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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio podcast.

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Speaker 2: All Right, so super excited about this guest today. Do

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Speaker 2: you know the last time I think I saw you

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Speaker 2: was on the airport.

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Speaker 1: Yes, BNA afterwards and I think I just saw you

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Speaker 1: on my flight. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yes.

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Speaker 2: It was one of those things where it's like this

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Speaker 2: has happened before. It actually happened with Riley Green, like

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Speaker 2: about a month ago. He was on our plane to

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Speaker 2: LA but I'm so out of that world that I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I don't think people know who I am. So it's

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Speaker 2: like I didn't say anything to him. And then Laney

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Speaker 2: was also on the flight. But then I remember seeing.

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Speaker 1: You Lane and Riley plan l A.

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Speaker 3: Okays, She's like, is there any dirt?

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Speaker 4: Ear?

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Speaker 3: This is crazy?

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Speaker 2: But it was one of those where I was like,

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Speaker 2: I feel like we made out of contact.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, ash, she wonder who I am. I was like,

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, wait. I was like,

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Speaker 1: that's definitely you, right, I love it. And I was like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: that was definitely you.

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Speaker 2: Because like you're just to me, you just seem like

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Speaker 2: a girl who's just just.

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Speaker 3: Cool, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Like you I appreciate it.

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Speaker 3: You work really hard.

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Speaker 2: I followed you on socials and I just like your

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Speaker 2: overall presence too.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 3: And I witnessed it.

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Speaker 2: I kind of watched how you were to your band

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Speaker 2: people and the person that you were with, and that

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Speaker 2: has I've seen other people in those situations and you

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Speaker 2: were so lovely and kind to them.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 4: My band is like absolutely my family on the road,

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Speaker 4: so yeah, that's good.

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Speaker 1: I love that. We also have too many inside jokes

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Speaker 1: to count, so I.

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Speaker 4: Feel like in the airport, we're always trying to like

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Speaker 4: not say some messed up stuff like around other people,

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Speaker 4: so we try to keep it like PG and be normal.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, it can be hard living on the bus

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Speaker 2: with dudes, though.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean honestly not really though.

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Speaker 4: I feel like growing up, I always had really close

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Speaker 4: guy friends that I was always just around and hanging

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Speaker 4: out with, so it never really it never really struck

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Speaker 4: me as weird, Like even now my day to day.

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Speaker 4: Emily was always on the road with us, and that

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Speaker 4: was like the main girl on the road with us

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Speaker 4: all the time, and now it's me and the guys

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Speaker 4: because she came off the road, and it just doesn't

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Speaker 4: feel weird. I think, I mean, you get it obviously

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Speaker 4: growing up with music and being on the road too,

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Speaker 4: Like they just become your family and they're all married

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Speaker 4: and like you singing around girls all the time, and

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Speaker 4: so it's just kind of like the vibe.

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Speaker 3: You know the vibe. And you're out with three guys

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Speaker 3: right now on tour. Is that correct?

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Speaker 1: Wait?

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Speaker 3: Yes, Lee Brice, Dustin Lynch, yeah, Learbys.

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Speaker 1: And Parker McCollum both.

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Speaker 4: We start tour in the next couple of months, and

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Speaker 4: then Dustin and I are doing some festivals together, which

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Speaker 4: will be fun.

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Speaker 3: I freaking love it all of those times, they're amazing.

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Speaker 4: We just got off tour with Kane Brown a little

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Speaker 4: bit ago, and then Jordan Davis before that.

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Speaker 3: You've had all the good ones, the great ones. I

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Speaker 3: don't know if there's any bad dudes in country, but

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Speaker 3: like you've really you have like a very this is

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Speaker 3: a solid roster for you.

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Speaker 4: Like Brian was before that. Like there, it's just we've

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Speaker 4: been out with really great people. But I also think

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Speaker 4: in country you really can't get to a place of

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Speaker 4: success without being a good person. So I think that

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Speaker 4: the majority of people that are successful where they're at

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Speaker 4: it's because they are good people.

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Speaker 3: You know, let's talk about your roster. Go ros Oh boy,

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Speaker 3: we don't care about your CMT or am. Want to

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Speaker 3: know your body count? That's the new term.

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Speaker 1: No, I've hundred I know you talked about this.

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Speaker 3: On the UVS. I've learned, like what all that's like?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 3: Apparently body count means now people have sex with us.

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Speaker 1: But you didn't know that.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm waiting, are you studying?

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Speaker 2: Wait, you guys don't know the body count meant back

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Speaker 2: in the day, be like how many people did you

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Speaker 2: have sex?

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Speaker 3: What's your number?

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Speaker 4: You asked their body count? That's like a that's like

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Speaker 4: a that's like been around for a long time though.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well all right, I'm like a long time.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, like maybe, I mean I've known about

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Speaker 4: that since like I started having.

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Speaker 3: Text So I'm like, and gentlemen, she's not a virgin.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, here we go, okay, so.

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Speaker 3: Have Okay, it ain't your it ain't your place?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Yeah whatever?

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Speaker 1: Yes, yep?

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Speaker 2: Uh is there? Who have you talked about that guy?

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Speaker 2: I know you've talked about like the story the story

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Speaker 2: of it.

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Speaker 3: I followed it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah too, Is this the same guy from a because

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Speaker 2: something else just happened on your story a minute ago.

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Speaker 3: Two there was a breakup.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there was a breakup. I have not been to

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Speaker 1: you this recent guy. Absolutely not.

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Speaker 4: He's wonderful and incredible, and do we know him? Maybe

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Speaker 4: he's not an artist or anything.

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Speaker 3: Have you ever dated an artist?

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Speaker 2: I have?

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Speaker 1: Uh, that's what your place is about.

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Speaker 3: Oh do we know that person?

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Speaker 4: We know that probably definitely, he definitely knows. We even'n

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Speaker 4: talked about it.

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Speaker 1: But yeah he's married now.

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Speaker 3: Oh good hap be for him? Uh huh m hm, Okay,

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Speaker 3: I want to ask a question. I know. I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 3: It is also hard to because I know that balance

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Speaker 3: also you don't even want to like give lighter energy

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Speaker 3: to the pe.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, because he cheated on me and.

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Speaker 3: I had a feeling when you gets married Now, I

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Speaker 3: was like, yeah, that's what you're saying.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, you know, by all means, there was definitely

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Speaker 3: How'd you catch him? Which I about cheating a lot

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Speaker 3: on this podcast.

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Speaker 1: Oh have you guys been cheated on too?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 3: My ex husband?

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Speaker 1: Oh god, I like that act a lot?

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Speaker 3: Oh he was, yeah, like how many times?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Ashly?

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Speaker 1: Actually this podcast is about the same the same people

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Speaker 1: or was it different?

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Speaker 3: Different loads?

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Speaker 1: My god, dude.

