1 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 1: What's up, my loves It's La La Kent's with Randall 2 00:00:16,520 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 1: and we are back at it. 3 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 2: Wow, I got to say something. 4 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 3: I mean, last week's episode, I was excited just because 5 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 3: the whole astrology thing, the fact that I got bad ankles. 6 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 3: I'd be all, that was cool because I had no idea. 7 00:00:30,520 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 3: How could you even know that? But I had no 8 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:37,880 Speaker 3: idea that just talking amongst friends would blow up into 9 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 3: this huge, you know, media storm about the relationship. Although 10 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 3: I mean, I guess just so I've been around it. 11 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:47,919 Speaker 3: But it was pretty it was pretty interesting. 12 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:50,159 Speaker 4: Wait, you had no idea that it would turn into 13 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:50,840 Speaker 4: a media storm. 14 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 1: I did. They've never done like an interview, They've been photographed, 15 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:56,760 Speaker 1: and I made like, I asked Megan beforehand, are there 16 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 1: things like that? You? I always want to make sure 17 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 1: guests feel safe when they come on the podcast. We're 18 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 1: not here to like spill tea that you don't want spilled. 19 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 1: We're not messy like that. And so I just asked 20 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 1: simple questions. 21 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 2: And you don't want to spill tea on them while 22 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 2: they're sitting there. 23 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 4: No, I just like, I don't want to be. 24 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:15,679 Speaker 2: God. 25 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:18,199 Speaker 4: You're such a dad joke. 26 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 2: You're such a dad joy that went right over your head. 27 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:22,960 Speaker 2: The tea flew right over your head. 28 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 4: Dad jokes tend to go over my head. 29 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, well you know I could show them high level jokes. 30 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 4: Well that's sad. 31 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:30,920 Speaker 3: Okay, moving on, But I agree with you, meaning I 32 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 3: agree with you that No, the answer is, I did 33 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 3: not know that this would turn into that, because the 34 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 3: thing is everybody it was that count out of the 35 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:40,960 Speaker 3: bag and it was like it was already everywhere. I 36 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 3: didn't think it would be like the pinnacle of interviews 37 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 3: with them, like we're sitting down with the new couple. 38 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 2: It wasn't like that. 39 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 3: It was about astrology and that us. 40 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 2: That's my take. So it's exciting. 41 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 1: Yes, So for those of you who are just tuning 42 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 1: into the Give Them All with Random podcast, Randal and 43 00:01:56,680 --> 00:02:00,160 Speaker 1: I are talking about last week's episode where we had. 44 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 3: Megan Fox a machine nun Kelly, who are a couple now. 45 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 1: Correct, and they spilled some epicity along with like how 46 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:10,080 Speaker 1: they it came to be, But it was it was 47 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 1: more of how they came to be. It was like 48 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 1: how the universe impacted their relationship. 49 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 3: But don't you but you have to admit, like you 50 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:21,399 Speaker 3: like I didn't. I've been around them for months now, 51 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 3: six months, and you've spent a lot of time with them, 52 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 3: with vacation with them. I did not think that it 53 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 3: went I mean, I think it was even too deep 54 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 3: for me. I mean I think I was just like 55 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 3: like the twin flame split in half thing. They lost me. 56 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:38,359 Speaker 3: But they're deep, They're they're like they're in it deep. 57 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 4: Amazing. 58 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I love it. And by the way, they're very 59 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:43,799 Speaker 3: close friends of mine. I know I say that a 60 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:45,079 Speaker 3: lot a lot of guests, but I do bring a 61 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 3: lot of my friends on these things and your friends, 62 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 3: and it was really special to see people really happy. 63 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 3: So that's all I'm going to say about that. And 64 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:55,080 Speaker 3: now I'm going to move on to something I would 65 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 3: like to talk about. 66 00:02:56,800 --> 00:03:00,799 Speaker 1: So, I with everything that's been going going on, and 67 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 1: I've been very open about my sobriety and you know, 68 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 1: my issues with mental health and things like that. 69 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 4: And I won't say who did this. 70 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 1: But you know, I'm talking about the Kanye West issue 71 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 1: and him being bipolar and how people are it's a 72 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 1: media frenzy, give. 73 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 2: It hold on. 74 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 3: So for somebody like me who's not as cool or 75 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:24,800 Speaker 3: in the know, I've seen some things on the internet. 76 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:27,919 Speaker 3: So basically, what is going on is Kanye and Kim 77 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:31,799 Speaker 3: have been having issues. Kanye is running for president, but 78 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 3: that's not for real. The running for president was front 79 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 3: because I don't know. 80 00:03:35,880 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 2: Just explain to me. 81 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 4: The thing is is like, I'm not super in the 82 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 4: know either. 83 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 2: Yes you are, well, yes you are. 84 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 1: Who knows if Kim k and Kanye West were doing great. 85 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:48,160 Speaker 1: Let's just assume they were, Okay. Kanye said he was 86 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 1: running for president, all things good whatever. 87 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 3: Okay, Then he's so he really is running for I'm 88 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 3: asking that's why I don't. 89 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 2: Know, Well, no one knows, okay. 90 00:03:57,000 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 3: So he said he's running for president, but we we 91 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:02,720 Speaker 3: don't know if that's one hundred percent ballid or not. 92 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 2: But he's announced he's running for president, right, But then. 93 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 4: He did a rally. 94 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 1: He went and did this rally, which I believe was 95 00:04:09,360 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 1: a rally for like Kanye twenty whatever. 96 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 2: Okay, so he's running for president. 97 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 1: And he mentioned that North his child with Kim Kardashian 98 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:24,159 Speaker 1: he wanted to abort the kid, okay, and just was 99 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:27,120 Speaker 1: telling some very intimate personal things, okay. 100 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 2: And at a rally, at a rally, rally running for. 101 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:34,800 Speaker 1: President correct and Okay, basically after that, Kim was not 102 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:39,560 Speaker 1: happy and you know, the latest statement, and. 103 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 3: Then she made a statement regarding his statement at a rally, 104 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:47,799 Speaker 3: so clearly she's unhappy he's saying things about their personal 105 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:50,159 Speaker 3: life that she has at one out there, and now 106 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 3: the relationship is. 107 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:55,160 Speaker 1: It's I mean, I think I think if Kanye were 108 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:58,920 Speaker 1: just an asshole, she would be like undone with this motherfucker. 109 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, he's been diagnosed 110 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:05,039 Speaker 1: as bipolar. So he was having an episode and he 111 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:08,160 Speaker 1: went on to Twitter after this rally and was having 112 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 1: an episode, and. 113 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 2: As he come out and said anything in. 114 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 1: That version, he made a statement about how sorry he 115 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 1: was to his wife Kim and how she's always had 116 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:22,160 Speaker 1: his back and she's oh love of his life. And 117 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 1: you know, for me, I've always been someone who I 118 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:31,599 Speaker 1: don't take mental health lightly lightly. One of my cast 119 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 1: members at the reunion, when I was having an emotional 120 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 1: thing happened, made a comment that I might be both bipolar. 