1 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:08,440 Speaker 1: I had a very severe problem with alcohol, and then 2 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:11,280 Speaker 1: when I saw that in them, when I was desperate 3 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 1: to help one of my children, it ruptured our relationship 4 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:20,920 Speaker 1: because I was butting in, interfering, you know, and insisting, 5 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 1: and I went so far as to do I guess 6 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 1: the unthinkable, you know, I went to the authorities. 7 00:00:27,840 --> 00:00:28,640 Speaker 2: What was that experience? 8 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 3: Like fuse? 9 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:32,879 Speaker 1: It was devastating, you know, it just it just ruptured 10 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:33,920 Speaker 1: our relationship. 11 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 3: Hello Loves. That was legendary actor Martin Sheen reflecting on 12 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:43,839 Speaker 3: his most heartbreaking and courageous moments as a father. We 13 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 3: were honored to welcome the beloved actor and lifelong activists 14 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:52,240 Speaker 3: alongside his dear friend, father John Deere, a Jesuit Priests, 15 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 3: author and tireless advocate for peace. From moments of courage 16 00:00:56,720 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 3: and civil disobedience to reflections on spirituality and the power 17 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 3: of connection, this episode is nothing short of a masterclass 18 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:09,959 Speaker 3: in living a life larger than yourself. This is My 19 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 3: Legacy host it by me Andrea Waters King alongside my 20 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:17,679 Speaker 3: husband Martin Luther King the Third and our good friends 21 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 3: Mark and Craig Kilberger. Let's dive in. 22 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:25,679 Speaker 4: Welcome to My Legacy podcast. One of the things that 23 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 4: makes this podcast special is we don't just meet extraordinary individuals. 24 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 4: We meet the people who know them best, someone who 25 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 4: has shared their highs, their lows, and everything in between, 26 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 4: giving us deeper insight and understanding into what truly shapes 27 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 4: who they are today. Were thrilled to welcome Martin Sheen. 28 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 4: I've loved actor and activist, and Martin, you brought someone 29 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 4: with you here today. Would you do us the honor 30 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 4: to introduce him to our audience and who he is 31 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 4: to you? 32 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 1: Well, I'm very honored to be here, first of all, 33 00:01:56,800 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 1: and that you gave me the privilege of inviting one 34 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 1: of my heroes. It's John Deere. I think John and 35 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 1: I met him Jail. I'm not sure. I'm a bit older, 36 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:10,799 Speaker 1: but I think of him as my older brother. He's 37 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 1: an inspiration. He's a spiritual guide, a great non violent advocate, 38 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 1: and who for me, coined the phrase the non violent Jesus. 39 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 1: And I heard it in his first sermon, the first 40 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 1: mask that he gave in Washington's. 41 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:27,839 Speaker 4: And interesting, you prefer John rather than father johnre Yeah? 42 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 2: Okay? John? 43 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:31,919 Speaker 4: Well, John and Martin, thank you both, and to our listeners, 44 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 4: this is gonna be a little bit confusing because we 45 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 4: have two extraordinary Martin's here newless to say, we got 46 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 4: Martin Sheen and Martin Luther King the third. So we're 47 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:40,079 Speaker 4: gonna start though with Martin Sheen and I should I 48 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 4: should say we all know each other very well. We've 49 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 4: known you for a couple of decades. 50 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 2: Now, Martin. 51 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 4: And when you tell the story about your folks, I 52 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 4: love how you share your origin and how that almost 53 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 4: determined your legacy to become a social justice advocate. Can 54 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 4: you take us back a little bit to your parents. 55 00:02:56,440 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 1: They were my first heroes and my inspiration of how 56 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:06,639 Speaker 1: to live a consequential life. I guess that we were 57 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 1: all called to be responsible for what we do and 58 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 1: what we failed to do, and they were my first teachers. 59 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 1: So my father was Francisco Steves. He was from a 60 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 1: very small village in northern Spain and Galicia called Bararruvius 61 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:26,519 Speaker 1: sult of Ravolta. He was raised on the Minho River, 62 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 1: which separate Spain from Portugal, so he spoke both languages. 63 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 1: He came to the United States with his brother Alfonso 64 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 1: when he was fourteen, so his brother was sixteen, and 65 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 1: they landed at Port of New York and refused entry 66 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 1: because they were Spanish, and the Spanish American War was 67 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 1: newly fought and there was a quota on Spaniards but 68 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 1: not Hispanics. And so they got on the next boat 69 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:52,680 Speaker 1: for Cuba. And they spent three years in Cuba, and 70 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 1: my father worked in the sugar cane fields and he 71 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 1: saved his money, so he worked his way up to Dayton, Ohio. 72 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 1: He'd heard that there was a factory there called the 73 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 1: NCR and they were hiring a lot of immigrants. He 74 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 1: didn't speak English, so he was in a citizenship class 75 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 1: and he met this young lady from Ireland who was 76 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 1: sent to the United States in nineteen twenty one on 77 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:22,159 Speaker 1: her eighteenth birthday to kind of protect her life really, 78 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 1: because her family were all involved in the struggle for independence. 79 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 1: They were all ira and they fell in love and 80 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:31,920 Speaker 1: got married. She taught him how to speak English when 81 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:34,600 Speaker 1: they were married there in nineteen twenty seven, and they 82 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 1: had My mother had twelve pregnancies, ten survived, nine boys, 83 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:43,479 Speaker 1: one girl, and I'm a seventh son. I've often said 84 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 1: that I had a leg up when it came to 85 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:50,200 Speaker 1: social justice activism because to be raised in such a 86 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 1: large family immigrant family. You were either Irish, Catholic or Hispanic, 87 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:58,240 Speaker 1: and I was lucky enough to be both. So I 88 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:00,359 Speaker 1: felt I had a calling all my life, I felt 89 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:03,200 Speaker 1: that I had a responsibility, and I was raised in 90 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 1: the Catholic faith. Of course, I went to an all 91 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 1: boys Catholic high school in Dayton, Shamanad. It's now co ed, 92 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:15,279 Speaker 1: and so they had a very profound effect on me, 93 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 1: the brothers there. And to really express my faith, it 94 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 1: had to be expression. It had to be expressed in 95 00:05:23,279 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 1: what we did or what we failed to do. And 96 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 1: so I became involved very young and very active when 97 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:34,720 Speaker 1: I was fourteen. Senator Brown gets a big kick out 98 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 1: of the story of my founding a union when I 99 00:05:36,720 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 1: was fourteen. It's true. I started cattying at a very 100 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:44,280 Speaker 1: exclusive private club in Ohio when I was nine years old, 101 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 1: and all my brothers in front of me had caddied there. 102 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:51,040 Speaker 1: We were just kids, you know, and carrying these bags 103 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:54,320 Speaker 1: for these very privileged characters, and so I thought, well, 104 00:05:54,360 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 1: it's time to get their attention. So I formed a 105 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 1: union with the lads and we called a wildcat strike 106 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 1: on what on ladies did, because we knew the women 107 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:08,679 Speaker 1: would not carry their bags on Tuesday, Tuesday mornings. 108 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 5: How did that go? 109 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:12,800 Speaker 1: It went very well for us the first couple of days, 110 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:15,640 Speaker 1: but then about seventy two hours they fired us all. 111 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:18,360 Speaker 1: But it was the greatest lesson I could have learned. 112 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:24,800 Speaker 1: To this day, I can't belong to anything private. I'm embarrassed, 113 00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 1: you know. 114 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 3: Saying, well, you were fourteen years old. Is there any 115 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 3: particular story from your childhood that would give us and 116 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 3: our listeners a window into what it was like growing 117 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:40,880 Speaker 3: up in your households and how that impacted I'm sure, 118 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:41,839 Speaker 3: Oh there were. 119 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. In fact, there was at one point there was 120 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:46,040 Speaker 1: still eight of. 121 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:49,920 Speaker 2: Us in the house, your amazing mother and my mother. 122 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:54,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and she she passed away in nineteen fifty one, 123 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 1: so so my dad was left to carry the burden. 124 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: So that that was a big, course, a huge loss 125 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 1: in our lives, you know, kind of odd. I was 126 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 1: an altar boy then, you know, And and we were 127 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:12,280 Speaker 1: at my brother Alfonso and I were asked to serve 128 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 1: her funeral, and I thought it just seemed kind of 129 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 1: you know, we'd served funerals before, but never a parent. 