WEBVTT - Pop The Question Part 1 0:00:03.800 --> 0:00:04.800 Welcome everyone. 0:00:05.080 --> 0:00:09.640 Hi there, this is Amy and TJ here, and welcome 0:00:09.680 --> 0:00:12.080 back to the podcast. Amy and TJ, and we have 0:00:12.119 --> 0:00:15.880 some thank yous to you all. First and foremost, we 0:00:15.920 --> 0:00:18.279 are beyond grateful by the response we've gotten from you 0:00:18.320 --> 0:00:20.759 all from our first couple of episodes. 0:00:20.960 --> 0:00:23.280 That's right, and we're excited because we got some news 0:00:23.280 --> 0:00:27.760 over the weekend. We're going to be releasing two podcasts 0:00:28.080 --> 0:00:30.600 this week and next week up until the end of 0:00:30.640 --> 0:00:32.400 the year. We'll see how it goes from there, but 0:00:32.440 --> 0:00:35.559 we're really excited about it. We told iHeart we like 0:00:35.600 --> 0:00:36.040 to work. 0:00:36.960 --> 0:00:40.240 They believed us, No, well we have. We're two people 0:00:40.240 --> 0:00:43.440 who are used to going, going, going, and long days, 0:00:43.520 --> 0:00:45.519 lots of travels, so we're not used to something like 0:00:45.560 --> 0:00:48.479 once a week. We're like, ah, that's no problem. But 0:00:49.360 --> 0:00:53.680 we wouldn't be doing two a week now if there 0:00:53.720 --> 0:00:57.640 wasn't some interest. And we got the response and from 0:00:57.680 --> 0:00:59.720 you all, and it's been a good one and we're 0:00:59.720 --> 0:01:02.120 excited to be able to share more. So yes, for 0:01:02.120 --> 0:01:04.280 the next couple weeks, you'll get two from us. This 0:01:04.360 --> 0:01:08.520 is one of them. But this week's episodes are going 0:01:08.600 --> 0:01:10.640 to be special because they're centered on you. 0:01:11.000 --> 0:01:14.160 That's right, So we're excited, but I'm going to continue 0:01:14.160 --> 0:01:17.160 my but I'm nervous theme. Hopefully I can get past 0:01:17.200 --> 0:01:20.119 that in the new year. But we are putting ourselves 0:01:20.200 --> 0:01:23.560 on the hot seat literally. We asked you all to 0:01:23.959 --> 0:01:26.400 write in some questions, leave them in the comments section, 0:01:26.480 --> 0:01:28.640 and you know, we don't look at the comments, but 0:01:28.760 --> 0:01:30.919 I did say see that it was over eight hundred, 0:01:31.000 --> 0:01:33.039 So there were a lot of questions that. 0:01:32.959 --> 0:01:36.319 You all had, and so we're going to answer as 0:01:36.360 --> 0:01:39.560 many of them as we can. But the kicker here 0:01:39.680 --> 0:01:41.560 is that we haven't seen them ahead of time. We 0:01:41.880 --> 0:01:45.520 specifically asked our producers do not let us know the 0:01:45.640 --> 0:01:49.200 questions ahead of time. So they went through them. They 0:01:49.200 --> 0:01:51.160 picked out as many as they as many as they could, 0:01:51.200 --> 0:01:52.280 and we're going to try to get to as many 0:01:52.280 --> 0:01:54.680 as we can in the next couple of episodes, starting 0:01:55.040 --> 0:01:55.600 with this one. 0:01:55.720 --> 0:01:59.000 Yes, so it's fun not to see the questions. It 0:01:59.000 --> 0:02:01.120 can be a little uncomfortab well not to see the questions, 0:02:01.120 --> 0:02:03.560 but let's see what happens. Andy, what's our first one. 0:02:03.760 --> 0:02:05.480 We have a whole bunch of questions. I'll dive right 0:02:05.520 --> 0:02:08.720 into it. This first one comes from Cameron and he 0:02:08.960 --> 0:02:11.680 asks if you're willing to share more. I'd love to 0:02:11.680 --> 0:02:13.959 hear about how you two fell in love after being 0:02:13.960 --> 0:02:16.760 friends for so long. What changed, When did you know 0:02:16.800 --> 0:02:19.640 your feelings were changing, and how long before you told 0:02:19.639 --> 0:02:21.880 each other this? Romantic would love to know. 0:02:23.200 --> 0:02:26.720 Okay, fine, I having a problem with that. Look, when 0:02:26.800 --> 0:02:29.560 we knew it was probably summer of last year where 0:02:29.600 --> 0:02:34.040 we're like, oh that things were something else was evolving. 