Speaker 1: Ya ya, yahya.
Speaker 2: All right, I'm not a money man. I'm not as
Speaker 2: you see.
Speaker 3: I want to say what's up, guys. Welcome back to
Speaker 3: Mom's Lass. I'm Erica and I'm Mela, and we have
Speaker 3: a special guest today. We have a new friend that
Speaker 3: we've hey, new friend and new guests.
Speaker 4: Welcome Van Lisenay, Poppy Clappy.
Speaker 3: You start the class.
Speaker 4: So she's very good with our special effects.
Speaker 3: We have multiple special effects. If you haven't listened, we.
Speaker 4: Have elevator music and we excuse ourselves when the kids
Speaker 4: start acting cray right. And we also have special effects
Speaker 4: for our hories. Second segment and it's like.
Speaker 3: Oh, we like actually made sex sounds. And then she says,
Speaker 3: Harry horror stories. It's so good, it's so good.
Speaker 1: This is so good.
Speaker 5: There's actually production value on this.
Speaker 4: Podcast, definitely. If you need any input on yours on
Speaker 4: the Red Pill, we.
Speaker 5: Just we just record that. Bitch.
Speaker 3: You're so lucky. Well, I don't actually.
Speaker 1: Enjoy doing this, do you enjoy?
Speaker 5: You don't enjoy like the post production?
Speaker 6: I mean I could do without it if I could
Speaker 6: do it, because.
Speaker 5: It adds to the overall podcast.
Speaker 3: I don't want to pay somebody to do it. We can't.
Speaker 1: Can't.
Speaker 3: We don't if we're not family.
Speaker 1: Podcast. I like my podcast just be conversation boom streamline
Speaker 1: though you know what I mean, But I get it.
Speaker 1: I listened to a lot of podcasts, and the ones
Speaker 1: that have some production value, I really appreciate it.
Speaker 3: I really like that word. I'm going to really start
Speaker 3: using that in their bio production, like my production value.
Speaker 6: Last episode, our production val. Last episode was the mediocre.
Speaker 6: We're having mic issues?
Speaker 5: Yeah, we've I liked the micce though.
Speaker 1: You guys were telling me about the mice that you
Speaker 1: got on this fifty bucks.
Speaker 3: We should we should do a podcast hall. We should
Speaker 3: like start a YouTube channel like how to podcast for cheap.
Speaker 4: How to podcast for dummies, because we just YouTube did it?
Speaker 5: How long have you ill been doing our podcast since February?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Professional, it's enough to have a YouTube channel.
Speaker 5: What made you guys start the podcast together?
Speaker 7: Uh?
Speaker 3: I just I met Tamila.
Speaker 4: I was like, no, we have been friends for like
Speaker 4: two years, Like we have her for like two years
Speaker 4: and then she broke up with her man like six months.
Speaker 3: Ago, and she's not six months ago.
Speaker 4: Well, when you approach when she asked me about it,
Speaker 4: She had just broken up with her man like six
Speaker 4: months ago, and I had probably been bitching about mind
Speaker 4: and telling her about my look at my new found singleness.
Speaker 3: And she's like no, she goes, She's like, do you
Speaker 3: wanted this podcast?
Speaker 4: I was thinking about, like maybe we could talk about
Speaker 4: like being single moms and dating and ship She's I
Speaker 4: was like, okay, sure, but she's like this guy I
Speaker 4: was on a date with said he was starting a podcast,
Speaker 4: and I was thinking, I don't want to do a
Speaker 4: podcast with you, but I will do my own.
Speaker 3: So now I'm asking you. I'm like, I forgot about
Speaker 3: that part of the thought. Now he hates me, but
Speaker 3: he still doesn't start a podcast, so you know, she
Speaker 3: would have been waiting forever.
Speaker 5: Oh, you're going to do a podcast with him?
Speaker 6: Yeah, he like wanted He asked me to be on
Speaker 6: his podcast that he wanted to start.
Speaker 3: We were like fucking around and that's why I didn't
Speaker 3: want to do it.
Speaker 5: I can't think of anything worse than doing the podcast.
Speaker 3: He wanted to me.
Speaker 5: Right, he went the podcast track that way, it didn't
Speaker 5: work out. He's like, yo, we got to sit together
Speaker 5: for the pododcast.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like podcast is that a thing podcast dripper.
Speaker 1: No, but I feel like that's when he was he
Speaker 1: was trying to start something new.
Speaker 3: Oh I know, I don't know. That's a good that's
Speaker 3: a good one.
Speaker 5: He tried it all the other trapping.
Speaker 4: I wonder if he secretly like, look such your posts
Speaker 4: and hate your guts.
Speaker 6: He actually reached out to me recently and I and
Speaker 6: it then led me to believe that maybe he didn't
Speaker 6: listen because I was like, you don't hate me.
Speaker 3: I talked ship about you so bad.
Speaker 4: No people hama, oh okay. So how I became new
Speaker 4: friends and got fan on the podcast is because we
Speaker 4: just decided to shoot our shot in His DMS was
Speaker 4: in a very classic professional DM.
Speaker 3: I'm like, Hi, how are you? We'd choose single moms with.
Speaker 5: The new pod, and I said I would do the podcast.
Speaker 8: He said he would do it, and then there he
Speaker 8: said I fucking dare.
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, he's cool.
Speaker 8: He's cool. So Eric was so when are you available?
Speaker 4: And then like she stopped, he stopped responding, and she's like,
Speaker 4: this is Eric's idea.
Speaker 3: I just want to what what you said. She's like, Oh,
Speaker 3: he's trying to play us.
Speaker 4: I just want to respond Jamie listen him a cute
Speaker 4: picture and then say, don't be a pussy.
Speaker 3: I was like, are you sure you don't think it's
Speaker 3: too aggressive? Like, no, he's cool. Just say don't be
Speaker 3: a pussy, so I said, And he's like, why would
Speaker 3: you talk to me like that?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 3: No, Eric, I don't think he really was.
Speaker 1: And I was like, damn, he is a pussy because
Speaker 1: like when I see messages like that, I automatically get
Speaker 1: the tone. And I started thinking, Oh, these motherfuckers want
Speaker 1: to play.
Speaker 6: Well okay, and I felt like you were that type
Speaker 6: of I felt like, just.
Speaker 1: Let's play like yo, let's let's put them on the
Speaker 1: defensive and see how they can react.
Speaker 5: Why would you talk to me like that? Man? I
Speaker 5: thought we were cool keeping these professionals.
Speaker 3: Oh, it's like when you did that, I was like, oh,
Speaker 3: I was like I called her. I'm like that was
Speaker 3: not a good access. She was blaming me. I was
Speaker 3: like her, I was like, just apologize. He goes.
Speaker 8: He goes, no, thank you, No, think I don't do
Speaker 8: it anymore.
Speaker 3: I was like fuck.
Speaker 9: Like.
Speaker 3: I was like, oh no, we ruined it.
Speaker 4: And then he put forty thousand fucking laughing, crying emoji
Speaker 4: faces and said just kidding.
Speaker 8: I was like, I'm so sorry. I was totally joking.
Speaker 4: The tom can be misconstrued on the DM.
Speaker 5: I'm like, nah, man, it's funny.
Speaker 1: But then I realized we do some of the same
Speaker 1: people and it was even more organic and now here
Speaker 1: I am Yeah he is.
Speaker 8: Good Mom's bad Choices. Yeah, band from the Red Pill.
Speaker 6: So because we are a fast friends band, I want
Speaker 6: to play a little game with you just to like
Speaker 6: get to you even faster and let our audience get
Speaker 6: to know you really quick.
Speaker 3: So that's My child has her Netflix film on.
Speaker 5: What does she watch? What do you put on for
Speaker 5: children to watch?
Speaker 4: I don't really let her do this often, so all
Speaker 4: my mages would surprised that, like two and three, they
Speaker 4: already have like their own fucking playlist, Like Luna has
Speaker 4: like an iTunes selection that she like songs.
Speaker 8: She only wants in the hair thing she only wants
Speaker 8: to watch.
Speaker 4: And it's pretty scary because YouTube is just like it's
Speaker 4: weird shit, and they can get to a weird shit easily,
Speaker 4: even if you put on cartoons.
Speaker 1: When I was like, I can't remember being that age
Speaker 1: so much. How old is three? Three?
Speaker 5: But I remember what I was watching at that age?
Speaker 1: What was it? The Dukes of Hazard with the Daisy
Speaker 1: does Daisy Duke. I can't believe you knew that like
Speaker 1: Dukes of Hazzard. I you ever watched the ship No Bad?
Speaker 3: I know it is. I know Daisy Dukes because it
Speaker 3: comes from Dukes.
Speaker 1: It has and it's like the reality is that it
Speaker 1: was some of the worsthit.
Speaker 5: I've been watching.
Speaker 3: I was looking at this. All this shit is low
Speaker 3: key sexual undertone.
Speaker 10: Disney has a lot of sexual undertones in their cartoons
Speaker 10: and it's super racist.
Speaker 3: I get mad every time I go Disneyland because there's like.
Speaker 4: Forty white princesses and one black princess and she was
Speaker 4: a frog.
Speaker 3: For the majority of them.
Speaker 5: Wor does that make you mad?
Speaker 9: Though?
Speaker 3: This annoys me.
Speaker 4: Because I know Las like loves the princesses, and it's
Speaker 4: just this fake.
Speaker 1: Ass to me. You know, it doesn't make because Disney
Speaker 1: is a bunch of white people. If they white people
Speaker 1: make princess and they're gonna make them white if we
Speaker 1: made our own process, how about this? Like, I like
Speaker 1: a couple of halloweens. Ago one of my homegirls, her
Speaker 1: daughter wanted to go as Elsa.
Speaker 5: I was like, that's why, Yeah, I would want to
Speaker 5: go Elsa, like make her go as doc mixed stuff.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like that I would not allow.
Speaker 6: I mean I would that all has to do with
Speaker 6: the images that you show your children, so all the time,
Speaker 6: which all the images I really showed her are black
Speaker 6: or brown.
Speaker 3: But which is hard because then they know she.
Speaker 6: She found Elsa through somebody else and then that that
Speaker 6: was the thing, and I was like, I.
Speaker 3: Have to know other things.
Speaker 6: But I was just like she idolized her for a minute,
Speaker 6: and I was just like I felt the type I
Speaker 6: couldn't help but feel the type of way about it.
Speaker 3: Me too, But I didn't like discourage. I didn't like
Speaker 3: discourage it, but like I was just like I noticed it,
Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Yeah, I was like, oh,
Speaker 3: this is not damaging, and then seated to make her
Speaker 3: read four hundreds.
Speaker 4: And then there's like a like a five dollar like
Speaker 4: Elsa braid. They sell a H and M and Lena
Speaker 4: we're in fucking hm. She insisted on my buying. I
Speaker 4: was like, what's that Elsa braid?
Speaker 3: It's just like a one long long like tie.
Speaker 1: Oh, then you can be for Adler.
Speaker 3: But you know, but you know what. Okay.
Speaker 4: So one time I had like a added like a
Speaker 4: braid on my hair, and Lina I had like some
Speaker 4: purple hair, so I put a purple on her, and
Speaker 4: my dad was like, so fucking ghetto blah blah blah, like, oh,
Speaker 4: she's three, what the fuck she don.
Speaker 3: Ghetto means like to give a little white girl had
Speaker 3: on a purple pony tail.
Speaker 1: You wontn't be saying ship, Like why do we project
Speaker 1: army's and stuff like that onto kids?
Speaker 5: Well, don't get any of you.
Speaker 3: It pissed me off. I was like, Dad, shut the
Speaker 3: fuck up.
Speaker 4: But then I found myself I bought the braid reluctantly
Speaker 4: because she went shut up, And then I was like
Speaker 4: annoyed that.
Speaker 3: She wouldn't fucking lose it.
Speaker 8: But I'm like, I can't. I can't be mad either way.
Speaker 4: Really, I just got so super pissed with my dad
Speaker 4: for saying some ghetto ship, and then here I am.
Speaker 3: I wasn't mad.
Speaker 4: I was just like you stund ignorant, like, well, I
Speaker 4: don't put your don't put your social norms on my child.
Speaker 4: That's you feel that way because someone taught you that
Speaker 4: a colored weave is ghetto on a black woman. But
Speaker 4: if these other bitches had one, it wouldn't be it
Speaker 4: wouldn't be you know, thought twice.
Speaker 5: Anyway, I gotta going already trigger.
Speaker 6: Sho oh, that's the name of this game, so really, yes,
Speaker 6: how funny you say that. So basically, I'm going to
Speaker 6: just name a bunch of things. Name the first thing
Speaker 6: that comes to mind. Try to keep it one word,
Speaker 6: be some, some require, maybe three. Okay, bring gonna do
Speaker 6: this quick, sure, got it LA for you? Afropunk, question mark.
Speaker 3: Lebron lebron necessary.
Speaker 6: Favorite color, black, worst, fear, heights, fronger, panties, Trump, b.
Speaker 1: T, underwhelming, Chick fil A, problematic.
Speaker 3: Little Wayne.
Speaker 6: God currently straight, Michelle Obama, grace Insecurity, necessary, Ambrose, fun, Harry, Pussy.
Speaker 7: Antiquated mm hmmm, popcorn.
Speaker 6: Corn marriage, society, classic surgery, each their own toes, useful.
Speaker 3: True period sex, adventure, anal sex.
Speaker 6: Mm hmm.
Speaker 11: Sometimes the pets here cook, Okay, you're taking too long, contemplated, No.
Speaker 5: There's an answer, but no pepsi.
Speaker 3: Okay, Louisiana home, Kanye West.
Speaker 5: Jens Kardashians, disposable.
Speaker 3: Uh, do you know what Corsta Thompson is.
Speaker 12: That white cel brads, disgusting.
Speaker 6: Breastfeeding, beautiful black black clansmen Okay, John McCain, zero, Jamila.
Speaker 3: Sexy strippers, O fun night hear dudas Nike, white.
Speaker 13: Women, White women are dangerous.
Speaker 3: Dangerous, Okay, okay, black women.
Speaker 6: Typical black China, Uh Amber.
Speaker 3: Rose Joe bidden voice, inspiration.
Speaker 5: Mm hmm like air?
Speaker 1: What like air? You breathe like?
Speaker 5: Inspiration is like it's like air?
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, I got it. Fly you shouldn't have gotten for.
Speaker 12: The h arrogance, prejudice, best rapper talk, celebrity crush, Rihanna Fortnite?
Speaker 1: What man you?
Speaker 6: Thank you man Crush, Ryan Gosslin, lover money.
Speaker 3: Oh man money, Roseanne or Paula Deane.
Speaker 1: Paula dream job?
Speaker 9: Uh?
Speaker 1: I I don't really have dr uh dream job President
Speaker 1: the United States. I don't no, like I have goals,
Speaker 1: but no president of the United States. Oh shit, would
Speaker 1: be a dream.
Speaker 5: I guess.
Speaker 4: Uh.
Speaker 3: This is Chris and Thompson. She's a Fox Sports reporter.
Speaker 5: Oh I know who that is.
Speaker 3: We read the caption under the second one, though. Wait,
Speaker 3: I'm not done. Are you still going back?
Speaker 1: Wait?
Speaker 3: I have a few more questions. Rockel or Lauren.
Speaker 9: Roquel Tyler, Perry boss single mom.
Speaker 5: Be careful, Damn Drake talented, so.
Speaker 1: Annoying?
Speaker 3: What makes you mad? Last time you had sex? Sunday
Speaker 3: Angela Ryan.
Speaker 5: Perfection, Don Lemon, the homie.
Speaker 3: Uh sub.