121 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:40,360 Speaker 1: I don't think that it's something that should just be 122 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 1: thrown out there. I think it's gross, right. 123 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 3: And by the way, and with regards to mental health, 124 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:49,280 Speaker 3: you know, I'm forty nine years old. I've been around 125 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:52,719 Speaker 3: a long time now, and I've you know, had family 126 00:05:53,720 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 3: who have had bipolar. You know, my grandmother was bipolar. 127 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 3: My you know, other family members of my family have 128 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:06,159 Speaker 3: serious health issues in the same you know, with similar 129 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 3: bipolar issues. 130 00:06:07,360 --> 00:06:09,360 Speaker 2: And it is it is not to be taken lightly. 131 00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:09,680 Speaker 2: It is. 132 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:13,720 Speaker 3: It's incredibly challenging. And you you know, when you have 133 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 3: a family member you love, or a friend that you love, 134 00:06:16,520 --> 00:06:19,240 Speaker 3: or whoever it may be, you know, dealing with pipolar 135 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 3: and getting that person to a stable functioning right. 136 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:23,599 Speaker 2: You know. 137 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:30,280 Speaker 3: And I had I had a a family member who, 138 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 3: when they did not take their medication right, would lock 139 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:41,279 Speaker 3: themselves in their office for weeks at a time, blow 140 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:44,799 Speaker 3: through all their money, you know, do very manic type things, 141 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 3: and and it was very very hard for our family. 142 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:50,680 Speaker 3: And we always supported and always rallied and always encouraged. 143 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:53,200 Speaker 3: But you know, you do the best you can, but 144 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:56,680 Speaker 3: you also want to be there for them. And sometimes 145 00:06:56,680 --> 00:06:59,120 Speaker 3: they won't take the help. They have no interest because 146 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 3: they're in that app episode or they're not taking their medication. 147 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 2: That does help them. 148 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:08,120 Speaker 3: And I've dealt with that firsthand, and it's it's uh, 149 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 3: it could be really really tough. So having said that, 150 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 3: not getting off course, I can understand if this is what, 151 00:07:14,560 --> 00:07:15,760 Speaker 3: if that's what it is, bipolar. 152 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 1: Well, he's been diagnosed as having bipolar disorder by a doctor. 153 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 4: Okay, And for me, there's such a have they. 154 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 2: Ever come out? 155 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:26,880 Speaker 3: Have they ever come out, because I again I don't 156 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 3: know this. Have they ever come out as a couple 157 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 3: and said he's bipolar? 158 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 2: Yes? Oh, he said, talk about it all the time. 159 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 1: Oh, I didn't know that his new album is titled 160 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 1: I Believe, or like his most recent is. 161 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 4: I'm Bipolar It's awesome or like something. 162 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 1: Okay, so this is obviously no, it's very much a 163 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 1: known thing. 164 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 2: Okay, got it. Okay, I was just a numb and 165 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 2: again I'm not in the numb right. 166 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:51,960 Speaker 1: And for me to look at that and see so 167 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 1: many people commenting or making memes, it's just I get 168 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:58,680 Speaker 1: that we live in a society where there's a lot 169 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 1: of things that happen and we make light of them 170 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 1: and we try to create comedy out of them. At 171 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 1: the end of the day, you know, throwing throwing a 172 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 1: word out like oh, you must be bipolar is not cool. 173 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 1: You making fun of someone who's having ups and downs 174 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:14,000 Speaker 1: is not cool. 175 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 3: Well that's but that's not even it's heartbreaking. And if 176 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 3: you've experienced it firsthand or watch somebody like you're watching somebody, 177 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 3: as you're saying in the media, that's very hard to 178 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 3: see that because you're seeing somebody that's in need of help, 179 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:34,079 Speaker 3: and a lot of lives are ruined, families are broken 180 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 3: over this. If it's not If it's not so, I 181 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:40,760 Speaker 3: don't think it's funny at all, And clearly whoever is making. 182 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 2: Fun of is I don't think it's I just don't 183 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 2: think it's a funny. 184 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 4: Social media is about. 185 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 1: Social media is about wanting to know the ins and 186 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:51,720 Speaker 1: outs of everyone's life. And I think just because this family, 187 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 1: the Kardashian family, who's had a reality show much larger 188 00:08:55,920 --> 00:08:58,960 Speaker 1: than the one I'm on, but there are things that 189 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 1: still should remain private, and so it's hard to watch 190 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 1: someone like Kanye have this episode of By. 191 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 3: The way, Kanye West, even though I'm not in the know, 192 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:14,200 Speaker 3: I do know and respect Kanye West is one of 193 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:17,560 Speaker 3: the greatest musical artists, businessman. 194 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:22,320 Speaker 2: And pioneers of so many different industries and. 195 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 4: That should never be discredited. 196 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 3: No, I mean he's just but I mean, this is 197 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 3: just the guy that I even there's not a lot 198 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:32,080 Speaker 3: of people I like, I could say I look up 199 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:34,240 Speaker 3: to or influence, like to look up and see what 200 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:36,719 Speaker 3: they've done. I mean, okay, that's wrong. There are a 201 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 3: lot of people that have but most people don't know 202 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:43,079 Speaker 3: that unless you know me personally, who's influenced me? Kanye West, 203 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 3: for sure, I don't know anything about the personal stuff. 204 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:50,960 Speaker 3: But on a business level, as an artists, as the 205 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:55,200 Speaker 3: brand he is created as a vocal vocal artist. 206 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, but a very vocal artist. 207 00:09:57,080 --> 00:09:59,960 Speaker 3: I mean, he's just one of the greatest that will 208 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 3: ever walk this planet. 209 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:05,080 Speaker 5: So it's it's so And that's what's so hard is 210 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 5: you don't a lot of people, when they see behavior 211 00:10:08,720 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 5: like this, discredit his genius and look at him as. 212 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:16,199 Speaker 4: You know, someone who's very volatile, and it's you. 213 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:18,640 Speaker 2: Know, and some support. 214 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:21,520 Speaker 3: You know, it's not fun, right, meaning you're saying you're 215 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 3: saying on the social media, which I have not seen 216 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:25,560 Speaker 3: this part where they make fun. But I mean, I 217 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:29,320 Speaker 3: think mental health and any of these kinds of issues 218 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:31,320 Speaker 3: are should never be taken back. 219 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:33,840 Speaker 1: And I'm like, I'm the type of person who uses 220 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:39,400 Speaker 1: comedy for everything, but there's just something about a mental 221 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 1: illness that is for me just throwing it out there 222 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 1: and either making fun of it or like labeling someone 223 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 1: as something because that's happened to me. It happened to 224 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 1: me at the reunion, and it's just like everything is 225 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 1: so minimized in our society right now. 226 00:10:57,040 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 2: Well, listen, this is awesome because I just I didn't 227 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:03,280 Speaker 2: even know this was going on. I'm going to know 228 00:11:03,360 --> 00:11:04,640 Speaker 2: this level of it was gone. 229 00:11:04,679 --> 00:11:06,959 Speaker 4: So well, let me tell you about we. 230 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:10,360 Speaker 1: So we came off of like a very light and 231 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 1: fun podcast last week, and this week I wanted to 232 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:16,200 Speaker 1: get a little bit more real because we're going into 233 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:22,360 Speaker 1: the one hundred teenth day of quarantine COVID all of it, 234 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 1: and I've noticed people's mental health kind of crashing, and 235 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 1: I just want to make today about mental health, sobriety 236 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:31,839 Speaker 1: and try to acknowledge things that people have asked about. 