130 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 1: And I'm glad we did because it was it got 131 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 1: us so close to the to the mass, you know, 132 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 1: and to the celebration of her life, although it was 133 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:33,840 Speaker 1: hopelessly heartbreaking and sad and you know, can you never 134 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 1: kind of get over that loss? So young? 135 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:38,680 Speaker 3: How old were you. 136 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 1: When mother died? Yes, I was almost eleven. It was like, yeah, that. 137 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 3: Was you and Martin were the exact same age when 138 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:46,800 Speaker 3: you all lost a parent. 139 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 2: Wow. 140 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:51,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, it makes a pro pround difference. Yeah, no question, 141 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:53,119 Speaker 1: no question. 142 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, let me ask this question, Martin, how did the 143 00:07:56,640 --> 00:07:58,680 Speaker 6: two of you meet? 144 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:03,040 Speaker 5: You got arrested at the Riverside Research Institute with Dan, 145 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 5: and then a year later you came back and got 146 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 5: arrested and we went for a long walk that night. 147 00:08:08,600 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 5: We walked all across Manhattan. 148 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:13,680 Speaker 1: So you met in jail, Uh, which would be interested. 149 00:08:15,320 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 5: There's so many arrests. I've been arrested eighty five times 150 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 5: and wow, no, but then there's others that they didn't 151 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 5: arrest me. And it's a way of life for me 152 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 5: eighty five times because of you and your dad, your family. 153 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 3: Huh. 154 00:08:29,080 --> 00:08:32,200 Speaker 7: It's all five times for sybils to be eighty five eighty. 155 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:35,439 Speaker 5: Five times for non violence, civil speans against war, poverty, 156 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:37,960 Speaker 5: and nuclear weapons. All injustices. 157 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:39,120 Speaker 2: So eighty five times. 158 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 7: How many times have you intersted Martin? 159 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:41,959 Speaker 5: Not that many? 160 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 2: Sixty six, sixty times? 161 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 1: Martin? 162 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:46,079 Speaker 2: How many times have you interested? 163 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 1: Only fifteen? 164 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 3: How many times are you interested only one? I'll tell 165 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:54,840 Speaker 3: you that we had when we were arrested. It was 166 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 3: with our daughter, who was fourteen at the time. 167 00:08:58,920 --> 00:08:59,680 Speaker 4: She was about. 168 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:02,040 Speaker 3: Fourteen, So it was all three of us, and we 169 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:04,960 Speaker 3: were arrested just a couple of years ago outside of 170 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:08,079 Speaker 3: the White House to demonstrate the need. 171 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 2: For voting rights. 172 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 3: And so, you know, because all three of us were 173 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:16,560 Speaker 3: getting arrested together, I will never forget that morning. We 174 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:21,960 Speaker 3: had to write and sharpie phone numbers on our daughter's 175 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 3: arm because she would be going to juvenile and we 176 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:29,160 Speaker 3: would be going to jail, and so we had to 177 00:09:29,200 --> 00:09:33,439 Speaker 3: make sure that she would have a way to call 178 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 3: someone because she couldn't get to her parents. 179 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 5: In all my lifetime and all the thousands of friends 180 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 5: I've noon gotten arrested, I've never heard the story of 181 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:45,320 Speaker 5: a couple with their child getting arrested together. 182 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 3: You know, children, as you all know, are so resilient. 183 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:55,559 Speaker 3: So she was with four five other girls that were 184 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:58,000 Speaker 3: all under the age of sixteen that were, you know, 185 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:00,280 Speaker 3: they were. They were very clear on what what they 186 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:02,400 Speaker 3: were doing and why they were doing it. And they 187 00:10:02,480 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 3: had several opportunities, you know, to say, look, this is 188 00:10:06,559 --> 00:10:08,680 Speaker 3: not we're not going to do this, and everyone would 189 00:10:08,720 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 3: have understood, but she was resolute in the why why 190 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 3: she was doing this. 191 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 5: Isn't that great? It brings the life the Birmingham campaign 192 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 5: and having all those thousands of children get arrested. 193 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 3: Ye, what's amazing to me is that when you look 194 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 3: at that footage, those kids were in jail singing songs 195 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:27,080 Speaker 3: of freedom. 196 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 5: Oh, they were experience the acts of the apostles. They 197 00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 5: were full of the Holy Spirit and joy. 198 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 3: And I have God bumps after. 199 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:39,200 Speaker 5: Being don't know if you cross the line and take 200 00:10:39,240 --> 00:10:43,320 Speaker 5: a risk publicly in the spirit of Kingian nonviolence like 201 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:47,560 Speaker 5: Jesus in prayer, in love, I don't care anymore, no 202 00:10:47,679 --> 00:10:52,320 Speaker 5: more injustice, no more war. You there are Yeah, there 203 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:54,920 Speaker 5: are consequences. You're gonna go in jail, but you're gonna 204 00:10:55,840 --> 00:11:01,040 Speaker 5: discover hope and joy and peace and community, loved community. 205 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 5: Wouldn't you experience? That's what you said, Martin. I'm talking 206 00:11:04,120 --> 00:11:06,560 Speaker 5: to Martin Sheen about your first arrest. 207 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 1: You said, was the happiest day of my life. Really, yeah, 208 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 1: because I had always been afraid and uh, I would support, 209 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:20,160 Speaker 1: you know, all the non violent social justice efforts, but 210 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 1: I never had the courage to cross the line. And 211 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:26,680 Speaker 1: and and I remember I was in New York. I 212 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 1: was doing a film and I had the day off, 213 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 1: and there was a demonstration with Dan, with Dan and uh, 214 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:38,200 Speaker 1: and he was being interviewed for sixty minutes, and so 215 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:42,839 Speaker 1: UH Mike Wallace was interviewing him on the street and 216 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 1: and we were walking along to the demonstration, and then 217 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 1: Wallace started talking to me about, Uh, well, you you 218 00:11:49,440 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 1: could be facing some serious charges here. And I hadn't 219 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:56,360 Speaker 1: even thought of that. I said, really, don't tell them that. 220 00:11:57,080 --> 00:11:59,840 Speaker 1: And then we got to this, I should explain, John, please, 221 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 1: what where we were? 222 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:03,160 Speaker 5: And it's incredible. 223 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:07,000 Speaker 1: I was down Manhattan forty. 224 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:11,480 Speaker 5: Forty second Street right there for fifty years is a 225 00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:16,199 Speaker 5: tall building and that's the leftover of the Manhattan Project. 226 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 5: And on the tenth floor of this building, overlooking all 227 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:24,480 Speaker 5: the glittery lights, they're planning post nuclear laser being warfare. 228 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 5: Until we started going there and sitting in and singing hymns. 229 00:12:32,240 --> 00:12:39,400 Speaker 5: On doctor King's birthday, Good Friday, Horoshima Day and around 230 00:12:39,520 --> 00:12:43,719 Speaker 5: Christmas liturgically for years, and that would shut down the 231 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:45,319 Speaker 5: whole apartment building with the. 232 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:46,120 Speaker 1: Old McGraw hill. 233 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:49,760 Speaker 5: It was the McGrath building. It was called Riverside Research Institute. 234 00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:51,600 Speaker 5: You would never know what was going on. 235 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:52,840 Speaker 1: And we started. 236 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:53,640 Speaker 5: It's closed. 237 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 3: We got rid of congratulations and I'm not to thank you. 238 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you absolutely, you. 239 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 7: Said, is the one of the most happiest. 240 00:13:04,400 --> 00:13:09,679 Speaker 1: Just tell us that I faced my fears, but not alone. Thing. Guy, 241 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:11,720 Speaker 1: I couldn't have done it alone in the sense of, 242 00:13:11,840 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 1: you know, my my whole thing was fear. Man. You know, 243 00:13:14,400 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 1: how how badly am I going to get treated as 244 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:18,319 Speaker 1: their chance I could get hurt? And then with all 245 00:13:18,360 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 1: these people in there singing, and then the cops come 246 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:23,880 Speaker 1: and they say, all right, you you all have like 247 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:26,840 Speaker 1: the the New York guy. He say, ah, you just 248 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 1: got about you three minutes here, and we're going to 249 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:32,720 Speaker 1: start you. You're all under arrest. So come on, chief, 250 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:34,839 Speaker 1: you were you you believe in this, Get in there, 251 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:41,000 Speaker 1: Come on father, come on. That was the atmosphere it was. 252 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:45,559 Speaker 1: And then you get it. You know, they they start 253 00:13:45,640 --> 00:13:48,040 Speaker 1: lugging you. One of the time, you know, you get 254 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 1: a chance to leave and you don't and they just 255 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 1: take you. And nobody had to be carried everybody but 256 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:57,880 Speaker 1: everybody's singing and they're carrying on the car sixty minutes. 257 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:01,600 Speaker 3: It was because you're you're coming from a place of power, 258 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:03,280 Speaker 3: being for something rather. 259 00:14:03,080 --> 00:14:04,360 Speaker 1: Than against exactly. 