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Speaker 1: Ya ya, yahya.

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Speaker 2: All right, I'm not a money man. I'm not as

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Speaker 2: you see.

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Speaker 3: I want to say what's up, guys. Welcome back to

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Speaker 3: Mom's Lass. I'm Erica and I'm Mela, and we have

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Speaker 3: a special guest today. We have a new friend that

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Speaker 3: we've hey, new friend and new guests.

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Speaker 4: Welcome Van Lisenay, Poppy Clappy.

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Speaker 3: You start the class.

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Speaker 4: So she's very good with our special effects.

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Speaker 3: We have multiple special effects. If you haven't listened, we.

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Speaker 4: Have elevator music and we excuse ourselves when the kids

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Speaker 4: start acting cray right. And we also have special effects

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Speaker 4: for our hories. Second segment and it's like.

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Speaker 3: Oh, we like actually made sex sounds. And then she says,

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Speaker 3: Harry horror stories. It's so good, it's so good.

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Speaker 1: This is so good.

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Speaker 5: There's actually production value on this.

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Speaker 4: Podcast, definitely. If you need any input on yours on

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Speaker 4: the Red Pill, we.

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Speaker 5: Just we just record that. Bitch.

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Speaker 3: You're so lucky. Well, I don't actually.

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Speaker 1: Enjoy doing this, do you enjoy?

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Speaker 5: You don't enjoy like the post production?

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Speaker 6: I mean I could do without it if I could

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Speaker 6: do it, because.

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Speaker 5: It adds to the overall podcast.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to pay somebody to do it. We can't.

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Speaker 1: Can't.

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Speaker 3: We don't if we're not family.

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Speaker 1: Podcast. I like my podcast just be conversation boom streamline

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Speaker 1: though you know what I mean, But I get it.

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Speaker 1: I listened to a lot of podcasts, and the ones

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Speaker 1: that have some production value, I really appreciate it.

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Speaker 3: I really like that word. I'm going to really start

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Speaker 3: using that in their bio production, like my production value.

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Speaker 6: Last episode, our production val. Last episode was the mediocre.

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Speaker 6: We're having mic issues?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we've I liked the micce though.

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Speaker 1: You guys were telling me about the mice that you

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Speaker 1: got on this fifty bucks.

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Speaker 3: We should we should do a podcast hall. We should

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Speaker 3: like start a YouTube channel like how to podcast for cheap.

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Speaker 4: How to podcast for dummies, because we just YouTube did it?

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Speaker 5: How long have you ill been doing our podcast since February?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Professional, it's enough to have a YouTube channel.

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Speaker 5: What made you guys start the podcast together?

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Speaker 7: Uh?

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Speaker 3: I just I met Tamila.

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Speaker 4: I was like, no, we have been friends for like

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Speaker 4: two years, Like we have her for like two years

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Speaker 4: and then she broke up with her man like six months.

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Speaker 3: Ago, and she's not six months ago.

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Speaker 4: Well, when you approach when she asked me about it,

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Speaker 4: She had just broken up with her man like six

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Speaker 4: months ago, and I had probably been bitching about mind

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Speaker 4: and telling her about my look at my new found singleness.

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Speaker 3: And she's like no, she goes, She's like, do you

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Speaker 4: I was thinking about, like maybe we could talk about

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Speaker 4: like being single moms and dating and ship She's I

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Speaker 4: was like, okay, sure, but she's like this guy I

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Speaker 4: was on a date with said he was starting a podcast,

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Speaker 4: and I was thinking, I don't want to do a

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Speaker 4: podcast with you, but I will do my own.

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Speaker 3: So now I'm asking you. I'm like, I forgot about

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Speaker 3: that part of the thought. Now he hates me, but

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Speaker 3: he still doesn't start a podcast, so you know, she

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Speaker 3: would have been waiting forever.

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Speaker 5: Oh, you're going to do a podcast with him?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, he like wanted He asked me to be on

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Speaker 6: his podcast that he wanted to start.

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Speaker 3: We were like fucking around and that's why I didn't

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Speaker 5: I can't think of anything worse than doing the podcast.

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Speaker 3: He wanted to me.

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Speaker 5: Right, he went the podcast track that way, it didn't

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Speaker 5: work out. He's like, yo, we got to sit together

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Speaker 5: for the pododcast.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like podcast is that a thing podcast dripper.

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Speaker 1: No, but I feel like that's when he was he

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Speaker 1: was trying to start something new.

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Speaker 3: Oh I know, I don't know. That's a good that's

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Speaker 5: He tried it all the other trapping.

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Speaker 4: I wonder if he secretly like, look such your posts

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Speaker 4: and hate your guts.

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Speaker 6: He actually reached out to me recently and I and

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Speaker 6: it then led me to believe that maybe he didn't

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Speaker 6: listen because I was like, you don't hate me.

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Speaker 3: I talked ship about you so bad.

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Speaker 4: No people hama, oh okay. So how I became new

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Speaker 4: friends and got fan on the podcast is because we

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Speaker 4: just decided to shoot our shot in His DMS was

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Speaker 4: in a very classic professional DM.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, Hi, how are you? We'd choose single moms with.

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Speaker 5: The new pod, and I said I would do the podcast.

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Speaker 8: He said he would do it, and then there he

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Speaker 8: said I fucking dare.

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh, he's cool.

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Speaker 8: He's cool. So Eric was so when are you available?

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Speaker 4: And then like she stopped, he stopped responding, and she's like,

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Speaker 4: this is Eric's idea.

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Speaker 3: I just want to what what you said. She's like, Oh,

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Speaker 3: he's trying to play us.

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Speaker 4: I just want to respond Jamie listen him a cute

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Speaker 4: picture and then say, don't be a pussy.

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Speaker 3: I was like, are you sure you don't think it's

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Speaker 3: too aggressive? Like, no, he's cool. Just say don't be

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Speaker 3: a pussy, so I said, And he's like, why would

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: No, Eric, I don't think he really was.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, damn, he is a pussy because

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Speaker 1: like when I see messages like that, I automatically get

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Speaker 1: the tone. And I started thinking, Oh, these motherfuckers want

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Speaker 6: Well okay, and I felt like you were that type

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Speaker 6: of I felt like, just.

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Speaker 1: Let's play like yo, let's let's put them on the

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Speaker 1: defensive and see how they can react.

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Speaker 5: Why would you talk to me like that? Man? I

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Speaker 5: thought we were cool keeping these professionals.

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Speaker 3: Oh, it's like when you did that, I was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: I was like I called her. I'm like that was

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Speaker 3: not a good access. She was blaming me. I was

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Speaker 3: like her, I was like, just apologize. He goes.

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Speaker 8: He goes, no, thank you, No, think I don't do

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Speaker 3: I was like fuck.

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Speaker 9: Like.

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh no, we ruined it.

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Speaker 4: And then he put forty thousand fucking laughing, crying emoji

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Speaker 4: faces and said just kidding.

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Speaker 8: I was like, I'm so sorry. I was totally joking.

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Speaker 4: The tom can be misconstrued on the DM.

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Speaker 5: I'm like, nah, man, it's funny.

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Speaker 1: But then I realized we do some of the same

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Speaker 1: people and it was even more organic and now here

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Speaker 1: I am Yeah he is.

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Speaker 8: Good Mom's bad Choices. Yeah, band from the Red Pill.

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Speaker 6: So because we are a fast friends band, I want

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Speaker 6: to play a little game with you just to like

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Speaker 6: get to you even faster and let our audience get

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Speaker 6: to know you really quick.

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Speaker 3: So that's My child has her Netflix film on.

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Speaker 5: What does she watch? What do you put on for

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Speaker 5: children to watch?

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Speaker 4: I don't really let her do this often, so all

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Speaker 4: my mages would surprised that, like two and three, they

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Speaker 4: already have like their own fucking playlist, Like Luna has

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Speaker 4: like an iTunes selection that she like songs.

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Speaker 8: She only wants in the hair thing she only wants

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Speaker 4: And it's pretty scary because YouTube is just like it's

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Speaker 4: weird shit, and they can get to a weird shit easily,

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Speaker 4: even if you put on cartoons.

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Speaker 1: When I was like, I can't remember being that age

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Speaker 5: But I remember what I was watching at that age?

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Speaker 1: What was it? The Dukes of Hazard with the Daisy

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Speaker 1: does Daisy Duke. I can't believe you knew that like

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Speaker 1: Dukes of Hazzard. I you ever watched the ship No Bad?

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Speaker 3: I know it is. I know Daisy Dukes because it

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Speaker 3: comes from Dukes.

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Speaker 1: It has and it's like the reality is that it

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Speaker 1: was some of the worsthit.

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Speaker 5: I've been watching.

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Speaker 3: I was looking at this. All this shit is low

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Speaker 3: key sexual undertone.

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Speaker 10: Disney has a lot of sexual undertones in their cartoons

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Speaker 10: and it's super racist.

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Speaker 3: I get mad every time I go Disneyland because there's like.

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Speaker 4: Forty white princesses and one black princess and she was

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Speaker 3: For the majority of them.

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Speaker 5: Wor does that make you mad?

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Speaker 3: This annoys me.

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Speaker 4: Because I know Las like loves the princesses, and it's

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Speaker 1: Ass to me. You know, it doesn't make because Disney

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Speaker 1: is a bunch of white people. If they white people

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Speaker 1: make princess and they're gonna make them white if we

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Speaker 1: made our own process, how about this? Like, I like

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Speaker 1: a couple of halloweens. Ago one of my homegirls, her

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Speaker 1: daughter wanted to go as Elsa.

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Speaker 5: I was like, that's why, Yeah, I would want to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like that I would not allow.

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Speaker 6: I mean I would that all has to do with

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Speaker 6: the images that you show your children, so all the time,

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Speaker 6: which all the images I really showed her are black

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Speaker 3: But which is hard because then they know she.

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Speaker 6: She found Elsa through somebody else and then that that

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Speaker 3: Have to know other things.

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Speaker 6: But I was just like she idolized her for a minute,

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Speaker 6: and I was just like I felt the type I

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Speaker 3: Me too, But I didn't like discourage. I didn't like

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Speaker 3: discourage it, but like I was just like I noticed it,

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Yeah, I was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: this is not damaging, and then seated to make her

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Speaker 4: And then there's like a like a five dollar like

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Speaker 4: Elsa braid. They sell a H and M and Lena

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Speaker 4: we're in fucking hm. She insisted on my buying. I

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Speaker 4: was like, what's that Elsa braid?

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Speaker 3: It's just like a one long long like tie.

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Speaker 1: Oh, then you can be for Adler.

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Speaker 3: But you know, but you know what. Okay.

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Speaker 4: So one time I had like a added like a

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Speaker 4: braid on my hair, and Lina I had like some

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Speaker 4: purple hair, so I put a purple on her, and

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Speaker 4: my dad was like, so fucking ghetto blah blah blah, like, oh,

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Speaker 4: she's three, what the fuck she don.

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Speaker 3: Ghetto means like to give a little white girl had

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Speaker 3: on a purple pony tail.

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Speaker 1: You wontn't be saying ship, Like why do we project

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Speaker 1: army's and stuff like that onto kids?

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Speaker 5: Well, don't get any of you.

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Speaker 3: It pissed me off. I was like, Dad, shut the

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Speaker 3: What makes you mad? Last time you had sex? Sunday

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Speaker 5: That game proved.

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Speaker 1: I've never seen it, never heard.

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Speaker 3: Do you have a dog?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, men they don't have kids get dogs because they

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Speaker 1: They get dogs that they treat them like babies, treat

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Speaker 3: Why?

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Speaker 1: Okay, let me tell you why it's important important life question.

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Speaker 5: One of the countries.

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Speaker 5: The difference was in.

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Speaker 1: So in that country it was implied that everyone wanted

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Speaker 5: Time I actually had one.

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Speaker 1: That's true. So your access to what it is that

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Speaker 3: And just broke that down.

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Speaker 1: That's what I do ask.

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Speaker 3: That's delivery, that actually prefer coke.

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Speaker 1: I like, man, you don't prefer I do is smoother,

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I think maybe I'm I don't know

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Speaker 1: You just like saying you're one of those people short

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Speaker 1: time I know that I've known you. That feels a lot.

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Speaker 1: You like saying what you won't do?

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Speaker 3: Is this true as saying no, I don't think so.

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Speaker 3: I'm pretty open.

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Speaker 5: I would agree really well. Of course you guys canna

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Speaker 3: I think that's the the perception that people think about

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Speaker 1: The time, not freconceived.

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Speaker 5: I'm basing on the point, like the interactions.

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Speaker 3: It's not that I get pleasure out of it. I

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Speaker 6: I know, I don't like that. I'm not going to

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Speaker 6: But sort of shit, I just have no certain ship

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Speaker 6: doesn't mean you tried.

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Speaker 1: So there's a So what you're saying is is there's

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Speaker 1: like there's big circles right, things that you know you

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Speaker 1: you don't want. And then in this little sweet spot

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Speaker 3: She hasn't considered everything else, she hasn't considered exactly. Now

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Speaker 4: Speaking of your preconceived did you have any like preconceived

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Speaker 1: No, I don't. I don't like to really deal in

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Speaker 5: So er expectations like your.

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Speaker 1: It's best that you just kind of go into a

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Speaker 3: All, which is hard, but it's the best.

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Speaker 5: You're socialized to set expectation.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, judge and setting expectation is low key judging and

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Speaker 5: So you're gonna do all of these things.

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Speaker 1: the all of the time, and it kind of stops

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Speaker 1: you from being in the moment.

451
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Speaker 3: We're born and then we're domestic. We're never now.

452
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Speaker 6: I mean, I mean, I struggle with the daily. I

453
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:03,679
Speaker 6: don't think anyone does it perfectly, except if you're Buddha

454
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Speaker 6: or some.

455
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Speaker 3: Shit, you know what I mean.

456
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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's the goal, but it's difficult in the world

457
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Speaker 6: that we live in because of social media, because of

458
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Speaker 6: just how we're conditioning. You're making that I am hurting

459
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Speaker 6: with you doing that.

460
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Speaker 5: I'm not hurting my head.

461
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Speaker 3: He looked like it was is hurting himself in the head.

462
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Speaker 5: For some reason, it's called this is a thinking.

463
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Speaker 3: Oh oh is that what that is?

464
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Speaker 4: Yeah?

465
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Speaker 5: I have to do something even though other than that,

466
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Speaker 5: like be a pacing or do something.

467
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Speaker 1: I'm thinking now engaged man you got this stimulating conversation.

468
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Speaker 5: You have a you have a tattoo on your on

469
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Speaker 5: your finger. What does that mean?

470
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Speaker 6: It says push and this says play.

471
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Speaker 1: What was that?

472
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Speaker 3: What did that mean? You know? I never noticed, I

473
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Speaker 3: mean like I noticed it, but.

474
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Speaker 4: I've never thought I honestly think I've seen the same

475
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Speaker 4: one and thinking it was the same tattoo.

476
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Speaker 3: I didn't even know if there was realized there was.

477
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Speaker 3: I forget through there. When I was nineteen, I got

478
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Speaker 3: them because they're still there, and that's a really good

479
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:01,119
Speaker 3: finger and tattoo artists.

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Speaker 6: I know, I used to do music, and so it

481
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:07,120
Speaker 6: was some playoff push play, but also.

482
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Speaker 3: My nineteen year old solve this is kind of funny. Also,

483
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:14,200
Speaker 3: you know, to push hard, play hard. That's why I

484
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Speaker 3: lived my life. That's how.

485
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Speaker 1: I couldn't know.

486
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Speaker 6: It was like a better lie about these because they

487
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:25,960
Speaker 6: could be like, what is this music? And I kind

488
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Speaker 6: of like that answer, like I would say that you

489
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Speaker 6: don't have any any embarrassing tattoos.

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Speaker 1: Man, you know, it's crazy.

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Speaker 3: You don't have any tattoos.

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Speaker 5: No, zero tattoos.

493
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Speaker 1: When I was when I was in the well, I

494
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Speaker 1: was like a freshman in college. All my homies went

495
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Speaker 1: out and they got tattoos. They did a bunch of

496
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Speaker 1: different they died their hair or whatever. They got tattoos,

497
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Speaker 1: and my boy Ryan came back. Shout out to Ryan

498
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Speaker 1: daff report. He came back and he got a tiger

499
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Speaker 1: ripping through his skin. And when I looked at that,

500
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Speaker 1: I was like, that's so fucking stupid.

501
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 8: Like I never it's a tiger inside me, y'all.

502
00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:59,960
Speaker 1: And plus the reality is now that everybody's got tattooed.

503
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Speaker 1: It's like.

504
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Speaker 3: I tell people, if you don't have any at this point,

505
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Speaker 3: don't do it.

506
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Speaker 1: I have.

507
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Speaker 3: I haven't gotten any, like ten years.

508
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Speaker 5: Meire, how many tattoos?

509
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Speaker 3: I have? Seven?

510
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Speaker 5: Goddamn? How many you?

511
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Speaker 1: What's your most risky tattoos?

512
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Speaker 4: I was good.

513
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Speaker 3: I mean, it's not risky, but it's it's cute. It's

514
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Speaker 3: I'm not any parents. It's not difficult. It's a dragon.

515
00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:27,800
Speaker 1: It's a dragon right there. It comes all the way down.

516
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Speaker 1: When I first got to l A, I met a

517
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Speaker 1: girl and I was hanging out with her and right

518
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Speaker 1: right over her Foragina, the tattoos had trouble.

519
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:37,200
Speaker 3: Wait, I have I have my girls.

520
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Speaker 6: Wait, my friend Jennifer, the one I went to, oh, yeah,

521
00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 6: no scrubs. Yeah, she's a white girl from Sweden. It's

522
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Speaker 6: fucking amazing.

523
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Speaker 4: My homegirl has a several very funny tattoos. Hi Amara

524
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Speaker 4: that like we were French like year and I started

525
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:02,679
Speaker 4: looking at her. I'm like, bitch, what the fuck do

526
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:03,680
Speaker 4: you have on your body?

527
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Speaker 3: Because are we even friends? What the fuck is over

528
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:07,200
Speaker 3: her koochie?

529
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,680
Speaker 4: She has a happy face that says only only God

530
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Speaker 4: can judge me.

531
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Speaker 3: But but what a happy faces?

532
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:16,680
Speaker 1: Very serious?

533
00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:20,120
Speaker 4: Then on her ass she has a cow spitting out cash,

534
00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:22,200
Speaker 4: and I was like, what the is that a cow?

535
00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:23,040
Speaker 1: Wow?

536
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 4: I was just like, she's bubbles the tattoo of some bubbles.

537
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:34,200
Speaker 3: And then she keeps wanting to get the death tarot

538
00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:36,399
Speaker 3: card and I'm like, I don't know. I mean she

539
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:36,919
Speaker 3: might need it.

540
00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:38,680
Speaker 4: She might need some of her new stuff, like her

541
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Speaker 4: current self might need to die or some for her

542
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Speaker 4: to grow.

543
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Speaker 5: That's actually what the I like the cash cow.

544
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Speaker 3: Like, if you had a tattoo or you got one,

545
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Speaker 3: what would it be.

546
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Speaker 5: I always thought that I would get like a compass.

547
00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 6: Wait, I was thinking about getting a compass recently.

548
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Speaker 5: Like a map compass. I was always get like a

549
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Speaker 5: map comps my last name is.

550
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Speaker 6: I was going dead one in Spain because I felt like, yeah, travel,

551
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 6: like I want to travel right now, I can find

552
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Speaker 6: I can.

553
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Speaker 3: I don't know what my reasoning was. It was deep,

554
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 3: but I can't think better right now.

555
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 8: I want some more. I went like a big piece.

556
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 6: I go in and out of wanting it, so I

557
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:15,720
Speaker 6: don't get it because clearly I don't want that.

558
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:18,560
Speaker 5: What do you guys have scars? What are your best scars?

559
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:19,399
Speaker 7: Uh?

560
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:20,480
Speaker 3: C section scar?

561
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:23,680
Speaker 5: Really? Wow, that's what I'm.

562
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:24,639
Speaker 1: Talking about that.

563
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:27,480
Speaker 6: Yeah, they took my good side and laid them on

564
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:34,200
Speaker 6: the table, small human. I've seen the video. Yeah, they let.

565
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 3: You videotape it. Yeah, they were like encouraging it. The

566
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:38,919
Speaker 3: CEA section. My doctor was like, make sure you get

567
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Speaker 3: the camera ready.

568
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Speaker 4: That's so good because let me tell you, guys, doctors

569
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 4: are so fucking shitty these days that even in natural

570
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 4: bursts and hospitals, a lot.

571
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Speaker 3: Of hospitals, they don't want to be liable.

572
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:51,800
Speaker 4: They don't want to be liable if shit goes wrong

573
00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 4: and you kept them on camera doing some shit that's

574
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:57,359
Speaker 4: not medically aligned. So that goes to show, bitch, you're

575
00:27:57,400 --> 00:27:59,399
Speaker 4: doing something wrong if you're not scared that you wouldn't

576
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:01,280
Speaker 4: people want to cover their fucking birth.

577
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 3: I could have done. I mean it was cool to see.

578
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:08,240
Speaker 3: But I love my birth video. I'm so into childbirth though,

579
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 3: me and literally watch home birth.

580
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:11,520
Speaker 5: I'm so into childbirth.

581
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 8: I'm I'm amazed by it.

582
00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 3: I want to be a doula.

583
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:16,919
Speaker 4: Like, I think it's the most powerful, Like, it's the

584
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:20,119
Speaker 4: most powerful thing you can witness. It's literally the like

585
00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:23,639
Speaker 4: the gateway from the heavens to Earth. You're witnessing like

586
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:26,400
Speaker 4: a time portal be born. It's the coolest shit.

587
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 5: Ever, you know what I'm into.

588
00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 1: I'm into the way childbirth is obviously awesome.

589
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 5: When I'm into like.

590
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 1: Talk to like women that have given birth, I'm like, so,

591
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:43,080
Speaker 1: why is did your breast start to make? And they go, well,

592
00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 1: because I was pregnant, So I'll go, you mean telling

593
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 1: me that you got pregnant and the rest of your

594
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 1: body just knew it was time to fucking make something. Yeah,

595
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 1: insane to me.

596
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 3: You know.

597
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:56,760
Speaker 4: You know, like like talks to the baby, So if

598
00:28:56,760 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 4: the baby gets sick, the saliva communicates with your and

599
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:01,840
Speaker 4: it will like up something or down.

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Speaker 1: Like, can you guys understand how wild that is? Leak.

601
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 3: When your baby's crying, or any baby.

602
00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:08,680
Speaker 8: You could be in the store and you can hear

603
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 8: a baby crying, your tits will start to.

604
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:13,120
Speaker 3: Like that's wow, it is. It's pretty wizardous. You need

605
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 3: to I need to send you some Instagram.

606
00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I'm so adding.

607
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:20,080
Speaker 3: I don't even with you.

608
00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 1: I don't like because the reality is that it freaks

609
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:25,200
Speaker 1: me out and made me look at you.

610
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 3: Well, I want to talk to you. Remember that video,

611
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:29,480
Speaker 3: just sad the video I sent him of the girls.

612
00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 5: Disgusting of the stomach.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what. Okay, Well, do you want kids?

614
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 3: Eventually eventually comes from a big family. Okay, so what

615
00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:38,680
Speaker 3: about it? Are you?

616
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:40,400
Speaker 4: Are you afraid you're going to be traumatized from the

617
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:42,800
Speaker 4: pussy for life if you actually waitness it more often?

618
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 5: This is this is what I'm afraid of.

619
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Speaker 1: There's there's things that like I try to over overstand things,

620
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:52,040
Speaker 1: like I try to really delve into stuff and get

621
00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:54,800
Speaker 1: a good grasp of it. But you just cannot understand

622
00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:58,160
Speaker 1: the female body and the intricacies and all of that stuff.