Speaker 12: Dumb the end mm so much closer to you now
Speaker 12: I know so much more about you?
Speaker 5: What more do you feel?
Speaker 4: Like?
Speaker 5: That game proved.
Speaker 3: You don't play Fortnite?
Speaker 1: I've never seen it, never heard.
Speaker 6: Oh my god, I saiden like, like you're my Like
Speaker 6: my respect meter went up?
Speaker 3: Do you have a dog?
Speaker 4: I have a theory about men with dogs over thirty five,
Speaker 4: which is childless men.
Speaker 6: Yeah, men they don't have kids get dogs because they
Speaker 6: want children, and they treat their dogs like their children,
Speaker 6: like like real actual humans.
Speaker 3: Because one time she was dating.
Speaker 6: It's not just no, no, it's even even on Tinder,
Speaker 6: because so many men have pictures of them with their
Speaker 6: fucking dogs. Yeah, why do I care about your dog?
Speaker 6: I think it's a show that they like are like
Speaker 6: nerd nothing or something. I don't I don't know, but
Speaker 6: I just noticed a lot of men over thirty to
Speaker 6: thirty four have dogs, have dogs.
Speaker 1: They get dogs that they treat them like babies, treat
Speaker 1: the dogs like babies.
Speaker 5: They get dogs.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, I mean doesn't everyone treat their dog like
Speaker 1: a baby?
Speaker 5: No, who doesn't treat their dog like a baby? A dog?
Speaker 4: And I used to, Yeah, me too, exactly, I had
Speaker 4: the dog for six years. That dog had to go
Speaker 4: get them to them out.
Speaker 1: Dogs. Anyway, Harvey has so the like, here's the thing
Speaker 1: about the coke and pepsi question. Coke and pepsi is
Speaker 1: it's an important life question.
Speaker 3: Why?
Speaker 1: Okay, let me tell you why it's important important life question.
Speaker 1: Coke and pepsi is proof that the question is always
Speaker 1: more important than the answer. In anything that you're doing,
Speaker 1: question is more important than the answer. Give you an example.
Speaker 1: Right in Europe some time ago, okay, they were trying
Speaker 1: to get more people in Europe to give blood. They
Speaker 1: were trying to get them to give or excuse me,
Speaker 1: not give blood, donate organs. Right, for some reason, across Europe,
Speaker 1: nobody was donating organs. I'm trying to get more people
Speaker 1: to do it. So different countries in Europe we're doing
Speaker 1: different things to try to get people to donate organs.
Speaker 5: One of the countries.
Speaker 1: The Netherlands and France, two countries that culturally like France
Speaker 1: was on the low end of or the donnership, the
Speaker 1: Netherlands was on the high end. Everybody in the Netherlands
Speaker 1: was doing it. These are two countries that culturally aren't
Speaker 1: that far off, you know what I mean. It's not
Speaker 1: like you have one country from a completely different hemisphere,
Speaker 1: completely different layers and completely different sensibilities in another country.
Speaker 1: So you have to understand, like why the why is
Speaker 1: the difference? What's the difference? The difference is the way
Speaker 1: they and France was actually working much harder to get
Speaker 1: people to donate organs. They were robo calling people, they
Speaker 1: were trying to do all those different things.
Speaker 5: The difference was in.
Speaker 1: The actual question how they were asking. Right when you
Speaker 1: would go into the DMV to get your license. In France,
Speaker 1: the question whether the question was if you want to
Speaker 1: donate organs, check this box, okay. The question in the
Speaker 1: Netherlands was if you don't want to donate organs, this box.
Speaker 1: So in that country it was implied that everyone wanted
Speaker 1: to do.
Speaker 5: It, right, So if you don't want to do it,
Speaker 5: check it.
Speaker 1: So the choice mass that you think that you have
Speaker 1: is really based upon the way that the question is asked.
Speaker 1: The reason why the coke and pepsi question matters is
Speaker 1: because I prefer pepsi, I rarely get a chance to
Speaker 1: drink it. I'm indoctrinated into coke because most places that
Speaker 1: you go they serve coked products. So whereas I like
Speaker 1: pepsi more, I can't think of the last.
Speaker 5: Time I actually had one.
Speaker 1: That's true. So your access to what it is that
Speaker 1: you want, like you're not going to leave a restaurant
Speaker 1: and go to another restaurant that has pepsi shit, Your
Speaker 1: access to what it is that you want has a
Speaker 1: lot less to do with what you actually want than
Speaker 1: what is available to So whereas when you asked me
Speaker 1: that question, I'm thinking, you know, I like pepsi a
Speaker 1: lot more, but I haven't had a pepsi in a
Speaker 1: long time because I really don't drink soda, right, So
Speaker 1: I wouldn't go into a seven eleven and actually buy
Speaker 1: a coke or a pepsi. But if I went out
Speaker 1: to eat and I'm like, yo, man, I'm gonna have
Speaker 1: a fucking so did today, I'm probably a place where
Speaker 1: they only offer coke.
Speaker 3: And just broke that down.
Speaker 1: That's what I do ask.
Speaker 3: That's delivery, that actually prefer coke.
Speaker 1: I like, man, you don't prefer I do is smoother,
Speaker 1: it tastes better.
Speaker 3: I don't know. I think maybe I'm I don't know
Speaker 3: if you just like being a contrarian.
Speaker 1: You just like saying you're one of those people short
Speaker 1: time I know that I've known you. That feels a lot.
Speaker 1: You like saying what you won't do?
Speaker 3: Is this true as saying no, I don't think so.
Speaker 3: I'm pretty open.
Speaker 5: I would agree really well. Of course you guys canna
Speaker 5: gang up against me. That that's a whole thing.
Speaker 3: I think that's the the perception that people think about
Speaker 3: me all.
Speaker 1: The time, not freconceived.
Speaker 5: I'm basing on the point, like the interactions.
Speaker 6: That we've had, Oh because I said, no, I know
Speaker 6: what I don't want to entertain.
Speaker 3: It's not that I get pleasure out of it. I
Speaker 3: just don't waste.
Speaker 6: Time, right, I get it, you know, Like I'm like,
Speaker 6: I know, I don't like that. I'm not going to
Speaker 6: fuck with it. But I'm open to trying shit too.
Speaker 6: But sort of shit, I just have no certain ship
Speaker 6: doesn't mean you tried.
Speaker 1: So there's a So what you're saying is is there's
Speaker 1: like there's big circles right, things that you know you
Speaker 1: don't want, things that you might that you're pretty sure
Speaker 1: you don't want. And then in this little sweet spot
Speaker 1: there's things that you'll try.
Speaker 3: She hasn't considered everything else, she hasn't considered exactly. Now
Speaker 3: she's open to try.
Speaker 4: Speaking of your preconceived did you have any like preconceived
Speaker 4: notions of how we're going to be versus how we
Speaker 4: really were?
Speaker 1: No, I don't. I don't like to really deal in
Speaker 1: preconceived notions because what I've learned about life is you're
Speaker 1: always surprised and you're always disappointed.
Speaker 5: So er expectations like your.
Speaker 1: It's best that you just kind of go into a
Speaker 1: situation and feel it out, because disappointment is the it's
Speaker 1: the like the worst thing that humans like have, like
Speaker 1: disappointment and regret. Yeah, keep yourself from that. I'm not
Speaker 1: setting expectations too or setting expectations at.
Speaker 3: All, which is hard, but it's the best.
Speaker 4: It's almost impossible, it's, yeah, because you immediately your mind
Speaker 4: goes places.
Speaker 5: You're socialized to set expectation.
Speaker 4: Yeah, judge and setting expectation is low key judging and
Speaker 4: trying to make it.
Speaker 3: You know, predeceased.
Speaker 1: The moment that you're born and put into the world,
Speaker 1: people start telling you what to expect. All right, this
Speaker 1: is what you're going to do. And then because you
Speaker 1: do this, this is what's going to happen. That's immediately,
Speaker 1: and then that's in the long term.
Speaker 5: So you're gonna do all of these things.
Speaker 1: So you start to get used to expectation all of
Speaker 1: the all of the time, and it kind of stops
Speaker 1: you from being in the moment.
Speaker 3: We're born and then we're domestic. We're never now.
Speaker 6: I mean, I mean, I struggle with the daily. I
Speaker 6: don't think anyone does it perfectly, except if you're Buddha
Speaker 6: or some.
Speaker 3: Shit, you know what I mean.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's the goal, but it's difficult in the world
Speaker 6: that we live in because of social media, because of
Speaker 6: just how we're conditioning. You're making that I am hurting
Speaker 6: with you doing that.
Speaker 5: I'm not hurting my head.
Speaker 3: He looked like it was is hurting himself in the head.
Speaker 5: For some reason, it's called this is a thinking.
Speaker 3: Oh oh is that what that is?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: I have to do something even though other than that,
Speaker 5: like be a pacing or do something.
Speaker 1: I'm thinking now engaged man you got this stimulating conversation.
Speaker 5: You have a you have a tattoo on your on
Speaker 5: your finger. What does that mean?
Speaker 6: It says push and this says play.
Speaker 1: What was that?
Speaker 3: What did that mean? You know? I never noticed, I
Speaker 3: mean like I noticed it, but.
Speaker 4: I've never thought I honestly think I've seen the same
Speaker 4: one and thinking it was the same tattoo.
Speaker 3: I didn't even know if there was realized there was.
Speaker 3: I forget through there. When I was nineteen, I got
Speaker 3: them because they're still there, and that's a really good
Speaker 3: finger and tattoo artists.
Speaker 6: I know, I used to do music, and so it
Speaker 6: was some playoff push play, but also.
Speaker 3: My nineteen year old solve this is kind of funny. Also,
Speaker 3: you know, to push hard, play hard. That's why I
Speaker 3: lived my life. That's how.
Speaker 1: I couldn't know.
Speaker 6: It was like a better lie about these because they
Speaker 6: could be like, what is this music? And I kind
Speaker 6: of like that answer, like I would say that you
Speaker 6: don't have any any embarrassing tattoos.
Speaker 1: Man, you know, it's crazy.
Speaker 3: You don't have any tattoos.
Speaker 5: No, zero tattoos.
Speaker 1: When I was when I was in the well, I
Speaker 1: was like a freshman in college. All my homies went
Speaker 1: out and they got tattoos. They did a bunch of
Speaker 1: different they died their hair or whatever. They got tattoos,
Speaker 1: and my boy Ryan came back. Shout out to Ryan
Speaker 1: daff report. He came back and he got a tiger
Speaker 1: ripping through his skin. And when I looked at that,
Speaker 1: I was like, that's so fucking stupid.
Speaker 8: Like I never it's a tiger inside me, y'all.
Speaker 1: And plus the reality is now that everybody's got tattooed.
Speaker 1: It's like.
Speaker 3: I tell people, if you don't have any at this point,
Speaker 3: don't do it.
Speaker 1: I have.
Speaker 3: I haven't gotten any, like ten years.
Speaker 5: Meire, how many tattoos?
Speaker 3: I have? Seven?
Speaker 5: Goddamn? How many you?
Speaker 1: What's your most risky tattoos?
Speaker 4: I was good.
Speaker 3: I mean, it's not risky, but it's it's cute. It's
Speaker 3: I'm not any parents. It's not difficult. It's a dragon.
Speaker 1: It's a dragon right there. It comes all the way down.
Speaker 1: When I first got to l A, I met a
Speaker 1: girl and I was hanging out with her and right
Speaker 1: right over her Foragina, the tattoos had trouble.
Speaker 3: Wait, I have I have my girls.
Speaker 6: Wait, my friend Jennifer, the one I went to, oh, yeah,
Speaker 6: no scrubs. Yeah, she's a white girl from Sweden. It's
Speaker 6: fucking amazing.
Speaker 4: My homegirl has a several very funny tattoos. Hi Amara
Speaker 4: that like we were French like year and I started
Speaker 4: looking at her. I'm like, bitch, what the fuck do
Speaker 4: you have on your body?
Speaker 3: Because are we even friends? What the fuck is over
Speaker 3: her koochie?
Speaker 4: She has a happy face that says only only God
Speaker 4: can judge me.
Speaker 3: But but what a happy faces?
Speaker 1: Very serious?
Speaker 4: Then on her ass she has a cow spitting out cash,
Speaker 4: and I was like, what the is that a cow?
Speaker 1: Wow?
Speaker 4: I was just like, she's bubbles the tattoo of some bubbles.
Speaker 3: And then she keeps wanting to get the death tarot
Speaker 3: card and I'm like, I don't know. I mean she
Speaker 3: might need it.
Speaker 4: She might need some of her new stuff, like her
Speaker 4: current self might need to die or some for her
Speaker 4: to grow.
Speaker 5: That's actually what the I like the cash cow.
Speaker 3: Like, if you had a tattoo or you got one,
Speaker 3: what would it be.
Speaker 5: I always thought that I would get like a compass.
Speaker 6: Wait, I was thinking about getting a compass recently.
Speaker 5: Like a map compass. I was always get like a
Speaker 5: map comps my last name is.
Speaker 6: I was going dead one in Spain because I felt like, yeah, travel,
Speaker 6: like I want to travel right now, I can find
Speaker 6: I can.
Speaker 3: I don't know what my reasoning was. It was deep,
Speaker 3: but I can't think better right now.
Speaker 8: I want some more. I went like a big piece.
Speaker 6: I go in and out of wanting it, so I
Speaker 6: don't get it because clearly I don't want that.
Speaker 5: What do you guys have scars? What are your best scars?
Speaker 7: Uh?
Speaker 3: C section scar?
Speaker 5: Really? Wow, that's what I'm.
Speaker 1: Talking about that.
Speaker 6: Yeah, they took my good side and laid them on
Speaker 6: the table, small human. I've seen the video. Yeah, they let.
Speaker 3: You videotape it. Yeah, they were like encouraging it. The
Speaker 3: CEA section. My doctor was like, make sure you get
Speaker 3: the camera ready.
Speaker 4: That's so good because let me tell you, guys, doctors
Speaker 4: are so fucking shitty these days that even in natural
Speaker 4: bursts and hospitals, a lot.
Speaker 3: Of hospitals, they don't want to be liable.
Speaker 4: They don't want to be liable if shit goes wrong
Speaker 4: and you kept them on camera doing some shit that's
Speaker 4: not medically aligned. So that goes to show, bitch, you're
Speaker 4: doing something wrong if you're not scared that you wouldn't
Speaker 4: people want to cover their fucking birth.
Speaker 3: I could have done. I mean it was cool to see.
Speaker 3: But I love my birth video. I'm so into childbirth though,
Speaker 3: me and literally watch home birth.
Speaker 5: I'm so into childbirth.
Speaker 8: I'm I'm amazed by it.
Speaker 3: I want to be a doula.
Speaker 4: Like, I think it's the most powerful, Like, it's the
Speaker 4: most powerful thing you can witness. It's literally the like
Speaker 4: the gateway from the heavens to Earth. You're witnessing like
Speaker 4: a time portal be born. It's the coolest shit.
Speaker 5: Ever, you know what I'm into.
Speaker 1: I'm into the way childbirth is obviously awesome.
Speaker 5: When I'm into like.
Speaker 1: Talk to like women that have given birth, I'm like, so,
Speaker 1: why is did your breast start to make? And they go, well,
Speaker 1: because I was pregnant, So I'll go, you mean telling
Speaker 1: me that you got pregnant and the rest of your
Speaker 1: body just knew it was time to fucking make something. Yeah,
Speaker 1: insane to me.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 4: You know, like like talks to the baby, So if
Speaker 4: the baby gets sick, the saliva communicates with your and
Speaker 4: it will like up something or down.