260 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:08,880 Speaker 3: But when you know what you're standing for and what people, 261 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:13,640 Speaker 3: I think really get a sense of is what Gandhi 262 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:18,880 Speaker 3: talked about sat Raja that sole force, you know, sole force, 263 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 3: that is what that and there's something about that and 264 00:14:21,480 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 3: coming together and standing for not only for ourselves. 265 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:27,440 Speaker 2: But for our. 266 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 3: Children, our children's children. It is something that truly is transformative. 267 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:33,800 Speaker 5: Once I faced twenty years in prison, I hammered on 268 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:39,000 Speaker 5: a nuclear weapon. So this real serious stuff. The government 269 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 5: considers me as high up a terrascian you can get 270 00:14:40,960 --> 00:14:43,960 Speaker 5: in the United States, because I was a priest messing 271 00:14:43,960 --> 00:14:45,680 Speaker 5: around with nuclear weapons. 272 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 1: That the government was trying to get co conspirators. And 273 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:52,400 Speaker 1: so at one point the press and John wouldn't tell 274 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 1: any wouldn't reveal any of the other people that had 275 00:14:55,760 --> 00:14:58,600 Speaker 1: helped organize and the getaway car and all of that, 276 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 1: the car that brings you the thing, and so the 277 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:04,720 Speaker 1: prosecutor said, and father John tell us, well, you know 278 00:15:04,880 --> 00:15:09,240 Speaker 1: who drove who drove you to the demonstration? And John said, 279 00:15:10,160 --> 00:15:12,080 Speaker 1: we were driven by the Holy Spirit. 280 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 5: That didn't go over well, and I got six four 281 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:21,240 Speaker 5: months of contempt. Nineteen ninety Here in La at the 282 00:15:21,280 --> 00:15:26,239 Speaker 5: Federal Building every Wednesday morning, a thousand of us protested, 283 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:30,920 Speaker 5: calling from the end of military ATel Salvador and Martin. 284 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:32,760 Speaker 5: That's where we both met Jim Loston. 285 00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:33,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. 286 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 5: Hell, Jim is one of doctor King's best friends and 287 00:15:37,120 --> 00:15:40,840 Speaker 5: the strategists of the movement. And after doctor King died, 288 00:15:40,880 --> 00:15:44,240 Speaker 5: he moved to La where he was pastor until recently 289 00:15:44,240 --> 00:15:46,800 Speaker 5: at Holman Methodist Church and died this summer. 290 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 3: But Martin, your dad loved I mean, he and Jim Larson, 291 00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:53,560 Speaker 3: can we I mean, I just think, particularly since we 292 00:15:53,960 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 3: lost him. 293 00:15:54,880 --> 00:15:58,960 Speaker 6: Just the summer at his funeral, he was such we 294 00:15:59,000 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 6: all know, such an institution and understood the theory and 295 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:07,800 Speaker 6: practice of non violence. But you know, when you think 296 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:13,520 Speaker 6: of these huge, dynamic people that not enough of us 297 00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 6: know about as a society, because automatically your mind should 298 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:21,480 Speaker 6: go to this is the definition of a giant will 299 00:16:21,520 --> 00:16:25,200 Speaker 6: stand up against a system. You have to go back 300 00:16:25,240 --> 00:16:29,160 Speaker 6: to the Jim Lawsons and others. You know, it reminds 301 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:33,080 Speaker 6: me really of something my father went through in relationship 302 00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:38,880 Speaker 6: to just nonviolence, because he immersed himself in it and 303 00:16:38,920 --> 00:16:43,000 Speaker 6: never deviated from it. Not sure what would have happened 304 00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:46,720 Speaker 6: if he chose a different path. What we know is 305 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:51,640 Speaker 6: what he chose transformed this nation in the world. And 306 00:16:52,680 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 6: you know, Dad was personally attacked. Everyone knows he was assassinated, 307 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:02,000 Speaker 6: but people don't remember. He also was stabbed in nineteen 308 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:07,280 Speaker 6: fifty eight in Harlem with his first book, Strive Toward Freedom. Now, 309 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:10,919 Speaker 6: I share this story because it was what he said 310 00:17:10,960 --> 00:17:15,439 Speaker 6: after he was stabbed that I think is prevalent, and 311 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:20,080 Speaker 6: that is that he had not recovered. It was just 312 00:17:20,119 --> 00:17:23,000 Speaker 6: today and if the stabbing had been just a few 313 00:17:23,040 --> 00:17:27,280 Speaker 6: inches lower, he would have died that day. Well, he 314 00:17:27,359 --> 00:17:31,240 Speaker 6: was able to be salvage and the next day he'd said, 315 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:36,200 Speaker 6: it's the climate of the rhetoric that And by the way, 316 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:37,560 Speaker 6: this happened to be a black woman. 317 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:38,120 Speaker 1: Who stabbed him. 318 00:17:38,119 --> 00:17:40,000 Speaker 6: She was going to shoot him, but she didn't have 319 00:17:40,040 --> 00:17:42,120 Speaker 6: a chance to get her gun. She pulled a letter 320 00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:46,560 Speaker 6: open out of her purse and stabbed him. And so 321 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 6: he talked about the climate and saying we've got to 322 00:17:50,119 --> 00:17:55,679 Speaker 6: change the climate. It's relevant today, We've got to change 323 00:17:55,760 --> 00:17:57,359 Speaker 6: the climate and the rhetoric. 324 00:17:57,720 --> 00:18:01,119 Speaker 5: Since we're talking about your father and non violence, I 325 00:18:01,160 --> 00:18:03,359 Speaker 5: wondered if you could share, since I never got to 326 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:07,440 Speaker 5: ask you this an anything about what you learned from 327 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:12,919 Speaker 5: him personally about nonviolence. How do we teach nonviolence and 328 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:16,320 Speaker 5: live nonviolence? And it seems to me sometimes your dad 329 00:18:16,440 --> 00:18:19,280 Speaker 5: had it in his DNA to be gentle. For me, 330 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:23,520 Speaker 5: it's kind of a struggle. And I gave it. A 331 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:26,199 Speaker 5: National Convention on Nonviolence a couple of years ago. I 332 00:18:26,200 --> 00:18:28,440 Speaker 5: brought Jim Lawson in and I said, I want you 333 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:30,640 Speaker 5: to talk about doctor King's non violence and he goes, 334 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 5: John doesn't know nonviolence. If Martin were here, he'd say, 335 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:40,040 Speaker 5: nonviolence is power. We're not powerless. We have the power 336 00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:43,080 Speaker 5: through nonviolence to change the world through love and truth. 337 00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:46,040 Speaker 5: I'm thinking of that time you were marching with your 338 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 5: father and you held his hand. I read in a 339 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:52,880 Speaker 5: book and you felt the peace that he knew. Can 340 00:18:52,920 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 5: you tell me what he you learned from your dad 341 00:18:55,760 --> 00:18:56,679 Speaker 5: about nonviolence? 342 00:18:56,760 --> 00:19:00,679 Speaker 6: Well, I think first of all, what was learned was 343 00:19:01,119 --> 00:19:03,200 Speaker 6: this has to be a way of life a commitment. 344 00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:07,160 Speaker 6: You can't practice it one day. Except for that one 345 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:11,520 Speaker 6: time where he became angry with us because we've poured 346 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:16,199 Speaker 6: water in his ears, his children, and so he was 347 00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:18,440 Speaker 6: That's the only time I really ever saw him angry. 348 00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:20,879 Speaker 6: He didn't get he didn't quite whip us, but he 349 00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:22,040 Speaker 6: was on the way what. 350 00:19:22,480 --> 00:19:24,200 Speaker 1: You have to I never heard that. 351 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:28,720 Speaker 5: You have to tell us that because you're saying you 352 00:19:28,800 --> 00:19:31,040 Speaker 5: never saw him otherwise. 353 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:34,440 Speaker 6: I never remember seeing him angry. I always saw him. 354 00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:38,200 Speaker 6: He was always very measured and disciplined. And I think 355 00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:41,919 Speaker 6: that's what in a relationship to nonviolence. It has to 356 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:45,000 Speaker 6: be a discipline because we are human beings. We're going 357 00:19:45,080 --> 00:19:48,760 Speaker 6: to be upset, be angry. And as I said, now 358 00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 6: he was asleep and he was exhausted. And because our experience, 359 00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:58,160 Speaker 6: you were finally well, yeah, I guess. 360 00:19:58,040 --> 00:19:58,480 Speaker 5: That the way. 361 00:19:58,600 --> 00:20:00,399 Speaker 2: We didn't see it that way time. 362 00:20:00,880 --> 00:20:05,639 Speaker 6: But our experience was whenever Dad came home, his entire 363 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:09,560 Speaker 6: attention was devoted toward fulfilling us as his children. So 364 00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:11,800 Speaker 6: it was like I got to play with them. And 365 00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:15,280 Speaker 6: this is looking back thinking about it, because I'm gone 366 00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:17,640 Speaker 6: all the time and I don't have a large quantity 367 00:20:17,640 --> 00:20:19,960 Speaker 6: of time but the quality of time I want to 368 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:23,680 Speaker 6: use to fulfill my kids. So we wanted to play 369 00:20:23,720 --> 00:20:26,960 Speaker 6: and he was asleep. So somebody, it wasn't me, but 370 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:32,000 Speaker 6: somebody with a smart idea, let's pour water in dad's ear. 371 00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:34,000 Speaker 1: And then that. 372 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:35,119 Speaker 6: Was not a good experience. 373 00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:35,639 Speaker 5: It was. 374 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:39,119 Speaker 6: It was frightening because of course we did that and 375 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:41,600 Speaker 6: ran and he ran after. 376 00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:45,520 Speaker 1: He didn't whip us, he didn't. 377 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:48,840 Speaker 6: Catch us that day. I qualified that day. 378 00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:50,480 Speaker 5: But the rest of the time he was no. 379 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:50,960 Speaker 2: He was. 380 00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:56,000 Speaker 6: He was always measured and always the same kind of 381 00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:58,919 Speaker 6: love that he provided for us as a father, although 382 00:20:58,920 --> 00:21:02,720 Speaker 6: it was a father son for the daughter relationship, he 383 00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:04,120 Speaker 6: provided to everything. 384 00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:07,280 Speaker 5: That's the one time in your eleven years you saw 385 00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 5: him get even like upset. He was gentle, non violent. Yes, 386 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:15,000 Speaker 5: he was practicing what he preached right, and I think 387 00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:17,359 Speaker 5: that's what the movement needs today. We all have to 388 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:19,920 Speaker 5: reach doctor King's level of non violence. 