623
00:29:58,200 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 4: But do you think it's because it's not normalized and

624
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,240
Speaker 4: and like an enlightened fashion that all the images you've

625
00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 4: seen thus far are primarily like women screaming in the hospital.

626
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Speaker 3: You look sick, you look like you're demented. Like maybe

627
00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:09,240
Speaker 3: you'd have to see.

628
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:12,240
Speaker 4: More like uncentered real home birth, like birth period to

629
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:13,760
Speaker 4: see like the hypno births.

630
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Speaker 3: You can go into the trend like there's woman who

631
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:19,720
Speaker 3: like orgasm and laughed during during the child or.

632
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Speaker 5: I already know. I don't want no part of that.

633
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 1: I already know.

634
00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:28,760
Speaker 4: Bitch, send him all the videos, like, stop sending me

635
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:29,160
Speaker 4: this ship.

636
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 3: Wait, listen, listen the last I sent.

637
00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 4: I sent this guy like, so, do you have a

638
00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:37,960
Speaker 4: preference when you have a baby, do you want to

639
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 4: have a home birth or hospital birth?

640
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Speaker 8: That this is something you've never thought about until right now.

641
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Speaker 5: I just want the baby to come out with all

642
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 5: his fingers and to right Okay.

643
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:47,440
Speaker 3: So, I like, most people are scared of it.

644
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 4: They don't like it's unfamiliar, especially men, because it's not

645
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:50,760
Speaker 4: really normalized.

646
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Speaker 3: So I kept sending him videos. I kept sending him videos.

647
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:54,719
Speaker 3: He was like, like, I could tell he wasn't really

648
00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:55,840
Speaker 3: looking at him responding.

649
00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 4: I sent him this one, really good one that I'm

650
00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 4: going to send you right after this, and you'd one

651
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:01,840
Speaker 4: that he dis messaged me.

652
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 3: That was so beautiful. I cried breakthrough.

653
00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:09,880
Speaker 4: I felt like I had like taken over one person, like, yes,

654
00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 4: one person down.

655
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 1: That I'm going to delete the threat. No, listen, I'll

656
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 1: be honest with you. I'm Another thing about me is

657
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 1: that being from the South and be like I'm squeamish.

658
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 3: No, here's the thing I think. No, no, no, listen,

659
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 3: are very squeamish. But you like grew up on a farm.

660
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 3: I'm sure the analysts burst and you have witnessed it.

661
00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 1: I saw it sometimes, so that didn't make you money.

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Speaker 6: Once you find whoever is that you're just gonna have

663
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:40,080
Speaker 6: your baby and you go through a pregnancy with her,

664
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Speaker 6: your perspective is going to change.

665
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Speaker 3: Most definitely because it's going to be your child.

666
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Speaker 6: You're gonna want to be right there, you coolish ship

667
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 6: that you're gonna see your fucking child come out of

668
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:49,560
Speaker 6: this woman.

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Speaker 3: I might pass out still, but I.

670
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Speaker 1: Think I do think that birth, and I think that

671
00:31:55,800 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 1: birth is a beautiful thing. I think that, like, seriously,

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00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 1: I'm marvel at women's ability. Like we have a couple

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Speaker 1: of girls in the office right now that are pregnant

674
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Speaker 1: and I just marvel at their ability to go through this,

675
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:12,640
Speaker 1: like there's stuff growing inside of them and eating off

676
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 1: them and all of that stuff like that, and like

677
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:17,480
Speaker 1: so it's just it's interesting. But I'm telling you, if

678
00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 1: men have to do it, there would be no people.

679
00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, the population problem.

680
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:23,880
Speaker 5: How does that feel?

681
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:24,680
Speaker 1: As women?

682
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 5: How does it feel? How does it feel to know that?

683
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously biology plays into it, and we don't

684
00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:32,840
Speaker 1: have to so we can't. But how does it feel

685
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:37,880
Speaker 1: to know that you do something that is so obviously necessary.

686
00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:43,040
Speaker 1: I'm not just talking about getting pregnant. I'm talking about, uh,

687
00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:48,960
Speaker 1: carrying the child, like uh, nurturing the child, feeding the child,

688
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 1: even the relationship between mother and child.

689
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:57,400
Speaker 5: Those same men are going to come into society and

690
00:32:57,400 --> 00:32:58,240
Speaker 5: then shit on women.

691
00:32:58,960 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 3: Oh not my son.

692
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:02,880
Speaker 1: Not not saying that, not saying that, not saying that

693
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 1: those kids will do that. But I'm just saying, how

694
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:07,840
Speaker 1: does it feel to be so necessary and then.

695
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,840
Speaker 10: So marginalized you're saying just kids in general, just talking

696
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:12,000
Speaker 10: about society in general.

697
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:17,120
Speaker 4: I feel underrated as fuck, like very underrated, like very

698
00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:20,800
Speaker 4: like not acknowledged to the level of levels at all.

699
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:22,480
Speaker 1: I when you think about it, women should really be

700
00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:24,520
Speaker 1: and I'm not really not trying to gash out because

701
00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:27,640
Speaker 1: it's a thing. I'm really not when you think about it,

702
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:30,040
Speaker 1: women should be exalted.

703
00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:33,040
Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean with a patriarch society. And that's not

704
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 8: for no reason.

705
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 4: It's because the power that we have is great. I mean,

706
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:38,840
Speaker 4: just like in any other situation, you gotta look at it.

707
00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 4: When something is scary and powerful, they're going to always

708
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 4: downplay it. They're going to always make it feel small

709
00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:46,960
Speaker 4: than what it is, like so many other things.

710
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 3: That you know of.

711
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:53,120
Speaker 1: Also, managers like very straightforward, like we're very like men,

712
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 1: like I had a like growing up, I was given

713
00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:58,120
Speaker 1: There was no complexity to the message that was given

714
00:33:58,160 --> 00:33:58,360
Speaker 1: to me.

715
00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 5: You know what I mean, very very straight to the point.

716
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:06,280
Speaker 1: This is what's expected of you if you like, this

717
00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:08,239
Speaker 1: is what you have to do to make something out

718
00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:11,399
Speaker 1: of your life. It's very boom boom boom boom boom

719
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:12,880
Speaker 1: boom boom. You have to be this way, you have

720
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:13,839
Speaker 1: to be that way, you have to be this way,

721
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:15,880
Speaker 1: you have to be that way. And the man's goal,

722
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:20,680
Speaker 1: at least my goal was to find the complexity in life.

723
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 1: It was to find it was like to understand that

724
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:25,359
Speaker 1: like it's dope to just.

725
00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:27,240
Speaker 5: Stop and like look at a butterfly.

726
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 1: Or like it's dope to just kind of take in

727
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:32,480
Speaker 1: life and not be so focused on things. I feel

728
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:36,319
Speaker 1: like inherently women have a different view of that, and

729
00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:38,800
Speaker 1: they sometimes have to find the fact that it's okay

730
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:42,520
Speaker 1: to be focused and it's ok to be incredibly goal

731
00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:44,719
Speaker 1: oriented and go, yo, I need time for myself and

732
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:45,399
Speaker 1: I gotta do this.

733
00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:50,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, there's social standards that we're conditioned to

734
00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 4: be like particular.

735
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 5: Way, so I being conditioned.

736
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 4: Man, I'm trying every day, But there's Instagram.

737
00:34:57,320 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 3: I think I go through a range of emotions. I

738
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:00,840
Speaker 3: go through being angry.

739
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:03,359
Speaker 6: Then I go through feeling really empowered because I know

740
00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 6: that women are the shit, and I feel like, you know,

741
00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:08,320
Speaker 6: you have to feel empowered in that, you know, or

742
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:10,239
Speaker 6: else you're just always gonna feel like shit, you know

743
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 6: what I mean? And then you get mad again, like

744
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:13,719
Speaker 6: the dumb shit happens, and it goes. It's like a

745
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:16,440
Speaker 6: range of emotions. But I think women.

746
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:19,000
Speaker 3: I think women are stronger than ever right now.

747
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:21,920
Speaker 1: That's very true, I think. And by the way I

748
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:23,959
Speaker 1: think women are, I think women are stronger than everyone.

749
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,440
Speaker 1: I think that other societies where women have been empowered.

750
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:29,719
Speaker 1: And I'm not just talking about from leadership standpoints, we're

751
00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:30,920
Speaker 1: talking about financially.

752
00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 5: There's a great documentary on it that shows.

753
00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:38,200
Speaker 1: How the US is actually lagging behind other nations in

754
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:41,759
Speaker 1: all different aspects. Because people that can hear the sound

755
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:44,960
Speaker 1: of my voice, I know that you guys think that

756
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:47,360
Speaker 1: America is like number one and everything.

757
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 5: It's like, that's not true. The reality is.

758
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 1: That America is incredibly wealthy and has the most fear

759
00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 1: military machine in the history of mankind. And really outside

760
00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:02,600
Speaker 1: of those things, like, there are not too many other

761
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:04,600
Speaker 1: things we can say that we are the best at,

762
00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 1: but there are other countries that are thriving, and those

763
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:10,960
Speaker 1: countries have empowered women, not just like in the financial sector,

764
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:14,319
Speaker 1: in the political sector, and we're lagging behind because there's

765
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:17,680
Speaker 1: non diversity of voices here.

766
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:23,040
Speaker 14: I mean, America, we're black, you aren't gonna tell us no,

767
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:25,600
Speaker 14: but just women in general, Yeah, not even just black

768
00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:26,400
Speaker 14: women for sure.

769
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:31,719
Speaker 3: But yeah, what was I gonna.

770
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 5: Ask you then?

771
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:37,879
Speaker 4: And told you we shouldn't get high us every day

772
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:38,759
Speaker 4: every time we do this.

773
00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:40,360
Speaker 3: Damn we shouldn't got hot.

774
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 6: Oh wait, what did you say for single mom? You

775
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:47,600
Speaker 6: said something when we asked them different difficult. Yeah, so

776
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 6: what what you know, because you're the first male we've

777
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:54,240
Speaker 6: had on well, actually we had a couple our last episode,

778
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:55,320
Speaker 6: but it's totally different.

779
00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 3: You're a single black male. Are you single?

780
00:36:57,360 --> 00:36:57,560
Speaker 5: No?

781
00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:02,320
Speaker 3: Not single? Not single black male. But you're not married

782
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:03,239
Speaker 3: and you don't have any kids.

783
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 6: Okay, and but you've been single like for the most part,

784
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 6: like right, or you've been in a relationship for long?

785
00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:12,080
Speaker 3: How long have you been in this relationship?

786
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 9: Oh?

787
00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:13,440
Speaker 5: Wow?

788
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 3: Oh interesting?

789
00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:18,319
Speaker 6: Like over a year?

790
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:19,200
Speaker 3: Yeah?

791
00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:22,520
Speaker 6: Anyway, so I just want to know, like, what is

792
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 6: your perspective on Obviously it's you've had a difficult time

793
00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:28,720
Speaker 6: dating single mother before.

794
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:31,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, but so you actually so you would prefer to

795
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:32,359
Speaker 3: not date one?

796
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 9: Right?

797
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 3: Or do you avoid them? Is your girlfriend now? Mom? No? Okay?

798
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:38,920
Speaker 1: Uh, what's the question?

799
00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:42,120
Speaker 3: Do you do you what is your experience?

800
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:45,800
Speaker 5: I've had two experiences and they were both horrible.

801
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 3: I had to experiences baby daddy drama or one of

802
00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:52,480
Speaker 3: them was.

803
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:57,239
Speaker 15: Severe baby daddy oh damn, and the other one was

804
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:01,440
Speaker 15: like one of them was severe baby dady drama and

805
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:06,120
Speaker 15: the other one was like severe baby like kid drama.

806
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:08,160
Speaker 3: What do you mean the on the kid dam was

807
00:38:08,160 --> 00:38:09,279
Speaker 3: like a bad kid didn't like you.

808
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:15,360
Speaker 1: Okay, So here's the thing one of the relationships, Like

809
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 1: I think I did something wrong, and but this is

810
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 1: what I did wrong. It's like I like kids, right,

811
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:23,279
Speaker 1: so I like to like play with kids. I like

812
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:26,400
Speaker 1: to talk to kids. Kids are fun. They're learning so

813
00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:29,800
Speaker 1: fast that it's like it makes me super happy because

814
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:34,360
Speaker 1: like a kid doesn't know ship one day, like literally

815
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:36,319
Speaker 1: one day they don't know ship, and then the next

816
00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:38,719
Speaker 1: time you talk to them, I'm like, yo, how can

817
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:39,319
Speaker 1: you you know?

818
00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:43,880
Speaker 5: Words? Like where are you getting all of this? And so.

819
00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 1: Uh, I started talking to her son almost immediately.

820
00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 5: And then this little nigg would not leave me alone

821
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 5: like he would like, he.

822
00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 1: Would not he.

823
00:38:58,440 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 5: Would not leave me alone.

824
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:02,399
Speaker 1: And then what happened was when they started going bad

825
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:07,840
Speaker 1: between us, she sort of used him to.

826
00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:08,480
Speaker 3: Try to keep you, try to.

827
00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:10,960
Speaker 1: Like you know what I'm saying. She sort she sort

828
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:16,399
Speaker 1: of used him to kind of do that, and that

829
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:20,239
Speaker 1: just ended up back. She'd be like, yo, listen, I

830
00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:22,880
Speaker 1: know you're not coming over here to see me because

831
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:24,640
Speaker 1: you're just out here doing whatever you're doing.

832
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:27,880
Speaker 5: But Jamal would really like if you no.

833
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:30,239
Speaker 3: No, that's your.

834
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 1: Jamal would really like you just came over.

835
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:38,200
Speaker 3: Here, you're you're not right, or she would.

836
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:40,400
Speaker 5: Be like, yo, this game is messing up. He doesn't

837
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:41,120
Speaker 5: know how to fix it.

838
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 1: And then it would be weird because I would come

839
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:45,920
Speaker 1: over there like well, did you have love for this kid?

840
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 3: Or was he really annoying?

841
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:47,799
Speaker 1: Man?

842
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:54,320
Speaker 8: The relationship south because she was overbearing?

843
00:39:54,680 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, because like and then because there was there was

844
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:03,279
Speaker 5: one specific time. There was one specific time to where

845
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:04,040
Speaker 5: I never get this.

846
00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:06,960
Speaker 1: It was no specific time. It's maybe like I don't know,

847
00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:10,960
Speaker 1: oh five or something like that. There's one specific time.

848
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 1: So it's like, uh, it's like, yo, I'm coming over.

849
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:16,279
Speaker 1: She's like, just come over.

850
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:20,279
Speaker 6: But you were young man too five. I mean it's

851
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:21,919
Speaker 6: not like a grown man now man.

852
00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:22,279
Speaker 3: I know.

853
00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:24,319
Speaker 1: She's like she's like, come over, like I'm about to

854
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:27,759
Speaker 1: I'm about to go to sleep, Like come over here

855
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:29,480
Speaker 1: before I go to sleep, tipe me up real quick.

856
00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:31,799
Speaker 5: I'm like cool, So I come over there. I get over.

857
00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:35,719
Speaker 1: So I get over there, right, she's already sleep, and

858
00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:38,399
Speaker 1: so I'm like, yo, what do I do? Cause it's

859
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:41,680
Speaker 1: like I don't want to wake her up, you know whatever,

860
00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:44,720
Speaker 1: but whatever. But as soon as I get into the house.

861
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:50,480
Speaker 1: He comes this live man, and so what I said,

862
00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:52,640
Speaker 1: you know what I'll do, like I'll play games with

863
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 1: him until he goes to sleep.

864
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:56,360
Speaker 5: Then I'll wake her off and won't see whatever. Whatever.

865
00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:58,600
Speaker 5: There's no games. You can't tell a kid.

866
00:40:58,719 --> 00:40:58,759
Speaker 3: No.

867
00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 1: He really know me to the point to where that was.

868
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:04,160
Speaker 1: And then the next time I had somebodies he was

869
00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:13,200
Speaker 1: he knew what was going. But my MoMA is that.

870
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:18,680
Speaker 3: You know, like stay.

871
00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:21,359
Speaker 1: He would always say stuff because I'll always be all

872
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:22,839
Speaker 1: about his grades, and he'd be like.

873
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:24,000
Speaker 3: Oh, so now you're gonna be my daddy.

874
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:25,319
Speaker 5: Be like, mister Van, just.

875
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 1: Let you know.

876
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:26,840
Speaker 5: I got an in conduct.

877
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:29,720
Speaker 3: And then I couldn't help but like love right because

878
00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 3: he cared it.

879
00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:34,120
Speaker 1: And then the next time somebody's baby daddy actually cut

880
00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:34,839
Speaker 1: my car off.

881
00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:37,800
Speaker 5: I got out of the car and me this nigga fought.

882
00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:40,040
Speaker 1: At home.

883
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:41,280
Speaker 5: This was back home.

884
00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 6: After that where you're like no more so you're so

885
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:48,680
Speaker 6: your dating experience with women who have children was when

886
00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:49,799
Speaker 6: we were much younger.

887
00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:52,160
Speaker 5: Than Yeah, it was a lot younger, and you've never.

888
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:54,400
Speaker 6: You've never dated like a woman the child as like

889
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:57,799
Speaker 6: a thirty five year old man. So because of the

890
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:00,759
Speaker 6: because of those experience, they've trauma ties you and you've

891
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:04,040
Speaker 6: gone about your You've you've tried not to that, right.

892
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:07,080
Speaker 3: No, it's just how it happens.

893
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:09,480
Speaker 5: Nah, I mean to be honest with you.

894
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:12,239
Speaker 1: No, But what I do realize is this though, What

895
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:16,759
Speaker 1: I do realize is that if you're going to if

896
00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 1: you're going to date someone that has children, then you

897
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:25,160
Speaker 1: have to be more engaged and you have to take

898
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:28,640
Speaker 1: into consideration more people's feelings than just one, and you

899
00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:30,239
Speaker 1: have to consider you have to consider this is the

900
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:32,920
Speaker 1: most important thing when you're in a when you're meeting

901
00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:34,960
Speaker 1: someone and you're trying to establish a relationship with them,

902
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:37,440
Speaker 1: any type of relationship, Like if you're trying to establish

903
00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:39,799
Speaker 1: a friendship, if you're being friends with somebody, Right, you

904
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:41,680
Speaker 1: meet somebody you want to be their friend. You don't

905
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:44,799
Speaker 1: consider other people who are their friends. You consider your

906
00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:48,279
Speaker 1: friendship with them. You don't really consider any other relationship

907
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 1: that they have. Right when you're dating someone that has

908
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:55,960
Speaker 1: a kid, you automatically have to consider another super important relationship.

909
00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:58,240
Speaker 6: Well, I think also you go through a whole well hopefully,

910
00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:01,560
Speaker 6: I mean, at least in my case, in my dating life,

911
00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 6: I definitely don't I'm not going to be introducing my

912
00:43:03,680 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 6: kid to someone else, to someone i'm dating for a

913
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:08,600
Speaker 6: while until I know for sure this is something that

914
00:43:08,640 --> 00:43:10,680
Speaker 6: I want to do, This is something I know he wants.

915
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:13,279
Speaker 5: To do, So it doesn't matter whether do something or not,

916
00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:14,239
Speaker 5: though he's gonna have to.

917
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 14: Understand that by that point, you've already realized that you

918
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:22,439
Speaker 14: know what I'm willing to, you know, consider someone else

919
00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:25,000
Speaker 14: also because I'm so into you or I want to,

920
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:26,919
Speaker 14: you know, explore this on a deeper level.

921
00:43:27,520 --> 00:43:29,520
Speaker 3: So I think it's.

922
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:31,960
Speaker 1: Also hard for y'alla for people with kids to understand that,

923
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:34,760
Speaker 1: Like we don't love y'all kids.

924
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:38,400
Speaker 3: No, it's not. I'll be like, do you want to

925
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:38,960
Speaker 3: sign up for this?

926
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:39,880
Speaker 5: She's annoying?

927
00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:41,480
Speaker 3: This is annoying, Like I do it.

928
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:44,960
Speaker 1: Even when I run. I'm running at Echo Park this morning,

929
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I'm gonna run.

930
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:46,279
Speaker 5: Over these woes.

931
00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 3: At some point, you better love my kid. Yeah, together,

932
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:54,800
Speaker 3: I only know you really like, really fuck with bitch.

933
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 4: I mean, you know, if you really fuck with woman,

934
00:43:57,120 --> 00:43:59,719
Speaker 4: and you will find yourself really loving that kid and

935
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:01,719
Speaker 4: tall reading it as if it's your own. Because that's

936
00:44:01,760 --> 00:44:04,240
Speaker 4: the defining line. Because if they still get your fucking nerves.

937
00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:06,640
Speaker 4: I mean, kids are annoying, but you know there's a level,

938
00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:08,400
Speaker 4: there's levels. If you can if you see yourself like

939
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:09,719
Speaker 4: I love you so much and I want to be

940
00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:11,959
Speaker 4: with you, I can see us still starting a family

941
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 4: in regards to the fact that you already have a

942
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:17,479
Speaker 4: small child, and I'm actually like this person too, then

943
00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:19,319
Speaker 4: you know it's it's real.

944
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 3: Let's be wrong.

945
00:44:20,239 --> 00:44:23,399
Speaker 6: Most of them people with kids are y'all, so we

946
00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:25,239
Speaker 6: would have to be We would have to do that

947
00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:27,440
Speaker 6: anyway too. So I just feel like men like you

948
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:30,560
Speaker 6: have to like be open to both sides because not

949
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:33,319
Speaker 6: now times out of ten, but nine times out of ten,

950
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:35,479
Speaker 6: women are the ones that are entering into relationships with

951
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 6: with like without you.

952
00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:40,480
Speaker 4: But he's a hot commodity, he's not, so he's probably.

953
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:43,920
Speaker 1: The reality is that women are much are normally much

954
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:44,759
Speaker 1: more tethered to their.

955
00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:47,120
Speaker 6: Children than do you think that it is too much

956
00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:50,799
Speaker 6: to ask if a woman would need you to love

957
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 6: their kid, if you all were gonna get married and

958
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:55,480
Speaker 6: start a life together, be in a relationship dating I

959
00:44:55,600 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 6: understand that like dating, that's something different.

960
00:44:57,880 --> 00:44:59,000
Speaker 5: And that's too much to ask.

961
00:44:59,080 --> 00:45:03,120
Speaker 1: What I think is that it to be honest with you,

962
00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:05,240
Speaker 1: if you're going to start a life with some woman

963
00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:08,480
Speaker 1: and marry her and be with her, then there are

964
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 1: a bunch of even if she didn't have kids, there

965
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 1: are a bunch of aspects into her life that you

966
00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:13,239
Speaker 1: would have to heavily.

967
00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:14,360
Speaker 3: Invest into relationship.

968
00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:16,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, and so there are a bunch of different things

969
00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:20,799
Speaker 1: that you and hopefully if you're going to marry a

970
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:23,759
Speaker 1: woman and have that type of life long bond with her,

971
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:25,400
Speaker 1: you would want.

972
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:28,720
Speaker 5: You wouldn't be grudgingly love her kids.

973
00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:32,960
Speaker 1: You would want to start a relationship with that kid

974
00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:36,840
Speaker 1: in order to have a family and to build a family.

975
00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:40,240
Speaker 5: That's what you want to do.

976
00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:43,960
Speaker 4: Do you find yourself as you get older still dating younger,

977
00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:45,120
Speaker 4: younger and younger women.

978
00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:51,879
Speaker 3: No, I couldn't date a young guy. I can't date

979
00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 3: anyone younger than I'm obviously.

980
00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:56,919
Speaker 4: Guy older than me only fifteen in man years, So

981
00:45:57,280 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 4: like if you date a young guy, it's like ten.