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Speaker 3: There's a couple of books available if you're interested in that.

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Speaker 2: So I'm just hearing a place to start where yeah,

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Speaker 2: where you like, how did you find out? And then

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Speaker 2: how did you feel when it happen, because a lot

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Speaker 2: of times I'm like, oh, what did I do? That

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Speaker 4: Honestly, So when I first started dating him, this was

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Speaker 4: the guy that you were closest about. When I firstarted

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Speaker 1: And I think we all do that just naturally.

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Speaker 4: And I've always been somebody in relationships where I feel

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Speaker 4: well I see the best the best in them. I

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Speaker 4: like about a year, okay, And I knew his ex

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Speaker 3: Had warned me about him, but I was just warnings.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I was just like, you know, I I

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Speaker 1: just it's different. It's different. It's different. You know, you're

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Speaker 1: And then there was another girl who was.

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Speaker 4: and he told me, Hey, I think that this girl

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Speaker 4: and yeah, it was just this crazy thing and I

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Speaker 1: Will, they'll say some things and they'll do some things.

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Speaker 2: Boys usually And where where was like what was it

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Speaker 3: Like where did you go to first? Was it.

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Speaker 2: Known?

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Speaker 1: Because I did know?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, like I like I knew that that

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Speaker 4: was what was going to happen. Like he that's just

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Speaker 4: what he did before. But I hope for his sake

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Speaker 4: that he has you know, grown up. He is married now,

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Speaker 4: and so I'm just.

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Speaker 2: Like, you know, how many years ago as that so

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Speaker 2: we broke up since they got married, since.

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Speaker 3: You guys broke up?

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Speaker 4: Gosh, when did your place come up? Was that twenty

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Speaker 4: twenty three three? I think probably around that time frame,

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Speaker 4: like right before that? So yeah, I mean we haven't

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Speaker 4: spoken since we broke up. He obviously knows the songs

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Speaker 4: about him and honestly, thank you for sucking because.

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Speaker 1: The song.

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Speaker 3: Number one song.

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Speaker 2: And but yeah, That's what I love about country music, though,

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Speaker 2: is because it's real. It's it's real, it's authentic. It's

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Speaker 2: even the you know, the the songs about the trucks

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Speaker 2: and all, it's it's all.

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Speaker 3: It's all very real.

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Speaker 4: Thing too, is when I when I was writing the

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Speaker 4: song and putting it out to your point, like wasting

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Speaker 4: There were like immediate red flag signs that I should

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know I wasn't honest with myself. I

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Speaker 4: And I guess coming from a place where you have

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Speaker 4: So I think for me, it's like do I get why? No,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, That's what I always wish I could. It was

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Speaker 1: I just I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Do you think it's because of your fixing nature that

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Speaker 3: Is that that is?

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Speaker 2: Or is it something from childhood Ashley? That's like this

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Speaker 3: I think what is little Ashley saying? I love it? Ashley,

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Speaker 3: She's a wise one. She made you so.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean yeah, I think a lot of it

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Speaker 1: I found my power in it.

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Speaker 4: Like I was like, all right, well they need me

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Speaker 1: It's like when things are great and healthy and wonderful,

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Speaker 2: Hello?

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Speaker 4: Like I'm a Gemini Enneagram seven, So I feel like

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Speaker 4: So I think when when somebody's needing help, I just

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Speaker 4: which I think is just also like a lot of women,

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Speaker 4: that's what we do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it is what we do best. I believe it's.

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Speaker 1: The nature of it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so tell me what the dream like. I just

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Speaker 3: I am just really proud of you.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: I feel like you write really powerful things. Is is

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Speaker 3: writing in our artistry? Which is your favorite? Is my

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Speaker 3: I'd probably be back in a second with some more.

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Speaker 3: I feel like it's get real because I do. I

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Speaker 1: Thank you. I love writing. I've always mean I can

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Speaker 3: But I think where are you from?

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Speaker 1: It's always a hard question because I've moved around a

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Speaker 3: Where were you born?

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Speaker 4: I was born in Wisconsin, okay, moved to California, then Florida,

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Speaker 3: Okay, we kind of But you came here to write first, yes,

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Speaker 4: Came here when I was thirteen with my sister. We

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Speaker 4: Well, we had two different names. First it was Jenny

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Speaker 4: from that to it's called the Lockett's Cute. It was

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Speaker 1: We loved the Lockett's like the movie so much. So, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: And then who's your favorite to write with? Right with?

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Speaker 3: Right now? Because you know, there's just there is some

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. I was like, wait what.

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Speaker 3: I love Alan writing. He has beautiful handwriting. He does

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Speaker 1: I love it right now. One of my all time

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Speaker 3: I love her.

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Speaker 4: She's just excellent, greatest friend and also just I feel

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Speaker 4: it's it's just like unique and raw and cool, like

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Speaker 1: And yeah, she's not superpowers. Yeah, she's very much just broad,

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Speaker 3: A different way to say things genius.

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Speaker 1: Yeah she's pointing.

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Speaker 4: And so I think when we'd get together, I always

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Speaker 3: So is little Ashley living her dream now? Or is

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Speaker 3: there a greater dream than this? Because I think anybody

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Speaker 3: succeeded in a certain way. Like we're talking about that

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Speaker 1: Yep.

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Speaker 3: And you're doing it, and you're doing it well, but

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Speaker 3: that when you're off the road or not on because

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Speaker 3: you're I'm really Brett Young, Joe Jonas, I know I'm

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Speaker 1: It's been crazy.

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Speaker 2: I think the last about Brantley Gilbert. We want to

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Speaker 3: This would be a great point to do. Forgot, it's

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Speaker 1: I don't know what happened with that.

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Speaker 3: By the way, we just weren't with the right people. Yep,

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Speaker 3: you know. She still says he's a wonderful human. He's wonderful.

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Speaker 3: He's like one of the nicest dudes. And you know

451
00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:14,320
Speaker 3: I was.

452
00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:17,440
Speaker 2: I was not in the best place, makes sense, And

453
00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:21,000
Speaker 2: he was meant for his beautiful wife, and I was

454
00:17:21,040 --> 00:17:22,639
Speaker 2: meant to be the life that I was living.

455
00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:24,320
Speaker 3: No, so I love it.

456
00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:26,199
Speaker 1: Well, that's so much. That's a very mature response.

457
00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:30,240
Speaker 2: She I'm ma, sure and re routing, Okay, but I

458
00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:32,280
Speaker 2: mean that though, like Joe, I know, she's wonderful.

459
00:17:32,359 --> 00:17:35,120
Speaker 3: Of course, I loved y'all song like He's incredible. Yeah,

460
00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:35,480
Speaker 3: so much.