389 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:24,080 Speaker 6: I think yes, ideally, but I also think there's a 390 00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:29,119 Speaker 6: practical and real side of human beings and it doesn't 391 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:32,200 Speaker 6: mean we can't get there. We have to always aspire. 392 00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:34,800 Speaker 1: Just like you know we talk about. 393 00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:37,840 Speaker 6: A perfect union, Well we're never going to be perfect, 394 00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:40,080 Speaker 6: but we can always aspire to that. 395 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:40,520 Speaker 1: Martin. 396 00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:43,879 Speaker 4: We've had this, Martin Luther, We've had this conversation that 397 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:46,159 Speaker 4: you know, one time you were arrested and you went 398 00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:48,919 Speaker 4: to jail right next to people who were cold hard killers, 399 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:51,960 Speaker 4: and John, you know, I know that for half a 400 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:54,320 Speaker 4: year you had to stay in prison after one of 401 00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 4: those arrests. Like this is like for our listeners. Don't 402 00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:58,880 Speaker 4: think you're just walking in and walking out. Like there's 403 00:21:59,119 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 4: real cuts of quences of how you have put your 404 00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:04,879 Speaker 4: lives on the line in extraordinary ways. And I know 405 00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:07,920 Speaker 4: our special too too, who was a dear friend. I 406 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:10,080 Speaker 4: think actually all of us here we knew him extremely well. 407 00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 4: He nominated you, of course for the Nobel Prize twice 408 00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 4: if not mistaken, and he called you the embodiment of 409 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:18,720 Speaker 4: a true peacemaker, which you know, higher praise. I don't 410 00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:20,760 Speaker 4: know if that exists in this world. And so you 411 00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:25,080 Speaker 4: talked about living it, Well, yes, they're the rests where 412 00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:27,480 Speaker 4: you put your life on the line, But how do 413 00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:32,639 Speaker 4: you live your legacy outside of those situations, the quiet 414 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:33,639 Speaker 4: ways every single day? 415 00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:36,760 Speaker 5: John, You know I grew up my dad was head 416 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:39,439 Speaker 5: of the press club, so I was very politically aware 417 00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:42,680 Speaker 5: about the Vietnam War and your father, and about Doctor 418 00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:45,439 Speaker 5: King and the civil rights. So I was raised learning 419 00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:48,679 Speaker 5: about non violence. Now as I'm older, I kind of 420 00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:52,800 Speaker 5: have a little motto that non violence requires three things. First, 421 00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:58,240 Speaker 5: nonviolence to yourself. Really, we have to help one another. 422 00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:02,520 Speaker 5: No more beating ourselves up. No, we're all raised in violence. 423 00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:05,080 Speaker 5: We're all told we're nothing, and to let go of 424 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:09,000 Speaker 5: our inner violence and to make peace with ourselfs, and 425 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:13,160 Speaker 5: then we can model them at the same time, meticulous 426 00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 5: interpersonal non violence toward every human being on the planet 427 00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:19,640 Speaker 5: and all the creatures and mother Earth. I always joke 428 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:22,119 Speaker 5: when I speak, like, so you know, we're all for 429 00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:24,399 Speaker 5: peace and love, but deep down there's someone we'd like 430 00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:29,600 Speaker 5: to get back at. And that person is your teacher 431 00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:34,439 Speaker 5: of nonviolence, sent by God to be your guru, because 432 00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:37,600 Speaker 5: they're showing you how violent you are, and you get 433 00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:40,240 Speaker 5: to practice, like Doctor King, non violence with them. But 434 00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 5: the third, at the same time, you have to have 435 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:47,440 Speaker 5: one foot and the bottom up people power grassroots movement 436 00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:51,000 Speaker 5: of non violence, as Gandhi and Martin Luther King Junior 437 00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:54,560 Speaker 5: have taught us from Jesus that the way change happens 438 00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:58,280 Speaker 5: as bottom up movements it's not that we're political. We 439 00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:02,720 Speaker 5: go public with our universal love, with our vision of 440 00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:06,000 Speaker 5: the beloved community, with the way of active nonviolence in 441 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:08,800 Speaker 5: a world armed to the teeth. This is something I 442 00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:12,959 Speaker 5: talked at length about with our friend Archbishop Tutu. Well, 443 00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:14,560 Speaker 5: I can't tell a quick story. I went to see 444 00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:16,679 Speaker 5: him in South Africa ten years ago and there was 445 00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:19,359 Speaker 5: no hello. He grabbed me by the collar and said, 446 00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:22,240 Speaker 5: you better work for justice and peace to the day 447 00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:26,000 Speaker 5: you die. I was like, I just came around the 448 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:28,760 Speaker 5: world to see you, and I go, oh, I hit him. 449 00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:31,040 Speaker 5: He hit me, and I hit him and I go, oh, 450 00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:34,760 Speaker 5: man and I hit him, and I go, how am 451 00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:36,840 Speaker 5: I going to do that? And then I said, how 452 00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:41,040 Speaker 5: do you do that? Thinking ha ha ha, and he goes, 453 00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:46,600 Speaker 5: I got really in my face and he said, I cry, 454 00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:50,760 Speaker 5: and he bursts into tears and he starts telling me. 455 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:53,879 Speaker 5: We talked for hours. I've lived my life in grief 456 00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:57,399 Speaker 5: because the world doesn't realize that God has given us 457 00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:01,080 Speaker 5: love just to love one another. He falls anyway, and 458 00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:04,840 Speaker 5: then he goes and I laugh. I laugh every day, 459 00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:08,159 Speaker 5: and you, John are the most ridiculous person I know. 460 00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:09,639 Speaker 2: And he starts making fun of me. 461 00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:12,359 Speaker 5: And carried on and then that sound like him. But 462 00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:18,159 Speaker 5: notice he's changing the world. He's not angry, he's not bitter, 463 00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:21,040 Speaker 5: he's not full of hate. He was under death threat 464 00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:24,320 Speaker 5: even until he died for his opposition to the corruptness 465 00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:28,560 Speaker 5: a n C. And I learned a lot there. 466 00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:35,080 Speaker 3: Martin Luther King always said too, that Jesus provided the 467 00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:39,320 Speaker 3: philosophy and Gandhi provided the methodology. 468 00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:39,960 Speaker 5: Isn't that great? 469 00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:43,720 Speaker 3: And one of the things I would like to underscore John, 470 00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:50,160 Speaker 3: is that at its fundamental bottom line, nonviolence is what 471 00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:52,480 Speaker 3: doctor King called also is about. 472 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:55,080 Speaker 1: The Holy love in that great and that the. 473 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:59,600 Speaker 3: Fact is is that we are all interconnected, you know. 474 00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:04,480 Speaker 3: So it really is about the acknowledgment that we are 475 00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:10,159 Speaker 3: all interconnected, and that what impacts one of us impacts 476 00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:10,840 Speaker 3: all of us. 477 00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:14,399 Speaker 5: So I studied Gandhi really hard and doctor King, and 478 00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:18,960 Speaker 5: they say, the vision of truth is that we're all one, 479 00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:22,159 Speaker 5: all equal. Every human being is a sister and brother. 480 00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:30,960 Speaker 5: Violence is forgetting that we and others and sisters. I forget, Craig, 481 00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:35,439 Speaker 5: that you're my brother. Actually, then I can go I 482 00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:38,919 Speaker 5: don't like you or your other or you're nobody, or 483 00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:42,040 Speaker 5: you're an enemy or you're not a human being, and 484 00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:44,639 Speaker 5: I can marginalize you or I can bomb you and 485 00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:49,479 Speaker 5: kill you. So it's that critical that nonfinance is a 486 00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:52,080 Speaker 5: spiritual thing to get to the heart of you, that 487 00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 5: we remember we're all one and inconnected. As doctor Kings said. 488 00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:57,720 Speaker 7: How do you build a movement? And I understand that 489 00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:02,200 Speaker 7: from a philosophical personspective, but from a practical perspective, how 490 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:03,879 Speaker 7: does you guys have been part of these movements, how 491 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:04,560 Speaker 7: do you build a movement? 492 00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:06,960 Speaker 5: We all need to stand up and take risks. And 493 00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:10,400 Speaker 5: it starts small. It's okay, and just know that you're 494 00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 5: selling scenes. It may not work, it might work, And 495 00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:15,359 Speaker 5: we were weeping the harvest. We're not going to live 496 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:15,800 Speaker 5: to see. 497 00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:16,320 Speaker 7: Thank you. 498 00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,439 Speaker 1: If what we believe is not costly, we're left to 499 00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:23,160 Speaker 1: question its value. That's the bottom line. I think. So 500 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,879 Speaker 1: that if we if we reallyish has one more tames 501 00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:30,080 Speaker 1: very profound. If what we believe is not costly, we're 502 00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:33,520 Speaker 1: left to question its value. And I think that that 503 00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:37,680 Speaker 1: is the core of nonviolence, that it's going to cost 504 00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:40,920 Speaker 1: you something. The other side of that coin, And and 505 00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:45,240 Speaker 1: Martin King, I wanted to just mention a very very 506 00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:50,400 Speaker 1: important uh story that I learned about your father in 507 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:53,960 Speaker 1: incarcerated is how much he cared for the other prisoners. 