982
00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:00,000
Speaker 7: In man years.

983
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:02,799
Speaker 1: No, you know, you know. And by the way, like

984
00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:05,120
Speaker 1: a lot of these issues they were talking about, these

985
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:06,759
Speaker 1: are la issues, man, What do you mean?

986
00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:07,680
Speaker 11: Like it?

987
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:10,759
Speaker 5: Like it?

988
00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:11,400
Speaker 1: Like it.

989
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:14,400
Speaker 5: I'm from a smaller.

990
00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:16,839
Speaker 3: Place where everybody got kids by twenty five.

991
00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:21,680
Speaker 1: No, Like when I was back home in Louisiana this

992
00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:25,760
Speaker 1: past time, I was I'm looking at this group of children,

993
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:28,239
Speaker 1: and I was in every hospital room when they were

994
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 1: all born. Right, they're old. Like when I say old,

995
00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:37,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, my nephew side comes in there, he goes, oh, uncle, man,

996
00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:37,640
Speaker 1: come in here.

997
00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:37,799
Speaker 6: Man.

998
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, how old are you again? It's like I'm seventeen.

999
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:44,279
Speaker 1: I'm like, damn, these kids are old. And so in

1000
00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:52,480
Speaker 1: Louisiana they get older, all of them. They're starting on

1001
00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:55,560
Speaker 1: their third kids announce with you. It's getting to the

1002
00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:58,239
Speaker 1: point to where the kids could actually have kids. So

1003
00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:01,359
Speaker 1: where I'm from, it didn't like I was the only

1004
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:03,640
Speaker 1: guy who made the decision to plan out my future.

1005
00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:05,719
Speaker 1: I was the only guy that said this is what

1006
00:47:05,760 --> 00:47:08,359
Speaker 1: I wanted. Everybody else just fell into Somebody fell into

1007
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:10,200
Speaker 1: a family, fell into all of these things.

1008
00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:12,600
Speaker 4: And you think in La like that's less likely because

1009
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:15,520
Speaker 4: people are like hustling, there's more and what like, well,

1010
00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:16,319
Speaker 4: I mean a.

1011
00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:18,399
Speaker 1: Couple of number one, a lot of transplants here. So

1012
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:22,440
Speaker 1: number one, it's because there's so many transplants, it's less likely.

1013
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:24,040
Speaker 5: That you left the child to come here.

1014
00:47:24,160 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 1: Some did, But but it's less likely that you left

1015
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:32,200
Speaker 1: the child to come here. And then number two, with

1016
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:35,640
Speaker 1: the amount of things that that people like, people are

1017
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 1: always so on guard here. I just think that there's

1018
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:40,440
Speaker 1: a less chance of it just going down. Like my

1019
00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:43,600
Speaker 1: homies just I can't understand what happened. It just start

1020
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:44,120
Speaker 1: spitting out.

1021
00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:47,319
Speaker 5: Kids should be like to get married. Some of them

1022
00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:47,800
Speaker 5: got married.

1023
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:50,239
Speaker 1: I mean eventually you're saying your homies here or your

1024
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:52,359
Speaker 1: homies my homies back home. They just like we got

1025
00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:54,280
Speaker 1: to a point and everybody's like, yo, Brush, you're pregnant.

1026
00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:57,960
Speaker 3: Brush pregnant.

1027
00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:01,279
Speaker 5: But what made us stopped pulling out?

1028
00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:04,800
Speaker 3: Like getting all the education, a lot of things was

1029
00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:06,359
Speaker 3: a lot of fact we used to pull out.

1030
00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:09,239
Speaker 1: I asked, like I really was very I'm like, can

1031
00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 1: I ask why this is happening?

1032
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 3: Maybe they wanted to start family.

1033
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:12,839
Speaker 1: I think they did.

1034
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:14,400
Speaker 3: Was getting tired. I don't know.

1035
00:48:15,680 --> 00:48:17,799
Speaker 1: It's just like what what what made it? What made

1036
00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 1: them stop? Because like we up to twenty two twenty three.

1037
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:24,279
Speaker 3: Nobody wanted that was your biggest fear.

1038
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:27,000
Speaker 5: It wasn't my biggest fear. It's just something.

1039
00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:28,680
Speaker 1: I also remember I was huge at this point, so

1040
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:31,000
Speaker 1: it wasn't like I was smashing the whole fucking campus.

1041
00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:33,640
Speaker 3: So like I was, how big were you?

1042
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 5: Like three sixty?

1043
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:36,000
Speaker 3: Did you play football?

1044
00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1045
00:48:36,640 --> 00:48:38,279
Speaker 5: I did, but that's not why.

1046
00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:42,319
Speaker 3: So how long did you live all the way?

1047
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:43,080
Speaker 7: Oh?

1048
00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:44,720
Speaker 5: I see, maybe like two thousand and seven?

1049
00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:47,839
Speaker 3: Okay, what was that like around.

1050
00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 4: The time I moved to lay Was in LA that

1051
00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:51,600
Speaker 4: motivated your health?

1052
00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:52,000
Speaker 3: To kid?

1053
00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:54,200
Speaker 1: No, I think that because La is a.

1054
00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:55,960
Speaker 3: Very shallow place if anybody's ever.

1055
00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:57,640
Speaker 5: Been here, No, I don't think it was La.

1056
00:48:57,719 --> 00:49:02,520
Speaker 1: I think that for me when I made a decision, well,

1057
00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:04,440
Speaker 1: when I made a decision that I was really gonna

1058
00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:08,640
Speaker 1: like go forward in life, there's this vision of me

1059
00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:11,640
Speaker 1: that I have, right, this vision of me that I

1060
00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:13,360
Speaker 1: look and still this guy that I see and I

1061
00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:14,160
Speaker 1: haven't attained it.

1062
00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:17,560
Speaker 5: I can see him, like I really can't.

1063
00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:20,120
Speaker 1: I can see what he's doing, I can see his mindset,

1064
00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 1: I can see how he deals with people, and I'm

1065
00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:23,719
Speaker 1: like chasing him in a way.

1066
00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:26,360
Speaker 5: And so that's like your future self.

1067
00:49:26,680 --> 00:49:27,759
Speaker 1: Yeah you know what I mean.

1068
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:31,759
Speaker 5: So like I came here and I I lost one

1069
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:32,920
Speaker 5: hundred and thirty pounds.

1070
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:36,279
Speaker 4: Other than like your physical transformation, how would you say

1071
00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:37,160
Speaker 4: LA has changed you?

1072
00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:38,200
Speaker 3: Because Louisiana to LA.

1073
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:40,439
Speaker 4: Well did you move straight from Louisian to LA after

1074
00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:42,759
Speaker 4: the hurricane? How do you How do you feel like

1075
00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:44,800
Speaker 4: you think you've got in Hollywood and any of your friends,

1076
00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:47,320
Speaker 4: because like Hollywood, I've seen translants come to Hollywood.

1077
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:49,400
Speaker 3: Well they're usually the most Hollywood ones.

1078
00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:52,720
Speaker 4: And now they're on three thousand, Like, look here, motherfucker,

1079
00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:53,359
Speaker 4: you need to calm down.

1080
00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:56,359
Speaker 3: I know there are depictings of what.

1081
00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:59,120
Speaker 4: They think is Hollywood, so it's elaborated. So how do

1082
00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:01,600
Speaker 4: you think Hollywood has affected you?

1083
00:50:02,480 --> 00:50:04,880
Speaker 5: I think it's affected me.

1084
00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 1: The first thing he did was expand the scope of

1085
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:16,520
Speaker 1: my brain is how much I thought was out there.

1086
00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:20,000
Speaker 5: As far as me becoming Hollywood, Like I'm not even.

1087
00:50:19,840 --> 00:50:23,160
Speaker 1: Skilled enough in life to be Hollywood, and like, to

1088
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:26,440
Speaker 1: be Hollywood, you have to there's a certain set of

1089
00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:27,399
Speaker 1: skills that that takes.

1090
00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:28,160
Speaker 3: You think you would be.

1091
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,040
Speaker 6: Able to identify if you were Hollywoo, because most of

1092
00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:31,400
Speaker 6: other people wouldn't say're on Hollywood?

1093
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:35,000
Speaker 1: Maybe not, but well maybe not. But what I would

1094
00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:38,480
Speaker 1: say is what I view as being Hollywood. I could

1095
00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:41,080
Speaker 1: never be because I'm just not that good.

1096
00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 3: And what is the definition for you?

1097
00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:52,479
Speaker 1: Like seamlessly navigating social situations, dressing up, having a car

1098
00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:57,880
Speaker 1: that like, like, I make a really good salary, but

1099
00:50:57,920 --> 00:50:59,879
Speaker 1: you would never know by the Cross Tour right because

1100
00:50:59,880 --> 00:51:02,239
Speaker 1: I got the trust dependable Honda Cross Tour up here.

1101
00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:06,600
Speaker 5: I just can't bring myself. I just can't do it.

1102
00:51:06,920 --> 00:51:09,840
Speaker 1: I can't, like, I can't bring myself to Every single

1103
00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:10,879
Speaker 1: stitch of the clothes I'm.

1104
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:11,960
Speaker 5: Wearing right now is gifted to me.

1105
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:19,279
Speaker 3: Here's another one.

1106
00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:24,520
Speaker 1: So, but I think like being Hollywood, like, I think

1107
00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:29,480
Speaker 1: that it takes effort. But for the people that are Hollywood,

1108
00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:33,000
Speaker 1: that's what they like. Like they like being out like

1109
00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:37,400
Speaker 1: all the time. They like, uh, going to meetings that

1110
00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:41,240
Speaker 1: have no results. Everybody's eating somewhere but like nothing ever happened,

1111
00:51:42,680 --> 00:51:43,839
Speaker 1: like no deals ever.

1112
00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:45,040
Speaker 5: Actually, let's have drinks.

1113
00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:46,200
Speaker 1: Let's talk about it.

1114
00:51:46,680 --> 00:51:46,799
Speaker 4: Yo.

1115
00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:48,640
Speaker 3: It's like, is anybody working really?

1116
00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:51,799
Speaker 1: Man? People hit me up like like people like, man,

1117
00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:53,440
Speaker 1: come over here, man, it's so much going on.

1118
00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:55,880
Speaker 5: Let's have drinks to talk about what and nothing?

1119
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:59,319
Speaker 3: Ever? And then you become Hollywood for doing that. You're

1120
00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:01,080
Speaker 3: not Hollywood. That's how they perceive you.

1121
00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:03,279
Speaker 1: Man, What you got? If I'm a drive across town,

1122
00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:05,279
Speaker 1: you want to talk to me about something. Oh yeah,

1123
00:52:05,280 --> 00:52:06,719
Speaker 1: I got something for you. You send me the deck, send

1124
00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:06,920
Speaker 1: me that.

1125
00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:10,400
Speaker 6: Most of the broke is not doing ship people are

1126
00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:11,520
Speaker 6: the most Hollywood ones, you know.

1127
00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:13,600
Speaker 8: We text them like, Hi, hand do you want to

1128
00:52:13,640 --> 00:52:14,680
Speaker 8: We're going to take you to dinner.

1129
00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:16,759
Speaker 3: He's like, what do you guys want to talk about?

1130
00:52:17,200 --> 00:52:20,719
Speaker 3: Because what do you ladies want to talk about?

1131
00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:24,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, he's the reality is we don't have. The

1132
00:52:24,280 --> 00:52:25,960
Speaker 1: reality is if you need me to come through the

1133
00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:28,200
Speaker 1: podcast or if you want to, we don't have to

1134
00:52:28,239 --> 00:52:29,080
Speaker 1: go to dinner to do that.

1135
00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:31,719
Speaker 5: I know, I know, I get it, and but like,

1136
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:32,160
Speaker 5: but my.

1137
00:52:32,440 --> 00:52:35,520
Speaker 1: Thing is, like we all of this ship like when

1138
00:52:35,560 --> 00:52:37,800
Speaker 1: you MIMMO to anyone.

1139
00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 5: Like I don't, I'm not. You don't have to be

1140
00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:45,920
Speaker 5: my friend in order for me to do business with you.

1141
00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:48,200
Speaker 1: So if you need.

1142
00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:50,480
Speaker 3: Something from me, tell.

1143
00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:52,960
Speaker 1: Me what you need from me, Like, don't could like

1144
00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:55,680
Speaker 1: when you you hit me up in the d MS,

1145
00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:57,480
Speaker 1: don't hit me up with no hard eyes.

1146
00:52:57,520 --> 00:52:59,919
Speaker 5: So you can get on TMC say yo, I want

1147
00:52:59,920 --> 00:53:00,920
Speaker 5: to be on TM.

1148
00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:03,640
Speaker 3: And I respect to the point.

1149
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:05,399
Speaker 5: And then I will send a camera to you because

1150
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:06,560
Speaker 5: I don't give a funk about that.

1151
00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:11,480
Speaker 3: So it gives me a celebrity.

1152
00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:12,759
Speaker 5: You could definitely be onto you.

1153
00:53:12,840 --> 00:53:17,440
Speaker 1: I can definitely like, oh, I could definitely be on

1154
00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:21,120
Speaker 1: you know you know how people you know I put

1155
00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:21,920
Speaker 1: like my next door.

1156
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:24,120
Speaker 3: Neighbors on you about to see us on there.

1157
00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:26,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just saying, but it's just like, if you

1158
00:53:27,040 --> 00:53:30,960
Speaker 1: that's what you want, don't flirt with me, don't be like, man,

1159
00:53:31,000 --> 00:53:33,480
Speaker 1: I really appreciate you to Kanye nah dog what you

1160
00:53:33,520 --> 00:53:36,000
Speaker 1: want because I don't really have because there are things

1161
00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:37,280
Speaker 1: that I actually.

1162
00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:39,480
Speaker 5: Want to do and I have such I have so

1163
00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:41,879
Speaker 5: little time to do them. Let's just talk. I will

1164
00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:42,440
Speaker 5: build with you.

1165
00:53:42,719 --> 00:53:44,440
Speaker 1: I'm not to a point to where I'm not listening

1166
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:47,440
Speaker 1: to ideas to where I'm not well, I'm turning people.

1167
00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:50,520
Speaker 5: Down like yeo, I'm too busy for this man, Like,

1168
00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:51,439
Speaker 5: I will build with you.

1169
00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:52,640
Speaker 1: Just be real with it.

1170
00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:55,440
Speaker 6: Do you ever get how do you like separate yourself

1171
00:53:55,440 --> 00:53:58,000
Speaker 6: from like constantly having to know what's going on all

1172
00:53:58,080 --> 00:53:59,680
Speaker 6: the time, right, because you're kind of.

1173
00:54:00,040 --> 00:54:03,320
Speaker 3: What you mean, you work for like a like a CMC.

1174
00:54:03,560 --> 00:54:05,920
Speaker 6: Like you always social, you know, it's very social. You

1175
00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:08,160
Speaker 6: are always in the know of other people's lives.

1176
00:54:08,360 --> 00:54:09,640
Speaker 3: How do you separate yourself? How do you take a

1177
00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:10,279
Speaker 3: break from that ship.

1178
00:54:10,600 --> 00:54:12,239
Speaker 5: I don't. I mean that was second acture to me,

1179
00:54:12,320 --> 00:54:12,880
Speaker 5: so like it.

1180
00:54:13,120 --> 00:54:16,200
Speaker 1: There are a lot of things that I don't have

1181
00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:20,880
Speaker 1: any knowledge of, but my I think one thing is

1182
00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:23,040
Speaker 1: that in my twenties, when I was a little bit

1183
00:54:23,080 --> 00:54:28,520
Speaker 1: more to myself, my sphere of knowledge grew because being

1184
00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:31,560
Speaker 1: so introverted meant that I would just.

1185
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 5: Look at stuff. I would just consume.

1186
00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:36,719
Speaker 6: For there was a but you were an introvert, you

1187
00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:39,120
Speaker 6: seem like an extra You seem like an introvert, extrovert,

1188
00:54:39,200 --> 00:54:41,000
Speaker 6: but super introverted.

1189
00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:41,160
Speaker 11: Like I was.

1190
00:54:41,400 --> 00:54:43,400
Speaker 1: Like there was a long period of time while I

1191
00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:46,719
Speaker 1: was just in a room consuming writing, I would I

1192
00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:49,600
Speaker 1: would get information from the computer, put it in my

1193
00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:51,600
Speaker 1: head and then download it into what I was writing

1194
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:54,480
Speaker 1: and just consume it and consume it and consume it

1195
00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:55,120
Speaker 1: and consume it.

1196
00:54:55,800 --> 00:54:58,640
Speaker 5: Film, music, pop culture, all of it.

1197
00:54:58,680 --> 00:55:02,520
Speaker 1: And so by the time I got to TMZ, which

1198
00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:04,520
Speaker 1: it was providence and a lotaways and I got there.

1199
00:55:04,560 --> 00:55:07,000
Speaker 1: By the time I got to TMZ, I could regurgitate

1200
00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 1: this knowledge in many different forms. And so now habitually

1201
00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:12,640
Speaker 1: I do that. Now I don't watch all of these

1202
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:15,720
Speaker 1: dumb shows like I don't watch all of this, this, this,

1203
00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:19,400
Speaker 1: this this stuff. But like habitually, I just search, like

1204
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:24,080
Speaker 1: when I'm when I'm watching something on TV, I normally

1205
00:55:24,160 --> 00:55:27,600
Speaker 1: do it like with an iPad, everyone does, right, And

1206
00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:30,400
Speaker 1: so for sure, like when I'm with an iPad and

1207
00:55:30,440 --> 00:55:32,880
Speaker 1: I see stuff or I see I'm just google stuff

1208
00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:34,440
Speaker 1: to gain knowledge from it.

1209
00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:38,760
Speaker 5: But it's just it's like a habit. Long eight years.

1210
00:55:39,160 --> 00:55:40,120
Speaker 3: What were you doing before that?

1211
00:55:40,440 --> 00:55:41,720
Speaker 5: I was running my own block.

1212
00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:44,040
Speaker 1: I was writing for four or five different publications, and

1213
00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:46,319
Speaker 1: then before that, I was a producer. I had a

1214
00:55:46,320 --> 00:55:48,720
Speaker 1: place called Capricorn Programs. We made like smaller shows.

1215
00:55:49,080 --> 00:55:52,279
Speaker 3: Is it all like social like social based or like?

1216
00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:55,719
Speaker 1: I sold the screenplayer or option to one and that

1217
00:55:55,719 --> 00:55:58,319
Speaker 1: got me out to l A and then I got

1218
00:55:58,320 --> 00:56:03,600
Speaker 1: a job with uh Capricorn so I could stay here.

1219
00:56:04,200 --> 00:56:07,440
Speaker 1: And then that company went belly up for whatever reason,

1220
00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:11,239
Speaker 1: still kind of don't know. But and after that I

1221
00:56:11,280 --> 00:56:13,600
Speaker 1: started writing for fan Sided, I started writing for I

1222
00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:16,320
Speaker 1: wrote my own blog, which got picked up by Fox Sports,

1223
00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:20,640
Speaker 1: and then I wrote for flick Sided, and I wrote

1224
00:56:20,640 --> 00:56:21,959
Speaker 1: for rat Pages and I.

1225
00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:22,640
Speaker 5: Just wrote everywhere.

1226
00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:24,400
Speaker 3: What's the bog? I got picked up by Fox Sports.

1227
00:56:24,480 --> 00:56:25,960
Speaker 5: It's called the Sickle Master.

1228
00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:28,480
Speaker 3: And that's still up on Fox Gone. That was all

1229
00:56:28,520 --> 00:56:29,160
Speaker 3: sports space.

1230
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:32,160
Speaker 1: It was sports satire. So I wrote about anything that

1231
00:56:32,200 --> 00:56:33,000
Speaker 1: I wanted to.

1232
00:56:32,920 --> 00:56:34,920
Speaker 3: Write about but just kind of had loose.

1233
00:56:36,160 --> 00:56:37,880
Speaker 5: But it didn't really even have to be about sports.

1234
00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:38,960
Speaker 5: I had there.

1235
00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:40,920
Speaker 1: I used to write blogs when I first got to

1236
00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:44,840
Speaker 1: l A, I blocked everything that I first that I

1237
00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:47,360
Speaker 1: first did. I blogged like homeless guy came up to

1238
00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:48,920
Speaker 1: me and he had great shoes on.

1239
00:56:49,200 --> 00:56:53,000
Speaker 3: He just wrote about it, wrote about it. So you're

1240
00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:54,480
Speaker 3: a writer. I mean I didn't even realize that.

1241
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:57,960
Speaker 6: And then also you are screenplay writer, So you want

1242
00:56:57,960 --> 00:57:00,000
Speaker 6: to create film? And is that your is that your

1243
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:02,920
Speaker 6: ultimately not ultimately one of your ultimate goals in.

1244
00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:06,040
Speaker 1: Life is to say that's the endgame? It okay, So.

1245
00:57:06,080 --> 00:57:08,719
Speaker 3: To just be a screenwriter director of being working film.

1246
00:57:08,560 --> 00:57:11,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the endgame. Well, the I guess the real

1247
00:57:11,920 --> 00:57:18,160
Speaker 1: end game is to create content, content scripted and unscripted

1248
00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:19,200
Speaker 1: that sort of.

1249
00:57:24,720 --> 00:57:26,800
Speaker 5: Like pushes people forward. Like I was telling you guys

1250
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:27,560
Speaker 5: about my mother.

1251
00:57:27,440 --> 00:57:31,360
Speaker 1: Before, right, So the story about my mom and kind

1252
00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:33,800
Speaker 1: of where she is in life right now, it's so

1253
00:57:33,960 --> 00:57:38,120
Speaker 1: typical that I can't understand why anyone is it's discussing

1254
00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:42,000
Speaker 1: it and so you can make a you can make film,

1255
00:57:42,040 --> 00:57:45,200
Speaker 1: and you can make art that empowers people in a way.

1256
00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:46,120
Speaker 5: I'll give you an example.

1257
00:57:46,720 --> 00:57:49,840
Speaker 1: And like, I'm a kid, right talking about my mother,

1258
00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:51,240
Speaker 1: the most important person in my life.

1259
00:57:51,280 --> 00:57:53,480
Speaker 5: I'm a kid. It's nineteen eighty nine, nineteen ninety.

1260
00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:58,080
Speaker 1: I'm watching Do the Right Thing, fantastic, beautiful, affecting, powerful movie.

1261
00:57:58,640 --> 00:58:03,000
Speaker 1: I'm watching Do the Right Thing, and I'm into it

1262
00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:05,240
Speaker 1: like it's one of the first movies with adult themes,

1263
00:58:05,280 --> 00:58:09,720
Speaker 1: and I am it's I'm getting it. I'm getting the anger,

1264
00:58:09,840 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 1: I'm getting the sort of the angst that everyone's going

1265
00:58:13,240 --> 00:58:14,800
Speaker 1: through in the back and forth. And my mother is

1266
00:58:14,920 --> 00:58:18,240
Speaker 1: really enjoying this, right, She's like she's looking at this

1267
00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:21,280
Speaker 1: and she's going wow, Like it's not this isn't he

1268
00:58:21,440 --> 00:58:22,000
Speaker 1: Man based.

1269
00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:24,200
Speaker 5: It's not Superman based. It's not even comedy.

1270
00:58:24,240 --> 00:58:26,880
Speaker 1: Because we had watched Trading Places and all those, it's

1271
00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:29,680
Speaker 1: easy to laugh. She's like, he's getting this, he's understanding it,

1272
00:58:29,760 --> 00:58:31,440
Speaker 1: she says. Now she's watching it with me, And you know,

1273
00:58:31,640 --> 00:58:33,280
Speaker 1: I'm sure there are other reasons why she's watching it.

1274
00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:35,160
Speaker 5: Because it's titt Is in the movie and whatnot.

