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Speaker 2: Christa is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named

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Speaker 2: Cameron and she has no idea why. So let's see

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Speaker 2: if we can help her out, maybe figure out why,

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Speaker 2: and maybe get her another date if she still wants one. Krista,

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Speaker 2: before we talk about Cameron and your date, how long

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Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from him.

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Speaker 3: It's been a couple of weeks now.

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Speaker 4: Have you tried to reach out to him multiple times?

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Speaker 3: I did.

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Speaker 5: I sent a couple like texts back to back, but

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Speaker 5: double texting makes me feel a little weird.

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Speaker 3: And then I did actually call him once and didn't

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Speaker 4: If you don't me asking if it's been like a

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Speaker 2: I guess, like, did the date just go that well?

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Speaker 5: He went really well, and like, I know he's a

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Speaker 3: You know, he worked really hard. So I guess there's

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Speaker 3: a part of me that's like, maybe he's just really

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Speaker 3: swamped right now and it has nothing to do with me.

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Speaker 4: But to your point, though, Victoria, what was it about

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Speaker 4: Cameron that Krista? Yeah, but Christa, what was it about

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Speaker 4: Cameron that made him so special?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: He was like really charismatic and obviously there was like

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Speaker 5: a physical attraction there, but also like he just knows

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Speaker 3: No, his personality, like he just he like brought such.

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Speaker 5: Like this like warm and fuzzy feeling and he was

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Speaker 6: He was like.

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Speaker 5: Cracking jokes and he was like really really cute around

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Speaker 5: And yeah, I don't know, he just like made me

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Speaker 2: Okay, well that makes sense. Yeah, so that's good. So

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Speaker 2: what do you think happened?

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Speaker 6: Then?

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Speaker 2: Why do you think he's ghosting you?

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Speaker 3: I truly have no idea. I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I mean, like literally, the only thing I can think

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Speaker 5: I don't know, like he's so natural with kids, but

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Speaker 5: like that's I don't really have that inclination.

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Speaker 3: And so you know, like at one point I tried

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Speaker 5: This kid laugh when we were at the aquarium and

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Speaker 5: he actually the kids started crying, which like.

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Speaker 3: It was not my intention obviously, What did you do?

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Speaker 3: I like kind of tried to like scare him a

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Speaker 5: I was sort of like impersonating a shark. It's like

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Speaker 5: a long story, but it kind of freaked him out.

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Speaker 5: And I don't know, I like Cameron and I laughed

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Speaker 6: Was you know, I thought it was like not a

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Speaker 3: But I don't know, maybe that was a red flag somehow.

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Speaker 2: Okay. I mean as a person who you know, I

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Speaker 2: I know where you're coming from, because I could tell

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Speaker 2: a lot of times when I would try, people be like, wow,

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if that's enough to not call somebody back.

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Speaker 4: That was let's back up, Chris day. Can you tell

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Speaker 4: us about the date, like what happened on the date?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it was a day date, and like I said,

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Speaker 5: we went to this aquarium which was so fun, and

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Speaker 3: Grabbed a couple of beers and some pizza. Yeah, it

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Speaker 5: Very wholesome, really fun, action packed day with kids crying.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, seriously, all right, and you've heard nothing that you

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Speaker 2: You can't think of any other thing that went kind

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Speaker 5: No, Like, we kissed at the end, and we basically

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Speaker 5: we both said like, I'm so excited to do this again,

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Speaker 5: and yeah, that was literally it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, cool, Well, then we'll play a song come back,

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Speaker 2: and then call them and see if we can figure

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Speaker 3: Okay, thank you, place.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first Date follow up

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Christa is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and she's getting ghosted by Cameron, who she really liked

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Speaker 2: a lot. So we're gonna see if we can find

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Speaker 2: out why she's getting ghosted first when we call Cameron,

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Speaker 2: and then see if she still wants another date after

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Speaker 2: she hears why in just a second. But before we

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Speaker 2: do that, Christa refresherbody's memory about your date with Cameron.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we went to an aquarium together. We had a

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Speaker 5: really great time. The only weird thing that happened was

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Speaker 2: Made a kid cry, but like I didn't think anything

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Speaker 3: And then afterward we grabbed a couple of beers and pizza.

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Speaker 3: It was so fun. We kissed goodbye and we said

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Speaker 3: we'd see each other again.

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Speaker 2: But I haven't heard anything that's weird. I mean, like,

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Speaker 2: it always trips me out when people will kiss and

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Speaker 2: they'll have like a nice moment at the end and

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Speaker 2: then get ghosted, you know, like yeah, if they just

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Speaker 2: no kind of affection, no kissing, no hugging, whatever, then

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Speaker 2: it makes sense. But when people like literally kissing then disappear, disappear,

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Speaker 2: kiss and disappear. M H Well, Christa, let's see if

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Speaker 2: we can make him kiss and reappear. I'm gonna call

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Speaker 2: him right now here we go, Hi, I speak to Cameron, please, Hi.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, this is Cameron.