Speaker 1: Like, can you guys understand how wild that is? Leak.
Speaker 3: When your baby's crying, or any baby.
Speaker 8: You could be in the store and you can hear
Speaker 8: a baby crying, your tits will start to.
Speaker 3: Like that's wow, it is. It's pretty wizardous. You need
Speaker 3: to I need to send you some Instagram.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I'm so adding.
Speaker 3: I don't even with you.
Speaker 1: I don't like because the reality is that it freaks
Speaker 1: me out and made me look at you.
Speaker 3: Well, I want to talk to you. Remember that video,
Speaker 3: just sad the video I sent him of the girls.
Speaker 5: Disgusting of the stomach.
Speaker 3: I don't know what. Okay, Well, do you want kids?
Speaker 3: Eventually eventually comes from a big family. Okay, so what
Speaker 3: about it? Are you?
Speaker 4: Are you afraid you're going to be traumatized from the
Speaker 4: pussy for life if you actually waitness it more often?
Speaker 5: This is this is what I'm afraid of.
Speaker 1: There's there's things that like I try to over overstand things,
Speaker 1: like I try to really delve into stuff and get
Speaker 1: a good grasp of it. But you just cannot understand
Speaker 1: the female body and the intricacies and all of that stuff.
Speaker 4: But do you think it's because it's not normalized and
Speaker 4: and like an enlightened fashion that all the images you've
Speaker 4: seen thus far are primarily like women screaming in the hospital.
Speaker 3: You look sick, you look like you're demented. Like maybe
Speaker 3: you'd have to see.
Speaker 4: More like uncentered real home birth, like birth period to
Speaker 4: see like the hypno births.
Speaker 3: You can go into the trend like there's woman who
Speaker 3: like orgasm and laughed during during the child or.
Speaker 5: I already know. I don't want no part of that.
Speaker 1: I already know.
Speaker 4: Bitch, send him all the videos, like, stop sending me
Speaker 4: this ship.
Speaker 3: Wait, listen, listen the last I sent.
Speaker 4: I sent this guy like, so, do you have a
Speaker 4: preference when you have a baby, do you want to
Speaker 4: have a home birth or hospital birth?
Speaker 8: That this is something you've never thought about until right now.
Speaker 5: I just want the baby to come out with all
Speaker 5: his fingers and to right Okay.
Speaker 3: So, I like, most people are scared of it.
Speaker 4: They don't like it's unfamiliar, especially men, because it's not
Speaker 4: really normalized.
Speaker 3: So I kept sending him videos. I kept sending him videos.
Speaker 3: He was like, like, I could tell he wasn't really
Speaker 3: looking at him responding.
Speaker 4: I sent him this one, really good one that I'm
Speaker 4: going to send you right after this, and you'd one
Speaker 4: that he dis messaged me.
Speaker 3: That was so beautiful. I cried breakthrough.
Speaker 4: I felt like I had like taken over one person, like, yes,
Speaker 4: one person down.
Speaker 1: That I'm going to delete the threat. No, listen, I'll
Speaker 1: be honest with you. I'm Another thing about me is
Speaker 1: that being from the South and be like I'm squeamish.
Speaker 3: No, here's the thing I think. No, no, no, listen,
Speaker 3: are very squeamish. But you like grew up on a farm.
Speaker 3: I'm sure the analysts burst and you have witnessed it.
Speaker 1: I saw it sometimes, so that didn't make you money.
Speaker 6: Once you find whoever is that you're just gonna have
Speaker 6: your baby and you go through a pregnancy with her,
Speaker 6: your perspective is going to change.
Speaker 3: Most definitely because it's going to be your child.
Speaker 6: You're gonna want to be right there, you coolish ship
Speaker 6: that you're gonna see your fucking child come out of
Speaker 6: this woman.
Speaker 3: I might pass out still, but I.
Speaker 1: Think I do think that birth, and I think that
Speaker 1: birth is a beautiful thing. I think that, like, seriously,
Speaker 1: I'm marvel at women's ability. Like we have a couple
Speaker 1: of girls in the office right now that are pregnant
Speaker 1: and I just marvel at their ability to go through this,
Speaker 1: like there's stuff growing inside of them and eating off
Speaker 1: them and all of that stuff like that, and like
Speaker 1: so it's just it's interesting. But I'm telling you, if
Speaker 1: men have to do it, there would be no people.
Speaker 3: Yeah, the population problem.
Speaker 5: How does that feel?
Speaker 1: As women?
Speaker 5: How does it feel? How does it feel to know that?
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously biology plays into it, and we don't
Speaker 1: have to so we can't. But how does it feel
Speaker 1: to know that you do something that is so obviously necessary.
Speaker 1: I'm not just talking about getting pregnant. I'm talking about, uh,
Speaker 1: carrying the child, like uh, nurturing the child, feeding the child,
Speaker 1: even the relationship between mother and child.
Speaker 5: Those same men are going to come into society and
Speaker 5: then shit on women.
Speaker 3: Oh not my son.
Speaker 1: Not not saying that, not saying that, not saying that
Speaker 1: those kids will do that. But I'm just saying, how
Speaker 1: does it feel to be so necessary and then.
Speaker 10: So marginalized you're saying just kids in general, just talking
Speaker 10: about society in general.
Speaker 4: I feel underrated as fuck, like very underrated, like very
Speaker 4: like not acknowledged to the level of levels at all.
Speaker 1: I when you think about it, women should really be
Speaker 1: and I'm not really not trying to gash out because
Speaker 1: it's a thing. I'm really not when you think about it,
Speaker 1: women should be exalted.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean with a patriarch society. And that's not
Speaker 8: for no reason.
Speaker 4: It's because the power that we have is great. I mean,
Speaker 4: just like in any other situation, you gotta look at it.
Speaker 4: When something is scary and powerful, they're going to always
Speaker 4: downplay it. They're going to always make it feel small
Speaker 4: than what it is, like so many other things.
Speaker 3: That you know of.
Speaker 1: Also, managers like very straightforward, like we're very like men,
Speaker 1: like I had a like growing up, I was given
Speaker 1: There was no complexity to the message that was given
Speaker 1: to me.
Speaker 5: You know what I mean, very very straight to the point.
Speaker 1: This is what's expected of you if you like, this
Speaker 1: is what you have to do to make something out
Speaker 1: of your life. It's very boom boom boom boom boom
Speaker 1: boom boom. You have to be this way, you have
Speaker 1: to be that way, you have to be this way,
Speaker 1: you have to be that way. And the man's goal,
Speaker 1: at least my goal was to find the complexity in life.
Speaker 1: It was to find it was like to understand that
Speaker 1: like it's dope to just.
Speaker 5: Stop and like look at a butterfly.
Speaker 1: Or like it's dope to just kind of take in
Speaker 1: life and not be so focused on things. I feel
Speaker 1: like inherently women have a different view of that, and
Speaker 1: they sometimes have to find the fact that it's okay
Speaker 1: to be focused and it's ok to be incredibly goal
Speaker 1: oriented and go, yo, I need time for myself and
Speaker 1: I gotta do this.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, there's social standards that we're conditioned to
Speaker 4: be like particular.
Speaker 5: Way, so I being conditioned.
Speaker 4: Man, I'm trying every day, But there's Instagram.
Speaker 3: I think I go through a range of emotions. I
Speaker 3: go through being angry.
Speaker 6: Then I go through feeling really empowered because I know
Speaker 6: that women are the shit, and I feel like, you know,
Speaker 6: you have to feel empowered in that, you know, or
Speaker 6: else you're just always gonna feel like shit, you know
Speaker 6: what I mean? And then you get mad again, like
Speaker 6: the dumb shit happens, and it goes. It's like a
Speaker 6: range of emotions. But I think women.
Speaker 3: I think women are stronger than ever right now.
Speaker 1: That's very true, I think. And by the way I
Speaker 1: think women are, I think women are stronger than everyone.
Speaker 1: I think that other societies where women have been empowered.
Speaker 1: And I'm not just talking about from leadership standpoints, we're
Speaker 1: talking about financially.
Speaker 5: There's a great documentary on it that shows.
Speaker 1: How the US is actually lagging behind other nations in
Speaker 1: all different aspects. Because people that can hear the sound
Speaker 1: of my voice, I know that you guys think that
Speaker 1: America is like number one and everything.
Speaker 5: It's like, that's not true. The reality is.
Speaker 1: That America is incredibly wealthy and has the most fear
Speaker 1: military machine in the history of mankind. And really outside
Speaker 1: of those things, like, there are not too many other
Speaker 1: things we can say that we are the best at,
Speaker 1: but there are other countries that are thriving, and those
Speaker 1: countries have empowered women, not just like in the financial sector,
Speaker 1: in the political sector, and we're lagging behind because there's
Speaker 1: non diversity of voices here.
Speaker 14: I mean, America, we're black, you aren't gonna tell us no,
Speaker 14: but just women in general, Yeah, not even just black
Speaker 14: women for sure.
Speaker 3: But yeah, what was I gonna.
Speaker 5: Ask you then?
Speaker 4: And told you we shouldn't get high us every day
Speaker 4: every time we do this.
Speaker 3: Damn we shouldn't got hot.
Speaker 6: Oh wait, what did you say for single mom? You
Speaker 6: said something when we asked them different difficult. Yeah, so
Speaker 6: what what you know, because you're the first male we've
Speaker 6: had on well, actually we had a couple our last episode,
Speaker 6: but it's totally different.
Speaker 3: You're a single black male. Are you single?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 3: Not single? Not single black male. But you're not married
Speaker 3: and you don't have any kids.
Speaker 6: Okay, and but you've been single like for the most part,
Speaker 6: like right, or you've been in a relationship for long?
Speaker 3: How long have you been in this relationship?
Speaker 9: Oh?
Speaker 5: Wow?
Speaker 3: Oh interesting?
Speaker 6: Like over a year?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Anyway, so I just want to know, like, what is
Speaker 6: your perspective on Obviously it's you've had a difficult time
Speaker 6: dating single mother before.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but so you actually so you would prefer to
Speaker 3: not date one?
Speaker 9: Right?
Speaker 3: Or do you avoid them? Is your girlfriend now? Mom? No? Okay?
Speaker 1: Uh, what's the question?
Speaker 3: Do you do you what is your experience?
Speaker 5: I've had two experiences and they were both horrible.
Speaker 3: I had to experiences baby daddy drama or one of
Speaker 3: them was.
Speaker 15: Severe baby daddy oh damn, and the other one was
Speaker 15: like one of them was severe baby dady drama and
Speaker 15: the other one was like severe baby like kid drama.
Speaker 3: What do you mean the on the kid dam was
Speaker 3: like a bad kid didn't like you.
Speaker 1: Okay, So here's the thing one of the relationships, Like
Speaker 1: I think I did something wrong, and but this is
Speaker 1: what I did wrong. It's like I like kids, right,
Speaker 1: so I like to like play with kids. I like
Speaker 1: to talk to kids. Kids are fun. They're learning so
Speaker 1: fast that it's like it makes me super happy because
Speaker 1: like a kid doesn't know ship one day, like literally
Speaker 1: one day they don't know ship, and then the next
Speaker 1: time you talk to them, I'm like, yo, how can
Speaker 1: you you know?
Speaker 5: Words? Like where are you getting all of this? And so.
Speaker 1: Uh, I started talking to her son almost immediately.
Speaker 5: And then this little nigg would not leave me alone
Speaker 5: like he would like, he.
Speaker 1: Would not he.
Speaker 5: Would not leave me alone.
Speaker 1: And then what happened was when they started going bad
Speaker 1: between us, she sort of used him to.
Speaker 3: Try to keep you, try to.
Speaker 1: Like you know what I'm saying. She sort she sort
Speaker 1: of used him to kind of do that, and that
Speaker 1: just ended up back. She'd be like, yo, listen, I
Speaker 1: know you're not coming over here to see me because
Speaker 1: you're just out here doing whatever you're doing.
Speaker 5: But Jamal would really like if you no.
Speaker 3: No, that's your.
Speaker 1: Jamal would really like you just came over.
Speaker 3: Here, you're you're not right, or she would.
Speaker 5: Be like, yo, this game is messing up. He doesn't
Speaker 5: know how to fix it.
Speaker 1: And then it would be weird because I would come
Speaker 1: over there like well, did you have love for this kid?
Speaker 3: Or was he really annoying?
Speaker 1: Man?
Speaker 8: The relationship south because she was overbearing?
Speaker 5: Yeah, because like and then because there was there was
Speaker 5: one specific time. There was one specific time to where
Speaker 5: I never get this.
Speaker 1: It was no specific time. It's maybe like I don't know,
Speaker 1: oh five or something like that. There's one specific time.
Speaker 1: So it's like, uh, it's like, yo, I'm coming over.
Speaker 1: She's like, just come over.
Speaker 6: But you were young man too five. I mean it's
Speaker 6: not like a grown man now man.
Speaker 3: I know.
Speaker 1: She's like she's like, come over, like I'm about to
Speaker 1: I'm about to go to sleep, Like come over here
Speaker 1: before I go to sleep, tipe me up real quick.
Speaker 5: I'm like cool, So I come over there. I get over.
Speaker 1: So I get over there, right, she's already sleep, and
Speaker 1: so I'm like, yo, what do I do? Cause it's
Speaker 1: like I don't want to wake her up, you know whatever,
Speaker 1: but whatever. But as soon as I get into the house.
Speaker 1: He comes this live man, and so what I said,
Speaker 1: you know what I'll do, like I'll play games with
Speaker 1: him until he goes to sleep.
Speaker 5: Then I'll wake her off and won't see whatever. Whatever.
Speaker 5: There's no games. You can't tell a kid.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 1: He really know me to the point to where that was.
Speaker 1: And then the next time I had somebodies he was
Speaker 1: he knew what was going. But my MoMA is that.
Speaker 3: You know, like stay.
Speaker 1: He would always say stuff because I'll always be all
Speaker 1: about his grades, and he'd be like.
Speaker 3: Oh, so now you're gonna be my daddy.
Speaker 5: Be like, mister Van, just.
Speaker 1: Let you know.
Speaker 5: I got an in conduct.
Speaker 3: And then I couldn't help but like love right because
Speaker 3: he cared it.
Speaker 1: And then the next time somebody's baby daddy actually cut
Speaker 1: my car off.
Speaker 5: I got out of the car and me this nigga fought.
Speaker 1: At home.
Speaker 5: This was back home.
Speaker 6: After that where you're like no more so you're so
Speaker 6: your dating experience with women who have children was when
Speaker 6: we were much younger.
Speaker 5: Than Yeah, it was a lot younger, and you've never.
Speaker 6: You've never dated like a woman the child as like
Speaker 6: a thirty five year old man. So because of the
Speaker 6: because of those experience, they've trauma ties you and you've
Speaker 6: gone about your You've you've tried not to that, right.
Speaker 3: No, it's just how it happens.
Speaker 5: Nah, I mean to be honest with you.
Speaker 1: No, But what I do realize is this though, What
Speaker 1: I do realize is that if you're going to if
Speaker 1: you're going to date someone that has children, then you
Speaker 1: have to be more engaged and you have to take
Speaker 1: into consideration more people's feelings than just one, and you
Speaker 1: have to consider you have to consider this is the
Speaker 1: most important thing when you're in a when you're meeting
Speaker 1: someone and you're trying to establish a relationship with them,
Speaker 1: any type of relationship, Like if you're trying to establish
Speaker 1: a friendship, if you're being friends with somebody, Right, you
Speaker 1: meet somebody you want to be their friend. You don't
Speaker 1: consider other people who are their friends. You consider your
Speaker 1: friendship with them. You don't really consider any other relationship
Speaker 1: that they have. Right when you're dating someone that has
Speaker 1: a kid, you automatically have to consider another super important relationship.