508 00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:57,879 Speaker 1: There's I don't remember where he had so many and 509 00:27:57,920 --> 00:27:59,840 Speaker 1: he was in there for so long sometimes, but his 510 00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,719 Speaker 1: main concern was how is so and so and so 511 00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,000 Speaker 1: and so had neton this day, and so and so 512 00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:06,920 Speaker 1: didn't have their pills, and is so and so being 513 00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:09,479 Speaker 1: looked after. That makes the point I think of, you 514 00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:13,240 Speaker 1: cannot and you should not do this alone. You prepare 515 00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:17,280 Speaker 1: yourself alone in the sense that you have to go 516 00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:20,840 Speaker 1: inside yourself in order to go out and carry what's inside, 517 00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:25,120 Speaker 1: and that is your humanity, your compassion, your joy, your 518 00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:28,280 Speaker 1: realization of a problem that needs to be made public. 519 00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:32,679 Speaker 1: But if you go alone, don't expect to change the world. 520 00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:34,840 Speaker 1: But I think you have to do it and not 521 00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:37,520 Speaker 1: expect to change the world. All of the issues that 522 00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:39,880 Speaker 1: I have been involved in about you, John, but all 523 00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:42,240 Speaker 1: the issues I've been involved with, and all the times 524 00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:46,680 Speaker 1: that I've made a public statement in protests, not one 525 00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:50,360 Speaker 1: of them has improved, not a single one. And so 526 00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:54,280 Speaker 1: it's a lesson to me that I'm not responsible for 527 00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:57,719 Speaker 1: making that change. I'm just responsible for showing up and 528 00:28:57,800 --> 00:29:00,719 Speaker 1: joining the community that continue he shows up. 529 00:29:01,920 --> 00:30:03,760 Speaker 2: You're listening to my legacy. We'll be right back. Welcome 530 00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:04,680 Speaker 2: back to my legacy. 531 00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:08,920 Speaker 4: We're here with Martin Sheen and John Deere and talking 532 00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:13,440 Speaker 4: legacy impact nonviolence, and we got to talk about our 533 00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:17,600 Speaker 4: favorite presidents. President Bartlett. So many people, myself, all of 534 00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:20,240 Speaker 4: us millions fell in love with that character, for the hope, 535 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:21,080 Speaker 4: the inspiration. 536 00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:23,840 Speaker 2: How much of. 537 00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:27,600 Speaker 4: It was influenced by you weighing in on writing and 538 00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:32,520 Speaker 4: exchanges with the team to make President Bartlett so uniquely Also, 539 00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:33,840 Speaker 4: Martin Sheen. 540 00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:35,840 Speaker 1: No, I can't take any credit for that, do you. 541 00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:39,120 Speaker 1: I started with the show with a contract that I 542 00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:43,880 Speaker 1: would be in the pilot, the first show, and then 543 00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:48,000 Speaker 1: that in the first season that I would appear maybe 544 00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:51,120 Speaker 1: three or four, maybe five times. Of course, in those 545 00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:54,520 Speaker 1: days we used to do twenty two episodes on drama shows, 546 00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:57,959 Speaker 1: and so that I would be in five tops. There 547 00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:01,080 Speaker 1: would be no first Family was going to focus on 548 00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:05,400 Speaker 1: the staff. These young people, these very energetic, very idealistic 549 00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:10,320 Speaker 1: young people were serving this very liberal president. So when 550 00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:13,280 Speaker 1: the pilot was shown to the network of his NBC, 551 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:16,320 Speaker 1: they wanted to know who worked in that office. When 552 00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:21,160 Speaker 1: they showed the oval and I only had a contract 553 00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:23,560 Speaker 1: for five episodes, so they said, we'd like you to 554 00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:26,360 Speaker 1: become a regular, and we're going to make a first family. 555 00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:30,560 Speaker 1: So I signed on, and I made two requests. One 556 00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:32,920 Speaker 1: that I have a Notre Dame degree, which I do 557 00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:36,640 Speaker 1: not have. I never went to college, but I always 558 00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:39,840 Speaker 1: love Notre Dame and I always fancy you know that 559 00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:42,200 Speaker 1: I would have gone there if I had the opportunity. 560 00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:45,360 Speaker 1: And two that he would be a practicing Catholic. And 561 00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:48,440 Speaker 1: the reason I wanted that because I'm a practicing Catholic. 562 00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:50,840 Speaker 1: I'm still not getting it right, but I'm still practicing. 563 00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:55,520 Speaker 1: But so that the president would have to rely on 564 00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:59,120 Speaker 1: a moral frame of reference no matter what decisions he made, 565 00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:02,960 Speaker 1: they would all come from that center of his being, 566 00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:10,440 Speaker 1: which was a moral sense of himself and in his church. 567 00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:13,920 Speaker 1: And so they said, no problem. Well, it wasn't a 568 00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:15,920 Speaker 1: problem until we got to the death federally. 569 00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:20,680 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, I still tell the story about the 570 00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:22,760 Speaker 4: council that you received in the kicker. Can you tell 571 00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:23,920 Speaker 4: the story about the conclusion. 572 00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:28,000 Speaker 1: When I read the script one, I suggested that my attorney, 573 00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:30,760 Speaker 1: Joe Cosgrove be the advisor on the show because he 574 00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:33,760 Speaker 1: had so many cases before the Supreme Court, and he 575 00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:36,400 Speaker 1: lost every one of them. In fact, the only time 576 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:38,120 Speaker 1: I've been on death row is to visit one of 577 00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:43,240 Speaker 1: his clients. But my character in the episode starts on 578 00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:48,480 Speaker 1: the evening when this this federal prisoner. Mind you, the 579 00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:52,360 Speaker 1: president only has authority over federal prisoners, and it's rare 580 00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:55,000 Speaker 1: that they're executed, you know, But in this show, we 581 00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:58,520 Speaker 1: had to show this episode of a guy on death 582 00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:01,600 Speaker 1: row and that the pre has an opportunity to grant 583 00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:04,040 Speaker 1: clemency and he's not going to do it. Well, when 584 00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:07,680 Speaker 1: I read that, I talked to the writers and I said, 585 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,880 Speaker 1: you know, this is totally against my moral frame of reference. 586 00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:13,040 Speaker 1: It can't do it. And they said, well, we're not 587 00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:15,360 Speaker 1: going to change it. This is the way. And so 588 00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:17,760 Speaker 1: I talked to Joe and I said, Joe, you've got 589 00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:21,000 Speaker 1: to give me some way that I can influence the 590 00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,480 Speaker 1: writers to change this so that I let the guy 591 00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:28,959 Speaker 1: have clemency and we don't kill him. He said, that's you, Martin, 592 00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:32,360 Speaker 1: that's not the president. You can go that direction, but 593 00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:35,640 Speaker 1: then you lose credibility politically, because you know that if 594 00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:39,120 Speaker 1: you give this guy clemency that you're going to lose 595 00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:43,760 Speaker 1: political favor in certain areas, and I thought, oh my god, 596 00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:46,680 Speaker 1: I guess he's right, you know, And so I surrendered 597 00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:50,920 Speaker 1: to that because it wasn't me and there was no 598 00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:53,840 Speaker 1: way I could change it, because every now and then 599 00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:57,480 Speaker 1: I would change certain things in certain scenes and they 600 00:33:57,560 --> 00:34:01,280 Speaker 1: would edit them out. I know, no matter what I 601 00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:04,160 Speaker 1: said here, if it wasn't going to serve the purpose 602 00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:07,320 Speaker 1: of the execution, they would edit it out. And so 603 00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:10,840 Speaker 1: I was stuck saying the Rosary for the poor devil. 604 00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:12,799 Speaker 1: You know, That's what I did. 605 00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:15,120 Speaker 4: Well, And if I remember and correct me, because it's 606 00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:17,000 Speaker 4: twenty five years ago, of course the show, but I 607 00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:20,400 Speaker 4: can still remember scenes from it. Was that that beautiful 608 00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:25,160 Speaker 4: exchange about the saying, let me tell you a story 609 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:25,960 Speaker 4: about a man on. 610 00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:27,320 Speaker 2: A roof and a flood coin. 611 00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:30,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, and that whole exchange of you know, first the 612 00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:32,920 Speaker 4: boat comes, you know, hop inside, Come with me, and 613 00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:34,320 Speaker 4: then the helicopter hop inside. 614 00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:35,719 Speaker 2: You know, don't worry, God will take care of me. 615 00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:36,560 Speaker 2: God will take care of me. 616 00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:38,879 Speaker 4: And every time he waves over in the car, the boat, 617 00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:41,120 Speaker 4: the helicopter, and then finally he ends up at the 618 00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:43,680 Speaker 4: pearly gates and you know, he turns to God and said, 619 00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:44,520 Speaker 4: I said to see faith in you. 620 00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:45,440 Speaker 2: Why didn't you rescue me? 621 00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:46,879 Speaker 4: And he says, listen, I sent you got a car, 622 00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:48,240 Speaker 4: I sent your boat, I sent you a helicopter. 623 00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:48,960 Speaker 2: What else do you want? 624 00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:49,200 Speaker 1: Like? 625 00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:50,560 Speaker 2: I sent you all these things? 