237 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:35,200 Speaker 3: So I respect that and I'm excited about that. So 238 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:37,800 Speaker 3: I'm gonna I'm gonna have no humor. 239 00:11:37,520 --> 00:11:39,680 Speaker 2: Today because you know they can have humor. You just 240 00:11:39,679 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 2: said it has to be serious, so I'm. 241 00:11:40,880 --> 00:11:43,199 Speaker 4: Like, you know, it's not about being serious. It's about acknowledgement. 242 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 2: So I can tell jokes. 243 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 4: We can tell jokes. 244 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:47,280 Speaker 2: We'll be back. Can I say we'll be back here? 245 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 2: Let's say it. Okay, we'll be back. We're back. We're 246 00:11:54,320 --> 00:11:55,800 Speaker 2: back with the heavy podcast. 247 00:11:56,840 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 3: Go ahead with I'm not I don't know how to 248 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 3: contribute to a heavy podcast, like we have to be heavy, it's. 249 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:04,160 Speaker 4: Not supposed to be heavy. 250 00:12:04,280 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 3: There's just a lot of things you want to but 251 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 3: I respect you want to address like I want. 252 00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:09,760 Speaker 4: To address that. 253 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:12,439 Speaker 1: And also like I did a sobriety post the other 254 00:12:12,520 --> 00:12:16,160 Speaker 1: day and I got a lot of people that were 255 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:19,680 Speaker 1: just reaching out about sobriety and how it kind of 256 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:22,320 Speaker 1: goes hand in hand with mental health, and so I 257 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 1: just wanted to do a podcast that was like not 258 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:28,079 Speaker 1: ignoring that's ignoring things that are important. 259 00:12:28,160 --> 00:12:30,320 Speaker 4: You know, There's only so many things we can. 260 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 1: Talk about that like are not fucking important. You know. 261 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:35,320 Speaker 2: Can I say something? 262 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:37,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I do agree with you, and I think that 263 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:40,400 Speaker 3: talking about sobriety because I see a lot of people 264 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:41,760 Speaker 3: are very inspired by you. 265 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 2: So I respect that. 266 00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 4: Thank you. 267 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 2: I do. Before we get so heavy, I just thought 268 00:12:46,880 --> 00:12:48,960 Speaker 2: we could just tell a joke. So I have a joke. 269 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 3: Why do we tell actors to break leg why because 270 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:55,520 Speaker 3: every play. 271 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:55,960 Speaker 2: Has a cast. 272 00:12:59,320 --> 00:13:00,200 Speaker 4: I have a joke too. 273 00:13:00,640 --> 00:13:02,600 Speaker 2: Okay, you go ahead, then we'll get serious. 274 00:13:02,679 --> 00:13:07,080 Speaker 1: Okay, what did one saggy boob say to the other 275 00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 1: saggy boob? 276 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:12,320 Speaker 4: What we better perk up before somebody thinks we're nuts. 277 00:13:14,120 --> 00:13:17,439 Speaker 2: That's pretty good? Yes, okay, all right. 278 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:22,360 Speaker 3: So back to let's let's talk about the dinosaur, no elephant, 279 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 3: let's talk about the elephant in the room. 280 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:25,679 Speaker 4: I love, Okay, I. 281 00:13:25,640 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 3: Mean, since you want to have a heavy podcast of 282 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 3: joking time, I said that. I think it's kind of 283 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:33,120 Speaker 3: like my original joke of laala with ram Kind. 284 00:13:33,200 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 2: I'm going to go with it for like. 285 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:41,320 Speaker 3: Okay, So, first of all, you showed me, as well 286 00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:44,959 Speaker 3: as many other people, four hundred articles that came out. 287 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:47,040 Speaker 4: I didn't show them to you. You showed them to me. 288 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 4: That's true. 289 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:51,400 Speaker 2: Not true, That is true. Okay. 290 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 1: Well you're the only person in this relationship at Google's okay. 291 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:59,040 Speaker 2: That's a lie. Okay, well it's a lot. That's you're 292 00:13:59,040 --> 00:14:05,240 Speaker 2: a lie to You don't send me articles, you don't 293 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 2: read your own ship? 294 00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:08,080 Speaker 4: Do you send them to me? 295 00:14:08,080 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 2: Do you read your own ship? Yes? Or no? 296 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:11,680 Speaker 4: I'm asking, yes, I read what you send to me. 297 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:15,080 Speaker 2: Do you read also your own ship online? No, that's 298 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:18,760 Speaker 2: a lie. I'm coming. That's oh my god. 299 00:14:19,360 --> 00:14:20,440 Speaker 4: I found out that. 300 00:14:21,160 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 2: Can I just say story thing? Thank you? Whether I 301 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:29,480 Speaker 2: read it or four hundred of my friends sent it 302 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 2: to me. 303 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 1: Hey, you have to keep your voice a little down because, 304 00:14:32,440 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 1: let's be honest. 305 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:36,320 Speaker 4: We're doing this on a cell phone, because can. 306 00:14:36,240 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 2: I just hear take me out of my moment. 307 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 3: What I'm saying is whether I read it or people 308 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:43,720 Speaker 3: send it to me, which a lot of people send 309 00:14:43,760 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 3: it to me. More of my friends sent it to 310 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 3: me like they were concerned. They're like, did you and 311 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 3: Lalla break up? I was like, well, we're sitting in 312 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:54,000 Speaker 3: a house right now, water skiing on a boat. 313 00:14:54,480 --> 00:14:55,560 Speaker 2: Did I miss something? 314 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 3: And then I realized because I didn't realize we have 315 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:01,680 Speaker 3: never followed each from the day we've met. 316 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 1: I've had you blocked since I got with you. 317 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:08,240 Speaker 3: Same Yeah, okay, so hold on. So of course I 318 00:15:08,520 --> 00:15:13,680 Speaker 3: didn't know that you had removed or what do you 319 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 3: call it archive? I don't even know you could do 320 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:19,840 Speaker 3: that to me, right, so you archived all of our pictures, 321 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:25,520 Speaker 3: which then led people to believe we broke up, which 322 00:15:25,720 --> 00:15:27,960 Speaker 3: I was shocked and didn't get the message in the house, 323 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:31,400 Speaker 3: so I wish you would have told me. But then 324 00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:33,320 Speaker 3: you But then I said, so, why are they writing 325 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:34,280 Speaker 3: all these articles yourself? 326 00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:36,360 Speaker 2: Because I archived you? And I was like, what do 327 00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 2: you mean you archived me? What am I? What am I? Eighteen? 328 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:42,080 Speaker 2: So I guess you get pissed off at me. 329 00:15:42,520 --> 00:15:45,000 Speaker 3: And if we get into a tit, which which by 330 00:15:45,040 --> 00:15:46,240 Speaker 3: the way, we've been together. 331 00:15:47,000 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 2: We're a married couple, we're a merry couple, doesn't okay. 332 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:51,720 Speaker 3: So the bottom line is we've been together a long time, 333 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:53,880 Speaker 3: so we get tits. 334 00:15:53,920 --> 00:15:55,520 Speaker 2: Everybody gets a tits. That's relationship. 335 00:15:55,520 --> 00:15:56,720 Speaker 4: It's a tit. Not a tit. 336 00:15:57,280 --> 00:16:00,920 Speaker 2: Oh, it's not a tit. No, it's a tiff. 337 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:02,240 Speaker 4: You get into a tip. 338 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 2: Tip have fun. 339 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:07,000 Speaker 3: I'm trying to have a serious so you want to 340 00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:10,880 Speaker 3: have a serious podcast. So we're getting a tiff, yes, okay, 341 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 3: And every couple gets in TIFFs, and when you've been 342 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 3: together a long time, you get TIFFs. And when we 343 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:21,920 Speaker 3: got the tiff, I didn't know that you archived my photos. 