461
00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:37,479
Speaker 2: I just feel like you're living so much of what

462
00:17:37,560 --> 00:17:39,240
Speaker 2: I would consider to be your dream if I was

463
00:17:39,280 --> 00:17:41,679
Speaker 2: looking in so I'm wondering where is this, Like, do

464
00:17:41,800 --> 00:17:43,879
Speaker 2: we have Taylor's swift momentum in our brains?

465
00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:44,400
Speaker 1: Of course?

466
00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:45,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I think that's always the goal. And

467
00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:46,920
Speaker 4: I think it's one of those things.

468
00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:47,359
Speaker 3: You know.

469
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Speaker 4: Honestly, the last couple of months, I've had a hard

470
00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:51,800
Speaker 4: time with this because I think when you're starting out

471
00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:54,320
Speaker 4: as an artist, the goal is to go play stadiums, right,

472
00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:55,280
Speaker 4: It's like that's like the goal.

473
00:17:55,280 --> 00:17:56,639
Speaker 1: Why not shoot for it? Why not go for it?

474
00:17:56,680 --> 00:17:58,760
Speaker 4: If you don't have that as your end goal, it's

475
00:17:58,840 --> 00:18:00,600
Speaker 4: kind of like, what's the point I even trying. I mean,

476
00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:02,520
Speaker 4: that's at least my mentality of it, like go for

477
00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:05,560
Speaker 4: go for the gold, and if you settle for silver,

478
00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:08,040
Speaker 4: then that's amazing still, you know, but I.

479
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Speaker 1: Think I mean turning twenty eight.

480
00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:11,159
Speaker 4: I turned twenty eight June twelfth, so I like just

481
00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:14,920
Speaker 4: turned twenty eight, and I was like, oh, I want

482
00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:16,359
Speaker 4: to like have kids someday and I want to do

483
00:18:16,400 --> 00:18:16,840
Speaker 4: all that stuff.

484
00:18:16,880 --> 00:18:19,320
Speaker 1: And I feel like you can't have stadium.

485
00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:21,000
Speaker 4: Level momentum and a matter of a couple of years,

486
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Speaker 4: Like and I want to have kids in my early

487
00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:23,760
Speaker 4: thirties is kind of my goal?

488
00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:25,280
Speaker 1: Like what am I? What's the plan here?

489
00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:30,040
Speaker 4: And so I think, you know, I'm such a one

490
00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:32,840
Speaker 4: track minded driven manifest it.

491
00:18:32,920 --> 00:18:34,000
Speaker 1: Do it get in there? Like work?

492
00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:36,399
Speaker 4: Like to your point, I really haven't stopped since like

493
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Speaker 4: twenty twenty.

494
00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:38,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I can tell, yeah, like I'm just I mean,

495
00:18:38,840 --> 00:18:40,600
Speaker 3: even if you just pull up your iTunes, you can

496
00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:41,639
Speaker 3: tell you haven't stopped.

497
00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:43,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just been NonStop.

498
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Speaker 4: And even like last year, my family went through a

499
00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:48,280
Speaker 4: lot of stuff with like health world and like my

500
00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:49,879
Speaker 4: dad had cancer for the fifth time, my mom had

501
00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:51,800
Speaker 4: a heart attack, my sister had that word issues, like

502
00:18:52,160 --> 00:18:54,120
Speaker 4: a lot, a lot, We lost both of my grandma's,

503
00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:55,639
Speaker 4: Like a lot happened in a year, and I still

504
00:18:56,080 --> 00:18:57,720
Speaker 4: was just like, go go go, go, go on their own

505
00:18:57,760 --> 00:18:58,879
Speaker 4: tour doing all this stuff.

506
00:18:58,960 --> 00:19:01,520
Speaker 3: Well, it's therapy in itself sometimes too to be busy.

507
00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:03,000
Speaker 1: And to keep your mind off of it, for sure, But.

508
00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:05,480
Speaker 3: Avoidance therapy, I don't know, TBD.

509
00:19:05,240 --> 00:19:06,000
Speaker 1: That's very avoidable.

510
00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:08,600
Speaker 3: I've been there. That's the only reason. Yeah, Big Machine

511
00:19:08,600 --> 00:19:11,520
Speaker 3: and I had a really like tumultuous relationship because it

512
00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:13,320
Speaker 3: was good for me because I could just they liked

513
00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:14,520
Speaker 3: me to work and I.

514
00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:14,920
Speaker 1: Like to work.

515
00:19:15,040 --> 00:19:17,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just gonna get busy and put my bland.

516
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Speaker 1: Did you so when did you kind of eventually stop

517
00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:20,600
Speaker 1: doing that.

518
00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:24,960
Speaker 3: When I had a baby down.

519
00:19:24,920 --> 00:19:26,639
Speaker 2: You have a different world. Well, let me and let

520
00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:30,200
Speaker 2: me just say this too. So when I was got

521
00:19:30,240 --> 00:19:32,840
Speaker 2: the boy was at the top of charts one ACM

522
00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:34,879
Speaker 2: new Female, Well all the same, you know, all the

523
00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:38,840
Speaker 2: stuff I had Jolie like literally on the bus, crib

524
00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:41,520
Speaker 2: on there everything. I had the moment where I was like,

525
00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:44,919
Speaker 2: I don't want it bad enough because I started as

526
00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:45,480
Speaker 2: an actress.

527
00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:47,520
Speaker 3: I fell into the music. It was amazing.

528
00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:49,200
Speaker 2: I loved it. I was so happy for it. You

529
00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:52,120
Speaker 2: have a different like, this is your life. You will

530
00:19:52,119 --> 00:19:54,800
Speaker 2: make it work, you know, just as Carrie Underwood did.

531
00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:57,480
Speaker 2: And yes, you might slow down, you might say no

532
00:19:57,640 --> 00:20:02,560
Speaker 2: to things, but you're going to honor yourself. And if

533
00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:04,240
Speaker 2: you can take your baby, yeah, you know on the

534
00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:06,560
Speaker 2: road too. It's the whole thing. But I just think

535
00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:09,120
Speaker 2: that when you want it, you can have it all.

536
00:20:09,200 --> 00:20:11,160
Speaker 2: I really do believe that. Like I'm a big believer.

537
00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:13,879
Speaker 2: I just remember looking at it going I don't want

538
00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:17,000
Speaker 2: this like this right, you know, I want to have moments,

539
00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:17,600
Speaker 2: but I.

540
00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:20,480
Speaker 4: Think it's hard to because to your point, I think

541
00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:22,639
Speaker 4: I look at people like for Asion, like Rayln killing it.

542
00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:24,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, she has a baby, she's killing it. There's

543
00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:27,240
Speaker 1: so many artists that there stud be there exactly like.

544
00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:30,000
Speaker 4: People that are killing it, I think, and I don't

545
00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:32,240
Speaker 4: know them well enough to know their mentality. I think

546
00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:35,360
Speaker 4: for me, I've just always been such a head down

547
00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:36,680
Speaker 4: go like what's my goal?