0:02:34.360 --> 0:02:38.880 Obviously we were about we were very close to entering 0:02:38.919 --> 0:02:43.480 divorce proceedings, but at that point we knew something was different. 0:02:43.680 --> 0:02:46.880 We didn't share that because we didn't share that season 0:02:47.320 --> 0:02:49.399 talking about publicly. We didn't share that with each other. Yes, 0:02:49.440 --> 0:02:51.960 because I am sitting over here going Lord, this has 0:02:52.000 --> 0:02:54.560 been a great best friend friendship. I don't need to 0:02:54.560 --> 0:02:58.040 screw this up by saying to her that there's something 0:02:58.080 --> 0:03:01.720 I'm feeling for her beyond the friendship. So we kind 0:03:01.720 --> 0:03:04.040 of tiptoed around it, and I didn't want to say anything. 0:03:04.080 --> 0:03:06.280 You didn't want to say anything. But then as we 0:03:06.360 --> 0:03:10.000 proceeded through last summer, things definitely changed and we started 0:03:10.040 --> 0:03:11.040 having conversations. 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:16.560 I suppose yes, I gosh, we've actually talked about this 0:03:16.639 --> 0:03:22.080 with each other. Trying to remember the moment, I think 0:03:22.720 --> 0:03:25.720 we started looking at each other differently. Is that fair? 0:03:25.840 --> 0:03:28.160 Wait? How'd you start looking at me? This is? This 0:03:28.200 --> 0:03:30.679 is new to me too? Who was that romantic? The 0:03:31.200 --> 0:03:34.480 Cameron camera? Okay, Cameron, we are about to learn this 0:03:34.560 --> 0:03:37.240 together because I didn't know she was looking at me differently, 0:03:37.280 --> 0:03:38.200 So go go ahead. 0:03:38.480 --> 0:03:41.000 I think I saw you looking at me different What 0:03:41.040 --> 0:03:41.280 the hell? 0:03:41.320 --> 0:03:42.280 That sounds creepy as hell. 0:03:43.160 --> 0:03:46.160 No, it was just we were spending so much time 0:03:46.200 --> 0:03:50.200 together at work, and then we didn't want it to end. 0:03:50.360 --> 0:03:56.200 I remember us both saying, oh, Fridays are a bummer 0:03:56.480 --> 0:04:00.400 because normally people are excited about Fridays, right, because. 0:04:00.200 --> 0:04:01.520 You get to go home for the weekend. But that 0:04:01.600 --> 0:04:03.600 means we couldn't see each other again until. 0:04:03.400 --> 0:04:06.920 Monday, right, and then Mondays were always like ugh for 0:04:07.040 --> 0:04:10.440 most people, and we were excited about Monday's. Yeah. And 0:04:10.480 --> 0:04:14.200 I think for me, that's when it started to feel 0:04:14.280 --> 0:04:18.400 different and we didn't necessarily want to be honest, I 0:04:18.440 --> 0:04:20.440 think with how we were feeling about each other because 0:04:20.440 --> 0:04:26.920 it didn't feel right, and I think that's when we 0:04:27.080 --> 0:04:30.440 kind of had to start asking ourselves without talking to 0:04:30.480 --> 0:04:32.719 each other first, about what was different. And so I 0:04:32.760 --> 0:04:35.640 think that's when it started in the summer where I 0:04:35.680 --> 0:04:38.679 didn't want it to be Friday and I was excited 0:04:38.720 --> 0:04:39.400 about Monday. 0:04:40.560 --> 0:04:43.479 So all right, well we learned that together, Cameron. Did 0:04:43.520 --> 0:04:45.919 she really answer that? And I think so? How you 0:04:45.960 --> 0:04:48.200 looked at you? Said you noticed I started looking at 0:04:48.240 --> 0:04:49.160 you did? That's what it was. 0:04:49.360 --> 0:04:51.560 I feel like there was a little extra twinkle in 0:04:51.600 --> 0:04:52.000 your eyes. 0:04:52.040 --> 0:04:57.400 Oh my, it's absurd, a twinkle. I keep a twinkle 0:04:57.400 --> 0:04:57.839 in my eyes. 0:04:57.880 --> 0:04:59.680 You do have a twinkle in thank you? Yeah? 0:04:59.760 --> 0:05:02.160 And he said the same thing. Look at me right now, Andy, 0:05:02.240 --> 0:05:04.080 you see a twinkle, don't you? You have twinkling? 