Speaker 6: Well, I think also you go through a whole well hopefully,
Speaker 6: I mean, at least in my case, in my dating life,
Speaker 6: I definitely don't I'm not going to be introducing my
Speaker 6: kid to someone else, to someone i'm dating for a
Speaker 6: while until I know for sure this is something that
Speaker 6: I want to do, This is something I know he wants.
Speaker 5: To do, So it doesn't matter whether do something or not,
Speaker 5: though he's gonna have to.
Speaker 14: Understand that by that point, you've already realized that you
Speaker 14: know what I'm willing to, you know, consider someone else
Speaker 14: also because I'm so into you or I want to,
Speaker 14: you know, explore this on a deeper level.
Speaker 3: So I think it's.
Speaker 1: Also hard for y'alla for people with kids to understand that,
Speaker 1: Like we don't love y'all kids.
Speaker 3: No, it's not. I'll be like, do you want to
Speaker 3: sign up for this?
Speaker 5: She's annoying?
Speaker 3: This is annoying, Like I do it.
Speaker 1: Even when I run. I'm running at Echo Park this morning,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I'm gonna run.
Speaker 5: Over these woes.
Speaker 3: At some point, you better love my kid. Yeah, together,
Speaker 3: I only know you really like, really fuck with bitch.
Speaker 4: I mean, you know, if you really fuck with woman,
Speaker 4: and you will find yourself really loving that kid and
Speaker 4: tall reading it as if it's your own. Because that's
Speaker 4: the defining line. Because if they still get your fucking nerves.
Speaker 4: I mean, kids are annoying, but you know there's a level,
Speaker 4: there's levels. If you can if you see yourself like
Speaker 4: I love you so much and I want to be
Speaker 4: with you, I can see us still starting a family
Speaker 4: in regards to the fact that you already have a
Speaker 4: small child, and I'm actually like this person too, then
Speaker 4: you know it's it's real.
Speaker 3: Let's be wrong.
Speaker 6: Most of them people with kids are y'all, so we
Speaker 6: would have to be We would have to do that
Speaker 6: anyway too. So I just feel like men like you
Speaker 6: have to like be open to both sides because not
Speaker 6: now times out of ten, but nine times out of ten,
Speaker 6: women are the ones that are entering into relationships with
Speaker 6: with like without you.
Speaker 4: But he's a hot commodity, he's not, so he's probably.
Speaker 1: The reality is that women are much are normally much
Speaker 1: more tethered to their.
Speaker 6: Children than do you think that it is too much
Speaker 6: to ask if a woman would need you to love
Speaker 6: their kid, if you all were gonna get married and
Speaker 6: start a life together, be in a relationship dating I
Speaker 6: understand that like dating, that's something different.
Speaker 5: And that's too much to ask.
Speaker 1: What I think is that it to be honest with you,
Speaker 1: if you're going to start a life with some woman
Speaker 1: and marry her and be with her, then there are
Speaker 1: a bunch of even if she didn't have kids, there
Speaker 1: are a bunch of aspects into her life that you
Speaker 1: would have to heavily.
Speaker 3: Invest into relationship.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and so there are a bunch of different things
Speaker 1: that you and hopefully if you're going to marry a
Speaker 1: woman and have that type of life long bond with her,
Speaker 1: you would want.
Speaker 5: You wouldn't be grudgingly love her kids.
Speaker 1: You would want to start a relationship with that kid
Speaker 1: in order to have a family and to build a family.
Speaker 5: That's what you want to do.
Speaker 4: Do you find yourself as you get older still dating younger,
Speaker 4: younger and younger women.
Speaker 3: No, I couldn't date a young guy. I can't date
Speaker 3: anyone younger than I'm obviously.
Speaker 4: Guy older than me only fifteen in man years, So
Speaker 4: like if you date a young guy, it's like ten.
Speaker 7: In man years.
Speaker 1: No, you know, you know. And by the way, like
Speaker 1: a lot of these issues they were talking about, these
Speaker 1: are la issues, man, What do you mean?
Speaker 11: Like it?
Speaker 5: Like it?
Speaker 1: Like it.
Speaker 5: I'm from a smaller.
Speaker 3: Place where everybody got kids by twenty five.
Speaker 1: No, Like when I was back home in Louisiana this
Speaker 1: past time, I was I'm looking at this group of children,
Speaker 1: and I was in every hospital room when they were
Speaker 1: all born. Right, they're old. Like when I say old,
Speaker 1: I'm like, my nephew side comes in there, he goes, oh, uncle, man,
Speaker 1: come in here.
Speaker 6: Man.
Speaker 1: I'm like, how old are you again? It's like I'm seventeen.
Speaker 1: I'm like, damn, these kids are old. And so in
Speaker 1: Louisiana they get older, all of them. They're starting on
Speaker 1: their third kids announce with you. It's getting to the
Speaker 1: point to where the kids could actually have kids. So
Speaker 1: where I'm from, it didn't like I was the only
Speaker 1: guy who made the decision to plan out my future.
Speaker 1: I was the only guy that said this is what
Speaker 1: I wanted. Everybody else just fell into Somebody fell into
Speaker 1: a family, fell into all of these things.
Speaker 4: And you think in La like that's less likely because
Speaker 4: people are like hustling, there's more and what like, well,
Speaker 4: I mean a.
Speaker 1: Couple of number one, a lot of transplants here. So
Speaker 1: number one, it's because there's so many transplants, it's less likely.
Speaker 5: That you left the child to come here.
Speaker 1: Some did, But but it's less likely that you left
Speaker 1: the child to come here. And then number two, with
Speaker 1: the amount of things that that people like, people are
Speaker 1: always so on guard here. I just think that there's
Speaker 1: a less chance of it just going down. Like my
Speaker 1: homies just I can't understand what happened. It just start
Speaker 1: spitting out.
Speaker 5: Kids should be like to get married. Some of them
Speaker 5: got married.
Speaker 1: I mean eventually you're saying your homies here or your
Speaker 1: homies my homies back home. They just like we got
Speaker 1: to a point and everybody's like, yo, Brush, you're pregnant.
Speaker 3: Brush pregnant.
Speaker 5: But what made us stopped pulling out?
Speaker 3: Like getting all the education, a lot of things was
Speaker 3: a lot of fact we used to pull out.
Speaker 1: I asked, like I really was very I'm like, can
Speaker 1: I ask why this is happening?
Speaker 3: Maybe they wanted to start family.
Speaker 1: I think they did.
Speaker 3: Was getting tired. I don't know.
Speaker 1: It's just like what what what made it? What made
Speaker 1: them stop? Because like we up to twenty two twenty three.
Speaker 3: Nobody wanted that was your biggest fear.
Speaker 5: It wasn't my biggest fear. It's just something.
Speaker 1: I also remember I was huge at this point, so
Speaker 1: it wasn't like I was smashing the whole fucking campus.
Speaker 3: So like I was, how big were you?
Speaker 5: Like three sixty?
Speaker 3: Did you play football?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 5: I did, but that's not why.
Speaker 3: So how long did you live all the way?
Speaker 7: Oh?
Speaker 5: I see, maybe like two thousand and seven?
Speaker 3: Okay, what was that like around.
Speaker 4: The time I moved to lay Was in LA that
Speaker 4: motivated your health?
Speaker 3: To kid?
Speaker 1: No, I think that because La is a.
Speaker 3: Very shallow place if anybody's ever.
Speaker 5: Been here, No, I don't think it was La.
Speaker 1: I think that for me when I made a decision, well,
Speaker 1: when I made a decision that I was really gonna
Speaker 1: like go forward in life, there's this vision of me
Speaker 1: that I have, right, this vision of me that I
Speaker 1: look and still this guy that I see and I
Speaker 1: haven't attained it.
Speaker 5: I can see him, like I really can't.
Speaker 1: I can see what he's doing, I can see his mindset,
Speaker 1: I can see how he deals with people, and I'm
Speaker 1: like chasing him in a way.
Speaker 5: And so that's like your future self.
Speaker 1: Yeah you know what I mean.
Speaker 5: So like I came here and I I lost one
Speaker 5: hundred and thirty pounds.
Speaker 4: Other than like your physical transformation, how would you say
Speaker 4: LA has changed you?
Speaker 3: Because Louisiana to LA.
Speaker 4: Well did you move straight from Louisian to LA after
Speaker 4: the hurricane? How do you How do you feel like
Speaker 4: you think you've got in Hollywood and any of your friends,
Speaker 4: because like Hollywood, I've seen translants come to Hollywood.
Speaker 3: Well they're usually the most Hollywood ones.
Speaker 4: And now they're on three thousand, Like, look here, motherfucker,
Speaker 4: you need to calm down.
Speaker 3: I know there are depictings of what.
Speaker 4: They think is Hollywood, so it's elaborated. So how do
Speaker 4: you think Hollywood has affected you?
Speaker 5: I think it's affected me.
Speaker 1: The first thing he did was expand the scope of
Speaker 1: my brain is how much I thought was out there.
Speaker 5: As far as me becoming Hollywood, Like I'm not even.
Speaker 1: Skilled enough in life to be Hollywood, and like, to
Speaker 1: be Hollywood, you have to there's a certain set of
Speaker 1: skills that that takes.
Speaker 3: You think you would be.
Speaker 6: Able to identify if you were Hollywoo, because most of
Speaker 6: other people wouldn't say're on Hollywood?
Speaker 1: Maybe not, but well maybe not. But what I would
Speaker 1: say is what I view as being Hollywood. I could
Speaker 1: never be because I'm just not that good.
Speaker 3: And what is the definition for you?
Speaker 1: Like seamlessly navigating social situations, dressing up, having a car
Speaker 1: that like, like, I make a really good salary, but
Speaker 1: you would never know by the Cross Tour right because
Speaker 1: I got the trust dependable Honda Cross Tour up here.
Speaker 5: I just can't bring myself. I just can't do it.
Speaker 1: I can't, like, I can't bring myself to Every single
Speaker 1: stitch of the clothes I'm.
Speaker 5: Wearing right now is gifted to me.
Speaker 3: Here's another one.
Speaker 1: So, but I think like being Hollywood, like, I think
Speaker 1: that it takes effort. But for the people that are Hollywood,
Speaker 1: that's what they like. Like they like being out like
Speaker 1: all the time. They like, uh, going to meetings that
Speaker 1: have no results. Everybody's eating somewhere but like nothing ever happened,
Speaker 1: like no deals ever.
Speaker 5: Actually, let's have drinks.
Speaker 1: Let's talk about it.
Speaker 4: Yo.
Speaker 3: It's like, is anybody working really?
Speaker 1: Man? People hit me up like like people like, man,
Speaker 1: come over here, man, it's so much going on.
Speaker 5: Let's have drinks to talk about what and nothing?
Speaker 3: Ever? And then you become Hollywood for doing that. You're
Speaker 3: not Hollywood. That's how they perceive you.
Speaker 1: Man, What you got? If I'm a drive across town,
Speaker 1: you want to talk to me about something. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I got something for you. You send me the deck, send
Speaker 1: me that.
Speaker 6: Most of the broke is not doing ship people are
Speaker 6: the most Hollywood ones, you know.
Speaker 8: We text them like, Hi, hand do you want to
Speaker 8: We're going to take you to dinner.
Speaker 3: He's like, what do you guys want to talk about?
Speaker 3: Because what do you ladies want to talk about?
Speaker 1: I'm like, he's the reality is we don't have. The
Speaker 1: reality is if you need me to come through the
Speaker 1: podcast or if you want to, we don't have to
Speaker 1: go to dinner to do that.
Speaker 5: I know, I know, I get it, and but like,
Speaker 5: but my.
Speaker 1: Thing is, like we all of this ship like when
Speaker 1: you MIMMO to anyone.
Speaker 5: Like I don't, I'm not. You don't have to be
Speaker 5: my friend in order for me to do business with you.
Speaker 1: So if you need.
Speaker 3: Something from me, tell.
Speaker 1: Me what you need from me, Like, don't could like
Speaker 1: when you you hit me up in the d MS,
Speaker 1: don't hit me up with no hard eyes.
Speaker 5: So you can get on TMC say yo, I want
Speaker 5: to be on TM.
Speaker 3: And I respect to the point.
Speaker 5: And then I will send a camera to you because
Speaker 5: I don't give a funk about that.
Speaker 3: So it gives me a celebrity.
Speaker 5: You could definitely be onto you.
Speaker 1: I can definitely like, oh, I could definitely be on
Speaker 1: you know you know how people you know I put
Speaker 1: like my next door.
Speaker 3: Neighbors on you about to see us on there.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just saying, but it's just like, if you
Speaker 1: that's what you want, don't flirt with me, don't be like, man,
Speaker 1: I really appreciate you to Kanye nah dog what you
Speaker 1: want because I don't really have because there are things
Speaker 1: that I actually.
Speaker 5: Want to do and I have such I have so
Speaker 5: little time to do them. Let's just talk. I will
Speaker 5: build with you.
Speaker 1: I'm not to a point to where I'm not listening
Speaker 1: to ideas to where I'm not well, I'm turning people.
Speaker 5: Down like yeo, I'm too busy for this man, Like,
Speaker 5: I will build with you.
Speaker 1: Just be real with it.
Speaker 6: Do you ever get how do you like separate yourself
Speaker 6: from like constantly having to know what's going on all
Speaker 6: the time, right, because you're kind of.
Speaker 3: What you mean, you work for like a like a CMC.
Speaker 6: Like you always social, you know, it's very social. You
Speaker 6: are always in the know of other people's lives.
Speaker 3: How do you separate yourself? How do you take a
Speaker 3: break from that ship.
Speaker 5: I don't. I mean that was second acture to me,
Speaker 5: so like it.
Speaker 1: There are a lot of things that I don't have
Speaker 1: any knowledge of, but my I think one thing is
Speaker 1: that in my twenties, when I was a little bit
Speaker 1: more to myself, my sphere of knowledge grew because being
Speaker 1: so introverted meant that I would just.
Speaker 5: Look at stuff. I would just consume.
Speaker 6: For there was a but you were an introvert, you
Speaker 6: seem like an extra You seem like an introvert, extrovert,
Speaker 6: but super introverted.
Speaker 11: Like I was.
Speaker 1: Like there was a long period of time while I
Speaker 1: was just in a room consuming writing, I would I
Speaker 1: would get information from the computer, put it in my
Speaker 1: head and then download it into what I was writing
Speaker 1: and just consume it and consume it and consume it
Speaker 1: and consume it.
Speaker 5: Film, music, pop culture, all of it.
Speaker 1: And so by the time I got to TMZ, which
Speaker 1: it was providence and a lotaways and I got there.
Speaker 1: By the time I got to TMZ, I could regurgitate
Speaker 1: this knowledge in many different forms. And so now habitually
Speaker 1: I do that. Now I don't watch all of these
Speaker 1: dumb shows like I don't watch all of this, this, this,
Speaker 1: this this stuff. But like habitually, I just search, like
Speaker 1: when I'm when I'm watching something on TV, I normally
Speaker 1: do it like with an iPad, everyone does, right, And
Speaker 1: so for sure, like when I'm with an iPad and
Speaker 1: I see stuff or I see I'm just google stuff
Speaker 1: to gain knowledge from it.
Speaker 5: But it's just it's like a habit. Long eight years.
Speaker 3: What were you doing before that?
Speaker 5: I was running my own block.
Speaker 1: I was writing for four or five different publications, and
Speaker 1: then before that, I was a producer. I had a
Speaker 1: place called Capricorn Programs. We made like smaller shows.