344 00:16:22,320 --> 00:16:24,440 Speaker 2: I do, so what is that? And then I don't 345 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:25,960 Speaker 2: even know on And here's the worst part. I didn't 346 00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:27,840 Speaker 2: even know you archived my photos. I had to find 347 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:29,840 Speaker 2: out by an article online. 348 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:32,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, and then I came in and I said, did 349 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 3: you break up over the tip? 350 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:34,800 Speaker 2: And you're like, are you crazy? 351 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:39,840 Speaker 1: No, So here's what happened which and don't cut me off. Please, 352 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:42,160 Speaker 1: let me just do my thing for five seconds. 353 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:44,200 Speaker 3: And then, by the way, your fans hate when I 354 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 3: cut you off, so I'm going. 355 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 2: To pay what Okay, okay, go ahead. 356 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:54,520 Speaker 1: So basically I have started posting the twelve step prayers. 357 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:55,360 Speaker 4: I started with. 358 00:16:55,400 --> 00:16:58,520 Speaker 1: Number one, then two, then three, and then the day 359 00:16:58,520 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 1: that I archived your photos was step four, the Step 360 00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:04,200 Speaker 1: four prayer. 361 00:17:04,160 --> 00:17:05,960 Speaker 4: Which basically, what does that say? 362 00:17:06,080 --> 00:17:09,439 Speaker 1: That is where you acknowledge that it is you who 363 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:10,320 Speaker 1: has turned your. 364 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:11,480 Speaker 4: Life into a mess. 365 00:17:11,800 --> 00:17:13,120 Speaker 2: Oh, and you talk. 366 00:17:12,960 --> 00:17:16,359 Speaker 1: About your resentments, and then you have to acknowledge the 367 00:17:16,440 --> 00:17:19,479 Speaker 1: part that you played. Basically, the fourth step in the 368 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:23,600 Speaker 1: program is the hardest step that you have to do. 369 00:17:23,960 --> 00:17:26,680 Speaker 1: You have to take for me and for many other people. 370 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:29,000 Speaker 1: When you hear about the twelve step program, most people 371 00:17:29,040 --> 00:17:31,840 Speaker 1: will say the fourth step, it's a. 372 00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:32,600 Speaker 4: Very long time. 373 00:17:32,680 --> 00:17:34,760 Speaker 3: So you posted this step on the day that we 374 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:37,840 Speaker 3: had a tip, on the day that you archived me 375 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:39,840 Speaker 3: and that's why. 376 00:17:40,080 --> 00:17:43,840 Speaker 1: So everyone put those two things together and it was 377 00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:47,920 Speaker 1: like a media frenzy of like Lala Kent says her 378 00:17:48,119 --> 00:17:49,480 Speaker 1: life is a mess. 379 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:51,919 Speaker 4: It's like, well, I'm not saying that. That's the prayer 380 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 4: says that. 381 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:54,440 Speaker 2: Okay, Can I ask a question? Can I ask question 382 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:55,400 Speaker 2: for the futures? 383 00:17:56,080 --> 00:18:01,680 Speaker 3: When people who are not with a reality star getting TIFFs, 384 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:06,639 Speaker 3: they just say, you know, they have their tiff and 385 00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:09,280 Speaker 3: an hour later the tiff is over, like our tiff 386 00:18:09,400 --> 00:18:12,000 Speaker 3: was over an hour later, wait wait wait wait, you 387 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:12,720 Speaker 3: didn't let me get. 388 00:18:12,640 --> 00:18:14,480 Speaker 2: It out, and then we're on the boat water skiing. 389 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:17,199 Speaker 3: Our tip was like not even that big of a tiff, 390 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:22,120 Speaker 3: And can you not archive me next time? 391 00:18:22,359 --> 00:18:24,640 Speaker 4: I can't promise you guys. 392 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:27,560 Speaker 2: Listen, what is this archive? What I mean? 393 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:30,639 Speaker 3: Okay, you can't even hurt me with archiving me if 394 00:18:30,680 --> 00:18:32,000 Speaker 3: I don't if I don't even. 395 00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:34,399 Speaker 2: Follow you, so I don't even know you archiving it 396 00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:36,520 Speaker 2: doesn't hurt anybody, know. 397 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:38,680 Speaker 4: I was actually just trying to make myself feel better. 398 00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:43,000 Speaker 3: Oh okay, because you can't screw somebody archiving them if 399 00:18:43,040 --> 00:18:45,199 Speaker 3: they can't see your Instagram, I have nothing to do 400 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:48,959 Speaker 3: with you. 401 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:52,719 Speaker 1: This is can I tell you, it's like, it's like 402 00:18:52,760 --> 00:18:55,640 Speaker 1: this you archived, because then when you're back on good terms, 403 00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:56,439 Speaker 1: you just add them right back. 404 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:58,680 Speaker 4: They go right back into the same place. It's all good. 405 00:18:58,800 --> 00:19:01,480 Speaker 3: Oh because of the article, because the OC and I again, 406 00:19:01,520 --> 00:19:04,760 Speaker 3: you told me about the archive literally an hour after 407 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:09,080 Speaker 3: the tip was over, and and and the funny thing 408 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:12,399 Speaker 3: of it all is all these articles that friends of 409 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:15,200 Speaker 3: mine had sent us said you deleted. 410 00:19:15,400 --> 00:19:18,240 Speaker 2: So I was like, she deleted, not deleted. It looks 411 00:19:18,280 --> 00:19:18,919 Speaker 2: like a delete. 412 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:20,679 Speaker 4: It looks like a delete. But it's just an arch 413 00:19:20,880 --> 00:19:21,040 Speaker 4: I know. 414 00:19:21,080 --> 00:19:24,480 Speaker 3: But here's here's the thing. It doesn't affect me because 415 00:19:24,520 --> 00:19:26,360 Speaker 3: I don't follow you and you don't follow me, so 416 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:26,840 Speaker 3: who are you. 417 00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:28,360 Speaker 2: I'm trying not. 418 00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:31,240 Speaker 4: To hurt anybody. It's to make myself feel better. 419 00:19:31,560 --> 00:19:33,040 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay. 420 00:19:33,080 --> 00:19:33,720 Speaker 4: Here's the thing. 421 00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:37,040 Speaker 1: Most people, when they get in tips, they may be like, 422 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:39,320 Speaker 1: fuck this, I'm gonna go have a drink, fuck this, 423 00:19:39,440 --> 00:19:41,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go do this or whatever it may be. Me, 424 00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:44,159 Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what, my petty ass going to 425 00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:46,800 Speaker 1: delete all his ship just for five minutes because that 426 00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:47,760 Speaker 1: makes me feel. 427 00:19:47,480 --> 00:19:49,600 Speaker 2: Empowerful a few hours whatever. 428 00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 4: I tell you. 429 00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:54,480 Speaker 2: A lot of like as you came to me and 430 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:55,520 Speaker 2: then showed me that. 431 00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:58,479 Speaker 1: By the way, there was this like Instagram with like 432 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:01,520 Speaker 1: naughty and a lot of followers, but I saw it 433 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:02,520 Speaker 1: so I just had to comment. 434 00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:03,120 Speaker 4: And it was like. 435 00:20:04,040 --> 00:20:07,159 Speaker 1: Welak had deleted all her pictures of rant And then 436 00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:09,800 Speaker 1: the cousu was like, this is hurtful, and I was like, 437 00:20:09,880 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 1: if this is hurtful, you're soft as fuck. 438 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:14,280 Speaker 2: Because that shit is not well. 439 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 3: Let me say something to that Instagram. First of all, 440 00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:20,000 Speaker 3: thank you for having my back. So whatever site that is, wait, wait, 441 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:23,160 Speaker 3: whatever site that is, I support you guys. Second of all, 442 00:20:23,359 --> 00:20:25,479 Speaker 3: it wasn't hurtful, because how can it be hurtful. 443 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:27,080 Speaker 2: I didn't even know she had. 444 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:29,960 Speaker 3: Done that until one of my best friends sent me 445 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:32,480 Speaker 3: a few articles is like, are you guys okay? And 446 00:20:32,520 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 3: I was like, well, we're on the boat right now 447 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:37,280 Speaker 3: and we're playing rummy cue, so I don't know, but 448 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:39,040 Speaker 3: I'm glad that helped you. 449 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:41,440 Speaker 1: I think everyone has their like I actually got a 450 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:43,159 Speaker 1: lot of people that were like, girl, I do that 451 00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:44,080 Speaker 1: same thing all the time. 452 00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 2: Who does that? 453 00:20:46,040 --> 00:20:47,760 Speaker 4: My fellow imagery people, No. 454 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 3: I think that's you. I think you invented this. The 455 00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:53,679 Speaker 3: only person I've never heard somebody archiving. 