0:05:04.480 --> 0:05:07.279 But what does Andy need to start questioning his friendship 0:05:07.320 --> 0:05:08.000 with you? 0:05:08.000 --> 0:05:12.720 You were questioning your friendship with me? Okay, Cameron, this 0:05:12.800 --> 0:05:15.520 is a rough start. No, I didn't know that part 0:05:16.440 --> 0:05:18.320 about you thought I was looking at you differently. 0:05:19.160 --> 0:05:19.760 I felt it. 0:05:19.920 --> 0:05:21.039 We did run together a lot. 0:05:21.200 --> 0:05:21.680 We did run. 0:05:21.720 --> 0:05:23.440 You didn't see how I was looking at you when 0:05:23.480 --> 0:05:25.200 I was sorry? 0:05:25.600 --> 0:05:26.960 He did run behind me? 0:05:27.120 --> 0:05:28.800 All right, all right, Andy, what else you got? What 0:05:28.880 --> 0:05:29.240 does you get? 0:05:29.520 --> 0:05:32.520 This next one comes from Charles. He asks who made 0:05:32.520 --> 0:05:35.240 the first move? How is your first kiss? And who 0:05:35.240 --> 0:05:36.360 said I love you first? 0:05:36.720 --> 0:05:38.760 Definitely I was I said I love you first? That 0:05:38.880 --> 0:05:42.520 is for sure. Who made the first move? I don't 0:05:42.520 --> 0:05:44.840 think there was. But if I had to argue, if 0:05:44.839 --> 0:05:47.880 I go back, it was you. Wow, I would argue 0:05:47.880 --> 0:05:48.160 with you. 0:05:48.720 --> 0:05:56.920 Yep, I saw the twa Did I lean in first? 0:05:57.120 --> 0:05:58.760 It's not about a leaning in. It's about a move 0:05:58.839 --> 0:06:02.719 somebody who initiated something physical that was beyond what the 0:06:02.760 --> 0:06:04.679 friendship had been. I think that was you. 0:06:04.680 --> 0:06:05.320 You think it was me? 0:06:05.600 --> 0:06:07.719 I am. I am sure it was you, because look, 0:06:07.720 --> 0:06:10.000 so many people have stories of the people they've been with. 0:06:10.720 --> 0:06:14.240 We met here, we had a date here, Our first 0:06:14.360 --> 0:06:16.919 kiss was here. We don't I don't know when the 0:06:16.920 --> 0:06:19.080 first time it was I met you because we started 0:06:19.080 --> 0:06:21.520 out as strength somewhere to the studio. Did we have 0:06:21.520 --> 0:06:24.680 an official first date? No, I can't. We stream together 0:06:24.760 --> 0:06:27.320 the number of lunches and dinners and drinks we've had 0:06:27.360 --> 0:06:30.359 for the past nine years that nothing felt like a 0:06:30.440 --> 0:06:32.960 first anything. So when did we make it we had 0:06:32.960 --> 0:06:36.560 an official first? Maybe trip as a couple made an 0:06:36.560 --> 0:06:39.120 official first something like that, I remember, But no, we 0:06:39.560 --> 0:06:44.960 just don't have that because of how our relationship was. Man, 0:06:45.040 --> 0:06:46.800 you are this year, I'm the worst. You're the worst. 0:06:46.839 --> 0:06:48.320 At this game, I have to look. 0:06:48.160 --> 0:06:50.400 Back at pictures from last week to remember, like what 0:06:50.440 --> 0:06:52.279 did we do? What was our lunch? And then I 0:06:52.279 --> 0:06:53.839 have to go back. And that's why I like to 0:06:53.839 --> 0:06:57.080 take pictures, because it reminds me of what we did. 0:06:57.320 --> 0:06:59.279 We'll go back and figure out when you made that 0:06:59.360 --> 0:07:01.279 move on me, Andy? What else you get? 0:07:02.640 --> 0:07:07.559 The next question is from Amelia and she writes, excuse me, y'all, 0:07:07.560 --> 0:07:09.720 I'm drunk at the Mariah concert in Philly, and I 0:07:09.800 --> 0:07:13.120 have two questions. One did Robin Roberts and others abandon 0:07:13.200 --> 0:07:16.800 y'all and cut contact? And two? One song that hypes 0:07:16.840 --> 0:07:18.760 y'all up on a run love y'all. 0:07:19.640 --> 0:07:20.840 I love that she said, y'all. 0:07:21.520 --> 0:07:23.559 Oh, yeah, where is she from? Where was Mariah before 0:07:23.600 --> 0:07:25.240 me in Philly? 