960
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, like if.

590
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Speaker 3: You'll do it all the time though people live secret

591
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:38,240
Speaker 3: lives relationship.

592
00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:43,520
Speaker 5: I guess life, Yeah, I guess Hey, Sarah, Yeah, Hey,

593
00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:45,520
Speaker 5: what do you think if you're just tuning in a

594
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 5: woman with a boyfriend of six and a half years,

595
00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 5: she walks in on him watching content that is not

596
00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:54,160
Speaker 5: necessarily what she brings to the table, and now she's

597
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 5: questioning everything.

598
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 10: I think she should still say. I think, you know,

599
00:25:59,520 --> 00:26:03,440
Speaker 10: it's somewhat normal for you know, people to watch that again,

600
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:07,320
Speaker 10: like you said, the double standard, and if you bisexual,

601
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 10: that still doesn't change you know how he feels about her.

602
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:16,359
Speaker 2: I mean I can just now I'll aver jokes like

603
00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 2: the George Michael posters all over the room is I mean,

604
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:25,880
Speaker 2: you know you might have I don't know. He loves

605
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:27,720
Speaker 2: to go to he loves to go to a village

606
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:30,680
Speaker 2: of people or whatever. The village people cover band shows.

607
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:32,840
Speaker 2: But you know what I mean, that's that's normal, isn't it.

608
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:38,479
Speaker 1: You know you have a steamworks all right?

609
00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:41,080
Speaker 2: All right, Sarah, So it's normal and and and so

610
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 2: she should stick with it.

611
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:46,160
Speaker 1: I think so, yeah, okay, fair enough, Thank you, Sarah.

612
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,520
Speaker 10: I have a good day, of course, Thanks you too.

613
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:55,040
Speaker 2: Glad you called. Hey, Josie. How you doing, Josie? So

614
00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:55,919
Speaker 2: you call the.

615
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:05,200
Speaker 1: Station? Look alive Josie radio? Stay all right now? Thank

616
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:07,159
Speaker 1: you for calling him for listening? What say you?

617
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:12,439
Speaker 11: I think she should stay okay? And I say that

618
00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:16,159
Speaker 11: because I feel like maybe there needs to be a

619
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 11: little bit more communication between them. I know it's been

620
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:23,720
Speaker 11: they've been together quite a long time, and like he

621
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 11: said it, you know, it is a fantasy that maybe

622
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 11: he was just a little bit embarrassed to like tell

623
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:35,680
Speaker 11: her about I kind of went through a similar situation

624
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 11: with my now fiance, except that my fiance in the

625
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:43,119
Speaker 11: past acted upon it. And we're still kind of working

626
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:46,640
Speaker 11: through that whole what what what the heck did you do?

627
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:48,760
Speaker 1: How did he acted upon it?

628
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:50,800
Speaker 2: Now? How did he did he act upon it before

629
00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:52,960
Speaker 2: he met you? Did he cheat on you with a man?

630
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:55,040
Speaker 2: Like when you say acted upon it and you work

631
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:56,200
Speaker 2: through it, like, what does that mean?

632
00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 11: So he before he met me and it was with

633
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 11: a transgender man who wanted to be a woman, and

634
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:12,000
Speaker 11: he knew this person before he met me, and then

635
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:19,439
Speaker 11: while we were dating, he acted upon it recently. So

636
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 11: we're still trying to work through that. And with our

637
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:25,200
Speaker 11: communication that we've been going through is that he told

638
00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:29,440
Speaker 11: me it was fantasy. Obviously, the typical lack of judgment.

639
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 11: I was being selfish, blah blah blah. So we're still

640
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:37,639
Speaker 11: trying to work through that. But I will never forget

641
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 11: because I live and die by the Golden Girls. And

642
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 11: one of the quotes in the show that Sophia says

643
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 11: is that if you could erase this one moment in

644
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 11: your entire relationship, is this the person that you still

645
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 11: want to be with? And my answer was, yet, we

646
00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:58,760
Speaker 11: are working. We are working through that, rebuilding that trust.

647
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 16: You know.

648
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:05,760
Speaker 11: Obviously everyone has their fantasies, everyone has their their likes.