Speaker 3: Is it all like social like social based or like?
Speaker 1: I sold the screenplayer or option to one and that
Speaker 1: got me out to l A and then I got
Speaker 1: a job with uh Capricorn so I could stay here.
Speaker 1: And then that company went belly up for whatever reason,
Speaker 1: still kind of don't know. But and after that I
Speaker 1: started writing for fan Sided, I started writing for I
Speaker 1: wrote my own blog, which got picked up by Fox Sports,
Speaker 1: and then I wrote for flick Sided, and I wrote
Speaker 1: for rat Pages and I.
Speaker 5: Just wrote everywhere.
Speaker 3: What's the bog? I got picked up by Fox Sports.
Speaker 5: It's called the Sickle Master.
Speaker 3: And that's still up on Fox Gone. That was all
Speaker 3: sports space.
Speaker 1: It was sports satire. So I wrote about anything that
Speaker 1: I wanted to.
Speaker 3: Write about but just kind of had loose.
Speaker 5: But it didn't really even have to be about sports.
Speaker 5: I had there.
Speaker 1: I used to write blogs when I first got to
Speaker 1: l A, I blocked everything that I first that I
Speaker 1: first did. I blogged like homeless guy came up to
Speaker 1: me and he had great shoes on.
Speaker 3: He just wrote about it, wrote about it. So you're
Speaker 3: a writer. I mean I didn't even realize that.
Speaker 6: And then also you are screenplay writer, So you want
Speaker 6: to create film? And is that your is that your
Speaker 6: ultimately not ultimately one of your ultimate goals in.
Speaker 1: Life is to say that's the endgame? It okay, So.
Speaker 3: To just be a screenwriter director of being working film.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the endgame. Well, the I guess the real
Speaker 1: end game is to create content, content scripted and unscripted
Speaker 1: that sort of.
Speaker 5: Like pushes people forward. Like I was telling you guys
Speaker 5: about my mother.
Speaker 1: Before, right, So the story about my mom and kind
Speaker 1: of where she is in life right now, it's so
Speaker 1: typical that I can't understand why anyone is it's discussing
Speaker 1: it and so you can make a you can make film,
Speaker 1: and you can make art that empowers people in a way.
Speaker 5: I'll give you an example.
Speaker 1: And like, I'm a kid, right talking about my mother,
Speaker 1: the most important person in my life.
Speaker 5: I'm a kid. It's nineteen eighty nine, nineteen ninety.
Speaker 1: I'm watching Do the Right Thing, fantastic, beautiful, affecting, powerful movie.
Speaker 1: I'm watching Do the Right Thing, and I'm into it
Speaker 1: like it's one of the first movies with adult themes,
Speaker 1: and I am it's I'm getting it. I'm getting the anger,
Speaker 1: I'm getting the sort of the angst that everyone's going
Speaker 1: through in the back and forth. And my mother is
Speaker 1: really enjoying this, right, She's like she's looking at this
Speaker 1: and she's going wow, Like it's not this isn't he
Speaker 1: Man based.
Speaker 5: It's not Superman based. It's not even comedy.
Speaker 1: Because we had watched Trading Places and all those, it's
Speaker 1: easy to laugh. She's like, he's getting this, he's understanding it,
Speaker 1: she says. Now she's watching it with me, And you know,
Speaker 1: I'm sure there are other reasons why she's watching it.
Speaker 5: Because it's titt Is in the movie and whatnot.
Speaker 6: And.
Speaker 3: With the blindfall lives.
Speaker 5: Yeah, now she didn't.
Speaker 1: I was like, look Rose, And so my mother looks
Speaker 1: at me and she goes, she goes, you see Mookie
Speaker 1: Spike Lee's character and I'm like yeah. She's like, just
Speaker 1: let you know, MOOKI wrote and directed the movie. And
Speaker 1: I'm like, what does that mean? And she goes, well,
Speaker 1: he made it all up in his head, and then
Speaker 1: when they were making the movie, he stands there and
Speaker 1: tells everybody what to do. And my response to my
Speaker 1: mother was they let black people do that. And she went,
Speaker 1: I never forget this. She was so taken the back.
Speaker 1: She goes, yeah, baby, you can do whatever you want
Speaker 1: to do. And I was like, oh, I never knew that.
Speaker 1: It was foreign to me.
Speaker 3: To think about it in those terms, that.
Speaker 1: That was something that a black dude could do so
Speaker 1: and it shouldn't have been, but for whatever reason, it
Speaker 1: was what I was from, Like where I was from
Speaker 1: at that point, anybody that was in an authority figure
Speaker 1: was a white guy. And so for me, I'm looking
Speaker 1: at that and that movie changed my perspective of not filmmaking,
Speaker 1: but of life. And so film and art has the
Speaker 1: capability to do that if it's weaponized properly, and so
Speaker 1: that's kind of like what I like to do, what I.
Speaker 5: Would like to do.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree.
Speaker 4: I think it's inspir you know, and I think you know,
Speaker 4: and now that you say that story, I've always really
Speaker 4: really like Spike Lee Joints because my dad I watched
Speaker 4: Crooklynd like seventy five times as a child, but as.
Speaker 3: A young girl, but as an adult, like, this is
Speaker 3: really sad. I don't even know why. Yeah, I like
Speaker 3: she hate me too.
Speaker 4: I like also, but I I remember thinking like, oh,
Speaker 4: that's oh he wrote this movie. My dad's blain me that,
Speaker 4: and like oh that's his sister. Yeah, and it would
Speaker 4: be like obviously it's so pro black, So like naturally
Speaker 4: you become attached to it because there's like you're picking
Speaker 4: hair and there's like things you can relate to.
Speaker 3: But I think you.
Speaker 4: Putting in that perspective that probably was a lot of
Speaker 4: why I enjoyed it so much, because it was like
Speaker 4: inspiration and it's like, oh.
Speaker 3: You could do this shit too.
Speaker 1: And also we don't have to be like it, don't
Speaker 1: We don't have to have sidral movies where it's like
Speaker 1: message like one thing that black people we're complicated like
Speaker 1: people pero, we're complicated. It's not always gonna make sense.
Speaker 1: It means sometimes it's gonna be ratchet, sometimes it's gonna
Speaker 1: be No, it's true.
Speaker 6: But it's like I think, I think what you said that,
Speaker 6: you know, you can't believe anybody.
Speaker 3: No one's made this film.
Speaker 6: It's because that film has probably been made with white people.
Speaker 6: It's just we don't see the different stories that of
Speaker 6: like being black in the black perspective and realize that
Speaker 6: a lot of I means, we're all humans at the
Speaker 6: end of the day.
Speaker 3: Yes, we have different experiences.
Speaker 6: Because of the color of us again, especially in America,
Speaker 6: but I feel like we're just now starting to see, like,
Speaker 6: for example, to show like Insecure, you see like a
Speaker 6: regular white I mean black woman's white black woman in
Speaker 6: her early thirties, late.
Speaker 3: Twenties, and it's so simple.
Speaker 6: It's not really but it's like it's just about there's
Speaker 6: one girl's life, like can relate to it, you know,
Speaker 6: so and.
Speaker 4: The ship like this, the everyday stuper shit in the
Speaker 4: corporate world in the office, like stupid shit white people
Speaker 4: say to you, and you're like.
Speaker 3: Another day, you know, But that's it. That's why right now.
Speaker 6: Such an exciting time, you know, to watching film and
Speaker 6: watching TV because you're starting to see experimental black shows.
Speaker 6: Most people weren't really, I mean there are, like there's
Speaker 6: shows of their experiments.
Speaker 3: Now what do we just watch? And we got high
Speaker 3: before we watched it.
Speaker 5: I love that. That's crazy this morning for him and
Speaker 5: I had never seen it. I'm like, Yo, why haven't
Speaker 5: I watched it? It's us And I watched.
Speaker 1: The show and I was like.
Speaker 3: I love that guy going crazy. It was fantastic because
Speaker 3: we don't see it.
Speaker 4: We see ourselves this way, that way, but rarely do
Speaker 4: we have this like artistic expression of all these things
Speaker 4: that it's embodying, this creative place.
Speaker 3: I'm letting your mind go free. And I have to
Speaker 3: tell it like one I mean is it was an
Speaker 3: adults threat through.
Speaker 6: It has a threat all the way through, but it's
Speaker 6: just like, did you watch the first the first one?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I watch to like the first one. The first one
Speaker 1: is great, but the first one they spent a lot
Speaker 1: of time on that character. We did the Reaper and
Speaker 1: that's a scary.
Speaker 3: Ass so scary.
Speaker 4: Like we got high and I was like, should we
Speaker 4: have gotten high?
Speaker 1: Like they like in this last episode, they did a
Speaker 1: little stuff thing were her but like all of that
Speaker 1: talk about like that's it.
Speaker 5: That was freaking me the fun too.
Speaker 4: I was trying to interpret it in like an artistic way,
Speaker 4: but I'm like, this is kind of creeping me out.
Speaker 4: And then I kept thinking, this is a thirty minute show.
Speaker 4: How long have we been on this segment.
Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot of time with her, but you know
Speaker 3: it's just gonna set it's setting it up for something.
Speaker 1: Well, in the last episode they I don't know if
Speaker 1: you guys saw the last episode. In the last episode
Speaker 1: they went they delved into it a little bit deeper, but.
Speaker 3: It does puty wing because it's so weird.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but there was such a funny scene and it's.
Speaker 3: All a grainy.
Speaker 4: It looks like like the early seventies or some shit like.
Speaker 1: Something. And this is another reason we're talking about life.
Speaker 1: So in the last episode of the show, the girl
Speaker 1: was going to the police office the police station to
Speaker 1: talk to you know, to report sexual assault. And when
Speaker 1: she was there, this is something that we don't talk
Speaker 1: about a lot. When she was there, she met a
Speaker 1: friend of hers that she knew, and the guy was
Speaker 1: there because his girlfriend was making him come there so
Speaker 1: he could report a sexual assault that happened to him
Speaker 1: when he was a kid. And he said something that
Speaker 1: I've heard from so many of my homeboys. I know
Speaker 1: so many guys that when they were nine, ten, eleven
Speaker 1: years old that had like an older black lady or
Speaker 1: an older.
Speaker 5: Lady in their community touched them around.
Speaker 1: I know, and like they'll be like and even him,
Speaker 1: he's like, you know, because you know, this was how
Speaker 1: it was I supposed to learn. This was before that
Speaker 1: whole Netflix and Chill movement. And you could see in
Speaker 1: his face he believed as hell that he was. He
Speaker 1: was kind of getting worked up about it. But I
Speaker 1: know so many tudes that like, I'm like, homie, you
Speaker 1: were molested.
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is a traumatic experience that probably has like
Speaker 4: affected you with greatly as an adult and how you
Speaker 4: love and how you interact, and they don't even register
Speaker 4: it as such.
Speaker 3: I always asked, man, how you relatched your virginity?
Speaker 4: Wasn't an older woman and breach, like, do you feel
Speaker 4: like that was like inappropriate?
Speaker 3: It's always a baby answer those questions.
Speaker 5: Was seventeen?
Speaker 3: She was not.
Speaker 5: She was the same age.
Speaker 1: And it was weird because I went from not having
Speaker 1: hardly any sexual experiences to everything just coming at the
Speaker 1: same time, and.
Speaker 5: You know it was crazy.
Speaker 1: Well, the first time I tried to have sex with
Speaker 1: this different girl, I couldn't get it.
Speaker 5: Couldn't get it, wouldn't happen. I remember hearing it. She
Speaker 5: even would come off in Oh god, I had liked
Speaker 5: me for a long nervous.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: We were in a car at Olympia Stadium, Baton Rouge.
Speaker 5: This is nineteen ninety seven, where like we're in a car.
Speaker 1: And like, at first I was such a jokester that
Speaker 1: at first I had tried to kiss her and she
Speaker 1: was like, get off me. And then then she then
Speaker 1: she told me later, she's like, what if he was
Speaker 1: really trying to kiss me? So then I and she
Speaker 1: had very experienced. I rolled over right now on top
Speaker 1: of her, and I just.
Speaker 5: I was thin.
Speaker 1: I was standing like, and she's like, and it just
Speaker 1: didn't work. And it's just it didn't It wasn't gonna happen.
Speaker 5: I was too nervous to work.
Speaker 3: Did that make for a long time? How did that
Speaker 3: make you feel?
Speaker 1: Did you feel like, well, the first thing I want
Speaker 1: to do is I did not want that to get
Speaker 1: around campus I did not want that to get around campus.
Speaker 1: But she really liked me, so she she wasn't as
Speaker 1: a matter of fact. At that same time, I like,
Speaker 1: right after that, I started talking to a girl who
Speaker 1: was like her friend, and she was like, please listen,
Speaker 1: I know that you guys been going back and forth
Speaker 1: for a long time. Don't tell her anything about what
Speaker 1: happened between us and just whatever.
Speaker 5: And then for some reason.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, it was fun. It was not flying.
Speaker 1: I can't remember. Actually I do remember, yet we had sex.
Speaker 1: It was in my nineteen eighty eighty four tours. And
Speaker 1: then it lasted for a while. Now, the first we
Speaker 1: were actually in the bed together. It didn't last at all.
Speaker 1: That was that, but me and that girls so much sex.
Speaker 3: Did you learn a lot from your first sex? How
Speaker 3: did you learn how to get pussy?
Speaker 5: She told me.
Speaker 1: I remember, It's like I was down there sticking my
Speaker 1: tongue in the hole, and then she was, and then
Speaker 1: she was like, she was like, uh, you know, there's
Speaker 1: like a little piece of skin. I don't forget this moment.
Speaker 1: This is exactly what she said. She said, and that
Speaker 1: this woman went to Harvard and she's a doctor. Now
Speaker 1: she goes she goes, you know, there's a little piece
Speaker 1: of skin like above, and I was like, oh, show me,
Speaker 1: and then she was like yeah, yeah, but I had
Speaker 1: to teach her how to too, so it was like
Speaker 1: and so then it was like and then after that,
Speaker 1: I was on that motherfucker like I was.
Speaker 3: So you weren't like getting suffer from the black man
Speaker 3: syndrome where.
Speaker 1: I was obsessed with every aspect of sex from the
Speaker 1: jump like I was. I was obsessed from the jump
Speaker 1: every aspect of sex, and like the more. Then she
Speaker 1: came to college with me, and then we didn't have
Speaker 1: to like sneak.
Speaker 4: Like a whole new world was freedom, like ridiculous at
Speaker 4: that point.
Speaker 3: How old were you when you had was she black?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 3: When was your first white girl experience white woman experience?
Speaker 5: Oh no, actually it was before.
Speaker 3: And what do you do? It was like, there's a
Speaker 3: difference in sex.
Speaker 6: I mean, I know it's a stupid question, but like
Speaker 6: some people would say there is, and some people are like, no,
Speaker 6: of course, not a body's a body.
Speaker 3: You know what I mean?
Speaker 1: So difference there's not a difference in a sex. Sex
Speaker 1: from an anatomical standpoint, there sometimes can be a difference.
Speaker 3: In mindset and mindset for you or for her, I mean, period.
Speaker 1: And this is what I say. And by the way,
Speaker 1: this is not I'm trying not to generalize. I'm talking
Speaker 1: about my experience. It like like freedom is a weird thing.
Speaker 1: Freedom colors everything in your life.
Speaker 5: Right, So.
Speaker 1: The more free you are, a lot of times, the
Speaker 1: more adventurous, the more experimentational you are a lot of
Speaker 1: different ways because you don't really care when people think
Speaker 1: of you, because their thoughts of you have much less
Speaker 1: social weight.