0:07:25.400 --> 0:07:26.520 Yeah she's not from Philly? 0:07:26.520 --> 0:07:28.600 If she said, y'all, yeah, I don't think so. 0:07:28.680 --> 0:07:33.360 Right. No, first question, we initially, I will say this, 0:07:34.160 --> 0:07:40.760 received nothing but support. I think we have texts to 0:07:40.880 --> 0:07:44.080 back that up. And when we first went back to 0:07:44.120 --> 0:07:47.600 work those first two days, my dressing room was filled 0:07:47.600 --> 0:07:51.920 with love and support. So I will say that that's 0:07:52.080 --> 0:07:57.640 where I can say things without any question. There was 0:07:58.000 --> 0:08:01.080 immediate and initial support okay. 0:08:00.800 --> 0:08:03.880 Well, well the next part of that, the question was 0:08:03.920 --> 0:08:07.480 did did did Robin and who abandon us? Everybody else? 0:08:07.520 --> 0:08:10.320 It okay, you're done. 0:08:10.400 --> 0:08:12.960 Not everyone. Not everyone abandoned us, And I would say 0:08:12.960 --> 0:08:15.520 that we got a lot of follow up texts, and 0:08:15.600 --> 0:08:17.960 I don't you know, I don't know how people feel 0:08:18.000 --> 0:08:20.520 about being aligned with us now, and I don't want 0:08:20.560 --> 0:08:23.080 to cause anybody any trouble. We all joked about Sarah 0:08:23.120 --> 0:08:26.680 Haynes and then it became like this headline. So I 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:31.400 actually feel like I want to be careful about who 0:08:31.520 --> 0:08:33.640 I say continues to support us. But we have a 0:08:33.679 --> 0:08:35.600 lot of support from our former co worker. 0:08:35.640 --> 0:08:37.800 I think that's a damn shame. We've had these conversations 0:08:37.840 --> 0:08:40.080 behind the scenes, and I think it's absolutely ridiculous that 0:08:40.120 --> 0:08:42.480 we are sitting here and we we we shouldn't even 0:08:42.480 --> 0:08:45.120 look at ourselves that way, like we are worried that, oh, 0:08:45.200 --> 0:08:47.959 if somebody is affiliated with us, that it's going to 0:08:48.080 --> 0:08:51.000 hurt them. That's I hate that we are even in 0:08:51.040 --> 0:08:52.800 that position. I don't think we should and that's something 0:08:52.840 --> 0:08:55.160 we're putting on ourselves. And we can talk about this. 0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:58.480 Just this week, this just happened, a headline about me 0:08:58.600 --> 0:09:03.240 and Charles Barkley going out for drinks. And you know 0:09:03.320 --> 0:09:05.960 this because he sent me the message the next day, 0:09:06.240 --> 0:09:10.560 and my heart sank and my first reaction was, man, 0:09:10.600 --> 0:09:13.719 I'm sorry that you had your name is even affiliated 0:09:13.760 --> 0:09:15.800 with me. This is a mother that I have been 0:09:15.840 --> 0:09:20.040 friends with for seventeen eighteen years, okay, and to feel 0:09:20.080 --> 0:09:22.240 that way is not how we should feel. And every 0:09:22.240 --> 0:09:24.559 single person we have said, well, we don't want to 0:09:24.559 --> 0:09:26.400 say your name, they said, I don't give a damn. 0:09:26.760 --> 0:09:29.640 I love you. I know it's okay, So maybe we 0:09:29.640 --> 0:09:31.720 should start getting out of that and away from that. 0:09:31.760 --> 0:09:34.040 But I understand for folks who have been in this industry, 0:09:34.040 --> 0:09:36.599 who have worked all these years to get their reputation 0:09:36.720 --> 0:09:39.560 to a certain place, that they don't want to at 0:09:39.600 --> 0:09:46.800 all be affiliated with anything that seems untowards it seems salacious. 