548
00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:38,000
Speaker 1: What am I doing? What's the plan here?

549
00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:39,919
Speaker 4: And I think that when I do have kids, I

550
00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:41,639
Speaker 4: want to be the kind of mom that puts them first.

551
00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:43,800
Speaker 2: Obviously, and you will, right, But then it's the reason

552
00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:45,560
Speaker 2: I had to say no to a few That shit

553
00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:47,720
Speaker 2: shows that perspective. But it's like if you look at

554
00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:49,480
Speaker 2: you know, I look at people like lindsay Olt they

555
00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:53,159
Speaker 2: she's so busy all the time. But it's like you

556
00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:55,399
Speaker 2: might miss out on things too in that you know,

557
00:20:55,440 --> 00:20:57,639
Speaker 2: and I think you can. I think you can do both.

558
00:20:57,720 --> 00:20:59,399
Speaker 2: You just might have to say no to a few,

559
00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:03,359
Speaker 2: you know, radio things or whatever it is. I also

560
00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:05,639
Speaker 2: want to speak into taking the pressure off your clock,

561
00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:06,720
Speaker 2: like I'm an old mom.

562
00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:08,600
Speaker 3: Yeah I had a kid at forty forty.

563
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:11,119
Speaker 2: Yeah I had my last one at forty one, my

564
00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:12,160
Speaker 2: first one at thirty four.

565
00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:14,640
Speaker 1: Why do we do that? Like why do we care about?

566
00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:17,199
Speaker 2: I really want to When I was thirty one, I

567
00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:18,720
Speaker 2: was like, oh my god, I have to have baby now.

568
00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:21,520
Speaker 2: I ignored every red flag him cheating on me before.

569
00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:23,800
Speaker 2: I remember being at a show with it was Joe Nichols.

570
00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:25,119
Speaker 2: I was like, I just got cheated on a boy

571
00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:25,879
Speaker 2: my boyfriend.

572
00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:26,760
Speaker 3: What did I do?

573
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Speaker 2: A couple of months later get back with them? Because

574
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Speaker 2: I'm like, well, I'm almost thirty or I mean I'm

575
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Speaker 2: thirty and then I'm gonna be thirty one, and.

576
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Speaker 4: Well that's what even like the guy I was talking

577
00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:34,960
Speaker 4: about that we just broke up recently, Like, I think

578
00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:37,520
Speaker 4: a lot of my he's wonderful, He's literally incredible, and

579
00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:38,360
Speaker 4: I think a lot of we.

580
00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:39,320
Speaker 3: Just don't think we're done with him.

581
00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:39,960
Speaker 1: I just can tell.

582
00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:42,040
Speaker 3: I think we are. I think we are though at

583
00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:44,480
Speaker 3: the end of the day, okay, because you kind of

584
00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:46,000
Speaker 3: have to be until I feel like you're in your

585
00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:49,120
Speaker 3: own way with him. Maybe, but I think it's because

586
00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:51,480
Speaker 3: he's not. I also love Gemini so much that I'm like.

587
00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:53,880
Speaker 1: We're always indecisive, and that's the problem when.

588
00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:57,760
Speaker 3: You know, I know, also that could just be history too,

589
00:21:57,800 --> 00:21:59,480
Speaker 3: that's fair, fair, wonder but.

590
00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:00,040
Speaker 1: I think that's so.

591
00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:01,720
Speaker 4: I think too is a lot of you know, I

592
00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:04,879
Speaker 4: turned twenty six and twenty wait, yeah, twenty six and

593
00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:07,440
Speaker 4: twenty seven dating him. I think both of those years,

594
00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:08,760
Speaker 4: because when you sign a record deal, I mean I

595
00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:10,760
Speaker 4: sign my record deal when I was what twenty three?

596
00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:11,479
Speaker 1: I want to say?

597
00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:13,880
Speaker 4: And so I was just been I've been like head down, grind, grind, grind,

598
00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:15,239
Speaker 4: grinine since then. And so I think I just all

599
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:16,680
Speaker 4: of a sudden looked up and was like, wait, I'm

600
00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:19,560
Speaker 4: twenty seven, what's happening?

601
00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:20,960
Speaker 1: What am I doing? Is this the person for me?

602
00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:24,199
Speaker 4: Just you start to compile all of these fears. I

603
00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:26,000
Speaker 4: think I started doing that and that's why I was like,

604
00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:27,760
Speaker 4: I need a break. Yeah, maybe he's my first one.

605
00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:28,159
Speaker 1: I don't know.

606
00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:30,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's alsoday to not know right now.

607
00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:33,399
Speaker 4: And I think more than anything, we just need we

608
00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:35,560
Speaker 4: need like a minute, Yeah, the group, see other people,

609
00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:37,400
Speaker 4: do our thing, see what else is out there?

610
00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:39,800
Speaker 3: Yeah. Also, I just want you to know you have

611
00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:40,560
Speaker 3: plenty of time.

612
00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:42,080
Speaker 1: Why does it not feel like that?

613
00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:42,800
Speaker 3: I don't know, but.

614
00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:45,000
Speaker 2: I don't like it because there's something about that twenty

615
00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:49,800
Speaker 2: twenty seven to thirty clock that makes us feel like

616
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:51,080
Speaker 2: we're running out of time.

617
00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:51,640
Speaker 1: Terrifying.

618
00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:52,000
Speaker 3: Yeah.

619
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Speaker 4: And also then you look at you know, I'm not

620
00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:55,919
Speaker 4: a very competitive person with other people, but you look

621
00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:58,000
Speaker 4: at people like I don't know Sabrina carbon or Tate

622
00:22:58,080 --> 00:23:00,959
Speaker 4: McCrae and grated different genres, but like they're what like

623
00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:05,840
Speaker 4: twenty two twenty one like killing it, like playing arenas,

624
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:07,639
Speaker 4: and you're like, damn, that's so sick. And then you

625
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 4: start to think, okay, well wait, I'm not wait what's

626
00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:11,360
Speaker 4: am I too?

627
00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:11,680
Speaker 1: Behind?

628
00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:13,040
Speaker 4: Like what you start to do that and it's like

629
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:16,200
Speaker 4: the stupidest game ever because different genres, every artist, every

630
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:18,560
Speaker 4: creative is so different, has their own path that I

631
00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:21,280
Speaker 4: truly believe that, not even just like sugarcoating it, but

632
00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:23,159
Speaker 4: I think you start to get in your head a

633
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:23,840
Speaker 4: little bit about it.