456 00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:56,040 Speaker 2: Somebody, Well your oldest shit. Well that's why you are 457 00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:56,679 Speaker 2: archiving me. 458 00:20:56,800 --> 00:20:59,560 Speaker 4: I'm an art I'm young at shit, and I act 459 00:20:59,600 --> 00:20:59,920 Speaker 4: that way. 460 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:03,480 Speaker 1: But bottom line is whatever if that's the most petty 461 00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:05,840 Speaker 1: thing I do in my life, like I'm fucking chill 462 00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:06,320 Speaker 1: in on it. 463 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:09,000 Speaker 2: Okay, So I respect you, Okay, whatever, Okay. So I 464 00:21:09,040 --> 00:21:09,439 Speaker 2: just want to. 465 00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:11,280 Speaker 3: Say a couple of things because I really am excited 466 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:15,440 Speaker 3: about this episode. So we're going to have to take 467 00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:17,639 Speaker 3: a quick break again. We're going to come back with it. 468 00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:19,679 Speaker 4: Let me say this before we move on. 469 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:21,720 Speaker 2: I want to talk about sobriety. Won't come back. 470 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:23,800 Speaker 4: No, we're going to talk about sobriety when we come back. 471 00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:27,120 Speaker 4: But for my fellow chicks out there who want. 472 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:29,480 Speaker 1: To delete their man off their Instagram, just archive it 473 00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:30,720 Speaker 1: because then you can add it back. 474 00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:33,960 Speaker 4: I don't judge you. Let us have immature, petty moments 475 00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:35,320 Speaker 4: like whatever. 476 00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:36,280 Speaker 2: It is, what it is, Okay. 477 00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:39,720 Speaker 3: I'm glad that we don't follow each other, because I 478 00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:41,920 Speaker 3: think if I had seen that on your ground, I'm 479 00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:42,800 Speaker 3: glad we don't follow. 480 00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:43,080 Speaker 4: Each other either. 481 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:45,600 Speaker 1: No, I could only see so many of your mugshot 482 00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:46,400 Speaker 1: pictures that you. 483 00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:50,320 Speaker 2: Take Okay, now you're being seen. Now, now you're being petty. 484 00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:54,960 Speaker 3: So what I might do now is I might delete, 485 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:56,520 Speaker 3: not even archive your shit. 486 00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:58,200 Speaker 2: I'm going to delete them all. 487 00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:00,600 Speaker 3: Because that's I want to get back at you. 488 00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:01,920 Speaker 2: No, I'm not going to do that because I don't 489 00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:03,439 Speaker 2: I wouldn't have any followers if I did that. 490 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:05,159 Speaker 4: We'll be right back. 491 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:09,720 Speaker 2: And we're back. 492 00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:12,359 Speaker 3: I'm running the interview now because I'm going to ask 493 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:14,280 Speaker 3: a little bit for a few minutes here with you. 494 00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:14,960 Speaker 4: You're going to interview. 495 00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:16,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, I want to just ask you a little bit 496 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:19,119 Speaker 3: about your sobriety, because first of all, I think that 497 00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 3: people don't. 498 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:22,600 Speaker 2: Realize that the fact, first of all. 499 00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:25,920 Speaker 3: You've been sober a year and nine months, so three 500 00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:27,600 Speaker 3: more months we're going to hit two years, which is 501 00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:31,520 Speaker 3: a milestone. I tell you, I don't care what company 502 00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:34,880 Speaker 3: you're building, how much you know success or money you make, 503 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:39,600 Speaker 3: how many TV shows you do, produce, star, none of 504 00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:43,359 Speaker 3: that's important to me. Your sobriety, to me is going 505 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:49,320 Speaker 3: to always for me be the thing that I cannot believe. 506 00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:52,639 Speaker 3: And I'm so proud of what you've done and what 507 00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:55,159 Speaker 3: you do, and people don't realize. I mean, people are sober, 508 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:58,159 Speaker 3: realizing people who have family and friends who are sober. 509 00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:01,320 Speaker 3: But I think unless you really know the amount of 510 00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:02,840 Speaker 3: work that I see you do, and. 511 00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:03,680 Speaker 2: I'm talking about every day. 512 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:09,200 Speaker 3: Every day you're either reading, working with, you know, people 513 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:12,720 Speaker 3: that your sponsor, You're on Zoom meetings, you're you know, 514 00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 3: you're going to meetings obviously pre COVID. So I just 515 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:18,480 Speaker 3: need to give you the acknowledgment that I am very, 516 00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:21,720 Speaker 3: very proud of your sobriety and the person that you've 517 00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:23,440 Speaker 3: become through your sobriety. 518 00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:25,159 Speaker 2: So I always want you to know that thank you. 519 00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:31,480 Speaker 3: The question I have is for somebody who doesn't know 520 00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:37,640 Speaker 3: sobriety in that respect, does it get easier? Like from 521 00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 3: day one to today? Was you know, because I never 522 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:42,560 Speaker 3: asked you that, like six months in where you like 523 00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:45,679 Speaker 3: I got this, or a year in where you like 524 00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:47,560 Speaker 3: or is it just always a working problem. 525 00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:48,320 Speaker 2: I'm curious the. 526 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:51,960 Speaker 3: Evolution from where you started to where you are today. 527 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:55,040 Speaker 3: How to it change or how does it I don't. 528 00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:57,120 Speaker 4: Think that it ever gets easier. 529 00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:01,080 Speaker 1: They're like, I'm a conqueror, you know, Like I conquered drinking. 530 00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:04,960 Speaker 1: I was the fucking best at it. The daunting thing 531 00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:09,560 Speaker 1: about sobriety is that it can never be conquered. Whether 532 00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:13,639 Speaker 1: you have sixty days of sobriety or sixty years of sobriety, 533 00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:16,560 Speaker 1: there's one thing that could send you back to square one. 534 00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:20,880 Speaker 4: You have to work every single day, and it. 535 00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:26,359 Speaker 1: Can be the disease can never be beat. So for me, 536 00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:29,080 Speaker 1: I wouldn't say that it gets easier for me. It 537 00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:32,200 Speaker 1: just it's my routine. And I would be lying if 538 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:37,680 Speaker 1: I said there haven't been times where I've been fixated 539 00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:41,040 Speaker 1: on a bottle of wine. The difference now is that 540 00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:44,920 Speaker 1: I think before I do. I know that I've worked 541 00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:47,400 Speaker 1: extremely hard to get to this place, and I pick 542 00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 1: up the damn phone and I call my fucking sponsor. 543 00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:53,520 Speaker 3: If you're having a moment where you're saying, my thoughts 544 00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:56,040 Speaker 3: are going in the old place that I used to go, 545 00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:58,560 Speaker 3: So now you're saying, Okay, I have the tools, I 546 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:02,600 Speaker 3: know what to do, and I've I've learned that what 547 00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:04,480 Speaker 3: I need to do if I get to that point 548 00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:07,440 Speaker 3: where I'm starting to think the wrong thoughts basically. 549 00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:08,800 Speaker 2: Right, But that's that's a huge job. 550 00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:12,800 Speaker 3: But so clearly in the first thirty or sixty days, 551 00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:14,680 Speaker 3: I mean, I was there obviously and I know how 552 00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:18,119 Speaker 3: hard you've worked, but I mean, you know, it seems 553 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:20,680 Speaker 3: and again this is just I'm with you every day. 554 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:24,840 Speaker 2: It seems that you talk about it a lot less 555 00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:26,439 Speaker 2: meaning when this is what I remember. 556 00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:30,240 Speaker 3: The first thirty, first ninety days, you talked about everything 557 00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:30,920 Speaker 3: we did. 558 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:32,320 Speaker 2: It was about you know. 559 00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:36,480 Speaker 1: Because at that point in time, my identity was I'm sober. 560 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:39,320 Speaker 4: That consumed one hundred percent of my identity. 