0:09:47.120 --> 0:09:50.559 I get that. But to the question from the folks 0:09:50.600 --> 0:09:53.360 he are asking, look we talked to I said before. 0:09:53.559 --> 0:09:55.920 They have plenty of folks we saw every single day 0:09:56.040 --> 0:09:58.240 we ain't heard from since. And then there are plenty 0:09:58.240 --> 0:10:00.920 of people that we don't talk to that often or 0:10:00.960 --> 0:10:03.600 didn't who have been checking on us every day. So 0:10:03.720 --> 0:10:06.280 there's plenty of support. I don't know how quiet it is, 0:10:06.600 --> 0:10:08.760 but there are plenty of people at that network where 0:10:08.840 --> 0:10:10.760 we worked and at that show who have reached out, 0:10:10.800 --> 0:10:13.400 who have checked on, who are wonderful friends to us. 0:10:13.520 --> 0:10:14.199 And that continues. 0:10:14.280 --> 0:10:17.600 And you can look at the comments because anyone who 0:10:17.600 --> 0:10:20.760 I follow can comment on our instagrams. So there are 0:10:20.760 --> 0:10:23.640 people who have decided to comment publicly, and I think 0:10:23.640 --> 0:10:25.720 those are the people who are okay with us talking 0:10:25.760 --> 0:10:28.040 about their support publicly. 0:10:28.480 --> 0:10:29.960 And the other part of that was about the song, 0:10:30.000 --> 0:10:33.160 the hype song You're Run Too Ah. 0:10:33.440 --> 0:10:36.920 I love levitating dua lipa. I think one of the 0:10:36.960 --> 0:10:38.959 ones that comes to my mind right away. 0:10:39.040 --> 0:10:41.840 Mine, of course is Meek Mill Dreams of Nightmares. 0:10:42.640 --> 0:10:43.960 Oh yes, hold. 0:10:43.800 --> 0:10:46.640 Up, wait a minute, y'all thought I was finished. Oh 0:10:46.720 --> 0:10:47.680 my god, I love a song. 0:10:47.960 --> 0:10:49.280 You play that for me the other day. 0:10:49.400 --> 0:10:51.520 That's like the only lyric I can give that's clean 0:10:51.600 --> 0:10:56.040 enough for refeat. I think I love that song all right. 0:10:56.120 --> 0:10:59.000 The next question is from Lisa, and she asks do 0:10:59.040 --> 0:11:01.719 you miss being an a and if you've got the opportunity, 0:11:01.720 --> 0:11:02.760 would you guys go back? 0:11:03.240 --> 0:11:08.000 Absolutely yes, I do miss my job as an anchor. 0:11:08.720 --> 0:11:12.640 I spent nearly three decades getting to that place, and 0:11:12.679 --> 0:11:15.680 so had I felt like I checked all the boxes 0:11:15.720 --> 0:11:18.000 in everything I set out to do. Yes, and I 0:11:18.040 --> 0:11:21.520 was excited about more so, I one hundred percent missed 0:11:21.520 --> 0:11:24.080 my job. And would I go back on TV? Would 0:11:24.080 --> 0:11:25.920 I go back to being an anchor if it was 0:11:25.960 --> 0:11:26.920 the right fit. Yes. 0:11:27.600 --> 0:11:30.440 I think we're at that point now. To answer our question, 0:11:30.600 --> 0:11:33.560 Lisa's question is that we are a little more discerning 0:11:33.600 --> 0:11:35.720 about what types of things we would do. There were 0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:38.440 plenty of opportunities that came our way in the past year. 0:11:38.559 --> 0:11:41.000 At least say ah, that wasn't the right thing, it 0:11:41.040 --> 0:11:42.800 didn't feel like the right thing, it wasn't the right time. 0:11:42.880 --> 0:11:47.840 So miss I miss people. I miss certain people I 0:11:47.880 --> 0:11:49.800 work with, But I also missed certain types of stories 0:11:49.800 --> 0:11:52.280 I did there. But there was a certain type of 0:11:52.360 --> 0:11:54.880 grind that I don't miss. There was a certain type 0:11:55.040 --> 0:12:02.920 of just energy zapping reality sometimes Network TV News that 0:12:03.160 --> 0:12:06.360 I don't necessarily miss, but has everything to do with 0:12:07.000 --> 0:12:10.040 what the opportunity is, where it is, what the responsibilities 0:12:10.040 --> 0:12:12.000 would be, what the commitment would be, and who I 0:12:12.000 --> 0:12:14.599 get to work with. Because my last co anchor, I 0:12:14.600 --> 0:12:17.680 would never go through that again. I will never have 0:12:17.800 --> 0:12:20.760 that kind of experience Andy that I had the last 0:12:20.840 --> 0:12:25.160 time I had a TV game, because that shit went sideways. 