1275
00:58:35,280 --> 00:58:35,680
Speaker 6: And.

1276
00:58:37,280 --> 00:58:38,560
Speaker 3: With the blindfall lives.

1277
00:58:38,720 --> 00:58:39,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, now she didn't.

1278
00:58:40,040 --> 00:58:44,120
Speaker 1: I was like, look Rose, And so my mother looks

1279
00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:47,760
Speaker 1: at me and she goes, she goes, you see Mookie

1280
00:58:48,000 --> 00:58:51,640
Speaker 1: Spike Lee's character and I'm like yeah. She's like, just

1281
00:58:51,720 --> 00:58:54,520
Speaker 1: let you know, MOOKI wrote and directed the movie. And

1282
00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:57,959
Speaker 1: I'm like, what does that mean? And she goes, well,

1283
00:58:59,000 --> 00:59:01,840
Speaker 1: he made it all up in his head, and then

1284
00:59:01,880 --> 00:59:05,320
Speaker 1: when they were making the movie, he stands there and

1285
00:59:05,400 --> 00:59:08,480
Speaker 1: tells everybody what to do. And my response to my

1286
00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:12,040
Speaker 1: mother was they let black people do that. And she went,

1287
00:59:12,200 --> 00:59:15,160
Speaker 1: I never forget this. She was so taken the back.

1288
00:59:15,240 --> 00:59:21,400
Speaker 1: She goes, yeah, baby, you can do whatever you want

1289
00:59:21,480 --> 00:59:25,720
Speaker 1: to do. And I was like, oh, I never knew that.

1290
00:59:26,400 --> 00:59:27,480
Speaker 1: It was foreign to me.

1291
00:59:27,840 --> 00:59:29,960
Speaker 3: To think about it in those terms, that.

1292
00:59:29,640 --> 00:59:31,480
Speaker 1: That was something that a black dude could do so

1293
00:59:32,280 --> 00:59:34,360
Speaker 1: and it shouldn't have been, but for whatever reason, it

1294
00:59:34,440 --> 00:59:36,440
Speaker 1: was what I was from, Like where I was from

1295
00:59:36,480 --> 00:59:38,840
Speaker 1: at that point, anybody that was in an authority figure

1296
00:59:38,920 --> 00:59:42,040
Speaker 1: was a white guy. And so for me, I'm looking

1297
00:59:42,080 --> 00:59:47,440
Speaker 1: at that and that movie changed my perspective of not filmmaking,

1298
00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:51,440
Speaker 1: but of life. And so film and art has the

1299
00:59:51,480 --> 00:59:55,000
Speaker 1: capability to do that if it's weaponized properly, and so

1300
00:59:55,080 --> 00:59:57,360
Speaker 1: that's kind of like what I like to do, what I.

1301
00:59:57,280 --> 00:59:58,240
Speaker 5: Would like to do.

1302
00:59:58,440 --> 00:59:59,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree.

1303
00:59:59,080 --> 01:00:01,080
Speaker 4: I think it's inspir you know, and I think you know,

1304
01:00:01,120 --> 01:00:03,320
Speaker 4: and now that you say that story, I've always really

1305
01:00:03,400 --> 01:00:05,840
Speaker 4: really like Spike Lee Joints because my dad I watched

1306
01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:10,240
Speaker 4: Crooklynd like seventy five times as a child, but as.

1307
01:00:10,160 --> 01:00:12,440
Speaker 3: A young girl, but as an adult, like, this is

1308
01:00:12,480 --> 01:00:14,600
Speaker 3: really sad. I don't even know why. Yeah, I like

1309
01:00:14,640 --> 01:00:15,160
Speaker 3: she hate me too.

1310
01:00:15,200 --> 01:00:18,200
Speaker 4: I like also, but I I remember thinking like, oh,

1311
01:00:18,240 --> 01:00:20,360
Speaker 4: that's oh he wrote this movie. My dad's blain me that,

1312
01:00:20,400 --> 01:00:22,080
Speaker 4: and like oh that's his sister. Yeah, and it would

1313
01:00:22,080 --> 01:00:25,960
Speaker 4: be like obviously it's so pro black, So like naturally

1314
01:00:26,040 --> 01:00:28,280
Speaker 4: you become attached to it because there's like you're picking

1315
01:00:28,320 --> 01:00:29,960
Speaker 4: hair and there's like things you can relate to.

1316
01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:31,280
Speaker 3: But I think you.

1317
01:00:31,360 --> 01:00:33,560
Speaker 4: Putting in that perspective that probably was a lot of

1318
01:00:33,600 --> 01:00:35,800
Speaker 4: why I enjoyed it so much, because it was like

1319
01:00:36,280 --> 01:00:38,439
Speaker 4: inspiration and it's like, oh.

1320
01:00:38,360 --> 01:00:39,200
Speaker 3: You could do this shit too.

1321
01:00:39,520 --> 01:00:42,200
Speaker 1: And also we don't have to be like it, don't

1322
01:00:41,920 --> 01:00:43,840
Speaker 1: We don't have to have sidral movies where it's like

1323
01:00:43,960 --> 01:00:48,000
Speaker 1: message like one thing that black people we're complicated like

1324
01:00:48,640 --> 01:00:51,640
Speaker 1: people pero, we're complicated. It's not always gonna make sense.

1325
01:00:52,200 --> 01:00:54,640
Speaker 1: It means sometimes it's gonna be ratchet, sometimes it's gonna

1326
01:00:54,640 --> 01:00:55,600
Speaker 1: be No, it's true.

1327
01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:58,800
Speaker 6: But it's like I think, I think what you said that,

1328
01:00:58,880 --> 01:01:00,000
Speaker 6: you know, you can't believe anybody.

1329
01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:00,959
Speaker 3: No one's made this film.

1330
01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:03,760
Speaker 6: It's because that film has probably been made with white people.

1331
01:01:04,200 --> 01:01:07,880
Speaker 6: It's just we don't see the different stories that of

1332
01:01:07,920 --> 01:01:10,080
Speaker 6: like being black in the black perspective and realize that

1333
01:01:10,080 --> 01:01:11,520
Speaker 6: a lot of I means, we're all humans at the

1334
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Speaker 6: end of the day.

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Speaker 3: Yes, we have different experiences.

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Speaker 6: Because of the color of us again, especially in America,

1337
01:01:16,640 --> 01:01:20,400
Speaker 6: but I feel like we're just now starting to see, like,

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01:01:20,400 --> 01:01:22,480
Speaker 6: for example, to show like Insecure, you see like a

1339
01:01:22,640 --> 01:01:26,480
Speaker 6: regular white I mean black woman's white black woman in

1340
01:01:26,520 --> 01:01:28,120
Speaker 6: her early thirties, late.

1341
01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:29,280
Speaker 3: Twenties, and it's so simple.

1342
01:01:29,280 --> 01:01:33,360
Speaker 6: It's not really but it's like it's just about there's

1343
01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:36,800
Speaker 6: one girl's life, like can relate to it, you know,

1344
01:01:37,080 --> 01:01:37,640
Speaker 6: so and.

1345
01:01:37,640 --> 01:01:39,680
Speaker 4: The ship like this, the everyday stuper shit in the

1346
01:01:39,720 --> 01:01:42,280
Speaker 4: corporate world in the office, like stupid shit white people

1347
01:01:42,320 --> 01:01:43,080
Speaker 4: say to you, and you're like.

1348
01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:47,480
Speaker 3: Another day, you know, But that's it. That's why right now.

1349
01:01:47,520 --> 01:01:50,680
Speaker 6: Such an exciting time, you know, to watching film and

1350
01:01:50,720 --> 01:01:54,680
Speaker 6: watching TV because you're starting to see experimental black shows.

1351
01:01:55,320 --> 01:01:57,680
Speaker 6: Most people weren't really, I mean there are, like there's

1352
01:01:57,680 --> 01:01:58,720
Speaker 6: shows of their experiments.

1353
01:01:58,760 --> 01:02:00,880
Speaker 3: Now what do we just watch? And we got high

1354
01:02:00,920 --> 01:02:01,680
Speaker 3: before we watched it.

1355
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Speaker 5: I love that. That's crazy this morning for him and

1356
01:02:10,240 --> 01:02:11,959
Speaker 5: I had never seen it. I'm like, Yo, why haven't

1357
01:02:11,960 --> 01:02:14,120
Speaker 5: I watched it? It's us And I watched.

1358
01:02:13,920 --> 01:02:15,080
Speaker 1: The show and I was like.

1359
01:02:15,320 --> 01:02:19,800
Speaker 3: I love that guy going crazy. It was fantastic because

1360
01:02:19,960 --> 01:02:20,480
Speaker 3: we don't see it.

1361
01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:22,600
Speaker 4: We see ourselves this way, that way, but rarely do

1362
01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:25,680
Speaker 4: we have this like artistic expression of all these things

1363
01:02:25,680 --> 01:02:27,520
Speaker 4: that it's embodying, this creative place.

1364
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Speaker 3: I'm letting your mind go free. And I have to

1365
01:02:30,320 --> 01:02:32,600
Speaker 3: tell it like one I mean is it was an

1366
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Speaker 3: adults threat through.

1367
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Speaker 6: It has a threat all the way through, but it's

1368
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Speaker 6: just like, did you watch the first the first one?

1369
01:02:39,640 --> 01:02:39,840
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1370
01:02:39,840 --> 01:02:43,720
Speaker 1: I watch to like the first one. The first one

1371
01:02:43,800 --> 01:02:46,160
Speaker 1: is great, but the first one they spent a lot

1372
01:02:46,160 --> 01:02:48,920
Speaker 1: of time on that character. We did the Reaper and

1373
01:02:48,960 --> 01:02:50,000
Speaker 1: that's a scary.

1374
01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:51,160
Speaker 3: Ass so scary.

1375
01:02:51,360 --> 01:02:52,840
Speaker 4: Like we got high and I was like, should we

1376
01:02:52,880 --> 01:02:54,920
Speaker 4: have gotten high?

1377
01:02:55,720 --> 01:02:58,920
Speaker 1: Like they like in this last episode, they did a

1378
01:02:59,000 --> 01:03:01,080
Speaker 1: little stuff thing were her but like all of that

1379
01:03:01,160 --> 01:03:02,640
Speaker 1: talk about like that's it.

1380
01:03:02,840 --> 01:03:04,840
Speaker 5: That was freaking me the fun too.

1381
01:03:06,680 --> 01:03:09,240
Speaker 4: I was trying to interpret it in like an artistic way,

1382
01:03:09,280 --> 01:03:10,560
Speaker 4: but I'm like, this is kind of creeping me out.

1383
01:03:10,560 --> 01:03:12,560
Speaker 4: And then I kept thinking, this is a thirty minute show.

1384
01:03:12,560 --> 01:03:13,920
Speaker 4: How long have we been on this segment.

1385
01:03:14,400 --> 01:03:17,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot of time with her, but you know

1386
01:03:17,760 --> 01:03:19,680
Speaker 3: it's just gonna set it's setting it up for something.

1387
01:03:19,880 --> 01:03:21,800
Speaker 1: Well, in the last episode they I don't know if

1388
01:03:21,800 --> 01:03:23,440
Speaker 1: you guys saw the last episode. In the last episode

1389
01:03:23,480 --> 01:03:26,720
Speaker 1: they went they delved into it a little bit deeper, but.

1390
01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:28,160
Speaker 3: It does puty wing because it's so weird.

1391
01:03:28,360 --> 01:03:30,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, but there was such a funny scene and it's.

1392
01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:31,080
Speaker 3: All a grainy.

1393
01:03:31,080 --> 01:03:35,280
Speaker 4: It looks like like the early seventies or some shit like.

1394
01:03:37,560 --> 01:03:39,960
Speaker 1: Something. And this is another reason we're talking about life.

1395
01:03:40,040 --> 01:03:44,080
Speaker 1: So in the last episode of the show, the girl

1396
01:03:44,200 --> 01:03:46,960
Speaker 1: was going to the police office the police station to

1397
01:03:47,560 --> 01:03:51,760
Speaker 1: talk to you know, to report sexual assault. And when

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01:03:51,760 --> 01:03:54,080
Speaker 1: she was there, this is something that we don't talk

1399
01:03:54,080 --> 01:03:56,160
Speaker 1: about a lot. When she was there, she met a

1400
01:03:56,200 --> 01:03:58,840
Speaker 1: friend of hers that she knew, and the guy was

1401
01:03:58,840 --> 01:04:01,640
Speaker 1: there because his girlfriend was making him come there so

1402
01:04:01,680 --> 01:04:03,560
Speaker 1: he could report a sexual assault that happened to him

1403
01:04:03,600 --> 01:04:06,560
Speaker 1: when he was a kid. And he said something that

1404
01:04:06,600 --> 01:04:09,360
Speaker 1: I've heard from so many of my homeboys. I know

1405
01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:13,520
Speaker 1: so many guys that when they were nine, ten, eleven

1406
01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:16,680
Speaker 1: years old that had like an older black lady or

1407
01:04:16,680 --> 01:04:17,320
Speaker 1: an older.

1408
01:04:17,160 --> 01:04:19,439
Speaker 5: Lady in their community touched them around.

1409
01:04:20,040 --> 01:04:25,360
Speaker 1: I know, and like they'll be like and even him,

1410
01:04:25,400 --> 01:04:27,800
Speaker 1: he's like, you know, because you know, this was how

1411
01:04:27,840 --> 01:04:29,400
Speaker 1: it was I supposed to learn. This was before that

1412
01:04:29,440 --> 01:04:31,320
Speaker 1: whole Netflix and Chill movement. And you could see in

1413
01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:34,360
Speaker 1: his face he believed as hell that he was. He

1414
01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:37,280
Speaker 1: was kind of getting worked up about it. But I

1415
01:04:37,320 --> 01:04:39,640
Speaker 1: know so many tudes that like, I'm like, homie, you

1416
01:04:39,640 --> 01:04:40,240
Speaker 1: were molested.

1417
01:04:40,360 --> 01:04:43,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is a traumatic experience that probably has like

1418
01:04:44,200 --> 01:04:46,320
Speaker 4: affected you with greatly as an adult and how you

1419
01:04:46,360 --> 01:04:49,440
Speaker 4: love and how you interact, and they don't even register

1420
01:04:49,560 --> 01:04:50,000
Speaker 4: it as such.

1421
01:04:50,400 --> 01:04:52,800
Speaker 3: I always asked, man, how you relatched your virginity?

1422
01:04:53,080 --> 01:04:55,520
Speaker 4: Wasn't an older woman and breach, like, do you feel

1423
01:04:55,520 --> 01:04:57,200
Speaker 4: like that was like inappropriate?

1424
01:04:57,200 --> 01:04:59,520
Speaker 3: It's always a baby answer those questions.

1425
01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:00,720
Speaker 5: Was seventeen?

1426
01:05:01,200 --> 01:05:03,240
Speaker 3: She was not.

1427
01:05:04,680 --> 01:05:06,840
Speaker 5: She was the same age.

1428
01:05:06,920 --> 01:05:09,960
Speaker 1: And it was weird because I went from not having

1429
01:05:10,040 --> 01:05:13,120
Speaker 1: hardly any sexual experiences to everything just coming at the

1430
01:05:13,120 --> 01:05:14,520
Speaker 1: same time, and.

1431
01:05:15,720 --> 01:05:16,440
Speaker 5: You know it was crazy.

1432
01:05:18,320 --> 01:05:20,560
Speaker 1: Well, the first time I tried to have sex with

1433
01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:23,800
Speaker 1: this different girl, I couldn't get it.

1434
01:05:23,720 --> 01:05:26,080
Speaker 5: Couldn't get it, wouldn't happen. I remember hearing it. She

1435
01:05:26,120 --> 01:05:29,800
Speaker 5: even would come off in Oh god, I had liked

1436
01:05:29,840 --> 01:05:31,080
Speaker 5: me for a long nervous.

1437
01:05:31,280 --> 01:05:31,480
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1438
01:05:31,520 --> 01:05:34,480
Speaker 1: We were in a car at Olympia Stadium, Baton Rouge.

1439
01:05:34,560 --> 01:05:37,840
Speaker 5: This is nineteen ninety seven, where like we're in a car.

1440
01:05:37,760 --> 01:05:41,400
Speaker 1: And like, at first I was such a jokester that

1441
01:05:41,560 --> 01:05:43,280
Speaker 1: at first I had tried to kiss her and she

1442
01:05:43,440 --> 01:05:46,520
Speaker 1: was like, get off me. And then then she then

1443
01:05:46,520 --> 01:05:47,840
Speaker 1: she told me later, she's like, what if he was

1444
01:05:47,840 --> 01:05:49,680
Speaker 1: really trying to kiss me? So then I and she

1445
01:05:49,720 --> 01:05:51,680
Speaker 1: had very experienced. I rolled over right now on top

1446
01:05:51,720 --> 01:05:53,200
Speaker 1: of her, and I just.

1447
01:05:54,680 --> 01:05:55,080
Speaker 5: I was thin.

1448
01:05:56,840 --> 01:05:59,240
Speaker 1: I was standing like, and she's like, and it just

1449
01:05:59,280 --> 01:06:03,560
Speaker 1: didn't work. And it's just it didn't It wasn't gonna happen.

1450
01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:04,760
Speaker 5: I was too nervous to work.

1451
01:06:04,920 --> 01:06:07,400
Speaker 3: Did that make for a long time? How did that

1452
01:06:07,440 --> 01:06:07,959
Speaker 3: make you feel?

1453
01:06:07,960 --> 01:06:09,600
Speaker 1: Did you feel like, well, the first thing I want

1454
01:06:09,640 --> 01:06:11,640
Speaker 1: to do is I did not want that to get

1455
01:06:11,680 --> 01:06:15,600
Speaker 1: around campus I did not want that to get around campus.

1456
01:06:15,640 --> 01:06:18,400
Speaker 1: But she really liked me, so she she wasn't as

1457
01:06:18,440 --> 01:06:22,800
Speaker 1: a matter of fact. At that same time, I like,

1458
01:06:22,880 --> 01:06:25,760
Speaker 1: right after that, I started talking to a girl who

1459
01:06:25,880 --> 01:06:30,160
Speaker 1: was like her friend, and she was like, please listen,

1460
01:06:30,200 --> 01:06:31,680
Speaker 1: I know that you guys been going back and forth

1461
01:06:31,720 --> 01:06:33,680
Speaker 1: for a long time. Don't tell her anything about what

1462
01:06:33,720 --> 01:06:35,880
Speaker 1: happened between us and just whatever.

1463
01:06:35,960 --> 01:06:38,200
Speaker 5: And then for some reason.

1464
01:06:40,160 --> 01:06:46,840
Speaker 3: Oh my god, it was fun. It was not flying.

1465
01:06:50,160 --> 01:06:54,040
Speaker 1: I can't remember. Actually I do remember, yet we had sex.

1466
01:06:54,200 --> 01:06:57,400
Speaker 1: It was in my nineteen eighty eighty four tours. And

1467
01:06:57,440 --> 01:07:00,240
Speaker 1: then it lasted for a while. Now, the first we

1468
01:07:00,240 --> 01:07:02,360
Speaker 1: were actually in the bed together. It didn't last at all.

1469
01:07:05,080 --> 01:07:07,720
Speaker 1: That was that, but me and that girls so much sex.

1470
01:07:08,280 --> 01:07:11,400
Speaker 3: Did you learn a lot from your first sex? How

1471
01:07:11,400 --> 01:07:12,520
Speaker 3: did you learn how to get pussy?

1472
01:07:12,840 --> 01:07:13,280
Speaker 5: She told me.

1473
01:07:13,320 --> 01:07:16,320
Speaker 1: I remember, It's like I was down there sticking my

1474
01:07:16,360 --> 01:07:19,040
Speaker 1: tongue in the hole, and then she was, and then

1475
01:07:19,040 --> 01:07:22,880
Speaker 1: she was like, she was like, uh, you know, there's

1476
01:07:22,880 --> 01:07:25,200
Speaker 1: like a little piece of skin. I don't forget this moment.

1477
01:07:25,440 --> 01:07:27,800
Speaker 1: This is exactly what she said. She said, and that

1478
01:07:27,920 --> 01:07:29,880
Speaker 1: this woman went to Harvard and she's a doctor. Now

1479
01:07:29,960 --> 01:07:33,120
Speaker 1: she goes she goes, you know, there's a little piece

1480
01:07:33,160 --> 01:07:37,640
Speaker 1: of skin like above, and I was like, oh, show me,

1481
01:07:38,120 --> 01:07:40,280
Speaker 1: and then she was like yeah, yeah, but I had

1482
01:07:40,280 --> 01:07:42,000
Speaker 1: to teach her how to too, so it was like

1483
01:07:42,080 --> 01:07:44,440
Speaker 1: and so then it was like and then after that,

1484
01:07:44,600 --> 01:07:47,200
Speaker 1: I was on that motherfucker like I was.

1485
01:07:47,240 --> 01:07:49,200
Speaker 3: So you weren't like getting suffer from the black man

1486
01:07:49,280 --> 01:07:49,920
Speaker 3: syndrome where.

1487
01:07:50,800 --> 01:07:56,280
Speaker 1: I was obsessed with every aspect of sex from the

1488
01:07:56,480 --> 01:08:01,240
Speaker 1: jump like I was. I was obsessed from the jump

1489
01:08:01,400 --> 01:08:04,680
Speaker 1: every aspect of sex, and like the more. Then she

1490
01:08:04,720 --> 01:08:07,240
Speaker 1: came to college with me, and then we didn't have

1491
01:08:07,320 --> 01:08:08,480
Speaker 1: to like sneak.

1492
01:08:08,960 --> 01:08:12,280
Speaker 4: Like a whole new world was freedom, like ridiculous at

1493
01:08:12,280 --> 01:08:13,080
Speaker 4: that point.

1494
01:08:14,280 --> 01:08:16,360
Speaker 3: How old were you when you had was she black?

1495
01:08:16,880 --> 01:08:17,080
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1496
01:08:17,240 --> 01:08:20,120
Speaker 3: When was your first white girl experience white woman experience?

1497
01:08:20,720 --> 01:08:22,360
Speaker 5: Oh no, actually it was before.

1498
01:08:23,520 --> 01:08:26,519
Speaker 3: And what do you do? It was like, there's a

1499
01:08:26,520 --> 01:08:27,240
Speaker 3: difference in sex.

1500
01:08:27,280 --> 01:08:29,000
Speaker 6: I mean, I know it's a stupid question, but like

1501
01:08:29,280 --> 01:08:32,120
Speaker 6: some people would say there is, and some people are like, no,

1502
01:08:32,240 --> 01:08:33,880
Speaker 6: of course, not a body's a body.

1503
01:08:33,600 --> 01:08:34,160
Speaker 3: You know what I mean?

1504
01:08:34,320 --> 01:08:36,800
Speaker 1: So difference there's not a difference in a sex. Sex

1505
01:08:36,840 --> 01:08:40,520
Speaker 1: from an anatomical standpoint, there sometimes can be a difference.

1506
01:08:40,160 --> 01:08:45,320
Speaker 3: In mindset and mindset for you or for her, I mean, period.

1507
01:08:45,520 --> 01:08:47,880
Speaker 1: And this is what I say. And by the way,

1508
01:08:47,880 --> 01:08:50,160
Speaker 1: this is not I'm trying not to generalize. I'm talking

1509
01:08:50,160 --> 01:08:57,600
Speaker 1: about my experience. It like like freedom is a weird thing.

1510
01:08:57,960 --> 01:08:59,679
Speaker 1: Freedom colors everything in your life.

1511
01:08:59,720 --> 01:09:00,679
Speaker 5: Right, So.