Speaker 5: A lot of sisters, at least in the past.
Speaker 1: I'm speaking in the past when I was really doing
Speaker 1: my thing to a heavy level. A lot of sisters
Speaker 1: they cannot the social weight of you dragging their name
Speaker 1: through the mud is it's it's such a they're so
Speaker 1: afraid of that that they can be who they want
Speaker 1: to be.
Speaker 8: Danny, and you talk about this on your last podcast.
Speaker 3: I think I saw this about.
Speaker 4: And I was thinking, I was thinking long and hard
Speaker 4: about that, like being as black women or women of color,
Speaker 4: do you feel like less open and less able to
Speaker 4: be like sexually expressive, openly like like versus like a
Speaker 4: white woman.
Speaker 1: And Okay, I think those things are changing now, but
Speaker 1: I think I think then, uh it was, and you've.
Speaker 6: Experienced that firsthand, like your sex versus sex with a
Speaker 6: black woman versus a white woman had much more free
Speaker 6: or experiences with white women.
Speaker 1: Well then for sure, like it was like it was
Speaker 1: like there was like nothing that there's no there's nothing
Speaker 1: that a white girl would do that would make her
Speaker 1: a whore.
Speaker 5: Like at that point there was a point. I mean,
Speaker 5: I'm serious there they.
Speaker 10: Weren't necessarily no no, no, no, no, no no in her mind.
Speaker 3: I don't think that's true either.
Speaker 5: I'm telling you right now that with some of the ones.
Speaker 6: That there have been white women that there's definitely I
Speaker 6: have white friends and like, oh my god, that was
Speaker 6: I feel like a whore.
Speaker 3: I'm a whore. I think three guys in the same day, Like,
Speaker 3: but guess what.
Speaker 5: They did it? You see what I'm saying, Like like
Speaker 5: they but guess what.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying. They don't tell you. I think that
Speaker 1: that might be true. But what I'm saying is the
Speaker 1: ship they wasn't doing it for me. But what I'm
Speaker 1: saying is they did it though they might they might
Speaker 1: feel that way, but they didn't, And so for me,
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that in any way.
Speaker 5: By the way, I'm not saying in any way that
Speaker 5: there is any type of.
Speaker 6: Thing I don't disagree with you. Let me say that
Speaker 6: I don't necessarily disagree with you. But I also think
Speaker 6: that there's two.
Speaker 3: Sides of that.
Speaker 1: There is one thing is I would always this is
Speaker 1: something I never understood.
Speaker 5: Like brothers would come down hard heavy. We had these.
Speaker 1: Girls as Southern they would call dick sucking crew, right,
Speaker 1: these girls were, these girls were my friends.
Speaker 10: Self identify, self identify that it was called to them,
Speaker 10: and then they embraced like, yeah, like these these were
Speaker 10: my girls, these were my friends, these were these girls
Speaker 10: were like one of the girls I.
Speaker 5: Did, yeah, like and it was and it was, And
Speaker 5: it was a weird thing because I remember.
Speaker 3: Well, also is your crew black and my crew?
Speaker 1: But my crew wasn't the ones calling on this because
Speaker 1: they were our friends.
Speaker 5: It was the rest of the guys around.
Speaker 6: Sometimes I even feel like white women will hyper sexualize
Speaker 6: themselves for black men.
Speaker 3: They don't feel like that's what black men want.
Speaker 1: Also, also they're savvy because they've heard these criticisms, So
Speaker 1: they've heard this stuff.
Speaker 5: This stuff gets put out there, they've heard this stuff.
Speaker 1: Also, by the way, there is less consequences that Like,
Speaker 1: I know, a dude we went to we.
Speaker 5: Went to to to spring break. He saw a girl
Speaker 5: in a wet.
Speaker 1: T shirt contest spring break, titties everywhere, ass twerking. They're married, Like, like,
Speaker 1: you are fucking crazy, and we're gonna go to Galveston
Speaker 1: and you're gonna marry one of the chicks in the
Speaker 1: tour contests.
Speaker 5: My niggas would never do that.
Speaker 3: Ever.
Speaker 5: I remember they were hanging out.
Speaker 1: We were all together where they were hanging out, and
Speaker 1: about the third day they were hanging out, one of
Speaker 1: my homeboys was like, hey, yo, you.
Speaker 5: Like this this show all in Mexico, you know, And
Speaker 5: he's like, dude, don't fucking talk about it like that.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. And they dated for all
Speaker 1: through college and then they got married and then now
Speaker 1: it's a funny story. Now it's like Dan, now we
Speaker 1: all hang out. It's like, Dan, you want to tell
Speaker 1: tell everybody like where we met.
Speaker 8: And I'll be like, well, I think that's true.
Speaker 3: There's like, you know, she's just a party crazy.
Speaker 1: So the thing is, there was nothing, there was no
Speaker 1: social ratifications for her getting up there and having a
Speaker 1: good time, but it admitt nothing like she would go
Speaker 1: up there and show uten and still have a great
Speaker 1: family and still have like that stuff like that and
Speaker 1: not be black. Yeah, so of course, if you didn't
Speaker 1: feel like there were any any consequences, you would live
Speaker 1: your best life, as you know. And I feel like
Speaker 1: sometimes uh sisters don't have that that that luxury.
Speaker 3: No, they don't.
Speaker 6: So for that reason, you identified the word white woman
Speaker 6: is dangerous.
Speaker 3: I get it.
Speaker 1: It's not really that I that identified the world white
Speaker 1: woman is dangerous. The reason why, No, the reason why
Speaker 1: I identified them it's dangerous is because they're all dangerous
Speaker 1: in multiple ways.
Speaker 3: Did you see yourself marrying a white woman? Would your
Speaker 3: family be accepting? But you don't.
Speaker 4: Why wouldn't you see yourself married white woman?
Speaker 5: That's not the reason. Why is just because because you
Speaker 5: know why.
Speaker 4: I asked you know how many black guy friends I like,
Speaker 4: I say, like, I want to know, how, how can
Speaker 4: you feel really deeply understood?
Speaker 3: And they're like it doesn't matter.
Speaker 4: And I think it's weird, Like if I mean, I'm
Speaker 4: not saying that someone outside of my race can't really
Speaker 4: understand me, but there are things we experience socially like
Speaker 4: that like other races just genuinely do not understand that
Speaker 4: you've never experienced it. So I think it's like it's
Speaker 4: not weird, but it's obstacle.
Speaker 1: I get it. For me, it's just that, like I
Speaker 1: you know, I have a lot of white people that
Speaker 1: did with on a day to day basis friends, close friends,
Speaker 1: and they all annoy me to some degree. It's not
Speaker 1: even in a bad way. It's just like, man, get
Speaker 1: out of here, bro.
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm happy in a minute it because it's
Speaker 3: me too.
Speaker 1: I'm like cool as hell, like my people, love everyone.
Speaker 1: I'm one of the most well life people in the
Speaker 1: team's office. But it's like, get out of here, man.
Speaker 8: I want to hear.
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. It's like plus and plus.
Speaker 1: I will say this, this is just a vision of
Speaker 1: my family that I have, and it's not me and
Speaker 1: a bunch of little beige motherfuckers like watching I'm saying.
Speaker 1: It's not you know what I'm saying, It's not.
Speaker 4: Said watching American idols. White people love Americans.
Speaker 1: It's not just me. That's just like not, that's not
Speaker 1: the vision of my family that I have. I see
Speaker 1: a bunch of chocolate. Motherfuckers watching Harlem Nights and laughing their.
Speaker 5: Asses all you know, I see, I see. That's what
Speaker 5: I see.
Speaker 1: And it is not it's not even like there's nothing
Speaker 1: against like it's it's it's stupid.
Speaker 5: Really, it's tribalism and it's stupid.
Speaker 1: And to be honest with you, if society were if
Speaker 1: we break the chains of society and we destroy these
Speaker 1: constructs of race, which race is really only a conduit
Speaker 1: to white supremacy anyway, So if we if we, if
Speaker 1: we break these things in future generations. Man swirling up.
Speaker 1: But for me, there's just too much in there. But
Speaker 1: I get there sometimes while people ask questions and I'm like, yo, man,
Speaker 1: shut up, I see, like seriously now that it doesn't
Speaker 1: matter what you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: So it would be annoying for me.
Speaker 8: What's one very annoying white question that you've been asking.
Speaker 1: Very annoying white question that I've been asked recently?
Speaker 6: White listeners, if you're waiting and you ask your black
Speaker 6: friend this recently, do not.
Speaker 5: Oh, there's there's one.
Speaker 1: There's like a there's one tip that all white people
Speaker 1: can do, okay, except the programming. This is what it means,
Speaker 1: and this is not just for white peoples. For men
Speaker 1: to accept the programming, it's a deal. I've been black
Speaker 1: for thirty eight years. I know, at least from my
Speaker 1: experience in my community. You know what things take me off,
Speaker 1: what things trigger me. I know why they trigger me.
Speaker 1: They've been triggering me for a long time. You are
Speaker 1: not going to be able to convince me that I
Speaker 1: am wrong about these things.
Speaker 5: You're only going.
Speaker 1: To piss me off, right, You're only so You're not
Speaker 1: gonna be like You're not gonna be the one to
Speaker 1: make me see that I was wrong about this.
Speaker 5: You're not going to be the one that made me see.
Speaker 1: I was wrong about police brutality, I was wrong about profiling,
Speaker 1: I was wrong about anything. It's not going to happen.
Speaker 1: You don't have that power. I know that America has
Speaker 1: taught you that every single thing under the sun you
Speaker 1: can manipulate. I know that that's been your life experience,
Speaker 1: that whatever you want you can do because that's but
Speaker 1: you can't do that. So when I say, yo, this
Speaker 1: is fucked up, just go with it. I'm not going
Speaker 1: to try to make it. I'm not just gonna try
Speaker 1: to imprint it. On you. I'm not gonna make it
Speaker 1: your fault. I'm gonna say this is what it is
Speaker 1: the most. Just listen to me. Yeah, it just listens.
Speaker 6: So I can't help but think about your experience with
Speaker 6: Kanye West with this because he's a black man basically,
Speaker 6: So how do you how do.
Speaker 3: You deal with something like that where it's your own people?
Speaker 6: Because Kanye essentially said you know what he said, So
Speaker 6: it's just like, how do you deal with that with
Speaker 6: your own people?
Speaker 4: I think that's a lot in the lass if you
Speaker 4: have to come across like very conditioned all lives matter
Speaker 4: Black people in this like Hollywood Arena. And that's even
Speaker 4: fucking more frustrating to me because it's like, Nigga, even
Speaker 4: black your whole life, don't act like you don't know.
Speaker 1: Well, also with people, you know, black is a race,
Speaker 1: but it's also a cultural identification, right, So you don't
Speaker 1: have to be black and be black.
Speaker 3: Twenty different variations of what black is.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but what I'm saying is, you know, Kanye West
Speaker 1: or anybody is free to have the beliefs and the
Speaker 1: ideology that they have. He can think whatever he wants
Speaker 1: to think. But if I think that he's wrong. I
Speaker 1: have to challenge him.
Speaker 6: Do you feel more triggered by someone black having those views?
Speaker 3: Because essentially I feel like his views.
Speaker 6: I'm a little bit confused by his because he's really
Speaker 6: hard at articulation. But they seem to be what a
Speaker 6: lot of white people might think, or not might think.
Speaker 8: But thought they've had and maybe won't say they've had.
Speaker 6: But I think also he wants black people to think
Speaker 6: more progressively. I understand that's what he's trying to do.
Speaker 6: But it's no, it's not progressively, but in his mind
Speaker 6: it is. In his mind, it's.
Speaker 3: All about well, I think part of it is forgiveness
Speaker 3: and where are we now and what are going to
Speaker 3: do now?
Speaker 5: Yeah, but let's let's let's discuss that though to what end?
Speaker 5: Like it have the Jews forgiving anyone?
Speaker 4: Yeah, and you can't, you can't go forward and without
Speaker 4: acknowledging that the strife is not the results of it
Speaker 4: right now, well understanding it's not.
Speaker 1: It's not even really about forgiving anyone. It's there's really
Speaker 1: there's really no one to forgive. It's like those people
Speaker 1: are all dead without Like what I'm saying is that
Speaker 1: right now, Jews eat manza. Right, they eat manza because
Speaker 1: thousands of years ago there were Jews who couldn't eat
Speaker 1: anything that was risen, no bread, they didn't have any yeas.
Speaker 5: So those people ate manza. So these people eat mansa.
Speaker 1: Whatever has happened to them culturally has tied them together.
Speaker 1: It doesn't make them any stronger to be like, yo,
Speaker 1: that was them and this is us. It doesn't make
Speaker 1: them any culturally better to be like, yo, we forgot
Speaker 1: about all of that.
Speaker 5: It's actually the opposite. The only trick that they try
Speaker 5: to play that. The only people that try to play
Speaker 5: that trick on.
Speaker 3: Is us, right, like it's been in the past, forgetting
Speaker 3: you there and.
Speaker 5: About like this one hundred fifty years ago.
Speaker 1: It's like, it's not yeah, so the whole people that
Speaker 1: they do that as a matter of fact, and by
Speaker 1: the way, America doesn't do that to itself.
Speaker 5: What's the slogan behind nine to eleven?
Speaker 1: Never forget right?
Speaker 3: You know?
Speaker 1: I mean like when the Alamo came and they they
Speaker 1: and they were fighting, not the Battle of the Alamo,
Speaker 1: because white people lost that one, but when they came
Speaker 1: back and they won, it was a different one.
Speaker 5: They were like, remember the Alamo like they never only
Speaker 5: people a day that will.
Speaker 1: Live in infamy forever December seventh, nineteen fifty one and
Speaker 1: nineteen forty one, the attack on Pearl Harbor.
Speaker 5: Every single year, we have a fucking celebration.
Speaker 1: Right you were you remember? So the only people that
Speaker 1: they say, yo, the bad shit. You'll be better off
Speaker 1: if you take all things. Don't.
Speaker 4: Let's start your history learning here and let's teach you
Speaker 4: everything you know about yourself only through this context. But
Speaker 4: don't bring it up and don't blame any of your
Speaker 4: fellow brotherren about that now because it was so long ago.
Speaker 3: And then it's also like, look how y'all act. Look
Speaker 3: at this, Look at how you're acting your communities, look
Speaker 3: at the black.
Speaker 4: On black crime without addressing, Hey, why the fuck do
Speaker 4: you think we don't have knowledge of self and cultural
Speaker 4: anything unity because we don't know who the fuck we are,
Speaker 4: where we came from, and we're actually thought to look
Speaker 4: down on those roots opposed to embracing them and moving
Speaker 4: forward in the community setting.
Speaker 1: And with Yate, it's like it's not even about him
Speaker 1: being black, it's about the weaponry of his of his mind.
Speaker 3: Right, well, he has what he's like, he has white privilege.
Speaker 1: It's crazy, right, and he has such as such a platform. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and so mis any misinformation from him that's not challenged,
Speaker 1: it's it's really destructive.
Speaker 6: He's reprogrammed though, Like I don't know, I'm so proud
Speaker 6: of you for fucking addressing that ship.
Speaker 3: Like I was like, yeah, God, I love this man.
Speaker 1: Jesus.
Speaker 3: But yeah, that was disappointing to say the least. But
Speaker 3: I couldn't help but think about that when you were
Speaker 3: talking about.
Speaker 6: About, you know, white people triggering you when they are
Speaker 6: certain things, because.
Speaker 4: I noticed, like, we're pro black, and I know it's
Speaker 4: your podcast to do like a free ad for black
Speaker 4: and brown people. You did something with the NAACP and
Speaker 4: then obviously you're a Kanye thing. But you say you're
Speaker 4: like with your platform a black activists.