561 00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:42,720 Speaker 1: Whereas to learn the new right, Whereas now it's like 562 00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:47,480 Speaker 1: I'm laala, I come from Utah, I do this and oh, 563 00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:48,200 Speaker 1: by the way. 564 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:48,560 Speaker 2: I don't. 565 00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:50,960 Speaker 4: I don't dream right. Not only do I not, but 566 00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:52,120 Speaker 4: I'm sober. 567 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:52,720 Speaker 2: Right. 568 00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:55,119 Speaker 1: So a lot of people have like said to me, 569 00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:57,119 Speaker 1: not a lot of people, but there have been a 570 00:25:57,119 --> 00:26:01,119 Speaker 1: few people that have written comments say, if you smoking dope, 571 00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:02,840 Speaker 1: does it mean you sober? And I want to make 572 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:05,439 Speaker 1: it very clear, I don't smoke weed anymore. 573 00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:08,520 Speaker 4: I've never done a drug in my life, and I 574 00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:11,040 Speaker 4: don't drink. And there is nothing that I put in 575 00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:12,800 Speaker 4: my body that changes. 576 00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:14,440 Speaker 2: Your mental stay, your mental stack. 577 00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:17,959 Speaker 1: My reality is always this is just a clear picture. 578 00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:22,080 Speaker 3: And I will say I've been there every day with you, 579 00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:26,520 Speaker 3: and you are a one year and nine months, no weed, 580 00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:31,720 Speaker 3: no drink, no anything. And even when it gets really 581 00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:34,280 Speaker 3: rough for you or you've had some rough days where 582 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:37,159 Speaker 3: challenging days like we all have, whether it be in 583 00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:40,480 Speaker 3: the relationship, or it be at home with your own family, 584 00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:44,000 Speaker 3: or be with work. I have seen you have challenging days. 585 00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:46,399 Speaker 3: I've been part of those challenging days, and at the 586 00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:49,679 Speaker 3: end of the day, you've always your sobriety is. 587 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:51,600 Speaker 2: Always number one. I mean in terms of so it's 588 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:52,280 Speaker 2: very impressive. 589 00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:56,840 Speaker 1: My sobriety and God are my number one priorities. 590 00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:59,120 Speaker 4: They come before you, they come before my mind. 591 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:02,400 Speaker 2: You just said your priority is God. I'm here. 592 00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:06,720 Speaker 4: Some sacrilegious ship head. 593 00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:10,440 Speaker 2: He's going to smite you. But what I mean is no, 594 00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:12,080 Speaker 2: I understand it's number one. 595 00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:15,600 Speaker 1: It's number one because without God and without not sober 596 00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:20,280 Speaker 1: and without sobriety, I am not useful or anyone else 597 00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:22,960 Speaker 1: in my life. So those two things have to go 598 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,720 Speaker 1: hand in hand. 599 00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:25,600 Speaker 2: And I respect that. 600 00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:27,880 Speaker 3: And I by the way, there's been many days where 601 00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:31,280 Speaker 3: you said to me, you know, either a you need 602 00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:33,879 Speaker 3: like earlier on in the process, and it's only a year, 603 00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,360 Speaker 3: nine months, and I know, to me, that's a tremendous 604 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:38,080 Speaker 3: amount of time. But I know in the program, you 605 00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:40,000 Speaker 3: guys don't look you know, you're not looking at that way. 606 00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:41,840 Speaker 3: You always tell me you're like one day at a time. 607 00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:42,160 Speaker 2: You don't. 608 00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:45,040 Speaker 4: But we don't say I'm almost two your sober. We 609 00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:48,400 Speaker 4: say I am a year, nine months, six days sober. 610 00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:52,159 Speaker 2: Right, and and not a day more. But but it 611 00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:53,000 Speaker 2: is impressive. 612 00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:55,920 Speaker 3: But because I do remember earlier on some things where 613 00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:57,560 Speaker 3: like we would be at an event or something and 614 00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:01,680 Speaker 3: you would say, okay, it's a twelve thirty, that's enough 615 00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:03,479 Speaker 3: for me, time to go home, Like you you kind 616 00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:06,560 Speaker 3: of knew today, I feel like you're you just want 617 00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:08,560 Speaker 3: to go home because you can't stand the event or 618 00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:09,200 Speaker 3: at your bored. 619 00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:12,240 Speaker 1: What the thing is about that is like I'll be 620 00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:15,239 Speaker 1: at an event and people will be drinking and like 621 00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:17,280 Speaker 1: coming up to me and they'll lean more alcohol, and 622 00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:19,920 Speaker 1: I'm looking around and I'm like, I'm seeing what's happening, 623 00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:21,520 Speaker 1: and like y'all have peaked like that. 624 00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:25,440 Speaker 4: It's not I'm seeing it. It ain't that fun, Like. 625 00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:28,480 Speaker 3: I'm watching it and the hangovers are and the hangovers 626 00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:28,959 Speaker 3: are horrible. 627 00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:30,200 Speaker 4: It's time for me to go home. 628 00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:34,119 Speaker 1: And people ask me how I stay sober, and I 629 00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:35,439 Speaker 1: have to attribute that. 630 00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:38,480 Speaker 4: I know that the program I'm in is anonymous. 631 00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 1: And I would never tell anybody who I see in 632 00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:45,440 Speaker 1: my program. But for me, the program is not just 633 00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:48,600 Speaker 1: about not picking up a drink, and I've learned this sadly. 634 00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:52,480 Speaker 1: It took me up until recently to realize me not 635 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:55,600 Speaker 1: picking up a drink is not the full picture. 636 00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:58,160 Speaker 4: It's about becoming. 637 00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:01,840 Speaker 1: A better human being because my behavior, on many occasions, 638 00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:06,320 Speaker 1: I may not be intoxicated, but my behavior is drunk. 639 00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:10,000 Speaker 1: So that's a big reason why I call my sponsor 640 00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:12,240 Speaker 1: and I said, I need to go back to Step whatever, 641 00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:14,960 Speaker 1: because I don't want to be this version of myself 642 00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:19,040 Speaker 1: where like someone says the wrong thing and I'm fucking 643 00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:22,880 Speaker 1: popping off at them, acting like, you know, like my 644 00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:27,880 Speaker 1: mouth is drunk, my mind is still drunk, and the 645 00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:29,800 Speaker 1: program is about breaking those habits. 646 00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:33,200 Speaker 3: Well, I am as you know, you're a biggest fan 647 00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:36,720 Speaker 3: when it comes to the Well, I'm your biggest fan 648 00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:39,320 Speaker 3: period because I love you and you're my best friend. 649 00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:41,640 Speaker 3: But I'm also a biggest fan because I can't believe 650 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:44,240 Speaker 3: the commitment that you made a year and nine months ago, 651 00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:48,480 Speaker 3: six days and how you have honored that for yourself. 652 00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:51,800 Speaker 3: And nobody told you to go get sober. Nobody said, Lalla, 653 00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:54,880 Speaker 3: this is it. Nobody threatened you to do that. You 654 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:57,080 Speaker 3: just woke up and you said, this is the only 655 00:29:57,160 --> 00:29:59,280 Speaker 3: choice I have. And I remember you came to the 656 00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 3: office and told me that, and then you went straight 657 00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:02,960 Speaker 3: to start the program. 