1512
01:09:02,479 --> 01:09:04,920
Speaker 1: The more free you are, a lot of times, the

1513
01:09:04,960 --> 01:09:09,560
Speaker 1: more adventurous, the more experimentational you are a lot of

1514
01:09:09,600 --> 01:09:12,400
Speaker 1: different ways because you don't really care when people think

1515
01:09:12,400 --> 01:09:15,439
Speaker 1: of you, because their thoughts of you have much less

1516
01:09:15,439 --> 01:09:16,000
Speaker 1: social weight.

1517
01:09:17,439 --> 01:09:19,839
Speaker 5: A lot of sisters, at least in the past.

1518
01:09:20,240 --> 01:09:22,360
Speaker 1: I'm speaking in the past when I was really doing

1519
01:09:22,360 --> 01:09:25,160
Speaker 1: my thing to a heavy level. A lot of sisters

1520
01:09:25,439 --> 01:09:32,800
Speaker 1: they cannot the social weight of you dragging their name

1521
01:09:32,880 --> 01:09:37,880
Speaker 1: through the mud is it's it's such a they're so

1522
01:09:37,960 --> 01:09:41,559
Speaker 1: afraid of that that they can be who they want

1523
01:09:41,600 --> 01:09:41,800
Speaker 1: to be.

1524
01:09:42,920 --> 01:09:45,080
Speaker 8: Danny, and you talk about this on your last podcast.

1525
01:09:45,080 --> 01:09:47,440
Speaker 3: I think I saw this about.

1526
01:09:47,240 --> 01:09:49,080
Speaker 4: And I was thinking, I was thinking long and hard

1527
01:09:49,080 --> 01:09:53,519
Speaker 4: about that, like being as black women or women of color,

1528
01:09:53,640 --> 01:09:57,320
Speaker 4: do you feel like less open and less able to

1529
01:09:57,479 --> 01:10:02,080
Speaker 4: be like sexually expressive, openly like like versus like a

1530
01:10:02,120 --> 01:10:02,639
Speaker 4: white woman.

1531
01:10:02,720 --> 01:10:05,000
Speaker 1: And Okay, I think those things are changing now, but

1532
01:10:05,040 --> 01:10:09,320
Speaker 1: I think I think then, uh it was, and you've.

1533
01:10:09,160 --> 01:10:11,760
Speaker 6: Experienced that firsthand, like your sex versus sex with a

1534
01:10:11,800 --> 01:10:14,280
Speaker 6: black woman versus a white woman had much more free

1535
01:10:14,360 --> 01:10:15,719
Speaker 6: or experiences with white women.

1536
01:10:16,360 --> 01:10:18,920
Speaker 1: Well then for sure, like it was like it was

1537
01:10:18,960 --> 01:10:22,840
Speaker 1: like there was like nothing that there's no there's nothing

1538
01:10:22,840 --> 01:10:24,479
Speaker 1: that a white girl would do that would make her

1539
01:10:24,520 --> 01:10:24,880
Speaker 1: a whore.

1540
01:10:25,439 --> 01:10:27,320
Speaker 5: Like at that point there was a point. I mean,

1541
01:10:27,680 --> 01:10:28,960
Speaker 5: I'm serious there they.

1542
01:10:29,000 --> 01:10:32,240
Speaker 10: Weren't necessarily no no, no, no, no, no no in her mind.

1543
01:10:32,439 --> 01:10:33,519
Speaker 3: I don't think that's true either.

1544
01:10:33,720 --> 01:10:37,559
Speaker 5: I'm telling you right now that with some of the ones.

1545
01:10:37,360 --> 01:10:39,519
Speaker 6: That there have been white women that there's definitely I

1546
01:10:39,600 --> 01:10:41,400
Speaker 6: have white friends and like, oh my god, that was

1547
01:10:41,479 --> 01:10:42,280
Speaker 6: I feel like a whore.

1548
01:10:42,400 --> 01:10:45,320
Speaker 3: I'm a whore. I think three guys in the same day, Like,

1549
01:10:45,400 --> 01:10:46,240
Speaker 3: but guess what.

1550
01:10:46,520 --> 01:10:50,280
Speaker 5: They did it? You see what I'm saying, Like like

1551
01:10:50,360 --> 01:10:51,240
Speaker 5: they but guess what.

1552
01:10:52,800 --> 01:10:54,640
Speaker 1: I'm not saying. They don't tell you. I think that

1553
01:10:54,840 --> 01:10:56,560
Speaker 1: that might be true. But what I'm saying is the

1554
01:10:56,600 --> 01:10:58,920
Speaker 1: ship they wasn't doing it for me. But what I'm

1555
01:10:58,960 --> 01:11:01,559
Speaker 1: saying is they did it though they might they might

1556
01:11:01,720 --> 01:11:03,880
Speaker 1: feel that way, but they didn't, And so for me,

1557
01:11:03,960 --> 01:11:05,400
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that in any way.

1558
01:11:05,439 --> 01:11:07,479
Speaker 5: By the way, I'm not saying in any way that

1559
01:11:07,560 --> 01:11:08,720
Speaker 5: there is any type of.

1560
01:11:08,720 --> 01:11:10,640
Speaker 6: Thing I don't disagree with you. Let me say that

1561
01:11:10,680 --> 01:11:12,840
Speaker 6: I don't necessarily disagree with you. But I also think

1562
01:11:12,880 --> 01:11:13,879
Speaker 6: that there's two.

1563
01:11:13,680 --> 01:11:14,200
Speaker 3: Sides of that.

1564
01:11:14,439 --> 01:11:17,280
Speaker 1: There is one thing is I would always this is

1565
01:11:17,280 --> 01:11:18,640
Speaker 1: something I never understood.

1566
01:11:18,760 --> 01:11:22,360
Speaker 5: Like brothers would come down hard heavy. We had these.

1567
01:11:22,200 --> 01:11:25,280
Speaker 1: Girls as Southern they would call dick sucking crew, right,

1568
01:11:25,680 --> 01:11:27,839
Speaker 1: these girls were, these girls were my friends.

1569
01:11:28,000 --> 01:11:32,080
Speaker 10: Self identify, self identify that it was called to them,

1570
01:11:32,120 --> 01:11:35,960
Speaker 10: and then they embraced like, yeah, like these these were

1571
01:11:36,000 --> 01:11:39,040
Speaker 10: my girls, these were my friends, these were these girls

1572
01:11:39,040 --> 01:11:40,320
Speaker 10: were like one of the girls I.

1573
01:11:40,200 --> 01:11:44,840
Speaker 5: Did, yeah, like and it was and it was, And

1574
01:11:44,880 --> 01:11:46,480
Speaker 5: it was a weird thing because I remember.

1575
01:11:46,360 --> 01:11:49,639
Speaker 3: Well, also is your crew black and my crew?

1576
01:11:49,720 --> 01:11:51,559
Speaker 1: But my crew wasn't the ones calling on this because

1577
01:11:51,600 --> 01:11:52,360
Speaker 1: they were our friends.

1578
01:11:52,920 --> 01:11:54,280
Speaker 5: It was the rest of the guys around.

1579
01:11:54,360 --> 01:11:56,800
Speaker 6: Sometimes I even feel like white women will hyper sexualize

1580
01:11:56,800 --> 01:11:57,800
Speaker 6: themselves for black men.

1581
01:11:58,000 --> 01:11:59,599
Speaker 3: They don't feel like that's what black men want.

1582
01:12:00,120 --> 01:12:05,200
Speaker 1: Also, also they're savvy because they've heard these criticisms, So

1583
01:12:05,320 --> 01:12:06,559
Speaker 1: they've heard this stuff.

1584
01:12:06,880 --> 01:12:09,559
Speaker 5: This stuff gets put out there, they've heard this stuff.

1585
01:12:09,600 --> 01:12:13,559
Speaker 1: Also, by the way, there is less consequences that Like,

1586
01:12:13,640 --> 01:12:15,960
Speaker 1: I know, a dude we went to we.

1587
01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:20,840
Speaker 5: Went to to to spring break. He saw a girl

1588
01:12:21,280 --> 01:12:21,959
Speaker 5: in a wet.

1589
01:12:21,760 --> 01:12:33,760
Speaker 1: T shirt contest spring break, titties everywhere, ass twerking. They're married, Like, like,

1590
01:12:33,960 --> 01:12:36,280
Speaker 1: you are fucking crazy, and we're gonna go to Galveston

1591
01:12:36,680 --> 01:12:38,400
Speaker 1: and you're gonna marry one of the chicks in the

1592
01:12:38,400 --> 01:12:39,120
Speaker 1: tour contests.

1593
01:12:39,160 --> 01:12:40,760
Speaker 5: My niggas would never do that.

1594
01:12:41,479 --> 01:12:41,799
Speaker 3: Ever.

1595
01:12:42,880 --> 01:12:44,040
Speaker 5: I remember they were hanging out.

1596
01:12:44,600 --> 01:12:46,519
Speaker 1: We were all together where they were hanging out, and

1597
01:12:46,520 --> 01:12:48,519
Speaker 1: about the third day they were hanging out, one of

1598
01:12:48,560 --> 01:12:50,800
Speaker 1: my homeboys was like, hey, yo, you.

1599
01:12:50,920 --> 01:12:53,720
Speaker 5: Like this this show all in Mexico, you know, And

1600
01:12:53,800 --> 01:12:55,800
Speaker 5: he's like, dude, don't fucking talk about it like that.

1601
01:12:56,680 --> 01:12:59,439
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. And they dated for all

1602
01:12:59,439 --> 01:13:02,040
Speaker 1: through college and then they got married and then now

1603
01:13:02,120 --> 01:13:04,439
Speaker 1: it's a funny story. Now it's like Dan, now we

1604
01:13:04,479 --> 01:13:05,960
Speaker 1: all hang out. It's like, Dan, you want to tell

1605
01:13:06,160 --> 01:13:07,439
Speaker 1: tell everybody like where we met.

1606
01:13:07,920 --> 01:13:09,920
Speaker 8: And I'll be like, well, I think that's true.

1607
01:13:09,960 --> 01:13:11,719
Speaker 3: There's like, you know, she's just a party crazy.

1608
01:13:12,240 --> 01:13:14,120
Speaker 1: So the thing is, there was nothing, there was no

1609
01:13:14,200 --> 01:13:16,600
Speaker 1: social ratifications for her getting up there and having a

1610
01:13:16,640 --> 01:13:19,200
Speaker 1: good time, but it admitt nothing like she would go

1611
01:13:19,320 --> 01:13:21,040
Speaker 1: up there and show uten and still have a great

1612
01:13:21,040 --> 01:13:22,760
Speaker 1: family and still have like that stuff like that and

1613
01:13:22,840 --> 01:13:26,800
Speaker 1: not be black. Yeah, so of course, if you didn't

1614
01:13:26,800 --> 01:13:30,439
Speaker 1: feel like there were any any consequences, you would live

1615
01:13:30,479 --> 01:13:32,800
Speaker 1: your best life, as you know. And I feel like

1616
01:13:32,880 --> 01:13:37,519
Speaker 1: sometimes uh sisters don't have that that that luxury.

1617
01:13:37,560 --> 01:13:38,040
Speaker 3: No, they don't.

1618
01:13:38,800 --> 01:13:42,080
Speaker 6: So for that reason, you identified the word white woman

1619
01:13:42,200 --> 01:13:42,839
Speaker 6: is dangerous.

1620
01:13:44,240 --> 01:13:45,080
Speaker 3: I get it.

1621
01:13:45,080 --> 01:13:47,720
Speaker 1: It's not really that I that identified the world white

1622
01:13:47,760 --> 01:13:51,680
Speaker 1: woman is dangerous. The reason why, No, the reason why

1623
01:13:51,680 --> 01:13:53,799
Speaker 1: I identified them it's dangerous is because they're all dangerous

1624
01:13:53,800 --> 01:13:54,639
Speaker 1: in multiple ways.

1625
01:14:00,000 --> 01:14:02,519
Speaker 3: Did you see yourself marrying a white woman? Would your

1626
01:14:02,520 --> 01:14:05,240
Speaker 3: family be accepting? But you don't.

1627
01:14:05,280 --> 01:14:09,480
Speaker 4: Why wouldn't you see yourself married white woman?

1628
01:14:12,439 --> 01:14:15,240
Speaker 5: That's not the reason. Why is just because because you

1629
01:14:15,240 --> 01:14:15,639
Speaker 5: know why.

1630
01:14:15,479 --> 01:14:18,720
Speaker 4: I asked you know how many black guy friends I like,

1631
01:14:18,880 --> 01:14:21,200
Speaker 4: I say, like, I want to know, how, how can

1632
01:14:21,240 --> 01:14:22,760
Speaker 4: you feel really deeply understood?

1633
01:14:22,960 --> 01:14:24,320
Speaker 3: And they're like it doesn't matter.

1634
01:14:25,560 --> 01:14:28,559
Speaker 4: And I think it's weird, Like if I mean, I'm

1635
01:14:28,560 --> 01:14:30,559
Speaker 4: not saying that someone outside of my race can't really

1636
01:14:30,640 --> 01:14:34,040
Speaker 4: understand me, but there are things we experience socially like

1637
01:14:34,200 --> 01:14:37,760
Speaker 4: that like other races just genuinely do not understand that

1638
01:14:37,880 --> 01:14:40,800
Speaker 4: you've never experienced it. So I think it's like it's

1639
01:14:40,840 --> 01:14:43,200
Speaker 4: not weird, but it's obstacle.

1640
01:14:43,680 --> 01:14:49,679
Speaker 1: I get it. For me, it's just that, like I

1641
01:14:49,760 --> 01:14:51,640
Speaker 1: you know, I have a lot of white people that

1642
01:14:51,720 --> 01:14:55,120
Speaker 1: did with on a day to day basis friends, close friends,

1643
01:14:56,000 --> 01:15:00,559
Speaker 1: and they all annoy me to some degree. It's not

1644
01:15:00,600 --> 01:15:03,679
Speaker 1: even in a bad way. It's just like, man, get

1645
01:15:03,680 --> 01:15:04,240
Speaker 1: out of here, bro.

1646
01:15:05,840 --> 01:15:07,439
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm happy in a minute it because it's

1647
01:15:07,439 --> 01:15:07,720
Speaker 3: me too.

1648
01:15:08,000 --> 01:15:12,160
Speaker 1: I'm like cool as hell, like my people, love everyone.

1649
01:15:12,600 --> 01:15:14,040
Speaker 1: I'm one of the most well life people in the

1650
01:15:14,040 --> 01:15:15,759
Speaker 1: team's office. But it's like, get out of here, man.

1651
01:15:15,720 --> 01:15:16,240
Speaker 8: I want to hear.

1652
01:15:19,520 --> 01:15:21,559
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. It's like plus and plus.

1653
01:15:21,600 --> 01:15:23,960
Speaker 1: I will say this, this is just a vision of

1654
01:15:24,840 --> 01:15:29,120
Speaker 1: my family that I have, and it's not me and

1655
01:15:29,160 --> 01:15:34,000
Speaker 1: a bunch of little beige motherfuckers like watching I'm saying.

1656
01:15:34,080 --> 01:15:35,760
Speaker 1: It's not you know what I'm saying, It's not.

1657
01:15:36,200 --> 01:15:39,200
Speaker 4: Said watching American idols. White people love Americans.

1658
01:15:39,360 --> 01:15:41,559
Speaker 1: It's not just me. That's just like not, that's not

1659
01:15:41,600 --> 01:15:45,320
Speaker 1: the vision of my family that I have. I see

1660
01:15:45,320 --> 01:15:49,840
Speaker 1: a bunch of chocolate. Motherfuckers watching Harlem Nights and laughing their.

1661
01:15:49,800 --> 01:15:53,200
Speaker 5: Asses all you know, I see, I see. That's what

1662
01:15:53,280 --> 01:15:53,639
Speaker 5: I see.

1663
01:15:53,680 --> 01:15:58,120
Speaker 1: And it is not it's not even like there's nothing

1664
01:15:58,160 --> 01:16:01,799
Speaker 1: against like it's it's it's stupid.

1665
01:16:02,200 --> 01:16:04,679
Speaker 5: Really, it's tribalism and it's stupid.

1666
01:16:04,720 --> 01:16:07,599
Speaker 1: And to be honest with you, if society were if

1667
01:16:07,600 --> 01:16:11,000
Speaker 1: we break the chains of society and we destroy these

1668
01:16:11,000 --> 01:16:14,479
Speaker 1: constructs of race, which race is really only a conduit

1669
01:16:14,520 --> 01:16:17,240
Speaker 1: to white supremacy anyway, So if we if we, if

1670
01:16:17,240 --> 01:16:20,720
Speaker 1: we break these things in future generations. Man swirling up.

1671
01:16:21,160 --> 01:16:24,120
Speaker 1: But for me, there's just too much in there. But

1672
01:16:24,280 --> 01:16:27,960
Speaker 1: I get there sometimes while people ask questions and I'm like, yo, man,

1673
01:16:28,800 --> 01:16:31,679
Speaker 1: shut up, I see, like seriously now that it doesn't

1674
01:16:31,680 --> 01:16:32,719
Speaker 1: matter what you know what I'm saying.

1675
01:16:32,720 --> 01:16:34,360
Speaker 5: So it would be annoying for me.

1676
01:16:34,600 --> 01:16:38,040
Speaker 8: What's one very annoying white question that you've been asking.

1677
01:16:38,040 --> 01:16:41,919
Speaker 1: Very annoying white question that I've been asked recently?

1678
01:16:42,040 --> 01:16:46,160
Speaker 6: White listeners, if you're waiting and you ask your black

1679
01:16:46,200 --> 01:16:47,680
Speaker 6: friend this recently, do not.

1680
01:16:47,880 --> 01:16:49,720
Speaker 5: Oh, there's there's one.

1681
01:16:50,040 --> 01:16:53,280
Speaker 1: There's like a there's one tip that all white people

1682
01:16:53,360 --> 01:16:58,240
Speaker 1: can do, okay, except the programming. This is what it means,

1683
01:16:58,240 --> 01:16:59,800
Speaker 1: and this is not just for white peoples. For men

1684
01:16:59,840 --> 01:17:03,280
Speaker 1: to accept the programming, it's a deal. I've been black

1685
01:17:03,320 --> 01:17:07,080
Speaker 1: for thirty eight years. I know, at least from my

1686
01:17:07,560 --> 01:17:15,120
Speaker 1: experience in my community. You know what things take me off,

1687
01:17:15,240 --> 01:17:18,040
Speaker 1: what things trigger me. I know why they trigger me.

1688
01:17:18,080 --> 01:17:21,880
Speaker 1: They've been triggering me for a long time. You are

1689
01:17:22,040 --> 01:17:24,800
Speaker 1: not going to be able to convince me that I

1690
01:17:24,840 --> 01:17:26,160
Speaker 1: am wrong about these things.

1691
01:17:26,920 --> 01:17:28,040
Speaker 5: You're only going.

1692
01:17:27,880 --> 01:17:31,840
Speaker 1: To piss me off, right, You're only so You're not

1693
01:17:31,880 --> 01:17:34,360
Speaker 1: gonna be like You're not gonna be the one to

1694
01:17:34,439 --> 01:17:36,360
Speaker 1: make me see that I was wrong about this.

1695
01:17:36,640 --> 01:17:38,639
Speaker 5: You're not going to be the one that made me see.

1696
01:17:38,479 --> 01:17:42,040
Speaker 1: I was wrong about police brutality, I was wrong about profiling,

1697
01:17:42,439 --> 01:17:45,040
Speaker 1: I was wrong about anything. It's not going to happen.

1698
01:17:45,080 --> 01:17:47,639
Speaker 1: You don't have that power. I know that America has

1699
01:17:47,760 --> 01:17:53,800
Speaker 1: taught you that every single thing under the sun you

1700
01:17:53,840 --> 01:17:56,760
Speaker 1: can manipulate. I know that that's been your life experience,

1701
01:17:56,840 --> 01:18:00,240
Speaker 1: that whatever you want you can do because that's but

1702
01:18:00,320 --> 01:18:03,360
Speaker 1: you can't do that. So when I say, yo, this

1703
01:18:03,439 --> 01:18:06,240
Speaker 1: is fucked up, just go with it. I'm not going

1704
01:18:06,320 --> 01:18:07,960
Speaker 1: to try to make it. I'm not just gonna try

1705
01:18:07,960 --> 01:18:10,800
Speaker 1: to imprint it. On you. I'm not gonna make it

1706
01:18:10,840 --> 01:18:13,200
Speaker 1: your fault. I'm gonna say this is what it is

1707
01:18:13,640 --> 01:18:16,639
Speaker 1: the most. Just listen to me. Yeah, it just listens.

1708
01:18:16,840 --> 01:18:20,880
Speaker 6: So I can't help but think about your experience with

1709
01:18:20,960 --> 01:18:24,240
Speaker 6: Kanye West with this because he's a black man basically,

1710
01:18:25,160 --> 01:18:26,000
Speaker 6: So how do you how do.

1711
01:18:25,960 --> 01:18:28,000
Speaker 3: You deal with something like that where it's your own people?

1712
01:18:28,680 --> 01:18:31,519
Speaker 6: Because Kanye essentially said you know what he said, So

1713
01:18:31,600 --> 01:18:33,479
Speaker 6: it's just like, how do you deal with that with

1714
01:18:33,520 --> 01:18:34,120
Speaker 6: your own people?

1715
01:18:34,240 --> 01:18:35,680
Speaker 4: I think that's a lot in the lass if you

1716
01:18:35,720 --> 01:18:40,880
Speaker 4: have to come across like very conditioned all lives matter

1717
01:18:41,040 --> 01:18:45,679
Speaker 4: Black people in this like Hollywood Arena. And that's even

1718
01:18:45,720 --> 01:18:47,880
Speaker 4: fucking more frustrating to me because it's like, Nigga, even

1719
01:18:47,920 --> 01:18:49,599
Speaker 4: black your whole life, don't act like you don't know.

1720
01:18:50,240 --> 01:18:55,840
Speaker 1: Well, also with people, you know, black is a race,

1721
01:18:55,920 --> 01:18:58,960
Speaker 1: but it's also a cultural identification, right, So you don't

1722
01:18:58,960 --> 01:19:01,000
Speaker 1: have to be black and be black.

1723
01:19:03,960 --> 01:19:05,640
Speaker 3: Twenty different variations of what black is.

1724
01:19:05,800 --> 01:19:09,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, but what I'm saying is, you know, Kanye West

1725
01:19:09,680 --> 01:19:11,840
Speaker 1: or anybody is free to have the beliefs and the

1726
01:19:13,439 --> 01:19:16,240
Speaker 1: ideology that they have. He can think whatever he wants

1727
01:19:16,280 --> 01:19:18,880
Speaker 1: to think. But if I think that he's wrong. I

1728
01:19:18,880 --> 01:19:19,760
Speaker 1: have to challenge him.

1729
01:19:19,800 --> 01:19:24,360
Speaker 6: Do you feel more triggered by someone black having those views?

1730
01:19:24,360 --> 01:19:26,280
Speaker 3: Because essentially I feel like his views.

1731
01:19:26,400 --> 01:19:28,720
Speaker 6: I'm a little bit confused by his because he's really

1732
01:19:28,720 --> 01:19:34,400
Speaker 6: hard at articulation. But they seem to be what a

1733
01:19:34,439 --> 01:19:36,679
Speaker 6: lot of white people might think, or not might think.

1734
01:19:36,520 --> 01:19:39,400
Speaker 8: But thought they've had and maybe won't say they've had.

1735
01:19:39,400 --> 01:19:41,040
Speaker 6: But I think also he wants black people to think

1736
01:19:41,080 --> 01:19:43,760
Speaker 6: more progressively. I understand that's what he's trying to do.

1737
01:19:43,960 --> 01:19:48,200
Speaker 6: But it's no, it's not progressively, but in his mind

1738
01:19:48,200 --> 01:19:50,439
Speaker 6: it is. In his mind, it's.