0:12:26.559 --> 0:12:31.880 You don't say, Brittany, she asks, agree or disagree with 0:12:31.920 --> 0:12:34.920 the why. The fact is that you two stood up 0:12:34.920 --> 0:12:38.560 against unbelievable odds, unprecedented scrutiny, and the judgment of the 0:12:38.600 --> 0:12:41.240 world to rewrite your stories and live your truth. What 0:12:41.400 --> 0:12:44.560 advice would you give someone afraid to reset life mid 0:12:44.600 --> 0:12:46.120 cycle to live authentically? 0:12:46.360 --> 0:12:52.720 I would say, well, I would say the bank. All 0:12:52.760 --> 0:12:55.199 of those things are practical. I'm going to talk about 0:12:55.240 --> 0:13:01.280 it from a personal, spiritual level. You have one shot 0:13:01.320 --> 0:13:06.320 at this life, and time is not guaranteed, and today 0:13:06.559 --> 0:13:10.520 is all you have. And so I thought about all 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:14.600 of those things when I thoughtfully chose to be with 0:13:14.640 --> 0:13:18.679 this man. I think even when my daughters found out 0:13:18.720 --> 0:13:23.480 about this because of the tabloids, and they were shocked 0:13:23.559 --> 0:13:26.960 and thrown a punch that I think a lot of 0:13:26.960 --> 0:13:30.960 people felt when they found out about us. I remember 0:13:31.240 --> 0:13:35.200 my oldest daughter said to me, you know, that was 0:13:35.280 --> 0:13:37.520 just so such a like a like. She thought it 0:13:37.600 --> 0:13:41.320 was such a quick decision, that it was just an 0:13:41.360 --> 0:13:44.680 abrupt thing. I just leapt into and I said, no, 0:13:45.000 --> 0:13:48.480 I thought about this. I sat with this. I knew 0:13:48.559 --> 0:13:51.040 how I felt, I knew how he felt about me, 0:13:51.120 --> 0:13:53.640 I knew how I felt about him, And I really 0:13:53.679 --> 0:13:56.760 carefully considered what I wanted to do before I did it. 0:13:56.800 --> 0:14:00.640 And part of what I considered was my answer journey, 0:14:01.520 --> 0:14:03.840 the people who I love, who I am friends with, 0:14:04.160 --> 0:14:08.680 who are living it still, and I am so acutely 0:14:08.720 --> 0:14:11.640 aware of how rare it is to find something like this, 0:14:12.520 --> 0:14:14.439 and how we have one shot at life and one 0:14:14.480 --> 0:14:18.400 shot at love. And I wasn't living my truth. And 0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:23.760 if living your truth means making a change, it's hard, 0:14:24.040 --> 0:14:27.520 it can be messy, it's difficult oftentimes, and you will 0:14:27.520 --> 0:14:31.920 be met with a lot of people telling you otherwise. 0:14:32.000 --> 0:14:34.160 But you know, like when you feel your chest and 0:14:34.200 --> 0:14:36.680 your heart like you know what's right. And if you 0:14:36.760 --> 0:14:39.320 follow that and you try to do write by everybody 0:14:39.360 --> 0:14:42.320 along the way, I say, go for it. 0:14:43.040 --> 0:14:47.280 And we don't that you're that point there we I 0:14:47.400 --> 0:14:53.920 don't necessarily find what we went through extraordinary. I only 0:14:53.920 --> 0:14:56.720 find it extraordinary in the way it got covered and 0:14:56.760 --> 0:15:00.680 things like that. But there are so many folks in 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:03.840 