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Speaker 2: Cameron. What's up man? How are you. My name is

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Speaker 2: Jewbell from a radio show called The Jewbel Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Cameron, not to overwhelm you, but my name is Nina,

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Speaker 2: My name's Victoria, also from the show. There's three people

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Speaker 2: on the phone with you right now. We're calling you

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Speaker 2: because we got an email about you and we needed

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Speaker 2: to see if you had a few minutes to talk

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you So you guys have an email about me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. We do a segment on the show. It's called

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Speaker 2: the first Date follow Up. What that is is if

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Speaker 2: you go out on a date with somebody and then

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Speaker 2: and why you're ghosting them. And you're ghosting somebody that

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I think I know what this is about, honestly,

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Speaker 6: and I don't know if you guys really want want

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Speaker 6: me to go into it. I mean, I guess you do.

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Speaker 6: You're calling me, but like.

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Speaker 4: You well, I mean, is that that much of a

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Speaker 4: It's okay.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to make sure we're talking about the

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Speaker 2: right person. Her name is.

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Speaker 3: Christa, Yeah, yeah, that's that's that's the one.

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Speaker 2: I kind of figured, well, everybody who agrees to do

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Speaker 2: the first day follow up, they always know that they

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Speaker 2: So she wants to know.

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Speaker 6: I'm kind of angry about it, if I'm being honest. Okay,

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Speaker 6: So the date was pretty great. I actually really really

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Speaker 6: be a good thing. Yeah, it is, but she is

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Speaker 3: Like literally we were leaping.

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Speaker 6: Oh and then I have to supposedly that I'll meet

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Speaker 2: So how did that even come up though?

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Speaker 4: Because we heard it was like a nice kiss at

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: So we we kiss and it was good, and I

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Speaker 6: then three hours later she said, yeah, I would love

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Speaker 6: because he she said she doesn't need permission to date anyone.

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Speaker 6: I mean, but I even got lost there. I'm like, wait, what,

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Speaker 3: This is after we kissed. Yeah, this didn't come up

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Speaker 6: This didn't come up, you know, when we were texting

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I probably feel like I would ghost at that

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Speaker 3: I mean, what are you gonna do?

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Speaker 6: Like, I can't change that, do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: It is so weird out there.

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Speaker 4: I feel your struggle, Cameron, but I don't think you're

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well thanks for telling us, man, I appreciate it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, I mean, I don't I don't know. I guess.

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Speaker 6: Sorry I wasn't more positive, you know.

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Speaker 2: But that's feel all right? Yeah, I mean that's that's fine.

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Speaker 2: All we wanted to find out was the truth, and

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Speaker 2: I appreciate you being truthful. I also need to be

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Speaker 2: truthful and tell you that Christa has been on the

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 6: Okay, okay, Hi, Hi, how are you.

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Speaker 3: Not great? I feel that.

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Speaker 5: I feel like you are actually being judgmental. To be honest,

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Speaker 5: A lot of people are in open relationships these days.

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Speaker 5: It's not like this weird, like abnormal thing. It's like

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Speaker 5: very common. And you didn't have to ghost.

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Speaker 3: You could have. You could have just told me straight

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Speaker 6: That, and I would have under hypocritical, you know what

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Speaker 3: not like I withheld information from you. I told you

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Speaker 6: You, so you felt you needed to tell me after

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Speaker 6: I got to know you and liked you as opposed

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Speaker 6: of everyone comes with you don't like you. Don't think

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Speaker 6: I need to know that I do. And that's why

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Speaker 6: I told you and I it was the first date.

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Speaker 6: It's not like I told, do you like three months

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Speaker 3: We had a great date. And I'm a I'm a

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Speaker 3: one woman man, and.

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Speaker 6: I was really disappointed because I don't want to date

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Speaker 6: you and another dude, or you while you're dating another dude.

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Speaker 6: Do you know what I mean? Like I want to

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Speaker 3: It goes both ways.

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Speaker 5: Like you could have said on your profile, like I'm

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Speaker 5: not interested in dating you know, a person who's in

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Speaker 4: Relation, Like don't you think that it would be the

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Speaker 4: person that's in the open relationship to disclose? Maybe you

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Speaker 4: can put that on your profile. Is there like a

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Speaker 4: simple like the pineapple that people can just put on there?

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, well I told like I told him in person.

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Speaker 5: I didn't like, I didn't want him to like judge

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Speaker 5: to know me, okay, and he got to know me

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Speaker 5: and he really liked me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean you.

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Speaker 6: Told me at the end of the day, once we kissed,

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Speaker 3: The date, it didn't come up.

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Speaker 5: Cameron, you didn't ask me anything that that would like

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Speaker 5: make that would make me want to tell.

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Speaker 6: You that, right, I didn't ask you at the end either.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, fair, But like you're making you're making me

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Speaker 5: I'm in an open relationship.

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Speaker 6: I don't think you're a bad person. I'm just disappointing

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Speaker 6: because I really liked you. Cameron.

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Speaker 2: Would you like to go on another date with Crystal?

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Speaker 2: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 6: I appreciate that, but no, unless she is maybe knocking

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Speaker 6: to do this thing. But I don't want to change someone, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, Krista, how are you doing?

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Speaker 1: Allo?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 4: Over there?

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Speaker 3: I mean, of course, I'm disappointed.

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Speaker 5: I think that really sucks and I feel like we're

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Speaker 3: Just like this was a good thing.

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Speaker 5: But I guess there's like I can't argue with your belief.

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Speaker 5: So I mean, Cameron, I'll I'll say, is like, you know,

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Speaker 5: we could have had a really good fun time the

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Speaker 5: three of us, and you're.

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Speaker 3: Missing out, so, uh don't I don't think so?

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Speaker 6: But thanks?

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Speaker 2: So polite,