Speaker 1: No, I wouldn't say that, Okay.
Speaker 5: The reason why I shot away from that is because,
Speaker 5: first of.
Speaker 1: All, there are activists, and these people are on the
Speaker 1: ground every day putting their safety and their livelihood on
Speaker 1: the line. I'm a guid with opinions, and I use
Speaker 1: those opinions to kind of get out of my the
Speaker 1: things that I think activists are people that are going
Speaker 1: into communities, taking guns out of their hands, putting books
Speaker 1: in their hands, feeding them, and work for social justice
Speaker 1: every day. It's our job as people with platforms to
Speaker 1: empower those people to do their work.
Speaker 5: That's what I'm trying to do. I'm trying to make
Speaker 5: sure that those people.
Speaker 1: Have the resources and the intention that they need to
Speaker 1: be able to do their work. Because while I want
Speaker 1: to write movies, other people want to like give, like
Speaker 1: they they're handing black people freedom.
Speaker 5: And these people that are doing this are all.
Speaker 1: Black people from all different types of walks of life,
Speaker 1: and they're doing that.
Speaker 5: So I wouldn't say that I'm an actifust at all,
Speaker 5: but like I'm from the South, like.
Speaker 1: The real South. So my my head is, like my
Speaker 1: ideas are informed through the lens of looking at a
Speaker 1: black servant class.
Speaker 5: Like when I come to LA and I go to a.
Speaker 1: Fast food restaurant or to a restaurant, any type of restaurant,
Speaker 1: the people that are working there are all Mexican, right,
Speaker 1: your valets are Mexican people giving they're not all Mexican.
Speaker 3: But like they're different.
Speaker 16: They're from all over the place, like they're they're all
Speaker 16: fair enough, they're all Hispanic right, Yeah, that's by a
Speaker 16: larger serving class that's here when I go back to,
Speaker 16: when I go back home, those people are all black.
Speaker 1: All your valets are black, all your fast food workers
Speaker 1: are black. All your busters and your way, all those
Speaker 1: people they're all black. So I think in terms of
Speaker 1: a sort of binary free and not free attitude, and
Speaker 1: how do we get freer? Because what I've seen a
Speaker 1: lot of places I've been is a sort of a
Speaker 1: form of neo slavery that has to do with sort
Speaker 1: of mental and economic disenfranchising. And I'm never gonna be
Speaker 1: in a place where I don't see that, I don't
Speaker 1: feel that well. I don't want to attack and destroy that. Ever,
Speaker 1: I'm never gonna be It doesn't matter how much happens
Speaker 1: for me, how many people I be, I'm around, what
Speaker 1: diversity I see. I'm never going to be in a
Speaker 1: spot to where I'm not like, yo, we need to
Speaker 1: be doing better.
Speaker 3: Ever, I don't know, I mean, I don't know how.
Speaker 3: I mean.
Speaker 6: I'm sure people get to a place where they getting
Speaker 6: them to it, but I don't I don't see myself
Speaker 6: ever getting them to.
Speaker 1: If you listen to when first came.
Speaker 6: He doesn't have any people around him that are black
Speaker 6: have a few, but like he's around he's in a
Speaker 6: white family with women that you know, I feel like.
Speaker 3: You're major white privilegion. He thinks so too.
Speaker 6: I mean they're not white, but like that's the thing,
Speaker 6: like they know, you've like we've had this conversation before
Speaker 6: where like you talk about Kim Kardashian her family, some
Speaker 6: of them are yeah, like you know, but at the
Speaker 6: same time, but they are white. Yeah, they live their
Speaker 6: life is with white privilege. But I'm sure Kim before
Speaker 6: she was maybe Kim experienced some sort.
Speaker 3: Of racist racism for being Armenian.
Speaker 4: But but Armenians are like really obviously in some less
Speaker 4: known in LA to be race in l A.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean most people nowhere.
Speaker 5: Else, Like I don't even know any of our means.
Speaker 3: Because we grew up in the valley, so we know
Speaker 3: hell Armenians.
Speaker 1: And for me, that's another thing for me LA. Once again,
Speaker 1: you come out to l A and.
Speaker 8: You have a whole different spectrum of national so.
Speaker 1: Many different nationalities from it's black people and black people.
Speaker 3: I think also I think also.
Speaker 1: They're they're Mexicans now, but there weren't. There weren't when
Speaker 1: I was living there, it was the there there there's
Speaker 1: been an influence of Latinos.
Speaker 5: But when I was in Baton Rouge, there weren't really any.
Speaker 4: Even when I lived in Atlanta, I went to school Atlanta,
Speaker 4: I realized that there isn't like even in the East Coast,
Speaker 4: like I cann't identify like a Armanian person, a Persian
Speaker 4: person like I could. I know all the different races
Speaker 4: and that doesn't exist in the other places. It's like
Speaker 4: black or white, Russian. Yeah, I've a question.
Speaker 8: You being from down south, are you like religious?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: You what would you just identify as?
Speaker 5: I'm a Christian man?
Speaker 3: You're a Christian man?
Speaker 8: I'm crazy.
Speaker 3: So you believe like in Jesus, Yeah, that's Christ, that's
Speaker 3: your say, as your savior?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 3: And do you feel like you're in church right now?
Speaker 4: I always feel so intense when I say that, cause
Speaker 4: I felt like for a long time, like even though
Speaker 4: I didn't grow up religious, When I finally like was like,
Speaker 4: I don't think maybe.
Speaker 3: Jesus Christ is at my savior.
Speaker 4: I felt really guilty saying it, Like I was like
Speaker 4: especially from my school from like black people, like what
Speaker 4: did you stay a bitch.
Speaker 1: The worst thing you can do be in my the
Speaker 1: worst thing you can be in my in that community.
Speaker 3: Well, I'm not an atheist. Do you go to church
Speaker 3: every Sunday?
Speaker 4: Okay, but this is my other question, because you are
Speaker 4: pro black, and do you believe in Jesus Christ is
Speaker 4: your savor? And I know, like one of my biggest things,
Speaker 4: like I went to church voluntarily, like in college because
Speaker 4: I enjoyed like the spiritual like push of like a
Speaker 4: massive people like all coming together for like unity and things.
Speaker 8: But my biggest thing was like a lot of churches
Speaker 8: you see like.
Speaker 4: This huge white image and blonde hair of this like
Speaker 4: Jesus Christ savior.
Speaker 3: Every church savior.
Speaker 4: And I have a problem with that just because like
Speaker 4: you're not saving me, Like I don't know, it just never.
Speaker 3: Made sense, and especially like.
Speaker 4: Thinking about slavery, like this is something they specifically gave
Speaker 4: black people to be like it's okay, the book says taken,
Speaker 4: and I can't I can't imagine, like and I think
Speaker 4: it's so strange, because I mean it's not strange. It
Speaker 4: makes perfect sense why religion is so heavily like black
Speaker 4: people cling to you know, there's a lot of leigous
Speaker 4: people down South. But it didn't make sense to me
Speaker 4: that we so easily accepted this white image even till
Speaker 4: today when obviously like there's so much.
Speaker 6: Well when they break you down and get you at
Speaker 6: your lowest point.
Speaker 1: Well, there are things that are and then there are
Speaker 1: things that are locks.
Speaker 6: But they're also things that are inspirational about Like there's
Speaker 6: not not everything in Christianity is bad.
Speaker 3: No, I'm I'm saying that. I mean, I'm to Christian
Speaker 3: schools for hell long.
Speaker 1: I know, I get what you're saying, like these these
Speaker 1: these things are very complex. But once again that things
Speaker 1: are true, that things are lives. Okay, if you read
Speaker 1: your Bible, yeah, there there are tons of lessons in
Speaker 1: your lessons in your Bible that tell you the way
Speaker 1: that you're supposed to live your life. Right.
Speaker 5: Some of them are contradictory.
Speaker 1: Okay, some of them were completely washed away, right like
Speaker 1: the New Covenant. Covenant Jesus Christ washed away a lot
Speaker 1: of the things in the Old Testament. The easiest way
Speaker 1: to subjugate any group of people is to make them
Speaker 1: accept your language and your religion, because if they talk
Speaker 1: how you talk, and they believe in the God that
Speaker 1: you believe in, you can make them. Doesn't matter what
Speaker 1: god with religion it is, that's always what happens. Soone
Speaker 1: takes over someplace and the install a religion there. Now,
Speaker 1: in terms of or why Jesus is just not possible.
Speaker 1: It just wouldn't have beensing it's not possible. The question
Speaker 1: is not whether or not, because every because every sort
Speaker 1: of race has their God, and they draw their God
Speaker 1: the way they see that God.
Speaker 5: Right, the question is.
Speaker 1: Why did it take us so long to reject that image?
Speaker 1: And the answer is because we couldn't read So if
Speaker 1: if you get, if you kill a bunch of people
Speaker 1: in here, the knowledge that it would have taken to
Speaker 1: sort of of access to information that we needed to
Speaker 1: understand that that was a lie. Even if we would
Speaker 1: have had it, we couldn't have read it because we
Speaker 1: couldn't have read it because it was illegal to teach
Speaker 1: the slavery.
Speaker 5: So everything about.
Speaker 1: How black people have been programmed in America is about
Speaker 1: access to information, And then can you undo the cultural
Speaker 1: damage that has been done once you have the truth.
Speaker 5: So a lot of the stuff that you know that
Speaker 5: hasn't done.
Speaker 1: There's a lot of more information, there's a lot more
Speaker 1: information about Jesus Christ out there that's controversial and if
Speaker 1: people want thing, they'll get it.
Speaker 3: I agree with that. So speaking of Jesus Christ, this
Speaker 3: is not speaking with Christ. So I told you before.
Speaker 3: We have a segment on our show called horror stories.
Speaker 1: Horror stories.
Speaker 3: Yes, from from God to Fucking Do you have any
Speaker 3: horror stories that you can share with that's no?
Speaker 5: What exactly is a horror story?
Speaker 3: H stories? It can be anything. It can be like
Speaker 3: something really like freaking nast, freaking nasty that you did
Speaker 3: that like you would cat would. Society might categorize as horrors.
Speaker 6: Or it could be like an extremely traumatizing sex story,
Speaker 6: like a horror story, like horror extremely trust.
Speaker 3: It's extremely okay, this is scary, scary.
Speaker 1: I have one.
Speaker 6: We're not acting, We're not asking for your molestation story.
Speaker 5: So there was like a.
Speaker 1: Like they used to give away these They used to
Speaker 1: give away condoms at like at at at Southern University,
Speaker 1: all different types of condoms just walking the stud usually
Speaker 1: take the commons right, and it is different condoms and stuff.
Speaker 1: I think there's these one condoms called like a kiss
Speaker 1: of mint. You ever heard these condoms before?
Speaker 3: It's like putting your listening ship in your.
Speaker 1: Mouth, and it was like they were sex, right. I
Speaker 1: was not wanting so, but listen, here's the thing. So
Speaker 1: this girl comes.
Speaker 3: Over or is it for your decks?
Speaker 5: She tastes it when she's giving your.
Speaker 4: Head, and it's like it's probably tingling for you, right,
Speaker 4: I don't know when people put condoms on decks to
Speaker 4: give ahead.
Speaker 1: They wanted you to do it. They wanted you to
Speaker 1: put the condoms on the dick.
Speaker 17: So she comes over and she, uh, and I gonna
Speaker 17: get the condom, like yeah, I about to smash a lot,
Speaker 17: and I put the condom on and then she uh,
Speaker 17: I'm fucking and she goes, you, I don't know what's going.
Speaker 3: On, but this is burning no no, package yeah, I'm I'm.
Speaker 1: Like what and she's like no, just keep on and
Speaker 1: then she's like no, no, no, no, no, like for real,
Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on, like this is burning.
Speaker 5: This hurts.
Speaker 1: I'm like all right, cool, cool, and she's like this.
Speaker 1: She starts looking at me and she goes, what's wrong
Speaker 1: with you? Like why is this burning?
Speaker 3: Me's like literally the term you burn me?
Speaker 1: What do you mean?
Speaker 5: She's like nothing, going home? So she leaves, and she
Speaker 5: she goes, she goes, she leaves.
Speaker 1: And I still don't know what's going on because I
Speaker 1: really don't know, like what's what's what's happening. So she
Speaker 1: gets like an affection.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna say this sounds like.
Speaker 1: She gets like affection. So like it's two days later,
Speaker 1: and this was a situation to where my brother was.
Speaker 1: My brother was shout out to Ian the your Thursday. Uh,
Speaker 1: my brother was at that point dating her friend, ended
Speaker 1: up marrying her friend. I was with her, so everyone
Speaker 1: was in the same thing. But then like a couple
Speaker 1: of three days later, like none of the girls would
Speaker 1: talk to me, Like none of.
Speaker 3: Them had a spicy deck, like, none of them.
Speaker 1: So none of them would talk to me. And then
Speaker 1: my homeboy Ryan goes, he hits me up because my
Speaker 1: crew is ruthless, right, my homeboy Ryan, he's been up
Speaker 1: that Friday, like, oh my nigga.
Speaker 5: I'm like what.
Speaker 1: He's like, say, brother, anything you need to tell me
Speaker 1: don oh no, And I'm like no, man.
Speaker 5: He's like, you got some dirty pussy.
Speaker 1: Somewhere or what. And I'm like, what what are y'all
Speaker 1: talking about?
Speaker 5: You said, yo?
Speaker 1: Man? Black Blank had to go to the clinic.
Speaker 6: Man.
Speaker 5: She said, pussy off, fucked up.
Speaker 1: It happened when she was fucking with you, And like
Speaker 1: I said, first of all, all you health class majors,
Speaker 1: it wouldn't have happened while we were while we were together. Secondly,
Speaker 1: I don't know what she was saying. I think the
Speaker 1: condom was old or something like that. And so literally,
Speaker 1: it wasn't until like I had a reputation as if
Speaker 1: I was handing out. Really it really, it really never.
Speaker 11: Like I didn't even remember that.
Speaker 1: That same guy came over. My homeboy, Ryan, my best
Speaker 1: friend in the world, came over to the crib. It
Speaker 1: was like, I need a rubber and I was like,
Speaker 1: you came over to the crib and I'm like, yo,
Speaker 1: I got these these. I gave him one of these.
Speaker 5: He was like, Yo, you can't use this. I was
Speaker 5: like what.
Speaker 1: He's like, Yo, these condoms. The reason why they already
Speaker 1: have these because it was a fishbowl at Southern and
Speaker 1: you was just grabbed the combus and it was like
Speaker 1: the reason why they always have.
Speaker 18: These is because you can't fuck with these. He's like,
Speaker 18: my nigga, my nigga, did you fuck? I'm not gonna
Speaker 18: say the name. Did you fuck her with one of these?
Speaker 18: I'm like yo, and he was like oh.
Speaker 14: And then I tried to convince her and she would
Speaker 14: not have it, probably to this day hence.
Speaker 3: Why that company is no longer making condoms.
Speaker 1: But now I had, you know, I was actually I
Speaker 1: did without that that It was that.
Speaker 5: With her the morning of nine eleven.
Speaker 3: Damn, y'all, y'all had to share a very intense moment.
Speaker 5: Oh but there's one other story. This one's a bad one.
Speaker 1: This one's like it's not bad, it's not bad, but
Speaker 1: it's tells tells you, like a lot of people are
Speaker 1: on this new Found Me Too movement.
Speaker 6: Good, Okay, my daughter has her headphones on so she's
Speaker 6: not listening to So there's.