in this country right now who have lived some type 0:15:03.880 --> 0:15:08.720 of journey that was that one didn't work out, so 0:15:08.880 --> 0:15:14.560 I ended up here or just life, love, marriage, relationships 0:15:14.600 --> 0:15:18.000 can be messy, and everybody actually knows that if you've 0:15:18.040 --> 0:15:20.600 lived a certain amount of life. But it just happens 0:15:20.600 --> 0:15:23.160 that ours was thrown out and we didn't have control 0:15:23.200 --> 0:15:25.760 of a certain story. And think, okay, fine, but I 0:15:25.800 --> 0:15:27.800 don't think. I don't want to hold us up as 0:15:27.840 --> 0:15:31.000 anything any more extraordinary necessarily than so much of what 0:15:31.120 --> 0:15:35.040 other people are going through. I do find it extraordinary 0:15:35.040 --> 0:15:38.760 that people follow through on it. Sometimes we ended up 0:15:38.760 --> 0:15:41.880 in this point. I never wanted to be divorced. I 0:15:42.080 --> 0:15:45.800 never wanted a little Sabine's family to not be together. 0:15:46.280 --> 0:15:49.400 But here is where we are, and I am happier 0:15:49.440 --> 0:15:51.880 and healthier and actually a better daddy to now to 0:15:51.920 --> 0:15:55.840 being the place that I am now. So I agree 0:15:55.880 --> 0:15:58.480 with everything that Robot just said. But yeah, life is 0:15:59.040 --> 0:16:01.680 life is really really short. And you go through something 0:16:01.720 --> 0:16:03.880 like she went through with her cancer journey, and all 0:16:03.920 --> 0:16:06.920 of our families we've had issues and cancer and death 0:16:06.920 --> 0:16:10.920 we've seen around us, you just like, wow, you stop. 0:16:11.200 --> 0:16:12.920 I heard this word. We were out not too long ago. 0:16:13.000 --> 0:16:15.920 Somebody use this word. I was used the phony like 0:16:15.960 --> 0:16:19.720 I was a phony. And I don't want to live 0:16:19.760 --> 0:16:21.520 that you live when we live public lives, and you 0:16:21.520 --> 0:16:24.920 want to live truly personally and behind the scenes, but 0:16:24.960 --> 0:16:28.280 also publicly as well. So here we are. So what 0:16:28.360 --> 0:16:30.320 was her name again? The person asked a question that 0:16:30.400 --> 0:16:32.200 was Brittany. Okay, Brittany, Thank you. 0:16:32.120 --> 0:16:33.720 Brittany, go for it, Live your truth. 0:16:43.040 --> 0:16:45.840 This next one comes from Abigail. She asks what kind 0:16:45.880 --> 0:16:47.760 of stories and guests do you guys hope to have 0:16:47.760 --> 0:16:50.480 on the podcast and do you have any dream guests 0:16:50.560 --> 0:16:51.440 for the podcast? 0:16:52.160 --> 0:17:00.360 Mmmm. I think both of us are storytellers and we 0:17:00.400 --> 0:17:02.680 love to tell other people's stories, so we cannot wait 0:17:04.000 --> 0:17:06.560 to start talking about other people. But you know what, 0:17:06.800 --> 0:17:10.040 I hope to These are always the things I want 0:17:10.080 --> 0:17:11.560 to do, and I hope we can do this in 0:17:11.600 --> 0:17:14.800 this podcast. We want to entertain, we want to inform, 0:17:14.880 --> 0:17:17.600 we want to inspire, and we want to give something 0:17:17.920 --> 0:17:20.560 to people to aspire to maybe even to learn from. 0:17:21.080 --> 0:17:25.439 And I'm always learning and oftentimes you learn through difficult times. 