626 00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:53,520 Speaker 4: And like the symbols in that episode of Like the Pope, 627 00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:55,919 Speaker 4: I remember that episode, reached out to the President and said, 628 00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:57,759 Speaker 4: you know, would you intervene? And you know, all of 629 00:34:57,800 --> 00:35:01,360 Speaker 4: those conversations in twenty five years, I can retell that 630 00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:05,000 Speaker 4: episode because of just how profound it was on so 631 00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:09,319 Speaker 4: many individuals that you had such a deep moral conversation 632 00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:12,839 Speaker 4: with Americas as president in the world for that matter, 633 00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:14,160 Speaker 4: and that role that you played. 634 00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:16,600 Speaker 5: Martin won't tell you this, but you told me. And 635 00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:19,200 Speaker 5: I'm going to embarrass him. But he finally went to 636 00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:21,560 Speaker 5: Aaron Sorkin, the head of the West Wing in that 637 00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:24,600 Speaker 5: first season, and he's going, but who is this guy? 638 00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:29,800 Speaker 5: I'm imitating, Martin, But who is this guy? President Bartlett? 639 00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:34,799 Speaker 5: And Aaron Sorkin, the famous writer, said he's you. And 640 00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:36,840 Speaker 5: I think that's he's a bit Martin. 641 00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:38,879 Speaker 1: John. 642 00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:44,200 Speaker 3: I'm curious too, because the themes of the West Wing integrity, service, compassion, 643 00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:48,799 Speaker 3: they're reflected in your life's work. How do you see 644 00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:52,360 Speaker 3: those values connecting to the legacy that you and Martin 645 00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:57,759 Speaker 3: are building Martin s through through activism. 646 00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:03,360 Speaker 5: I don't know. I Martin has inspired me so much, 647 00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:07,080 Speaker 5: and doctor King. There's more movements happening now on the 648 00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:11,040 Speaker 5: planet than ever before in history. Actually, more people know 649 00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:13,040 Speaker 5: about nonviolence. I think you can make a case than 650 00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:15,480 Speaker 5: ever before in history. Just as things are worse than 651 00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:18,399 Speaker 5: ever before. My friend and I and all of us, 652 00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:22,520 Speaker 5: I think together are trying to keep alive the vision 653 00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:26,960 Speaker 5: of a world without violence and killing an injustice, and 654 00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:31,240 Speaker 5: that means empowering people to get together and build bottom 655 00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:35,600 Speaker 5: up grassroots movements from Jesus to Martin Luther King Junior, 656 00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:38,920 Speaker 5: and to do it in all new ways like Greta 657 00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:42,960 Speaker 5: Thunberg is showing us, and the Parkland students and the 658 00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:46,680 Speaker 5: Black Lives Matters students and Sister Helen Brajon the anti 659 00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:49,120 Speaker 5: death penalty move We're going to go through the list 660 00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:53,280 Speaker 5: and together we have more power than we realize. And 661 00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:57,000 Speaker 5: we're sort of like selling seeds and trying to encourage 662 00:36:57,040 --> 00:37:02,480 Speaker 5: each other to not give in to despair or our 663 00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:07,640 Speaker 5: own powerlessness or fear or us them that there's a 664 00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:10,279 Speaker 5: whole other way, the vision of the beloved community. The 665 00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:12,480 Speaker 5: outcome is in better hands than ours. 666 00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:17,200 Speaker 1: God, we don't have to succeed, We have to be faithful. 667 00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:18,480 Speaker 5: Yeah. 668 00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:20,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, what a beautiful idea of legacy. 669 00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:22,680 Speaker 4: I mean, not what you accomplish in your lifetime, but 670 00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:25,440 Speaker 4: what you put into motion and how it continues beyond you. 671 00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:26,720 Speaker 2: I just I love that, Martin. 672 00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:28,880 Speaker 7: You know you've inspired so many. Now this is an 673 00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:31,520 Speaker 7: entire generation. I'm sure you know this people who are 674 00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:34,120 Speaker 7: streaming in the West Wing and reliving those memories, especially 675 00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:37,880 Speaker 7: under the current political climate. And my question to you is, 676 00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:42,080 Speaker 7: was there another role that really touched your heart outside 677 00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:45,080 Speaker 7: of President Bartlett? Another role that really touched your heart 678 00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:46,840 Speaker 7: that has shaped who you are deeply? 679 00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:50,000 Speaker 5: What about the movie Gandhi being in that you played 680 00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:50,520 Speaker 5: the reporter. 681 00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:52,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I believe Martin. 682 00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:54,160 Speaker 5: Can tell us about that one. 683 00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:57,760 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I got a called to play a part 684 00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:03,520 Speaker 1: in Gandhi and the role was a reporter following him around, 685 00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:06,400 Speaker 1: particularly on the Salt March. And so I went to 686 00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:09,239 Speaker 1: India and we were there for about six weeks and 687 00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:12,680 Speaker 1: it was a life changing experience being in the middle 688 00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:16,840 Speaker 1: of that The film was one thing. The country is another. 689 00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:20,919 Speaker 1: You know, India really got my attention. You know, I've 690 00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:27,960 Speaker 1: never been in the company of so many powerful, powerless people, 691 00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:33,520 Speaker 1: you know, the poor. As Gandhi said, you know, poverty 692 00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:36,080 Speaker 1: has a not just a look, It has a smell, 693 00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:42,560 Speaker 1: It has a texture, It has a reality that permeates everything. 694 00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:45,640 Speaker 1: And so I remember when we Emilio, my son, Milia, 695 00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:48,960 Speaker 1: and I couldn't get anyone else to go. He took 696 00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:51,840 Speaker 1: off school and went with me, and he was a treasure. 697 00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:57,400 Speaker 1: And when we arrived and we landed in Delhi and 698 00:38:57,640 --> 00:38:59,760 Speaker 1: there was a crowd of people there and I thought, 699 00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:02,399 Speaker 1: I said, Emlia, there must be some diplomat or rock 700 00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:04,680 Speaker 1: and roll star on the plane and all these people 701 00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:07,239 Speaker 1: and then we realized they just came to watch the 702 00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:10,200 Speaker 1: planes land and take off. That they that they lived 703 00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:13,080 Speaker 1: there in and around the airport, you know. And that 704 00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:16,040 Speaker 1: was the case in every major city, in every neighborhood 705 00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:20,560 Speaker 1: there was a group of the poor lived so close 706 00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:25,600 Speaker 1: to the non poor, and you know, the untouchables of course, 707 00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:28,280 Speaker 1: but you know, the whole levels of aroun nine levels 708 00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:35,000 Speaker 1: of societal casts in India, and at that time, most 709 00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:37,880 Speaker 1: of them were still prevalent, and so Emilia would go 710 00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,400 Speaker 1: out every day and he'd come home with his shorts. 711 00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:43,440 Speaker 1: He'd give away everything, all his money. He'd keep a 712 00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:47,279 Speaker 1: few rupees in his socks to you know, get a 713 00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:48,960 Speaker 1: bus or something. And he kept telling me, you got 714 00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:50,719 Speaker 1: to come out, you got to come out. And then 715 00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:56,560 Speaker 1: one day we got an invitation. We went to Bombay, 716 00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:59,520 Speaker 1: which is Mumbai now, I guess, and we were filming 717 00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:04,240 Speaker 1: there for Wild and an invitation came to meet Mother Teresa, 718 00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:06,840 Speaker 1: whom treg I know you've met several times and was 719 00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:09,120 Speaker 1: a great inspiration to you. I think you were an 720 00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:15,600 Speaker 1: inspiration to her as well. And I came home to 721 00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:18,400 Speaker 1: the hotel that night I said, We've been invited to 722 00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:21,879 Speaker 1: meet Mother Teresa. I'm so excited. Next Saturday, we're going 723 00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:24,960 Speaker 1: to take the train down to Calcutta. It's an overnight 724 00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:27,759 Speaker 1: journey and we'll arrive in time for the Mass at 725 00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:30,719 Speaker 1: the community on Sunday morning. I'm so excited. And he 726 00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:35,640 Speaker 1: said who. I said, Manta Teresa. He said why? And 727 00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:37,080 Speaker 1: I said, are you crazy, boy? 728 00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:38,640 Speaker 5: Can you? 729 00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:41,560 Speaker 1: This is a living saint, This is a mighty presence 730 00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:43,719 Speaker 1: in the world. We get a chance to meet her 731 00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:45,640 Speaker 1: personally we're going to be And he said, but why 732 00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:48,400 Speaker 1: why what what are you talking? I said, why do 733 00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:50,600 Speaker 1: you want to do it? And without thinking, I said, 734 00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:53,759 Speaker 1: because I want to tell everybody that I met her, 735 00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:58,960 Speaker 1: and I didn't go. I realized that that was the 736 00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:01,560 Speaker 1: only reason I wanted to, so I could brag about it. 737 00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:06,600 Speaker 1: And so I didn't meet her until about ten years 738 00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:08,920 Speaker 1: later with Joe Cosgrove, who asked me to go on 739 00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:12,200 Speaker 1: a piece of mission to stop the first golf War. 740 00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:17,040 Speaker 1: But that that experience with Gandhi was the making of 741 00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:22,440 Speaker 1: that film was was extraordinary in his performance. Ben Kingsley's 742 00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:27,640 Speaker 1: performance was he began to meditate and you know, and 743 00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:30,799 Speaker 1: to become closer to his own spirit, and he was 744 00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:34,080 Speaker 1: He wouldn't have say he wasn't social with us, you know, 745 00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:37,000 Speaker 1: he stayed in the character all the time and everybody 746 00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:39,640 Speaker 1: respected that. When he came on the set, it was 747 00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:42,680 Speaker 1: it was like the real guy, you know, the Gandha Gi. 748 00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:46,040 Speaker 1: People would yell. I mean, even at that time, this 749 00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:48,520 Speaker 1: is an eighty one, but people thought of him as 750 00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:53,279 Speaker 1: an embodiment, as a you know that they really got 751 00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:55,960 Speaker 1: the feeding that it was him that that Gandhi had 752 00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:58,600 Speaker 1: come back. In the flesh, and it was Ben Kingsley. 