634
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:38,359
Speaker 2: Well, let's talk about competition, because that was one of

635
00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:42,960
Speaker 2: my one of my things with it, sorry, because on

636
00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:46,359
Speaker 2: the country radio charts, it is so limited when it

637
00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:51,200
Speaker 2: comes to females. And I mean I remember going, all right,

638
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:54,960
Speaker 2: there's there's like a slaughter too for one of us, know,

639
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:59,000
Speaker 2: but it's it's ridiculous because women aren't they the main

640
00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:01,720
Speaker 2: audience for country mus Yes? And I remember a radio

641
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:03,560
Speaker 2: program would be like, well, women want to listen to men.

642
00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:05,560
Speaker 2: I was like, I listened, I love nineties women.

643
00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:06,640
Speaker 1: What are you talking about?

644
00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 3: Data? Yeah? Men? Right, I'm sure what.

645
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:13,040
Speaker 2: But it was interesting because when I was in it,

646
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:15,000
Speaker 2: and again I'm not trying to create like girl drama,

647
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:17,359
Speaker 2: I really am not, but there was such this like

648
00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 2: we're all friends, but I'm like, behind the scenes, I

649
00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:22,080
Speaker 2: was like nobody was friends. There was all this like competition.

650
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:24,920
Speaker 2: People that were even doing songs together really truly hated

651
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:29,200
Speaker 2: each other. And so I'm just curious where the where

652
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:31,159
Speaker 2: it is now because again I'm so out of like

653
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:32,800
Speaker 2: the game of things that I don't know. Like I

654
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:35,480
Speaker 2: I remember hearing kind of like comments here if someone

655
00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 2: doesn't get nominated for this or this person's playing an arena,

656
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:42,000
Speaker 2: but is there It's not I don't want to say jealousy,

657
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,400
Speaker 2: but is there that competition?

658
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:46,120
Speaker 3: It's like there was it? What was it?

659
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 2: Megan Maroney and Ella Langley some like the un followed

660
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:51,840
Speaker 2: because of maybe Riley Green, Like I was kind of

661
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 2: reading that on us weekly. I'm like, oh boy, Like

662
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:57,560
Speaker 2: and if it's in a sleek we we know but

663
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:02,119
Speaker 2: should know better. But I just am curious, like where

664
00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:05,200
Speaker 2: do you go in it? Or you're like, I'm out

665
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:09,239
Speaker 2: of this whole. How does it affect you when you

666
00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:11,680
Speaker 2: see people that are on kind of your same level

667
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 2: maybe playing Yeah, these arenas and stadiums. It's a great

668
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 2: question because I know how it would. I mean, if

669
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:21,879
Speaker 2: I didn't, would heart like affect me. I'd get jealous

670
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:23,280
Speaker 2: of it. I'd be like, damn it, I want that.

671
00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 1: I don't know.

672
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, I think it's easy. I mean, just

673
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:31,200
Speaker 4: being fully, fully transparent. I think it's really easy to go, well, damn,

674
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:32,879
Speaker 4: I want that. And maybe I should spend a story

675
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:35,160
Speaker 4: of some kind to make somebody talk and make things,

676
00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:37,119
Speaker 4: you know, And I think it's just it's natural to

677
00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:37,720
Speaker 4: want to do that.

678
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:39,399
Speaker 1: But I don't know.

679
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:43,960
Speaker 4: I think in terms of the competition thing, I don't

680
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:47,359
Speaker 4: really feel that much from like honestly, I will say

681
00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:50,000
Speaker 4: people like Kelsey Ballerini and Carly Peters have really set

682
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:51,840
Speaker 4: the tone for a lot of US females in this

683
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:55,280
Speaker 4: next era where they genuinely are not bols, like they

684
00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:59,400
Speaker 4: are nice people, like genuinely, because I when I first

685
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:00,960
Speaker 4: started coming on see in this whole thing, I was like,

686
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:03,560
Speaker 4: all right, well, maybe like I've heard the rumors, I

687
00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:05,439
Speaker 4: know the stories, I know people, you know, I know

688
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:08,280
Speaker 4: that that was how that world was, you know, whatever

689
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 4: that time period was.

690
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 3: Hm.

691
00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:12,480
Speaker 4: But as far as like my experience with it, I

692
00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:16,399
Speaker 4: think there are what five slots for nominations. Yeah, so

693
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 4: naturally in the time of awards, we all kind of

694
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:20,360
Speaker 4: get a little like.

695
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:21,920
Speaker 1: What's happening here, what's going there? And we need to

696
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 1: all compete with each other.

697
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:28,160
Speaker 4: But I think the girls like Carly and Kelsey, they

698
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:31,560
Speaker 4: grew up also in that same time period of everybody

699
00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:33,440
Speaker 4: hating each other, and so I think and then we've

700
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:34,920
Speaker 4: all talked about it, I think they're like, hey, we

701
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:37,120
Speaker 4: don't want to do that. We don't want to talk.

702
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 4: We don't want to hate each other. Like we are

703
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 4: here for you, we are all we all get it.

704
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 4: We're gonna have those moments where we all go I

705
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 4: want what she has, but like, let's not be nasty

706
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:44,399
Speaker 4: to each other.

707
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:45,720
Speaker 1: It's all actually be nice to each other.

708
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:47,000
Speaker 3: That's odd. That's how it should be.

709
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, it just was not your experience, No, but that's

710
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:50,679
Speaker 2: how it should be.

711
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:51,400
Speaker 4: Yeah.

712
00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 1: And I mean maybe that's words that are said but

713
00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:55,600
Speaker 1: not actually meant. I don't know.

714
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 4: But as far as my experience with it, and also

715
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:01,680
Speaker 4: I've stayed as far away from the drama of it

716
00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 4: all as I possibly can, and maybe that's maybe that's

717
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:06,240
Speaker 4: a bad thing. Maybe if I were to be more

718
00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 4: involved with it, my music would be doing better, Like

719
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:08,160
Speaker 4: I mean.

720
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 3: Maybe, And if we had drama, if we were throwing

721
00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 3: chairs off of buildings, like, do we sell better? You know? Yeah?

722
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:18,480
Speaker 4: And I think it's a natural, natural thought just because

723
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:21,119
Speaker 4: of kind of the way that TikTok and Instagram and

724
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 4: all these like kind of click baity things are happening

725
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:27,560
Speaker 4: right now. But who am I to judge somebody for

726
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 4: a real situation that's happening and how they're dealing with

727
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 4: it and it happening to benefit their music career? Who

728
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:33,200
Speaker 4: am I to judge that? I don't I don't want

729
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 4: my team and I've talked a lot about this. I

730
00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:39,560
Speaker 4: just really don't. It wouldn't be me to create a

731
00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 4: story for the sake of, you know, getting people to

732
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:44,280
Speaker 4: talk about a certain song or whatever it is.

733
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:45,800
Speaker 1: It's just not me. It's just not me. And that's

734
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 1: that's okay, you know.