1739
01:19:50,360 --> 01:19:52,680
Speaker 3: All about well, I think part of it is forgiveness

1740
01:19:52,680 --> 01:19:54,200
Speaker 3: and where are we now and what are going to

1741
01:19:54,240 --> 01:19:54,519
Speaker 3: do now?

1742
01:19:54,560 --> 01:19:57,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, but let's let's let's discuss that though to what end?

1743
01:19:58,120 --> 01:20:00,679
Speaker 5: Like it have the Jews forgiving anyone?

1744
01:20:00,840 --> 01:20:03,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, and you can't, you can't go forward and without

1745
01:20:03,320 --> 01:20:06,000
Speaker 4: acknowledging that the strife is not the results of it

1746
01:20:06,120 --> 01:20:07,640
Speaker 4: right now, well understanding it's not.

1747
01:20:07,760 --> 01:20:11,840
Speaker 1: It's not even really about forgiving anyone. It's there's really

1748
01:20:11,840 --> 01:20:14,120
Speaker 1: there's really no one to forgive. It's like those people

1749
01:20:14,120 --> 01:20:16,840
Speaker 1: are all dead without Like what I'm saying is that

1750
01:20:17,680 --> 01:20:22,800
Speaker 1: right now, Jews eat manza. Right, they eat manza because

1751
01:20:23,760 --> 01:20:28,000
Speaker 1: thousands of years ago there were Jews who couldn't eat

1752
01:20:28,040 --> 01:20:32,040
Speaker 1: anything that was risen, no bread, they didn't have any yeas.

1753
01:20:32,680 --> 01:20:35,880
Speaker 5: So those people ate manza. So these people eat mansa.

1754
01:20:36,400 --> 01:20:39,960
Speaker 1: Whatever has happened to them culturally has tied them together.

1755
01:20:41,320 --> 01:20:43,400
Speaker 1: It doesn't make them any stronger to be like, yo,

1756
01:20:43,520 --> 01:20:46,800
Speaker 1: that was them and this is us. It doesn't make

1757
01:20:46,840 --> 01:20:48,920
Speaker 1: them any culturally better to be like, yo, we forgot

1758
01:20:48,960 --> 01:20:49,599
Speaker 1: about all of that.

1759
01:20:49,680 --> 01:20:52,680
Speaker 5: It's actually the opposite. The only trick that they try

1760
01:20:52,720 --> 01:20:54,240
Speaker 5: to play that. The only people that try to play

1761
01:20:54,280 --> 01:20:54,760
Speaker 5: that trick on.

1762
01:20:54,800 --> 01:20:56,759
Speaker 3: Is us, right, like it's been in the past, forgetting

1763
01:20:58,640 --> 01:20:59,559
Speaker 3: you there and.

1764
01:20:59,520 --> 01:21:01,000
Speaker 5: About like this one hundred fifty years ago.

1765
01:21:01,160 --> 01:21:03,720
Speaker 1: It's like, it's not yeah, so the whole people that

1766
01:21:03,800 --> 01:21:05,280
Speaker 1: they do that as a matter of fact, and by

1767
01:21:05,280 --> 01:21:07,000
Speaker 1: the way, America doesn't do that to itself.

1768
01:21:07,320 --> 01:21:08,759
Speaker 5: What's the slogan behind nine to eleven?

1769
01:21:09,240 --> 01:21:10,880
Speaker 1: Never forget right?

1770
01:21:12,240 --> 01:21:12,320
Speaker 3: You know?

1771
01:21:12,400 --> 01:21:14,800
Speaker 1: I mean like when the Alamo came and they they

1772
01:21:14,880 --> 01:21:16,839
Speaker 1: and they were fighting, not the Battle of the Alamo,

1773
01:21:16,960 --> 01:21:19,320
Speaker 1: because white people lost that one, but when they came

1774
01:21:19,400 --> 01:21:21,160
Speaker 1: back and they won, it was a different one.

1775
01:21:21,200 --> 01:21:24,720
Speaker 5: They were like, remember the Alamo like they never only

1776
01:21:24,720 --> 01:21:26,200
Speaker 5: people a day that will.

1777
01:21:26,120 --> 01:21:29,560
Speaker 1: Live in infamy forever December seventh, nineteen fifty one and

1778
01:21:29,640 --> 01:21:31,599
Speaker 1: nineteen forty one, the attack on Pearl Harbor.

1779
01:21:32,320 --> 01:21:35,160
Speaker 5: Every single year, we have a fucking celebration.

1780
01:21:34,920 --> 01:21:37,280
Speaker 1: Right you were you remember? So the only people that

1781
01:21:37,320 --> 01:21:39,599
Speaker 1: they say, yo, the bad shit. You'll be better off

1782
01:21:39,640 --> 01:21:41,400
Speaker 1: if you take all things. Don't.

1783
01:21:41,760 --> 01:21:44,240
Speaker 4: Let's start your history learning here and let's teach you

1784
01:21:44,240 --> 01:21:47,559
Speaker 4: everything you know about yourself only through this context. But

1785
01:21:48,160 --> 01:21:50,080
Speaker 4: don't bring it up and don't blame any of your

1786
01:21:50,080 --> 01:21:52,479
Speaker 4: fellow brotherren about that now because it was so long ago.

1787
01:21:52,920 --> 01:21:55,960
Speaker 3: And then it's also like, look how y'all act. Look

1788
01:21:55,960 --> 01:21:57,800
Speaker 3: at this, Look at how you're acting your communities, look

1789
01:21:57,800 --> 01:21:58,519
Speaker 3: at the black.

1790
01:21:58,280 --> 01:22:01,000
Speaker 4: On black crime without addressing, Hey, why the fuck do

1791
01:22:01,000 --> 01:22:03,440
Speaker 4: you think we don't have knowledge of self and cultural

1792
01:22:03,840 --> 01:22:06,160
Speaker 4: anything unity because we don't know who the fuck we are,

1793
01:22:06,200 --> 01:22:08,240
Speaker 4: where we came from, and we're actually thought to look

1794
01:22:08,280 --> 01:22:11,519
Speaker 4: down on those roots opposed to embracing them and moving

1795
01:22:11,560 --> 01:22:13,080
Speaker 4: forward in the community setting.

1796
01:22:13,439 --> 01:22:15,680
Speaker 1: And with Yate, it's like it's not even about him

1797
01:22:15,720 --> 01:22:19,160
Speaker 1: being black, it's about the weaponry of his of his mind.

1798
01:22:19,280 --> 01:22:21,559
Speaker 3: Right, well, he has what he's like, he has white privilege.

1799
01:22:21,560 --> 01:22:25,800
Speaker 1: It's crazy, right, and he has such as such a platform. Yeah,

1800
01:22:26,080 --> 01:22:29,920
Speaker 1: and so mis any misinformation from him that's not challenged,

1801
01:22:30,920 --> 01:22:32,360
Speaker 1: it's it's really destructive.

1802
01:22:32,439 --> 01:22:35,200
Speaker 6: He's reprogrammed though, Like I don't know, I'm so proud

1803
01:22:35,280 --> 01:22:37,200
Speaker 6: of you for fucking addressing that ship.

1804
01:22:37,360 --> 01:22:41,000
Speaker 3: Like I was like, yeah, God, I love this man.

1805
01:22:42,600 --> 01:22:43,160
Speaker 1: Jesus.

1806
01:22:44,360 --> 01:22:48,360
Speaker 3: But yeah, that was disappointing to say the least. But

1807
01:22:48,680 --> 01:22:50,160
Speaker 3: I couldn't help but think about that when you were

1808
01:22:50,160 --> 01:22:51,120
Speaker 3: talking about.

1809
01:22:51,360 --> 01:22:53,800
Speaker 6: About, you know, white people triggering you when they are

1810
01:22:53,840 --> 01:22:55,320
Speaker 6: certain things, because.

1811
01:22:55,840 --> 01:22:58,880
Speaker 4: I noticed, like, we're pro black, and I know it's

1812
01:22:58,960 --> 01:23:01,679
Speaker 4: your podcast to do like a free ad for black

1813
01:23:01,720 --> 01:23:07,320
Speaker 4: and brown people. You did something with the NAACP and

1814
01:23:07,360 --> 01:23:10,680
Speaker 4: then obviously you're a Kanye thing. But you say you're

1815
01:23:10,800 --> 01:23:13,000
Speaker 4: like with your platform a black activists.

1816
01:23:13,080 --> 01:23:15,200
Speaker 1: No, I wouldn't say that, Okay.

1817
01:23:15,720 --> 01:23:17,599
Speaker 5: The reason why I shot away from that is because,

1818
01:23:19,320 --> 01:23:19,640
Speaker 5: first of.

1819
01:23:19,600 --> 01:23:21,360
Speaker 1: All, there are activists, and these people are on the

1820
01:23:21,360 --> 01:23:26,479
Speaker 1: ground every day putting their safety and their livelihood on

1821
01:23:26,520 --> 01:23:28,439
Speaker 1: the line. I'm a guid with opinions, and I use

1822
01:23:28,479 --> 01:23:30,760
Speaker 1: those opinions to kind of get out of my the

1823
01:23:30,800 --> 01:23:33,559
Speaker 1: things that I think activists are people that are going

1824
01:23:33,760 --> 01:23:36,559
Speaker 1: into communities, taking guns out of their hands, putting books

1825
01:23:36,560 --> 01:23:40,439
Speaker 1: in their hands, feeding them, and work for social justice

1826
01:23:40,439 --> 01:23:43,720
Speaker 1: every day. It's our job as people with platforms to

1827
01:23:43,760 --> 01:23:45,280
Speaker 1: empower those people to do their work.

1828
01:23:45,840 --> 01:23:47,479
Speaker 5: That's what I'm trying to do. I'm trying to make

1829
01:23:47,520 --> 01:23:50,000
Speaker 5: sure that those people.

1830
01:23:50,720 --> 01:23:52,800
Speaker 1: Have the resources and the intention that they need to

1831
01:23:52,840 --> 01:23:55,880
Speaker 1: be able to do their work. Because while I want

1832
01:23:55,880 --> 01:23:59,760
Speaker 1: to write movies, other people want to like give, like

1833
01:23:59,800 --> 01:24:02,120
Speaker 1: they they're handing black people freedom.

1834
01:24:02,160 --> 01:24:03,920
Speaker 5: And these people that are doing this are all.

1835
01:24:03,800 --> 01:24:07,160
Speaker 1: Black people from all different types of walks of life,

1836
01:24:07,160 --> 01:24:07,840
Speaker 1: and they're doing that.

1837
01:24:07,920 --> 01:24:10,479
Speaker 5: So I wouldn't say that I'm an actifust at all,

1838
01:24:10,560 --> 01:24:14,280
Speaker 5: but like I'm from the South, like.

1839
01:24:14,280 --> 01:24:18,760
Speaker 1: The real South. So my my head is, like my

1840
01:24:18,880 --> 01:24:23,840
Speaker 1: ideas are informed through the lens of looking at a

1841
01:24:23,840 --> 01:24:24,839
Speaker 1: black servant class.

1842
01:24:25,360 --> 01:24:28,760
Speaker 5: Like when I come to LA and I go to a.

1843
01:24:28,680 --> 01:24:31,439
Speaker 1: Fast food restaurant or to a restaurant, any type of restaurant,

1844
01:24:31,439 --> 01:24:33,360
Speaker 1: the people that are working there are all Mexican, right,

1845
01:24:33,400 --> 01:24:37,320
Speaker 1: your valets are Mexican people giving they're not all Mexican.

1846
01:24:37,400 --> 01:24:38,400
Speaker 3: But like they're different.

1847
01:24:38,439 --> 01:24:41,880
Speaker 16: They're from all over the place, like they're they're all

1848
01:24:42,360 --> 01:24:45,600
Speaker 16: fair enough, they're all Hispanic right, Yeah, that's by a

1849
01:24:45,680 --> 01:24:48,120
Speaker 16: larger serving class that's here when I go back to,

1850
01:24:48,360 --> 01:24:50,880
Speaker 16: when I go back home, those people are all black.

1851
01:24:51,520 --> 01:24:54,320
Speaker 1: All your valets are black, all your fast food workers

1852
01:24:54,360 --> 01:24:57,160
Speaker 1: are black. All your busters and your way, all those

1853
01:24:57,160 --> 01:25:02,559
Speaker 1: people they're all black. So I think in terms of

1854
01:25:04,920 --> 01:25:09,960
Speaker 1: a sort of binary free and not free attitude, and

1855
01:25:10,000 --> 01:25:13,200
Speaker 1: how do we get freer? Because what I've seen a

1856
01:25:14,520 --> 01:25:17,240
Speaker 1: lot of places I've been is a sort of a

1857
01:25:17,240 --> 01:25:20,880
Speaker 1: form of neo slavery that has to do with sort

1858
01:25:20,920 --> 01:25:28,040
Speaker 1: of mental and economic disenfranchising. And I'm never gonna be

1859
01:25:28,080 --> 01:25:31,120
Speaker 1: in a place where I don't see that, I don't

1860
01:25:31,120 --> 01:25:34,719
Speaker 1: feel that well. I don't want to attack and destroy that. Ever,

1861
01:25:35,200 --> 01:25:37,240
Speaker 1: I'm never gonna be It doesn't matter how much happens

1862
01:25:37,240 --> 01:25:39,880
Speaker 1: for me, how many people I be, I'm around, what

1863
01:25:39,920 --> 01:25:41,920
Speaker 1: diversity I see. I'm never going to be in a

1864
01:25:41,960 --> 01:25:43,680
Speaker 1: spot to where I'm not like, yo, we need to

1865
01:25:43,680 --> 01:25:44,200
Speaker 1: be doing better.

1866
01:25:45,040 --> 01:25:47,080
Speaker 3: Ever, I don't know, I mean, I don't know how.

1867
01:25:47,200 --> 01:25:47,400
Speaker 3: I mean.

1868
01:25:47,400 --> 01:25:49,200
Speaker 6: I'm sure people get to a place where they getting

1869
01:25:49,200 --> 01:25:51,160
Speaker 6: them to it, but I don't I don't see myself

1870
01:25:51,200 --> 01:25:52,560
Speaker 6: ever getting them to.

1871
01:25:53,360 --> 01:25:54,960
Speaker 1: If you listen to when first came.

1872
01:25:55,880 --> 01:25:59,599
Speaker 6: He doesn't have any people around him that are black

1873
01:26:00,160 --> 01:26:03,600
Speaker 6: have a few, but like he's around he's in a

1874
01:26:03,600 --> 01:26:07,280
Speaker 6: white family with women that you know, I feel like.

1875
01:26:07,439 --> 01:26:09,839
Speaker 3: You're major white privilegion. He thinks so too.

1876
01:26:10,000 --> 01:26:12,920
Speaker 6: I mean they're not white, but like that's the thing,

1877
01:26:12,960 --> 01:26:14,920
Speaker 6: like they know, you've like we've had this conversation before

1878
01:26:14,960 --> 01:26:17,559
Speaker 6: where like you talk about Kim Kardashian her family, some

1879
01:26:17,600 --> 01:26:20,320
Speaker 6: of them are yeah, like you know, but at the

1880
01:26:20,320 --> 01:26:22,840
Speaker 6: same time, but they are white. Yeah, they live their

1881
01:26:22,880 --> 01:26:25,360
Speaker 6: life is with white privilege. But I'm sure Kim before

1882
01:26:25,400 --> 01:26:28,160
Speaker 6: she was maybe Kim experienced some sort.

1883
01:26:28,000 --> 01:26:30,479
Speaker 3: Of racist racism for being Armenian.

1884
01:26:30,880 --> 01:26:34,400
Speaker 4: But but Armenians are like really obviously in some less

1885
01:26:34,560 --> 01:26:36,439
Speaker 4: known in LA to be race in l A.

1886
01:26:36,840 --> 01:26:38,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean most people nowhere.

1887
01:26:38,120 --> 01:26:40,480
Speaker 5: Else, Like I don't even know any of our means.

1888
01:26:40,479 --> 01:26:42,040
Speaker 3: Because we grew up in the valley, so we know

1889
01:26:42,040 --> 01:26:42,799
Speaker 3: hell Armenians.

1890
01:26:42,800 --> 01:26:46,240
Speaker 1: And for me, that's another thing for me LA. Once again,

1891
01:26:46,720 --> 01:26:47,840
Speaker 1: you come out to l A and.

1892
01:26:47,760 --> 01:26:51,160
Speaker 8: You have a whole different spectrum of national so.

1893
01:26:51,200 --> 01:26:54,639
Speaker 1: Many different nationalities from it's black people and black people.

1894
01:26:54,439 --> 01:26:56,280
Speaker 3: I think also I think also.

1895
01:26:57,200 --> 01:27:00,479
Speaker 1: They're they're Mexicans now, but there weren't. There weren't when

1896
01:27:00,479 --> 01:27:02,840
Speaker 1: I was living there, it was the there there there's

1897
01:27:02,840 --> 01:27:04,640
Speaker 1: been an influence of Latinos.

1898
01:27:04,120 --> 01:27:06,920
Speaker 5: But when I was in Baton Rouge, there weren't really any.

1899
01:27:07,040 --> 01:27:09,040
Speaker 4: Even when I lived in Atlanta, I went to school Atlanta,

1900
01:27:09,080 --> 01:27:12,599
Speaker 4: I realized that there isn't like even in the East Coast,

1901
01:27:12,680 --> 01:27:14,839
Speaker 4: like I cann't identify like a Armanian person, a Persian

1902
01:27:14,880 --> 01:27:18,040
Speaker 4: person like I could. I know all the different races

1903
01:27:18,040 --> 01:27:19,800
Speaker 4: and that doesn't exist in the other places. It's like

1904
01:27:19,840 --> 01:27:24,519
Speaker 4: black or white, Russian. Yeah, I've a question.

1905
01:27:26,240 --> 01:27:29,120
Speaker 8: You being from down south, are you like religious?

1906
01:27:29,520 --> 01:27:29,760
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1907
01:27:30,280 --> 01:27:31,920
Speaker 3: You what would you just identify as?

1908
01:27:32,240 --> 01:27:33,320
Speaker 5: I'm a Christian man?

1909
01:27:33,640 --> 01:27:34,519
Speaker 3: You're a Christian man?

1910
01:27:34,600 --> 01:27:35,040
Speaker 8: I'm crazy.

1911
01:27:35,080 --> 01:27:38,960
Speaker 3: So you believe like in Jesus, Yeah, that's Christ, that's

1912
01:27:39,000 --> 01:27:39,960
Speaker 3: your say, as your savior?

1913
01:27:40,200 --> 01:27:40,360
Speaker 1: Yes?

1914
01:27:40,479 --> 01:27:41,760
Speaker 3: And do you feel like you're in church right now?

1915
01:27:42,120 --> 01:27:44,200
Speaker 4: I always feel so intense when I say that, cause

1916
01:27:44,240 --> 01:27:46,320
Speaker 4: I felt like for a long time, like even though

1917
01:27:46,360 --> 01:27:50,360
Speaker 4: I didn't grow up religious, When I finally like was like,

1918
01:27:50,400 --> 01:27:51,679
Speaker 4: I don't think maybe.

1919
01:27:51,520 --> 01:27:52,759
Speaker 3: Jesus Christ is at my savior.

1920
01:27:53,000 --> 01:27:54,840
Speaker 4: I felt really guilty saying it, Like I was like

1921
01:27:54,920 --> 01:27:58,120
Speaker 4: especially from my school from like black people, like what

1922
01:27:58,280 --> 01:27:59,280
Speaker 4: did you stay a bitch.

1923
01:28:00,120 --> 01:28:02,360
Speaker 1: The worst thing you can do be in my the

1924
01:28:02,400 --> 01:28:04,959
Speaker 1: worst thing you can be in my in that community.

1925
01:28:06,040 --> 01:28:07,800
Speaker 3: Well, I'm not an atheist. Do you go to church

1926
01:28:07,800 --> 01:28:08,680
Speaker 3: every Sunday?

1927
01:28:09,120 --> 01:28:10,840
Speaker 4: Okay, but this is my other question, because you are

1928
01:28:10,880 --> 01:28:12,400
Speaker 4: pro black, and do you believe in Jesus Christ is

1929
01:28:12,400 --> 01:28:14,800
Speaker 4: your savor? And I know, like one of my biggest things,

1930
01:28:14,840 --> 01:28:18,040
Speaker 4: like I went to church voluntarily, like in college because

1931
01:28:18,280 --> 01:28:23,400
Speaker 4: I enjoyed like the spiritual like push of like a

1932
01:28:23,439 --> 01:28:26,960
Speaker 4: massive people like all coming together for like unity and things.

1933
01:28:27,080 --> 01:28:30,479
Speaker 8: But my biggest thing was like a lot of churches

1934
01:28:30,520 --> 01:28:30,920
Speaker 8: you see like.

1935
01:28:30,920 --> 01:28:33,280
Speaker 4: This huge white image and blonde hair of this like

1936
01:28:33,400 --> 01:28:34,880
Speaker 4: Jesus Christ savior.

1937
01:28:34,800 --> 01:28:35,799
Speaker 3: Every church savior.

1938
01:28:35,960 --> 01:28:38,920
Speaker 4: And I have a problem with that just because like

1939
01:28:39,520 --> 01:28:42,360
Speaker 4: you're not saving me, Like I don't know, it just never.

1940
01:28:42,240 --> 01:28:43,840
Speaker 3: Made sense, and especially like.

1941
01:28:44,360 --> 01:28:47,360
Speaker 4: Thinking about slavery, like this is something they specifically gave

1942
01:28:47,400 --> 01:28:50,240
Speaker 4: black people to be like it's okay, the book says taken,

1943
01:28:50,880 --> 01:28:53,280
Speaker 4: and I can't I can't imagine, like and I think

1944
01:28:53,320 --> 01:28:55,400
Speaker 4: it's so strange, because I mean it's not strange. It

1945
01:28:55,400 --> 01:28:58,880
Speaker 4: makes perfect sense why religion is so heavily like black

1946
01:28:58,880 --> 01:29:00,759
Speaker 4: people cling to you know, there's a lot of leigous

1947
01:29:00,760 --> 01:29:02,680
Speaker 4: people down South. But it didn't make sense to me

1948
01:29:02,720 --> 01:29:05,160
Speaker 4: that we so easily accepted this white image even till

1949
01:29:05,200 --> 01:29:07,639
Speaker 4: today when obviously like there's so much.

1950
01:29:08,640 --> 01:29:10,040
Speaker 6: Well when they break you down and get you at

1951
01:29:10,080 --> 01:29:13,160
Speaker 6: your lowest point.

1952
01:29:12,080 --> 01:29:14,600
Speaker 1: Well, there are things that are and then there are

1953
01:29:14,640 --> 01:29:15,280
Speaker 1: things that are locks.

1954
01:29:15,360 --> 01:29:17,800
Speaker 6: But they're also things that are inspirational about Like there's

1955
01:29:17,880 --> 01:29:20,679
Speaker 6: not not everything in Christianity is bad.

1956
01:29:20,960 --> 01:29:22,880
Speaker 3: No, I'm I'm saying that. I mean, I'm to Christian

1957
01:29:22,880 --> 01:29:23,639
Speaker 3: schools for hell long.

1958
01:29:23,760 --> 01:29:26,479
Speaker 1: I know, I get what you're saying, like these these

1959
01:29:26,720 --> 01:29:28,960
Speaker 1: these things are very complex. But once again that things

1960
01:29:28,960 --> 01:29:31,439
Speaker 1: are true, that things are lives. Okay, if you read

1961
01:29:31,439 --> 01:29:34,600
Speaker 1: your Bible, yeah, there there are tons of lessons in

1962
01:29:34,600 --> 01:29:36,760
Speaker 1: your lessons in your Bible that tell you the way

1963
01:29:36,760 --> 01:29:38,559
Speaker 1: that you're supposed to live your life. Right.