658 00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:03,760 Speaker 2: And here we are. 659 00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:06,840 Speaker 3: So I commend you and I give you mad love 660 00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:08,480 Speaker 3: in that respect, and I always want I tell you 661 00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:09,360 Speaker 3: every day how proud I. 662 00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:09,760 Speaker 2: Am of you. 663 00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:10,680 Speaker 4: Well, thank you. 664 00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:15,320 Speaker 1: And on a lighter note, yes, note, I want to 665 00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:19,520 Speaker 1: read some voicemails. Again, my advice to anybody who is 666 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:22,320 Speaker 1: trying to get sober, if you're trying to lead the 667 00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:25,360 Speaker 1: type of life or be on the path that I 668 00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:29,600 Speaker 1: am on, if the program is intimidating to you, I 669 00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:32,840 Speaker 1: would recommend just going and picking up the big book 670 00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:36,760 Speaker 1: and just highlighting and making notes of things that resonate 671 00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:39,840 Speaker 1: with you and go from there. I know it can 672 00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:43,400 Speaker 1: be very overwhelming, but that is my piece of advice. 673 00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:47,600 Speaker 1: All right, let's go to some voice mails to lighten 674 00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:49,320 Speaker 1: this friggin mood. 675 00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:54,760 Speaker 6: Hi, Lala and Randall, this is Chelsea calling from southern California. 676 00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:57,520 Speaker 6: I just want to say, I absolutely love your podcast. 677 00:30:57,600 --> 00:31:01,360 Speaker 6: I literally look forward to it every single Wenesday. Hey, 678 00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:04,360 Speaker 6: it gets me through work and definitely through these crazy times. 679 00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:07,840 Speaker 6: One question, This is going to be so basic, but 680 00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:11,479 Speaker 6: I don't care on basic af and I really do 681 00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:15,200 Speaker 6: want to know what are some of your guys's similarities, 682 00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:17,840 Speaker 6: Like what are some things that you and Rand blah blah, 683 00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:21,000 Speaker 6: you and Rand like just you have in common, Like 684 00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:24,080 Speaker 6: some things that you're just like obsess over together and 685 00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:26,960 Speaker 6: you love it. And then also counter question like what 686 00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:30,600 Speaker 6: are your differences like what is something that you absolutely 687 00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:33,360 Speaker 6: love to do that Rand can't stand and vice versa. 688 00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:35,320 Speaker 6: I want to know about both of you. Thank you 689 00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:38,560 Speaker 6: guys so much for putting out such amazing content or content. 690 00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:39,520 Speaker 2: I love you guys. 691 00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:41,760 Speaker 4: Okay, bis well, this one is hard. 692 00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:46,440 Speaker 2: Not really what this one's good? I like this question. 693 00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:51,600 Speaker 3: So the things that opposite in terms of an activity, okay, 694 00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:55,520 Speaker 3: is I'm obsessed with poker and you cannot stand it. 695 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:56,280 Speaker 4: No, I hate it. 696 00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:59,200 Speaker 3: I think it's stupid, right, but it's actually really high 697 00:31:59,280 --> 00:31:59,920 Speaker 3: level mental game. 698 00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:03,200 Speaker 2: But okay, we know that, and you've made that clear 699 00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:03,880 Speaker 2: everywhere we go. 700 00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:06,400 Speaker 3: But so that's one thing that we have a different song, 701 00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:08,960 Speaker 3: But she does support me, and she does come out 702 00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:12,200 Speaker 3: and she'll do commentary and make an appearance and promote 703 00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:14,440 Speaker 3: the game for me, and it's really nice and sweet. 704 00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,240 Speaker 2: So that's something that I feel like very different. 705 00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:21,239 Speaker 3: But but and on the flip side of that is 706 00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:25,760 Speaker 3: she obsesses over Real Housewives of Every City and watches 707 00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:30,000 Speaker 3: it on rerun for hours at a time and commandeers 708 00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:33,320 Speaker 3: the TV. And so that is something I have zero 709 00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:36,680 Speaker 3: interest in and have to tolerate. So we both have 710 00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:39,080 Speaker 3: those things. But what do we have in common? I mean, 711 00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:40,680 Speaker 3: I think we have everything in common. I mean, we're 712 00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:45,520 Speaker 3: very different people, but we have obviously the same loves 713 00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:48,840 Speaker 3: and passions. I mean, we both love each other and 714 00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:50,320 Speaker 3: that's something that we put a lot of time in. 715 00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:55,400 Speaker 3: We both care about family, and she, you know, cares 716 00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:58,320 Speaker 3: very much about you know, she's a family person. 717 00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:00,000 Speaker 2: She's very close with her mom and her. 718 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:03,520 Speaker 3: Brother, and she loves my children, you know, And and 719 00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:05,840 Speaker 3: and so I think family is very important. 720 00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:07,880 Speaker 2: Her family is very important to me, and we work 721 00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:08,479 Speaker 2: hard at that. 722 00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:10,560 Speaker 3: And then and then the other thing I would say 723 00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:14,640 Speaker 3: that we're very similar in terms of activities is we're 724 00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:17,760 Speaker 3: equally obsessed with pickleball, but that's on an athletic. 725 00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:21,000 Speaker 2: I wouldn't call my ability athletic very athletic. 726 00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:23,600 Speaker 1: When you do it, you're really good, Okay, serve as 727 00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:24,760 Speaker 1: like that of a professional. 728 00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:25,920 Speaker 4: Ben jonce told me that. 729 00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:30,560 Speaker 3: Okay, so probably aside from that, not that athletic. But 730 00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:32,760 Speaker 3: but the thing is is that I think that. 731 00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:35,120 Speaker 1: Her and I we're both goers, like we like to 732 00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:36,760 Speaker 1: travel and we like adventures. 733 00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:40,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, we like to That's a good one, you tell you, yeah, 734 00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:42,120 Speaker 3: because I think that's from your perspectives. 735 00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:43,640 Speaker 1: Where you can sit there and be like, hey, I 736 00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:47,760 Speaker 1: was thinking we're going to just like r V exactly. 737 00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:50,600 Speaker 3: And at the same time, I know, but but I think, yeah, 738 00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:53,280 Speaker 3: I think we both love to travel, we both love adventure. 739 00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:56,160 Speaker 3: I think we're not afraid of the unknown, and even 740 00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:57,880 Speaker 3: if we are, we'll just that she. 741 00:33:57,920 --> 00:33:59,920 Speaker 1: Said what we both obsess over and I think we're 742 00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:03,000 Speaker 1: pretty obsessed with each other, which is a good thing. 743 00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:05,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, what did you just say? 744 00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:06,600 Speaker 4: You're obsessed with me? 745 00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:08,960 Speaker 2: You live for me? 746 00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:11,080 Speaker 4: Okay, I agree, I just said that. 747 00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:13,719 Speaker 3: Okay, you're the one that's Is this another petty thing 748 00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:14,920 Speaker 3: where you're gonna archive me? 749 00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:15,960 Speaker 2: I'm just curious. 750 00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:16,920 Speaker 4: I don't know. 751 00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:18,560 Speaker 1: Maybe don't funk around and then you want have to 752 00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:19,840 Speaker 1: find out next question. 753 00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:21,560 Speaker 4: Thanks voicemail. 754 00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:25,200 Speaker 7: Hey La Law and Randal. I just want to say 755 00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:29,319 Speaker 7: that you guys truly, truly crack me up, whether I'm 756 00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:33,920 Speaker 7: driving cleaning the house, I seriously laugh out loud listening 757 00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:34,680 Speaker 7: to you guys. 758 00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:35,920 Speaker 6: I also just had a. 759 00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:40,759 Speaker 7: Question for you guys. I am afraid of flying, and 760 00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:42,800 Speaker 7: I just wanted to know if you guys had any 761 00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:47,680 Speaker 7: tips on I truly want to travel and go to 762 00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,960 Speaker 7: different places. So what is your advice on that? Love 763 00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:53,200 Speaker 7: you guys, shout out from Ohio. 764 00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:53,839 Speaker 2: That's a good question. 