735
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:48,760
Speaker 4: I think if if anything like that were to happen,

736
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 4: it would have to be like truly truly real. And

737
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 4: I think a lot of these situations that are happening

738
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 4: that we're seeing maybe probably are real and that are

739
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:57,480
Speaker 4: real yeah, And that's what I'm saying is like I'm

740
00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:59,119
Speaker 4: not going to you know, confirm it, deny what I

741
00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:01,919
Speaker 4: know or don't know, but I think, like regardless, I

742
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:03,920
Speaker 4: think if it works for your career and it's real,

743
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:04,719
Speaker 4: then what happened?

744
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 3: You know? Yeah, I think it's interesting because my perspective

745
00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:10,200
Speaker 3: of you, so you hit number one right when I

746
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 3: went into my baby bubble and had my third baby.

747
00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 3: So I knew of you just by like charts and

748
00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:19,399
Speaker 3: all the things, but I didn't know no of you.

749
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 3: And what I know of you now two years in

750
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 3: to me knowing of you is that you aren't the

751
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:30,679
Speaker 3: drama girl. And that's why I am mildly obsessed with

752
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:34,159
Speaker 3: your career going well, because I like that there can

753
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:37,240
Speaker 3: be headlines swirling. But while headlines are swirling, your nose

754
00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 3: is down and you're writing great songs and you're being

755
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:43,240
Speaker 3: an artist and you're hustling, and you're not sleeping and

756
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 3: you're potentially breaking up with the wrong guy we don't know,

757
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:48,479
Speaker 3: but because you're working so hard, that's the focus. And

758
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 3: I just think that, you know, Jan and I are

759
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 3: raising daughters now, and Taylor Swift is a very big

760
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 3: deal in our house. Kelsey Ballerini is a very big

761
00:28:57,200 --> 00:29:01,000
Speaker 3: deal in our house. Talented and both extremely people, very

762
00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 3: good people. And I want the Ashley Cooks of the

763
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 3: world to dominate that for our daughters and for our world.

764
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 3: And I want your voice to be louder than everybody else.

765
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:12,240
Speaker 3: And I don't want you to have to throw chairs

766
00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 3: or punches or that's the.

767
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 1: Tough part, dude. Yeah, I think it really is.

768
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:17,400
Speaker 4: And I've talked to a lot of friends about this, Like,

769
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 4: you know, like Caitlin Brown and I are really great friends,

770
00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 4: and we've talked a lot about this, and she's incredible,

771
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:23,400
Speaker 4: and we've all kind of you know, Kaitlin and I

772
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:25,960
Speaker 4: were just chatting about this a little bit and it's like.

773
00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:27,960
Speaker 1: Should I, like, do I do? Do I make a

774
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:30,240
Speaker 1: note headline? Do I do something like? That's just not me?

775
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 4: And she goes, Ashley, you already have a really incredible

776
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 4: fan base that buys your tickets.

777
00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 1: You're building it slowly.

778
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:37,479
Speaker 4: You're doing what you don't need to do if you

779
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 4: were to do something for the sake of a headline

780
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:43,440
Speaker 4: to make somebody, you know, all of a sudden, TikTok

781
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:45,360
Speaker 4: goes viral with this thing, and this song happens to

782
00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 4: be involved. Like, if you were to do that, the

783
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 4: core fan base that you have, you might sell more

784
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:52,239
Speaker 4: tickets with new people that would just go in here

785
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:54,520
Speaker 4: to the next thing that's popping up, But your fan

786
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:57,400
Speaker 4: base would be like, that's not that's not our Ashley,

787
00:29:57,480 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 4: that's not who they know. And so yeah, I mean

788
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:01,080
Speaker 4: it's it's tough. I want to be in my head

789
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:03,239
Speaker 4: against a wall constantly about this because I'm like, all right, well,

790
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:03,760
Speaker 4: I feel.

791
00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:06,000
Speaker 2: Like I should no do Some things are one of

792
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 2: the wordy and you know, worse, if you want to

793
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:12,239
Speaker 2: be clickbaity, you know, get an awesome dance going up

794
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 2: on TikTok TikTok, you know what I mean? All those things,

795
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:17,240
Speaker 2: But when it comes to headlines and that nature, there's

796
00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 2: so many negative people that will just out then twist

797
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:26,440
Speaker 2: your life in circles. And it's you know, I anytime

798
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:29,240
Speaker 2: I ever see a headline, I hate I hate it,

799
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:30,720
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, because there's always going to

800
00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 2: be an opinion about it. So just as long as

801
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 2: like she said, like you're you're you, you continue to

802
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:39,160
Speaker 2: be who you are, and that is that it's going

803
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:41,320
Speaker 2: to be longevity and you're going to have respect.

804
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:44,920
Speaker 3: And the person telling me that is the Browns. I mean,

805
00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:47,960
Speaker 3: Kane Brown is selling out stadiums and he's he's not

806
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:50,480
Speaker 3: having all these things going on or this, that and

807
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 3: the other, like his wonderful all these people they're not

808
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 3: having all these negative or not negative but well, yeah.

809
00:30:58,800 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 1: I mean honiacious.

810
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 4: I think a lot of people have the mentality of like, well,

811
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:04,680
Speaker 4: if it's negative, people are still talking.

812
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 1: You know.

813
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:07,000
Speaker 4: It's like it's almost like the things that you do

814
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:10,960
Speaker 4: that get people to have positive or negative opinions, and

815
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 4: it's the things that people have both about that become

816
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:16,480
Speaker 4: the bigger situations. So I think, you know, I've always

817
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 4: been told and I really appreciate it. Throughout the industry.

818
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:21,120
Speaker 4: Whenever people talk about me, it's always like, oh my god,

819
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:22,720
Speaker 4: we love her. She's she's so great and she's so

820
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 4: nice and she's so talented, and I'm like, hell yeah.

821
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 1: But then it's like, it.

822
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:30,360
Speaker 4: Isn't that that clickbaity story everybody's talking thing, And that's okay.

823
00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:33,840
Speaker 4: I think that's my thing is everybody's different, everybody's convict

824
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:35,440
Speaker 4: them of different things. But I think for me, if

825
00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 4: I were to do something that felt not me for

826
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:39,800
Speaker 4: the sake of having a song go big or whatever

827
00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 4: it is. I don't think I could sleep good at night.

828
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 4: I think I would struggle a lot with that. To know,

829
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 4: and not saying anybody else is doing that either. I

830
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:48,240
Speaker 4: just think it's like.

831
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:49,160
Speaker 3: Well, let's get you.

832
00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 2: Let's get you a headline, girl. Okay, what country artists?

833
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 2: WoT you date?

834
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 1: Oh god, let's get you.

835
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 3: A headline right now?

836
00:31:54,640 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 2: Oh god, let's do f Okay, country artists, single males go?

837
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 2: If you want your headline here it is single country males.

838
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 2: No one.