0:17:25.480 --> 0:17:28.720 So we're hoping this is a safe space for anybody 0:17:28.800 --> 0:17:33.280 who has something to share with our audience. Like if 0:17:33.359 --> 0:17:35.120 we can bring people on, I don't care if they're 0:17:35.119 --> 0:17:38.240 famous or they're not who when you're listening to them, 0:17:38.480 --> 0:17:41.679 you learn something from them, and yes, we hope you're 0:17:41.800 --> 0:17:44.040 entertained along the way as well. But I really hope 0:17:44.080 --> 0:17:46.479 there's a takeaway each time we have a guest. So 0:17:46.480 --> 0:17:49.800 there's not a guest or a specific person, I think 0:17:49.800 --> 0:17:53.560 it's the story and the idea behind whatever their message is. 0:17:53.600 --> 0:17:56.320 That's we're looking for something that's going to give you inspiration, 0:17:56.960 --> 0:17:59.600 give you purpose, give you something to learn from, even 0:17:59.600 --> 0:18:03.520 if it's don't do what I did. You know, that's 0:18:03.600 --> 0:18:05.480 the kind of guest and those are the kinds of 0:18:05.480 --> 0:18:06.560 stories we're hoping to tell. 0:18:07.000 --> 0:18:08.760 I was trying to say I agree with everything she said. 0:18:08.760 --> 0:18:10.720 I just was trying to find a like a name, 0:18:10.880 --> 0:18:14.560 who I would love to in this format, because there's 0:18:14.560 --> 0:18:16.600 people I would have loved to interview you on television 0:18:16.640 --> 0:18:21.080 that in this format I wouldn't necessarily want them, right, 0:18:21.160 --> 0:18:23.640 this is just the more comfortable. It's an intimate way 0:18:23.680 --> 0:18:26.760 of chatting with somebody. So a name, because I want 0:18:26.760 --> 0:18:30.879 to give to Abigail something like an actual name. But 0:18:30.960 --> 0:18:32.399 soon as I give a name, it's going to end 0:18:32.480 --> 0:18:33.520 up being. 0:18:32.680 --> 0:18:37.840 A call out, Hey, yeah, and did they get them 0:18:37.960 --> 0:18:38.119 or not? 0:18:38.280 --> 0:18:40.000 Maybe you should do that. We should just list a 0:18:40.000 --> 0:18:41.920 whole bunch of people now and put them on the spot. 0:18:42.000 --> 0:18:43.639 We'll just start booking people right now. 0:18:44.119 --> 0:18:45.920 All right, what do you got next? I all right. 0:18:45.960 --> 0:18:48.359 The next one comes from Susie and she asks, are 0:18:48.400 --> 0:18:49.840 you guys spending the holidays together? 0:18:50.640 --> 0:18:53.919 Susie, that's a good question, you know. I think a 0:18:53.920 --> 0:18:57.760 lot of people are in this situation. Everyone would love 0:18:57.760 --> 0:19:02.640 a nuclear, traditional family, and one divorce is hard enough, 0:19:02.760 --> 0:19:05.960 trying to figure that out two divorces is even more complicated. 0:19:06.040 --> 0:19:10.119 So I think we're trying to do what our kids 0:19:10.760 --> 0:19:12.560 would like us to do. I think we've let them 0:19:12.600 --> 0:19:14.439 lead the way up until now. And I don't think 0:19:14.440 --> 0:19:16.480 there's a playbook or a handbook for this, and a 0:19:16.480 --> 0:19:19.400 different therapist will tell you something different. But we will 0:19:19.440 --> 0:19:24.000 spend time together. Yeah, I've gone through a few in 0:19:24.040 --> 0:19:30.240 my life. I'm yeah, I think, yeah, that's embarrassing, but true. Well, 0:19:30.240 --> 0:19:34.199 I'm always looking for help and guidance, and I know 0:19:34.280 --> 0:19:37.879 I don't know best always, but we will be together, 0:19:38.400 --> 0:19:41.680 and we're we don't have the exact plan in place. 0:19:41.840 --> 0:19:43.840 We're trying to figure it out, but we're both going 0:19:43.920 --> 0:19:45.960 to be here in New York and our daughters are 0:19:45.960 --> 0:19:47.520 going to be here in New York, and so we 0:19:47.560 --> 0:19:49.199 will piece it together. 0:19:50.720 --> 0:19:51.679 Yes, is the answer. 0:19:53.680 --> 0:19:56.199 Mine was a little bit more complicated and probably too honest. 0:19:56.800 --> 0:19:58.320 Go ahead, next question. 0:19:58.320 --> 0:20:00.240 Lease, all right. This next one comes from jam and 0:20:00.600 --> 0:20:02.960 it's a great question. She asks, what do you wish 0:20:03.040 --> 0:20:06.000 everyone knew about your story that they don't know right now? 0:20:07.280 --> 0:20:14.840