649
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 11: But he does not really want to communicate his feelings

650
00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 11: because he feels embarrassed about the things that he likes

651
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:16,120
Speaker 11: in that aspect. But he has been more open about it,

652
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:19,600
Speaker 11: which I'm glad that he is more comfortable to talk

653
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:20,480
Speaker 11: to me about that.

654
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 1: Well, I think that's a good sign, right, That's good.

655
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:26,200
Speaker 2: Now you've opened the lines of communication You've made him

656
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 2: feel accepted, and so I think you're going to get

657
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:32,480
Speaker 2: the truth, as opposed to if you shunned him or

658
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:35,560
Speaker 2: you pretended like it never happened, then in the back

659
00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:37,880
Speaker 2: of your mind you'd always wonder, like, what's really going

660
00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:39,600
Speaker 2: on here? But I think you've done the right thing.

661
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:41,200
Speaker 2: You've said, this is a person I want to be with,

662
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Speaker 2: and I accept you for who you are. So let's

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Speaker 2: work through this and let's let's have an open dialogue.

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Speaker 2: I think I think that's the only.

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Speaker 11: Way exactly, and communication is key.

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Speaker 7: And you're right.

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Speaker 11: I didn't shun him because I feel like if I did,

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Speaker 11: then he would be a lot less, a more reluctant

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Speaker 11: to community date with me about sum Say, yeah.

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Speaker 2: I think you're right, Josie. I'm glad you called. I'm

671
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Speaker 2: glad that I yelled at you to talk to me

672
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Speaker 2: because this is a great You woke me up.

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Speaker 1: I love you. Have a good day.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. All these years later, man, Hey Amber, Hi, Amber,

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Speaker 2: good morning, there go go. Why oh, well, with my.

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Speaker 17: Opinion, if that was me and I was with a

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Speaker 17: man for over six years and you know, I randomly

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Speaker 17: saw him doing what he was doing the middle of

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Speaker 17: the night, morning, whatever time of day it was. I

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Speaker 17: would almost kind of be like offended, almost in shock,

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Speaker 17: especially if I didn't know that that was something that

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Speaker 17: he was into or exploring. I don't think I can

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Speaker 17: be with somebody that's even bisexual or has ever been

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Speaker 17: with a man ever. That's just, you know, not something

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Speaker 17: that I'm into. I'm completely heterosexual, and that's you know,

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Speaker 17: how I would want my boyfriend or husband or you know,

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Speaker 17: fiancee to be or whatever the case may be.

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Speaker 6: You know, six years is more than.

689
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Speaker 7: Half a decade.

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Speaker 17: That's you know, a pretty good chunk of time for

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Speaker 17: somebody that you've been with and they've never done this before.

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Speaker 17: You know, you never knew about this, So for it

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Speaker 17: to be like new information, you know, I don't think

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Speaker 17: it's worth.

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Speaker 1: Saying okay, fair enough, Hamberg, thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 2: I think the bottom line is that if she really

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Speaker 2: cares about this man and really wants to be with him,

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Speaker 2: and she can live with it, live with what she saw,

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Speaker 2: then the only way is to have a dialogue and

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Speaker 2: to make the guy feel like she's comfortable with him,

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Speaker 2: and maybe the end result is that we find out

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Speaker 2: that they're not supposed to be together. Or that, or

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Speaker 2: that he has been repressing something. But like again, you

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Speaker 2: can shun it and then he's never going to tell

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Speaker 2: you anything about anything and you're always going to wonder,

706
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Speaker 2: or you can have the conversation is I don't know

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Speaker 2: that there's another choice.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, seeing a man do that at all is a

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Speaker 9: little terrifying. So no matter what he's watching, you know,

710
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Speaker 9: how do you get that on your brain?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's something that we you never you never want.

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Speaker 9: You kind of you know, I would look with so

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Speaker 9: much shame, like if someone want to.

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Speaker 1: Know you never never want to get cut with myself.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I like it. I'd like to see it.

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Speaker 1: The act. You know what I'm playing you off now?

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Speaker 1: It's any neurotic I you