Speaker 1: There's another one. So there was this girl white shirt
Speaker 1: that was that was like, let me tell you how
Speaker 1: bad things were back in the day.
Speaker 5: Okay, everything was about running the train.
Speaker 3: I remember those times.
Speaker 6: There was a period it was about running the train.
Speaker 1: Everything was about ran the train. It was all about
Speaker 1: ranting train. It was like there was something that they
Speaker 1: had that it was called train Tuesdays. Every Tuesday, they
Speaker 1: tried to get a girl. They tried to run a train.
Speaker 1: So it was like.
Speaker 5: College days or this is college college days.
Speaker 1: So this was like everywhere. So if you had a
Speaker 1: girl coming to the crib, and I remember we had
Speaker 1: a homeboy.
Speaker 3: On a Tuesday, everybody knew. It was ever or you
Speaker 3: all are together at once on the train.
Speaker 1: I've only been a part of one train before.
Speaker 3: It was a train like.
Speaker 1: One, two, three three.
Speaker 5: It was like one one guy with first, like a line.
Speaker 3: So y'all never never together.
Speaker 5: Once, never together it was, but it was like ran trains.
Speaker 5: It's the only time Bill, why you Classic.
Speaker 3: Nineteen was it in the basement. So that's where a
Speaker 3: lot of them happened.
Speaker 1: In New Orleans.
Speaker 8: And so and so.
Speaker 1: Like I was, we were all playing Madden.
Speaker 5: I remember telling my homies. I was like, yeah, I
Speaker 5: got a girl coming over.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I gotta go.
Speaker 5: And two of my homies left with my boy. I
Speaker 5: say his name, Uh, who cares my boy around?
Speaker 3: He was like.
Speaker 1: My boy alright, he was like yo, man, Yeah, they said,
Speaker 1: she a front. You gotta see you she about you know,
Speaker 1: see she about that life, put it in her mind,
Speaker 1: put on fans, put that wheel in the back. I'm like,
Speaker 1: what he's like? Way he talks like, what.
Speaker 5: Will educate me?
Speaker 1: That's sweet. So the girl comes over and this girl
Speaker 1: never realized what was going on. So the girl comes
Speaker 1: over and we're all talking, right, everybody's talking, everybody's getting cool,
Speaker 1: blah blah, and she just looked and she literally everybody's
Speaker 1: in the room, me and rob My boy, Drew and
Speaker 1: one more guy can remember what it was. And she
Speaker 1: looked at me and she goes, hmm, it's just motion
Speaker 1: to like go into the other room. So we left
Speaker 1: him there and I go into the other room, me
Speaker 1: and her messing around.
Speaker 5: I'll leave.
Speaker 1: I'll come back out of rodstill in there playing Madden,
Speaker 1: playing against the computer. That's how you know that that
Speaker 1: nigga is trying to stick around and see what's happened.
Speaker 1: Nobody plays a fucking computer. So he's playing and then
Speaker 1: he goes yo, So I'll go listen.
Speaker 5: I don't know if she's gonna be down for this,
Speaker 5: so I don't wanna like.
Speaker 3: Like what you don't I'm.
Speaker 1: Telling you, this is this. I'm telling you. I don't
Speaker 1: know if she'll be down for this, So just chill,
Speaker 1: don't do anything, do anything because we haven't really discussed this,
Speaker 1: and I don't think that she's gonna be into this.
Speaker 1: Like he's like, okay, cool. So we're in the other room.
Speaker 1: I'll never forget this moment. We're in the other room.
Speaker 1: And so it's like the moonlight is coming through the moonlight.
Speaker 1: The moonlight is coming through the moonlight is coming through
Speaker 1: the window the blinds, and I'm behind her. So I'm
Speaker 1: behind her.
Speaker 5: I'll in all of a sudden, she is not paying attention.
Speaker 1: She's facing the window, and all of a sudden, I
Speaker 1: see the door and the door opens. And Rob was big.
Speaker 5: He was a big dude.
Speaker 1: And he comes walking into the room and he's got
Speaker 1: his he's got his dick in his hands. And then
Speaker 1: he starts walking over to like where her head is
Speaker 1: maybe and i' might I might. I look at him
Speaker 1: like I'm like I looked at him. I'm like no,
Speaker 1: like like I'm like, yo, no, no, no, And then
Speaker 1: he and then he listen, this is what happens. He then.
Speaker 5: Goes back out and he just to go back out
Speaker 5: of the room.
Speaker 1: He goes back in front of the bed and drops
Speaker 1: down in front of like the base board, like the
Speaker 1: base of the bed.
Speaker 5: Like he's on the ground, and.
Speaker 1: She doesn't hear any of this, doesn't hear anything, I
Speaker 1: swear to you, and then and and then so because
Speaker 1: I didn't become uncomfortable with fucking her with him in
Speaker 1: the room, her with him in the room.
Speaker 5: I then I stopped at the man.
Speaker 1: I need a break.
Speaker 5: She goes a break, like what do you need a
Speaker 5: break for? Like like like what I'm like, I'm like, yill, Yeah,
Speaker 5: I need a break.
Speaker 1: I need a break.
Speaker 5: And we laid there until we fell asleep.
Speaker 3: Where did he go?
Speaker 1: He stayed on the floor, Like this is a true.
Speaker 5: I don't know why he did not leave the room.
Speaker 1: He watched like I don't he was watching for he
Speaker 1: was he's watching or hearing for a second.
Speaker 6: And then we laid there and then you saved her
Speaker 6: from me to a moment, you know, I saved myself from.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I saved myself in this situation. I don't remember.
Speaker 4: I like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like for me, I'm trying to think in that situation,
Speaker 1: like what more could I have said to be like yo?
Speaker 1: I said she wasn't. I don't think she was.
Speaker 4: Down so chill, like she felt uncomfortable even like yeah,
Speaker 4: that's a bad situation to be in. But I don't know,
Speaker 4: maybe you have to be more serious with your homeboys
Speaker 4: because they just think back in the day.
Speaker 3: That no, that's what happened.
Speaker 1: I just would know.
Speaker 3: I knew some girls that they would have sex with
Speaker 3: the guy and then oh, the guy would come in.
Speaker 4: And I heard about it, like I mean if even
Speaker 4: though I was there in high school, when I was
Speaker 4: hearing about this epidemic, I was like, oh no, that's
Speaker 4: she don't really little self esteem.
Speaker 3: There's a problem here. It's not it's not. This is
Speaker 3: not normal.
Speaker 1: It's not but it was not to happen.
Speaker 4: Let me say, from a woman's perspective, the worst thing
Speaker 4: you can ever do in life is to assume some
Speaker 4: ship like that and so that on a girl because.
Speaker 3: They will immediately feel rapeyl rape. It's called ra.
Speaker 8: Not yeah, oh no, I.
Speaker 3: Mean look, have you ever paid the position with America?
Speaker 3: I have, and I was traumatized. And then I'm also like, well,
Speaker 3: what the fuck did you think this was? Like?
Speaker 5: Are you just just try every way in.
Speaker 3: A situation like really, yeah, I have this guy I
Speaker 3: was dating one. This was my first guy ever lost
Speaker 3: my virginity too, and the first guy you ever lost,
Speaker 3: the first guy.
Speaker 4: I lost my virginity too, lost multiple time, didn't didn't
Speaker 4: count the first and I.
Speaker 3: Was in high school.
Speaker 6: I was because I lost her virginiay pretty young, and
Speaker 6: that's what I'm saying, Like we were, they were young.
Speaker 3: I don't have cookies day here, putings on meet them
Speaker 3: at that time.
Speaker 1: I feel like.
Speaker 6: Anyway, I felt like at that time, you know, I
Speaker 6: don't know, we're so promiscuous at that point age.
Speaker 1: I never did it.
Speaker 6: I never did it, but I had a guy try
Speaker 6: when I was fifteen years old. But I knew girls
Speaker 6: that were doing that every weekend.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I haven't not for for four and they were
Speaker 3: like semi popular for a second. It was like a
Speaker 3: weird popularity slash.
Speaker 4: Whole thing was no, no, never ever ever, no, how
Speaker 4: like much I was excited about discovery might be trying
Speaker 4: as a teenager and I had a lot of sex
Speaker 4: I was.
Speaker 3: There was like there's it's very raby.
Speaker 1: No, it's there was some nasty ship that was going on.
Speaker 3: It's very homosexual.
Speaker 4: I mean science the numbers, there's hella guys and one vagina.
Speaker 3: It's very homofy.
Speaker 1: It's like it's like two of my homies, Like they
Speaker 1: they meant this girl in black Men, and then like
Speaker 1: they came back and I just remember the I remember
Speaker 1: seeing the girl walk in.
Speaker 5: I'm like, yeah, it looks like a girl that you
Speaker 5: know your right on.
Speaker 1: And then they when I came back into the because
Speaker 1: I left, and then when I came back into the apartment,
Speaker 1: there was like blue magic hair grease because that's what
Speaker 1: they were using the loup.
Speaker 3: Bro, Oh my god, this is true. These are a
Speaker 3: few horror stories, a.
Speaker 1: True story, but but I just I just remember, like
Speaker 1: I just remember, like it's like it was almost like
Speaker 1: in college, like yeah, bro, like they would test you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, you got a girl coming over, and you
Speaker 5: can't be bitch. You can't say it off with that
Speaker 5: train now.
Speaker 1: Like dog, no, I can't say it off with that.
Speaker 5: I don't like you don't sneak off that train.
Speaker 19: I actually don't want all of you to the girl
Speaker 19: that I like, I don't want to see her dicks. Well,
Speaker 19: I'm fucking that's gonna make me soft, Like I don't
Speaker 19: I can't even focus. And there's like I've been into
Speaker 19: like sex parties and shit, I can't focus.
Speaker 3: It's too much going on. I can't focus with someone's
Speaker 3: watching me. And even if I like, I can't. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I don't get it.
Speaker 4: The only time it ever looks sexy is and savages
Speaker 4: the movie when the white girl had the two like
Speaker 4: finance white boys and.
Speaker 3: They I mean, I like her voyeurism, but that's not voyeurism.
Speaker 3: Like I don't want. Yeah, I don't know, are into it.
Speaker 4: I'm not judging if you're into a game things for
Speaker 4: some people's thing just like maybe like my pre my
Speaker 4: programming won't allow it.
Speaker 8: I can't.
Speaker 3: I'm not with it.
Speaker 1: No, man, listen, listen, I listen.
Speaker 5: There was there was a point where it really it went,
Speaker 5: it went, it was going too far.
Speaker 1: It was a whole thing.
Speaker 4: Don't let you know the difference between like women and
Speaker 4: men in society and what's fucking acceptable.
Speaker 3: And what's not. No, oh my gosh, that's true. Well
Speaker 3: I hate to end on that really depressing as what's
Speaker 3: depressing about it? I don't know. I feel like, god
Speaker 3: damn if I feel like I need to include like
Speaker 3: you've been raped, Like.
Speaker 8: He's not.
Speaker 1: Here's the deal. Here's the deal. So I'm saying is
Speaker 1: like this is very important dudes out there, if you
Speaker 1: get that little quickening in your mind that something is wrong, man,
Speaker 1: go with that ship because you like means no.
Speaker 6: I'm just saying, like, not know, it would have been
Speaker 6: a lot of these women later on then they're like, realized,
Speaker 6: I don't want.
Speaker 1: To it couldn't even be in the situation to where
Speaker 1: which is right. You just pop up like I didn't
Speaker 1: have that type of Other guys will be like yo,
Speaker 1: man here too, and I knew that that I didn't.
Speaker 6: Have that that wasn't gonna be me like I so well,
Speaker 6: then once that girl, sometimes you have to have foresight
Speaker 6: four people, you know what I mean, And in those situations,
Speaker 6: obviously this is the girl was damaged.
Speaker 3: There was some ship going on, or maybe she liked it.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I feel like sometimes you have to have foresight four people.
Speaker 3: And thank God for fans.
Speaker 8: And he's like, no, I can think this is okay
Speaker 8: because that is fucking that's gonna be.
Speaker 5: So he's gonna be so thrilled that I told that story.
Speaker 5: Didn't try that ever again, it's a story. It's maybe
Speaker 5: y'all gonna have to take his name, take his name, never.
Speaker 1: Be it never happened.
Speaker 3: It never happened, So.
Speaker 5: I guess it didn't happen.
Speaker 1: Nigga know who he is. You know what, It's gonna
Speaker 1: be funny for the homies.
Speaker 20: You do take his name because they know because I
Speaker 20: told that, I told that story. Well she doesn't know,
Speaker 20: well she will know. She never no, I never, she
Speaker 20: never saw.
Speaker 1: Yeah, just let you know.
Speaker 5: I stopped my boyfriend putting dick in your face.
Speaker 1: Now, she never, she never, she never saw laid that.
Speaker 3: What the do you think?
Speaker 5: Do you think you're gonna make up?
Speaker 1: And yo, all Joseus side, it's still the funniest thing.
Speaker 1: This dude is a really big guy. Why the did
Speaker 1: you that?
Speaker 5: Asked him? I'm like, yo, why didn't you? And he
Speaker 5: was like, yo, man, I didn't want to make no
Speaker 5: noise about you.
Speaker 3: Didn't you didn't care.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm like, what is going on with you?
Speaker 5: And we told that story so many times.
Speaker 1: I remember, Uh. The funniest thing ever my brother Emmett.
Speaker 1: My brother Emmitt was like because at this time I
Speaker 1: was fat and I was fat, and Emmy was like
Speaker 1: and it looked at me. He's like this she was
Speaker 1: about to let you two niggas. He's like, are you
Speaker 1: sure this bitch don't need to commit suicide?
Speaker 6: My god.
Speaker 3: We're not hush. We're not like shaming if you're into
Speaker 3: the two guys all the time.
Speaker 8: But for fellas, it does need to be pretty discussed.
Speaker 3: Don't walk in there with your dick out.
Speaker 5: That could be very bad, very come in there with
Speaker 5: your dick out by the moonlight.
Speaker 3: No, no, it's very disrespectful.
Speaker 8: It's very caught off guard.
Speaker 3: It's very aggressive. But guys, is that it?
Speaker 1: Yeah, ladies, it was so much fun for y'all to
Speaker 1: have me.
Speaker 3: Thanks for coming on. I feel like I know you
Speaker 3: so much deeper.
Speaker 5: Now, y'all deep in the valley. This ship is basically
Speaker 5: in Oha.
Speaker 3: We know we're's not We're valley girls, man, and welcome
Speaker 3: to our hood. I come downtown a lot, actually, so
Speaker 3: I hit you up when I go back, when I
Speaker 3: go down there. But you work all you work every
Speaker 3: day during the night. Do you live with your girlfriend?
Speaker 8: I just want to know if that's the pee and
Speaker 8: I'm downtown or.
Speaker 3: Something heavy your home? Many to use your bath? Actually,
Speaker 3: I'm an avid papa squatter, so I.
Speaker 6: Want to do that squat and pee everywhere and her
Speaker 6: child are professional pop squatters.
Speaker 3: His for life? All right, Well, you need to see
Speaker 3: that his next.
Speaker 6: Yes, And I'm a tree, good nons, good choices about him,
Speaker 6: not a girl.
Speaker 21: But I'm sweaty daddy to lady kick me involved in that,
Speaker 21: he said, She said, crowded. I know that ain't nobody
Speaker 21: got prop to those who deserve.
Speaker 5: It, And believe me, y'all, he's worth it.
Speaker 21: So here is to the because we got through the
Speaker 21: past and finally bought the body.
Speaker 3: That could make you laugh. You so crazy. I think
Speaker 3: I want to have your baby laugh. Guess.