1964
01:29:38,720 --> 01:29:40,080
Speaker 5: Some of them are contradictory.

1965
01:29:40,320 --> 01:29:45,720
Speaker 1: Okay, some of them were completely washed away, right like

1966
01:29:45,920 --> 01:29:49,000
Speaker 1: the New Covenant. Covenant Jesus Christ washed away a lot

1967
01:29:49,000 --> 01:29:53,559
Speaker 1: of the things in the Old Testament. The easiest way

1968
01:29:53,600 --> 01:29:56,240
Speaker 1: to subjugate any group of people is to make them

1969
01:29:56,240 --> 01:30:01,320
Speaker 1: accept your language and your religion, because if they talk

1970
01:30:01,360 --> 01:30:03,280
Speaker 1: how you talk, and they believe in the God that

1971
01:30:03,320 --> 01:30:08,360
Speaker 1: you believe in, you can make them. Doesn't matter what

1972
01:30:08,400 --> 01:30:11,160
Speaker 1: god with religion it is, that's always what happens. Soone

1973
01:30:11,200 --> 01:30:15,759
Speaker 1: takes over someplace and the install a religion there. Now,

1974
01:30:16,280 --> 01:30:21,240
Speaker 1: in terms of or why Jesus is just not possible.

1975
01:30:21,640 --> 01:30:24,880
Speaker 1: It just wouldn't have beensing it's not possible. The question

1976
01:30:25,000 --> 01:30:31,360
Speaker 1: is not whether or not, because every because every sort

1977
01:30:31,400 --> 01:30:37,679
Speaker 1: of race has their God, and they draw their God

1978
01:30:37,720 --> 01:30:38,760
Speaker 1: the way they see that God.

1979
01:30:38,840 --> 01:30:40,360
Speaker 5: Right, the question is.

1980
01:30:42,280 --> 01:30:45,400
Speaker 1: Why did it take us so long to reject that image?

1981
01:30:46,520 --> 01:30:53,400
Speaker 1: And the answer is because we couldn't read So if

1982
01:30:53,600 --> 01:30:55,439
Speaker 1: if you get, if you kill a bunch of people

1983
01:30:55,479 --> 01:30:59,479
Speaker 1: in here, the knowledge that it would have taken to

1984
01:30:59,640 --> 01:31:03,320
Speaker 1: sort of of access to information that we needed to

1985
01:31:03,439 --> 01:31:06,240
Speaker 1: understand that that was a lie. Even if we would

1986
01:31:06,240 --> 01:31:07,840
Speaker 1: have had it, we couldn't have read it because we

1987
01:31:07,880 --> 01:31:09,639
Speaker 1: couldn't have read it because it was illegal to teach

1988
01:31:09,640 --> 01:31:10,280
Speaker 1: the slavery.

1989
01:31:10,640 --> 01:31:13,040
Speaker 5: So everything about.

1990
01:31:14,520 --> 01:31:17,439
Speaker 1: How black people have been programmed in America is about

1991
01:31:17,439 --> 01:31:22,759
Speaker 1: access to information, And then can you undo the cultural

1992
01:31:22,800 --> 01:31:25,639
Speaker 1: damage that has been done once you have the truth.

1993
01:31:26,280 --> 01:31:30,479
Speaker 5: So a lot of the stuff that you know that

1994
01:31:30,600 --> 01:31:31,080
Speaker 5: hasn't done.

1995
01:31:31,080 --> 01:31:32,680
Speaker 1: There's a lot of more information, there's a lot more

1996
01:31:32,680 --> 01:31:35,960
Speaker 1: information about Jesus Christ out there that's controversial and if

1997
01:31:36,000 --> 01:31:37,120
Speaker 1: people want thing, they'll get it.

1998
01:31:37,680 --> 01:31:41,920
Speaker 3: I agree with that. So speaking of Jesus Christ, this

1999
01:31:41,960 --> 01:31:44,439
Speaker 3: is not speaking with Christ. So I told you before.

2000
01:31:44,479 --> 01:31:46,880
Speaker 3: We have a segment on our show called horror stories.

2001
01:31:47,200 --> 01:31:47,879
Speaker 1: Horror stories.

2002
01:31:48,080 --> 01:31:55,639
Speaker 3: Yes, from from God to Fucking Do you have any

2003
01:31:55,640 --> 01:31:57,280
Speaker 3: horror stories that you can share with that's no?

2004
01:31:57,560 --> 01:32:12,000
Speaker 5: What exactly is a horror story?

2005
01:32:13,080 --> 01:32:21,280
Speaker 3: H stories? It can be anything. It can be like

2006
01:32:21,760 --> 01:32:24,400
Speaker 3: something really like freaking nast, freaking nasty that you did

2007
01:32:24,439 --> 01:32:28,599
Speaker 3: that like you would cat would. Society might categorize as horrors.

2008
01:32:29,320 --> 01:32:32,080
Speaker 6: Or it could be like an extremely traumatizing sex story,

2009
01:32:32,200 --> 01:32:39,600
Speaker 6: like a horror story, like horror extremely trust.

2010
01:32:40,720 --> 01:32:44,519
Speaker 3: It's extremely okay, this is scary, scary.

2011
01:32:45,200 --> 01:32:47,240
Speaker 1: I have one.

2012
01:32:47,600 --> 01:32:53,320
Speaker 6: We're not acting, We're not asking for your molestation story.

2013
01:32:54,160 --> 01:32:57,040
Speaker 5: So there was like a.

2014
01:32:58,800 --> 01:33:01,240
Speaker 1: Like they used to give away these They used to

2015
01:33:01,280 --> 01:33:05,759
Speaker 1: give away condoms at like at at at Southern University,

2016
01:33:05,760 --> 01:33:07,720
Speaker 1: all different types of condoms just walking the stud usually

2017
01:33:07,880 --> 01:33:13,160
Speaker 1: take the commons right, and it is different condoms and stuff.

2018
01:33:13,160 --> 01:33:16,080
Speaker 1: I think there's these one condoms called like a kiss

2019
01:33:16,080 --> 01:33:18,479
Speaker 1: of mint. You ever heard these condoms before?

2020
01:33:20,800 --> 01:33:22,360
Speaker 3: It's like putting your listening ship in your.

2021
01:33:22,240 --> 01:33:27,400
Speaker 1: Mouth, and it was like they were sex, right. I

2022
01:33:27,479 --> 01:33:30,800
Speaker 1: was not wanting so, but listen, here's the thing. So

2023
01:33:31,080 --> 01:33:32,080
Speaker 1: this girl comes.

2024
01:33:31,800 --> 01:33:33,200
Speaker 3: Over or is it for your decks?

2025
01:33:35,760 --> 01:33:37,160
Speaker 5: She tastes it when she's giving your.

2026
01:33:37,040 --> 01:33:38,960
Speaker 4: Head, and it's like it's probably tingling for you, right,

2027
01:33:39,160 --> 01:33:41,600
Speaker 4: I don't know when people put condoms on decks to

2028
01:33:41,600 --> 01:33:41,960
Speaker 4: give ahead.

2029
01:33:45,160 --> 01:33:47,080
Speaker 1: They wanted you to do it. They wanted you to

2030
01:33:47,080 --> 01:33:48,000
Speaker 1: put the condoms on the dick.

2031
01:33:48,520 --> 01:33:52,360
Speaker 17: So she comes over and she, uh, and I gonna

2032
01:33:52,360 --> 01:33:54,320
Speaker 17: get the condom, like yeah, I about to smash a lot,

2033
01:33:54,360 --> 01:33:57,960
Speaker 17: and I put the condom on and then she uh,

2034
01:33:59,400 --> 01:34:02,799
Speaker 17: I'm fucking and she goes, you, I don't know what's going.

2035
01:34:02,600 --> 01:34:09,479
Speaker 3: On, but this is burning no no, package yeah, I'm I'm.

2036
01:34:09,280 --> 01:34:13,920
Speaker 1: Like what and she's like no, just keep on and

2037
01:34:13,960 --> 01:34:18,679
Speaker 1: then she's like no, no, no, no, no, like for real,

2038
01:34:19,000 --> 01:34:21,280
Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on, like this is burning.

2039
01:34:21,320 --> 01:34:21,760
Speaker 5: This hurts.

2040
01:34:21,800 --> 01:34:24,120
Speaker 1: I'm like all right, cool, cool, and she's like this.

2041
01:34:24,240 --> 01:34:26,679
Speaker 1: She starts looking at me and she goes, what's wrong

2042
01:34:26,760 --> 01:34:29,360
Speaker 1: with you? Like why is this burning?

2043
01:34:29,400 --> 01:34:32,160
Speaker 3: Me's like literally the term you burn me?

2044
01:34:32,520 --> 01:34:33,160
Speaker 1: What do you mean?

2045
01:34:33,439 --> 01:34:36,439
Speaker 5: She's like nothing, going home? So she leaves, and she

2046
01:34:36,439 --> 01:34:38,280
Speaker 5: she goes, she goes, she leaves.

2047
01:34:38,320 --> 01:34:40,880
Speaker 1: And I still don't know what's going on because I

2048
01:34:41,000 --> 01:34:45,160
Speaker 1: really don't know, like what's what's what's happening. So she

2049
01:34:45,320 --> 01:34:46,960
Speaker 1: gets like an affection.

2050
01:34:47,479 --> 01:34:48,479
Speaker 3: I'm gonna say this sounds like.

2051
01:34:50,000 --> 01:34:53,519
Speaker 1: She gets like affection. So like it's two days later,

2052
01:34:54,120 --> 01:34:59,000
Speaker 1: and this was a situation to where my brother was.

2053
01:35:00,439 --> 01:35:07,560
Speaker 1: My brother was shout out to Ian the your Thursday. Uh,

2054
01:35:07,600 --> 01:35:10,920
Speaker 1: my brother was at that point dating her friend, ended

2055
01:35:10,960 --> 01:35:13,920
Speaker 1: up marrying her friend. I was with her, so everyone

2056
01:35:13,960 --> 01:35:15,360
Speaker 1: was in the same thing. But then like a couple

2057
01:35:15,360 --> 01:35:17,519
Speaker 1: of three days later, like none of the girls would

2058
01:35:17,520 --> 01:35:19,599
Speaker 1: talk to me, Like none of.

2059
01:35:19,520 --> 01:35:23,040
Speaker 3: Them had a spicy deck, like, none of them.

2060
01:35:25,160 --> 01:35:27,200
Speaker 1: So none of them would talk to me. And then

2061
01:35:27,280 --> 01:35:29,600
Speaker 1: my homeboy Ryan goes, he hits me up because my

2062
01:35:29,680 --> 01:35:31,960
Speaker 1: crew is ruthless, right, my homeboy Ryan, he's been up

2063
01:35:31,960 --> 01:35:33,240
Speaker 1: that Friday, like, oh my nigga.

2064
01:35:34,280 --> 01:35:34,800
Speaker 5: I'm like what.

2065
01:35:34,920 --> 01:35:38,720
Speaker 1: He's like, say, brother, anything you need to tell me

2066
01:35:38,800 --> 01:35:41,479
Speaker 1: don oh no, And I'm like no, man.

2067
01:35:41,680 --> 01:35:44,320
Speaker 5: He's like, you got some dirty pussy.

2068
01:35:44,120 --> 01:35:46,559
Speaker 1: Somewhere or what. And I'm like, what what are y'all

2069
01:35:46,600 --> 01:35:47,120
Speaker 1: talking about?

2070
01:35:47,160 --> 01:35:47,639
Speaker 5: You said, yo?

2071
01:35:47,760 --> 01:35:51,000
Speaker 1: Man? Black Blank had to go to the clinic.

2072
01:35:51,040 --> 01:35:51,200
Speaker 6: Man.

2073
01:35:51,240 --> 01:35:52,519
Speaker 5: She said, pussy off, fucked up.

2074
01:35:53,160 --> 01:35:55,640
Speaker 1: It happened when she was fucking with you, And like

2075
01:35:55,680 --> 01:35:59,320
Speaker 1: I said, first of all, all you health class majors,

2076
01:35:59,800 --> 01:36:05,280
Speaker 1: it wouldn't have happened while we were while we were together. Secondly,

2077
01:36:05,400 --> 01:36:06,840
Speaker 1: I don't know what she was saying. I think the

2078
01:36:06,880 --> 01:36:11,080
Speaker 1: condom was old or something like that. And so literally,

2079
01:36:11,160 --> 01:36:14,240
Speaker 1: it wasn't until like I had a reputation as if

2080
01:36:14,280 --> 01:36:20,679
Speaker 1: I was handing out. Really it really, it really never.

2081
01:36:20,840 --> 01:36:24,960
Speaker 11: Like I didn't even remember that.

2082
01:36:24,960 --> 01:36:28,840
Speaker 1: That same guy came over. My homeboy, Ryan, my best

2083
01:36:28,840 --> 01:36:30,280
Speaker 1: friend in the world, came over to the crib. It

2084
01:36:30,320 --> 01:36:32,080
Speaker 1: was like, I need a rubber and I was like,

2085
01:36:32,400 --> 01:36:34,040
Speaker 1: you came over to the crib and I'm like, yo,

2086
01:36:34,360 --> 01:36:36,120
Speaker 1: I got these these. I gave him one of these.

2087
01:36:36,120 --> 01:36:39,400
Speaker 5: He was like, Yo, you can't use this. I was

2088
01:36:39,439 --> 01:36:39,720
Speaker 5: like what.

2089
01:36:39,840 --> 01:36:42,599
Speaker 1: He's like, Yo, these condoms. The reason why they already

2090
01:36:42,760 --> 01:36:45,080
Speaker 1: have these because it was a fishbowl at Southern and

2091
01:36:45,160 --> 01:36:47,040
Speaker 1: you was just grabbed the combus and it was like

2092
01:36:47,080 --> 01:36:48,160
Speaker 1: the reason why they always have.

2093
01:36:48,240 --> 01:36:49,920
Speaker 18: These is because you can't fuck with these. He's like,

2094
01:36:52,360 --> 01:36:55,679
Speaker 18: my nigga, my nigga, did you fuck? I'm not gonna

2095
01:36:55,680 --> 01:36:57,240
Speaker 18: say the name. Did you fuck her with one of these?

2096
01:36:57,360 --> 01:37:05,200
Speaker 18: I'm like yo, and he was like oh.

2097
01:37:02,520 --> 01:37:06,400
Speaker 14: And then I tried to convince her and she would

2098
01:37:06,400 --> 01:37:11,360
Speaker 14: not have it, probably to this day hence.

2099
01:37:11,120 --> 01:37:13,439
Speaker 3: Why that company is no longer making condoms.

2100
01:37:14,439 --> 01:37:17,760
Speaker 1: But now I had, you know, I was actually I

2101
01:37:17,800 --> 01:37:21,320
Speaker 1: did without that that It was that.

2102
01:37:22,920 --> 01:37:24,479
Speaker 5: With her the morning of nine eleven.

2103
01:37:25,080 --> 01:37:28,240
Speaker 3: Damn, y'all, y'all had to share a very intense moment.

2104
01:37:28,320 --> 01:37:30,400
Speaker 5: Oh but there's one other story. This one's a bad one.

2105
01:37:30,439 --> 01:37:33,439
Speaker 1: This one's like it's not bad, it's not bad, but

2106
01:37:33,479 --> 01:37:36,200
Speaker 1: it's tells tells you, like a lot of people are

2107
01:37:36,200 --> 01:37:37,880
Speaker 1: on this new Found Me Too movement.

2108
01:37:40,160 --> 01:37:42,840
Speaker 6: Good, Okay, my daughter has her headphones on so she's

2109
01:37:42,840 --> 01:37:44,320
Speaker 6: not listening to So there's.

2110
01:37:44,240 --> 01:37:46,400
Speaker 1: There's another one. So there was this girl white shirt

2111
01:37:46,640 --> 01:37:49,720
Speaker 1: that was that was like, let me tell you how

2112
01:37:49,760 --> 01:37:52,480
Speaker 1: bad things were back in the day.

2113
01:37:52,840 --> 01:37:55,040
Speaker 5: Okay, everything was about running the train.

2114
01:37:56,360 --> 01:37:57,320
Speaker 3: I remember those times.

2115
01:37:58,040 --> 01:38:01,479
Speaker 6: There was a period it was about running the train.

2116
01:38:01,680 --> 01:38:03,719
Speaker 1: Everything was about ran the train. It was all about

2117
01:38:03,760 --> 01:38:06,120
Speaker 1: ranting train. It was like there was something that they

2118
01:38:06,200 --> 01:38:10,840
Speaker 1: had that it was called train Tuesdays. Every Tuesday, they

2119
01:38:10,840 --> 01:38:12,479
Speaker 1: tried to get a girl. They tried to run a train.

2120
01:38:12,560 --> 01:38:13,280
Speaker 1: So it was like.

2121
01:38:13,200 --> 01:38:15,679
Speaker 5: College days or this is college college days.

2122
01:38:15,760 --> 01:38:18,880
Speaker 1: So this was like everywhere. So if you had a

2123
01:38:18,880 --> 01:38:20,960
Speaker 1: girl coming to the crib, and I remember we had

2124
01:38:21,000 --> 01:38:21,720
Speaker 1: a homeboy.

2125
01:38:21,520 --> 01:38:24,240
Speaker 3: On a Tuesday, everybody knew. It was ever or you

2126
01:38:24,280 --> 01:38:26,400
Speaker 3: all are together at once on the train.

2127
01:38:26,520 --> 01:38:28,200
Speaker 1: I've only been a part of one train before.

2128
01:38:29,160 --> 01:38:30,160
Speaker 3: It was a train like.

2129
01:38:31,720 --> 01:38:33,759
Speaker 1: One, two, three three.

2130
01:38:34,439 --> 01:38:37,960
Speaker 5: It was like one one guy with first, like a line.

2131
01:38:38,800 --> 01:38:40,600
Speaker 3: So y'all never never together.

2132
01:38:40,360 --> 01:38:42,960
Speaker 5: Once, never together it was, but it was like ran trains.

2133
01:38:43,000 --> 01:38:45,320
Speaker 5: It's the only time Bill, why you Classic.

2134
01:38:45,200 --> 01:38:46,960
Speaker 3: Nineteen was it in the basement. So that's where a

2135
01:38:47,000 --> 01:38:47,880
Speaker 3: lot of them happened.

2136
01:38:51,760 --> 01:38:52,720
Speaker 1: In New Orleans.

2137
01:38:54,640 --> 01:38:55,880
Speaker 8: And so and so.

2138
01:38:56,080 --> 01:38:59,679
Speaker 1: Like I was, we were all playing Madden.

2139
01:39:00,000 --> 01:39:02,400
Speaker 5: I remember telling my homies. I was like, yeah, I

2140
01:39:02,439 --> 01:39:03,320
Speaker 5: got a girl coming over.

2141
01:39:03,439 --> 01:39:03,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I gotta go.

2142
01:39:04,920 --> 01:39:08,000
Speaker 5: And two of my homies left with my boy. I

2143
01:39:08,360 --> 01:39:12,519
Speaker 5: say his name, Uh, who cares my boy around?

2144
01:39:12,560 --> 01:39:12,960
Speaker 3: He was like.

2145
01:39:14,520 --> 01:39:18,040
Speaker 1: My boy alright, he was like yo, man, Yeah, they said,

2146
01:39:18,040 --> 01:39:20,640
Speaker 1: she a front. You gotta see you she about you know,

2147
01:39:20,800 --> 01:39:22,360
Speaker 1: see she about that life, put it in her mind,

2148
01:39:22,400 --> 01:39:25,120
Speaker 1: put on fans, put that wheel in the back. I'm like,

2149
01:39:25,200 --> 01:39:30,040
Speaker 1: what he's like? Way he talks like, what.

2150
01:39:32,680 --> 01:39:33,680
Speaker 5: Will educate me?

2151
01:39:34,800 --> 01:39:41,000
Speaker 1: That's sweet. So the girl comes over and this girl

2152
01:39:41,200 --> 01:39:44,519
Speaker 1: never realized what was going on. So the girl comes

2153
01:39:44,600 --> 01:39:49,559
Speaker 1: over and we're all talking, right, everybody's talking, everybody's getting cool,

2154
01:39:49,560 --> 01:39:52,839
Speaker 1: blah blah, and she just looked and she literally everybody's

2155
01:39:52,880 --> 01:39:56,360
Speaker 1: in the room, me and rob My boy, Drew and

2156
01:39:56,479 --> 01:39:58,479
Speaker 1: one more guy can remember what it was. And she

2157
01:39:58,600 --> 01:40:02,240
Speaker 1: looked at me and she goes, hmm, it's just motion

2158
01:40:02,439 --> 01:40:04,920
Speaker 1: to like go into the other room. So we left

2159
01:40:05,000 --> 01:40:08,680
Speaker 1: him there and I go into the other room, me

2160
01:40:08,720 --> 01:40:09,559
Speaker 1: and her messing around.

2161
01:40:09,560 --> 01:40:09,920
Speaker 5: I'll leave.

2162
01:40:09,920 --> 01:40:11,920
Speaker 1: I'll come back out of rodstill in there playing Madden,

2163
01:40:11,960 --> 01:40:13,680
Speaker 1: playing against the computer. That's how you know that that

2164
01:40:13,760 --> 01:40:15,439
Speaker 1: nigga is trying to stick around and see what's happened.

2165
01:40:15,439 --> 01:40:18,519
Speaker 1: Nobody plays a fucking computer. So he's playing and then

2166
01:40:18,560 --> 01:40:20,240
Speaker 1: he goes yo, So I'll go listen.

2167
01:40:21,280 --> 01:40:22,640
Speaker 5: I don't know if she's gonna be down for this,

2168
01:40:23,000 --> 01:40:25,240
Speaker 5: so I don't wanna like.

2169
01:40:27,960 --> 01:40:29,200
Speaker 3: Like what you don't I'm.

2170
01:40:29,040 --> 01:40:31,599
Speaker 1: Telling you, this is this. I'm telling you. I don't

2171
01:40:31,600 --> 01:40:34,080
Speaker 1: know if she'll be down for this, So just chill,

2172
01:40:34,960 --> 01:40:39,439
Speaker 1: don't do anything, do anything because we haven't really discussed this,

2173
01:40:39,760 --> 01:40:41,519
Speaker 1: and I don't think that she's gonna be into this.

2174
01:40:41,760 --> 01:40:45,360
Speaker 1: Like he's like, okay, cool. So we're in the other room.

2175
01:40:45,600 --> 01:40:48,040
Speaker 1: I'll never forget this moment. We're in the other room.

2176
01:40:48,240 --> 01:40:52,720
Speaker 1: And so it's like the moonlight is coming through the moonlight.

2177
01:40:53,080 --> 01:40:57,679
Speaker 1: The moonlight is coming through the moonlight is coming through

2178
01:40:58,120 --> 01:41:04,160
Speaker 1: the window the blinds, and I'm behind her. So I'm

2179
01:41:04,240 --> 01:41:04,720
Speaker 1: behind her.

2180
01:41:05,840 --> 01:41:10,360
Speaker 5: I'll in all of a sudden, she is not paying attention.

2181
01:41:10,920 --> 01:41:12,720
Speaker 1: She's facing the window, and all of a sudden, I

2182
01:41:12,880 --> 01:41:18,160
Speaker 1: see the door and the door opens. And Rob was big.

2183
01:41:18,280 --> 01:41:19,120
Speaker 5: He was a big dude.