765 00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:54,880 Speaker 4: This is a good one for you. 766 00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:57,319 Speaker 2: Yeah. So, so I am. 767 00:34:57,520 --> 00:35:01,480 Speaker 3: The people don't believe this because I travel more than 768 00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:04,319 Speaker 3: most people travel, you know, ever, and they should never 769 00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:06,759 Speaker 3: travel as much as I've had to travel. But so 770 00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:10,680 Speaker 3: I have the biggest fear of flying, and through that fear, 771 00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:14,840 Speaker 3: I have an obsession for aviation, So I know every 772 00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:19,279 Speaker 3: I mean, I study airplane disasters and accidents and all 773 00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:23,400 Speaker 3: this stuff. And I've made friends with many many pilots 774 00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:26,160 Speaker 3: over the years. And so here's what I'll say. I 775 00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:28,520 Speaker 3: helped two of my friends overcome their fear of flying. 776 00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:31,080 Speaker 3: Two of my friends my friend Craig Gestelle, who's an 777 00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:34,480 Speaker 3: agent William Morris. I helped him. He had not flown, 778 00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:37,360 Speaker 3: and I convinced and got in the fly on a 779 00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:39,959 Speaker 3: private plane with me to overcome his fear. 780 00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:43,200 Speaker 2: And here's what I'll say. I am the worst flyer, but. 781 00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:46,120 Speaker 3: Because I'm so educated, I'm able to fly as much 782 00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:48,319 Speaker 3: as I do. So all I'm going to say is this, 783 00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:53,160 Speaker 3: And pilots tell me this. The air when it starts 784 00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:55,759 Speaker 3: to get turbulent, you just got to think of it 785 00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:58,640 Speaker 3: as like waves in the ocean or bumps on the road. 786 00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:02,719 Speaker 3: The plane is not going to crash, you know, through turbulence. 787 00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:06,040 Speaker 3: I mean, it's just it's the chances are, you know, 788 00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:09,040 Speaker 3: very very point zero zeros are a one percent. 789 00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:11,120 Speaker 4: Don't you have a higher chance of dying in a 790 00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:11,560 Speaker 4: car per. 791 00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:14,400 Speaker 3: Yes, you do have a higher chance, they say in 792 00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:17,280 Speaker 3: a car dying in a car crash than you would 793 00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:21,759 Speaker 3: in an airplane. Here's what I'll say, do not let 794 00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:24,560 Speaker 3: life go by because of your fear. 795 00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:26,760 Speaker 2: You know they have fear of flying. 796 00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:29,560 Speaker 3: Courses that you can do online, I would definitely suggest 797 00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:30,040 Speaker 3: doing it. 798 00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:31,160 Speaker 2: It is unbelievable. 799 00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:35,000 Speaker 3: They really explain to you the mechanics of airplanes so 800 00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:37,719 Speaker 3: that you understand how well they're built. They explain to 801 00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:41,359 Speaker 3: you weather and turbulence and heat and winds, just so 802 00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:43,319 Speaker 3: that you don't get nerves when you fly. And I 803 00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:45,439 Speaker 3: just want to say other thing, fear of flying. They're 804 00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:48,040 Speaker 3: the best courses in the world. And then go with 805 00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:50,400 Speaker 3: one of your best friends, somebody you trust. And I'm 806 00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:53,040 Speaker 3: telling you this, somebody you trust, one of your best friends. 807 00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:57,839 Speaker 2: And here's what I recommend. Go on a thirty minute flight. 808 00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:01,400 Speaker 3: Take a thirty minute flight from once to another small 809 00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,360 Speaker 3: city so that you know you're just going to go 810 00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:04,440 Speaker 3: up and write down. 811 00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:06,280 Speaker 2: Basically, and do that to start. 812 00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:08,080 Speaker 3: Then try an hour flight then you know what I mean, 813 00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:11,000 Speaker 3: and work your way to know and get that comfort 814 00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:14,279 Speaker 3: if you're that because I understand because I am very 815 00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:17,200 Speaker 3: scared of flying. But you know, it is a beautiful 816 00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:20,160 Speaker 3: thing and an immagical thing. You just have to, you know, 817 00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:21,160 Speaker 3: work yourself through it. 818 00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:24,160 Speaker 1: Okay, Randall is very passionate about I know. 819 00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:25,480 Speaker 4: I can I tell you. 820 00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:28,440 Speaker 1: I saw I heard that voicemail and I was like, oh, 821 00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:30,920 Speaker 1: Randal's going to go crazy over there, and I. 822 00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:32,359 Speaker 2: Can do a whole episode. You know what we're going 823 00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:33,680 Speaker 2: to do I just came with a great idea. 824 00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:35,680 Speaker 3: I know LS gonna be like, oh my god, another 825 00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:37,239 Speaker 3: idea for another episode. 826 00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:40,160 Speaker 2: We are going to do a fear of flying episode. 827 00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:44,080 Speaker 3: Now, I'm going to bring our pilot, Okay, Eddie and 828 00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:44,720 Speaker 3: his wife. 829 00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:45,440 Speaker 4: I love that. 830 00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:45,719 Speaker 2: Right. 831 00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:48,040 Speaker 3: We're going to have them for one segment talk about 832 00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:51,000 Speaker 3: talk about their experience at flying. And we're also going 833 00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:57,200 Speaker 3: to bring on an expert aviation specialist in who specializes 834 00:37:57,360 --> 00:37:59,279 Speaker 3: in the fear of flying. Because you know what, I 835 00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:01,399 Speaker 3: think this is great for everybody, no matter how much 836 00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:02,279 Speaker 3: you fly or don't fly. 837 00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:03,640 Speaker 2: It's interesting. 838 00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:06,880 Speaker 1: That's actually a really great idea we're doing that. 839 00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:08,279 Speaker 4: No, I really love it. 840 00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:08,720 Speaker 2: Okay. 841 00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:10,560 Speaker 1: And by the way, if you do have a fear 842 00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:13,359 Speaker 1: of flying, also just like pack some zequil in your 843 00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:15,560 Speaker 1: bag and take that before you get on the plane. 844 00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:17,360 Speaker 4: It's alcohol free. 845 00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:19,680 Speaker 1: Oh really, it's like a nat I don't want to 846 00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:21,759 Speaker 1: see natural, but it's a sleep aid. I know this 847 00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:25,959 Speaker 1: because I just do take some zquil and knock yourself out. 848 00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:27,080 Speaker 4: That's what I'll say. 849 00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:28,719 Speaker 2: Okay, I disagree with that. 850 00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:31,160 Speaker 4: I think I have a fear of flying. 851 00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:34,520 Speaker 3: No, yeah, but for somebody like me, it's like I 852 00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:36,600 Speaker 3: want to know everything that's going on on the plane. 853 00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:38,080 Speaker 2: Right. 854 00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:40,919 Speaker 3: Yes, there's no chance I'm going to sleep. By the way, 855 00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:42,839 Speaker 3: I'm the kind of guy that when I fly from 856 00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:45,319 Speaker 3: LA to London, which is a ten hour flight through 857 00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:47,960 Speaker 3: the middle of the night, I'm generally up ninety percent 858 00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:48,480 Speaker 3: of the flight. 859 00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:51,880 Speaker 2: So listen. But I agree with LAWA. 860 00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:53,520 Speaker 3: If you're not afraid of things, but if you are, 861 00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:56,160 Speaker 3: have the fear. It is a real fear. You're suspended 862 00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:59,040 Speaker 3: at thirty eight thousand and forty three thousand feet and 863 00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:01,839 Speaker 3: it's scary if it's something that you hear. 864 00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:04,640 Speaker 2: So any we're dedicating the next next episode to you. 865 00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:09,560 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Randall's two passions fear of flying and poker. 866 00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:13,320 Speaker 1: All right, all right, you guys, this was an awesome podcast. 867 00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:15,480 Speaker 1: Thank you for tuning in to another episode of Give 868 00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:17,600 Speaker 1: Them Well Up with Randall and we will catch you 869 00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:25,919 Speaker 1: next week.