753 00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:01,279 Speaker 1: He was absolutely brilliant and I was very happy to 754 00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:05,239 Speaker 1: be a small part of that of that show. 755 00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:08,319 Speaker 5: After all of the Gandhi movement that your activism and 756 00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:11,680 Speaker 5: faith were really kindled. I did, and then you took 757 00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:14,839 Speaker 5: up the I got back into Catholicism and back into 758 00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:18,960 Speaker 5: policism and peace and justice work. And it started started 759 00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:21,440 Speaker 5: with activism. 760 00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:23,759 Speaker 1: Yeah, very interesting, that's what it started. And I used 761 00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:26,960 Speaker 1: the phrase acting is what I do for a living, 762 00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:29,399 Speaker 1: Activism is what I do to stay alive. And that's 763 00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:32,880 Speaker 1: still true. So but yeah, it started in India because 764 00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:36,440 Speaker 1: I realized that at the time I was not a 765 00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:39,360 Speaker 1: practicing Catholic. I kind of, you know, put that aside. 766 00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:43,440 Speaker 1: And then I realized that I needed a community, and 767 00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:48,840 Speaker 1: I wanted to rejoin Catholicism, but not for the piety 768 00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:54,080 Speaker 1: or the fear of condemnation, you know, fear of going 769 00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:58,280 Speaker 1: to Hell if I got caught, you know, short uh, 770 00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:00,319 Speaker 1: And so but I wanted to come into the Church 771 00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:03,680 Speaker 1: of the Peace Activists and Reverend King and Mother Terraisa, 772 00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:07,920 Speaker 1: the people whose faith is shown in their works and 773 00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:10,040 Speaker 1: and so that's the church that I came back into 774 00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:13,760 Speaker 1: and yeah, so here I am. It's all your fault, John. 775 00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:19,399 Speaker 2: So our fault, beautiful, you're listening to my legacy. We'll 776 00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:20,160 Speaker 2: be right back. 777 00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:15,279 Speaker 3: Now, back to my legacy. 778 00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:19,759 Speaker 6: So, Martin, you've raised four children. What do you hope 779 00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:23,800 Speaker 6: your children and grandchildren remember most about you? 780 00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:26,080 Speaker 1: You know, you have children as well, and you know 781 00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:29,480 Speaker 1: you can't love one more than the other, but you 782 00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:33,960 Speaker 1: love them all differently, and and because of their and 783 00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:38,279 Speaker 1: their needs and you, my greatest hope is that they 784 00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:41,960 Speaker 1: will love each other when when we're gone, when Jane 785 00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:46,279 Speaker 1: and I are gone their mother, you know, Jana, and 786 00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:50,040 Speaker 1: and for that, you know, we have grandchildren and great 787 00:44:50,040 --> 00:44:56,279 Speaker 1: grandchildren now. But I see the love, I see the 788 00:44:56,760 --> 00:45:01,400 Speaker 1: commitment they have to you know, a moral frame of reference. 789 00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:04,160 Speaker 1: None of them are Catholic, because I didn't raise my 790 00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:07,560 Speaker 1: kids Catholic, you know. But I see a sense of 791 00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:13,920 Speaker 1: their humanity and their best of all, well, a reflection 792 00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:16,280 Speaker 1: of who they are is in their sense of humor, 793 00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:18,719 Speaker 1: and in their sense of humor with me, you know, 794 00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:24,600 Speaker 1: they take great pleasure, you know, to get under my skin, 795 00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:28,080 Speaker 1: you know, with my ego, with like you know, I 796 00:45:28,080 --> 00:45:31,080 Speaker 1: can imagine pouring the water in your dad's ear and 797 00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:33,600 Speaker 1: then fleeing. Well, they poured a lot of stuff in 798 00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:36,719 Speaker 1: my ear too, And I wasn't as non violent as 799 00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:39,640 Speaker 1: your dad. But you know they rub you the wrong way. 800 00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:45,440 Speaker 1: But your children, they are the very they are reflection 801 00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:48,240 Speaker 1: of the very best and the very worst part of us. 802 00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:53,320 Speaker 1: I remember somebody was once, some famous person was asked 803 00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:57,200 Speaker 1: what they would like to be remembered for, and he said, 804 00:45:57,239 --> 00:46:01,480 Speaker 1: for about five minutes. And I think that's okay. And 805 00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:05,680 Speaker 1: you know the old phrase heat that hath offspring giveth 806 00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:09,200 Speaker 1: hostages to the future. You know, we do, we we 807 00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:12,080 Speaker 1: it's it's an active faith, it's an act of hope. 808 00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:16,880 Speaker 3: What would you say is the most difficult time that 809 00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:17,960 Speaker 3: you've had as a parent? 810 00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:27,560 Speaker 1: Uh, dealing with my own addiction. I'm being vulnerable and 811 00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:32,759 Speaker 1: they seeing me vulnerable and my image crumbled. And then 812 00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:35,000 Speaker 1: when I saw that in them? 813 00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:37,960 Speaker 7: And what was that addiction to you? For those who 814 00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:39,040 Speaker 7: don't know you as well? 815 00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:41,080 Speaker 2: And how did you over my addiction? 816 00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:46,480 Speaker 1: Yes? Alcohol, Yeah, I had a very severe problem with alcohol. 817 00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:47,719 Speaker 7: And how did you overcome that? 818 00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:51,880 Speaker 1: I overcome a visions I think I mentioned about. I 819 00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:56,000 Speaker 1: came back to the Catholic faith and I realized gradually, 820 00:46:56,040 --> 00:47:00,320 Speaker 1: and you know that that that that this was a 821 00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:02,680 Speaker 1: a source of nourishment and grace that I could use 822 00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:05,000 Speaker 1: to let it go and I and I did. And 823 00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:07,680 Speaker 1: then a friend of mine who was in the AA 824 00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:11,640 Speaker 1: the twelve step program, when I was desperate to help 825 00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:17,480 Speaker 1: one of my children who had a severe problem, he said, 826 00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:19,960 Speaker 1: you should, you should get in the program. I said, 827 00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:22,000 Speaker 1: when I'm sober. He said, dead't matter. You've got to 828 00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:22,880 Speaker 1: learn the skills. 829 00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:25,560 Speaker 2: And how did you use that to help your child? 830 00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:34,560 Speaker 1: I wasn't able to because he had no formal teaching 831 00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:37,279 Speaker 1: in the faith or any faith, you know, but he 832 00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:44,160 Speaker 1: had a very generous and a very vulnerable spirit. So 833 00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:48,160 Speaker 1: I knew that he would not refuse me. But I 834 00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:49,240 Speaker 1: had to take that stat. 835 00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:50,120 Speaker 2: Assuming this is Charlie. 836 00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:52,800 Speaker 7: Yeah, and what was that experience like bonding? 837 00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:56,480 Speaker 1: As well? It didn't start out as bonding. It ruptured 838 00:47:56,560 --> 00:48:02,200 Speaker 1: our relationship because I was butting in, interfering, you know, 839 00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:08,040 Speaker 1: and insisting that he acted a certain way. But I 840 00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:10,279 Speaker 1: think my persistence had a lot to do with it. 841 00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:12,399 Speaker 1: I didn't lay him off the hook, and I went 842 00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:16,600 Speaker 1: so far as to do I guess the unthinkable, you know. 843 00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:19,759 Speaker 1: I went to the authorities and said, uh, you know, 844 00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:23,759 Speaker 1: I know this guy and he's he's uh, he's abusing 845 00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:27,120 Speaker 1: his uh his uh probation. 846 00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:28,280 Speaker 2: What was that experience? 847 00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:33,920 Speaker 1: Like? It was devastating because he he you know, it 848 00:48:34,080 --> 00:48:37,880 Speaker 1: just it just ruptured our relationship. 849 00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:39,040 Speaker 2: And where's your relationship now? 850 00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:42,640 Speaker 1: It's like I don't know anyone like him. You know. 851 00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:45,279 Speaker 1: I go to mass you know, every every weekend, and 852 00:48:45,320 --> 00:48:48,279 Speaker 1: so he will call and say something about we got 853 00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:50,160 Speaker 1: to get I said, well, I have to get to 854 00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:53,920 Speaker 1: the Oh you're still into that. Oh well, lots of 855 00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:56,120 Speaker 1: luck with that, you know. But he when he clowns 856 00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:58,640 Speaker 1: about it, and yet I know that what he's really 857 00:48:58,680 --> 00:49:01,160 Speaker 1: doing is he he wanted to see it in action. 