2184
01:41:19,520 --> 01:41:21,960
Speaker 1: And he comes walking into the room and he's got

2185
01:41:22,040 --> 01:41:25,160
Speaker 1: his he's got his dick in his hands. And then

2186
01:41:25,320 --> 01:41:27,920
Speaker 1: he starts walking over to like where her head is

2187
01:41:28,439 --> 01:41:30,720
Speaker 1: maybe and i' might I might. I look at him

2188
01:41:30,760 --> 01:41:33,640
Speaker 1: like I'm like I looked at him. I'm like no,

2189
01:41:34,439 --> 01:41:38,720
Speaker 1: like like I'm like, yo, no, no, no, And then

2190
01:41:38,800 --> 01:41:42,280
Speaker 1: he and then he listen, this is what happens. He then.

2191
01:41:43,760 --> 01:41:45,960
Speaker 5: Goes back out and he just to go back out

2192
01:41:45,960 --> 01:41:46,280
Speaker 5: of the room.

2193
01:41:46,320 --> 01:41:48,639
Speaker 1: He goes back in front of the bed and drops

2194
01:41:48,800 --> 01:41:52,400
Speaker 1: down in front of like the base board, like the

2195
01:41:52,520 --> 01:41:53,280
Speaker 1: base of the bed.

2196
01:41:53,400 --> 01:41:55,200
Speaker 5: Like he's on the ground, and.

2197
01:41:55,240 --> 01:41:57,880
Speaker 1: She doesn't hear any of this, doesn't hear anything, I

2198
01:41:58,120 --> 01:42:00,639
Speaker 1: swear to you, and then and and then so because

2199
01:42:00,800 --> 01:42:04,800
Speaker 1: I didn't become uncomfortable with fucking her with him in

2200
01:42:04,840 --> 01:42:06,200
Speaker 1: the room, her with him in the room.

2201
01:42:06,720 --> 01:42:08,120
Speaker 5: I then I stopped at the man.

2202
01:42:08,120 --> 01:42:08,719
Speaker 1: I need a break.

2203
01:42:09,080 --> 01:42:10,840
Speaker 5: She goes a break, like what do you need a

2204
01:42:10,880 --> 01:42:14,040
Speaker 5: break for? Like like like what I'm like, I'm like, yill, Yeah,

2205
01:42:14,600 --> 01:42:15,280
Speaker 5: I need a break.

2206
01:42:15,840 --> 01:42:16,519
Speaker 1: I need a break.

2207
01:42:17,040 --> 01:42:21,519
Speaker 5: And we laid there until we fell asleep.

2208
01:42:22,760 --> 01:42:23,760
Speaker 3: Where did he go?

2209
01:42:24,439 --> 01:42:27,760
Speaker 1: He stayed on the floor, Like this is a true.

2210
01:42:29,880 --> 01:42:31,760
Speaker 5: I don't know why he did not leave the room.

2211
01:42:31,960 --> 01:42:34,360
Speaker 1: He watched like I don't he was watching for he

2212
01:42:34,520 --> 01:42:37,120
Speaker 1: was he's watching or hearing for a second.

2213
01:42:37,560 --> 01:42:41,160
Speaker 6: And then we laid there and then you saved her

2214
01:42:41,200 --> 01:42:44,439
Speaker 6: from me to a moment, you know, I saved myself from.

2215
01:42:46,360 --> 01:42:49,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I saved myself in this situation. I don't remember.

2216
01:42:49,840 --> 01:42:50,120
Speaker 4: I like.

2217
01:42:55,320 --> 01:42:59,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, like for me, I'm trying to think in that situation,

2218
01:42:59,680 --> 01:43:02,320
Speaker 1: like what more could I have said to be like yo?

2219
01:43:02,400 --> 01:43:04,880
Speaker 1: I said she wasn't. I don't think she was.

2220
01:43:04,960 --> 01:43:09,240
Speaker 4: Down so chill, like she felt uncomfortable even like yeah,

2221
01:43:09,360 --> 01:43:11,400
Speaker 4: that's a bad situation to be in. But I don't know,

2222
01:43:11,479 --> 01:43:13,320
Speaker 4: maybe you have to be more serious with your homeboys

2223
01:43:13,320 --> 01:43:16,160
Speaker 4: because they just think back in the day.

2224
01:43:16,240 --> 01:43:18,040
Speaker 3: That no, that's what happened.

2225
01:43:18,080 --> 01:43:18,680
Speaker 1: I just would know.

2226
01:43:18,800 --> 01:43:21,000
Speaker 3: I knew some girls that they would have sex with

2227
01:43:21,040 --> 01:43:24,240
Speaker 3: the guy and then oh, the guy would come in.

2228
01:43:24,400 --> 01:43:27,680
Speaker 4: And I heard about it, like I mean if even

2229
01:43:27,720 --> 01:43:29,040
Speaker 4: though I was there in high school, when I was

2230
01:43:29,080 --> 01:43:31,479
Speaker 4: hearing about this epidemic, I was like, oh no, that's

2231
01:43:31,640 --> 01:43:32,800
Speaker 4: she don't really little self esteem.

2232
01:43:32,840 --> 01:43:35,400
Speaker 3: There's a problem here. It's not it's not. This is

2233
01:43:35,479 --> 01:43:36,000
Speaker 3: not normal.

2234
01:43:36,280 --> 01:43:38,479
Speaker 1: It's not but it was not to happen.

2235
01:43:39,040 --> 01:43:42,800
Speaker 4: Let me say, from a woman's perspective, the worst thing

2236
01:43:42,960 --> 01:43:46,800
Speaker 4: you can ever do in life is to assume some

2237
01:43:46,920 --> 01:43:49,160
Speaker 4: ship like that and so that on a girl because.

2238
01:43:49,360 --> 01:43:52,519
Speaker 3: They will immediately feel rapeyl rape. It's called ra.

2239
01:43:54,200 --> 01:43:56,800
Speaker 8: Not yeah, oh no, I.

2240
01:43:56,840 --> 01:43:59,400
Speaker 3: Mean look, have you ever paid the position with America?

2241
01:44:01,000 --> 01:44:04,360
Speaker 3: I have, and I was traumatized. And then I'm also like, well,

2242
01:44:04,400 --> 01:44:05,920
Speaker 3: what the fuck did you think this was? Like?

2243
01:44:05,960 --> 01:44:07,320
Speaker 5: Are you just just try every way in.

2244
01:44:07,360 --> 01:44:10,120
Speaker 3: A situation like really, yeah, I have this guy I

2245
01:44:10,240 --> 01:44:11,960
Speaker 3: was dating one. This was my first guy ever lost

2246
01:44:12,000 --> 01:44:15,479
Speaker 3: my virginity too, and the first guy you ever lost,

2247
01:44:15,680 --> 01:44:16,400
Speaker 3: the first guy.

2248
01:44:16,240 --> 01:44:20,439
Speaker 4: I lost my virginity too, lost multiple time, didn't didn't

2249
01:44:20,479 --> 01:44:22,920
Speaker 4: count the first and I.

2250
01:44:22,960 --> 01:44:23,599
Speaker 3: Was in high school.

2251
01:44:23,600 --> 01:44:26,120
Speaker 6: I was because I lost her virginiay pretty young, and

2252
01:44:26,400 --> 01:44:28,200
Speaker 6: that's what I'm saying, Like we were, they were young.

2253
01:44:28,520 --> 01:44:33,439
Speaker 3: I don't have cookies day here, putings on meet them

2254
01:44:34,720 --> 01:44:35,280
Speaker 3: at that time.

2255
01:44:35,520 --> 01:44:36,040
Speaker 1: I feel like.

2256
01:44:37,880 --> 01:44:40,040
Speaker 6: Anyway, I felt like at that time, you know, I

2257
01:44:40,080 --> 01:44:42,240
Speaker 6: don't know, we're so promiscuous at that point age.

2258
01:44:42,360 --> 01:44:43,000
Speaker 1: I never did it.

2259
01:44:43,200 --> 01:44:44,800
Speaker 6: I never did it, but I had a guy try

2260
01:44:44,880 --> 01:44:48,519
Speaker 6: when I was fifteen years old. But I knew girls

2261
01:44:48,600 --> 01:44:50,080
Speaker 6: that were doing that every weekend.

2262
01:44:50,280 --> 01:44:52,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, I haven't not for for four and they were

2263
01:44:52,840 --> 01:44:55,479
Speaker 3: like semi popular for a second. It was like a

2264
01:44:55,560 --> 01:44:57,080
Speaker 3: weird popularity slash.

2265
01:44:57,160 --> 01:45:00,479
Speaker 4: Whole thing was no, no, never ever ever, no, how

2266
01:45:00,640 --> 01:45:02,960
Speaker 4: like much I was excited about discovery might be trying

2267
01:45:03,040 --> 01:45:04,599
Speaker 4: as a teenager and I had a lot of sex

2268
01:45:05,160 --> 01:45:05,479
Speaker 4: I was.

2269
01:45:05,720 --> 01:45:08,200
Speaker 3: There was like there's it's very raby.

2270
01:45:08,600 --> 01:45:10,920
Speaker 1: No, it's there was some nasty ship that was going on.

2271
01:45:12,439 --> 01:45:13,640
Speaker 3: It's very homosexual.

2272
01:45:15,840 --> 01:45:19,639
Speaker 4: I mean science the numbers, there's hella guys and one vagina.

2273
01:45:20,080 --> 01:45:20,920
Speaker 3: It's very homofy.

2274
01:45:21,479 --> 01:45:24,040
Speaker 1: It's like it's like two of my homies, Like they

2275
01:45:25,000 --> 01:45:28,680
Speaker 1: they meant this girl in black Men, and then like

2276
01:45:28,840 --> 01:45:33,840
Speaker 1: they came back and I just remember the I remember

2277
01:45:34,080 --> 01:45:35,160
Speaker 1: seeing the girl walk in.

2278
01:45:35,320 --> 01:45:36,840
Speaker 5: I'm like, yeah, it looks like a girl that you

2279
01:45:36,920 --> 01:45:38,040
Speaker 5: know your right on.

2280
01:45:38,240 --> 01:45:40,320
Speaker 1: And then they when I came back into the because

2281
01:45:40,360 --> 01:45:43,400
Speaker 1: I left, and then when I came back into the apartment,

2282
01:45:44,120 --> 01:45:48,080
Speaker 1: there was like blue magic hair grease because that's what

2283
01:45:48,160 --> 01:45:49,040
Speaker 1: they were using the loup.

2284
01:45:49,080 --> 01:45:55,280
Speaker 3: Bro, Oh my god, this is true. These are a

2285
01:45:55,320 --> 01:45:58,439
Speaker 3: few horror stories, a.

2286
01:45:58,439 --> 01:46:01,040
Speaker 1: True story, but but I just I just remember, like

2287
01:46:01,600 --> 01:46:04,640
Speaker 1: I just remember, like it's like it was almost like

2288
01:46:05,400 --> 01:46:08,640
Speaker 1: in college, like yeah, bro, like they would test you.

2289
01:46:09,160 --> 01:46:11,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, you got a girl coming over, and you

2290
01:46:11,680 --> 01:46:13,160
Speaker 5: can't be bitch. You can't say it off with that

2291
01:46:13,320 --> 01:46:13,880
Speaker 5: train now.

2292
01:46:14,640 --> 01:46:16,439
Speaker 1: Like dog, no, I can't say it off with that.

2293
01:46:17,320 --> 01:46:20,400
Speaker 5: I don't like you don't sneak off that train.

2294
01:46:21,160 --> 01:46:23,120
Speaker 19: I actually don't want all of you to the girl

2295
01:46:23,160 --> 01:46:25,479
Speaker 19: that I like, I don't want to see her dicks. Well,

2296
01:46:25,520 --> 01:46:27,479
Speaker 19: I'm fucking that's gonna make me soft, Like I don't

2297
01:46:27,760 --> 01:46:30,000
Speaker 19: I can't even focus. And there's like I've been into

2298
01:46:30,120 --> 01:46:31,719
Speaker 19: like sex parties and shit, I can't focus.

2299
01:46:31,760 --> 01:46:33,559
Speaker 3: It's too much going on. I can't focus with someone's

2300
01:46:33,840 --> 01:46:36,599
Speaker 3: watching me. And even if I like, I can't. Yeah,

2301
01:46:36,680 --> 01:46:37,280
Speaker 3: I don't get it.

2302
01:46:38,080 --> 01:46:41,760
Speaker 4: The only time it ever looks sexy is and savages

2303
01:46:41,840 --> 01:46:43,519
Speaker 4: the movie when the white girl had the two like

2304
01:46:43,600 --> 01:46:45,120
Speaker 4: finance white boys and.

2305
01:46:45,160 --> 01:46:48,880
Speaker 3: They I mean, I like her voyeurism, but that's not voyeurism.

2306
01:46:49,040 --> 01:46:52,519
Speaker 3: Like I don't want. Yeah, I don't know, are into it.

2307
01:46:52,560 --> 01:46:54,200
Speaker 4: I'm not judging if you're into a game things for

2308
01:46:54,320 --> 01:46:57,439
Speaker 4: some people's thing just like maybe like my pre my

2309
01:46:57,600 --> 01:46:58,800
Speaker 4: programming won't allow it.

2310
01:46:58,960 --> 01:46:59,320
Speaker 8: I can't.

2311
01:46:59,439 --> 01:46:59,920
Speaker 3: I'm not with it.

2312
01:47:00,160 --> 01:47:02,240
Speaker 1: No, man, listen, listen, I listen.

2313
01:47:02,520 --> 01:47:05,760
Speaker 5: There was there was a point where it really it went,

2314
01:47:06,000 --> 01:47:07,920
Speaker 5: it went, it was going too far.

2315
01:47:08,520 --> 01:47:09,679
Speaker 1: It was a whole thing.

2316
01:47:10,520 --> 01:47:12,680
Speaker 4: Don't let you know the difference between like women and

2317
01:47:12,760 --> 01:47:15,200
Speaker 4: men in society and what's fucking acceptable.

2318
01:47:14,760 --> 01:47:24,160
Speaker 3: And what's not. No, oh my gosh, that's true. Well

2319
01:47:24,840 --> 01:47:27,240
Speaker 3: I hate to end on that really depressing as what's

2320
01:47:27,320 --> 01:47:29,960
Speaker 3: depressing about it? I don't know. I feel like, god

2321
01:47:30,040 --> 01:47:32,920
Speaker 3: damn if I feel like I need to include like

2322
01:47:33,280 --> 01:47:34,360
Speaker 3: you've been raped, Like.

2323
01:47:37,439 --> 01:47:37,760
Speaker 8: He's not.

2324
01:47:38,800 --> 01:47:40,880
Speaker 1: Here's the deal. Here's the deal. So I'm saying is

2325
01:47:40,960 --> 01:47:45,720
Speaker 1: like this is very important dudes out there, if you

2326
01:47:45,880 --> 01:47:50,080
Speaker 1: get that little quickening in your mind that something is wrong, man,

2327
01:47:50,200 --> 01:47:53,760
Speaker 1: go with that ship because you like means no.

2328
01:47:54,160 --> 01:47:57,200
Speaker 6: I'm just saying, like, not know, it would have been

2329
01:47:57,479 --> 01:48:00,759
Speaker 6: a lot of these women later on then they're like, realized,

2330
01:48:01,080 --> 01:48:01,559
Speaker 6: I don't want.

2331
01:48:01,439 --> 01:48:03,960
Speaker 1: To it couldn't even be in the situation to where

2332
01:48:04,200 --> 01:48:07,120
Speaker 1: which is right. You just pop up like I didn't

2333
01:48:07,160 --> 01:48:09,320
Speaker 1: have that type of Other guys will be like yo,

2334
01:48:09,400 --> 01:48:13,000
Speaker 1: man here too, and I knew that that I didn't.

2335
01:48:12,800 --> 01:48:14,960
Speaker 6: Have that that wasn't gonna be me like I so well,

2336
01:48:15,040 --> 01:48:17,320
Speaker 6: then once that girl, sometimes you have to have foresight

2337
01:48:17,400 --> 01:48:19,800
Speaker 6: four people, you know what I mean, And in those situations,

2338
01:48:19,880 --> 01:48:22,639
Speaker 6: obviously this is the girl was damaged.

2339
01:48:22,960 --> 01:48:24,880
Speaker 3: There was some ship going on, or maybe she liked it.

2340
01:48:24,960 --> 01:48:25,280
Speaker 4: I don't know.

2341
01:48:26,800 --> 01:48:29,040
Speaker 3: I feel like sometimes you have to have foresight four people.

2342
01:48:29,120 --> 01:48:30,160
Speaker 3: And thank God for fans.

2343
01:48:30,200 --> 01:48:32,240
Speaker 8: And he's like, no, I can think this is okay

2344
01:48:33,439 --> 01:48:34,920
Speaker 8: because that is fucking that's gonna be.

2345
01:48:34,960 --> 01:48:37,759
Speaker 5: So he's gonna be so thrilled that I told that story.

2346
01:48:39,680 --> 01:48:43,800
Speaker 5: Didn't try that ever again, it's a story. It's maybe

2347
01:48:43,880 --> 01:48:46,599
Speaker 5: y'all gonna have to take his name, take his name, never.

2348
01:48:48,479 --> 01:48:49,479
Speaker 1: Be it never happened.

2349
01:48:49,760 --> 01:48:50,800
Speaker 3: It never happened, So.

2350
01:48:50,960 --> 01:48:51,920
Speaker 5: I guess it didn't happen.

2351
01:48:52,640 --> 01:48:54,120
Speaker 1: Nigga know who he is. You know what, It's gonna

2352
01:48:54,120 --> 01:48:54,960
Speaker 1: be funny for the homies.

2353
01:48:55,040 --> 01:48:57,840
Speaker 20: You do take his name because they know because I

2354
01:48:58,000 --> 01:49:00,840
Speaker 20: told that, I told that story. Well she doesn't know,

2355
01:49:01,280 --> 01:49:05,800
Speaker 20: well she will know. She never no, I never, she

2356
01:49:05,960 --> 01:49:06,360
Speaker 20: never saw.

2357
01:49:06,680 --> 01:49:08,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, just let you know.

2358
01:49:08,280 --> 01:49:10,040
Speaker 5: I stopped my boyfriend putting dick in your face.

2359
01:49:10,120 --> 01:49:15,960
Speaker 1: Now, she never, she never, she never saw laid that.

2360
01:49:16,160 --> 01:49:16,880
Speaker 3: What the do you think?

2361
01:49:17,240 --> 01:49:18,400
Speaker 5: Do you think you're gonna make up?

2362
01:49:18,400 --> 01:49:22,160
Speaker 1: And yo, all Joseus side, it's still the funniest thing.

2363
01:49:22,240 --> 01:49:24,240
Speaker 1: This dude is a really big guy. Why the did

2364
01:49:24,280 --> 01:49:24,600
Speaker 1: you that?

2365
01:49:25,160 --> 01:49:27,519
Speaker 5: Asked him? I'm like, yo, why didn't you? And he

2366
01:49:27,720 --> 01:49:29,240
Speaker 5: was like, yo, man, I didn't want to make no

2367
01:49:29,360 --> 01:49:30,840
Speaker 5: noise about you.

2368
01:49:30,880 --> 01:49:31,680
Speaker 3: Didn't you didn't care.

2369
01:49:34,840 --> 01:49:36,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm like, what is going on with you?

2370
01:49:37,000 --> 01:49:39,639
Speaker 5: And we told that story so many times.

2371
01:49:39,680 --> 01:49:43,080
Speaker 1: I remember, Uh. The funniest thing ever my brother Emmett.

2372
01:49:43,479 --> 01:49:45,160
Speaker 1: My brother Emmitt was like because at this time I

2373
01:49:45,280 --> 01:49:48,519
Speaker 1: was fat and I was fat, and Emmy was like

2374
01:49:48,680 --> 01:49:50,760
Speaker 1: and it looked at me. He's like this she was

2375
01:49:50,760 --> 01:49:54,479
Speaker 1: about to let you two niggas. He's like, are you

2376
01:49:54,520 --> 01:49:56,320
Speaker 1: sure this bitch don't need to commit suicide?

2377
01:49:56,840 --> 01:49:57,280
Speaker 6: My god.

2378
01:49:58,720 --> 01:50:01,240
Speaker 3: We're not hush. We're not like shaming if you're into

2379
01:50:01,280 --> 01:50:02,200
Speaker 3: the two guys all the time.

2380
01:50:02,280 --> 01:50:05,200
Speaker 8: But for fellas, it does need to be pretty discussed.

2381
01:50:05,720 --> 01:50:07,200
Speaker 3: Don't walk in there with your dick out.

2382
01:50:07,560 --> 01:50:10,720
Speaker 5: That could be very bad, very come in there with

2383
01:50:10,880 --> 01:50:12,040
Speaker 5: your dick out by the moonlight.

2384
01:50:12,400 --> 01:50:15,760
Speaker 3: No, no, it's very disrespectful.

2385
01:50:15,800 --> 01:50:17,120
Speaker 8: It's very caught off guard.

2386
01:50:17,240 --> 01:50:20,800
Speaker 3: It's very aggressive. But guys, is that it?

2387
01:50:21,080 --> 01:50:23,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, ladies, it was so much fun for y'all to

2388
01:50:23,840 --> 01:50:24,120
Speaker 1: have me.

2389
01:50:24,280 --> 01:50:26,080
Speaker 3: Thanks for coming on. I feel like I know you

2390
01:50:26,240 --> 01:50:27,200
Speaker 3: so much deeper.

2391
01:50:27,040 --> 01:50:30,080
Speaker 5: Now, y'all deep in the valley. This ship is basically

2392
01:50:30,840 --> 01:50:31,519
Speaker 5: in Oha.

2393
01:50:31,920 --> 01:50:34,559
Speaker 3: We know we're's not We're valley girls, man, and welcome

2394
01:50:34,600 --> 01:50:37,240
Speaker 3: to our hood. I come downtown a lot, actually, so

2395
01:50:37,360 --> 01:50:38,760
Speaker 3: I hit you up when I go back, when I

2396
01:50:38,840 --> 01:50:40,479
Speaker 3: go down there. But you work all you work every

2397
01:50:40,520 --> 01:50:42,360
Speaker 3: day during the night. Do you live with your girlfriend?

2398
01:50:43,960 --> 01:50:45,160
Speaker 8: I just want to know if that's the pee and

2399
01:50:45,160 --> 01:50:45,920
Speaker 8: I'm downtown or.

2400
01:50:45,920 --> 01:50:51,599
Speaker 3: Something heavy your home? Many to use your bath? Actually,

2401
01:50:51,600 --> 01:50:53,240
Speaker 3: I'm an avid papa squatter, so I.

2402
01:50:53,280 --> 01:50:56,760
Speaker 6: Want to do that squat and pee everywhere and her

2403
01:50:56,840 --> 01:50:58,880
Speaker 6: child are professional pop squatters.

2404
01:51:00,120 --> 01:51:03,840
Speaker 3: His for life? All right, Well, you need to see

2405
01:51:03,960 --> 01:51:04,439
Speaker 3: that his next.

2406
01:51:05,200 --> 01:51:12,599
Speaker 6: Yes, And I'm a tree, good nons, good choices about him,

2407
01:51:12,960 --> 01:51:13,599
Speaker 6: not a girl.

2408
01:51:13,760 --> 01:51:18,200
Speaker 21: But I'm sweaty daddy to lady kick me involved in that,

2409
01:51:18,400 --> 01:51:21,160
Speaker 21: he said, She said, crowded. I know that ain't nobody

2410
01:51:21,920 --> 01:51:23,800
Speaker 21: got prop to those who deserve.

2411
01:51:23,560 --> 01:51:25,360
Speaker 5: It, And believe me, y'all, he's worth it.

2412
01:51:25,920 --> 01:51:28,080
Speaker 21: So here is to the because we got through the

2413
01:51:28,240 --> 01:51:30,080
Speaker 21: past and finally bought the body.

2414
01:51:29,880 --> 01:51:34,800
Speaker 3: That could make you laugh. You so crazy. I think

2415
01:51:34,840 --> 01:51:40,840
Speaker 3: I want to have your baby laugh. Guess.