839
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:12,600
Speaker 3: Do you want the married? No? So okay, you toss

840
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 3: in low cash and let's just make this a double one.

841
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 4: I mean, I will say too, like I feel like

842
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:20,080
Speaker 4: my type is not typically other artists.

843
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 3: Right, it's just really well done. I think that's really brilliant.

844
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 1: All right, So what's not?

845
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 3: Is it?

846
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:25,600
Speaker 2: More?

847
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:30,040
Speaker 3: Sports players are actors? I don't know. I mean, did

848
00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:33,200
Speaker 3: you didn't you do a song with Joe Jonas? Did

849
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:37,240
Speaker 3: is he in a relationship? I can which one would

850
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 3: you date? Joe Jonahs?

851
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:44,040
Speaker 1: Oh god, I mean he's cute, that's he says.

852
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:47,720
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, he's cute.

853
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:51,520
Speaker 4: I will say, we will say Joah, I was more

854
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:52,680
Speaker 4: of a net girl growing up.

855
00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:57,920
Speaker 3: Okay, which one's the marriage? Trying to get Kevin?

856
00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 1: We're just trying here. No, I don't know. I mean yeah,

857
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:04,360
Speaker 1: I think was there chemistry? Yeah, for sure?

858
00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 3: Aoh he's great. I like, did you kiss Joe Jonah?

859
00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm not going forward? Oh, I like

860
00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 1: where this is staring.

861
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:21,200
Speaker 3: Meanwhile is all of the management.

862
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 1: He's a great partner.

863
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:32,040
Speaker 3: We call him Preston, and we have three babies. Oh

864
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 3: my gosh, I don't know that it's like a chance.

865
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:40,719
Speaker 4: Honestly, I will say this, since October, this is the

866
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 4: first time that I have like been on dates.

867
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:49,280
Speaker 1: Like I've been pretty much in relationships. You No, I'm scared.

868
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:51,760
Speaker 4: I don't want to go on und it's not great

869
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 4: this person.

870
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:55,440
Speaker 1: I meet it. I'm meeting a lot of pigeon, but

871
00:33:56,440 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 1: like I meet it, I just care about that stuff.

872
00:33:59,400 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 1: I really don't.

873
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 4: And that's maybe like stupid to say, but I really don't. Like, No,

874
00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:05,880
Speaker 4: it's not stupid, like full transparency. I feel like, so, yeah,

875
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 4: since October.

876
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:09,279
Speaker 3: Whatever happened in your body, go at that. I like,

877
00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:12,520
Speaker 3: we let it all out, let's see.

878
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 4: Okay, So I've pretty much been a serial dater since

879
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:16,640
Speaker 4: I was like fourteen. Like I've literally been in and

880
00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:18,880
Speaker 4: out of relationships since I was fourteen, Like I've not stopped.

881
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:20,520
Speaker 4: I've really never been single. And so when we broke

882
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:21,839
Speaker 4: up in October, I was like, all right, I'm gonna

883
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:24,799
Speaker 4: be single. Went on dates, like had a really good

884
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:26,439
Speaker 4: time that a lot of people, different types of people,

885
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 4: people that had yachts or whatever, and I just the

886
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 4: people that I connect with the most of the ones

887
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 4: that we just have like a unique, like soul full

888
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:34,080
Speaker 4: connection and that's great.

889
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:36,000
Speaker 1: But like, I don't know my type. Does that makes sense?

890
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 1: I can tell you, like what I look at somebody

891
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:39,200
Speaker 1: like you're hot.

892
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 2: But like so right now we're having like hot girl summer,

893
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 2: trying to figure out what Ashley likes.

894
00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:46,600
Speaker 3: Correct, Yeah, I love that kind of all over this

895
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 3: is there a dream dude? Like you know, growing up

896
00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:53,720
Speaker 3: for us, like Matthew McConaughey was my guy, who's yours.

897
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 3: He's not anymore by the way, he's married and lovely

898
00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 3: and I am that's not a thing, but growing up

899
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:00,640
Speaker 3: we all liked him. How to lose a in ten days,

900
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:05,040
Speaker 3: I mean like still to be attainable. Yeah, and actually preferred.

901
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:07,200
Speaker 3: If it's not, maybe it is after you say it.

902
00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 1: I mean, like when Powell's cute.

903
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:14,839
Speaker 2: Okay, I like that, I do, Glenn. I wonder if

904
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:17,440
Speaker 2: he's If it's not Sydney, then I'm here for Ashley.

905
00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:22,360
Speaker 2: If it is Sydney, I'm here for Ashley. Lenny's he

906
00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:24,919
Speaker 2: is cute. He's really cute. He's funny. Oh, you guys

907
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:26,000
Speaker 2: would be real cute together.

908
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:26,799
Speaker 1: Never met him?

909
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:39,239
Speaker 3: Oh heyn wondering when and Ashley? I I love that.

910
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 3: So Glenn, if you're listening.

911
00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:42,719
Speaker 1: He seems like a real nice, normal dude.

912
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 3: He really does.

913
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 4: But I feel like he's also like the heart throb

914
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 4: of the generation right now.

915
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 2: So you are too, and you kind of you know,

916
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:52,680
Speaker 2: you got like a little bit of a Sydney like eyes,

917
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:54,400
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like you've got the blonde.

918
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:58,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're naturally really pretty, thank you. I know you're talented,

919
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 3: but I don't know, I think we're not. Probably this

920
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:02,600
Speaker 3: is in the body count thing, the we're not supposed

921
00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:04,440
Speaker 3: to chail that are pretty anymore. I think it's like

922
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:06,799
Speaker 3: the thing, right, but you just are and you're not

923
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:08,480
Speaker 3: a made up person, which I like to all Right,

924
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:09,360
Speaker 3: So Glenn Powell.

925
00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 1: Have you ever Ashley Powell tried it on DAMS. I

926
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:14,880
Speaker 1: don't know if he does. Do you've never done it?

927
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:17,359
Speaker 1: Hold on, Okay, here's all I do it right now.

928
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 1: My whole life have always.

929
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:20,319
Speaker 4: Been like, oh my god, I'm scared you're gonna decide

930
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:21,960
Speaker 4: to Glenn Powell's DAMS do it?

931
00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, good lord, I'm a good wing wing person right now,

932
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 2: Glenn Powell should also get a garbage.

933
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 3: You gonna say, Glenn.

934
00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 2: Podcasting with the Beautiful Ashley Cook.

935
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, but if I meet him an event soon and

936
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:40,960
Speaker 1: he's gonna be like, you're.

937
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:45,239
Speaker 3: Weird white, he's probably weird too. It's funny you.

938
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 1: Goanna say you're the class.

939
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 3: I will see ye your name? We need like a

940
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:56,280
Speaker 3: vote him up. Okay, hey Glenn, I'm sure that's exactly

941
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 3: how I'll read it.