858 00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:04,279 Speaker 1: He wants to see it in me. I'm the only one, wow, 859 00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:06,560 Speaker 1: that he's going to find that in, you know, on 860 00:49:06,600 --> 00:49:08,520 Speaker 1: a regular basis. And the fact that I've kept it 861 00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:12,719 Speaker 1: up for the last forty years means something to him. 862 00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:17,000 Speaker 1: So I know what he's doing. You know, he wants 863 00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:20,000 Speaker 1: me to prove it in some sense, you can't prove 864 00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:21,359 Speaker 1: your faith, but you live it. 865 00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:22,560 Speaker 7: What do you love most about him? 866 00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:29,960 Speaker 1: His vulnerability. He was so vulnerable, and he was so 867 00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:35,080 Speaker 1: he was so aware of people's needs. You know, I 868 00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:39,600 Speaker 1: never saw him unkind to a person need, whether it 869 00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:43,239 Speaker 1: was a fan or somebody on the set, or a 870 00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:50,200 Speaker 1: homeless person. His compassion, he was an inspiration. He just 871 00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:54,239 Speaker 1: I would just stand back and say, Jesus, my son, 872 00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:58,200 Speaker 1: look how extraordinary he is. I'm eighty four years old now, 873 00:49:58,360 --> 00:50:01,000 Speaker 1: and I'm often asked you I think about death, and 874 00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:03,600 Speaker 1: I respond, of course, I think about it every day. 875 00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:06,200 Speaker 1: I think I've got a shorter future than I have 876 00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:10,120 Speaker 1: a longer pasted. I get less frightened of it, although 877 00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:13,920 Speaker 1: I'm not looking forward to it, but I have to 878 00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:18,920 Speaker 1: include it in every breath, because you know, these days 879 00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:23,400 Speaker 1: we live in very, very vicarious and peculiar times. To 880 00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:29,360 Speaker 1: say the least. I love Richard ROR's comment he said 881 00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:32,520 Speaker 1: that we don't go to heaven, we become heaven. My 882 00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:37,000 Speaker 1: greatest fear is a sudden and unprovided departure, you know. 883 00:50:37,239 --> 00:50:40,160 Speaker 1: So that I didn't get a chance to tell someone 884 00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:44,359 Speaker 1: that I loved, how much I loved, how grateful I was, 885 00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:47,799 Speaker 1: and to those that I refuse to love that I'm 886 00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:50,120 Speaker 1: sorry that I didn't and it was my loss, and 887 00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:52,399 Speaker 1: will you forgive me. I hope that I have time to. 888 00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:55,839 Speaker 7: Do that, and we're talking a lot about the four 889 00:50:55,880 --> 00:51:00,440 Speaker 7: of us, the question of happiness versus fulfillment. We need 890 00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:02,200 Speaker 7: to live a life of fulfillment. And you know, the 891 00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:04,680 Speaker 7: Western concept of happiness often is the next thing, and 892 00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:07,560 Speaker 7: you know, the next toy, or the bigger car, or 893 00:51:07,560 --> 00:51:11,040 Speaker 7: the bigger job title or the corner office. But that 894 00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:13,360 Speaker 7: doesn't fill us up just in terms of what do 895 00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:15,359 Speaker 7: you have in your heart and that fulfillment that you 896 00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:18,680 Speaker 7: find yourself in. Because of everybody we've ever met in Hollywood, 897 00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:22,320 Speaker 7: we've met a lot of people, you are the most grounded, loving, caring, 898 00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:25,799 Speaker 7: engaged person we've ever met. 899 00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:30,040 Speaker 1: You know, actors are always dependent on somebody liking them, 900 00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:33,600 Speaker 1: approving of them, so you work or you you know, 901 00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:36,520 Speaker 1: we spend so much of our lives, not just actors, 902 00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:40,120 Speaker 1: but a lot of people, you know, you know, striving 903 00:51:40,160 --> 00:51:45,000 Speaker 1: to be loved. And that's only because we don't realize 904 00:51:45,640 --> 00:51:48,719 Speaker 1: that we have to learn to love ourselves and all 905 00:51:48,800 --> 00:51:52,880 Speaker 1: the human things about us, and that you know, that 906 00:51:52,960 --> 00:51:54,960 Speaker 1: image of seeing the light and other people. I was 907 00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:57,279 Speaker 1: on the campaign trail for nearly three weeks and going 908 00:51:57,320 --> 00:52:01,560 Speaker 1: into a lot of very you know, they sent us where, 909 00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:05,800 Speaker 1: you know, the camel and some of the big candidates 910 00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:09,200 Speaker 1: couldn't go because you know that they draw such crowds, 911 00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:11,319 Speaker 1: but they can only do so much. So we were 912 00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:14,640 Speaker 1: sending areas where nobody went, and the people were just 913 00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:21,080 Speaker 1: on fire. And the three weeks were just so satisfying 914 00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:25,880 Speaker 1: and hopeful. I was. I was absolutely certain she was 915 00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:30,240 Speaker 1: going to win. And she did win because her whole 916 00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:34,880 Speaker 1: campaign reflected the character of the nation, not its bitterness, 917 00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:38,880 Speaker 1: it's darkness, it's fear, it's anger. It reflected the joy. 918 00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:40,759 Speaker 1: That was the first word that came out of her 919 00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:45,160 Speaker 1: campaign was joy. And I saw it everywhere we went, 920 00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:49,279 Speaker 1: and even and I was in the battleground state so called, 921 00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:51,800 Speaker 1: you know, and man, yeah, there's a lot of a 922 00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:54,000 Speaker 1: lot of darkness. But when I received I was doing 923 00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:56,200 Speaker 1: door knocking in some areas and we were running into 924 00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:59,040 Speaker 1: people with the you know, with the with this the 925 00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:02,200 Speaker 1: opposition sign on their homes and their cars. There was 926 00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:06,600 Speaker 1: just that spark of what's drawing you here? Why are 927 00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:11,959 Speaker 1: you doing this? And they clearly wanted what These people had, 928 00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:16,239 Speaker 1: these volunteers, these young people who were so inspired and 929 00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:19,440 Speaker 1: and there were canvassing, you know, So I saw a 930 00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:22,400 Speaker 1: lot of that and I was. I was grounded in 931 00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:25,960 Speaker 1: the I think. I think we know ourselves when we 932 00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:31,200 Speaker 1: see ourselves. You see someone that reflects you in a 933 00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:35,000 Speaker 1: way that that draws you to them. You you just 934 00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:41,080 Speaker 1: you cannot be yourself and not see yourself in others, 935 00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:44,239 Speaker 1: you know, I just it happens all the time that 936 00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:47,359 Speaker 1: that image of seeing the light coming from people, Martin. 937 00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:50,040 Speaker 4: As we wrap up, there is no way to bring 938 00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:54,160 Speaker 4: more inspiration and to bring a little dose of hope 939 00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:57,240 Speaker 4: than with a classic President Bartlet moments. 940 00:53:57,880 --> 00:53:59,399 Speaker 2: And many people. 941 00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:02,640 Speaker 4: Are feeling a little overwhelmed, a little bit hopeless, and 942 00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:05,960 Speaker 4: so I'd be curious what would President Bartlett say to 943 00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:08,120 Speaker 4: rally them back at this time. 944 00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:17,480 Speaker 1: Well, I would refer to a great friend of Gandhi Romandan, 945 00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:22,040 Speaker 1: to Gore. We are called to lift up this nation 946 00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:24,960 Speaker 1: and all its people to that place where the heart 947 00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:27,879 Speaker 1: is without fear and the head is held high, where 948 00:54:27,960 --> 00:54:31,360 Speaker 1: knowledge is free, where the world has not been broken 949 00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:35,600 Speaker 1: up into fragments by narrow domestic walls, where words come 950 00:54:35,640 --> 00:54:39,480 Speaker 1: out from the depths of truth, and tireless striving stretches 951 00:54:39,560 --> 00:54:43,480 Speaker 1: its arms towards perfection, with a clear stream of reason, 952 00:54:44,040 --> 00:54:47,960 Speaker 1: has not lost its way into the dreary desert sands 953 00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:50,960 Speaker 1: of dead habit where the mind is led forward by 954 00:54:51,040 --> 00:54:56,160 Speaker 1: thee into whoever widening thought and action, into that heaven 955 00:54:56,480 --> 00:55:02,520 Speaker 1: of freedom. Dear Father, let our awake. Amen. 956 00:55:07,480 --> 00:55:11,520 Speaker 4: We have had an incredible conversation with John Deere and 957 00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:16,920 Speaker 4: Martin Sheen about faith, about family, about nonviolence, about perseverance, 958 00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:19,759 Speaker 4: and I look back in some of these lessons I 959 00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:23,080 Speaker 4: just want to reflect back on if you want to be. 960 00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:25,560 Speaker 2: Hopeful, you must do hopeful things. 961 00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:28,640 Speaker 4: I love that. I love that quote, and I love 962 00:55:28,680 --> 00:55:30,160 Speaker 4: the How do we live nonviolence? 963 00:55:30,200 --> 00:55:30,439 Speaker 2: First? 964 00:55:30,440 --> 00:55:34,160 Speaker 4: We have to start with non violence to ourselves. You 965 00:55:34,200 --> 00:55:38,040 Speaker 4: know the simple truth if most of us spoke to 966 00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:40,600 Speaker 4: our friends the way we speak to ourselves, we wouldn't 967 00:55:40,640 --> 00:55:42,120 Speaker 4: remain friends with those individuals. 968 00:55:42,280 --> 00:55:44,680 Speaker 2: How often we put ourselves down and think we're not enough. 969 00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:48,520 Speaker 4: And then we have to live that nonviolence to others, 970 00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:53,239 Speaker 4: including those who become our teachers of nonviolence, because they're 971 00:55:53,239 --> 00:55:55,880 Speaker 4: the ones who frustrate us the most, but they are 972 00:55:55,880 --> 00:55:59,640 Speaker 4: our teachers in those moments. Thank you to both of 973 00:55:59,680 --> 00:56:04,160 Speaker 4: you living your legacies and for showing us how to 974 00:56:04,200 --> 00:56:07,080 Speaker 4: live lives fulfilled and with purpose. 975 00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:11,200 Speaker 1: Oh, thank you very much. Have very special time with 976 00:56:11,280 --> 00:56:14,719 Speaker 1: some very very special people. Thank you for allowing us 977 00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:15,480 Speaker 1: to share it with you. 978 00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:21,520 Speaker 3: Thank you for joining us. If you enjoyed today's conversation, subscribe, share, 979 00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:24,600 Speaker 3: and follow us at my Legacy Movement on social media. 980 00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:29,799 Speaker 3: New episodes drop every Tuesday. At its core. This podcast 981 00:56:29,880 --> 00:56:33,000 Speaker 3: honors doctor King's vision of the beloved community and the 982 00:56:33,120 --> 00:56:38,120 Speaker 3: power of connection. 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