942
00:36:57,560 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 2: Hey Glenn, Hey, Glenn podcasting with the Beautiful Ashley Cook.

943
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:02,839
Speaker 3: Your name came up.

944
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:08,200
Speaker 2: I'm just saying cute, Yes, yeah, I'm going to have

945
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 2: you press.

946
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:17,239
Speaker 1: I'm scared what if this is just okayed, good good

947
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 1: at shooting my shot? That's just not I want you

948
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:20,839
Speaker 1: to you need to get.

949
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:25,800
Speaker 3: You going to tell you you're sitting you're sitting between

950
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:26,920
Speaker 3: your sandwich in this.

951
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:31,360
Speaker 1: Little youth college friends. But there we go.

952
00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:35,239
Speaker 3: We're we are in our forties and all the things

953
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 3: we would have done them different at your age, and

954
00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:40,880
Speaker 3: so much I don't regret, but so many things that

955
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 3: I'm like, I wish I just would have had the

956
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:45,600
Speaker 3: confidence to just do different things because and.

957
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:49,360
Speaker 2: I did your shot, your shot, live your dream, shoot

958
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:50,120
Speaker 2: for the stars.

959
00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 3: One. Don't you give up?

960
00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Like, obviously we've like literally

961
00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 2: the one life too short. Shoot your shots, girlfriend, Yeah,

962
00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:00,160
Speaker 2: shoot for the you know, shoot for it all is

963
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:01,640
Speaker 2: you can. You can literally do it all. And you

964
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:05,040
Speaker 2: know what's the worst that can happen? He doesn't respond, Okay, yeah,

965
00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:05,839
Speaker 2: that is a good point.

966
00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:08,280
Speaker 1: What's going to happen is like he reads it, doesn't respond.

967
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:11,799
Speaker 4: Only we don't event together, And I'm like, Hi, Cret's a.

968
00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:14,319
Speaker 3: Great story, because I think we're never going to get

969
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:18,040
Speaker 3: me all right, Actually, dude, the hell you are.

970
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:21,839
Speaker 2: Tell us everything that's coming out, give us your give

971
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 2: us a whole spiel.

972
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:26,839
Speaker 4: For my second album coming out, and that's I haven't

973
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 4: announced once it's coming out yet. I know.

974
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:30,480
Speaker 3: I was trying to look up where the hell you are.

975
00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 3: I was like, I want to hear it.

976
00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:34,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, what comes out on Friday this Friday, which is super,

977
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:36,239
Speaker 4: super exciting, And I just feels like a different era.

978
00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:38,399
Speaker 4: I think, even just like what we talked about today,

979
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:40,200
Speaker 4: I think a lot of a lot of my first

980
00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 4: record was a lot of like chasing what I wanted

981
00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:44,000
Speaker 4: to be a hit and a lot of sense, which

982
00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:46,719
Speaker 4: is just natural for your first record. But this one

983
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:50,439
Speaker 4: feels a little more. I fought for what I wanted

984
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:52,719
Speaker 4: in the rooms, and I was really intentional about what

985
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 4: I wanted to say, how I wanted to write, the

986
00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 4: things that I wanted to do, And I think I'm

987
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 4: just kind of coming into my sureness a little more

988
00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 4: of you know, being I'm a surveyor big time. Like

989
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:04,239
Speaker 4: I love to survey, I love to ask opinions. I

990
00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 4: love to I'm very indecisive, which is why I have

991
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 4: a hard time shooting my shot because I'm always just like,

992
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:08,399
Speaker 4: what do I want?

993
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:10,400
Speaker 1: I don't know, like I just it's always all over

994
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:10,759
Speaker 1: the place.

995
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 4: And I think with this next album, with all this

996
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 4: stuff with my family this past year that I told

997
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:17,080
Speaker 4: you he was about, and in general, I just feel

998
00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 4: like a little more of like a raw honesty era.

999
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:22,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, a little more blunt and.

1000
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 4: Trying to figure out exactly what it is that I

1001
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:26,840
Speaker 4: want and speaking in my mind when my gut feels right,

1002
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:27,680
Speaker 4: because that's kind.

1003
00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:28,080
Speaker 1: Of rare me.

1004
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:28,600
Speaker 3: That's the thing.

1005
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:30,799
Speaker 2: Women, We always have to listen to our gut because

1006
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:32,480
Speaker 2: our gut knows and our gut tells us everything.

1007
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:38,520
Speaker 3: And again, I mean, look at freaking Taylor and Travis.

1008
00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:40,560
Speaker 3: Travis like he shot his shock.

1009
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:42,000
Speaker 1: He shot his shot, you know what I mean? Yeah,

1010
00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:42,800
Speaker 1: how did that go? I don't know?

1011
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:44,719
Speaker 3: Did he asn't really tickets or something?

1012
00:39:45,680 --> 00:39:48,600
Speaker 2: Bracelet he gave his number. Yeah, so it's like he's

1013
00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:50,600
Speaker 2: sho he shot it and he scored, you know what

1014
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:53,800
Speaker 2: I mean. Like Preston Brust did the same. Yeah, Alan,

1015
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 2: like you know, he shot his shot too. They all scored,

1016
00:39:59,080 --> 00:39:59,840
Speaker 2: so they did.

1017
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,480
Speaker 4: Do you guys think there's something about women shooting their

1018
00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:03,640
Speaker 4: shot versus man shooting their shot?

1019
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 1: No? No, I do think that men need to be

1020
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:07,239
Speaker 1: the ones to be like, oh, I want you to

1021
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:07,759
Speaker 1: go after you.

1022
00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:11,239
Speaker 2: I think they need the effort level. But I don't

1023
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:13,520
Speaker 2: think I think either right ones don't care about that.

1024
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:15,879
Speaker 4: Maybe it's like a maturity level thing and if they don't,

1025
00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:17,040
Speaker 4: if they don't like it, then that means that.

1026
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:17,680
Speaker 1: It's not the right one.

1027
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, so we'll see, Glenn.

1028
00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:24,279
Speaker 4: It is operate playing the operating and I, which will

1029
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:26,040
Speaker 4: be super fun. I guess, like my sixth or.

1030
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:27,799
Speaker 1: Seventh time playing the Incredible Naire though.

1031
00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:29,560
Speaker 4: It's so much fun. And I get to actually play

1032
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:31,640
Speaker 4: that song The Hell You Are for the first time tonight. Yeah,

1033
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:32,319
Speaker 4: the first time ever.

1034
00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 1: We're playing it out.

1035
00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:35,439
Speaker 3: That's incredible. Actually, thank you for coming on the show.

1036
00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:37,120
Speaker 3: You You are welcome anytime.

1037
00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:37,680
Speaker 1: Thank you.

1038
00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:40,919
Speaker 3: Guys on the couches for wine in a little chat.

1039
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 1: Bye girls, Bye,